WEBVTT - The Talk with Chrishell Hartley 0:00:00.280 --> 0:00:00.720 Everybody. 0:00:00.800 --> 0:00:05.400 Yes, sure, wind down with Jane Kramer and Michael Cosson 0:00:05.600 --> 0:00:09.800 and wow, you. 0:00:09.800 --> 0:00:15.400 Know that it was a name change. It's like a 0:00:15.440 --> 0:00:26.680 fish and Michael cuss It's like official. Oh dad didn't 0:00:26.680 --> 0:00:27.080 get neither. 0:00:27.200 --> 0:00:31.120 I didn't get that j in her abbreviation. 0:00:30.760 --> 0:00:32.800 Made I hung out with Julie too late last night, 0:00:32.880 --> 0:00:36.080 so yeah, that's true. I was breaking up all my words. 0:00:36.880 --> 0:00:38.160 It's that out. 0:00:38.640 --> 0:00:39.320 I came. 0:00:41.120 --> 0:00:43.599 Real fast. We just got to thank everyone that came 0:00:43.600 --> 0:00:46.080 out to the podcast tour because it was insane, mark 0:00:46.960 --> 0:00:48.200 like crazy. 0:00:47.920 --> 0:00:49.800 I believe it. It was nuts. 0:00:50.000 --> 0:00:54.760 I mean, the crowd was amazing. Everyone asks awesome questions, interaction. 0:00:55.000 --> 0:00:59.160 I felt like we were comedians but also therapists. And 0:00:59.200 --> 0:01:01.480 then I sang songs. It was the cool It was 0:01:01.480 --> 0:01:04.160 the coolest the three day thing we've ever done. We 0:01:04.480 --> 0:01:07.119 shout out to everyone that went because it was insane 0:01:07.319 --> 0:01:09.760 and just I loved every second of it. 0:01:09.840 --> 0:01:12.240 Virginia and New York, Boston, everyone showed up and it 0:01:12.280 --> 0:01:14.360 really just it felt like a party every night, like 0:01:14.400 --> 0:01:16.200 it was crazy. Like after the whole run, Jane and 0:01:16.280 --> 0:01:17.560 I are just in the back of the bus, like 0:01:17.720 --> 0:01:18.560 what just happened? 0:01:18.880 --> 0:01:21.399 We just couldn't believe people showed up. It was cool. 0:01:21.800 --> 0:01:23.000 It was really cool, right because you. 0:01:23.000 --> 0:01:25.240 Do this show in a room it's three other people, 0:01:25.280 --> 0:01:27.360 like it was if anybody's listening to it, and then. 0:01:27.280 --> 0:01:29.080 You go and all these people are there cheering for you. 0:01:29.120 --> 0:01:29.680 That's so great. 0:01:29.800 --> 0:01:32.960 It was crazy, and people like laughed. It was I 0:01:33.000 --> 0:01:35.480 don't know, it was just really cool. People laughed, they 0:01:35.480 --> 0:01:37.000 did they laughed. And I don't want to say some 0:01:37.040 --> 0:01:39.160 of the bits. But like our opening song, we can't 0:01:39.200 --> 0:01:40.919 talk about it just in case if we do another 0:01:41.800 --> 0:01:44.520 few dates, because the opening song that Michael walks out 0:01:44.560 --> 0:01:46.080 to is hilarious. 0:01:46.280 --> 0:01:46.920 It's perfect. 0:01:46.959 --> 0:01:49.880 It's the funniest thing ever. But again, sorry, Mark, we 0:01:49.920 --> 0:01:51.880 can't share it because. 0:01:51.000 --> 0:01:53.600 Those are only for the live viewers. 0:01:54.880 --> 0:01:57.880 But they know what we're talking about. 0:01:56.920 --> 0:01:57.040 Uh. 0:01:58.120 --> 0:02:00.920 I'm really excited because we're about to move. 0:02:01.920 --> 0:02:04.920 Yeah we are. You're sad. 0:02:05.520 --> 0:02:07.520 I am getting sad really Yeah? 0:02:08.280 --> 0:02:13.520 Why? Well, because because it's sixty five seventy here and 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:17.160 it's going to be ninety five and miserable and natural. Yeah. Same. 0:02:18.240 --> 0:02:20.959 Michael's driving his truck cross country in a few days, 0:02:21.200 --> 0:02:22.160 so that's going to be interesting. 0:02:22.240 --> 0:02:24.600 Yeah, that'll be fun. Me two dogs and my brother. 0:02:24.680 --> 0:02:27.359 Well, I've got the kids four days, so which one. 0:02:28.000 --> 0:02:30.000 Yeah, Gianna keeps throwing that at Me's like I'm gonna 0:02:30.000 --> 0:02:31.240 be stuck with the kids. I'm like, if you want 0:02:31.240 --> 0:02:33.280 to switch, by all means, go drive two thousand miles 0:02:33.320 --> 0:02:33.919 across country. 0:02:33.960 --> 0:02:35.480 Now. I would love to be the passenger because I 0:02:35.520 --> 0:02:38.120 would want to stop along the way and see things 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:39.880 like I would want to do the Grand Canyons again 0:02:40.520 --> 0:02:42.560 and do that route, and then maybe I don't know, 0:02:42.600 --> 0:02:44.800 to stop at like all the cool little touristy things 0:02:44.840 --> 0:02:48.680 like the big hay ball or a haything, the. 0:02:48.360 --> 0:02:50.519 World's biggest ball of yarn or something like that. 0:02:50.720 --> 0:02:53.480 I just find that stuff super interesting, and like, I 0:02:53.480 --> 0:02:55.600 don't know, there'd be such quality time. And I know 0:02:55.639 --> 0:02:57.560 that you also love quality time. 0:02:58.040 --> 0:03:02.880 I love quality time. But yeah, I drew the short straw. 0:03:03.400 --> 0:03:05.560 I don't. You're riding with your brother, though, which I 0:03:05.560 --> 0:03:08.680 think is really cute. Michael has a brother that's fourteen 0:03:08.720 --> 0:03:10.480 years younger than him, so. 0:03:10.720 --> 0:03:13.120 He's about to graduate high school. So before he goes 0:03:13.160 --> 0:03:14.440 off to college, him and I are going to have 0:03:14.480 --> 0:03:15.919 this road trip together, which is gonna be a really 0:03:15.919 --> 0:03:16.520 cool memory. 0:03:16.880 --> 0:03:19.480 Are you guys gonna, you know, talk about well, I'm 0:03:19.520 --> 0:03:21.639 sure he's already had the He've already had the sex 0:03:21.680 --> 0:03:22.160 talk with him. 0:03:23.080 --> 0:03:23.920 He's eighteen. 0:03:24.040 --> 0:03:24.239 Yeah. 0:03:25.000 --> 0:03:26.760 Oh and his parents did find condoms right? 0:03:27.440 --> 0:03:27.760 Yes? 0:03:29.520 --> 0:03:33.360 Oh god, sorry Jack good. He doesn't listen. 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:34.480 No, he doesn't. 0:03:34.600 --> 0:03:36.400 Well on your drive, y'all give you this. 0:03:38.720 --> 0:03:40.880 It's funny. It's probably not even his friends. His teachers 0:03:40.920 --> 0:03:41.680 probably listen. 0:03:42.040 --> 0:03:45.680 Oh gosh, I just okay, let me talk about this 0:03:45.680 --> 0:03:47.320 really fast. We were at I was at a friend's 0:03:47.320 --> 0:03:52.760 house and the kids were playing and I don't know 0:03:52.760 --> 0:03:54.440 what to do. Mark, this is interesting. I kind of 0:03:54.440 --> 0:03:56.120 want you to pipe him because you have kids older. 0:03:57.200 --> 0:04:00.360 So it was arranged so Jolie's. Three of the girls 0:04:00.440 --> 0:04:03.560 was four, one of the boys was five, and I 0:04:03.600 --> 0:04:05.040 took a call in the other room because I was 0:04:05.080 --> 0:04:07.400 kind of the mom that was staying down stairs with 0:04:07.440 --> 0:04:09.560 the kids, and all of a sudden, the kids like, 0:04:09.920 --> 0:04:11.320 do you want to live? Or do you want me 0:04:11.360 --> 0:04:13.560 to kill you? Do you want to die? And I'm like, 0:04:13.680 --> 0:04:15.800 he didn't just say that, And so I walk back 0:04:15.840 --> 0:04:17.640 in the room and he's just like, you can go 0:04:17.680 --> 0:04:19.520 to heaven or I can kill you. Do you guys 0:04:19.560 --> 0:04:22.080 want to die? And I just thought that was super inappropriate. 0:04:22.200 --> 0:04:24.400 Wow, right, yeah, I'd be horrified by it. 0:04:24.400 --> 0:04:25.839 Okay, I go whoha, whoa, whoa. 0:04:26.040 --> 0:04:26.760 I go, you can't. 0:04:26.880 --> 0:04:29.520 I was like, that is very inappropriate language and he's like, no, 0:04:29.640 --> 0:04:33.680 it's not, and I said, yes, it is our daughter. 0:04:33.760 --> 0:04:35.560 My daughter's three. I don't want her hearing that, so 0:04:35.600 --> 0:04:38.560 please stop talking about the D word, thank you. But 0:04:38.600 --> 0:04:42.039 then I start thinking about it, like should they know death? 0:04:42.080 --> 0:04:44.880 And like that's the thing. I what age is he talking? 0:04:44.880 --> 0:04:47.600 He doesn't really know what that means? He's five? He 0:04:47.720 --> 0:04:49.240 was five, so he said. 0:04:49.440 --> 0:04:51.280 I believe he's five. Yeah. 0:04:51.440 --> 0:04:54.279 Right, so that's that age where it's you're impressionable, right, 0:04:54.320 --> 0:04:55.320 so you probably hear something. 0:04:55.520 --> 0:04:57.080 Well, And the girls were like laughing. I'm like, that's 0:04:57.080 --> 0:04:59.480 not funny. We're not laughing about death, guys, because. 0:04:59.240 --> 0:05:01.360 They don't know what. I don't really understand. 0:05:01.440 --> 0:05:02.760 Yeah, but the way he was saying, he's like, I'm 0:05:02.760 --> 0:05:03.520 going to kill you. 0:05:03.680 --> 0:05:03.840 Oh. 0:05:03.880 --> 0:05:05.839 I mean, regardless if I'm understanding it or not, he 0:05:05.880 --> 0:05:07.680 needs to know not to say that period ever. 0:05:08.040 --> 0:05:09.320 So where is he hearing that? 0:05:09.320 --> 0:05:13.200 That's exactly like You're like, but kids, that's what I'm 0:05:13.200 --> 0:05:16.200 just scared of. I those kids know things sooner now. 0:05:17.480 --> 0:05:18.719 But to say I'm going to. 0:05:18.760 --> 0:05:20.520 Kill you, that's up to that's the thing that's up 0:05:20.560 --> 0:05:24.520 to the parents. That's that's parenting. That's what that is. 0:05:24.560 --> 0:05:28.359 It's not not parenting. Like if your kid ends up 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:30.200 saying that you did a bad job, but if you 0:05:30.240 --> 0:05:34.839 don't talk about it and fix that, then that's bad parenting. 0:05:35.600 --> 0:05:36.520 I like it. 0:05:36.520 --> 0:05:37.720 It just made me really uncomfortable. 0:05:39.320 --> 0:05:40.719 I bet a lot of those things have come up 0:05:40.760 --> 0:05:42.440 over the years where something will come up with like, oh, 0:05:42.520 --> 0:05:43.839 we don't talk about that, But then in the back 0:05:43.839 --> 0:05:45.440 of my mind, I'm like, should. 0:05:45.240 --> 0:05:45.960 We be talking about that? 0:05:45.960 --> 0:05:47.360 Should they know about yeah? 0:05:47.400 --> 0:05:49.520 Because I mean, that's one of the saddest things about 0:05:49.520 --> 0:05:52.280 being a parent, in my opinion, is when they realize 0:05:52.320 --> 0:05:55.880 that the world isn't rainbows and unicorns. Right when they're three, 0:05:56.200 --> 0:05:59.200 everything's wonderful in the world. The world is parks and 0:05:59.240 --> 0:06:03.400 play dates and chicken nuggets and television and everything's great. 0:06:03.600 --> 0:06:05.840 And then they start to realize that there was a 0:06:05.920 --> 0:06:08.279 nine to eleven and that there are people who shoot 0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:10.719 people and kill them in public places, and that's the 0:06:10.760 --> 0:06:12.840 stuff that when they start to realize. 0:06:12.440 --> 0:06:13.719 That stuff, it's heartbreaking. 0:06:14.400 --> 0:06:16.760 Yeah, But when are they ready for that, and when 0:06:16.839 --> 0:06:19.040 do you talk about this, When do you stop shielding 0:06:19.040 --> 0:06:20.800 from that? And should you ever shield them from that? 0:06:20.880 --> 0:06:22.640 And that's the part I've always had a hard time, 0:06:22.680 --> 0:06:25.640 So what did you do? We've shielded them from that, 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:27.800 We've made the decision to kind of keep that away 0:06:27.800 --> 0:06:29.800 from them, and then they kind of will learn about 0:06:29.839 --> 0:06:32.839 it in school, they'll learn about it in the world, 0:06:33.240 --> 0:06:34.640 and then they'll come home and ask us about it, 0:06:34.640 --> 0:06:35.920 and then we can talk about it. I don't know 0:06:35.960 --> 0:06:36.800 if that's the best thing. 0:06:36.960 --> 0:06:39.440 It may not be, but I think to your point, 0:06:39.640 --> 0:06:41.680 I see why it would be the best thing, because 0:06:41.720 --> 0:06:45.920 if you and your wife have offered an inviting, a 0:06:45.920 --> 0:06:47.919 a comfortable environment for them to bring those kind of 0:06:47.920 --> 0:06:50.960 things to you, then I think that backs up y'all's 0:06:51.040 --> 0:06:53.200 kind of theory behind it. Now, if you didn't, if 0:06:53.200 --> 0:06:54.880 you didn't have a comfortable household for them to bring 0:06:54.960 --> 0:06:57.839 up stuff with you and didn't talk about it, then 0:06:58.360 --> 0:07:00.640 there's no room for them right space for them to 0:07:00.680 --> 0:07:01.200 discuss it. 0:07:01.320 --> 0:07:03.920 My wife went to a seminar recently that was specifically 0:07:03.920 --> 0:07:06.400 about sex talk and how do you do that with 0:07:06.480 --> 0:07:10.640 your kids? And the main lesson from the teacher or 0:07:10.640 --> 0:07:13.880 whatever you call them. Was that when they come to 0:07:13.880 --> 0:07:16.400 you with questions, you answer them honestly and it's no 0:07:16.440 --> 0:07:19.640 big deal because it scares us because when they come 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:21.680 to us and ask a question that we can feel 0:07:21.720 --> 0:07:26.480 like is completely inappropriate about specific sexual acts. 0:07:27.000 --> 0:07:28.800 Yeah, I don't know what that is. 0:07:28.840 --> 0:07:30.320 You know, that's our instinct. This guy, I don't want 0:07:30.360 --> 0:07:32.600 to talk about that. But that's not the right move. 0:07:32.720 --> 0:07:34.720 The right move is oh, yeah, that's what this is. 0:07:34.760 --> 0:07:37.800 And yeah, people do it, yeap deal, No, it's no 0:07:37.840 --> 0:07:38.200 big deal. 0:07:38.280 --> 0:07:41.600 We know it's crazy. So I this isn't a plug. 0:07:41.640 --> 0:07:44.680 But I partnered with a company of Committee for Children 0:07:44.800 --> 0:07:49.560 and it was all about kids. Ninety it was eighty 0:07:49.640 --> 0:07:52.240 nine or it was like ninety percent of kids know 0:07:52.280 --> 0:07:56.000 their abuser when we're going sexual, which is like the 0:07:56.000 --> 0:07:59.320 whole stranger danger thing, like that's not even a that's 0:07:59.320 --> 0:08:00.360 that's actually myth. 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:02.960 And I was already meth this is not as impactful 0:08:03.000 --> 0:08:04.360 as people that are close to you. 0:08:04.400 --> 0:08:06.520 Well, no, I mean I was taught stranger danger. 0:08:06.840 --> 0:08:08.880 Oh yeah, I think you all are, which people they 0:08:08.880 --> 0:08:11.600 should kids should still not go with a stranger. I 0:08:11.600 --> 0:08:12.640 shouldtill understand that. 0:08:12.720 --> 0:08:16.120 But that's talking to your kids about like how to 0:08:16.840 --> 0:08:18.760 it was. It's actually really cool if you guys should look. 0:08:18.760 --> 0:08:21.160 It's called hot Chocolate talk dot org. But it's about 0:08:21.760 --> 0:08:24.560 how to talk to your kids about because Jolie pointed 0:08:24.600 --> 0:08:26.000 to my privates and I was like, what is that? 0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:28.880 And I was like, oh, it's mummies, like hu ha, 0:08:29.200 --> 0:08:30.520 Like I just made up a name, and I was like, 0:08:30.520 --> 0:08:32.760 I probably should name it, like actually, give it the 0:08:32.760 --> 0:08:33.199 proper name. 0:08:33.240 --> 0:08:35.360 Yah, that's what we were told to give it the name, give. 0:08:35.200 --> 0:08:37.440 It the name, give it the yeah, and say he's 0:08:37.480 --> 0:08:39.400 got a penis. I don't know if we can say 0:08:39.400 --> 0:08:42.800 that on air, but it's it's just very interesting because 0:08:42.920 --> 0:08:44.200 you want kids to be able to talk to you, 0:08:44.200 --> 0:08:46.280 But I think it's so awkward and uncomfortable for us 0:08:46.320 --> 0:08:48.280 to have those conversations because I'm not ready to talk 0:08:48.280 --> 0:08:51.080 to Joli about death. I want her to be right. 0:08:51.160 --> 0:08:53.640 I don't want to, which I think is okay. 0:08:53.760 --> 0:08:55.840 It's hard to talk about stranger danger because then then 0:08:55.880 --> 0:08:59.160 I say, well why why, Well, somebody met one people 0:08:59.160 --> 0:09:01.080 in this world who might want to take you, and 0:09:01.400 --> 0:09:02.760 then why would they want to take me? 0:09:02.840 --> 0:09:04.920 Well, I don't want to talk about that part. You know, 0:09:05.000 --> 0:09:06.160 it's weird. It's a tough thing. 0:09:06.160 --> 0:09:08.319 It's just starting to get real complicated and starting to 0:09:08.360 --> 0:09:09.720 kind of stress me out a little bit because I 0:09:09.720 --> 0:09:11.280 don't want to do it the right wrong way. I 0:09:11.320 --> 0:09:12.920 want them to be able to come and talk to us, 0:09:13.559 --> 0:09:16.080 but then it's also scary, and I just like, ugh. 0:09:16.800 --> 0:09:17.400 I don't like it. 0:09:18.240 --> 0:09:19.440 I think I don't know what to do. 0:09:19.640 --> 0:09:21.760 Kind of what Mark was touching on is like, I 0:09:22.240 --> 0:09:25.240 feel pretty comfortable in having those conversations. I honestly don't 0:09:25.240 --> 0:09:27.720 think I'll be that uncomfortable. I think it's because it 0:09:27.760 --> 0:09:30.679 is just you just say it like it is, because 0:09:30.679 --> 0:09:32.600 you don't want to make something taboo, right, you don't 0:09:32.640 --> 0:09:37.040 want to create this like secret thing around it, and 0:09:37.080 --> 0:09:38.920 then it all of a sudden becomes that urge for 0:09:38.960 --> 0:09:40.520 people to do Oh, I want to do this because 0:09:40.520 --> 0:09:41.680 it's taboo, it's wrong. 0:09:41.760 --> 0:09:43.120 And you don't want them to learn about it from 0:09:43.120 --> 0:09:44.880 their friends at school, right because they're going to get 0:09:44.920 --> 0:09:45.840 inaccurate information. 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:46.440 Absolutely. 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:47.920 I don't know why, but the death thing is just 0:09:47.960 --> 0:09:50.120 really freaking me out a really hard time. 0:09:50.400 --> 0:09:53.600 That it's really hard, especially with today's the environment of 0:09:53.600 --> 0:09:56.559 today's society, with everything going on, that's terrifying to. 0:09:56.520 --> 0:09:59.680 Hear and also our girlfriend. I know, we just like 0:09:59.679 --> 0:10:02.320 got negative. We'll bring it back up, but I just 0:10:02.520 --> 0:10:05.680 it scares me in today's society because a very great 0:10:05.720 --> 0:10:08.400 school in Nashville where our kids are most likely going 0:10:08.440 --> 0:10:12.080 to go to elementary or high school. One of the 0:10:12.160 --> 0:10:15.439 kids sent a picture because my girlfriend crawled and told 0:10:15.480 --> 0:10:18.520 me this send a picture to a friend saying, look 0:10:18.520 --> 0:10:20.920 how many guns I can fit into my backpack? Don't 0:10:20.960 --> 0:10:21.880 go to school tomorrow. 0:10:22.480 --> 0:10:23.280 Oh my god. 0:10:23.600 --> 0:10:28.040 And that isn't a one of the top places school, 0:10:28.120 --> 0:10:32.680 like they're ranked ten in Nashville or Brentwood, And it's like, 0:10:33.280 --> 0:10:37.920 holy crap. That's like even I'm like, oh god, I'm 0:10:37.920 --> 0:10:39.480 like terrified to send Joel to school. 0:10:39.559 --> 0:10:41.440 Yeah, that's one of the things. Actually when this came up, 0:10:41.520 --> 0:10:43.120 Jane and I were talking about it, where like the 0:10:43.200 --> 0:10:46.920 relieving part to get out of La County is, you know, 0:10:47.120 --> 0:10:50.400 the homeless, the chances of things happening just playing a 0:10:50.440 --> 0:10:52.680 numbers game. And if you think about a terrorist attack, right, 0:10:52.720 --> 0:10:56.040 it's gonna be La Chicago, New York. You know, big cities, right. 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:59.240 You think the chances of a terrorist attack in Nashville 0:10:59.240 --> 0:11:03.440 are you know, smaller than major city, right, God willing 0:11:04.080 --> 0:11:09.840 but the school stuff can touch anywhere anywhere. 0:11:09.280 --> 0:11:14.080 How in freaking Brentwood, Tennessee. Yeah, just makes me really sad. 0:11:14.160 --> 0:11:15.640 And then I'm like, is it the parents? Is the 0:11:15.720 --> 0:11:18.040 kids just being funny? Because that sort of ended up 0:11:18.080 --> 0:11:20.440 being the kid just thought it was funny. That's not 0:11:20.840 --> 0:11:24.120 whoever thinks that. If my daughter thinks that's funny, I'm 0:11:24.160 --> 0:11:26.080 going to I'm in the ground over the rest of 0:11:26.080 --> 0:11:27.559 her life. That's not funny. 0:11:28.640 --> 0:11:31.640 So the parents and teachers got involved and investigated. 0:11:31.080 --> 0:11:35.040 The situation the whole Thank you he was joking. Yeah, 0:11:35.080 --> 0:11:37.080 I mean it's like, who thinks that's funny? 0:11:37.200 --> 0:11:38.960 Like we're talking to our friend who told us this. 0:11:39.040 --> 0:11:40.960 We're like we all agreed, like that kid should get 0:11:41.000 --> 0:11:46.240 locked up for a few days, just giving scared straight, 0:11:46.280 --> 0:11:50.400 give them twenty four hours in a cell, Like look, dumbass, 0:11:51.000 --> 0:11:52.680 I don't care how how funny you think this is, 0:11:52.720 --> 0:11:54.480 how old you are you do this. You got to 0:11:54.480 --> 0:11:57.000 pay a little bit something like a little bit more 0:11:57.000 --> 0:11:58.800 than a slap on the wrist, Like this isn't good. 0:11:58.960 --> 0:12:00.000 Just it's just too sensitive. 0:12:01.000 --> 0:12:04.720 I would expel the kid. Yeah, if I was a principal, 0:12:05.400 --> 0:12:07.240 because I'm always Michael always makes fun of me. But 0:12:07.240 --> 0:12:08.880 I always say, like, in your right brain, how did 0:12:08.880 --> 0:12:10.360 you think this was right? Like, we had an issue 0:12:10.400 --> 0:12:12.120 with a few things in our house, So I always 0:12:12.120 --> 0:12:14.080 like to know people's like thought process. So my thought 0:12:14.080 --> 0:12:15.679 process for the kid is like, how did you think 0:12:15.720 --> 0:12:18.079 this is funny? Because all these kids have lost their 0:12:18.120 --> 0:12:21.240 lives and I don't know. I just get really upset 0:12:21.240 --> 0:12:23.920 about that. All right, we have an awesome in studio 0:12:23.920 --> 0:12:26.520 guest today, Krishelle Hartley. 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Stop, 0:14:22.040 --> 0:14:22.920 that's so nice. 0:14:23.080 --> 0:14:23.880 Thank you so much. 0:14:23.880 --> 0:14:25.880 You're so pretty. You're obviously you. 0:14:26.680 --> 0:14:28.680 There we go Battle of the beauties. 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:30.240 You're more pretty. 0:14:31.400 --> 0:14:34.200 Well when you just see someone from Instagram, I'm like, oh, 0:14:34.240 --> 0:14:36.920 I'm excited to me and you you look better in person, 0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:40.680 if that's possible. Normally it's the opposite, babe, I love you. 0:14:41.000 --> 0:14:43.720 Been here. So you are married to Justin Hartley. I 0:14:43.840 --> 0:14:46.200 am how long you as married for? 0:14:46.680 --> 0:14:49.440 Uh, we'll be married in October two years, but we'll 0:14:49.480 --> 0:14:50.400 be together. 0:14:50.160 --> 0:14:53.920 Six sex okay. And then you guys met on a soap, right, No, 0:14:54.120 --> 0:14:55.520 actually you did soap? 0:14:55.600 --> 0:14:57.800 So I did, okay, And I was working with one 0:14:57.840 --> 0:15:01.160 of his best friends on Days of Our lif and 0:15:01.200 --> 0:15:03.880 he his first job ever was on Passions and so they. 0:15:03.800 --> 0:15:08.760 Were best friend fashion. That was my guilty pleasure, and 0:15:08.800 --> 0:15:10.520 then it just ended and I was like, no. 0:15:10.720 --> 0:15:11.000 I know. 0:15:11.680 --> 0:15:13.920 So I was working with his friend on Days of 0:15:13.920 --> 0:15:16.600 our Lives and he asked him to kind of like, 0:15:16.640 --> 0:15:21.000 what's the deal? You know, she's single, and so the 0:15:21.080 --> 0:15:23.240 friend is actually a terrible matchmaker because he didn't tell 0:15:23.280 --> 0:15:25.480 me that at first, and I went on to date 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:30.880 some really weird people, and then I later on asked him, Hey, 0:15:30.920 --> 0:15:33.520 what's the deal with your friend Justin? He obviously seems 0:15:33.720 --> 0:15:39.240 single and very handsome and anyway, and that's when we 0:15:39.280 --> 0:15:42.000 figured it all out. And so if I hadn't asked, 0:15:42.040 --> 0:15:43.360 we give him a hard time, like. 0:15:43.680 --> 0:15:46.880 Yeah, right maker? And how long was he divorced before 0:15:46.920 --> 0:15:47.400 you guys? 0:15:47.760 --> 0:15:48.280 Two years? 0:15:48.400 --> 0:15:50.240 Okay, So then Isabella was. 0:15:50.600 --> 0:15:52.920 She was nine when I came into her life. 0:15:52.960 --> 0:15:55.160 She's the sweetest, by the way, I really is. She's 0:15:55.320 --> 0:15:58.280 so sweet. Oh hello, Justin. We did a movie together 0:15:58.360 --> 0:15:58.760 years ago. 0:15:59.080 --> 0:15:59.880 I remember what we saw. 0:16:00.360 --> 0:16:04.360 So I'm at the and that's where I met her daughter, 0:16:04.440 --> 0:16:08.480 his daughter, y'all's daughter. Yeah, and she's really sweet. But 0:16:08.480 --> 0:16:11.720 I'm curious, like how that was going in at that age. 0:16:12.280 --> 0:16:15.960 So actually I think nine years old was that. I 0:16:15.960 --> 0:16:18.800 don't know every other person's experience, but I can only 0:16:18.800 --> 0:16:21.440 speak for mine. It was a great age because she 0:16:21.520 --> 0:16:23.480 looked at me and she liked my dress, and she 0:16:23.680 --> 0:16:26.480 liked my hair and she didn't it pretty yeah, So, 0:16:26.560 --> 0:16:28.320 and I used to be a camp counselor and the 0:16:28.400 --> 0:16:31.480 little girls were like that same age group, perfect, so 0:16:31.600 --> 0:16:33.960 it was kind of an easy fit in the beginning. 0:16:34.040 --> 0:16:37.040 And then you know it's not. You know, you go 0:16:37.120 --> 0:16:39.800 through different things throughout when they start to grow and 0:16:39.840 --> 0:16:41.640 those kind of things. But I will say the beginning, 0:16:41.800 --> 0:16:44.640 I feel like I got I got out a little 0:16:44.640 --> 0:16:47.640