1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:04,640 Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:07,280 Speaker 2: This is the almost Famous podcast. 4 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:11,680 Speaker 3: We are here at the baby shower with Bachelor Nation 5 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 3: Royalty Courtney and then her husband. And she was just 6 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:21,439 Speaker 3: mentioning what she calls him outside of Umberto, and I 7 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:22,600 Speaker 3: would love to hear what you call. 8 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 4: I'd love to hear that too. I love Umberto. 9 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 2: I mean, I feel like it can't get sexier. 10 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 4: I will be changing. I'm starting to get like I 11 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 4: got a pegleg in. 12 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 5: Depends on the day. 13 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 6: You usually a good day. What do you call h 14 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:43,240 Speaker 6: or honey? 15 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 7: It's pretty ten h I. 16 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 5: Just call him age because it's eight. It's h U 17 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:47,479 Speaker 5: M b E R t O. 18 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:49,960 Speaker 6: And I took his last name, which is Presciotto, which 19 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 6: gets butchered. People call us Bob Guinea. 20 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 3: There's no chance you When he showed up to dinner 21 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 3: the first time, Bertha Pressiato, You're like, all right, well, Coney, 22 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 3: no kind of what happened? 23 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:11,840 Speaker 4: I know this. 24 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:14,400 Speaker 6: It's like, should we get a fish both sized? Marguerite, 25 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 6: I'm like, yes, let's get that. 26 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:18,920 Speaker 2: How many months later did you have your first child? 27 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:20,039 Speaker 4: Three? 28 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 7: How many months later would have. 29 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 3: Been fourteen months later? After the first day your first 30 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 3: child was born. 31 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:30,560 Speaker 2: We're here, this is this is a great experience. 32 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 5: Late we met on Instagram, like you and Chess. 33 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 3: That's what we were talking about tonight, and I wanted 34 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 3: to dive into that right away. Is I asked in Berto, 35 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 3: how did you two met meet? And he said Instagram? 36 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 3: And I said, that's how my wife and I met, 37 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 3: Which is such an incredible thing that you hear it 38 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 3: more and more, I guess, but I would love for 39 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 3: you to just repeat because Courtney's obviously from this franchise. 40 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 3: People out there freaking out that they get the meet 41 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 3: her in person. You are not familiar with this franchise 42 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 3: and you weren't familiar with the friendranchise. 43 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 2: When you message each other, he doesn't care at all. 44 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 4: But when you why did. 45 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:11,520 Speaker 2: You why did you message her? And how did this 46 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 2: even come about? 47 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 4: Yeah? 48 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 8: No, no, no, we talked about a little bit. I I 49 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:18,240 Speaker 8: I knew who she was, knew of her sort of, 50 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 8: you know, because we're both from Phoenix. I feel like 51 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 8: she was, you know, on the news or TV or something. 52 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 7: I didn't. I didn't watch the batch, so I didn't 53 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 7: follow anything. 54 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:28,519 Speaker 8: I had no real idea of you know, how it 55 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:30,960 Speaker 8: all work for the most part. But I knew who 56 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 8: she was and she was on Instagram. I was new 57 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 8: to social media, you know. 58 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 7: I looked her up. 59 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:40,000 Speaker 8: I saw her and uh, you know, I was telling 60 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 8: you to one of the things, like she was just 61 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 8: a cool girl. Like there wasn't a lot of like 62 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 8: risky photos you know she was. 63 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:49,520 Speaker 7: It wasn't like, you know, it was just cool stuff. 64 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 4: She was cools put it out there. 65 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:56,799 Speaker 8: Yeah, it wasn't like she wasn't like it just wasn't that. 66 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 8: You know, she has seemed very cool, very chill, right 67 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:00,079 Speaker 8: down to earth. 68 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:02,919 Speaker 7: You know. So I liked a few photos. 69 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:05,959 Speaker 8: Sure enough, she ends up responding and sends me a 70 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 8: DM like do we know each other? 71 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:09,840 Speaker 7: Have we ever met? And I'm like, no, I'm pretty 72 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 7: sure I remembered you. 73 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 4: Hold on, hold on. So this is interesting. So Courtney 74 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 4: actually theoretically like a lot of pictures I like bowling photos, basketball, 75 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 4: and no one's following me. 76 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 6: I had seen you had been like my photos for 77 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:22,800 Speaker 6: two years. 78 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 2: But how did you know? 79 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 5: I just saw him. 80 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 6: You know how our feets can get a little crazy, 81 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 6: And I was like, oh, I've seen this guy, like 82 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 6: maybe you know in real estate you meet people, And 83 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:34,640 Speaker 6: I was like, or you meet somebody and then they 84 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 6: follow you and then like you didn't. 85 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 5: Follow them back. 86 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 6: That's what I truly did think, like maybe we met before, 87 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 6: because I keep seeing his name in my feet like 88 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 6: as a like and then I to. 89 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 4: Be fair, it's not like John Smith. No, it's a 90 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 4: Bertha Press. 91 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 7: You gotta stand you. 92 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 5: That's and he never commented. 93 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 6: So I looked at his patures like phoenix looks like 94 00:03:56,880 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 6: it comes from a good family, not posting like weird stuff. 95 00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 6: Like it was like all family oriented, which is like 96 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 6: my love language. 97 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 5: So I messaged him. 98 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 6: I was like, I'm just I kind of thought maybe 99 00:04:06,360 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 6: we met, but long story short, you wrote back right away. 100 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 6: We went on a date three days later. We lived 101 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 6: five blocks from each other on. 102 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 5: This same on the same street, on the same street. 103 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 6: And I was just like spent on dating. Like I 104 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 6: was like kind of at that, like you know, I 105 00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:22,280 Speaker 6: need to put myself out there more. 106 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 5: I'm my homebody. 107 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 6: And on that like first date, like he was like 108 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 6: with intention, like we had like a you actually liked 109 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:31,160 Speaker 6: that I got up to check the sun's game. 110 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 8: I liked a lot of things I've told people I've 111 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 8: told what what's the One of the funniest parts of 112 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 8: that night was. I remember like it was yesterday, so 113 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 8: it was Friday. I don't Diamondbacks versus Red Sox opening day. 114 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:47,719 Speaker 7: It was like a three. 115 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:49,360 Speaker 5: Thirty first link too. 116 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 8: I go with one of my best friends, so i'd 117 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 8: lived with at the time, and we were We get 118 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:58,640 Speaker 8: absolutely obliterated. We're like, met friends from his from work. 119 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 8: I knew another attorney who's there. She's a big Red 120 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:06,120 Speaker 8: Sox fan. We're getting drinks. We end up doing shots 121 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:09,279 Speaker 8: and I think Hennessey or something whatever. 122 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, no, it was. It was bad. 123 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 7: It was all bad. I called her. 124 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 8: We hadn't met yet, and I called her and I 125 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 8: was like, listen, I want to meet up. I still 126 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 8: want to be help with you, but I got to 127 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 8: tell you something I'm not. 128 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 6: I was already in an uber to meet it because 129 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:24,600 Speaker 6: guys picked me up to meet this night. 130 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 4: Yeah. 131 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 8: I was like, I'm in bad shape, Like just so 132 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 8: you tonight and I said maybe not tonight, Like I'm 133 00:05:29,960 --> 00:05:32,000 Speaker 8: not trying to I'm not trying to flake on you, 134 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 8: Like I'm just trying to be like, don't hold it 135 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:41,480 Speaker 8: against the kind of best version and She's like, no, no. 136 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 7: We're good, Like I'm gonna I'll be right there. 137 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 8: I remember like running down the stream in Phoenix to 138 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:48,679 Speaker 8: catch my uber. Like I remember like I saw someone 139 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 8: that I knew was like yelling at me. 140 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 7: Like what are you doing. I was like, I got 141 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:51,920 Speaker 7: to catch an. 142 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:57,159 Speaker 8: Uber because yeah, so it might have been like he 143 00:05:57,279 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 8: was going to a son's game. 144 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:00,640 Speaker 7: So he was in a parking street person. 145 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 6: Jeans and John Taylor's and I was like, I'm not 146 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 6: putting much into this. 147 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 5: I was like, so over dating. 148 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:09,600 Speaker 2: So I mean, this is where it comes to you. 149 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 3: Then you obviously come off the show and like attention 150 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 3: was not something that maybe you wanted, but you were getting. 151 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:23,480 Speaker 4: Well, you were a lightning rod I d right. I mean, 152 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 4: you're the only one I've ever seen a meme. It's like, 153 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 4: you know, it was so good. 154 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:34,680 Speaker 6: Now they would have just just tortured me, and with 155 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 6: the memes and the. 156 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 4: Tetok I felt like they kind of did then in 157 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 4: a weird way. But you came off as in this 158 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:42,599 Speaker 4: way that you were just kind of like double guns 159 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:46,480 Speaker 4: in it every step of the way. But it's not you. 160 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 4: You're such a your version of the person that we 161 00:06:50,800 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 4: saw on that show, and I mean that is a 162 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 4: very big compent. 163 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 5: By the way, You're not kind of you to say, well, 164 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 5: I honestly. 165 00:06:56,240 --> 00:07:03,279 Speaker 9: You're such a great word for he literally watch watch 166 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 9: you know that you like practiced eight times. 167 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 7: Using the perfect I'm using the perfect tak. 168 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:14,840 Speaker 5: The thing that I loved you. 169 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 6: I mean to take it back to like put a 170 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 6: bow on that story was like I remember that night. 171 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 6: I didn't want to lead with the show stuff. He 172 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 6: didn't care about it. And it was hard to date 173 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 6: after the show because people saw me and they're like, oh, 174 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 6: she's this girl who went skinny topping and this and that, 175 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 6: and like I attracted a lot of like. 176 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:32,239 Speaker 5: The wrong type of people. 177 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 6: Sure, but like when I met you, he just like 178 00:07:34,880 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 6: you said, doesn't care and he's like the least cool 179 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 6: thing about you is that you after you got to 180 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 6: know me a little bit, is that you went on 181 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:44,040 Speaker 6: The Bachelor, And I was like, thank you, like whereas 182 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 6: when I will. 183 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 4: Don't all hope that's what our partners. I watch the 184 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 4: show either, so. 185 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 2: And I think Jessica and I have talked about the show. 186 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 5: Did she did she watch her season? He's not watched mine. 187 00:07:55,560 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 3: Goodness, we've talked about the show and like intimacy and 188 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 3: not just like passing, oh there's a or whatever. Five 189 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 3: times in our relationship. I think most of those were 190 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 3: within the first few months, like it's not a thing, 191 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:11,640 Speaker 3: and it was yeah, it's refreshing, I guess. But like 192 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 3: here's my question for you. There wasn't like a moment 193 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 3: where I was like, oh, it's so nice not to 194 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 3: have this a part of my life or talk about 195 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 3: it or whatever, because it is something I'm you know, 196 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:22,040 Speaker 3: it's a big part of my life. 197 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 5: Yes, you're still in it, you do a podcast. 198 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 3: It's different with my wife, like it's I know when 199 00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 3: I'm with her. 200 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:33,199 Speaker 2: There was never that idea. 201 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 3: Or never that baggage or never that those questions and so. 202 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:37,840 Speaker 4: Expectation, expectations. 203 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 3: So what about this relationship made you go this is 204 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:44,440 Speaker 3: what I actually want to commit to? 205 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, oh gosh, so many things. I mean, I mean 206 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 5: you look at like. 207 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 6: Going on a first date, like core values like family 208 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 6: and the way he talked about his mom even on 209 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:55,559 Speaker 6: the first date and he went to law school in 210 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 6: New York and then it's not his mom this, No, 211 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 6: he didn't we talked about like on our first date, 212 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 6: like I I believe it or not, this is a 213 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 6: kind of an interesting story. On our first date that morning, 214 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:12,440 Speaker 6: I went because I was thirty six, and I went 215 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:15,200 Speaker 6: into look into freezing my eggs because I was like, 216 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:18,720 Speaker 6: I'm ready to like really actively date here. I remember 217 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:20,720 Speaker 6: you texted me that morning and you were like, what 218 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 6: are you doing today? I was like, I have a meeting. 219 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:24,400 Speaker 6: I'm actually going to Like, look, I think I just 220 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 6: told you. I was like, I was like I want 221 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:29,560 Speaker 6: to meet people and be like I'm like thirty six, 222 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:31,720 Speaker 6: Like I knew I wanted a family, and you told 223 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:33,559 Speaker 6: me that night. You're like if I met somebody who 224 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 6: didn't want a family, that would be a non starter. 225 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 5: Like we talked like like I knew, Like you know. 226 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:39,200 Speaker 6: When you go on a date when you're single and 227 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 6: you're like, is this a date? Like we just met 228 00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 6: on Instagram friends. Yeah, but like we talked about like 229 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 6: it felt like an old school date, like core values. 230 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 6: He talked about going to law school, his mom got 231 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 6: diagnosed with breast cancer right before he left, and should 232 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 6: I go, and like just the way he talked about 233 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 6: his family and he met my family like right away, 234 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 6: which I never do. Yeah, I mean, and they loved him. 235 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:04,440 Speaker 6: But like, apart from the show, I mean, that's a 236 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 6: tough question. I just yard saled. Sorry, guys, I met 237 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:11,200 Speaker 6: the bridal shower, the baby shower. 238 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 7: There would have been guilt, that was the thought. 239 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 8: But I talked to my mom and you know, my 240 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:19,640 Speaker 8: sister and family, and there would have at the end 241 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 8: of the day, there would have been more guilt not 242 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 8: to go. I don't stay. You can't do anything if 243 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:28,960 Speaker 8: you If you stay for her, she's going to be 244 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 8: miserable and she's going to think she kept you, she. 245 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:33,199 Speaker 4: Kept you back from right. 246 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:35,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, but we did have some growing pains in the 247 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 6: beginning of our relationship. Everybody everybody does, so like I 248 00:10:40,679 --> 00:10:42,440 Speaker 6: don't think he really I was like, well, you didn't 249 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:45,320 Speaker 6: do your homework because he was like once we started 250 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:48,520 Speaker 6: getting serious, I mean we met in April and then 251 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:52,160 Speaker 6: he moved in in July because I wouldn't like I knew. 252 00:10:52,200 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 5: I was like, this is the person for me. 253 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 6: But then like the book stuff started, Like I think 254 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:58,199 Speaker 6: he kind of like started hearing stuff and like that, 255 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:01,199 Speaker 6: you know the clickbait ben oh, yeah, the clickbait and 256 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:03,439 Speaker 6: like how headlines are I'm like, you gotta like, you 257 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 6: don't you're not getting context about my book. Like if 258 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 6: you read like the you know when you go on 259 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:10,600 Speaker 6: a podcast, they don't do their due diligence and it's like, oh, 260 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 6: I just read the cliffs notes, like yeah, there's more 261 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:13,960 Speaker 6: to make. 262 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:15,440 Speaker 4: Friends, and you did this and you did that. 263 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 6: It's like it's like that's just a headline, but like 264 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 6: you didn't read and Ben wrote a book, like you know, 265 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:21,839 Speaker 6: there's more to the story. 266 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 5: But it was it was you were like, what if 267 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 5: we have kids. 268 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 6: Someday and they're like, I'm you know, your mom would 269 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:30,520 Speaker 6: like what are his friends going to say? And I 270 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:32,440 Speaker 6: was like, they're gonna say, my mom wrote a New 271 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:36,959 Speaker 6: York Times bestseller, right, and that she's a strong, independent woman, 272 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 6: and and we little stuff like that, but then we 273 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 6: got through it. 274 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:41,680 Speaker 7: Yeah. 275 00:11:41,760 --> 00:11:45,439 Speaker 4: No, So that's that's what defines not just relationships with friendships, right, 276 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 4: You go through adversity and you come out the other 277 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:48,680 Speaker 4: end stronger. 278 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:49,040 Speaker 7: No. 279 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:51,679 Speaker 4: I think it says a lot about all relationships, like 280 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:53,200 Speaker 4: you go through your things and you come out on 281 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:55,200 Speaker 4: the other side. If you don't have any challenges, then 282 00:11:55,240 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 4: you never know what you're made of. 283 00:11:56,440 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 8: I just think for me, personally, I think it was 284 00:11:58,240 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 8: just something obviously new to me. 285 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 7: I was not in the public eye. 286 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:04,320 Speaker 8: I'd never had anybody talk to me or take pictures 287 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:06,360 Speaker 8: of me or anything, you know. 288 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:09,960 Speaker 7: I I think that the timing was for the most. 289 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 8: Part, when we announced Joaquin, you know, the pregnancy was 290 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:17,080 Speaker 8: hard for him, and I was like, well, you know, 291 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:21,360 Speaker 8: I felt like Joaquin's like the pregnancy and our baby 292 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 8: was kind of second fiddle to like anything they could 293 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:29,000 Speaker 8: say negative about Courtney, like she was this, she was 294 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 8: that she was the villain. It was like pictures of 295 00:12:32,520 --> 00:12:35,360 Speaker 8: the Bachelor instead of like I was like, well, it's 296 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:37,520 Speaker 8: something nice for us to announce, like we were in 297 00:12:37,559 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 8: New York, you know, we pictures from New York that 298 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:42,320 Speaker 8: we you know, the magazine. 299 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 5: Guy I love New York one. 300 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:46,120 Speaker 8: Yeah, And it was like everything was tailored towards like 301 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:49,199 Speaker 8: ridiculing her and like bringing up old stuff with her 302 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:50,439 Speaker 8: rather than like, oh, yeah. 303 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:52,640 Speaker 7: We're gonna have a baby. Guys, Like it's kind of it's. 304 00:12:52,520 --> 00:12:56,560 Speaker 4: The dark side of of what we've all been blessed with, Right, 305 00:12:56,600 --> 00:12:59,880 Speaker 4: you get this opportunity. There's great things that come with it, 306 00:12:59,880 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 4: but there's also that ship that comes with it too. 307 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 4: That that is exactly what you're talking about, where they're 308 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 4: they're almost unearthing stuff to not let you celebrate that moment, 309 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:09,960 Speaker 4: right just to point out, you know. And it's she. 310 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:12,679 Speaker 6: And she's like, it's like, we're not going to send 311 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 6: these articles to Like he's like, I don't want to 312 00:13:14,400 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 6: send this to my parents. 313 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:21,240 Speaker 4: Like it stills. 314 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 3: This day, like you, oh, yeah, we announced that we 315 00:13:25,200 --> 00:13:26,679 Speaker 3: got pregnant. And then at the end of the article 316 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 3: is like Ben Higgins and Lorne Bushnell in season whatever 317 00:13:31,360 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 3: broke up, and it's like, well, that's a wild ending 318 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:35,719 Speaker 3: too for us. 319 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:38,440 Speaker 4: Or for us our kids will do something and they'll say, 320 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 4: Bob was previously married to actress and it's like. 321 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:42,320 Speaker 2: They still have. 322 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:46,400 Speaker 4: Her own family too, and we like each other and 323 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:48,079 Speaker 4: we're fine, Like you don't have to tell me. You 324 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:49,600 Speaker 4: have to remind everyone that you know. 325 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 2: But here is the point to it all. 326 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:04,960 Speaker 3: And I'm Bertha, this is a question for you like history, 327 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:06,559 Speaker 3: and I think it's a good lesson for any of 328 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 3: it listens to us who has been on the show, 329 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:14,439 Speaker 3: Like that was a really terrible moment history. That's that's brutal, 330 00:14:14,520 --> 00:14:16,360 Speaker 3: that that was the way that existed, and that the 331 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:19,880 Speaker 3: way that people handled it. But looking back now, like 332 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:23,000 Speaker 3: those negative stories are no longer really they hold no 333 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 3: weight in your life. 334 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 2: I'm assuming, right, zero. 335 00:14:25,320 --> 00:14:28,560 Speaker 7: Zero, I care less, Like, yeah, it means nothing anymore. 336 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 8: Like I said, time heels life. 337 00:14:32,240 --> 00:14:34,920 Speaker 3: For anybody is when they're sitting in these moments of despair, 338 00:14:35,360 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 3: no matter where you're at, if you've been on the 339 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 3: show or you're just maybe you have a bad rumor 340 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:39,520 Speaker 3: in high school. 341 00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:41,600 Speaker 2: Right, we have a lot of high schoolers. 342 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 3: That listen to this thing, sure, and they're sitting there 343 00:14:43,360 --> 00:14:45,760 Speaker 3: like this is the world's falling down around me. 344 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:48,640 Speaker 7: Everybody hates me, and I get it. 345 00:14:48,800 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 3: It's not an that's that's not a feeling that you 346 00:14:51,080 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 3: should feel a shame about or that nobody else has 347 00:14:54,120 --> 00:14:56,280 Speaker 3: felt that way. We've all probably room could have those 348 00:14:57,120 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 3: time and and some some length will look back and 349 00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:02,640 Speaker 3: you'll be like, that was a moment I had some growth. 350 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:06,560 Speaker 3: It's understanding I saw things maybe a little more clearly. 351 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 4: It's a perspective. 352 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:10,080 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, I mean that time heals all wounds, and 353 00:15:10,160 --> 00:15:13,040 Speaker 7: time is obviously it's you know cyclical. 354 00:15:14,960 --> 00:15:18,080 Speaker 8: Yeah, like and time like I don't have time to 355 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 8: deal with it. I mean like, yeah, three kids, like 356 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:27,680 Speaker 8: three kids, Like for me to go read articles now, 357 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:30,520 Speaker 8: I can guarantee you that's not happening, Like I don't care, 358 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:31,880 Speaker 8: Like honestly, at this point, they. 359 00:15:31,840 --> 00:15:34,200 Speaker 7: Can write whatever they want, like, you know, person, I 360 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:34,600 Speaker 7: don't care. 361 00:15:35,320 --> 00:15:38,560 Speaker 4: Person. It's like it doesn't matter what I did. 362 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:40,400 Speaker 7: Then, Like that's not any different. 363 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:43,080 Speaker 8: You know, the love was there, it's just the fact 364 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:46,160 Speaker 8: that like I think I was annoyed. 365 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 7: That's like you know, you're. 366 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:50,840 Speaker 8: Yeah, you're like you're taking away from our stuff, like 367 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 8: you're attacking her. 368 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 7: Well or maybe not attacking, but like I remember one 369 00:15:55,640 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 7: of the articles or the like. 370 00:15:57,080 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 8: The clickbaits or the you know, the the links was 371 00:15:59,840 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 8: like the ending of it was like the proposal for 372 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 8: her and the Bachelor. Yeah, like you know like if 373 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 8: I send this to my sisters, they're gonna like watch 374 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:13,800 Speaker 8: the proposal, like they're not going to see like because 375 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:17,000 Speaker 8: it'd be cool, right, Like not everybody has People magazine 376 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:17,720 Speaker 8: for their kids. 377 00:16:18,280 --> 00:16:20,640 Speaker 4: You're going to have that in Touch or whatever it is. 378 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:23,480 Speaker 8: You know, it's like it's cool if they're they're on 379 00:16:23,520 --> 00:16:25,480 Speaker 8: this and there's an article about them, Like they'll all 380 00:16:25,520 --> 00:16:28,600 Speaker 8: get to see an article about them someday, right, but 381 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 8: it's like the stuff with walking, especially Joaquin, like it's 382 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 8: fizzled out as you get to baby number three. Yeah, Joaquin, 383 00:16:35,800 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 8: like every article was like Courtney's first child. 384 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:43,160 Speaker 7: You know, she was the villain, she was a little. 385 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:48,440 Speaker 8: And then it was like the end was like the proposal, 386 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 8: and I was like, you know. 387 00:16:50,800 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 5: It really went for it. But I sure just has 388 00:16:53,920 --> 00:16:54,440 Speaker 5: dealt with that. 389 00:16:54,640 --> 00:16:57,920 Speaker 4: So I had I look out for Canyon my wife 390 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:00,200 Speaker 4: a lot with those moments when we had all her 391 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:03,840 Speaker 4: name's Jessica also, but yeah, I call her Candy as long. Sorry, 392 00:17:04,359 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 4: but I remember saying I was like, thank you. I 393 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 4: remember saying to them. I was like, guys, like I 394 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 4: get it when you walk like, well, my mom walks 395 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:13,160 Speaker 4: into the grocery store and sees me on the cover 396 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:14,840 Speaker 4: of magazine with the split down the middle and all 397 00:17:14,840 --> 00:17:18,439 Speaker 4: this kind of shit, and it's conjecture. I'm not Brad Pitt, 398 00:17:18,520 --> 00:17:21,679 Speaker 4: Like I'm not getting twenty million a movie, right, I'm 399 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:25,320 Speaker 4: a real show guy who's going back to his day gig, 400 00:17:25,760 --> 00:17:28,480 Speaker 4: so leave me alone. Yeah, and I saw get it 401 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:30,159 Speaker 4: on Bertha. I really do, like I get it, Like 402 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:32,399 Speaker 4: there comes a point where you're like the you know, 403 00:17:32,440 --> 00:17:35,520 Speaker 4: then for me, you know, and like, what the hell 404 00:17:35,560 --> 00:17:37,560 Speaker 4: you know? So I I do totally get that, and 405 00:17:37,600 --> 00:17:39,480 Speaker 4: I get what you're saying. I think there are moments 406 00:17:39,520 --> 00:17:41,439 Speaker 4: when you're kind of like, you know, and back then 407 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:43,840 Speaker 4: it was actual, real magazines. Now it's all online. Yeah, 408 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 4: hur'st way worse, I think, because anyone can say whatever 409 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:48,480 Speaker 4: they want, you know, online and you know, you know, 410 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:49,200 Speaker 4: no one, I. 411 00:17:49,119 --> 00:17:51,199 Speaker 5: Don't go there. It's the dark, you know. 412 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:52,879 Speaker 4: But back then it was like I'd see it on 413 00:17:52,880 --> 00:17:55,199 Speaker 4: the cover of magazine when I'm at Farmer Jack's with 414 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:59,119 Speaker 4: my mom and it's like this really sucks, you know, 415 00:17:59,240 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 4: because I didn't know that was coming out this yeah 416 00:18:01,880 --> 00:18:05,040 Speaker 4: or whatever. So okay, guys, I love first of all, 417 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 4: I love your guys relationship. I know we both courtey 418 00:18:08,920 --> 00:18:11,879 Speaker 4: I have. I've always adored you, and I love on 419 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:15,080 Speaker 4: birth the Press. I think it's so cool to have 420 00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:17,159 Speaker 4: you guys in the show. But it is time to 421 00:18:17,240 --> 00:18:20,080 Speaker 4: play a game that, you know, because Ben is a 422 00:18:20,119 --> 00:18:22,800 Speaker 4: new dad to be and I don't think that Ben 423 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:25,760 Speaker 4: really understands what goes into this whole game. Right now, 424 00:18:25,760 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 4: he gets it, like he's got to say, for college, 425 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:30,640 Speaker 4: right he gets in this stuff, but does Ben understand 426 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:34,000 Speaker 4: how much certain things cost at this stage in the game. 427 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:36,000 Speaker 4: So what we're gonna do is, we're gonna play a 428 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 4: game called the Price is Right, which I've always wanted 429 00:18:38,080 --> 00:18:41,560 Speaker 4: to do. We're gonna guess the price of these common 430 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:45,520 Speaker 4: baby items. I'm gonna go to my two experienced resources 431 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:49,640 Speaker 4: after Ben has already answered the question. Okay, so Ben, 432 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:53,360 Speaker 4: you may or may not know this, but a baby 433 00:18:53,400 --> 00:18:56,600 Speaker 4: bathtub is a necessity, right, So you can't just show 434 00:18:56,600 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 4: your kid in a real time game. We're gonna play 435 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:00,840 Speaker 4: this game. You gotta throw him at a to that you know. 436 00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:02,639 Speaker 4: Not only does it show you the temperature, which you 437 00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:05,760 Speaker 4: may gauge with your elbow, now is going to show 438 00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:08,120 Speaker 4: us the weight of this child when the water weight 439 00:19:08,200 --> 00:19:12,120 Speaker 4: is dispersed. There are several items that go into digital display, 440 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:13,760 Speaker 4: items that go into this bathtub. 441 00:19:13,800 --> 00:19:15,160 Speaker 2: So this is a digital bathtub. 442 00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:17,960 Speaker 4: It is a well, it's a standard baby bathtub. Actually 443 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:19,639 Speaker 4: that you would get a bad bathroom beyond it, I 444 00:19:19,720 --> 00:19:20,919 Speaker 4: still exist it or some other. 445 00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:23,840 Speaker 5: Child they go, they gone. 446 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:28,439 Speaker 4: So Ben, in your mind, what would a baby bathtub cost? 447 00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:31,920 Speaker 4: And is someone keeping track of these items? Or five 448 00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 4: forty five dollars? I think okay, I feel like you cheated. 449 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:40,760 Speaker 6: First of all, can I interject here, Yes, I don't 450 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:43,280 Speaker 6: think we have a digital bathtub. 451 00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 5: I think we need to clarify digital baths. 452 00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:49,000 Speaker 2: Experience. 453 00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:53,560 Speaker 7: We are not good parents, I guess I think that you. 454 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:55,000 Speaker 4: Guys are a little bit more old school. 455 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:57,480 Speaker 6: If you have a digital one or a plastic one, 456 00:19:57,520 --> 00:20:00,159 Speaker 6: that could be a big just for you. 457 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:03,399 Speaker 8: Put plastic ones in the bath so that the baby 458 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 8: can fit. But if there is but I would say thirty, 459 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:08,240 Speaker 8: I would say thirty. 460 00:20:08,359 --> 00:20:11,800 Speaker 6: I'd say nineteen ninety nine ninety nine, all right, nineteen 461 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:15,360 Speaker 6: ninety nine thirty and ben, I would say forty nine 462 00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 6: ninety nine one dollar. 463 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:21,600 Speaker 7: No, I would think you would think way more. Dig 464 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:25,720 Speaker 7: it's temperature temperature, gage temperature gauging. 465 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 4: Way bottles. 466 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:29,479 Speaker 3: This way, Let's run through all the items, and then 467 00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:31,159 Speaker 3: we'll run through all the items with them so they 468 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 3: have a chance to think about this. 469 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:35,639 Speaker 4: Because I gotta be honest, I want that answer of 470 00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:37,240 Speaker 4: Courtney's to be her. 471 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 2: Okay, fair, that's fair. I'm running down. 472 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:44,920 Speaker 4: Forget what on Berto said, doesn't need the family shop. Yeah, okay, guys, 473 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:48,200 Speaker 4: now we're onto a package of baby socks. I'm gonna 474 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:50,440 Speaker 4: go to Ben first Ben package. 475 00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:52,119 Speaker 2: Of baby socks twelve dollars. 476 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:56,359 Speaker 4: Twelve dollars. Guys, I'm guessing you did buy socks for 477 00:20:56,440 --> 00:20:57,960 Speaker 4: your children. I'm getting you. 478 00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 5: To seven ninety nine, eight books. 479 00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:03,360 Speaker 4: Seven Wow, your youngest right now? 480 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:06,359 Speaker 5: Seven months? It doesn't wear, So he. 481 00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:07,800 Speaker 4: Doesn't wear Socking's good enough. 482 00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:10,719 Speaker 7: We live in Phoenix, the hottest place on the planet. 483 00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:13,120 Speaker 4: Flip flops. 484 00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:18,600 Speaker 8: If we put him in diapers, he sweats, all right. 485 00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:22,600 Speaker 4: A sleep sack do we use? Oh? Yeah, okay, to 486 00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:25,040 Speaker 4: a bench first? Then what's the cost of a sleep sack? 487 00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:27,000 Speaker 2: Seventeen ninety nine? 488 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:31,359 Speaker 4: Okay, oh my god, you guys, I'm nailing these costs 489 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:33,720 Speaker 4: in my head, so clearly I'm way too obsessed with 490 00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:34,200 Speaker 4: this stuff. 491 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:37,080 Speaker 7: Courtney is about eight different options, which. 492 00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:43,560 Speaker 4: Not thermal, more of a jersey for speed speed. 493 00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:49,040 Speaker 6: I don't know why I go with the ninety nineteen. 494 00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:50,399 Speaker 6: What do you say, that's how they get you to 495 00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:50,719 Speaker 6: buy him? 496 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:51,360 Speaker 4: No, I like it. 497 00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:55,960 Speaker 8: I would say the cheaper and yeah, forty to fifty bucks, 498 00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:58,800 Speaker 8: let's go, we'll go forty. 499 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:05,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, a package of twenty five diapers. We're going minimal absorption. 500 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:10,919 Speaker 3: Thirteen dollars, thirteen dollars I'm. 501 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:13,080 Speaker 4: Gonna go to Umberto next, and then I'm gonna Courtney last. 502 00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:14,080 Speaker 4: It feels like a lot. 503 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:15,720 Speaker 2: That's like fifty cents a. 504 00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:18,040 Speaker 7: Diaper, Yeah, twenty twenty five diapers. 505 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:21,200 Speaker 8: I'm guessing twenty bucks twenty yeah. 506 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:23,320 Speaker 5: For twenty five diapers. 507 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:26,119 Speaker 4: Twenty five diapers a lot more. 508 00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:29,120 Speaker 2: This podcast you. 509 00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:34,000 Speaker 5: Share with your same absorbs. There's not like a plus. 510 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:36,800 Speaker 4: I know, I was thinking of Sorry, I's going with 511 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:43,800 Speaker 4: tampons an eleven years, eleven year guy. 512 00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:48,400 Speaker 5: I would say twelve ninety. 513 00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:52,960 Speaker 3: Nine for twelve twelve nine nine thirteen bucks, same as me. 514 00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 4: She said twelve nine nine though is at thirteen. Yeah, 515 00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:59,880 Speaker 4: there's a difference. There's a difference, a difference high chair 516 00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:04,280 Speaker 4: ben high chairs not magnetic, which they do exist, by 517 00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:08,040 Speaker 4: the way, I'm just talking standard issue high chair thirty 518 00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:11,040 Speaker 4: five dollars fifty. 519 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:13,399 Speaker 8: Bucks for me fifty I'll go fifty yeah, same as 520 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:14,480 Speaker 8: quarantine fifty. 521 00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:16,720 Speaker 4: Wow. Welcome to the new world. 522 00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:19,560 Speaker 6: What would your guest be, I would say, hot mic 523 00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:20,040 Speaker 6: over there. 524 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:23,639 Speaker 4: Yeah, he was like, do you have the answer? But 525 00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:29,600 Speaker 4: I can say kids are expensive, gang kids are expensive. 526 00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:31,800 Speaker 4: I think we were selling a lot of generous coffee 527 00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 4: to get to this high chair. 528 00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:34,840 Speaker 5: I need a cup of coffee. 529 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:39,040 Speaker 4: Now, a bottle drying rack. This is plastic, ugly. 530 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:43,119 Speaker 8: Doctor bronze, Doctor Brown's, Doctor Brown's. 531 00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:46,000 Speaker 4: Okay, Ben, where's your head? Bottle drying rack? 532 00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:49,200 Speaker 2: Bottle drying rack? Like, it's not any different than when 533 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:49,600 Speaker 2: I put my. 534 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:51,720 Speaker 7: Six bottles, six bottles. 535 00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:53,680 Speaker 4: Let's go Britel's correct. 536 00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:55,520 Speaker 2: Uh, forty bucks? 537 00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:56,680 Speaker 4: Okay, I'm bertil. 538 00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:58,240 Speaker 7: Actually I was going a little cheaper. I was gonna 539 00:23:58,240 --> 00:23:58,600 Speaker 7: go thirty. 540 00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:00,440 Speaker 4: Okay, I was going to go twenty five. 541 00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:04,080 Speaker 3: Oh my twenty let's go in the middle of twenty 542 00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:05,040 Speaker 3: seven for you guys. 543 00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:07,520 Speaker 5: Sorry, if I'm making a gang. 544 00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:09,680 Speaker 4: A bascinet. It's the thing that you put next to 545 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:13,800 Speaker 4: the bed. They don't they rock with some music? For 546 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:14,560 Speaker 4: I think that. 547 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:16,439 Speaker 3: Why did I immediately think of that to be the 548 00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:18,760 Speaker 3: thing that the women put on that like tightens their 549 00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:20,480 Speaker 3: bodies up and puts their boobs up higher. 550 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:22,240 Speaker 4: Of course, that's a course, of course. 551 00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:27,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I was thinking of when they said I. 552 00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:29,680 Speaker 4: Like it, that's of course. 553 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:31,119 Speaker 7: Yeah. 554 00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:32,320 Speaker 4: I watched the Empress. I know. 555 00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:36,200 Speaker 7: Okay, bacinet. 556 00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:38,240 Speaker 4: Then where's your head? What's your price? 557 00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 2: One hundred and twenty four dollars? 558 00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:40,080 Speaker 4: All right? 559 00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:42,720 Speaker 7: Okay, I was gonna say one fifty excellent. 560 00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:43,560 Speaker 5: Two. 561 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:48,480 Speaker 2: So for you guys, yes, oh you're killing them together. 562 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:50,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, I get all the things. 563 00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:52,119 Speaker 4: That's okay, all right, Kendall's got them. 564 00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:55,120 Speaker 5: So because I'm feeling like I'm no, I. 565 00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:58,240 Speaker 4: Think you're killing the game right now, killing the game. Okay, 566 00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:01,879 Speaker 4: all right, all right, guys, only four more items to go, 567 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:08,320 Speaker 4: three more ms ago baby swing, oh two dollars. I 568 00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:09,000 Speaker 4: like your style. 569 00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:12,119 Speaker 7: Okay, I was gonna gets two fifty fifty. 570 00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:14,480 Speaker 5: I would I'm with you of two hundred. 571 00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:19,160 Speaker 4: Two hundred, okay, two hundred activity Matt. Now, I want 572 00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:22,280 Speaker 4: to take this one step further because some act well 573 00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:25,120 Speaker 4: one might think a rug, but some activity mats include water, 574 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:30,560 Speaker 4: they include gelatin items, they include little stars that move around. 575 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:34,520 Speaker 8: And there's also no and better than a rug because 576 00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:36,600 Speaker 8: you don't smack your head on it. 577 00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:40,159 Speaker 7: We've learned. We've learned, I would say from. 578 00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 2: The Amazon, you smack your head on a rug. 579 00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:46,600 Speaker 7: No, I'm talking about the babies. The baby to keep. 580 00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:49,080 Speaker 4: Them from. 581 00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:52,119 Speaker 7: The rug has like a little thump though they had it. 582 00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:59,720 Speaker 8: The mat is like, yeah, there's watertime if I fire 583 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:03,040 Speaker 8: remember correctly, it's one fifty okay, and you're talking about 584 00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:06,080 Speaker 8: like the size of a queen or king bed or something. 585 00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:08,080 Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, we're going much smarter than that. We're 586 00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:09,800 Speaker 4: gonna say just a single. 587 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:14,639 Speaker 6: Oh oh the time, mat time we had our handed 588 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:15,280 Speaker 6: down to fifty. 589 00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:19,320 Speaker 5: All right, forty forty, maybe even thirty. 590 00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,720 Speaker 4: All right, guys, this is our last option. I'm not 591 00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:27,720 Speaker 4: gonna specify what capabilities. I'm not going to specify talkable 592 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:29,960 Speaker 4: back and forth capabilities, but those are. 593 00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:32,240 Speaker 3: You're doing this because Jessica and I have had these 594 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:34,000 Speaker 3: conversations about if we get Wi Fi or not. 595 00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:35,040 Speaker 2: I know exactly where you're going. 596 00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:37,879 Speaker 4: Baby Monitor. You can hard wire these things, or you 597 00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:41,000 Speaker 4: can WiFi them. You can have talk to and talk 598 00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:43,920 Speaker 4: back features, you can have all sorts of good stuff 599 00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:51,320 Speaker 4: going on. Let's go basic function, baby Monitor, ninety dollars. 600 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:55,280 Speaker 4: You still your game, He's still your game. Where you're at, 601 00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:57,280 Speaker 4: where you're fifty See. 602 00:26:57,920 --> 00:27:01,800 Speaker 6: I would I would say, yeah, base, very valuable. What 603 00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:04,800 Speaker 6: are you saying, well, basic, I would say two hundred. 604 00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:08,080 Speaker 4: Okay, all right, so two hundred. There we go. All right, guys, 605 00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:09,360 Speaker 4: So here we go. Price. 606 00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:10,120 Speaker 5: I can be wrong. 607 00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:13,879 Speaker 6: We haven't shopped since the Dark Ages forty seven months. 608 00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:16,120 Speaker 6: You know, because we've used everything for the first one. 609 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:17,400 Speaker 5: You don't need to buy again. 610 00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:20,840 Speaker 4: Getting a fresh baby monitor for junior. 611 00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:43,480 Speaker 10: Baby like cracked and broken and yeah. 612 00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:37,359 Speaker 4: All right, here we go. We're gonna recap baby. 613 00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:39,360 Speaker 5: Bathtop Ben Win. I feel like he needs a win. 614 00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:47,240 Speaker 4: Baby bathtub Ben. Ben said forty five. Mberto said thirty. Actually, 615 00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:48,800 Speaker 4: I think in this one we went the opposite way. 616 00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:51,840 Speaker 4: I think Forty said thirty. I think Amberto said nineteen. 617 00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:55,200 Speaker 4: Winner the win, we. 618 00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:57,920 Speaker 5: Can we can love us together. 619 00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:03,520 Speaker 4: Winner Ben fifty fifty bucks. Ben was closest without going 620 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:08,200 Speaker 4: over guys. I gotta be honestly, I'm a little challenged here. 621 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:12,000 Speaker 4: I don't like seeing this next one either. Socks Ben 622 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:16,800 Speaker 4: said twelve, and Berto said eight Courtney seven ninety nine 623 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:22,680 Speaker 4: guys eighteen bucks for socks. Ben wins again. No new 624 00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:26,360 Speaker 4: dad crushing experience parents sleep set. 625 00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:27,760 Speaker 7: He's probably been shopping more. 626 00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:32,720 Speaker 11: Than sleep Seck seventeen ninety nine for Ben, way Off 627 00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:36,719 Speaker 11: fifty nine ninety nine coming from Courtney Mother ninety nine 628 00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:39,000 Speaker 11: ninety nine, and Umberto at forty. 629 00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:40,760 Speaker 4: Courtney wins at thirty five. 630 00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:44,800 Speaker 5: Well, I kind of slipped the babe third with. 631 00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:52,800 Speaker 4: Forty, all right, diapers, thirteen for Ben, twenty for rom 632 00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:54,200 Speaker 4: Virgil I don't know what the hell's going on here 633 00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 4: twelve ninety nine. Courtney wins with ten. I like I 634 00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:58,400 Speaker 4: like the I like the science, I like the math. 635 00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:01,920 Speaker 2: Al right, I love to be cheaper than I guess. 636 00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:09,800 Speaker 4: High chairs thirty five for Ben, hold On, fifty for Courtney, 637 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:14,000 Speaker 4: and fifty for Romberto. They win two hundred on the 638 00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:17,640 Speaker 4: high Yes, guys, yes chairs crazy. 639 00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:18,160 Speaker 2: I think I could. 640 00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 4: If you do it well, you will because you're a handyman. 641 00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:23,520 Speaker 4: But if you go magnetic style, which they do also have, 642 00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:24,880 Speaker 4: which is kind of nice for the bulls and the 643 00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:27,880 Speaker 4: cups because your kids are disasters, you're at two fifty 644 00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:33,640 Speaker 4: easy bottle drying rack, forty for Ben, thirty on Berto 645 00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:38,280 Speaker 4: twenty five Courtney twenty is the accurate one for Courtney. 646 00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:40,320 Speaker 4: Good job, Bascinet. 647 00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:43,960 Speaker 7: This into the. 648 00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:47,600 Speaker 4: Sick of It one five for Ben, fifty for on Berto, 649 00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:50,720 Speaker 4: two hundred for Courtney. The winner Courtney three hundred. 650 00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:53,880 Speaker 5: Holy ours was two hundred when we got. 651 00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:55,160 Speaker 2: Twenty hours of podcasting. 652 00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:57,480 Speaker 4: Have to do for the Buddy books at least seven 653 00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:04,120 Speaker 4: minutes three or four months Baby Swing two twenty five. 654 00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:06,200 Speaker 4: You guys, you guys all went over the baby swing 655 00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:10,479 Speaker 4: by the way to twenty five five on Berto two 656 00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:15,200 Speaker 4: fifty Courtney level off at two hundred, guys, it's one twenty. 657 00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:18,880 Speaker 5: No, I'm cheating Guyst's baby Matt. 658 00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 4: I tried to help here because you guys were get 659 00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:25,840 Speaker 4: you were talking about one. I believe Ben said nineteen 660 00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:29,280 Speaker 4: ninety nine for a baby Matt. I think Berto came 661 00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:32,920 Speaker 4: in strong at one fifty. I changed my answer though 662 00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:38,720 Speaker 4: he did. He changed like thirty. He said forty. I'm 663 00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:40,800 Speaker 4: giving it to on Berto at eighty eighty. 664 00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:43,840 Speaker 7: You gotta no, that's not cheap. 665 00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:45,760 Speaker 4: You guys where we're at right now? If you're keeping 666 00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:50,320 Speaker 4: score at home and I'm making all this up, Courtney's 667 00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:52,680 Speaker 4: at three completely a lot. 668 00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:54,200 Speaker 5: Fund Me for Ben. 669 00:30:54,360 --> 00:31:00,560 Speaker 4: Baby Ben is four four, poor old baby monitor. This 670 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:08,040 Speaker 4: is scary. So many options. Ben ninety nine dollars umberto 671 00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:15,400 Speaker 4: two fifty Courtney two hundred. The winner of the entire 672 00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:18,800 Speaker 4: series and the one who I think knows what's up 673 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:22,520 Speaker 4: when it comes to baby stuff. Lady and gentlemen, Coy 674 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:31,120 Speaker 4: Courtney Robinson, guys, total cost baby bats up back into 675 00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:34,480 Speaker 4: baby sox, sleepsack, diapers, high chair, trying rack et cetera. 676 00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:38,080 Speaker 4: The whole eighty three dollars, I don't know. 677 00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:42,160 Speaker 2: Diapers. 678 00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:45,240 Speaker 4: You multiply that by three, that's a twenty hundred dollars 679 00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:45,800 Speaker 4: starting kit. 680 00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:47,200 Speaker 5: I'll sign it to you. 681 00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:50,280 Speaker 7: I can take as many hand me downs as you can. 682 00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:53,720 Speaker 5: That's what we do, and. 683 00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:58,320 Speaker 2: Diaper sponsorships, Bobby. One last question I do. 684 00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:01,480 Speaker 4: I thank you for letting me ask it. So, guys, 685 00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:06,800 Speaker 4: Ben Higgins easily the most sensitive of the Bachelor's I 686 00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:10,080 Speaker 4: love him so much. I love this guy. He didn't 687 00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:11,920 Speaker 4: think he was worthy of love when you went on 688 00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:14,040 Speaker 4: the show, and now he is this guy who's in 689 00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:17,560 Speaker 4: this incredibly loving relationship. They are expecting a child. We 690 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:20,120 Speaker 4: are here for the baby shower, the two of you. 691 00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:24,120 Speaker 4: Let's give him a little bit of advice. Okay, what 692 00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:26,600 Speaker 4: is the best piece of advice you can give to 693 00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:31,120 Speaker 4: my dear friend Ben Higgins about having a child, being 694 00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:33,560 Speaker 4: a father, being a father in Berto? Go ahead? 695 00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:35,520 Speaker 6: Well, first of all, I would say, do you want advice, 696 00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:38,760 Speaker 6: because I don't think you need any want. I truly 697 00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:40,719 Speaker 6: don't think you need advice. 698 00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:42,720 Speaker 4: He doesn't need it. He's a genius, this kid. 699 00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:48,040 Speaker 6: Everybody knows, Harret, you're having a girl, right I would 700 00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:49,800 Speaker 6: just give you a cup. I thought about this on 701 00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:54,120 Speaker 6: our way out here. First of all, you're gonna have 702 00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:56,480 Speaker 6: unconditional love your heart. It's like the Grinch. Your heart's 703 00:32:56,480 --> 00:33:01,080 Speaker 6: gonna grow exponentially. Like it's that feeling is I wish 704 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:03,760 Speaker 6: you could bottle up and sell it. And your love 705 00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:06,840 Speaker 6: for your wife is going to be even that much stronger. 706 00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:10,200 Speaker 6: As I speak for you, but like for my husband, 707 00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:13,440 Speaker 6: it is like it's just it bonds you that much 708 00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:16,280 Speaker 6: better and like we're closer. 709 00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:18,840 Speaker 5: Also, wipe front to back. 710 00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:21,200 Speaker 4: Right, because it's a girl. 711 00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:23,120 Speaker 5: It's a girl front to back. 712 00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:26,800 Speaker 7: Yes, you know, whatever you want with the boys. 713 00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:32,520 Speaker 4: Those kids, tell them, just to make sure it's clean. 714 00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:35,080 Speaker 4: You go front to back for obvious reasons. 715 00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:36,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, that makes sense. 716 00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:37,760 Speaker 6: Now take a lot of phoes and take a lot 717 00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:40,240 Speaker 6: of photos of you of Jess with the baby, because 718 00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:43,080 Speaker 6: I have so many in my cameras, all the babies 719 00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:46,880 Speaker 6: and him. But take pictures of Jess too, like candids. 720 00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:50,000 Speaker 6: That's my advice to you, and just enjoy it. I mean, 721 00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:51,400 Speaker 6: you're going to be amazing. 722 00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:52,960 Speaker 2: Front to back. 723 00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:54,960 Speaker 5: And also don't let her sit in. 724 00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:57,840 Speaker 6: You know, with girl the parts are different, so you know, 725 00:33:57,880 --> 00:33:59,520 Speaker 6: if she's wet. Like with boys, you can kind of 726 00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:02,680 Speaker 6: let them and their we diapers longer. Just change her 727 00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:04,560 Speaker 6: now you know the price of diapers. 728 00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:11,200 Speaker 8: So yeah, I think a couple of things I would 729 00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:15,120 Speaker 8: say is be present, literally and figuratively, like your kids 730 00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:17,320 Speaker 8: want to be around you. You know, we're leaving today 731 00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:20,040 Speaker 8: this morning to fly out here. You know, they're saying, 732 00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:22,799 Speaker 8: you know, our girl Plomb was like, Daddy, you know. 733 00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:23,160 Speaker 7: Stay home. 734 00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:25,080 Speaker 8: I want you to stay home, like, don't leave, don't 735 00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,200 Speaker 8: have like you'll be fine, You'll be fine. 736 00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:29,799 Speaker 7: Like they want you either to be present. My mom 737 00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:32,720 Speaker 7: my mom watches them, so she's. 738 00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:34,239 Speaker 8: Shout out to Nana. She's spending the night with them. 739 00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:39,799 Speaker 8: The present literally with them figuratively like, you know, be. 740 00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:41,920 Speaker 7: In the moment, you know when they're around, you. 741 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,120 Speaker 8: Know, be you know obviously we all have cell phones, 742 00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:46,239 Speaker 8: will have things to do. We got food to make 743 00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:47,959 Speaker 8: and chores and everything else. 744 00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:50,560 Speaker 7: But you know, be present. The other thing is we 745 00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:52,880 Speaker 7: got a lot of butts to clean right now. Absolutely. 746 00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:54,759 Speaker 7: The other thing is I think you have to try, 747 00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:55,480 Speaker 7: you know what I mean. 748 00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:58,920 Speaker 8: Like I'm a big sports guy, and you know, I 749 00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:02,000 Speaker 8: don't think you picked the athlete. You don't get to 750 00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:03,799 Speaker 8: be good at something by sitting on your ass and 751 00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:04,279 Speaker 8: doing nothing. 752 00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:08,000 Speaker 4: You got to try. Kobe Bryant like the black Man, right, Yeah. 753 00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:10,520 Speaker 8: I'm a I'm a Lakers fan like mama isn't sitting 754 00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:13,719 Speaker 8: around every day eating Bond bonds, watching TV shows like 755 00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:15,840 Speaker 8: he's working at it. And that's saying like I go 756 00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:17,440 Speaker 8: to bed at night, we go to bed and we're tired, 757 00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:19,759 Speaker 8: like I busted my ass all day, either I'm at 758 00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:22,680 Speaker 8: work or I'm at home and I'm doing stuff and 759 00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:25,760 Speaker 8: I'm trying, like I'm trying to take care of my kids. 760 00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:28,480 Speaker 7: Like that's the deal. I might not be good at it, 761 00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:29,480 Speaker 7: like I might not be. 762 00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:32,200 Speaker 8: I have a feeling I'm trying, like I was saying, 763 00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,080 Speaker 8: like every night I go to bed, I'm tired. 764 00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:34,480 Speaker 4: I know. 765 00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:38,600 Speaker 8: I'm like, you gotta try. 766 00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:42,200 Speaker 4: I think you hit the jackpot. Honestly, God with this guy, 767 00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:48,120 Speaker 4: I really do, because i've for years. What a pleasure 768 00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:51,959 Speaker 4: to meet you, man, And it's not easy to be 769 00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:54,759 Speaker 4: it's not easy to be someone who's who's married to 770 00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:55,720 Speaker 4: someone from this franchise. 771 00:35:55,760 --> 00:36:02,040 Speaker 6: It's just not today's I'm gonna send her a gift, yeah, 772 00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:04,240 Speaker 6: please do. And I want to send you a little 773 00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:07,000 Speaker 6: snuggy like little things that like, there are certain things 774 00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:10,000 Speaker 6: that you you will use like constantly, and they're not 775 00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:12,800 Speaker 6: the big ticket items. They're like little things like the 776 00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:14,800 Speaker 6: sug that smells like you that we. 777 00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:19,160 Speaker 5: Like, I wouldn't send you just random and that makes 778 00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:19,560 Speaker 5: you happy. 779 00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:22,040 Speaker 8: Like the stuff that we use and end up using, 780 00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:26,800 Speaker 8: the things that people bought a lot about is the excess, dude, 781 00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:29,400 Speaker 8: we had. If you have diapers, if you have formula, 782 00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:31,680 Speaker 8: and if you have like we use these little white 783 00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:36,960 Speaker 8: T shirts you snap on. 784 00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:38,600 Speaker 6: Because it would have these little umbilical cords, so like 785 00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:39,680 Speaker 6: you want to address. 786 00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:43,000 Speaker 7: Them, like, we had so many clothes that they never wore. 787 00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:45,719 Speaker 7: We had so many things they never played with. The 788 00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:48,440 Speaker 7: first the first Christmas. 789 00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:49,319 Speaker 8: With walking, all you want to do is play with 790 00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:52,279 Speaker 8: the wrapping paper like you didn't care about anything like it. 791 00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:53,560 Speaker 7: They're so simple. 792 00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:57,399 Speaker 8: Break it down, get them a cardboard box and they'll 793 00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:58,840 Speaker 8: play in it for an hour. And then when they 794 00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:00,799 Speaker 8: learn how to write and draw the drawn at for 795 00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:01,480 Speaker 8: hours like. 796 00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:04,880 Speaker 6: It's and then Dad breaks down the boxes and that 797 00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:06,520 Speaker 6: goes does just do that? 798 00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:08,280 Speaker 2: No, I break down the boxes. 799 00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:10,040 Speaker 5: Oh, I just throw them outside and I see him 800 00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:10,520 Speaker 5: out there. 801 00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:10,560 Speaker 4: Like. 802 00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:14,640 Speaker 3: She has this step in the garage. She just kind 803 00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:17,560 Speaker 3: of tosses them off. They all into this pile. And 804 00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:20,360 Speaker 3: then about every two days I walk down Amazon. 805 00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:21,040 Speaker 2: It is my. 806 00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:25,960 Speaker 3: Worst night's double Ben, my headphones on and my knife 807 00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:28,759 Speaker 3: and I just slice, slice and. 808 00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:31,120 Speaker 2: Spice and dice back them as we go. 809 00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:33,160 Speaker 3: Hey, this has been the Almost Famous podcast with two 810 00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:36,440 Speaker 3: incredible people, Courtney and Umberta. Thank you for joining us today. 811 00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:39,040 Speaker 3: It means so much anytime, thanks for coming. I hope 812 00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:42,080 Speaker 3: you have a great night. It means so much. Until 813 00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:44,080 Speaker 3: next time, I've been Ben, Bob. 814 00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:45,360 Speaker 5: I've been Courtney. 815 00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:46,000 Speaker 7: Glad to be here. 816 00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:53,239 Speaker 1: Followed the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast on 817 00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:56,520 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.