WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Second Date Update & Sisanie's Squabble 0:00:00.560 --> 0:00:01.440 From Hollywood. 0:00:01.639 --> 0:00:01.920 See you. 0:00:02.279 --> 0:00:06.440 Thank you for listening to Ryan Air on Air with 0:00:06.559 --> 0:00:08.240 a Ryan Seacret. 0:00:10.600 --> 0:00:17.160 FM. Felicia is on the phone in Downey, Felicia, Good morning, Hi, 0:00:17.280 --> 0:00:17.880 good morning. 0:00:18.640 --> 0:00:20.759 Well tell us what's going on. Apparently you had a 0:00:20.760 --> 0:00:22.319 one night stand with somebody you work with. 0:00:25.079 --> 0:00:29.000 Yeah, well, okay, so I started a new job and 0:00:29.200 --> 0:00:32.880 this is like my dream job. Like I'm super excited. 0:00:33.240 --> 0:00:37.840 I've worked really hard for this. And anyway, I've been 0:00:38.240 --> 0:00:41.400 meeting a lot of my coworkers and then it turns 0:00:41.440 --> 0:00:43.760 out I had a one night stand with one of 0:00:43.800 --> 0:00:50.040 them about like a year ago. And yeah, he seems 0:00:50.159 --> 0:00:54.360 to like remember, because he's like super awkward around me, 0:00:54.640 --> 0:00:59.480 but he hasn't brought it up. Of course he remembers, yeah, 0:00:59.520 --> 0:01:02.160 but like I don't I don't know should I bring 0:01:02.200 --> 0:01:04.400 it up? Like should I make a joke around it? 0:01:04.480 --> 0:01:04.880 I don't know. 0:01:04.920 --> 0:01:08.000 I like I wonder if he's maybe in a relationship 0:01:08.080 --> 0:01:10.080 right now. That's why he's being weird. It's just I 0:01:10.120 --> 0:01:12.600 don't know. I'm just not sure how to play this, 0:01:13.080 --> 0:01:14.320 you know, so I need advice. 0:01:16.480 --> 0:01:18.199 I've seen your eyes all wide. Go ahead. 0:01:18.280 --> 0:01:21.040 I don't know. I'm actually processing all this information and 0:01:21.080 --> 0:01:23.000 like kind of trying to put myself in your shoes, 0:01:23.000 --> 0:01:26.640 and like, what would I do? Dream jobs? And I 0:01:26.680 --> 0:01:30.319 wouldn't bring it up. I just move on with life. 0:01:30.560 --> 0:01:32.800 And that was in the past, never happened. How would 0:01:32.840 --> 0:01:36.600 you bring it up? Hey, I remember that night? 0:01:36.760 --> 0:01:38.240 No no, no. 0:01:38.360 --> 0:01:41.120 No, no, no, it just it never happened. I mean unless 0:01:41.120 --> 0:01:42.600 he brings up then you can make a joke. I 0:01:42.640 --> 0:01:43.240 guess about it. 0:01:43.319 --> 0:01:45.759 Right, How long ago was it? 0:01:45.760 --> 0:01:46.959 It was a year ago? 0:01:47.319 --> 0:01:54.080 Yeah, But now, Felicia, is there attraction here? You obviously 0:01:54.200 --> 0:01:56.480 had the attraction back in the day when you guys 0:01:56.520 --> 0:01:59.360 had the one night stand. How do you shut that off? 0:02:01.560 --> 0:02:03.840 I mean it was it was kind of like a 0:02:04.000 --> 0:02:08.519 pretty clear you know, yes there is attraction, but nothing 0:02:08.600 --> 0:02:10.160 more kind of thing. 0:02:10.400 --> 0:02:12.320 So that's it. 0:02:12.360 --> 0:02:13.560 I don't know, I. 0:02:13.480 --> 0:02:14.560 Don't really know. 0:02:14.840 --> 0:02:17.360 Siciny's right on this one. You do not bring this up. 0:02:17.400 --> 0:02:19.840 This happened. It's water under the bridge. 0:02:19.960 --> 0:02:20.560 We move on. 0:02:20.840 --> 0:02:22.440 If he makes a joke about it, then he opens 0:02:22.440 --> 0:02:23.760 the door, and that's a different scenario. 0:02:23.800 --> 0:02:26.280 But right now, it's business as usual. 0:02:27.560 --> 0:02:29.480 Yes, yes, focus on the job. 0:02:29.880 --> 0:02:35.639 Thanks Felicia, thank you that I know, and the dream 0:02:35.760 --> 0:02:36.320 job too. 0:02:37.800 --> 0:02:40.360 Business as usual. Let's come back here one of two 0:02:40.360 --> 0:02:43.920 point seven Kiss FM. It is Ryan Seacrest here. Do 0:02:43.960 --> 0:02:46.920 you like a guy that wears cologne or not? 0:02:47.080 --> 0:02:49.640 Siceny, it can't be too strong, but yes I do. 0:02:50.240 --> 0:02:52.680 Have you ever had an opinion that mine was too strong? Tanya? 0:02:53.520 --> 0:02:53.960 Ah? 0:02:54.080 --> 0:03:00.000 Yes, thanks for being thoughtful about your response. 0:03:00.919 --> 0:03:03.760 That gets into personal space more than the usual person. 0:03:04.160 --> 0:03:06.840 Maybe technically it's strong because you're too close. 0:03:07.960 --> 0:03:11.959 I just prefer songs. I prefer no colones. 0:03:12.240 --> 0:03:15.000 Your husband doesn't wear colonne, doesn't have a scent in aroma. 0:03:15.400 --> 0:03:17.680 He hasn't a Roman. It's good, Okay. 0:03:17.520 --> 0:03:20.680 Easy on the inflection. Okay, Wow, it's just weird. 0:03:21.240 --> 0:03:22.919 But no, he doesn't wear colone. I don't like it. 0:03:23.000 --> 0:03:24.160 I love a subtle scent. 0:03:25.200 --> 0:03:25.959 Oh. 0:03:26.120 --> 0:03:29.200 I take two that I found and mixed them. One 0:03:29.240 --> 0:03:30.600 is sand the woody, and one is rosy. 0:03:30.720 --> 0:03:32.760 Your smell's always good, yeah, thinks. 0:03:34.040 --> 0:03:34.160 Oh. 0:03:34.200 --> 0:03:35.840 I was bringing up because I was reading this morning 0:03:35.840 --> 0:03:40.360 about the most popular smells ranked by people. None of 0:03:40.360 --> 0:03:43.640 my colone' is not on there. But number three is 0:03:43.760 --> 0:03:46.200 cold mountain air. Number two is the smell of after 0:03:46.200 --> 0:03:48.480 it rains, and number one is the smell of freshly 0:03:48.520 --> 0:03:49.480 baked bread. 0:03:49.960 --> 0:03:51.160 But these aren't colognes. 0:03:51.600 --> 0:03:52.880 No, these are just smells. 0:03:52.520 --> 0:03:54.920 In general, freshly baked bread. 0:03:54.720 --> 0:03:55.840 In a bottle a cologne. 0:03:55.880 --> 0:03:58.400 No, no, no, Well, like I would love to smell 0:03:58.440 --> 0:03:59.680 like a chocolate chip cookie. 0:04:00.280 --> 0:04:03.120 Yeah, I mean the vanilla ascent, I like, mixed with 0:04:03.240 --> 0:04:04.680 sandalwood or something like that. 0:04:05.400 --> 0:04:07.720 I hear our intern Amy's boyfriend. I know he had 0:04:07.720 --> 0:04:09.280 a boyfriend until they taped it up here on the screen. 0:04:09.640 --> 0:04:12.920 There's a boyfriend in her line where you have a boyfriend, Yeah, 0:04:12.960 --> 0:04:15.960 and he does work alone. I like to say more 0:04:16.000 --> 0:04:19.039 like fragrance than cologne. Like you guys are just talking 0:04:19.040 --> 0:04:22.280 about like I think there's like cologne versus fragrance. I 0:04:22.320 --> 0:04:25.000 want someone to smell like something that I would maybe 0:04:25.040 --> 0:04:26.600 want to wear, you know. 0:04:26.720 --> 0:04:30.200 Oh really, so like like a fragrance ascent that would 0:04:30.240 --> 0:04:30.800 work on you. 0:04:30.960 --> 0:04:34.240 That's what him like, a sex fragrance. 0:04:34.360 --> 0:04:37.680 Well sand of wooden rose. I think that's very like that. 0:04:37.760 --> 0:04:38.600 Everybody can like. 0:04:38.600 --> 0:04:41.520 Wood and rose, right, I love that scent on a guy. 0:04:42.440 --> 0:04:43.920 That's our intern Amy. 0:04:44.120 --> 0:04:46.440 She's new so I just learned she has a boyfriend, 0:04:46.480 --> 0:04:47.920 and now I know what fragrance he wears. 0:04:48.120 --> 0:04:50.160 His name is Luke. I know so much right now. 0:04:50.160 --> 0:04:53.039 The typing fast in la Or is he back in Boston? No, 0:04:53.120 --> 0:04:55.520 he lives in the Bay Area, Actually the Bay. 0:04:55.320 --> 0:04:58.640 Area College in Boston. You're interning here and he lives 0:04:58.680 --> 0:04:59.480 in the Bay Area. 0:04:59.560 --> 0:05:01.840 Yes, I no, crazy, crazy world we live in. 0:05:03.080 --> 0:05:04.800 Later this week, I'm gonna find out how you met 0:05:04.800 --> 0:05:07.240 because Mark tells me here it's just passing me notes 0:05:07.279 --> 0:05:09.880 that you met on the floor of your dorm. 0:05:10.200 --> 0:05:12.440 Yes, yes, yes, outside of the elevators. 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:13.320 How bab. 0:05:15.160 --> 0:05:15.640 Love it. 0:05:16.200 --> 0:05:17.720 We'll get to that this week. Getting to know our 0:05:17.720 --> 0:05:18.760 new intern Amy. 0:05:19.200 --> 0:05:19.320 Uh. 0:05:19.560 --> 0:05:23.039 That's a complicated relationship in so many different Well. 0:05:22.760 --> 0:05:24.760 Because they go to school together, right, You guys are 0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:26.680 going to school together, but the summer's off right now? 0:05:26.760 --> 0:05:29.640 Yes, all right, So Tanya has brought it to our attention. 0:05:29.800 --> 0:05:32.599 I haven't noticed this necessarily, but Tanya has pointed this 0:05:32.640 --> 0:05:36.440 out to Cisany and I that she's becoming too competitive. 0:05:36.520 --> 0:05:38.279 Was the word that you used? And you don't like 0:05:38.360 --> 0:05:39.640 how it's making you come off. 0:05:40.200 --> 0:05:42.640 I don't like what it's bringing out in me. And 0:05:42.680 --> 0:05:45.599 I used to be very go with the flow. I 0:05:45.600 --> 0:05:49.160 would like play games, but not really care so much, 0:05:49.200 --> 0:05:50.840 you know, like I like to be a part of 0:05:51.080 --> 0:05:54.640 but I don't need to win, and lately we've been 0:05:54.640 --> 0:05:58.120 doing like more game nights with people and I feel 0:05:58.120 --> 0:06:02.080 like I'm getting super competitive and I don't like the. 0:06:02.080 --> 0:06:04.760 Side of bringing out I don't. 0:06:04.520 --> 0:06:07.400 Know, like this fiery side that I didn't even know 0:06:07.520 --> 0:06:11.000 that I had, and I don't like it. I don't 0:06:11.000 --> 0:06:13.280 want to be this way, but it's like coming out. 0:06:13.760 --> 0:06:16.480 But it's just so you know. I'm not speaking for you, Systaney, 0:06:16.520 --> 0:06:18.279 but tell me if you agreed disagree. I have not 0:06:18.400 --> 0:06:21.400 seen that edge here. I've not seen you that we're. 0:06:21.240 --> 0:06:22.800 Not playing a game. We're not playing a game. 0:06:22.920 --> 0:06:24.359 Well, this is all fun and games guys. 0:06:24.560 --> 0:06:27.080 No, No, I mean like actual game. 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:29.640 But you know what I do see every now and then. 0:06:29.680 --> 0:06:32.480 We have played games in the many years that we've 0:06:32.560 --> 0:06:34.200 done this show, like match game. 0:06:34.880 --> 0:06:37.560 Sure you just changed there when you said it. I 0:06:37.600 --> 0:06:39.159 saw that, Yeah, I know it's it. 0:06:39.680 --> 0:06:45.599 There is a slight like spark like you said yeah yes. 0:06:45.160 --> 0:06:47.080 And I don't like it. I like being just go 0:06:47.120 --> 0:06:49.960 with the flow, like have fun. There's no need to win. 0:06:50.720 --> 0:06:53.599 See you could like I it's funny. I don't get 0:06:53.640 --> 0:07:00.200 competitive with like games per se. It's sports. So if 0:07:00.240 --> 0:07:02.440 I if I can't do well, I just don't play 0:07:02.480 --> 0:07:07.599 it ever. Okay, for example, basketball never, there's a long list, 0:07:07.640 --> 0:07:08.160 actually I have never. 0:07:08.400 --> 0:07:11.400 Yeah, you need like a lot of players. 0:07:11.720 --> 0:07:13.920 Yeah, but I even if I can pick up games 0:07:13.920 --> 0:07:14.840 and one on one right, yeah? 0:07:14.920 --> 0:07:15.120 True. 0:07:15.120 --> 0:07:17.720 I just think get involved because I was really bad bowling. 0:07:17.720 --> 0:07:19.480 For example, if we go bowling, you might see that 0:07:19.560 --> 0:07:19.960 side of me. 0:07:20.000 --> 0:07:21.320 I'm like bowling. 0:07:21.560 --> 0:07:24.160 I love to bowl. I really loved to bowl. I 0:07:24.160 --> 0:07:25.800 don't do it enough. I loved to bowl. Every time 0:07:25.800 --> 0:07:26.880 I go. That side comes out of me. 0:07:27.600 --> 0:07:28.160 Competitive. 0:07:28.680 --> 0:07:30.720 I do get competitive. I get also, I get a 0:07:30.760 --> 0:07:31.200 litw upset. 0:07:31.320 --> 0:07:33.640 It's more just internal though. You just want to beat 0:07:33.680 --> 0:07:35.160 your own I mean, yeah, I guess you do want. 0:07:35.040 --> 0:07:37.960 Well, I want to beat the people, and I want 0:07:37.960 --> 0:07:40.000 to show off my skills because I do say I'm decent. 0:07:40.080 --> 0:07:41.120 I do say I'm good at it. 0:07:41.760 --> 0:07:43.280 So when you're not good at something and you say 0:07:43.280 --> 0:07:45.240 you're good at it, then you go in and you're 0:07:45.320 --> 0:07:47.000 let down in so many different ways. 0:07:47.440 --> 0:07:48.640 But I'm not great. 0:07:48.920 --> 0:07:49.840 All right, we should bowl? 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:51.360 Yeah, that'd be great. 0:07:52.200 --> 0:07:54.960 I don't want to play with you guys, because I 0:07:54.960 --> 0:07:56.000 don't want to get angry. 0:07:56.240 --> 0:07:58.200 Well, what game? What game would we play together? 0:08:00.160 --> 0:08:04.880 I mean, we could play My favorite game is fish bowl. 0:08:09.200 --> 0:08:11.040 So you like all write down something on a piece 0:08:11.040 --> 0:08:12.520 of paper, you put it in the bowl, and then 0:08:12.520 --> 0:08:13.480 you have to like act. 0:08:13.280 --> 0:08:15.360 It out one round and then one round you like, 0:08:15.800 --> 0:08:18.920 for example, okay, like charades. Yes, one of the rounds 0:08:18.960 --> 0:08:19.680 is like charades. 0:08:19.920 --> 0:08:22.120 Okay, well that's a new one. 0:08:22.360 --> 0:08:24.480 No, no, it is new. It's like a new one. 0:08:24.520 --> 0:08:25.240 It's a difference. 0:08:25.800 --> 0:08:27.600 There's three rounds. One is charades. 0:08:27.640 --> 0:08:30.160 One you can say you like, explain the word, and 0:08:30.200 --> 0:08:32.520 then the last round you use one word to explain 0:08:32.559 --> 0:08:32.840 the word. 0:08:32.920 --> 0:08:34.040 I'm so bad at charide. 0:08:34.320 --> 0:08:36.240 Could we play this on the air? Wants to demo 0:08:36.280 --> 0:08:37.040 it out? One morning? 0:08:37.640 --> 0:08:39.400 We could probably play the Yeah, we could probably play 0:08:39.400 --> 0:08:40.240 the first round for sure. 0:08:41.760 --> 0:08:43.720 Oh all right, we'll figure this out later. Too much 0:08:43.760 --> 0:08:46.720 Pressure's kiss. So if you're swiping on dating apps your 0:08:47.120 --> 0:08:52.839 matches are dwindling, Today's to day. You'll get more matches immediately, Michaul, Like, 0:08:52.840 --> 0:08:57.319 I guess I'm talking to you. Yeah, yeah, update your 0:08:57.440 --> 0:08:58.520 dating profile. 0:08:58.960 --> 0:09:00.840 I can help. When's the last time. 0:09:00.920 --> 0:09:04.079 Okay, I just learned that if I changed the age 0:09:04.480 --> 0:09:06.720 that I would get more matches, but I didn't know 0:09:06.720 --> 0:09:08.040 about anything else. 0:09:08.440 --> 0:09:12.080 Well, anything fresh, probably well, ye your age range, you're 0:09:12.120 --> 0:09:14.520 gonna get way more possibility. 0:09:14.600 --> 0:09:16.360 But like for example, on Riya, you only get a 0:09:16.400 --> 0:09:18.920 certain amount of day. So I had already did my 0:09:19.040 --> 0:09:21.320 day like swiping, and then once I changed the age, 0:09:21.360 --> 0:09:22.880 I had a whole new friend. 0:09:23.240 --> 0:09:25.800 The limit the amount of people that can match with you, 0:09:25.800 --> 0:09:27.440 you know why, Sysney Why? 0:09:27.640 --> 0:09:31.680 So I found out that now dating apps are like 0:09:31.720 --> 0:09:34.160 social media where people are just going and just mindlessly 0:09:34.200 --> 0:09:36.199 scrolling for hours and hours and hours. I think they're 0:09:36.240 --> 0:09:38.359 putting in like a limit so that people stop. 0:09:38.480 --> 0:09:41.520 Like really commit to. 0:09:39.679 --> 0:09:43.559 The yes, exactly commit to the swipe. 0:09:44.360 --> 0:09:46.240 Yeah, it does, you'd be like, I like, I like, 0:09:46.520 --> 0:09:49.760 I don't like like you just do it for hours 0:09:49.760 --> 0:09:52.280 and hours, So now you'd like stop on someone's profile. 0:09:52.720 --> 0:09:57.720 Looks you're on Riyah. I thought that was like a 0:09:58.280 --> 0:09:59.320 invite only thing. 0:10:00.160 --> 0:10:02.240 I had a few friends that were on it, so referral, 0:10:02.280 --> 0:10:04.920 but it's not like entertainment, And I feel like now 0:10:04.920 --> 0:10:06.760 everyone gets accepted. But I still have a friend that's 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:09.640 been on it for the wait lists. 0:10:09.240 --> 0:10:10.440 A vip okay. 0:10:10.520 --> 0:10:14.000 Yeah, in industry, but does that who she wants to 0:10:14.000 --> 0:10:16.360 be secretly want to be on it too? 0:10:16.440 --> 0:10:18.800 Ryan ye Aple keep telling me to get on this 0:10:19.080 --> 0:10:19.920 ray of thing. 0:10:20.760 --> 0:10:23.000 Yes, let's help you with the profile. 0:10:24.320 --> 0:10:29.240 Nah, I just got my Apple Pay. Although I could 0:10:29.280 --> 0:10:30.920 take somebody out in Apple Pay. It'd be pretty cool, 0:10:31.000 --> 0:10:31.240 wasn't it. 0:10:32.160 --> 0:10:34.960 I mean, they would think you're so hip, they would 0:10:34.960 --> 0:10:35.320 think I'm. 0:10:39.480 --> 0:10:40.240 One time we went. 0:10:40.160 --> 0:10:42.400 To dinner with our friend who just started using Apple 0:10:42.440 --> 0:10:45.120 Pay too, and the check came for dinner and she 0:10:45.320 --> 0:10:47.199 literally put her phone up to the check. 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:51.000 I didn't know that you needed guys. You actually told 0:10:51.000 --> 0:10:53.439 me that now, So. 0:10:53.520 --> 0:10:57.559 Just PSA, do not you need a machine. 0:10:57.960 --> 0:11:01.840 An entire sea of water cannot sink a ship unless 0:11:01.880 --> 0:11:08.520 it gets inside. Likewise, the negativity of the world cannot 0:11:08.520 --> 0:11:10.160 bring you down unless you let. 0:11:10.000 --> 0:11:11.440 It seat inside your soul. 0:11:11.559 --> 0:11:12.240 Don't let it in. 0:11:13.040 --> 0:11:14.720 I think we need to give some guidance. It looks 0:11:14.720 --> 0:11:17.040 like here Mary Ann is on the phone, Mary and 0:11:17.080 --> 0:11:17.400 good morning. 0:11:17.440 --> 0:11:17.880 How are you? 0:11:18.840 --> 0:11:19.559 Good morning? 0:11:19.800 --> 0:11:21.160 I'm okay, how are. 0:11:21.000 --> 0:11:22.360 You doing well? 0:11:22.520 --> 0:11:25.360 So you're calling for a little bit of feedback about 0:11:25.360 --> 0:11:27.040 your fiance and something he's trying to do. 0:11:28.480 --> 0:11:30.760 Yes, I am, I need some major help. 0:11:31.160 --> 0:11:32.120 Okay, what's the story. 0:11:33.440 --> 0:11:36.920 So we just started planning our wedding and we're pretty 0:11:36.920 --> 0:11:40.400 dead set on doing a destination wedding in Italy. But 0:11:40.840 --> 0:11:44.319 here's just saying my fiance really wants to send out 0:11:44.320 --> 0:11:47.360 a survey to everyone we'd want to invite, just to 0:11:47.400 --> 0:11:50.280 see who could make the trip. And like, I guess 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:52.880 I get that. I understand where he's coming from, but 0:11:53.559 --> 0:11:56.200 I also feel like, if we're gonna do this, we 0:11:56.200 --> 0:11:58.880 should just go for it. Like we've dreamed of having 0:11:58.920 --> 0:12:01.040 a destination wedding for you years, and now that it's 0:12:01.080 --> 0:12:03.800 actually happening, I feel like it should be us making 0:12:03.880 --> 0:12:08.480 the decision and not waiting for everyone else's approval. I'm 0:12:08.520 --> 0:12:10.840 just wondering, like, do y'all even think this is smart 0:12:10.880 --> 0:12:12.920 to do? Or does it just open the door to 0:12:12.920 --> 0:12:16.520 too many opinions? Tanya, I know you got married in Mexico. 0:12:16.679 --> 0:12:19.520 Did you survey your guests first? Or like, I don't 0:12:19.520 --> 0:12:20.440 really know what to do. 0:12:21.280 --> 0:12:24.680 Our biggest thing was does it matter to you if 0:12:24.720 --> 0:12:26.559 everybody that you want comes? 0:12:27.880 --> 0:12:29.199 Or what was the lens you looked through? 0:12:29.400 --> 0:12:31.840 Or yeah, or doing it at a destination. 0:12:32.000 --> 0:12:35.200 We knew doing it a destination, everybody that we wanted 0:12:35.200 --> 0:12:38.319 there wouldn't necessarily be able to come, but we were 0:12:38.480 --> 0:12:42.840 okay with that because we really, really really wanted a destination. 0:12:43.040 --> 0:12:46.319 So I feel like, meaning she didn't really care so 0:12:46.440 --> 0:12:50.440 much about those other people to come. But yeah, it 0:12:50.480 --> 0:12:52.160 was like it was fine with it that they couldn't come, right, 0:12:52.160 --> 0:12:54.280 Like you invited me that you were you can't. 0:12:54.320 --> 0:12:57.080 I mean like he's sending out a survey to make 0:12:57.080 --> 0:12:58.599 sure that all those people can make it. So I 0:12:58.600 --> 0:13:01.199 feel like he obviously want every single person that he's 0:13:01.240 --> 0:13:04.160 serving to be at the wedding, in which case I 0:13:04.200 --> 0:13:06.320 just don't think that's going to be the case if 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:06.920 it's in Italy. 0:13:07.000 --> 0:13:08.280 So I think you have to make the decision. 0:13:08.320 --> 0:13:10.480 Is it more important for you to get married where 0:13:10.520 --> 0:13:12.120 you want or do you want everybody? 0:13:12.480 --> 0:13:14.920 What's the survey? Is it gonna be multiple questions? Is 0:13:14.960 --> 0:13:17.559 it literally just like can you come these dates? 0:13:17.559 --> 0:13:18.120 This is right? 0:13:18.240 --> 0:13:21.480 Yeah? I think he has a two questions. One would 0:13:21.480 --> 0:13:23.160 be like would you be able to make this weekend? 0:13:23.400 --> 0:13:24.840 If not, what we can? 0:13:25.000 --> 0:13:26.040 Would you know? 0:13:26.720 --> 0:13:31.080 I don't hate it. I don't hate it's trying include everybody. 0:13:31.080 --> 0:13:33.080 You're not going to please everybody. And then there's many 0:13:33.080 --> 0:13:34.840 people coming back with all these different dates. 0:13:34.840 --> 0:13:36.400 It's gonna have so much stress. 0:13:37.360 --> 0:13:38.679 Yeah, I feel like I'm just gonna have to make 0:13:38.679 --> 0:13:42.680 like a spreadsheet or like, yeah. 0:13:41.679 --> 0:13:43.199 I think you know, Tanya is a good point. You 0:13:43.240 --> 0:13:45.000 got to decide do you want everybody to be there 0:13:45.080 --> 0:13:46.640 or not. If you do want everybody to be there, 0:13:46.720 --> 0:13:49.200 then the survey is fine. But you're gonna have to 0:13:49.200 --> 0:13:52.120 determine where you move it to if everybody can't make 0:13:52.160 --> 0:13:53.800 it there. It's kind of a big ask to go 0:13:53.840 --> 0:13:57.280 to Italy for your wedding, you know. Yeah, there's a 0:13:57.280 --> 0:14:00.520 lot to ask for so, uh, but I don't I 0:14:00.679 --> 0:14:02.800 like him trying to include I think that's a nice 0:14:02.800 --> 0:14:05.319 first step actually, But about. 0:14:05.120 --> 0:14:06.920 The stress of weddings, there's just so much stress. 0:14:07.080 --> 0:14:09.520 Don't add more stress, for sure, don't make it more 0:14:09.520 --> 0:14:10.840 difficult than it already is going to be. 0:14:10.840 --> 0:14:12.240 I mean, you're gonna be married for the rest of 0:14:12.280 --> 0:14:14.080 your life. It's stress going to be. 0:14:14.160 --> 0:14:15.160 It's worth the stress. 0:14:16.240 --> 0:14:19.600 Yeah, all right, Marian, good luck, congratulations. 0:14:19.920 --> 0:14:23.040 Thank you guys, all right, bye, good luck, have a 0:14:23.120 --> 0:14:23.600 good morning. 0:14:23.880 --> 0:14:24.240 You two. 0:14:25.160 --> 0:14:26.720 Yeah, I like it. I get it. 0:14:26.720 --> 0:14:29.120 It's a lot to ask if probably gonna have to determine, Like, look, 0:14:30.200 --> 0:14:32.240 a third can't make it, but we still want to go, right. 0:14:32.560 --> 0:14:36.440 I think you just go immediate family, close relatives first 0:14:36.480 --> 0:14:40.840 and then actually, Elope, oh gosh, here he goes. 0:14:41.440 --> 0:14:42.440 Oh my, that predictable. 0:14:42.680 --> 0:14:45.920 Yeah, of the elopement, it was the best first date 0:14:45.960 --> 0:14:47.840 I've ever been on. And at the end she said 0:14:47.840 --> 0:14:49.800 to save the good night kiss for the second day. 0:14:50.400 --> 0:14:52.840 That seems kind of cute but also kind of awkward 0:14:53.200 --> 0:14:56.360 and like teasing. But now she's not responding, so there's 0:14:56.400 --> 0:14:58.880 no second date on the books, So that's why we're 0:14:58.880 --> 0:15:01.280 here for this second date update. Dating is not fun. 0:15:01.360 --> 0:15:04.120 Let's just call it what it is. Dating is not 0:15:04.480 --> 0:15:05.800 the first it's not fun. 0:15:06.320 --> 0:15:08.520 It's not It is when you find the right person, 0:15:08.560 --> 0:15:10.880 and then when you're dating that one person. 0:15:11.000 --> 0:15:14.200 In the first date, if it's the right person, sure, fun. 0:15:14.440 --> 0:15:15.920 Not fun until the fourth date, when you know the 0:15:15.960 --> 0:15:17.280 person you can actually be yourself. 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:20.600 No, no, it's very exciting at the beginning. 0:15:20.640 --> 0:15:22.000 You don't when was the last time you went on 0:15:22.040 --> 0:15:22.440 a date? 0:15:23.160 --> 0:15:25.120 Last week, Michael, when I went to Kigo, but with 0:15:25.160 --> 0:15:27.520 someone you don't know when I don't know? 0:15:27.760 --> 0:15:29.040 Yes, that's the point, Tanya. 0:15:29.080 --> 0:15:30.720 You it's saying, yeah, no, I bet it. 0:15:30.800 --> 0:15:34.080 I do get There are bad dates, right, I mean 0:15:34.080 --> 0:15:35.520 you had to like kiss all the frogs to get 0:15:35.520 --> 0:15:35.960 to the prints. 0:15:36.080 --> 0:15:36.400 Whatever. 0:15:36.480 --> 0:15:37.400 Fine, I get that part. 0:15:37.440 --> 0:15:39.920 But once you're in it, even that first date with 0:15:39.960 --> 0:15:43.080 the right person is so great. In that very beginning, 0:15:43.760 --> 0:15:45.720 first few dates are amazing. Even some dates with the 0:15:45.760 --> 0:15:46.760 wrong person are amazing. 0:15:46.880 --> 0:15:53.360 Let's get to Nathan, Nathan, Hi, Nathan, Okay, want to 0:15:53.360 --> 0:15:55.320 make sure you're still there after all of that. So 0:15:55.560 --> 0:15:56.800 you went on this first date. You said it was 0:15:56.840 --> 0:15:59.080 the best first date you've ever been on. Why what 0:15:59.240 --> 0:16:00.160 was so amazing? 0:16:01.160 --> 0:16:04.640 Yeah? So her name was Jackie. I met her on Riah. 0:16:04.720 --> 0:16:07.200 I was really pumped about it. I mean, looking at 0:16:07.200 --> 0:16:11.040 her profiles, she seemed perfect. I messaged her. We went 0:16:11.080 --> 0:16:15.200 out and Anaheim, in the packing district. There's this awesome 0:16:15.200 --> 0:16:18.080 little cocktail bar. It's called the Blind Rabbit. We went there. 0:16:18.200 --> 0:16:20.960 It was so cool. We had a blast, and at 0:16:21.000 --> 0:16:23.640 the end it was really I don't even know how 0:16:23.680 --> 0:16:26.360 to put this. It was like super hot. 0:16:27.280 --> 0:16:29.080 What do you mean it's hot? What was super hot? 0:16:29.200 --> 0:16:29.720 Like sexy? 0:16:30.120 --> 0:16:32.520 It's just yeah, like the way she looked and the 0:16:32.560 --> 0:16:34.600 way she talked, and the way she was touching me, 0:16:34.720 --> 0:16:37.080 like she was being very physical. Her hands were on 0:16:37.160 --> 0:16:41.200 my arms and my hand. For appetizers, we got these 0:16:41.240 --> 0:16:45.200 stuffed mushrooms and she like fed me one and kind 0:16:45.200 --> 0:16:46.080 of lingered. 0:16:46.280 --> 0:16:49.480 You know, the whole night. 0:16:49.520 --> 0:16:51.920 It was just very exciting. And then you know that 0:16:52.040 --> 0:16:54.000 you know that moment on a date when it's time 0:16:54.080 --> 0:16:56.480