Speaker 1: This is, he said a Yavi ho with Eric Winter
Speaker 1: and Rosalind Fantez.
Speaker 2: Handaday.
Speaker 1: He said it, daddy, ha another episode of madness. What
Speaker 1: are we going to talk about?
Speaker 2: Well, the first thing I want to talk about is
Speaker 2: I was out of town for maybe a day and
Speaker 2: a half.
Speaker 1: No three days?
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I mean you can't travel. I saw
Speaker 2: you in the morning on a Monday. I was back
Speaker 2: in the afternoon on a Wednesday.
Speaker 1: Nobody was three days.
Speaker 2: I wasn't that gone that long. How the heck did
Speaker 2: so much drama? I come home, everything is so smooth
Speaker 2: that the kid's great. She's torn apart the room. She
Speaker 2: decided to remodel this entire bedroom of Sabella. It's like,
Speaker 2: in a day and a half that I'm gone, there's
Speaker 2: ten boxes in the house painting walls, colors that don't
Speaker 2: even make sense. I was so confused by the colors,
Speaker 2: but apparently Isabella didn't even question it. Needed every everything
Speaker 2: done that day. The day I show up, there's work,
Speaker 2: three four workers at the house. What why were you
Speaker 2: just waiting for me to leave?
Speaker 1: Ladies, that's how it's done. You left and say we
Speaker 1: had a brand new bedroom with new paint and I
Speaker 1: got rid of the treadmill and I got a smaller
Speaker 1: treadmill and the house ran like Silk said. Kids were
Speaker 1: out of the house at eight am, went to school
Speaker 1: at eight o seven. The three days they kept calling
Speaker 1: me a star.
Speaker 2: And then the first day I'm back fighting in the house,
Speaker 2: arguing it's the energy I didn't do.
Speaker 1: It's what you bring.
Speaker 2: I didn't do anything. I just showed up.
Speaker 1: It's what you bring to the table.
Speaker 2: What did I bring?
Speaker 1: Even my amazing mother in law couldn't believe it. She
Speaker 1: came the third day because I had to live on
Speaker 1: Directiv because of Sabella's new TV in your bedroom, had
Speaker 1: to come and drop off the box and there was
Speaker 1: a window of an hour of nobody at the house.
Speaker 1: So I said, when can you come before the nanny
Speaker 1: shows up in case Directiv comes, so you can receive
Speaker 1: the pack kitch. And she got home and she's like,
Speaker 1: I've never seen anything like this. The kids are ready
Speaker 1: to go, waiting for me to change. Launches are packed,
Speaker 1: it's not even eight am. All the bets are made.
Speaker 1: The kitchen was spotless, and I was like, I am
Speaker 1: so impressed. We were like this and we had high
Speaker 1: five at each other.
Speaker 2: I come home on a Wednesday. The next day, I'm
Speaker 2: dealing with Dylan. He's he called me to his room.
Speaker 2: I'm sleep I'm laying with him. You decided to sleep
Speaker 2: in longer. You didn't Wakebella like you said.
Speaker 1: You woke up early every day because I was by myself.
Speaker 2: I was taking care of Dylan. I'm laying with him.
Speaker 2: No she wakes up. Doesn't you wake Isabella up?
Speaker 1: I did so well cho and we had.
Speaker 2: All fighting and arguing with each other and even chupa
Speaker 2: this movie. I'm not even you're fighting with Sabella. So
Speaker 2: I'm not doing any chaos, you and Sabella.
Speaker 1: And you know what, Sad, I didn't have one argument
Speaker 1: with Sebby for three days. We were like best days,
Speaker 1: like unya cantrita.
Speaker 2: So her the next day.
Speaker 1: I wasn't because she's then you come home. I didn't
Speaker 1: even do but could you gets an attitude is like
Speaker 1: daddy say, I'm going to act up.
Speaker 2: Not even doing anything I've been reading or like on tape,
Speaker 2: listening to this book how to Raise Strong Children.
Speaker 1: Who told you about this book?
Speaker 2: Henribella Tennis mental uh not mental, but mindset coming, He said,
Speaker 2: I think it's a book you might really enjoy, and
Speaker 2: it's how to Raise Mentally Strong Children, And I'm I'm
Speaker 2: listening to it and like, we're doing so many things wrong.
Speaker 2: According to this book, we are so oft.
Speaker 1: Great parents.
Speaker 2: We are definitely products of our parents in the way
Speaker 2: that that we were raised for sure, which is like
Speaker 2: the cycle that every generation is trying to do a
Speaker 2: little different. Not my parents did a great job with me,
Speaker 2: but everybody does. Every parent does what they know and
Speaker 2: how they're raised right, and.
Speaker 1: So what are we doing wrong?
Speaker 2: Where does the list start? It's like even when you
Speaker 2: just say, if long as you're going to live in
Speaker 2: my house, even like that statement, but it's the truth.
Speaker 2: But I know, but it's like the way to talk
Speaker 2: to these child so that they feel hard. Like I
Speaker 2: used to constantly fight with Isabella, and I would argue
Speaker 2: with her till I was blue in the face. And
Speaker 2: the book it's kind of like, you know what, you
Speaker 2: just let them know when you're ready to communicate with me,
Speaker 2: You let me know and you just leave and you
Speaker 2: don't even engage in the argument. And as long as
Speaker 2: they understand, and I say this to you all the time,
Speaker 2: take accountability for their action. Right if Sabella learns to
Speaker 2: take accountability about what punishment will come, that we can
Speaker 2: follow through with the punishment, then she'll make those decisions
Speaker 2: or fall in her face on her own and take
Speaker 2: the punishment. But we're always we always threaten the punishment
Speaker 2: it and we never do it. But also in the
Speaker 2: way that we communicate and argue. It's like saying, like
Speaker 2: the other day, Sabella went back to the beer to
Speaker 2: dragon topic because I said something that I said something
Speaker 2: as a joke and then she ran with it and
Speaker 2: and I was like, Nope, never, not a chance. And
Speaker 2: then I was like everything that I just read that
Speaker 2: was exactly wrong.
Speaker 1: This was funny, guys, Now, this was really funny. So
Speaker 1: I am so proud I give her a brand new
Speaker 1: bedroom in less than twenty four hours. Right, paint you
Speaker 1: up the whole thing. Workers, It was a zoo at
Speaker 1: the house. She comes from school and it's ready. So
Speaker 1: that night Eric shows up from New York. He was
Speaker 1: at the upfront, right, and we all this time to
Speaker 1: go to bed. Delan is already sleeping. So it's me,
Speaker 1: Sabby and Eric on her new bed looking at this
Speaker 1: beautiful desk that now doesn't have all these trophies because
Speaker 1: I got her like a boat, like a trophy case area,
Speaker 1: and it looks pretty empty before he was packed with
Speaker 1: all these tennis trophies. And Eric, I don't know why
Speaker 1: you felt compelled to be like Sabbi, that's a perfect
Speaker 1: space for a bear to dragon. And she's like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, I want a beercher dragon. And I'm going
Speaker 1: and you guys know we just had a podcast about
Speaker 1: lizards and reptiles and alligators, so you know you know
Speaker 1: how I feel. So I'm going, Eric, why would you
Speaker 1: bring no this? This room is so pretty right now?
Speaker 1: Why a bearded dragon? Of course, because she if I
Speaker 1: say why, she's just gray, which is just black. Now
Speaker 1: she's like, I want to bear to dragon. So this
Speaker 1: regards ever, all the effort that I put in the
Speaker 1: in her bedroom. Doesn't even say thank you. Now she's pissed.
Speaker 2: But you're saying, gone, she listening to everything.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's because of the energy.
Speaker 2: She pissed.
Speaker 1: She's pissed because now I am denying her of having
Speaker 1: something that she wants. And I said, said, but you
Speaker 1: don't want anything. He just brought it up. That was
Speaker 1: the least the last thing in your mind. And then
Speaker 1: so I get heated and I get really really upset
Speaker 1: because I feel unappreciated. I think Eric goes stop it,
Speaker 1: you know, following the book.
Speaker 2: But she has read the book, reading this book, that.
Speaker 1: This is so important, that you're doing everything wrong. And
Speaker 1: the last thing I want to hear at that moment, I.
Speaker 2: Just said, I said, I've been reading this book. Hang
Speaker 2: time for a second. Don't just say no, no, no, no, no, like,
Speaker 2: let's just hear her out.
Speaker 1: I don't give a I they should say thank you.
Speaker 2: But I practiced some of the book which it actually
Speaker 2: worked where I was like, oh, so okay, I understand
Speaker 2: you want to be a dragon. It's really interesting that
Speaker 2: you do, I say, but sebba, you know when you
Speaker 2: start pick up at tennis, you know animals are allowed
Speaker 2: to work. You know you want to cap beer dragon.
Speaker 2: There's a lot of time and you have to put
Speaker 2: in a lot of work with those animals. We can
Speaker 2: have a conversation, Mom and I will talk about it.
Speaker 2: Will will continue to discuss the responsibility of taking on
Speaker 2: a pet. But you know, as you go back to tennis,
Speaker 2: because she's been hurt, her back's been hurt, where you're
Speaker 2: gonna find the time to take care of it. And
Speaker 2: she's like, oh, you know you're right, you know you're right.
Speaker 2: I am going to be super busy, and she kind
Speaker 2: of shifted gears and didn't bring it back up. It
Speaker 2: just kind of went away without a fight.
Speaker 1: I have to try.
Speaker 2: That makes interesting. It happened again with the ear piercing.
Speaker 2: She said, you promised that she could pierce a second anything,
Speaker 2: having which you might want to let her have that win.
Speaker 2: I don't think it's that big of a deal to
Speaker 2: get a second piercing. You don't know at all. It's
Speaker 2: just why I had three.
Speaker 1: I know, because I only have one and I never
Speaker 1: it's I don't one thing is something that my mom
Speaker 1: would have let me do. So I don't know WoT.
Speaker 2: It Three holes in my ears and I did two
Speaker 2: of them on my own, but listen they I closed.
Speaker 2: That was a phase I went through. Right, just we're
Speaker 2: having earrings that was the nineties, and.
Speaker 1: She really wants it and her best friend Lulu has
Speaker 1: it and she looks beautiful.
Speaker 2: I just have a it's not a big deal at all.
Speaker 2: I think it's it's to me, it is, but it's
Speaker 2: one of those things where you pick your battle, because
Speaker 2: the more you say you can't express yourself, but you
Speaker 2: can't be you, they will find other ways.
Speaker 1: I just don't want these girls thinking that she can
Speaker 1: do whatever it takes. She's goody, she's not at twelve
Speaker 1: years old.
Speaker 2: She's asking for something that's really minor.
Speaker 1: It's not you're mutilating your ear ring. She has nobody
Speaker 1: happened when she was born. She doesn't remember, didn't.
Speaker 2: Her Okay, first of all, you're the only parent out
Speaker 2: there that literally the kid was popped out, and you're like,
Speaker 2: I want to punch holes in the sails right now.
Speaker 1: You'll never remember.
Speaker 2: But most a lot of parents are like, wait for
Speaker 2: six months, a year, whatever, you needed earrings in those
Speaker 2: ears instantly immediately. Okay, But so you're adding one more hole.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't know what a big of a deal. And
Speaker 2: you're like, where hoop, She's well, if I get a
Speaker 2: second hole, I'm just saying we need to try to
Speaker 2: talk now.
Speaker 1: Is upset because it's like you go zero to sixty
Speaker 1: so fast and you have to change your ways. Is
Speaker 1: like you call the stupid as it. I have never
Speaker 1: said you're stupid. I can say the situation is stupid.
Speaker 1: But I have never said you.
Speaker 2: Don't be so stupid like we say like you don't
Speaker 2: mean it in a bad way. Sometimes it's just the
Speaker 2: way you talk like you say those things sometimes like
Speaker 2: in general, that's so stupid, don't be so stupid, Like
Speaker 2: you don't think of it as about saying she is
Speaker 2: stupid is a way of In this book, it's constantly
Speaker 2: talking about kids just mirror everything you do. And it's
Speaker 2: like as simple as this, like this is when I
Speaker 2: heard today, I was, I was at the on the
Speaker 2: bike at the gym, and it's aid, you know, in
Speaker 2: our house, And I say this to all the time, Sabella.
Speaker 2: If you ever lie, Dylan, the same thing, you tell
Speaker 2: the truth. You'll be in far less trouble even if
Speaker 2: you did something wrong if you just tell the truth.
Speaker 2: But if I catch you in a lit you'll be
Speaker 2: in double the amount of trouble. It'll be way worse.
Speaker 2: So just come clean. It's much easier, right. Lying can
Speaker 2: never be on the table. And in this book it says,
Speaker 2: but as a parent, you have to also hold yourself
Speaker 2: to that standard in front of the kids, because if
Speaker 2: they see you lie, they copy the behavior. So, for example,
Speaker 2: if you don't want to go to a dinner plans
Speaker 2: or dinner date, and the person's calling to confirm and
Speaker 2: you want to get out of it, and you're on
Speaker 2: speaker and the kids hear you and they say, okay,
Speaker 2: so you have dinner tonight and you're like, oh, I
Speaker 2: just can't. I don't feel well, and you're lying to
Speaker 2: get out of it. You've just given them the green
Speaker 2: light for a little light, little little small lies, got it?
Speaker 2: So they're mirroring your behavior. My mom is saying, don't
Speaker 2: lie at all, But I just watched you lie, got it?
Speaker 2: Our dad is doing the same thing, right, So it's
Speaker 2: fascinating stuff. It's hard, it's really hard, like very hard
Speaker 2: to follow this book because instinctually it takes a lot
Speaker 2: of patience to try to navigate this. But it's a
Speaker 2: way of trying to evolve as parents a little bit
Speaker 2: or try listen. I'm the first one to say you
Speaker 2: should be sah, I get your room and yeah, And
Speaker 2: I've yelled many times, but we often feel bad afterwards,
Speaker 2: like worse. Yeah, so I don't know. And again, it's
Speaker 2: not about making the kid be your best friend. It's
Speaker 2: not about I need to be best friends with my child. No, No,
Speaker 2: the kid just has to learn to respect you and
Speaker 2: learn to communicate with you and have zero tolerance for sarcasm,
Speaker 2: eye rolls, no eye contact, things that she does as
Speaker 2: a preteen. So it's working that in anyway, food for thought.
Speaker 2: We have some work to do. That's what I let
Speaker 2: to say.
Speaker 1: So when you're done reading it, I'll not reading it.
Speaker 2: Listen to it. Listen to all your podcasts. You listen
Speaker 2: to it. It's a good thing to listen to it.
Speaker 1: I'm upsessed with podcasts. I do my makeup, I take
Speaker 1: showers podcasts. I'm all the long listening to two people.
Speaker 1: And some of them are rubbish and just funny and irrelevant,
Speaker 1: but some of it is. It's very insightful. I'm learning
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff.
Speaker 2: Let me ask you this, Why can't we go on
Speaker 2: any more dinner dates with friends? You put the kebage
Speaker 2: on socializing. How come what are you talking about? You said,
Speaker 2: I'm tired of so many dinners and going out with people.
Speaker 2: I need to stop going out.
Speaker 1: It has nothing to do with socializing or spending time
Speaker 1: with our friends. I love them and I will love
Speaker 1: for them. I just went to lunch with my friend yesterday.
Speaker 1: It's not about that. It's about as you know, the
Speaker 1: more I eat out, the more my stomach causes a problem.
Speaker 1: And we're about to go on vacation and I want
Speaker 1: to lose some weight and I want to fee. I
Speaker 1: don't want to be inflamed and I want to be
Speaker 1: healthy when we go to Cabo and just be full
Speaker 1: inflamed for a whole week, right because of what we're
Speaker 1: going to be eating. So I'm making a conscious decision,
Speaker 1: like any dinners anything that I know we're going to
Speaker 1: be eating bad, right, I want to do it after
Speaker 1: I give my body a reset of at least three weeks.
Speaker 1: It has nothing to do with not spending time with
Speaker 1: my friends, our friends.
Speaker 2: She's like booking dinners out a month out.
Speaker 1: I'm like, yes, I want to do it when we
Speaker 1: come back from Cabo. Has nothing to do with them.
Speaker 1: Erica has to do with.
Speaker 2: My stomach, you know, I think was the last thing.
Speaker 1: I am the life of the party.
Speaker 2: My problem is I don't want to party. I don't
Speaker 2: want to which party, the bad party? Yeah all that,
Speaker 2: not even the bad party, which party, the city in
Speaker 2: the backyard, party on the grass.
Speaker 1: Anyways, I am the life of the party. The problem
Speaker 1: is guys amazing. We go to amazing dinners and then
Speaker 1: I don't want to be the girl like can I
Speaker 1: just have a salad and please no carlic? And what's
Speaker 1: it like? No, I want to enjoy myself, so allow
Speaker 1: my body to be a little bit less, a little
Speaker 1: bit less inflame.
Speaker 2: Contradictory of the life of the party comment.
Speaker 1: But okay, I am the life of the party.
Speaker 2: I was at the party. Just you. It's my party,
Speaker 2: just you, your life of your own.
Speaker 1: I want to be like like Richard Williams when Serena
Speaker 1: or Venus won the.
Speaker 2: One of the big.
Speaker 1: Tournaments and he takes a big cent that goes. We
Speaker 1: have a party and no one is invited.
Speaker 2: That's your That's a good shirt for you. Actually, I
Speaker 2: have a party and no one's divided. That should be
Speaker 2: your shirt. I have a party and no one's divided.
Speaker 2: That your party, by the way, that was perfect by yourself.
Speaker 1: You know what. In the living room, and I've done
Speaker 1: this before. When I buy myself living room, I put
Speaker 1: music and I'm dancing and singing by myself.
Speaker 2: It is I've never seen this.
Speaker 1: I've done that many times. I used to all the
Speaker 1: time but before I met you, we just do it
Speaker 1: all the time.
Speaker 2: I clearly took that out of her. She didn't do
Speaker 2: that anymore. I've never seen her dancing. I've never seen
Speaker 2: her happy dancing.
Speaker 1: I said that I do it by myself. I do
Speaker 1: when I work out by myself in the patio. I
Speaker 1: have music and sometimes I just put some sauce and
Speaker 1: I'm working out and I'm dancing. I'm going, this is life.
Speaker 2: And then she's like, ah, I've partied today, I'm good
Speaker 2: now I want to see no one.
Speaker 1: Let's talk about making why you're making this sound. Let's
Speaker 1: talk about like I am just the most boring, terrible.
Speaker 2: That you just literally put the cabage on every dinner
Speaker 2: that we want to like. I'm like, we have this
Speaker 2: dinner to go to this dinner, and you're like, no, no, no,
Speaker 2: I like the book. There should be the book.
Speaker 1: About we're going to do it or we're going to
Speaker 1: do all of them? Way, come back, all right.
Speaker 2: Let's talk about this documentary that we're watching, the Ashley
Speaker 2: Madison doc. How crazy is that?
Speaker 1: And you never like it?
Speaker 2: I am it's a little long. I feel like an
Speaker 2: hour and a half, like a one off movie.
Speaker 1: It's like, because guys, this is what's happening. This isn't
Speaker 1: an app for cheating, so basically you're married.
Speaker 2: I don't think people if you know what Actley Madison,
Speaker 2: I didn't know what it was. I know what it was.
Speaker 2: Ashley Madison was like just the height of the dating apps,
Speaker 2: but it was about having an affair. It was about
Speaker 2: you can be partnered up with people who want around
Speaker 2: the world. Essentially. It was expanded into a lot of
Speaker 2: countries for people that are seeking affairs and that want
Speaker 2: to have affairs essentially, so they're pairing people up and.
Speaker 1: Confidential. The security measures were like outstanding, so no married
Speaker 1: person would think that will add there will ever be
Speaker 1: at or is going to be leacked, because the way
Speaker 1: they sell you this adventure is like they are so protected,
Speaker 1: don't worry about it, nobody will ever know.
Speaker 2: But they had what thirty million million subscribers, and they
Speaker 2: got hacked and the entire list was exposed. And I
Speaker 2: want to watch further because I remember there were quite
Speaker 2: a few celebrities that were actually exposed to if I'm
Speaker 2: not mistaken, But it was funny. There's this one couple
Speaker 2: who this guy is like a nurse, very Christian, married
Speaker 2: to this this this woman who's housewife, literally dedicated her
Speaker 2: life to him and the family, and he just and
Speaker 2: she was sexually pleasing to him, like all these things
Speaker 2: still together, right, they were. She was fully he was
Speaker 2: fully pleased. At home, he was not happy, which was weird,
Speaker 2: Like he was saying, I wasn't not so sex sexually fulfilled.
Speaker 2: I was fulfilled. I was just not happy. And he
Speaker 2: was a great dad. Anyways, signs up, uses all his
Speaker 2: real information, has a bu bunch of different affairs, and
Speaker 2: then later gets totally lucky and becomes a youtubecause them
Speaker 2: because they were singing frozen Love is an open door, right,
Speaker 2: I think it was what it was called in the car.
Speaker 2: It went viral. They started a YouTube channel. Then he
Speaker 2: sprung her pregnancy surprise on her because he took a
Speaker 2: sample of yourine and told her she was pregnant, and
Speaker 2: that went viral. They're making a bunch of money with
Speaker 2: their YouTube page. So now he's just, you know, a
Speaker 2: semi celebrity. And people saw his face on the release
Speaker 2: of names, and he was it was all for Twitter,
Speaker 2: and somebody somebody tweeted and said, oh my god, this
Speaker 2: is not now.
Speaker 1: We have to keep watching because now we don't know
Speaker 1: what's going to happen after that. But let me ask you,
Speaker 1: this is the thing that the problem that I have
Speaker 1: with the documentary. I think it's fascinating and disgusting at
Speaker 1: the same time. It's actually it's actually disgusting like that,
Speaker 1: by the way, like that business model, this life is
Speaker 1: too short? Why don't you.
Speaker 2: Cheat have an affair? It's disgusting in ways for sure,
Speaker 2: but you gotta admit it's pretty genius if you look
Speaker 2: at it, if you take your mind out of the
Speaker 2: infidelity and you go as a business made the devil
Speaker 2: at work pretty wild?
Speaker 1: Is the devil at work anyways? And all involved. But
Speaker 1: let me tell you something. They not fantasize. They romanticize
Speaker 1: the idea of it all because the way they compose,
Speaker 1: the way the script right and the format of the
Speaker 1: whole documentary is made, is like they interview the people.
Speaker 1: It's almost like they're just to find their behavior.
Speaker 2: Like the guy.
Speaker 1: It's not like like, you know what, I was happy,
Speaker 1: but I was bored and I just didn't know what
Speaker 1: to do. And they spend so much time in their
Speaker 1: background and emotional states, almost like you want to. It's
Speaker 1: just to find their behavior.
Speaker 2: If somebody is having it, If somebody does anything.
Speaker 1: They want them, They want you to like them.
Speaker 2: When people do things wrong, they justify why they do
Speaker 2: it right, like a crazy person, bankrobber, murderer. They have reasons.
Speaker 2: I think that's extreme saying that, like a person having
Speaker 2: an affair is going to justify what led me to
Speaker 2: get to the affair. Right. There was that lady, which
Speaker 2: that was also why forget it turns out this lady
Speaker 2: is bored with every relationship she's in. She's a serial cheater.
Speaker 2: She ultimately now is a dominatrix and met her current
Speaker 2: husband through the dating app through Ashley Madison. He left
Speaker 2: his wife, they got married, they have a fully open marriage.
Speaker 2: But that's a couple who just said, forget the affair.
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna have an open marriage so we can
Speaker 2: just sleep with wherever we want. Our marriage is going
Speaker 2: to be an affair. So do you think it works
Speaker 2: for them?
Speaker 1: Do you think your marriage could survive if your spouse
Speaker 1: is having affairs on an app like that and you'll
Speaker 1: find out five years later and you're very happy, you're
Speaker 1: perfectly happy, and then you'll find this out.
Speaker 2: It wouldn't fly in my universe by any means. I mean, nope,
Speaker 2: However I could what I can kind of. I want
Speaker 2: to see. Listen that couple, that the Christian couple that
Speaker 2: seems to still be together. He told her I never
Speaker 2: did anything, he says, I would subscribe. I think he
Speaker 2: did have af fairs. He said he went to multiple homes.
Speaker 1: I think so. Yeah.
Speaker 2: But he told her when he first came out, I
Speaker 2: didn't do anything. I just signed up for this. I
Speaker 2: never acted on it. I did, I know. But that's
Speaker 2: where we're at in the documentary. So let's see. I'm
Speaker 2: assuming he comes clean. But even she's so.
Speaker 1: Pretty true that he didn't do anything. The fact that
Speaker 1: he showed up at all these houses. Maybe there was
Speaker 1: no physical interaction, but just the fact that you know
Speaker 1: that your husband signed sign into an app to cheat
Speaker 1: with intention to do it and met all these women anything.
Speaker 2: Okay, if you went to therapy for that, that's a
Speaker 2: good God, that's a good point. If if they cheat,
Speaker 2: the guy cheated, which he did. I think the reason
Speaker 2: they could still be together is because of the Christian background.
Speaker 2: I think she's really really rooted in her faith, and
Speaker 2: she's like, we're going to make this work. That's why
Speaker 2: I'm saying, that's why they're still together. We both know
Speaker 2: it's not going to fly for us. My question is, though,
Speaker 2: if a guy or a girl got into a pickle,
Speaker 2: got into a situation where they almost would have had
Speaker 2: an affair but they didn't. Like that guy is telling
Speaker 2: his wife, is there any part of you that goes?
Speaker 2: He didn't let me at least give him a point
Speaker 2: for that, Like, like what she what she remember? She said,
Speaker 2: we went back. We were on a tour for their show,
Speaker 2: and they went to a hotel and she goes, and
Speaker 2: we were even intimate that night. And I was like,
Speaker 2: I'm wife of the year. I'm forgiving my husband because
Speaker 2: he didn't do anything. He was brave of him to
Speaker 2: come clean and tell me I signed up, but I
Speaker 2: didn't do anything. And she's like, I slept with him
Speaker 2: that night, which I think a normal not that's she's
Speaker 2: not normal, but most people would take a beat and
Speaker 2: maybe not sleep with him that night. That was pretty
Speaker 2: bold of her.
Speaker 1: But what is your question?
Speaker 2: The question is do you think relationships can survive that?
Speaker 2: In general? Like most through your mindset, through my mindset,
Speaker 2: through your mindset. Do you think most relationships that have
Speaker 2: a chance, Absolutely, Yeah, Roselyne and Fetuccini would probably not.
Speaker 2: But I'm saying you're asking me, in general, could marriage
Speaker 2: to survive? And I think I could see versions where
Speaker 2: that could survive because the guy signed up but didn't
Speaker 2: do it.
Speaker 1: The problem that I have is that I will look
Speaker 1: at that person in this case, you're my husband, you
Speaker 1: different for the rest of our lives, like I'll be
Speaker 1: looking at you as my husband, but I will looking
Speaker 1: through you thinking he had the intention.
Speaker 2: And the urge, but the guy didn't.
Speaker 1: Don't.
Speaker 2: Don't think of me right now. Think of that situation.
Speaker 2: The guy didn't he did.
Speaker 1: Let's just say, let's know if I believe it, and
Speaker 1: then I'm going to be I'm going to go to
Speaker 1: bed for the rest of my life going is he
Speaker 1: telling me the truth? The intention was there, the capability
Speaker 1: was there. He paid for the service. He's saying that
Speaker 1: he didn't have any physical.
Speaker 2: Interaction, but maybe he did.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think I can live. I don't listen.
Speaker 1: I'm not that mature. I am a Christian. I believe
Speaker 1: in in fighting for relationships. I believe that everybody deserves
Speaker 1: a chance I just know me, so I'll end up
Speaker 1: sabotaging the whole thing because I just have.
Speaker 2: It would be no to go through. That's sign up
Speaker 2: and got that far.
Speaker 1: It's very hard.
Speaker 2: It would be tough. But fun documentary, interesting documentary, A
Speaker 2: little long. Check it out. Another one on there, another
Speaker 2: one on the radar.
Speaker 1: To see you don't have to see you guys, All right.
Speaker 2: Well, then don't see it. But I thought it was entertaining.
Speaker 2: It is entertaining. You love it, I don't know. I
Speaker 2: love it. You're very intrigued. No, I knew the story.
Speaker 2: You didn't. I didn't know the story.
Speaker 1: Like, oh, I get him, I get him, you know
Speaker 1: I get him?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I got it, dude. No, it makes sense. You
Speaker 2: haven't said anything, not at all. I think that one
Speaker 2: couple's a trip that dominate I have never heard of. Actually, yeah,
Speaker 2: I knew all about it. I remember when the scandal
Speaker 2: came out. Anyways, we were all over the place with
Speaker 2: topics today. Again, that was big. We didn't follow anything, zero,
Speaker 2: nothing from but it was fun, good times and until
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