WEBVTT - Mom's who Medicate 0:00:00.280 --> 0:00:03.040 She was living in a single room with three other individuals. 0:00:03.279 --> 0:00:05.440 One of them was a male and the other two well, 0:00:05.519 --> 0:00:06.760 the other two were females. 0:00:07.280 --> 0:00:09.039 God only knows what they were up to in there. 0:00:09.560 --> 0:00:12.080 And furthermore, Susan I wouldn't be the least bit surprised 0:00:12.080 --> 0:00:16.200 to learn that all four of them habitually smoked marijuana, cigarettes. 0:00:17.200 --> 0:00:17.759 Reefers. 0:00:39.280 --> 0:00:45.559 I spoke to joyceon night, I spoke to Joys in 0:00:45.600 --> 0:00:48.320 the afternoon. It makes me feel all right. 0:00:48.760 --> 0:00:54.080 Hey, guys, welcome back to Parental Advisory, Good Mom's Bad Choices. 0:00:54.600 --> 0:01:02.360 I'm Erica, and I'm Nila and sick halling on you. 0:01:02.560 --> 0:01:05.840 Yeah, I'm sick, so please excuse my heavy breathing and 0:01:06.000 --> 0:01:08.479 sneezing throughout the episode. I'm going to try and keep 0:01:08.520 --> 0:01:11.200 it to a minimal. Also, I'm smoking weeds, so I 0:01:11.240 --> 0:01:11.959 hope that helps. 0:01:12.120 --> 0:01:12.960 That's not gonna help. 0:01:13.120 --> 0:01:15.520 And she's getting on airplane in the morning, which won't 0:01:15.520 --> 0:01:17.840 help either, but I'm fully supporting both things. 0:01:17.880 --> 0:01:21.280 So and I'm also smoking after you, which you have 0:01:21.280 --> 0:01:23.680 a strong immune system, Erica, I don't. I don't. 0:01:24.360 --> 0:01:27.880 I don't have a strong immune system, but it doesn't matter. 0:01:28.800 --> 0:01:33.560 Also, this week we're coming to you pre recorded because 0:01:33.920 --> 0:01:34.679 I got shit to do. 0:01:35.040 --> 0:01:36.840 Yeah, Mela's leaving us. 0:01:37.160 --> 0:01:42.479 I'm going to NYC for Memorial Weekend, so we'll tell 0:01:42.520 --> 0:01:45.800 you next week what we did over Memorial weekend when. 0:01:45.640 --> 0:01:49.400 It's less hot on the block. I'm pretty sure your 0:01:49.440 --> 0:01:51.560 stories are gonna be way better than mine. I have 0:01:51.600 --> 0:01:52.800 no plans, Like what am I? 0:01:52.520 --> 0:01:53.560 What am I doing? 0:01:53.880 --> 0:01:55.720 Something tells me you're gonna find something to get into. 0:01:55.960 --> 0:01:59.920 What am I doing? What is it Monday? You fell 0:02:00.000 --> 0:02:00.559 gad all weekend? 0:02:00.840 --> 0:02:03.920 Oh yeah, that's right, but it's Monday though, Yes, on Monday. 0:02:04.000 --> 0:02:06.720 Yeah yeah, Actually, well it's my girlfriend's birthday, so I'm 0:02:06.760 --> 0:02:07.400 gonna go do that. 0:02:08.080 --> 0:02:10.720 Shout out to Ashley Ashley Runaway. 0:02:10.880 --> 0:02:13.639 Hey girl, Hey Ashley Runway Birthday hack. 0:02:13.680 --> 0:02:15.760 Her birthday is actually tomorrow, Happy birthday. 0:02:16.960 --> 0:02:22.080 But yeah, I don't Memorial Days like an afterthought for me, 0:02:22.240 --> 0:02:23.880 Like I always forget about it and then it like 0:02:23.960 --> 0:02:24.520 creeps up. 0:02:24.720 --> 0:02:26.520 I mean it used to like when you're under twenty 0:02:26.520 --> 0:02:28.480 five it matters, and now it creeps up. Honestly, the 0:02:28.480 --> 0:02:31.000 only reason I remembered is because my girlfriend takes her 0:02:31.160 --> 0:02:34.160 house parties super seriously, and she told me a month 0:02:34.200 --> 0:02:35.560 ago that I need to be in New York for 0:02:35.639 --> 0:02:39.040 her Super Pop and Memorial Day weekend party. But it's 0:02:39.080 --> 0:02:40.880 just an excuse to go because you know, I got 0:02:40.880 --> 0:02:42.560 thangs and thangs over there, and she. 0:02:42.560 --> 0:02:45.799 Had some thangs over there, some business business. 0:02:47.160 --> 0:02:49.920 Also, my grandmother lives in Philly. If anybody wanted to 0:02:49.960 --> 0:02:52.360 know that tidbit about me, Are you gonna go to Philly? 0:02:52.520 --> 0:02:52.680 Yeah? 0:02:52.720 --> 0:02:54.200 You know it's only an hour and a half away, 0:02:54.240 --> 0:02:56.720 Like I don't have two hours. So both my parents 0:02:56.760 --> 0:02:58.680 are from Philadelphia, so you know, that's why I got 0:02:58.680 --> 0:03:03.640 that West coast East coast. Like if he was wondering 0:03:03.680 --> 0:03:07.720 where that little twaing come from, it's because both my 0:03:07.760 --> 0:03:10.040 parents are from Philly. So I'm kind of hood on 0:03:10.080 --> 0:03:11.120 the love. You know what I'm saying. 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:17.720 Okay, girl, Well I'm Valley bitch. Valley girl comes out 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:18.079 all the. 0:03:18.040 --> 0:03:19.320 Time like love. 0:03:19.800 --> 0:03:21.840 Yeah, I'm definitely more Valley than I am. 0:03:21.760 --> 0:03:27.000 Anyway, although people think I'm from New York sometimes, do they? 0:03:27.040 --> 0:03:29.080 Because I don't get New York from you at all? 0:03:29.160 --> 0:03:31.720 You know, no, well maybe you're bitch resting bitch face. 0:03:31.800 --> 0:03:34.000 Heck you it's the resting bitch face because it ain't 0:03:34.040 --> 0:03:36.040 that accent. Because you say, like every five minute's like 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:36.880 me and it ain't. 0:03:37.320 --> 0:03:37.520 No. 0:03:37.600 --> 0:03:39.400 But when I go to New York, I start talking 0:03:39.440 --> 0:03:41.000 like in New York or it's like Madonna when she 0:03:41.080 --> 0:03:41.640 moved to London. 0:03:41.760 --> 0:03:43.280 Yeah, that would be me. I feel like you're gonna 0:03:43.440 --> 0:03:46.520 automatically talk how you based on your. 0:03:46.680 --> 0:03:49.080 Like like I'd be like, yeah I do, and like 0:03:49.080 --> 0:03:52.160 we're gonna get coffee if I don't really care what 0:03:52.160 --> 0:03:54.120 we have to say, like we can go and we 0:03:54.160 --> 0:03:54.680 don't have to. 0:03:54.640 --> 0:03:56.440 Do shit when we do a New York episode, can 0:03:56.480 --> 0:03:58.760 we just see the whole episode in New York accents? 0:03:58.960 --> 0:04:01.640 Yeah, thank you, Yes, thank you. 0:04:01.680 --> 0:04:03.720 I'm pleased, And all our New York followers are going 0:04:03.760 --> 0:04:06.360 to come for us, right, Like, bitch, that sucks because 0:04:06.360 --> 0:04:07.840 my New York accent is not that good, but I'm 0:04:07.840 --> 0:04:09.040 gonna work on it all weekend. 0:04:09.040 --> 0:04:12.320 Look, mine is okay. It used to be better. 0:04:12.360 --> 0:04:13.880 I did a TV show where I had to be 0:04:13.920 --> 0:04:16.400 from Brooklyn, so I really really had to like focus. 0:04:16.120 --> 0:04:18.040 On into it. But that was a long time ago. 0:04:18.160 --> 0:04:21.159 That's austrated. I think I'm gonna go to acting school 0:04:21.240 --> 0:04:22.200 just to challenge myself. 0:04:22.360 --> 0:04:23.599 But you don't have to go to acting school, just 0:04:23.640 --> 0:04:25.240 go to an everyday life and be like today in 0:04:25.279 --> 0:04:27.800 British bitch or that. 0:04:27.880 --> 0:04:34.719 Today I'm from South London. Hello, Hello, Hello, how are 0:04:34.720 --> 0:04:35.880 you doing night way? 0:04:35.920 --> 0:04:36.720 Is that Aussie? 0:04:37.960 --> 0:04:39.000 Sure the Bobby? 0:04:39.160 --> 0:04:39.880 Yeah, I canna work on. 0:04:40.240 --> 0:04:42.600 You know what's the worst accent I have is like 0:04:42.800 --> 0:04:45.320 my like like Latina accents. 0:04:45.360 --> 0:04:47.520 You're you're a Latina horrible. 0:04:47.520 --> 0:04:48.360 It's embarrassing. 0:04:48.520 --> 0:04:50.480 You're how do you speak Spanish and have a horrible 0:04:50.520 --> 0:04:51.279 Latina ex. 0:04:51.240 --> 0:04:53.479 I don't know, mummy, Okay, Mommy, I'm just like I 0:04:53.480 --> 0:04:55.280 don't know New York. 0:04:55.560 --> 0:04:58.919 That's like New York. I don't know. It's really embarrassing. 0:04:59.000 --> 0:05:00.799 I'm not even gonna do it because it was just defensive. 0:05:01.160 --> 0:05:02.440 How about your Indian accent? 0:05:05.200 --> 0:05:05.400 Wait? 0:05:06.160 --> 0:05:07.640 How about when we want to go to the We 0:05:07.680 --> 0:05:09.000 went to the comedy store the other night. 0:05:09.080 --> 0:05:12.159 Oh, I know, first of all, nobody in the front 0:05:12.160 --> 0:05:14.920 would do the Indian accent because they were I was like, God. 0:05:14.839 --> 0:05:16.320 I wish I was in the front. This comic went 0:05:16.360 --> 0:05:17.359 around asking people. 0:05:17.560 --> 0:05:19.920 There was like an Indian man in the front row, 0:05:20.000 --> 0:05:22.400 and he was just saying, like what was he talking about? 0:05:22.400 --> 0:05:24.159 He was talking about seven eleven all types of shit. 0:05:24.200 --> 0:05:25.880 And then he went around to try to get people 0:05:25.960 --> 0:05:30.360 to participate in this Indian accent thing, and I want 0:05:30.400 --> 0:05:30.800 to want to. 0:05:30.920 --> 0:05:32.600 I was the one under my breath, like, come on, 0:05:35.279 --> 0:05:38.520 very racist, we're just joking. I'm actually I'm pretty sure 0:05:38.560 --> 0:05:41.520 I'm Indian because I love the Indian store. I love 0:05:41.560 --> 0:05:44.960 wearing bandy's. I love Hannah so pretty much them. 0:05:45.160 --> 0:05:47.360 He was long these long ass braids right now? 0:05:47.960 --> 0:05:50.960 An Indian, you know. Come on the Instagram check me out. 0:05:50.960 --> 0:05:52.240 I got new hairdom new hair? 0:05:52.279 --> 0:05:55.279 Who is Mila? Got new hair, y'all? And it's really cute. 0:05:55.320 --> 0:05:56.840 I like it, real cute. 0:05:57.200 --> 0:05:59.000 You see my charms, I add I saw that you 0:05:59.040 --> 0:06:01.480 did do that yourself. Of course I went. I went 0:06:01.520 --> 0:06:05.120 to the bead store, Michael's and the hair store just to. 0:06:05.200 --> 0:06:07.599 Master the didn't I see a feather? Where to go? 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:08.800 The feathers in here? 0:06:08.920 --> 0:06:13.600 It's gold, a gold dipped feather. Oh it's gold dipped. Okay, bitch, 0:06:13.800 --> 0:06:15.480 Oh did it fall out? No, it's in there. I 0:06:15.560 --> 0:06:20.680 just guides where it's gone. I'll tire up. Go your 0:06:20.720 --> 0:06:22.279 feathers gone. Look? Look was it here? 0:06:24.680 --> 0:06:24.840 No? 0:06:25.040 --> 0:06:25.280 Was it? 0:06:25.360 --> 0:06:27.479 No? That wasn't it? Are you sure? This looks like 0:06:27.520 --> 0:06:29.359 it was attached to something? This looks like it was 0:06:29.400 --> 0:06:31.719 on purpose. Oh my god, I said it earlier. So 0:06:31.760 --> 0:06:36.360 it's in my house somewhere. This is bullshit. Also public 0:06:36.720 --> 0:06:37.520 service announcement. 0:06:37.520 --> 0:06:40.320 If you find any other bitches with gold dip feathers 0:06:40.360 --> 0:06:41.719 in the hair, you know where they got it from. 0:06:41.760 --> 0:06:45.760 First. That's true. I've get to see gold dip feathers. 0:06:46.120 --> 0:06:48.279 You never see no feathers period. I've seen feathers, but 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:49.080 never gold dipped. 0:06:49.680 --> 0:06:50.640 Let's just be lying. 0:06:50.800 --> 0:06:54.520 Oh, there it is. I told you, Oh, it's so cute. 0:06:55.040 --> 0:06:57.640 Told in the braid. 0:06:58.480 --> 0:07:00.480 I told you it was on there tight, the curred 0:07:00.839 --> 0:07:03.200 the feather you know, I used tocur the bag. 0:07:03.240 --> 0:07:06.919 I securred the feathers. It's a look, it's cute. I 0:07:07.000 --> 0:07:07.480 like it a lot. 0:07:08.160 --> 0:07:11.320 It is my favorite urban word that's coming up this year. 0:07:12.000 --> 0:07:13.320 I've never used it publicly. 0:07:13.880 --> 0:07:15.960 I used it publicly wrongly all the time. 0:07:16.600 --> 0:07:19.120 Really, Yeah, I don't know. I felt like I just 0:07:19.200 --> 0:07:20.920 I don't know. I couldn't use it. But I didn't 0:07:20.920 --> 0:07:24.400 feel like it like naturally rolled off my tongue. I 0:07:24.440 --> 0:07:27.040 don't know. I just thought I felt false using it. 0:07:27.520 --> 0:07:29.000 I felt like a fraud. Excuse us. 0:07:29.080 --> 0:07:33.080 It's a plane. I mean, you can use it anywhere. 0:07:33.120 --> 0:07:36.000 Really, there is a plane line. It's a plane flying 0:07:36.280 --> 0:07:39.640 by by my house. A little smoother, but yeah close. 0:07:39.720 --> 0:07:41.360 So you told you it doesn't roll off the tongue. 0:07:41.360 --> 0:07:43.360 That's what I'm saying, Like, I know, I know business 0:07:43.360 --> 0:07:44.160 saying it. 0:07:44.480 --> 0:07:49.000 I like based my Instagram captions around saying it's my install. 0:07:49.000 --> 0:07:53.240 Okay, Instagram. Speaking of Instagram captions, they're so hard. You've 0:07:53.280 --> 0:07:55.880 been doing really well, but I think really hard, Like 0:07:55.920 --> 0:07:58.400 even today, I've notsted a photo on my personal Instagram 0:07:58.480 --> 0:08:03.080 at watch Erica by the way, and uh, I thought 0:08:03.120 --> 0:08:04.920 really hard about it. I was like, Okay, I have 0:08:04.960 --> 0:08:06.640 blue eyeshadow. The sky is blue. 0:08:07.040 --> 0:08:10.320 Like, what what did you say? I said, I don't blue. 0:08:10.360 --> 0:08:13.440 I'm into you? Like what is that? Who knows? 0:08:13.440 --> 0:08:15.160 I thought it was brilliant. I'm like, she really puts 0:08:15.160 --> 0:08:17.640 a lot of Really that was a poem at Milan 0:08:17.720 --> 0:08:20.240 Matho really needs this, really needs to step up her game, 0:08:20.320 --> 0:08:24.320 because Erica was just wooding with the captions, not host Wait. No, 0:08:24.360 --> 0:08:26.920 my one of my favorites this week was in case. 0:08:26.960 --> 0:08:29.880 She was wondering what I'd look like drinking soap fockaesota. 0:08:30.040 --> 0:08:33.040 Oh I I wish I would have thought it something cool. 0:08:32.880 --> 0:08:34.040 Like that I thought. 0:08:34.160 --> 0:08:35.640 I thought. I was like, you know what, I like 0:08:35.720 --> 0:08:38.120 this photo, but it's like a random photo of me 0:08:38.240 --> 0:08:39.120 drinking a beverage. 0:08:39.160 --> 0:08:42.240 So what can I say? That was perfect? I guess yeah. 0:08:42.559 --> 0:08:43.760 I was kinda proud of that one. 0:08:44.400 --> 0:08:46.280 I noticed it because I thought, yeah, you know, maybe 0:08:46.280 --> 0:08:47.520 they maybe they do wonder. 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:49.000 Maybe they wanted to know, maybe they want I wanted to. 0:08:49.040 --> 0:08:57.680 Know, you know, And here you got your answer. Pretty cute, beautiful, Oh. 0:08:57.640 --> 0:09:03.520 My goodness, so cool. Anyway, hi as hell? Which brings 0:09:03.520 --> 0:09:09.280 the story topic mom to medicate. It's a us that 0:09:09.320 --> 0:09:11.000 did it really work? See sometimes it doesn't work, but 0:09:11.040 --> 0:09:11.600 you gotta try. 0:09:11.679 --> 0:09:14.600 It's it's us. It's a good mom. It's a good mom. 0:09:15.559 --> 0:09:16.320 It's a good mom. 0:09:16.440 --> 0:09:24.240 It's a balanced mom with a good choice. It's oh 0:09:24.240 --> 0:09:27.400 my god, this is a good weed from the mystery bag. 0:09:27.760 --> 0:09:30.120 Oh yeah, that's that's definitely your weed that you left me. 0:09:30.800 --> 0:09:33.840 We got drunk the other night, came home and while 0:09:33.840 --> 0:09:37.560 we were in my drunken stupor, somehow I stucked Erica's 0:09:37.720 --> 0:09:39.640 weed jar that was empty with some weeds. 0:09:39.800 --> 0:09:40.600 I had so much. 0:09:40.640 --> 0:09:42.360 I had a bunch, and I'm like, she's gonna be 0:09:42.400 --> 0:09:44.480 so happy when she wakes up. You're lucky. 0:09:44.480 --> 0:09:46.040 I didn't just throw that shit away because I knew 0:09:46.080 --> 0:09:48.160 it was empty, and I was like, maybe there's one 0:09:48.200 --> 0:09:49.640 last night. I was about to throw it away and 0:09:49.640 --> 0:09:50.400 I looked and I was like. 0:09:50.400 --> 0:09:52.800 Whoa, Oh my god, you're worn. I'm happy to throw 0:09:52.800 --> 0:09:54.160 it away. I was so happy. I was like, Oh, 0:09:54.280 --> 0:09:58.000 she loves me the weed Santa Glass. 0:09:58.960 --> 0:10:05.120 Ho ho ho ho, bitch, I'm hilarious. 0:10:05.120 --> 0:10:08.319 Oh you're on a roll tonight. Okay, maybe sickondness and 0:10:08.400 --> 0:10:10.840 weed to fit you. Maybe I mean been sneezed. 0:10:13.559 --> 0:10:16.160 Oh my god. Okay, So back to the topic at hand. 0:10:16.640 --> 0:10:19.480 We chose this topic not only because we're high, but 0:10:20.880 --> 0:10:26.160 often because we make We think that smoking weed really 0:10:26.240 --> 0:10:32.480 makes us better moms. That's because we're long term weed 0:10:32.520 --> 0:10:37.200 smokers and we know how to handle it and what 0:10:37.280 --> 0:10:39.240 to do under the wheat and fluence. 0:10:39.360 --> 0:10:41.200 Can you actually I want to know your weed story, 0:10:41.240 --> 0:10:43.160 Like how did you begin smoking weed? Like when was 0:10:43.200 --> 0:10:44.480 the first time? How old were you? 0:10:47.559 --> 0:10:51.839 Honestly, I, even though we're from La, I like drank 0:10:51.880 --> 0:10:52.400 really young. 0:10:52.520 --> 0:10:54.079 But I think I smoked me one time. 0:10:54.360 --> 0:10:57.600 Did you ever go to the YMCA parties? There used 0:10:57.600 --> 0:11:00.360 to be a YMCA party in junior high. It was 0:11:00.360 --> 0:11:03.320 in eighth grade and at ninety paid five dollars they 0:11:03.320 --> 0:11:05.640 would be a DJ, and it was just dark and 0:11:05.679 --> 0:11:08.320 they had like one spinning light and who knows what 0:11:08.360 --> 0:11:10.400 was going on in there, with lots of disgusting teenage 0:11:10.960 --> 0:11:14.640 fuckery dancing on walls, feet on the. 0:11:15.360 --> 0:11:17.800 I had knew club Bling Bling. I don't know about YMCA. 0:11:18.080 --> 0:11:20.080 Actually this is the this is the first thing, especially 0:11:20.080 --> 0:11:21.920 because Club blind Bling was high school. That was nice. 0:11:22.120 --> 0:11:25.160 Yes, yeah, we both did, but clearly we were premature. 0:11:25.200 --> 0:11:25.760 We were at the y. 0:11:25.840 --> 0:11:27.640 We called it the y. 0:11:28.400 --> 0:11:29.080 I didn't even know about. 0:11:29.080 --> 0:11:31.720 It was seven to eleven, it was five dollars. It 0:11:31.760 --> 0:11:34.959 was right here, right by North in North Hollywood. 0:11:34.960 --> 0:11:36.160 I want to hang it. Oh yeah, it was in 0:11:36.160 --> 0:11:36.600 the valley. 0:11:36.720 --> 0:11:38.839 Yeah, girl, all that everybody was going and if you 0:11:38.880 --> 0:11:44.119 couldn't go, it was a strokeage and it's a strokeage, 0:11:44.480 --> 0:11:49.520 a strokeage word now it is. We lied and said 0:11:49.520 --> 0:11:51.400 we had to buy tampons from seven to eleven next 0:11:51.400 --> 0:11:52.720 door because my friend had some pot. 0:11:52.800 --> 0:11:54.600 We went to the park, we smoked it and went back. 0:11:54.600 --> 0:11:56.320 I'm pretty sure I didn't get high. I didn't really 0:11:56.320 --> 0:11:59.160 start getting high intil the college off some whack ass 0:11:59.280 --> 0:12:02.480 stress because I was in Georgia and Atlanta, like, and 0:12:02.480 --> 0:12:05.360 they call it reggie, which in La means terrible. Give 0:12:05.400 --> 0:12:09.120 me a fucking headache, that's terrible. And then now I 0:12:09.280 --> 0:12:13.040 can't fucking stop. I mean not that I can't stop, 0:12:13.080 --> 0:12:18.360 but I really like it. Really I'm enjoy I do. 0:12:18.600 --> 0:12:19.319 What about you with you? 0:12:19.320 --> 0:12:19.920 A weed story. 0:12:21.040 --> 0:12:25.320 I was twelve and I was going to I was 0:12:25.360 --> 0:12:27.600 smoked with some girls. I'm pretty sure it wasn't weed, 0:12:27.640 --> 0:12:31.559 though it was like it looked like like no, it 0:12:31.600 --> 0:12:34.320 was like it looked like strawberry weeds. They were all 0:12:34.360 --> 0:12:36.719 like big and shit, and like I didn't even know 0:12:36.760 --> 0:12:38.400 if I was high, Like I think I was pretending 0:12:38.440 --> 0:12:39.920 to be high because I didn't know what I was 0:12:39.960 --> 0:12:42.640 looking for. You know that first everybody knows the first 0:12:42.640 --> 0:12:45.480 time you smoke weed, you get high, like you really don't. 0:12:46.080 --> 0:12:48.600 I feel like you just don't know what's happening. Your 0:12:48.600 --> 0:12:50.160 body's like, wait, are you serious? 0:12:50.200 --> 0:12:52.160 What are you doing? And then you're like, I don't know, 0:12:52.400 --> 0:12:55.880 Am I am? I high? Maybe? And so I wasn't high, 0:12:56.040 --> 0:12:59.160 But then I smoked again and that was definitely weed, 0:12:59.160 --> 0:13:00.000 and I definitely got high. 0:13:00.200 --> 0:13:05.280 So I started smoking, not consistently at all twelve, but 0:13:05.400 --> 0:13:08.840 I would say more consistently in high school, so I'd. 0:13:08.679 --> 0:13:13.600 Say like fourteen heavily. Really, yeah, I was probably like 0:13:14.400 --> 0:13:15.319 eighteen nineteen. 0:13:15.440 --> 0:13:17.319 Yeah, I mean I think growing up in the valley 0:13:17.360 --> 0:13:19.640 at that time, like going and I went to Notre 0:13:19.720 --> 0:13:20.680 Day party. 0:13:20.640 --> 0:13:24.319 In high school n D what's up? You're a nerd 0:13:24.400 --> 0:13:24.640 for that? 0:13:25.080 --> 0:13:28.840 And go nights And we were just a bunch of 0:13:28.880 --> 0:13:31.680 Valley stoners. Like everyone at my school got super high 0:13:31.760 --> 0:13:33.600 all the time, like we I would get high before. 0:13:33.400 --> 0:13:35.400 A class and go to school in the car. 0:13:36.040 --> 0:13:37.840 Yeah, in the car, especially when I could Oh my god, 0:13:37.840 --> 0:13:41.079 when I could drive, It's like finally, now I could 0:13:41.120 --> 0:13:43.199 really get hide before school a load. 0:13:43.920 --> 0:13:45.640 I never got high before high school. 0:13:45.760 --> 0:13:47.640 I don't think I got high before high school until 0:13:47.640 --> 0:13:51.320 I could drive, right, Yeah, But you went. 0:13:51.240 --> 0:13:53.559 To like a super like valley school where that's yeah, 0:13:53.600 --> 0:13:55.880 like well the Catholic schools, right, that's what. 0:13:55.920 --> 0:13:58.360 They do but acceptable. 0:13:59.080 --> 0:14:02.840 But we couldn't even like dance the dances. I need 0:14:02.880 --> 0:14:06.160 to keep like a ruler space between us. So because 0:14:06.160 --> 0:14:07.880 they made it, and that's why all of the girls 0:14:07.880 --> 0:14:08.320 were worse. 0:14:08.600 --> 0:14:14.119 Yeah, eliding me. You can discover your pussy and then 0:14:14.880 --> 0:14:16.720 I was I wasn't a whole I was just you know, 0:14:16.960 --> 0:14:18.600 being a scorpion when did on a score? 0:14:20.280 --> 0:14:20.480 That was. 0:14:23.720 --> 0:14:24.440 An interesting rema. 0:14:24.560 --> 0:14:27.040 Apparently my jokes still translate when I'm high yours are 0:14:27.120 --> 0:14:32.480 hitting my railing anyway. Yeah, and so then I smoked 0:14:32.520 --> 0:14:36.320 heavily forever until I got pregnant, like from high school 0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:37.400 until I got pregnant. 0:14:37.440 --> 0:14:39.800 So did you stop smoking weed when you got pregnant 0:14:39.880 --> 0:14:40.480 or heavily? 0:14:40.920 --> 0:14:43.400 I felt like I was supposed to, so I did, 0:14:43.560 --> 0:14:44.960 and then I was like, oh I should. 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:46.240 I can still smoke every now and then. 0:14:46.280 --> 0:14:48.440 So then I tried what month did you decide to 0:14:48.680 --> 0:14:49.400 try again. 0:14:49.440 --> 0:14:50.160 After three months? 0:14:50.200 --> 0:14:51.560 I think I was like, I'll make it past the 0:14:51.560 --> 0:14:55.200 first three month period. Also because I think I'd mentioned 0:14:55.200 --> 0:14:56.960 this before, like I felt like I couldn't get pregnant, 0:14:56.960 --> 0:15:00.560 so I was really paranoid about my pregnanty at first. 0:15:00.920 --> 0:15:04.920 And then I would smoke, and then I didn't even 0:15:04.960 --> 0:15:07.480 want it, like strange, I didn't. I really didn't smoke 0:15:07.600 --> 0:15:10.160 drink my pregnancy. I know you like some people do, 0:15:10.200 --> 0:15:13.040 and that's totally fine. I just I just didn't want it. 0:15:13.040 --> 0:15:13.560 It was weird. 0:15:13.640 --> 0:15:16.040 Yeah, I mean I smoked, like you said here and there, 0:15:16.080 --> 0:15:17.560 when I wanted it, or if I was you know, 0:15:17.640 --> 0:15:18.240 I wanted. 0:15:18.040 --> 0:15:19.200 To, I did. 0:15:19.840 --> 0:15:20.200 I didn't. 0:15:20.200 --> 0:15:22.400 I didn't think of it negatively, you know, like I 0:15:22.400 --> 0:15:24.160 didn't really drink wine or I felt like that was 0:15:24.200 --> 0:15:25.920 my choice. I didn't drink wine so I could smoke 0:15:25.920 --> 0:15:27.960 a little bit. I drink wine like I had like 0:15:28.000 --> 0:15:29.520 a couple of SIPs, but like at one point, I 0:15:29.560 --> 0:15:30.000 just I. 0:15:29.960 --> 0:15:32.320 Would have like a glass of wine for sure, not 0:15:32.520 --> 0:15:34.080 all the time, but like I would. 0:15:34.160 --> 0:15:35.840 And even if I think I don't know what the 0:15:35.840 --> 0:15:38.120 effects of wine are and Pregnantian is sure for getting wasted, 0:15:38.120 --> 0:15:39.240 it's probably not a good idea. 0:15:39.480 --> 0:15:42.520 My my one of my best friends, oddly enough, who's 0:15:42.600 --> 0:15:46.600 super hippie, said to being so, so, you know, my 0:15:46.600 --> 0:15:52.360 my younger brother has down syndrome. And my friend was like, 0:15:52.680 --> 0:15:55.240 you know, Mazzie, don't drink any wine. And I was like, 0:15:55.440 --> 0:15:57.440 I don't think that one thing has that has nothing 0:15:57.480 --> 0:15:59.520 that's not related. But after she said it, like I 0:15:59.600 --> 0:16:04.360 was like, you got paranoid. Yeah, And then like so 0:16:04.480 --> 0:16:05.960 I was just like, let me just stick to weed, 0:16:06.600 --> 0:16:08.720 even though I don't. I don't think there's any research 0:16:08.840 --> 0:16:13.440 back in that statement, and then it feel I didn't 0:16:13.440 --> 0:16:15.640 feel guilty about smoking. I really feel like it's of 0:16:15.680 --> 0:16:19.360 the earth. It's really natural shit. For like years up 0:16:19.440 --> 0:16:23.320 until like sixties, like not that long ago, they condone 0:16:23.640 --> 0:16:26.280 smoking cigarettes for pregnant women, and it was a totally 0:16:26.280 --> 0:16:29.040 normal thing. And there's like, you know a lot of 0:16:29.200 --> 0:16:32.000 infant deaths related to cigarette. 0:16:31.440 --> 0:16:34.359 Smoking, So that's true. 0:16:34.720 --> 0:16:37.640 So I mean, I'm let me just say, the hippie 0:16:37.640 --> 0:16:39.640 part of me totally does is not down with the 0:16:39.640 --> 0:16:42.080 health industry in America, and I'm more about like doing 0:16:42.080 --> 0:16:44.560 what's natural, So I don't trust them anyway. 0:16:45.280 --> 0:16:48.240 Weed comes from the ground, but unfortunately the weed that 0:16:48.280 --> 0:16:50.040 people are a lot of people are smoking now are 0:16:50.080 --> 0:16:53.320 sprayed with so many different things. Yeah, that it could 0:16:53.360 --> 0:16:56.160 be unhealthy, right, it could be unhealthy, you know, Like 0:16:56.200 --> 0:16:57.440 but if you're smoking. 0:16:57.120 --> 0:16:59.600 Weed that your friends that grew it, yeah. 0:16:59.720 --> 0:17:02.320 Yeah, I mean even some dispensaries you can trust, but 0:17:02.400 --> 0:17:04.679 like you have to know where it's you know, trust 0:17:04.840 --> 0:17:05.359 the source. 0:17:05.520 --> 0:17:06.119 Yeah. 0:17:06.160 --> 0:17:10.400 But I mean I think aside from just being pregnant 0:17:10.400 --> 0:17:14.480 and smoking, I think after smoking, like like just like 0:17:14.520 --> 0:17:17.760 I mentioned in other episodes that I felt this weird 0:17:17.960 --> 0:17:20.960 like responsibility to be a certain way after I had Iri, 0:17:21.600 --> 0:17:24.480 and I felt like, I think also because my baby 0:17:24.560 --> 0:17:29.800 daddy smoked weed so heavily, like all the time, like 0:17:30.000 --> 0:17:33.480 even that's like part of the bond in our relationships. 0:17:33.640 --> 0:17:35.760 And then he continued to smoke, and then I really 0:17:35.800 --> 0:17:39.320 didn't smoke anymore. And then my I just got kind 0:17:39.359 --> 0:17:42.399 of annoyed by it, by his excessive smoking when I 0:17:42.400 --> 0:17:44.199 didn't smoke, because I'm like, oh, well, you get to 0:17:44.240 --> 0:17:45.440 just keep living your life. 0:17:45.680 --> 0:17:48.400 No, and I'm over here just fucking nine months pregnant. 0:17:48.680 --> 0:17:51.120