1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:00,160 Speaker 1: Hi. 2 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 2: Ever, Sean McDonald host this weekly Money Making Conversation Masterclass show. 3 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:07,360 Speaker 2: The interviews and information that this show provides offer everyone, 4 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:09,879 Speaker 2: and I'm talking about you. It's time to start reading 5 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:13,039 Speaker 2: other people's success stories and start living your own now. 6 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 2: If you want to be a guest on my show, 7 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:20,479 Speaker 2: Money Making Conversation Masterclass, please visit our website, Moneymakingconversations dot 8 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:23,080 Speaker 2: com and click to be a guest button. If you're 9 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 2: a small business owner, entrepreneur, motivational speaker, influencer, or nonprofit 10 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:31,000 Speaker 2: now let's get this show started. My guest is a 11 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 2: transformational master coach, author and speaker dedicated to helping high 12 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:40,879 Speaker 2: achievers transcend adversity. With a master's degree in social science 13 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:46,480 Speaker 2: and expertise and neuroscience and Trauma Recovery, she empowers individuals 14 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:50,879 Speaker 2: to reprogram their minds, cut toxic ties, and build wealth 15 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 2: driven lives. Please welcome to Money Making Conversation Masterclass. Ldality Princy. 16 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 2: How you doing, LDLT, I'm amazing. 17 00:00:58,880 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 3: How are you? 18 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:03,200 Speaker 2: I've met a lot of people. That's a unique name. 19 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:04,120 Speaker 2: Tell me about your name? 20 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 3: Thank you? 21 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 4: Yes, l DNC is my higher self and I went 22 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:11,919 Speaker 4: through a major spiritual waken in during college and after 23 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:15,680 Speaker 4: and I realize that we're all source experience and stuff. 24 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:21,679 Speaker 4: So that's my god, awesome, awesome. So you went to college, well, 25 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 4: west Chester University. Now you have a book here. I 26 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 4: want to jump into it. First. 27 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:30,040 Speaker 1: Monetize a mind that's colonized. What does that mean? 28 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:33,960 Speaker 4: Monetization is not just physical, it's mental. So when you 29 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 4: monetize your mind, you will begin to see prosperity unwine 30 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 4: because all this energy energy is a currency. And when 31 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 4: you deprogram your mind from societal beliefs things like that, 32 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 4: then you begin to grow wealth within. Wealth within, then 33 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 4: it comes on the outside of you. Everything within is 34 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 4: externalized on the outside. 35 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: So let's talk. 36 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 2: Let's slow down and talk about that because you talk 37 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 2: real fast now, deity, I'm just going to tell you, 38 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 2: because you know what you're talking about. 39 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 1: About. 40 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:04,360 Speaker 2: What I'm hearing is about getting yourself right before you 41 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 2: try to pursue the dollar. 42 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:12,919 Speaker 4: Correct, It's all encompassing. So when you get yourself right, 43 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:18,679 Speaker 4: you attract mentally right, yes, mentally, physically, emotionally because our 44 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 4: emotional pools is what we continue to attract. So when 45 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 4: you master your emotions, when you master your mindset, you 46 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 4: know exactly where you desire to go in life, and 47 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 4: you're not easily astrayed by other people. 48 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 3: Let us stray by other people. 49 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 4: So when you have mastery over your mindset, you have 50 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 4: mastery over your reality and the things that you experience. 51 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:42,839 Speaker 4: So that starts with having to deprogram yourself. Because ninety 52 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 4: five percent of our thoughts, of our behaviors, of our 53 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 4: actions is coming from our self conscious so it's already programmed. 54 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 4: So when you are aware, when you are aware of 55 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 4: your own patterns, the more you begin to master yourself. 56 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:57,640 Speaker 4: Now you're doing a pattern interrupt which then puts you 57 00:02:57,800 --> 00:03:00,639 Speaker 4: into the direction you ultimately the desire to go. 58 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 2: Let's talk about cutting toxic ties, because that seems like 59 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:07,240 Speaker 2: that's a part of it too. Yeah, we talk about 60 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 2: a lot of entrepreneurs on this show, small business owners, 61 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 2: and I'm always trying to let them know how the 62 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 2: mental side plays a major role and how you treat 63 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 2: your staff and how. 64 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 1: You build your company. So we said, cut toxic ties. 65 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:23,080 Speaker 1: What are you talking about? 66 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 4: It's beautiful that you said that, because that even just 67 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 4: using companies for example, I remember where I worked at 68 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 4: as being a therapist, a lot of micromanaging and people 69 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 4: project onto others what they're internally going through. So cutting 70 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 4: ties would be not only how you are being treated, 71 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 4: but how you allow other people to treat you. So 72 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 4: when you cut toxic ties from your own mentality, this 73 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 4: pours onto other people. So in the workplace, if you 74 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 4: have a manager who can micro managing you, that's coming 75 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 4: from a deeper space within. There's something called ten x 76 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 4: and versus two x. It's a mindset, and when you 77 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 4: ten x your mindset, you're not micro managing other people. 78 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 4: But it even even getting to family, even with family, 79 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 4: just because someone's your family, but it's toxic. It doesn't 80 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 4: mean that you have to stay. You have to pour 81 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 4: into them. Because everything's energy. So the more you pouring 82 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 4: energy into places that's not bringing you value, the more 83 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 4: it drains you. So when you cut these ties, you thrive, 84 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 4: and it goes for everything work, family, friends, relationships. When 85 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 4: you remove that the weeds, the things that's not serving you, 86 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:29,480 Speaker 4: you're going to blossom. 87 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 2: I'm talking about DIT Princy Master's right, yeah, and neuroscience. 88 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:39,279 Speaker 4: W social science, social science right, So psychology, social all those. 89 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 2: Things because my mind either did the mind or sociology 90 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:45,039 Speaker 2: you know, not saying that's you. But it's about the 91 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 2: mindset the people and how people think. And I want 92 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 2: to stay on this cutting ties, especially in this conversation 93 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:53,599 Speaker 2: because it's called. 94 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:55,600 Speaker 1: Let's talk about employees, because. 95 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 2: When I hear as a company that we're cutting ties 96 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 2: ties to employees, they might not be good for what 97 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:06,120 Speaker 2: you're trying to do. If you are an employer or 98 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:10,599 Speaker 2: a supervisor, how would you approach cutting ties from I 99 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 2: won't use the word toxic, but basically employees that are 100 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:17,480 Speaker 2: not benefiting what you want them to do exactly. 101 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 3: It goes both ways. 102 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:22,840 Speaker 4: It goes for employees too, but in employers that's the 103 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 4: ten X versus two X. Ten X thinking is basically 104 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 4: accumulating more abundance. Two X is when it's slowed down. 105 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:35,479 Speaker 4: So if you have employees who it's something called I 106 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:37,840 Speaker 4: can't think of the exact terminology, but it's like an. 107 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:38,600 Speaker 3: Eighty twenty rule. 108 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 4: So if you have if eighty percent of your employees 109 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:45,239 Speaker 4: are doing what they have to do, well, twenty percent 110 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 4: doing what they have to do, but the other eighty 111 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 4: is not, it's better to focus on the ones who are, 112 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 4: because that's where you're getting the most productivity, the most 113 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:56,160 Speaker 4: longevity and the most success the ones who are not 114 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:57,400 Speaker 4: doing what they're supposed to do. 115 00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:01,159 Speaker 2: That's more of a liability, right, So that really causes 116 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:05,559 Speaker 2: friction that your workspace. Exactly, employees are here complaining about 117 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:07,720 Speaker 2: the employees who are doing it, and employees who are 118 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:09,600 Speaker 2: complaining it but you do it too much. 119 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:13,479 Speaker 3: Exactly Exactly. I had a client like that. 120 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:16,839 Speaker 4: He said, I'm doing all the work and they're not helping, 121 00:06:17,120 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 4: and that made him frustrated. You know, that made him 122 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:22,720 Speaker 4: very frustrated. And he's hoping that the management sees that. 123 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:27,919 Speaker 4: So the more the mindset begins to integrate into the 124 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 4: higher ups per se, it trickles down into everyone. The 125 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 4: more everyone is more aware of how they're treating others, 126 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 4: how they're treating themselves. 127 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 3: Everyone benefits from that. 128 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:40,480 Speaker 1: Okay, now thank you for coming on the shore. When 129 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 1: speaking of LD. 130 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 2: My book Monetize a Mind That's Colonized, Watch Prosperity Unwind. 131 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 2: You know when I when I when I'm always talking 132 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 2: about success. That's what this conversation is about. And you 133 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 2: have a course called eleven Master Consultant. 134 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 1: What exactly is that? 135 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:04,920 Speaker 4: That's my business name, eleven Master Consultant. Anyone who knows numerology. 136 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 4: I add the eleven because I along my journey, I 137 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 4: found thought I was a life path eleven. But you 138 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 4: know everyone sees eleven eleven, so eleven is. 139 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 3: Just good numbers. It's just prosperity. 140 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 4: And I am a master teacher and I consult those 141 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 4: to help them with coaching, to help them with their mindset. 142 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 4: So right now I am self owned, so it's just me. 143 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 4: But that's what I do. I help coach people, I 144 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 4: help guide them. I have courses, I do lives three 145 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 4: times a week. A lot of people are being reprogrammed 146 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 4: for free through my energy thirty minute sessions on Live 147 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 4: because energy is trans is transferable. So that's what my 148 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 4: whole company and bodies just to reprogram and help those, 149 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 4: especially those who look like us, to know that they 150 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 4: are free. 151 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 2: Let's walk through the steps of how we get into 152 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 2: the first how do we in touch with your deity? 153 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 4: Yes, the easiest way to get in touch with me 154 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:57,960 Speaker 4: would be through you can just reach out to me 155 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 4: by phone to six seven five to one two nine 156 00:08:00,960 --> 00:08:01,520 Speaker 4: nine five. 157 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 1: What's that number again? 158 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 3: Two sixty seven five two one two nine nine five. 159 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 2: Now, a lot of people get out their website, get 160 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 2: they social media. 161 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 1: You are comfortable with somebody calling you? 162 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:13,080 Speaker 4: Oh, yes, I'm comfortable. I'm very comfortable. And if you 163 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 4: I'm the only LDT prince. So if you google me 164 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 4: on any platform, you'll see me. I'm comfortable because I 165 00:08:18,840 --> 00:08:21,600 Speaker 4: attract who I am. I attract my reflections just like you. 166 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 4: I attracted you, So I don't I'm not worried too 167 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 4: worried about you know, just the crazy stuff. 168 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 3: So I'm very I'm very comfortable. I'm very comfortable with 169 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 3: what I offer. 170 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:34,559 Speaker 4: I'm comfortable in my energy, and I know I always 171 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 4: get the right people who reach out to me anyway. 172 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 2: Okay, good, So somebody calls you, what's what's the process? 173 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 4: The process is first, I would need to see what 174 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 4: are they looking for coaching or if they want to 175 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:47,319 Speaker 4: take I have people who just want my courses. Everyone's 176 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 4: on different learning journeys. Some people are willing to invest 177 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:53,199 Speaker 4: in coaching. Coaching is something though I went to school 178 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 4: for therapy, I am a coach now. Therapy kind of 179 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 4: has this connotation of. 180 00:08:57,760 --> 00:08:59,480 Speaker 3: Your broken, you need healing. 181 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 4: Healing doesn't take years, Healing doesn't take decades. Coaching focuses 182 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:06,720 Speaker 4: on the now and the future, giving you the results, 183 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:10,319 Speaker 4: giving you the strategy. So sometimes people have to know 184 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:12,679 Speaker 4: what are they looking for, And coaching is really that 185 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 4: God just to sit with you, hold you accountable, and 186 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 4: take you through the steps, take you through the journeys. 187 00:09:18,520 --> 00:09:20,960 Speaker 4: So that's the first step is to realize, is to 188 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 4: find out what this person is actually looking for. Because courses, 189 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:26,840 Speaker 4: it's self paid, you can do that on your own time. 190 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 4: But when you work with me, I'm serious. I guess 191 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:33,760 Speaker 4: I'm very disciplined. So we get stuff done. 192 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:36,040 Speaker 2: You know, you say I'm serious, like it's some people 193 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 2: like that not serious. 194 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 3: What makes you I'm serious? 195 00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:42,559 Speaker 4: As if you say you want this life, we gotta 196 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:45,640 Speaker 4: do it. We have to get it done, no excuses, 197 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:48,080 Speaker 4: you know, because this is our time. So if you 198 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:50,680 Speaker 4: say you want this coaching, it's time for us to 199 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 4: get started, to get rid of the things that's not 200 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:55,880 Speaker 4: serving us. I know that there's always a process, but 201 00:09:56,040 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 4: just a mindset just to be open to say I'm 202 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:01,040 Speaker 4: ready to be open to say I want to become 203 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:03,280 Speaker 4: the version of me that I desire to be, and 204 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:04,120 Speaker 4: that's what I'm here to do. 205 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 3: I'm here to help. 206 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:08,200 Speaker 4: Those be that version with no fluff, with no games, 207 00:10:08,600 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 4: because I do consider life as a game. But when 208 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:13,720 Speaker 4: you when it comes to money, and if you're making 209 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:16,520 Speaker 4: money where you don't desire to be, that's not fun. 210 00:10:16,559 --> 00:10:18,120 Speaker 3: That's not a game. That's draining. 211 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:18,760 Speaker 1: Right. 212 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 2: Okay, cool, Let's get a little back up a little 213 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:24,559 Speaker 2: bit so people can know your academic training and not 214 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 2: say we jumped in too quickly, but because I wanted 215 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:29,679 Speaker 2: to really get into the book Monetize a mind that's colonized. 216 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:33,080 Speaker 1: Where did you get your training? 217 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:36,120 Speaker 3: Where Westchester University? 218 00:10:36,320 --> 00:10:37,440 Speaker 1: And where's that located at? 219 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:38,960 Speaker 3: It's located in Pennsylvania. 220 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:43,199 Speaker 2: Where did you choose this path academically and now professionally? 221 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:47,360 Speaker 4: Really because of my own childhood. Clinically speaking, I would 222 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:51,720 Speaker 4: be considered a veteran. My child is there's something called 223 00:10:51,760 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 4: the ac of score with stands for adverse childhood experiences 224 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:54,920 Speaker 4: and this. 225 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:57,600 Speaker 1: Deity you talk really really fast. 226 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:01,680 Speaker 2: I don't know exactly what you just said, and I 227 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:03,000 Speaker 2: don't think it's age either. 228 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:04,840 Speaker 1: I think you just a fans talker. 229 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 3: I am. 230 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:09,319 Speaker 2: I've always been told that little doubts on my fans 231 00:11:09,320 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 2: were't tune out. 232 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 1: Yes, what did you just say? Yes? 233 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 4: I got into this profession because of my own experiences. 234 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:20,320 Speaker 4: There's something called the ACIS score, which stands for adverse 235 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:21,479 Speaker 4: childhood Experiences. 236 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 3: I studied this in college. 237 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 4: Childhood psychology, and childhood trauma is equivalent to veteran PTSD. 238 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 4: Childhood PTSD is equivalent to veteran PTSD. So that's what 239 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:36,000 Speaker 4: made me really intrigued by this because I had to 240 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:37,840 Speaker 4: do my own healing. I had a ten out of 241 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:40,800 Speaker 4: ten ACIST score, which meant that you are likely to be, 242 00:11:41,200 --> 00:11:44,240 Speaker 4: you know, re victimized again, go through things again. And 243 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:46,679 Speaker 4: that was my journey a good part until I went 244 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 4: off to school. I went to school specifically because I 245 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 4: wanted to be a therapist because I felt like my 246 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 4: therapist was there for me. 247 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 3: I had someone to talk to. 248 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:58,040 Speaker 4: And it just kind of shifted because then the more 249 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 4: the more I began to a sin and just learn 250 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 4: life more, I realized that I'm not a victim. 251 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 3: I'm not a victim. 252 00:12:07,160 --> 00:12:10,440 Speaker 4: I'm a victor, and I've already proven it to myself 253 00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:11,360 Speaker 4: by moving around. 254 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 3: So that's what shifted me into coaching. 255 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 4: I've been coached by Maron Golden, and being coached by 256 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 4: him just inspired me so much. 257 00:12:17,840 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 3: So that's where I. 258 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 4: Kind of came from I came from healing my own 259 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:25,280 Speaker 4: adversities to going to school to study these things, then 260 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:29,079 Speaker 4: realizing that coaching is just who I am. I lost 261 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:31,440 Speaker 4: seventy five pounds on my own, so it's just kind 262 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:34,080 Speaker 4: of I'm just that person. I am a high achiever, 263 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:36,520 Speaker 4: so I want to help those high achievers as well. 264 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 2: So why like a therapist was important to you just 265 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 2: had somebody to talk to? Why was that important? 266 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:47,760 Speaker 4: It was important because I did not have that growing up. 267 00:12:47,920 --> 00:12:49,560 Speaker 4: I did not have someone to talk to, someone to 268 00:12:49,640 --> 00:12:52,760 Speaker 4: validate me and to validate the things that I've experienced 269 00:12:52,800 --> 00:12:56,319 Speaker 4: growing up in a project and having a dysfunctional family. 270 00:12:56,400 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 3: So having a. 271 00:12:57,080 --> 00:13:01,000 Speaker 4: Therapist gave me that validation that I'm not crazy, because 272 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 4: I thought I was crazy at first. 273 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 3: So that's why I. 274 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 1: Should work crazy. 275 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 2: What do you mean when you find that term because 276 00:13:06,360 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 2: you because you you know in that neuroscience area masters, 277 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:12,960 Speaker 2: when you used the word crazy, it might be different 278 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:14,080 Speaker 2: when I say the word crazy. 279 00:13:14,960 --> 00:13:17,679 Speaker 3: I use it all interchangeably. But at that point, at 280 00:13:17,679 --> 00:13:18,439 Speaker 3: that point in my. 281 00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 4: Life, it was more so being gas lit, being told, 282 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:24,280 Speaker 4: you know, what I'm going through is my my fault, 283 00:13:24,520 --> 00:13:28,880 Speaker 4: and just feeling like, you know, my my I say 284 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:31,720 Speaker 4: egg and sperm donor for you know, parents, but feeling like, 285 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 4: you know, my egg and my sperm donor were very 286 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 4: abusive towards me. So I felt like, you know, no 287 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:40,600 Speaker 4: one believes me until once I started to speak up 288 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:42,720 Speaker 4: and talk to you know, the social workers at school, 289 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 4: to therapists. 290 00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:45,360 Speaker 3: Then I began to find peace. 291 00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:48,040 Speaker 4: So I felt crazy because my environment would tell me 292 00:13:48,440 --> 00:13:51,000 Speaker 4: that's not happening when it was right. 293 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:54,440 Speaker 2: So you used the word dysfunctional family, I want to 294 00:13:54,520 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 2: hear that conversation because of the fact that a lot 295 00:13:57,360 --> 00:14:01,040 Speaker 2: of people feel dysfunctional as normal and it's not normal. 296 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:04,640 Speaker 2: And I like for you to explain your version of 297 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 2: what you experience is to be dysfunctional, and maybe some 298 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 2: people might hear that, go that's me and get. 299 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:13,160 Speaker 1: Out of that because it's not going to get better. 300 00:14:14,440 --> 00:14:17,439 Speaker 4: And that's actually the neuroscience of it all, because the 301 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:21,600 Speaker 4: more our nervous system is responding, and. 302 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:23,000 Speaker 3: That's our fire fight er freeze. 303 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:26,160 Speaker 4: The parasympathetic nervous system is when we are more able 304 00:14:26,160 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 4: to relax and be calm. 305 00:14:27,720 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 3: So when you're walking on. 306 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 4: Eggshells, when you are feeling like you have to fight back, 307 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 4: when you're feeling like you. 308 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:35,320 Speaker 3: Know your blood is boiling. 309 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:39,120 Speaker 4: That's not in your pair of sympathetic nervous system at all. 310 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 3: That's not a calm body at all. 311 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 4: So any relationship, any environment that makes you have to 312 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 4: be on high alert, which being on higher alert that's 313 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:51,200 Speaker 4: your higher beta waves of your mind. So when you 314 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 4: are on higher alert, you're stressed out. That's not conducive, 315 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:58,400 Speaker 4: that's not healthy to build wealth because your prefrontal cortex 316 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 4: is the part, is the aspect that creates. 317 00:15:00,960 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 3: That planning, the decision making. 318 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:05,480 Speaker 4: When a person is constantly in fire fight or freeze, 319 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 4: they're not able to think clearly and to make decisions clearly. 320 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 4: So this can again your mom, your dad, sisters, brothers. 321 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:17,200 Speaker 4: If it's not healthy, it's going to stay within that 322 00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 4: program and within your nervous system is going to respond 323 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 4: to these things. You're going to attract more of those 324 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:25,240 Speaker 4: experiences because we do attract what we are. 325 00:15:25,880 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 1: I'm speaking to l Deity Princy. 326 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:32,720 Speaker 2: She's a Master Code Transformational Master Coach, a master's degree 327 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:37,560 Speaker 2: in social science and expertise in neuroscience and trauma recovery. 328 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 2: Champael's individuals to reprogram their minds, cut toxic ties which 329 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:45,840 Speaker 2: we've just talked in great detail about and build wealth 330 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:50,480 Speaker 2: driven lives. This show us money Making Conversation masterclass. When 331 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:53,360 Speaker 2: I hear the word wealth driven lives, what are you 332 00:15:53,440 --> 00:15:54,000 Speaker 2: talking about? 333 00:15:54,240 --> 00:15:55,960 Speaker 3: Wealth driven lives? Again? 334 00:15:56,080 --> 00:16:00,240 Speaker 4: You master your mindset, you do the things that bring 335 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 4: you joy instead of working. I've had over thirty different jobs. 336 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:04,240 Speaker 4: What you'll read about that in. 337 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:06,560 Speaker 1: The book, and thirty different jobs. 338 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:08,800 Speaker 3: I had over thirty different jobs. Yes, because coming from 339 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:10,200 Speaker 3: the function trying to figure. 340 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 4: Out life, and it was a horrible experience. I was 341 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 4: never happy, never fulfilled. Amazon, I did all kinds of things. 342 00:16:18,400 --> 00:16:22,640 Speaker 4: So building wealths begins within the things you eat, the 343 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:25,600 Speaker 4: things you do, having a routine, and the more you 344 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:29,160 Speaker 4: have this momentum, the more you routine. 345 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:31,600 Speaker 2: Yes, routine is tea I always talk about I preach 346 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 2: routine on this. 347 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 3: Yes, when you. 348 00:16:33,840 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 1: Say routine, what do you mean when you say routine? 349 00:16:35,960 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 3: Routine is important. 350 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 4: It's the things that you're consuming, the things that you're doing, 351 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:43,760 Speaker 4: the environments you put yourself in. The better routine that 352 00:16:43,800 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 4: you have, the more you are going into the wealth 353 00:16:47,440 --> 00:16:50,320 Speaker 4: that you desire to have, which is our wealth is within. 354 00:16:50,440 --> 00:16:53,960 Speaker 4: Everyone has a gift, Everyone has a talent. And the 355 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:56,840 Speaker 4: more you're doing a routine. I like to meditate. Like 356 00:16:56,840 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 4: I said, I lost seventy five pounds, so I work out. 357 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:01,040 Speaker 4: But when you find that your niche, when you find 358 00:17:01,080 --> 00:17:01,760 Speaker 4: what brings you. 359 00:17:01,760 --> 00:17:05,159 Speaker 3: Joy, Now you realize, oh I have I want to 360 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:05,760 Speaker 3: be a painter. 361 00:17:06,080 --> 00:17:08,160 Speaker 4: Just because society or if someone told you you can't 362 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:10,520 Speaker 4: do that doesn't mean you won't be profitable. Then you 363 00:17:10,600 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 4: realize I can do that. I can do a rapper 364 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:16,760 Speaker 4: or a singer, whatever you want. Because you're building this routine, 365 00:17:16,800 --> 00:17:19,480 Speaker 4: and the wealth starts within because it's all energy. Energy 366 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:21,400 Speaker 4: is a currency, So the more you build your own 367 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:23,320 Speaker 4: energy within, it comes out. 368 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:26,440 Speaker 5: Please don't go anywhere. We'll be right back with more 369 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:34,520 Speaker 5: Money Making Conversations Master Class. Welcome back to Money Making 370 00:17:34,560 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 5: Conversation Mastered Class with me Rashawn McDonald. 371 00:17:37,840 --> 00:17:39,919 Speaker 2: Let's talk about this seventy five pounds. You mentioned that 372 00:17:40,040 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 2: several times in this interview, so obviously less important paths 373 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:47,000 Speaker 2: that you are a positivity in your life. But at 374 00:17:47,080 --> 00:17:49,439 Speaker 2: some point you were comfortable with that seventy five pounds 375 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:51,439 Speaker 2: or you were uncomfortable and you used to know how to. 376 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:55,040 Speaker 3: I was uncomfortable. I just didn't know how to deal 377 00:17:55,080 --> 00:17:55,440 Speaker 3: with it. 378 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:58,040 Speaker 4: You know, I grew I did grow up in a 379 00:17:58,119 --> 00:18:01,320 Speaker 4: cold so I was not socialized. I did not you 380 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:03,800 Speaker 4: a cult, an actual cult? 381 00:18:04,760 --> 00:18:05,359 Speaker 3: C ult? 382 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:10,160 Speaker 1: Yes, cult, a cult? So so what do you call them? 383 00:18:10,160 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 1: A cult? 384 00:18:10,840 --> 00:18:14,640 Speaker 3: A cult? See ult? So there is a cult, a cult, 385 00:18:14,680 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 3: A cult, cults seul and a cult is more so esulteric. 386 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:23,679 Speaker 4: But a cult is when you know you're basically manipulation, abuse, 387 00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 4: things like that. 388 00:18:24,359 --> 00:18:26,960 Speaker 3: It can be verbal, all those things. Okay, that's where 389 00:18:27,000 --> 00:18:27,879 Speaker 3: my weight came from. 390 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:30,480 Speaker 4: So that's why for me, losing weight was a big 391 00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:33,200 Speaker 4: milestone for me because I grew up, like I said, 392 00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:37,080 Speaker 4: sick asthma exma. I was uncomfortable, but I didn't know 393 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:39,720 Speaker 4: what to do. And I was uncomfortable as well, because 394 00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:42,680 Speaker 4: society does judge you when you are if you're not. 395 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:45,200 Speaker 4: If your weight is not proportioned a certain. 396 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:48,280 Speaker 3: Way, you get judged. So my weight was not proportioned 397 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:49,160 Speaker 3: the ideal way. 398 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 1: Right. 399 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 2: Okay, Now there's something that we talk about cut and 400 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:54,439 Speaker 2: thrive method. 401 00:18:55,040 --> 00:18:56,879 Speaker 1: Who is that for that you talk about? 402 00:18:57,240 --> 00:19:00,919 Speaker 4: That's for anyone who's ready to cut toxic ties and 403 00:19:01,040 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 4: thrive and to their desired reality, their dream life. 404 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:10,280 Speaker 2: Uh huh now you're interesting from a standpoint of I 405 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 2: see a very your high achieving person, motivated, fast talking. Okay, 406 00:19:16,920 --> 00:19:19,679 Speaker 2: So what are the type of people that you invite 407 00:19:19,720 --> 00:19:22,639 Speaker 2: in your life illdality, personally. 408 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:25,680 Speaker 4: As on a personal level, I invite people who are 409 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:29,920 Speaker 4: doing the same things as me. Entrepreneurs, people who are 410 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:34,880 Speaker 4: building themselves up, not again, not in a victim mentality 411 00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:39,399 Speaker 4: and the victor mentality, knowing that they can succeed and 412 00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:42,639 Speaker 4: have whatever they put their focus on. Whatever you focus 413 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:43,760 Speaker 4: on is what will grow. 414 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:44,879 Speaker 3: So those are the. 415 00:19:44,840 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 4: Type of people I love to have around me because again, 416 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:51,400 Speaker 4: coming from poverty, that wasn't the beginning stages. So now 417 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:53,800 Speaker 4: I get to choose, and it's so empowering for me 418 00:19:53,880 --> 00:19:56,639 Speaker 4: because that only elevates me even more and we become 419 00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:59,400 Speaker 4: like those we are around. I elevate my team. 420 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:01,120 Speaker 1: Elevates Was it really interesting? 421 00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:04,520 Speaker 2: I grew from the hood a six sisters, two brothers, 422 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:06,800 Speaker 2: grew up and grew up in a two bedroom shotgun 423 00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:10,200 Speaker 2: house in Atlanta. In Atlanta and in Houston, Texas where I 424 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:14,040 Speaker 2: grew up, and so you know, I had teachers who 425 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:18,080 Speaker 2: saw things in me and pushed me and guided me 426 00:20:18,600 --> 00:20:20,639 Speaker 2: to where I am today. If they didn't push me 427 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:25,000 Speaker 2: ra Sean McDonald be operating a four fourthlift because that's 428 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:26,760 Speaker 2: all I wanted to be when I graduated. 429 00:20:26,359 --> 00:20:28,080 Speaker 1: From high school was to be a fourth clift driver. 430 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:29,359 Speaker 1: That was my dream. 431 00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:32,240 Speaker 2: But they saw more things in me that I didn't see. 432 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:36,600 Speaker 2: What helped you? Was it an individual or was it life? 433 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:40,120 Speaker 2: What got you pointed in the right direction at Deity? 434 00:20:40,320 --> 00:20:42,800 Speaker 2: Because you were in a cult c U l T 435 00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:47,959 Speaker 2: even in a very dysfunctional family. It seems like it 436 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:51,040 Speaker 2: almost feels like you couldn't escape that, but you did. 437 00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:56,240 Speaker 4: How Really, it was just I just had to keep 438 00:20:56,920 --> 00:20:58,200 Speaker 4: persisting because. 439 00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 3: The more I will always get kicked out. 440 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:03,720 Speaker 4: Actually, so I started to leave around nine, so come 441 00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:05,840 Speaker 4: back and forth, something to call it the cycle of abuse, 442 00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:08,080 Speaker 4: the cycle of abuse, and you keep coming back, you 443 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:11,720 Speaker 4: keep leaving. So I just really got tired of it. 444 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:15,480 Speaker 4: And then I got my first apartment when I was 445 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:18,359 Speaker 4: about eighteen, but it didn't work because I didn't know 446 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:19,040 Speaker 4: what I was doing. 447 00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:20,360 Speaker 3: But then someone. 448 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:23,160 Speaker 4: Said, oh, you could go to college. I only wanted 449 00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:25,040 Speaker 4: to go to college just to have a place to live. 450 00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:28,399 Speaker 4: I didn't Again, I didn't grow up educated, so I 451 00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:30,960 Speaker 4: didn't know much of anything. So I didn't think I 452 00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:33,880 Speaker 4: would really succeed in college. I just knew, oh, free housing, 453 00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:36,440 Speaker 4: I can get myself together. But I ended up going 454 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:38,600 Speaker 4: to college and I end up finding out I'm smart. 455 00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 4: So then it turned into now I'm obsessed with my 456 00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:44,960 Speaker 4: grades and learning. I just was sitting in front of class, 457 00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:48,119 Speaker 4: and I just changed my identity. Your self image is 458 00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:50,520 Speaker 4: what you would tract. So my self image went from 459 00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:53,240 Speaker 4: being the victim to I'm in front of the class. 460 00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 4: I'm talking to all my teachers, going to the you know, 461 00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:57,959 Speaker 4: the after hours. If I get a B on my paper, 462 00:21:58,080 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 4: hey can I get an A? How can I redo 463 00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:02,040 Speaker 4: this to get my A? I graduated summa cum lade. 464 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:04,800 Speaker 4: So I just kept on pushing as much knowledge as 465 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:08,080 Speaker 4: I can, putting myself going to different business events. And 466 00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 4: I just changed my self image because I got tired 467 00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:13,919 Speaker 4: of going through the pain and going through basically begging 468 00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:16,360 Speaker 4: for love. I got tired of begging for crumbs of love, 469 00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:18,879 Speaker 4: and I began to give myself loaves of love. 470 00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:22,520 Speaker 1: Wow, this is a very powerful story. Den tell, I 471 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:23,920 Speaker 1: thank you for coming to the Mind Show. 472 00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:26,920 Speaker 2: This interview is not over, but just looking at it's 473 00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:31,040 Speaker 2: a journey of earnesty and a journey of power self 474 00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:32,920 Speaker 2: power because of the fact that. 475 00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:34,399 Speaker 1: You can't turn your life around. 476 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:39,679 Speaker 2: Yes, but sometimes the Lord here, this is what I 477 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:43,560 Speaker 2: love about your personality. Okay, you're willing to pivot. Yes, 478 00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:46,679 Speaker 2: and a lot of people aren't will willing to pivot? 479 00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:49,560 Speaker 2: You know, this is what you do. You know, a 480 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:53,560 Speaker 2: transformational coach talking to you about audience, how can they 481 00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:56,600 Speaker 2: pivot and also how we want to give out that 482 00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:58,720 Speaker 2: number so they can call you again because you can 483 00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 2: help them pivot if they're. 484 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:02,120 Speaker 3: Yes. 485 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:05,600 Speaker 4: I actually said this yesterday on Live. You have to 486 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 4: ask yourself are you Are you tired yet? Are you 487 00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:14,440 Speaker 4: tired yet? If the answer is yes, it's you've got it. 488 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:18,280 Speaker 4: You gotta move because in order to get anywhere, it 489 00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:21,840 Speaker 4: has to start from an action. So no matter what 490 00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:25,560 Speaker 4: the experience is, it's all asking yourself. It's just bringing 491 00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 4: value to my life again being inside of that, you know. 492 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:29,880 Speaker 3: Fire fight or freeze. 493 00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:33,480 Speaker 4: Am I tired of always having to defend myself like 494 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:35,440 Speaker 4: that song? All my life I had to fight, right 495 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:36,160 Speaker 4: like am I. 496 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:37,080 Speaker 3: Tired of fighting. 497 00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:40,680 Speaker 4: That's how you start and that's how you pivot out 498 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:43,480 Speaker 4: because it's all about the only person who can move 499 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:46,200 Speaker 4: us is us. You are, and you are the only 500 00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:48,640 Speaker 4: person even if somebody was to come and say, hey, 501 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:51,399 Speaker 4: here's a million dollars if you don't feel like a 502 00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:53,920 Speaker 4: million dollars is not going to last long because you're 503 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 4: you have to program yourself to exactly. So, if somebody 504 00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:00,680 Speaker 4: can tell you all day you're beautiful, hands on whatever, 505 00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:02,879 Speaker 4: if you don't feel it for yourself, it's not going 506 00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:04,359 Speaker 4: to land where it's supposed to. 507 00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:07,320 Speaker 2: And you're not gonna pivot to take advantage of the 508 00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:10,320 Speaker 2: opportunities that are being presented to you. Exactly like you 509 00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:13,720 Speaker 2: said your examples of million dollars, Yes, million dollars and 510 00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:16,400 Speaker 2: you feel the wrong way, you just gonna spend it. 511 00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:18,240 Speaker 2: And then million dollars is not going to have any 512 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:20,720 Speaker 2: value ten years because you spent it like in a month. 513 00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:24,160 Speaker 4: Exactly if you didn't think about investing, getting a financial planner. 514 00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:27,800 Speaker 4: How do I want to actually make this lucrative instead 515 00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:29,879 Speaker 4: of getting it? Because again I'm from the hood, so 516 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:32,080 Speaker 4: you get it. I'm about to go shopping. I'm gonna 517 00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:34,800 Speaker 4: go get me a new car. You know it sound good, 518 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:37,000 Speaker 4: and of course you can have all those beautiful things 519 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:40,160 Speaker 4: with your first mindset. You want to be strategic. It's 520 00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:43,920 Speaker 4: all strategy. It's monopoly. I consider life like the game Monopoly. 521 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:46,359 Speaker 4: When you play Monopoly, the goal is to get the 522 00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:47,439 Speaker 4: most off that board. 523 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:49,639 Speaker 3: So that's what we get to do. 524 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:51,280 Speaker 4: We get to get the most out of our life 525 00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:53,720 Speaker 4: and when we leave, we get to leave behind a legacy. 526 00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:54,520 Speaker 1: Wow. 527 00:24:54,800 --> 00:25:00,240 Speaker 2: Talking to our deity, Princy Business eleven Master consultant, we 528 00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:04,760 Speaker 2: just talked about cutting thrive, not coagulation law. That's first 529 00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:07,840 Speaker 2: time I ever heard that. I think I'm an educated person. 530 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:10,240 Speaker 2: But what does that mean? Coagulation law? 531 00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:14,240 Speaker 4: I made that, So coagulation is No, I didn't make 532 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:17,480 Speaker 4: the word, but I made the law. Coagulation is basically 533 00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:20,560 Speaker 4: the bonding of blood. But the way I said, yeah, 534 00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:25,480 Speaker 4: with manifesting, manifesting is not just belief alone, just thought alone. 535 00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:27,959 Speaker 4: Like I know, you know my car, for example, my 536 00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:30,000 Speaker 4: car is going to get me from here to be 537 00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:32,840 Speaker 4: for forever. But if you don't put oil, if you 538 00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:36,720 Speaker 4: don't change the tires, change the brakes, if you don't 539 00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:39,320 Speaker 4: put gas, it's not going to get But so far, 540 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:44,600 Speaker 4: so coagulation law is resources. It is Sustainment is actually 541 00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:48,120 Speaker 4: movement because it's more than just belief and thought alone. 542 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:50,240 Speaker 4: You have to add the resources and you have to 543 00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:51,440 Speaker 4: add the action as well. 544 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:56,360 Speaker 2: Ideality again, this name I show Money Made Conversation Masterclass. 545 00:25:56,920 --> 00:26:00,960 Speaker 2: How do you get people, your clients to map themselves 546 00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:03,240 Speaker 2: to eventually mash the money. 547 00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:08,200 Speaker 4: Yes, that's a beautiful question. So it starts with mastering themselves. 548 00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:10,320 Speaker 4: I had a client. This is a beautiful and example 549 00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:13,280 Speaker 4: one of my clients. She also was dealing with toxic 550 00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 4: parents as well, and just to be brief, she was 551 00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:20,040 Speaker 4: really tired of that. So she already had talents. She 552 00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:24,320 Speaker 4: already did modeling, singing, acting. I got her to really 553 00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:27,040 Speaker 4: look in and hone into that. When she did that, 554 00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:28,760 Speaker 4: she moved out of her parents' house. She would keep 555 00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:30,920 Speaker 4: going back and forth as I would do as a kid. 556 00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:33,640 Speaker 4: She'm a bit older, but she would just go back 557 00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:35,320 Speaker 4: and forth, back and forth, and then until one day 558 00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 4: when she met me, we made a plan. 559 00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:39,160 Speaker 3: She left. When she left, she. 560 00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:41,760 Speaker 4: Had got a job, but her job is of course temporary. 561 00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:45,399 Speaker 4: She's working doing her own talents, modeling, singing, singing. 562 00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:47,200 Speaker 3: Then from there she. 563 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:51,840 Speaker 4: Attracted her provider, her man, her partner, and from there 564 00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:55,800 Speaker 4: they're building. They're building together. Now they're coming together. He 565 00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:57,439 Speaker 4: does I'm not sure what he does, but I know 566 00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:01,000 Speaker 4: she's in the industry. So now her getting away from 567 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:04,119 Speaker 4: her toxic pearance, her believing in herself and again having 568 00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:06,960 Speaker 4: that person there to remind her of her own power 569 00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:11,160 Speaker 4: that pivoted her and allowed her to bring forth more wealth, 570 00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:13,040 Speaker 4: to meet the right people in her life. 571 00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:14,280 Speaker 3: Who's gonna build with her? 572 00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:18,320 Speaker 2: Now just about show it's about money making conversations with 573 00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:22,520 Speaker 2: small business owners and entrepreneurs. How what device would we 574 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 2: give for entrepreneurs struggling to monetize their genius. 575 00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:30,760 Speaker 4: The advice I would give is change the wording. Change 576 00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:34,360 Speaker 4: the wording, cause when we say I'm struggling again, our 577 00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:38,320 Speaker 4: reality is being commanded through the words that we speak, 578 00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:41,200 Speaker 4: so our brain listens to that. So if we say 579 00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 4: I'm struggling, if you play around and say, oh, I'm fat, 580 00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:46,080 Speaker 4: your brain gonna keep saying, okay, well, let me show 581 00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:48,040 Speaker 4: you that you are. So if you feel like you're 582 00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 4: struggling with your own genius, change that. And affirmations are 583 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:55,880 Speaker 4: powerful because this is the neuroscience. When you speak positivity, 584 00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:58,600 Speaker 4: your brain hears that and accept that is true. So 585 00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:01,240 Speaker 4: I'm not you know, don't say I'm struggling and change 586 00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:04,120 Speaker 4: the words for you, of course. But I'm empowered. I'm 587 00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:07,439 Speaker 4: very intelligent, I'm very smart. Speak life into yourself and 588 00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,520 Speaker 4: then dive into those aspects. If you feel like you 589 00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:14,040 Speaker 4: know I'm lacking in this area, now sit with that. 590 00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:17,240 Speaker 4: Instead of doing ten things a day, allow your schedule 591 00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:19,160 Speaker 4: to go down and do that one or two things. 592 00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:21,679 Speaker 4: Doing less is not people think when you do a 593 00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:23,200 Speaker 4: little bit, you're not doing nothing. 594 00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:24,440 Speaker 3: No, that's actually better. 595 00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:26,520 Speaker 4: If you can focus on one thing, you're going to 596 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:28,480 Speaker 4: feel ten times better a year. 597 00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:32,800 Speaker 2: I've heard that you say the statement live, what do 598 00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:33,520 Speaker 2: you reference? 599 00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:37,400 Speaker 3: Oh lives? I do a live streaming on TikTok. 600 00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 1: A little bit more detail about that. 601 00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:41,760 Speaker 4: So if you find me on all platforms of dit 602 00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:44,400 Speaker 4: princ but on my TikTok, I do go live three 603 00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:46,440 Speaker 4: days a week where I'm able to talk to people 604 00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:49,960 Speaker 4: about reprogramming their mindset, giving them advice. People come through, 605 00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:52,320 Speaker 4: they get free coaching. That's the time I do free 606 00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 4: coaching for thirty minutes a day Monday, Wednesday and Friday 607 00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:57,000 Speaker 4: three thirty East your standard time. 608 00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:58,880 Speaker 2: As you close out and tell us one more time 609 00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:02,280 Speaker 2: about your book, Manda Tithes of Mind. That's colonized and 610 00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:04,960 Speaker 2: what readers can expect when they pick up this book. 611 00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:08,880 Speaker 1: I know you're talking about your thirty jobs in here briefly. 612 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:12,760 Speaker 3: Yes, this book is going to shift you. 613 00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:15,200 Speaker 4: It's not a long read at all. It's a very 614 00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,960 Speaker 4: easy read. I made it like that on purpose. It's 615 00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:20,960 Speaker 4: going to reprogram you. Was going to activate you. And 616 00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:23,320 Speaker 4: it's a portal. It's really a portal for you to 617 00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:26,880 Speaker 4: reprogram yourself. Know that your wealth lies within and for 618 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:29,680 Speaker 4: you to create that wealth on an external. 619 00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:31,000 Speaker 1: So where can I get it? 620 00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:35,840 Speaker 3: Oh, it's available on Amazon. Yes, if you go to Amazon, 621 00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:38,560 Speaker 3: you can type in monetize a mind that's colonized. It 622 00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:39,360 Speaker 3: will pop right up. 623 00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:41,400 Speaker 4: It is under my real name, Princess Hill, so you 624 00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:43,960 Speaker 4: will be able to see. But I'm the only monetize 625 00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:46,200 Speaker 4: a mind that's colinized too, So it's a black book 626 00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:47,040 Speaker 4: and it will. 627 00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:47,680 Speaker 3: Pop right up for you. 628 00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,520 Speaker 2: Well, you know, first of all, you contacted me. I 629 00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:53,880 Speaker 2: fell out to be a guest document that wonderful. 630 00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:55,400 Speaker 3: Thank you for having me. 631 00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:59,160 Speaker 2: What an honest conversation journey. The fact that I always 632 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:02,120 Speaker 2: tell people going to college change my life. And I 633 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,200 Speaker 2: always tell people to go to college because it allows 634 00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:07,920 Speaker 2: you to find who you are, and I found myself 635 00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:11,200 Speaker 2: in college. It looks like you outside of room and board. 636 00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:13,440 Speaker 2: You found yourself in college exactly. 637 00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:16,479 Speaker 3: You absolutely wrapped just what for room and board, but 638 00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:17,880 Speaker 3: it shifted me. 639 00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:22,680 Speaker 2: So congratulations in your life and congratulations on any future 640 00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:24,880 Speaker 2: success that you have. And thank you your deity for 641 00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:27,000 Speaker 2: coming on Money Making Conversations Class. 642 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:28,920 Speaker 3: Thank you for having me. I'm so grateful. 643 00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 5: This has been another edition of Money Making Conversations Masterclass 644 00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:37,560 Speaker 5: hosted by me Rashaan McDonald. 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