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Speaker 1: M Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica

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Speaker 1: and I'm Mila.

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Speaker 3: Happy December, Happy December, Lovely, how are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm great?

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Speaker 1: I am black, beautiful and juicy.

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Speaker 2: Hallelujah.

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Speaker 1: Black beautiful and juicy.

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Speaker 2: So I'm great. How are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm great, I'm black, beautiful and juicy, and I'm happy.

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Speaker 2: I love that for you. Thank you. I love that

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Speaker 2: for you. You know what?

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Speaker 1: What was I watching?

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Speaker 1: I was watching Scottie Beams podcast and she had this

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Speaker 2: I think I know who it is? You think exactly

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't know what.

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Speaker 1: Because I it's like you want me to fail.

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Speaker 2: How much is here to talk about your ten year old?

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Speaker 3: Not even mommy friends do that she was telling me.

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Speaker 3: I don't like seventy seven genes or overly religious family

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Speaker 3: It's working for you, that one percent has worked for you,

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Speaker 3: We we're supposed to talk about this episode the things

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, that's one thing you learned. Well, you guys.

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Speaker 2: I've learned a lot of things. Do you know why?

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Speaker 3: Because I am now certified government certified sexologist, and Tanter

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Speaker 2: She was glasses, this was lingerie, she was leather.

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Speaker 1: She'd warned you, She did warn you, she said. The

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Speaker 1: Do you have any you need to have, any sexual roadblocks,

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Speaker 3: No, But really, I really I learned a lot of things.

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Speaker 2: That yet, still in progress.

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Speaker 3: But I feel super I do feel like I've gained

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Speaker 3: I also learned that we can do whatever the fuck

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Speaker 1: God, I've learned how important the company I keep is

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Speaker 3: My boundaries are they're legit, they're good. Well, they need

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Speaker 1: And I realized, yeah, you're right, and that generally, I

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Speaker 1: and a lot has happened for me, good, bad, great, medium,

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00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:05,240
Speaker 1: and I feel like I'm still in processing of all

444
00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:09,080
Speaker 1: of it. But ultimately I'm grateful for all of the

445
00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:11,600
Speaker 1: things that I went through this year, all the memories,

446
00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:16,320
Speaker 1: all the experiences, the love that I experienced, the heartbreak

447
00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:20,520
Speaker 1: that I experienced, Like I really am grateful for being

448
00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:24,320
Speaker 1: able to kind of be raw because I think at

449
00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:25,919
Speaker 1: the beginning of this year, what I said was like

450
00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:27,879
Speaker 1: I want this year to be my rawest year, Like

451
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:32,760
Speaker 1: I want to really feel like I'm like the most honest,

452
00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:39,320
Speaker 1: And I really went for it. I really explored all

453
00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:41,840
Speaker 1: the parts that I like might have judged other people

454
00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:44,359
Speaker 1: for and I just said, fuck it, and I realized

455
00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:48,080
Speaker 1: it doesn't suit me, and it doesn't suit me because

456
00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:52,160
Speaker 1: I don't know how to compartmentalize those things. Like I've realized,

457
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:55,760
Speaker 1: like I really have to be in a good frequency

458
00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:58,960
Speaker 1: and energy or else it fucks up everything.

459
00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:02,080
Speaker 3: Well it doesn't. It doesn't suit you, but it really

460
00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:05,640
Speaker 3: suits to no one. Like environmental pollution is real.

461
00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:08,240
Speaker 1: But some people and you shouldn't do this anyway, but

462
00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:11,000
Speaker 1: some people are better at being able to, like be

463
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:18,000
Speaker 1: in toxic spaces and still having a positive output for

464
00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 1: other people. I can't do that. I can't be in

465
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:25,760
Speaker 1: a toxic situation and then be positive in other spaces.

466
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:28,840
Speaker 1: I becod. I start toxifying all of my spaces that way,

467
00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:32,800
Speaker 1: I think, because so much of my love, so much

468
00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:36,600
Speaker 1: of who I am is rooted in like I don't

469
00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:38,359
Speaker 1: even know what the word like where it is, like

470
00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:41,959
Speaker 1: like I don't know my heart centered and like womb

471
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 1: centered and like as women we are. But I feel

472
00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:50,639
Speaker 1: like I just I know for me personally, like the

473
00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:55,960
Speaker 1: moment I started entertaining any sort of bullshit, it's going

474
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,960
Speaker 1: to ultimately spread bullshit in all the other areas of

475
00:23:58,960 --> 00:23:59,399
Speaker 1: my life.

476
00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:03,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, it definitely will. Unfortunately, the longer you

477
00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:05,920
Speaker 3: stay in it too, like if you're unaware, it will

478
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:08,080
Speaker 3: numb you out, and so you start to think like

479
00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:10,359
Speaker 3: this is normal, see, this is comfort, and then you

480
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:12,680
Speaker 3: just start to like vibrate there. And that's the thing

481
00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:15,239
Speaker 3: is like being around tap people who are unwilling or

482
00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:17,919
Speaker 3: you know, to look at themselves or heal or like

483
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:20,320
Speaker 3: even beginning to do that work, which is so fun.

484
00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:21,919
Speaker 3: It's fucked up because a lot of men are not

485
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:25,239
Speaker 3: there yet. Most men are not having spiritual practices. I'm

486
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:27,440
Speaker 3: not saying you know all, but a lot of them

487
00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:28,679
Speaker 3: are not. You know, a lot of them are not

488
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 3: going to be you know, inklings in front of the

489
00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:34,080
Speaker 3: women because like this is kind of our territory and

490
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,960
Speaker 3: we're kind of like reclaiming it. But the thing is,

491
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:40,639
Speaker 3: like so many women second guest guests, second guests themselves

492
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:44,800
Speaker 3: that they they become numb to to you know, how

493
00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 3: they do pollute spaces and how they do show up,

494
00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 3: and how their energy is low and like how their

495
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:53,320
Speaker 3: heart is hurting and like they're just functioning despite it

496
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:55,800
Speaker 3: and you know, pretending and it's just like that is

497
00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 3: really scary, and it's like it has been a tough year,

498
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:03,679
Speaker 3: but like thankful you are self aware enough to be like, huh,

499
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:07,119
Speaker 3: you know, something feels off. You know, like I'm like

500
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:10,280
Speaker 3: at least being like, okay, well I realized I've not

501
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:12,320
Speaker 3: been myself in you know, X amount of time, and

502
00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:16,600
Speaker 3: I can you know, I can directly related back to

503
00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:20,080
Speaker 3: this and just like you know, take responsibility for participating

504
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 3: in it, and then you know, actually moving forward doing

505
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:25,879
Speaker 3: something differently and having the discernment to be like I

506
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 3: was tripping, but fool me once, You're not gonna, you know,

507
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:31,760
Speaker 3: fill me four times. We've all been fooled multiple times.

508
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:35,200
Speaker 3: But just being having the commitment to yourself.

509
00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:38,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I think about as you're talking, I

510
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 1: think about how men are on the internet, you see,

511
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:42,600
Speaker 1: and even women they're saying like I want a god

512
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:45,439
Speaker 1: fearing man, or like they must be God fearing or

513
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:49,439
Speaker 1: they must be Christian, And I kind of, yeah, I

514
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:51,560
Speaker 1: kind of relate to that, and not in the same way,

515
00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:54,920
Speaker 1: like I want someone who's like spirit loving, someone.

516
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 3: Who's like devout, devout self devout, Yes, like.

517
00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:01,760
Speaker 1: Virtually have to have to believe in something.

518
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:08,199
Speaker 3: Committed to spiritual advancement, committed to committed to just discovering

519
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 3: your own divinity.

520
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:12,080
Speaker 1: Discovering your own divinity but also knowing like that there's

521
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:17,520
Speaker 1: something bigger than us, and like committed to investigating what

522
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:19,879
Speaker 1: that is and how that impacts.

523
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,160
Speaker 3: You, Right, and how you show up in the world

524
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 3: because of that source that is like obviously you know,

525
00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 3: transmitted through you.

526
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 1: Absolutely absolutely, and that's a non negotiable for me. So

527
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 1: my dating pool is getting extremely much smaller now.

528
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 2: But that's great, No, it is. But we don't have.

529
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:44,720
Speaker 1: No skinny jeans like medium to high on the fashions tall.

530
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:48,160
Speaker 2: Black, not medium to high on the fashion.

531
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 1: Medium okay black or brown at least brownish. And you know,

532
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:57,160
Speaker 1: you don't even have to be tall, like just taller

533
00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 1: than me, like I can wear heels and you're my

534
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 1: height at least to like strong five nine ten. So

535
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:11,960
Speaker 1: I feel like I might be more clear now, specifically

536
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:15,640
Speaker 1: because I'm not having sex and I don't have any

537
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:20,160
Speaker 1: intentions on having sex. I really don't think I'm gonna

538
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:23,959
Speaker 1: have sex until I'm in a relationship with somebody. Yeah,

539
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 1: and which is kind of scary because I we probably

540
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:30,040
Speaker 1: need to have sex before we commit to the relationship

541
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 1: because I don't want any funny business. However, I do

542
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:34,360
Speaker 1: think that like once you are in the like once

543
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:36,920
Speaker 1: you really tap in with someone, you know what they

544
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 1: fuck like, you know, yeah, you know what they fuck?

545
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:44,199
Speaker 2: Like have been wrong? Might not? Bitches are not tapped in.

546
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:45,919
Speaker 2: They're they're confused.

547
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:48,280
Speaker 1: Now you know what they fuck like, but you don't

548
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:52,439
Speaker 1: know what that dick sizes, which check? Which will that

549
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:54,720
Speaker 1: will be checked? But I just don't have any interest.

550
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:56,960
Speaker 1: I can't even imagine a man inside of me. I

551
00:27:57,000 --> 00:28:01,280
Speaker 1: have no like I'm very horn like I want.

552
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 2: Oh, I know I want.

553
00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:09,160
Speaker 1: I'm very horny. But I just can't imagine having sex

554
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 1: with someone and then like looking at them and cuddling

555
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:15,439
Speaker 1: and like being excited like yeah, and like excite, like

556
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:17,720
Speaker 1: stupidly excited, like I don't know where this is going.

557
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:21,679
Speaker 1: That was like, no, I don't, I do care, and

558
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:23,680
Speaker 1: like I can't have casual ste and because I can't

559
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:25,919
Speaker 1: have casual sex, I can't lay with you and like

560
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:26,680
Speaker 1: be like that was.

561
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 2: Fun, that was cute.

562
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 1: Maybe hopefully you'll call me like no, I need to

563
00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 1: know you're gonna fucking call me like I don't want

564
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 1: to do any of this in between grey area. Yeah,

565
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:39,480
Speaker 1: So it's very much it's very much better. It's very

566
00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 1: much better if like I'm dating with real clarity and

567
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:48,960
Speaker 1: intention and dating someone who's clearly on the same path,

568
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 1: because if we're not on that same tip, then it's

569
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 1: due it's doomed. It's gonna be doomed.

570
00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:00,680
Speaker 2: So you're gonna hear dating.

571
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:03,479
Speaker 1: Stories on how much sex stories you're gonna hear, But

572
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 1: maybe there's like other although I did tell you the

573
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 1: other day that I've been like hanging out with this

574
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 1: guy and like we haven't even like kissed, like barely touch,

575
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 1: like there's clear sexual tension happening between us, but we've

576
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 1: both kind of like well before this like silently acknowledged

577
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 1: that this is like we're not going to like take

578
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 1: it there. And then I like actually vocalized to him

579
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:31,760
Speaker 1: like this is where I'm at and I respect where

580
00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 1: you're at, and blah blah blah, and then he walked

581
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 1: me to my door. And after this was like after

582
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 1: we like had dinner and we went on like up

583
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:41,959
Speaker 1: the mountain and overlooked the mountain like overlooked LA and

584
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 1: had like smoked up.

585
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:45,400
Speaker 2: There and it was really it was really cute.

586
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 1: And he walked me to my door and then we

587
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:52,280
Speaker 1: like hugged for like fifteen seconds and then he walked away,

588
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:54,400
Speaker 1: and I was like all giddy, like a fucking teenager

589
00:29:54,520 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 1: like like making weird sounds like okay, Like I was

590
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:02,719
Speaker 1: like what the fuck is wrong with you? You're fucking

591
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:03,840
Speaker 1: not smooth at all.

592
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:04,480
Speaker 2: Bitch, shut up.

593
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 1: And I watched him walk away and he like has

594
00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 1: his hands behind his back like you know, like like pensive,

595
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:12,720
Speaker 1: like walking.

596
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:16,240
Speaker 2: Like you know, like all like to the car. Yeah,

597
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 2: like he's thinking deeply about what just happened. And I'm

598
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 2: looking at him.

599
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, fifty second time He's walking all slow like fucking Buddha,

600
00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh my god. And then I closed

601
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 1: the door and I'm like, oh my god, Wow, that

602
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 1: was so great. And then I realized my panties.

603
00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 2: Are fucking soaked and my pussy is pulsating, and I'm like,

604
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 2: did I just nut my pants? Like we don't even

605
00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 2: do shit, We even.

606
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:44,720
Speaker 3: Touched fifteen second hugs, Like I'm like, is this my

607
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:45,640
Speaker 3: new foreplay?

608
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:48,240
Speaker 1: Is this the new shit for me? Like? Or is

609
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 1: it because I haven't fucked in like two and a

610
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 1: half months that like this is where I'm at. I

611
00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:55,479
Speaker 1: was like, either I've just unlocked a new level of

612
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:58,200
Speaker 1: intimacy I didn't even know I could have, or a

613
00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 1: bitch is just so desperately horny that that's all it took.

614
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 3: Well, I think it's a combination of both, and you're

615
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:07,720
Speaker 3: probably gonna I think it's like the longer it goes,

616
00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 3: the easier it'll be to like honor it, because like

617
00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 3: after a certain amount of time, you're like, I'm not

618
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 3: gonna just waste it. I've wasted all like I've committed

619
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 3: all this time. So yeah, when you you're gonna be

620
00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 3: very sensitive to someone entering your like actually touching you.

621
00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:22,560
Speaker 2: So I think it's good.

622
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:25,680
Speaker 3: And you are probably very highly on the high end

623
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,320
Speaker 3: of horny right now, but I think he'll balance its

624
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 3: way out.

625
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 1: Oh I want to do They do this in tantra

626
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:33,800
Speaker 1: school where they do like the no touch orgasms, Well,

627
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:36,479
Speaker 1: well me learn about them. I feel like I'm open.

628
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 1: I'm ready, like, put me in the session, baby out.

629
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:42,479
Speaker 1: I don't know if they discard everywhere no touch.

630
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:44,760
Speaker 2: That's what it felt like.

631
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 1: I was like, that was like some weird that was

632
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 1: like some tantric shit that just happened. Like he closed

633
00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 1: the door. I watched him walk away, and that turned

634
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 1: me on, Like specifically the way he walked away turned

635
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 1: me on.

636
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:57,480
Speaker 2: And then I closed it in the way he walks. Yes,

637
00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 2: I don't know what it was. It was like he

638
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:02,160
Speaker 2: was floated away he floated.

639
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 1: Away, but I could tell he was in deep, like

640
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 1: he was still super present in like what we had

641
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:10,560
Speaker 1: just experienced even as he was leaving me. You know,

642
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 1: it wasn't like he was like okay and off my

643
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:16,120
Speaker 1: next blah blah blah, you know. And yeah, and then

644
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 1: I just was like, oh my god, I think I

645
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 1: met it in my pants and I didn't even.

646
00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 3: Well, there's also something super sexy about a man being

647
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 3: able to exercise a certain amount of discipline not too

648
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 3: That is like super sexy. And like you're not even

649
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:33,160
Speaker 3: trying me, and you're not even being overly like we're

650
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 3: so used to like you know, so like so easily.

651
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 3: So like when a man is exercising but still showing

652
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 3: interest and intimacy and investing time, it's like, oh, like

653
00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 3: you're not just fucking everything and you're spending time with me.

654
00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:50,520
Speaker 3: That is that is sexy, you know, so like I

655
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 3: can see how that could be in like an aphrodisiac.

656
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:55,360
Speaker 2: Yeah.

657
00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 1: So I'm just I'm excited to just keep exploring that

658
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:05,720
Speaker 1: space and yeah, do a little sex magic on myself. Yeah,

659
00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:09,520
Speaker 1: harnessing my own personal sexual power.

660
00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 2: Absolutely.

661
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:13,720
Speaker 3: I invite you to just continue to take note of

662
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:17,880
Speaker 3: how your body feels in the interim and like when

663
00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:20,480
Speaker 3: you're around this person, just around people, especially just during

664
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 3: hinge dating too. I think like people like don't pay

665
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 3: enough attention to like literally, how does my body feel?

666
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 2: Oh?

667
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:29,040
Speaker 3: So, actually my friend did this thing on me and

668
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 3: I was super interested. It was super It was a

669
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 3: crazy thing. So I'm going to ask you two questions, okay,

670
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 3: and I want you to say yes to both of them.

671
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, is your name Erica? Yes? How does that

672
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 2: feel in your body? That yes? I muso say yes again?

673
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:55,280
Speaker 2: Just this thing? This feel? It is your name Greg? Yes?

674
00:33:57,400 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 2: How does that feel in your body? Caucasian?

675
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 3: Do you feel the way your body reacts when you

676
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 3: say yes to something that's not true and something yes

677
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:08,000
Speaker 3: that something is true?

678
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:08,399
Speaker 2: Yeah?

679
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 3: I felt like, uh, like my chest got tight when

680
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:15,799
Speaker 3: you said yes to Greg. So these are just like

681
00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 3: super simple indications of how.

682
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 1: To pay attention to your when you're saying yes to shit,

683
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 1: you don't really.

684
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 3: Yes yes one of the things you're saying, or if

685
00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:28,080
Speaker 3: they align with your your body and like that's so

686
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:32,000
Speaker 3: fucking simple, but it's like wild, how if you really

687
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 3: pay attention And like my friend asked me when we

688
00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:40,680
Speaker 3: were leaving the airport in from graduation and something had

689
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 3: come up. A lot of things have come up, that's

690
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 3: a whole different thing. But she did this to me,

691
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:47,320
Speaker 3: and it was so interesting, Like I felt like a release,

692
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 3: like a tingly feeling, and like the back of my

693
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,279
Speaker 3: like almost like the back like my right lung or something.

694
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:54,239
Speaker 3: When I said yes. But when she asked me the

695
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:59,080
Speaker 3: other question I said yes, I felt nothing like I

696
00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:02,960
Speaker 3: almost like I I had checked out. But when my

697
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 3: first response was to say, it felt normal to lie,

698
00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 3: to lie, So it was an indication to me that

699
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:11,400
Speaker 3: like I'm not, I wasn't aware that when I'm leaving

700
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:16,239
Speaker 3: my body to just like just okay, you know, like

701
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 3: bypass my my inner my inner dialogue.

702
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:22,360
Speaker 2: And then that I literally when I said the yes, it's.

703
00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 3: Like a spark went off, Like it was. It was

704
00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:27,879
Speaker 3: a strange observation and it's so simple. But like I think,

705
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:31,000
Speaker 3: as people, we're just so busy going through life, like

706
00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:34,680
Speaker 3: this actual fucking body that we have that indicates this

707
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 3: our intuition and tells us things we're so used to

708
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 3: bypassing it that we forget to just like simply check in.

709
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 3: It's true so as you get to go through this process,

710
00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:48,920
Speaker 3: your your hinge and your rias and et cetera, you know,

711
00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:52,359
Speaker 3: just be one being being attunement with.

712
00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:54,480
Speaker 2: That, thank you, I shall, I shall?

713
00:35:57,120 --> 00:36:04,600
Speaker 3: Do you have an affirmation? Move with mindfulness, Move with intention?

714
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:07,600
Speaker 3: What do we have today? What's in your spirit?

715
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 1: If we aren't spiritually aligned, get off my line.

716
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:17,880
Speaker 3: If we aren't spiritually aligned, get off my line.

717
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 2: You hear that.

718
00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:23,200
Speaker 1: If we aren't spiritually aligned, get off my motherfucking line.

719
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:28,000
Speaker 1: Bye bye, Nigga bade ty ron, Go worship whatever the

720
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 1: fuck you worship, video games, football.

721
00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:31,440
Speaker 2: Go where you worship.

722
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 3: Recently, when I came home from my graduation, my loveliest

723
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:43,120
Speaker 3: darling husband boyfriend made me an altar in the house,

724
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 3: oh with like our book and some books and some

725
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:50,720
Speaker 3: money and some ancestor money and all these nice things

726
00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:54,239
Speaker 3: candles and incense and I was and some food offerings

727
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:57,040
Speaker 3: and it was a success alter that he created for me.

728
00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 3: And I said, oh, my god, you're listening. You're paying

729
00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:04,239
Speaker 3: attention in that is it? Really it warmed my heart.

730
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:07,960
Speaker 3: But mostly I was like, perfect, which ways are working?

731
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:12,520
Speaker 3: He understands that, he understands the goals, you know, But

732
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 3: like I completely agree and align with you and someone

733
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:21,279
Speaker 3: who's at least willing to recognize that, like being in

734
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:26,280
Speaker 3: attunement with source is super important and like just like us,

735
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 3: you know, like we locked in and then we really

736
00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 3: utilize that entity, you know, our powers and we kind

737
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:36,440
Speaker 3: of like see how it works and numbers. And so

738
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:38,719
Speaker 3: if you can like unlock that with sex and with

739
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:42,359
Speaker 3: your partner, like you can really create generational wealth and

740
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:46,319
Speaker 3: success and peace and happiness, like with your ancestors and

741
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:49,399
Speaker 3: with your your spirit guides in alignment with what you're doing.

742
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:52,400
Speaker 3: And I think, I think that's what makes me excited

743
00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:55,400
Speaker 3: about this journey because I know that if I commit

744
00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 3: to it in the way that I want with somebody

745
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:01,400
Speaker 3: who's who is spiritually aligned, the type of sex that

746
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 3: we will be able to do and the type of

747
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 3: magic that we will be able to create. And I

748
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:07,840
Speaker 3: know that because of what I've been able to create

749
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 3: with you, like that being able to do that in

750
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:15,880
Speaker 3: in that way will be life Like will.

751
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:17,439
Speaker 1: Save the world. We can't change the world.

752
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:21,520
Speaker 3: I mean, essentially, I really do attribute our relationship to

753
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:28,279
Speaker 3: my understanding of like not like sex magic, but like

754
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:32,240
Speaker 3: co creation and just co creation with commitment with love

755
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:35,759
Speaker 3: with like blind faith, you know, like I really I

756
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:39,879
Speaker 3: attribute understanding my power and our collaborative power so much

757
00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:43,399
Speaker 3: in like how I've chosen just like in a relationship,

758
00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 3: because it's true, like if we can do this, it's

759
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:48,359
Speaker 3: just like you finding your tribe, you know, like if

760
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:50,239
Speaker 3: we can do this, we could do anything. And when

761
00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:53,799
Speaker 3: you add sex to it, it can like really up

762
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:56,360
Speaker 3: the ante. And I do I do believe just like

763
00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:59,239
Speaker 3: spiritually like man and woman yin and yang, like we

764
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:02,239
Speaker 3: are we we've obviously been put on this earth to

765
00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:06,319
Speaker 3: co create, like we maintain humanity. So it's just like

766
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:10,560
Speaker 3: when we really align with people who respect and honor

767
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:14,480
Speaker 3: and hold space and love us and are and like

768
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 3: committed to the spiritual evolution, it's some magical ass shit happened,

769
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 3: Like it's some magical tribal which you shit.

770
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, So.

771
00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:30,880
Speaker 1: That's the kind of sex I want. So until I

772
00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 1: get that, or until I feel like I'm gonna get that,

773
00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:34,960
Speaker 1: I'm cool. I'll just keep fucking myself because I fuck

774
00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:35,839
Speaker 1: myself pretty good.

775
00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:38,520
Speaker 3: I'm gonna get a lot of that in tanger School,

776
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:41,239
Speaker 3: My love lots of tantric masturbation.

777
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:42,720
Speaker 2: You know what I've been doing too lately.

778
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:45,640
Speaker 1: The people that I'm attracted to, I take screenshots of

779
00:39:45,680 --> 00:39:52,960
Speaker 1: them and I zoom into their eyes. I zoom into

780
00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:56,840
Speaker 1: their eyes and I look at them when I'm coming,

781
00:39:57,239 --> 00:40:01,680
Speaker 1: and it tells me if you're a fucking nigga or

782
00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:03,719
Speaker 1: if you're safe. There's a few where I'm like, I

783
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:05,879
Speaker 1: should have known, because I've done it to a few

784
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:09,360
Speaker 1: people that I fucked, and I was like, I'm scared.

785
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 3: I'm scared, and I you're scared.

786
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:18,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, So that's the kind of tip of one. I

787
00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 1: want to have sex with me now, Guys.

788
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:25,239
Speaker 3: I'm not your screenshotting and zooming into their eyes. I

789
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:29,400
Speaker 3: need to see how close I show you in my phone.

790
00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:34,880
Speaker 3: My friend's not crazy at all. No, totally normal. Nothing

791
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:38,360
Speaker 3: to see here, guys. I'm supposed to roll a joint.

792
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:39,360
Speaker 1: Okay, let's roll it.

793
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 2: I brought my sash box.

794
00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:46,239
Speaker 1: Is so fucking cute.

795
00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:49,400
Speaker 3: It's the mom lunchbox. It's the four to twenty mom lunchbox.

796
00:40:49,680 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 2: I was in my car.

797
00:40:50,719 --> 00:40:51,160
Speaker 1: She saw mine.

798
00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:52,399
Speaker 2: She's like, is that a lunch box.

799
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:56,960
Speaker 1: I was like, no, well, it's Mom's lunchbox.

800
00:40:57,280 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 2: You open it and.

801
00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 1: All of my weed things, my weed and things, all

802
00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:07,600
Speaker 1: weed and things, and then this little this discovery right.

803
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:10,880
Speaker 2: Here that the tray is the game changer.

804
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:18,600
Speaker 1: Now we have our our cannabis. Lill this out if

805
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:20,840
Speaker 1: you look at it. If you check out our holiday guide,

806
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:25,960
Speaker 1: our holiday wellness episode where basically we were treated at

807
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:31,919
Speaker 1: a beautiful house overlooking the eight one eight, then you'll

808
00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:34,520
Speaker 1: know all about the sash box and how we use it.

809
00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:38,040
Speaker 3: But I have so many things, and there's gummies, like,

810
00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:40,440
Speaker 3: there's many joints or should we just do this?

811
00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:40,839
Speaker 2: This is right?

812
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 3: Oh?

813
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:43,720
Speaker 2: I already get moready here more to hear. You're here.

814
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:46,600
Speaker 1: She got the weeds, she got the joints, she got

815
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:48,480
Speaker 1: the gummies. I'm gonna roll us something.

816
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:51,480
Speaker 2: It's like a little weed treasure box. That's why I

817
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:51,960
Speaker 2: love it.

818
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:54,680
Speaker 3: And it's smell proof, so you could, like you don't

819
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 3: have to worry about your loud stinking up the whole

820
00:41:56,640 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 3: fucking vehicle. I always worry about that before I go,

821
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 3: like pick up Luna from like like a play date.

822
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:06,440
Speaker 3: She's been having like play dates with friends that I are,

823
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:08,839
Speaker 3: not my friends that I made her have, and so

824
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 3: it's been I'm like, oh my god, I smell like weed?

825
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 2: Am I that? Mom? I'm that mom.

826
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:20,520
Speaker 1: Speaking of moms, I'm really excited we are. We haven't

827
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:21,080
Speaker 1: told you.

828
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:22,800
Speaker 2: Guys yet, but special announcement.

829
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,400
Speaker 1: This is this big, special announcement to all the moms

830
00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 1: listening right now, right here, all the moms that have

831
00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 1: been wanting to come to one of our retreats. But

832
00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 1: you know, I get it. Going out of the country

833
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:37,600
Speaker 1: can feel overwhelming, it can feel you know, all the

834
00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:40,719
Speaker 1: things you're leaving your kid. It's an investment. And so

835
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 1: me and Mila have been talking for a while about

836
00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:46,400
Speaker 1: how we can bring the good vibe retreat state side.

837
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 1: And guess what we are bringing stateside. We are having

838
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 1: a Mother's Day retreat in Atlanta.

839
00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:01,080
Speaker 2: Hey, it's gonna super intimate.

840
00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 3: It's going to be for the mamas, it's for creatives,

841
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 3: it's for wellness, it's just, you know, it's really just

842
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:12,120
Speaker 3: I don't know, it's like everything I wish we had

843
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:13,480
Speaker 3: in brainstorming group.

844
00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:15,080
Speaker 2: It's a Brainstorming weekend.

845
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:19,279
Speaker 1: So it's May tenth through the twelfth in Atlanta. So

846
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:22,120
Speaker 1: if you are an entrepreneur, if you're creative, if you

847
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 1: just need a space to kind of just say your

848
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:27,319
Speaker 1: ideas out loud, because let's be honest, sometimes it can

849
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:30,879
Speaker 1: feel intimidating to share your ideas. Sometimes even your your

850
00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 1: closest friends don't get it.

851
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:33,719
Speaker 2: They aren't your supporters.

852
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 1: If me and Mila listen to some of our friends

853
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:39,319
Speaker 1: about starting good Mom's bad Choices, we would not be

854
00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:42,319
Speaker 1: here right now. So sometimes you actually need strangers to

855
00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:46,279
Speaker 1: validate your crazy delusions. So at this retreat, we are

856
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:49,319
Speaker 1: going to be validating your crazy delusions. We're gonna have

857
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:51,520
Speaker 1: wellness sessions similar to what we do with the Goodbybe

858
00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:53,960
Speaker 1: Retreat to be able to get a little taste of

859
00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:56,800
Speaker 1: what we do in Costa Rica right here in Atlanta.

860
00:43:57,360 --> 00:44:00,919
Speaker 1: And we leave you, guys, We send you off back

861
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 1: to being good moms on Mother's Day, so you'll have

862
00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:05,759
Speaker 1: breakfast in the morning with us on Mother's Day, and

863
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:08,640
Speaker 1: then we release you to your children as good moms.

864
00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:11,200
Speaker 1: So if you're local to Atlanta, you'll still be able

865
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 1: to spend the day with your kid and you'll be

866
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 1: a but a bitch, a much better mother because of it.

867
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:21,879
Speaker 2: Come that good moms filleth your cup.

868
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:24,480
Speaker 1: And there's very limited space at this retreat. We don't

869
00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:26,080
Speaker 1: have a lot of We don't have a lot of space.

870
00:44:26,600 --> 00:44:28,799
Speaker 1: This is not like our typical retreats where we have

871
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:32,400
Speaker 1: like you know, twenty five rooms. If you want to

872
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:39,160
Speaker 1: stay on property with us at our beautiful mansion in Atlanta,

873
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:42,479
Speaker 1: those spaces are super limited. And then we'll also open

874
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:44,000
Speaker 1: it up to just people that kind of want to

875
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:47,600
Speaker 1: come in for day passes. But I really want to

876
00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:51,719
Speaker 1: encourage you to come fully integrate into the experience and

877
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:54,640
Speaker 1: come stay with us at the house so that we

878
00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:57,240
Speaker 1: can just keep the energy going and keep the energy flowing.

879
00:44:57,480 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 2: And it's going to be.

880
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:00,000
Speaker 1: It's going to be.

881
00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 3: I really can't wait to just.

882
00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:07,600
Speaker 2: Brainstorm and create with a bunch of strangers.

883
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:09,560
Speaker 1: I know. If you're writing a book, this is the

884
00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:13,880
Speaker 1: place to come. You're sitting with published office, if you

885
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 1: want to start a.

886
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:16,800
Speaker 2: Podcast site, if you want to start a podcast.

887
00:45:16,880 --> 00:45:19,759
Speaker 3: Honestly, any idea, anything that you want to create that

888
00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:22,000
Speaker 3: you are feeling stuck or in between, or maybe you've

889
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 3: already created it and you're still just trying to evolve

890
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:26,960
Speaker 3: the idea and just run it past other people and

891
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:30,000
Speaker 3: just have creative input and be in an artistic space

892
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:33,600
Speaker 3: to get inspired. This is the place. You don't need

893
00:45:33,600 --> 00:45:37,880
Speaker 3: no passport. It's a very limited space. It's very intimate space,

894
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 3: and I don't know what better way to bring in

895
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:43,520
Speaker 3: your mother's day than investing.

896
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:47,800
Speaker 1: In yourself, spoiling yourself with ideas and also wellness because

897
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:49,719
Speaker 1: I'm going to get a massage. I don't know if

898
00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 1: you're going to get a message, but I will be

899
00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:51,880
Speaker 1: getting massage.

900
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:55,359
Speaker 2: I sure will. Massages make me more creative and.

901
00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:57,000
Speaker 1: I'm really excited too. I'm going to be doing a

902
00:45:57,040 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 1: sound bath for you guys, so I've been tapping into

903
00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:01,560
Speaker 1: my sound my sand healer bag.

904
00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:06,000
Speaker 3: We're gonna have some yoga, some morning yoga sessions, maybe

905
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 3: do some tantric workshops. There's gonna be a lot of

906
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:13,160
Speaker 3: dope people in the building, so you really don't want

907
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 3: to miss this.

908
00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:15,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're definitely going to lean on in on our

909
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:19,080
Speaker 1: Atlanta community and former guests to come.

910
00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:20,440
Speaker 2: Through with some knowledge.

911
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:24,000
Speaker 1: So we haven't released who's actually going to be coming

912
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:27,319
Speaker 1: in and hosting a workshop, but that information will be

913
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:29,880
Speaker 1: coming soon. So make sure you hit the link in

914
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 1: this episode description and reserve your spot now because these

915
00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:35,359
Speaker 1: are going to sell out. I told you there's only

916
00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 1: a few, and it's more affordable than our Costa Rica retreat,

917
00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:44,000
Speaker 1: so you definitely want to come feel the vibes, and

918
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:45,799
Speaker 1: then we'll see you in the jungle, because once you

919
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:47,719
Speaker 1: come and tap in Atlanta, you're gonna be like, all right,

920
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:50,960
Speaker 1: I got to see these bitches in another country. So

921
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:54,839
Speaker 1: I'm really excited for that experience. Really putting a lot

922
00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 1: of TLC into that. I kind of like, put too

923
00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 1: much weed in here, But I mean, I don't know

924
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 1: if you can put too much.

925
00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:01,319
Speaker 2: There's no such thing.

926
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:04,560
Speaker 1: I love my friend Jared. He rolls the most beautiful joints.

927
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:06,920
Speaker 1: I'm always trying to like he knows how to do

928
00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:09,879
Speaker 1: a cone without being like without a cone.

929
00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:09,759
Speaker 2: You know.

930
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:14,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, papers are not my forte. I'm not gonna lie

931
00:47:14,080 --> 00:47:16,280
Speaker 3: every time I try. It looks good, it burns terribly.

932
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 3: Should I read the taros?

933
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:24,279
Speaker 2: True? I think they're both upright. I think I picked

934
00:47:24,320 --> 00:47:28,440
Speaker 2: him up like this. But we got the death card. Eh,

935
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:31,440
Speaker 2: that doesn't mean anything bad, no, but we rarely get

936
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 2: the death card.

937
00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 3: It's the most feared and misunderstood of all the cards

938
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 3: in the tarot deck. Just mention the card's name and

939
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:43,239
Speaker 3: most people freak out word. They will suddenly keel over

940
00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:46,719
Speaker 3: and die as soon as his card Appeals appears. Relax

941
00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:49,280
Speaker 3: the death card can be one of the most positive

942
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:51,799
Speaker 3: cards in the deck after a period of pause and

943
00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:54,600
Speaker 3: reflection with the hanged man. The death card symbolizes the

944
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:57,240
Speaker 3: end of a major phase or aspect of your life

945
00:47:57,480 --> 00:48:00,480
Speaker 3: that you realize is no longer serving you, putting up

946
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:04,120
Speaker 3: the possibility of something far more valuable and essential. You

947
00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:07,000
Speaker 3: must close one door to open another. You need to

948
00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:09,319
Speaker 3: put the pass behind you and part ways, ready to

949
00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:12,840
Speaker 3: embrace new opportunities and possibilities. It may be difficult to

950
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:15,319
Speaker 3: let go of the past, but you will soon see

951
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:19,359
Speaker 3: its importance and the promise of renewal and transformation. If

952
00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:23,719
Speaker 3: you resist these necessary endings, you may experience pain, both

953
00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:27,719
Speaker 3: emotionally and physically. But if you exercise your imagination and

954
00:48:27,800 --> 00:48:34,480
Speaker 3: visualize a new possibility, you allow more constructive patterns to emerge. Similarly,

955
00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:38,520
Speaker 3: death shows a time of significant transformation, change and transition.

956
00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:41,600
Speaker 3: You need to transform yourself and clear away the old

957
00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 3: to bring in the new. Any change you should be

958
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:48,280
Speaker 3: welcomed as a positive, cleansing, transformational force in your life.

959
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:54,040
Speaker 3: It's the death and clearing away of the death and

960
00:48:54,080 --> 00:48:57,239
Speaker 3: clearing away of limiting factors can open the door to

961
00:48:57,360 --> 00:49:02,319
Speaker 3: a broader, more satisfying experience of life. Hm hmm, Well,

962
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:05,719
Speaker 3: I think that speaks to us our activation.

963
00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:08,280
Speaker 2: This next realm.

964
00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:16,560
Speaker 3: Super powerful letting go old ship cocooning to butterfly coconing coconing.

965
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:18,279
Speaker 3: Mm hmm.

966
00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:21,640
Speaker 2: You also pulled this one too. It is this tend

967
00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:22,320
Speaker 2: of pentacles.

968
00:49:24,440 --> 00:49:27,360
Speaker 1: I definitely feel the transformation. I think I see that

969
00:49:27,560 --> 00:49:29,680
Speaker 1: so much in a lot in so many of the

970
00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:33,279
Speaker 1: people in my life right now that this year has

971
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:36,880
Speaker 1: been one of like there's been a lot of push,

972
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:44,360
Speaker 1: like a lot of forcing the hand, you know, personally

973
00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:46,640
Speaker 1: and privately. I think about even in our own business,

974
00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:51,799
Speaker 1: like just us realizing like we've had to we've had

975
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:53,960
Speaker 1: to make some big changes this year, you know that

976
00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:55,000
Speaker 1: were uncomfortable.

977
00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, realizations.

978
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:05,840
Speaker 1: Fear around change because I think even like thinking about

979
00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:08,680
Speaker 1: not putting out an episode every single week like we've

980
00:50:08,719 --> 00:50:12,960
Speaker 1: done for so many years. Yeah, felt really scary. Has

981
00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:15,200
Speaker 1: felt really scary, Like are we doing is just a

982
00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:16,759
Speaker 1: disservice to our community?

983
00:50:17,560 --> 00:50:19,279
Speaker 2: Like what are they gonna lose our people? Are they

984
00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:20,320
Speaker 2: gonna leave us?

985
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:25,319
Speaker 1: Like, and it's like, no, we deserve to rest, we

986
00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:29,480
Speaker 1: deserve to integrate the information, and they.

987
00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:32,600
Speaker 2: Deserve to have the best of us of us.

988
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:36,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, and so that that I feel like is gonna

989
00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:41,319
Speaker 1: be a big transformation for us next year. And even

990
00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:44,759
Speaker 1: in our own friendship, there's been like there, this was

991
00:50:44,760 --> 00:50:48,560
Speaker 1: probably like the hardest year of our friendship ever, you know,

992
00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:51,960
Speaker 1: and like I had, like me, like us having to

993
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:56,320
Speaker 1: have uncomfortable conversations and actually us have to work on it, thankfully.

994
00:50:56,400 --> 00:51:00,279
Speaker 2: Like I think that we're so.

995
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:06,960
Speaker 1: Attuned to one another that it could have been really deep,

996
00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:08,719
Speaker 1: heavy work, and I think we're still in it, but

997
00:51:08,760 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 1: like it's been a lot easier than I thought it

998
00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:13,840
Speaker 1: was going to be. When I was thinking about the

999
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:15,719
Speaker 1: work that we needed to do on our friendship, it

1000
00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:17,400
Speaker 1: wasn't like I don't know what I thought, but like

1001
00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:18,479
Speaker 1: it was.

1002
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:20,759
Speaker 2: As hammering away.

1003
00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:24,359
Speaker 1: I think maybe I related it to what I've had

1004
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:29,160
Speaker 1: to do with men, which actually healing a friendship with

1005
00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:32,000
Speaker 1: a woman has been considerably a lot more enjoyable than.

1006
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:32,879
Speaker 2: It has with a man.

1007
00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:36,480
Speaker 3: Well, I think about both parties have to be like

1008
00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:37,920
Speaker 3: willing and.

1009
00:51:39,880 --> 00:51:41,759
Speaker 2: Just aware in order to do that.

1010
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:45,200
Speaker 3: And I think because I think it was so scary

1011
00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:47,080
Speaker 3: for us because we have so much on the line,

1012
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:50,200
Speaker 3: and it's everything is so important to us, but it's

1013
00:51:50,200 --> 00:51:54,480
Speaker 3: also why it's really easy because everything is so important

1014
00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:58,879
Speaker 3: to us, and we've worked really hard, and we're all

1015
00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:04,640
Speaker 3: sensitive as fun sensitive fucking water sign ass bitches, and

1016
00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:11,880
Speaker 3: emotional and also deeply empathetic. We can read each other's

1017
00:52:12,000 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 3: minds and feel each other even if nobody really wanted to.

1018
00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 3: It's just we're so connected, you know. And there's been

1019
00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:25,120
Speaker 3: so many changes in our business and our love lives.

1020
00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:30,000
Speaker 3: And I think what we don't realize is like even

1021
00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:36,719
Speaker 3: in love, we're pulling up different versions of ourselves in relationships,

1022
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:39,840
Speaker 3: and that affects our friendship because when we're both fucking

1023
00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:44,840
Speaker 3: running the streets wild, that brings out a certain aspect

1024
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:46,719
Speaker 3: we're in the same place. And then we get relationships,

1025
00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:48,480
Speaker 3: and then someone moves in, and then so you know,

1026
00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:52,240
Speaker 3: doing a long distance relationship, and like there's so many

1027
00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:58,560
Speaker 3: we're so connected that like all of those factors have

1028
00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:01,880
Speaker 3: made us show up different. And I mean, I know,

1029
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:05,480
Speaker 3: even for me, like it's been challenging just because I

1030
00:53:05,520 --> 00:53:08,360
Speaker 3: haven't been in a very serious relationship like this and

1031
00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:12,239
Speaker 3: like a very long time, and it's it's tested me,

1032
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:14,480
Speaker 3: you know, and so and then and you know, I know,

1033
00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:18,000
Speaker 3: vice versa, and so it's just and then we published

1034
00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:24,320
Speaker 3: a fucking book. We published a book, which.

1035
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:25,879
Speaker 1: By the way, I get for a holiday season. It's

1036
00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:29,799
Speaker 1: a great gift to making bad choices. It's probably on

1037
00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:31,640
Speaker 1: discount on Amazon right now. You can probably get it

1038
00:53:31,719 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 1: right now if you just pause the episode and click it,

1039
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:35,360
Speaker 1: and it'll probably be at your doorstep tomorrow.

1040
00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:37,799
Speaker 2: It's a good little winter read. It's a good anytime read.

1041
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:39,279
Speaker 1: I mean, it's a good coffee. Look at how cute

1042
00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 1: it looks right here, just right here. We're so cute

1043
00:53:41,640 --> 00:53:46,160
Speaker 1: on it. People are going to say, what's that and

1044
00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:47,160
Speaker 1: you be like, oh, you haven't heard of that.

1045
00:53:47,880 --> 00:53:50,240
Speaker 3: And we really did pour like blood, sweat and tears

1046
00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:53,120
Speaker 3: into it. And yeah, it just so happens that this

1047
00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:56,360
Speaker 3: came out of the most difficult year of our friendship,

1048
00:53:57,239 --> 00:53:59,360
Speaker 3: when we had to do a lot of difficult things,

1049
00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 3: and I feel like that contributed to it. You know too,

1050
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:05,120
Speaker 3: It's just a lot of pressure to perform and to

1051
00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:08,319
Speaker 3: make it good and you know, prove ourselves as all

1052
00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:13,719
Speaker 3: setters in the world. But ultimately we're so guided and

1053
00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:16,480
Speaker 3: protected and what we're doing is just like for the

1054
00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:21,120
Speaker 3: greater good. And I genuinely believe that you know, someone

1055
00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:25,280
Speaker 3: just left us a nasty comment before we started recording.

1056
00:54:26,080 --> 00:54:27,839
Speaker 1: Saying that they'll be happy when we go to hell.

1057
00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:30,919
Speaker 1: It will be two lesson what do they call it, women,

1058
00:54:30,960 --> 00:54:35,440
Speaker 1: nigga women in the world, And you know that guy's crazy.

1059
00:54:35,680 --> 00:54:39,319
Speaker 3: But you know this is all for the collective, you know,

1060
00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:43,280
Speaker 3: for our friendship, for our daughters, for just the women

1061
00:54:43,480 --> 00:54:47,240
Speaker 3: who just you know, I was watching a documentary with Orlando,

1062
00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:52,160
Speaker 3: and sometimes because I'm so empathetic, there's certain like documentaries

1063
00:54:52,239 --> 00:54:56,600
Speaker 3: about you know, the black American black experience that I

1064
00:54:56,600 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 3: I'd be like, I can't right now, you know, I know,

1065
00:54:59,239 --> 00:55:02,680
Speaker 3: but we just caught this documentary and it was just

1066
00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:06,000
Speaker 3: talking about, you know, some of the slaves, the Africans

1067
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:10,359
Speaker 3: that came to America and just how terribly we were

1068
00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:13,080
Speaker 3: treated as mothers. This woman hid in an attic for

1069
00:55:13,120 --> 00:55:17,719
Speaker 3: seven years so she wouldn't get raped. Can hear her

1070
00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:20,040
Speaker 3: children downstairs? They didn't know she was there, literally, and

1071
00:55:20,040 --> 00:55:21,560
Speaker 3: the only reason she got out because the white woman

1072
00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:23,160
Speaker 3: ended up buying her freedom.

1073
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:26,560
Speaker 2: But then she wrote about it, and that was you know,

1074
00:55:26,640 --> 00:55:27,799
Speaker 2: her children were down there.

1075
00:55:28,040 --> 00:55:30,440
Speaker 3: She was being raped by this the master in the house,

1076
00:55:30,480 --> 00:55:33,040
Speaker 3: and because she was oh, she was like, this is

1077
00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:35,840
Speaker 3: the worst shit ever. So those children were the master's

1078
00:55:35,920 --> 00:55:37,960
Speaker 3: children with her, No, I think they were just her children.

1079
00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:41,239
Speaker 3: That wasn't clear. But she hid in an attict because

1080
00:55:41,239 --> 00:55:42,880
Speaker 3: she didn't run away. She just hid in the attic

1081
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:45,239
Speaker 3: with like right rats and mice. They would give her

1082
00:55:45,239 --> 00:55:47,759
Speaker 3: plates at night. She could hear the children downstairs, but

1083
00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:49,120
Speaker 3: she just never came out because she never wanted to

1084
00:55:49,120 --> 00:55:52,319
Speaker 3: go back to the big house. And then when she

1085
00:55:52,400 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 3: was done, after she got her freedom, years later, she

1086
00:55:54,520 --> 00:55:55,120
Speaker 3: wrote about it.

1087
00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:56,560
Speaker 2: Seven years is wild.

1088
00:55:57,000 --> 00:56:01,279
Speaker 3: But to keep from being raped, I mean, yeah, but

1089
00:56:01,320 --> 00:56:04,200
Speaker 3: it's just But it's just the fact that she created

1090
00:56:04,320 --> 00:56:08,799
Speaker 3: art around this experience, and the fact that you know,

1091
00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:11,319
Speaker 3: there was a time there were so many voices that

1092
00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:14,600
Speaker 3: had these experiences that weren't able to record them, didn't

1093
00:56:14,600 --> 00:56:17,560
Speaker 3: have the tools, could never tell their story. It is

1094
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:20,680
Speaker 3: such a fucking we have with such a blessing to

1095
00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:22,360
Speaker 3: be able to show up in this space and just

1096
00:56:22,400 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 3: speak honestly. There is not a single soul who could

1097
00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:28,440
Speaker 3: tell me anything. I don't give a shit about anybody's

1098
00:56:28,480 --> 00:56:32,040
Speaker 3: opinion because I get to tell my story in my voice,

1099
00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:34,040
Speaker 3: in my words. I get to create art, whether I

1100
00:56:34,080 --> 00:56:36,360
Speaker 3: say it, whether I write it down. It is my

1101
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:40,080
Speaker 3: It is just such a rebellious act. And when you

1102
00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:42,720
Speaker 3: think of our history, that is not that far along

1103
00:56:43,080 --> 00:56:47,360
Speaker 3: that long ago that black women were literally able to

1104
00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:52,000
Speaker 3: create art, record their art, record their experiences, record their

1105
00:56:52,040 --> 00:56:56,640
Speaker 3: honest you know, just have control of their bodies, own

1106
00:56:56,800 --> 00:56:59,439
Speaker 3: their sexuality. Like these are things that were like ripped

1107
00:56:59,440 --> 00:57:02,560
Speaker 3: away from us. So I just feel so blessed and

1108
00:57:02,600 --> 00:57:06,879
Speaker 3: thankful to just be able to do this with you.

1109
00:57:07,080 --> 00:57:09,080
Speaker 3: And I really do feel protected in what we do.

1110
00:57:09,120 --> 00:57:11,520
Speaker 3: And I feel like it's not just for us, and

1111
00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:13,520
Speaker 3: we're not you know, maybe we're not for everybody, but

1112
00:57:13,719 --> 00:57:16,280
Speaker 3: there's you know, it's for a bigger picture. And to

1113
00:57:16,400 --> 00:57:18,720
Speaker 3: get to use our voices and our love for one

1114
00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:21,560
Speaker 3: another and our love just in general. For women to

1115
00:57:23,360 --> 00:57:25,200
Speaker 3: say I'm going to say whatever I want and you're

1116
00:57:25,200 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 3: going to listen. Goddamn is such a beautiful gift and

1117
00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:31,240
Speaker 3: the blessing. And I just know we're going to continue

1118
00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:36,200
Speaker 3: to thrive because our ancestors got our back and they

1119
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:40,600
Speaker 3: struggled deeply, and you know, now it's our time.

1120
00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:46,760
Speaker 2: I receive all of that. Thank you for that. Yeah,

1121
00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:50,160
Speaker 2: we kind sometimes you need a reminder, you know, I mean.

1122
00:57:50,320 --> 00:57:55,840
Speaker 1: I don't take this privilege lightly of being able to

1123
00:57:56,080 --> 00:58:00,800
Speaker 1: also be like the friend in your head, like the

1124
00:58:00,880 --> 00:58:03,400
Speaker 1: friend in whoever's listening's head, who's like, I wasn't a

1125
00:58:03,440 --> 00:58:06,040
Speaker 1: good mom's bad choices because I fuck with Erica or

1126
00:58:06,080 --> 00:58:07,920
Speaker 1: I fuck with Jamila, or I fuck with both of them, or.

1127
00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:09,760
Speaker 2: Whatever the fuck whatever brought you here.

1128
00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:14,040
Speaker 1: Like, I don't take that lightly. I take that like

1129
00:58:14,680 --> 00:58:17,840
Speaker 1: that's a bit to have a platform as a black woman,

1130
00:58:17,920 --> 00:58:20,360
Speaker 1: a brown woman, be able to sit here every day

1131
00:58:21,160 --> 00:58:24,200
Speaker 1: and just share openly.

1132
00:58:24,080 --> 00:58:29,160
Speaker 3: And occupy people's time and energy and openly. Yeah, without well,

1133
00:58:29,160 --> 00:58:32,320
Speaker 3: there's always there's still persecution in ways. There is, but

1134
00:58:32,400 --> 00:58:36,120
Speaker 3: it's not that it's it's vastly different, you know, because

1135
00:58:36,160 --> 00:58:39,000
Speaker 3: black women are persecuted for sharing their voice all the time.

1136
00:58:39,040 --> 00:58:40,680
Speaker 3: I mean even we are all the time.

1137
00:58:40,720 --> 00:58:43,920
Speaker 1: There's we're penalized constantly, whether that's from a brand that

1138
00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:45,840
Speaker 1: doesn't want to fuck with us because we said something

1139
00:58:45,880 --> 00:58:48,760
Speaker 1: that doesn't it's too much, not kosher enough, you know

1140
00:58:49,600 --> 00:58:52,120
Speaker 1: that white women have said a thousand times. You know,

1141
00:58:52,640 --> 00:58:55,800
Speaker 1: like there's still a there's still a shackling that happens

1142
00:58:55,880 --> 00:59:02,760
Speaker 1: even in this space, but we are vastly more, uh

1143
00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:08,960
Speaker 1: just We've been just given this opportunity and like what

1144
00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:12,440
Speaker 1: they always say, like you're living your ancestors' wildest dreams

1145
00:59:12,480 --> 00:59:18,400
Speaker 1: like we are, and even listening, we're whoever's listening to

1146
00:59:18,440 --> 00:59:20,400
Speaker 1: this right now, so are you. And it's like you

1147
00:59:20,520 --> 00:59:23,680
Speaker 1: have this, we have this duty. I feel like to

1148
00:59:23,840 --> 00:59:26,560
Speaker 1: keep that moving forward. I was talking to my friend

1149
00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:30,240
Speaker 1: the other day about just like how important how seriously

1150
00:59:30,280 --> 00:59:38,640
Speaker 1: I take my karma and like my karmic like the cleanliness,

1151
00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:41,240
Speaker 1: and like how I feel like I've been very blessed

1152
00:59:41,240 --> 00:59:45,280
Speaker 1: in this in this lifetime and protected in this lifetime

1153
00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:49,280
Speaker 1: because whoever was before me did that, Like I feel

1154
00:59:49,320 --> 00:59:51,720
Speaker 1: that like they took it seriously as well, like this

1155
00:59:51,880 --> 00:59:56,360
Speaker 1: responsibility to do the right thing and be a good

1156
00:59:56,360 --> 00:59:58,760
Speaker 1: person in this life for the next person.

1157
00:59:59,040 --> 01:00:01,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, and.

1158
01:00:02,720 --> 01:00:04,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think if more people thought that way, we

1159
01:00:04,640 --> 01:00:05,600
Speaker 1: would be probably.

1160
01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:08,000
Speaker 2: Yeah. And I think that different decisions, And I think

1161
01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:08,880
Speaker 2: that's why we evolve.

1162
01:00:08,920 --> 01:00:12,560
Speaker 3: It's because I think our commitment has always been just

1163
01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:17,680
Speaker 3: the commitment has always been like to liberate, you know,

1164
01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:20,040
Speaker 3: like I want you to think for yourself. I want

1165
01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:22,880
Speaker 3: you to step out of this box. This can you

1166
01:00:22,920 --> 01:00:26,000
Speaker 3: know this this rigid box of society and just like

1167
01:00:26,200 --> 01:00:30,360
Speaker 3: live I want you to experience, you know, bliss and

1168
01:00:30,440 --> 01:00:34,320
Speaker 3: peace and pleasure at the highest fucking potential. You know,

1169
01:00:34,360 --> 01:00:36,840
Speaker 3: And so many people are just you know, we are

1170
01:00:37,000 --> 01:00:40,440
Speaker 3: so enslaved by the systems that we create in our minds.

1171
01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:46,320
Speaker 3: How we show up in the world is so so policed,

1172
01:00:46,800 --> 01:00:48,920
Speaker 3: and it's like, I just I want to invite everyone

1173
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:50,440
Speaker 3: all the time to just be like what's real and

1174
01:00:50,480 --> 01:00:53,880
Speaker 3: honest to you though, you know, yeah, that like it

1175
01:00:54,000 --> 01:00:56,920
Speaker 3: is such a blessing to be able to to do

1176
01:00:56,960 --> 01:00:58,160
Speaker 3: that and also.

1177
01:00:59,440 --> 01:01:02,320
Speaker 2: Remind people like life.

1178
01:01:02,080 --> 01:01:08,400
Speaker 3: Is short and love it's just love, Like, let's not

1179
01:01:08,480 --> 01:01:11,240
Speaker 3: judge each other. Let's not waste time talking shit on

1180
01:01:11,280 --> 01:01:14,480
Speaker 3: the internet and typing out whatever evil shit you wanted

1181
01:01:14,520 --> 01:01:17,600
Speaker 3: to type out, Like, let's just live in our own

1182
01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:21,080
Speaker 3: lanes at our highest radiance, being exactly who the fuck

1183
01:01:21,080 --> 01:01:21,840
Speaker 3: we're supposed to be.

1184
01:01:23,040 --> 01:01:25,200
Speaker 1: I believe that you need those people though too, a

1185
01:01:25,240 --> 01:01:25,680
Speaker 1: little bit.

1186
01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:27,800
Speaker 2: But people talk shit.

1187
01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:30,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, you need them a little bit. You need because

1188
01:01:30,640 --> 01:01:32,280
Speaker 1: if everything was love, you wouldn't even know what it

1189
01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:33,280
Speaker 1: meant felt like anymore.

1190
01:01:33,320 --> 01:01:35,720
Speaker 2: You have to have the duality of it.

1191
01:01:35,760 --> 01:01:38,400
Speaker 1: And like, those people matter too, that it's not they

1192
01:01:39,320 --> 01:01:40,440
Speaker 1: they are love as well.

1193
01:01:40,520 --> 01:01:43,720
Speaker 2: They just are hurt. Yeah, you know, they haven't found

1194
01:01:43,760 --> 01:01:44,920
Speaker 2: ways to transmute it yet.

1195
01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:47,320
Speaker 1: They remind me of that I am love.

1196
01:01:47,320 --> 01:01:49,520
Speaker 2: Right right, that you've purified certain things.

1197
01:01:50,000 --> 01:01:53,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, the karmak thing is very we must have done

1198
01:01:53,320 --> 01:01:57,160
Speaker 3: really well or our last lifetime because yeah, this this

1199
01:01:57,280 --> 01:01:59,040
Speaker 3: karmas karma game really pretty well.

1200
01:01:59,120 --> 01:02:01,960
Speaker 2: Yeah. I'm trying to karmack the fuck out of my life. Yeah. Yeah,

1201
01:02:03,000 --> 01:02:05,640
Speaker 2: the comic life is so hard, but I feel that

1202
01:02:05,880 --> 01:02:06,320
Speaker 2: I'm like.

1203
01:02:06,880 --> 01:02:08,080
Speaker 1: Be so comically clean.

1204
01:02:08,160 --> 01:02:10,439
Speaker 2: Bitch. The other day, I was just like, I don't

1205
01:02:10,440 --> 01:02:10,600
Speaker 2: know what.

1206
01:02:10,640 --> 01:02:12,280
Speaker 3: I was stressed out, like getting to you, and I

1207
01:02:12,320 --> 01:02:14,760
Speaker 3: was like, bitch, you woke up at ten you like

1208
01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:18,480
Speaker 3: you woke up at nine am, and like you smoked

1209
01:02:18,480 --> 01:02:22,080
Speaker 3: a joint. Now you're leisurely making your way through the

1210
01:02:22,160 --> 01:02:25,520
Speaker 3: valley at ten am to fucking shoot by a pool.

1211
01:02:25,640 --> 01:02:26,480
Speaker 2: Like shut up.

1212
01:02:28,400 --> 01:02:31,040
Speaker 3: I'm like, I've been working for twelve hours and it

1213
01:02:31,120 --> 01:02:33,480
Speaker 3: is hard work, but I just I'd rather be working

1214
01:02:33,480 --> 01:02:36,600
Speaker 3: with my best friend. I'd rather be working like spreading

1215
01:02:36,680 --> 01:02:42,320
Speaker 3: the good word of self expression, creating, creating, Yeah, creating.

1216
01:02:42,360 --> 01:02:43,840
Speaker 1: I want to do it this way? Actually, can you

1217
01:02:43,880 --> 01:02:45,160
Speaker 1: do it this way? Let's do it that way.

1218
01:02:45,200 --> 01:02:46,560
Speaker 2: Actually listen to me, do it this.

1219
01:02:46,480 --> 01:02:49,400
Speaker 3: Way, you know, like and it did. It came out beautifully.

1220
01:02:49,440 --> 01:02:52,120
Speaker 3: That fucking holiday gift guide is beautiful. Go check out

1221
01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:53,400
Speaker 3: our holiday gift guide.

1222
01:02:53,440 --> 01:02:55,000
Speaker 2: We're podcasting in the wild.

1223
01:02:55,080 --> 01:02:57,840
Speaker 1: We're switching up our format. It's totally different. We're out

1224
01:02:57,840 --> 01:02:59,960
Speaker 1: of studio. We're getting the fuck out of the studio

1225
01:03:00,280 --> 01:03:03,959
Speaker 1: every now and then because we're good moms and because

1226
01:03:03,960 --> 01:03:06,360
Speaker 1: we're wild women, wild women, and we must be in

1227
01:03:06,400 --> 01:03:08,520
Speaker 1: the wild. That's where we really belong. You guys haven't

1228
01:03:08,560 --> 01:03:11,520
Speaker 1: even really tapped into like really our truest nature. You've

1229
01:03:11,560 --> 01:03:12,600
Speaker 1: just heard about it.

1230
01:03:12,840 --> 01:03:14,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, you just kind of heard about it.

1231
01:03:14,840 --> 01:03:18,400
Speaker 1: Now you can kind of come in and actually experience

1232
01:03:18,480 --> 01:03:20,760
Speaker 1: it with us, like when we are be part of

1233
01:03:20,840 --> 01:03:26,120
Speaker 1: the story that we're telling because you were there right right. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

1234
01:03:26,200 --> 01:03:28,200
Speaker 1: Podcasting in the Wild twenty twenty four.

1235
01:03:29,120 --> 01:03:30,120
Speaker 2: Can't wait to see you there.

1236
01:03:33,120 --> 01:03:36,120
Speaker 3: Well, got to go pick up our kids from school,

1237
01:03:36,280 --> 01:03:39,200
Speaker 3: so yeah, got to go do that. Yeah, you know,

1238
01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:41,840
Speaker 3: I hope everyone has a beautiful holiday. I know this

1239
01:03:42,040 --> 01:03:47,040
Speaker 3: time can be you know, sometimes cold and just weird

1240
01:03:47,080 --> 01:03:51,040
Speaker 3: for people, But just remember all this shit is fake.

1241
01:03:53,280 --> 01:03:57,240
Speaker 3: It's all made up, So that can inflate prices. You know,

1242
01:03:57,520 --> 01:04:02,760
Speaker 3: just be warm and cuddling and find some love. Don't

1243
01:04:03,840 --> 01:04:07,560
Speaker 3: don't let all the bullshit on TV get to you.

1244
01:04:10,600 --> 01:04:17,120
Speaker 2: So specific. Don't let Chris Brown's Christmas holiday special. Don't

1245
01:04:17,200 --> 01:04:17,480
Speaker 2: let that.

1246
01:04:17,480 --> 01:04:22,040
Speaker 1: Instagram girl use follows of holiday photos fuck you up.

1247
01:04:23,000 --> 01:04:26,080
Speaker 1: I felt and follow everyone that triggers you during the holidays.

1248
01:04:26,320 --> 01:04:27,280
Speaker 2: I feel like, am I bad?

1249
01:04:27,480 --> 01:04:29,560
Speaker 3: I always like we have some friends that always send

1250
01:04:29,560 --> 01:04:32,120
Speaker 3: it like a holiday card, and like I just all

1251
01:04:32,240 --> 01:04:35,200
Speaker 3: nine years of parenting, I've never I've never got a

1252
01:04:35,200 --> 01:04:39,240
Speaker 3: holiday card together. I could barely extend fucking happy Birthday text.

1253
01:04:40,160 --> 01:04:41,320
Speaker 1: No, it's just not your style.

1254
01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:43,120
Speaker 3: Do we need to get a holiday card with the kids,

1255
01:04:43,160 --> 01:04:45,080
Speaker 3: like as lesbian life, Well, we've had, We've had, We've

1256
01:04:45,120 --> 01:04:46,520
Speaker 3: had holiday posts.

1257
01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:48,160
Speaker 1: It's the same thing, right, we did we had a

1258
01:04:48,200 --> 01:04:50,960
Speaker 1: holiday We've had like two holiday posts. We have Nisha

1259
01:04:51,040 --> 01:04:53,160
Speaker 1: that shout out to Nische for always making sure that

1260
01:04:53,200 --> 01:04:56,480
Speaker 1: the friends tribe it gets a holiday photo. So you

1261
01:04:56,560 --> 01:04:59,800
Speaker 1: have not in the you know, traditional hard copy way.

1262
01:05:00,120 --> 01:05:01,880
Speaker 1: You know, Okay, that's that's the thing of the past.

1263
01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:03,960
Speaker 1: I did that my first two years of parenting, and

1264
01:05:03,960 --> 01:05:05,560
Speaker 1: then third year I was like, who's paying for this.

1265
01:05:06,760 --> 01:05:08,080
Speaker 2: How is this gonna invest for this?

1266
01:05:08,800 --> 01:05:11,080
Speaker 1: And you guys are not even maybe twenty percent of

1267
01:05:11,120 --> 01:05:13,040
Speaker 1: your putting this on your fridge. The rest are throwing

1268
01:05:13,080 --> 01:05:16,880
Speaker 1: the shit away. Why am I doing this Instagram post?

1269
01:05:17,440 --> 01:05:20,880
Speaker 1: You're right, yeah, and that's what you just when you

1270
01:05:20,880 --> 01:05:22,960
Speaker 1: post it on Instagram and say this is my official

1271
01:05:22,960 --> 01:05:24,640
Speaker 1: fan of Car announcement.

1272
01:05:25,200 --> 01:05:28,160
Speaker 3: We're gonna do it right here, all right, it's perfect, beautiful.

1273
01:05:29,080 --> 01:05:31,840
Speaker 3: We don't put any Christmas jargon of this year.

1274
01:05:32,000 --> 01:05:33,000
Speaker 1: We should have put a tree.

1275
01:05:33,640 --> 01:05:36,560
Speaker 2: God, are we moms or not? We're delayed.

1276
01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:39,760
Speaker 1: I don't have a tree in my house though right now. Wow,

1277
01:05:39,800 --> 01:05:41,800
Speaker 1: I don't popped it up real quick. Last night.

1278
01:05:41,880 --> 01:05:44,280
Speaker 2: It took about twenty minutes. I was like, Wow, that's it, okay, perfect.

1279
01:05:44,520 --> 01:05:44,760
Speaker 2: I don't.

1280
01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:47,919
Speaker 3: I need to figure this out as I tell people

1281
01:05:48,040 --> 01:05:49,800
Speaker 3: not to participate in the holiday bullshit.

1282
01:05:49,880 --> 01:05:50,960
Speaker 2: I need to get a tree.

1283
01:05:51,280 --> 01:05:53,120
Speaker 1: I just I do like that. I got a fake tree,

1284
01:05:53,160 --> 01:05:54,720
Speaker 1: so it's fine. I don't feel like I'm doing anything

1285
01:05:54,720 --> 01:05:57,200
Speaker 1: to the environment. I've realized I've had this tree for

1286
01:05:57,320 --> 01:05:58,360
Speaker 1: nine years.

1287
01:05:58,600 --> 01:06:01,120
Speaker 3: Wow, and it's still good. So it's not good for

1288
01:06:01,120 --> 01:06:02,800
Speaker 3: the environment, right if I get a real one.

1289
01:06:03,000 --> 01:06:03,600
Speaker 2: No mine.

1290
01:06:03,680 --> 01:06:06,320
Speaker 1: Look, listen, I've done really well. I've I haven't cut

1291
01:06:06,400 --> 01:06:08,320
Speaker 1: down a tree in nine years because well that's not true.

1292
01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:10,560
Speaker 1: My mom did give me a tree one time, but

1293
01:06:10,600 --> 01:06:12,440
Speaker 1: that I didn't buy it, so it wasn't me. They

1294
01:06:12,440 --> 01:06:14,640
Speaker 1: were gonna steal it. It wasn't me at night like

1295
01:06:14,680 --> 01:06:17,680
Speaker 1: just break in and Christmas tree.

1296
01:06:17,880 --> 01:06:20,320
Speaker 2: Like at the thing. Yeah, I wond how many people

1297
01:06:20,320 --> 01:06:22,320
Speaker 2: do that. I mean, I feel like that, like I

1298
01:06:22,360 --> 01:06:24,120
Speaker 2: feel you could easily steal it. I mean, you gotta

1299
01:06:24,160 --> 01:06:24,560
Speaker 2: tie it up.

1300
01:06:24,640 --> 01:06:26,800
Speaker 1: Maybe not, don't en courage you able to go start

1301
01:06:26,840 --> 01:06:29,960
Speaker 1: stealing Christmas trees. Bitch, you gotta you gotta switch the tags.

1302
01:06:31,280 --> 01:06:32,880
Speaker 1: You got to take the tag from a little tree

1303
01:06:32,880 --> 01:06:34,160
Speaker 1: and put it on a big tree and be like.

1304
01:06:34,080 --> 01:06:34,680
Speaker 2: They're gonna know.

1305
01:06:35,600 --> 01:06:37,600
Speaker 3: I gotta honor it because I already brought it to

1306
01:06:37,400 --> 01:06:40,720
Speaker 3: the front. Girl gave me this tree for one fifty.

1307
01:06:40,880 --> 01:06:42,080
Speaker 3: I know it says three hundred.

1308
01:06:42,360 --> 01:06:46,040
Speaker 2: These trees are expensive. They're so expensive. Yeah, I know.

1309
01:06:46,720 --> 01:06:49,120
Speaker 1: That's why I bought a tree, because it's an investment.

1310
01:06:49,280 --> 01:06:53,480
Speaker 1: It's a long term. This is a pagan holiday, It's true.

1311
01:06:53,520 --> 01:06:56,320
Speaker 1: But I do like the tree, the trees, but my

1312
01:06:56,400 --> 01:06:58,600
Speaker 1: house during that time not gonna lie. It has to

1313
01:06:58,600 --> 01:07:01,040
Speaker 1: be some kind of better search tree. Oh yeah, it

1314
01:07:01,080 --> 01:07:04,240
Speaker 1: is a mushroom tree. I'm having a mush a shrims.

1315
01:07:04,280 --> 01:07:07,760
Speaker 1: Miss yeah, Oh my god, when I haven't picked the

1316
01:07:07,840 --> 01:07:10,480
Speaker 1: date yet. Okay, it's gonna we have to do it.

1317
01:07:10,960 --> 01:07:12,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so shrims.

1318
01:07:12,880 --> 01:07:14,720
Speaker 1: We have to bite leaf or we have two.

1319
01:07:14,800 --> 01:07:16,080
Speaker 2: We have one at my new house too.

1320
01:07:16,120 --> 01:07:17,360
Speaker 1: I need to have one on the deck. And we

1321
01:07:17,400 --> 01:07:21,480
Speaker 1: need to have a groovy outdoor part two of the

1322
01:07:21,520 --> 01:07:24,360
Speaker 1: other outdoor party we had that was the.

1323
01:07:24,120 --> 01:07:32,040
Speaker 3: Best fucking Christmas mushroom fucking random, fucking day of our lives.

1324
01:07:32,840 --> 01:07:34,560
Speaker 2: It was so fucking good.

1325
01:07:34,640 --> 01:07:36,080
Speaker 1: I just I'm just trying to.

1326
01:07:35,960 --> 01:07:39,400
Speaker 2: Like relive it. I know, I know, I'm chasing it.

1327
01:07:39,760 --> 01:07:43,000
Speaker 2: I'm chasing this like leaf. We have to do this again,

1328
01:07:43,440 --> 01:07:53,680
Speaker 2: father father, father Leaf. Remember remember shoes, bitch, take your

1329
01:07:53,680 --> 01:08:02,480
Speaker 2: shoes off. Relax, Remember slut over kangles no floodover sloodover.

1330
01:08:02,760 --> 01:08:04,360
Speaker 3: Well, we're just saying a bunch of random things and

1331
01:08:04,360 --> 01:08:05,920
Speaker 3: no one knows what we're talking about.

1332
01:08:06,040 --> 01:08:09,240
Speaker 2: Then, you know, Yeah, that's a long time ago. All right, y'all.

1333
01:08:09,400 --> 01:08:14,000
Speaker 1: Well, happy holidays. We love you, we do. I hope

1334
01:08:14,040 --> 01:08:21,600
Speaker 1: you rest, I hope you breathe and mm hmmmm you

1335
01:08:21,680 --> 01:08:22,160
Speaker 1: next week.

1336
01:08:23,080 --> 01:08:32,800
Speaker 2: Bye, m

1337
01:08:37,920 --> 01:08:40,519
Speaker 3: H m hmm.