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Speaker 1: Your X by you this jury? Is it cool for

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Speaker 1: you to continue to wear your jury when.

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Speaker 2: It depends on the person? Right?

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Speaker 3: Like, because I'm gonna keep it real. So this is

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Speaker 3: this is this is.

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Speaker 1: Can you wear that jury? Her ex? Water? Oh no, nah,

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Speaker 1: you can't wear that jury? Now this is the taking

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Speaker 1: over the game, all right? Everybody, Welcome to Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 2: Do you think that men or women are more toxic?

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Speaker 3: Hello, beautiful people, welcome to another episode of the Truth

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Speaker 3: after Dark.

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Speaker 2: I am your host, are for.

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Speaker 1: A day, Your boy Truth is in the building.

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Speaker 2: How are you feeling, I'm good. How are you feeling today,

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Speaker 2: I'm feeling cool. I'm cool. I'm cool.

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Speaker 1: Good. Good.

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Speaker 2: So recently.

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Speaker 3: Some people have been talking about the exhaustion of just

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Speaker 3: modern dating and how they feel like modern dating is

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Speaker 3: so difficult now because of the swipe culture, like you

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Speaker 3: can just swipe and find someone and the endless options,

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Speaker 3: and they're like, people just believe that there's a better

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Speaker 3: person one swipe away.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, where do you go about that?

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Speaker 1: It is relationships are harder than ever now. Yeah, because women,

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Speaker 1: I feel like, need to be feeling validated a lot. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you know, especially like if you're in a relationship, and

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Speaker 1: you're constantly on social media being validated every day about

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Speaker 1: how you look and your vibe. And you know, people

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Speaker 1: think they can see who you are through your social media,

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Speaker 1: who who the essence of you really are, when ninety

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Speaker 1: nine percent of the time, most of the time, that's

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Speaker 1: not you. You know, it's it's it's it's like dating

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Speaker 1: a Hollywood actor, damn near. Like you see what you

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Speaker 1: see online, then you meet somebody and it's something completely different,

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Speaker 1: not only from the look, but from who you really think,

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Speaker 1: who you thought they were, from the perception of who

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Speaker 1: that's what makes dating so difficult. You know, we missed

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Speaker 1: the old school values of actually going up to a

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Speaker 1: woman talking to her, getting the number, talking instead of

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Speaker 1: hitting her in her DMS and you know, just assuming

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Speaker 1: that you know what this person's like, because people look

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Speaker 1: at at a girl, a woman or whatnot be like,

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Speaker 1: that's my type, I'll marry her. Like, dude, you don't

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Speaker 3: Hey, yeah, people do do that, like even in my dms,

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Speaker 3: like so many men are always like I will marry you,

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Speaker 3: I will make you my wife, I will never cheat

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Speaker 2: And it's like, you don't even know me.

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Speaker 3: First of all, you don't even know who I am

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Speaker 3: from a cannapaign. So at the end of the day,

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Speaker 3: it's just like what I believe is we live in

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Speaker 3: this false reality of options because you think that there's

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Speaker 3: what's going on out there, you'll be like, damn.

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Speaker 2: This is crazy, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: Like you'll meet someone you're like, oh, this person looks popping,

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Speaker 3: because I've also seen so many people have personalities online

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Speaker 2: They're just not giving that, you know.

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Speaker 3: So I feel like people are taking the real ones

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Speaker 3: Or women will get a DM from Drake and we

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Speaker 3: risk it all and it's like, baby, you're gonna risk

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Speaker 1: Absolutely know, it's scarier than ever for the simple fact

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Speaker 1: feel like, yeah, you know, people go to social media

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Speaker 2: They're not going to give you that connection.

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Speaker 3: Like people don't understand how rare it is to have

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Speaker 1: So what's like you say, we're losing our traditional values?

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Speaker 1: Like what's what's an idea like relationship or what's an

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Speaker 1: say that. Our man said, Hey, you know, I'm not

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Speaker 1: deleting my social media for us to be together. I'm

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Speaker 1: not deleting my exes, like you know, even though we together,

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Speaker 1: Like is that? Like what is that? Like?

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Speaker 2: I don't get what you're saying?

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Speaker 1: Like, like, social media has played a part in a

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about you understand what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Like if a guy, you have a relationship, you with

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Speaker 1: I want you to like take this twerking off. You

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Speaker 3: Well, people have to understand who they got in a

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Speaker 3: you men, Like that's like getting with a stripper and

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Speaker 2: Baby, Like that's who I am. You can't shade who

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Speaker 3: Like people get with people when they realize like, oh

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Speaker 1: If you get a women their whole page validation no more.

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Speaker 2: It don't matter. That's who she was. If every minute

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Speaker 3: And that's different than like maybe a woman, Like I've

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Speaker 3: like messages like what it's wrong with you? Like take

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Speaker 3: But anyways, he's like, when I was with her, you know,

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Speaker 2: And he's like, you already trapped the thirsty man? Hear me.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, Ama, are you already trapped me?

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Speaker 3: And he said she would not want to take it down,

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Speaker 2: Now, who are you trying to get or a peace right?

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Speaker 3: So I mean I feel like when it comes to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what's your thoughts on like couples like posting, like

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Speaker 1: like validating you or is it a bad thing? Because

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Speaker 3: Like you know, you know, yeah, I know.

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Speaker 3: I feel like for me, you know, I've done that before,

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like it wasn't a big deal,

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Speaker 2: But you know, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I feel like it just depends on what you like,

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Speaker 3: If you feel like you don't really care or you

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Speaker 2: You're gonna post him, You're gonna post them. If you're not,

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Speaker 3: Like I also don't like the fact of Like what

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Speaker 1: I don't need to be with my chick showing y'all

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Speaker 1: Like everything is so much more revealing. People just want

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Speaker 2: I actually had like.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like damn, you know, like and you know.

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Speaker 3: It sucked because I just was like I'm not ready

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Speaker 1: And if I post you on you don't post me,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm not doing that doing it or

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Speaker 3: you're not doing it really?

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Speaker 3: I think so because I'm not gonna I'm not gonna I'm.

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Speaker 2: Not gonna do live like that, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: That's interesting.

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna be having someone on my page and

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Speaker 3: that's gonna blow me. I'm not doing that because now

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Speaker 2: I'm not. I don't. I'm never doing that.

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Speaker 1: Because that's a conversation that needs to be had. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but people get serious about those things though, Like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I don't want.

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Speaker 3: But it's just like you're you're blowing me, like why

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Speaker 2: Three different relationships on the Instagram, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: I'm not saying that's me like they have not, but

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying that's the point, Like who wants to

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Speaker 1: Four is good?

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Speaker 2: You think like once a week you should go on

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Speaker 1: That's good. That's healthy, that's.

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Speaker 2: A healthy Like, ye, what are the dates though?

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Speaker 3: Like is it more of like we have to go

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Speaker 3: do you consider a date?

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Speaker 1: A date? Is just anything y'all? Do I feel that's

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Speaker 1: like pull up, I'm gonna make you some food, some

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Speaker 1: wine at the crib. That's a date. You know, it's intimate,

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Speaker 1: you know. So like if y'all making a point to

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Speaker 1: I think that's that's that's minimum. Four times. That's once

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Speaker 1: a week at least, you know, because I don't mind

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Speaker 1: You know, you busy, we both busy, h yeah, but

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Speaker 1: we got to make it a point at least once

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Speaker 1: a week minimum, to like, let's make this intimate to

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Speaker 1: this is what we're gonna do. W it's dinner, movies, bowling, activity,

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Speaker 1: it's an activity together once a week. It's good, okay.

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Speaker 3: And what about going on vacations, vacation vacations.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, vac twice a year, twice a year, it's cool.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Yeah, I think twice a year you got

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Speaker 1: I feel like when you go on a vacation, it

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Speaker 1: that you can think about. It's all about just y'all too.

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00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:05,600
Speaker 1: For the whole time. When you're home. You know, you

440
00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:08,760
Speaker 1: got other things to deal with, friends, family, whatever you're into.

441
00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:11,280
Speaker 1: When you're a way, it's just about you for those two, three,

442
00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:14,720
Speaker 1: four days or whatever you're doing. And I think it's healthy,

443
00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:17,680
Speaker 1: you know, because then you realize, man, you really love

444
00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:20,320
Speaker 1: that person you're away y'all together every day. It's all

445
00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:24,879
Speaker 1: about y'all. Uh, for the most part, just doing activities

446
00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:27,240
Speaker 1: and things of that nature. Y'all. You don't think about

447
00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:30,040
Speaker 1: none of the things or the problems or the drama

448
00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:32,040
Speaker 1: that you got on. It's just for these next three days,

449
00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:34,320
Speaker 1: we ain't gonna think about none of our problems. And

450
00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:36,840
Speaker 1: that's refreshing if you can do that a couple of

451
00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:37,560
Speaker 1: times a year.

452
00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:41,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's just a band aid, you're saying, basically.

453
00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:45,560
Speaker 1: No, it's refreshing. Yeah, you know, it's like no, it ain't. No,

454
00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:48,480
Speaker 1: it ain't no band aid. It's like, yo, we we

455
00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:50,840
Speaker 1: need to do this. Yeah, you know, it need to

456
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:53,560
Speaker 1: mental sometimes it ain't. It ain't covering up problems. It's

457
00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:55,399
Speaker 1: just like, I need to get away from our problems

458
00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:58,120
Speaker 1: from right now, and then it makes you and when

459
00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:00,359
Speaker 1: you come back and it's easier to deal with them

460
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:02,600
Speaker 1: more because you know, like, I'm blessed I have an

461
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:07,240
Speaker 1: opportunity really going to vacation with my one. Yeah, you know, thankful.

462
00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:10,040
Speaker 1: A lot of people can't go on vacations twice a year. Yeah,

463
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:12,960
Speaker 1: maybe once a year they can. You know, twice a

464
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 1: year is a lot, truthfully for the average person. Yeah,

465
00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:19,320
Speaker 1: so I mean twice as good though, twice as refreshing.

466
00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:23,400
Speaker 1: And it could be a staycation too. That counts a vacation.

467
00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:25,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know you can do that.

468
00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:30,359
Speaker 1: So I think that's that's more than one in the

469
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Speaker 1: more or less segment.

470
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Speaker 1: Okay, what's your thoughts on? Like you're in a relationship

475
00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:52,359
Speaker 1: and he looks at your page and see all these

476
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:55,520
Speaker 1: are you? Are you? And he sees all these guys

477
00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:56,119
Speaker 1: you follow?

478
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:57,040
Speaker 2: Okay?

479
00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 1: Is he are you opposed to say? If he says

480
00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:03,080
Speaker 1: I want you.

481
00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 2: To unfollow them, No, I'm not opposed.

482
00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 3: I'll unfollow anybody anyone who makes my man uncomfortable or

483
00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 3: the person i'm with uncomfortable.

484
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,320
Speaker 2: You could, it's not worth it.

485
00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:16,520
Speaker 3: If you make the person I'm with uncomfortable, you can

486
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:18,960
Speaker 3: get unfollowed today today.

487
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:20,680
Speaker 1: You can't have that any homeboys, Like if you say

488
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:21,960
Speaker 1: that's my cousin, that's my brother.

489
00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:24,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like if it's making you uncomfortable and you're weird, Like,

490
00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:27,080
Speaker 3: first of all, I don't follow nobody that I don't know,

491
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:30,600
Speaker 3: So I'm not following Instagram's a man just because I'm no,

492
00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:33,640
Speaker 3: that's thirsty, and I hate anyone Like I don't want

493
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 3: to be with the man who's fanning on women, Like

494
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:36,840
Speaker 3: you're following women you don't.

495
00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 2: Know you're a fan of them, that's plowing.

496
00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:42,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I need to I need to unfollow my shit ratchet.

497
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 1: I need to unfollow. I need to. I need to

498
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:47,880
Speaker 1: unfollow a bunch of people. Like it's just like it's

499
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:49,720
Speaker 1: got to the point to where I'm like, damn, I

500
00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:52,679
Speaker 1: don't even look at who I follow, and I know

501
00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:55,119
Speaker 1: when I when you know, during some times I was.

502
00:24:55,160 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 3: Just like follow, follow, follow, follow, thirsty, thirsty me personally,

503
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:01,639
Speaker 3: I don't have all that going on.

504
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:03,399
Speaker 2: I follow like six hundred people.

505
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:05,399
Speaker 3: And when I tell you, I know most of these people,

506
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:07,639
Speaker 3: and if I don't know you, it's like fashion or

507
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 3: architecture like shit like that me personally, if my person

508
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 3: is like I don't want you following this person by unfollowed,

509
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:23,359
Speaker 3: like there's no one that's that important to cause like

510
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:26,960
Speaker 3: any type of argument or any type of making my

511
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 3: person feel uncomfortable, Like nah, if you make it, you

512
00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:33,320
Speaker 3: feel away, cool, baby, I ain't gotta talk to this person.

513
00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:35,239
Speaker 3: I don't gotta follow this person. I don't care who

514
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:35,640
Speaker 3: it is.

515
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:38,959
Speaker 1: You know what I hate, like when you unfollow people

516
00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 1: you ain't talked to in a minute, as soon as

517
00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:45,119
Speaker 1: you wanna follow, to hit you up, like you're just

518
00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:46,000
Speaker 1: gonna follow.

519
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:50,399
Speaker 2: Me that I never I ain't talk to.

520
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 1: You in the years. As soon as I unfollowed, you

521
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:53,439
Speaker 1: want to hit me?

522
00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:55,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've never heard, can't.

523
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:58,639
Speaker 1: I'm about this man this weekend. I'm just gonna follow.

524
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:02,080
Speaker 1: Let's see what I'm about to follow thousands of people.

525
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:04,879
Speaker 1: If you hit me up, I'm changing my number.

526
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like, yeah, I don't follow nobody crazy.

527
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 2: I follow everybody that I follow. I know you.

528
00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:15,960
Speaker 3: I'm not fanning out on nobody, and I don't. I

529
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:19,280
Speaker 3: don't do that. Like, and I'm cool on making my

530
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 3: person feel uncomfortable, but I just I wish social media sometimes,

531
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:25,960
Speaker 3: Like I'm glad it exists, but sometimes I'm just like,

532
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 3: when it comes to relationships, it kind of just makes things.

533
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:32,240
Speaker 2: A little more difficult in my opinion. You know, like.

534
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,840
Speaker 3: You just live in this world now where it's like

535
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:39,160
Speaker 3: even if you go through a breakup, then they're well

536
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 3: looking at your Instagram or you're looking at their stuff.

537
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:44,679
Speaker 3: People are doing subliminals and people are saying this, like

538
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 3: I don't like none of that. Like I feel like

539
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:48,160
Speaker 3: back in the day, if you broke up with someone,

540
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 3: you don't ever look at them see them every again

541
00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:51,080
Speaker 3: in your life.

542
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:56,400
Speaker 1: How many dates have you been on off Instagram, off

543
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:58,399
Speaker 1: of Instagram social media?

544
00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 2: Yeah media?

545
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:01,480
Speaker 1: Yeah?

546
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:04,359
Speaker 2: Two?

547
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:06,400
Speaker 1: Two? Yeah?

548
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:09,880
Speaker 2: Yeah right, yeah, no too. Why you don't believe that.

549
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:14,200
Speaker 3: Because everybody dates off social Because I met my ex

550
00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 3: on social media on Twitter. I don't even go on Twitter.

551
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 3: I made a Twitter one day and he like followed

552
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 3: me or something. I followed him and then he followed me,

553
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:25,680
Speaker 3: and then we d M and then he went to

554
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 3: Instagram and then we met.

555
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 1: Have you been so you did? So? I'm just trying

556
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,160
Speaker 1: to think, like the people that you've met, how many

557
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:36,120
Speaker 1: times have all? Right, so you dated twice off social media?

558
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:38,680
Speaker 1: Only two dates?

559
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 2: Sham? I think so? I think so?

560
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:51,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, end up in relationships both of them? Yeah, just

561
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 3: it just so happened to do that, Like, I can't, like,

562
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:56,440
Speaker 3: I met two people I've been instagramming.

563
00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 2: Yeah I dated.

564
00:27:59,200 --> 00:27:59,639
Speaker 1: With both of them.

565
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Joe I did. Yeah.

566
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:07,400
Speaker 1: Oh that's crazy, mm hmm, that's interesting.

567
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:15,120
Speaker 2: Okay, what about you? It's just one okay, one, but yeah, so.

568
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 1: I don't think I I went on. Let me see

569
00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 1: how many dates have I been on off off social media.

570
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:27,439
Speaker 1: I can say probably like four or five maybe just

571
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:31,200
Speaker 1: and I think they only lasted it was like one day. Yeah,

572
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 1: like I think it was just like, man, this is weak,

573
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 1: I thought, And then a couple of them like this

574
00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 1: is I have to be like this year?

575
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:43,520
Speaker 2: That's crazy? That does happen you?

576
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 1: Like, that's like like this, ain't you like this? Ain't

577
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 1: am I getting catfished?

578
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:54,719
Speaker 3: No, let me take something. You know, girls make like

579
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 3: little friends off of social media.

580
00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 2: Like oh they're cool, cool, right?

581
00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 3: I remember this girl follow me and I follow her

582
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:03,080
Speaker 3: back and we would like like in comment and everything.

583
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 3: And I saw her out and she came up to

584
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 3: me and I swear all my life, I'm like.

585
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 2: I could not believe. I cannot believe.

586
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:18,040
Speaker 3: And even till this day, I look at her pictures

587
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 3: when she posts and I'm like, how did Then she

588
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:23,440
Speaker 3: starts to trick me again, like maybe I was tripping.

589
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:25,880
Speaker 3: Maybe she does look like like how do you look

590
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 3: so good and different? And it doesn't even look like

591
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:32,360
Speaker 3: you're doing no whole bunch of stuff to your face

592
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 3: but when you see when I seen her, it was

593
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:39,440
Speaker 3: the most opposite thing ever. I was so blown away.

594
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 3: I was like, I can't understand how you look. I

595
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 3: can understand, like I know one word. It's like you

596
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 3: look better, you look a little cool, you're done up

597
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:48,720
Speaker 3: on Instagram, but I see you and you're still like cool,

598
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:52,479
Speaker 3: like you know whatever. This was night and day and

599
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 3: it blows me and I'm like, I can't believe how

600
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 3: different you look like.

601
00:29:56,880 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 2: I was so nervous. I'm like, this is crazy.

602
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 3: See how people can make them look I would be no,

603
00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:06,800
Speaker 3: that is just crazy to me. And that's the other

604
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:08,240
Speaker 3: thing that you have to be afraid of with this

605
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 3: social media stuff is like people look different or man,

606
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 3: they have hats on and then they take their hat

607
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 3: off and they have a hairline right here that I

608
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 3: dated a man who had a hat on, not even pictures,

609
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 3: this is real life.

610
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 2: I met him in real life, hat on everything.

611
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 3: Like we dated, went on some dates and then I

612
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 3: started to think, like I never see this man with

613
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 3: his hat on, And I was like scaring me because

614
00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:39,120
Speaker 3: I need to be able to see what is it

615
00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:40,440
Speaker 3: given without the hat.

616
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 2: So I remember one day I was like.

617
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:45,640
Speaker 3: I never seen without your hat on, like you should

618
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 3: take your hat off, and he was like, yeah, no,

619
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:50,960
Speaker 3: I just wear my hat. I was like okay, and

620
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:54,600
Speaker 3: then he took it off.

621
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 2: I was I never talked to him again after that.

622
00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 1: That's wow.

623
00:30:58,040 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 2: I never talked to.

624
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:01,280
Speaker 3: Him again because it looked it's crazy. It was a

625
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:02,960
Speaker 3: whole different person.

626
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 1: That ain't no different from a man go out with

627
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 1: a woman and he'd just be like, you know what,

628
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 1: I ain't never seen your makeup exactly. Yeahup off. Yeah,

629
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:13,840
Speaker 1: that's crazy. Know this.

630
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 3: It's like hat is like a makeup for a man,

631
00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 3: or like you look a whole different person. The head shape,

632
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:23,000
Speaker 3: the receding, like everything was just blowing me.

633
00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 2: He looked so good with the hat and without the hat.

634
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 3: I was like, Grandpa, this is crazy, this is crazy.

635
00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:33,200
Speaker 1: He needed to get one of the man units.

636
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, he should go to Turkey and get that thing done.

637
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: But they could get you at the barbershop. You gotta

638
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:38,680
Speaker 1: go weekly though.

639
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 3: Nah, he gotta go to Turkey because it was given like,

640
00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:43,560
Speaker 3: we're gonna have to have sex with the hat on,

641
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:46,280
Speaker 3: We're gonna have to do everything. I don't even want

642
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 3: you to ever take that hat. You gotta go to

643
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:52,360
Speaker 3: Turkey though, like Terrell went to Turkey. He talks about it,

644
00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 3: and his hairline looks great. He's cracking. I feel like

645
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:58,240
Speaker 3: before and after, I didn't see that before. I just

646
00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 3: see that after it looks good. But says that before

647
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 3: it's like she wanted that hat on, honey, that's why.

648
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 3: But you know he looks good, Like the hairline looks great.

649
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:12,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, you got you gotta scrape up some money, get

650
00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:14,920
Speaker 1: the Turkey, and then spend whatever you spent. Oh.

651
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 2: Man, if I was a man, I'm going and I

652
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 2: have that going on.

653
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 1: Women doing that. I heard of that, women doing that

654
00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 1: a lot, doing the hairline, going to Turkey for something.

655
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:25,520
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because surgeries in Turkey hit.

656
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 3: They have cheaper and the best surgeons in all of

657
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 3: this supposedly, And that's what I've heard about Columbia and Turkey,

658
00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 3: Like people go out there all the time, nose jobs,

659
00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 3: boo everything they're getting done. So another reason why is

660
00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:43,480
Speaker 3: because in the United States, when you do light bulb

661
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:46,560
Speaker 3: or anything, it's a five pound limit, so they can

662
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:51,120
Speaker 3: only take five pounds of fat at a time. In Turkey, yeah,

663
00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:53,680
Speaker 3: they're doing one hundred thirty pounds.

664
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 1: So for all you women out there when you tell

665
00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 1: your dude or who you, they know your people. You

666
00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:02,960
Speaker 1: going to herkey and to Dubai. We know what you're doing,

667
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 1: we know we know what you're doing, we know where

668
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 1: you're going and what you're doing.

669
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 3: Okay, the secret is out, so yeah it is okay.

670
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:19,680
Speaker 3: So moving on deone, Sanders and Carucci are in a

671
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:22,800
Speaker 3: relationship publicly now, and he'd be having her on the

672
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 3: show and all the stuff, right.

673
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:30,640
Speaker 2: And his show with ROSSI, Yeah, like he'd.

674
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:34,400
Speaker 3: Be facetiming her having her like they're like, yeah, they're

675
00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 3: like all open.

676
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 2: I don't know what happened.

677
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:38,719
Speaker 3: They went from like he was saying, like they were

678
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 3: asking about his relationship and he was like like yeah,

679
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 3: they were to the private and now they're just like

680
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:48,959
Speaker 3: all open now right, it's out there, it's out there,

681
00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 3: it's out there. So he was saying, yeah, so she

682
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 3: she was on the show. He facetiming, right, he was

683
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 3: filming about Valentine's Day, and she was like yeah, He's

684
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:01,600
Speaker 3: like she runs the relationship when it comes to like

685
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 3: making the plans, making like where we're gonna go, what

686
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:07,840
Speaker 3: we're gonna do, where we're gonna eat. So I'll pay

687
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:10,560
Speaker 3: and I'll you know, do whatever. But like she did

688
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 3: the rundown of like, this is what we're doing for.

689
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:13,399
Speaker 2: Found Tys Day.

690
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:15,440
Speaker 3: We're going here, we're going shopping, We're going to there,

691
00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:16,879
Speaker 3: we're going to that, We're going to that.

692
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:18,719
Speaker 2: And he was like yeah, she runs it.

693
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:20,960
Speaker 3: She says everything like this is what we're doing and

694
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:24,680
Speaker 3: I'm just coming. I'm paying and like, yeah, like what

695
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:28,520
Speaker 3: do you feel about that? Do you feel like is

696
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:31,960
Speaker 3: that like a man following a woman's lead or is

697
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:33,880
Speaker 3: that what do you what do you view that?

698
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:34,400
Speaker 2: Ass?

699
00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 1: I mean they got to a comfortable point too. Yeah,

700
00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:39,920
Speaker 1: they're like all right, it's time for us to everybody

701
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:43,400
Speaker 1: know because you know, before you go on social media

702
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 1: or television with it, you know, you could be out

703
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:48,840
Speaker 1: with your person and just like people in the area know,

704
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 1: or it's like it's rumored yet a picture somebody to

705
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 1: take a picture like looking at her together. You don't

706
00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 1: really know, you know, they can just be friends or

707
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:59,080
Speaker 1: just be yeah, so you know whatever it is. But

708
00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:01,600
Speaker 1: then when you really go public, it really says something.

709
00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:03,520
Speaker 1: They're just like all right, you know, they gotten to

710
00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:05,320
Speaker 1: the point where like, yeah, we're comfortable and letting the

711
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:08,680
Speaker 1: world know, it is what it is. You know what's

712
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:09,839
Speaker 1: up right? Right?

713
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:10,480
Speaker 2: Right with that?

714
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 1: Cool with that, But you both got to be comfortable

715
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:14,160
Speaker 1: with it. You know, at first it was like no,

716
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 1: we you know, let's let's keep it cool. But like

717
00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:18,399
Speaker 1: now they got to the point where it's like.

718
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 3: Right, but this is not what I'm asking though, But

719
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 3: I love that you said that, and that's a good point. No,

720
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:27,440
Speaker 3: I'm asking like she's running the relationship when it comes

721
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:29,759
Speaker 3: to making all the decisions for von Tine's day and

722
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 3: this and that. Do you feel like there can be

723
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:34,719
Speaker 3: a balance where women is that? Do you consider that

724
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:38,560
Speaker 3: a woman taking lead or do you.

725
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 1: That's kind of normal I think relationship.

726
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:42,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you feel like.

727
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 1: Men are better at planning, right when are better at

728
00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 1: like organizing? Like man, we go to work, we make

729
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:49,360
Speaker 1: the money, and be like here here's the money.

730
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:49,759
Speaker 2: Right right.

731
00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:53,200
Speaker 1: That's traditional really, that's like when you go back one

732
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 1: hundred years, like he gonna go bull, come on, she

733
00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:58,359
Speaker 1: gonna deposit the check? Or are you planning everything out?

734
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 1: You get the boss, reason, you plan the dinners, you're

735
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 1: plan or we got this for the t that's like tradition.

736
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:05,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, but people are saying like for Valentine's is the

737
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:09,719
Speaker 3: one day where a man should plan something. So they're like, well,

738
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 3: I don't think it's wrong that she planned.

739
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 2: I don't have a problem with that. If it's just

740
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:15,839
Speaker 2: like you just plan it and I'll just be there.

741
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:18,879
Speaker 1: I love that. Actually, yeah, okay, you know you want

742
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:20,319
Speaker 1: to do this. You want to do it because it's

743
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:24,160
Speaker 1: like you like, open to what she thought, because a

744
00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:25,880
Speaker 1: lot of women might not like what a man do

745
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 1: for them exactly.

746
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, so it just gives you the opportunity.

747
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:32,239
Speaker 1: Fine with that, like, come on, what you woman to wear?

748
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:34,279
Speaker 1: What you want me to do? Where you want to go?

749
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you know what I'm saying.

750
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:38,400
Speaker 1: Especially if you're in a position you can do those things.

751
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:41,600
Speaker 3: So then what point do you feel like, is it

752
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:43,120
Speaker 3: a man taking lead.

753
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:45,759
Speaker 2: If a woman's doing that.

754
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 1: I'm just curious a man know when to take lead

755
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:52,360
Speaker 1: on certain decisions, because if he's not comfortable with it,

756
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:53,799
Speaker 1: he's going to be like, you know what, I think

757
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:55,799
Speaker 1: we should do this, Yeah, and then it got to

758
00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 1: be a compromise, you know. But if he comfortable with

759
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:02,240
Speaker 1: the decision that the women man, he ain't gonna say nothing. Yeah,

760
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:04,359
Speaker 1: you know, but if he's uncomfortable. Like if you say

761
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 1: let's do this system and you just be like, oh,

762
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 1: you know, I think, you know, we should do this,

763
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:12,760
Speaker 1: or let's have a compromise. And that's a true relationship

764
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:15,239
Speaker 1: to where you know, she gonna make some decisions, he

765
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:17,239
Speaker 1: gonna make some decisions. It's gonna be some stuff you

766
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:18,920
Speaker 1: are't gonna like, but you're gonna do it anyway. It's

767
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 1: gonna be some stuff he don't like, but you gonna

768
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 1: do it anyway. But then there's gonna be some thing somewhere, Okay.

769
00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 2: We got to talk about this, Yeah, for sure, you know.

770
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:31,360
Speaker 1: And that's a real relationships to where you're communicating and

771
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:34,440
Speaker 1: and it's it's you don't feel like it's controlling, because

772
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 1: you know, most women think they act like they want

773
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:39,880
Speaker 1: to lead, but then when you lead too much, it

774
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:42,400
Speaker 1: gets to turn into controlling. When it's when when things

775
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 1: go bad, you're just controlling, Like, no, you ask me

776
00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 1: to be this person.

777
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 2: You always say this always knows you.

778
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:54,719
Speaker 1: When now when the ship go bad, it's like, it's

779
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:55,240
Speaker 1: the truth.

780
00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:58,279
Speaker 2: But that's not all women because you say.

781
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:01,200
Speaker 1: That it ain't all women, but it's.

782
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:05,279
Speaker 3: Not all women because like a lot of women like me. Specifically,

783
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:08,320
Speaker 3: I like when Aman does like a lot of things

784
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:11,160
Speaker 3: when it comes to making this sions because I'm super indecisive.

785
00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:14,919
Speaker 3: So for me, it's like, okay, cool, you made that decision. Yeah,

786
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:18,320
Speaker 3: it takes something off my blake because I'm like, I'm indecisive,

787
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 3: So it's like, Okay, I don't look at it as controlling.

788
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:23,920
Speaker 3: I look at it as you just made something easier

789
00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:26,280
Speaker 3: for me because I said, let's.

790
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 1: Go to dinner. Okay, all right, we're going to McDonald's.

791
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 1: You're gonna say something, Okay, cool, I'm cool a yeah.

792
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:35,160
Speaker 3: All right, cool, I'm gonna get me a little happy

793
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:36,240
Speaker 3: meal chicken nuggets.

794
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:43,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, right after this, you cool with that? Is cool

795
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 1: in McDonald's, y'all.

796
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:47,279
Speaker 3: If it's if it's if it's my man and we're like,

797
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 3: let's go to McDonald anyway, so it's just like you're

798
00:38:56,200 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 3: blow with me. So anyways, Rihann despite being you know,

799
00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:05,560
Speaker 3: someone who's extremely successful, and it's like, you know, obviously

800
00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:08,800
Speaker 3: she's rich and she has money. She says that asap

801
00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:11,840
Speaker 3: Rocky pays every single bill and they have a traditional

802
00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:15,920
Speaker 3: structure in their household, like he pays for everything he

803
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:19,560
Speaker 3: provides every single thing, and she just you know, has the.

804
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:23,799
Speaker 2: Kids and is his wife and does her big one.

805
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:25,799
Speaker 2: What do you think about that?

806
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:29,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, ASoP is cool because you know if they break up,

807
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:38,840
Speaker 1: he's gonna get it back on the back end, and

808
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 1: so he go get that out here.

809
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 2: He has money too, Yeah.

810
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 1: But she got more and he still pays, so well more,

811
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:48,600
Speaker 1: go get that alimony. You know what I'm saying. It's like,

812
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:50,319
Speaker 1: hold on, they gonna get it on the back end.

813
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:52,520
Speaker 1: So I don't mind right now, you know, Yeah, yeah, yeah,

814
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:54,880
Speaker 1: I'll take care of this and that I get it.

815
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:57,400
Speaker 1: I even get us in the house. What because I

816
00:39:57,440 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 1: know in the back end, if it don't work out,

817
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:05,840
Speaker 1: it ain't no prenup in place. He cracking. You know,

818
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:08,400
Speaker 1: it's always the man that was taking a hit. You know,

819
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:12,560
Speaker 1: if it ain't nothing in place, she don't have to

820
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:13,520
Speaker 1: take the hit on this one.

821
00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:15,840
Speaker 2: So he's like, yeah, he's not leaving. They not leaving

822
00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:16,200
Speaker 2: each other.

823
00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:18,759
Speaker 1: They love that. Yeah.

824
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:22,880
Speaker 3: I like them as their boot up, they fly, they not.

825
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 3: He respects her. He talks about her highly, she talks

826
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:29,239
Speaker 3: about him highly. Like they have a cool little relationship.

827
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:33,400
Speaker 3: Like I don't think they're breaking up. Money speaking of that.

828
00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:33,800
Speaker 2: PJ.

829
00:40:34,160 --> 00:40:37,799
Speaker 3: Washington spent one point five million on his wife for

830
00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:38,840
Speaker 3: Valentine's Day.

831
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:41,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's.

832
00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:44,600
Speaker 1: A lot, bro, you're sending us back.

833
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:48,319
Speaker 2: Bro, that's his wife. He don't play about that wife though.

834
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:51,360
Speaker 3: He don't play about that wife though, Honey, he don't.

835
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 3: He don't play one thing I do. I love their

836
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 3: relationship because he don't play about her. And that maybe

837
00:40:57,160 --> 00:41:01,920
Speaker 3: Mama be coming my boy for the one that's Brendan Ranners,

838
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:04,480
Speaker 3: and then she'd be like going in on him about

839
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 3: more money.

840
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:05,759
Speaker 2: And this one.

841
00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:09,279
Speaker 1: She gotta kept that quiet though, because now other girls

842
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:12,040
Speaker 1: is gonna be like, well he he, he did this.

843
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, but we all know we ain't getting one point

844
00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:17,399
Speaker 3: five million dollar gifts for found honey, we're not.

845
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 2: Even listen said that even that's not even close to

846
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:25,040
Speaker 2: what you know what I'm saying. But he bought her

847
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:30,280
Speaker 2: Ferrari Yeah, and a Richard Milly.

848
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:33,239
Speaker 3: I think jewelry is the best gift ever, like for

849
00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:35,880
Speaker 3: a woman, like a little watch, a little diamond, a

850
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:38,839
Speaker 3: little necklace. That's a good gift that you could never

851
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:40,280
Speaker 3: go wrong with in my opinion.

852
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:42,400
Speaker 1: But you can get that, you can get the money

853
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:43,800
Speaker 1: for that after you get.

854
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:44,920
Speaker 2: The money for it after.

855
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:48,080
Speaker 1: You can get value.

856
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 3: I think jewelry is great and then you wear it, No,

857
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:53,520
Speaker 3: you wear it all the time, like you get real

858
00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 3: good use of jewelry. I think jewelry is the best

859
00:41:58,000 --> 00:41:59,680
Speaker 3: gift ever that like you.

860
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:01,520
Speaker 1: Know, it is the best gift ever. Like I said,

861
00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:03,520
Speaker 1: when y'all break up, you're gonna sell that.

862
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 2: That's not true. I still have my jewelry pieces right now.

863
00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:09,840
Speaker 1: Yeah. Let me ask you this though, like your ex

864
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 1: by you this jury? Is it cool for you to

865
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:13,719
Speaker 1: continue to wear your jury.

866
00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:15,920
Speaker 3: When it depends on the person, right, like, because I'm

867
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:16,560
Speaker 3: gonna keep it real.

868
00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 2: So this is this is this.

869
00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 1: Is that jury her ex water, I don't know. Nah,

870
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:25,040
Speaker 1: you can't wear that jury now.

871
00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:28,400
Speaker 3: Okay, that's good to know because like for me, no, seriously,

872
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:31,200
Speaker 3: because for me, I've been in.

873
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:35,719
Speaker 2: A relationship, right and it's like a thing. Right.

874
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:40,480
Speaker 3: So my ex bought me a chain with my name

875
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 3: on it, right, And so then I got into a

876
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:46,280
Speaker 3: new relationship and my and then.

877
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:48,359
Speaker 2: The guy was just like who got you that chain?

878
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, like I love that chain.

879
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:50,719
Speaker 2: Where you get it?

880
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 3: And I didn't want to lie, So I was like

881
00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:57,600
Speaker 3: my ex got me this chain. So he was like, nah,

882
00:42:57,680 --> 00:42:59,759
Speaker 3: I'm not fucking with that, like you can't wear that,

883
00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 3: and I'm like, okay, well I like to wear my name,

884
00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:06,000
Speaker 3: so I'm just not going to have a necklace now.

885
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:07,520
Speaker 3: And he was like, no, you can't wear it, and

886
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 3: I was like all right, So I respected it.

887
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:10,319
Speaker 2: I took it off.

888
00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:14,719
Speaker 3: Then he bought me one right, okay, right, So then

889
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:17,759
Speaker 3: I got in a new relationship and that person was like,

890
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:19,359
Speaker 3: you can't wear that chain no more.

891
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 2: And I'm like all right, so I took it off

892
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:23,320
Speaker 2: and then see to see.

893
00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 1: So that's why Julie is the best relationship. That's why.

894
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 1: So now you just get the money for it, like.

895
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 2: Three with these with my name, my necklace is right.

896
00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:37,439
Speaker 3: So because it's like okay, I can't wear it anymore, okay, cool.

897
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:39,480
Speaker 2: I respect that. If a man tells.

898
00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:42,480
Speaker 3: Me straight up don't wear this necklace no more, I'm

899
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:43,320
Speaker 3: not gonna wear.

900
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 1: It at all, period, vice versa. Because what if I

901
00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:49,240
Speaker 1: got these shoes that she bought me, or these pants

902
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:51,320
Speaker 1: and I tell you like, yeah, it's got me these.

903
00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 2: Pajamas, throw them away right now exactly.

904
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:55,879
Speaker 1: See. So that's why it's man, you got to be like, nah,

905
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:57,719
Speaker 1: you can't do that, don't get the money.

906
00:43:57,719 --> 00:44:00,279
Speaker 3: But some people don't care. Like some man be like,

907
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:01,960
Speaker 3: I don't give a damn if you wear it or not.

908
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:05,640
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. Some are like no, because

909
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:08,200
Speaker 3: then it's like what if I have a Chanelle person?

910
00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 2: Am I not able to wear that? Either?

911
00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:12,280
Speaker 1: Yeah? Go get the money for that that whole value.

912
00:44:13,040 --> 00:44:15,560
Speaker 2: Okay, so I can't wear none of my purses.

913
00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 1: All your whole wardrobe. Get that up out of here?

914
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:28,239
Speaker 1: Who got you? What what that's but let's yeah, get

915
00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:29,280
Speaker 1: that up out of here.

916
00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:35,360
Speaker 2: Because before because you see, this is why you switch.

917
00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:38,799
Speaker 2: You switch up a.

918
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 3: Lot, because you specifically said, oh, I'm not tripping off

919
00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:46,200
Speaker 3: of that if like a woman is wearing jewelry from

920
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 3: that her ex got, or I'm not tripping off of that,

921
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:50,240
Speaker 3: because then am I good? You literally were like, because

922
00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:52,000
Speaker 3: then what am I going to trip off every bag,

923
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:54,279
Speaker 3: every this, e very that? Like, I'm not tripping off

924
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 3: of that. You said that, now you're tripping off of it?

925
00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:58,400
Speaker 3: Which one is?

926
00:44:57,760 --> 00:45:02,480
Speaker 1: It is if a man says a woman asks a man, hey,

927
00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 1: where'd you get those pajamas? Or this just outfit?

928
00:45:07,640 --> 00:45:12,360
Speaker 2: What's the difference Because you're blowing me and a jewelry piece.

929
00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:14,400
Speaker 1: Though, all right, what if she got me a watch?

930
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 2: Tell it exactly?

931
00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:18,920
Speaker 1: So what's the difference.

932
00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 3: Because I'm asking you not what a woman is gonna say.

933
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:23,759
Speaker 2: What are you keep?

934
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:25,080
Speaker 1: This is the only thing you can.

935
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 2: What do you feel about it?

936
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:28,600
Speaker 1: No, it's only a certain things you could keep. If

937
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 1: your eggs got you something.

938
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:32,719
Speaker 2: Tell me if he got you a house, yeah.

939
00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:42,880
Speaker 3: A car, a car, keeping my car, furniture? All right, okay,

940
00:45:42,920 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 3: so but you're not feeling a woman who's wearing a watch,

941
00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:54,239
Speaker 3: ring a necklace from the ax if you're in a relationship,

942
00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:55,160
Speaker 3: yes or no?

943
00:45:55,560 --> 00:45:58,359
Speaker 2: Because your answer is very every day so yes, No, you.

944
00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:01,480
Speaker 1: Can't fact check that. What you mean like I said.

945
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:03,000
Speaker 2: That, yeah I have.

946
00:46:03,160 --> 00:46:05,759
Speaker 3: I bet you can. I bet you you can. Yeah

947
00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 3: you say, let's fact check that. All I'm saying is

948
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:11,600
Speaker 3: yes or no? Are you tripping off of that?

949
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:14,280
Speaker 1: If she's has jewelry, If she's.

950
00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:15,920
Speaker 2: Wearing jewelry that her ex.

951
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:18,240
Speaker 1: Spottery, Yeah, I'll get her.

952
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:19,520
Speaker 2: You're tripping off of it.

953
00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:22,319
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be like what the like what?

954
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:24,359
Speaker 2: But you're just like, don't wear that shit no more?

955
00:46:24,719 --> 00:46:27,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, because that's a reminder of him. You know what

956
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:30,360
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Every time you look out and your girlfriends

957
00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:33,080
Speaker 1: be like, oh that's cute.

958
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 3: I get it from you, but you detached from that,

959
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 3: Like I feel like I will be dashed so far

960
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:43,000
Speaker 3: from the person who got it for me, like especially

961
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:45,680
Speaker 3: if it's like custom, like I don't remember this.

962
00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 1: But think about this. Sometimes it can come back to you.

963
00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:50,160
Speaker 1: So think about this. You are with your your friends

964
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:51,920
Speaker 1: and it's like three or four of you all at dinner.

965
00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:53,920
Speaker 1: Oh that's cute. Where'd you get that? My ex gave

966
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:57,440
Speaker 1: it to me? And then say like it get back

967
00:46:57,520 --> 00:47:01,120
Speaker 1: to he who hit him from your girl like, oh man,

968
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 1: her ex was nice. Why you ain't never done nothing

969
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:05,879
Speaker 1: like that? Like what like? And you ain't ever told

970
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:09,640
Speaker 1: them like that's bad, that their stuff can get bad?

971
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:11,719
Speaker 2: What like?

972
00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:13,719
Speaker 1: I like, you out with your girls at dinner and

973
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:16,239
Speaker 1: you have your peace on and your and your your

974
00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:19,120
Speaker 1: new dude ain't really asked about it. He just you know,

975
00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:21,600
Speaker 1: he ain't really said nobody. But then your girls you say,

976
00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:24,640
Speaker 1: I got this from my ex. Yeah, say so. Now

977
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 1: you're out with a group of friends, his friends, your

978
00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:31,160
Speaker 1: friends and a friend just be like, why you don't

979
00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:33,680
Speaker 1: be getting your girl, her ex dead, like you know,

980
00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:35,960
Speaker 1: it might be just something in conversation her like, it

981
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 1: could just something like you know, some conversations come back

982
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:44,319
Speaker 1: that unintended, the unintentionally. Yeah, and he find out that way.

983
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:46,400
Speaker 2: Yeah. But also too, it's like, what are you gonna say, Hey,

984
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:49,440
Speaker 2: my ex got me this? Like what? What? Like? I

985
00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:50,040
Speaker 2: don't know how.

986
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 1: I's you just wearing it?

987
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:53,160
Speaker 2: Got it?

988
00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:55,880
Speaker 1: Do get the money for it. That's why jury is

989
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 1: the best gift. Turn that in get the cheese.

990
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:00,839
Speaker 2: I understand that.

991
00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:06,440
Speaker 1: Take him to dinner on him.

992
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:10,479
Speaker 3: Well, you you said something different before, and I can't

993
00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:12,040
Speaker 3: wait to see if we can find that and pull

994
00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 3: it up. But now because you literally were like, I

995
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 3: don't care about that, because then what am I supposed

996
00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:16,680
Speaker 3: to care about?

997
00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:17,280
Speaker 2: Every person?

998
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:17,440
Speaker 1: Man?

999
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:20,480
Speaker 2: I got you and this and that, you know what

1000
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:20,799
Speaker 2: I mean?

1001
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:23,759
Speaker 1: Maybe I shouldn't care about that. Maybe I should be like,

1002
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:28,840
Speaker 1: she's good. I ain't got to get it now. No,

1003
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:30,279
Speaker 1: but if a man, know, if this is about the thing,

1004
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 1: if a man tells you you can't wear your jewelry,

1005
00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:35,760
Speaker 1: then he got to get you something.

1006
00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:38,600
Speaker 2: I agree. I agree because I.

1007
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:40,279
Speaker 1: Feel like a woman saying no, I don't want you

1008
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 1: wear that to the man, he can get rid of it,

1009
00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:45,080
Speaker 1: but that ain't on a woman to replace it either.

1010
00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:47,239
Speaker 1: I think if as a man says no, you can't

1011
00:48:47,239 --> 00:48:49,680
Speaker 1: wear that chain no moreial ex that means his obligation

1012
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:51,440
Speaker 1: is to say, all right, well I'll replace you.

1013
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:55,280
Speaker 3: I feel that, yeah, because that's what happened in my past.

1014
00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:56,879
Speaker 3: But I also do feel like.

1015
00:48:57,080 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 1: He replace it. He replaced it, right, yeah.

1016
00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:03,360
Speaker 3: I like you know, but I stopped wearing it before

1017
00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:06,319
Speaker 3: he replaced it. Like he never said I'm gonna replace it,

1018
00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 3: but he was just like, I don't like that, And

1019
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 3: I was like all right, and I stopped wearing it

1020
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:12,640
Speaker 3: because it's like if once I know you don't like that,

1021
00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:15,200
Speaker 3: because some people don't trip off a certain stuff, but

1022
00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:17,440
Speaker 3: once I really know you don't like that, I'm never

1023
00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:18,240
Speaker 3: gonna wear it again.

1024
00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:19,759
Speaker 2: Okay, it's gone, like.

1025
00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 3: Because again, anything that makes my person uncomfortable, it is

1026
00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:25,439
Speaker 3: never that deep like I'm not gonna wear it cool,

1027
00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:28,239
Speaker 3: And I feel like for some man it looks like,

1028
00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:33,640
Speaker 3: oh you're wearing that, it means you still but it's like, no,

1029
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:35,239
Speaker 3: I just like this, please this.

1030
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:39,840
Speaker 2: Cracket hold on. It means something, which is funny because

1031
00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 2: like my.

1032
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:43,320
Speaker 1: Dad or my mom got this girls.

1033
00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:46,360
Speaker 3: While I won't lie though, like every since, if someone

1034
00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:48,319
Speaker 3: asked me, I'm not gonna lie because that could come

1035
00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:51,400
Speaker 3: back on you like that. I'm not gonna lie about

1036
00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:54,120
Speaker 3: shit like this, Like I don't want to lie because

1037
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:56,439
Speaker 3: if someone asked me something straight up, did you do this?

1038
00:49:56,760 --> 00:49:58,920
Speaker 3: Did you mess with this bird? I'm gonna tell you

1039
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:00,719
Speaker 3: the truth because I can't. I'm not gonna sit there

1040
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:02,279
Speaker 3: and lie in your face like I'm not gonna play

1041
00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:07,560
Speaker 3: with your likes nobody like that. But anyways, thank you

1042
00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 3: guys for joining the Truth after Dark. Another episode, another day,

1043
00:50:11,680 --> 00:50:15,760
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1044
00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:19,719
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1045
00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:46,600
Speaker 1: Listen is to taking over the game, all right, everybody,

1046
00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:49,400
Speaker 1: welcome to Truth after Dark.

1047
00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:54,520
Speaker 2: Do you think that men or women are more toxic