Speaker 1: Good morning, good afternoon, good evening. Guess what you are
Speaker 1: tuned into the Vitamin D Podcast and I am your host,
Speaker 1: Dawn Day. And here on the Vitamin D Podcast, we're
Speaker 1: all about getting you excited about your life. It's here
Speaker 1: where you realize that you are your greatest asset. And
Speaker 1: we started off and we do this by having insightful
Speaker 1: conversations with celebrities and people just like you, when people
Speaker 1: like me, and oftentimes giving off inspirational insights. And on
Speaker 1: this episode, I decided to go back and dig into
Speaker 1: my email back okay, where I am answering questions from
Speaker 1: listeners who need advice on love, life, career, relationship, any aspect,
Speaker 1: just as a means to gain more insight about who
Speaker 1: they are, the decisions they're making, and where they're headed
Speaker 1: to go. So I'm gonna keep it real. I tell
Speaker 1: people all the time, I am an aries. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: give you a straight shot. I'm a straight shooter because
Speaker 1: I want you to be the best and realizing when
Speaker 1: we talk about Vitamin D it's about shutting like on
Speaker 1: the good and the bad, because when you can see
Speaker 1: the way, you can be the way. Okay, let me stop.
Speaker 1: It's time to dig in this Vitamin d email bag. So,
Speaker 1: without further ado, it's time for your dose or doses
Speaker 1: a vitamin damin y right with me and get excited.
Speaker 1: All right, So it's time to dig into our email
Speaker 1: bag subject how do I be okay with just me?
Speaker 1: Dear Dawn, I'm a twenty seven year old woman living
Speaker 1: in Arizona, and I have an issue with self motivation
Speaker 1: and trusting myself. I've always been a people pleaser. As
Speaker 1: long as I have people around me, I tend to
Speaker 1: use those around me to find purpose my feelings, and
Speaker 1: even platonic love for them keeps me moving. If I
Speaker 1: try thinking about being my own person and following your
Speaker 1: path where I live for myself or by myself, I
Speaker 1: get extremely unmotivated and depressed. I recognize that this is
Speaker 1: an issue with codependence, but the thing is, I'm just
Speaker 1: paralyzed with fear wherever I think about moving forward or
Speaker 1: a spiral into a dark spot. I'm wondering what advice
Speaker 1: you have regards to getting to know yourself and being
Speaker 1: okay with being yourself. First of all, thank you, thank
Speaker 1: you for taking the time to write this letter. Thank
Speaker 1: you for having the courage to seek yourself and then
Speaker 1: thank you for acknowledging that you would like to do
Speaker 1: right by yourself, and you said it and you identified
Speaker 1: it in this letter. Their s fear far is coming
Speaker 1: at you in different ways, and I think it's a
Speaker 1: fear of loving yourself. Do you love yourself? Because I
Speaker 1: asked that, because when you love yourself, you do right
Speaker 1: by yourself, You take care of yourself, you spend time
Speaker 1: with yourself. You essentially want to be with yourself. Now,
Speaker 1: you didn't necessarily point out any way of you wanting
Speaker 1: to hate yourself. But I'm reading this letter and I
Speaker 1: see you know that you're running, and I only can
Speaker 1: wonder is what are you running from? Because as we
Speaker 1: exist on this earth, this time, this finite time, we
Speaker 1: have to realize and honor the life that we have
Speaker 1: on it, and that means to cherish it. And sometimes
Speaker 1: when we look at fear, fear is false evidence appearing real.
Speaker 1: You know, we're running away from something that is unrealistic.
Speaker 1: And when I say unrealistic, something that doesn't exist. There's
Speaker 1: no point proof that you will get a received or
Speaker 1: guaranteed outcome. And it reminds me of a song with N.
Speaker 1: D R. It's called private party. And it's time for
Speaker 1: you to learn to spend time with yourself, to love
Speaker 1: on yourself, because your dependence on your happiness should never
Speaker 1: be from what you're getting from someone else's cup. You
Speaker 1: gotta speak life in to yourself, and that's gonna call
Speaker 1: you to stand in the merrit each day and to
Speaker 1: acknowledge and say I love you, I see you, and
Speaker 1: I love you. Because when you love on something, like
Speaker 1: I mentioned, you cherish it right, you're allowed to grow.
Speaker 1: And So one thing that I found that was so interesting,
Speaker 1: and I think we oftentimes do it. I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: say this is just you, is that we look for
Speaker 1: others as a source of inspiration and motivation. Now, other
Speaker 1: people and and and different books and different programs should
Speaker 1: be an extension. But when we talk about self love,
Speaker 1: when we talk about joy, and I noticed I didn't
Speaker 1: say happy. Now, sometimes we will revert to the whole
Speaker 1: notion of the term of saying happy. But there's a difference.
Speaker 1: Happiness fleets, joy resides, and I need joy to reside.
Speaker 1: And you actually learned that from the grounds shout out
Speaker 1: to them from my improvt. But what happens is that
Speaker 1: when you have joy and resides in you. No matter
Speaker 1: what person steps away, what other situations or surroundings that
Speaker 1: you remove yourself from, the joy still resides inside of
Speaker 1: you and therefore becomes an extension of the overflow. And
Speaker 1: so you realize that joy isn't something that you can contain.
Speaker 1: We see it all the time, whether we see it
Speaker 1: on a talk show a game show. When we see
Speaker 1: somebody just said he has to a marriage proposal, relationship,
Speaker 1: it bursts out. It's it's like a light. You know,
Speaker 1: the sun and I've said this before doesn't ask permission
Speaker 1: to shine. Neither should you, and neither should your joy.
Speaker 1: Your joy should not be contained based on your proximity
Speaker 1: of someone else or another situation. So how do you
Speaker 1: find it? India are said it have a private party
Speaker 1: with yourself. You need to start journaling and figuring out
Speaker 1: what makes you happy. See, you're a diligent worker for
Speaker 1: someone else, but what about being a servant to yourself.
Speaker 1: You deserve to be served and nobody can come to
Speaker 1: fill your cup up with you, because remember you are
Speaker 1: the source that's working with this overflow. So when it
Speaker 1: comes down to being an extremely unmotivated and you're feeling depressed,
Speaker 1: you have to realize and you have to dig and
Speaker 1: not why am I feeling this way? Why is it
Speaker 1: that I'm not worthy to be celebrated? Why is it
Speaker 1: that I have to look with outside rather than going
Speaker 1: with him? So I want to add on some meditation
Speaker 1: with that, because you're okay with just being who you are,
Speaker 1: But you gotta ask yourself do you love yourself? But
Speaker 1: more importantly, do you want to? Because this life is
Speaker 1: a journey and we're gonna go on to different processes
Speaker 1: how to move forward and how to acknowledge things. But
Speaker 1: you gotta want it. You have to want your best
Speaker 1: life as bad as you want to breathe. And you
Speaker 1: gotta understand that when we're seeking out here to get
Speaker 1: our best life, it's not something that just falls into
Speaker 1: our lafe. You living your best life is a choice.
Speaker 1: It is a decision that you need to make. What
Speaker 1: say you, this is not a moment of badgering on yourself.
Speaker 1: I don't care how old you are. What I'm more
Speaker 1: concerned with, and please as me, is that you've identified
Speaker 1: something that you want to be better at. And that's
Speaker 1: what we got to understand with life. This isn't about
Speaker 1: be having a perfect destination. But this is about enjoying, understanding,
Speaker 1: and living throughout the journey. They're going to be ups
Speaker 1: and downs. They're going to be moments where you hit
Speaker 1: a roll block where you feel confused. But as long
Speaker 1: as you find the love within yourself, please don't tell
Speaker 1: me nothing is impossible. And you'll realize that once you
Speaker 1: step in and loving yourself, that you've seen the light
Speaker 1: that no matter what dark spot, that you can fathom
Speaker 1: to find yourself. And you know what the light looks like.
Speaker 1: There's one thing to be in a room and not
Speaker 1: to know that the lights are off, But my goodness,
Speaker 1: when the lights are on, you'll never go to another
Speaker 1: dark room again. Do you hear what I'm saying? So?
Speaker 1: How do you be okay with just you speak life
Speaker 1: over yourself until it bursts out of joy, out of
Speaker 1: your eyes, out of your ears. Every extension of you
Speaker 1: should be all about loving you. I'm excited for your journey.
Speaker 1: I'm excited for your decision of acknowledgement and saying that
Speaker 1: I'm ready to do the work. Well, I guess what.
Speaker 1: You don't have to outsource anyone. It starts with you.
Speaker 1: Wake up every day and say I love you. That's it.
Speaker 1: Just start there, say I love you, and I promise
Speaker 1: you more good things and abundance is going to be
Speaker 1: on your way. All right, all right, let's move on
Speaker 1: to the next letter subject. Is it okay to just
Speaker 1: be normal? But dear Dawn, when I was growing up,
Speaker 1: I always assumed that I was meant for something great.
Speaker 1: I'm now guessing this is just from my exposure to
Speaker 1: movies and books. Also, I'm fairly certain most people feel
Speaker 1: like this when they are younger. Anyway, after thirty five
Speaker 1: years of life and moving around the world, finally settled
Speaker 1: in Germany three years ago, I have never found that
Speaker 1: thing that sparked something in me. A couple of times
Speaker 1: I thought I was close, but I guess I was wrong.
Speaker 1: I'm not at the point where I just exist. I
Speaker 1: work a regular, full time job, I have a significant other,
Speaker 1: I have pets and hobbies. Nothing really gets me out
Speaker 1: of bed in the morning except continuing to exist. Always
Speaker 1: thought or hoped life will be more than this. Was
Speaker 1: I wrong? Listen to the show and you talk about
Speaker 1: following your dream, But what if you don't have a dream,
Speaker 1: And I don't know if you want a dream is
Speaker 1: there something wrong with just existing, neither harming nor helping anyone? Hmmm.
Speaker 1: This was real, even down to the subject of the lever.
Speaker 1: The first thing that stood out to me is that
Speaker 1: you said, is it okay to just be normal? M
Speaker 1: What is normal? And what does that mean? The reason
Speaker 1: why I want to say normal, by the defines of
Speaker 1: which you presented to me, I'm gonna say no. And
Speaker 1: I say that because, as you said, and I quote,
Speaker 1: I always assumed that I was meant for something great.
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. I don't know about you, but I often
Speaker 1: don't see great and normal and the same sentence, wow, yeah, No,
Speaker 1: I just don't. And you talked about the fact that, um,
Speaker 1: perhaps you got this because you watched movies and now
Speaker 1: that you're grown up. Now, see, that's where I find
Speaker 1: that that's the issue, or oftentimes that's the concern with
Speaker 1: the problem, is that we're forgetting to have that connection
Speaker 1: of who we were when we were a child. Hear
Speaker 1: me out. You know that when you were a child,
Speaker 1: you believe that anything was possible. That was your magic,
Speaker 1: that was your superpower. When you watch those movies and
Speaker 1: you read those books, you got back to the excitement
Speaker 1: and see with that excitement. That's how you find your purpose.
Speaker 1: Now you go back and you say, hey, Dawn, is
Speaker 1: there anything wrong with just this thing? Neither harming nor helping. Yes,
Speaker 1: stream problem. It's a stream level of disrespect. And I'm
Speaker 1: not talking about to me because listen, whether you go
Speaker 1: out there and besides you live your best life, it
Speaker 1: will not affect my day to day. And I don't
Speaker 1: say that to sound disrespectful. I'm keeping it real. I
Speaker 1: can't beg you to be great. I can't want a
Speaker 1: better life for you more than what you want. But
Speaker 1: I'll tell you this, there's more, because at one point
Speaker 1: in your life you said you knew you were meant
Speaker 1: for something great. There's this movie, a Disney animated film
Speaker 1: I saw called Onward, and the whole premise of this
Speaker 1: film was all about the connection of being a child
Speaker 1: where anything was possible, How you had to follow your gut,
Speaker 1: how you had to go off to your instincts, how
Speaker 1: this land that existed in so much of magic, people
Speaker 1: got so used to things being easy and being comfortable
Speaker 1: that they forgot the superpower that they had inside of them.
Speaker 1: What do I mean by that? You had fairies driving
Speaker 1: motorcycles you had wizards using light switches. Okay, how am
Speaker 1: I making this correlation? Fairies fly wizards, they can zap lights,
Speaker 1: they can start fires with the flick of their wand
Speaker 1: yet outsourcing other means. But guess what, they lost the
Speaker 1: connection of who they are. They lost the imagination of
Speaker 1: what resides in them. And because of the fact that
Speaker 1: you said when you were younger, you knew that you
Speaker 1: were supposed to be great. And while your proximity of
Speaker 1: your environment maybe didn't allow you to be on that
Speaker 1: plane in that moment, it didn't allow for you to
Speaker 1: be sailing that ship. You had images, whether they were
Speaker 1: presented it with words, with with actual visual pictures or movies,
Speaker 1: or with my could be And you said, you know
Speaker 1: what that could be me? So now I ask you
Speaker 1: why not you? You made a point to mention after
Speaker 1: thirty five years age ain't nothing but a number. I
Speaker 1: don't care if you were forty five when you wrote
Speaker 1: in here and I quote, nothing really gets me out
Speaker 1: of bed in the morning except continuing to exist. Mm hmmm,
Speaker 1: what is life if you're not living in Remember I
Speaker 1: talked about before, I said, um, you gotta find your joy.
Speaker 1: And you know, children have joy and when you realize
Speaker 1: that life is all about having the heart, the mind,
Speaker 1: the capacity. And when I say capacity, I'm talking about
Speaker 1: utilizing the imagination of a child. Because there are no limits,
Speaker 1: there are no borders. Why are you putting orders on yourself? Yes,
Speaker 1: there is something wrong with just existing because you have
Speaker 1: greatness inside of you. You can't be ordinary when you're
Speaker 1: supposed to be extraordinary. Who are you not to be?
Speaker 1: I dare you to be great? Not for my sake,
Speaker 1: because again this will not affect my everyday life, but
Speaker 1: for you. Because you deserve to get out that bed
Speaker 1: because the sun is shining. You deserve to get out
Speaker 1: that bed because you know somebody loves you. You deserve
Speaker 1: to get out that bed because you're excited about something
Speaker 1: that you're going to create. You deserve to get out
Speaker 1: that bed because you might be healing someone else's life.
Speaker 1: You deserve to get out that bad because because because
Speaker 1: just because you deserve to get out that bad because
Speaker 1: you are important and you got to establish that and
Speaker 1: understand that that you are more. You gotta understand and
Speaker 1: established that that you are worth more than just existing.
Speaker 1: You deserve to live and I want that for you,
Speaker 1: So said okay to just be normal, No way, Jose.
Speaker 1: I want you to get back to that in the
Speaker 1: mind of the child. I want you to get back
Speaker 1: to that thing that excites you. And that's where you're
Speaker 1: gonna find your purpose and you're gonna realize that purpose
Speaker 1: beats purpose. And guess what that sources you. That source
Speaker 1: is that child that resides inside of you. That source
Speaker 1: is that mindset that said always knew I was destined
Speaker 1: for something great. Hey, and show luck today because I
Speaker 1: believe you. All right, let's move on to another letter subject,
Speaker 1: pH D or travel. M Hi Don. I'm a thirty
Speaker 1: year old female from New Zealand and I just finished
Speaker 1: my Masters of Science. I had an awesome time and
Speaker 1: I loved my project. My plan after I finished my
Speaker 1: masters was to go overseas and travel. While I can
Speaker 1: still do this under a work visa, I was going
Speaker 1: to save some money and do a working holiday in Canada.
Speaker 1: Need to save about four thousand, five D dollars and
Speaker 1: need to be under thirty five, and then come back
Speaker 1: after six months or so to look at getting a PhD. However,
Speaker 1: I've unexpectedly been offered a fully funded PhD project that
Speaker 1: requires our start within the next few months. Funding was
Speaker 1: the main issue whether I did a PhD or not,
Speaker 1: as it is near impossible to do one without a scholarship.
Speaker 1: So I am now at a crossroads. Do I a
Speaker 1: take the PhD and hopefully be able to finish within
Speaker 1: three years and still be young enough to travel or
Speaker 1: be reject the PhD, go and work and travel and
Speaker 1: feel fulfilled and such, but potentially miss out on being
Speaker 1: able to do a PhD if I can't get funding
Speaker 1: for a project later on? Is it unreasonable to worry
Speaker 1: that I won't be able to travel after thirty five?
Speaker 1: Thanks in advance, appreciate it. Oh, okay, okay, you got
Speaker 1: me a couple of things. One congratulates. Congratulations queen on
Speaker 1: doing the dang on thing. Um. I want to say
Speaker 1: that this is amazing all of your accomplishments, and I
Speaker 1: truly believe that you staying focused, you will get everything
Speaker 1: that you want. But let's get down to the nitty
Speaker 1: gritty of what you what you you came for the
Speaker 1: first thing that came to mind, I was had to
Speaker 1: dig a little bit, and um, I just googled and
Speaker 1: I saw that you know, the pH D is an
Speaker 1: eight year program. So I see your conflict. Here your
Speaker 1: thirty and you're thinking like, hey, by the time I
Speaker 1: finished this program, I'll definitely be thirty eight, which takes
Speaker 1: you out of the whole mindset of being able to
Speaker 1: travel for the visa. Because I I hear your dilemma,
Speaker 1: first thing that came to mind. Time waits for no one.
Speaker 1: We know that time is your most valuable coin in life.
Speaker 1: It's your most valuable currency because once it's spent, you
Speaker 1: can never get it back. That's why you have to
Speaker 1: be very mindful with whom with what you decide to
Speaker 1: spend your time with. Now let's go back. You're up
Speaker 1: at a point where you're ready to make a decision.
Speaker 1: And one of the first things I would do because I,
Speaker 1: you know, I do think that we need to stem
Speaker 1: from a place of making decisions based on our life.
Speaker 1: I can tell you all day what I feel like
Speaker 1: you should do, but I think the most helpful instrument
Speaker 1: is I can give you is give you the tools
Speaker 1: so that you can make the decision yourself. One thing
Speaker 1: my mama used to always tell me, she said, don
Speaker 1: write it down and make a list. Make a list
Speaker 1: of the pros and kinds of things that you want
Speaker 1: out of each. Then I say to you, no need
Speaker 1: to make a list. Okay, make the list and put
Speaker 1: the pros and kinds of each. Okay. I see that
Speaker 1: you're you're all ready to make a decision. Well, you
Speaker 1: said you can have a couple of months and you
Speaker 1: still need to save money. Would you rather mix yourself
Speaker 1: out of a potential pH D because you're still in
Speaker 1: the process of needing to save money, or do you
Speaker 1: just go after and do it? In my personal opinion,
Speaker 1: what I would do with Dawn Day would do. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna write down dooptions. I'm gonna accept both because I
Speaker 1: realized that, Um, as long as I keep moving my steps,
Speaker 1: I'm giving God something to blast. And in this situation,
Speaker 1: you don't have the money. Just saved that. So before
Speaker 1: you nix it out, go on and see if this
Speaker 1: PhD in this scholarship program is the one that's right
Speaker 1: for you. You be surprised how things have a way
Speaker 1: of working out. In heck, you just said it right here.
Speaker 1: You unexpectedly got a scholarship, a fully funded scholarship or
Speaker 1: PhD project that you didn't even see was coming your way.
Speaker 1: Go ahead, go out there and work a couple of months,
Speaker 1: see if you how close you can get to four
Speaker 1: point five thousand, and if you do, then you can
Speaker 1: go out there and and and make a better decision there.
Speaker 1: But I think I see a lot of attachment to money.
Speaker 1: You're putting a lot of pressure on yourself. And when
Speaker 1: I see attachment to money, you're not looking at the
Speaker 1: idea of what the possibility to come of what can
Speaker 1: come to that? And what do I mean by that?
Speaker 1: Who's to say that this pH d project that you're
Speaker 1: working on and and and what's to come after that
Speaker 1: won't take you around the world? Is it you won't
Speaker 1: be able to see travel around the world? Is it
Speaker 1: about when because you can't operate and fear? Not when
Speaker 1: we're talking about living our best lives, that's not That's
Speaker 1: not what's gonna happen now. I suggested that you make
Speaker 1: the list so that you can see the pros and
Speaker 1: cons of each. The only thing that I see that
Speaker 1: screams out to me where I take a strong stanza
Speaker 1: as I see that you're operating out of fear And
Speaker 1: what do I mean by that? Do I want to
Speaker 1: say fear of lack? Well, I think they can be
Speaker 1: used interchangeably because you fear what you don't have, you
Speaker 1: fear what you don't see. Hey, So in this situation,
Speaker 1: operate as if they're both coming. Operating the notion of
Speaker 1: you working to see if you can say the money.
Speaker 1: Operating the notion of fulfilling the paperwork and going through
Speaker 1: the protocol for this PhD project because you never know
Speaker 1: what can happen. This project may take you to the
Speaker 1: very places that you choose to see overseas in this project.
Speaker 1: You may have a extra holiday throughout the program and
Speaker 1: still be able to do that. But don't nix yourself
Speaker 1: out of the running, not for something that you dreamed up. Now,
Speaker 1: this was a situation was taking a toll in your
Speaker 1: body and you're saying, hey, I need a breath of
Speaker 1: fresh air inhibiting my functionality with life. I'd say, you
Speaker 1: know what, put it down, because your sanity is worth
Speaker 1: more than anything. But in this situation right here, go
Speaker 1: ahead and work. See if you're saying the money, Go
Speaker 1: ahead and go on with this PhD program. This is
Speaker 1: a one in a lifetime thing. Who knows if you're
Speaker 1: gonna be at the right mind set the patients, Because
Speaker 1: in life, here's another thing, additional things happen, then you're
Speaker 1: gonna fall in love, then you're gonna have a children,
Speaker 1: So there's always going to be something. But I'd say this,
Speaker 1: eat the fruit that's bared on the tree. Okay, as
Speaker 1: long as you're not missing it sounds like a win
Speaker 1: win situation, walking both paths and see which one pants
Speaker 1: out first. And you have to remember, um, as you
Speaker 1: give God something to blast, you realize more things will
Speaker 1: come around you to blast. Just how this wasn't expected.
Speaker 1: You're gonna have another path where the path that's going
Speaker 1: to be an unexpected Okay, so trast yourself, go out
Speaker 1: there and take a chance. Go ahead and get that
Speaker 1: PhD and save the money and see what happens. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, let's move on to the next letter subject
Speaker 1: should I change my crowd or change my crowd? Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: I read that correctly. Dear Dawn. I'm a few years
Speaker 1: from thirty and I have been hanging with the same
Speaker 1: friend groups since I was fourteen. We're all pretty much
Speaker 1: a group of underachieving stoners. But as of last year,
Speaker 1: I've went through a lot of trauma, f ups and
Speaker 1: self growth. I want some stability in my life. I
Speaker 1: want to truly to be able to enjoy life at
Speaker 1: once without any chemicals. Within the last year, I've given
Speaker 1: up so many bad habits in the end, putting all
Speaker 1: the drugs down and pursuing my passion. I feel like
Speaker 1: a new person. My friends want to hang out, but honestly,
Speaker 1: I just don't want to. I still will talk and
Speaker 1: chat online, but I don't want to be around the
Speaker 1: bud smoke and risk of relapsing. As of right now,
Speaker 1: I literally don't hang out with anyone. I come home
Speaker 1: from work and go straight into honing into this passion
Speaker 1: that I'm chasing. I say passion because it's something I
Speaker 1: truly love. I'm not even sure that this is what
Speaker 1: I need to be doing, but I just want to
Speaker 1: have something to clean onto during this time, and it
Speaker 1: keeps me out of trouble. Not really much of a
Speaker 1: social life. I'm wondering what can I do to improve
Speaker 1: my situation with my old crew, or should I just
Speaker 1: focus on finding newer friends who aren't stoned all the time. Uh. Brother,
Speaker 1: I don't know if you're a male or female. Well,
Speaker 1: let me just say this. It sounds like you answered
Speaker 1: yourself in this letter. One thing that stood out to
Speaker 1: me is that you can't fit squares in your circle
Speaker 1: and you realize that everyone who was in your circle
Speaker 1: is not in your corner. When I say that, you
Speaker 1: answered your own question. I'm gonna literally, I'm quoting what
Speaker 1: you said in the letter before I decided to break
Speaker 1: anything down or to dive deep. Quote. I wanted truly
Speaker 1: to be able to enjoy life for once without any chemicals.
Speaker 1: I quote. I feel like a new person. I quote.
Speaker 1: I don't want to be around bud smoke and risk
Speaker 1: relapsing I quote, focus on finding newer friends. Well, listen,
Speaker 1: you're stepping into a new thing and you can't continue
Speaker 1: to move forward while looking backwards. What do I mean
Speaker 1: by that? Well, here's the thing. I say. It's backwards
Speaker 1: because there's a level of growth that you've had. And yes,
Speaker 1: you've known these friends since you were fourteen years old.
Speaker 1: But you gotta understand is that in life, we progressed
Speaker 1: by moving forward, we progressed by growing. We progressed because
Speaker 1: we've evolved. And it sounds like you've had a taste
Speaker 1: of life. And when I say life, remember life is
Speaker 1: about living and once you realize you're living, you're growing
Speaker 1: You're not just existing, You're not staying in the same molde.
Speaker 1: You are coming into a new thing. Now. Is there
Speaker 1: a whole situation where you have to ditch them completely?
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say that, but I would say that as
Speaker 1: you make your decision and you figure out what's the
Speaker 1: right thing, you have to keep in mind that if
Speaker 1: it doesn't serve you, it doesn't deserve you now because
Speaker 1: they are part of your roots. These are people that
Speaker 1: you know. There is a such thing as keeping a
Speaker 1: healthy distance. Do you need to danch them? I wouldn't
Speaker 1: say that, but keep the healthy distance, you know. I
Speaker 1: always tell people that you have to sometimes treat people, things,
Speaker 1: situations as if you have an all white outfit on
Speaker 1: What do I mean by that? Okay, imagine it. You're
Speaker 1: stepping out, you are flying crisp from head to toe
Speaker 1: all white. Are you leaning on walls? Are you sitting
Speaker 1: on cars? Do you sit in the ground? Do you
Speaker 1: roll around in mud? No? You're very mind or you alert.
Speaker 1: You are particular about your surroundings and whatever is coming
Speaker 1: too close to you. Does it mean that you hate it?
Speaker 1: Doesn't mean that you don't want to go outside and
Speaker 1: perhaps go on a field. No, but you're gonna be
Speaker 1: mindful of that ditch. You're gonna be careful of that puddle.
Speaker 1: You're gonna be mindful that you don't just fall out
Speaker 1: and lose control. And that's what you have to realize
Speaker 1: within your own life. You have to protect you yourself
Speaker 1: with your proximity. If you have this all white outfit on,
Speaker 1: you are not going into a pig's style. You are
Speaker 1: not going to be standing there with the pig as
Speaker 1: it's rolling and splashing and mud. Because remember, you are
Speaker 1: stepping into a new thing and you have this new
Speaker 1: white outfit on. And I want to say thank you
Speaker 1: for loving on yourself, thank you for realizing who you are.
Speaker 1: And I think that's what it's all about. Do you
Speaker 1: have to dish them, No, continue to talk with them online,
Speaker 1: continue to have that relationship with them, and don't carry
Speaker 1: any burden as if they're going to be upset with you,
Speaker 1: because you're real friends, your true friends. They're gonna want
Speaker 1: to see you grow, they want to see you step
Speaker 1: into a new thing, they want to see they want
Speaker 1: the best for you, regardless if that doesn't mean that
Speaker 1: you're on the same playing field. It's just like any relationship.
Speaker 1: When somebody is connected to you an extension of you,
Speaker 1: you realize it's a part of you. And when you
Speaker 1: want the best, when it's a healthy relationship, they're gonna
Speaker 1: want to see you prosper and grow. But what happens
Speaker 1: when people are on the same mindset? You know, they
Speaker 1: say birds of a feather flock together. Now the question
Speaker 1: is how high do you want to soar? You got
Speaker 1: your wings spread? Are you looking to go to new heights?
Speaker 1: When you talk about all this bud smoke and you
Speaker 1: talk about all this these chemicals, you got to realize
Speaker 1: that it's clouding your vision. Now you said that you're
Speaker 1: going on to a new thing, right because you like
Speaker 1: the feeling of this new person. Well, guess what this
Speaker 1: new person can see some things. Remember we talked about
Speaker 1: on the last letter about stepping in the room when
Speaker 1: it's dark. But it's a difference of what that room
Speaker 1: looks like when the lights are on. H the lights
Speaker 1: are wrong. Not tell me what do you see? When
Speaker 1: the smoke is there, You're bound to hit a tree,
Speaker 1: m You're bound to run into a window because the
Speaker 1: vision isn't clear. Well, on vitamin D, we're all about
Speaker 1: keeping the vision clear now in your situation, based on
Speaker 1: what you wrote, you said that you don't want to relapse.
Speaker 1: If there is a situation where you feel as if
Speaker 1: your foundation that has nothing to do with someone else,
Speaker 1: that your foundation isn't solid, you're gonna risk bawling because
Speaker 1: when you fall, who's going to pick you up? Now,
Speaker 1: say you found something that you can fight for. And
Speaker 1: I often find that when people are stuck in a situation,
Speaker 1: I'm not sure that it's always a sense of you
Speaker 1: don't want to be better and you don't want to
Speaker 1: do better. You just haven't found your source for something
Speaker 1: to keep you going. Whether it's in a situation where
Speaker 1: you need to find yourself love, whether it's a situation
Speaker 1: where you need to find your purpose, whether it's a
Speaker 1: situation where you're trying to be a better partner in
Speaker 1: a relationship. You have to have something to keep you moving,
Speaker 1: and you've gotten that. You've gotten that with this new
Speaker 1: passion of yours. Now you didn't specifically say what the
Speaker 1: passion is, but you know that it's steering you in
Speaker 1: a direction, and it's steering you in a path that's
Speaker 1: leading you away from where you don't want to be.
Speaker 1: Continue to go after it, because again you're stepping into
Speaker 1: a new thing. And as a new thing, you realize
Speaker 1: that new opportunities come forth. You know, you start to
Speaker 1: continue to attract abundance, and you start getting addicted to
Speaker 1: feeling good. And I don't care who you are, I
Speaker 1: don't care where you're located. I don't care how long
Speaker 1: you've been on this earth. I don't care what you
Speaker 1: have it had. You can't tell me that it doesn't
Speaker 1: feel good to feel good. Who doesn't want to feel good?
Speaker 1: You show me one person who says they don't want
Speaker 1: to feel good, and that said, I'll retire. It feels
Speaker 1: good to feel good. And after sixteen years of growth
Speaker 1: and looking how you said, I don't want that former
Speaker 1: life anymore. I'm gonna tell you right now, you deserve it.
Speaker 1: That's the vitamin d I got from you. You deserve
Speaker 1: it because you're worth it. Dreke said that you deserve
Speaker 1: it because you're worth it. You deserve it because you're
Speaker 1: worth it. So go out there and live your best life. Remember,
Speaker 1: you can't fit squares in your circle, and you realize
Speaker 1: that everyone is to send your circle is not in
Speaker 1: your corner, all right, So let's go on to another
Speaker 1: one subject. Is there something missing? Dear Dawn, I've been
Speaker 1: having a really hard time lately. I just recently turned
Speaker 1: thirty three. I feel like I don't really have a
Speaker 1: defined path. I don't know what I want to do next.
Speaker 1: I have a good job, a loving husband, we have
Speaker 1: a house, not too many friends. Lately, the biggest thing
Speaker 1: is I can't help but think I'm too old. If
Speaker 1: I want to make music, I'm too old to learn
Speaker 1: or start. If I wanted to try acting, I'm too
Speaker 1: older and experience. If I wanted to start a business,
Speaker 1: I should have done it before. Now I feel like
Speaker 1: I've been so confused and on an undefined path that
Speaker 1: opportunities are just passing me by. I think it's the times,
Speaker 1: but I see so many people in celebrities online who
Speaker 1: are my age or younger achieving so much success, and
Speaker 1: I'm just old and and not skilled. How do I
Speaker 1: change this outlook? How do I find what I'm passionate about?
Speaker 1: How do I stop comparing myself and my life to
Speaker 1: others and just be happy where I am? It tickles
Speaker 1: me because you know, I've been talking about how joy
Speaker 1: and reciting in joy, but this morning, as I was
Speaker 1: digging in and uh going through the letters that in
Speaker 1: provided me with, I heard the song plan on the radio,
Speaker 1: Kirk Franklin Happy and he says, do you want to
Speaker 1: be happy? And like I said before, you know, happiness
Speaker 1: can be fleeting, but happiness can definitely lead you to
Speaker 1: that joy. Right, well, I can say with much certainty
Speaker 1: that fear and joy can't coexist. See, fear takes out
Speaker 1: the light and joy exudes the light. Did you hear me?
Speaker 1: Fear takes out the light. Remember, you fear what you
Speaker 1: cannot see. You fear when the lights are off because
Speaker 1: you can't see what's coming at you. But joy, what
Speaker 1: do they say? Joy comes in the morning because in
Speaker 1: the morning there is the light. Joy is unapologetic because
Speaker 1: it shines the light on the good, the at and
Speaker 1: in different vitamin D. So do you want to be happy?
Speaker 1: Do you want joy? Another thing that um I said,
Speaker 1: it's a couple of mixtures. There's a couple of things
Speaker 1: in areas I want to touch based on just because
Speaker 1: you've mentioned this at the top of the letter you said, Um,
Speaker 1: you said, I have a good job, a loving husband,
Speaker 1: and we have a house, not too many friends, but
Speaker 1: as you get older, and I'm sure you're thirty three,
Speaker 1: you've experienced it enough. Sometimes I have been too many
Speaker 1: friends can be more of a headache than a blasting.
Speaker 1: So that's an observance that you keep your clothes, your
Speaker 1: your circle type. Okay, but when you said I have
Speaker 1: a good job, a loving husband, and we have a house,
Speaker 1: where's your gratitude? Huh? You didn't just say I have
Speaker 1: a job that I'm miserable bout I have a husband
Speaker 1: who cheats, Oh, I have a raggedy house. No, you
Speaker 1: said I have a good job, I have a loving husband,
Speaker 1: and we have a house. With a good job. That
Speaker 1: means your financiers are in order. So I'm assuming you
Speaker 1: you have a nice home, a loving husband. Well, you
Speaker 1: have someone who loves you that's residing in this nice
Speaker 1: home that you got with your good job. But where's
Speaker 1: the gratitude of that? And I get it. Like I
Speaker 1: said before, I see fear all up in here because
Speaker 1: you've made an excuse on every level. See, as we're
Speaker 1: go down further, you talked about how I see so
Speaker 1: many people and celebrities online who are my age or
Speaker 1: younger achieving so much success. You know, comparison as a
Speaker 1: thief of joy. Right, So you're walking or operating and motive.
Speaker 1: You're not grateful but what you have, and yet you're
Speaker 1: constantly looking over to what someone else has. Ha. Well,
Speaker 1: here's the thing. I may misconstrue this a bit, but
Speaker 1: there's a quote that you have to be faithful over
Speaker 1: a little in order to get a lot. Now, how
Speaker 1: does this bridge these two statements that you made? Will
Speaker 1: look at it? If you don't see and acknowledge the
Speaker 1: joy of having what you have because you're constantly looking
Speaker 1: at someone else, how can you expect to steer your
Speaker 1: boat in the direction of your dreams of your best
Speaker 1: life if you're consistently looking at how someone else is
Speaker 1: steering their boat in the direction that they're going in. Huh.
Speaker 1: Another thing is is that in a sense, there will
Speaker 1: always be somebody who has more, who has better, But
Speaker 1: that's all based on the perspective of what they want
Speaker 1: in life. Right. And when you talk about making excuses
Speaker 1: about whether or not you know you wanted to to
Speaker 1: to act, but you're too old. You wanted to do music,
Speaker 1: But are you too old to learn or to start? Well,
Speaker 1: what do you want? You gotta understand that dreams don't
Speaker 1: work unless you do. And you said how everything keeps
Speaker 1: passing you by? Yes, because remember, like I said, time
Speaker 1: doesn't wait for no one. You gotta go out there
Speaker 1: and grab it by the horns. You gotta go out
Speaker 1: there and give it a shot. The worst thing is
Speaker 1: that it's not going to happen, or even worse, you
Speaker 1: sit in misery that you never took a chance to try. Remember,
Speaker 1: nothing beats a failure but a try and understanding in
Speaker 1: this process. And you will hear from so many successful people.
Speaker 1: You're seeing them at the tip of the iceberg. But
Speaker 1: as you see icebergs that are in these Antartica and
Speaker 1: the oceans and all this kind of stuff, do you
Speaker 1: know how much ice is underwater and how many cracks,
Speaker 1: whether there be ships and different animals that it may
Speaker 1: have bombarded that ice, but it's still had enough with
Speaker 1: and know how to still rise above the water. And
Speaker 1: you understand that it doesn't happen overnight. How do you
Speaker 1: think they're consistent with the success? Now, some people do
Speaker 1: strike a look, but it takes a direction. Now, if
Speaker 1: we want to talk about people who are in overnight
Speaker 1: success with the society, is that they went ahead and
Speaker 1: took a chance. How can you expect all these dreams
Speaker 1: and all these things that you can see other people
Speaker 1: succeeding at if you don't up out the box and
Speaker 1: take a chance. You gotta take a chance on yourself
Speaker 1: because no matter what you have, no matter how much
Speaker 1: or how little, you'll never be able to appreciate what
Speaker 1: it is that you have if you don't see what's
Speaker 1: in your hands. Do you hear what I'm saying? You
Speaker 1: have to want your best life and what it looks like.
Speaker 1: And it's not about what's missing, It's about what you
Speaker 1: haven't discovered. Because again, you're so busy looking at everyone
Speaker 1: else that I'm wondering, have you taken a chance to
Speaker 1: look at yourself to see what it is that you want?
Speaker 1: You're gonna constantly be looking at somebody's race, because other
Speaker 1: people are on their path in their best life. But
Speaker 1: guess what, you only got one path? So so what
Speaker 1: they got their cars? So what they got the house?
Speaker 1: And what they got the shoes? And they got their album,
Speaker 1: they got their record. But what did you do? What
Speaker 1: has your name on it? Where does your dream resign?
Speaker 1: How do you want to feel when you wake up.
Speaker 1: How do you want to love on your husband? How
Speaker 1: do you want to reside in your life? How what
Speaker 1: you know? People come out and they ask questions. They're
Speaker 1: ask me for a device, but guess what. You gotta
Speaker 1: decide what you want and sometimes of not knowing what
Speaker 1: you want, you gotta spend your time and your proces
Speaker 1: of discovering what it is. That means you got to
Speaker 1: spend time with yourself. You gotta figure out why you're
Speaker 1: so consistently looking at what everybody else has and not
Speaker 1: looking at what it is that you want. What do
Speaker 1: you want? What do you value? What do you appreciate? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm going hard because there's things like this that makes
Speaker 1: me stir up inside. Because there will always be a
Speaker 1: level of discontent. There will always be a level that
Speaker 1: you are enough. I'm here to tell you that you are.
Speaker 1: That's what vitamin D is all about. Vitamin D is
Speaker 1: about shedding a light, but it's also about exuding the
Speaker 1: light that's already inside of you. Everything that I speak
Speaker 1: about on vitamin D, you notice I ain't telling you
Speaker 1: that you gotta go out and get something, that you
Speaker 1: gotta go out and purchase this or you need to
Speaker 1: be around search of situations. I consistently tell you that
Speaker 1: you gotta find belief in yourself. You gotta find the
Speaker 1: want in yourself. You are the key, you are the ignition.
Speaker 1: And when you talk about being living your best life,
Speaker 1: you gotta go out there. You gotta take a chance
Speaker 1: because you're worth it. You're worthy and you're worth it.
Speaker 1: Do you hear me? So? No, nothing is missing. No,
Speaker 1: you are not lacking anything. There's nothing to fear but
Speaker 1: fear itself. Concern yourself with being great. And the only
Speaker 1: question that I want you to ask yourself, it's who
Speaker 1: am I not to be? Okay? I have one last
Speaker 1: letter that I want to tackle subject change my careers
Speaker 1: from my partner. Now she's gone. Dear Dawn, I'm from Atlanta,
Speaker 1: and I don't know if I still have time to
Speaker 1: do the career I wanted, software engineering. I was on
Speaker 1: track for that, but I had a relationship last year.
Speaker 1: We had plans of moving in together once I had
Speaker 1: finished college. My ex gave me an ultimatum to change
Speaker 1: careers to something else. She rejected most of the alternatives
Speaker 1: I said, and ended up in a chef career. However,
Speaker 1: she still decided that wasn't enough and left me for
Speaker 1: someone else. She ended up staying as a friend who
Speaker 1: barely talks to me. Every chance she has, she cheers
Speaker 1: me on on how good I'm doing get my chef career,
Speaker 1: despite that every time she does this breaks me apart.
Speaker 1: I don't know what to do. I used to love
Speaker 1: being a chef because I thought it was giving me
Speaker 1: a chance of a life together with her, But now
Speaker 1: it's just a constant reminder that I was a fool
Speaker 1: and got played by a narcissistic person. The worst part
Speaker 1: is that the career is taking away all of my money,
Speaker 1: so getting out of that now will just screw me over.
Speaker 1: I feel like if I was able to work at
Speaker 1: one hundred percent each day, I would be able to
Speaker 1: But just now I had an emotional breakdown and started
Speaker 1: crying because I remember her. I don't know what to do.
Speaker 1: How can I somehow reckon saw these aspects of my life?
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, it takes a fool to learn that love
Speaker 1: don't love nobody. I don't even know if the worst step,
Speaker 1: but that's the song that came to my head. Um
Speaker 1: less time. I'm not going to even badge you because
Speaker 1: I get it I get it because love or what
Speaker 1: you thought was love, or somehow a one sided love
Speaker 1: was involved. You know, and love sometimes you want to
Speaker 1: just give and you want to make sure that other
Speaker 1: people are happy because it makes you feel good. And
Speaker 1: you know, Indy r reseat and she said love is
Speaker 1: not about how much you can take, but it's all
Speaker 1: about how much you can give. And you wanted to
Speaker 1: give a life that she appreciated. The only issue that
Speaker 1: I have here is that you weren't evenly yoked and
Speaker 1: whether that was a case of she wanted something else
Speaker 1: for your life thing you envisioned. But more importantly is
Speaker 1: that you and this is what I received. I'm not
Speaker 1: sure that you showed up as the software engineer that
Speaker 1: you were seeking. What do I mean by that any
Speaker 1: relationship I wouldn't think that someone is in and it's
Speaker 1: a long standing relationship where you're you're looking to move
Speaker 1: to the next level. There is an understanding of who
Speaker 1: you are as a person, right with your desires, with
Speaker 1: your dreams, what your gifts are. And I find it
Speaker 1: interesting that while you said that you wanted to do
Speaker 1: or to be a software engineer, or you you wanted
Speaker 1: to follow that career path. You got a left uppercut,
Speaker 1: but I think it's because you weren't sure what you wanted.
Speaker 1: And then if we go even deeper, let's let's go
Speaker 1: under some more layers. It's kind of had an idea
Speaker 1: of what we spoke about on the last letter, and
Speaker 1: it's about loving you and knowing who you are, knowing
Speaker 1: what it is that you want. And when we talk
Speaker 1: about what it is that you want, you gotta identify
Speaker 1: about the life that you're seeking to live and know
Speaker 1: that it has to be for you. Because remember when
Speaker 1: we talk about having a partnership, right, and we're seeking
Speaker 1: out a partner, we don't want to come half empty.
Speaker 1: We want to come with overflow and coming and overflow
Speaker 1: is out of self love and coming out of self
Speaker 1: love and means that you're honoring yourself. And then when
Speaker 1: you're having a partner, because again it's just two whole
Speaker 1: beings coming together, then it's just a burst of more
Speaker 1: and more overflow. It's seeing each partner for where they
Speaker 1: are and not where you expect or hope them to be. See,
Speaker 1: if I know that you have great potential, if I
Speaker 1: see something for you, I'm not coming into the relationship
Speaker 1: and one shouldn't come into the relationship figuring out what
Speaker 1: I can change, but more so what I can magnify,
Speaker 1: what I can amplify. Your relationship should be like a megaphone.
Speaker 1: But guess what, this relationship maybe could have been a megaphone.
Speaker 1: But I'm curious to know the words that were coming
Speaker 1: out from the megaphone, the source, which is you. Now,
Speaker 1: you said you wanted the software engineering job, but I'm
Speaker 1: not sure that you knew exactly what you wanted. And
Speaker 1: you can say all day that she was a narcissist,
Speaker 1: and she couraged you to saying something which can very
Speaker 1: well be true. And that's why I chuckled at the
Speaker 1: beginning of the letter, because I know what it's like
Speaker 1: to love on somebody so much that you're willing to
Speaker 1: sacrifice what it is that you want for them, Because
Speaker 1: in that moment, there was nothing more beautiful than that poison.
Speaker 1: You would consistently drink the poison because without it, you
Speaker 1: still die. Someone I die enjoying it. But the only
Speaker 1: problem is is that now that she's gone, you're still
Speaker 1: making room for her. What do I mean by that?
Speaker 1: She's as you put it, she got you to change
Speaker 1: your career path for a relationship. Then after that wasn't enough,
Speaker 1: she moved on, But yet you still managed to keep
Speaker 1: her around as a quote unquote friend so much so
Speaker 1: that she can still cheer you want. But it's still
Speaker 1: a void. Remember that void that you said that angst
Speaker 1: Like she's cheering you on great career and you're like, wow,
Speaker 1: but it hits you. That's what I mean about that
Speaker 1: poison because you still get the idea, the satisfaction of
Speaker 1: having her as a friend in your life, but you
Speaker 1: realize on the double and so what about the fact
Speaker 1: that it's still causing you angst and anxiety? So now
Speaker 1: I have to say to you, when do you choose yourself?
Speaker 1: It's just like a tree. A tree doesn't get a
Speaker 1: chance to dictate what weather it's in. But once you
Speaker 1: have a strong connection your roots, you realize that whatever
Speaker 1: the weather, you will weather the storm because your roots
Speaker 1: are solid. Again, that's what vitamin D is about. It's
Speaker 1: about tackling the source. So in your idea of what
Speaker 1: you're saying about your career, what is it that you
Speaker 1: want you change your careers for your partner? Now she's gone,
Speaker 1: she's gone, so why are you still there with her.
Speaker 1: Why are you having access to that? You gotta learn
Speaker 1: to love yourself. Remember I talked about earlier on and
Speaker 1: answering these letters about how you gotta treat people like
Speaker 1: you gotta white outfit on? Well, where is your white
Speaker 1: suit at? Because you're starting to get a little dirty.
Speaker 1: Every time that you go down back down memory lane
Speaker 1: and have an emotional moment, it breaks you off your path.
Speaker 1: What happens, It knocks you off your foundation, the same
Speaker 1: as a tree that is uprooted from its roots. But
Speaker 1: see when you step and you walk in assurance, when
Speaker 1: you know that what it is that you want, and
Speaker 1: when you start to give attention to things that serve you,
Speaker 1: you'll know why in fact, it deserves you. It deserves
Speaker 1: you just as what you are. And I'm telling you
Speaker 1: right now you cannot afford to live a life I'm
Speaker 1: not doing what you're passionate about. Do you know how
Speaker 1: much anxiety and depression that you are looking forward in
Speaker 1: your future? Because no matter which way you look at it,
Speaker 1: it's never going to be enough. And that's what happened here.
Speaker 1: Just like I read in the previous letter, this woman
Speaker 1: was so used to looking at everyone else and what
Speaker 1: they had. She wasn't able to identify what it is
Speaker 1: that she wanted. You know what it is that you want?
Speaker 1: And now it's time for you to go after it.
Speaker 1: She's made her decision. She's going on to live her life.
Speaker 1: Are you ready to live yours? Are you? I think
Speaker 1: you deserve it. I think you deserve it because you're
Speaker 1: worth it. But again, I can't want something more than
Speaker 1: you want it for yourself. Do you hear me? It's
Speaker 1: time to let it go, and it's time for you
Speaker 1: to go after your dreams. And I understand that will
Speaker 1: be a transitional process, but hey, you made it through
Speaker 1: this breakup. What can't you make it through? And I
Speaker 1: can tell you went through a moment. I know, I
Speaker 1: know you did, but just like you were able to
Speaker 1: keep going, Go ahead and switch and go back to
Speaker 1: your dreams. Get twenty seven, but you got a whole
Speaker 1: life ahead of you. Get you a side hustling job,
Speaker 1: Get back in there and get behind that computer, Get
Speaker 1: behind them books, get in them classes. Do whatever you
Speaker 1: need to do, but just make sure that it's for you. Okay.
Speaker 1: I hope that makes sense. I enjoyed this, you know,
Speaker 1: I always enjoy it and you know, I talked with
Speaker 1: so much passion because it excites me when people are
Speaker 1: making decision to live out their best life. Because at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, that's what I want you
Speaker 1: to know, and I want you to walk into that.
Speaker 1: And even though I may go through these letters and
Speaker 1: giving my opinions, remember your truth is what matters to you.
Speaker 1: And as long as you have the tools to discern
Speaker 1: what's for you that I know that my job is done.
Speaker 1: I'm here to give you an outside look on things
Speaker 1: and situations that I feel may aige you for the
Speaker 1: betterment of you. Remember, the joy has to reside in you,
Speaker 1: and when you had that joy, all the lights flicker on.
Speaker 1: So if you were listening and you enjoy some of
Speaker 1: the comments and you still would like some feedback on
Speaker 1: something you're battling with, maybe be a relationship, whether it
Speaker 1: made me love, whether it may be purpose, whether it
Speaker 1: mean just because I want to encourage you to go
Speaker 1: ahead and submit your letters. Email them to Vitamin D
Speaker 1: at dawn day Speaks dot com. That's Vitamin D at
Speaker 1: Dawn d a i speaks dot com. We will surely
Speaker 1: get in the email bag and as you know, in
Speaker 1: is on the lookout. So continue to live out your life.
Speaker 1: Continue to understand that you're worthy. Continue to understand that
Speaker 1: you or your this asset, you deserve it, You're worth it.
Speaker 1: And if you can't necessarily wait until next week, you
Speaker 1: know you can get more vitamin D by following them
Speaker 1: on social media. Right, you can follow me at all
Speaker 1: social media at Dawn Day speaks again, that's Dawn d a,
Speaker 1: I speaks okay on all social media. I can't wait
Speaker 1: to hit from you. Well, that's it for vitamin D today.
Speaker 1: Until next time, Always remember you are your greatest asset.