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Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: It is almost famous to ogs, we are here, Trista Sutter, Nayn,

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Speaker 2: stop it and me?

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Speaker 3: What's up?

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Speaker 1: Hey? Evan Bass?

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Speaker 3: Hi? How are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Look at you?

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Speaker 3: Why?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 4: I'm like, do you do a podcast? Because you are

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Speaker 4: all set up?

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Speaker 3: I don't do a podcast now I do. I do

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Speaker 3: a little radio show.

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Speaker 1: Actually, very nice you do?

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah in Nashville. Yeah yeah, well yeah, it's in

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Speaker 3: a few different, few different markets. But it's called Get

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Speaker 3: Your Man On, and we're talking about it's like doctors

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Speaker 3: and uh, you know, professionals talking about you know, men's

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Speaker 3: health and all that kind of stuff. So it's pretty

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Speaker 3: that's amazing. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well that is your background, right, I mean when

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Speaker 2: you I remember when you were on the show. Originally

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Speaker 2: you were a if I'm not mistaken, a ED pills salesman.

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Speaker 3: I think they referred to it as a right tel

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Speaker 3: dysfunction specialist.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, were you were you in Were you

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Speaker 2: in pharmaceuticals at that time?

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Speaker 3: No, so I was in the like in the medical

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Speaker 3: practice space like so not like not like pharmaceutical sale.

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Speaker 3: It was more like like clinics, like clinical things. So

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Speaker 3: I've opened like over three dozen medical practices that are

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Speaker 3: just like specific to men's health, like and lowt across

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Speaker 3: the country. So that's that's kind of where it came from,

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Speaker 3: is uh. And you know I begged them on the show.

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Speaker 3: I was like, please don't say anything about you know,

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Speaker 3: my job, like I'm more on the business side. I

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Speaker 3: do the administrative stuff like no, no, never.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you come on.

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Speaker 3: I was so mad. Yeah, yeah, amazing, amazing.

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Speaker 4: Was she like better that radio?

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Speaker 3: The radio is really uh kind of to help that along,

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Speaker 3: Like it's more promotional stuff for it, like talking through

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Speaker 3: the different treatments for guys. There's like there's all kinds

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Speaker 3: of cool stuff out there now for guys, and when

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Speaker 3: it comes to mental health and d and all that stuff.

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Speaker 3: So it's it's almost like you know, talking about our

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Speaker 3: clinics and the different stuff out there, so it all

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Speaker 3: kind of flows together.

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Speaker 1: That's awesome. Good for you, man, And I love it.

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Speaker 4: I mean, for real, your background puts us to shame,

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Speaker 4: Like I, yeah.

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Speaker 1: We shall do a podcast that the hell am I

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Speaker 1: doing in here?

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Speaker 3: I like it. I like your background.

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Speaker 2: No, it's good, Well mine's not real, that's all virtual.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I'm just kidding. I'm coming to live from

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Speaker 2: my guest room. If I didn't have my kids running around,

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Speaker 2: i'd have a much cooler background. I can promise you

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Speaker 2: that I have a really cool area that I used

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Speaker 2: to do my podcast, our podcast from, and I had

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Speaker 2: to give that up because of the timing of when

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Speaker 2: we normally do these. One of the kids is usually,

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Speaker 2: ones like throwing things at me and yelling at me.

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Speaker 1: So like, it's probably not I got to go kind

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Speaker 1: of to find some seclusion somewhere.

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Speaker 3: How old are your kids now?

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Speaker 1: Five and two and a half?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Man, that's so fun.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's good.

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Speaker 3: Ages.

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Speaker 1: What are yours?

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Speaker 3: Well, let me thank you. Twenty two, eighteen, fifteen, six

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Speaker 3: and four.

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Speaker 1: Wow, I'm two to four.

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Speaker 4: That is a huge difference. It's like, how is that

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Speaker 4: is the twenty two year old kind of like a

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Speaker 3: Actually he's nope. He is absolutely still an antagonistic older

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Speaker 3: brother to every single one. There is no there's no

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Speaker 1: Evin, how old were you when you had your first kid?

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Speaker 3: Well, so Nathan, who's twenty two. I actually adopted him

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Speaker 2: So sure, Oh that's fantastic. Gosh, man, you've been responsible

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Speaker 2: your whole damn life.

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Speaker 1: Look at you.

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Speaker 2: You know, I didn't have my first kids. I was

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Speaker 2: forty seven, so I was an immature disaster up until then.

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Speaker 1: Trist To can tell you.

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Speaker 3: The pros and cog.

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Speaker 1: She just goes, yeah, pretty much pretty much.

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Speaker 4: How was life for you, Evan, what's up lately?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's uh, I mean it's just a lot of

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Speaker 3: He just went straight into the workforce, which is great.

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Speaker 3: He's super successful. Manages a cool little hotel here that's

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Speaker 3: And then so it's like basically, I have a fifteen

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Speaker 3: when I get the babies every other weekend, they uh,

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm in it. I'm in it.

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Speaker 1: I know exactly that I know where you're at, buddy.

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Speaker 1: That's good.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well you're just about out of diapers on two

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Speaker 2: All well, I'm going back into them myself. But yeah,

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Speaker 2: my youngest is going to be out of them soon.

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Speaker 2: I need to call you, I mean call on that.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm in my fifties, so if you have

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Speaker 2: Oh, yes, sir, I'm fifty three, Tristan. I well, I

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Speaker 2: don't want anything, thanks pal. I don't want to say

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Speaker 4: But I'm fifty one.

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Speaker 1: That gorgeous specimen is fifty one. Oh good, yes, thank

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Speaker 1: you very much. It's just good, clean living and lots

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Speaker 1: of vodka. That's what I obviously say.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I credit it to Colorado fresh Air.

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Speaker 1: That's right, that's right out there. Christ and I both

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Speaker 2: Man. We I'm back in Michigan where I grew up,

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Speaker 2: love of her life, my former roommate on the Bachelorette.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, but yeah, I mean I had.

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Speaker 2: Such a pleasure to actually get to I don't think

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Speaker 2: i've actually met you in person or did we need

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Speaker 2: a Jaden Tanner's wedding?

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Speaker 1: Did we meet that?

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Speaker 3: that was like season before me.

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Speaker 1: I met so.

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Speaker 2: Many people at the wedding and I and I don't

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Speaker 1: But I feel like I know you, you know, I guess, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I feel like everyone must have been there. That's you know,

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Speaker 2: divorce is much about embarrassment that it didn't work out.

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Speaker 2: I mean, this is just talking vulnerable guy to guy here,

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Speaker 2: but it's almost like as much embarrassment that it didn't

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Speaker 1: Of course, it's devastating, even if you want the divorce,

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Speaker 2: But it's like, I can imagine that had to be

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Speaker 3: Yeah, totally. I mean it feels like my whole like

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Speaker 3: And then just obviously going through the process of disconnecting

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Speaker 3: right that very few people have the opportunity to experience that,

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Speaker 3: it was tough. It was definitely definitely really hard, embarrassing,

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Speaker 3: all the all the emotions runs again for.

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Speaker 1: Sure, I did, I understand. Yeah, it is tough.

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Speaker 2: I mean, my my ex wife was an actress and

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Speaker 2: after seven years it was like, you know, everybody out

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Speaker 2: You know, Oh, Bobby's on the cover. No matter what

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, yeah it was. It was just a

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Speaker 1: You know he needs to call you, you know, or whatever.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I really liked it'd be great. Yeah, that's that's

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, for sure, for sure, I definitely want to

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00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:13,040
Speaker 3: do this the right way, you know, like you know,

440
00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:16,720
Speaker 3: I feel like the third time is the charm, Like, hey,

441
00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:21,280
Speaker 3: that's what I said. Nothing else outside of that, Evan.

442
00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:22,120
Speaker 1: We have so much in common.

443
00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:23,399
Speaker 3: I love this.

444
00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:30,639
Speaker 2: I was very divorced in a year my first marriage

445
00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:34,680
Speaker 2: and before I before I even met Trista, So when

446
00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:37,600
Speaker 2: I met Trista, I had already been through the meat grinders,

447
00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:38,240
Speaker 2: so to speak.

448
00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:41,320
Speaker 1: So yeah, but so I get it.

449
00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:43,840
Speaker 2: Man, third time is a charm, I think, especially when

450
00:20:43,840 --> 00:20:48,239
Speaker 2: you're a little bit older, because you kind of let

451
00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:50,520
Speaker 2: go of some of those, you know, those conventions of

452
00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:52,680
Speaker 2: marriage that you have in your head, like everything's always

453
00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:54,879
Speaker 2: going to be perfect and we're just going to be

454
00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:58,160
Speaker 2: like butterflies and puppy dogs all the time, and it's like, no,

455
00:20:58,280 --> 00:21:01,639
Speaker 2: it's not. But then you also have that factor that

456
00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:06,080
Speaker 2: you know it's not as bad even in times.

457
00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:07,200
Speaker 1: That aren't as great as others.

458
00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:09,520
Speaker 2: It's not as bad as it could be because you've

459
00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:11,560
Speaker 2: experienced a little bit of that too, you know what

460
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:14,080
Speaker 2: I mean, So that that experience actually gives you, I think,

461
00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:16,600
Speaker 2: a totally different perspective to relationships.

462
00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:19,320
Speaker 1: And I need that time will be the charm for you, buddy,

463
00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:19,520
Speaker 1: I do.

464
00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:23,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you, thank you. Let's go. Come on.

465
00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:25,400
Speaker 1: I got you, man, I got you over here.

466
00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:29,240
Speaker 3: My kids are also really opening and third times to Jurnal,

467
00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:32,240
Speaker 3: especially the older ones, are like that, come on, yeah, right,

468
00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:33,240
Speaker 3: I forgot So.

469
00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:37,080
Speaker 4: I know you're not on social so maybe not. But

470
00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:38,480
Speaker 4: do you still watch the show?

471
00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:39,480
Speaker 1: You know?

472
00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:44,760
Speaker 3: I took a break. Yeah, and I've been watching this

473
00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:48,480
Speaker 3: season and with my friend and uh, I'm like, this

474
00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:50,359
Speaker 3: is such a great season. I'm like, oh my gosh,

475
00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:51,040
Speaker 3: I missed this.

476
00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,520
Speaker 4: Such a great season, right, good.

477
00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:53,880
Speaker 2: Yeah.

478
00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:56,280
Speaker 4: We haven't talked about.

479
00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:58,920
Speaker 2: This, you know, I haven't been watching it, but not

480
00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:01,600
Speaker 2: not that I I know who Joey is and I've

481
00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:04,359
Speaker 2: seen all the great feedback to him, and I've watched

482
00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:05,960
Speaker 2: a lot of clips of the show.

483
00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:09,840
Speaker 1: But I just it's it's just a tough time of

484
00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:11,680
Speaker 1: the day from me. It comes on and I'm putting.

485
00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:16,320
Speaker 2: So but you know, my kids are at this age

486
00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:19,480
Speaker 2: right now where I'm putting them, and because I'm gone

487
00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:22,560
Speaker 2: a lot, my thing when i'm home is I'm putting

488
00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:25,080
Speaker 2: the boys to bed, you know. And so the show

489
00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:27,640
Speaker 2: comes on as I'm putting them to bed and then

490
00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:30,080
Speaker 2: and I love it, you know, Like I put my

491
00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:32,439
Speaker 2: youngest to bed first, and I come in and grab Grayson.

492
00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:34,359
Speaker 2: I'm like, let's go, buddy, and you know, it's this

493
00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:35,840
Speaker 2: daddy's time, you know.

494
00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:37,720
Speaker 1: And so I'm reading books.

495
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:40,880
Speaker 2: I mean, you know, from about seven to nine o'clock

496
00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:42,760
Speaker 2: every night, I'm pretty.

497
00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:44,800
Speaker 1: Much on lockdown, and so that's awesome, you know.

498
00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:47,480
Speaker 2: So after that, it's like I'm catching up on other

499
00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:49,359
Speaker 2: stuff and I don't really have a chance to watch TV.

500
00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:51,879
Speaker 2: So I would be lying if I told you I

501
00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:53,480
Speaker 2: didn't even know what's going on in the news of

502
00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:54,000
Speaker 2: the time.

503
00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:55,560
Speaker 1: You know, I just don't.

504
00:22:56,640 --> 00:22:59,399
Speaker 2: But you know, I know that I like who I like,

505
00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:02,040
Speaker 2: and so when I watched Cliffs of the show, I'm like, man,

506
00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:03,240
Speaker 2: I like this Joey guy.

507
00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:04,480
Speaker 1: I really like him, you know.

508
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:06,800
Speaker 2: And yeah, and I like a few of the ladies

509
00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:08,960
Speaker 2: that I've seen on the show too, And I really.

510
00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:10,959
Speaker 1: Hope that it all works out for him.

511
00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:13,320
Speaker 4: Evan, do you like for the end?

512
00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:15,720
Speaker 3: Oh?

513
00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:19,480
Speaker 4: Do do you watch spoilers or listen to spoilers?

514
00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:28,240
Speaker 3: Absolutely not spoiling people. Yeah, I really hope it's actually

515
00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:30,000
Speaker 3: either one would be great, but they both are like

516
00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:33,159
Speaker 3: so different in their connection with him. But I'm leaning

517
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:37,080
Speaker 3: towards Kelsey, although Daisy is more like that that would

518
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:42,199
Speaker 3: be the storybook bachelor type of outcome. But I do

519
00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:44,880
Speaker 3: like Kelsey a lot. I think she's really cool. Yeah.

520
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 3: I thought Maria would have been a great would have

521
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:49,480
Speaker 3: been a great fun choice too, like she would have

522
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:52,000
Speaker 3: kept them on his toes. Yeah, I would love to

523
00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:53,320
Speaker 3: see her be the bachelorette.

524
00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 4: I think, Oh my gosh, I know so. I haven't

525
00:23:55,600 --> 00:24:00,399
Speaker 4: watched the women tell all. They haven't announced. It was

526
00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:01,240
Speaker 4: a mess. I'm sure.

527
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 3: I think they moved it an hour later just because

528
00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 3: of bald cursing.

529
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:06,920
Speaker 1: No, that's why.

530
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:11,960
Speaker 4: They changed, didn't you. That's Oh my gosh, that makes

531
00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:14,040
Speaker 4: so much sense. That is hysterical.

532
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 1: That's funny.

533
00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:20,639
Speaker 4: I loved Maria. My daughter and I are actually watching

534
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 4: it together for the first time, like a season where

535
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:29,560
Speaker 4: he's seen she's fourteen and she has seen different episodes

536
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 4: from different shows. But so she we went to the

537
00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:39,000
Speaker 4: Golden Wedding and so great it was. Yeah, it was amazing.

538
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 2: To stop it, Bob, I loved that wedding. Oh wait, yeah,

539
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 2: that's right. I wasn't invited.

540
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:50,440
Speaker 3: Oh I say that.

541
00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:54,679
Speaker 2: I was invited until Trista added Blasilely and Max to

542
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:56,879
Speaker 2: her guest list and then like you're out.

543
00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:01,119
Speaker 1: Yes it is, that's true.

544
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 4: So anyway, the kids went and Blakesley and me, Me

545
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:11,080
Speaker 4: and Blakesley and Joey and Caitlyn were together at the bar. Yes,

546
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 4: we were at the bar with a fortune, and we

547
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:18,480
Speaker 4: had this like in depth conversation that I feel like

548
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:22,240
Speaker 4: Blakesley just she just bonded with him. She she just

549
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:25,719
Speaker 4: loves Joey. So she really wanted to watch this season

550
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:28,479
Speaker 4: with me, and we've been watching it together and Maria

551
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:29,639
Speaker 4: was one of our favorites.

552
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 3: We loved her.

553
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:34,760
Speaker 4: I just love how like she is just who she

554
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:38,719
Speaker 4: is and she doesn't care and she does keep everyone

555
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 4: on their toes like she's not the status quo kind

556
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:43,480
Speaker 4: of person that's on the show, you know.

557
00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 3: I Her authenticity is I think so appealing, and Joey's

558
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:50,199
Speaker 3: is too Joey's I think he's a fantastic brochler.

559
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 2: He really is. You guys, I have this group of

560
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:57,080
Speaker 2: buddies that we are we're a text thread together and

561
00:25:57,600 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 2: there my it's my brother in law, Jady, who I

562
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:01,919
Speaker 2: know trust has met, but my brother in law, and

563
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 2: then a bunch of really more of his buddies and

564
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:05,920
Speaker 2: then me. But we're all from the same area called

565
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 2: down River, Michigan. And so you know, ever since I've

566
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 2: been on ever since I was on The Bachelor twenty

567
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 2: years ago, or since I was on trist the season

568
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:17,199
Speaker 2: twenty one years ago, they've always been like, you know,

569
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,919
Speaker 2: teasing me. And well, one of the things that my

570
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 2: brother in law and a couple of the other guys

571
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 2: on the thread do is they are super into watching

572
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 2: the women tell all the men tell.

573
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:30,280
Speaker 1: All right, yes, So all I know is.

574
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:33,680
Speaker 2: The other night, my phone is just blowing up and

575
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,720
Speaker 2: they're toasting, you know, they taking pictures of themselves toasting

576
00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 2: wine to the TV and you know, drinks. And their

577
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:42,640
Speaker 2: whole thing was if they could, if they could write

578
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 2: the script that Maria needs to be the next bachelorette.

579
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 2: That's that was the consensus of everybody on that. Yeah,

580
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 2: and so as someone who hasn't even got a chance

581
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:53,000
Speaker 2: to watch this season, I'm like, well, I know exactly

582
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,879
Speaker 2: who you guys are talking about. Like they think she's beautiful,

583
00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:58,840
Speaker 2: She's got a big personality, she doesn't care what anybody thinks,

584
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:00,439
Speaker 2: you know, add up.

585
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:01,240
Speaker 1: But she's still.

586
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:04,120
Speaker 2: Kind and he has a sweet side.

587
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 3: Yeah's a fun one for sure. It'll be a little

588
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:08,680
Speaker 3: bit of a mess because she probably tried to quit

589
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 3: a few times.

590
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:14,560
Speaker 4: I mean that that I think is right. There is

591
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:19,840
Speaker 4: why she won't be the bachelor at But yeah, it's unfortunate,

592
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:21,679
Speaker 4: and I do think that was the right decision for

593
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:24,400
Speaker 4: Joey to make because she did try to leave. So

594
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:26,679
Speaker 4: if any shows you that they're going to leave you

595
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:28,480
Speaker 4: when the going gets.

596
00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 1: Tough, I think.

597
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 3: I do.

598
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:43,240
Speaker 4: Oh, I mean I do love the Kelsey and Daisy.

599
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 1: I've actually like d.

600
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 4: MD both of them and just love I love both

601
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:52,480
Speaker 4: of them. I think either of them will be a

602
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:55,399
Speaker 4: great match for him and he could find happiness. But

603
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 4: I okay, I want to ask you, Evan, since you've

604
00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 4: been watching, do you have any addictions as to what

605
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:04,719
Speaker 4: happens in the finale, because, like they've been alluding to

606
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:09,439
Speaker 4: the fact that it's never happened before, So whatever happens

607
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 4: has never happened before.

608
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 2: I'm like, what Maria comes back, Maria comes Is it

609
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 2: post Harrison has never happened before though, or that's a

610
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:23,240
Speaker 2: valid point because a lot happened before Jesse pre Jesse.

611
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it gets turned down. I think it

612
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:30,440
Speaker 3: gets turned down by somebody.

613
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:34,919
Speaker 4: That will break my heart, that will break my heart. Like,

614
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 4: has that ever happened before?

615
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I don't think it's ever been.

616
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:41,520
Speaker 2: I don't think a season has ever ended, not to

617
00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 2: my knowledge anyway. I mean, we've had several seasons to

618
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 2: end without a proposal, mine included, but we haven't had

619
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:53,760
Speaker 2: any end with someone actually proposing and the other person

620
00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:56,520
Speaker 2: saying I'm sorry, I'm not feeling it.

621
00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 4: You're right, you're right. That's never happened before.

622
00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 2: We also haven't had that that one person sent home

623
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 2: come back to crash the engagement ceremony either, which that's

624
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 2: my prediction. Oh really, Maybe Maria gets even spicier and

625
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:14,560
Speaker 2: decides she's coming back to claim what she thinks is

626
00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 2: rightfully hers.

627
00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:19,160
Speaker 1: Oh oh kay, heart, that's how I'm read.

628
00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 3: Not a bad I don't be interesting.

629
00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 4: I don't know. I have to still hope because at

630
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 4: the wedding, I believe they had already filmed everything I think,

631
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 4: and he seems really happy. Of course, he could just

632
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 4: have already dealt with all of the you know, sadness

633
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:42,360
Speaker 4: and everything and been fine. But oh gosh, I really

634
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 4: hope he doesn't get his heart.

635
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:47,160
Speaker 3: We're gonna get Okay, if what if Someone's like I

636
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 3: need some time to think. What if Daisy's like I

637
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:51,800
Speaker 3: need some time to think about it, because it like

638
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 3: the previews were like showing her being really emotional, and

639
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:57,800
Speaker 3: so what if what if that's it's just as simple

640
00:29:57,800 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 3: as that. You've come back like that. Okay, let's do this.

641
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 4: You're right, it could be.

642
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 1: I don't know.

643
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 4: I'm so I just I needed to come tomorrow. Is

644
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 4: it next week? Is that the finale next week? And they'll

645
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:15,800
Speaker 4: do that after the Yeah, okay.

646
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:14,720
Speaker 2: The one?

647
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 1: Okay, hold on.

648
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 4: I'm just reading he has the coochlear implant.

649
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 1: Yes, Oh my.

650
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 3: God, she's adorable, she's so sweet.

651
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love her.

652
00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:26,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's the one who I really loved from the

653
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:28,920
Speaker 2: night one intros I remember thinking, oh my god, that

654
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 2: girl is so cute.

655
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, she is super sweet, and I just I've

656
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 4: heard out there just people are like, I don't like

657
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:41,800
Speaker 4: their connection as much. It seems like Kelsey and and

658
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 4: Joey have more of like a a chemistry, like a

659
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:51,320
Speaker 4: visceral chemistry, if you will, And then you know, Daisy

660
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 4: makes him happy. And but also like it's funny because

661
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 4: Ryan was kind of listening in on the other night,

662
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 4: which she does not watch the show, but because there

663
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:06,920
Speaker 4: was no Hockey on, he was he was watching with us,

664
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 4: and he was like, do you feel like they're making

665
00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 4: us think that he's going to choose this one and

666
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:17,480
Speaker 4: not the other one? And I feel like when he

667
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 4: was talking to Daisy, like there were a lot of

668
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 4: breaks in the conversation where they were just kind of

669
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 4: sitting there like, you know, it wasn't it wasn't blowing

670
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:32,080
Speaker 4: very well. So whenever they do that sort of thing

671
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 4: and they and they kind of lead us down a

672
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 4: path of oh, these two don't have a connection, I'm like, hmmm,

673
00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:41,640
Speaker 4: they probably do, and they're just showing the moment where.

674
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:42,800
Speaker 1: That was the old school trick.

675
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:45,479
Speaker 2: Remember the old school trick back in our days was

676
00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:49,440
Speaker 2: they always made the audience think they're picking the other person. Right, Yeah,

677
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 2: so when you actually pick the person where you have

678
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:55,600
Speaker 2: the best chemistry people, what you doing man? And you're like, no, honestly,

679
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 2: this was amazing too, you know.

680
00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 1: So yeah that was the old trick. So maybe they're

681
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:02,959
Speaker 1: going back to who knows, they've gone through dance so

682
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:05,720
Speaker 1: many times. Yeah, the old days were simple, buddy, We

683
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 1: were simple.

684
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 3: I mean I was a fan. I watched it, like,

685
00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 3: I love this show, Like from it was so great

686
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:15,240
Speaker 3: at the beginning. It's been up and down.

687
00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:18,760
Speaker 2: We had so much fun together. Like but I always

688
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 2: say this and in Trista, you know, I say this

689
00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 2: about you all the time. The one piece of advice

690
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 2: that I took from Trista which I thought was so

691
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 2: great was I realized that it really starts at the top,

692
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 2: Like whoever that lead person is, they really set the

693
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 2: tone and just to set the tone, like we were buddies,

694
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:39,160
Speaker 2: like all the guys in the mansion hanging out.

695
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:40,280
Speaker 1: We loved each other.

696
00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:42,680
Speaker 2: Like. There was never a moment where I was like, oh, man,

697
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:44,640
Speaker 2: I don't want Ryan to get that day.

698
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 1: I was like, oh the beast time.

699
00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:49,320
Speaker 2: Man, I love you, brom you know, I'll be shamoo

700
00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:50,760
Speaker 2: sitting back here swimming in.

701
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:51,840
Speaker 1: The pool, you know, while you're away.

702
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:54,720
Speaker 2: I was a little heavier then, but but there was that,

703
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 2: And then it was like, but when I went into

704
00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:58,640
Speaker 2: my season, I started it that way too. I'm like, you, guys,

705
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:01,880
Speaker 2: please don't think of this as a prize, because this

706
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 2: is a hot mess.

707
00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 1: So just go.

708
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 2: Ahead and have a good time, get to know each other,

709
00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:08,520
Speaker 2: have fun, and however this thing shakes out, it's going

710
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 2: to shake out, you know.

711
00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:11,040
Speaker 1: It's like, it doesn't mean you guys have to be

712
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 1: backbiting here when you know. And I loved that.

713
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 2: Trista kind of led with that and made us realize

714
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 2: it was okay to be friends. Like we didn't go

715
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 2: in there and feeling like we had to be caddy

716
00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 2: and enemies. And I almost got kicked off the show

717
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 2: as a result of it in the first week by

718
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 2: the former I guess he still is the EP but

719
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 2: came over and it was like, you know, hey, man,

720
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 2: don't be all kumbaya on the hot tub, buddy. I'm like, what,

721
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 2: I got a little trouble, But regardless, it was definitely

722
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 2: just a lot of fun. And you know, I think

723
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:41,920
Speaker 2: that starts at the top, and that was one thing

724
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 2: I think really really reverberated through the screen for people

725
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 2: at home.

726
00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 1: They knew these were a bunch of good guys.

727
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 2: Who liked each other and just adored Trista, you know,

728
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 2: and that was kind of the coolest part about it.

729
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 3: I think.

730
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:55,080
Speaker 1: I think that's what I think.

731
00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 2: Joey has been like such a the one thing I've

732
00:33:57,720 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 2: taken from what I've seen of his season so far,

733
00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 2: he's been kind of that kind of a guy, like

734
00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 2: just like a you know, almost just like a big

735
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 2: smile on his face for pretty much everything, and you know,

736
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 2: trying to everybody happy.

737
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:10,880
Speaker 1: And I like that. I like that.

738
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:14,120
Speaker 3: Yeah he doesn't. It felt like everyone was doing it

739
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 3: for the likes, you know, for for a while. Seems

740
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:21,239
Speaker 3: he seems to not be that way. So yeah, it's

741
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 3: prove And of course they are getting really great follower stuff.

742
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:29,000
Speaker 3: I was looking at it because I'm curious how they're

743
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:31,440
Speaker 3: doing because it's such a good season. They're all like,

744
00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:33,839
Speaker 3: you know, it's it's back up, like you know, there

745
00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:36,840
Speaker 3: they're follower counsel all that stuff. So it's fascinated by

746
00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 3: that work just because mac theme to.

747
00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 4: Another question related to the show, do your kids know

748
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:53,719
Speaker 4: how you guys.

749
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:56,839
Speaker 3: Met, uh the baby, like the six and the four

750
00:34:56,880 --> 00:35:00,880
Speaker 3: year old. Uh, Charlie does not, but Bella obviously.

751
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:02,480
Speaker 4: Your older kids. They were on the show, weren't they

752
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 4: They Yeah, yeah, yeah they were so so Charlie and Bella.

753
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 4: Did they know how you and Carly originally met Bella.

754
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:16,799
Speaker 3: Bella has gotten it to a degree. Yeah, people ask

755
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:22,200
Speaker 3: for pictures. Then then she gets really it's not a

756
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:23,799
Speaker 3: big dealer, but she's just kind of like, oh, yeah,

757
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:26,919
Speaker 3: I'm on a TV show. And so like a couple

758
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:29,799
Speaker 3: of years ago they filmed, they did some I was

759
00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:32,239
Speaker 3: watching and they did some like throwback moment and it

760
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 3: was like I was like, hey, Bella, look there's daddy

761
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 3: on the TV. And I was like, yeah, it's like

762
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 3: a football thing or something. And she was like, that's

763
00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:43,400
Speaker 3: so cool, daddy. And I was like, yeah, that's how

764
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:46,239
Speaker 3: we met. That was I mean, you know, and she

765
00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:50,520
Speaker 3: she she doesn't talk about it, but yeah.

766
00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:53,200
Speaker 4: It's just part of life, Like that's just what did it. Yeah,

767
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:55,840
Speaker 4: that's how my kids were. When somebody wants a picture

768
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 4: my mom and dad. That's not normal, but it's fine,

769
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 4: or that's normal. I guess they were thinking probably, and

770
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 4: then you can be then you can be.

771
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:06,720
Speaker 2: My son Grayson will be at like McDonald's playland. Tristan

772
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:09,680
Speaker 2: knows this story, I think, but he'll he'll literally see

773
00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:11,920
Speaker 2: people like looking at me and talking and he'll go over.

774
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:15,120
Speaker 2: He'll go, Hi, I'm Grayson. Are you looking at my dad?

775
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:17,359
Speaker 1: Do you know him from? Do you know him from?

776
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 1: Bob the Builder?

777
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 2: And then they'll go what Builder and they'll say no,

778
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:23,280
Speaker 2: We've never watched it, and he goes, I'm just kidding.

779
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 1: It's Bob the Bachelor. Do you want a picture with him?

780
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:25,880
Speaker 1: He takes pictures.

781
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 4: I'm just like a story that's hysterical.

782
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:32,080
Speaker 1: Oh, I literally does it all the time. I'll just

783
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 1: be like Grayson, they don't need a pictures on you

784
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 1: their fine? Really sure he's going where you gets it from?

785
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:42,479
Speaker 2: Yeah?

786
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:45,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, Oh my gosh, that is that's hysterical. My kids

787
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 4: are like opposite. Can we run away from the camera anytime? Anyone?

788
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 1: So funny?

789
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:55,359
Speaker 3: That's how the boys are. They got sick of it.

790
00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 3: I'm sure I do love that like it was fun

791
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 3: for a minute and then like a way to like

792
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:04,799
Speaker 3: a very small degree, and but they that really affected them.

793
00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 3: Actually they hate like social media or they hated it

794
00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:09,520
Speaker 3: for a season, Like they went through like a couple

795
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:13,000
Speaker 3: things like it's all fake, it's all horrible, and so

796
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:16,239
Speaker 3: they but they definitely hate the hated the picture thing

797
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:20,880
Speaker 3: after after the novelty, Yeah, it's calm back down, like

798
00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 3: it's really it's it's a cool, fun thing to be like, Yeah,

799
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 3: that happened to me at one point in my life,

800
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 3: and now I'm back to just being a dad.

801
00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:33,440
Speaker 4: Because your girlfriend watched the show, did she know who

802
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 4: you are before you started dating? I obviously who you

803
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:39,840
Speaker 4: were from work, but did she know your past on

804
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:41,279
Speaker 4: The Bachelor before you.

805
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:45,880
Speaker 3: Guys started She she didn't, and I think like somebody

806
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 3: else told her, like after the fact, they're like, you know,

807
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 3: you know, like everyone was on the TV show now

808
00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:52,799
Speaker 3: I know, I guess. So she like looked at them.

809
00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:57,239
Speaker 3: She's like, oh my god. Yeah, she assumed I was

810
00:37:57,239 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 3: married because I had like you know, I was like

811
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 3: I talked about my five kids, right, It's like I

812
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:02,799
Speaker 3: got five kids, right, married, And so it was like

813
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:04,799
Speaker 3: when she found out she was single and she did

814
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:07,240
Speaker 3: the whole deep dive thing, I was like, oh my gosh.

815
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:10,839
Speaker 3: So uh And she's more like way private about stuff here,

816
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:13,560
Speaker 3: so it was. It was a bit of a like

817
00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:15,960
Speaker 3: you're like, okay, I don't know, and I was like,

818
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:18,279
Speaker 3: it's it's fine, it's not that big of a deal anymore.

819
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:21,200
Speaker 1: Like take your time figure it out, exactly.

820
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:25,600
Speaker 4: It's it's not all of you are I mean, for

821
00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 4: all of us, it's not our identity. It's just part

822
00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:29,240
Speaker 4: of you know, our.

823
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:33,320
Speaker 3: Story exactly for most of us. For some it's still

824
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:35,080
Speaker 3: a very big part of identity.

825
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 2: Yeah. I always I always tell everyone whenever they you

826
00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 2: know so, and this is something Evan, because I can

827
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:43,239
Speaker 2: tell you you're a humble guy, and you know you've

828
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 2: been through it and you're back home and doing your thing.

829
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 2: But people always ask me, like, you know, what advice

830
00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:49,400
Speaker 2: do you give the new bachelors. I'm like, well, they

831
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:51,920
Speaker 2: don't really ever ask me, but if they were to

832
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:55,120
Speaker 2: ask me, my advice would be, it's not about you.

833
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:57,000
Speaker 1: A monkey could be handing on a flower.

834
00:38:56,760 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 2: Up there, and the girls are going to get pissed

835
00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:00,719
Speaker 2: and cry if they don't get a flower, and the

836
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:02,520
Speaker 2: guys are gonna get caddy and weird behind the scenes

837
00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 2: if able to get a flower. But you know, I

838
00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:08,840
Speaker 2: think that's that's obviously, you know, that's specific to my season,

839
00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:12,080
Speaker 2: because just this season it was all truly about Trista

840
00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 2: and if it's not true, it was true, it was true,

841
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:19,239
Speaker 2: they could have had to chimp up their handed out

842
00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 2: flowers and people don't Yeah.

843
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:22,000
Speaker 3: Stop it.

844
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:24,399
Speaker 4: I do. I feel like we met. Did we meet

845
00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:27,880
Speaker 4: on what was that show?

846
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:30,720
Speaker 3: Jeez?

847
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:32,440
Speaker 4: A country singer?

848
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:33,520
Speaker 2: Oh?

849
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:38,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, Kelly Pickler, Kelly Pickler.

850
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 4: That was it, because I feel like we saw each

851
00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:43,239
Speaker 4: other there, But I don't know if we had met

852
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:43,759
Speaker 4: before that.

853
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 3: I think we were in each other Good Morning America

854
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:49,920
Speaker 3: at some point or something. Yeah. Yes, there's been a

855
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 3: couple of times with the Pickler and band.

856
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:51,600
Speaker 1: I love that.

857
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:53,319
Speaker 3: I'm so sad it's out of business now or whatever.

858
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:57,520
Speaker 4: Totally, that was so much fun.

859
00:39:57,960 --> 00:39:59,280
Speaker 1: I love Kelly Pickler.

860
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:02,439
Speaker 3: Yes, cool, it was a.

861
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 4: Fun show, and I love Nashville. Getting to go to

862
00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:07,839
Speaker 4: Nashville is fun for me. When you don't live there,

863
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:11,200
Speaker 4: it's a fun place to visit. Well, it has been

864
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 4: really fun to talk to you, Vin, you catch up.

865
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:19,160
Speaker 4: I'm really happy for your happiness and that you've you've

866
00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:22,560
Speaker 4: found happiness in another relationship. Tell her we said hi,

867
00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:24,399
Speaker 4: and if she ever wants to come on, she can

868
00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:25,360
Speaker 4: come on the podcast.

869
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:28,759
Speaker 1: Yes, I love it. Doesn't sound like she's going to

870
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:31,200
Speaker 1: have interest in that though, but I don't know.

871
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:37,080
Speaker 4: But give those cute cutie pie kids a big hug

872
00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:41,439
Speaker 4: from us, and we just appreciate your candor. And I'm

873
00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:42,200
Speaker 4: on here to chat.

874
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:44,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, thanks for having me. Appreciate it. And Bob, great

875
00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:46,520
Speaker 3: to meet you on here. I hope you can.

876
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:48,480
Speaker 1: Definitely, I would love that, man.

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Speaker 2: I actually come down to Nashville quite a bit, so

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Speaker 2: next time i'm done, I'll get me a number from

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Speaker 2: our producers.

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Speaker 1: I will for sure.

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Speaker 3: It'd be awesome.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, man, Yeah, i'd love it. I'd love it. You

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Speaker 1: seem like a great guy.

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 2: I'm happy for all your success and all your kid

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Speaker 2: kids and all the good stuff happening to you. We

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Speaker 2: wish you the best, and please come back and visit

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Speaker 2: us anytime you want.

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Speaker 3: Awesome, Thanks so much, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Thanks a nice guy. He's awesome, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So sweet. I just like him, super down earth and

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Speaker 4: actually super freaking funny, and I just yeah, he's a

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Speaker 4: good guy.

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Speaker 1: I like him well.

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Speaker 2: As always, you conducted a lovely interview, Miss Sutter. I

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Speaker 2: thought you did spectacular.

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Speaker 4: Oh thank you you too.

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Speaker 1: Gripping gripping work.

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Speaker 2: You ebbed and flowed between, you know, the social dynamic

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Speaker 2: of a conversation and the hard hitting news facts.

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Speaker 4: And that's oh yeah, I'm just a hard hitting reporter.

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Speaker 4: That's too. And now I'm going to go eat my breakfast.

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Speaker 1: No, hey, there you go, there you go. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: early for you. It's very early for you, it is it.

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Speaker 4: I actually slept until ten thirty the other day.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, right.

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Speaker 4: It's freakrkets. So I don't have to up and get them,

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Speaker 4: move in and make sure they get to school on time.

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Speaker 4: So not that I would meet, not that I have to,

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Speaker 4: but I just feel like, even though they're fourteen and

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Speaker 4: sixteen and they should be able to do it on

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Speaker 4: their own because Max is driving, I just I still,

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Speaker 4: you know, I want to help.

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Speaker 1: I get it. I get it in the same way.

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Speaker 2: I mean mine mine can't do anything by themselves, but

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Speaker 2: you know that's still I enjoy it. You know, the

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Speaker 2: things they can do by themselves, whatever is, I'm still

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Speaker 2: doing them for them anyway.

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Speaker 1: So there you go.

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Speaker 2: But always a pleasure, my dear friend. Thank you for

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Speaker 2: taking the time out today, for doing the show. Thanks

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