Speaker 1: Rooking Jim Bulls Second Date Update. The guy on the
Speaker 1: phone for today's second date update thinks his date was
Speaker 1: a horrible disaster, but it wasn't his fault. Oh sure,
Speaker 1: so this is an opportunity to blame everybody else. His
Speaker 1: name is Vince. What's up, Vince? How are you hey?
Speaker 1: What's going on? Man? What's up? Man? We'll get to
Speaker 1: how horrible your date wasn't just a second First, I'll
Speaker 1: tell us the girl you want to call today. What's
Speaker 1: her name? Her name is Tammy? Tammy? All right, and
Speaker 1: how did you meet Tammy? We met on a dating
Speaker 1: site and we talked for a few weeks and we
Speaker 1: were able to go out on our first date. And
Speaker 1: was this like every other date that you'd been on
Speaker 1: from a dating site or were you anticipating something more special? Well,
Speaker 1: I just broke up a while ago. I was in
Speaker 1: a long term relationship, and I haven't really been out
Speaker 1: there dating that much. She was like the second person
Speaker 1: that I was able to kind of connect with. Oh,
Speaker 1: it's pretty new to you, this world of online dating.
Speaker 1: Absolutely haven't been out dating for a while, all right,
Speaker 1: And it was a disaster. What you say, well, you
Speaker 1: said in your email is a disaster, but not your fault.
Speaker 1: So let's go and find out how everybody else screwed
Speaker 1: up your date. What happened? Well, basically, you know, like
Speaker 1: I said, I haven't been dating for a while. My
Speaker 1: idea was to do a dinner on the show. I
Speaker 1: looked up like dinner on the show options, and that
Speaker 1: seemed a little expensive. You know, I'm not cheap, but
Speaker 1: it just seemed a little expensive. So I talked to
Speaker 1: a buddy of mine. He gave me the idea of
Speaker 1: maybe doing habachi. Oh I love those places. Yeah, those
Speaker 1: places are fun. Yeah, and it's such a good date
Speaker 1: because it gives you something else to talk about instead
Speaker 1: of just having to stare at each other over food. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: So what what's going on is you have dinner and
Speaker 1: the show all combined. Because those cuts that like flip
Speaker 1: things around and everybody goes, oh my god, that was
Speaker 1: the most amazing thing. Every taking pictures of everything. You
Speaker 1: get to bond over that kind of stuff. Right. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So you know we get there and the rest round
Speaker 1: experience wasn't that good. You know, it started off like,
Speaker 1: you know, the drakes are fine, the whole you know,
Speaker 1: the soup, you know, they bring out the soup, they
Speaker 1: bring out the salad. That was good, and then things
Speaker 1: went downhill when the chef came out. Really why he
Speaker 1: was all over my day? He was just staring at him,
Speaker 1: was like, he's eyebinger, you know what I mean. It
Speaker 1: was just crazy what I thought you were, like, not
Speaker 1: loving his show that he was putting on. He wasn't
Speaker 1: flipping to your standards, Na, it just wasn't really comfortable
Speaker 1: the way he was, you know, eyeballing her when we're
Speaker 1: sitting down the eaton. So did you try to did
Speaker 1: you try to fight him? No? No, I didn't try
Speaker 1: to fight him. I don't recommend that those dudes are
Speaker 1: good with knives. Yeah, you know, I'm not the type
Speaker 1: of guy that really tried to start anything, but I
Speaker 1: really had to make a comment. You know. It's like
Speaker 1: like it's really hot over here. You know, It's just
Speaker 1: it was crazy. He just wouldn't stop, like ball in
Speaker 1: my chick. It's not like he's performing for masses of people.
Speaker 1: Like it's easy to make eye contact between you and
Speaker 1: the chef at one of those places. Yeah, but you
Speaker 1: don't lock in its stay focused. You know, you're making
Speaker 1: missus pocket with the shrimp. You know, obviously he's distracted
Speaker 1: by her looks because he couldn't get the show done. Okay,
Speaker 1: so he's trying to do his like fancy chef flips
Speaker 1: and all that stuff. But he was just staring at
Speaker 1: your date the whole time. Yeah, he's staring at her.
Speaker 1: And then he messed up the flaming onion thing. Um. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's supposed to be a volcano with fire shooting straight
Speaker 1: up in the air, and all it was was a
Speaker 1: little bit of steam. That's probably the worst part about
Speaker 1: the whole thing was the dude couldn't get his union volcano.
Speaker 1: That's happened on many of dates. I think people at
Speaker 1: the table were disappointed too. Yeah, okay, but what was
Speaker 1: your date thinking. Did she say she was uncomfortable with
Speaker 1: the way the chef was looking at her? You know
Speaker 1: what I mean? It's our first date and you know,
Speaker 1: we haven't hung out, so I think she was just
Speaker 1: being polite about the whole thing. But you know, I
Speaker 1: couldn't really read on it, but I wasn't comfortable and
Speaker 1: I didn't like it. Well, I'm just saying you could
Speaker 1: come off as a real jealous person if she didn't
Speaker 1: notice anything, and you were out rage the entire time.
Speaker 1: Come on, how could she matt notice it? The whole
Speaker 1: table noticed it? Okay? Wow? But was the date with
Speaker 1: her other than that? Okay? Or I'm not sure? I
Speaker 1: mean she's not calling me back. I mean the bottom
Speaker 1: line is I was so disappointed and I didn't leave
Speaker 1: a tip? Oh yeah, possible she saw that I didn't
Speaker 1: leave a tip. Is she thinking I'm cheap? Kay? Did
Speaker 1: I think he took the wrong route? I don't think
Speaker 1: you should have gotten angry with it. I think you
Speaker 1: should have made jokes about it and then like made
Speaker 1: it like an inside joke thing between you two. Then
Speaker 1: it could have been funny and fun to talk about.
Speaker 1: Did you not hear me this guy like I bring
Speaker 1: my date? If you got that upset that loud at
Speaker 1: the table, I guarantee that's right. Why should not calling
Speaker 1: you back too? So you think that it's because she
Speaker 1: saw you not leave a tip and maybe thinks you're cheap.
Speaker 1: It had to be that. I don't know what else
Speaker 1: it could be. How how are things at the end
Speaker 1: of the date? Was she cool or you know what?
Speaker 1: Everything was pretty cool the way the date ended. What
Speaker 1: I really just need help with I want to go
Speaker 1: out on the another date with her without a third wheel.
Speaker 1: I think that obachi guy messed everything up for me. Okay,
Speaker 1: and I want some help. I want to go out again. Okay.
Speaker 1: So she, have you tried reaching out to her? She's
Speaker 1: not talking to you at all. Yeah. I'm faxing them,
Speaker 1: calling and no response. It's just like if a habbachi
Speaker 1: guy gets its fired up. I just can't imagine a
Speaker 1: person actually talking to her and hitting on her or something.
Speaker 1: If you were there, you would have seen it. You
Speaker 1: would agree that was totally inappropriately. All right. Okay, Well
Speaker 1: we'll play a song and then come back and call
Speaker 1: her and get your second day update. Okay, I appreciate it. Man.
Speaker 1: Thanks all right, man, hold on looking jubil in the
Speaker 1: morning if you're just tuning in to today's second day update.
Speaker 1: Vince is on the phone and he wants to call
Speaker 1: a girl named Tammy. They went out to a habachi
Speaker 1: restaurant and he thought the date went horribly because the
Speaker 1: chef was looking at his date the whole time, so
Speaker 1: much so that he couldn't even concentrate on his tricks.
Speaker 1: He screwed up the volcano onion thingy flipping shrimp around
Speaker 1: couldn't catch in his pocket, and Vince was outraged, and
Speaker 1: he thinks the reason that he's not going to call
Speaker 1: back is because he didn't leave a tip. So Vince,
Speaker 1: were about to call her, And I hope that at
Speaker 1: the end of this, whether it goes good or bad,
Speaker 1: you'll do the right thing and give us the customary
Speaker 1: forty percent tip that you're supposed to give. For second,
Speaker 1: it's a forty percent tip standard. I don't know if
Speaker 1: you know that or not, but you should. Yeah, I'll
Speaker 1: do it. Yeah, So what's for that free dinner at
Speaker 1: the end of this segment? Huh. As long as you
Speaker 1: guys have to give me another day with her, I'll
Speaker 1: gladly give you. Well, I supposed to be either way,
Speaker 1: but whatever. I think your biggest uphill battle is going
Speaker 1: to be trying to convince her that you don't have
Speaker 1: a jealousy issue. I don't think I do. The guy
Speaker 1: trought the line. You know, I tried. It's my best
Speaker 1: to keep my cool, but it is what it is.
Speaker 1: All I appreciate if you guys can give me a
Speaker 1: little help here. Yeah, okay, for sure, all right, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna dollar from him her right now here we go? Hello,
Speaker 1: I mean I speak to Tammy. Please, this is she?
Speaker 1: Can I help you? Yeah? I think so. This is
Speaker 1: Jewel from brook and Jewel in the morning. Oh the
Speaker 1: radio station. Well that's the disappointment in that voice. I
Speaker 1: know it didn't sound too excited about that. I'm excited,
Speaker 1: but I'm surprised. What's up calling you today? Because somebody
Speaker 1: emailed us about you? Oh, good or bad? You sounded
Speaker 1: more excited about that than actually talking to us. So
Speaker 1: sure interested in that? Well good and bad? I guess,
Speaker 1: Oh that could be a number of people. Can you
Speaker 1: fill in the blanks for me? Yeah? For sure. Have
Speaker 1: you heard a second date update before? Certainly I listened
Speaker 1: to this station. Okay, well oh yeah, yeah, Oh you're smart, Timmy.
Speaker 1: Some people don't even get it when I start mentioning that, yeah,
Speaker 1: putting the second date update. You know where if you
Speaker 1: go on a date with someone and then end up
Speaker 1: not calling them after, they can email us to get
Speaker 1: you on the phone and figure out what happened. I
Speaker 1: have never been on this end. I've listen, but it's
Speaker 1: a little uncomfortable on this end. Well, hopefully it gets
Speaker 1: more uncomfortable Vince is the dude that emailed us. Oh yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's okay. He's not totally clueless, like he knows that
Speaker 1: your guys's date didn't go super awesome either. He's clueless
Speaker 1: on some other things, so I'm surprised. But Dad, what
Speaker 1: else is he clues about? Can you just tell him
Speaker 1: that you tried calling me and the number was out
Speaker 1: of service? I mean, can you just tell us what
Speaker 1: happened and why you don't want to call him back
Speaker 1: and we can pass it along. Well, at the start,
Speaker 1: he was a great guy, and I thought this is
Speaker 1: gonna be a wonderful evening, but it progressively went downhill
Speaker 1: from there. Okay, yeah, and why anything? In particular? We
Speaker 1: went to a habaschi restaurant, which I thought was a
Speaker 1: good idea because just, you know, other things going on
Speaker 1: and we don't really know each other and we didn't
Speaker 1: have to make small talk. The food was great, but
Speaker 1: you know, they do that little tricks here and there
Speaker 1: at the habbachi, and my date started heckling the chefs. Heckling.
Speaker 1: Heckling it would be the best word, like don't drop
Speaker 1: the man, don't drop it, not in a nice way,
Speaker 1: like oh I hope he doesn't drop it, you know,
Speaker 1: flipping shrimp up in the air, lighting things on fire.
Speaker 1: He just had a rude comment to make every time
Speaker 1: the chef did something, and the comments felt aggressive, aggressive, rude,
Speaker 1: childish fun. We talked to him and he told us
Speaker 1: that he thought the guy was doing a terrible job.
Speaker 1: He didn't tell us that he was actually saying things
Speaker 1: to him though about it. At one point, You're not
Speaker 1: gonna believe this. He actually took a shrimp toist it
Speaker 1: in the air, caught it in his mouth, and he
Speaker 1: set up, yelled at the guy pointing at him and
Speaker 1: said I should work here. Wow. I don't think anybody
Speaker 1: would go if he was working there. Wow. Okay, so
Speaker 1: he was just meaning the dude, and I was like,
Speaker 1: I can do your job better than you, you idiot.
Speaker 1: And then he doesn't even leave a tip. I mean,
Speaker 1: at some point he should have realized he's being rude
Speaker 1: and embarrassing me and should have at least made up
Speaker 1: for it. But no, he just made it worse. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he thought the tip thing was the issue. Apparently it
Speaker 1: was also heckling, right, which is the he could have
Speaker 1: left the biggest tip going. It didn't make up for
Speaker 1: all the crude remarks that he made that the right
Speaker 1: and if he's going to act that way on a
Speaker 1: first date, I mean, I can't imagine when he gets
Speaker 1: comfortable in a situation. He was making a spectacle out
Speaker 1: of himself. The people around us were pointing fingers. I
Speaker 1: wanted to call under the table. Oh gosh, Okay, maybe
Speaker 1: he was nervous it was the first date, but I
Speaker 1: don't know. I think you could control yourself a little
Speaker 1: better than that. I was absolutely shocked at what was
Speaker 1: going on. Tammy. You might be shocked again. And you've
Speaker 1: heard second date up dates before, so probably forgot or
Speaker 1: don't remember that Vince is actually on the other line. No, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: Vince's on the other line listening and wants to talk
Speaker 1: to you. Dammy, No, I was rude because the chef
Speaker 1: was rude. Vince, do you really think that was the
Speaker 1: reason for you to be as rude as you were.
Speaker 1: I can't remember when a day we were on a
Speaker 1: date and you were acting like a child. I wasn't
Speaker 1: babysitting anybody. I was on a date. You're right, damn it,
Speaker 1: you're not. I mean, I could have flought him, but
Speaker 1: I didn't. I could right now, for sure, I could
Speaker 1: have thought sorry, not sorry. The guy was way out
Speaker 1: of line. He crossed the line. He was rude. He's
Speaker 1: looking down, he assert I mean, he's for christ sake,
Speaker 1: it was crazy. Wait, Dabby, did you feel like the
Speaker 1: habbachi chef was maybe flirting with you at all? An
Speaker 1: he were? I didn't notice because I'm a good looking woman.
Speaker 1: It happens all the time. I don't take notice of it.
Speaker 1: And Vince should have been proud, not a big deal
Speaker 1: about it. Yeah, you know what, the bottom line is
Speaker 1: he had one job, and that was the cook and
Speaker 1: to do tricks. That's two jobs. I think you had
Speaker 1: one job to be a date, and you couldn't do that.
Speaker 1: And by the way, your job is not being a
Speaker 1: hibashi chef, So throwing shrimp up in the air had
Speaker 1: no bearing. You know what. You're just not grateful for
Speaker 1: me defending the honor the way I did what. You know,
Speaker 1: a man was class would have taken it as a
Speaker 1: compliment and made a big deal. The fact that you
Speaker 1: had me and he didn't. Instead, you just flew everything
Speaker 1: out of proportion made it an embarrassment to me and
Speaker 1: everybody around it. It bits. I thought the whole point
Speaker 1: with this was like you to try to get a
Speaker 1: second date, not you to prove like you're more awful
Speaker 1: than she even thought. I'm standing up for myself. Nobody
Speaker 1: else around here is doing it. Mean, the bottom line
Speaker 1: was I'm trying to stand up for her when I
Speaker 1: should have and she's not even grateful about it. But
Speaker 1: you know, I mean I still want the second date.
Speaker 1: Oh oh, I'm not going to chalerate and getting my
Speaker 1: whole stepped on by having my lady being disrespected. It.
Speaker 1: You know, I didn't appreciate it. Okay, Vince, It sounds
Speaker 1: like Tammy is also super interested in that date. So Tammy,
Speaker 1: would you like to want a second date with Vance?
Speaker 1: Will pay for it? Did you dare hear how horrible
Speaker 1: this whole experience was? I did? I did? Put the
Speaker 1: question still stands, would you like to go out with him? Look, Tammy,
Speaker 1: you got to reconsider. Why don't you just come to
Speaker 1: my house and I'll cook you anything better that that
Speaker 1: Abaci chef could have possibly even thought about cooking. I
Speaker 1: can make you a nice ribby rice, corn asparagus, and
Speaker 1: I can show you some tricks in the bedroom that
Speaker 1: you can't even imagine you think it was impressive with
Speaker 1: that shrimp on the date? Yeah, condemn in the vedroom, Tammy?
Speaker 1: How could any woman resist that offered? Tammy? Come on, Tammy, Oh,
Speaker 1: I'm just dying and jump in bed with you? Really
Speaker 1: after that first spectacular date, That's exactly what I want
Speaker 1: to do. I've been looking forward since I left the restaurant.
Speaker 1: It sounds like a so you're saying yes now, Emmy?
Speaker 1: Or am I not picking up on some sarcastle I
Speaker 1: can't tell pure sarcasm. Damn, Vince, you needn't calm down
Speaker 1: a little bit out there in the daily world. This
Speaker 1: is not going the way I wanted it too. It
Speaker 1: looks it is a possible I get a date with
Speaker 1: somebody else if she's not gonna go through with it.
Speaker 1: What was sure? Text ends have any five nine till
Speaker 1: you one day with Vince. He's got angerishes and doesn't
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