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Speaker 2: So here it is.

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Speaker 1: It says, hey, Freddie boy, I don't want to leave

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Speaker 2: But I'm a construction worker.

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Speaker 1: I make good money to the point where I'm not

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Speaker 1: My company just picked up a good job that's out

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Speaker 1: way that it's supposed to, I could be making three

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Speaker 1: I would fly there Sunday afternoon and home on Thursday

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Speaker 1: every week. The problem is that my wife isn't thrilled

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Speaker 1: But would anyone in their right mind pass up the opportunity?

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Speaker 1: What should I do.

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Speaker 2: So she doesn't.

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Speaker 1: This guy's wife does not trust him clearly and doesn't

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Speaker 2: I don't see how. And I wrote him back.

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Speaker 1: I said, I don't see how you turn this down,

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Speaker 1: and he says, yeah, it's a no brainer. I mean,

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Speaker 1: Granted you have to travel, but he won't be gone.

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Speaker 3: It won't be He won't be going for the entire time.

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Speaker 3: He comes home every weekend, right, exactly perfect? Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: If he has a bunch of kids, or if there's

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Speaker 1: But doesn't sound like that's the problem. It sounds like

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Speaker 1: because she thinks I'm going for fun. I mean Okay,

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Speaker 1: but he's coming home with three times as much money.

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Speaker 1: So how much in that money? In those four days

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Speaker 2: Where's he going to, like for fun? Is he going

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Eight five five one one

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Speaker 2: What what do you think here? What? What should he do?

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Speaker 2: He has to go? No, no, don't leave his wife?

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Speaker 1: Yes, if she can't understand, then maybe you need to

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Speaker 1: I know some people I have friends who travel for work,

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Speaker 1: Well, that's the thing I like, he didn't include in

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Speaker 5: I'm going to assume that's not on the money and

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Speaker 4: Be away from all the feeling for her, right because

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Speaker 4: Maybe that's maybe that's her fears that he'll get so

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Speaker 1: You'll call a lady of the night, a lady of

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Speaker 2: Hey, good morning man. So what should this guy do?

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Speaker 1: Does he take the job three months he's gone four

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Speaker 4: You should absolutely take the job.

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Speaker 6: That it sounds like he's wanting to improve herself so

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Speaker 1: I would like to believe Brendan that if there was

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Speaker 1: Like that's that's cut and dry. You know, she doesn't

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Speaker 1: have a good day. Then he'll probably resent, I appreciate you,

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Speaker 2: You know, he probably resent. They'd be like, you can't

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Speaker 1: going to require sacrifice. Hey Corey, Hi, Corey, good morning.

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Speaker 1: Well I'm holding on. Hi Corey, are we there? Are

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Speaker 1: we all good? Yep?

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Speaker 5: We're good.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, that's okay. What did you want to say? Good morning?

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Speaker 5: Good morning? So I think he should definitely go on

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Speaker 5: the business trip because I mean, at the end of

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Speaker 5: the day, it all comes down to trust with his wife.

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Speaker 5: My parents had a similar thing way back when my

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Speaker 5: dad had a business trip where he had to travel

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Speaker 5: to the Philippines and he had to stay there for

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Speaker 5: two months and then he would come back for a month.

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Speaker 5: And this was an ongoing thing for about two years.

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Speaker 5: So my mom had to have trust in him that,

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Speaker 5: you know, he was just going for this business trip

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Speaker 5: obviously to better his career, but he wasn't going to

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Speaker 5: have fun like it was. It was a job, it

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Speaker 5: was a career. So if she doesn't trust him, and

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Speaker 5: that's kind of a huge thing in their relationship. So

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Speaker 5: he definitely should go to further his career and make

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Speaker 5: the money.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 1: And also, I feel like if someone's gonna cheat, they

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Speaker 1: don't have to go to another state to do it, exactly,

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Speaker 1: They'll just do it. They'll they'll do it, right. I mean,

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Speaker 1: most people just cheat right in front almost almost once.

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Speaker 1: You a lot of people I know who are being

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Speaker 1: cheated on, once they found out about it, it was happening

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Speaker 1: right under their nose, you know what I mean. So

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Speaker 1: this guy is that don't have to go you know,

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Speaker 1: five hours away or wherever he's going. He doesn't have

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Speaker 1: to go that far away to cheat if he wants to,

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Speaker 1: right exactly.

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Speaker 5: So I don't understand what her deal is. But I

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Speaker 5: mean it's not like he's doing anything and obviously, I

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Speaker 5: mean he's working hard, so yeah, he should respect it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, thank you, Corey, have a good day. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: By Yeah, I mean, it's obviously people are saying, well,

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Speaker 1: maybe she would miss him. Yeah, I mean, it's their

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Speaker 1: sacrifice here.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But I you know, maybe I'm more defensive over this

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Speaker 1: particular topic because I have friends who and most of

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Speaker 1: their husbands and wives are supportive. But every now and

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Speaker 1: again it's like, well, it must be nice. Everyone thinks

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Speaker 1: the other person scenario is better. Oh yeah, you know

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Speaker 1: it's like, well, I you know, you hear all the

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Speaker 1: time about one or the other in a couple is

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Speaker 1: working while one of the other is raising the kids.

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Speaker 1: And it's like, you know, the person comes home from

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Speaker 1: work and they're tired, and the person who's been raising

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Speaker 1: the kids all day is tired, and then the other

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Speaker 1: one's like, well, why don't you do this or you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like, and I think, not all

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Speaker 1: the time, but I think a lot of times some

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Speaker 1: of those people would switch. You know, I never get

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Speaker 1: to take my kid to school, like a lot of

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Speaker 1: people who do this job in the morning. And if

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Speaker 1: you're listening now, you work early in the morning. You know,

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Speaker 1: most I have friends in the morning show business who

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Speaker 1: have never taken their kids to school, not once. They

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Speaker 1: miss all the morning coffees, they miss all of the

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Speaker 1: And it's like, you think that a lot of those

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Speaker 1: people would you know, yeah, they get to go have

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Speaker 1: fun on the radio with their friends. You think they

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Speaker 1: wouldn't rather be at their kids thing, you know, And

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Speaker 1: it's like I don't know. I think sometimes we don't

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Speaker 1: take the time to look at the other person's perspective

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Speaker 1: and say, yeah, I'm in a cool place. I'm in Rio,

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Speaker 1: but I don't have the money that my boss, the

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Speaker 1: rich boss has. I got to be ready for him

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Speaker 1: to call me at any time to leave. I'm not

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Speaker 1: out here rinking and gam when I'm having a good

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Speaker 1: old time, not staying where I want to stay.

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Speaker 2: Yep, my wife and kids aren't here. You know, I

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Speaker 2: don't know. It's not always that great.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Michelle, Michelle high, good morning.

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Speaker 2: What do you think stare go and turn your radio down?

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Speaker 1: Turn your radio down, please, Michelle, thank you. That's okay. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So what he should go? Like, he should go on

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Speaker 1: the trip?

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Speaker 2: Why money? Take a trip?

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Speaker 4: You know, when you're in a relationship, you need, you know,

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Speaker 4: a little bit of separation to miss each other and

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Speaker 4: then make his money and then take around.

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Speaker 2: When he comes sick.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, there you go. Michelle's like, O, get

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Speaker 1: that money, get the hell out of my house for

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Speaker 1: five days. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I think a lot of people would say that too.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: For three months, You're telling me four or five nights

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Speaker 1: out of the week, I get my whole bed to myself,

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Speaker 1: and you're gonna come home with a bag of money.

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Speaker 2: Yes, okay, make that money.

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Speaker 4: And the person who said it's not cheating if it's

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Speaker 4: in a different area code, you should be ashamed of yourself.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's what ludacrous says, and I trust the

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Speaker 1: doctor and a ludicrous I followed.

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Speaker 2: My whole life follows that. That's sure.