1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,040 Speaker 1: This is the Fread Show. Kelly Clarksony is returning to 2 00:00:03,080 --> 00:00:05,960 Speaker 1: Las Vegas in twenty twenty six for her studio Sessions 3 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 1: Las Vegas Residency. You can enter it now for a 4 00:00:09,520 --> 00:00:11,400 Speaker 1: chance to win a trip for two to the July 5 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 1: twenty fourth show, a two night hotel day at Flamingo 6 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:17,320 Speaker 1: Hotel and Casino in Las Vegas July twenty third through 7 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:21,279 Speaker 1: the twenty fifth, and round trip airfare. Text breakaway to 8 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:24,599 Speaker 1: five seven, seven three nine right now for a chance 9 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 1: to win. A confirmation text will be sent. Standard message 10 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 1: and data rates may apply. All thanks to Live Nation. 11 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 1: Never been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show, Atlanta. 12 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:39,080 Speaker 1: Good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you? I'm Garri, 13 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 1: You a all right? What's going on with this guy? 14 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:43,239 Speaker 1: Trey On waiting by the phone? We need to know 15 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 1: kind of the whole backstory. How did you guys meet? 16 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 1: We want to hear about any dates you've been on 17 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 1: and then why you think you're being ghosted? 18 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:52,639 Speaker 2: Okay, so we met. 19 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 3: This fight flam dating app on Hinge. 20 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:55,639 Speaker 2: We had a really good date. 21 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 3: Fight even slept over as ah and I thought it was, 22 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:05,760 Speaker 3: you know, a good time. 23 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:07,920 Speaker 2: So I don't really know what the issue is. 24 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 3: But he doesn't call me back, he hasn't. 25 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 2: Reached out, and he's basically just go see me. So okay, 26 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 2: I would like to know what's going on. 27 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's frustrating. A good date, enough of a connection 28 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 1: that you all messed around a little bit, you know, 29 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 1: whatever y'all did, whatever people who love each other do, 30 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:27,960 Speaker 1: and yet you don't hear from this person. So it's like, 31 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 1: wait a minute, you know, even if I mean, we're 32 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 1: all grown ups here so that we make choices. But 33 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 1: at the same time, I say, wait, mante, if I 34 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 1: had a good time, no matter what happened, if I 35 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 1: had a good time, and then this person's not calling, 36 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 1: you know what am I missing? Right? 37 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 2: Like? 38 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 1: Where where is the disconnect? I'm sure is what you're wondering. 39 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 3: Yeah exactly. 40 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:45,319 Speaker 2: I'm just confused because in my mind everything was great. 41 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, okay, Well, let's play a song. We'll come 42 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 1: back in a couple of minutes. We'll call this guy Tray. 43 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone. We're going to ask these 44 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 1: questions on your behalf. At some point you're welcome to 45 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 1: jump in on the call. And you were always hoping 46 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 1: that we can straighten, straighten this all out, and then 47 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: set you guys up on another date and pay for it. 48 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 4: Okay, Elena, all right, let's call this guy Trey. 49 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:08,640 Speaker 1: You met on one of the dating apps. You guys chatted, 50 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 1: you planned a date, you went on this date. You 51 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 1: felt like everything went really well. I mean the date 52 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 1: even ended with you guys looking up. Except you haven't 53 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 1: heard from this dude Trey since all of that, and 54 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:19,680 Speaker 1: you want to know why it's bothering you, as what 55 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:20,600 Speaker 1: a lot of people I think. 56 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 2: Yep, that's pretty much it. I'm just a little confused. 57 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:26,079 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, let's see if we can figure this out. 58 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 1: Right now. We're gonna call Trey. Good luck, Elena. Hello, Hi, 59 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 1: is this Trey? Y Hey, Trey, good morning. My name 60 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 1: is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show, the morning 61 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 1: radio show, and I have to tell you that we 62 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 1: are on the radio right now and I would need 63 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 1: your permission to continue with the call. Can we chat 64 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:52,519 Speaker 1: for a second? You can hang up anytime. I know 65 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:54,680 Speaker 1: it's a little bit startling to hear from us like this. 66 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 2: I know. 67 00:02:58,160 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 1: Sorry you said it's a show. Yeah, yeah, it's okay, 68 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:03,800 Speaker 1: you don't. I mean, it's a little bit of an 69 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 1: ego bruise. You don't know who we are, but that's fine. 70 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 1: We're on the radio and we're calling on behalf of 71 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 1: a woman named Elana. Do you remember meeting her on 72 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 1: the dating apps and going on a date with her? 73 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 1: Oh my god? Oh yeah, are you calling? Are you 74 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 1: calling about her? 75 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 5: Yes? 76 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: Yes, No, we were just we know her. We're just 77 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 1: calling to shoot the shoot the breeze. No, we just 78 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 1: spoke with her tray and she told us about your date. 79 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:30,919 Speaker 1: And her problem is that she's confused as to why. 80 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 1: She feels like you're ghosting her and you haven't reached 81 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: out to her, responded to her, anything like that. So 82 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 1: she's hoping we can use at the bottom of why. 83 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:40,880 Speaker 6: Okay, it's okay, sure, what do you want to know? 84 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 1: It was gross? What do you want to know? Why 85 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 1: was it gross? Well? 86 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:48,160 Speaker 6: I mean okay, Well, first of all, like I I 87 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 6: understand that I can be a bit of a germophobe. Sure, sure, 88 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 6: but I really just like, there's no way I could 89 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 6: ever see her. It's just like it was not not 90 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 6: my bag. I wish you the best, but just absolutely 91 00:03:58,800 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 6: not no way. 92 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 1: What what happened? Though, Like you said, you're a germophobe. 93 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 1: I mean, we've just heard one recently and it was 94 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:07,840 Speaker 1: pretty wild. So I'm a little nervous about what you 95 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 1: might say. But like, what's the issue. 96 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 6: Well, No, it's not like na, I mean, I don't 97 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 6: it's not like, you know, like I'm trying not to 98 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 6: be nasty or anything. It like kind of makes my 99 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:19,200 Speaker 6: mouth like get all dry, like I feel like I'm 100 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:19,920 Speaker 6: gonna like dry. 101 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:21,719 Speaker 1: Heap or something. But I know, I don't know. 102 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 6: Well, it's just like she lets her dog, like her 103 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:28,160 Speaker 6: little her little dog, sleep in her bed with her, 104 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 6: and I just could not get over just the everything 105 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 6: the dog had, the foot prints, the slopper. 106 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 1: It's just this is a release. I was really might say, 107 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 1: that's your problem? Is it the dogs so gross? That 108 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:45,760 Speaker 1: is so nasty? 109 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 3: Why me back? 110 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 1: Oh, that's Elena. That's forgetful. I forget. I so caught 111 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:55,039 Speaker 1: up in his story. That's right, I forgot. Yeah, So 112 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:57,360 Speaker 1: that's the issue is that she lets her dog sleep 113 00:04:57,400 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 1: in the bed and you you're not a dog in 114 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 1: the bed, Absolutely not. That's a gross habit. Like the dog, 115 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:10,599 Speaker 1: the dog walking around the house, the dog's probably on 116 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:13,839 Speaker 1: the furniture, the dog is everywhere already. I guess you know, 117 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 1: we're big dog people around here, big animal people. But 118 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 1: I guess there's we've heard far worse than that, I mean, 119 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 1: and I don't think that's going to change, which I 120 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 1: guess is why you're not calling her it's nasty. What 121 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:28,840 Speaker 1: do you mean do you? 122 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:30,920 Speaker 2: I mean do that? 123 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 4: Yes, we know not a lot of people do that. 124 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 4: They know better than that. I don't like a dog 125 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 4: on the couch, dog. 126 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:40,159 Speaker 1: In the bed. No, are you? Are you serious? 127 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 3: Right now? 128 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 4: Do you walk outside barefoot and then marched back inside? 129 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 1: Sometimes that's. 130 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 4: Your dog is taking it outside and then walking around 131 00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:56,320 Speaker 4: in it and then tracking it back inside. And you're like, yeah, 132 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:57,599 Speaker 4: hop up on my pillow. 133 00:05:58,080 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 2: That is. 134 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 1: That's you're making feel insane. I mean, look, if we 135 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 1: get a little too cerebral about it, it's maybe not 136 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 1: the most cleanly thing. But but this is the dog 137 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:13,280 Speaker 1: isn't part of the family, you know, this is her dog. 138 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:15,479 Speaker 1: You're gonna kick a dog out every time? Like, no, 139 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:16,920 Speaker 1: you're not gonna kick a dog out every time. 140 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:22,040 Speaker 2: If dirt, like if his paws are really dirty or muddy, 141 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 2: I wipe them off, Like there's no, it's not like 142 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:26,839 Speaker 2: he's tracking everywhere. 143 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:31,280 Speaker 4: You said, if it's dirty, So do you do it 144 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 4: every time? Every time you bring the dog back inside? 145 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:35,359 Speaker 4: You washing his feet? 146 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:38,240 Speaker 2: Not like every time? 147 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 1: But all right, this is I will say, this is 148 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 1: a fundamental thing. Like you either are you're down with this? 149 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 1: So you're not down with this. We're not gonna convince 150 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 1: him of anything different of all the things. I can 151 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:52,240 Speaker 1: live with this, And I understand if you get if 152 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:55,000 Speaker 1: you think about it too much, you know it probably 153 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 1: isn't the cleanest thing. But we all love our dogs, 154 00:06:57,240 --> 00:06:59,719 Speaker 1: so we let him do it. Some people don't. Would 155 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:01,839 Speaker 1: you consider Trey? I mean, you liked her enough up 156 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:03,840 Speaker 1: until this point. You hooked up with her anyway in 157 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 1: the bed, this disgusting bed apparently, but you stayed there, 158 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 1: so it wasn't that big of a deal, at least 159 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 1: not enough to prevent you from hooking up with her. 160 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 1: So you liked her enough. I mean, you know, I 161 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 1: don't know. Maybe when you're over the dog sleeps on 162 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:19,200 Speaker 1: the and it's bad or something. Is there some compromise here? 163 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 1: I don't see a compromise. 164 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 6: Like I felt so awful afterwards. I had to go 165 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:27,240 Speaker 6: home and shower like three times and she just seems 166 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 6: like the kind of person who doesn't shower every day, 167 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 6: and I just don't want. 168 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 1: To be around that time. Shower now because the dog 169 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 1: sleeps in the bed, that's. 170 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 6: No way that is there's no way that there is 171 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 6: hygiene is being practiced in that house. 172 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 1: All right, Well, I don't know, I really don't like you. 173 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:48,560 Speaker 1: I don't know about all that. But look, so Trey's 174 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 1: not interested Atlanta. I don't know you're going to find 175 00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 1: a dog person who thinks this is normal and fine 176 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 1: because they do it too, and so this guy's just 177 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:59,760 Speaker 1: not You're not in the same wavelength. I'm sorry, that's okay. 178 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 2: I'm good on this. I think he's being completely ridiculous. 179 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 1: So, I mean, I think everybody here lets their animals 180 00:08:06,200 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 1: on the bed, and everybody in here showers at least 181 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 1: once a week, so I think at least so yeahpe 182 00:08:11,880 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 1: every time? Right, Ye? All right, guys, it's not going 183 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 1: to work out. I'm sorry. Best of luck to both 184 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 1: of you. Yeah, fine, this is the Fresh Show. Kelly 185 00:08:19,800 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 1: Clarkson is returning to Las Vegas in twenty twenty six 186 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 1: for her studio Sessions Las Vegas Residency. You can enter 187 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 1: it now for a chance to win a trip for 188 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 1: two to the July twenty fourth show, a two night 189 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 1: hotel state at Flamingo Hotel and Casino in Las Vegas 190 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 1: July twenty third through the twenty fifth and round trip airfare. 191 00:08:37,640 --> 00:08:41,839 Speaker 1: Text breakaway to five seven, seven three nine right now 192 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 1: for a chance to win. A confirmation text will be 193 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:47,079 Speaker 1: sent standard message and data rates may apply. All thanks 194 00:08:47,080 --> 00:08:52,480 Speaker 1: to Live Nation. Order up a fresh shows rise the 195 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 1: Honorable Judge Kikilik. All right, Jiky, what's the case? 196 00:08:57,800 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 7: All right, let's step in the courtroom. The gabble has 197 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:00,600 Speaker 7: been hit. 198 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 8: It says, hey, Kiki, am I wrong for refusing to 199 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 8: be my family's help fund. I'm thirty three years old 200 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 8: and I survived a very serious truck accident. After surgeries, 201 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:17,120 Speaker 8: rehab and losing my job, I received a seven figure settlement. 202 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 8: I paid my medical bills, I bought a modest home. 203 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 8: I invested and saved money in case I develop future 204 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 8: medical issues. But the problem is my family knows that 205 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 8: I that I have this money, and they keep asking. 206 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 7: My sister's behind on rent. 207 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 8: My brother's car is about to be repossessed, and my 208 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 8: mom says that this is my moment to step up 209 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:41,640 Speaker 8: since I don't have kids and I got lucky. 210 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:44,079 Speaker 9: They even put out you got lucky by getting a 211 00:09:44,120 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 9: hit by a truck, right, Like, girl, what they eat 212 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:47,679 Speaker 9: you lucky? 213 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 1: You're lucky. Your daughter's still alive. That is what you're 214 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 1: lucky about. Yeah. Sorry. 215 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:54,600 Speaker 8: They even put my mom up to ax for fifty 216 00:09:54,679 --> 00:09:57,079 Speaker 8: thousand dollars in a group chat so that I can 217 00:09:57,120 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 8: help everyone get ahead. I said no, and now I'm 218 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 8: being called selfish. I've gotten cut out of family events 219 00:10:04,400 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 8: and I feel like I'm being iced out. I'm scared 220 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:09,720 Speaker 8: that once I give up some money it won't stop. 221 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:12,680 Speaker 8: Am I wrong for protecting my settlement instead of saving 222 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 8: my family? 223 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 1: Okay, you guys are the jury. By the way, eight 224 00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:19,560 Speaker 1: five five one three five, you can call text the 225 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 1: same number. Judge Kicky, What say you? 226 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:24,080 Speaker 7: I say you are not wrong? I say you are 227 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:24,600 Speaker 7: not wrong. 228 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 8: You know, I think it's very rude and inconsiderate of 229 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 8: your family to count your pockets first of all, and 230 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:34,720 Speaker 8: then just assume that because you don't have children, that 231 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:37,800 Speaker 8: you have all this extra income to pay their bills 232 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:40,600 Speaker 8: and do things for them, Like I think you got 233 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:42,960 Speaker 8: a seven figure settlement You've seem like you've made some 234 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:46,319 Speaker 8: very responsible choices with the money, and I think that 235 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 8: that's You're right, that is your prerogative. 236 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 7: You don't owe anyone anything. 237 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 8: If you want to help your family out, sure that's kind, 238 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 8: that's being nice. But if you have a family that 239 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:57,400 Speaker 8: you know will take advantage of you, you are not wrong, 240 00:10:57,440 --> 00:11:00,000 Speaker 8: in my opinion, for protecting yourself and your investment. 241 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:00,920 Speaker 7: I don't think she's trying. 242 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:03,560 Speaker 1: You got some real nerve thinking you're entitled to someone's 243 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:07,320 Speaker 1: settlement money after they nearly. 244 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:11,800 Speaker 9: Died, righted hit by a truckie. She got lucky? What 245 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:13,959 Speaker 9: how do you get lucky? 246 00:11:14,120 --> 00:11:14,320 Speaker 1: No? 247 00:11:14,559 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 8: Like I didn't actually be hit by a truck Like, No, 248 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 8: I got a settlement to help me continue my life 249 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:21,200 Speaker 8: after surviving this car wreck. 250 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:22,199 Speaker 7: And she made a good point. 251 00:11:22,360 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 8: She put money aside because she could possibly develop future 252 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:26,640 Speaker 8: medical issues. 253 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 7: She may not be able to go back to work. 254 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:30,360 Speaker 8: What do I look like paying for your bills when 255 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:31,760 Speaker 8: you're able body and can go to work? 256 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 1: Right, Like, this may need to last me the rest 257 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 1: of my life, right because issues could arise to your point, 258 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 1: and then so I may need this. I got paid 259 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 1: a lot of money, obviously, because something really bad happened 260 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:46,480 Speaker 1: to me, and if I give it all away, well 261 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 1: that defeats the purpose. Then what am I gonna do 262 00:11:48,880 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 1: if I, for whatever reason, can't go back to work 263 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:55,040 Speaker 1: or I have to you know, leave my job again 264 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:58,839 Speaker 1: for further treatment or whatever else. It is no, huhuh. 265 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 1: You didn't win the lottery. And even if you did 266 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 1: win the lottery, you don't have to give it all 267 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:05,720 Speaker 1: to everybody else. I mean, you might share, but like again, 268 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:08,680 Speaker 1: this isn't the lottery. Now, something bad happened to you, 269 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 1: and now you're setting yourself up for future success or 270 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 1: at least you know, sort of buffer just in case. 271 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 8: But yeah, and even if I went to work and 272 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 8: was just a millionaire off of my work, that doesn't 273 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 8: give you the right to count my affairs and then 274 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 8: my money and tell me what to do with it. 275 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:25,439 Speaker 1: Correct, Man, you got lucky. You got hit by a truck, 276 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 1: You got lucky. 277 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 7: That's crazy. 278 00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:28,960 Speaker 1: Hey Delaney, how you doing? Good morning? 279 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 10: I'm well, how are you? 280 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 1: I'm doing all right? So what do you think Keykey's 281 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:36,160 Speaker 1: Court basically does this woman got a huge settlement from 282 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:38,400 Speaker 1: an accident that she was in, and now her family's 283 00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 1: coming for the dough. 284 00:12:41,040 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 10: It's ridiculous and expect it honestly. 285 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:48,440 Speaker 1: And you don't have to give anybody but any money, 286 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:50,200 Speaker 1: right like you don't have to You're not They're not 287 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:51,200 Speaker 1: entitled to anything. 288 00:12:52,360 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 10: They're absolutely not. And the fact that they're asking for 289 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 10: fifty k and not just a little bit of help, 290 00:12:57,720 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 10: it's really. 291 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:01,320 Speaker 1: What about to help did she needs? I mean again, 292 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 1: where did this money come from? It came from the 293 00:13:02,920 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 1: results of an accident where you almost lost you I'm 294 00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:07,320 Speaker 1: I'm assuming for that kind of payout you could have 295 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:10,199 Speaker 1: lost your relative and you're worried about how it benefits you. 296 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 5: Yeah. 297 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:14,320 Speaker 10: I don't like it absolutely. I mean they don't know 298 00:13:14,360 --> 00:13:16,520 Speaker 10: the long term damage. They don't know what she'll need 299 00:13:16,559 --> 00:13:19,480 Speaker 10: in the future. They're just thinking about right now them. 300 00:13:19,880 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, thank you, Delaney, have a good day. 301 00:13:23,240 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 10: Thank you you too. 302 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:31,559 Speaker 1: Yeah. Eight five Jamie Hi, Jamie, Hi, Jame, Good morning, 303 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:35,320 Speaker 1: Kiki's Court. What do you think I agree with Keky. 304 00:13:35,559 --> 00:13:37,840 Speaker 11: You know, the same thing happened to my mom. She 305 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:39,960 Speaker 11: got into a car accident, she got hit by a truck, 306 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:43,320 Speaker 11: and she won this youth settlement. But you know, no 307 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:46,960 Speaker 11: one's title makes them entitled to your money. I agree 308 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:49,000 Speaker 11: with her. She if she wants to put a little 309 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:53,240 Speaker 11: something aside, great, but otherwise, you know what, she owes 310 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:55,079 Speaker 11: them nothing and they should know. 311 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 2: Dad. 312 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's tough. I don't really mix money and friends 313 00:13:59,760 --> 00:14:02,440 Speaker 1: and family. I mean, I think the only way that 314 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:04,360 Speaker 1: I would be willing to do that is if I 315 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:06,400 Speaker 1: could give it as a gift. Yeah. I mean, if 316 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:08,839 Speaker 1: I really were in a financial position where I could 317 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 1: give you money and never have any expectation whatsoever that 318 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 1: I would get it back slash be resentful at why 319 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:18,200 Speaker 1: you're asking or how you spend it. And the problem 320 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:20,080 Speaker 1: is I don't have money like that, so I really 321 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 1: can't do it really right, you know, and I mean right. 322 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:24,520 Speaker 11: And the same thing happened with my mom. 323 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:25,560 Speaker 1: I mean, no. 324 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 11: One, no one expected her to get a handout from her. 325 00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:31,760 Speaker 11: You know, every once in a while she'd be like, 326 00:14:31,760 --> 00:14:32,880 Speaker 11: you know what, this is the only time in my 327 00:14:32,880 --> 00:14:34,400 Speaker 11: life I'll probably ever have money. 328 00:14:34,560 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 10: Here's maybe you. 329 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:38,360 Speaker 11: Know, a hundred bucks to go spend something on yourself. 330 00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:41,520 Speaker 11: But I mean, no one expected anything, and we wanted 331 00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 11: her to save that for, like this woman said, future 332 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 11: bills or future medical issues that maybe came from the accident. 333 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, thank you, Jamie, have a good day. 334 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:51,640 Speaker 11: Thank you you too. 335 00:14:51,680 --> 00:14:53,360 Speaker 1: By By, I mean to your point, like God forbid. 336 00:14:53,480 --> 00:14:55,200 Speaker 1: She goes back to work, it to life back in order, 337 00:14:55,240 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 1: and then there's some long standing you know issue where 338 00:14:57,320 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 1: something arises and then she can't work anymore. But she's 339 00:14:59,800 --> 00:15:01,320 Speaker 1: give all the money to her family because they're a 340 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 1: bunch of money grubbing you know, greedy people who are 341 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 1: able bodied. By the way, that's my thing. 342 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:09,560 Speaker 7: The entitlement is crazy and they're all coming for it. 343 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:11,600 Speaker 1: It's not just like one who's in a bad spot. 344 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:17,560 Speaker 1: They're all coming for it. Hey, Milton, Yes, sir, welcome Milton. 345 00:15:17,560 --> 00:15:19,240 Speaker 1: You heard Kiki's court, you heard the case. 346 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:22,240 Speaker 5: What do you think, man, I think she should use 347 00:15:22,320 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 5: that as a tool for distance herself, because what they're 348 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 5: doing is they're showing their lack of love for her. 349 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:31,520 Speaker 5: She went through that tragic event and that's just what 350 00:15:31,680 --> 00:15:35,280 Speaker 5: she got from enduring that. So how does them come 351 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:38,480 Speaker 5: with their hands out because they noticed she got that 352 00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 5: from that tragic event. 353 00:15:39,880 --> 00:15:41,120 Speaker 10: I'll use that as a reason to. 354 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 5: Get away from them, because it shows that they don't 355 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:45,480 Speaker 5: that they don't have much love for her. 356 00:15:45,640 --> 00:15:47,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna use the money I'm gonna build a 357 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:51,080 Speaker 1: I'm gonna build a moat around my house with alligators 358 00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 1: in it. I'm gonna put alligators in the moat. You 359 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:56,160 Speaker 1: can't even put a gate and a moat and you 360 00:15:56,200 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 1: can't even come over. This is what it's gonna be. 361 00:15:58,320 --> 00:16:01,520 Speaker 1: That's what I'm doing with the money. Yeah, with you, 362 00:16:01,680 --> 00:16:04,440 Speaker 1: Thank you, Milton, have a good day. You should have 363 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 1: hungry alligators in there. 364 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:08,760 Speaker 8: It's so unfortunate how money can like divide a family. 365 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 8: Oh yeah, you go through something horrific and now you're 366 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 8: losing your family, you know, attached to it because of 367 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 8: this settlement, and. 368 00:16:15,160 --> 00:16:19,920 Speaker 1: It's unfair because again, like I might need this, right Kendra, 369 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:20,560 Speaker 1: how you doing? 370 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:23,600 Speaker 2: Hi, I'm doing great, Candra? 371 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:25,360 Speaker 1: You heard this? What do you think? Yeah? Tell me. 372 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 12: I think that they should not be feeling entitled to 373 00:16:29,720 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 12: her money given her situation. Like y'all are grown adults. 374 00:16:34,360 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 12: If you're like, y'all are grown, like, figure out your 375 00:16:37,040 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 12: own situations that y'all have going on. Because if I 376 00:16:40,360 --> 00:16:42,600 Speaker 12: did not have this money, what she was going to do? 377 00:16:42,640 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 2: Then? 378 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 1: Right, right, right right? You need to approach this like 379 00:16:46,200 --> 00:16:48,360 Speaker 1: it doesn't exist because it's not yours and it's not 380 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 1: yours to dip into. So how are you going to 381 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:52,240 Speaker 1: fix your own problem that you said she didn't cause? 382 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:56,080 Speaker 1: Now if she owed, if she owed people money and 383 00:16:56,120 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 1: now she comes into it, I might argue that now 384 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:01,080 Speaker 1: would be the time to reach pay some folks if 385 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:04,080 Speaker 1: there's extra, after she covers her medical bills or whatever else. 386 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:06,399 Speaker 1: But that will be the only time I would say 387 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:09,240 Speaker 1: that she would be entitled, that anyone would be entitled 388 00:17:09,280 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 1: to her money. This isn't a chance for you to 389 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:14,240 Speaker 1: pay off your bills too, right, And. 390 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:19,720 Speaker 12: They made my keys, y'all too, They made my keys. 391 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:20,399 Speaker 13: I'm not saying him. 392 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, Kendra, thank you, having a good day. Glad 393 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:34,760 Speaker 1: you called Amanda. Good morning, Hello, Hi Amanda. What do 394 00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 1: you think Kiki's court? Basically, it's a it's a woman 395 00:17:37,160 --> 00:17:39,680 Speaker 1: who was in an accident and got a big settlement 396 00:17:39,920 --> 00:17:44,000 Speaker 1: and now all little family, all little family, we're trying 397 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 1: to get their little grubby hands in this money. But 398 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 1: she might need it because she got paid the lot 399 00:17:49,119 --> 00:17:50,000 Speaker 1: because she was injured. 400 00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:55,600 Speaker 13: Yeah, I totally agree with her that she should not 401 00:17:55,800 --> 00:17:58,159 Speaker 13: have to give anything to her family. My husband was 402 00:17:58,240 --> 00:17:59,639 Speaker 13: hurt two years he's an electrician. 403 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:00,760 Speaker 3: He almost died. 404 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:03,200 Speaker 13: He was burned on his hands, in his face and 405 00:18:03,680 --> 00:18:08,200 Speaker 13: going through the exact same thing. Yeah, and our family 406 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:11,320 Speaker 13: is kind of assuming that when everything is all done, 407 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:13,040 Speaker 13: that we're going to help them as well. 408 00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:16,440 Speaker 1: That is so crazy, Like why would they think, I 409 00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:19,840 Speaker 1: mean how much? I don't know. Again, this isn't the lottery. 410 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 1: I mean, if you got paid hundreds of millions of 411 00:18:22,119 --> 00:18:25,920 Speaker 1: dollars or something, I don't know, maybe, but you know, 412 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:28,480 Speaker 1: you might need this money. Maybe your husband can't go 413 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:30,000 Speaker 1: back to work. I mean his hands are burned, he 414 00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:32,159 Speaker 1: needs his hands for that. Maybe he's limited now and 415 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:33,720 Speaker 1: he can't make as much money as he used to. 416 00:18:33,800 --> 00:18:36,880 Speaker 1: And maybe whatever you're getting paid Amanda has to last 417 00:18:36,920 --> 00:18:38,160 Speaker 1: for the rest of your lives. 418 00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:39,840 Speaker 14: Exactly. 419 00:18:39,960 --> 00:18:41,800 Speaker 13: And we have four kids on top of it, So like, 420 00:18:42,240 --> 00:18:45,200 Speaker 13: don't expect us to help your family out as well. 421 00:18:45,520 --> 00:18:46,239 Speaker 1: Now that's not right. 422 00:18:46,359 --> 00:18:50,760 Speaker 8: I have four dependents, okayege, so everything, Now do you 423 00:18:50,960 --> 00:18:52,240 Speaker 8: count someone else's money? 424 00:18:52,520 --> 00:18:55,200 Speaker 1: I don't understand that this isn't the Nigerian prince that 425 00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:57,720 Speaker 1: you related to. So if you give the Social Security 426 00:18:57,720 --> 00:18:59,720 Speaker 1: and Routing information that you get paid a billion, that's 427 00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:01,639 Speaker 1: not what this is. So yeah, I mean I'm waiting 428 00:19:01,680 --> 00:19:04,200 Speaker 1: for mine I've been giving my writing information now for 429 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:06,360 Speaker 1: a long time. It hasn't come yet, but apparently I'm 430 00:19:06,359 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 1: a Nigerian prince and as an inheritance coming. Thank you, Amanda, 431 00:19:10,080 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 1: have a good day. 432 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 10: Thank you you can. 433 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:13,680 Speaker 1: A lot of people were surprised by that fact. But 434 00:19:13,720 --> 00:19:16,400 Speaker 1: I'm still still waiting when I get the transfer. Don't 435 00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:18,639 Speaker 1: you worry. I only had to pay fifty grands for 436 00:19:18,680 --> 00:19:21,040 Speaker 1: the processing too, so you know, and I supposedly I 437 00:19:21,080 --> 00:19:25,040 Speaker 1: got a hundred millions comings. It's exciting. Hey Dana, Hey, 438 00:19:25,200 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 1: how you guys doing. Dana, So you've been in this situation? 439 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:29,320 Speaker 1: What happened? Oh? 440 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:33,080 Speaker 14: Yeah, I've gotten to a really bad car accident. Literally 441 00:19:33,119 --> 00:19:36,440 Speaker 14: had eight months of rehab, all sorts of things, long 442 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:40,200 Speaker 14: story shorts, got a really nice settlement and thankfully, like 443 00:19:40,320 --> 00:19:43,879 Speaker 14: my immediate family wasn't really asking for a handout, I 444 00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:47,479 Speaker 14: just to be nice, I gauge each of my immediate 445 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 14: family members, my brothers, and my parents one thousand dollars 446 00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:53,120 Speaker 14: each just as a thank you for supporting me through 447 00:19:53,200 --> 00:19:56,080 Speaker 14: the rehabit all. Had a couple of friends that all 448 00:19:56,119 --> 00:19:59,240 Speaker 14: of a sudden this happened, That happened. Their life's turned 449 00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:02,640 Speaker 14: upside down. And same thing, like, well, you don't have kids, 450 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:04,159 Speaker 14: you know you could afford a little bit of this 451 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:06,280 Speaker 14: and that. I said, you know what, because I don't 452 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:09,200 Speaker 14: have kids. Thirty years from now, if I need help 453 00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:12,360 Speaker 14: because I can't move well because I have permanent neck damage, 454 00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:14,320 Speaker 14: are you going to be there to help me get 455 00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:16,200 Speaker 14: washed and to get dressed and everything else? 456 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:16,720 Speaker 7: Right? 457 00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:19,359 Speaker 14: No, And I don't have kids to help me. You 458 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:22,040 Speaker 14: have kids that can help you with your situation. 459 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:24,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, this might have to last you a long time. 460 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:27,640 Speaker 1: And again, like you were saying, you did something nice 461 00:20:27,680 --> 00:20:29,879 Speaker 1: for the people who were there for you. Maybe they 462 00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:31,760 Speaker 1: had to take off work, maybe they had to take 463 00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:34,920 Speaker 1: time away from other things. I don't think you're obligated 464 00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:37,440 Speaker 1: to pay family anything for being family, but you did 465 00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:40,200 Speaker 1: something nice for them. Great, now we're done, and but 466 00:20:40,320 --> 00:20:40,880 Speaker 1: they want more. 467 00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:43,960 Speaker 14: Erectly yeah, I mean, and they're still there to support me. 468 00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:46,520 Speaker 14: But some of my other quote unquote friends walked away. 469 00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:48,080 Speaker 14: I'm like, well, I guess you know my friends. 470 00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:51,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's messed up. You know, your friend gets 471 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:53,359 Speaker 1: run over by a truck. But like, why didn't I 472 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:54,280 Speaker 1: get something out of the deal. 473 00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:56,080 Speaker 7: You start thinking about what you can pay off with 474 00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:56,680 Speaker 7: her settlement. 475 00:20:56,720 --> 00:20:58,480 Speaker 1: Let's stop it right now. And I don't like it. 476 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:02,399 Speaker 14: My money is growing really nicely. 477 00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:07,240 Speaker 1: And you know, I'm glad you're okay, Dana or okay enough, 478 00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:10,960 Speaker 1: and I'm glad you're here, and thanks for listening. I 479 00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:13,320 Speaker 1: love you too. Have a good day, Valencia. Valencia, you're 480 00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:15,480 Speaker 1: gonna come with the other. You got another take on this, 481 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:16,480 Speaker 1: I would like to hear it. 482 00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:17,800 Speaker 2: I do. 483 00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:21,680 Speaker 12: Okay, So I I come into some money, and you know, 484 00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:25,240 Speaker 12: I have siblings, and why not help them. I'm not 485 00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:28,040 Speaker 12: saying I don't think they should be entitled, but I 486 00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:29,040 Speaker 12: will help them. 487 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:29,480 Speaker 1: Why not? 488 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:32,600 Speaker 12: I have all this money now, why not help, you know, 489 00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:33,760 Speaker 12: help them out a little bit? 490 00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:34,359 Speaker 2: You know. 491 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:36,240 Speaker 12: That's that's my take on it. 492 00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:38,440 Speaker 1: You know, do we know how much she got? I 493 00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:40,960 Speaker 1: don't know that it matters because the entitlements the issue here. 494 00:21:41,040 --> 00:21:43,439 Speaker 1: It's not her unwillingness to give it. It's it's her 495 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:45,520 Speaker 1: unwillingness to give it under these circumstances. But I think 496 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 1: we all agree on but we don't know how much 497 00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:48,040 Speaker 1: money it was. 498 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:50,080 Speaker 7: Seven figures she says, seven figures. 499 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:54,679 Speaker 12: Yeah, seven figures is a lot, you know, but it's. 500 00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:58,359 Speaker 1: Not that much, Valencia. It's not that much money if 501 00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:01,280 Speaker 1: she's young and can't work kever again, like, if that 502 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 1: money has to last the rest of your life? That 503 00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:06,520 Speaker 1: you know, I realized. We hear seven figures and we 504 00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:09,600 Speaker 1: go wow. But imagine if today, right now, God forbid, 505 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:11,400 Speaker 1: you could never work one more day in your life. 506 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:13,840 Speaker 1: You'd be hanging on to every penny because you don't 507 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:17,960 Speaker 1: know how long it has to last. Yeah, I mean, 508 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:19,800 Speaker 1: and you know, the brokies around you aren't going to 509 00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:21,280 Speaker 1: hook you up because they don't have any money, because 510 00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 1: they're trying to get their hands in yours, in your back. 511 00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:25,800 Speaker 8: And it starts off with fifty thousand, and then next 512 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:27,960 Speaker 8: time it's can you give me seventy thousand? And then 513 00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:29,639 Speaker 8: it can you give me one hundred thousand? And the 514 00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:32,879 Speaker 8: moment you say no, they completely forget about all the 515 00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:34,880 Speaker 8: other times you say yes. Yeah, it's just so pretty, 516 00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:35,480 Speaker 8: so much money. 517 00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:37,480 Speaker 7: How that works? I definitely agree. 518 00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:39,720 Speaker 12: So how about you know, I think if I was 519 00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:42,880 Speaker 12: in that situation, let me just give what I would 520 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:45,520 Speaker 12: like to give me, right, don't tell me a price 521 00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 12: of what I want, what. 522 00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:48,240 Speaker 3: You need me to give. 523 00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:51,480 Speaker 12: Let me just help you, you know, on my own, God, 524 00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:54,159 Speaker 12: I wouldn't be selfish, you know, I think it's a 525 00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:57,719 Speaker 12: tab itself. Was just to have, you know, seven figures. 526 00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:01,000 Speaker 12: And then you got your sisters who's here's struggling, you know, 527 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:02,720 Speaker 12: just help her out a little bit. Don't give me 528 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:05,200 Speaker 12: a price. But hey, I can't help you with this 529 00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:07,280 Speaker 12: is what I have. I don't have what you want, 530 00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:09,639 Speaker 12: but I can maybe possibly help with this. 531 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know you have No, you're a decent person. 532 00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:19,879 Speaker 1: I'm a skeptic, so and you, Mellissia. I hope you. 533 00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:21,440 Speaker 1: I hope nothing bad ever happens to you. But I 534 00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:23,120 Speaker 1: do hope you get paid because I got some bills 535 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:27,119 Speaker 1: to pay. Have a good day. I'm glad you called. No, 536 00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:28,560 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't want any bad to happen to you. 537 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:31,720 Speaker 1: But if you ever win something, you know, a little 538 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:33,639 Speaker 1: couple of credit cards, you can help me with car payment, 539 00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:35,040 Speaker 1: mortgage left over to