1 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 1: Transmitting hope everybody had a great holiday. Holy moly, I'm 2 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: so happy to be back. I know maybe you guys 3 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:17,919 Speaker 1: aren't happy back work. Oh, I mean it's like first 4 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:19,959 Speaker 1: day of school. I love my child all the time. 5 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:24,119 Speaker 1: Morning studio morning. We are back. We are back and 6 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 1: ready and motivated and inspired, we're disciplined, all those cool things. 7 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 1: But we're happy to be here with you today. Let's 8 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 1: go around the rooms, first day, first day back, and 9 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 1: so I'm gonna ask you a question. Everybody answered this 10 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 1: question here, So here we are our first show back. 11 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 1: I want you to name and we'll get to resolutions later. 12 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 1: Something trivial. So you'd like to change about yourself, but 13 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:44,519 Speaker 1: it can be stupid, but you really do want to 14 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:48,199 Speaker 1: change it, even if it's like dumb, Right, Eddie, what 15 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 1: would you? What are you gonna change about yourself this year? 16 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 1: Not something is the essence of who you are. Something 17 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 1: that's really gonna do. What's gonna change about you? I 18 00:00:57,040 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 1: want to change my belly, Like and I'm not saying 19 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 1: like I'm gonna work out or whatever, but I'm really 20 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 1: gonna focus on my belly. It's hanging over my belt. 21 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 1: It's larger than I want it to be, and I 22 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:10,400 Speaker 1: just want to slim it down to where my belt 23 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 1: my pants don't fold over like that. And that's my goal, duddy. 24 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 1: I think I can do it too. Good job eddies 25 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 1: are a video producer. There, data four, lunchbox. Something trivial 26 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 1: that you'd like to change about you this year? Yeah. 27 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 1: I want to be more flexible because I like, in life, 28 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:30,320 Speaker 1: twist your body. No, see that's you can do it 29 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:34,040 Speaker 1: both ways in life and my body. Because I feel 30 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:36,119 Speaker 1: like when I get older, I'm gonna be in big 31 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 1: trouble because I am so unflexible. I have never stretched 32 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 1: in my life, Like I go run five miles and 33 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 1: I don't stretch. I play soccer, I don't stress, and 34 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 1: I still get hurt exactly. So eventually when I get older, 35 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 1: that's gonna be a problem. Right now, I'm still young 36 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 1: and so it's okay, but I need to start working 37 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:58,040 Speaker 1: on it now and then also just be flexible in life. 38 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 1: Just oh, both all flexs all times. Yeah, So I'm 39 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 1: gonna be more flexible flexible life. There's nothing to do exactly, 40 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 1: but I want to be more flexible exact next amy everybody, Ay, 41 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:09,079 Speaker 1: let's go tell us what's the trivial thing you change 42 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 1: about you? Okay, so something that I know is not 43 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 1: good to say to yourself, but I just can't break it. 44 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:16,080 Speaker 1: And I this year, I really am going to make 45 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 1: it my goal to cut out Oh it's just stupid, 46 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:20,359 Speaker 1: or oh why did I do that? It's so dumb, 47 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 1: or uh, you know, even in my head. I mean, 48 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 1: because for what if I stayed around my house. I 49 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 1: know my kids hear me. I don't want them to 50 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 1: start saying that in their head because our subconscious takes 51 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 1: that in and I just want to almost eliminate that 52 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:36,679 Speaker 1: word and just not say it about anything. So that way, 53 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 1: I don't say it about myself. And I've known this 54 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 1: for years, but this year is going to be the 55 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:44,920 Speaker 1: year that I don't do it, no matter what I do, 56 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:46,920 Speaker 1: even if it's something silly like a stomach old. Oh 57 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:49,680 Speaker 1: I'm so stupid. No, let them do that. What if 58 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 1: you hear your car in the parking garage? No, I 59 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:54,680 Speaker 1: cannot say it was already there. It's been there for 60 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 1: five years, so stupid. No, I'm just gonna see, well, 61 00:02:57,240 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 1: what does this make possible? Oh? Right, you know, amen, 62 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 1: there it is at all? Right? Gray, you have a 63 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: New Year intro for me. I can you deal? That's 64 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 1: okay because we were just talking about new stuff. R. 65 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: I'm on the spot, all right, I gotta I'll go ahead. 66 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:15,360 Speaker 1: He's color blind and he's always on the grind. Oh, 67 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 1: Bobby Bone, Oh okay. My trivial thing I'm gonna change 68 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 1: about me is so I'm very lucky that my hair 69 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 1: grows really fast and have all my hair lucky ESKB. 70 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 1: Some guys that doesn't happen. And I'm lucky that I 71 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 1: don't have any gray hair in my head yet. But 72 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 1: my this starts to turn gray on my face a 73 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 1: little bit. My sideburns when turns into facial hair turns gray, 74 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 1: and I always trying to jump it off right at 75 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 1: the gray spot. You know what, I'm gonna focus on 76 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 1: that my siber wants to be be a little bit gral. 77 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 1: I leave a little b gra Okay, whoa, that's a 78 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 1: big deal. It's a big deal. It's trivial embracing the gray, 79 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 1: embracing then maybe I'm getting older. Yeah, yeah, I've often 80 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 1: felt that I was Peter Ban But I'm just not 81 00:03:59,040 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 1: gonna it's so dumb. I gonna focus I hit in 82 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 1: that line. I don't want to let me shave above 83 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 1: that gray line. So people still think I'm twenty eight, 84 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 1: you know what I'm lading to be. So gray is good. No, 85 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 1: I don't like it still, but I'm just not gonna 86 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:13,160 Speaker 1: worry about focus on just that right there. That's good man. 87 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 1: Happy New Year, and buddy, glad you're back. You can 88 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:16,919 Speaker 1: still say happy New Year like today or tomorrow at 89 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 1: is should end? Oh so just like the next few 90 00:04:19,640 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 1: hours to man tomorrow. Yeah, you don't go like the 91 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: fifth and sixth of January one Happy New Year? Oh 92 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:29,799 Speaker 1: a few days, no, I think so Happy New Year, everybody. 93 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 1: All right, let's get started with the show. We're glad 94 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 1: we're back. Hopefully you're glad we're back. Here we go. 95 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:41,600 Speaker 1: It's time to open up the mail bag. Ye get something? 96 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 1: We call ye Hello, Bobby Bones. I'm in need of help. 97 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 1: My boyfriend of two years has yet to propose. We 98 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:54,040 Speaker 1: are a blended family of five kids. We lived together. 99 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:56,280 Speaker 1: When I brought up the idea marriage, he always pushes 100 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:58,159 Speaker 1: it off. He says that I shouldn't need a piece 101 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 1: of paper fiel commitment the part I understand. He calls 102 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 1: me the wife, but he doesn't put a ring on 103 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:06,279 Speaker 1: it and says, let it happen. When it happens, what 104 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 1: should I do? I can't live without him, but I 105 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 1: want to be married signed waiting on a ring. That's 106 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 1: tough because that's a cow milk. You know, why buy 107 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:19,279 Speaker 1: the cow when you get the milk for free? Oh yeah, 108 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:23,160 Speaker 1: I've heard that. That's tough because it's not gonna just 109 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:27,839 Speaker 1: happen unless both of you are deliberate and purposeful and 110 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:30,479 Speaker 1: make it happen. Yeah, I don't understand the let's just 111 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 1: let it happen. He doesn't want to get married. YEA. 112 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:35,560 Speaker 1: That doesn't mean he doesn't want to love love you, 113 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 1: doesn't mean he doesn't want to get married ever. But 114 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 1: he doesn't want to get married right now for some reason, 115 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 1: because his actions are that of someone who doesn't want 116 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:45,760 Speaker 1: to get married right now. And yep, you're living together 117 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 1: and yeah you're sharing kids. But there is something legal 118 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 1: and not permanent, but more permanent about being married because 119 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 1: then you've always been married to that person, even if 120 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 1: you're not married anymore. Right, he just doesn't go away. 121 00:05:58,640 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 1: He just doesn't want to get married. My advice is 122 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:02,920 Speaker 1: just understand he doesn't want to get married right now, 123 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 1: figure out why that is, and then work. I don't 124 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 1: want you to give him an ultimatum, because that's just 125 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:09,360 Speaker 1: gonna be unhealthy, especially if you're happy, you be like, 126 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 1: we can marry me when I'm out of here. That's 127 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 1: not where you are right now. It sounds like you're happy. 128 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:16,040 Speaker 1: Don't spoil that. But what I would encourage you to 129 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 1: do is find out why he's with the mindset of 130 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 1: if it happens, it happens, let it happen when it happens, 131 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:26,200 Speaker 1: Like why is he in that mindset? Figure it out, 132 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:29,839 Speaker 1: diagnose that symptom, and I think you can fix the problem. 133 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 1: Now he calls her the wife. I know he wants 134 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:34,840 Speaker 1: what can she do about that? Can she use that 135 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 1: to be like, hey, where you're not, I'm not your 136 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 1: wife unless we're married, and maybe that'll kind of spark something. 137 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:43,800 Speaker 1: I don't think the spark is going to be pleasurable 138 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 1: if you do it like that. I think right now 139 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:47,599 Speaker 1: she sounds happy, and I don't want her to not 140 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:50,159 Speaker 1: be happy. And if she's ever ultimatum time, you give it. 141 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:51,640 Speaker 1: But I don't think this is ultimatum time. I don't 142 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 1: think you even do that. I think you can figure 143 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 1: out why, like, deep down at his core, what's the 144 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:00,279 Speaker 1: fundamental reason he doesn't want married again. It's probably not her. 145 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:03,720 Speaker 1: Probably something's happening back. I'd figure out what that is, 146 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:05,720 Speaker 1: and then you start working on that, like making him 147 00:07:05,720 --> 00:07:08,159 Speaker 1: feel safer in whatever area that is, and then he 148 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 1: will want to get married and then it'll happen. Look 149 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 1: at therapy session, O boy, you could, but I don't 150 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 1: think i'd go right there immediately. That's my encouragement to you. 151 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 1: He wants to be with you, obviously, he loves you. 152 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:21,920 Speaker 1: He does not want to get married, and he's not 153 00:07:21,960 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 1: just waiting to see it. Hey, he knows he doesn't 154 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 1: want to get married. Figure it out, find out what 155 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 1: that issue is, and work on that even covertly, and 156 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 1: it'll happen. I promise you or refund for your money. 157 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 1: I promise me in the situation. That's the mailback. Thank you, 158 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 1: close it up. We've got your Here's a voicemail from 159 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 1: Nicole in Michigan Morning Studio. This question is mainly for Eddie. 160 00:07:54,320 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 1: My sister, who is already an amazing human for beating 161 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 1: breast cancer, has decided that she wants to support Foster 162 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 1: families with Recipe Care, and so she's become certified. We 163 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 1: want to support her in that by maybe having a 164 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:12,679 Speaker 1: few things at her home that would make children saying 165 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 1: with her more comfortable. So I'm just curious if Eddie 166 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 1: has any experience with this and if he had any 167 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 1: recommendations or things for her that she can do or 168 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 1: things that we can do to support her. Thank you 169 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 1: for the email or for the voicemail. Eddie fostered children. 170 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:33,200 Speaker 1: Now he's adopted those children. They are now his kids. 171 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 1: So when people ask Eddie about this, that's the deal. There. 172 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:38,200 Speaker 1: You were on the foster program. I was for three years. 173 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 1: For three years. So let's do this on two levels. 174 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:44,839 Speaker 1: Let's do the if people want to foster kids, what 175 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 1: can they do to get started or what can they 176 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 1: go learn to see if it's right for them? Okay, yeah, 177 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 1: and every town, for the most part, you can google 178 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 1: how to foster a child. They'll direct you in these 179 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 1: great organizations that help you do that. Churches are a 180 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 1: lot really involved in that stuff too, so it's pretty easy. 181 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:03,040 Speaker 1: Just find one that you relate with or one that 182 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 1: will help you get in touch with how to foster 183 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:08,840 Speaker 1: a kid. What's the hardest thing about it fostering. The 184 00:09:08,880 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 1: hardest part really is just trying to be there for 185 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 1: the child, but knowing that there's a chance that they're 186 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:19,120 Speaker 1: going to go back to their original home. That's probably 187 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 1: the most challenging part, So just kind of balancing the 188 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 1: love and the care for these kids and knowing that 189 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 1: what you're doing is for them, not for you. What's 190 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 1: the best part about it? The best part is you're 191 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 1: really helping a child like they're in need. They need you, 192 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 1: they need love, they need support while whatever a situation 193 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 1: is going on around them is happening, the court system, 194 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:41,080 Speaker 1: their biological parents getting their stuff together, whatever it is. 195 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 1: You are there in that moment of need. They need you, 196 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:46,680 Speaker 1: they need love, they need someplace to feel comfortable, and 197 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:48,960 Speaker 1: that's what you're there for. It's finally the big question 198 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:52,199 Speaker 1: that she was wondering, how do you support somebody who's 199 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:54,920 Speaker 1: a foster parent. Yeah, there's so many different needs, I 200 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:57,840 Speaker 1: think when you have little children. I think diapers is 201 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:00,040 Speaker 1: a big one. There's just so many expenses, formula, a 202 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:02,439 Speaker 1: lot of things like that that you don't really realize 203 00:10:02,480 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 1: that you're going to be spending a lot of time, 204 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 1: you know, getting and from groceries and things like that. 205 00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:09,320 Speaker 1: But also food. Food is huge, straight up food, straight 206 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 1: up food. I mean, you have a busy life. We 207 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 1: went from having two biological children to having two foster 208 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 1: kids the same time, four boys at the same time, 209 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:19,199 Speaker 1: as a lot going on. So whenever someone would bring 210 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:21,200 Speaker 1: a meal over or order a pizza for us, we 211 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:22,679 Speaker 1: were just like, thank you so much because we had 212 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 1: no time to do that. So it sounds like all 213 00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:27,720 Speaker 1: the normal things, but we'd take for granted sometimes that 214 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 1: we pay for the normal things because it's normal for 215 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 1: our life. When you add their additions to it, it 216 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:34,719 Speaker 1: didn't cost a bunch more. That's right. It's not a 217 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:37,600 Speaker 1: spectacular thing, but it is meat very meaningful if it's food, 218 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:41,480 Speaker 1: if it's like you said, diapers, yeah, just the simple 219 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 1: things really, and then the fact that she wants to 220 00:10:43,280 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 1: be a recipe is really cool because I don't know 221 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:47,320 Speaker 1: what that is. Babysitting. It's just like you know, if 222 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 1: you need a babysitter or someone you're going out of 223 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:51,320 Speaker 1: town for a couple of days, they will watch your 224 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 1: kids for you. It's very important because the foster you know, 225 00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 1: experience is really tough on a marriage. It's tough on 226 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:01,440 Speaker 1: a marriage, tough on a family. Having a respite, you know, 227 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:03,720 Speaker 1: available at any time you need them and take care 228 00:11:03,760 --> 00:11:05,679 Speaker 1: of the kids is really big and so I love 229 00:11:05,720 --> 00:11:07,960 Speaker 1: that she's doing that. Thank you for the voicemail. We 230 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 1: hope that helped. And maybe you heard this and you've 231 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:13,199 Speaker 1: been thinking about fostering or helping a foster family. Maybe 232 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 1: this will kick in the pants to do it. It's 233 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:23,079 Speaker 1: time for the good news. Ryan Carney he lives in Illinois, 234 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 1: and he was dealing with his dad's brain cancer and 235 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:28,000 Speaker 1: while they were going through all that, the dad lost 236 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:30,600 Speaker 1: his ability to speak and it was very strange and 237 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:32,079 Speaker 1: they didn't know how to do with that. And then 238 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, one night, the song stand by 239 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:36,600 Speaker 1: Me came on and the one thing that dad could 240 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 1: say was sing the song to stand by Me, like 241 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:42,600 Speaker 1: Benny King, Yeah, when the night. So he's like, this 242 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:45,200 Speaker 1: is crazy. So he started to learn how to play cello, 243 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:47,800 Speaker 1: so his dad would just kind of keep talking and 244 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 1: singing songs because that was the only way to do it. 245 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:52,640 Speaker 1: And he realized how important music was to heal in 246 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 1: his dads. So now what he does is he goes 247 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:57,319 Speaker 1: to retirement homes and he and he plays the cello 248 00:11:57,400 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 1: for people because he realizes that it just makes them 249 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:01,880 Speaker 1: really happy and it makes them feel better. And here's 250 00:12:01,960 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 1: him talking about why he does it. I get to 251 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 1: help people trigger that chemistry in their heads through music. 252 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:15,960 Speaker 1: It is the absolute greatest feeling in the world. You 253 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:19,040 Speaker 1: could close your eyes and just feel like you could 254 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:22,959 Speaker 1: float away. It's a sweet story. But here I'm playing piano. 255 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:29,600 Speaker 1: Don't tell me, don what was that? Like a Disney song? Yeah, 256 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 1: somewhere that's it. Yeah, it's got chopin lub. But yeah, 257 00:12:34,320 --> 00:12:36,679 Speaker 1: I did see a video that was super cool, not 258 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:40,040 Speaker 1: this one, but something like it where people that are 259 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 1: suffering from older people the stuff from dementia or even Alzheimer's, 260 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:45,320 Speaker 1: they will go to them and they'll talk to their 261 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:47,000 Speaker 1: kids with their grandkids and find out what music they 262 00:12:47,080 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 1: really liked as a kid, and they can play those 263 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 1: songs and it's the closest thing to a I don't know, 264 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:56,360 Speaker 1: this probably isn't the right term, but like a snap 265 00:12:56,400 --> 00:12:59,199 Speaker 1: out of it, Yeah, you can't, because it's it's such 266 00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 1: a debilitating to ease where they actually like remembers. It 267 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 1: brings clarity to them because music does that it hits 268 00:13:05,520 --> 00:13:07,760 Speaker 1: a part of the brain and that feeling that happens 269 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:10,560 Speaker 1: when they hear that song is the same feeling then, 270 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 1: and so they're able to connect the two. So really 271 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 1: great story. You're not gonna believe me. But when I 272 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 1: was younger, I thought I'd do music therapy for a living. Well, 273 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:19,760 Speaker 1: I do believe you because you do music. Yeah, but 274 00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:21,560 Speaker 1: then I realized, like, I'm not smart enough for that. 275 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:25,080 Speaker 1: You do music and you're a good guy. Yeah, maybe 276 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:28,320 Speaker 1: you aren't smart enough. Maybe you aren't. I don't know. 277 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:31,320 Speaker 1: A great story that you're smart. Edie, you're smart. Thank you. 278 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:34,080 Speaker 1: That is what it's all about. That was tell me 279 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:41,200 Speaker 1: something good. You're new you everybody that's right, what we're doing? 280 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:42,760 Speaker 1: What do we sends our goal this year? Or what's 281 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:45,080 Speaker 1: your word or what's everybody's got a different strategy how 282 00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 1: they take on a new year. I'd like to hear 283 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:48,960 Speaker 1: what it is, What is your resolution? If that's where 284 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:53,120 Speaker 1: you want to go. Trying is cool, okay, because I'm 285 00:13:53,120 --> 00:13:57,520 Speaker 1: gonna try to try something. Meaning this is what I'm interpreting. 286 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:01,320 Speaker 1: You're gonna do things badly, yeah, and that's okay, And 287 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:03,240 Speaker 1: you gotta do things badly sometimes to do things middle 288 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:06,439 Speaker 1: eithern to do things good. Yeah, that's that is being vulnerable, 289 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:08,679 Speaker 1: that's taken a risk. And it's also knowing you can't 290 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 1: get great at something unless you spend some time investing 291 00:14:11,679 --> 00:14:13,320 Speaker 1: in yourself doing it, and that comes to a lot 292 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:14,679 Speaker 1: of struggle. Good for you. I love it. That's a 293 00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 1: good one. You're trying again. Trying is cool. Cool, It 294 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:21,840 Speaker 1: is cool. Trying is cool. It is try. I try 295 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 1: all the time, don't it didn't work out? But you 296 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 1: never hear about those right people should. And I wrote 297 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:29,280 Speaker 1: my second book, Fail Until You Don't, mostly on that 298 00:14:29,320 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 1: premise that if you go and you bomb out on 299 00:14:32,680 --> 00:14:35,400 Speaker 1: something and you're just like I'm embarrassed, and nobody else 300 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 1: even knows, or they're so self absorbed they don't they 301 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:41,600 Speaker 1: don't notice or care. I mean, think about the last 302 00:14:41,600 --> 00:14:43,480 Speaker 1: time you really mess something up. You know it, But 303 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 1: think about the last time you were you saw somebody 304 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:47,720 Speaker 1: mess up a speaking deal or fail at something about you. 305 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:50,840 Speaker 1: You've already forgotten about you. So just know you have 306 00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 1: the freedom that nobody's gonna remember you messing up. So 307 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:56,480 Speaker 1: go and do it. Go fail miserably, and then if 308 00:14:56,520 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 1: you're like, wow, I really think I could do better 309 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:00,360 Speaker 1: and I could achieve that because I've learned, like, keep 310 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:03,520 Speaker 1: doing it and if not, move on without the fear 311 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:05,720 Speaker 1: of people going, oh that's all. That's all Eddie. You 312 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 1: know he failed, he started to taco stand. He failed 313 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 1: and didn't. I didn't by the way that you didn't, 314 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 1: but but I would if I would. Yeah, you started 315 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:14,720 Speaker 1: in fail, that's right. Yeah, and that's okay. Yeah, I 316 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 1: won't forget about it. Get it, get it, amy, Like, 317 00:15:17,160 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 1: what are you gonna try it? Well? I told y'all 318 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:22,600 Speaker 1: you know last year when I was taking acting lessons, 319 00:15:22,640 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 1: that a goal was to audition for things, which I 320 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 1: you know, it's not going to happen right here at 321 00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:31,160 Speaker 1: the first being embarrassed talking about your desire, your dreams. 322 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 1: Don't be embarrassed. I know you being embarrassed. Don't be embarrassed. Okay, 323 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:37,440 Speaker 1: you should just say it. Okay. So my acting coach 324 00:15:38,160 --> 00:15:40,720 Speaker 1: is we're going to actually do some taping, which we've 325 00:15:40,760 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 1: never done, where I film myself and then we'll see 326 00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:47,600 Speaker 1: about opportunities to maybe audition for something specifically and send 327 00:15:47,680 --> 00:15:51,040 Speaker 1: that tape off. Okay. So it's proud that you are 328 00:15:51,040 --> 00:15:53,920 Speaker 1: attempting because most people don't have the courage even attempt. 329 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:57,000 Speaker 1: So no more hesitancy about talking about it because you're 330 00:15:57,880 --> 00:16:00,840 Speaker 1: embarrassed about what we're going to react to. Okay, okay, 331 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:02,480 Speaker 1: we're still gonna make fun of you, but that's what 332 00:16:02,520 --> 00:16:04,800 Speaker 1: we do on this show, just generally. Yeah, because we 333 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 1: don't you make fun of like your people, You're we're 334 00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 1: gonna have a good time with it. But just knowing 335 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:10,320 Speaker 1: her hearts. Everybody expt for Lunchbox is rooting for you. 336 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:12,920 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I know, but that's just because he's an 337 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 1: actor too. I think I have where Friday Night Light. 338 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 1: You're an extra and they took you out. No, no no, 339 00:16:19,960 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 1: I was still. They'd dripped her, they dumped over my voice. 340 00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 1: Bad out of Hell. I'd a couple of rolls, bad 341 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:27,720 Speaker 1: out of Hell. What they do with your voice? They 342 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:31,960 Speaker 1: silenced it? Yeah? Oh man, yeah, yeah, my lines away. Yeah, 343 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:33,520 Speaker 1: I like you. I'm rooting for you too. You're just 344 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 1: mean to her about that, so you know that's okay 345 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 1: to me. You're your goal resolution for the year, become 346 00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:43,200 Speaker 1: a millionaire. Okay, you know what, that's doable? Why do 347 00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 1: you laugh? Right away? You said, don't mean to her? 348 00:16:47,240 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 1: And the first thing I said, was become a millionaire 349 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:53,000 Speaker 1: and she scoffed, you're gonna do that this year? You 350 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:54,640 Speaker 1: can do that this year. It was funny for you 351 00:16:54,680 --> 00:16:56,760 Speaker 1: to say that. I love it too. Yeah, I laugh, 352 00:16:56,800 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 1: because are you close to being a millionaire? No? Okay? Right? 353 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:03,120 Speaker 1: And so do you have a plan? Not business? Right? 354 00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:06,200 Speaker 1: So let's say you started a great business. You still 355 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:08,240 Speaker 1: this year it's gonna You're not gonna it's not gonna 356 00:17:08,240 --> 00:17:10,199 Speaker 1: happen this year. You don't know that. You're right, you 357 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:12,359 Speaker 1: could get bought out, but no, you can still have 358 00:17:12,359 --> 00:17:14,240 Speaker 1: to build it to a point. But you hopefully you 359 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 1: get one of those businesses that rockets like boom, Like 360 00:17:17,800 --> 00:17:19,000 Speaker 1: what do you say? It takes more than a year, 361 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:22,919 Speaker 1: even the rockets skyrockets. I love it. Hey, such your 362 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:25,239 Speaker 1: dreams high? Yeah? I mean what if your goals are 363 00:17:25,280 --> 00:17:26,760 Speaker 1: the stars and you end up in the cloud. That's 364 00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:28,679 Speaker 1: still a win baby. Yeah. What if I you know, 365 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:30,879 Speaker 1: have a business opportunity to invest in something and all 366 00:17:30,880 --> 00:17:32,720 Speaker 1: of a sudden it just I still won't get it 367 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:35,520 Speaker 1: back in a year, Like what if I get twenty 368 00:17:35,600 --> 00:17:38,800 Speaker 1: percent or ten thousand dollars? Okay, I don't know. You know, 369 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:40,639 Speaker 1: what do you have ten thousand dollars a give, I 370 00:17:40,640 --> 00:17:43,520 Speaker 1: can take a loan, okay, so good for you. Your 371 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:46,840 Speaker 1: goal is to become a millionaire this year. This year, 372 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:50,600 Speaker 1: twenty twenty three, I joined the millionaires club. Like when 373 00:17:50,600 --> 00:17:53,879 Speaker 1: they put out the you know, oh millionaires, they do 374 00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:55,720 Speaker 1: a billionaires they don't do it. Do we need to 375 00:17:55,760 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 1: define what makes you a millionaire? Does it mean you've 376 00:17:58,520 --> 00:18:00,200 Speaker 1: got a million dollars in your pocket in the be 377 00:18:00,320 --> 00:18:03,760 Speaker 1: your pockets, you're gonna You're gonna withdraw it all and 378 00:18:05,119 --> 00:18:07,040 Speaker 1: you become a millionaire. I am taking it all out 379 00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:08,639 Speaker 1: of the bank and taking a picture of it on 380 00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:12,280 Speaker 1: the bedroom floor. So let me ask this. Are you 381 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:14,400 Speaker 1: a millionaire if you have a million bucks in assets 382 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:16,399 Speaker 1: including your house? Right? Far? Or is it? Well? I 383 00:18:16,440 --> 00:18:18,159 Speaker 1: don't think the ultimate is worth a million? Okay, but 384 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 1: all at it? Or is it cash? Cash? Right? I 385 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 1: think you could claim it if you claim your house too. No, 386 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:26,360 Speaker 1: I think I think I gotta go cash. Okay, good 387 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 1: for you. Hey, I'm I'm up. Yeah, because I don't 388 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 1: own my house like I can't. I gotta like I own. 389 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:34,119 Speaker 1: You have some equity though you own your house, I 390 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:37,879 Speaker 1: don't know. I do not. He's mad at. He like, 391 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:40,280 Speaker 1: if I stop paying today, guess what, I don't own it. Well, 392 00:18:40,359 --> 00:18:43,439 Speaker 1: that's true, So I do not own that suckeruity. I 393 00:18:43,480 --> 00:18:46,760 Speaker 1: own the Ultima, no doubt you. What's your goal? What's 394 00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:50,119 Speaker 1: your dream for twenty twenty? Hear me out, and Morgan 395 00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 1: gave me this idea. And because I don't really think 396 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:57,160 Speaker 1: of myself ever, so I'm going to buy myself more things. 397 00:18:57,560 --> 00:18:59,600 Speaker 1: So Morgan was like, if you can buy whatever, what 398 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:01,479 Speaker 1: we can buy, old buddy dude. And so I'm like, 399 00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 1: I don't really buy anything. The only thing I pay 400 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:05,440 Speaker 1: for is my golf or if I get like beer 401 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:09,880 Speaker 1: or wine from the grocery store. That's so those two things. 402 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:11,920 Speaker 1: So if I want to both them's like food, I'm 403 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:14,080 Speaker 1: gonna go buy a boat? Yeah, you're gonna buy So 404 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:15,480 Speaker 1: your goal is to buy a boat this year? No, 405 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:19,000 Speaker 1: but if I want to, I will, you know what 406 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:21,600 Speaker 1: I mean? So his his goal is to be more selfish. 407 00:19:21,680 --> 00:19:23,639 Speaker 1: So like, if I'm at the store and I see shoes, 408 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:25,439 Speaker 1: I always be like, no, I don't need shoes, I'm 409 00:19:25,480 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 1: not buying those. But this year, if I like shoes, 410 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:28,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be like, those are mine. I'll buy the 411 00:19:29,200 --> 00:19:30,720 Speaker 1: mask you a question like this. This is a great 412 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:37,680 Speaker 1: financial personal question about what's my What I would deduce 413 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 1: love this is that you don't get the shoes because 414 00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:43,280 Speaker 1: you go I like the shoes, but based on our 415 00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 1: budget with four kids. Yeah, that's what I said last year. 416 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:49,560 Speaker 1: But I can't get the shoes because of the bank. Yeah, 417 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:51,919 Speaker 1: but screw But maybe not just your personal thing on 418 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:55,120 Speaker 1: you just being so selfless. It's probably a decision based 419 00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:58,679 Speaker 1: on financial Probably. I don't, man, I'm I don't. But 420 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:00,440 Speaker 1: I'm not talking about the shoes. Are you just saying 421 00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:01,800 Speaker 1: you've always had the money to buy the shoes and 422 00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:03,919 Speaker 1: you choose not to. Oh, I got money to buy shoes. 423 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:06,600 Speaker 1: I'm just like, I have four kids. Let's they want 424 00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:08,439 Speaker 1: a lot of stuff. Let's focus on them. So I 425 00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:09,920 Speaker 1: always say no, no no, no, I don't need the shoes. 426 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:11,520 Speaker 1: It's fine. I'm not gonna get him this year, though, 427 00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:13,159 Speaker 1: I'm gonna buy the shoes. Do you want shoes or 428 00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:17,160 Speaker 1: a boat? Both? Oh? But will your kids have to sacrifice? Well, 429 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:18,720 Speaker 1: they have shoes. Hey, we'll figure that out when I 430 00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:20,960 Speaker 1: buy the boat. You know what I mean. I just 431 00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:23,240 Speaker 1: mean your goal to buy a boat. Let's just say 432 00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:25,239 Speaker 1: that's my goal. Let's go, let's buy a boat. Then 433 00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:27,120 Speaker 1: I got a vote, kind so yeah, so that means 434 00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:29,720 Speaker 1: we're gonna split it. No, our wives already talked about 435 00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:33,320 Speaker 1: I'm not splitting anything with you. What are you talking about, dude? 436 00:20:33,320 --> 00:20:35,560 Speaker 1: If we had a boat, that would be the best 437 00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:38,040 Speaker 1: year ever. So this just turned into yes, I got 438 00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:41,400 Speaker 1: rubbed into this turned into Bobby's gonna buy a boat, 439 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:43,520 Speaker 1: and I'll you know, that's what it would be. Yeah, 440 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:46,960 Speaker 1: new year and new us. But okay, your goal is 441 00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:49,680 Speaker 1: to be more selfish, a little bit more selfish. Yeah, 442 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:51,600 Speaker 1: let's get that boat. Like it. We'll come back in 443 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:56,560 Speaker 1: a minute. We'll get to me. Ray Mundo Morgan, I 444 00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:59,080 Speaker 1: just have to stop on that one think about it, 445 00:20:59,119 --> 00:21:05,439 Speaker 1: though I did. Last segment, Amy said her resolution was 446 00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:07,479 Speaker 1: to try stuff, even if she's not good at it, 447 00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:12,480 Speaker 1: like to make herself more vulnerable to really reach and 448 00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:14,239 Speaker 1: it's okay if she doesn't get it as long as 449 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:15,880 Speaker 1: she tries. I love. That's how you make things happen 450 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:18,120 Speaker 1: until you don't. Thank you. You should write that book, 451 00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:21,320 Speaker 1: lunch body. Your goal was to become a millionaire, yes, 452 00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:23,600 Speaker 1: and this this year though, this year, and you're you're 453 00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:26,800 Speaker 1: very close. No, not even okay, cool Eddie, your goal 454 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:30,879 Speaker 1: was to buy more stuff for myself. Your resolutions selfish 455 00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:36,560 Speaker 1: and buy him selfish? Jee Man Morgan, what is your resolution? 456 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:38,720 Speaker 1: Your goal? What are you doing here? So my you 457 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:41,280 Speaker 1: know how people do the year of Yes, I'm gonna 458 00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:43,720 Speaker 1: do the year of doing. Like if somebody asked me 459 00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:45,160 Speaker 1: to go on a trip, I'm gonna go on the trip. 460 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 1: If somebody asked me to go out on a weeknight, 461 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:49,399 Speaker 1: I'm going to go out. I'm I took all of 462 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:51,720 Speaker 1: twenty twenty two to relax and like focus, So next 463 00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:54,560 Speaker 1: year I'm going to just do everything not all. Yes 464 00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:56,399 Speaker 1: is because you know I still have to work. I 465 00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:57,959 Speaker 1: have to make sure I'm still a good person. You're 466 00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:03,040 Speaker 1: gonna make an effort to make yourself available and to 467 00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:05,880 Speaker 1: experience things that maybe you wouldn't have before. Yes, you're 468 00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:08,640 Speaker 1: not gonna make as many excuses to not go experience things. Yes, 469 00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:11,720 Speaker 1: And sometimes I'm a little like too logical, So I'm 470 00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:13,800 Speaker 1: gonna be a little pullback on that logic and kind 471 00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:16,320 Speaker 1: of just have some fun. I like it. Raymundo or 472 00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:19,240 Speaker 1: audio producer, what do you think they're buddy? Yeah, So 473 00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:24,679 Speaker 1: mine is more outdoors, less apartment floors, just because I 474 00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:26,280 Speaker 1: go back to my roots. I mean, my parents at 475 00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:28,480 Speaker 1: times would just kick us outside. I wouldn't be inside 476 00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:32,359 Speaker 1: an entire saturday. Now I find myself, I'll be like, oh, really, bezer, 477 00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 1: it was sunny today. I had no idea. I wasn't 478 00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:36,560 Speaker 1: even outside. I'll go days without even going outside because 479 00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:38,920 Speaker 1: we park in a garage. I go to my apartment, 480 00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:42,200 Speaker 1: it's covered, boom inside. I'm never outside. There's a great 481 00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:47,000 Speaker 1: benefit in walking places, throwing a football, doing stuff outdoors. 482 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:50,119 Speaker 1: So that's it. I liked it. Ray Goo's Johnny cochrun everything. 483 00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:52,679 Speaker 1: If the glove don't fit, you must have quite he 484 00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:55,880 Speaker 1: rhymes at all, go outdoors, don't he on the floor? 485 00:22:55,880 --> 00:23:00,119 Speaker 1: What I was it again? Outdoors more outdoors, less apartment floor. 486 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:04,359 Speaker 1: I like it good. Mike d our head Rider writes 487 00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:07,680 Speaker 1: all the games, mister. I mean, he's my backbone. Mike, 488 00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:09,160 Speaker 1: what do you have? I'm trying to make a new 489 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:13,359 Speaker 1: friend this year. Like outside of people, I just find 490 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:15,720 Speaker 1: that I have some interest that none of you guys 491 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:17,359 Speaker 1: are into. I like going to punk shows. I like 492 00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:19,560 Speaker 1: going to watch horror movies. I would like to have 493 00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:22,159 Speaker 1: somebody else that also enjoys those things that kind of 494 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 1: persons like a serial killer. Yeah, it's not. You can 495 00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,000 Speaker 1: hang with dark web. That's where you find that. That 496 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:30,280 Speaker 1: is where you find that. This is what I'm talking about. Yeah, 497 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:33,800 Speaker 1: you go to those places. Yeah, okay, I like it. 498 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:38,040 Speaker 1: Find a new friend? Yeah one, just one? How do 499 00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:40,560 Speaker 1: you plan to find because it's hard as an adult. Yeah, 500 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 1: I've tried that BFF bumble before, but that felt weird. 501 00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:45,400 Speaker 1: You are you kidding me? It does? It is weird, 502 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:47,560 Speaker 1: feels like you're trying to date a guy. I was like, 503 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:49,359 Speaker 1: I like this guy. Wait, am I trying to go 504 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:51,280 Speaker 1: on a date with the bones? You've done this too, 505 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:55,800 Speaker 1: um BF bumble. Yeah no, but I've was interested in 506 00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:58,000 Speaker 1: checking it out. But I felt like two there were 507 00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:01,399 Speaker 1: dudes on there to date. They were using it today 508 00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:02,480 Speaker 1: and I was like, no, no no, no, I'm trying to 509 00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:04,360 Speaker 1: be your friend. So I didn't really, but I did 510 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:06,480 Speaker 1: because I have trouble making friends and have always have. 511 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:10,399 Speaker 1: So yeah, I don't know what, Well, what do you 512 00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:11,919 Speaker 1: do if you're into like weird stuff like you? What 513 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:13,919 Speaker 1: do you do to go meet other weird people? I 514 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:18,240 Speaker 1: guess add a concert? Yeah, that's a tough maybe we 515 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:22,120 Speaker 1: just a segment and make Mike a friend. So people 516 00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:23,639 Speaker 1: don't listen to punk and do they don't listen to 517 00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:26,199 Speaker 1: our show? You don't know that maybe there's someone out there. 518 00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:28,000 Speaker 1: All right, My good luck, I'm making a friend. Oh 519 00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:31,119 Speaker 1: here's mine. My goal, my resolution this year is to 520 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:37,960 Speaker 1: actually occasionally be bored because I run so tight all 521 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:39,959 Speaker 1: the time, schedule, how much can I get in? I 522 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:46,080 Speaker 1: am not able to cultivate anything creative if I am 523 00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:49,720 Speaker 1: always pressed. It's hard for me to be always pressed 524 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:52,719 Speaker 1: creatively too, Like I'm scheduled time. Okay, I gotta get 525 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:53,800 Speaker 1: this down and I can do it and I can 526 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:56,000 Speaker 1: function at a pretty high level. But if I'm bored, man, 527 00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:57,240 Speaker 1: that's one of the good stuff. That's one the stuff 528 00:24:57,280 --> 00:24:58,760 Speaker 1: that gets me in trouble, which is the best to 529 00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:02,560 Speaker 1: hear happens. Yeah, So my goal is to be bored 530 00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:06,000 Speaker 1: a little bit this year because I'm never bored because 531 00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:07,760 Speaker 1: I always am like God did the next thing, and 532 00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 1: I got so much planned. So how are you gonna 533 00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:11,399 Speaker 1: do that? You're gonna clear your schedule more I am, 534 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:15,280 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna make sure that nobody puts anything in 535 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:18,600 Speaker 1: these spots. Calendar blocks is boredom. Yes, that's exactly what 536 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:20,400 Speaker 1: I have to because if I don't, it will never happen. 537 00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:24,440 Speaker 1: So is it like from four to five boarded? And 538 00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:26,960 Speaker 1: does that mean we can't play Madden? We can't do 539 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:33,359 Speaker 1: anything hanging out with really nothing to do, getting burned 540 00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:36,760 Speaker 1: out on the Madden, the books, the whatever I do. 541 00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:39,880 Speaker 1: That's my leisure. I need to get burnt out on that. Okay, 542 00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:41,960 Speaker 1: So my goal is to be bored. Last year, my 543 00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:44,320 Speaker 1: goal was to play golf and you did that. I did. 544 00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:46,239 Speaker 1: We did a lot because I was like, I have 545 00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:50,720 Speaker 1: to find even the doctors like, yo, you're gonna pop. 546 00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:55,520 Speaker 1: So that's a deal. Okay, um is are you worried 547 00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:58,159 Speaker 1: about getting in trouble? No? I told my wife, so 548 00:25:58,200 --> 00:25:59,800 Speaker 1: when you yeah, don't come at crime man because when 549 00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:02,240 Speaker 1: peop you're board, that's when you get in trouble. Oh 550 00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:04,080 Speaker 1: I get in trouble on the show. Yeah, I think 551 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,680 Speaker 1: of these crazy ideas we rob stores. That's where my 552 00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:08,880 Speaker 1: brain is going. Yeah yeah, yeah, it's my best creative self. 553 00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:11,880 Speaker 1: So might be bored. All right, Happy New Year everybody. 554 00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:15,280 Speaker 1: From the Bobby Boat Show. It's a new wrinkle here 555 00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:18,600 Speaker 1: where my buddy ordered something off the Internet, and it 556 00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:20,320 Speaker 1: came to him and it was broken. He said, like 557 00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:23,480 Speaker 1: to return this and get another one, and they did. 558 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:24,880 Speaker 1: We've talked about this four They were like, we can 559 00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:28,399 Speaker 1: just send you another one, but can we get with 560 00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:30,960 Speaker 1: you on FaceTime or Skype? And so they wanted to 561 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:32,600 Speaker 1: see that the product was broken so he didn't have 562 00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:35,000 Speaker 1: two of them. Wow, that's crazy. I know they could 563 00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:37,520 Speaker 1: do that. Well, they can't force you to do it, 564 00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:41,080 Speaker 1: but and you're not going to break it to prove 565 00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:43,480 Speaker 1: it to them, because then you're still just getting one 566 00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:46,000 Speaker 1: exactly unless you could do something. I don't know. But 567 00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:47,359 Speaker 1: they were like, we want to see you want to 568 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:48,639 Speaker 1: see it because there any chance we can see this, 569 00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:50,320 Speaker 1: so we could send you another one. I'd never heard 570 00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:52,560 Speaker 1: of that before. And he did it and it was 571 00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:54,080 Speaker 1: really broken. So I sid him another one and then 572 00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:55,600 Speaker 1: I think he thinks he can fix the other one though, 573 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:59,720 Speaker 1: so he still like cheated him. Yeah. Yeah, let's be 574 00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:04,560 Speaker 1: ready everybody. They're figuring this out. You're Amy's pile of 575 00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,359 Speaker 1: stories New Year. That means a lot of people are 576 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:08,960 Speaker 1: trying to figure out how they want to live, who 577 00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:11,399 Speaker 1: they want to be, and half of Americans want to 578 00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:15,639 Speaker 1: improve their professional life. So instead of a new Year's resolution, 579 00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:19,840 Speaker 1: they're making professional resolutions this year trying to find a 580 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:23,520 Speaker 1: new job or working hard to get a promotion. Yeah, 581 00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:25,520 Speaker 1: I mean, I think we could always do that. The 582 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:27,840 Speaker 1: problem with the resolutions, and we're talking about them today, 583 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:31,199 Speaker 1: big big, big ones, is they actually won't happen. I 584 00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:34,080 Speaker 1: encourage you to make little, little, little ones because you 585 00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:36,919 Speaker 1: can actually do that, and then once you're successful of that, 586 00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,159 Speaker 1: you're like, oh, I can make little changes, and then 587 00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:42,920 Speaker 1: a few little changes turn in to medium changes. It's 588 00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:47,080 Speaker 1: all about discipline. Motivation is cool. Discipline is awesome. We 589 00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 1: get motivated all the time. Can we stay disciplined? That's 590 00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:52,359 Speaker 1: where it is. So you would say, with people that 591 00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:56,320 Speaker 1: have this professional resolution thing happening this year, to just 592 00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:59,280 Speaker 1: little things at a time towards I would say, don't 593 00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:00,920 Speaker 1: try to do it just because it's the new year. 594 00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:03,919 Speaker 1: If you really feel this way, sit in it a 595 00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:07,400 Speaker 1: month and then make a decision based on how your 596 00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:10,600 Speaker 1: reality is. That's not screaming. Okay, you gotta change something 597 00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:12,040 Speaker 1: to get better because of the day on the calendar, 598 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:14,919 Speaker 1: you'll you'll make better decisions and you won't quit if 599 00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 1: you're doing it for a reason. That's about you, not 600 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:19,520 Speaker 1: about what people do because of a holiday. But make 601 00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:21,560 Speaker 1: a little little changes, but still making some sort of resolution. 602 00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:23,800 Speaker 1: Make a little change and then do it and get it, 603 00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:25,480 Speaker 1: and you'd be able to figure out, like three weeks. 604 00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:27,440 Speaker 1: If you can't do in three weeks, don't even do it, 605 00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:29,440 Speaker 1: because you're gonna do it. You would like I'm gonna 606 00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:32,280 Speaker 1: lose weight. Okay, three pounds, and I promise you if 607 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:35,520 Speaker 1: you do that three pounds, good. Five drive around the corner. Yeah, 608 00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 1: do five? Eight tens coming up soon. You may regrets 609 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 1: a little bit, but still you're down six easier to 610 00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:44,280 Speaker 1: go back to ten. So good luck everybody. But I'll 611 00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:45,880 Speaker 1: like it. I'm not being a Debbie downer. I'm being 612 00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:47,719 Speaker 1: a realist, but I think you can actually change your 613 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:51,760 Speaker 1: life if you have motivation. But then you must have discipline. 614 00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:54,640 Speaker 1: Motivations fine, but discipline is where it's at. Go ahead. 615 00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:57,600 Speaker 1: I have some steps towards giving someone a compliment that 616 00:28:57,640 --> 00:29:01,400 Speaker 1: they'll actually appreciate. You can take notes next time you're like, 617 00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:03,960 Speaker 1: you're going to give the steps. Okay, First of all, 618 00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:11,040 Speaker 1: use their name. Yeah, yeah, yeah, use their name. It 619 00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:14,480 Speaker 1: seems basic, but when you use someone's name, in a compliment, 620 00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:17,960 Speaker 1: it's in just signal that it's tailored for them. Instead 621 00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:21,400 Speaker 1: of just blurning it out, make your compliments specific. Like, 622 00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:24,360 Speaker 1: instead of saying, oh, you look nice today, say oh wow, 623 00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:27,520 Speaker 1: but looks great in those pants. That's specific, so I 624 00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:29,400 Speaker 1: said to Eddie. But he didn't like that it was 625 00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:32,600 Speaker 1: too specific. Oh that's what not to do, especially work. 626 00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:35,800 Speaker 1: Oh um, but that color looks great on you. You You 627 00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:37,760 Speaker 1: should wear that more often. Yeah, I would stay away. 628 00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:40,800 Speaker 1: It worked if I'm talking about anything physical. Yeah, hr 629 00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:43,600 Speaker 1: might have a talk else. I mean, don't praise and 630 00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:46,040 Speaker 1: run when you give a compliment, stick around and maybe 631 00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:49,000 Speaker 1: even ask a follow up question and listen to the answer. 632 00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:50,719 Speaker 1: That's the question, Hey, you did great today. Did you 633 00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:53,440 Speaker 1: like when I said that? Yeah, well, this shows the 634 00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:55,840 Speaker 1: person that you're sincere. But I mean, obviously, sometimes if 635 00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:57,440 Speaker 1: you're passing in the hall, you may just have to, 636 00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:02,120 Speaker 1: you know, keep walking. Okay. I have some things about 637 00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:05,800 Speaker 1: George Strait that you might not know. Okay, okay. He 638 00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 1: holds the record for the most CMA awards in the 639 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:12,720 Speaker 1: history country music. He has eighty three nominations and twenty 640 00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:16,000 Speaker 1: three wins. Three of those wins are Entertainer of the Year. 641 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:19,680 Speaker 1: He's not a Grand ol Opry member. And I can't 642 00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:21,760 Speaker 1: be here enough to go that's why. Yeah, you have 643 00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:24,040 Speaker 1: to and you have to perform there like twelve times 644 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:28,000 Speaker 1: a year. He's an avid NBA watcher, loves the Spurs. 645 00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:30,160 Speaker 1: His ace in the whole band is the only band 646 00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:32,720 Speaker 1: that's ever backed him. And this is what we have 647 00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:36,080 Speaker 1: in common. He has a degree in agriculture. Oh, I 648 00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:38,840 Speaker 1: thought it was. He's awesome. I mean, oh, are you 649 00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:41,720 Speaker 1: telling me again? Yeah? Oh wow, And he used your name, 650 00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:46,920 Speaker 1: tell me more. No, I'm good. He went away. Amy. 651 00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:51,240 Speaker 1: That's my pile. That was Amy's pile of stories. It's 652 00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:58,920 Speaker 1: time for the good news lunchbox. Colleen Sands went to 653 00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:01,800 Speaker 1: UNC greens Borrow where she became a nurse. Afterwards, and 654 00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:04,480 Speaker 1: she started working at Wake Forest in the cancer department. 655 00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:07,040 Speaker 1: And after about ten years, she's like, man, I need 656 00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:09,400 Speaker 1: to do something to celebrate my career in nursing. So 657 00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:12,160 Speaker 1: she started training for an iron Man and she's like, 658 00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:14,200 Speaker 1: you know what, since it's my ten year anniversary, I'll 659 00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:17,000 Speaker 1: do an iron Man and I'll raise ten thousand dollars 660 00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 1: for the cancer unit. Well, she put up the thing 661 00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:22,520 Speaker 1: online raised over twelve thousand dollars and ran the Iron Man, 662 00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:25,040 Speaker 1: and then she did the Iron Man. Yeah, that's Chris. 663 00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:29,320 Speaker 1: That's a lot. That's the one with the three, is it. Yeah, 664 00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 1: but it's more than a triathlon. It's so so I've 665 00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:34,040 Speaker 1: done trath line. I'm gonna talk week first before I 666 00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,160 Speaker 1: get to real man stuff, real man, real woman stuff, 667 00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:40,680 Speaker 1: real woman and stuff. I did an triathlon which you 668 00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:43,560 Speaker 1: start off and we swim a mile. So that swim 669 00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:46,120 Speaker 1: a mile. I had a panic attack, terrible finished it, 670 00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:47,720 Speaker 1: but I was like, I never swim in open water before. 671 00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:49,720 Speaker 1: I trained to pull only and people will be kicking 672 00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:51,440 Speaker 1: you in the face. Came Macgogles off in the face, O, 673 00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:52,880 Speaker 1: because you're all swimming in a big lane. Try to 674 00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:54,840 Speaker 1: fix by. Somebody couldn't see him, so who knew how's fighting? 675 00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,480 Speaker 1: So I got out of that and then I went 676 00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:02,920 Speaker 1: and I ran. I know, I bike twenty five miles. 677 00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:04,440 Speaker 1: So I got on a bike and I road for 678 00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:06,920 Speaker 1: twenty five miles and then I ran six miles. Then 679 00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:08,200 Speaker 1: you finish and you're like, dang, I just did the 680 00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:11,360 Speaker 1: most crazy thing ever. Okay, you think until you're here 681 00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:14,400 Speaker 1: about the Iron Man, which the Iron man, you swim 682 00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:17,520 Speaker 1: two point four miles? Oh man, where I did one? Yeah? 683 00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:20,200 Speaker 1: And then you bike when where I bike twenty five? 684 00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:22,720 Speaker 1: They bike one hundred and twelve, Oh my goodness. And 685 00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:24,600 Speaker 1: then where I did a six mile run? Then get 686 00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:28,560 Speaker 1: ready to marathon two? Crazy? Did you know the energy 687 00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:30,520 Speaker 1: to do that? How do you train? That's all of it, 688 00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:32,360 Speaker 1: And that's why they do the running at the end, right, 689 00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:34,640 Speaker 1: because I mean, you're all They do this swimming first 690 00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:36,920 Speaker 1: so you don't drown or die, and you you're not 691 00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:38,480 Speaker 1: going to be on a bike when you're exhausted too, 692 00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:39,960 Speaker 1: you can wreck that. I'd rather be on a bike 693 00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:43,040 Speaker 1: at the NFL. I'd rather be on a bike because 694 00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:49,000 Speaker 1: I just I just coast Coast hill. Yeah, that's an 695 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:51,800 Speaker 1: awesome story. Good job to her. That's what it's all about. 696 00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:54,000 Speaker 1: That was tell me something good.