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Speaker 1: So of course this is waiting met a phone where

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Speaker 4: Okay, So I met him at a beer line at

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Speaker 1: It's the baseball hat sunglasses thing. See, if you go

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Speaker 1: You're saying, yeah, okay, that's a good sign. Except for

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I tried, and I don't know. I don't know

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Speaker 4: what's up. I'm you know, persistent, but not like crazy

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Speaker 4: Stockery don't right now, you don't know.

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Speaker 1: We don't want crazy Stocker right now. All right, Well,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna find out what's up. Part two off waiting

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Speaker 2: Hey, Daisy, all right, welcome back. Let's call Alex.

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Speaker 1: You guys met at a baseball game, exchange numbers, did

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Speaker 1: all that stuff whatever, and wound up going on another date.

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Speaker 2: He was better looking the second time. You were way

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Speaker 1: He thought the date went really well, except since that

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Speaker 1: Good luck, Daisy, Okay, thank you. Hello, Hi, sus Alex. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is Alex.

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Speaker 2: Good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred Show, the morning radio show,

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Speaker 1: We have a woman named Daisy who I guess you

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Speaker 2: Do you remember Daisy? Uh huh, yeah, I do. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Because she called us and told us that she thought

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Speaker 1: Are you ghosting her on purpose? It looks like.

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Speaker 5: I'm not calling Daisy back, because I mean she was

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Speaker 1: Well, now let me ask you did you? Did you, Alex?

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Speaker 2: Right? That's annoying.

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Speaker 4: Well, it's like I don't I don't know. I guess

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Speaker 4: I just show up and I look at the menu.

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Speaker 2: So like, I went there, I saw the menu and.

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Speaker 4: I didn't like it, So why would I force myself

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Speaker 2: So you knew, but you knew you were going there.

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Speaker 1: But again, if you know that you are picky, and

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but he suggested a.

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Speaker 2: So like, Okay, I said, Okay, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: So what if Daisy had said, you say, we're going

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Speaker 1: I don't I don't like sushi or something or whatever

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know what I mean, like, hey, everybody's got opinions.

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Speaker 5: You know, I'm not gonna, you know, throw on her

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Speaker 2: I mean, unless you don't like either of those. You know,

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Speaker 2: it's like I pick something, Yeah, pick something. I'm with him,

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Speaker 2: block her, block her.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, It's like, who has time to be going to

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Speaker 6: like the first spot, okay, I mean even that, to me,

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Speaker 2: But then the second spot.

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Speaker 6: You don't think like your spidey senses, don't say maybe

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Speaker 6: I should google the menu before we go to another spot. No,

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Speaker 6: you go to another spot and then you don't like

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Speaker 2: Because if I burnt it out.

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Speaker 1: No, there's a good chance that I don't like anything

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Speaker 1: at a lot of places. Then I think that's something

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get ahead of, right so that this doesn't happen.

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Speaker 2: But hey, you know that's she didn't.

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Speaker 1: And Alex, you're saying you don't want to deal with this,

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Speaker 1: like not even not even if you guys agree to

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Speaker 1: you won't consider it.

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Speaker 4: Nah.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I'm sorry, you know, I gotta say no.

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Speaker 5: You know, Daisy's you know you're not a bad girl,

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Speaker 5: but I mean, you know, come on, I guess you.

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Speaker 4: Just can't handle a strong independent woman girl.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's what this is.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, all right, all right, I guess you can't, Alex.

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Speaker 1: You can't a strong independent woman who doesn't like chip, squacamole, bread,

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Speaker 1: meat chick, she has like sugar, she's like lactose intolerance.

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Speaker 2: She anyway, Gosh, girls, I wish you the best, both

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Speaker 2: of you. Thank you for your time, Alex and Daisy.

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Speaker 2: Good luck,