Speaker 1: First Day to follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
Speaker 1: Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com. Connor is on the
Speaker 1: phone today for a first Day follow up and he's
Speaker 1: getting ghosted by a woman named Gso we're about to
Speaker 1: call her and see if she'll tell us why she's
Speaker 1: ghosting him and maybe get him a second date. But
Speaker 1: first we have to find out about the date. Connor,
Speaker 1: how long has it been since you talked to you.
Speaker 2: It's been a little over a week, and I've I've
Speaker 2: tried everything. I've tried, calling, texting, you know, the works.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, that's a frustrating feeling. Maybe she lost her phone.
Speaker 2: That would be a good, excellentation.
Speaker 4: Right, be hopeful. Why don't you tell us about your date?
Speaker 2: Okay? So we did something that's I don't know, I
Speaker 2: guess it's a little quirky. It was a scavenger hunt
Speaker 2: at the Art Museum downtown. And basically, you like download
Speaker 2: this app, right, and it gives you all these clues
Speaker 2: and like riddles to solve, and you basically like run
Speaker 2: around finding the stuff, like you know, the ugliest statue
Speaker 2: or the most romantic painting. And we were like when
Speaker 2: we started I was like, you know, do you ever
Speaker 2: watch like Amazing Race or any of those like reality shows,
Speaker 2: And she was like, yeah, let's yeah, I love those.
Speaker 2: I love that stuff. So I was like me too,
Speaker 2: Let's like pretend we're on one of those. So I
Speaker 2: don't know, there was like a lot of playful, banter conversation.
Speaker 2: Some of those conversations got like pretty deep, and we
Speaker 2: were like it felt very like easy and intimate because
Speaker 2: we were doing things like we were sharing our earbuds
Speaker 2: to listen to the audio tour and we were like,
Speaker 2: we kept making fun of how the like narrator sounded
Speaker 2: very dramatic, So I don't know, we were just having fun,
Speaker 2: you know, yeah.
Speaker 4: And it seemed like she was super into it too.
Speaker 2: Oh totally. It was easy we were. To me, it
Speaker 2: was like we were in our own bubble. Like even
Speaker 2: at one point, like we sat we were sitting and
Speaker 2: we found this like weird abstract sculpture that was on
Speaker 2: the like scavenger hunt, and we just sat there and
Speaker 2: before I knew it, I looked at my watch and
Speaker 2: forty minutes had passed. We had just been like talking
Speaker 2: and I don't know, like you know that kind of
Speaker 2: when something like that happens, it just feels like you
Speaker 2: clicked and it doesn't happen that much. So I really
Speaker 2: felt like we clicked.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, So why do you think you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 2: Well, that's it. I don't know, because I guess I've
Speaker 2: never had a date that I would actually describe as
Speaker 2: like fun. I feel like I meet a girl, I
Speaker 2: go out on like the obligatory coffee date. We have
Speaker 2: small talk, or there's like an awkward dinner where you're wondering,
Speaker 2: oh am I paying for this? Or we splitting it
Speaker 2: like it's just so awkward. And this was not any
Speaker 2: of that. It's kind of like we were I don't know,
Speaker 2: we were on like a little adventure, you know. Yeah.
Speaker 2: And I think the part that was like I'm not
Speaker 2: trying to sound corny or anything, but like the part
Speaker 2: that was mostly attractive is that I got to see
Speaker 2: her brain at work, you know, like how she saws
Speaker 2: stuff and like how she thinks and how she approaches
Speaker 2: the world. And I was just very very attracted by
Speaker 2: what I saw.
Speaker 3: Yeah you're into her, tell her into her?
Speaker 2: I am. It's weird, Like she even would She even
Speaker 2: made this super dry joke about modern art that like
Speaker 2: no one else would have caught and I to this
Speaker 2: like a week later. I'm thinking about it every single day,
Speaker 2: Like the joke like replays in my head, and I'm like,
Speaker 2: I don't know, it's just so smart. You know, you
Speaker 2: don't you don't run into someone who's like as attractive
Speaker 2: but also so interesting and so easy to have fun with.
Speaker 3: Yeah, are you smart too? Because I mean, if we're
Speaker 3: thinking about what could have gone wrong, I don't know
Speaker 3: if she's super intellectual and if you can't think of anything,
Speaker 3: like there weren't even any awkward moments.
Speaker 2: I didn't have any, and like I'd like to think
Speaker 2: that I'm pretty smart, which is why I'm always looking
Speaker 2: for intelligence is like a part of the package. So no,
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't think that would be it. I
Speaker 2: would be pretty surprised if she didn't find like, you know,
Speaker 2: she didn't feel like I was keeping up.
Speaker 4: Okay, well we'll see if we can figure out for reason.
Speaker 1: We'll play a song, come back, call her and see
Speaker 1: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you or if
Speaker 1: you lost her phone?
Speaker 4: Yea, and then I'm never get you a second date.
Speaker 2: Okay, thanks. I would appreciate that.
Speaker 1: All right, we'll play song come back and get your
Speaker 1: first date follow up next. Right in the middle of
Speaker 1: your first date follow up and if you're just joining us,
Speaker 1: Connor is on the phone, and Connor is getting ghosted
Speaker 1: by a woman named Giaso. We're about to call her
Speaker 1: and see if she'll tell us the reason she's ghosting
Speaker 1: him and maybe get him a second date. But first, Connor,
Speaker 1: why don't you break down your date again real quick
Speaker 1: with you?
Speaker 2: Yeah? It was perfect, at least on my end, and
Speaker 2: I thought she had fun. We went to the Art
Speaker 2: Museum downtown. We like downloaded this app where you can
Speaker 2: go on a Stavenger hunt and solve riddles and like
Speaker 2: find different pieces of our and it was it was
Speaker 2: everything I looked for and to date, it was fun,
Speaker 2: it was easy to talk to her. We totally clicked,
Speaker 2: and Yeah, I just really feel like I got a
Speaker 2: glimpse into not only like not only her, but like
Speaker 2: how her brain works, which, like I said, sounds kind
Speaker 2: of corny. But I am really into this girl, So
Speaker 2: I'm really hoping that there's some I hope there's some
Speaker 2: fluke that I was shy. She's not like responding to me.
Speaker 4: Okay, are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 2: As ready as I'll ever be?
Speaker 1: All right, here we go. Hello, Hi, mespeaks to you please?
Speaker 1: She Hey, Gia, how are you? This is the Jewbil Show.
Speaker 1: It's a radio show.
Speaker 4: Hi, Gia, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria and my name
Speaker 4: is Jewel. How are you Hi?
Speaker 5: Good?
Speaker 6: Thanks?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Are you?
Speaker 4: Do you know the show like that?
Speaker 5: Well? Okay, I don't remember submitting to anything, but.
Speaker 1: Well I don't think you did, but we did get
Speaker 1: an email about you from somebody who listens to the show.
Speaker 4: That's why we're on the shoe.
Speaker 1: Oh cool, Okay, you're the most chill attitude. Now, well,
Speaker 1: we do a segment on the show that's called the
Speaker 1: first Date follow Up. That's where if you go out
Speaker 1: on a date with somebody and then you end up
Speaker 1: ghosting them, that person can have us call you to
Speaker 1: ask us why you're ghosting them?
Speaker 4: Who are you ghosting?
Speaker 5: So Connor?
Speaker 4: Yes, it is about Connor.
Speaker 1: He said that he really liked you, thought your day
Speaker 1: was great, and it's confused that it's been you know,
Speaker 1: over a week now and you haven't responded to him.
Speaker 4: Do you mind telling us why?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Well, oh my goodness. The date was fun, like surprisingly fun.
Speaker 6: He's you know, clever and charming, but also he was
Speaker 6: just a.
Speaker 2: Lot was a lot.
Speaker 4: What does that mean?
Speaker 6: Well, you know, people can just like there's a line
Speaker 6: of like too much sometimes. At first we were clicking,
Speaker 6: and like I thought it was, you know, cute, how
Speaker 6: into the scavenger he wasn't, you know, I love like
Speaker 6: interactive things and games and everything. But he kept making
Speaker 6: like literally everything into a bit just the whole time,
Speaker 6: like narrating the date in a god the worst fake
Speaker 6: British accent I've ever heard. You know, it's cute the
Speaker 6: first time, but not like you know, an hour later,
Speaker 6: and then you know, trying to solve clues that like
Speaker 6: weren't even you know, part of the game, and you know,
Speaker 6: high fiving strangers like.
Speaker 5: Like not everyone listen to this dude, you know?
Speaker 4: Yes, I mean that's kind of a warm energy, you know.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean like like this old guy just kind
Speaker 6: of looked at him weird, which.
Speaker 5: Actually was pretty funny. But then he like he climbed
Speaker 5: up on a fountain to.
Speaker 6: Like look for another clue. I don't know, it set
Speaker 6: off his emotional arm.
Speaker 5: And this was the thing like a docent.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Yeah, Like he got into like an argument with him
Speaker 6: and like they were starting to like call security. He
Speaker 6: was arguing about whether this, like you know, I've seen
Speaker 6: it in different TV shows where it's like a banana
Speaker 6: or a fire extinguisher or something just like on the wall,
Speaker 6: whether that counts his art, you know, like having this
Speaker 6: debate about modern art. And it was just like I
Speaker 6: feel like those two tables just kind of like explain
Speaker 6: it the best. It's just like chaotic energy, and I
Speaker 6: was just like at first I was excited.
Speaker 5: But then by the end, I was just exhausted.
Speaker 2: Wait, wait, that's why you goes to me because I
Speaker 2: was too fun.
Speaker 5: You guys, he was here, you didn't you didn't.
Speaker 2: Say anything at the time. I mean you were laughing
Speaker 2: and we were having a really good time. We're having fun.
Speaker 6: We were, But then I also laugh when I'm stressed,
Speaker 6: like I'm nervous, you know, like I'm not going to
Speaker 6: tell someone that I barely know like how to not
Speaker 6: act when they're having fun. And yeah, some of it
Speaker 6: was fun and funny, but then.
Speaker 5: I was just like by the end of it, I
Speaker 5: didn't feel safe leaving you unsupervised.
Speaker 2: In public.
Speaker 5: I feel like you should have had one of those
Speaker 5: badacs beliefs.
Speaker 2: Listen. Yeah, I wasn't trying to be extra. I just
Speaker 2: I really liked you. I was nervous, so I leaned
Speaker 2: into the jokes because it felt easier than like being
Speaker 2: awkward or quiet or like too serious.
Speaker 6: I get that. Tell Ever, it's like okay to be
Speaker 6: quiet for a little bit in a museum, you know,
Speaker 6: there wasn't any room for just like being and like
Speaker 6: stopping and observing. It was just like onto the next
Speaker 6: one to the next. It was like being stuck in
Speaker 6: an improv show.
Speaker 2: Well, look, I know I can be a lot, but
Speaker 2: but like A on that date, I swear I was
Speaker 2: not putting on a show. I was genuinely having one
Speaker 2: of the best dates I've ever had in my life.
Speaker 2: And I was just so surprised and it was so
Speaker 2: refreshing that you were so smart and funny, and you
Speaker 2: you made art to me feel like less pretentious. So
Speaker 2: I just didn't want it to end.
Speaker 4: JEA, he loves your brain.
Speaker 6: Okay, well that's really sweet. Actually, thank you.
Speaker 2: I mean, listen, I'm not looking for you to change
Speaker 2: your vibe or anything like if you're Camra Mail. That's great,
Speaker 2: but I don't know Camma Mail and Espresso Espresso can
Speaker 2: work together, balance ourselves, each other out or whatever.
Speaker 4: Right, so you're Espresso.
Speaker 6: I mean I do like lavender more than camal, But
Speaker 6: what you want to be a lot?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly, See that can be a whole
Speaker 2: damn macchiato if you'll let me.
Speaker 1: What do you think you want to let him be
Speaker 1: a macchiato? Would you go on another date with con?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Okay, let me think I appreciate that honesty. I do.
Speaker 6: I did have a good time, minus the part where
Speaker 6: I thought we were going to get a danced from
Speaker 6: the museum.
Speaker 5: Forever's coming up.
Speaker 2: I will climb on fountains. I will not climb on fountains,
Speaker 2: I swear I will. I will not get in fights
Speaker 2: at the dose and and there will be no fake accents.
Speaker 5: And I love it.
Speaker 6: Like my next date is maybe signing up for an
Speaker 6: improv show or something.
Speaker 2: I mean, I think you should give we should give
Speaker 2: it one more shot.
Speaker 4: Yeah you will, you will?
Speaker 5: Yeah, because even today.
Speaker 2: Maybe last Yay, all right, sweet, this is awesome. Oh yes,
Speaker 2: this is exactly how I hope this would go. This
Speaker 2: is great.
Speaker 6: Okay, Well I'll text you and we can go get
Speaker 6: those lattes and playing the next thing.
Speaker 2: Cool. Just let me know when and I won't be latte.
Speaker 4: What what does that mean?
Speaker 2: Like late? Like like latte late. I don't all right.
Speaker 5: Jubile's first date follow up