WEBVTT - Episode 87: Ft. Safaree Samuels 0:00:01.320 --> 0:00:03.480 What's at West Up is lip Service. I'm Angela Yee, 0:00:03.520 --> 0:00:07.080 I'm Staphanie Santiago, I'm g G McGuire, I'm Maria and 0:00:07.160 --> 0:00:11.960 we got Safari here with us. All right, what's with 0:00:12.000 --> 0:00:13.960 this move new thing? We've been watching you a lot 0:00:14.080 --> 0:00:16.880 on Instagram and everything, seeing what you have going on. 0:00:17.920 --> 0:00:20.639 You know, I'm just happy to be blessed. I'm just 0:00:20.640 --> 0:00:22.840 happy to be here and thank you for having me. 0:00:23.079 --> 0:00:26.280 We see your girlfriend got a big gass tattoo with you. 0:00:26.280 --> 0:00:28.280 You know that's I just left an interview and they 0:00:28.360 --> 0:00:31.000 just spoke about that too. Yeah, you know, the love 0:00:31.120 --> 0:00:33.120 is real in these streets. You know, it feels good 0:00:33.159 --> 0:00:36.479 to be appreciated. I've had like some fans tattoo my 0:00:36.560 --> 0:00:38.440 name on them, but I've never had like a girlfriend 0:00:38.479 --> 0:00:42.279 doing so. So where's yours now my tattoo? Yeah? Are 0:00:42.280 --> 0:00:45.560 you gonna get one? Is that part of the exchange? Hey? 0:00:45.640 --> 0:00:49.320 You know, Um, there wasn't no conversation of an exchange. 0:00:50.000 --> 0:00:54.080 But you know, the love is real, and um, a 0:00:54.200 --> 0:00:59.800 tattoo doesn't symbolize that, but it is a great token 0:00:59.800 --> 0:01:02.680 of love that I appreciate. But you don't have to 0:01:02.720 --> 0:01:04.480 do it. But hey, you never know what the fu trolls. 0:01:04.840 --> 0:01:07.440 Who has a tattoo the man in here or ex? 0:01:09.600 --> 0:01:14.959 Not me, everybody that's your current man, but who got 0:01:14.959 --> 0:01:18.440 a tattoo or their ex? I have tattoos. I have tattoos, 0:01:18.440 --> 0:01:21.160 a couple of tattoos. I was told just recently that 0:01:21.360 --> 0:01:23.240 even though I covered my ex that the ink was 0:01:23.240 --> 0:01:26.319 still there. So it's there for Yeah, I gotta get 0:01:26.360 --> 0:01:29.040 my chest hit because I had a name and a face, 0:01:29.880 --> 0:01:32.400 and I got to get a hit again because you 0:01:32.400 --> 0:01:37.160 can still see them. You get it covered up, like no, 0:01:37.319 --> 0:01:40.039 I got it covered up, but I need to get 0:01:40.040 --> 0:01:42.679 it darkened again. Maybe one more session and then it'll 0:01:42.720 --> 0:01:45.840 be completely gone. I want to get mine covered up. 0:01:45.880 --> 0:01:48.560 Mine is not even the person's name, but it just 0:01:48.600 --> 0:01:51.320 symbolizes them. And I still want that ship covered up. 0:01:52.400 --> 0:01:56.840 So it didn't go well for anyone in here. We 0:01:56.920 --> 0:02:01.080 got one smart person. I ain't got no but you 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:03.680 don't have no t I don't have not no tempt 0:02:04.480 --> 0:02:08.959 don't count right. No, have you ever been with somebody 0:02:08.960 --> 0:02:10.680 that has somebody else tattooed on them? And you had 0:02:10.720 --> 0:02:14.600 to look at that tattoo? So my ex had his 0:02:14.680 --> 0:02:22.240 ex wife seeing across his back, like really big. Honestly, 0:02:22.280 --> 0:02:24.400 I never even paid attention to it. I never even 0:02:25.080 --> 0:02:32.400 noticed it from the back. Never. It never was an 0:02:32.400 --> 0:02:36.079 issue for me. No, that would bother me. I don't 0:02:36.120 --> 0:02:37.880 give a fund. Like I used to talk to this 0:02:38.000 --> 0:02:42.280 dude who had like his ex girlfriend, how big ass, 0:02:42.360 --> 0:02:45.320 like from his arm baby him risked all the way 0:02:45.400 --> 0:02:48.880 up it Jamine Dupree with Janet Jacks. No, but you 0:02:48.919 --> 0:02:52.919 know he did something. But it was basically I looked down. 0:02:53.000 --> 0:02:56.000 I never knew. I never campus peak, I never noticed it, 0:02:56.200 --> 0:02:58.000 and I looked down. I was like, what the funk 0:02:58.080 --> 0:03:00.560 is that? And he was like, oh, you know, I 0:03:00.639 --> 0:03:02.639 had a lot of love for her. I was like, no, 0:03:02.840 --> 0:03:05.400 that looks crazy. You gotta take that off, Like, I 0:03:05.440 --> 0:03:07.600 can't funk with you. I'm sorry. He's like, but it's 0:03:07.600 --> 0:03:10.240 a memory in my past. I hate when people say that, 0:03:10.320 --> 0:03:13.600 dumb ship. If we broke up, I'm deleting you off 0:03:13.600 --> 0:03:15.639 the Instagram, delete me off. Your eys were fine, I 0:03:15.639 --> 0:03:18.080 don't hear. Oh, it's a part of my history. But 0:03:18.080 --> 0:03:19.560 the worst is if you break up and then get 0:03:19.560 --> 0:03:25.320 back together now, then't delete it all your pictures. Yeah, 0:03:25.639 --> 0:03:26.960 but what if it's like a person like you know 0:03:27.000 --> 0:03:28.919 how sometimes you break up all the time and get 0:03:28.919 --> 0:03:33.880 back together, like delete them and then put them back up. Now, 0:03:34.000 --> 0:03:35.280 you got to give it a couple of months to 0:03:35.280 --> 0:03:38.080 know if you all really broke up, right, you give 0:03:38.120 --> 0:03:40.400 it a couple of weeks. You don't, You don't just 0:03:40.440 --> 0:03:42.000 have the argument like that's it, I don't want to 0:03:42.040 --> 0:03:43.840 be with you anymore, and then go delete everything. You 0:03:43.880 --> 0:03:46.040 gotta give it a couple of weeks, you know, see 0:03:46.120 --> 0:03:49.120 what happens if you get back together, or you know, 0:03:49.160 --> 0:03:52.600 if things just really fall apart. I delete them pictures. 0:03:52.800 --> 0:03:59.920 So the phone, I say, Capricorn, what's your I'm a Sagittaria. 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:06.720 Oh Mike, can we take away her? Mike please? Capricorn? Also, 0:04:06.800 --> 0:04:14.120 where's yours? Cancer? Emotional am I admitted my son is 0:04:17.680 --> 0:04:20.720 designs mean a lot to your anything, to you know, 0:04:20.920 --> 0:04:22.520 I don't even know why I actual because I don't 0:04:22.520 --> 0:04:26.640 even know what an. I just know what that one meant. 0:04:27.680 --> 0:04:29.880 It's the best sign out of all of them, the 0:04:29.880 --> 0:04:35.200 best sign the goat, the go actually the goat with us, 0:04:36.279 --> 0:04:43.960 I know that's true, but whatever, you know what I mean? 0:04:43.760 --> 0:04:48.080 But the shout out shut to the goats, all right. 0:04:48.120 --> 0:04:49.480 So we usually start with the tip of the day. 0:04:49.480 --> 0:04:51.920 I know, we just started talking about tattoos. Tattoos, So 0:04:51.960 --> 0:04:53.760 today's tip of the day is how do you handle 0:04:53.800 --> 0:04:58.280 somebody's family after a breakup? Alright, I know Gez recently 0:04:58.279 --> 0:05:00.839 went through a breakup, as we know a lot of 0:05:00.839 --> 0:05:03.240 people in this room have you know Safari did. But 0:05:03.720 --> 0:05:06.000 what if you're cool with their family, y'all, break up, 0:05:06.200 --> 0:05:09.760 do you still like speak keeping contact, calling birthdays Happy 0:05:09.800 --> 0:05:15.240 Mother's Day? Um, you can try to, but then it 0:05:15.320 --> 0:05:18.719 depends on if you know that X of yours is 0:05:18.720 --> 0:05:23.600 an extremely strong headed, spearheaded person. That's gonna say, nobody 0:05:23.640 --> 0:05:26.000 better be speaking to that nigga anymore. But none of 0:05:26.080 --> 0:05:30.840 y'all that. It's like, yeah, like, um, I really hate 0:05:30.839 --> 0:05:34.400 when my family keeps in touch with my axes. I don't, 0:05:36.120 --> 0:05:40.760 are you? Yeah no, I think it's it's really annoying. 0:05:41.200 --> 0:05:43.960 It's like, what, like, come on, like that's it. I 0:05:44.000 --> 0:05:45.720 broke up on him, You guys broke up on him? 0:05:45.760 --> 0:05:48.560 To like get over it? Well, it depends on how 0:05:48.600 --> 0:05:51.520 long you'll were together to seven and a half years. 0:05:51.560 --> 0:05:56.320 That's a long time. I mean now today it's like whatever, 0:05:56.440 --> 0:05:59.640 but I remember it won't whatever. I'm fresh. I don't 0:05:59.680 --> 0:06:02.640 like that. I don't like that. I'm you know, for myself. 0:06:02.920 --> 0:06:07.159 For myself, I um, I don't deal with anyone's family. 0:06:07.360 --> 0:06:08.760 If I broke up with you, I'm not going to 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:11.240 talk to your family members or your friends. I'm going 0:06:11.279 --> 0:06:13.080 to try and talk to your friends at least what 0:06:13.120 --> 0:06:16.120 if they were really cool though I mean I'm not. 0:06:16.200 --> 0:06:18.400 I mean I'll still be nice and you know, cords 0:06:18.440 --> 0:06:20.239 who I won't be like, oh no, we're not friends, 0:06:20.240 --> 0:06:22.120 I can't speak to you anymore, but like if I 0:06:22.200 --> 0:06:24.760 see them around, but I'm not going to reach out 0:06:24.800 --> 0:06:28.560 to anyone like that. You know, but like my axes, 0:06:29.040 --> 0:06:33.040 I want to go out to lunch with my my cousins. Yeah, 0:06:33.400 --> 0:06:36.320 that's that awkward moment. Repectful, that's cool, but you know 0:06:36.360 --> 0:06:39.000 what I'm saying. But if it's not there anymore, I understand. 0:06:39.080 --> 0:06:40.919 I listen. You don't need to be going out the 0:06:40.960 --> 0:06:43.240 way I don't. Nobody needs to be inviting anybody to 0:06:43.279 --> 0:06:46.479 the to the crib dinner's birthday parties or none of that. 0:06:46.600 --> 0:06:49.240 But what about phone cause like happy birthdays? Gonna let 0:06:49.240 --> 0:06:50.760 you know I still got love for you even though 0:06:50.800 --> 0:06:53.000 things didn't work out with your daughter, there's nothing wrong. 0:06:54.400 --> 0:06:56.520 What I'm just saying in general, like, there's nothing wrong 0:06:56.560 --> 0:06:58.440 with that you look at me like that. I don't 0:06:58.440 --> 0:07:01.679 know it just it just sounded personal. That sounded personal 0:07:01.680 --> 0:07:03.320 when you said that. I'm just saying, if you were 0:07:03.320 --> 0:07:05.320 going to call a mom on it, say happy Mother's Day, 0:07:05.600 --> 0:07:11.440 you've had like ten girlfriends since thence for yourself. Listen, listen, 0:07:11.480 --> 0:07:13.200 I'll be next to people, and then people will just 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:16.600 take it and run with it. No, I don't know that, 0:07:17.240 --> 0:07:21.080 I like, like real girlfriends, like since the obvious, I 0:07:21.200 --> 0:07:26.840 probably had I think three that you guys have been 0:07:26.880 --> 0:07:31.080 broken up and public to be three years. Three years. 0:07:31.120 --> 0:07:33.560 You don't think that's a lot. First of all, the 0:07:34.040 --> 0:07:36.560 first of all one was hold on one was like 0:07:37.120 --> 0:07:40.840 really two to three weeks, but the way weeks. But 0:07:40.920 --> 0:07:42.960 look the way she the way it was portrayed on 0:07:43.000 --> 0:07:45.120 Instagram and stuff. People took it way more than what 0:07:45.480 --> 0:07:47.760 it really was. So that one was kind of like, alright, 0:07:47.800 --> 0:07:49.480 that don't really count. But you just called her a 0:07:49.480 --> 0:07:52.600 girlfriend because y'all called her a girl. You know what 0:07:53.080 --> 0:07:55.440 you said, you only had three that you would have 0:07:55.480 --> 0:07:59.960 considered girlfriends. No, actually no, I just want you take 0:08:00.040 --> 0:08:04.840 it back. I'm sorry, So what made you decide now 0:08:04.880 --> 0:08:08.080 that this is the one, Because clearly, listen, I don't 0:08:08.080 --> 0:08:09.560 blame you. You're having a good time. You're in a 0:08:09.600 --> 0:08:12.200 long relationship. I think anybody, male or female, when they 0:08:12.200 --> 0:08:14.720 break up after a long time, you're gonna go and 0:08:14.960 --> 0:08:17.280 have a good time. It's kind of like, okay, no, 0:08:17.480 --> 0:08:20.600 but I don't even really be having a good time. 0:08:20.680 --> 0:08:22.720 Like even when I first got out the long relationship, 0:08:23.560 --> 0:08:26.280 when I was like out in single and dating around, 0:08:26.280 --> 0:08:28.560 I was like, I do not like this ship. This 0:08:28.600 --> 0:08:31.400 ship is way too much work. And trying to be 0:08:31.400 --> 0:08:33.199 going to dinner with a whole bunch of different people, 0:08:33.200 --> 0:08:36.200 texting a bunch of different people, and especially with me 0:08:36.200 --> 0:08:38.640 trying to handle business, I'd rather be able to put 0:08:38.679 --> 0:08:42.959 my focus into one person. Different pussies. It sucks. It's 0:08:43.000 --> 0:08:46.280 not cool. That is really not cool. It's like when 0:08:46.280 --> 0:08:47.960 you deal with somebody, it's like, all right, listen, we're 0:08:47.960 --> 0:08:49.840 gonna deal. We're gonna both go to the doctor. Make 0:08:49.840 --> 0:08:52.760 sure we You can't do that dealing with ten girls, right, 0:08:52.840 --> 0:08:54.280 you know what I'm saying that, Just like he was 0:08:54.400 --> 0:09:00.880 just here, how many Hennessey straight? I don't even drink? Man, 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:05.360 gonna drink. You kind of want to drink, y'all is 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:09.360 gonna force me to, but all right, little lemonade A 0:09:09.360 --> 0:09:14.959 little I'll take some lemonade in some hennessy. So you 0:09:15.040 --> 0:09:18.320 really so you really rather be monogamous because some guys 0:09:18.559 --> 0:09:21.080 feel like variety is the spice of life is hard 0:09:21.120 --> 0:09:23.280 for them. Some guys can't date a women unless they're 0:09:23.280 --> 0:09:26.680 having manages and all of that, you know, and some people, 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:29.880 I just I kind of grew up different, So you know, 0:09:29.920 --> 0:09:33.120 everybody's different. I know, I just like to be with 0:09:33.440 --> 0:09:37.280 I like to handle one situation at a time. No, 0:09:39.280 --> 0:09:41.960 you do you think that guys have more or less 0:09:42.040 --> 0:09:44.680 sex with their main chick when they're cheating. I'm sure 0:09:44.760 --> 0:09:47.840 in your life you've cheated. And we had this whole conversation. 0:09:48.280 --> 0:09:52.560 You love telling me I cheated, but you did. Listen, 0:09:52.679 --> 0:09:57.440 you cheated. We all know cheating is a two way street, 0:09:57.960 --> 0:10:01.760 and cheating doesn't a cheating doesn't count when you know 0:10:01.840 --> 0:10:07.520 someone else is cheating. Cheating yet listen, Okay, it counts, 0:10:07.559 --> 0:10:12.520 it's counted. Yeah right, So okay, then let's hit me quick. 0:10:13.240 --> 0:10:17.640 Good good job, didn't even put any leimonading him. Yeah 0:10:17.679 --> 0:10:21.280 I did, actually sorry he wants some more? No, no, 0:10:21.360 --> 0:10:26.520 thank you, but okay no. Seriously, though, we were talking 0:10:26.559 --> 0:10:28.280 about this because I think that guys have sex with 0:10:28.280 --> 0:10:30.880 their main chick more when they're cheating. But she says less. 0:10:31.720 --> 0:10:34.160 I think it's last. Of course, it's going to be less. See, 0:10:34.679 --> 0:10:38.160 we guys feel guilty and then they kind of feel 0:10:38.160 --> 0:10:39.640 bad and then they come home and have sex because 0:10:39.640 --> 0:10:41.439 they feel bad. And I also feel like the more 0:10:41.480 --> 0:10:45.760 you have, the more you want to have sex. But 0:10:46.320 --> 0:10:48.040 can a girl tell, like, let's say, if a girl 0:10:48.080 --> 0:10:50.560 want to have sex with a guy and then I 0:10:50.600 --> 0:10:53.640 mean I said that right, right, I said, her boyfriend 0:10:53.640 --> 0:10:55.760 winning already had sex with someone. Then you come home 0:10:55.800 --> 0:10:57.640 then this time and have sex again. Then when he 0:10:57.760 --> 0:11:03.640 nuts and you're like, yo, where's the rest of it? Right? Yeah, 0:11:03.800 --> 0:11:12.760 that's true, that's true. It needs to be a lot. 0:11:12.760 --> 0:11:16.920 If it's not a lot that you think, you think 0:11:16.920 --> 0:11:19.200 men cheat less and more. I mean men have sex 0:11:19.240 --> 0:11:23.240 more or less when they're cheating with you, if your man, 0:11:23.559 --> 0:11:25.280 or when you're when my man was cheating on me, 0:11:26.000 --> 0:11:30.000 we had less sex and you could tell, I mean 0:11:30.000 --> 0:11:31.959 not just you know, like you were like, he's definitely 0:11:32.040 --> 0:11:34.319 cheating because he's not even that wasn't the reason why 0:11:34.320 --> 0:11:36.120 I knew he was cheating. But I knew he was cheating, 0:11:36.280 --> 0:11:39.920 and we were definitely having less sex. Damn, what about you, 0:11:40.000 --> 0:11:44.560 step I don't know. I'm not sure. I don't know 0:11:44.679 --> 0:11:47.959 because when I'm in a relationship, I mean, I'm pretty 0:11:48.000 --> 0:11:51.599 sure of my son. You know, my my longest relationship 0:11:51.760 --> 0:11:55.679 seven years. Things happened, but we were, you know, pretty active. 0:11:55.880 --> 0:12:00.360 You know, we were having a lot of sexting, We 0:12:00.440 --> 0:12:02.920 had sex all the time. How does he do that? 0:12:03.280 --> 0:12:05.040 So I can't say that there was a time that 0:12:05.120 --> 0:12:07.560 it was more or lost, Like we were pretty active. 0:12:07.600 --> 0:12:11.080 And then and the couple of years that i've been 0:12:11.480 --> 0:12:13.160 you know, I've been in love a couple of times, 0:12:13.160 --> 0:12:16.240 and yeah, we were pretty active. I was pretty active 0:12:16.280 --> 0:12:18.800 in those relationships too. So I don't I wouldn't be able. 0:12:18.960 --> 0:12:22.200 I wouldn't be able to tell, you know what I mean. Women, 0:12:22.280 --> 0:12:24.280 that's a question to ask for guys, that's a that's 0:12:24.280 --> 0:12:26.800 a guy's question. You when you cheated, you said you 0:12:26.840 --> 0:12:29.800 had less sex. Now, first of all, if I did cheat, 0:12:29.880 --> 0:12:33.600 it's because my main wasn't giving me sex at all. 0:12:34.280 --> 0:12:36.960 So it's like, what do you mean to get up. 0:12:37.000 --> 0:12:43.640 How long, very long, very long periods of time? Are 0:12:43.640 --> 0:12:46.120 you serious? But must want me to go and cheat? 0:12:46.440 --> 0:12:49.920 As it because you were cheating, of course, not because 0:12:49.920 --> 0:12:52.600 he was cheating, No, no, but listen, as a woman, 0:12:52.720 --> 0:12:55.760 as a woman who has been in a relationship where 0:12:56.400 --> 0:13:00.640 I have been cheating, I would say that I have 0:13:00.840 --> 0:13:05.680 sex with my my boyfriend at home less you know 0:13:05.720 --> 0:13:10.240 what I mean? Less? All right, because I'm so interested 0:13:10.280 --> 0:13:12.480 in hearing like I've never heard a woman like actually 0:13:12.480 --> 0:13:17.160 admit she cheated? Why were you cheating? What I mean? Listen, 0:13:17.240 --> 0:13:20.400 I I think I was really young in my relationship 0:13:20.640 --> 0:13:25.679 and you know, um, there were new doors open up 0:13:25.720 --> 0:13:28.320 for me, and you know, things we were growing and 0:13:28.640 --> 0:13:31.959 you know, we were together when we were really terribly big. 0:13:32.760 --> 0:13:38.960 It's something because we're kid, Yeah, it's something's lacking. I 0:13:39.040 --> 0:13:41.000 was probably bored, you know what I mean. I was 0:13:41.040 --> 0:13:44.000 probably bored. I wanted some excitement. That's one thing I 0:13:44.040 --> 0:13:46.760 can say in my um. You know, in those years, 0:13:46.840 --> 0:13:49.480 what I really loved was the rush of the chase, 0:13:49.600 --> 0:13:52.760 you know what I mean, The the newness of a relationship, 0:13:52.840 --> 0:13:55.960 you know, meeting somebody new, going out and enjoying somebody, 0:13:55.960 --> 0:13:58.600 getting to know someone else, did the guy treat you 0:13:58.640 --> 0:14:02.160 better than your main guy was? I mean, yeah, that's 0:14:02.200 --> 0:14:05.440 what it's for, right, that's what it's for. Right man? 0:14:05.520 --> 0:14:10.640 You girls are so shady currently. No, I think you 0:14:10.679 --> 0:14:14.400 know today we're talking about this is this is years ago. 0:14:14.480 --> 0:14:17.800 I mean today, I think today, I'm I can be faithful. 0:14:17.800 --> 0:14:22.200 I've only been sleeping with one guy lately? How long? 0:14:22.520 --> 0:14:25.680 For how long? And like four months? Four months? I 0:14:25.720 --> 0:14:29.240 don't think that's long. I mean it is a start. 0:14:29.280 --> 0:14:32.360 We're proud of you. Now, that's that's that's a stretch. 0:14:32.640 --> 0:14:34.680 We're proud of you because no one who's not in 0:14:34.720 --> 0:14:40.320 a serious relationship, well, I mean I I whatever. So 0:14:40.320 --> 0:14:41.880 so why do they So you cheated because you were 0:14:41.880 --> 0:14:44.480 getting cheated on is what you're saying. That was your reason? 0:14:44.760 --> 0:14:47.880 Is your ego? Not ego? That had nothing to with ego. 0:14:48.200 --> 0:14:50.000 I want sex and you're not giving it to me. 0:14:50.040 --> 0:14:52.360 So okay, now I have to go in. Why not 0:14:52.440 --> 0:14:56.360 break up then? Because you know you could just be 0:14:57.520 --> 0:15:01.480 use to somebody. It's hard to break up, you know 0:15:01.520 --> 0:15:03.440 what I'm saying. What's the longest relationship you ever been in? 0:15:03.920 --> 0:15:06.480 Four years? So you and Charlotte Man were to go 0:15:06.680 --> 0:15:14.360 for four years disgusting. I threw up just now. I 0:15:14.400 --> 0:15:17.320 just wanted to hear what you'd say. I love when 0:15:17.360 --> 0:15:18.760 you get on him, So that's why I said that, 0:15:18.840 --> 0:15:22.120 like the ship you say to him be so funny. 0:15:22.280 --> 0:15:25.840 He loves it too, I think. But yeah, so you're 0:15:25.880 --> 0:15:27.440 saying that if you're not having sex, it's just hard 0:15:27.440 --> 0:15:28.600 to it was hard for you to break up just 0:15:28.640 --> 0:15:31.840 because you're just used to being in a relationship. It's 0:15:31.880 --> 0:15:33.720 just if you're in a relationship with somebody for X 0:15:33.720 --> 0:15:37.520 amount of time, it's like and not getting sexist, Like, 0:15:37.520 --> 0:15:39.480 all right, this must probably be like a little dry, 0:15:39.600 --> 0:15:42.240 still abusive, don't it. What do you mean he was 0:15:42.280 --> 0:15:46.800 being deprived? Yeah, he was an abusive relationship. Masturbate a lot. 0:15:47.880 --> 0:15:57.720 I'm not gonna lie. Um, yes, masturbation saves lives. Yeah, 0:15:57.760 --> 0:16:06.160 but masturbation then but then also at the same time too, 0:16:06.160 --> 0:16:10.240 it's like with me, I just feel like sometimes it's 0:16:10.280 --> 0:16:12.400 like I can't just go and deal with any girl, 0:16:12.600 --> 0:16:14.400 especially if it's someone I don't know. It's like, I 0:16:14.520 --> 0:16:16.320 don't know, you don't trust you what you do when 0:16:16.320 --> 0:16:18.520 you're trying to record me or you want to screenshot check, 0:16:18.560 --> 0:16:19.640 you want to say what you want to send it 0:16:19.640 --> 0:16:21.120 to a blog. You want to let everybody know this. 0:16:21.280 --> 0:16:23.480 You know what I'm saying. So it's like, I gotta 0:16:23.560 --> 0:16:28.320 just be careful in porn hub sometimes, uh, porn hub 0:16:28.840 --> 0:16:32.440 good old when you were cheating, but not when you, like, 0:16:32.760 --> 0:16:35.720 are in new relationships, because you kind of like on 0:16:35.760 --> 0:16:38.040 social media and stuff like that. I feel like you 0:16:38.160 --> 0:16:41.160 put your relationships out there. You want to know what 0:16:41.200 --> 0:16:45.000 it is. I really don't, but other people do, like 0:16:45.120 --> 0:16:46.840 if we take a picture and stuff. That's why I 0:16:46.920 --> 0:16:48.600 try not to put it on my page because it's 0:16:48.600 --> 0:16:51.200 like I wanted to be a real relationship, but I 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:54.560 wanted to last. But then it's like when other people 0:16:54.600 --> 0:16:58.480 get ahold of it, they started pulling up people's mug 0:16:58.560 --> 0:17:03.040 shots and police record. Jesus, can't you get a good girl? 0:17:04.240 --> 0:17:06.919 Did you ever? Did you find out ever, like a 0:17:06.960 --> 0:17:09.520 girl that you were dating all of those things from 0:17:09.600 --> 0:17:14.320 social media? Like oh damn, hell yeah, hell yeah. I 0:17:14.359 --> 0:17:16.479 remember one time, and I don't even I don't even 0:17:16.480 --> 0:17:18.199 want to get too deep because the niggas might go 0:17:18.240 --> 0:17:19.800 and do some research or find out who it was. 0:17:20.080 --> 0:17:22.119 You know, some ship popped up and I'm looking at 0:17:22.160 --> 0:17:26.800 my phone. No, no, I'm looking at the phone and 0:17:26.840 --> 0:17:31.399 I'm like, yo, like what is this? What was it? 0:17:31.520 --> 0:17:34.400 And she was sitting on the floor crying and saying 0:17:34.440 --> 0:17:35.960 it wasn't true and all of this ship and I'm 0:17:36.040 --> 0:17:39.400 just like I want to like this ship is true, 0:17:39.440 --> 0:17:41.840 because what is it that you found out? I just 0:17:41.880 --> 0:17:44.760 saw some like I just seen some like messages and 0:17:44.760 --> 0:17:46.960 ship that was sent to somebody. Oh this was on 0:17:47.080 --> 0:17:49.960 the Bloods but I remember, and it was like, damn, 0:17:50.000 --> 0:17:55.520 I don't I'm just saying the messages I've seen. It 0:17:55.720 --> 0:18:00.080 was like the same ship was sent to me. I'm like, 0:18:00.040 --> 0:18:02.560 I got caught up like that before we'll send the 0:18:02.640 --> 0:18:05.800 same messages, the same pussy ship. I can't do stuff 0:18:05.800 --> 0:18:10.760 like that because Nigga's talk more than bitches. Like even 0:18:10.760 --> 0:18:12.960 if I was scrolling through his phone, I guess he 0:18:12.960 --> 0:18:17.720 put my ship in the photo gallery with other pussy picks. 0:18:15.560 --> 0:18:24.439 And then my nigga was like, Yo, that's that's damn 0:18:24.440 --> 0:18:26.920 my pussies that distinctive. Can you tell pussy's apart, like 0:18:26.960 --> 0:18:29.840 if you saw a picture like say, but he had 0:18:29.880 --> 0:18:33.320 the same exact pick, so he knew the actual It 0:18:33.400 --> 0:18:35.080 wasn't just that he knew pussy. He knew the picture. 0:18:35.119 --> 0:18:37.200 He had to say, Yo, that was one good picture 0:18:37.200 --> 0:18:39.040 that I had sent to all my ny that's a 0:18:39.040 --> 0:18:43.600 good picture, girl. I never do that one after that. 0:18:45.200 --> 0:18:47.080 Even if I sent a guy a picture from the 0:18:47.119 --> 0:18:49.760 same batch, I always make sure they're different. So if 0:18:49.880 --> 0:18:54.200 it ever gets around, I make money. That came from 0:18:54.240 --> 0:18:56.960 not lately. Not lately. I haven't been sending not for 0:18:57.000 --> 0:18:59.399 a couple of years. I don't do like just like, 0:18:59.440 --> 0:19:03.800 if I do it, I'm in the picture and everything. Yeah, 0:19:03.880 --> 0:19:07.399 but you send fully nude pictures up, that's if I 0:19:07.480 --> 0:19:09.960 do it. And I don't just do that with every anybody. 0:19:10.119 --> 0:19:13.760 But hold on, speaking of fully you have nude picks 0:19:13.760 --> 0:19:16.560 in there? What's going on? What's this I'm giving on something? 0:19:16.560 --> 0:19:19.399 Because since we're talking about masturbation and stuff like that, 0:19:20.000 --> 0:19:23.919 masturbation cream far coconut or oh my god, we're just 0:19:24.000 --> 0:19:29.159 talking about that. We're just coconut oil be used as 0:19:29.359 --> 0:19:32.440 tis that. Can you use it as a lubricta for everything? 0:19:33.160 --> 0:19:37.160 Shout out John, thank you, oh my god, thank you, Omar, 0:19:37.320 --> 0:19:39.159 I love coming. You can use it for your edges. 0:19:39.320 --> 0:19:42.879 Coconut oil for everything. Yeah, and a lot of it 0:19:43.040 --> 0:19:45.840 as nice as shiny when in the bag. Yeah, that's 0:19:45.880 --> 0:19:47.880 the thing about coconut oil. You can use it for everything. 0:19:47.920 --> 0:19:51.000 But I just thank you so much. See, you guys 0:19:51.040 --> 0:19:53.439 are masturbating when you master let me tell you all 0:19:53.440 --> 0:19:57.679 the weirdest thing you could. But like, I don't. I 0:19:57.720 --> 0:20:02.399 don't like um no, no, no, I don't like um. 0:20:02.880 --> 0:20:04.520 Like if I'm staying in the hotel room more than 0:20:04.600 --> 0:20:06.119 like two days, and I know I got a lot 0:20:06.119 --> 0:20:07.680 of stuff in there, I don't like the house keeping 0:20:07.680 --> 0:20:08.800 to be in and out of my room when I'm 0:20:08.840 --> 0:20:10.640 not there, So I'll just ask for a whole bunch 0:20:10.680 --> 0:20:12.560 of house and I just won't have them clean the room. 0:20:12.680 --> 0:20:14.520 But I was doing my makeup in the in the 0:20:14.640 --> 0:20:16.800 mirror in the bathroom sink, and the sink started looking 0:20:16.800 --> 0:20:18.760 dirty from my makeup. So I rubbed it down with 0:20:18.800 --> 0:20:20.760 cocon the oil and then wiped it down and rent 0:20:20.840 --> 0:20:24.080 it out and it was clean. That the story was gone. 0:20:24.359 --> 0:20:31.080 I was, I mean not for lou before because they 0:20:31.200 --> 0:20:32.600 wanted to look at out my asshole. But you know 0:20:32.640 --> 0:20:35.560 it's a different story. Okay, See that's the story that 0:20:35.720 --> 0:20:42.200 was looking for That was that wasn't it was recently. 0:20:43.320 --> 0:20:46.440 I just got Okay, back in the day when not 0:20:46.520 --> 0:20:48.840 Safari has been to lip service. It wasn't for him though, 0:20:49.920 --> 0:20:52.359 he was He was there though, and that, by the way, 0:20:52.400 --> 0:20:54.439 there was a fun time that was like what was that? 0:20:54.680 --> 0:20:56.520 Was that ten years ago? It wasn't. It wasn't as 0:20:56.520 --> 0:20:59.439 as serious. And Nicky did lip service a couple of times. 0:20:59.440 --> 0:21:01.879 And you always did you learn things from that. You 0:21:01.920 --> 0:21:05.159 knew everything, learn things as far as what about her, 0:21:05.160 --> 0:21:08.160 because usually people learn things about like damn, I didn't 0:21:08.160 --> 0:21:12.000 know because everything was like about me. So because he 0:21:12.080 --> 0:21:15.280 was sitting there, like, you can't sorry about someone else. 0:21:16.840 --> 0:21:24.240 Just when are you talking about what he was having? Six? 0:21:29.200 --> 0:21:30.600 You'd be wearing first, I think it's about to have have 0:21:30.640 --> 0:21:32.720 a firm. It wasn't that cold today. That's why I 0:21:32.720 --> 0:21:41.480 didn't wear thirty degrees outside for the listeners. For the listeners, 0:21:41.560 --> 0:21:45.879 it's thirty degrees outside, y'all know. I do be wearing 0:21:45.920 --> 0:21:48.560 my coat. I have a lot of fur coats. She 0:21:48.680 --> 0:21:52.760 was every day exactly. No, it was cold in the room. 0:21:52.800 --> 0:21:54.600 That's why I had it on. I wanted to take 0:21:54.640 --> 0:21:58.080 it off. Yeah, and I'm taking it off. Back to 0:21:58.119 --> 0:22:00.480 these lip servious questions, Now, what you do if you 0:22:00.560 --> 0:22:02.440 got an STD but you had sex with more than 0:22:02.480 --> 0:22:06.840 one person, so you're not sure who is from who 0:22:06.840 --> 0:22:08.679 gave it to you? Would you tell both women or 0:22:08.680 --> 0:22:13.240 would you just keep it moving? No? I would tell him, really, 0:22:14.280 --> 0:22:16.679 I would tell him, how did you say that? How 0:22:16.680 --> 0:22:19.400 do you do that? Yo? What the hell? Bro? Like? 0:22:19.600 --> 0:22:27.840