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Speaker 2: I sent my friend home without clothes because she used

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Speaker 2: my boyfriend's shower.

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Speaker 3: Uh oh, crazy talk.

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Speaker 2: I'm twenty one female, my boyfriend is twenty seven male,

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Speaker 2: let's call him Corey. And my friend in question is

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Speaker 2: twenty five female. Let's call her Vie. By the way,

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Speaker 2: Storytime subured. I'm Sophia, I'm Angie.

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Speaker 1: And that's both of them, and I'm Dakota.

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Speaker 3: We're here to give good.

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Speaker 2: Advice goofy, but we don't have all the answers. We

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Speaker 2: only know what we do, so let us note you

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Speaker 2: would do in the comments. And OHP says VI and

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Speaker 2: my boyfriend are coworkers and had been friends before I

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Speaker 2: started dating it. We became friends loosely through him, and

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Speaker 2: I'd see her whenever we hung out with my boyfriend's group.

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Speaker 3: Of work friends.

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Speaker 2: She got out of her long term relationship a couple

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Speaker 2: of months ago, and since then she's changed up a

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Speaker 2: bit towards me and my boyfriend, and I've noticed certain

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Speaker 2: comments and body language that started to make me like

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Speaker 2: her lesso. Over the weekend, my boyfriend and I plus

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Speaker 2: a couple of our friends went paintballing. Some of us

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Speaker 2: went to hang out at my boyfriend's apartment afterwards.

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Speaker 3: Including Vine.

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Speaker 2: My boyfriend lives with his best friend, let's call him Dean,

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Speaker 2: twenty seven male, in a two bedroom flat. This is important.

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Speaker 2: My boyfriend has the bigger bedroom in the apartment, which

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Speaker 2: comes with its own bathroom, while Dean has a smaller

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Speaker 2: bedroom with a separate bathroom. But the bathroom is much

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Speaker 2: more spacious because Dean's bathroom is out in the hall

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Speaker 2: enclosed to the living room. When we have guessover, that's

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Speaker 2: the bathroom they use. After all, it would be pretty

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Speaker 2: weird for someone to go all the way to the

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Speaker 2: go and use his bathroom. So we're all hanging out

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Speaker 2: there and people start to leave until it's just me

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Speaker 2: and my boyfriend and Dean, and by left Dean goes

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Speaker 2: to take a nap. I have to leave temporarily to

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Speaker 2: run some things over to my office. When I'm out,

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Speaker 2: I get a text from my boyfriend saying he's getting

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Speaker 2: groceries before the store closes, and he left by to

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Speaker 2: for dinner. Tvh weird, honestly a little bit weird. I

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Speaker 2: feel like unless the hosts kind of say, hey, like,

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Speaker 2: do you.

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Speaker 3: Want to join us for dinner? You gotta leave, you

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Speaker 3: gotta go.

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Speaker 2: Time to go, Like everyone's gone, Dean took a nap,

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Speaker 2: Opie's boyfriend went to the grocery store, and VI's just like,

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Speaker 2: I'm not I haven't. I have not gotten any hints.

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Speaker 2: I can't take any hints. She's just like in there alone. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: not there. Oh so she's there. Yeah, well, I mean

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Speaker 2: Dean's there, but he's taking Oh okay physically he's there

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Speaker 3: That would be your time to leave, guy. Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: When I get home, I walks out of my boyfriend's

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Speaker 2: bedroom with a towel around her head, evidently having taken

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Speaker 4: Huh wow. I was ready to give for the benefit

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Speaker 4: of the doubt. And I was thinking, maybe someone just

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Speaker 2: But the T shirt unnecessary? Then one needed to take

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Speaker 2: a dump for you to wear that T shirt. Also

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Speaker 2: T shirt nothing underneath? Yeah, like you did. I presumably

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Speaker 2: You get dirty when you go paint balling. I've only

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Speaker 2: covered in paint. Sure you want to take a shower, Sure,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, don't you be doing the no pants dance in

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Speaker 2: You're not Winny the Pooh, She says, Oh, hi, like

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Speaker 1: No, she says, oh, I.

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Speaker 2: Can't do that was not winning the Pooh. But I also, oh,

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Speaker 3: Oh, I can't do it.

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Speaker 2: You'll let us pick.

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Speaker 3: Wherest of all, when she walks past me.

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Speaker 6: She smelled like him, Oh my gosh, in what way

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Speaker 5: I love how that implies Angie that it's like he

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Speaker 5: where it's just like, yeah, no, this is like my

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Speaker 5: concentrated stench. This is what I this is what I

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Speaker 2: The conversation went something like, did you use Corey's shower? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Sorry, it's just a lot better. How do you know? Dude?

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Speaker 1: But okay, how do you know that sometimes showers are

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Speaker 3: How does she know that? I follow up question, where'd

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Speaker 3: you get that shirt? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Where'd you get that shirt? Where'd you put your other clothes? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Where are your other clothes? Is he wearing your clothes?

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Speaker 2: Then i'd have even it's not it's smaller and dingier

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Speaker 2: than Deans. Dude, what where are your clothes? I put

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Speaker 5: I also just want to say, really quickly, just because

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Speaker 2: True, agreed, But my question is how would she even know,

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Speaker 2: because like, his bathroom is completely separated, so she probably

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Speaker 1: Dude, word gets around.

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Speaker 2: She's like, I heard, I heard.

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Speaker 5: No, that's yeah, I know she does here because when

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Speaker 2: Sounds beautiful over there. Okay, do you have something else

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Speaker 2: want to wear those? That's so nice? But I'm fine

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Speaker 3: Corey's shirts are super comfy. What do you mean shirts?

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Speaker 2: Shirts? Shirts?

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Speaker 3: Are you wearing multiple shirts right now? Because that that

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Speaker 3: how many times do you wear my birth friend's clothes? Huhmes?

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Speaker 2: Did you wear my ball friends? Did you use Corey's

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I used his body wash? And shampoo and everything.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's okay, Okay, Honestly, I think that is reasonable.

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Speaker 2: I think that's fine.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I think it's like, what else is she gonna use?

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Speaker 1: What is she going to use?

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Speaker 2: I think I think of all the things to be

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Speaker 5: The shower and you use the shower product.

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Speaker 3: Not like she used like the bar soap. She's like,

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Speaker 3: she's like the body wash.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean, like a bar of so you washed?

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Speaker 3: You put?

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Speaker 1: That would be bad all over her.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, some people are like so I think some people

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Speaker 2: can be more like about people using their bot like

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Speaker 1: That's so funny.

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Speaker 5: It's like, you're too gross to use the literal object

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Speaker 1: You're so gross you will taint.

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Speaker 3: So I started to get a little angry.

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Speaker 2: What I still need to know where Dean is?

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Speaker 3: Where is he's in the grocery store?

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Speaker 2: I thought he was napping. Oh, Dean is napping. You're right, sorry,

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Speaker 2: boyfriend's at the grocery store. Okay, okay, I thought Dean

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Speaker 2: Dean's still napping. Okay, presumably he naps like no one's business. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I feel a little bit better about it. It's still bad,

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Speaker 2: we start to argue. In this argument, she calls me

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Speaker 2: I'm obviously still emotionally immature because I'm younger than them

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Speaker 3: All I kept saying was for her to take the

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Speaker 2: Were you gonna say, we don't need to bring ages

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, if he is twenty one, and clearly Corey

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Speaker 3: or Avaya's using that against her, She's like, oh, I'm

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Speaker 3: twenty five by more mature.

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Speaker 2: Why I yta, she's only twenty five.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's twenty five.

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Speaker 2: Four years older than her, and she's gonna pull that card.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I'm older and wither. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Argument gets more heated. She calls me a witch and

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Speaker 2: says I'm entitled and that I'm living off Cory's money

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Speaker 2: and I'm toxic because I'm always at his apartment and

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Speaker 2: spending his money. I'm not I have my own income.

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Speaker 2: My boyfriend just likes to pay for everything because he

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Speaker 2: likes to treat me because he's your boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and also you don't live here. Also, you're not her,

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Speaker 3: You're not Cory's boy girlfriend. VI, You're you're the one

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Speaker 3: using his utilities, yes, shower, gelt and his clothes.

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Speaker 2: VY is made off in comments about this before Dean

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Speaker 2: wakes up and comes outside.

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Speaker 3: He sides with me. He's quite angry about this as well.

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Speaker 3: Is she still not wearing any pants?

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Speaker 2: Ya?

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Speaker 2: Do you have an argument?

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Speaker 4: No pants, no pants, no bra, you see everything, no

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Speaker 2: Which makes buy chassen, and she says her clothes are

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Speaker 2: all in the wash and she has nothing to wear.

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Speaker 2: I say, I don't care. Take off the shirt in

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Speaker 2: the town and get the heck out, Well, do we

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Speaker 2: really want her to be naked? I feel like that

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Speaker 2: Yeah, girlfriend, your girlfriend wanted me to take these clothes

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Speaker 2: Oh no, no, She calls me insane and insecure again

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Speaker 5: She's just so jelly, she's so jealous.

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Speaker 2: I go to the washer and take out all her

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Speaker 3: Why are we watching? Why are we watching?

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Speaker 1: This is the real love story. Here is the enemies

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I could see it.

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Speaker 2: Then she says she doesn't want to put her jeans

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Speaker 2: She starts crying and saying, what the EBB?

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Speaker 3: What the eb is wrong with you?

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Speaker 3: Oh wait, didn't even have pants on. That was her choice.

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Speaker 3: Oh so I feel like you've gotten a little too far. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I think you went too far.

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Speaker 3: Really, her boyfriend's not even there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's like.

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Speaker 2: You've second to like put her clothes. Say you're gonna

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Speaker 3: My boyfriend's gonna get home. She's like, oh no, my

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Speaker 2: Like, ah, I genuinely think that would happen.

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Speaker 3: I feel like you've kind of and then and then

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Speaker 2: He takes off his shirt and he's like he's unclothed.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and she's like, thanks, boyfriend, you so much. I

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Speaker 5: But on a real level, the amount of disrespect that

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Speaker 1: While she's there, It's like, oh, that's fine, you can

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Speaker 3: No, I don't believe.

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Speaker 2: But however, I think punting her out without her clothes on.

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Speaker 5: You either had the choice between soap jeans or no jeens,

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Speaker 5: and that was you know, and you, and you manifested

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Speaker 5: that he was dating. Well, this little girl's gonna push

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Speaker 1: Can put on your soapy jeans or not.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I think I think just a step too far in

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Speaker 2: relaying everything that happened. He's shocked and has no idea

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Speaker 2: When he gets home, he tells us that I had

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Speaker 2: and he found her stopping wet and crying by his car.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's again, what is her deal?

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Speaker 5: This is this her boyfriend in her head like Googu Gaga,

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Speaker 4: I think, yeah, I think that my plot is like

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, oh no, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Soaking wet, I'm crying. I have no one else.

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Speaker 2: She tried to tell him that I kicked her out

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Speaker 2: of the apartment on clothed and things like that, and

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Speaker 2: he just said he had already heard about everything and

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Speaker 2: tried to get her to go home before he got

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Speaker 2: this mostly because it's a funny story, but also I've

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Speaker 2: been known to be a little steely and hard on

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Speaker 2: that he doesn't have to see her at work. We're

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Speaker 2: not having her over again. Well, it would be pretty

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Speaker 3: That really would.

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Speaker 2: He was pretty irked and asked if I wanted to

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Speaker 2: burn the shirt of his that my war joking? Maybe

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Speaker 2: am I the a hole? And there are some comments,

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Speaker 2: but what do you think.

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Speaker 3: I have mixed a lots here?

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, here's what I was originally imagining in this story.

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Speaker 3: Yes.

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Speaker 2: First of all, I thought to even's boyfriend, My bad,

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Speaker 2: my bad. So I was imagining the boyfriend sleeping like

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Speaker 3: That was much worse. That would be so much worse.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Because then I was thinking like, oh, it's gonna

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Speaker 2: coming out, then like it's gonna look like they just

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Speaker 2: they did something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and there's some cheating afoot. But he wasn't in

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Speaker 3: the house. He was at the grocery store. That that

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Speaker 3: scenario in my head was not simply the case. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, then it's just it's just her being really weird

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Speaker 3: But I do I.

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Speaker 2: Do think that she just went a little too far.

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Speaker 2: I would understand being a little bit more angry if

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Speaker 2: But I think just like I don't know, maybe it's

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Speaker 2: a yea just.

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Speaker 3: Out in the world on naked like that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I I wonder where they're living, because maybe

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Speaker 3: Know what I mean, maybe just a little more chill there.

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's not as like a crazy unsafe or like

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Speaker 5: Like well, and to be clear, she had her clothes,

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Speaker 5: but she put her clothes.

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Speaker 3: On, she was in her underwear and she was pushed out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but how long did it take to put on

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Speaker 5: Maybe it's wet, Jean's a.

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Speaker 1: While, it's maybe we're talking, we're talking to seconds.

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Speaker 2: Still do it, you can still do it. You can

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Speaker 2: still do it, I guess. Yeah, the worst case scenario

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Speaker 2: if she had her clothes with her, then like if

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Speaker 2: you don't want to be out there all, you know.

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Speaker 4: Biddy's just out in the open, Pepe's out. Yeah you can,

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Speaker 4: you can put on the wet clothes.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I think if I were in this situation, absolutely VI's

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Speaker 3: I am getting very mad.

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Speaker 2: However, I'm like, go into the room, go like, go

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Speaker 3: Yeah, get dressed. I don't care if your clothes are wet.

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Speaker 2: Get dressed, and don't come out until you're dressed, and

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Speaker 2: then you're leaving. Like That's how I would probably have

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Speaker 2: Dean's already on the phone with boyfriend. Boyfriend already knows

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Speaker 2: the situation, right, so you're not gonna have to deal

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Speaker 3: I don't think you have to stoop lower. You know,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, someone in the comments said, like, sixty percent VI,

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Speaker 3: So it's like that would be a moment for you.

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Speaker 2: you're doing here. Yeah, it's like, okay, go, you know,

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Speaker 2: via every opportunity to make better choices, she chose the

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Speaker 2: True, she deliberately chose to go into the bedroom to

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Speaker 2: She violated her host's privacy by going through the drawers

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Speaker 2: if she was already taking clothes, why not also grab

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Speaker 2: some pants. Yeah, she was deliberately flouncing about in an

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Speaker 2: oversized shirt like some chicken a rom com, waiting for

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Speaker 2: she's like, I can't wear pants. The nonprofits don't like

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Speaker 3: You wear pants.

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Speaker 2: Charity needs me. She insulted her host when called out

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Speaker 2: but had she not left around, she would not have

444
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Speaker 2: found out. Instead of going home to pick her wounds

445
00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:57,920
Speaker 2: in private, she tracks her friend to try and spin

446
00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:00,639
Speaker 2: the story in her favor. She could I've confessed to

447
00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:04,320
Speaker 2: her outrageous behavior and possibly saved the relationship, but she

448
00:20:04,440 --> 00:20:07,680
Speaker 2: refused to take accountability. So now she's transferred to another

449
00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:10,200
Speaker 2: team and is most likely out at the friend group,

450
00:20:10,320 --> 00:20:12,359
Speaker 2: which is what she gets for proving to be a

451
00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:15,960
Speaker 2: snake in the grass who disregards other people's relationships.

452
00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:18,880
Speaker 3: You are absolutely not the ale, and there is an edit.

453
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Speaker 2: I wouldn't say absolutely not the ale, but most I

454
00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:24,960
Speaker 2: agree with everything else that a commenter said, Yeah, there

455
00:20:25,040 --> 00:20:27,680
Speaker 2: is an edit. I'm giving this post a little more

456
00:20:27,680 --> 00:20:30,359
Speaker 2: context because I didn't anticipate it to get this amount

457
00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:32,480
Speaker 2: of motion. My boyfriend and I have been together for

458
00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:35,439
Speaker 2: over a year. Him By and Dean all worked together

459
00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:37,959
Speaker 2: on the same team. Bye is just as good friends

460
00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:40,640
Speaker 2: with Dean as she is with my boyfriend. My boyfriend

461
00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:43,239
Speaker 2: had no idea she wanted to shower or wash her

462
00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:46,439
Speaker 2: clothes or anything of that matter. She hadn't asked for

463
00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:49,120
Speaker 2: permission for any of it. We also had cover ups

464
00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:52,080
Speaker 2: when we went paintballing, so none of her clothes got

465
00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:55,560
Speaker 2: really dirty. Well, okay, that's even weirder then, because when

466
00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:57,520
Speaker 2: I went paintballing, we didn't have like cover ups.

467
00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:58,960
Speaker 3: It was just the clothes that we were wearing.

468
00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:01,760
Speaker 2: Oh boy, this is gonna get straight through that.

469
00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:02,560
Speaker 3: Yeah.

470
00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:05,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, I actually got the least paint on me of

471
00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:09,320
Speaker 2: Like yeah, but uh, even then, like, you still get dirty,

472
00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:10,200
Speaker 2: but this case.

473
00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:11,560
Speaker 3: Get up and put on your sweaty clothes.

474
00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:13,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, in this case, there's no reason for you to

475
00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:16,879
Speaker 2: do that. I did not punt her out unclothed. I

476
00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:20,200
Speaker 2: made sure she had her clothes with her and her bag.

477
00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:24,760
Speaker 2: So you punted her out on clothed, she was holding

478
00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:26,640
Speaker 2: clo she was holding her clothes.

479
00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:27,200
Speaker 3: That's close.

480
00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:30,280
Speaker 5: I reject that. No, she that she's right, she didn't,

481
00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:31,080
Speaker 5: she didn't put it.

482
00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:34,520
Speaker 2: If I kick you out in your underwear, regardless of

483
00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:36,359
Speaker 2: whether or not you're holding a bag with your clothes,

484
00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:37,400
Speaker 2: you're still unclosed.

485
00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:40,600
Speaker 5: If a police officer sees the police officer is not

486
00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:42,520
Speaker 5: going to pull up in the twenty five seconds gonna

487
00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:43,479
Speaker 5: take for me to put my clothes on.

488
00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:44,359
Speaker 1: That's not what I'm saying.

489
00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:47,040
Speaker 3: I'm saying, if you got seen people are you're unclothed.

490
00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:49,399
Speaker 5: Okay, But what if the reason I'm getting kicked out

491
00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:51,119
Speaker 5: of your house is because I called you a silly

492
00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:53,360
Speaker 5: little baby who's not good enough for your boyfriend.

493
00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:55,400
Speaker 2: I'm not saying, but that's.

494
00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:56,600
Speaker 1: The context that we're not.

495
00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:58,360
Speaker 3: I don't care about rolling.

496
00:21:58,160 --> 00:21:59,760
Speaker 1: Into this analysis.

497
00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:05,800
Speaker 5: Here is the insane stench of the disrespect rolling off

498
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:10,040
Speaker 5: of this woman entitled op to immediately remove him.

499
00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:10,400
Speaker 1: From that house.

500
00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:14,000
Speaker 3: To use the word unclosed or not, I literally don't

501
00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:14,439
Speaker 3: care about the.

502
00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:16,720
Speaker 1: Costume is closed? She just had clothes on her forearms.

503
00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:18,800
Speaker 3: No, by definition she's closed.

504
00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:23,880
Speaker 5: No, this is another hitchhiking. By definition, I reject this.

505
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:26,760
Speaker 2: If I'm naked in the bathroom holding my clothes, I'm naked.

506
00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:28,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just definition.

507
00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:30,520
Speaker 2: I don't care about are out, man, because.

508
00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:34,080
Speaker 1: That's different because you're in a bathroom exactly.

509
00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:35,960
Speaker 3: It's even worse that she's.

510
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:38,800
Speaker 5: Outside, because outside where the animals are and they don't

511
00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:39,359
Speaker 5: wear clothes.

512
00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:43,680
Speaker 2: You guys are crazy anyway. In addition, my boyfriend lives

513
00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:46,000
Speaker 2: in a very safe area of the town, inside the

514
00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:48,800
Speaker 2: gated neighborhood. She also had her car parked right outside.

515
00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:52,080
Speaker 2: Hey makes it a little bit better. But hey, if

516
00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:54,479
Speaker 2: you're in your underwear, you're technically not naked. That's what

517
00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:55,200
Speaker 2: we're talking about.

518
00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:58,840
Speaker 3: Unclosed. I was just cloth, using a different clothes.

519
00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:01,800
Speaker 1: They can't charge you for that crime.

520
00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:04,080
Speaker 3: Pretty sure you can be charged if you're in your

521
00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:04,719
Speaker 3: underwear out.

522
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:06,919
Speaker 1: No, you can't. We've got we've got the proof right

523
00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:08,359
Speaker 1: here that.

524
00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:10,359
Speaker 3: Sean said no, So you can't.

525
00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:11,880
Speaker 1: I said no, not New York.

526
00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, police offer police officers, and I'm like, police officer, No, no, no.

527
00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:19,320
Speaker 3: Underwear.

528
00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:21,600
Speaker 5: Actually, the officer, you actually have to take your clothes

529
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:22,680
Speaker 5: off now if you're gonna.

530
00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:27,880
Speaker 3: Oh no, Texas.

531
00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:37,600
Speaker 2: By definition, she's three thousand mothers aways away. Thousand pairs

532
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 2: of pants can fit in the grand.

533
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:41,760
Speaker 1: How many genghis is away?

534
00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:42,120
Speaker 5: Is she.

535
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 2: By the way, you guys are we've got another story.

536
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:50,680
Speaker 3: I mean, we've got this story. We have this story, guys.

537
00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:51,920
Speaker 3: It's a little bit left.

538
00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:54,040
Speaker 1: I just want to put let's change the context here.

539
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:58,200
Speaker 1: Now I'm saying, what if?

540
00:23:58,720 --> 00:23:59,000
Speaker 3: What if?

541
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 1: This woman? What? Okay, near mind, you're not into it,

542
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:04,439
Speaker 1: I'll leave it alone.

543
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:07,439
Speaker 2: His team at work has each other's locations because of

544
00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 2: the type of work they do and needing to coordinate

545
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 2: with each other during events. Us they're all friends, it's

546
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 2: typically assumed they're not just stocking each other for fun.

547
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:18,200
Speaker 3: It's assumed, but you can't guarantee it.

548
00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:21,160
Speaker 2: When they're not working. We did not have a problem

549
00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:24,120
Speaker 2: with five before. She's made one or two weird comments,

550
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:26,600
Speaker 2: and it's been coming over to my boyfriend's apartment more

551
00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:30,240
Speaker 2: since her breakup. It wasn't anything alarming, but my boyfriend

552
00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:32,480
Speaker 2: was keeping an eye on her and holding her at

553
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:36,679
Speaker 2: arm's length or further clarification, there's some confusing wording. When

554
00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:39,720
Speaker 2: I wrote she had no pants or anything under the shirt,

555
00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:42,600
Speaker 2: I kind of meant no articles of clothing like shorts

556
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:43,399
Speaker 2: or bottoms.

557
00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:45,600
Speaker 3: When I saw her, I had assumed she had her.

558
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:48,760
Speaker 2: Underwear on at least I later found out she was

559
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:53,399
Speaker 2: wearing the boxers and had put her underwear in the wash.

560
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:54,760
Speaker 2: She's wearing his undies.

561
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:56,120
Speaker 3: That's weird.

562
00:24:56,960 --> 00:25:00,960
Speaker 4: It's one thing wearing the shirts, another thing wearing his undies.

563
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:03,000
Speaker 3: That's okay.

564
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 2: So she wasn't fully no no pants underneath the shirt. Yeah,

565
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:09,200
Speaker 2: she wasn't just like peepees out.

566
00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:12,720
Speaker 3: Yeah. So it's like both worse and better. But that's

567
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 3: the end of that story. Yikes. Well, regardless of.

568
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:18,200
Speaker 2: Whether or not, you know, we think that you were

569
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:20,920
Speaker 2: in the wrong for pushing her out, she's gone.

570
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:22,480
Speaker 3: So you're good. She's out there.

571
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 4: I mean, like, yeah, whether you're right, got there eventually,

572
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:28,280
Speaker 4: So got what you wanted.

573
00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:30,160
Speaker 1: Okay, Now let's let's switch the context.

574
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, let's hear it.

575
00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 1: Now.

576
00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 5: Imagine, Sophie, imagine this is not about like your friends

577
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:36,639
Speaker 5: and your boyfriend, but this is about your.

578
00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:38,680
Speaker 1: Parents and their friend, right parents.

579
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:42,359
Speaker 5: Like imagine like you're at your parents' house and like

580
00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:44,920
Speaker 5: they had like a friend over and then they went

581
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 5: to the grocery store. Yeah, and then this friend comes

582
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:52,120
Speaker 5: out wearing like your dad's shirt and no other clothes,

583
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:54,239
Speaker 5: and it's like, Oh, don't worry, I'm really close with

584
00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:54,920
Speaker 5: your family.

585
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:56,880
Speaker 1: I'd be like, you need to get out of our

586
00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:58,000
Speaker 1: house right now?

587
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:01,240
Speaker 3: Do I know that? Really? I mean family friend?

588
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:05,200
Speaker 1: No, you don't know them, They're a stranger. Yeah, maybe

589
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 1: your parents know them.

590
00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:07,800
Speaker 3: I'm not kicking them out of my house.

591
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 2: I think I would have to leave them not doing

592
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:11,879
Speaker 2: anything though. I don't like that.

593
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:13,280
Speaker 3: Adults, I don't know.

594
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:16,080
Speaker 5: I feel like I'm calling my These are adults in

595
00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:18,679
Speaker 5: this story. These are these are adults in this story.

596
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:21,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's like a real adult. If I'm in.

597
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:25,200
Speaker 1: That, wake up, you are you are a real adult.

598
00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:28,600
Speaker 1: You are twenty five. What we're talking about an adult?

599
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:30,000
Speaker 3: A sixty year old.

600
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 2: Comes out of my dad's clothes and said, I'm really

601
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:32,639
Speaker 2: close to your family.

602
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:36,400
Speaker 3: I'm leaving the house. I'm out of there. I don't know. Yeah,

603
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:39,439
Speaker 3: I'm calling my mommy, Mommy picked me up.

604
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,600
Speaker 4: I feel like i'd be like, you know what, you

605
00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:43,520
Speaker 4: guys do whatever you guys want.

606
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:45,680
Speaker 3: I'm not a part of it in that situation.

607
00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:47,879
Speaker 4: But if but I like, I think I would be

608
00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:50,640
Speaker 4: more prone to pushing this person out of my house

609
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:52,440
Speaker 4: if it was the situation in this story.

610
00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:54,720
Speaker 1: I agree. Okay, that is fair.

611
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:57,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, a six year old that says they're really close,

612
00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:58,600
Speaker 2: and I's kind of strained to me.

613
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:02,840
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, I'm gonna parents. You're making me uncomfortable. Yeah,

614
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:03,359
Speaker 3: but I mean.

615
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:05,800
Speaker 4: The context of like her being weird since your breaks

616
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 4: makes sense, does make more sense. But just like just girl,

617
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 4: woman to woman, I just need your your bits to

618
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:13,679
Speaker 4: be covered.

619
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 3: Ye at least, I don't know. Lease put a shirt

620
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:17,399
Speaker 3: on and then we can. I'd like maybe give you

621
00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:19,359
Speaker 3: the towel. I believe the towel honestly.

622
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:19,600
Speaker 2: Yeah.

623
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:22,280
Speaker 5: Okay, let's let's add some more context here we can read.

624
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 5: So imagine that this mysterious stranger is also hurling insults

625
00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:28,280
Speaker 5: at you and says that you're a stinky little.

626
00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:32,120
Speaker 1: Baby, and also that your dad thinks she's so hot.

627
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm depending on how big this person.

628
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 5: Is, dude, do you have to establish dominance make them

629
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:39,120
Speaker 5: leave the house.

630
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 1: You're twenty five.

631
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:42,920
Speaker 2: If they're bigger than me, then I can't.

632
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:44,359
Speaker 1: Nobody is bigger than.

633
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:49,879
Speaker 5: You, Okay, then that is your that mentality. There's no

634
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:51,880
Speaker 5: one on earth is bigger than either of you. You're

635
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,199
Speaker 5: both the largest people on earth, if you say so.

636
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 2: But like in like a like in like a strength,

637
00:27:57,160 --> 00:28:01,840
Speaker 2: like exactly yeah, but anyway.

638
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:03,440
Speaker 1: To big lady.

639
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, let me hold on, do we have any uh?

640
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:12,440
Speaker 1: What do we have?

641
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 2: We got another star, but first we got down't know

642
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 2: from print the park. The last box containing your picture

643
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:23,680
Speaker 2: was delivered today. I was stream last night, but it

644
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 2: watched it today and it was truly heartwarming to see

645
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:26,680
Speaker 2: everyone's raptions.

646
00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:32,640
Speaker 1: Love y'all, legendary, legendary it was.

647
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 3: It was genuinely really cool.

648
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:36,000
Speaker 2: I'm very happy with it, and I do still need

649
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 2: you to tell me, like how you did it. Did

650
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:38,240
Speaker 2: you just.

651
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 4: Eyeball it and come up with all those pixels and

652
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 4: place them yourself? Or did was there some sort of

653
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:43,360
Speaker 4: like generator that.

654
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:45,760
Speaker 5: Didn't get I think I think it was they printed

655
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:48,480
Speaker 5: out the picture and then they eyeballed, like what colors

656
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 5: needed to go wear based on like the colors in

657
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:50,880
Speaker 5: the picture.

658
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:55,560
Speaker 4: If that's the case, I am like insanely impressed, because

659
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 4: that that is crazy.

660
00:28:57,440 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 3: We might have to save that. I have to leave

661
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:02,000
Speaker 3: in fifteen minutes. You might have to start this story.

662
00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:04,880
Speaker 2: Okay, Doki, all right, but when we'll get to everyone

663
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:08,240
Speaker 2: else's I just have a doctor's a virtual doctors.

664
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 5: She's got to die. She's gotta be like doctor help.

665
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 5: My brain fell out of my ears.

666
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:14,560
Speaker 3: I just need to get a typhoid shot.

667
00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 1: I need a new one.

668
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Speaker 2: Okay, my girlfriend discovered that I've been lying to her

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Speaker 2: with my friend.

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Speaker 3: What did you lie about?

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Speaker 1: I know it was.

672
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:25,840
Speaker 2: Wrong to lie to my girlfriend and I probably should

673
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Speaker 2: have just told her the truth.

674
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:28,360
Speaker 3: I lied because I didn't.

675
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:30,360
Speaker 2: Want to hurt her or upset her, but I realized

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Speaker 2: it was still a lie. By the way, this comes

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Speaker 2: I'm Dakota, and we're here to give good advice.

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Speaker 3: Goofily.

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Speaker 4: But we didn't have all the answers. We just know

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Speaker 4: we were do in these situations. So let us know what

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Speaker 4: you would do in the comments.

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Speaker 3: So oh Peace.

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Speaker 1: Says it's John Ogi host.

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Speaker 5: We don't get back to the stories, but a quick

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Speaker 5: free minute break of ads from our sponsors.

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Speaker 4: I've been playing fantasy football with some friends for years.

690
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:02,240
Speaker 4: We are all big sports fans, but football is the biggest.

691
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:04,640
Speaker 4: Last season, one of the guys dropped out of our

692
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 4: fantasy league because he said it was taking up too

693
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:08,840
Speaker 4: much of his time and he was afraid it was

694
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Speaker 4: pushing him.

695
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 3: Into a gambling problem. Yikes.

696
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Speaker 2: We needed another player, and my girlfriend watches football, so

697
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:16,480
Speaker 2: we asked her to play. I know I'm going to

698
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 2: catch heat for saying this, but it wasn't as fun

699
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Speaker 2: playing with her as I thought it would be. She

700
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 2: bad at it.

701
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:24,400
Speaker 3: She's really bad, or she's really good.

702
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:29,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I don't know if it was beginner's lucker

703
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 2: or what, but she pretty much destroyed the rest of

704
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 2: us all season. It wasn't fun losing to her.

705
00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 3: Get over it, so really get over it.

706
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:40,920
Speaker 2: This season, we just decided to tell her that we

707
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 2: weren't playing this year.

708
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:43,280
Speaker 3: Literally, you guys.

709
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 2: Are a bunch of cowards, Baby Canada. Losing to your girlfriend.

710
00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 3: Gosh.

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00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:51,000
Speaker 2: Well, I didn't want to at first, but the other

712
00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:52,240
Speaker 2: guys insisted.

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00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:53,080
Speaker 3: Cowards.

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Speaker 4: We invited the new brother in law of one of

715
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:57,840
Speaker 4: the other guys to play instead. I just told her

716
00:30:57,880 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 4: that everyone was too busy to play this year, and

717
00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:02,680
Speaker 4: she question it. On Thursday night, we slipped up and

718
00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 4: she found out that we are still playing. She had

719
00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 4: to go to work, but she was pissed off frightly,

720
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 4: so she's been frosty since she got home Friday morning.

721
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:14,200
Speaker 4: Next weekend, we are supposed to go to an out

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Speaker 4: of stage wedding. Her family isn't from Chicago, but now

723
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:18,520
Speaker 4: she said she wants.

724
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Speaker 3: To go by herself.

725
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:21,480
Speaker 2: I tried to explain, but it just made her mad.

726
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 2: Something personal. No one hates her or anything. I know

727
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Speaker 2: I'm going to catch heat in the comments every time

728
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 2: I try to explain it and makes it worse.

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00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:31,120
Speaker 4: I screwed up and there's no way around it. But

730
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:33,239
Speaker 4: she's so upset and I don't know what to do

731
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 4: to make it better. I know, I fed up and

732
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:37,719
Speaker 4: there are some comments here, but I want to hear

733
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:38,680
Speaker 4: your comments first.

734
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:41,520
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, you absolutely have to up you totally.

735
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Speaker 2: After you guys were being little babies about losing to

736
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 2: your girlfriend. Yeah, and then you instead of saying to her, hey,

737
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Speaker 2: like you were you were too good?

738
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Speaker 3: Yeah we are all.

739
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 2: You know, we're not in your league honestly, and I

740
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 2: would love to help you find a new league. But like, genuinely,

741
00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 2: you're too good and we're all bad.

742
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Speaker 7: Yeah.

743
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:03,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, that like booster ego, I would totally take that.

744
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Speaker 2: I mean, if she had fun and if she like

745
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 2: or if she had fun, but maybe it wasn't her thing,

746
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 2: and she was like fine with not doing it.

747
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:12,280
Speaker 3: And clearly she was fine with not doing it.

748
00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 4: She wasn't like insisting or trying to get you guys

749
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:17,360
Speaker 4: to start again or whatever. Like she probably would have

750
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 4: just taken that as like, Okay, you guys can play

751
00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 4: by yourselves, but I get ultimate bragging rights.

752
00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:25,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, the rest of our lives. Yeah, exactly.

753
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you're too scared to play fantasy football with me. Literally,

754
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 2: you could have made her feel so good and instead

755
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 2: you lied about it.

756
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:33,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, but also too, like if you're playing fantasy and

757
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 4: there's money on the table and she's winning all that money, yeah.

758
00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 3: Then you could benefit.

759
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:41,520
Speaker 4: If you play your cards right, you could get a

760
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Speaker 4: fancy dinner for the both of you guys.

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Speaker 3: Agreed with her money relevant.

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Speaker 4: Comments, though Automatic Serve says you definitely messed up. This

763
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 4: wouldn't even be about excluding her from something, but about

764
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 4: how you were okay with lying to her. The key

765
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:58,280
Speaker 4: to relationships is communication. My only suggestion for your current

766
00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:01,800
Speaker 4: situation would be to man up full responsibility and apologize,

767
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Speaker 4: then sit down and have an honest conversation with her

768
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Speaker 4: about why you did what you did and what you

769
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Speaker 4: plan to do to make sure communication is honest going forward.

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Speaker 4: If you're lucky and work for it, you'll be able

771
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Speaker 4: to build up trust again. Opie says, Yeah, I know

772
00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:18,080
Speaker 4: you're right. I make no excuses. I realize I screwed up.

773
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:20,600
Speaker 4: Every time I try to explain, I make it worse.

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00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 4: I did apologize, but she doesn't want to hear it

775
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Speaker 4: right now. I understand why she's mad, and I don't

776
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 4: make any excuses for lying or hiding it. I should

777
00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 4: have stuck to my word when the other guys insisted.

778
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:34,520
Speaker 4: Own Cupcakes says, don't try to deflect onto the other guys.

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Speaker 3: They're not in this relationship. You are for now. They

780
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:40,480
Speaker 3: didn't decide to lie. You did own up to it

781
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 3: and take the consequences. That's a great point. The other

782
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:45,080
Speaker 3: guys just said, we don't want to play with her

783
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 3: next year. Yeah, you are the one who decided.

784
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 2: To lie, right and even if they did, like try

785
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:51,239
Speaker 2: to tell you to lie to her, that's still on

786
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 2: you doing it.

787
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Speaker 3: They're not in the relationship.

788
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Speaker 4: Yeah, Irongeushe says, Nah, you were happy to go along

789
00:33:57,760 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 4: with the guys, even though you knew it meant doing

790
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 4: something hurtfull to your girlfriend, getting validation and approval from

791
00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 4: them was more important than your girlfriend's feelings.

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Speaker 2: That's one hundred percent on you. We do have an

793
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:11,480
Speaker 2: update from two months later, oh boy, and there were

794
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:13,759
Speaker 2: a little bit of spoilers. I didn't see it. I

795
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:16,400
Speaker 2: think we should just get into it. Sure updates so

796
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:19,920
Speaker 2: it's over. I know I screwed up and the rioting

797
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,480
Speaker 2: was on the wall. The worst part is that I

798
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:25,400
Speaker 2: have no excuses. I know how badly I afked this up.

799
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:27,920
Speaker 2: I'm not even looking for sympathy here. When my girlfriend

800
00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:29,880
Speaker 2: got back from the wedding, she asked me why I

801
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:32,000
Speaker 2: lied to her. I didn't have any answer for her.

802
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:34,560
Speaker 2: All my explanations just made it worse and didn't really

803
00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:37,439
Speaker 2: explain anything. I tried to apologize, but she didn't want

804
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:39,920
Speaker 2: to hear it. It was the worst week of my life.

805
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 2: It was almost like she was freezing me out. At

806
00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:44,520
Speaker 2: one point, she asked me if we ever talked about

807
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:46,680
Speaker 2: her in the group chat for our fantasy league, and

808
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:49,600
Speaker 2: I didn't even have to answer. She just said, it's

809
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:53,520
Speaker 2: not nice, right, And I think that was the turning point.

810
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:55,800
Speaker 2: I never want to see her cry. And the worst

811
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:58,840
Speaker 2: part is knowing I did this because I was stupid

812
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:02,640
Speaker 2: and didn't stand up to my friend. Stop blaming your friend. Well,

813
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 2: he's saying he didn't stand up to his friends, so

814
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:06,840
Speaker 2: he's taking responsibility for that.

815
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Speaker 3: I don't know.

816
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 2: I just but like he was also the one who said, like,

817
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:13,080
Speaker 2: it wasn't fun playing with her, So I feel like

818
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:15,440
Speaker 2: heeser didn't want her to be a part of it,

819
00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:16,360
Speaker 2: that's true.

820
00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:16,880
Speaker 3: I don't know.

821
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:20,479
Speaker 4: I mean he said earlier that like he like wasn't

822
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:23,439
Speaker 4: sure about it at first, So yeah, there's probably.

823
00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 2: A part of him that did just That's the thing.

824
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:29,440
Speaker 2: I think he's not willing to confess to himself even Yeah,

825
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:31,720
Speaker 2: that's why I think he doesn't have an answer, because

826
00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:34,400
Speaker 2: he keeps being like, oh, well, my friends convinced me,

827
00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:36,080
Speaker 2: and I shouldn't have like I shouldn't have agreed.

828
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 3: But I think, deep down, at least my read of.

829
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:41,279
Speaker 2: It is that he was jealous of how well she

830
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:43,399
Speaker 2: was doing and didn't like that feeling, and so that's

831
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 2: why he agreed.

832
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:46,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's very possible there is a little

833
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:48,880
Speaker 4: bit more to this story.

834
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:50,239
Speaker 2: She said she doesn't.

835
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:53,080
Speaker 4: Think we are compatible and shouldn't date anymore. She didn't

836
00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:55,880
Speaker 4: want to accept my apologies, and I understand, and I

837
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 4: won't bother her now. She went to stay with her

838
00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:00,080
Speaker 4: family for another week, and now I've heard that she

839
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 4: came back because of her job, which is a pharmacist,

840
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 4: and now she's staying with friends.

841
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:06,840
Speaker 2: But I will leave her alone. I'm looking for another

842
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 2: place to live because our lease is up at the

843
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:10,520
Speaker 2: end of the month. She left two weeks ago, and

844
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:12,960
Speaker 2: it feels empty. And the worst part is I know

845
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:15,879
Speaker 2: it's my fault. I barely care about watching football now,

846
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:17,920
Speaker 2: and normally I would be excited about it because my

847
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:20,319
Speaker 2: team is in first place. If you take anything away

848
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 2: from my post, don't put your friends over the person

849
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:24,839
Speaker 2: you love. Learn to stand up to your friends. I

850
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 2: learned my lesson after this. And there are some final comments.

851
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:31,240
Speaker 2: Fan Feeling says, so what were you guys saying about

852
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:32,279
Speaker 2: her in the group chat.

853
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:40,920
Speaker 4: Another commenter says, just some unexamined misogyny disguised as humor.

854
00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:43,000
Speaker 2: I'm sure, and that's the end of that story.

855
00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, at least you know that it was your fault.

856
00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:47,240
Speaker 3: I guess.

857
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, you literally lost a relationship because you're just a

858
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 2: sore loser in football, literally, like at a thing that

859
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 2: doesn't even matter.

860
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:57,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's how you lost your girls.

861
00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:02,399
Speaker 2: It literally would be so avoidable. I do wonder though,

862
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 2: if there were other problems in the relationship.

863
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 3: I imagine so because they were living together.

864
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, they were.

865
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 3: Living together, and like, I'm not gonna.

866
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 2: Excuse lying, no, but a lie like this seems smaller.

867
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:18,800
Speaker 2: It does seem smaller. But if there's like a history

868
00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:21,799
Speaker 2: of lying or something, then like, yeah, I think that would.

869
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:22,239
Speaker 3: Be that way.

870
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:24,120
Speaker 5: I think this lie was more that it was like

871
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:29,640
Speaker 5: a conspiracy of him and his foots, like everyone conspired.

872
00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:32,080
Speaker 1: To lie to her. Yeah, and then they also don't

873
00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:33,359
Speaker 1: like her mm hmmm.

874
00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, and if yeah, because then they did kind of

875
00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 4: just brush over the fact that there's like they were

876
00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:40,880
Speaker 4: talking about her, yeah, and they said not nice things.

877
00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:43,719
Speaker 3: He said he couldn't like, he couldn't say anything. Yeah.

878
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 3: When she asked if they were talking about he just said.

879
00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:47,719
Speaker 2: Like not nice, right, and then that was it.

880
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:50,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's definitely a problem for sure. Yeah.

881
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 2: I think Op was maybe a little worried to give

882
00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:54,440
Speaker 2: all the details because he knew he messed up and

883
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 2: felt guilty.

884
00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:58,920
Speaker 4: Probably sucks to suck guy. I'm sorry me sorry about that,

885
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:01,919
Speaker 4: but you learned your lesson. Yeah, so just just don't

886
00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:02,399
Speaker 4: do it again.

887
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:04,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's the end of that story. We've got

888
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 2: another one coming right up.

889
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 3: It's actually I believe oh wait, no, there is. Yeah,

890
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:10,880
Speaker 3: but I won't be here, so I've gotta go to.

891
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 1: Sorry, who are you going to get? Who's coming in?

892
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 3: But I have to I have to schedudle.

893
00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:21,799
Speaker 1: Will you find whoever you have to grab? You have

894
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 1: ten minutes?

895
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, Katie, Katie Pollitin says, wait, this was was this

896
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 2: all over fantasy football?

897
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:27,879
Speaker 1: Yeah?

898
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 3: It was also I don't think we got aged.

899
00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:32,719
Speaker 5: All he had to say was literally like, oh no, babe,

900
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:34,040
Speaker 5: we don't want you in the league this year because

901
00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:36,640
Speaker 5: you're literally too good. Yeah, honestly, you beat us so

902
00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 5: bad we literally don't even Yeah, we we took a

903
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:41,959
Speaker 5: vote and you were voted to not be in the league.

904
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 1: Right, And then she'd be like, what you guys are

905
00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 1: sucking late?

906
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:45,359
Speaker 7: Oop?

907
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 1: Yeah oops, everybody, it's alright, it's Wednesday. We can do that.

908
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:52,719
Speaker 4: But yeah, I think I agree. I think, uh, she

909
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:54,920
Speaker 4: just gets to make fun of you now. But then

910
00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:56,720
Speaker 4: now you mess it up and now she doesn't get.

911
00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 2: To do anything with you. You don't get to do anything.

912
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:01,879
Speaker 3: With her, are right? Pee my guy? But yeah, that's

913
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:02,680
Speaker 3: something that I would take.

914
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:04,920
Speaker 4: I'm one of my biggest pet peeves is when people

915
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 4: go easy on me in any sort of game ever.

916
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:09,400
Speaker 4: But this is something that I would be okay with.

917
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:10,480
Speaker 7: I won't play Smash Bros.

918
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, you can just just demolish me. I like Kirby.

919
00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:21,319
Speaker 7: Of course you do, that's mine. I was gonna I

920
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 7: was gonna say, what you know what character you play

921
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:27,680
Speaker 7: Kirby Kirby hey chat. Well, because you're not, you're not

922
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 7: helping the stereotype. I'm sorry.

923
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 3: I'll fight you in real life. Smash Bros.

924
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 7: I r L. You saw me arm wrestle Riley in

925
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:39,560
Speaker 7: Columbia and I want you to go ahead. I will

926
00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 7: do you not want me to go easy? Well we

927
00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:43,640
Speaker 7: get arm wrestle. I can do my pinky.

928
00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:48,120
Speaker 2: Us. I'm not gonna win, but yeah, whatever, I don't.

929
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 2: Don't don't use me as representation for all women playing

930
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:52,080
Speaker 2: Smash Bros.

931
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 4: No.

932
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:54,240
Speaker 7: It's very funny because Carly was like, I play Smash Bros.

933
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 7: I was like, oh, do you She's like, yeah, I'm

934
00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 7: really good at it. It's like, let me guess you

935
00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 7: play Kirby, And she went, how'd you know that?

936
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 2: Just because Kirby is the easiest character, it's all. It's

937
00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 2: not because it's not because a girl thing. That's just

938
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:05,560
Speaker 2: what I've heard is that it's the easiest character. But

939
00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 2: also I played Kirby well because the people that I

940
00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 2: would play with didn't really know what Kirby could do, and.

941
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:15,319
Speaker 4: So I would always just like, Kirby sucks, smash on people, yeah,

942
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:16,239
Speaker 4: and people.

943
00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:18,480
Speaker 7: Kirby turns into a rock and then lands on people

944
00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:19,720
Speaker 7: and then also sucks people.

945
00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 3: It's true.

946
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:22,759
Speaker 7: It's true, Angie. If I were your older brother and

947
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 7: you're like, let's play games because I feel like your

948
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:26,840
Speaker 7: older brothers just does this too, Yeah, and you like,

949
00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:30,320
Speaker 7: don't go easy on me and then like just demolishes you,

950
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:32,560
Speaker 7: you'd be like, I'm fine with that, okay, because I've

951
00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:35,239
Speaker 7: done that before. Yeah, with just people who say that

952
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:37,239
Speaker 7: in general, and they're like, don't go easy man, all right, fine,

953
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:38,799
Speaker 7: I won't hold back, and I still hold back a

954
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:40,759
Speaker 7: little bit, just like give them a like maybe like

955
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:43,920
Speaker 7: a life or like just like like I'll still win

956
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:46,319
Speaker 7: or maybe give them like one wine. But then if

957
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:48,160
Speaker 7: I just keep demolishing them, you can tell that. It's

958
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:53,239
Speaker 7: like one, I get bored, but also because I'm like okay, sure, okay,

959
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:56,960
Speaker 7: challenge accepted, what challenge? But two, like they start getting

960
00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:58,480
Speaker 7: really frustrated.

961
00:40:58,200 --> 00:40:58,839
Speaker 2: And that's fair.

962
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:02,719
Speaker 4: But I think if I get frustrated like that, that's

963
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:03,720
Speaker 4: just what needs to happen.

964
00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:06,839
Speaker 7: Okay, I would that might okay good? I would hate

965
00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:07,600
Speaker 7: like people are like.

966
00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:09,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, like mad about it.

967
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:09,799
Speaker 2: Oh my god?

968
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 3: If because I don't.

969
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:13,600
Speaker 4: Know, I mean, I'm maybe it's because like I'm the

970
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:16,920
Speaker 4: youngest and so people would like naturally go easy on

971
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:18,879
Speaker 4: me and then I'd win, but it'd be fake win

972
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 4: and that.

973
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:22,200
Speaker 3: Would piss me off more than anything. I just making

974
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:25,120
Speaker 3: me fake win. Yeah, I'm getting all this pride for nothing.

975
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:27,399
Speaker 7: Yeah. I'm pretty sure Dakota has done that too, for like.

976
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:31,000
Speaker 2: Pissing me off. My boyfriend's friends banned me from their

977
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:33,240
Speaker 2: wedding because I'm a spicy worker.

978
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:35,760
Speaker 3: Well that's just not fair.

979
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 2: And this comes directly from the r slash Okay storytime

980
00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 2: subreed it. I twenty five female, have been dating my

981
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:45,600
Speaker 2: long distance boyfriend Mark twenty five mail for three years.

982
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:47,920
Speaker 2: We grew up in the same city, New York, but

983
00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:50,719
Speaker 2: matched on Tinder the summer of twenty twenty two, right

984
00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:53,880
Speaker 2: before he moved across the country LA for medical school.

985
00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:56,160
Speaker 2: By the way, this comes from green Tree Demon And

986
00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 2: if you want to submit your own stories, go to

987
00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:00,799
Speaker 2: the r slash Okay storytime subured it Sophia.

988
00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 7: Hi'm Angie, I'm keon.

989
00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:03,800
Speaker 2: And we're here to give good advice goofy. But we

990
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 2: don't have all the answers. We only know what we do,

991
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:07,920
Speaker 2: so let us know what you would do in the comments,

992
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:11,280
Speaker 2: and Opie says. Mark is a close, lifelong friend group

993
00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 2: made up mostly of men, except for one woman, Jess,

994
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 2: who's been dating another guy in the group, Luke, for

995
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 2: almost a decade. Jess and Mark are not friends, but

996
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 2: she has been with Mark's friend for over decades, so

997
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:26,040
Speaker 2: she's a part of the group understood. It's important to

998
00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:30,200
Speaker 2: note Mine and Mark's entire relationship is long distance. He

999
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:32,680
Speaker 2: flies home for Christmas and maybe a few weeks in

1000
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 2: the summer, so he sees this group of friends three

1001
00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:38,440
Speaker 2: to five times a year max. He occasionally plays video

1002
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 2: games with all the men in the group, but doesn't

1003
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 2: speak to Jess at all unless in person, because she's

1004
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 2: just engaged to his friend. Er and Mark aren't actually

1005
00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 2: friends without the groom. You have made that very clear.

1006
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 2: Op He is Opie's boyfriend, is not friends with Jess.

1007
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:56,799
Speaker 3: Not friends. Got it.

1008
00:42:57,280 --> 00:43:00,200
Speaker 2: Mark is busy with medical school twelve plus hours a

1009
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:02,920
Speaker 2: day and has a new friend group in LA. Although

1010
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:05,319
Speaker 2: he loves his New York friends because he's known them

1011
00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:08,680
Speaker 2: fifteen plus years, he does not regularly see or speak

1012
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 2: to them. I fly to LA every six to eight

1013
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:13,839
Speaker 2: weeks and spend one to two weeks there each time,

1014
00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:16,239
Speaker 2: so me and him spend tons of time with his

1015
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 2: LA friend group, the group he sees and talks to.

1016
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:19,759
Speaker 3: None of his New.

1017
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:22,319
Speaker 2: York friends have ever flowed to LA the last three

1018
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 2: and a half years Mark has lived there. Below, I

1019
00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:27,280
Speaker 2: have three points listed with all the times the bride

1020
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 2: acted crazy the last three years. For those who want

1021
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:33,080
Speaker 2: background and people only interested in the current issue can

1022
00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 2: skip the last label listed at the bottom. I'm sorry,

1023
00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:38,680
Speaker 2: elloel I love to talk. When Mark and I matched

1024
00:43:38,680 --> 00:43:41,440
Speaker 2: on Tinder? Wait, okay, did you match on Tinder when

1025
00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:42,439
Speaker 2: he was still living in New York?

1026
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 7: Think must be? I think they said that at the beginning.

1027
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:47,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, double check, because that's what.

1028
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 7: This is, one of our own you say that, Yeah, yeah, great, yeah,

1029
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:50,239
Speaker 7: this is.

1030
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:54,000
Speaker 2: That would be crazy if wow, you matched and knew

1031
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 2: it was going to be long distance.

1032
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:58,319
Speaker 7: Yes, they matched on Tinder in summer of twenty twenty two.

1033
00:43:58,800 --> 00:43:59,040
Speaker 2: Wow.

1034
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:01,920
Speaker 7: Yes, it looks like they've been dating for three years.

1035
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 7: So maybe he was in medical school.

1036
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:06,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe he was in New York.

1037
00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:08,520
Speaker 7: He was in New York, but then obviously with like

1038
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 7: medical school, moved el Yeah, residency and all that stuff.

1039
00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:12,200
Speaker 7: Got it.

1040
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:15,080
Speaker 2: He told me, Jess had already found my Instagram and

1041
00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:18,960
Speaker 2: was secretly following and hate watching my content, so weird.

1042
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:21,759
Speaker 2: Before I even knew her name or what she looked like.

1043
00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:24,600
Speaker 2: For context, I am a spicy sleep worker with a

1044
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:28,279
Speaker 2: decent online following. Two hundred and fifty thousand on Instagram,

1045
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:31,280
Speaker 2: four hundred thousand Twitter, one hundred thousand Facebook.

1046
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 1: That's decent.

1047
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 3: That's a lot. That's a lot.

1048
00:44:34,719 --> 00:44:35,439
Speaker 2: That's pretty good.

1049
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 7: That's what we call decent.

1050
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:40,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's probably comparing it to people who have like

1051
00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 4: millions of fars.

1052
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:43,840
Speaker 1: Hey, John Ogi host here, we're gonna get back to

1053
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 1: this episode. But a quick three minute break of ads

1054
00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:48,640
Speaker 1: from a sponsor's keeping the show alive, so I.

1055
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:51,280
Speaker 2: Couldn't exactly narrow down her account and put a stop

1056
00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 2: to it. Jess immediately lay will be a gold digger

1057
00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:57,719
Speaker 2: and a salute too, one of those words I can

1058
00:44:57,800 --> 00:45:00,480
Speaker 2: understand because of my job. But she also laid his

1059
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:03,440
Speaker 2: virgin Catholic ex girlfriend that, so I think she's just

1060
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:06,720
Speaker 2: thrown insult at any new girl and hope something sticks.

1061
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:07,720
Speaker 3: But gold digger.

1062
00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:10,680
Speaker 2: He's unemployed and as a decade of school left to do.

1063
00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:13,680
Speaker 2: For context, I own my home at twenty two when

1064
00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:17,960
Speaker 2: this happened, I made around three hundred thousand that year. Wow.

1065
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:21,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, and oh, pi's the gold digger.

1066
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 2: Yeah. Mark's like actively probably in like one hundred thousand

1067
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:25,600
Speaker 2: dollars worth of debt.

1068
00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:28,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, and and ope's the gold digger.

1069
00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:32,959
Speaker 2: Mark was unemployed and not even accepted into med school yet.

1070
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 2: Mark told Jess that stuff wasn't true and reminded her

1071
00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 2: of that stuff and mentioned all this, and she said

1072
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:42,240
Speaker 2: it doesn't matter, and I'm still only after him.

1073
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:42,680
Speaker 3: For his money.

1074
00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:45,759
Speaker 7: Like, okay, someone's a professional hater.

1075
00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:47,160
Speaker 3: Yeah right, I don't know.

1076
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:49,560
Speaker 2: At this point, I'd be talking to Mark's friend or

1077
00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:51,239
Speaker 2: Mark should talk to his friend and say, hey, your

1078
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:55,319
Speaker 2: wife is behaving pretty disrespectfully. Yeah, like was the issue here?

1079
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:56,560
Speaker 7: How much money does she make?

1080
00:45:56,800 --> 00:45:57,200
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1081
00:45:57,400 --> 00:46:01,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, right, she's just jealous, just jeal hims.

1082
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:01,960
Speaker 5: Yes.

1083
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:05,600
Speaker 2: A few months into talking exclusively, Mark invited me to

1084
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:08,120
Speaker 2: meet the friend group at a local indoor outdoor bar.

1085
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 2: Jess told him I was banned from going, but no,

1086
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:14,680
Speaker 2: she doesn't own the bar, so that didn't matter. You

1087
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:17,279
Speaker 2: can't control me a grown adult who doesn't listen to

1088
00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:21,480
Speaker 2: controlling bullies, and Mark clearly wouldn't listen to miscontrolling. He

1089
00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:24,000
Speaker 2: told her he wants me there and I will be coming.

1090
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 2: The bar closes at two am, and they stop letting

1091
00:46:26,640 --> 00:46:30,239
Speaker 2: people in at one am. I arrived at one am exactly,

1092
00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:33,239
Speaker 2: wearing a hoodie and sweatpants because it was freezing and

1093
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:36,640
Speaker 2: outside of work, I usually wear baggy clothes anyways, less

1094
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:39,600
Speaker 2: Jess already thought I was a witch, so dressing casually

1095
00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:42,799
Speaker 2: also avoided giving her more ammunition. But whether she was

1096
00:46:42,840 --> 00:46:44,719
Speaker 2: there or not, I still would have dressed that way.

1097
00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 2: Mark asked for no PDA, no hugging, hand holding, kissing,

1098
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:50,560
Speaker 2: because he was in comfortable showing affection in front of

1099
00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:54,759
Speaker 2: friends and at an extremely busy bar. I respected that completely.

1100
00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:58,279
Speaker 2: I hate being touched by everyone, friends, family, strangers, so.

1101
00:46:58,320 --> 00:46:59,719
Speaker 3: This was no issue for me at all.

1102
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:02,880
Speaker 2: Still introduced me to everyone as his girl, so that

1103
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:04,920
Speaker 2: wasn't a secret. Wells At this point, we had only

1104
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:06,719
Speaker 2: known each other for a few months, so it's a

1105
00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:09,719
Speaker 2: little uncomfortable to be all over each other lol, And

1106
00:47:09,760 --> 00:47:11,719
Speaker 2: by the end of the night this ended up being

1107
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:14,279
Speaker 2: a life saver. He brought me outside to one of

1108
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:16,640
Speaker 2: the patio tables where some of his friends were sitting.

1109
00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:18,759
Speaker 2: There was an open chair next to Mark, so that's

1110
00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:20,799
Speaker 2: where I sat. Keep in mind, at this point I

1111
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 2: still did not know what just looked like, and she

1112
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:26,879
Speaker 2: had been allegedly cyber stocking me for months. I met Luke,

1113
00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:29,200
Speaker 2: her boyfriend, who gave me a big, friendly hug and

1114
00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:31,880
Speaker 2: was very welcoming and nice towards me. I talked to

1115
00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 2: the other guys at the table and they were nice too. Finally,

1116
00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:37,680
Speaker 2: a woman in a tight, deep V necked bodysuit, tank

1117
00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:40,759
Speaker 2: top and leggings with no bra approached me, shook my hand,

1118
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:44,200
Speaker 2: said Hi, I'm Jeff, and immediately walked away with Luke.

1119
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 2: This was very specific, very specific description. I don't think

1120
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:52,400
Speaker 2: there's anything wrong with that outfit at a bar, well,

1121
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:52,799
Speaker 2: I don't think.

1122
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:54,840
Speaker 3: Also, she's being pretty shamy.

1123
00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:57,439
Speaker 4: So yeah, I think the point is that, like, if

1124
00:47:57,480 --> 00:48:01,399
Speaker 4: she is being very shamy, and it will probably come

1125
00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:04,879
Speaker 4: up later that she's gonna say something about Op's outfit.

1126
00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:07,840
Speaker 3: Then that's just pretty ironic. It's good to know.

1127
00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:10,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, she did not interact with me again. For the

1128
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:13,640
Speaker 2: rest of the night, I tried to describe our outfits

1129
00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:16,840
Speaker 2: in as much detail as possible, because remember, I'm a

1130
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:19,959
Speaker 2: witch and she's miss Innocent. Yet she's the only one

1131
00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 2: in revealing clothes outside in the colt. Anyways, I was

1132
00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 2: only there for an hour, so I sat and got

1133
00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:26,800
Speaker 2: to know the guys at the table.

1134
00:48:26,880 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 3: I didn't touch Mark once.

1135
00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 2: Not even accidentally with our elbows. Oh well, we just

1136
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:33,959
Speaker 2: sat next to each other at a table. At two am,

1137
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 2: when the bar closed, Luke hugged me goodbye again and

1138
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:40,839
Speaker 2: they left. I never saw the bride ever again. It's

1139
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:43,400
Speaker 2: been three years since our first and last time meeting

1140
00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:44,759
Speaker 2: each other once just.

1141
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:47,040
Speaker 3: In Luke left. She immediately blew up in the group

1142
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:49,680
Speaker 3: chat they had. She accused me of being all over

1143
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:52,279
Speaker 3: Mark and being as salute and complained that no one

1144
00:48:52,320 --> 00:48:54,279
Speaker 3: else gotta spend time with them the entire night.

1145
00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:57,320
Speaker 2: Mind you, she wasn't mad. Her own boyfriend hugged me twice.

1146
00:48:57,600 --> 00:49:00,960
Speaker 2: That's two more times than my own boyfriend. She clearly

1147
00:49:00,960 --> 00:49:04,320
Speaker 2: had no clue Mark is uncomfortable with PDA and asked

1148
00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:07,080
Speaker 2: me not to touch him again, throwing out anything and

1149
00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:09,759
Speaker 2: hoping it sticks. Like I said, she introduced herself and

1150
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:11,719
Speaker 2: then left the table, So she has no clue with

1151
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:14,120
Speaker 2: me and Mark were touching. I think she just assumed

1152
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:16,720
Speaker 2: we were to try and start drama or have another

1153
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:19,839
Speaker 2: excuse to not like me, and I hope Mark then said, uh,

1154
00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:24,200
Speaker 2: we literally didn't touch once. Yeah, and let's remember that

1155
00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:26,239
Speaker 2: Jess isn't even friends with Mark.

1156
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:29,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was made very clear, the sole clear Jess

1157
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:30,439
Speaker 3: is not friends with Mark.

1158
00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 4: So if they're not friends, why would she even care

1159
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:35,439
Speaker 4: to hang out with Mark on that night?

1160
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:36,240
Speaker 1: Weird.

1161
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:38,840
Speaker 3: I was at the bar for one hour and never

1162
00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 3: touched him.

1163
00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:42,239
Speaker 2: And for the first and only time ever, the guy

1164
00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:45,480
Speaker 2: friends actually corrected her. They said I never touched him

1165
00:49:45,520 --> 00:49:49,759
Speaker 2: and that she was lying. Nice. All right, Finally we

1166
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:53,920
Speaker 2: love backup. Luckily, we established a no PDA rule and

1167
00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:56,120
Speaker 2: all the men saw this, so it was easy to

1168
00:49:56,160 --> 00:49:58,960
Speaker 2: call her bs lieout. I never saw her again after

1169
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 2: that night. I saw Luke once more later, and he

1170
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:04,840
Speaker 2: said he's not allowed to like me. Be Goes just doesn't.

1171
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:06,240
Speaker 3: Why would you tell Op.

1172
00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:07,880
Speaker 2: That that's insane?

1173
00:50:08,040 --> 00:50:11,440
Speaker 3: That's crazy. Just saying that out loud, you have to

1174
00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:12,640
Speaker 3: hear how insane that is.

1175
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:16,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, oh, my girlfriend said I can't like you, yeah,

1176
00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:19,279
Speaker 2: or be friends with you because she hates you for

1177
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:22,000
Speaker 2: no reason. Yeah, she met you once and didn't talk

1178
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:23,319
Speaker 2: to you at all, but she hates you.

1179
00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:25,080
Speaker 3: Dude. Crazy.

1180
00:50:25,880 --> 00:50:27,960
Speaker 2: Justs and Luke host to big New Year's Eve party

1181
00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:31,160
Speaker 2: every year in twenty twenty two, twenty twenty three, twenty

1182
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:34,719
Speaker 2: twenty four, and you guessed it, Jess banned me from

1183
00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:35,920
Speaker 2: attending all three.

1184
00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:37,239
Speaker 7: Why is everyone cool with this?

1185
00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:38,000
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1186
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:40,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, right, if I re Mark, I would be cutting

1187
00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:41,400
Speaker 2: off these friends.

1188
00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:43,919
Speaker 7: I mean, I get it, it's their party. That that's

1189
00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 7: one thing, like okay, but like if it's just Ope

1190
00:50:47,160 --> 00:50:49,880
Speaker 7: every time, it's just a very weird thing, like a

1191
00:50:49,960 --> 00:50:51,279
Speaker 7: vendetta against Op.

1192
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:52,239
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1193
00:50:52,560 --> 00:50:56,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, Mark goes every year and asks if I can

1194
00:50:56,840 --> 00:50:59,040
Speaker 2: please come because he wants to spend his little time

1195
00:50:59,080 --> 00:51:01,600
Speaker 2: back home with both his friends and girlfriend, and she

1196
00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:02,560
Speaker 2: says no every year.

1197
00:51:02,800 --> 00:51:03,080
Speaker 7: I don't.

1198
00:51:03,120 --> 00:51:04,160
Speaker 3: I think that's a red flag.

1199
00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:05,759
Speaker 7: I think that's a red flag too. I don't like that.

1200
00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a huge red flag. If I was Mark,

1201
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:10,360
Speaker 2: I just wouldn't go. Then. Yeah, that's I want my

1202
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 2: New Year's kiss with my girlfriend for three years. Kind

1203
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:16,400
Speaker 2: of crazy because it's not it's not Mark being like, Okay,

1204
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:19,400
Speaker 2: I'm in New York. Oh he's in LA. You know

1205
00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:22,080
Speaker 2: she's not going. She can't make it. So I'm going

1206
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:25,000
Speaker 2: to this New Year's event. It's we're both in New York.

1207
00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:29,879
Speaker 2: My girlfriend has been explicitly uninvited to this event. Yeah,

1208
00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:32,799
Speaker 2: and I'm still going. I'm still supporting the people that

1209
00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:34,239
Speaker 2: actively hate my girlfriend.

1210
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:37,560
Speaker 7: The only yeah, only like Leeway, I'll give him, Like, okay,

1211
00:51:37,600 --> 00:51:39,040
Speaker 7: go say how to your friends. But we spend the

1212
00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:40,640
Speaker 7: rest of New Year's like you go for a little bit,

1213
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:43,080
Speaker 7: but like why aren't you, Like why aren't you evenst

1214
00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:45,960
Speaker 7: at the most? But like why aren't you If he

1215
00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 7: really wants to go, why can't we call her out

1216
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:47,880
Speaker 7: on that?

1217
00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1218
00:51:49,160 --> 00:51:51,799
Speaker 7: Or like Luke, why can't we call out Luke on that?

1219
00:51:52,040 --> 00:51:52,279
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1220
00:51:52,560 --> 00:51:55,880
Speaker 2: Honestly, So typically he goes from around five pm to

1221
00:51:55,960 --> 00:51:57,960
Speaker 2: ten pm with them, then leaves to spend the ball

1222
00:51:58,040 --> 00:51:59,080
Speaker 2: drop with me at my place.

1223
00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:00,560
Speaker 3: Five hours.

1224
00:52:00,680 --> 00:52:04,000
Speaker 7: That's too much. I was like an hour, yeah, hour max?

1225
00:52:04,040 --> 00:52:07,080
Speaker 7: Maybe hour and a half. Yeah, do something fun with op.

1226
00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 2: Five pm on New Year's Eve is so crazy? Pretty

1227
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:14,320
Speaker 2: wid a party at five pm? Yeah, and five hours

1228
00:52:14,360 --> 00:52:16,280
Speaker 2: versus the two hours that you're spending with your girlfriend

1229
00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 2: go on, and Jess throws.

1230
00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:20,239
Speaker 3: A tantrum every year that he isn't choosing her friend

1231
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:21,920
Speaker 3: group over me. Again.

1232
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:25,240
Speaker 2: I haven't seen this woman since the bar in twenty

1233
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:29,319
Speaker 2: twenty two. She's a stranger who decided to hate me

1234
00:52:29,760 --> 00:52:31,920
Speaker 2: or having another New Year's Eve party this month for

1235
00:52:31,960 --> 00:52:34,000
Speaker 2: twenty twenty five, and I asked my boyfriend to get

1236
00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:36,040
Speaker 2: to my house at seven pm so we can watch

1237
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:38,480
Speaker 2: the final release of Stranger Things, so he may not

1238
00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:40,760
Speaker 2: attend their New Year's Eve party at all, which will

1239
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:42,960
Speaker 2: just fuel her hatred for me even more.

1240
00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:46,480
Speaker 3: Wompomp. Sorry, my boyfriend cares about his girlfriend's feelings than yours.

1241
00:52:46,680 --> 00:52:49,239
Speaker 3: Get used to it. Well, for the last couple of years,

1242
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:50,439
Speaker 3: he doesn't seem like he has.

1243
00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:53,320
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, yeah, yeah, that's frustrating.

1244
00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:53,960
Speaker 3: To me.

1245
00:52:53,960 --> 00:52:56,440
Speaker 2: Me too, I would be questioning that, but I'm glad

1246
00:52:56,480 --> 00:52:58,560
Speaker 2: he's seemingly coming around this year.

1247
00:52:58,640 --> 00:53:02,239
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's really frustrating that one one person, a certified hater,

1248
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 7: is like dictating everything.

1249
00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:08,160
Speaker 2: Right, It's important to note I am diagnosed with agoraphobia.

1250
00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:10,320
Speaker 2: I do not like to leave the house. I don't drink.

1251
00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:12,520
Speaker 2: I don't like parties. I don't like loud music or

1252
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:14,560
Speaker 2: tons of strangers. So I don't want to go to

1253
00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:17,919
Speaker 2: any party anyways. Okay, that's even Okay, Well that makes

1254
00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:20,520
Speaker 2: sense why he would go anyway. It gives him a

1255
00:53:20,560 --> 00:53:23,479
Speaker 2: little bit more, you know, I give him a little

1256
00:53:23,480 --> 00:53:27,359
Speaker 2: more grace in that. Yeah, however, little weird that she's

1257
00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:29,919
Speaker 2: actively excluding you when she can't and when you don't

1258
00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:30,279
Speaker 2: even go.

1259
00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:33,279
Speaker 7: Yeah, she probably knows that, and she's like using that

1260
00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:35,920
Speaker 7: to her like Jess is using that to her powers.

1261
00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:37,799
Speaker 7: Like I know she doesn't want to do that. Yeah,

1262
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:38,600
Speaker 7: I'm helping her.

1263
00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:41,520
Speaker 2: Mark only sees them for the Christmas holidays, so I

1264
00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:43,719
Speaker 2: do not mind that he goes to the party without me.

1265
00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:45,360
Speaker 2: The rest of the group is nice to me, and

1266
00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:47,520
Speaker 2: he shouldn't miss out on seeing all of them. Because

1267
00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:49,760
Speaker 2: the one girl who married into the group is hosting

1268
00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:52,839
Speaker 2: and bans me. And now that it's December twenty twenty five,

1269
00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:56,080
Speaker 2: current day, she is banning me from her wedding. Luke

1270
00:53:56,160 --> 00:53:59,680
Speaker 2: proposed they're getting married summer twenty twenty six, very soon,

1271
00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:01,759
Speaker 2: and he asked Mark to be in the wedding. They

1272
00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:04,880
Speaker 2: have been best friends their entire life, but Jess immediately

1273
00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:08,400
Speaker 2: reminded him that I'm not allowed to attend I as Mark.

1274
00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:09,719
Speaker 3: Would not go.

1275
00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:15,160
Speaker 2: I would not go if my girlfriend of three years,

1276
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:18,000
Speaker 2: well how long now, probably three.

1277
00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:21,399
Speaker 7: Years, maybe twenty twenty two about it's going to be.

1278
00:54:21,320 --> 00:54:23,240
Speaker 3: Twenty twenty six the wedding, so.

1279
00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:26,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, so probably about three and a half years at

1280
00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:31,600
Speaker 2: this point. Yeah, is not as explicitly uninvited for no reason.

1281
00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:35,640
Speaker 2: The only time Jess has ever interacted with Ope is

1282
00:54:35,680 --> 00:54:37,360
Speaker 2: to say hi, I'm Jessy.

1283
00:54:37,680 --> 00:54:39,320
Speaker 7: And it was a friendly it was it wasn't friendly,

1284
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:42,800
Speaker 7: but it was like very civil no no no argument,

1285
00:54:42,960 --> 00:54:44,040
Speaker 7: no like hate.

1286
00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 3: Ye supposedly just seemed friendly.

1287
00:54:46,880 --> 00:54:50,560
Speaker 2: And if Mark really wants or if Luke really wants

1288
00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:52,239
Speaker 2: Mark in the wedding, then I'll talk to Jess and

1289
00:54:52,239 --> 00:54:55,920
Speaker 2: be like, hey, it's not acceptable. You can't ban the

1290
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:59,279
Speaker 2: person I want in my like seemingly groomsmen, you know,

1291
00:54:59,360 --> 00:55:03,120
Speaker 2: or as one of my rooms men from bringing his girlfriend. Yeah,

1292
00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:06,239
Speaker 2: I feel like Mark needs to talk. I mean, he

1293
00:55:06,480 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 2: seemed like he's already tried talking to Luke. He did

1294
00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:12,920
Speaker 2: try talking to her about the New Year's stuff. But

1295
00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:15,520
Speaker 2: I would try to talk to Jess directly again and

1296
00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:17,520
Speaker 2: be like, what's your problem? And if that doesn't work,

1297
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:20,680
Speaker 2: like I would as ope talk to her and be like, hey,

1298
00:55:20,719 --> 00:55:23,440
Speaker 2: like is there anything that I did to offend you? Like?

1299
00:55:23,920 --> 00:55:24,239
Speaker 3: Is there?

1300
00:55:24,840 --> 00:55:27,319
Speaker 2: I didn't really think that we had much of a

1301
00:55:27,320 --> 00:55:31,279
Speaker 2: relationship at all, much less where I have hurt you

1302
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:33,839
Speaker 2: at all, Like, yeah, what's going on?

1303
00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:36,360
Speaker 7: If I were if this was like a scenario for

1304
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:40,040
Speaker 7: me where my best friend partner didn't like my partner

1305
00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:44,080
Speaker 7: just because I'd be like, we we're adults, we are adults.

1306
00:55:44,200 --> 00:55:46,759
Speaker 7: What if it's like she did something to you back

1307
00:55:46,760 --> 00:55:48,640
Speaker 7: in the day and like it was very like vicious

1308
00:55:48,719 --> 00:55:50,920
Speaker 7: or like toxic. Okay, I get it, but like she

1309
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:52,279
Speaker 7: did nothing to you?

1310
00:55:52,719 --> 00:55:57,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, every other groomsman gets a plus one. Mark

1311
00:55:57,400 --> 00:55:59,720
Speaker 2: is the only one who doesn't because I'm a slute

1312
00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:04,120
Speaker 2: the golden Wait, Yeah, what's so crazy? I genuinely believe

1313
00:56:04,200 --> 00:56:07,600
Speaker 2: brides can invite or exclude whoever they want from their wedding.

1314
00:56:07,800 --> 00:56:10,520
Speaker 2: It's their day, their money, They're guestless. If just wants

1315
00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:12,759
Speaker 2: to ban half the state or not invite her own mother,

1316
00:56:12,880 --> 00:56:15,239
Speaker 2: that would be her choice. So I'm not hurt or

1317
00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:18,400
Speaker 2: offended by not being invited. When Mark told me, I laughed.

1318
00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:21,439
Speaker 2: He was genuinely upset, though, And this is why I'm

1319
00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:24,080
Speaker 2: coming to Reddit. I'm wondering if you would cut off

1320
00:56:24,120 --> 00:56:27,280
Speaker 2: your entire friend group because of this one girl marrying

1321
00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:29,799
Speaker 2: into the group. Anyways, this doesn't hurt me, It only

1322
00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:33,360
Speaker 2: hurts him. It puts him in an unfair and humiliating position.

1323
00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:35,440
Speaker 2: Not only does he have to share the news with

1324
00:56:35,520 --> 00:56:37,600
Speaker 2: me and hope I don't get upset at him, but

1325
00:56:37,640 --> 00:56:39,880
Speaker 2: he also has to attend alone and watch all the

1326
00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:43,360
Speaker 2: other couples celebrate together. He has one single friend, Adam,

1327
00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:46,160
Speaker 2: who's also in the wedding party. I asked him if Adam,

1328
00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:47,880
Speaker 2: a single man, gets a plus one.

1329
00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 3: He said yes.

1330
00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:51,160
Speaker 2: If Adam finds a girlfriend within the next six months,

1331
00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:52,440
Speaker 2: then she'd most likely.

1332
00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:53,120
Speaker 3: Be allowed to come.

1333
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:56,239
Speaker 2: If Jess sees her Instagram beforehand and approves of her

1334
00:56:56,520 --> 00:57:02,440
Speaker 2: roh just so insecurely, insecure, so insecure, she just sees

1335
00:57:02,520 --> 00:57:05,239
Speaker 2: like a hawk girl online. She's like, I need my

1336
00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:07,400
Speaker 2: man follow away from these women.

1337
00:57:08,000 --> 00:57:10,600
Speaker 3: If he sees her at our wedding, he's leave me.

1338
00:57:11,160 --> 00:57:15,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like, dude, you should not be marrying someone that's obscure.

1339
00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:17,200
Speaker 4: First of all, it just should not be getting married

1340
00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:21,520
Speaker 4: when you are that insecure about your relationship.

1341
00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:22,480
Speaker 3: You one hundred percent.

1342
00:57:22,920 --> 00:57:26,360
Speaker 2: And also in terms of Op's question of like, should

1343
00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:28,160
Speaker 2: Matt cut off the entire friend group if they're not

1344
00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:30,760
Speaker 2: supporting him, if he goes to them and says, hey,

1345
00:57:31,280 --> 00:57:34,320
Speaker 2: Jess has been pretty awful to my girlfriend, and Luke's

1346
00:57:34,320 --> 00:57:37,919
Speaker 2: been letting it slide for three years. I'm not gonna

1347
00:57:37,960 --> 00:57:39,560
Speaker 2: be at this wedding or I'm not going to be

1348
00:57:39,560 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 2: around them anymore. I would still love to be friends

1349
00:57:42,040 --> 00:57:44,480
Speaker 2: with you guys, but I you know, yeah, I just

1350
00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:46,200
Speaker 2: want you guys to know I haven't really felt any

1351
00:57:46,200 --> 00:57:46,720
Speaker 2: support in.

1352
00:57:46,680 --> 00:57:49,560
Speaker 7: That at this point. We're just enabling Jess just to

1353
00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:52,240
Speaker 7: keep getting away with it. I would also ask Luke,

1354
00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:54,160
Speaker 7: I'm like, do you want to marry this person? Because

1355
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:56,680
Speaker 7: if she's controlling something outside of the relationship, what is

1356
00:57:56,680 --> 00:57:58,800
Speaker 7: she doing inside? Of your relationship July.

1357
00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:02,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, is he really okay with not liking people

1358
00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 2: and excluding people just because Jess doesn't like them?

1359
00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:05,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, and there's.

1360
00:58:05,480 --> 00:58:09,840
Speaker 2: Seemingly no reason for her to not like them. Yeah.

1361
00:58:08,800 --> 00:58:13,800
Speaker 2: I would very much be reconsidering going to this wedding

1362
00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:17,280
Speaker 2: if this was the behavior. Because I agree with you, Kian,

1363
00:58:17,400 --> 00:58:20,520
Speaker 2: I don't. I think that's just letting the behavior happen

1364
00:58:20,640 --> 00:58:21,160
Speaker 2: and get.

1365
00:58:20,960 --> 00:58:21,560
Speaker 3: Worse and worse.

1366
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:25,960
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's at this point, like, Yeah, I would be

1367
00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:29,640
Speaker 7: questioning his Luke's relationship so much.

1368
00:58:30,360 --> 00:58:30,800
Speaker 3: There's more.

1369
00:58:31,000 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 2: Jess is purposely going out of her way to hurt Mark.

1370
00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:36,840
Speaker 2: I don't know why. I think that she thinks that

1371
00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:40,000
Speaker 2: will convince him to leave me. This seems like child's play.

1372
00:58:40,400 --> 00:58:44,400
Speaker 2: Is this normal or disrespectful? Disrespectful? It's super disrespectful.

1373
00:58:44,440 --> 00:58:46,600
Speaker 3: He admits it's messed up for both his friends to

1374
00:58:46,640 --> 00:58:48,960
Speaker 3: do this and says he'd never do that to them,

1375
00:58:49,280 --> 00:58:51,440
Speaker 3: But he also says he would never skip their wedding

1376
00:58:51,520 --> 00:58:52,880
Speaker 3: and would never cut them off.

1377
00:58:53,160 --> 00:58:55,720
Speaker 2: I would never ask him to do those things. I

1378
00:58:55,760 --> 00:58:57,640
Speaker 2: don't care that he hangs out with a woman three

1379
00:58:57,680 --> 00:58:59,840
Speaker 2: times a year who hates me because she's married to

1380
00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:02,360
Speaker 2: his best middle school friend. Lol.

1381
00:59:02,720 --> 00:59:03,680
Speaker 3: After Mark told me.

1382
00:59:03,640 --> 00:59:06,320
Speaker 2: This, I brought up something else that matters. Two weeks ago,

1383
00:59:06,360 --> 00:59:10,120
Speaker 2: his uncle godfather passed away unexpectedly. He had to fly

1384
00:59:10,200 --> 00:59:12,640
Speaker 2: in for the weekend, and the wake was on Thursday

1385
00:59:12,720 --> 00:59:15,600
Speaker 2: and the funeral was on Friday. The wake and funeral

1386
00:59:15,640 --> 00:59:17,439
Speaker 2: were ten minutes from Jess and Luke.

1387
00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:20,120
Speaker 3: They didn't bother to show up to either, not even

1388
00:59:20,160 --> 00:59:23,040
Speaker 3: a condolence visit. The wake was like eight hours long.

1389
00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:25,400
Speaker 2: For IF's sake, my cat passed away and my ex

1390
00:59:25,440 --> 00:59:28,320
Speaker 2: boyfriend's family sent me a fruit basket. Your best friend

1391
00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:31,280
Speaker 2: loses his uncle unexpectedly and you send us sorry for

1392
00:59:31,320 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 2: your lost text. I just oh, and you said it's

1393
00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:35,600
Speaker 2: sorry for your lost text. I just feel like they

1394
00:59:35,600 --> 00:59:37,920
Speaker 2: aren't being very nice to him at all, So they

1395
00:59:37,920 --> 00:59:40,560
Speaker 2: don't support his relationship, and they don't support him when

1396
00:59:40,560 --> 00:59:41,560
Speaker 2: someone passes away.

1397
00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:44,760
Speaker 3: There is a little bit left to this story. Any

1398
00:59:44,840 --> 00:59:45,840
Speaker 3: final thoughts.

1399
00:59:46,040 --> 00:59:49,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think uh, Mark is just holding onto that

1400
00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:52,720
Speaker 4: friendship with Luke because of the years invested and the

1401
00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:54,480
Speaker 4: history that they've probably gone through.

1402
00:59:54,880 --> 00:59:56,120
Speaker 3: But I think he.

1403
00:59:56,040 --> 00:59:59,520
Speaker 2: Really needs to reconsider that friendship. I don't think he

1404
00:59:59,560 --> 01:00:01,560
Speaker 2: needs to like had him off, but maybe just like

1405
01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:04,440
Speaker 2: distance himself a little bit, see if this is really

1406
01:00:04,680 --> 01:00:07,320
Speaker 2: anything that's bringing value to his life.

1407
01:00:07,560 --> 01:00:10,959
Speaker 7: Like I feel like somebody's a call Jess. I think,

1408
01:00:11,200 --> 01:00:14,880
Speaker 7: oh yeah, totally, and maybe it's maybe it's happened, but

1409
01:00:14,920 --> 01:00:17,919
Speaker 7: it needs to be like Jess, she needs to have consequences. Yeah,

1410
01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:19,920
Speaker 7: she can't keep getting away with this kind of thing.

1411
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:23,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, And I think if Mark keeps showing up,

1412
01:00:23,360 --> 01:00:26,080
Speaker 2: then she will realize, oh, I can keep getting away

1413
01:00:26,080 --> 01:00:27,480
Speaker 2: with it, right, Because the only.

1414
01:00:27,320 --> 01:00:30,360
Speaker 4: Thing that might convince her is like if Luke misses

1415
01:00:30,360 --> 01:00:33,040
Speaker 4: having Mark around so much, but she's basically excluding him

1416
01:00:33,040 --> 01:00:36,760
Speaker 4: because he's she's excluding his girlfriend, then it might convince

1417
01:00:36,800 --> 01:00:40,000
Speaker 4: her to like lower the amount of craziness.

1418
01:00:40,120 --> 01:00:44,640
Speaker 7: Yeah, but I also like looking at Ope Opie's mentality

1419
01:00:44,880 --> 01:00:47,960
Speaker 7: going about this is very positive and she knows it's

1420
01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:51,560
Speaker 7: very hard for her partner, and which she's like, it's

1421
01:00:51,600 --> 01:00:53,240
Speaker 7: their wedding, they can do whatever they want, but it

1422
01:00:53,360 --> 01:00:57,000
Speaker 7: just it's it's she sees how much it's hurting her partner. Yeah,

1423
01:00:57,040 --> 01:00:57,600
Speaker 7: which sucks.

1424
01:00:57,840 --> 01:00:58,240
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1425
01:00:58,280 --> 01:01:00,520
Speaker 2: So I guess my question is what do you do

1426
01:01:00,640 --> 01:01:03,280
Speaker 2: if you were in his position? Is this just wedding

1427
01:01:03,400 --> 01:01:05,840
Speaker 2: politics or is this a sign that my boyfriend is

1428
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:09,120
Speaker 2: way too comfortable letting his two friends disrespect both him

1429
01:01:09,520 --> 01:01:12,960
Speaker 2: and our relationship. Should he cut the entire group off

1430
01:01:12,960 --> 01:01:15,800
Speaker 2: because one girl doesn't like me? Should he only cut

1431
01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:18,600
Speaker 2: her groom off? Is it normal for a bride to

1432
01:01:18,680 --> 01:01:21,920
Speaker 2: single out only one groomsman and ban his long term partner?

1433
01:01:22,280 --> 01:01:24,320
Speaker 2: Is it even worth a big fuss when this is

1434
01:01:24,360 --> 01:01:27,200
Speaker 2: no longer his primary group of friends and he rarely

1435
01:01:27,240 --> 01:01:30,800
Speaker 2: sees them anyways. Oh if he rarely sees them anyways,

1436
01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:33,880
Speaker 2: then it should be easier. Yeah.

1437
01:01:33,920 --> 01:01:36,200
Speaker 4: But also I guess that makes me kind of feel

1438
01:01:36,240 --> 01:01:39,120
Speaker 4: better about the situation. Then if it's like were suggesting

1439
01:01:39,160 --> 01:01:41,640
Speaker 4: low contacts and some distance, they already kind of have that,

1440
01:01:41,760 --> 01:01:43,200
Speaker 4: then Yeah.

1441
01:01:43,280 --> 01:01:46,400
Speaker 2: The thing is, I just would not allow this type

1442
01:01:46,440 --> 01:01:49,840
Speaker 2: of disrespect to slide if it was my partner. Yeah,

1443
01:01:49,880 --> 01:01:52,280
Speaker 2: Like if someone actively said, like, I don't like your

1444
01:01:52,280 --> 01:01:55,680
Speaker 2: partner for no reason, no reason, was like, no, they're

1445
01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:57,480
Speaker 2: not allowed to come to the wedding because I don't

1446
01:01:57,560 --> 01:01:59,560
Speaker 2: like them, Yeah, And they're not allowed to come to

1447
01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:01,360
Speaker 2: this party because I don't like them, I'd be like, Okay,

1448
01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:03,120
Speaker 2: well I'm not going to those things.

1449
01:02:03,160 --> 01:02:05,280
Speaker 7: Yes, yeah, my partner and I are team.

1450
01:02:05,760 --> 01:02:08,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, Because what happens like when we get married, like,

1451
01:02:08,400 --> 01:02:09,800
Speaker 2: I'm not going to leave my wife at home.

1452
01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:11,520
Speaker 3: No, well it seems like Mark.

1453
01:02:11,360 --> 01:02:13,040
Speaker 2: Would do that right now, So I feel like you

1454
01:02:13,120 --> 01:02:16,240
Speaker 2: need he needs to really evaluate where the line is.

1455
01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:19,680
Speaker 2: Totally keep in mind, this issue does not affect mine

1456
01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:22,560
Speaker 2: and his relationship. It affects his relationship with his friends,

1457
01:02:22,600 --> 01:02:24,960
Speaker 2: which is why I added the relationship layer. And that's

1458
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:28,000
Speaker 2: the end of that story. I think he's got to

1459
01:02:28,080 --> 01:02:31,520
Speaker 2: confront Luke and maybe cut off that relationship with Luke

1460
01:02:31,560 --> 01:02:33,880
Speaker 2: and Jess. Yeah, I feel likes to cut it off

1461
01:02:33,920 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 2: with all of the friends.

1462
01:02:34,560 --> 01:02:36,720
Speaker 7: I feel like it's going to be like after the wedding.

1463
01:02:36,920 --> 01:02:40,400
Speaker 7: It's kind of like, wow, you've been ruling what I

1464
01:02:40,440 --> 01:02:43,919
Speaker 7: can do and can't do with my partner in these situations,

1465
01:02:44,200 --> 01:02:48,200
Speaker 7: and already our relationships on you know, not built on

1466
01:02:48,320 --> 01:02:51,280
Speaker 7: sand anymore. But it's just like we're distinct ourselves, we're

1467
01:02:51,320 --> 01:02:54,280
Speaker 7: growing apart, and that's that's that happens. But someone needs

1468
01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:56,200
Speaker 7: to call out Luke, someone needs to call out Jess

1469
01:02:56,360 --> 01:02:57,480
Speaker 7: because this isn't cool.

1470
01:02:57,840 --> 01:03:00,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, reed, Yeah, And if it's I'm not really like

1471
01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:05,040
Speaker 2: affecting op in Mark's relationships and like that's great, but

1472
01:03:05,200 --> 01:03:05,760
Speaker 2: that is good.

1473
01:03:06,040 --> 01:03:07,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I mean, I.

1474
01:03:07,520 --> 01:03:10,520
Speaker 2: Guess it's too distraught about it then, like I would,

1475
01:03:10,640 --> 01:03:11,560
Speaker 2: I would want OPI.

1476
01:03:11,480 --> 01:03:14,400
Speaker 3: To talk to Jess directly, But yeah, I guess the.

1477
01:03:14,360 --> 01:03:16,600
Speaker 2: Focus would just be on Luke see or Mark and

1478
01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:19,120
Speaker 2: see what he wants to do about that friendship. Agreed,

1479
01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:24,040
Speaker 2: But we've got some comments from the video My wife

1480
01:03:24,120 --> 01:03:27,960
Speaker 2: cheated with my best friend? Oh man and this was

1481
01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:31,960
Speaker 2: posted October twenty third, twenty twenty five, Tiodr says from

1482
01:03:32,000 --> 01:03:34,800
Speaker 2: story one, Opie's wife started spending a lot of time

1483
01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:38,960
Speaker 2: with his best friend after both had lost loved ones.

1484
01:03:39,040 --> 01:03:42,520
Speaker 2: What began as support turned into cheating. Emotional at first,

1485
01:03:42,680 --> 01:03:46,040
Speaker 2: then physical. Opie got them in the act, started divorce proceedings,

1486
01:03:46,120 --> 01:03:49,480
Speaker 2: and eventually finalized the divorce. Now he's trying to move on,

1487
01:03:49,600 --> 01:03:52,040
Speaker 2: but the ex wife recently had a stroke, leaving him

1488
01:03:52,040 --> 01:03:55,600
Speaker 2: feel guilty and powerless. If you're curious to know the

1489
01:03:55,640 --> 01:03:57,440
Speaker 2: full story, you can go watch the full video.

1490
01:03:57,680 --> 01:03:59,680
Speaker 3: Dang, and we've got some comments.

1491
01:04:00,240 --> 01:04:01,080
Speaker 7: Do you remember this one?

1492
01:04:01,200 --> 01:04:05,920
Speaker 3: Honestly? Not that well? No, yeah, see what these comments say,

1493
01:04:05,960 --> 01:04:08,480
Speaker 3: But that last sentence gives me like a vague.

1494
01:04:10,400 --> 01:04:13,760
Speaker 2: Memory of it. But everything else is like a million stories,

1495
01:04:13,840 --> 01:04:14,200
Speaker 2: just like it.

1496
01:04:14,560 --> 01:04:17,040
Speaker 7: Yeah, and we do have some comments here. First comment

1497
01:04:17,120 --> 01:04:22,120
Speaker 7: by ccjl M eight h They say, first story, it

1498
01:04:22,240 --> 01:04:25,160
Speaker 7: is not Opie's fault. The ex wife never accepted the

1499
01:04:25,200 --> 01:04:26,720
Speaker 7: consequences and never moved on.

1500
01:04:27,120 --> 01:04:29,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I don't.

1501
01:04:30,400 --> 01:04:34,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, you're probably right, probably uh.

1502
01:04:35,040 --> 01:04:39,000
Speaker 7: Following up with a comment by sugar Love seventy five saying,

1503
01:04:39,160 --> 01:04:42,360
Speaker 7: this poor man whose wife was cheating with his best friend.

1504
01:04:42,680 --> 01:04:45,560
Speaker 7: I am flabbergasted that her family is blaming him. They

1505
01:04:45,640 --> 01:04:49,600
Speaker 7: need to look at Sue as she caused all of

1506
01:04:49,640 --> 01:04:50,480
Speaker 7: her own stress.

1507
01:04:50,600 --> 01:04:52,720
Speaker 3: That's crazy to blame the guy that got cheated.

1508
01:04:53,160 --> 01:04:54,919
Speaker 2: I know, I feel like that happens so much.

1509
01:04:55,280 --> 01:04:57,960
Speaker 7: I kind of remember that because everyone was like, how

1510
01:04:58,080 --> 01:05:00,360
Speaker 7: dare you leave her in her time with me? Kind

1511
01:05:00,360 --> 01:05:00,640
Speaker 7: of thing.

1512
01:05:00,960 --> 01:05:02,880
Speaker 3: Wow, maybe she cheated on me?

1513
01:05:03,200 --> 01:05:07,120
Speaker 7: Yeah. Another comment here by Chris A. Todd says, the

1514
01:05:07,120 --> 01:05:09,560
Speaker 7: way the cheating wife said, I didn't think anyone would

1515
01:05:09,560 --> 01:05:12,400
Speaker 7: be hurt by me basically betraying you girl? What?

1516
01:05:12,760 --> 01:05:15,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean cheating you on, cheating on you shouldn't

1517
01:05:15,400 --> 01:05:16,360
Speaker 3: have done anything.

1518
01:05:16,600 --> 01:05:16,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1519
01:05:16,960 --> 01:05:18,160
Speaker 3: I didn't think it was that bad.

1520
01:05:18,280 --> 01:05:20,320
Speaker 7: I didn't know I actually had consequences.

1521
01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:21,560
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

1522
01:05:21,840 --> 01:05:24,920
Speaker 7: Uh. And one last comment here by Brittany Rice seventy

1523
01:05:24,920 --> 01:05:28,320
Speaker 7: three thirty eight, saying in the first story, opie excuse

1524
01:05:28,360 --> 01:05:30,800
Speaker 7: for cheating was low self esteem and self worth, but

1525
01:05:30,920 --> 01:05:33,640
Speaker 7: she is confident allowed to ope to date other people

1526
01:05:33,640 --> 01:05:35,920
Speaker 7: and think he will come back to her, that she

1527
01:05:36,000 --> 01:05:39,439
Speaker 7: can handle open marriage. People mess up, taking no accountability,

1528
01:05:39,480 --> 01:05:42,040
Speaker 7: then come up with the dumbest solutions. She threw out

1529
01:05:42,040 --> 01:05:44,080
Speaker 7: the marriage, not Opie. True.

1530
01:05:44,400 --> 01:05:46,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, you cheat, relationships done.

1531
01:05:47,040 --> 01:05:49,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's almost like when people cheat, it's like all

1532
01:05:49,960 --> 01:05:54,120
Speaker 4: any like resemblance of logic that they have is yeah.

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Speaker 7: It's out the window. Yeah. They always blame from the

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Speaker 7: stories we always read sometime we've heard like the craziest things.

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Speaker 7: We're like, it's your fault. You made me cheat. I

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Speaker 7: didn't cheat because I wanted to cheat. You made me cheat.

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Speaker 3: Right, does make sense.

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Speaker 7: But now we can get back together because I cheated

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Speaker 7: and I got that all out of my system. I

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Speaker 7: love you. It was your fault, but we're good, right, Like.

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Speaker 2: It's fine, Like it doesn't it's not that bad. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's crazy crazy.

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Speaker 7: But that is the end of those comments and the

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Speaker 7: end of this episode.

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Speaker 2: So if you love us, make sure to subscribe. We

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Speaker 2: love you and see you tomorrow,