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Speaker 1: Matt is on the phone today for it to Catch
Speaker 1: a Cheater and he's been with his girlfriend Beth for
Speaker 1: almost a year, but now he thinks something might be
Speaker 1: going on. So we're going to see if we can
Speaker 1: help him out. Matt, why don't you tell us a
Speaker 1: little bit about your situation?
Speaker 2: Okay, So, yeah, so I met Beth. We've been together
Speaker 2: for almost a year.
Speaker 3: We got through our honeymoon phase, which was awesome, like
Speaker 3: a lot of fun, got to know each other really well,
Speaker 3: and then we went through some rough patches, ups and downs.
Speaker 3: So it's probably just in my head, but you know,
Speaker 3: I don't know. I just got this weird feeling she
Speaker 3: might be cheating on me or I'll explain more. So
Speaker 3: we went out for New Years. It's downtown. We hit
Speaker 3: up as many bars as we could get into. We
Speaker 3: had a lot of fun and we.
Speaker 4: Were talking that night basically like how we almost broke
Speaker 4: up this last year and we finally got to a
Speaker 4: place where we could focus on ourselves so she told
Speaker 4: me that she wanted to start working on herself again,
Speaker 4: and I thought it was awesome.
Speaker 2: So we said this year, we're going to start doing that.
Speaker 2: We're gonna start she says she's going to join a gym.
Speaker 4: I was super serious about it, and she's been consistent
Speaker 4: about it. So she started working out daily, and I
Speaker 4: support her and what she needs, but it just kind
Speaker 4: of starting to seem like I'm.
Speaker 2: Less and less important.
Speaker 4: She's on herself and she's and we were serious about it.
Speaker 4: I was like stone cold sober.
Speaker 2: Moment about it. I mean it wasn't sober, but I said,
Speaker 2: let's work on ourselves. Let's work on ourselves.
Speaker 4: And so but now it's like, okay, she's working on herself,
Speaker 4: and then where is that leavering for me?
Speaker 5: Okay?
Speaker 4: So anyway back, Okay, so now why do I think
Speaker 4: maybe she should not me?
Speaker 2: So, yes, she's spent more more time at this gym.
Speaker 4: She's gone for like hours and hours at a time,
Speaker 4: which is kind of crazy because just started to really
Speaker 4: get into it. I'm supportive of her, but then she
Speaker 4: came home the other day and her clothes to be
Speaker 4: gone for four hours. It didn't nice sweat it was nothing.
Speaker 4: It was like she just went to the movies or something,
Speaker 4: you know, So I asked her about it, and then
Speaker 4: she just said that she had a clean pair in
Speaker 4: her bag.
Speaker 5: So, okay, she changed or something before she came home,
Speaker 5: was it?
Speaker 4: Yeah, she said she changed, But then why would she
Speaker 4: change into a fresh pair of another gym clothes?
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess that makes sense. I don't know,
Speaker 2: but that's not something she would typically do, you know.
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 6: I mean, I think it's always unsettling when you start
Speaker 6: to feel the distance grow between you and your partner,
Speaker 6: But sometimes that's necessary for you, guys, to even get closer, right,
Speaker 6: especially if you're spending time working on yourself, then you
Speaker 6: really do have to dedicate that time to yourself. And
Speaker 6: that doesn't always mean that she doesn't love you. I mean,
Speaker 6: I don't know. Does she still talk to you? Are
Speaker 6: you guys still physical?
Speaker 4: I think that yes, people should work on themselves and
Speaker 4: you should support each other.
Speaker 2: It's when you start feeling like you're in the way, yeah, and.
Speaker 4: Then you're kind of like, okay, well, I don't know,
Speaker 4: so again, it might just be in my head.
Speaker 2: Maybe she's just gotten real busy. She really is, you know,
Speaker 2: trying to take take care of herself.
Speaker 5: Is there anybody that you suspect at all?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 4: So like, okay, so the gym has these amenities and
Speaker 4: perse and so you can sign up a workout buddy.
Speaker 2: We've talked about me signing up, but I don't know.
Speaker 2: Maybe she signed somebody else up.
Speaker 4: And they're working out, you know, that might be my.
Speaker 5: Is the offer still available for you to sign up?
Speaker 2: I don't know if the time period's up yet. I
Speaker 2: don't think it is that.
Speaker 4: I was thinking maybe that could be like the way
Speaker 4: you guys could call her, you know, ask her from
Speaker 4: the gym, like, hey, do you want to sign anybody
Speaker 4: else up?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 4: Okay, kind of see if maybe she signs me up.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, yeah, we'll do that all right.
Speaker 1: We'll play a song come back, and then pretundity from
Speaker 1: the gym and see who she wants to sign up
Speaker 1: to be her workout buddy and see if it's you
Speaker 1: or somebody else.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, a.
Speaker 5: Right, play us song come back and get your to
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Speaker 1: The Jubile Show in the middle of to catch a
Speaker 1: cheater if you're just joining us. Matt is on the
Speaker 1: phone and he thinks that his girlfriend of almost a
Speaker 1: year named Beth might be cheating. So we're about to
Speaker 1: call her from the gym that you just joined. Apparently
Speaker 1: they gave her a workout buddy, like if there's a
Speaker 1: free workout buddy thingy.
Speaker 5: Hopefully I'll say it better that when I call.
Speaker 1: And Matt suggested that we call from there and see
Speaker 1: if she wants to sign him up or somebody else.
Speaker 1: But before we do that, Matt, why don't you refresh
Speaker 1: everybody's memory on your situation.
Speaker 2: Well, you did sum it up pretty well. We met
Speaker 2: a year ago.
Speaker 4: We had a really great relationship at first, an awesome
Speaker 4: hontingmon period, and then we had some ups and downs
Speaker 4: and decided this past New Year's we were going to
Speaker 4: work on ourselves and support each other and doing so.
Speaker 4: And now I kind of feel like I'm getting in
Speaker 4: the way of that for her.
Speaker 2: So she's working out a lot, and.
Speaker 4: I just want to see if she still wants she
Speaker 4: still wants Matt.
Speaker 2: And uh not somebody else. And the other day she
Speaker 2: was gone for four hours.
Speaker 4: And came back and she had looked like she had
Speaker 4: not worken out there was you know, she didn't smell
Speaker 4: like sweat or anything. So said that she just changed
Speaker 4: clothes at the gym.
Speaker 2: So that's kind of what tipped me off. And I said, Okay,
Speaker 2: maybe she's not telling me the whole truth.
Speaker 1: Here, we're gonna call from the gym and see if
Speaker 1: she wants to sign you up or somebody else.
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, this
Speaker 5: is Jorvin, call from I was looking for our new
Speaker 5: member Beth.
Speaker 1: Uh.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that how you doing bath, Jan Are you great?
Speaker 5: How are you liking the gym so far? I really
Speaker 5: like it wonderful.
Speaker 1: I'm calling because I'm just calling up to the people.
Speaker 1: I'm just calling up some of our new members and
Speaker 1: letting them know about the introductory workout buddy past that
Speaker 1: we have and just wanted to let you know a
Speaker 1: little bit about that and see if we can get
Speaker 1: you signed up or get a buddy of your signed
Speaker 1: up so they can work out with you for a
Speaker 1: little while.
Speaker 7: Oh, I guess you guys don't have that on your paperwork.
Speaker 5: I already have somebody. Okay here it says you don't
Speaker 5: have anybody signed up to be your work your workout partner?
Speaker 2: Oh okay, well that's word no I do.
Speaker 5: Okay, well, then do you mind if I just input
Speaker 5: the information?
Speaker 2: Then sure, young, I mean, I'll do my best.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know who.
Speaker 7: Uh. I think the guy's name was Dave who signed
Speaker 7: me up?
Speaker 2: So talk to him?
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, so yeah, if I could just input this
Speaker 1: so we have it, then what is.
Speaker 5: The name of your the person that you're bringing with
Speaker 5: you for the month?
Speaker 4: Randall?
Speaker 2: So who's Randall? Bes? This is your boyfriend, Matt? Who's Randall? Wow?
Speaker 1: Show and we have a second where we're trying to
Speaker 1: catch people cheating and yeah, that's your boyfriend.
Speaker 2: On the phone.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 7: Well, first of all, you guys have no right to
Speaker 7: meddle in other people's lives.
Speaker 2: So how you'd my business?
Speaker 4: No, Matt, this is no other No, it's both of
Speaker 4: our businesses.
Speaker 2: But you came home the other day.
Speaker 4: You were gone for like four hours and came home
Speaker 4: and we hadn't been to the gym, you hadn't been sweating,
Speaker 4: you hadn't It was crazy. You just came home and
Speaker 4: you're like, oh, I changed and then and by the way,
Speaker 4: who is Randall?
Speaker 2: Like? Who is this guy?
Speaker 7: Okay, dude, Matt, I told you I wasn't lying when
Speaker 7: I told you that I wanted to start new and
Speaker 7: focus on myself this year. That is the case. I
Speaker 7: wanted better myself in every single way. And I met
Speaker 7: Randall when I was looking around for different gyms. Okay,
Speaker 7: Randall has the same focus and drive that I do.
Speaker 7: And honestly, Matt, I just haven't felt that way with
Speaker 7: you for quite a while.
Speaker 6: So it just gave me some new clarity.
Speaker 2: And so there you go.
Speaker 7: Wait, that's so.
Speaker 6: Is Randall like your workout buddy, like he keeps you accountable?
Speaker 6: Or Randall is somebody that you're now finding yourself interested in.
Speaker 7: Okay, I'm sorry, this is not this is not I
Speaker 7: am not going to get into this but a stupid
Speaker 7: radio show.
Speaker 5: You want to put me on black.
Speaker 7: You want to try to embarrass me about my life.
Speaker 2: I don't owe you any story.
Speaker 5: No, you are trying to embarrass me.
Speaker 2: You owe me. What do you mean forget about them?
Speaker 2: You owe me? And what are you talking about? A
Speaker 2: new you? We've been together for a year. Randall? Randall?
Speaker 4: Who is this dude?
Speaker 2: You just met him? Are you kidding me? Why if
Speaker 2: you listen, you didn't want to be in a relationship
Speaker 2: with me months ago? Why didn't you tell me? I
Speaker 2: cray know the new you suck? Okay?
Speaker 1: Oh oh.
Speaker 7: No, no, no, if I okay, can you just shut
Speaker 7: up for a second.
Speaker 5: I don't know me.
Speaker 2: I'm so tired of that you are abusive. I swear
Speaker 2: to god that is crazy to you.
Speaker 4: You cheat on me and then you don't tell me
Speaker 4: and then blame me like you want this.
Speaker 2: You you're crazy. Don't know that I'm cheating on you?
Speaker 5: That has not been said.
Speaker 2: I didn't stay there. What are you doing anything? What
Speaker 2: were you doing?
Speaker 7: I told you who Randall was. I told you who
Speaker 7: he was and how we met. And honestly, Matt, you
Speaker 7: just you don't have a time.
Speaker 2: You told the radio show who they were. You didn't
Speaker 2: tell me.
Speaker 7: Well, you're the one who called me up on the
Speaker 7: radio show.
Speaker 5: That you haven't said you're not cheating though.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, you shut up.
Speaker 4: YEA said that you're not, Just like you haven't said
Speaker 4: to me you wanted to break up.
Speaker 2: I swear that you are. You're a piece of word.
Speaker 5: You know you know what I am.
Speaker 7: I am working on myself. I am a piece of
Speaker 7: work working on myself right now. And I'm sorry that
Speaker 7: that you've had.
Speaker 2: You go from stupid radio show.
Speaker 7: But I can't do this anymore obviously, like this is
Speaker 7: clearly done.
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna hang up that.
Speaker 5: Okay, fine with the road. Bye, She's gone.
Speaker 2: Man.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, man, I'm sorry too. That's a new excuse
Speaker 5: for cheating. I'm working on myself. I'm working on myself.
Speaker 5: That's not right. I'm so sorry. Well, yeah, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: I thought it was nothing.
Speaker 4: But I'm glad I trusted my instincts, and I'm glad
Speaker 4: that the relationship.
Speaker 2: Didn't get any further than it was going to get.
Speaker 2: The new heir sucks.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I knew her could just be her, all right.
Speaker 4: I appreciate it, thanks, I guess yeah. I just add
Speaker 4: you know, I feel sorry for that. Randall. Guys, good luck, Buddy,
Speaker 4: good luck man, because you're gonna need it.
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