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Speaker 1: Everybody else's mouth is full, so I figured I would say, hello,

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Speaker 1: it's scary here along with straight Nate and Danielle and

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Speaker 1: friend Dan Mason. Good morning, Dan Mason's in the house.

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Speaker 1: No better way to start in Monday than with Schmackery's cooking.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not a sponsor, not a sponsor. So um, well,

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Speaker 1: welcome back. It's Monday, and uh we're all here and

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Speaker 1: hanging out and this is fun. Yes, So what brings

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Speaker 1: you to town? Dan Mason? I have some meetings today.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be talking with Elvis. I'm actually starting a

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Speaker 1: podcast here through the through the Elvis Storrand Network. So

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Speaker 1: excited about that. For anybody who doesn't know me, I

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Speaker 1: worked in radio for years. I'm a life coach now,

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Speaker 1: so I've worked with people in eight countries helping them

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Speaker 1: relationships they love. So well. I think it's I think

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Speaker 1: it's great. If you want to follow Dan on on

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Speaker 1: social media to Dan, it's at Dan Mason. It's actually

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Speaker 1: c SC Dan Mason on intram, c Dan Mason on Instagram,

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Speaker 1: and my website is Creative Soul Coaching dot net. Very cool,

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Speaker 1: same letters as the CSC, the company after your Twitter handle.

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Speaker 1: It's a matter of fact, see I figured stuff out age. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean, people listen to the fifteen minute morning Show

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Speaker 1: and uh they'll they're pretty much. We tell them about

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Speaker 1: great new podcasts, awesome content that that's on the way,

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Speaker 1: and uh they'll follow it. So we can't wait for

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Speaker 1: the launch of that. Yeah, it's coming this fall, so

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Speaker 1: probably next month. Looking forward to it. That's great. Do

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Speaker 1: you think you'll be able to incorporate any of your

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Speaker 1: recent experiences? I know, before we started the podcast, you

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Speaker 1: were talking about evacuating Florida because you live in Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm in St. Petersburg, Okay. And and the stories you

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Speaker 1: were saying, I can't even imagine the Walking Dead sort

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Speaker 1: a movie. Uh, you know, just the mass evacuation, six

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Speaker 1: moving to Erie, Pennsylvania. No offense, no offend, unless unless

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Speaker 1: Dan for this, he's the life coach. Oh yeah, but

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