WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Todger 0:00:00.680 --> 0:00:03.440 From Hollywood. See you, thank you for listening to us 0:00:06.440 --> 0:00:11.680 with Ryan Seacrest. You know that is interesting. I don't 0:00:11.680 --> 0:00:14.880 really save my tears. I use a lot of tears. 0:00:15.480 --> 0:00:18.360 A matter of fact, I was watching Kaleidoscope with somebody 0:00:18.680 --> 0:00:22.560 who did not cry once? Right, I haven't really gotten 0:00:22.600 --> 0:00:26.079 into it, Tony, did you cry not once? No, that's 0:00:26.079 --> 0:00:28.200 wrong with you? While I watched three episode. But I'm 0:00:28.240 --> 0:00:31.920 a crier. Anything makes me cry. It's really I can 0:00:31.960 --> 0:00:34.960 feel it coming when I'm gonna cry because my nose 0:00:35.000 --> 0:00:38.040 starts to tingle. Then my eyes well up, and then 0:00:38.080 --> 0:00:41.280 I can't breathe. I don't stop it, let it come out. 0:00:41.760 --> 0:00:45.120 I know what some people think, it's too much? Who 0:00:45.159 --> 0:00:47.519 are these some people in person I sat next to 0:00:47.600 --> 0:00:52.440 watching Kaleidoscope. But I am and have always been like 0:00:52.560 --> 0:00:55.680 an emotional person. So if I were speaking to a 0:00:55.720 --> 0:01:00.320 family member and saying something really really heartfelt, I begin 0:01:00.440 --> 0:01:03.000 to get tears in my eyes. Yeah. I think that's 0:01:03.040 --> 0:01:08.039 a beautiful thing. It's a gift. Is a gift. My 0:01:08.120 --> 0:01:11.640 sadness is a gift. It's not sadness, it's sensitive. Yeah, 0:01:11.680 --> 0:01:15.800 it's connectivity. Does your husband Michael is a crier only 0:01:15.880 --> 0:01:19.000 for certain things. But yes, he does tend to cry. Yeah, 0:01:19.240 --> 0:01:23.400 emotional things that tap into his fatherhood make him cry. 0:01:23.480 --> 0:01:25.680 For watching a movie and there's some sort of scene 0:01:25.680 --> 0:01:28.800 with a father's son that really gets him. Telling you, 0:01:28.800 --> 0:01:32.120 who cries more, Robbie, Well, me for sure, but he's 0:01:32.240 --> 0:01:37.280 he's a crier toos. You cry our engineer, Jeffrey Tubbs. No, 0:01:37.480 --> 0:01:40.240 not not really. No, he's a Leo. It's been a while. 0:01:40.319 --> 0:01:43.600 Would you develop a personality? Please you don't cry? You don't. 0:01:43.800 --> 0:01:48.040 Leo's don't cry. Leo's are a little like Lion is 0:01:48.080 --> 0:01:51.120 a little stronger. You bottle it all. You just bottle 0:01:51.160 --> 0:01:55.120 it all. That's unhealthy. Al Right, Well, here we go. 0:01:55.280 --> 0:01:57.400 It is Tuesday. How was your night last night, isn't 0:01:57.400 --> 0:02:01.760 he It was very relaxing that reually. Yeah, for once, 0:02:02.240 --> 0:02:05.240 got the kids to bed all on time. First, it's 0:02:05.280 --> 0:02:08.639 a victory. It was good. Actually, So we finished Bad 0:02:08.680 --> 0:02:10.400 Sisters and we're trying to watch a new show. We 0:02:10.400 --> 0:02:12.560 wanted to start a new show together, and so he 0:02:12.639 --> 0:02:15.480 brought up wanting to watch that Fleishman show on Hulu, 0:02:15.520 --> 0:02:17.200 and I was like, we can't watch that because Ruby 0:02:17.200 --> 0:02:19.520 already picked it for what to watch. Less we stop 0:02:19.560 --> 0:02:22.840 you from. Yeah, don't let this spill into your real life. 0:02:23.360 --> 0:02:28.040 Don't let this impact your real life. But I need 0:02:28.080 --> 0:02:29.919 a good show to bring to you guys on Friday. 0:02:30.000 --> 0:02:31.680 So I was like, we gotta watch something newer. You 0:02:31.720 --> 0:02:35.440 can still watch it. Yeah, I just don't tell us. Well, 0:02:37.000 --> 0:02:38.919 but by the way, you don't, I don't. I don't 0:02:39.080 --> 0:02:41.959 Mark in his harsh regid rules about the watch list. Yeah, 0:02:42.000 --> 0:02:44.160 I have to tell you something. I don't have rules 0:02:44.160 --> 0:02:45.520 when it comes to me and tell you what I'm 0:02:45.520 --> 0:02:47.520 watching or not watching. I've told you the same thing 0:02:47.560 --> 0:02:50.120 about six times in a row. Belo. I think we're 0:02:50.120 --> 0:02:51.600 gonna watch Point Break because that's what a lot of 0:02:51.600 --> 0:02:54.000 people are talking about right now. Is that the documentary 0:02:54.000 --> 0:02:57.359 about tennis players? Yes, all right, I want to watch that. 0:02:57.600 --> 0:03:03.160 You won't say that, say Friday. What are we gonna 0:03:03.160 --> 0:03:06.040 do with Friday? Now? We need a new plan of 0:03:06.520 --> 0:03:08.400 I know I already watched something, but should I not 0:03:08.440 --> 0:03:10.919 say it until Friday? Well, I'll not played by the 0:03:11.000 --> 0:03:14.359 rigid rulemaker over here. You know this show we used 0:03:14.360 --> 0:03:18.240 to not have rules. That was a show, no rules 0:03:18.240 --> 0:03:21.760 at all. That was the show. Now rules and deadlines 0:03:21.760 --> 0:03:26.480 and meetings. Today, lots of meetings. It's a Tuesday, so 0:03:26.560 --> 0:03:29.320 all kinds of meetings later, I'm gonna skip them. But 0:03:30.000 --> 0:03:33.400 I feel like McKayla in the back room. You can 0:03:33.480 --> 0:03:37.320 attend all the meetings today. I'm sorry, what was that exactly? 0:03:38.920 --> 0:03:41.040 You can attend all the meetings today for the show 0:03:41.920 --> 0:03:44.040 on our behalf great. You know this whole back room. 0:03:44.120 --> 0:03:45.640 Bunch them back there. They can go to all the meetings. 0:03:48.680 --> 0:03:50.800 All right, what are we gonna do today? It looks 0:03:50.840 --> 0:03:54.480 like we have a second date update that is coming up. 0:03:54.520 --> 0:03:57.520 It's gonna be sunny, nice today in the over sixties. Yeah. 0:03:57.520 --> 0:04:00.240 Second date. So this guy says he went on a 0:04:00.280 --> 0:04:02.320 great date, not a good date. He called it a 0:04:02.400 --> 0:04:05.440 great date, and she said no to going out again, 0:04:05.560 --> 0:04:08.640 and he's it cannot figure it out. If it were me, 0:04:08.840 --> 0:04:10.920 I would just accept the rejection and move on. But 0:04:11.000 --> 0:04:12.280 he doesn't want to do that. He wants to know 0:04:12.360 --> 0:04:15.480 why he thought it was so great. So we're gonna 0:04:15.520 --> 0:04:18.960 get into that. We're trying to do as much as 0:04:18.960 --> 0:04:21.400 we can to get you through getting up and getting 0:04:21.400 --> 0:04:24.640 out the door on a Tuesday. And I start go 0:04:24.760 --> 0:04:28.240 sometimes to find upsite on a Tuesday. Yeah, we're gonna 0:04:28.279 --> 0:04:30.160 do our best to make it one of those Tuesdays 0:04:30.160 --> 0:04:32.760 that has a bright side. Stacy's on the line now 0:04:32.839 --> 0:04:36.080 in Los Angeles. Stacy, thank you for listening to us. 0:04:36.200 --> 0:04:39.920 Why do you listen to us? Because you guys are 0:04:40.279 --> 0:04:46.160 super genuine and open and I love you. Wow, thank you. 0:04:46.680 --> 0:04:48.400 I thought she was gonna say because you pay bills, 0:04:48.400 --> 0:04:52.560 but that was really nice. You're calling here. It says 0:04:52.600 --> 0:04:58.679 your childhood friends are cutting you off. Yeah, what happened? 0:04:58.720 --> 0:05:03.400 And why? Okay, so I'll give you like a little spiel. UM. 0:05:03.440 --> 0:05:05.080 So yeah, I'm working to be at peace with it 0:05:05.120 --> 0:05:08.000 because I think ultimately it's for the best. UM. But 0:05:08.279 --> 0:05:10.120 they're my friend, you know, I have a friend group 0:05:10.200 --> 0:05:13.479 going back to elementary school. UM, and two girls in 0:05:13.520 --> 0:05:15.719 the group UM where my longest you know, are my 0:05:15.800 --> 0:05:19.360 longest friends. We would call ourselves a tripod UM. And 0:05:19.440 --> 0:05:22.360 I started the sense that they've lost interest in me. UM. 0:05:22.400 --> 0:05:24.640 I went through a difficult divorce over two years ago 0:05:24.800 --> 0:05:27.800 and they were very supportive through that. UM, but I 0:05:27.839 --> 0:05:30.520 started dating again. I met someone nine months later who 0:05:30.600 --> 0:05:32.680 I fell in love with UM and we've been in 0:05:32.720 --> 0:05:36.200 a happy and you know, steady, happy, healthy relationships since. UM. 0:05:36.200 --> 0:05:38.440 But they both expressed that I moved on too fast 0:05:38.520 --> 0:05:40.640 so these friends. So I tried to reassure them that 0:05:40.680 --> 0:05:42.960 I've learned a lot from my past failed marriage and 0:05:42.960 --> 0:05:45.440 that I'm being stopsful. Um. But I could tell that 0:05:45.480 --> 0:05:47.279 they were closed off, and so when I tried to 0:05:47.320 --> 0:05:50.360 address concerns with each of them, UM, one said that 0:05:50.600 --> 0:05:52.599 they don't have the energy to have those tough discussions 0:05:52.680 --> 0:05:54.800 with me, and the other said that dealing with my 0:05:54.839 --> 0:05:58.240 emotions in the past was too draining for them. Um. 0:05:58.320 --> 0:06:00.200 So I haven't really enjoyed hanging with them. If I 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:03.280 feel like I can't be genuine with them, they seem 0:06:03.320 --> 0:06:05.719 to kind of ignore me. Um. But yeah, so recently 0:06:05.720 --> 0:06:08.120 I found out from another friend, UM that they are 0:06:08.160 --> 0:06:10.680 not going to be inviting me to things anymore. Um. 0:06:10.720 --> 0:06:12.359 And it's for the best, because, like I said, I 0:06:12.360 --> 0:06:14.719 haven't really been enjoyed hanging with them. But it still 0:06:14.760 --> 0:06:16.880 sucks to be intentionally excluded and know that they're like 0:06:16.880 --> 0:06:20.440 talking about it behind my back with other friends. Yeah, 0:06:21.680 --> 0:06:24.320 it's a big download there, and yes it does suck. 0:06:24.520 --> 0:06:28.520 But it sounds like these are not friends of yours. Yeah. 0:06:28.720 --> 0:06:30.839 I mean, I don't know what they were as kids, 0:06:31.360 --> 0:06:35.000 but as adults they're doing you a favor by you 0:06:35.320 --> 0:06:38.159 having to edit them out right. It's just And also 0:06:38.320 --> 0:06:41.320 if you have never a conversation like that about friends, 0:06:42.200 --> 0:06:46.960 there's no friendship there. Yeah, yeah, definitely, Yeah, that's how 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:48.839 it seems. I mean, like I said, they just don't 0:06:48.880 --> 0:06:50.719 seem to want to have those conversations. So I don't 0:06:50.720 --> 0:06:53.479 feel like at this point it's even necessary to address 0:06:53.520 --> 0:06:55.280 it because I think for me, it's for the best 0:06:55.360 --> 0:06:58.320 just to kind of let it, let it play out, um, 0:06:58.400 --> 0:07:00.440 because I don't really want. I think you're right, they're 0:07:00.480 --> 0:07:03.599 not my friends, So it's you know, I think we're 0:07:03.640 --> 0:07:06.000 closer stacy to each other than you are with your 0:07:06.040 --> 0:07:11.600 childhood friends. Yes, you can call whenever you want, alright, stay, 0:07:12.080 --> 0:07:17.080 thank you for calling hanging there? Are you close with 0:07:17.120 --> 0:07:21.679 your childhood friends? Those are some of my best friends. 0:07:22.040 --> 0:07:23.800 That's why I just went and did my white Loads 0:07:23.880 --> 0:07:27.720 double day staycation. High school friend I wouldn't say close with. 0:07:27.760 --> 0:07:29.760 We still keep in touch, but we don't hang out 0:07:29.880 --> 0:07:31.480 on the weekends because they kind of were kind of 0:07:31.520 --> 0:07:34.880 all dispersed throughout the country. You know, we're my guys 0:07:34.960 --> 0:07:36.880 that I go up with. We're still close. We have 0:07:36.920 --> 0:07:39.520 a group text and we get together pick up where 0:07:39.520 --> 0:07:41.640 we left off. Oh yeah, no, we see each other 0:07:41.960 --> 0:07:46.800 all the time. Well we're better. We're closer to Stacy 0:07:46.840 --> 0:07:50.760 than those kids are childhood friends are to her. What 0:07:50.800 --> 0:07:52.880 do you think that jeremy is part of the kitchen is? 0:07:52.920 --> 0:07:56.280 You are going to roll over when you hear this. Um, 0:07:56.320 --> 0:07:58.560 the jeremy is part I think your spun just part 0:07:58.560 --> 0:08:03.000 of the germyst I so too. My sponge is filled 0:08:03.040 --> 0:08:12.440 with guys. Okay, but it's your spice rack. Oh, bacteria 0:08:12.520 --> 0:08:17.840 is all over your spices. Here's why you make a patty, right, 0:08:17.880 --> 0:08:21.520 and you put a little whatever you use from the spice, 0:08:21.920 --> 0:08:23.920 and your hands have touched the roll meat and you 0:08:23.960 --> 0:08:30.160 don't ever wash those those shakers. Your spices are the 0:08:30.240 --> 0:08:35.680 germyest part of the kitchen. Gross, we'll go clean it. Yeah, 0:08:35.720 --> 0:08:39.640 I will clean up the cuman, the cinnamon, clean up 0:08:39.640 --> 0:08:44.880 the tarragon. You're all cleaned up. Today's quote. Hopefully this 0:08:44.920 --> 0:08:47.439 is good for you. If you are not speaking it, 0:08:47.840 --> 0:08:56.360 you are storing it. And that gets heavy. Yes, all right, okay, Blanked, 0:08:57.240 --> 0:09:02.280 I really like that quote. It's very good headlines. Well, 0:09:02.280 --> 0:09:05.440 you know, hundreds of community members from all over the 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:09.000 San Gabriel Valley braved the cold temperatures last night for 0:09:09.040 --> 0:09:11.800 a candle at vigual outside of Monterey Park City Hall 0:09:12.240 --> 0:09:15.760 to honor the victims killed in Saturday's horrific mass shooting. 0:09:16.120 --> 0:09:20.520 President Joe Biden also issued a proclamation ordering American flags 0:09:20.559 --> 0:09:23.720 on federal government property to be flown at half staff 0:09:24.080 --> 0:09:27.600 to honor the victims until Thursday at sundown. You know, 0:09:27.600 --> 0:09:31.880 The California Victim Compensation Board announced that family members of victims, 0:09:31.880 --> 0:09:35.960 as well as witnesses, may be eligible for compensation. Services 0:09:35.960 --> 0:09:40.760 provided by the organization include grief counseling, emotional support assistance, 0:09:40.840 --> 0:09:44.640 filing claims for state funds for payment of medical bills, 0:09:44.760 --> 0:09:47.960 counseling bills, and other assistants. If you want more information 0:09:47.960 --> 0:09:51.120 on that, you can go to online dot Victims, dot 0:09:51.240 --> 0:09:55.840 c A, dot gov. And nominations for the nine Academy 0:09:55.880 --> 0:10:00.760 Awards were announced this morning. Everything Everywhere, All at Once 0:10:01.040 --> 0:10:06.080 scored a leading eleven nominations, followed by the Bansheeses of 0:10:06.160 --> 0:10:10.439 Inn Sharon and Netflix is All Quiet on the Western 0:10:10.480 --> 0:10:14.400 Front with nine a piece. You know. Rihanna earned herself 0:10:14.440 --> 0:10:18.040 her first OSCAR nomination for her song Lift Me Up 0:10:18.280 --> 0:10:22.280 for Black Panther, Wakonda Forever and the Oscars will air Sunday, 0:10:22.320 --> 0:10:25.640 March twelfth on a b C. Looking forward to that 0:10:26.559 --> 0:10:32.120 on air with Ryan Seacrets, all right Seacrest, Sissy with you, 0:10:32.240 --> 0:10:35.800 Tanya here as well. Today's National Peanut Butter damn A fan. 0:10:37.280 --> 0:10:41.319 I dip spoonfuls of it like I get in there 0:10:41.320 --> 0:10:44.520 with a spoon. I also like it with a banana 0:10:44.559 --> 0:10:48.560 peanut butter. And I also I don't like apples, but 0:10:48.600 --> 0:10:52.280 I like peanut butter on an apple. Peanut butter is great. 0:10:53.120 --> 0:10:55.200 I gave the kids a Justin's Peanut butter cup for 0:10:55.240 --> 0:10:58.199 the very first time last night. Yeah, because it has 0:10:58.200 --> 0:11:01.680 a real peanut butter inside and the packaging makes it 0:11:01.720 --> 0:11:04.520 look healthy. Yeah. I feel like, yeah, you're being healthy 0:11:04.520 --> 0:11:06.240 when you buy it. I was like, okay, So I 0:11:06.240 --> 0:11:08.360 gave them one last night and they bit into it. 0:11:08.559 --> 0:11:11.959 Maxim's face when he was, mom, this is and there's 0:11:12.400 --> 0:11:16.559 peanut butter inside. It was he just discovery for him. 0:11:16.600 --> 0:11:21.080 It was so funny. That's priceless. Well, justin thank you exactly. 0:11:21.240 --> 0:11:24.960 Oscar nominations announced this morning, five thirty a m. That's 0:11:24.960 --> 0:11:28.280 always very early sunshine today, Nice hides in the upper sixties. 0:11:28.400 --> 0:11:30.960 Got a second date update coming up. This guy says 0:11:30.960 --> 0:11:33.200 they had a great night, great date, and now she 0:11:33.280 --> 0:11:35.120 does not want to go out with him again. So 0:11:35.679 --> 0:11:38.559 what happened? He wants to know. That's on the way 0:11:38.559 --> 0:11:40.680 in a few minutes, Tiny with a trending report. What 0:11:40.679 --> 0:11:42.600 do we have? Ton? So I wanted to ask you this. 0:11:42.640 --> 0:11:47.559 Do you like that you're a Ryan? Let's say, let 0:11:47.559 --> 0:11:49.000 me think for a second, like, think about it. Did 0:11:49.000 --> 0:11:50.480 you enjoy your name growing up or did you wish 0:11:50.520 --> 0:11:55.559 you had a different one. I enjoyed my name growing up, Sissany. 0:11:55.600 --> 0:11:58.920 I did not enjoy my name growing up. I thought, um, 0:11:58.960 --> 0:12:02.840 it was a very strange name. I wanted a common 0:12:02.920 --> 0:12:05.280 name when I was a little girl. I wanted it 0:12:05.280 --> 0:12:08.920 to be Stacy or Stephanie. I did I just because 0:12:09.160 --> 0:12:11.240 it was just such a unique name. Every time we 0:12:11.280 --> 0:12:13.679 had like a new teacher or a substitute teacher in school, 0:12:13.679 --> 0:12:17.040 they never could pronounce it and kids would laugh and 0:12:17.160 --> 0:12:19.000 it was just, you know, it was a struggle. It 0:12:19.040 --> 0:12:20.520 was something that I had to can really get used 0:12:20.559 --> 0:12:23.679 to at the time. But as I got older, I 0:12:23.760 --> 0:12:25.680 love my name and it really was something I had 0:12:25.720 --> 0:12:27.960 to grow into and I love how unique it was. 0:12:28.559 --> 0:12:31.640 I had this same situation, but I bring it up 0:12:31.640 --> 0:12:35.240 because Kylie Jenner changed her baby boy's name from Remember 0:12:35.280 --> 0:12:38.319 we all found out it was Wolf when he was born. 0:12:39.080 --> 0:12:41.840 Now we know that it is Air and its spelled 0:12:41.920 --> 0:12:44.480 A I R E. So some people thought maybe it 0:12:44.480 --> 0:12:47.680 was Ari, but she said that it's pronounced like air 0:12:47.840 --> 0:12:51.120 and Air means lion of God. And the thing that 0:12:51.200 --> 0:12:53.760 was crazy to me is that, you know, she gave 0:12:53.800 --> 0:12:56.360 this baby the name Wolf and then we don't know 0:12:56.400 --> 0:12:59.200 exactly when they changed it. But how crazy because what 0:12:59.280 --> 0:13:01.920 if he grows up and doesn't like the name Air 0:13:01.960 --> 0:13:04.120 but really wanted to be named Wolf. And also the 0:13:04.120 --> 0:13:07.319 fact that we name these babies when they're in our stomachs, 0:13:07.320 --> 0:13:10.040 and then what if they're born and there's something entirely different? 0:13:11.760 --> 0:13:14.400 So how are you what's your takeaway here? Well? My 0:13:14.440 --> 0:13:17.720 takeaway was do names really carry as much weight as 0:13:17.760 --> 0:13:19.720 we think that they do? Because I feel like it's 0:13:20.040 --> 0:13:24.160 not until like this decade that name started getting so different, 0:13:24.280 --> 0:13:26.400 you know what I mean? I feel like names decades 0:13:26.440 --> 0:13:28.640 ago were kind of generic and like, I don't know, 0:13:28.720 --> 0:13:31.000 I think that maybe they don't carry as much weight. 0:13:31.000 --> 0:13:33.760 But then it is your entire identity. So then I 0:13:33.760 --> 0:13:36.200 feel like that should be really thought out and taken seriously. 0:13:36.480 --> 0:13:38.920 I was always happy with my name. I didn't know 0:13:38.960 --> 0:13:42.680 many Ryan's. I didn't you want to change it to error? 0:13:44.200 --> 0:13:46.280 I think it's different, knowing like it might be different 0:13:46.280 --> 0:13:48.080 for him, just because he knew he had a different 0:13:48.120 --> 0:13:52.080 name to begin with. Mine was as rare as pomegranate 0:13:52.280 --> 0:13:54.920 is now as a name right right, Like my parents 0:13:54.960 --> 0:13:57.120 told me that I was going to be an a, 0:13:57.840 --> 0:14:00.679 but that was never my nactual name, And so I 0:14:00.760 --> 0:14:02.439 was like, wow, what would my life be like if 0:14:02.440 --> 0:14:07.160 I was on a just I couldn't imagine it. Anna, Hey, 0:14:07.160 --> 0:14:13.800 it's just nice Seacrest and Anna with you on your 0:14:14.000 --> 0:14:21.280 radio on air with Ryan Seacrest. So you go out, 0:14:21.320 --> 0:14:25.080 you think you did everything right on a date, and 0:14:25.320 --> 0:14:28.840 you go away thinking it was great, but she does 0:14:28.840 --> 0:14:30.880 not want to go out again. That's what Jared thought. 0:14:30.880 --> 0:14:32.960 He thought he nailed, He thought he did everything right, 0:14:33.680 --> 0:14:35.560 and it turns out that Natalie does not want to 0:14:35.560 --> 0:14:39.600 go out with him again. So, Jared, are you there? 0:14:39.960 --> 0:14:41.800 So when you say you have a great date, what 0:14:41.920 --> 0:14:46.040 was so great? I mean it was just an absolute 0:14:46.200 --> 0:14:49.080 sensational date. You know we last old time, we're vibe 0:14:49.120 --> 0:14:51.960 and we kissed. I mean just we just got along. 0:14:52.040 --> 0:14:54.160 You know, it was just perfect. And you've asked her 0:14:54.160 --> 0:14:57.200 out again and she does not want to go out again. Yeah, 0:14:57.200 --> 0:15:00.160 she says she's not interested, which I don't. I don't 0:15:00.240 --> 0:15:03.400 understand what that means, you know, I maybe she's getting 0:15:03.400 --> 0:15:05.320 back with it, you know, maybe she'd get back with 0:15:05.320 --> 0:15:07.080 the next That's the only thing I can really think of. 0:15:07.960 --> 0:15:09.800 So you want us to get peace of mind, for 0:15:09.840 --> 0:15:11.360 you to find out why she won't go out with 0:15:11.360 --> 0:15:15.760 you again. It's driving me crazy, and I'd really appreciate it. Yeah, 0:15:16.680 --> 0:15:19.920 hold on one second, We'll call Natalie here and get 0:15:19.920 --> 0:15:27.880 her on the air with Ryan said, that is Megan 0:15:27.960 --> 0:15:31.880 Trainer made you look well, Jared tried to make her 0:15:31.960 --> 0:15:35.520 look she looked for a day or one date and 0:15:35.560 --> 0:15:37.320 then doesn't want to go out with him again. Well, 0:15:37.360 --> 0:15:42.800 they kissed, they kissed, Yes, they kissed, Jared, you kissed her, Yes, 0:15:42.880 --> 0:15:45.760 we kissed. It was griff. That doesn't mean anything. Though 0:15:46.440 --> 0:15:48.640 I kiss on a date. I kissed a lot of 0:15:48.640 --> 0:15:50.280 people on the first date. And that you didn't want 0:15:50.320 --> 0:15:52.800 to Yeah, like I was just doing it to see 0:15:52.840 --> 0:15:55.040 if there was to see like, maybe is there some 0:15:55.120 --> 0:15:57.120 chemistry that I'm missing? And then I would kiss him 0:15:57.120 --> 0:16:00.000 and be like, no, that's not there. Oh why would 0:16:00.040 --> 0:16:02.600 you kiss like that on that kind of basis. I 0:16:02.600 --> 0:16:05.120 would not because I wouldn't want to waste my time 0:16:05.160 --> 0:16:07.280 going out them again. So it's like, just get it 0:16:07.320 --> 0:16:09.400 all done on the first date, all right, Jared, I'm 0:16:09.400 --> 0:16:11.320 sorry you're listening to this. Let's bring you up back 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:16.800 information that Ed needs to here on a side track. 0:16:17.120 --> 0:16:19.600 All right, so you say it was a great night, 0:16:19.760 --> 0:16:21.840 did everything right, but she does not want to go 0:16:21.880 --> 0:16:23.920 out again. I have her on the phone. Natalie here, 0:16:23.960 --> 0:16:28.160 be very quiet. Let me see what I can find out. Okay, Okay, 0:16:29.400 --> 0:16:33.600 hello Natalie. Oh yeah, I don't have to play character, 0:16:33.640 --> 0:16:42.000 right you kay? Natalie apologize? Uh yeah, So, Natalie's Ryan 0:16:42.000 --> 0:16:44.240 Seacrest your voices on the radio. Thank you for coming 0:16:44.240 --> 0:16:45.880 on with us. I want to talk to you about 0:16:45.880 --> 0:16:48.040 a guy named JAREDY went out with that guy named Jared. 0:16:49.080 --> 0:16:53.840 Oh my god, no, yes, I did. What is this? Well? 0:16:54.080 --> 0:16:58.880 Can I ask you? How is the date? Um? It was? 0:17:00.080 --> 0:17:02.360 It was not the best, It was not the best, 0:17:02.800 --> 0:17:07.639 not the best. What happened? Um? Well, I'm I'm pretty 0:17:07.680 --> 0:17:09.800 much gonna do eat the dating apps at this point. 0:17:10.840 --> 0:17:16.320 So what went so wrong? I mean, okay, so basically 0:17:16.359 --> 0:17:18.600 I sat down and this guy first staying off the 0:17:18.600 --> 0:17:21.720 bat looks nothing like his pictures. So he's like decent looking, 0:17:21.760 --> 0:17:26.560 but nothing Michael was online. So I'm like, decent, not compliment. No, 0:17:28.160 --> 0:17:30.040 I'm trying to I'm trying to kissing the blow. It 0:17:30.080 --> 0:17:34.240 was decent, Okay. I'm like okay, So like, what what 0:17:34.280 --> 0:17:35.879 are we going to talk about? We talked about like 0:17:35.960 --> 0:17:39.080 TV and whatever. Right, um, I just finished watching White 0:17:39.119 --> 0:17:40.840 Lotus and he was like, he was like, oh I 0:17:40.920 --> 0:17:44.880 loved Sydney Sweeney and Alexandra Diadario. And I was like, yeah, 0:17:45.000 --> 0:17:48.280 but you did, and and he was like yeah, great acting. 0:17:48.359 --> 0:17:50.480 And he put his hands out like like boobs, like 0:17:50.520 --> 0:17:54.879 big boobs, and he was like great acting. And so 0:17:55.240 --> 0:17:58.520 I just ignored it because I was like, that's sexist, 0:17:58.720 --> 0:18:02.119 but okay and up and he so he says it 0:18:02.160 --> 0:18:04.520 again like I didn't hear it, and I'm like, yeah, yeah, 0:18:04.520 --> 0:18:06.679 I heard you. I heard it the first time. I 0:18:06.760 --> 0:18:12.000 just was politely ignoring it. Well, all right, Jared is 0:18:12.040 --> 0:18:15.520 listening here, He's on the line, Natalie. It sounds like, Jared, 0:18:15.600 --> 0:18:18.359 it did not go how you saw it. Do you 0:18:18.440 --> 0:18:23.240 understand what she's saying here? Hey, I mean, I'm sorry. 0:18:23.280 --> 0:18:25.320 You know, I thought you laughed, and I guess I 0:18:25.400 --> 0:18:31.720 misread the situation. Um. Hi, I laughed just to be 0:18:31.840 --> 0:18:34.679 polite because it was awkward and I hated it. I 0:18:34.880 --> 0:18:37.240 just I'm just being honest with you. I told you, 0:18:37.320 --> 0:18:39.320 I told you that was not interested in me then 0:18:39.480 --> 0:18:45.159 and now you know why. But you still kissed him. Well, 0:18:45.320 --> 0:18:49.359 I mean he kissed me. Well, don't don't all the 0:18:49.400 --> 0:18:55.199 lips have to connect. Yes, there were four lips, but 0:18:55.240 --> 0:18:57.919 it was not really an open invitation. He didn't, you know, 0:18:58.040 --> 0:18:59.679 he didn't take it too far, but it was not. 0:18:59.840 --> 0:19:01.439 It was very out of the blue and he just 0:19:01.520 --> 0:19:05.720 kind of went for it so shockingly, Natalie, Jared thought 0:19:05.720 --> 0:19:07.760 it was one of the greatest states of his life. Yeah, 0:19:07.800 --> 0:19:13.320 I said, you guys were laughing the whole time. Wonderful. Yeah. 0:19:13.640 --> 0:19:16.680 Do you want to go out with him again? I mean, 0:19:16.880 --> 0:19:19.200 absolutely not. And I thought I was pretty clear about 0:19:19.200 --> 0:19:21.200 it at the end of the day that I wasn't 0:19:21.320 --> 0:19:25.640 interested in seeing him again. You said that I did. 0:19:25.720 --> 0:19:27.399 I was just like, you know, this was it was 0:19:27.480 --> 0:19:29.720 really nice meeting you. I am you know. I hope 0:19:29.760 --> 0:19:31.560 you have I hope you have a great rest of 0:19:31.600 --> 0:19:34.240 your week. Like it was not. I don't think I 0:19:34.280 --> 0:19:38.080 left it as an open ended thing at all. You 0:19:38.240 --> 0:19:41.720 kissed me, yea, we established that. But I don't think 0:19:41.760 --> 0:19:45.520 I think maybe she's not going to kiss you again, Jared. 0:19:45.840 --> 0:19:48.600 I think this is great. This is great, Natal. You 0:19:48.640 --> 0:19:51.200 don't want to go with him again? Right? No, and Jared, 0:19:51.280 --> 0:19:53.800 you kissed me. I wasn't. It wasn't like a moment 0:19:53.920 --> 0:19:56.160 that like we got caught up in a moment, like 0:19:56.440 --> 0:19:58.960 we weren't even talking. You cut me off mid sentence 0:19:58.960 --> 0:20:03.479 and just kissed me. I mean, that doesn't explain why 0:20:03.480 --> 0:20:05.760 your tongue got into my mouth. But okay, did you 0:20:05.760 --> 0:20:13.679 just say it's fully not even true, just the same thing, uh, Jared, Natalie, 0:20:13.920 --> 0:20:16.960 thank you for coming on second date update. We will 0:20:17.000 --> 0:20:20.359 agree that it was a one off and you guys 0:20:20.400 --> 0:20:23.399 are better off not together. Thank you so much for 0:20:23.400 --> 0:20:27.000 your honesty. Thanks for reaching out, Jared, Thanks Natalie. All right, 0:20:28.080 --> 0:20:33.119 all right, right, this like when you kiss someone is 0:20:33.119 --> 0:20:35.959 one person to kiss her and the kissy because I 0:20:36.280 --> 0:20:38.159 everybody sort of collides at the same time. Yeah, and 0:20:38.359 --> 0:20:41.560 you know she wasn't into it, then pulled back. Don't 0:20:41.640 --> 0:20:44.720 continue to kiss, send the signal that you're not there. Yes, 0:20:45.600 --> 0:20:48.320 don't give him the kiss. I don't know alright, so 0:20:48.480 --> 0:20:51.119 not compatible, I would stay there. Well, yeah, that's definitely, 0:20:51.200 --> 0:20:53.800 that's at least she was really honest. That's that was 0:20:53.840 --> 0:20:57.840 the second date update. It was very helpful, very helpful 0:20:57.840 --> 0:21:05.600 that one on air with Ryan Seacrest. Seacrest with you, Sisne, 0:21:05.680 --> 0:21:08.359 would you ever write a book? I would love to. 0:21:10.080 --> 0:21:15.359 So I was actually asked to write a book, and 0:21:15.400 --> 0:21:18.960 I found it to be miserably laborious. It's very laborious 0:21:19.160 --> 0:21:24.040 and boring. And I was having a co writer, but 0:21:24.080 --> 0:21:27.920 I found my everything could be pretty boring. So I 0:21:27.960 --> 0:21:29.680 put it on the I put the project on the shelf. 0:21:29.760 --> 0:21:33.000 Let's say, so it's not for me. I mean, writing 0:21:33.080 --> 0:21:35.120 is not my strong suit. I don't even write good 0:21:35.119 --> 0:21:37.639 notes or texts. No. But it's about storytelling, and I 0:21:37.680 --> 0:21:41.560 think you're an excellent storyteller. Yeah. I'd rather talk stories 0:21:41.560 --> 0:21:44.480 than write stories. Okay. I respect that something that you 0:21:44.480 --> 0:21:46.520 can come back to. You know, I don't know, but you, 0:21:46.720 --> 0:21:49.840 Tanya are a published author. That's big time. Yeah, it's 0:21:49.840 --> 0:21:53.600 been the works for four years. It's a self improvement book. 0:21:53.600 --> 0:21:55.920 What's a category saying at the bookstore. It's a devotional. 0:21:56.119 --> 0:22:00.560 So it's a devotional and yeah, it's like so helpy 0:22:00.640 --> 0:22:04.359 in a way. Um, just inspirational finding the help enjoy 0:22:04.440 --> 0:22:07.840 you want. So she's promoting the book, which is called 0:22:08.240 --> 0:22:13.320 The Sunshine Mind, The Sunshine Mind, write that down, the 0:22:13.359 --> 0:22:17.240 Sunshine Mine. And Marina was in Studio City or she 0:22:17.320 --> 0:22:19.399 is now, and she found I think the book in 0:22:19.440 --> 0:22:22.520