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Speaker 1: I read my wife's diary and what I found has

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Speaker 2: Oh you gotta firm that core up, baby, you gotta

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Speaker 1: I forty four male, have been with my wife forty

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Speaker 1: healthy relationship, goods, spicy sleep, life, et cetera. So everything

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Speaker 1: seems okay, right, It's all great. I'm sure nothing bad

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Speaker 1: will ever happened. Incorrect. This comes from what a situation

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Speaker 1: with our sash okay storytime sever read it. So it

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Speaker 1: started six months ago when I, as usual, patted my

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Speaker 1: wife on the butt. There we go, that's a good path.

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Speaker 1: That was a meat. That was a nice pat. You

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Speaker 1: got some meat there, and she, for the first time

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Speaker 1: respect her, et cetera, et cetera. I was, of course hurt,

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Speaker 1: because that physical touch is how I communicate emotionally. I

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Speaker 1: for her to take any action for five months, which

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Speaker 1: is hard because she is not a physical person dad

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Speaker 1: insults injury. Four months ago, we had a joint vacation

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Speaker 1: where the man and my uh, where the man and

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Speaker 1: my wife are very close joint interests. What that means

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Speaker 1: you decide in the comments. Our interests are jointed. They

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Speaker 1: became way too friendly, not physically though, and it ended

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Speaker 1: So she was the one that put us off to it.

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Speaker 2: Hey, shout out to the other girl for being like,

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Speaker 1: To step in. The other girl put that wall up.

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Speaker 1: I was already upset, but wanted to wait for time

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Speaker 1: to talk this out because something more was off. Up

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Speaker 1: until now, I've never cared with whom she's out with,

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Speaker 1: and that had no reason to. I told or tell

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Speaker 1: her what to do, tell her how how to do things, encourage,

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Speaker 1: I encourage her to go for her career, stepping up

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Speaker 1: et cetera. So oh, he's saying, you know, hey, I'm supportive,

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Speaker 2: Except for everything generally positive vibe, I generally positive or

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Speaker 2: are they?

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Speaker 1: But a month ago I was so fed up with

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Speaker 1: I travel a lot for work, so I have too

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Speaker 1: much time to think. And finally sat us down, uh

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Speaker 1: and said it was nothing.

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Speaker 2: Hmmm, that's a whole lot of nothing.

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Speaker 1: There seems to be quite a lot there quite. It

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Speaker 1: seems to be quite something. It seemed to be quite something.

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Speaker 1: Was really sorry for how it was displayed. And to

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Speaker 1: some extent, I can understand her. She's pushing forty plus. Dang,

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Speaker 1: get appreciation so that I can understand. So I guess, like,

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Speaker 1: you know, she's getting older, but hey, I understand. You

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Speaker 1: know people are interested in you. You feel like you still

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Speaker 1: got it. I can logically logically follow that. I've done

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Speaker 1: flirtatious things in the past, but I kept my distance

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Speaker 1: my family. That talk felt okay, and I put that

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Speaker 1: How do we feel about that Dakota. There's no way

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I bet you there's something behind them.

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Speaker 1: Notebook into the notebook.

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Speaker 2: Oh no.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this is the notebook, but the horror version.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this scary notebook. Sawing the notebook, I didn't say anything,

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Speaker 1: So this sounds like three months before up until three

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so should be safe. But well, I guess we'll

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Speaker 2: see what happens. You can't, you can't get nothing wrong

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Speaker 1: But maybe opie is where she stated how much into

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Speaker 1: much that she fell on that trap, and that she

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Speaker 1: Get over it, dude, so much she liked about me.

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Speaker 1: It didn't say too much, just that at the time,

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Speaker 1: I studied too much.

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Speaker 2: He's too smart. My boyfriend's big brain is making me upset.

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Speaker 1: He's too smart. This next section is titled lies No

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Speaker 1: not the lies to be added. I know that she

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Speaker 2: I then read this notebook and confronted her, and she

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Speaker 2: defends herself by saying she thought I meant sleeping with anyone.

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Speaker 2: her about other things and find out that she omits

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Speaker 2: do not believe they did anything physically, but I also

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Speaker 2: excuse me. But I also now know her well enough

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Speaker 1: So I get being like, look, you can't.

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Speaker 2: Is this guy just mad that his girlfriend has had

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's it's it's too much for me so far.

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Speaker 2: He's just like, how dare I just found out my

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Speaker 1: What do I do with this information? You did that gross?

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Speaker 2: My girl had a life, My girlfriends what feelings were

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Speaker 1: That's okay, you feelings for other people, you know, it's

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Speaker 1: just feels like she like, oh, I ran into an

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Speaker 2: There's always a give and take right in a relationship,

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Speaker 2: and I feel like, given this guy's apparent attitude, by

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Speaker 2: the way this is written, it's like she couldn't ever

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Speaker 2: because he would he'd be like, oh, well, he'd probably

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Speaker 2: And it's like he's literally reading stuff that happened before

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Speaker 1: It's like she wasn't born yesterday. Dog, Come on, well,

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Speaker 1: now we're getting into trust. The next section also are

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Speaker 1: we are we chilly? Do we are?

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Speaker 4: I guess I can do this.

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Speaker 1: I feel I feel nice and warm. It is I

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Speaker 2: Well, we'll probably be well, let me know, John, But

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Speaker 2: love declarations of men that I despise, but also her

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Speaker 2: meeting up with exes and the lies make me not

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Speaker 1: I met the ex that slept over, and she knew

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Speaker 2: And he's like, she was hanging out with an X

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Speaker 1: True. Good explainer. Okay, yes, this is fifteen to twenty

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Speaker 1: think the friend from before who the girlfriend remember, got

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Speaker 1: that she loved. What a loser? Did you? Don't say? Everyone? Boo?

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Speaker 1: This man boo? I feel so degraded when I read

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Speaker 1: about all these men before me. Why meet all these

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Speaker 2: You guys are Adam and Eve? You think she's never

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Speaker 2: she didn't know what a man she was born to be?

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Speaker 1: Loving you only?

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Speaker 1: Stupid? This is so dude.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that may be an insecurity, but in my mind,

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Speaker 2: when we are together, there's no one else. All my

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Speaker 2: will never, never, ever have to meet any of them.

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Speaker 1: It's a matter of decency. Shut up. She thinks it's

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Speaker 1: a teenage love thing and the exes were fun party friends.

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Speaker 1: In my mind, the feelings are still there for someone

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Speaker 1: you loved if it was not a finished relationship, What

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Speaker 1: does that mean? What do you have to bury them into?

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Speaker 1: You don't get to decide that, brother, Your.

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Speaker 2: Feelings are still there because they're still alive. What is

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Speaker 2: what is this guy on?

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Speaker 4: Dude?

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Speaker 1: They still breathe stop them. She does not see a

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Speaker 1: But for me, that would be a huge no go.

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Speaker 1: you mean sucks? What is dumb? What does that mean?

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Speaker 2: Therapy couldn't even redeem this man. He's like, I've been

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Speaker 1: It didn't work. No, you're not working, dude, God my god.

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Speaker 1: Dakota keon what do we do? What do we do? Dude?

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Speaker 4: So this guy to the sun, this guy's make him

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Speaker 1: Know, honestly, I don't even think. No, he needs to

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Speaker 2: He needs to be alone on the moon and sit

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Speaker 2: Hands, there's people who used to date my wife on

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Speaker 1: Oh, I don't like that, and I'm gonna have to just.

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Speaker 2: Live with the fact that I'm not the first man

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Speaker 4: Or wait, I actually want to hear has this guy?

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Speaker 1: He literally said that he has flirted or done flirtatious

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Speaker 1: That's it's making me think, like, did we just did something?

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Speaker 2: Is this happening during the relationship. But I think she's

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Speaker 1: Send him to the moon where he can smash all

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Speaker 1: He might he might change his tune. Let's see. By

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Speaker 1: the way, you can always change your tune on your radio.

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Speaker 2: So I felt so miserable that I couldn't hide my

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Speaker 1: H my god. She is adamant that she has never

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Speaker 2: I cannot release the thoughts of her f boys, her

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Speaker 1: Dude, dude, stop it, you're wrong.

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Speaker 2: I've come to the conclusion that she has had feelings

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Speaker 1: The question is how I want to yell.

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Speaker 4: I want to yell so bad of how stupid this

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Speaker 1: Dude, get over yourself. You're so insecure, brother.

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Speaker 2: You think you you're like, you're just like a little boy.

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Speaker 2: And that's why we're homeschooling this version of you.

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Speaker 1: You're homeschooled forever. Now you're too dangerous to be let

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Speaker 1: Bro, Oh my god. Honestly, Clark Clark, little peep vibes,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, get him out of here.

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Speaker 4: And I really hope that he's not like a like emotionally,

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Speaker 4: Oh you did all these.

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Speaker 1: Ah, let's do Mghera for five dollars. Thank you. I

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Speaker 2: I've been listening to old podcasts and I'm finally up

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Speaker 2: Uh, and thank you mister Punzle for the five dollars.

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Speaker 1: And congrats on the new job.

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Speaker 2: Let's Vix makes thanks for the ten gifted memberships. And

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Speaker 2: I think that was today the stream. Yeah, Billy Claire,

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Speaker 2: baby yesterday and watching your show and listening to the

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Speaker 1: thank you for the five dollars.

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Speaker 2: I've been watching y'all for over a year and a

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Speaker 1: I don't know why I just now decided to become

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Speaker 1: we're gonna start people. There's a lot of videos. Don't

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Speaker 1: let us.

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Speaker 2: And Jaliba thank you for five time gifted memberships. Growing

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Speaker 2: the little fam growing the baby. It's not little, well,

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Speaker 2: it's not little. Oh it's a big old family. You

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Speaker 2: know what else is a big old big what this story?

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Speaker 1: Before we get into the story, I think we need

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Speaker 1: to explain what's going on today. Oh that's right.

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Speaker 2: The suits for everyone that's just listening, we're all wearing suits.

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Speaker 2: John Kean and I are all suited up looking nice

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Speaker 2: and dapper avengers because it's super Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I know that there's that's like a

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Speaker 1: political thing, but that has nothing to do with politics.

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Speaker 2: It's just it's suits, suits and super suit per. Could

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Speaker 2: we be like a threesome be wait?

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Speaker 1: Wait suit you want to do? What now? Suits per?

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Speaker 1: That's what you want to do? What for each of us? President?

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Speaker 1: One suit per each man?

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Speaker 2: I like Supreme, I like suit per Tuesday, dude bro

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Speaker 2: off of Dome.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and we can be a threesome president. That's what

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Speaker 1: I was saying. We can be a threesome president.

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Speaker 2: One per one person, but three people three some group

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Speaker 2: of people that is a president.

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Speaker 1: We could do that. Yeah, that's political, that's what you

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Speaker 1: could be. I would vote for all of the president.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't vote for me. I would vote for us,

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Speaker 1: and we'll be president of the Internet. Oh yeah together.

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Speaker 4: Heck yeah, Okay, Well that is the reason why we're

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Speaker 4: all suits.

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Speaker 1: This is true. You guys like it.

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Speaker 2: Bubbles Marie said, Sophia needs a suit. I've already told

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Speaker 2: her she's getting a suit. If she wants to be

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Speaker 2: involved in suit per Tuesday, then she's.

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Speaker 1: Getting everyone's getting suits everyone.

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Speaker 3: Heck yah.

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Speaker 4: All right, Well that's that's that. That's the that's the

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Speaker 4: truth be told. And here's the next story.

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Speaker 2: Let's do it, and thank you Jen Thompson really quick

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Speaker 2: for the five Okay storytime memberships get the stream.

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Speaker 1: We love you.

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Speaker 4: Heck yah, Dakota, it's my wife, my wife.

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Speaker 2: When you're good to go, My wife said, if I

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Speaker 2: don't choose between her and my mom, she'll divorce me.

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Speaker 1: Mary, it's time to marry your mom.

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Speaker 4: Only a sith deals in absolutes.

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Speaker 2: My wife hates my mom because my mom didn't make

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Speaker 2: her feel like she was part of the family and

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Speaker 2: treated her like a stranger, and she treated her son

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Speaker 2: me like I was still her baby boy and not married. Now,

539
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Speaker 2: my wife wants my parents completely out of our lives,

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Speaker 2: including the lives of me and our children. My parents

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Speaker 2: want to have a good relationship with us and will

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Speaker 2: reach out every few weeks to try to reconcile the situation.

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Speaker 1: This only makes things worse, by the way.

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Speaker 2: This comes from user velvet Fisher on the r slash

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Speaker 2: Okay storytime sub reddit smooth So what did my mom

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Speaker 2: do to earn such ire, Well, my wife says that

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Speaker 2: there are thousands of things, but here are my top highlights.

548
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Speaker 2: My mother has never offered to hold our baby. My

549
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Speaker 2: mom says it's because he would cry whenever someone other

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Speaker 2: than his mom held him. Wife thinks it's because mother

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Speaker 2: in law doesn't care. When first baby was born, wife

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Speaker 2: didn't want anyone to visit her in the hospital. We

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Speaker 2: told mother in law she couldn't see us in the hospital,

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Speaker 2: she could see us at home.

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Speaker 1: Later.

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Speaker 2: The first time mother in law saw the baby was

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Speaker 2: on Facebook pictures along with everyone else. The same day,

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Speaker 2: mother in law texted her daughter my sister, letting her

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Speaker 2: know how hurt she felt by this.

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Speaker 1: Sister tests my wife.

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Speaker 2: Sister texts my wife asking why won't you let mother

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Speaker 2: in law see the baby? The wife felt bullied by

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Speaker 2: this behavior, as if my mother in law, as if

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Speaker 2: mother in law was getting my sister to confront my

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Speaker 2: wife about this. Mother in law never cooked meals for

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Speaker 2: her the one time my mother in law the mother

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Speaker 2: in law, I said, my mother in law. The one

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Speaker 2: time mother in law did cook shortly after baby one

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Speaker 2: was born, she had my sister's husband deliver the meal.

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Speaker 2: Never mind the fact that mother in law was working

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Speaker 2: a job at the time, very busy, and spent all

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Speaker 2: day Saturday making the meal and didn't have time to

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Speaker 2: deliver it personally. Why felt offended that it was delivered

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Speaker 2: by my sister's husband, as if my mom was trying

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Speaker 2: to show off in front of my sister's family.

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Speaker 1: Do you want a mother in law or a maid? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, this is like these seems like, yes,

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Speaker 2: strange things to be that upset about to the point

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Speaker 2: of cutting off your mother in law.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't cook, So yeah, I don't know. I'm not

581
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Speaker 1: following yet, but I'm gonsy.

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Speaker 2: On Christmas, I made a chocolate cheesecake. Wife tasted it.

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Speaker 2: And said it had too much chocolate? Cut her done,

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Speaker 2: no contact, You cannot have enough no contact? Yeah, no

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Speaker 2: no contact, yeah, no contact? And excuse me, and excuse me.

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Speaker 2: Opie clarifies in parentheses after that it didn't it didn't

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Speaker 2: have too much chocolate.

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Speaker 1: Ah, you can never have enough chocolates. Yep.

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Speaker 2: Later we were all enjoying it in all of its

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Speaker 2: chocolatey goodness, and my mom quipped, who said this had

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Speaker 2: too much chocolate? Who? My mom is from the South,

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Speaker 2: and in my view this was nothing more than good

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Speaker 2: natured ribbing, but my wife viewed it as an insult.

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Speaker 2: Later that night, my wife asked me if I thought

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Speaker 2: what mother in law said was acceptable. I said yes,

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Speaker 2: she was only teasing. It turned into a huge fight

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Speaker 2: because I was defending my mom instead of my wife.

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Speaker 1: Well. Also, on Christmas Day, my mom showed everyone pictures

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Speaker 1: from her crewise wife felt offended, as if mother in

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Speaker 1: law was showing off how wealthy she was and how

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Speaker 1: much fun she had while never helping my family while

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Speaker 1: my wife was stuck at home with four children. It

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Speaker 1: doesn't matter that.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't matter that many times my mom babysat our

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Speaker 2: children and would offer to babysit them regularly, once or

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Speaker 2: twice a month.

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Speaker 1: Hmmmm, I'm still hung up on the chocolate thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounds like you're defending your wife. You're not

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Speaker 2: defending your wife that hates chocolate, and you're a monster

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Speaker 2: for loving your mom.

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Speaker 1: I guess, okay. Whatever.

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Speaker 2: Continuing, when my grandmother, my mom's mom, passed, we cleaned

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Speaker 2: up her house. My mom asked us her children to help.

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00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:30,520
Speaker 2: Only I and my family volunteered. My sister and brother

615
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:33,720
Speaker 2: were too busy, and my dad said no for his

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Speaker 2: own reasons. At the time, it wasn't a problem, but

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Speaker 2: many months later, my wife claims that's an example where

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Speaker 2: I care more about my parents than my own family

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Speaker 2: and my mom's, and my mom thinks that she can

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Speaker 2: use me whenever she wants, with no.

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Speaker 1: Respect for my wife. That was supposed to be my

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Speaker 1: dad's job, not my job.

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Speaker 2: Your wife sounds exhausting, dude, I'm not gonna lie this absurd.

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Speaker 2: My dad sent emails to my wife trying to rectify

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Speaker 2: the situation and explain that my mom loves her daughter

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Speaker 2: in law and wants to have a good relationship with her.

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Speaker 2: It turned into a huge fight because I didn't tell

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Speaker 2: my dad to stop emailing my wife. I wasn't defending

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Speaker 2: my wife against my dad's attacks. I didn't view them

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Speaker 2: as attacks, though I saw these emails as sensible and warranted.

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Speaker 1: My wife hated when I said this, Well, dude, I

632
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:34,719
Speaker 1: hate your wife. I don't know. Your mom sounds totally normal.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, and your wife sounds kind of extra.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know. We'll see what else

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Speaker 1: we got.

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Speaker 2: We got more bullet points, dude, more bullet points. Baby,

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Speaker 2: This is like bullet point number eight. We have more

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Speaker 2: bullet points in here than she had chocolate chips in.

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Speaker 2: My wife thinks I'm taking my mom's side when I

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Speaker 2: say that my mom has a good heart and would

641
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Speaker 2: never intentionally hurt or attack my wife. My wife insists

642
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Speaker 2: my mom is evil, and if I disagree, then I'm

643
00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 2: against my wife. Yep, all right, we've reached the end

644
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Speaker 2: of the bullet points.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, let's go. My wife went through my

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Speaker 1: phone and saw I had called my mom earlier in

647
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Speaker 1: the week we were talking about how to fix this

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Speaker 1: whole situation.

649
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:22,240
Speaker 2: My wife was jealous about this, as if I was

650
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Speaker 2: going behind my wife's back and cheating on her with

651
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Speaker 2: my mom and those are her words. Dude, Yo, dude,

652
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Speaker 2: you have the opportunity to do something really funny here though.

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Speaker 1: Talk to me.

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Speaker 2: You have to make your wife so jealous of your

655
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Speaker 2: mom that she leaves you by like just hanging out

656
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:47,720
Speaker 2: with your mom. Start going on dates with your mom,

657
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 2: like you know how, like every little boy goes on

658
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 2: dates with his mom when he's like four or five

659
00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:54,960
Speaker 2: years old. Like they go out to the department store

660
00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:58,720
Speaker 2: or wherever. Yeah, like momy was to the park, Yes,

661
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 2: mommy Sunday. You need to start having like father or

662
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 2: mother's son dates until your wife gets so jealous she

663
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:09,879
Speaker 2: divorces you. Yeah, bring her cute gifts, you know, flowers,

664
00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:11,840
Speaker 2: and then tell every about it.

665
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:13,839
Speaker 1: Carl's saying how much you love her.

666
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't think he even needs to take her

667
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:17,840
Speaker 4: out on dates. It LORDI looks like just by talking

668
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 4: to his mom, the wife is like, it's over. You're

669
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:24,120
Speaker 4: talking to your mom.

670
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 1: You're seriously talking to your mom right now. Why are

671
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:29,880
Speaker 1: you choosing your mom over me? You can talk to

672
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:31,879
Speaker 1: me whenever you want. Why are you talking to your mom?

673
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 2: Okay, anyway to get back into this quote, she needs

674
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:45,800
Speaker 2: to come to me directly and apologize. So my crime

675
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:48,560
Speaker 2: was I didn't defend my wife against my parents' attacks

676
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 2: and I sided with them.

677
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:52,680
Speaker 1: Yep. I told my wife, quote, I'm with you, I'll

678
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:53,759
Speaker 1: always put you first.

679
00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:57,439
Speaker 2: But that doesn't matter because I said, quote, my mom

680
00:34:57,560 --> 00:35:00,799
Speaker 2: has a good heart and she's not evil, acceptable when

681
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 2: clearly she is evil. That's that's taking my mom's side

682
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:09,400
Speaker 2: and not defending my wife, who knew me for the

683
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:09,919
Speaker 2: most part.

684
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 1: My wife adores me, Are you sure, bro?

685
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 2: But because she hates my mom so much and the

686
00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:18,720
Speaker 2: fact that I'm so close with my mom, she couldn't

687
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:19,400
Speaker 2: take it anymore.

688
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:22,120
Speaker 1: Basically, my wife got fed up with the whole thing

689
00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:25,359
Speaker 1: and told me she was going to divorce me. WHOA,

690
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 1: you did the funny thing already That that move right

691
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:34,879
Speaker 1: there is totally justified. Oh yeah, please go on, evil John.

692
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 1: Explain Evil John, because listen, guys. Okay, so you guys,

693
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:43,799
Speaker 1: you guys have heard of love bombing. Yeah, it's when

694
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:47,120
Speaker 1: you're when when when you're too nice, you're too you're

695
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 1: over overwhelmingly sweet, right, jel Jel said, give us the

696
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:55,239
Speaker 1: bad take, John. It's love bombing is when you're overwhelmingly sweet. Right,

697
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 1: Uh huh? What else? What else can we know it?

698
00:35:59,280 --> 00:35:59,880
Speaker 1: What else do we know?

699
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:00,120
Speaker 4: Oh?

700
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:07,320
Speaker 1: That it's overwhelmingly sweet? Chocolate, the chocolate. It's the day, Dakota, Dakota,

701
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:09,200
Speaker 1: I wish I could cut you off. I wish I

702
00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 1: could you like the day, like the day right now,

703
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:16,200
Speaker 1: the day she dared put too many chocolate chips and

704
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 1: that cheesecake. At that moment in the story, I said,

705
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:26,880
Speaker 1: leave divorce right now. In fact, in fact, Suit, I

706
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:27,920
Speaker 1: am suing you.

707
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:29,880
Speaker 3: I'm suing you.

708
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, great, great advice. Everybody take that advice. Yeah,

709
00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:36,319
Speaker 2: that's great. Listen to suit John, he knows.

710
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:42,160
Speaker 1: Listen to me. I'm very just yeah, sure whatever. Divorce

711
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 1: your divorce your husband because he likes his mom. I guess, yeah,

712
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:47,880
Speaker 1: your mom or your wife, divorce them both. I don't know.

713
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:48,760
Speaker 1: It's good. Okay.

714
00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 2: So she needed to get rid of both of us

715
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:56,480
Speaker 2: because she couldn't find a way to get my mom

716
00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 2: out of her life without getting rid of me too.

717
00:36:59,880 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 1: I told her that's not necessary. I said, we are good.

718
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 2: Who cares what someone outside does to us? She apparently does,

719
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 2: because it's quote my mom end quote. She and I

720
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:14,479
Speaker 2: are so close. End quote I'm taking my mom's side,

721
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:16,400
Speaker 2: and I don't believe my wife when she says my

722
00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:17,360
Speaker 2: mom is evil?

723
00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 4: Did we did this stemming from a terrible relationship with

724
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 4: the wife and her mom.

725
00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:26,880
Speaker 1: You think it's gotta be something like wife has baggage.

726
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, and she's just looking at like like what seems

727
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:34,919
Speaker 2: to be from my perspective, an overwhelmingly positive and loving

728
00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:39,799
Speaker 2: relationship between a mother and her son. As like, Oh,

729
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:43,239
Speaker 2: she's just evil. Maybe oh she's Southern. Maybe she's from

730
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:47,280
Speaker 2: because she's from the South. Maybe she just hates Southerners,

731
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 2: which is not we don't condone that she married.

732
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 1: Maybe he's like maybe he's like disguised, he like lost

733
00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:58,400
Speaker 1: his Southern accent. He's a regardless. This woman needs therapy.

734
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 6: He's this fyol industrial Jesus fye for the Southern chocolate

735
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:10,600
Speaker 6: company trying to infiltrate her chocolate.

736
00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:15,759
Speaker 2: Anyway, Okay, my wife said that she would stay with

737
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:18,239
Speaker 2: me if I agreed to never speak to my mom

738
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 2: again until she apologizes. And wait until she apologizes, that's

739
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:27,400
Speaker 2: totally fair. Until she apologizes for being evil and what

740
00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:30,680
Speaker 2: like making a joke? What does she even want the

741
00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:34,279
Speaker 2: apology for? Just like I'm sorry for that one joke

742
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:37,359
Speaker 2: about the cheesecake for real, shut up.

743
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:39,840
Speaker 1: It's important. I don't know what to do.

744
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:44,360
Speaker 2: I did not know what to do, so I said, okay, fine,

745
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:46,760
Speaker 2: if that'll stop this insanity.

746
00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 1: I just want peace at my house.

747
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 2: I can accept the fact that my wife and my

748
00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:54,319
Speaker 2: mom don't get along, and I can accept if our

749
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:56,840
Speaker 2: two families are not very close because of it. But

750
00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 2: I can't accept the fact that I'm not allowed to

751
00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 2: speak to my mom ever again. And I won't admit

752
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 2: a lie that my mom is evil and has evil

753
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:10,120
Speaker 2: intentions towards my wife. I agree that my wife got hurt,

754
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:13,759
Speaker 2: but I don't agree that it was intentional anyway. Wife

755
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 2: insisted that I block my mom's number on my phone.

756
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:17,719
Speaker 1: I did it in the moment.

757
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:22,480
Speaker 2: I did it in the moment great, but later unblocked

758
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:25,120
Speaker 2: her because I didn't think she was serious.

759
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:27,360
Speaker 1: But she was serious.

760
00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:31,279
Speaker 2: Later she went through my phone saw that my mom

761
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:34,680
Speaker 2: had been texting me. I never replied, and it turned

762
00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:39,800
Speaker 2: into another huge fight. Basically, if I even read messages

763
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:43,520
Speaker 2: from my mom without responding, then it's my mom getting

764
00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 2: into my head and my wife can't have that evil

765
00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:49,720
Speaker 2: come into our lives because she and I are together,

766
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:54,880
Speaker 2: and what affects me affects her. But it'll definitely affect

767
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:59,200
Speaker 2: me and suit John and Keon. If you don't join

768
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:02,440
Speaker 2: our live when we go live on YouTube every weekday

769
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:05,760
Speaker 2: at three pm PST, just tap our profile, tap it until.

770
00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 1: You're in the live. Well, eat all the chocolates we

771
00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:11,279
Speaker 1: want here? Yeah, no chocolate? So oh what? There isn't

772
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:12,920
Speaker 1: tail end of this here? But I mean, where are

773
00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:16,640
Speaker 1: we at? I think I stay. I stand where I

774
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:18,919
Speaker 1: stood before. Drop your wife off at the bus station

775
00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:21,719
Speaker 1: and let someone else take her. Dude, Yeah, because because

776
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:23,840
Speaker 1: he doesn't over because because he doesn't deserve her.

777
00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:30,520
Speaker 4: I have two theories. John, stop it, John, stop it, John, John,

778
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 4: this is.

779
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 1: My real opinion. Yeah, it's okay. I have seen that.

780
00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:36,840
Speaker 4: I have two theories. Again, I'm going back to my

781
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:39,160
Speaker 4: first theory that I said earlier. She doesn't know what

782
00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 4: a healthy relationship is with a parent or again mother

783
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:46,920
Speaker 4: in this case. Second theory is she's looking for just

784
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:49,320
Speaker 4: an excuse out out of this relationship.

785
00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:53,239
Speaker 2: I don't know if it's an excuse because she's like, well,

786
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:56,960
Speaker 2: she's gonna the ultimating, She's give me the ultimatum of

787
00:40:57,320 --> 00:40:59,400
Speaker 2: it's either your mom or me.

788
00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:01,520
Speaker 1: But this doesn't sound like a person who would need

789
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:02,120
Speaker 1: an excuse.

790
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:05,080
Speaker 2: Somebody who already goes your mom's evil and you're not

791
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:07,879
Speaker 2: allowed to talk to her pretty much does and says

792
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:08,600
Speaker 2: whatever they want.

793
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:11,440
Speaker 1: That's my perspective. So I think she could just if

794
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:16,400
Speaker 1: she really wanted you, because you're stinky and I hate you.

795
00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:20,920
Speaker 4: She loves whatever, if she loves like you got married, Opie,

796
00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:23,000
Speaker 4: you met your mother in law, you're gotta be like,

797
00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:24,080
Speaker 4: all right, that's my mother in law.

798
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:27,280
Speaker 1: She's gonna be in my life. I kinda, I kinda,

799
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:31,879
Speaker 1: I kinda think his theory is pretty accurate. Which she's

800
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:33,400
Speaker 1: just looking for a way to go, looking for a

801
00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:35,799
Speaker 1: way I don't know. All right, Well, let's continue very

802
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:40,680
Speaker 1: reasonable need one she could just leave. No, she needs one.

803
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:44,720
Speaker 1: She's trying to she's testing. She's testing, uh, OPI whatever,

804
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 1: who's better me or your mom? Oh god?

805
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:50,480
Speaker 2: Maybe I think she's just intensely jealous in a walking

806
00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:54,320
Speaker 2: red flag, that's what I think. It's just so weird jealous.

807
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:57,279
Speaker 2: She can't take the affection of another woman directed at

808
00:41:57,320 --> 00:41:57,760
Speaker 2: her husband.

809
00:41:57,840 --> 00:41:58,719
Speaker 1: But even if it's his.

810
00:41:58,800 --> 00:42:01,239
Speaker 4: Freaking mom, it's what's getting to me is like out

811
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 4: of all the time, this is this is where it's like,

812
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:07,080
Speaker 4: this is go time for you, right, That's what I'm saying, Like,

813
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:08,640
Speaker 4: this is no, I think something's up.

814
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:14,040
Speaker 1: She's we'll see, we'll we'll find out. Quote.

815
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:17,080
Speaker 2: Your parents need to realize that you and I are

816
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:19,759
Speaker 2: together and they can't go around me and talk to

817
00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 2: you as if I don't matter.

818
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:21,760
Speaker 1: Boom.

819
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 2: I was right, she's insanely jealous, clinically insanely jealous.

820
00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 1: Whoa Tina, m M thirty more minutes. We're gonna get

821
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 1: to that in a second.

822
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:37,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, my mom honestly had no idea she was doing

823
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 2: anything wrong and has always tried to do the right thing.

824
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 2: Even now, my mom is trying to reconcile with my wife,

825
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:46,400
Speaker 2: but my wife won't hear it. The fact that my

826
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:49,560
Speaker 2: mom is trying to defend herself instead of apologizing for

827
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:53,400
Speaker 2: her sins proves how evil and twisted she is. Dude,

828
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 2: into the sun with this woman into the sun.

829
00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:58,160
Speaker 3: That is sun.

830
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:01,120
Speaker 1: That's it. What do you mean that there's no updates,

831
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 1: nothing else. That's the end of the story. And she

832
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 1: was insane And as I said, this whole story. She

833
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:11,200
Speaker 1: does not deserve him. She's insane. He's insane again the

834
00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:11,759
Speaker 1: first round.

835
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:14,279
Speaker 2: John's a gas lighter. Ye, what are you talking about, suit,

836
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:17,520
Speaker 2: John's a gas lighting. I've been agreeing with John this

837
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:18,080
Speaker 2: entire time.

838
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:23,640
Speaker 1: What do you mean? I don't know what the biggest

839
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:26,760
Speaker 1: red flag is. When she's like, there's there's too much chocolate,

840
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 1: so she's she's she's just so jealous.

841
00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:32,640
Speaker 2: She's jealous, dude, and she feels and I think it's

842
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:37,080
Speaker 2: it's jealousy and it's control. Yes, because she's saying that

843
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:41,279
Speaker 2: you're they're trying to talk to you behind my back.

844
00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, I'm conversing with my parents. Yeah, they

845
00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:48,120
Speaker 1: don't excuse me, your approval to speak to me and

846
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:48,640
Speaker 1: the parents.

847
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 2: The parents were like, we want to make this right,

848
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 2: we want to rectify this, you want to make sure

849
00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:54,759
Speaker 2: this is all good.

850
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:59,040
Speaker 1: They literally said, we love you and we want what's best.

851
00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 1: And she said, no, no, you don't.

852
00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:04,759
Speaker 2: Not only did she say that, she said, this is

853
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 2: more proof that they're evil. Look, she's not even apologizing

854
00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:12,800
Speaker 2: to me. She's just saying she loves me without apologizing. Evil, evil, sinner.

855
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:14,840
Speaker 2: That's insane.

856
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:17,200
Speaker 4: To the to the Sun, to the black hole, No,

857
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:20,759
Speaker 4: to the sun, like I just you know whatever, she honestly, yeah,

858
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:21,279
Speaker 4: just get her away.

859
00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:21,759
Speaker 1: I think so.

860
00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:24,760
Speaker 2: Egregious that she deserves to no longer exist in our universe.

861
00:44:24,920 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 2: Just a head but I just wanted to blip off

862
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:30,200
Speaker 2: into the sun. Just a blip in the sun.

863
00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 1: Speaking of blips, we got some donos. Also, I think

864
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 1: is there a loud sound coming out of the headphones?

865
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:44,560
Speaker 1: It might not be anything but pitchy. Eve, thanks for

866
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:47,279
Speaker 1: the fifteen bucks on the tipplingk Hey, lovelies, just a

867
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:49,920
Speaker 1: cat update cat to the vet last week, hence why

868
00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:52,759
Speaker 1: I was awake and couldn't sleep. My low is okay

869
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:55,839
Speaker 1: and feeling a lot better. Already out running by the way.

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Speaker 1: Still love you guys, and I'm really loving the latest

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Speaker 1: seven plus members video. Great stimulation while working Peacha Eve.

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Speaker 1: Uh So glad that Mile the Kiddy cat is doing okay. Yeah, Dakota,

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Speaker 1: Dakota song, Dakota saw my my sick decrepit cat, not

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Speaker 1: really decrepits. She's young and weak, but she's strong. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's because it had a problem with its kid news. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but she's doing good. She's doing good.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Mickey verrel So, wait, but did you name your

878
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:26,759
Speaker 2: cat after Milo? Thatch from Atlantis. That's just a question

879
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:28,799
Speaker 2: you can answer in the chat, and we will continue on.

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Speaker 4: To Nick Milo the energy drink that we're not doing

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Speaker 4: free sponsors for, but I.

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Speaker 1: Do love oh shut up, yes please sponsors get here.

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Speaker 1: It's go go Juice. Mickey Farrell takes her of five bucks.

884
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Speaker 1: I love you guys, heart Oh. An update on my

885
00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 1: granddad's funeral on Saturday. It ended with me being disowned

886
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:51,879
Speaker 1: by most of my family, a divorce, the police being

887
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:58,240
Speaker 1: called twice, a fire, and five people arrested. First off, Nikki,

888
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 1: my heart goes out to you and I hope you're

889
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:04,839
Speaker 1: doing okay, and I and I hope you find uh

890
00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:08,320
Speaker 1: peace and good things, good silver linings in your in

891
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 1: your grief recovery process. Absolutely, I gonna need an okay

892
00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:14,799
Speaker 1: story time if one of those things, if it is cathartic,

893
00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 1: if it is if it feels feels good to let

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Speaker 1: everything out into a let's just say and our sush

895
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:26,799
Speaker 1: okay storytime subreddit, You're welcome to We open it if

896
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Speaker 1: you want. If that's what you want. If that's what

897
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Speaker 1: you want, the door is open. The door is open

898
00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:34,959
Speaker 1: for you. Niki and Hearts of the Chat from Nikki.

899
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:37,040
Speaker 1: We've read that one, and we read that one already,

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Speaker 1: and then let's go to the You see no, that's good,

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Speaker 1: Harriet Spaghetti, thanks for the two Canadian bucks. Today's theme

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Speaker 1: weirdo is hurting their own feelings. That does yet? Two

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Speaker 1: for two? That's two three Matt Hadder got thanks for

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Speaker 1: five bucks. I did not know it was man in

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Speaker 1: Black day. I would have worn my twenty style soup. Matt.

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Speaker 1: Go next Tuesday. Now, you know there's always every Tuesday.

907
00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:08,359
Speaker 1: We just might. We don't have to, we just might.

908
00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:08,879
Speaker 1: We'll see.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll feel so bad like everyone's dressed up nice.

910
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:14,600
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm gonna wear sweatpants.

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00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:16,880
Speaker 1: It's okay. You just answered your own question right there. Ke,

912
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 1: we can do. We can do every everything. Sophia is

913
00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:21,920
Speaker 1: gonna get a suit too, so.

914
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:26,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, but Tuesdays is usually the old guy stream I know,

915
00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 4: but regardless, so we're gonna be wearing suits now. It's

916
00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:29,840
Speaker 4: business casual.

917
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Speaker 1: You know, it's all business. It's it's it's all business,

918
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Speaker 1: no casual, guys. Yeah, what is your heart feel? You

919
00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:41,360
Speaker 1: know you guys like this, I like I like looking spiffy.

920
00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:43,719
Speaker 1: What is your heart feel? I really wanted you to go.

921
00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:48,040
Speaker 1: It feels bubba bub no it every time I look

922
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:55,280
Speaker 1: at you, guys, Oh, you're gonna make me. Also, Hannah,

923
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Speaker 1: oh you saw that. I saw that. Thanks for the

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Speaker 1: forty bucks and no nothing now just silence, yes, like

925
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Speaker 1: everyone like a dot.

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Speaker 2: Everyone put like three dogs. Everybody, No, just put a

927
00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 2: moment of silence. Oh yes, it's a moment of silence

928
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Speaker 2: for Hannah.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, respectable, Thanks respectable gentlemen, Thank you, respectable. And

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Speaker 1: then Tina M.

931
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Speaker 2: We have to shout at it again with the ten

932
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Speaker 2: gifted memberships. That put us over the line. Gots another

933
00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:25,280
Speaker 2: thirty minutes. That's right, that's important.

934
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:27,160
Speaker 1: That's right. That's a big shout out to Tina M.

935
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 1: And then vix Mix for the five bucks. I wish

936
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Speaker 1: I could talk to my mom. She passed away sixteen

937
00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:34,360
Speaker 1: years ago of cancer. Guys, VI vix Mix our favorite

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Speaker 1: lunch lady. If I remember that correctly. Hearts of the

939
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Speaker 1: chat for vix Max all the Mix, Matt hatter Galla,

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Speaker 1: thanks for the five gifted memberships. Let's freaking go, and

941
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Speaker 1: then don't read this out loud. No, no, so I'm

942
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Speaker 1: not going to. I'm gonna read it silently gay. Oh, okay, okay,

943
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Speaker 1: I think we can Yeah, we can do that. That's

944
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Speaker 1: a fun challenge. That's a fun challenge. I know Dakota

945
00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:09,560
Speaker 1: can do that easily. Jenna Lay Welcome to the Knights.

946
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:12,400
Speaker 1: And Jen Thompson. Wow, thanks for the five gifted memberships.

947
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:15,000
Speaker 2: Let's go first, first time I've seen it doing that,

948
00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:16,839
Speaker 2: and then I think we're up to date.

949
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Speaker 1: Oh, here we go two? Is there a three? Uh too?

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Speaker 1: Mad Hatter Gal, thanks at a ten bucks, mister producer,

951
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 1: Do not feel bad. I am always dressed if I

952
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Speaker 1: am going as if I'm going to a funeral or

953
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Speaker 1: time traveling from the twenties.

954
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Speaker 2: There's nothing wrong with wearing a suit every day. There's

955
00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 2: nothing wrong with that, nothing wrong with it, nothing wrong

956
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Speaker 2: with that. And an MJ girl, thanks in a five bucks.

957
00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:40,279
Speaker 2: Hey Keon, remember when you used to refuse saying see

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Speaker 2: you tomorrow?

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00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:43,440
Speaker 4: I know, I yeah, because it was my only one.

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00:49:43,480 --> 00:49:45,399
Speaker 4: I was here the first time. I would refuse saying

961
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:46,799
Speaker 4: see you tomorrow because I'm like, I'm not gonna lie

962
00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:47,120
Speaker 4: to the chat.

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00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be here tomorrow. I'm not gonna lie.

964
00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:54,160
Speaker 1: He's a man of his work too much. George Washington.

965
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:57,120
Speaker 1: I cannot tell a lie. I chopped down that cherry

966
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Speaker 1: tree and I will not be here tomorrow.

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Speaker 4: Oh he was, I do remember, and if you do remember,

968
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Speaker 4: I appreciate you. Thank you them, Jay, and uh yeah,

969
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Speaker 4: now I'm here every tomorrow.

970
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Speaker 1: Every tomorrow. Oh and shout out a loss of Monday

971
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:12,200
Speaker 1: for the ten bucks. I wanted to update everyone on

972
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Speaker 1: my kiddo's ear surgery. It went great.

973
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:17,360
Speaker 2: You're still getting used to new sounds and some discomfort,

974
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:20,880
Speaker 2: but we appreciate all the love from the Okay Storytime

975
00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:21,719
Speaker 2: family guys.

976
00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:22,960
Speaker 1: That makes me so happy.

977
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:26,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's getting used to that's gotta be so like

978
00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:29,759
Speaker 2: just what's the word like?

979
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Speaker 1: Uplifting? Heartfelt?

980
00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:35,160
Speaker 2: What I love the Yeah seeing seeing your kid like

981
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:37,360
Speaker 2: process sound like fully.

982
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Speaker 1: For I would be I would cry every second of

983
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Speaker 1: every day. I would just be bawling twenty four to seven.

984
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:46,359
Speaker 1: I also love that the community is a place where

985
00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:47,799
Speaker 1: people can go. We can we can share the hard

986
00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:50,960
Speaker 1: times you're going through. We can celebrate the winds like yes,

987
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Speaker 1: it's just highs, the lows, the side, the side, We

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Speaker 1: love it. We love it all and pg Eve sans

989
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Speaker 1: seventeen DKKH. He started as not got peanuts and milw

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Speaker 1: oh now it's okay. I don't know what that means.

991
00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:14,399
Speaker 1: Started as Nala got peanuts and why age Milo? Someone

992
00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:15,440
Speaker 1: just asked if I'm Filipino?

993
00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:15,759
Speaker 2: Yeah?

994
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:19,520
Speaker 1: Did you just assume I was Filipino? What is DKK?

995
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:20,680
Speaker 1: Where is that from?

996
00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:23,400
Speaker 2: And Gen Tom and Jen Thompson thank you for the

997
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:28,480
Speaker 2: five gifted Okay story time memberships DKK. I think is

998
00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:32,440
Speaker 2: Danish continuing to grow the family, and you know what

999
00:51:32,640 --> 00:51:34,279
Speaker 2: I have. I want to grow my family. I want

1000
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:37,000
Speaker 2: to add a little family member, you know, because Riley's

1001
00:51:37,040 --> 00:51:40,040
Speaker 2: got the three D Like, huh, what are you going out?

1002
00:51:40,600 --> 00:51:42,880
Speaker 2: Riley's got that three D printer, So I want to

1003
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:45,680
Speaker 2: I want to print out like a like you guys

1004
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:48,719
Speaker 2: ever watch Regular Show a little bit? Yeah? You know

1005
00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:52,320
Speaker 2: that that the the Gumball character Regular Show Benson. I

1006
00:51:52,400 --> 00:51:54,320
Speaker 2: wanted to just like a big black Benson.

1007
00:51:54,640 --> 00:52:00,440
Speaker 1: Mm yeah, why not multiple colors? Because that's what that

1008
00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:02,680
Speaker 1: person in the chat told me to say. Stop you

1009
00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:05,279
Speaker 1: really did? I already said it. I had to. I

1010
00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:07,920
Speaker 1: had to get myself and out because that felt really weird.

1011
00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:09,800
Speaker 4: You did something and I was like, I know what

1012
00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:11,799
Speaker 4: he's doing and he's not. He's not doing it right?

1013
00:52:12,520 --> 00:52:14,640
Speaker 1: How else was I gonna work that ever?

1014
00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:15,479
Speaker 4: Ever?

1015
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:17,759
Speaker 1: Oh, you can work that ever, you can work it

1016
00:52:17,920 --> 00:52:19,759
Speaker 1: can work a big weapon, you can work it.

1017
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:23,800
Speaker 4: DKK for you is Danish krone or Danish krona is

1018
00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:24,799
Speaker 4: a digital Danish.

1019
00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:30,480
Speaker 2: Das And also, uh what we got a girl cat

1020
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Speaker 2: then suddenly got people. Oh got okay, I got you. Yeah,

1021
00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:39,040
Speaker 2: they found it's peanuts. They found out it had a peanuts.

1022
00:52:40,280 --> 00:52:43,480
Speaker 1: Oh, I see all right, we get there, we go

1023
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:45,400
Speaker 1: and we have we shout it out, John Thompson, we

1024
00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:47,960
Speaker 1: have some over there. Let me refresh, Awkward Turtle. Thanks

1025
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 1: for the seven bucks, eight weeks, I have done it.

1026
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:54,520
Speaker 2: Oh, I watched all the videos you have uploaded now

1027
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:57,279
Speaker 2: to finish up the lives I haven't watched yet.

1028
00:52:57,360 --> 00:53:00,800
Speaker 1: That's there's a lot there. Uh not many though, honestly,

1029
00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:03,800
Speaker 1: having a rough day. Things with my sister Kate have

1030
00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:08,520
Speaker 1: gotten nuclear and it has nothing to do with my receptions.

1031
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 1: Sorry to hear that, Awkward Turtle parts of the chat

1032
00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:14,040
Speaker 1: for you, and thank you for watching every video we've

1033
00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:16,640
Speaker 1: ever made and almost all of our lives. Give us

1034
00:53:16,640 --> 00:53:20,279
Speaker 1: an update when when that happens. Indeed, and Nikki for

1035
00:53:20,360 --> 00:53:22,480
Speaker 1: all things at a five bucks. I'll try to write

1036
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:24,959
Speaker 1: a submission. My sister wants to help, as I can't

1037
00:53:24,960 --> 00:53:28,200
Speaker 1: write to save my life again. NICKI, we would love

1038
00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 1: to see it. We would love to see it. Sometimes

1039
00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:32,040
Speaker 1: we all need a little as many updates as you

1040
00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:34,719
Speaker 1: will help sometimes. Okay, and that's about it. That's it, guys,

1041
00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:36,719
Speaker 1: and I think this is this loaded up for you

1042
00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:40,239
Speaker 1: right now. I think it is. I might be wrong.

1043
00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:44,160
Speaker 1: Is it my husband's there? We go that it's me, Yeah,

1044
00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:46,960
Speaker 1: it's my husband, Yeah, it is my husband. Let's do it.

1045
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:51,320
Speaker 2: My husband's ex copies everything I do, but tells everyone

1046
00:53:51,360 --> 00:53:52,120
Speaker 2: I'm copying her.

1047
00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:55,560
Speaker 1: That's just a n you did it. I'm not touching you.

1048
00:53:55,640 --> 00:53:59,239
Speaker 1: I'm not copying you. Let's just start here. My ex's wife,

1049
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 1: thirty five fem used to be my thirty three female

1050
00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:08,520
Speaker 1: best friend. I'm exhausted and love watching and listening. Thank

1051
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:11,040
Speaker 1: you everyone. Yeah, I know, I'm I'm just really I

1052
00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:13,640
Speaker 1: don't know why it does it now? They did it? Now?

1053
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:14,160
Speaker 1: Out of.

1054
00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:15,719
Speaker 4: It.

1055
00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:19,359
Speaker 1: That's dude. Technology today is weird. We've been doing great.

1056
00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:22,640
Speaker 1: I'm hoping for some guidance here. I've been divorced for

1057
00:54:22,760 --> 00:54:25,560
Speaker 1: seven issue years now, so let's back up. To where

1058
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:29,600
Speaker 1: things started, or rather took a turn. The background is long,

1059
00:54:30,040 --> 00:54:32,320
Speaker 1: but we will but will be the only way to

1060
00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:34,799
Speaker 1: get full context. By the way, this comes from curve

1061
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Speaker 1: Crafty twenty three nineteen on the r slash Okay storytime subreddit.

1062
00:54:38,239 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 4: So.

1063
00:54:38,400 --> 00:54:40,960
Speaker 1: I was in the military and that ended in twenty sixteen.

1064
00:54:41,120 --> 00:54:44,759
Speaker 1: During my last two years, i've required childcare. Luckily, when

1065
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Speaker 1: my mom up and left my son midday, I was

1066
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Speaker 1: able to find care from one of my ex husband's

1067
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Speaker 1: coworker's wife. Okay, let me make sure I understand. Yes, people,

1068
00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:01,279
Speaker 1: when my mom up in left my son midday, so

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Speaker 1: I think mom just kind of like pieced out randomly

1070
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Speaker 1: in that day, straight up said I'm time to neglect. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: not not like for eternity as apartment, but just like

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Speaker 1: for the day. As far as we know, I was

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Speaker 1: able to find care from one of my ex husbands

1074
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Speaker 1: of the ex husband's co worker's wife. A classic connection.

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Speaker 1: I need a board. Yeah right, we were both military

1076
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Speaker 1: and had chaotic schedules. This is where I met Haley,

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Speaker 1: so we'll call her. It's not her real name. Haley

1078
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Speaker 1: and I quickly became friends as she was having a son.

1079
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Speaker 1: She had a son around my son's age. I bounced

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Speaker 1: back from my birth and she took some accountability from

1081
00:55:42,080 --> 00:55:49,279
Speaker 1: me during this time. Also really quickly. Okay, yes, okay,

1082
00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:53,239
Speaker 1: this is Opie and she had her wife, and okay,

1083
00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:55,759
Speaker 1: there we go, op op OPI is a woman. I

1084
00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:58,520
Speaker 1: was just establishing that I was working out two times

1085
00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:01,040
Speaker 1: a day, working and taking care of both of the

1086
00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:03,879
Speaker 1: kids after work. Super mom over here. Yes, my ex

1087
00:56:04,080 --> 00:56:06,279
Speaker 1: wasn't a very active parent due to how young the

1088
00:56:06,360 --> 00:56:08,960
Speaker 1: babies were. Babies are too young or can't be a

1089
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:11,160
Speaker 1: good parent. I can't do it. I'm Larne.

1090
00:56:11,239 --> 00:56:13,600
Speaker 2: And maybe when they when they ripe it up a

1091
00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:15,480
Speaker 2: little bit, I'll be able to get better. But right

1092
00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:18,120
Speaker 2: now the three of the cards three, I can start

1093
00:56:18,920 --> 00:56:21,160
Speaker 2: fast forward. I have been out of the military for

1094
00:56:21,280 --> 00:56:24,280
Speaker 2: one year. This is three years of being best friends

1095
00:56:24,320 --> 00:56:26,799
Speaker 2: with her. She would drive down on occasion to see

1096
00:56:26,840 --> 00:56:29,359
Speaker 2: her family and stop by to see mine.

1097
00:56:29,680 --> 00:56:34,000
Speaker 1: Small world. Her family was living close to my exes. Cool.

1098
00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:37,920
Speaker 1: I get to see my bestie win when I have.

1099
00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:41,360
Speaker 1: I had also been in therapy for PTSD anxiety related

1100
00:56:41,480 --> 00:56:44,360
Speaker 1: during this transition out of military as well, so I

1101
00:56:44,520 --> 00:56:47,120
Speaker 1: randomly vented to my therapist a few times about how

1102
00:56:47,200 --> 00:56:50,080
Speaker 1: while in school. My ex was not helping take care

1103
00:56:50,120 --> 00:56:53,239
Speaker 1: of the kids, expected me to cook meals, be a homemaker,

1104
00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:56,600
Speaker 1: et cetera, et cetera. We decide. We tried different things

1105
00:56:56,680 --> 00:57:00,400
Speaker 1: to spice up the relationship or to get his at tension.

1106
00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:04,759
Speaker 1: Nothing worked. He didn't even want to talk to me,

1107
00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:06,840
Speaker 1: let alone help raise the kids.

1108
00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:09,640
Speaker 2: I think when it said get his attention, I just

1109
00:57:09,719 --> 00:57:13,640
Speaker 2: think it meant like it like increase his desire to

1110
00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:17,680
Speaker 2: be involved. I think those were two separate things. Yeah,

1111
00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:19,920
Speaker 2: I'm like trying to spice things up and then get

1112
00:57:20,040 --> 00:57:25,000
Speaker 2: his attention, but like like get him more involved, I

1113
00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:26,480
Speaker 2: think is what that meant to say.

1114
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:28,480
Speaker 1: All I have is that he confused me.

1115
00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:30,080
Speaker 4: All I have to ask is do we need a whiteboard?

1116
00:57:31,200 --> 00:57:31,240
Speaker 2: No?

1117
00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:34,200
Speaker 1: No, no, we can. We can try it.

1118
00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:37,080
Speaker 4: Let's let's go go a little bit further, go a

1119
00:57:37,120 --> 00:57:39,280
Speaker 4: little bit further, and let's see if we if if

1120
00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 4: I see names, I'm any whiteboard?

1121
00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:44,560
Speaker 1: All right, Okay, so currently in use is the problem?

1122
00:57:44,680 --> 00:57:49,160
Speaker 1: Here we go boot boom. Anyways, on my birthday he

1123
00:57:49,240 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 1: got me a forty dollars vacuum cleaner. Then on Mother's

1124
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:55,360
Speaker 1: Day a week later, he told his entire family at

1125
00:57:55,400 --> 00:57:59,520
Speaker 1: the supper table, that I didn't need anything because she

1126
00:57:59,800 --> 00:58:02,280
Speaker 1: is just doing her job. Why does she need a gift?

1127
00:58:03,200 --> 00:58:04,880
Speaker 1: He said that on Mother's Day.

1128
00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:09,920
Speaker 4: Yo, that's the biggest red flag ever, dude.

1129
00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:13,480
Speaker 1: To which my amazing sister in law went and got

1130
00:58:13,560 --> 00:58:17,520
Speaker 1: me flowers, a huge card, et cetera, et cetera. So

1131
00:58:17,840 --> 00:58:20,960
Speaker 1: the therapist said, bring up divorce. Wow, even the therapist

1132
00:58:21,040 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 1: is throwing down the.

1133
00:58:22,080 --> 00:58:28,920
Speaker 2: Chat's favorite therapist right there, the divorce therapist the therapist.

1134
00:58:29,240 --> 00:58:33,680
Speaker 1: Have you considered divorces? Have you considered doing it right now?

1135
00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:37,960
Speaker 1: I did not tell my best friend this in order

1136
00:58:38,040 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 1: for him to fully think about his feelings towards me

1137
00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:45,960
Speaker 1: and see how much effort he would put in during

1138
00:58:46,040 --> 00:58:50,360
Speaker 1: a separation. I went full in. He barely tried, just

1139
00:58:50,440 --> 00:58:52,959
Speaker 1: said what I wanted to hear and nothing else.

1140
00:58:53,640 --> 00:58:56,640
Speaker 2: Fast forward a week, my best friend drove down and

1141
00:58:56,920 --> 00:58:59,000
Speaker 2: paid for the divorce.

1142
00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:04,720
Speaker 1: WHOA, So I guess, I guess it happened. It's divorce.

1143
00:59:04,920 --> 00:59:06,920
Speaker 1: I guess it happened. Hey, I would have divorced in

1144
00:59:07,000 --> 00:59:09,280
Speaker 1: the same day he said that thing on Mother's Day.

1145
00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:14,200
Speaker 1: Big facts. Honestly wrong with you? See you later? By later,

1146
00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:17,280
Speaker 1: I mean never again. Almost as bad as putting too

1147
00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:21,200
Speaker 1: much chocolate, and what's the bigger red fleg? Yeah? I

1148
00:59:21,280 --> 00:59:24,080
Speaker 1: mean that, yeah, yeah, But that's what we're We're not

1149
00:59:24,120 --> 00:59:28,760
Speaker 1: animals here. Whoa. She then went back and forth between

1150
00:59:28,800 --> 00:59:31,920
Speaker 1: her home and visiting me quote unquote in my new

1151
00:59:32,160 --> 00:59:36,480
Speaker 1: town home. I was near broke, so section eighteen housing.

1152
00:59:37,200 --> 00:59:40,040
Speaker 1: Fast forward a week and we got wasted one night

1153
00:59:40,160 --> 00:59:43,960
Speaker 1: and she tried to sleep with me. Oh boy. I

1154
00:59:44,120 --> 00:59:46,240
Speaker 1: told her to go away and locked myself in my

1155
00:59:46,360 --> 00:59:49,800
Speaker 1: room and fell asleep. The next morning, I was still

1156
00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:53,160
Speaker 1: pissed and she wasn't responding. So I go to my house,

1157
00:59:53,360 --> 00:59:55,440
Speaker 1: still making payments on it, to go pick up the

1158
00:59:55,520 --> 00:59:58,800
Speaker 1: two kids my agreed upon day to get them. She

1159
00:59:59,280 --> 01:00:04,080
Speaker 1: was half new making breakfast in my house one freaking

1160
01:00:04,560 --> 01:00:09,120
Speaker 1: week after filing for the force, to think that. All

1161
01:00:09,240 --> 01:00:12,800
Speaker 1: I wanted for him was to man up and start

1162
01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:15,760
Speaker 1: helping with the kids, and he just went and started

1163
01:00:15,840 --> 01:00:21,800
Speaker 1: screwing the babysitter. Loll. Well.

1164
01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:27,360
Speaker 2: Sometimes you just gotta go back to the classics, you know.

1165
01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:33,480
Speaker 2: True some Sometimes sometimes you can say there's a there's

1166
01:00:33,520 --> 01:00:34,440
Speaker 2: some new music.

1167
01:00:34,240 --> 01:00:36,560
Speaker 1: Out, but I think I'm gonna listen to an oldie.

1168
01:00:37,160 --> 01:00:40,480
Speaker 1: Let's do a throwback. It's just a brand new single

1169
01:00:40,560 --> 01:00:44,160
Speaker 1: titled the Babysitter. Oh she's single?

1170
01:00:44,160 --> 01:00:49,960
Speaker 2: All right? Yeah, oh nice, there's your backstory. So now

1171
01:00:50,040 --> 01:00:53,920
Speaker 2: that was just the backstory. We're gonna get to the

1172
01:00:54,000 --> 01:00:56,360
Speaker 2: real story. We're going to get to the real story.

1173
01:00:56,440 --> 01:00:59,920
Speaker 1: So fast forward a few months, and I'm nearly homeless

1174
01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:03,360
Speaker 1: as they get kicked out of my degree because single

1175
01:01:03,440 --> 01:01:07,240
Speaker 1: moms without support systems don't make it. So I get

1176
01:01:07,280 --> 01:01:12,160
Speaker 1: a job down range. I am afraid to know what

1177
01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:15,480
Speaker 1: that means. I send gifts for the holidays. She opens

1178
01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:17,720
Speaker 1: them with the kids. Before I can get on FaceTime,

1179
01:01:18,160 --> 01:01:20,720
Speaker 1: she starts having my kids call her mom. She is

1180
01:01:20,840 --> 01:01:23,760
Speaker 1: still married to her ex, by the way, just playing

1181
01:01:23,920 --> 01:01:27,120
Speaker 1: house with my ex. She posts about me on social

1182
01:01:27,200 --> 01:01:31,480
Speaker 1: media NonStop. Still true. I came back, tried to gain

1183
01:01:31,560 --> 01:01:35,160
Speaker 1: custody after my son got hit by her. Oh yo,

1184
01:01:35,480 --> 01:01:39,800
Speaker 1: okay this okay, yeah, game over, Game over.

1185
01:01:40,760 --> 01:01:43,840
Speaker 2: A don't be laying hands on the children. Second of all,

1186
01:01:44,440 --> 01:01:48,920
Speaker 2: why are you noody around the children? And third of all,

1187
01:01:48,960 --> 01:01:51,320
Speaker 2: where's the father? Where's the dad?

1188
01:01:51,680 --> 01:01:55,120
Speaker 1: Well, so it's very confusing. This is what I think

1189
01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:59,760
Speaker 1: is happening right now, Opie. And the first woman mentioned

1190
01:01:59,840 --> 01:02:02,560
Speaker 1: I think was her wife, originally at the beginning of

1191
01:02:02,600 --> 01:02:06,120
Speaker 1: the story, I think they had kids together and maybe

1192
01:02:06,160 --> 01:02:07,560
Speaker 1: it was like, you know, they mixed the egg with

1193
01:02:07,760 --> 01:02:10,800
Speaker 1: the spicy juice, you know, and had kids that way,

1194
01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:13,320
Speaker 1: I think. And then she was with a new guy,

1195
01:02:13,720 --> 01:02:15,960
Speaker 1: the most recent guy. That's like you know that they

1196
01:02:16,320 --> 01:02:20,120
Speaker 1: split and slept with the babysitter. I think maybe her

1197
01:02:20,600 --> 01:02:23,800
Speaker 1: most recent dude X and her ex wife are now together.

1198
01:02:25,320 --> 01:02:27,600
Speaker 1: We did need the story, but because I am we

1199
01:02:27,640 --> 01:02:29,320
Speaker 1: didn't need the whiteboard because I'm totally lost. But that

1200
01:02:29,440 --> 01:02:33,400
Speaker 1: is about as far as I can understand the story.

1201
01:02:33,560 --> 01:02:38,680
Speaker 2: So this is about the babysitter. No, the smackage was

1202
01:02:38,760 --> 01:02:42,920
Speaker 2: not the babysitter that just playing house with my ex. No,

1203
01:02:43,080 --> 01:02:47,880
Speaker 2: I think this was her original wife because just playing

1204
01:02:47,920 --> 01:02:51,160
Speaker 2: house with my ex. She still she still posted about

1205
01:02:51,200 --> 01:02:52,320
Speaker 2: me on social media non stop.

1206
01:02:52,400 --> 01:02:52,840
Speaker 1: Still true.

1207
01:02:53,040 --> 01:02:55,600
Speaker 2: I came back, tried to get custody after my son.

1208
01:02:57,160 --> 01:03:02,520
Speaker 2: So her ex was the girl. Not wait, no, there

1209
01:03:02,600 --> 01:03:02,960
Speaker 2: was done.

1210
01:03:03,120 --> 01:03:06,600
Speaker 1: There was the wife suit, John, You're melting my brain, suit, John,

1211
01:03:06,840 --> 01:03:11,520
Speaker 1: this is my understanding. We need a white white pard Actually, yeah,

1212
01:03:11,560 --> 01:03:17,280
Speaker 1: can we grab that? What can other things get on there?

1213
01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:17,960
Speaker 6: Oh?

1214
01:03:18,000 --> 01:03:20,920
Speaker 1: We can erase all that we can. Yeah. So if

1215
01:03:20,960 --> 01:03:25,160
Speaker 1: we can erase what's labeled as Sophia's finished thoughts, Yeah,

1216
01:03:25,200 --> 01:03:27,560
Speaker 1: we can raise everything there. You can keep Sophia to

1217
01:03:27,600 --> 01:03:28,200
Speaker 1: finish thoughts.

1218
01:03:28,440 --> 01:03:33,520
Speaker 2: Wherever Sophia is, She's just gonna go brain brainless right now.

1219
01:03:33,720 --> 01:03:36,320
Speaker 1: Yeah for everything, you know, we need a little we

1220
01:03:36,360 --> 01:03:38,520
Speaker 1: need to Yeah we got any spray. We probably don't

1221
01:03:39,000 --> 01:03:42,920
Speaker 1: we have spray, so we just need hand sanitizer. But yeah, basically, uh,

1222
01:03:44,000 --> 01:03:48,439
Speaker 1: I think in the beginning she okay, calcif uh calcifear says,

1223
01:03:48,920 --> 01:03:53,480
Speaker 1: ex husband with best friend that paid for divorce. Okay,

1224
01:03:54,000 --> 01:03:56,280
Speaker 1: I see, there we go, so that makes a lot

1225
01:03:56,320 --> 01:03:59,200
Speaker 1: of sense. So there was the husband and then the

1226
01:03:59,600 --> 01:04:01,080
Speaker 1: girl that was like the best friend that was like,

1227
01:04:01,120 --> 01:04:02,920
Speaker 1: oh hey, I'll pay for your divorce. She ends up

1228
01:04:02,920 --> 01:04:06,080
Speaker 1: getting with him. Okay, yeah. Angelina Connolly says her husband

1229
01:04:06,120 --> 01:04:09,919
Speaker 1: and her best friend slash babysitter are together. I see,

1230
01:04:10,080 --> 01:04:13,760
Speaker 1: I see icy it was her her best friend's hitting

1231
01:04:13,840 --> 01:04:19,480
Speaker 1: her kid. Oh no, no, no, no, literally like the

1232
01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:24,760
Speaker 1: levels of jail and I am doing unspeakable things to you.

1233
01:04:25,320 --> 01:04:31,000
Speaker 1: It's jail. I go to jail. Bus. We will continue.

1234
01:04:31,080 --> 01:04:33,919
Speaker 1: I can't erase this. Yeah, it's okay, Well, we'll watch forward.

1235
01:04:34,200 --> 01:04:38,160
Speaker 1: So the state and county he is in is ft.

1236
01:04:38,480 --> 01:04:42,880
Speaker 1: So I waste fifty thousand dollars trying to get custody,

1237
01:04:43,200 --> 01:04:46,360
Speaker 1: but because my job is in another state, I fail.

1238
01:04:46,760 --> 01:04:50,160
Speaker 1: Are you kidding? Gotta love when those systems work exactly

1239
01:04:50,200 --> 01:04:54,000
Speaker 1: as intended. Oh that is heartbreak beautiful. I will work

1240
01:04:54,040 --> 01:04:58,640
Speaker 1: on myself and start bodybuilding. Okay. Three weeks after announcing

1241
01:04:58,680 --> 01:05:02,840
Speaker 1: my competition date, she announces hers, What the f whatever,

1242
01:05:03,440 --> 01:05:05,840
Speaker 1: this is my thing. I'm putting my anger into I

1243
01:05:05,920 --> 01:05:09,160
Speaker 1: do professional photos. Three weeks later she does them everything.

1244
01:05:09,280 --> 01:05:11,880
Speaker 1: I realize I hate being so far from my kids.

1245
01:05:12,120 --> 01:05:15,439
Speaker 1: So I go back down range to network myself into

1246
01:05:15,520 --> 01:05:17,400
Speaker 1: a job there in state. I wish I knew what

1247
01:05:17,480 --> 01:05:17,760
Speaker 1: that meant.

1248
01:05:17,920 --> 01:05:22,480
Speaker 2: Downrange, literally there are max one thousand positions in my

1249
01:05:22,840 --> 01:05:24,800
Speaker 2: entire state for my job.

1250
01:05:26,280 --> 01:05:28,760
Speaker 1: Seems doable, I mean what, yeah, be good at your job.

1251
01:05:29,800 --> 01:05:32,760
Speaker 1: So fast forward to twenty nineteen. I finally get a

1252
01:05:32,840 --> 01:05:36,120
Speaker 1: job offer two hours away from them. Great. Anything is

1253
01:05:36,160 --> 01:05:38,479
Speaker 1: better than nothing. I need to be in the same

1254
01:05:38,560 --> 01:05:44,080
Speaker 1: state to fight for custody. Finally, my comeback story. Years

1255
01:05:44,200 --> 01:05:46,840
Speaker 1: of sacrifice are going to pay off.

1256
01:05:46,960 --> 01:05:52,200
Speaker 2: Pause because teacher Yo had a very important detail. Yes,

1257
01:05:52,520 --> 01:05:55,080
Speaker 2: tejero so steel dr the woman that babies at the

1258
01:05:55,160 --> 01:05:58,800
Speaker 2: kids here. Oh sorry, I see her became the best

1259
01:05:59,320 --> 01:06:02,520
Speaker 2: bestie pay for the divorce. They got wasted, and Bessie

1260
01:06:02,640 --> 01:06:03,560
Speaker 2: came on to her.

1261
01:06:03,760 --> 01:06:04,560
Speaker 1: I'll get it done right.

1262
01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:06,640
Speaker 2: The best he came on to her and then got

1263
01:06:06,760 --> 01:06:09,840
Speaker 2: kicked out and said, hmmm, I'm not good enough for you.

1264
01:06:10,000 --> 01:06:12,400
Speaker 1: I guess I'll be good enough for your ex. Yspin

1265
01:06:12,600 --> 01:06:15,600
Speaker 1: found her naked and ex husband's kitchen. Then next morning,

1266
01:06:15,760 --> 01:06:20,800
Speaker 1: so best friends Lash babysitter is an absolute beyond psychopath.

1267
01:06:21,600 --> 01:06:26,080
Speaker 2: She's clearly fixated upon op in an incredibly unhealthy way.

1268
01:06:26,240 --> 01:06:33,240
Speaker 1: The most insane way humanly imaginable. Huh so twenty nineteen,

1269
01:06:33,360 --> 01:06:36,720
Speaker 1: I'm back and start the legal process. She dyed her

1270
01:06:36,760 --> 01:06:40,880
Speaker 1: hair blonde after I did great the pandemic hits. I'm

1271
01:06:40,920 --> 01:06:43,840
Speaker 1: happily dating someone. At this point, I become a yoga

1272
01:06:43,920 --> 01:06:46,760
Speaker 1: teacher because all of my veteran friends are not surviving.

1273
01:06:47,240 --> 01:06:49,480
Speaker 1: I had been doing yoga for ten years since my

1274
01:06:49,840 --> 01:06:53,520
Speaker 1: first deployment to Afghanistan. At this point, she announces that

1275
01:06:53,800 --> 01:06:58,800
Speaker 1: she is guess what can you guess? I can't. I

1276
01:06:58,920 --> 01:07:00,439
Speaker 1: couldn't possibly guess.

1277
01:07:00,720 --> 01:07:05,360
Speaker 2: She is also becoming a yoga teacher. She's so obsessed

1278
01:07:05,440 --> 01:07:09,280
Speaker 2: with this girl that she's trying to become her. Honestly, honestly,

1279
01:07:09,360 --> 01:07:11,760
Speaker 2: you know what we should do. Start faking, Like.

1280
01:07:13,360 --> 01:07:16,120
Speaker 1: You start doing like like daredevil stunts and like recording

1281
01:07:16,160 --> 01:07:18,280
Speaker 1: it for like to put posts on Instagram. But you

1282
01:07:18,520 --> 01:07:20,439
Speaker 1: you fake it, yeah, but it looks like it's real.

1283
01:07:20,680 --> 01:07:23,080
Speaker 1: So she has to like start doing these like you

1284
01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:25,720
Speaker 1: sleep with Tarantos for twenty four hours, you become mister

1285
01:07:25,760 --> 01:07:28,440
Speaker 1: Beast basically, and you just do these crazy challenges, but

1286
01:07:28,520 --> 01:07:30,680
Speaker 1: you're faking it, and it forces her to like have

1287
01:07:30,840 --> 01:07:32,520
Speaker 1: to go through all that until she quits. Yeah, you're

1288
01:07:32,560 --> 01:07:35,600
Speaker 1: just doing fear factor, but like just making AI fear factor.

1289
01:07:35,840 --> 01:07:42,200
Speaker 1: Let's go So all right, whatever whatever, Haley, go at yourself. Yeah.

1290
01:07:42,640 --> 01:07:45,280
Speaker 1: Next year twenty twenty one, Yeah, not her ex husband.

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Speaker 1: She tried to go to school to get the same

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Speaker 1: degree I was never going to have. She became a

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Speaker 1: veteran ambassador for the same charities I had been working

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Speaker 1: with Since twenty twenty.

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Speaker 2: She got pregnant and announced on Facebook that I was too.

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Speaker 2: Who That's not how that works, Ben. You can't announce

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01:08:04,680 --> 01:08:06,280
Speaker 2: it the people's pregnancies bebe.

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Speaker 1: I definitely was not. In twenty twenty two, she gained

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Speaker 1: twenty thousand followers on TikTok talking about her husband's toxic X.

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01:08:15,840 --> 01:08:21,840
Speaker 1: That's me. No, wow, she turned you into a TikTok

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01:08:22,400 --> 01:08:25,559
Speaker 1: tea story. This is crazy. Oh my god. I won't

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01:08:25,600 --> 01:08:29,000
Speaker 1: be her friend at all. So I'm toxic haha. In

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01:08:29,080 --> 01:08:31,880
Speaker 1: twenty twenty three, my friend and her tried to take

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01:08:31,960 --> 01:08:34,679
Speaker 1: the same vacation my husband and I took in twenty

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01:08:34,760 --> 01:08:39,000
Speaker 1: twenty two through these same exact points during spring break.

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01:08:39,560 --> 01:08:41,400
Speaker 1: She can't just copy the video, she has to copy

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01:08:41,439 --> 01:08:45,800
Speaker 1: the script too. Then she spent early twenty twenty three

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01:08:45,960 --> 01:08:48,519
Speaker 1: looking for a house that was similar to my and

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01:08:48,640 --> 01:08:52,439
Speaker 1: my husband's house. We own a eighty seven hundred square

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01:08:52,479 --> 01:08:53,880
Speaker 1: foot mansion with two acres on it.

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01:08:54,080 --> 01:08:57,160
Speaker 4: All right, flex, all right, flex, That wasn't important.

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01:08:57,439 --> 01:09:02,240
Speaker 1: Jeez, pow pow flex flex. Could I baby sit your kids?

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01:09:02,320 --> 01:09:02,400
Speaker 2: Now?

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01:09:03,360 --> 01:09:08,360
Speaker 1: Ki on kidding, kidding, kidding, kidding, behave. It's the suit.

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01:09:08,439 --> 01:09:10,439
Speaker 2: I'm like John, I'm like a bad it's because you're

1316
01:09:10,479 --> 01:09:13,000
Speaker 2: guys not wearing ties. You guys gotta wear ties because

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01:09:13,000 --> 01:09:14,920
Speaker 2: we're bad boys.

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01:09:15,080 --> 01:09:21,120
Speaker 1: No ties, no ties. Okay. I started so I started

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01:09:21,200 --> 01:09:23,880
Speaker 1: running a TikTok, here we go, and she short and

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01:09:24,160 --> 01:09:26,800
Speaker 1: and told us shortly after that she is getting a

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01:09:27,040 --> 01:09:31,080
Speaker 1: full hip replacement like mine, but worse. I had hip surgery,

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01:09:31,120 --> 01:09:34,560
Speaker 1: which is why I got out of the military. Is

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01:09:34,640 --> 01:09:38,880
Speaker 1: she getting a hip replacement just to copy her? I

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01:09:38,920 --> 01:09:45,160
Speaker 1: wouldn't put it, No way, dude, Oh my god? Crazy? Right? Well, right,

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01:09:45,920 --> 01:09:48,439
Speaker 1: fast forward to this year, and well, guess who is

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01:09:48,520 --> 01:09:53,280
Speaker 1: running half marathons just like me? Yep old hailor hail good,

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01:09:53,360 --> 01:09:56,200
Speaker 1: old Hailey. Now, I had a video over this weekend

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01:09:56,280 --> 01:09:58,400
Speaker 1: that she randomly liked, so I went to block her

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01:09:58,439 --> 01:10:02,040
Speaker 1: on TikTok. When looking at her page, quickly guess who

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01:10:02,400 --> 01:10:05,479
Speaker 1: is going back to school to finish the degree that

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01:10:05,640 --> 01:10:10,519
Speaker 1: I wanted. I couldn't possibly guess who. I have literally

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01:10:10,640 --> 01:10:13,720
Speaker 1: no idea, no idea. Could it be her? Could it be? Could?

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01:10:13,840 --> 01:10:16,160
Speaker 1: Is it possible? I guess. I just don't know how

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01:10:16,200 --> 01:10:18,559
Speaker 1: to deal with it. No matter what hobby I pick,

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01:10:18,680 --> 01:10:22,320
Speaker 1: she copies it. Literally. It's exhausting. My kids live with

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01:10:22,439 --> 01:10:26,360
Speaker 1: her and she talks crap about me all the time. Apparently,

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01:10:26,600 --> 01:10:28,960
Speaker 1: So I'm guessing she's still with her ex husband.

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01:10:29,120 --> 01:10:31,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, well, you can't leave the ex husband

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01:10:31,800 --> 01:10:33,439
Speaker 2: if you want to try to be a clone of

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01:10:33,560 --> 01:10:36,960
Speaker 2: op in your sick twisted mind.

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01:10:37,080 --> 01:10:39,840
Speaker 1: This is true in her six twisted mind, But then

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01:10:40,240 --> 01:10:43,439
Speaker 1: is also stocking my social media. They wanted me to

1343
01:10:43,520 --> 01:10:46,360
Speaker 1: get a job at McDonald's or Walmart and just fail.

1344
01:10:47,120 --> 01:10:51,479
Speaker 1: I sacrificed and I'm winning. I have an amazing career.

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01:10:51,640 --> 01:10:54,840
Speaker 1: My husband is the best man I've ever met. He

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01:10:55,200 --> 01:10:58,679
Speaker 1: won't f the babysitter a week after we divorce. That's true. Wow,

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01:11:00,080 --> 01:11:04,040
Speaker 1: we succeeded together. We goal set. He makes me laugh,

1348
01:11:04,360 --> 01:11:08,439
Speaker 1: never yells at me, always helps. Oh, and I am pregnant.

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Speaker 7: Yay.

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01:11:10,040 --> 01:11:13,160
Speaker 2: See that's how it works there we go announce it

1351
01:11:13,200 --> 01:11:14,080
Speaker 2: when you're pregnant.

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01:11:14,439 --> 01:11:15,519
Speaker 1: No, but don't don't.

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01:11:15,520 --> 01:11:17,519
Speaker 4: Don't worry, guys, Hayley's going to do the same thing.

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01:11:17,880 --> 01:11:21,000
Speaker 1: She's right behind you again, She's right behind you. She's

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01:11:21,080 --> 01:11:25,840
Speaker 1: right behind you. Oh, the kids find out next weekend.

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01:11:25,880 --> 01:11:28,720
Speaker 1: And I'm super nervous knowing how things are going. By

1357
01:11:28,760 --> 01:11:31,479
Speaker 1: the way, you never have to be nervous, because you

1358
01:11:31,560 --> 01:11:33,439
Speaker 1: ever get overwhelmed. If it's ever too much, all you

1359
01:11:33,520 --> 01:11:36,320
Speaker 1: need to do is lightly gently like a feather eye glass,

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01:11:36,760 --> 01:11:38,479
Speaker 1: tap her for our profile and join our lives. Every

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01:11:38,479 --> 01:11:40,479
Speaker 1: week day with three v MPSD. Just give it a

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01:11:40,560 --> 01:11:42,760
Speaker 1: tap and if when you tap it it doesn't put

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01:11:42,800 --> 01:11:44,639
Speaker 1: you in the live, tap it again. Tap it again,

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01:11:45,000 --> 01:11:46,200
Speaker 1: just tap it in. Tap it again.

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01:11:46,280 --> 01:11:48,439
Speaker 2: Sometimes if you if you're on mobile, if you tap it,

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01:11:48,520 --> 01:11:50,000
Speaker 2: it'll take you to our profile and then you have

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01:11:50,080 --> 01:11:50,960
Speaker 2: to tap it one more time.

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01:11:51,120 --> 01:11:54,000
Speaker 1: You guys really like tapping it. But as much as

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01:11:54,000 --> 01:11:55,800
Speaker 1: you guys love tapping it, I need you guys to

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01:11:55,880 --> 01:12:00,519
Speaker 1: love this banter discussion that we're going to enter before

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01:12:01,120 --> 01:12:03,320
Speaker 1: the end of the story. We've been bantering a lot.

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01:12:03,479 --> 01:12:06,200
Speaker 2: Obviously, we have a lot of bad. Even would be

1373
01:12:06,800 --> 01:12:10,040
Speaker 2: upset with us right now. If he was here, Riley

1374
01:12:10,080 --> 01:12:13,040
Speaker 2: would be Oh, he'd be shaken, he'd have the paddle.

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01:12:13,280 --> 01:12:15,240
Speaker 4: It's funny because we did have good We'll talk about

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01:12:15,240 --> 01:12:15,439
Speaker 4: that later.

1377
01:12:15,520 --> 01:12:18,519
Speaker 1: Let's finish this, Yeah, we later.

1378
01:12:19,280 --> 01:12:24,920
Speaker 2: So I think you need to take steps to protect

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01:12:24,960 --> 01:12:27,599
Speaker 2: yourself against this woman when she inevitably has some kind

1380
01:12:27,640 --> 01:12:31,519
Speaker 2: of psychotic break in attempts to like, you know, unlive

1381
01:12:31,640 --> 01:12:33,360
Speaker 2: you and like take your skin.

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01:12:34,000 --> 01:12:37,360
Speaker 1: I like, I wonder if she's she she said she

1383
01:12:37,520 --> 01:12:39,560
Speaker 1: like fought for custody and loss, which is crazy. But

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01:12:39,640 --> 01:12:43,800
Speaker 1: I wonder if what about restraining orders, what about I

1385
01:12:43,800 --> 01:12:46,400
Speaker 1: don't know, invisions of privacy or like there's there's probably

1386
01:12:46,520 --> 01:12:50,040
Speaker 1: like a lot of stuff that that she could hit

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01:12:50,080 --> 01:12:55,960
Speaker 1: her with legally, just to hopefully make her like at

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01:12:56,080 --> 01:12:59,439
Speaker 1: least if not stop her cause her pause. I wonder

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01:12:59,479 --> 01:13:00,800
Speaker 1: if that would up.

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01:13:01,080 --> 01:13:04,439
Speaker 2: You being able to see your kids though, that might

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01:13:04,680 --> 01:13:07,960
Speaker 2: that might that might complicate that because if you have

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01:13:08,000 --> 01:13:11,040
Speaker 2: a restraining order against her, then it's like there might

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01:13:11,120 --> 01:13:14,080
Speaker 2: be some you know, consideration of like, well, it's like

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01:13:14,200 --> 01:13:17,120
Speaker 2: she's with your ex husband and lives with your children, So.

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01:13:17,400 --> 01:13:18,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, why did you get this?

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01:13:18,320 --> 01:13:21,960
Speaker 2: Now? You can't see your own kids when she's at home, right,

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01:13:22,080 --> 01:13:25,880
Speaker 2: So maybe maybe maybe I'm I guess I'm just curious.

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01:13:25,960 --> 01:13:28,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, hard situation to be in. For sure, it

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01:13:28,160 --> 01:13:30,679
Speaker 1: is very hard a situation. And I'm like, she seems

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01:13:31,000 --> 01:13:34,240
Speaker 1: so crazy and has crossed so many lines. There has

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01:13:34,320 --> 01:13:37,200
Speaker 1: to be something I would imagine.

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01:13:38,160 --> 01:13:42,519
Speaker 4: I saw Sofia Sophia's comment, Sofia Cologne, not Sofia here. Yeah,

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01:13:43,520 --> 01:13:45,880
Speaker 4: restraining order, Like I think a couple other people said

1404
01:13:45,880 --> 01:13:46,439
Speaker 4: restraining order.

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01:13:46,520 --> 01:13:48,760
Speaker 2: But at this point this is just well I said

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01:13:48,760 --> 01:13:50,599
Speaker 2: that it's but if you get a restraining order against

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01:13:50,640 --> 01:13:53,400
Speaker 2: this woman, who lives with your kids. I don't you

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01:13:53,520 --> 01:13:56,400
Speaker 2: can't break the restraining you can't see your house, which

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01:13:56,400 --> 01:13:57,799
Speaker 2: I don't think she's even doing that anyway.

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01:13:57,920 --> 01:14:00,519
Speaker 1: Can you do that with like but custody? I think

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01:14:00,640 --> 01:14:03,320
Speaker 1: I think she should at least look into it, because

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01:14:03,360 --> 01:14:03,799
Speaker 1: I think.

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01:14:05,840 --> 01:14:07,600
Speaker 2: This might be one of those situations where if you

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01:14:07,760 --> 01:14:10,639
Speaker 2: do get the restraining order, you're actually gonna just push

1415
01:14:10,720 --> 01:14:13,560
Speaker 2: this person to be even more intense.

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01:14:14,040 --> 01:14:16,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're like copycat weirdness.

1417
01:14:17,439 --> 01:14:21,839
Speaker 2: Like I'm just saying, be aware that this person clearly

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01:14:22,560 --> 01:14:30,000
Speaker 2: has a unusual fixation on you, and like keep hey,

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01:14:30,640 --> 01:14:33,759
Speaker 2: keep be aware of your surroundings at all times, very aware,

1420
01:14:33,840 --> 01:14:36,800
Speaker 2: because like this is somebody who might like you know,

1421
01:14:37,320 --> 01:14:39,400
Speaker 2: pull like a Stephen King's misery on you, or like

1422
01:14:39,840 --> 01:14:42,200
Speaker 2: you know, she's like locking you in a you know,

1423
01:14:42,479 --> 01:14:45,280
Speaker 2: in the in the attic and nobody knows that you're

1424
01:14:45,280 --> 01:14:48,160
Speaker 2: there because she'll be like it's oh, it's you, don't you,

1425
01:14:48,560 --> 01:14:51,439
Speaker 2: it's don't worry, I'm you. You don't even need to

1426
01:14:51,479 --> 01:14:54,439
Speaker 2: be out here because I'm you. You can stay in

1427
01:14:54,479 --> 01:14:57,160
Speaker 2: the attic forever and I'm gonna live your life for you.

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01:14:58,000 --> 01:15:01,559
Speaker 1: Could you scroll up real quick? Sloths? Uh sloths? Something comment. Uh,

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01:15:02,000 --> 01:15:04,519
Speaker 1: it was a little bit of go keep scrolling it.

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01:15:04,840 --> 01:15:08,880
Speaker 1: Oh yep, uh nope, keep going. It wasn't that one.

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01:15:09,160 --> 01:15:12,320
Speaker 1: So Slatskin run. Ah, yes, yes, Sloskin run. There needs

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01:15:12,360 --> 01:15:15,479
Speaker 1: to be very specific situations that justify a protective order.

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01:15:16,120 --> 01:15:19,240
Speaker 4: Uh what, I just laughing as a Riley just donated.

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01:15:19,360 --> 01:15:22,040
Speaker 4: Oh my god, Riley, Yeah.

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01:15:21,920 --> 01:15:23,880
Speaker 1: I wonder what that is. Yeah, I feel like there's

1436
01:15:23,920 --> 01:15:26,680
Speaker 1: something legally more that could potentially be done. But I

1437
01:15:26,720 --> 01:15:28,760
Speaker 1: don't know. Maybe she's already looked up. Maybe it's it

1438
01:15:28,800 --> 01:15:30,560
Speaker 1: seems like she's having a lot of legal troubles. But

1439
01:15:31,160 --> 01:15:34,439
Speaker 1: I would try to do everything possible that doesn't f

1440
01:15:34,560 --> 01:15:34,960
Speaker 1: up everything.

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01:15:35,000 --> 01:15:36,680
Speaker 4: I was gonna say, do something like really really out

1442
01:15:36,720 --> 01:15:39,640
Speaker 4: of pocket, not like crazy, but like skydiving. We're like

1443
01:15:40,080 --> 01:15:42,600
Speaker 4: some new hobby that like, you know, she won't do.

1444
01:15:43,360 --> 01:15:46,160
Speaker 4: I don't know, But then conte, you will see what

1445
01:15:46,320 --> 01:15:48,639
Speaker 4: what like can we like where does the line get drawn?

1446
01:15:49,080 --> 01:15:52,240
Speaker 2: You can document? Make like you start documenting all this

1447
01:15:52,840 --> 01:15:54,840
Speaker 2: like like a timeline. Yeah, like, oh, I'm trying to

1448
01:15:54,960 --> 01:15:57,439
Speaker 2: try to try to finesse her into doing something that

1449
01:15:57,680 --> 01:16:00,320
Speaker 2: makes her unable to still live with your children and

1450
01:16:01,000 --> 01:16:04,320
Speaker 2: slash be married. I don't know, make her, make her

1451
01:16:04,439 --> 01:16:07,599
Speaker 2: rob a bank? Yeah, for God's sake, did make her

1452
01:16:07,640 --> 01:16:08,519
Speaker 2: do something wrong?

1453
01:16:08,760 --> 01:16:11,240
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, I like that. Let's let's make a rubber bank.

1454
01:16:11,320 --> 01:16:13,040
Speaker 1: Let's just throw out that, make a rubber bank. But

1455
01:16:13,439 --> 01:16:16,200
Speaker 1: let's finish out the story here. So thanks for listening.

1456
01:16:16,320 --> 01:16:20,719
Speaker 1: I'd love to hear your perspective. Love the show, yaye, bye,

1457
01:16:21,720 --> 01:16:25,160
Speaker 1: thank you bye for reference. My ex is thirty five mail,

1458
01:16:25,560 --> 01:16:28,240
Speaker 1: not that you need it. We were married from eighteen

1459
01:16:28,400 --> 01:16:31,920
Speaker 1: until I was twenty six slash twenty seven. Blocking doesn't

1460
01:16:31,960 --> 01:16:34,760
Speaker 1: help because then she just makes fake accounts. She also

1461
01:16:34,880 --> 01:16:39,479
Speaker 1: tells my kids that I'm copying her. Most annoying thing ever, Yeah,

1462
01:16:39,520 --> 01:16:43,519
Speaker 1: I mean again, do you not have your own direct

1463
01:16:43,560 --> 01:16:46,880
Speaker 1: line of communication with the kids? I mean, do they

1464
01:16:46,920 --> 01:16:49,040
Speaker 1: have She doesn't have full she doesn't have full custody.

1465
01:16:49,040 --> 01:16:50,640
Speaker 1: They're like, I don't want to say like four and

1466
01:16:50,720 --> 01:16:51,120
Speaker 1: six there.

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01:16:51,160 --> 01:16:54,560
Speaker 4: It just sounds so childish and like really gross, like

1468
01:16:54,840 --> 01:16:57,400
Speaker 4: beyond childish, like like it just sounds really gross serious

1469
01:16:57,520 --> 01:16:59,800
Speaker 4: mental Yeah, I would get I don't know, like I

1470
01:16:59,920 --> 01:17:03,559
Speaker 4: was start laughing like out of just like spite. I'm like, dude,

1471
01:17:03,600 --> 01:17:06,679
Speaker 4: you're weird your ex husband.

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01:17:07,080 --> 01:17:09,879
Speaker 2: It sounds like your ex husband is facilitating an environment

1473
01:17:09,960 --> 01:17:12,080
Speaker 2: that could be dangerous to your kids because this woman

1474
01:17:12,240 --> 01:17:13,200
Speaker 2: is like unstable.

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01:17:13,200 --> 01:17:14,639
Speaker 1: I don't know if there's a way you can prove

1476
01:17:14,720 --> 01:17:18,360
Speaker 1: that legally that she could be of physical danger to

1477
01:17:18,439 --> 01:17:22,280
Speaker 1: your children. I mean, I have to imagine, yeah, if

1478
01:17:22,320 --> 01:17:25,680
Speaker 1: she can prove what happened. But but it seems like

1479
01:17:25,760 --> 01:17:27,800
Speaker 1: maybe there's some legal stuff that I.

1480
01:17:27,840 --> 01:17:30,080
Speaker 2: Think the only recourse is going to be maybe through

1481
01:17:31,160 --> 01:17:34,680
Speaker 2: the ex husband and going that way. Just try to

1482
01:17:34,680 --> 01:17:36,280
Speaker 2: get your kids out of there if you can, I guess,

1483
01:17:36,680 --> 01:17:38,800
Speaker 2: get that job, like try to get the job in

1484
01:17:38,840 --> 01:17:42,439
Speaker 2: the stage, keep keep on that train, and just get

1485
01:17:42,479 --> 01:17:45,080
Speaker 2: the kids out of there. I think that should be

1486
01:17:45,120 --> 01:17:46,840
Speaker 2: your number one priority in terms of like how to

1487
01:17:46,880 --> 01:17:49,400
Speaker 2: deal with this woman. Just watch her own back and

1488
01:17:49,720 --> 01:17:54,519
Speaker 2: know that she's just unhinged, and I don't think there's

1489
01:17:54,560 --> 01:17:56,479
Speaker 2: anything that you can really do stop her. I agreed,

1490
01:17:56,920 --> 01:18:00,519
Speaker 2: other than just ignore her and get your kids out

1491
01:18:00,520 --> 01:18:00,720
Speaker 2: of there.

1492
01:18:01,600 --> 01:18:07,919
Speaker 1: Agreed. Agreed, What the heck is that? TikTok? Yeah, TikTok, Hey, TikTok.

1493
01:18:08,120 --> 01:18:10,040
Speaker 1: What did you just do to us? But that's the

1494
01:18:10,280 --> 01:18:12,760
Speaker 1: that story, and that's the end of the episode. That's

1495
01:18:12,760 --> 01:18:15,080
Speaker 1: the end of the episode. I'll get some donuts.

1496
01:18:16,720 --> 01:18:19,760
Speaker 2: I'll read your nations. Uh, thank you a miller time one.

1497
01:18:20,000 --> 01:18:23,679
Speaker 2: Thanks for the eight dollars and eight cents thirty more minutes.

1498
01:18:24,439 --> 01:18:27,200
Speaker 4: That's right, use the little Sam's room.

1499
01:18:28,360 --> 01:18:30,200
Speaker 1: Keon's going to use the little tinkle room.

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01:18:30,840 --> 01:18:35,920
Speaker 2: Uh, maghira, thank you for the ten dollars more time correct,

1501
01:18:36,680 --> 01:18:37,400
Speaker 2: Thank you mcgheera.

1502
01:18:38,200 --> 01:18:42,839
Speaker 1: Donation from BBB for five bucks. Thanks BBB.

1503
01:18:43,800 --> 01:18:48,519
Speaker 2: Thanks, attempt was failed though, I mean, guys, for everybody

1504
01:18:48,520 --> 01:18:51,880
Speaker 2: who doesn't know, BBB is the friend of one of

1505
01:18:51,920 --> 01:18:55,240
Speaker 2: our donators who told me to try to finagle the

1506
01:18:55,280 --> 01:18:59,800
Speaker 2: phrase big Black Benson into the stream, which I assume

1507
01:18:59,880 --> 01:19:01,640
Speaker 2: is that's what BBB stands for.

1508
01:19:01,840 --> 01:19:04,439
Speaker 1: That's his name or nickname, Moniker, whatever you want to

1509
01:19:04,479 --> 01:19:04,680
Speaker 1: call it.

1510
01:19:04,760 --> 01:19:07,400
Speaker 7: Something Big Black Benson. Tell us how you got that name?

1511
01:19:07,479 --> 01:19:10,720
Speaker 7: Please please please share. I have a couple theories, but

1512
01:19:10,920 --> 01:19:14,880
Speaker 7: tell us how you got it. Thanks Jen Thompson for.

1513
01:19:14,880 --> 01:19:18,000
Speaker 1: The ten dollars. Hey, slick suit gang. You guys are

1514
01:19:18,040 --> 01:19:21,000
Speaker 1: helping me cope with missing my mom. Thursday will be

1515
01:19:21,040 --> 01:19:23,720
Speaker 1: two years and I found her. Uh and it's been

1516
01:19:23,840 --> 01:19:27,240
Speaker 1: a roller coaster of emotions. So thanks for the distraction.

1517
01:19:27,640 --> 01:19:29,160
Speaker 1: Love the Okay gang, We.

1518
01:19:29,240 --> 01:19:31,640
Speaker 2: Love you too. Jen Thompson. Art's in the chat for

1519
01:19:31,760 --> 01:19:35,720
Speaker 2: Jen Thompson from everybody. Hearts in the child everybody. I

1520
01:19:35,760 --> 01:19:38,080
Speaker 2: don't want to see heart from everybody in the chat

1521
01:19:38,120 --> 01:19:38,960
Speaker 2: for Jen Thompson.

1522
01:19:40,200 --> 01:19:41,479
Speaker 1: We love you, Jen, We do.

1523
01:19:42,200 --> 01:19:45,599
Speaker 2: And I can't scroll anymore because I'm a little baby

1524
01:19:45,720 --> 01:19:47,040
Speaker 2: and I don't know how to do it. I'm just

1525
01:19:47,080 --> 01:19:49,120
Speaker 2: as job to scroll.

1526
01:19:49,360 --> 01:19:51,439
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm stuck here in the chair. I'm a

1527
01:19:51,479 --> 01:19:54,160
Speaker 1: little baby in the chair. I can't I can't move.

1528
01:19:56,880 --> 01:20:01,479
Speaker 1: And now's back hangout all right, you can't even see it.

1529
01:20:02,800 --> 01:20:06,840
Speaker 1: Keep going, keep reading. Oh the hats off. Now that's off.

1530
01:20:07,000 --> 01:20:10,599
Speaker 1: Hat's off. Hats off to you, fix Max.

1531
01:20:10,640 --> 01:20:13,240
Speaker 2: Thank you for the fifteen dollars. John, thank you for

1532
01:20:13,360 --> 01:20:15,880
Speaker 2: remembering that I am the lunch lady. I know you

1533
01:20:16,040 --> 01:20:18,160
Speaker 2: have so much going on and it makes me feel special.

1534
01:20:18,479 --> 01:20:20,479
Speaker 2: I think it's the Florida thing for us. That is

1535
01:20:20,560 --> 01:20:22,439
Speaker 2: why I am part of the Orange Army.

1536
01:20:22,680 --> 01:20:29,439
Speaker 1: What's goes. We're a big fan of citre Well. My

1537
01:20:29,560 --> 01:20:34,519
Speaker 1: banner men, my banners ride. I call my banners to arms.

1538
01:20:34,840 --> 01:20:39,400
Speaker 1: We ride the waves of juice or of juice.

1539
01:20:39,600 --> 01:20:43,000
Speaker 2: By the ways, Hey, there was more, there wasn't there

1540
01:20:43,160 --> 01:20:45,599
Speaker 2: was There was one more Oh there's more.

1541
01:20:45,600 --> 01:20:47,800
Speaker 1: There's more. You're right, you are right, man. Oh this

1542
01:20:47,960 --> 01:20:49,800
Speaker 1: wasn't They didn't load. It didn't load. It didn't load.

1543
01:20:50,120 --> 01:20:54,080
Speaker 1: A donation from miss Ree for ten dollars. Thank you,

1544
01:20:54,160 --> 01:20:58,080
Speaker 1: miss Ree or miss Ray? And it is Sam? Is

1545
01:20:58,160 --> 01:20:59,599
Speaker 1: Sam going to be back next week?

1546
01:20:59,680 --> 01:21:00,160
Speaker 2: And on?

1547
01:21:00,320 --> 01:21:01,920
Speaker 1: Are you Filipino? Uh?

1548
01:21:02,520 --> 01:21:06,960
Speaker 4: Why I'm half yes, that's it?

1549
01:21:07,760 --> 01:21:09,160
Speaker 1: Sing sing the song I like.

1550
01:21:13,200 --> 01:21:17,719
Speaker 4: And my poises I showed to Dakota and he loves Ojo.

1551
01:21:18,000 --> 01:21:21,400
Speaker 1: I do love one. I can't do it. I'm not gonna.

1552
01:21:22,240 --> 01:21:24,760
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, let's see John is just confused.

1553
01:21:25,160 --> 01:21:28,120
Speaker 1: Show me. Don't worry, John.

1554
01:21:28,160 --> 01:21:29,639
Speaker 4: I know you love music, so I'll show you oho

1555
01:21:29,680 --> 01:21:30,240
Speaker 4: oho as well.

1556
01:21:31,720 --> 01:21:35,559
Speaker 1: That's acceptable. I accept my hair now. Okay, wait, there's

1557
01:21:35,560 --> 01:21:37,760
Speaker 1: still more. What are you doing? There had to be

1558
01:21:37,880 --> 01:21:40,000
Speaker 1: more this way?

1559
01:21:40,200 --> 01:21:42,280
Speaker 2: Did we get awkward? Oh wait no, never mind, you're wrong.

1560
01:21:42,360 --> 01:21:44,519
Speaker 2: I was I mean, I'm wrong. You're right, I'm wrong.

1561
01:21:44,960 --> 01:21:52,080
Speaker 1: I was wrong. Misery, misery, Yes, we got a bunchy.

1562
01:21:52,200 --> 01:21:56,040
Speaker 1: Thanks for the ten bucks, Riley, more time, Riley.

1563
01:21:55,840 --> 01:22:00,200
Speaker 2: You better just put ten dollars in my pocket. Uh uh,

1564
01:22:00,360 --> 01:22:03,920
Speaker 2: dnay Law, thank you for joining the Knights. Welcome, Welcome

1565
01:22:03,960 --> 01:22:04,400
Speaker 2: to the family.

1566
01:22:04,920 --> 01:22:05,200
Speaker 1: Six.

1567
01:22:05,240 --> 01:22:09,200
Speaker 2: Thank you for the five gifted Okay Storytime memberships. Oh yeah,

1568
01:22:09,400 --> 01:22:13,439
Speaker 2: we love you vix mix and uh is that.

1569
01:22:16,560 --> 01:22:19,920
Speaker 1: Something fell? We've picked it up. M J grow Thanks

1570
01:22:19,960 --> 01:22:23,679
Speaker 1: for the five gifted Storytime memberships. Grow in the family,

1571
01:22:24,040 --> 01:22:25,040
Speaker 1: five more little babies.

1572
01:22:25,439 --> 01:22:28,080
Speaker 4: Dude, everyone everyone like all the filipidos are like, oh no,

1573
01:22:28,479 --> 01:22:29,400
Speaker 4: he's saying judge.

1574
01:22:31,800 --> 01:22:34,160
Speaker 1: Uh MJ Growl. Thanks for the two bucks. Whole Okay

1575
01:22:34,200 --> 01:22:37,920
Speaker 1: team should do a reservoir dogs photo shoot. Yes, I

1576
01:22:38,920 --> 01:22:46,000
Speaker 1: fully supported. I will be mister blue off. Have we

1577
01:22:46,080 --> 01:22:48,360
Speaker 1: all seen reservoir dogs? Why we get quiet? Yeah, but

1578
01:22:48,479 --> 01:22:53,599
Speaker 1: I'm mister Blue. Hey, mister Blue, keep going blah blah

1579
01:22:53,680 --> 01:22:57,880
Speaker 1: blah blah. Welcome to the Knights met message retected. That's

1580
01:22:58,120 --> 01:23:02,400
Speaker 1: that's weird, Alyssa mon you. Thank you for five gifted memberships.

1581
01:23:03,280 --> 01:23:06,000
Speaker 2: We love all the gifted memberships, Growing the Little Baby

1582
01:23:06,080 --> 01:23:11,360
Speaker 2: Family and Julia post it PERSENTI percentI welcome.

1583
01:23:11,120 --> 01:23:13,040
Speaker 1: To the Night's Julia. We said that right? Do we

1584
01:23:13,080 --> 01:23:17,160
Speaker 1: say percent right? Let us know the show and I

1585
01:23:17,280 --> 01:23:21,840
Speaker 1: believe that is. I think we got it. Let's read

1586
01:23:21,880 --> 01:23:23,960
Speaker 1: this next story and I'm I'm gonna go to the

1587
01:23:24,000 --> 01:23:27,479
Speaker 1: Little Keyan's room. But I'm listening the little kans room.

1588
01:23:27,640 --> 01:23:30,000
Speaker 4: Oh boy, are you ready to cut? Let me let

1589
01:23:30,040 --> 01:23:31,120
Speaker 4: me go ahead do this first.

1590
01:23:31,800 --> 01:23:37,200
Speaker 1: I am prepared. I'm ready, Thank you, thank you, kik.

1591
01:23:38,080 --> 01:23:39,240
Speaker 1: It's my greedy friend.

1592
01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:45,160
Speaker 2: Indeed, all right, my greedy friend is ruining our dinners.

1593
01:23:45,479 --> 01:23:48,000
Speaker 2: She's single handedly draining our budget.

1594
01:23:48,439 --> 01:23:50,080
Speaker 4: Why are you reading it like the guy like this

1595
01:23:50,240 --> 01:23:53,400
Speaker 4: is a what like the one guy who got arrested?

1596
01:23:54,120 --> 01:23:54,280
Speaker 5: Uh?

1597
01:23:55,000 --> 01:23:57,680
Speaker 1: This is it? What is my crime? Is it a

1598
01:23:57,760 --> 01:24:04,080
Speaker 1: crime to enjoy a succulent Chinese? This is democracy manifest

1599
01:24:04,960 --> 01:24:07,160
Speaker 1: all right? Yeah, all right, go for it. I should

1600
01:24:07,160 --> 01:24:10,559
Speaker 1: just read the whole story like that. Please don't, okay.

1601
01:24:12,120 --> 01:24:15,360
Speaker 2: Our friend group, all early twenties, would take turns hosting

1602
01:24:15,400 --> 01:24:17,920
Speaker 2: a dinner every Wednesday night to stay close. Some of

1603
01:24:18,040 --> 01:24:20,360
Speaker 2: us had jobs, some of us were in college, and

1604
01:24:20,479 --> 01:24:23,439
Speaker 2: some like me, both worked and were still taking classes,

1605
01:24:23,920 --> 01:24:26,599
Speaker 2: so none of us were rolling in money. The younger

1606
01:24:26,680 --> 01:24:29,160
Speaker 2: sister of my besties started hanging out with us when

1607
01:24:29,240 --> 01:24:33,760
Speaker 2: she turned twenty one. Let's call her Anna, by the way.

1608
01:24:33,880 --> 01:24:37,519
Speaker 2: This comes from user miss Zeno nine on the r

1609
01:24:37,560 --> 01:24:39,080
Speaker 2: slash okay storytime stub reddit.

1610
01:24:39,400 --> 01:24:43,599
Speaker 1: So Anna alone ate the equivalent of the other six

1611
01:24:43,720 --> 01:24:47,400
Speaker 1: people present. This became an issue.

1612
01:24:48,400 --> 01:24:51,360
Speaker 2: We started passing food from one person in front of

1613
01:24:51,439 --> 01:24:55,120
Speaker 2: her around just so everyone would get a plate. I

1614
01:24:55,280 --> 01:24:58,280
Speaker 2: tend to make extra for leftovers on purpose. These are

1615
01:24:58,439 --> 01:25:01,640
Speaker 2: planned lunches and quick meals to avoid wasting money on

1616
01:25:01,800 --> 01:25:04,960
Speaker 2: fast food. Since ways to save money were frequent topics

1617
01:25:05,000 --> 01:25:07,479
Speaker 2: of conversation, the entire group was aware of this, and

1618
01:25:07,600 --> 01:25:11,000
Speaker 2: most of them did the same. Anna would not only

1619
01:25:11,160 --> 01:25:15,080
Speaker 2: clean every serving plate, but go behind me into the

1620
01:25:15,200 --> 01:25:18,840
Speaker 2: kitchen and not leave until every dinner roll speck of

1621
01:25:18,960 --> 01:25:20,880
Speaker 2: meat and sides.

1622
01:25:20,840 --> 01:25:25,519
Speaker 1: Except the salad, of course, the work. Of course the salad. Dude,

1623
01:25:25,720 --> 01:25:30,160
Speaker 1: No salad's so good. I love salad. Oh my god.

1624
01:25:30,439 --> 01:25:32,640
Speaker 4: I found out that today that Riley and Dakota do

1625
01:25:32,760 --> 01:25:33,439
Speaker 4: not like arugulo.

1626
01:25:34,200 --> 01:25:36,360
Speaker 2: I just didn't like the arugula that we had. Oh, John,

1627
01:25:36,400 --> 01:25:41,320
Speaker 2: Hi John, to fill you in, uh OPI has uh

1628
01:25:41,800 --> 01:25:46,120
Speaker 2: Opie's friend's younger sister has just been brought into the

1629
01:25:46,200 --> 01:25:49,519
Speaker 2: fold of dinner parties. And she's eating enough for like

1630
01:25:50,040 --> 01:25:54,800
Speaker 2: the six grown women combined the others. Yes, she's eating all.

1631
01:25:54,760 --> 01:25:58,040
Speaker 1: Of the food. Wow, that's that's a lot. That's a lot,

1632
01:25:58,280 --> 01:26:00,479
Speaker 1: except for the salad. Oh not eating that.

1633
01:26:00,760 --> 01:26:02,120
Speaker 4: Also, before we go back to the story. I have

1634
01:26:02,240 --> 01:26:06,200
Speaker 4: to shout out Hannah with a forty dollars tip. You

1635
01:26:06,240 --> 01:26:08,920
Speaker 4: would realize how boring I was if I messaged you

1636
01:26:09,040 --> 01:26:09,879
Speaker 4: time I donated.

1637
01:26:10,040 --> 01:26:13,840
Speaker 2: Hannah, you're literally the last boring person ever born. We

1638
01:26:13,960 --> 01:26:15,960
Speaker 2: were just we would just continue to give you moments

1639
01:26:16,000 --> 01:26:16,519
Speaker 2: of silence.

1640
01:26:16,760 --> 01:26:17,559
Speaker 1: That's right, it's fine.

1641
01:26:17,600 --> 01:26:19,360
Speaker 2: Every time you donate with nothing, we're just gonna say

1642
01:26:19,400 --> 01:26:22,880
Speaker 2: a moment of silence for Hannah, please, which we won't this.

1643
01:26:23,000 --> 01:26:26,400
Speaker 1: Time because you did said something. I tricked you. Stop it, suit,

1644
01:26:26,479 --> 01:26:28,920
Speaker 1: John souit, John, You're crazy. I'm all right.

1645
01:26:29,160 --> 01:26:32,280
Speaker 4: Oh no, I don't know what you might have to restart.

1646
01:26:32,439 --> 01:26:33,120
Speaker 4: I'm so sorry.

1647
01:26:33,320 --> 01:26:33,760
Speaker 1: What did you do?

1648
01:26:33,920 --> 01:26:38,200
Speaker 2: The recording didn't record. The computer's being weird today, Yeah

1649
01:26:38,280 --> 01:26:41,080
Speaker 2: we are. We're getting too weird behavior out of our technology.

1650
01:26:41,800 --> 01:26:43,360
Speaker 4: You click it, you click it, and you're like, okay,

1651
01:26:43,439 --> 01:26:45,320
Speaker 4: click I clicked it and it didn't record.

1652
01:26:45,640 --> 01:26:49,720
Speaker 1: I don't understand why. Well, Kean, we're gonna throw you

1653
01:26:49,800 --> 01:26:51,800
Speaker 1: off of the roof. Now, I'll add I'll add a

1654
01:26:51,800 --> 01:26:52,400
Speaker 1: couple of minutes for.

1655
01:26:52,439 --> 01:26:54,599
Speaker 2: That, and you'll use your wings to fly, because you see,

1656
01:26:54,600 --> 01:26:58,000
Speaker 2: you're such a sweet little angel. Blah like egal to

1657
01:26:58,200 --> 01:27:01,639
Speaker 2: the tree, go for it from the beginning, from the beginning. Yeah, okay,

1658
01:27:01,680 --> 01:27:02,200
Speaker 2: from the top.

1659
01:27:02,280 --> 01:27:04,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, dude, I'm so John's like he never left John.

1660
01:27:04,880 --> 01:27:09,000
Speaker 1: John's like Keon is just no more suits, guys, no

1661
01:27:09,080 --> 01:27:11,400
Speaker 1: more suits. Suits are good. The suits. The suits are

1662
01:27:11,439 --> 01:27:11,920
Speaker 1: too powerful.

1663
01:27:12,000 --> 01:27:13,720
Speaker 4: The suits are way too powerful for some reason, I

1664
01:27:13,760 --> 01:27:14,000
Speaker 4: don't know.

1665
01:27:14,120 --> 01:27:15,439
Speaker 1: This is weird, dude, keep going.

1666
01:27:15,360 --> 01:27:19,599
Speaker 2: All right, My greedy friend is ruining our dinners. She's

1667
01:27:19,680 --> 01:27:21,719
Speaker 2: single handedly draining our budget.

1668
01:27:21,920 --> 01:27:27,000
Speaker 1: Disgusting. Drain your life from your body, thank you, suit John.

1669
01:27:27,600 --> 01:27:30,200
Speaker 2: Yes, our group, all in our early twenties, would take

1670
01:27:30,280 --> 01:27:32,960
Speaker 2: turns hosting a dinner every Wednesday night to stay close.

1671
01:27:33,360 --> 01:27:35,720
Speaker 2: Some of us had jobs, some in college, and some

1672
01:27:36,000 --> 01:27:38,880
Speaker 2: like me, both worked and were still taking classes, so

1673
01:27:39,040 --> 01:27:42,400
Speaker 2: none of us were rolling in money. The younger sister

1674
01:27:42,600 --> 01:27:45,200
Speaker 2: of my best he started hanging out with us when

1675
01:27:45,280 --> 01:27:49,160
Speaker 2: she turned twenty one. Let's call her Anna. And by

1676
01:27:49,200 --> 01:27:51,479
Speaker 2: the way, this comes from user missus Zeno nine on

1677
01:27:51,560 --> 01:27:55,880
Speaker 2: the r slash Okay storytime subreddit. So Anna alone ate

1678
01:27:55,960 --> 01:27:58,599
Speaker 2: the equivalent of the other six people present.

1679
01:27:58,920 --> 01:28:02,880
Speaker 1: Crazy. This became an issue. Really.

1680
01:28:03,240 --> 01:28:06,400
Speaker 2: We started passing food from one person in front of her,

1681
01:28:06,880 --> 01:28:09,400
Speaker 2: just around, just so everyone would get a plate.

1682
01:28:10,400 --> 01:28:12,799
Speaker 1: I tend to make extra food for leftovers on purpose.

1683
01:28:13,200 --> 01:28:15,920
Speaker 2: These are planned lunches and quick freezer meals to avoid

1684
01:28:16,040 --> 01:28:19,080
Speaker 2: wasting money on fast food. Since ways to save money

1685
01:28:19,120 --> 01:28:22,599
Speaker 2: were frequent topics of conversation, the entire group was aware

1686
01:28:22,640 --> 01:28:26,040
Speaker 2: of this. Most of them did the same. Anna would

1687
01:28:26,080 --> 01:28:29,640
Speaker 2: not only clean every serving plate, but go behind me

1688
01:28:29,760 --> 01:28:32,599
Speaker 2: into the kitchen and not leave until every dinner roll

1689
01:28:33,040 --> 01:28:36,560
Speaker 2: speck of meat and sides except salad.

1690
01:28:37,720 --> 01:28:41,599
Speaker 1: Of course, the salad. No salad for Anna, But then

1691
01:28:41,760 --> 01:28:46,880
Speaker 1: everyone else is super healthy. Yeah, it's just looks looking

1692
01:28:46,960 --> 01:28:49,760
Speaker 1: out for the group, That's what I'm saying. Think about it.

1693
01:28:50,640 --> 01:28:50,760
Speaker 4: Uh.

1694
01:28:51,000 --> 01:28:56,960
Speaker 2: Once she enjoyed the sauce on my once she enjoyed hmm.

1695
01:28:57,760 --> 01:29:01,040
Speaker 2: She enjoyed the sauce on my barbecue meat so much

1696
01:29:01,240 --> 01:29:06,040
Speaker 2: that she not only polished off the six court slow

1697
01:29:06,120 --> 01:29:10,320
Speaker 2: cooker full. There were only four of us that night,

1698
01:29:10,960 --> 01:29:13,679
Speaker 2: but was eating the sauce out of the castle role

1699
01:29:13,760 --> 01:29:16,360
Speaker 2: with a bag of chips she found in my cupboard.

1700
01:29:18,280 --> 01:29:22,840
Speaker 1: Wow, that is way too much dedication to consuming this food.

1701
01:29:22,960 --> 01:29:26,320
Speaker 2: Yes, I mean, hey, when you're dedicated to the game,

1702
01:29:26,400 --> 01:29:28,519
Speaker 2: you play the game you play for keys.

1703
01:29:28,640 --> 01:29:31,640
Speaker 1: Listen, I play I play for keys. She plays for everything.

1704
01:29:34,760 --> 01:29:36,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go back into that voice really quick. At

1705
01:29:37,040 --> 01:29:42,360
Speaker 1: one am and the scene, Oh never mind.

1706
01:29:42,560 --> 01:29:45,760
Speaker 2: At one am, we scraped the remaining sauce and sent

1707
01:29:45,920 --> 01:29:48,599
Speaker 2: her home with a loaf of bread because we were tired.

1708
01:29:49,320 --> 01:29:52,400
Speaker 2: Several of us had to stop doing group dinners because

1709
01:29:52,439 --> 01:29:54,000
Speaker 2: she was over our food budget.

1710
01:29:54,520 --> 01:29:57,240
Speaker 1: Hints did not slow her down.

1711
01:29:58,560 --> 01:30:02,840
Speaker 2: One on one conversation about budgets, health, emotional eating, et cetera.

1712
01:30:03,400 --> 01:30:06,120
Speaker 1: Nothing worked. She would not take the hint.

1713
01:30:07,200 --> 01:30:10,400
Speaker 2: Then she took to dropping in unexpectedly at dinner time.

1714
01:30:11,120 --> 01:30:14,040
Speaker 2: It felt petty, but I would hide foods I knew

1715
01:30:14,120 --> 01:30:16,439
Speaker 2: she really liked in our bedroom closet.

1716
01:30:16,840 --> 01:30:19,920
Speaker 1: Not petty. I mean, you just this, You're looking out

1717
01:30:20,000 --> 01:30:22,600
Speaker 1: for the group. What else can you do?

1718
01:30:23,920 --> 01:30:26,280
Speaker 2: I tried telling her that I only had one hundred

1719
01:30:26,280 --> 01:30:28,960
Speaker 2: and twenty five dollars a month for food, and she

1720
01:30:29,000 --> 01:30:32,600
Speaker 2: would eat that in two or three days. I was

1721
01:30:32,720 --> 01:30:36,519
Speaker 2: back to noodles and oatmeal three days. Oh my god,

1722
01:30:36,840 --> 01:30:39,200
Speaker 2: I was back to noodles and oatmeal three weeks of

1723
01:30:39,280 --> 01:30:41,640
Speaker 2: each month. I'm sorry, but noodles and oatmeal makes that

1724
01:30:41,720 --> 01:30:46,599
Speaker 2: makes me smile. Noodles and oatmeal sounds like like pet names.

1725
01:30:47,120 --> 01:30:48,800
Speaker 1: You know it reminds me of It reminds me of

1726
01:30:49,600 --> 01:30:57,000
Speaker 1: over the garden wall and is it? Oh? Andlasses? I

1727
01:30:57,120 --> 01:31:01,720
Speaker 1: got noodles and my oat meal When I eat it, Oh,

1728
01:31:01,960 --> 01:31:05,160
Speaker 1: it makes it a story. Okay, fine, look at John.

1729
01:31:05,240 --> 01:31:07,840
Speaker 1: He's so sad that he's not included in the inside jokes.

1730
01:31:08,840 --> 01:31:11,080
Speaker 1: You should know things he doesn't know, things she doesn't know.

1731
01:31:11,520 --> 01:31:17,080
Speaker 1: They try knowing things, John, I will jo and molasses.

1732
01:31:17,200 --> 01:31:20,040
Speaker 2: Okay, So back on noodles and oatmeal three weeks of

1733
01:31:20,160 --> 01:31:24,400
Speaker 2: each month. Finally, my boyfriend just told her step away

1734
01:31:24,479 --> 01:31:28,599
Speaker 2: from the pot roast when she showed up for Sunday dinner.

1735
01:31:32,840 --> 01:31:36,400
Speaker 2: As mortified as Anna and I both were, that delivery

1736
01:31:36,520 --> 01:31:40,360
Speaker 2: still makes me die lapping the road. That roast was

1737
01:31:40,400 --> 01:31:43,920
Speaker 2: a splurge for us and was our dinner plus sandwiches

1738
01:31:44,000 --> 01:31:46,439
Speaker 2: for work for the next couple of days. He was

1739
01:31:46,479 --> 01:31:49,080
Speaker 2: looking forward to it and tired of me trying to

1740
01:31:49,160 --> 01:31:52,080
Speaker 2: be a good hostess. Anna blew up at me for

1741
01:31:52,200 --> 01:31:54,200
Speaker 2: being rude and not defending her.

1742
01:31:55,000 --> 01:31:55,280
Speaker 1: Girl.

1743
01:31:55,720 --> 01:31:58,479
Speaker 2: Come on, you literally eat your food so she has

1744
01:31:58,520 --> 01:32:01,040
Speaker 2: to eat noodles and oat me. You're putting her on

1745
01:32:01,160 --> 01:32:04,000
Speaker 2: noodles and oatmeal for twenty one days out of the month.

1746
01:32:05,280 --> 01:32:06,040
Speaker 1: Get over yourself.

1747
01:32:06,920 --> 01:32:09,559
Speaker 2: I just looked at her and said I was sorry,

1748
01:32:09,680 --> 01:32:12,760
Speaker 2: but she needed to be better about sharing and let

1749
01:32:12,920 --> 01:32:17,040
Speaker 2: others eat too. So that night I lost Anna and

1750
01:32:17,120 --> 01:32:19,960
Speaker 2: her sister from my friend group. They felt I should

1751
01:32:20,040 --> 01:32:24,080
Speaker 2: dump my boyfriend and apologize. Part of me wishes I

1752
01:32:24,160 --> 01:32:26,840
Speaker 2: had stayed with the group. The other part feels good

1753
01:32:26,920 --> 01:32:29,599
Speaker 2: friends don't put you in debt because they don't want

1754
01:32:29,600 --> 01:32:32,920
Speaker 2: to buy their own groceries. Anna had more money than

1755
01:32:32,960 --> 01:32:35,799
Speaker 2: I did. She had a good job that paid her college,

1756
01:32:36,280 --> 01:32:40,320
Speaker 2: and grandparents bought her a small house for graduation.

1757
01:32:42,120 --> 01:32:45,880
Speaker 1: When your family's buying you a house, buy your own

1758
01:32:46,000 --> 01:32:46,639
Speaker 1: pot roast.

1759
01:32:46,720 --> 01:32:49,519
Speaker 2: Anna, No, let me eat all your food, so you

1760
01:32:49,680 --> 01:32:52,719
Speaker 2: have to eat oats and noodles.

1761
01:32:53,160 --> 01:32:56,559
Speaker 1: Oh, it's just cooking so good, The cooking is so good.

1762
01:32:56,720 --> 01:32:59,320
Speaker 1: You know what all of this was. Anna just secretly

1763
01:32:59,400 --> 01:33:02,519
Speaker 1: wanted OAP to move into her house with her, so

1764
01:33:02,680 --> 01:33:05,639
Speaker 1: she was trying to eat her out of being able

1765
01:33:05,720 --> 01:33:09,559
Speaker 1: to live. She was come live with me, John, Come

1766
01:33:09,680 --> 01:33:15,320
Speaker 1: live with me John, no jo John. Literally, that's the

1767
01:33:15,439 --> 01:33:17,360
Speaker 1: new hashtag eat out in the rich. I didn't know

1768
01:33:17,439 --> 01:33:19,760
Speaker 1: that there would be anything that tops it that to

1769
01:33:20,080 --> 01:33:29,200
Speaker 1: eating or out of living. That toy is thrilled.

1770
01:33:29,240 --> 01:33:32,160
Speaker 2: Now, Josephine, if you're in the chat, you need to

1771
01:33:32,560 --> 01:33:35,439
Speaker 2: cut together all a compilation of every sus thing that

1772
01:33:35,479 --> 01:33:36,320
Speaker 2: we've ever said, but.

1773
01:33:36,439 --> 01:33:38,120
Speaker 1: Only when it's sus when you just cut it off,

1774
01:33:39,680 --> 01:33:42,840
Speaker 1: no context. I've given you a task. Okay.

1775
01:33:43,280 --> 01:33:46,519
Speaker 2: So she was bought a small house for her graduation.

1776
01:33:46,920 --> 01:33:49,720
Speaker 2: She was the baby, golden child all in one.

1777
01:33:50,280 --> 01:33:54,759
Speaker 1: No, it was not in her wheelhouse. Then the kicker.

1778
01:33:55,280 --> 01:33:58,280
Speaker 2: When my boyfriend and I broke up, he confessed that

1779
01:33:58,400 --> 01:34:01,880
Speaker 2: when I had surgery for cancer, her Anna had been

1780
01:34:01,920 --> 01:34:04,000
Speaker 2: in the waiting room with him and told him she

1781
01:34:04,160 --> 01:34:07,080
Speaker 2: would be there for him if she he needed comfort

1782
01:34:07,560 --> 01:34:09,360
Speaker 2: if I didn't make it through.

1783
01:34:11,960 --> 01:34:21,080
Speaker 1: Oh my god, whoa. She's trying to take your man, dude,

1784
01:34:21,200 --> 01:34:21,880
Speaker 1: and your food.

1785
01:34:22,720 --> 01:34:24,400
Speaker 5: She's trying to take your man and your food and

1786
01:34:24,520 --> 01:34:27,280
Speaker 5: your house everything. She's trying to leave you in nothing,

1787
01:34:27,439 --> 01:34:30,080
Speaker 5: trying to eat you out of a man. And she's

1788
01:34:30,240 --> 01:34:37,360
Speaker 5: exceeding my god. U uh the least that this is disturbing.

1789
01:34:37,439 --> 01:34:39,479
Speaker 2: This is reminding me of the last story where it

1790
01:34:39,600 --> 01:34:42,000
Speaker 2: was like the woman who just like wanted to be

1791
01:34:42,120 --> 01:34:47,599
Speaker 2: a clone of that other of op bro. Stop's gonna

1792
01:34:47,600 --> 01:34:50,160
Speaker 2: eat you if you're not careful she's gonna eat you.

1793
01:34:52,800 --> 01:34:56,759
Speaker 2: I had several surgeries, radiation and animated playing throughout my treatment.

1794
01:34:56,840 --> 01:34:59,000
Speaker 1: That she was very available to him.

1795
01:34:59,479 --> 01:35:02,160
Speaker 2: Luckily for any treatment worked well, and I haven't had

1796
01:35:02,320 --> 01:35:03,719
Speaker 2: any recurrens in ten years.

1797
01:35:04,240 --> 01:35:07,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, God, yes, we love that.

1798
01:35:09,479 --> 01:35:11,639
Speaker 2: It made me feel gross that she was always showing

1799
01:35:11,720 --> 01:35:13,439
Speaker 2: up to cheer me up and then trying to get

1800
01:35:13,479 --> 01:35:16,519
Speaker 2: with my boyfriend when I wasn't looking. Yeah, she sounds gross.

1801
01:35:16,680 --> 01:35:20,800
Speaker 2: She sounds like a gross person. I ran into her

1802
01:35:20,840 --> 01:35:25,639
Speaker 2: at Sam's Club the other day. She's married her step brother.

1803
01:35:26,520 --> 01:35:27,960
Speaker 1: There was a washing machine.

1804
01:35:30,040 --> 01:35:32,560
Speaker 2: They were doing laundry one day, and what do you know,

1805
01:35:32,920 --> 01:35:35,320
Speaker 2: now they have a kid together and just moved a

1806
01:35:35,400 --> 01:35:38,800
Speaker 2: few blocks away from me. Seeing her brought up all

1807
01:35:38,880 --> 01:35:42,000
Speaker 2: those good, bad, and sad memories. If you make it

1808
01:35:42,120 --> 01:35:44,720
Speaker 2: this far, thanks for reading. I feel like it's my

1809
01:35:44,800 --> 01:35:48,200
Speaker 2: confession of being a selfish friend. I was so unkind

1810
01:35:48,280 --> 01:35:50,720
Speaker 2: to her. Her eating such huge quantities has to be

1811
01:35:50,840 --> 01:35:55,280
Speaker 2: some kind of emotional issue. I mean, yeah, I mean that,

1812
01:35:55,479 --> 01:35:58,840
Speaker 2: You're right. I don't think you were being unkind to her.

1813
01:35:58,920 --> 01:36:03,360
Speaker 2: You like, try to gently tell her multiple different ways

1814
01:36:03,479 --> 01:36:06,559
Speaker 2: and different times, please stop eating so much of our food.

1815
01:36:07,080 --> 01:36:10,960
Speaker 1: I am broke. If anything, you should have been more

1816
01:36:11,200 --> 01:36:14,760
Speaker 1: more heartcarsh quote unquote like the boyfriend step away from

1817
01:36:14,800 --> 01:36:19,439
Speaker 1: the papris My friend did was perfect, step away, step away, mam.

1818
01:36:19,840 --> 01:36:22,160
Speaker 2: We do have an edit here oo, and I assume

1819
01:36:22,800 --> 01:36:26,599
Speaker 2: there's a little bit more. Thank you all so much

1820
01:36:26,640 --> 01:36:30,960
Speaker 2: for the support and honest opinions. To answer some duplicate questions, Yes,

1821
01:36:31,040 --> 01:36:33,760
Speaker 2: all this actually happened. Yes, I and others talk to

1822
01:36:33,800 --> 01:36:36,439
Speaker 2: her about her eating. Some people say they are dieting

1823
01:36:36,680 --> 01:36:41,240
Speaker 2: and think eating unlimited from a loud foods lists is

1824
01:36:41,320 --> 01:36:44,479
Speaker 2: going to net the same results as limiting total calorie intake.

1825
01:36:44,920 --> 01:36:48,639
Speaker 2: Beating food addiction is not easy. It took me years

1826
01:36:48,680 --> 01:36:51,000
Speaker 2: to get better about speaking up and seeming rude by

1827
01:36:51,040 --> 01:36:54,200
Speaker 2: expressing my boundaries. Those are my issues. Now, I just

1828
01:36:54,400 --> 01:36:57,920
Speaker 2: smack away anyone's hand grabbing for my plate. Nice Anna's

1829
01:36:57,960 --> 01:37:02,160
Speaker 2: sister was my entree to a core of friends from

1830
01:37:02,200 --> 01:37:03,760
Speaker 2: their high school days.

1831
01:37:04,120 --> 01:37:05,080
Speaker 1: We met in college.

1832
01:37:05,920 --> 01:37:08,479
Speaker 2: That group stuck together except one who was over it

1833
01:37:08,560 --> 01:37:10,760
Speaker 2: as well, and the few I brought into the group.

1834
01:37:11,439 --> 01:37:14,280
Speaker 2: I was more introverted and learned to be more outgoing.

1835
01:37:14,400 --> 01:37:16,160
Speaker 2: And it's okay to put the books away to just

1836
01:37:16,320 --> 01:37:18,680
Speaker 2: enjoy people and dancing the night away, so it was

1837
01:37:18,720 --> 01:37:19,800
Speaker 2: a valuable friendship to me.

1838
01:37:19,960 --> 01:37:23,240
Speaker 1: At the time. Anna was rude, selfish, and boy did

1839
01:37:23,320 --> 01:37:26,800
Speaker 1: she have an ego. Most annoying was crying if you

1840
01:37:26,880 --> 01:37:30,559
Speaker 1: looked at her sideways. Yet no one is all bad.

1841
01:37:30,920 --> 01:37:32,960
Speaker 2: She would show up to clean a friend's house if

1842
01:37:33,040 --> 01:37:35,599
Speaker 2: you were sick, bring flowers randomly to make your day

1843
01:37:35,640 --> 01:37:39,679
Speaker 2: brighter if she had good points that being said, Nope,

1844
01:37:40,240 --> 01:37:42,519
Speaker 2: not bringing her back, and she knows that it is

1845
01:37:42,720 --> 01:37:46,120
Speaker 2: not an option to thank God, but it is always

1846
01:37:46,240 --> 01:37:49,919
Speaker 2: an option for you to join us live on YouTube

1847
01:37:50,120 --> 01:37:51,640
Speaker 2: every weekday at three PMPST.

1848
01:37:51,840 --> 01:37:57,720
Speaker 1: Just tap our profile, just tap it. Oh so, boys, boy,

1849
01:37:57,840 --> 01:37:58,439
Speaker 1: what would we do.

1850
01:38:00,000 --> 01:38:02,439
Speaker 2: Take an Anna back into the fold after she uh

1851
01:38:02,640 --> 01:38:06,599
Speaker 2: tried to steal our man while we were treatments.

1852
01:38:07,520 --> 01:38:11,280
Speaker 1: You know, you know those things that like grow at

1853
01:38:11,320 --> 01:38:16,040
Speaker 1: the bottom of our legs, feet, your feet, take those

1854
01:38:16,720 --> 01:38:20,760
Speaker 1: and run away? Did suit John? Forget what feet are?

1855
01:38:21,120 --> 01:38:23,240
Speaker 1: It's the things that grow at the bottom of your legs.

1856
01:38:23,479 --> 01:38:28,280
Speaker 2: I guess, I guess, so yeah, toenails, Take your toenails

1857
01:38:28,280 --> 01:38:28,800
Speaker 2: and run away.

1858
01:38:29,280 --> 01:38:34,400
Speaker 1: I don't know, man, I got fungus. Dude, We gotta

1859
01:38:34,600 --> 01:38:36,760
Speaker 1: we gotta get as far away as possible. We gotta

1860
01:38:36,760 --> 01:38:40,120
Speaker 1: we gotta treat Anna like like foot fungus. Yea, Anna

1861
01:38:40,240 --> 01:38:43,920
Speaker 1: was definitely a foot fungus kind of person. I mean,

1862
01:38:44,000 --> 01:38:45,040
Speaker 1: it's just weird.

1863
01:38:46,960 --> 01:38:48,960
Speaker 2: Crying when somebody looked at you sideways, Like someone looks

1864
01:38:48,960 --> 01:38:52,679
Speaker 2: at you like this, and what now you just start

1865
01:38:52,920 --> 01:38:53,679
Speaker 2: violently crying.

1866
01:38:54,160 --> 01:38:57,680
Speaker 1: No, like everything about like I'm sorry, I know, Like

1867
01:38:58,280 --> 01:39:00,519
Speaker 1: there's so many stories we're like, oh, they were great person,

1868
01:39:00,680 --> 01:39:03,360
Speaker 1: except this one tiny little thing and that thing is

1869
01:39:03,400 --> 01:39:05,799
Speaker 1: like the worst thing you've ever heard, and then everything

1870
01:39:05,840 --> 01:39:07,200
Speaker 1: else is also terrible about them.

1871
01:39:07,240 --> 01:39:10,160
Speaker 2: So I'm like, no, just you're out of my life.

1872
01:39:10,240 --> 01:39:12,840
Speaker 2: You you took my food when I when I literally

1873
01:39:12,880 --> 01:39:16,320
Speaker 2: could not afford to eat noodles and oatmeal for three

1874
01:39:16,400 --> 01:39:18,559
Speaker 2: weeks noodles and three weeks.

1875
01:39:18,840 --> 01:39:24,439
Speaker 4: But as someone who loves who loves food, if someone

1876
01:39:24,960 --> 01:39:26,479
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie. My sister used to do this

1877
01:39:26,560 --> 01:39:28,599
Speaker 4: a lot, and she kind of still does it. She'll

1878
01:39:28,640 --> 01:39:30,680
Speaker 4: take my food and I'm like, or my dad and

1879
01:39:30,720 --> 01:39:32,920
Speaker 4: they're like, who ate my food? Like when we used

1880
01:39:32,920 --> 01:39:34,600
Speaker 4: to and when we were all together, like, who ate

1881
01:39:34,640 --> 01:39:37,280
Speaker 4: my food? And they're like they do it, they do it,

1882
01:39:37,360 --> 01:39:40,640
Speaker 4: and I'm like, okay, I'm it it's very frustrating. It

1883
01:39:40,880 --> 01:39:42,800
Speaker 4: pisses me off. I don't get very I don't get

1884
01:39:42,920 --> 01:39:44,960
Speaker 4: very mad easily. But when it comes to eating my

1885
01:39:45,160 --> 01:39:46,720
Speaker 4: food that has my name on it, and you eat

1886
01:39:46,760 --> 01:39:50,040
Speaker 4: my food, I can't.

1887
01:39:49,880 --> 01:39:52,080
Speaker 1: Wait to eat your food. Kekianum eat so much. We

1888
01:39:52,080 --> 01:39:54,680
Speaker 1: should eat food that bothers you.

1889
01:39:54,960 --> 01:39:57,960
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm gonna bother you so much, Keon because I

1890
01:39:58,080 --> 01:40:00,519
Speaker 2: love you, because I love Yeah.

1891
01:40:04,200 --> 01:40:07,160
Speaker 1: Okay, let's finish this story. Let's do it after that

1892
01:40:07,280 --> 01:40:10,640
Speaker 1: great advice. Uh, when I saw her at Sam's, I

1893
01:40:10,760 --> 01:40:11,840
Speaker 1: was shopping with my ex.

1894
01:40:11,960 --> 01:40:15,800
Speaker 2: We remain great friends and split our shopping to save money.

1895
01:40:16,560 --> 01:40:19,760
Speaker 2: Interesting her face and a few remarks were all I

1896
01:40:19,840 --> 01:40:23,080
Speaker 2: needed to hear. I believe his account. The only thing

1897
01:40:23,200 --> 01:40:26,360
Speaker 2: I feel guilty for was that last blow up. Yes,

1898
01:40:26,640 --> 01:40:30,320
Speaker 2: I lamou when he defended his dinner. My ex is

1899
01:40:30,360 --> 01:40:33,240
Speaker 2: a second generation Italian American. Sharing food is one thing.

1900
01:40:33,479 --> 01:40:36,400
Speaker 2: Giving it all is a no. A man's gotta eat.

1901
01:40:36,800 --> 01:40:39,439
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it needed to be stopped, maybe not so harshly.

1902
01:40:40,000 --> 01:40:42,679
Speaker 2: I have overweight people in my life whom I love dearly.

1903
01:40:42,880 --> 01:40:45,840
Speaker 1: Let's not fat shame. No, I'm not shit. I would

1904
01:40:45,880 --> 01:40:47,560
Speaker 1: never shame her for being fat. No, you know what.

1905
01:40:47,600 --> 01:40:49,880
Speaker 2: I would shame her for dog trying to take your

1906
01:40:49,920 --> 01:40:51,200
Speaker 2: boyfriend while you had cancer.

1907
01:40:51,560 --> 01:40:57,000
Speaker 1: Gee, but you're trying to shame people who try to

1908
01:40:57,040 --> 01:41:01,120
Speaker 1: take other girl's boyfriends when they have cancer. Shame. How

1909
01:41:01,200 --> 01:41:03,800
Speaker 1: dare you? No? No, there are you, sir? How dare

1910
01:41:03,880 --> 01:41:08,080
Speaker 1: I suit John? Suit? John? Would not go harder? How

1911
01:41:08,160 --> 01:41:08,960
Speaker 1: dire I write not?

1912
01:41:09,240 --> 01:41:09,400
Speaker 2: Yea?

1913
01:41:10,320 --> 01:41:12,040
Speaker 1: Oh, he's such a sweetie, being like I feel like

1914
01:41:12,080 --> 01:41:12,840
Speaker 1: that was too harsh.

1915
01:41:13,120 --> 01:41:15,400
Speaker 2: This is she tried to take your man while you

1916
01:41:15,520 --> 01:41:17,559
Speaker 2: were in the hospital with cancer.

1917
01:41:17,720 --> 01:41:20,320
Speaker 1: Truly deserves the sun? Like what really deserves the sun?

1918
01:41:20,400 --> 01:41:24,400
Speaker 1: I don't feel sorry for this ana at all from

1919
01:41:24,439 --> 01:41:24,960
Speaker 1: that behavior.

1920
01:41:25,000 --> 01:41:29,839
Speaker 2: It's ort cloud or cloud, let's suffer the endless nightmare

1921
01:41:30,000 --> 01:41:30,679
Speaker 2: of deep space?

1922
01:41:30,800 --> 01:41:34,400
Speaker 4: Do I agree with teacher? Or food is my love language?

1923
01:41:34,560 --> 01:41:34,960
Speaker 1: You live?

1924
01:41:35,200 --> 01:41:37,320
Speaker 4: Leaving me with no food tells me you don't.

1925
01:41:37,160 --> 01:41:37,640
Speaker 1: Care about me.

1926
01:41:37,720 --> 01:41:40,240
Speaker 2: Boom, big facts, you don't care about me? To go,

1927
01:41:40,400 --> 01:41:42,479
Speaker 2: that's fine talk that talk, teacher. I would leave you

1928
01:41:42,520 --> 01:41:43,960
Speaker 2: with no food. I'm just gonna eat some of it.

1929
01:41:44,880 --> 01:41:46,600
Speaker 1: He doesn't care about me. I'm gonna eat all of it.

1930
01:41:46,800 --> 01:41:49,120
Speaker 4: Also, someone said I think it was Alyssa or maybe

1931
01:41:49,360 --> 01:41:51,760
Speaker 4: somebody else, But they're like Keo doesn't like to share.

1932
01:41:51,800 --> 01:41:55,519
Speaker 4: I love sharing. Sharing is caring. But if it's my

1933
01:41:55,720 --> 01:41:58,400
Speaker 4: plate of food, I'll give you a bite if you ask.

1934
01:41:58,560 --> 01:41:59,920
Speaker 4: But if you want to eat my food behind my

1935
01:42:00,080 --> 01:42:02,400
Speaker 4: back or you know, without telling me, I'm gonna get upset.

1936
01:42:02,920 --> 01:42:05,320
Speaker 1: Give me a big bite. I want a big one.

1937
01:42:07,080 --> 01:42:13,160
Speaker 4: Speaking speaking of biting, big bite. Right here Australia, it's

1938
01:42:13,240 --> 01:42:19,000
Speaker 4: my birthday. Love y'all, Brianna. First of all, Happy birthday, Happy.

1939
01:42:18,840 --> 01:42:31,680
Speaker 8: Birth Birthday, Happy Birthday, to hat Birthday, to you, Happy birthday, Birthday.

1940
01:42:32,960 --> 01:42:36,559
Speaker 4: And many more on Channel Okay story time.

1941
01:42:37,040 --> 01:42:40,280
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, indeed, celebrate your birthday every year with us

1942
01:42:40,360 --> 01:42:41,240
Speaker 2: for the rest of your life.

1943
01:42:41,439 --> 01:42:43,640
Speaker 1: I feel like we should start like I also just

1944
01:42:49,240 --> 01:42:50,479
Speaker 1: the perfect time. I don't even know if they can

1945
01:42:50,520 --> 01:42:52,560
Speaker 1: hear it, but anyway, thank you, Brianna shout out to you.

1946
01:42:52,640 --> 01:42:54,680
Speaker 1: Let's read the rest of these don't know too. We're

1947
01:42:54,720 --> 01:42:58,719
Speaker 1: gonna hit the refresh and there we go. Brian Brains.

1948
01:42:58,960 --> 01:43:02,800
Speaker 1: Sorry they should have fin USD. First update, Aubrey did have.

1949
01:43:02,920 --> 01:43:05,880
Speaker 2: Her cardiology appointment and it wasn't bad, but it also

1950
01:43:06,040 --> 01:43:06,519
Speaker 2: wasn't good.

1951
01:43:06,840 --> 01:43:09,439
Speaker 1: She had her eighth defect in her heart now and

1952
01:43:09,600 --> 01:43:12,240
Speaker 1: his back to annual appointments to be continued.

1953
01:43:12,400 --> 01:43:16,599
Speaker 2: Guys, hearts in the chat for our sweet sweet Aubrey

1954
01:43:17,240 --> 01:43:21,000
Speaker 2: and that things continue to to improve and shout shout

1955
01:43:21,000 --> 01:43:22,679
Speaker 2: out to Brains for being such a great caretaker.

1956
01:43:22,920 --> 01:43:30,840
Speaker 1: Yes, uh, handad but not good but not bad, not bad.

1957
01:43:31,040 --> 01:43:33,920
Speaker 1: I don't know what to go to talking about. It

1958
01:43:34,040 --> 01:43:36,519
Speaker 1: wasn't bad, but it also wasn't Yes, I'm going to

1959
01:43:36,600 --> 01:43:39,439
Speaker 1: focus on it wasn't bad. There we go, silver linings,

1960
01:43:39,520 --> 01:43:42,360
Speaker 1: silver linings. We keep it positive, Hannah, I think we

1961
01:43:42,439 --> 01:43:46,120
Speaker 1: already read that, right, we did. But because thanks again

1962
01:43:46,120 --> 01:43:49,000
Speaker 1: for the phony box hand to go handahs, the freaking

1963
01:43:49,080 --> 01:43:51,759
Speaker 1: go oh we did this brain station to five bucks.

1964
01:43:51,800 --> 01:43:53,719
Speaker 1: I don't know if keon probably is spelled.

1965
01:43:53,720 --> 01:43:56,120
Speaker 4: I'm so sorry you're so clo and John, remember, but

1966
01:43:56,400 --> 01:44:00,000
Speaker 4: Aubrey has which were just on the updates and hopefully

1967
01:44:00,280 --> 01:44:02,360
Speaker 4: things do get better. But it looks like it's again

1968
01:44:02,439 --> 01:44:06,760
Speaker 4: like Dakota said, it's not bad, it's not bad, not bad. Yeah,

1969
01:44:06,840 --> 01:44:08,680
Speaker 4: take take the silver lining. So it's getting better and

1970
01:44:08,720 --> 01:44:11,200
Speaker 4: hopefully it does get a lot better. And you were

1971
01:44:11,280 --> 01:44:13,880
Speaker 4: so close, you're you're just the e and the I

1972
01:44:14,200 --> 01:44:16,479
Speaker 4: flip swapped that I didn't have a choice in that