1 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 1: Well, I invited you here, thought I made myself perfectly clear. 2 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 1: But you're a guess to my home. You gotta come 3 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:29,720 Speaker 1: to be empty, and I said, no guests, your presences, presents, 4 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:35,839 Speaker 1: and I already had too much stuff. So how did 5 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:38,280 Speaker 1: you dare to surbey me? 6 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:52,879 Speaker 2: Welcome to I said, no gifts. I'm Bridget Winnecker. I 7 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 2: should be in therapy right now, but I canceled, doctor tolds. 8 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:02,440 Speaker 2: I emailed you last week and never got a response 9 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 2: about this cancelation. So I just am going to assume 10 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:10,280 Speaker 2: that you got it and move on. You've probably moved 11 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:17,199 Speaker 2: by now anyway. Uh whatever, Listen, that's neither here nor there. 12 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:22,960 Speaker 2: I'm here today with a dear, dear friend, a wonderful man, 13 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 2: a comedian, an actor, and a writer. Lamar Woods or welcome. 14 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 3: What's up? Bridge? What's going on? 15 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 2: Man? How are you? 16 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 3: Man? I'm fantastic. I'm feeling good. 17 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 2: You're feeling nice? 18 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 4: Yeah? 19 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like you were in San Francisco recently. 20 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 2: I was, Yeah, I saw this on Instagram. 21 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 3: Yeah I was. 22 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 4: I was up there and I was like, I feel 23 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 4: like no one knows I'm here. Well let me yeah, 24 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 4: post tracked you down. Yeah, yeah, I don't know, but yeah, 25 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 4: we were White women was performing out there for Sketch. 26 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 2: Fast Fantastic, which is flat white women as your improv sketch. 27 00:01:57,800 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, oh yeah. I always got to get to 28 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 3: make that clear. 29 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 4: Otherwise it just sounds like a white yeah yeah, collective 30 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 4: called white women that I just try to follow around. 31 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 4: But yeah, Service Stans was fun. It was like we 32 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:16,520 Speaker 4: had Colton done perform on Fantastic and he's he's amazing. 33 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 3: He was like our first improv coach. 34 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 4: Ever, when we first became Wow and we only had 35 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:24,640 Speaker 4: like one practice with it was like we had started 36 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 4: a team. We were like, all right, y'all, let's practice 37 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 4: and then uh and they were like we should get 38 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 4: cold and too. He's like the black guy father improv. 39 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 4: And then we did like one practice and then like 40 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 4: never practiced. 41 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 2: But it's worked out. I guess that's the thing to do. 42 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, but we we know. But it was a really 43 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 3: fun show. It was great. 44 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 4: How long were you up there for just that day? 45 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 4: Like I flew in that early Saturday and just got 46 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:48,960 Speaker 4: back on Sunday. 47 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. I haven't been to the San Francisco in a while, 48 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 2: and I miss the burritos there. 49 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, like all the food that I used to eat 50 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:58,000 Speaker 4: when I would go there to just visit. I feel 51 00:02:58,040 --> 00:03:00,839 Speaker 4: like I never go to when I'm there for sketch fast. Yeah, 52 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 4: because you're just there for business. Yeah. 53 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:03,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, you kind of go in and out. 54 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 2: What were you eating? 55 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 3: I was eating? 56 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 4: Well, well, actually you know what, we did go so 57 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 4: as soon as I land right, Also, this is my 58 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 4: first time really. I usually like to go a day 59 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 4: ahead of time just so I could wake up in 60 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 4: the city, but then. 61 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:18,919 Speaker 3: I had to shoot. 62 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 4: So I just flew straight from on Saturday to this 63 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 4: to the town of San Francisco. And then as soon 64 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:26,920 Speaker 4: as I get out the plane, if he hits me up, 65 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 4: he's like, yo, come meet us. We're about to get brunch. 66 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 4: Because it was perfect time and that it was like 67 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 4: one o'clock beautiful, and then we the first place we 68 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 4: go to is this place called Mac Daddy, which is 69 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 4: specializes in mac and cheese. And it was so good, 70 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 4: but it was probably something I shouldn't have it. 71 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 2: It's a great thing to fill your stomach with before performance. 72 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, all that day and it's like I was like 73 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 4: my body just filled with cheese. It was crazy, and 74 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 4: it was like they was really getting it in, like 75 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 4: putting an elbow into it, because it was like one 76 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 4: of those places where you could sit out to sit 77 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 4: out the county and watch them make the macagh nice. 78 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,040 Speaker 3: But they're just fucking killing it man. 79 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 2: Putting in their mac and cheese AND's so special. 80 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 4: Oh well, I think this place was like it was 81 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 4: like they do like kind of mac and cheese bowls, 82 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 4: so like imagine like a Chipotle, right, okay, but the base, 83 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 4: like you know Chipotle is probably the base is like rice. 84 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 3: It's like this would be the mac and. 85 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:21,720 Speaker 2: Cheese start with. I didn't continue it definitely will kill you. 86 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 4: Like and then they put like the thing I got 87 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:31,160 Speaker 4: had like charizo in it and avocado and like. 88 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:31,480 Speaker 3: Like jalapenos and stuff was good. 89 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 2: It's incredible. 90 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:34,720 Speaker 3: Oh it's so good. But I'm not supposed to eat cheese. 91 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 2: So you like, yeah, yeah, this truly was a horrible decision. 92 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:40,039 Speaker 3: Yeah. 93 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:42,599 Speaker 4: I have no respect for my stomach, Like I just 94 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 4: disrespect my body constantly. 95 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 3: But I'm working on it though. 96 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 2: No, I know that feeling. I had a horrible stomach 97 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 2: problem like a couple of weeks ago, and I you 98 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 2: should have been just eating like brown rice and like 99 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:59,159 Speaker 2: toast and kept beating hamburgers and meatballs, and it's like, well, 100 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 2: the pain that continues is now my faults. It's like 101 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:04,119 Speaker 2: I don't understand weird. 102 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 3: It's like I don't want to accept that I have 103 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 3: to change my diet. 104 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:08,119 Speaker 2: I just want to eat things. 105 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 3: Yeah it tastes good. Yeah, I love mac and jeesus, Like, 106 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:12,039 Speaker 3: why I give that up? Yeah? 107 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 2: You maybe you could explain to the listeners something that 108 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 2: I think is a wonderful philosophy and kind of it's 109 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 2: almost a club for you dso. 110 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 3: Right right, yeah, can you. 111 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:25,840 Speaker 2: Explain this philosophy or exactly what it is. I think 112 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:26,840 Speaker 2: it's so fantastic. 113 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:28,239 Speaker 3: Okay, great, so DS. 114 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 4: So it stands for a dope shit only and it's 115 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 4: a collective of like artists and writers and who are 116 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:39,039 Speaker 4: basically the rule to be a part of it is 117 00:05:39,080 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 4: like you have to do dope shit. So, like it's 118 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 4: a very encouraging group and we all go we all 119 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:45,360 Speaker 4: get wine on Monday. 120 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:47,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, see it's Monday. 121 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 4: Now. I just got the text. I was like, oh, 122 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 4: we got Because the weird thing is the group chat 123 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:54,600 Speaker 4: is called wine Down. So every time I get the 124 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:58,039 Speaker 4: text in my car, it says wine down. It's just like, 125 00:05:58,080 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 4: oh yeah, it's like, but we could be talking about 126 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 4: something else, but it always starts with like, am I 127 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 4: going to the wine down? 128 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:07,919 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, maybe it's time for two different Yeah. 129 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:08,280 Speaker 3: Yeah. 130 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 4: So it's a group of like black collective and it's 131 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 4: like we sort of incur I think because we're all 132 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:16,680 Speaker 4: sort of feel isolated sometimes in the industry. Sure, we 133 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 4: feel like we want to have this space to sort 134 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:22,279 Speaker 4: of like communicate with each other about what it means to, 135 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 4: you know, be in this industry and try to be 136 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 4: successful and kind of like also like because back in 137 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 4: the day, be like you didn't know what to do 138 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:33,599 Speaker 4: in certain situations in terms of like business decisions, and 139 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:35,599 Speaker 4: it's nice to have other people in it who are 140 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 4: like doing well and you. 141 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 2: Can just such a confusing industry in the first place. 142 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, to have anybody who's been through anything 143 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 2: even remotely similar to you is like, please give me advice. 144 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:48,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, because you feeling like, man, am I alone in this? 145 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 3: Of course? Yeah. 146 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 4: And then and with those guys, it's like we have 147 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 4: no we're not we're not in competition with each other, 148 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 4: So it's no fear, you know, sometimes you have that 149 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:57,720 Speaker 4: fear like, well, I don't want to tell them I'm 150 00:06:57,760 --> 00:06:59,360 Speaker 4: getting this job, then they might go at to them 151 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 4: and then they'll get the job instead of me, Like 152 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:03,040 Speaker 4: as if it's like that loose where it's like, you 153 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:04,200 Speaker 4: know what, I think I'm gonna give it to this 154 00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:06,600 Speaker 4: other black guy I was thinking about. But they are 155 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 4: like really like we're all like just super supportive. So 156 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:12,280 Speaker 4: it's just like there's no insecurity in terms of like, hey, 157 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 4: I have this type of contract, like what should I do? 158 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 3: Sure, or would you do in a situation? 159 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:19,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, just like a supportive group of yeah friends, And Okay, 160 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 2: well I have to confess this is a way better 161 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 2: thing than I thought it was, because the last time 162 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 2: you explained it to me, it just sounded like you 163 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 2: guys would go to really good restaurants. 164 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I mean that's all it is. 165 00:07:29,440 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 4: I think it's evolving, but I think it is like 166 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 4: we also like to be fancy and shait. 167 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, you go to like very high end sushi place. Yeah, yeah, 168 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 2: sort of, which just like immediately bars me from joining 169 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 2: me because I would be panicked about spending money or whatever. Yeah. 170 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 4: I think that's also I have this very like desire, 171 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:52,480 Speaker 4: this like strong desire inside of me to like go 172 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 4: into white spaces and be very black in it. 173 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 2: Oh, I love it. 174 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 4: Like we'll get reservation somewhere where there's like no black 175 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 4: people ever go, and then we'll come in there like. 176 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 3: Six of us. 177 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:04,080 Speaker 2: You guys are doing incredible work. This is like a 178 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 2: three layered program. Yeah, who started it? 179 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 4: I would say, Phil Jack says yeah, so he's a 180 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 4: right successful right worked out shows like Kemp Pill and 181 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 4: like Brooklyn at Night, and like he's just yeah, we 182 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:20,840 Speaker 4: just have this. It's just this feeling of like we 183 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 4: were all kind of like on our own. It's kind 184 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 4: of the same thing I happened with white women where 185 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 4: we were all doing improv on our own and a 186 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 4: UCB being like, I'm the one black guy in our 187 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 4: improv group, and then we were like, wait, you guys 188 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 4: are doing it too, and then we're like, why don't 189 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:35,720 Speaker 4: we just be a group together. It was like that 190 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 4: same idea, just on a bigger Hollywood type. Yeah yeah only. 191 00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 2: Yeah d s O, we need your help. Yeah. I've 192 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 2: known you for a couple of years now, and I 193 00:08:50,679 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 2: feel like you're someone who very little, very little bothers you, 194 00:08:55,840 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 2: which to me is very I mean my natural state 195 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:03,320 Speaker 2: is bothered. So it's I feel like you and I 196 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 2: are very young and yang. But so it's to me, 197 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:11,559 Speaker 2: I'm always very impressed by how just like a good light, 198 00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:15,559 Speaker 2: maybe time for us to move into Yeah. Is there 199 00:09:15,600 --> 00:09:19,360 Speaker 2: anything that bothers you that bothers me, like really like 200 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 2: agitates you? 201 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 3: Yeah? 202 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:22,800 Speaker 4: I think I was thinking about this the other day 203 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 4: because speaking of of going to restaurants, I I I 204 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 4: before I started writing, I worked in retail and customer 205 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:33,439 Speaker 4: service for a long time when I was a manager 206 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:34,560 Speaker 4: at the Wax Music. 207 00:09:34,559 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 2: And we need to get into that. 208 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 3: Yeah. 209 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:39,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, and so I have a very high regard for 210 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:43,800 Speaker 4: good customer service. I get really bothered by bad service, 211 00:09:43,920 --> 00:09:48,679 Speaker 4: Like it's so frustrating, Like I went to where did 212 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:49,960 Speaker 4: I go? So as soon as I get off the 213 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:53,880 Speaker 4: plane yesterday, I go to Popeye's Chica because you know 214 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:55,960 Speaker 4: when you get goot off at bird Bank, they got 215 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:57,160 Speaker 4: that Popeye Chicken right there. 216 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 2: I wasn't wait in the airport or right now. 217 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 4: It's like right there, like it's like on the way 218 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:04,319 Speaker 4: to the highway. It's like because I don't really live 219 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 4: close to one, so it's like. 220 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:08,319 Speaker 2: Sure, they're all kind of in weird areas, yeah, kind 221 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 2: of right outside of the city. 222 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:13,600 Speaker 4: It's right, another thing I shouldn't be eating. But I 223 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 4: had not tried the chicken sandwich take yet. Oh yeah, 224 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 4: and I was like, well, it's here, why. 225 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:18,520 Speaker 3: Don't I just try it. 226 00:10:18,800 --> 00:10:22,440 Speaker 4: I go inside, I you know, order the chicken sandwich 227 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 4: French fries, but I went it like another side because 228 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:25,960 Speaker 4: I just didn't want to eat fries. 229 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:28,320 Speaker 3: So I got, uh, what is it called red beans 230 00:10:28,360 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 3: and rice? 231 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 2: Right? 232 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 3: Sure? 233 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 4: And then I get home and then it's everything except 234 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:33,959 Speaker 4: for the red beans and right. And it was so 235 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 4: mad because it's just so like, why why did you 236 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:39,800 Speaker 4: do that? It's like the basic thing, and it's like 237 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 4: it's so frustrated to me. 238 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 2: How was the sandwich? 239 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:47,400 Speaker 3: It really ruined my day? I mean, I don't know why. 240 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm such I'm one of those like we 241 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:52,560 Speaker 4: talked about this, like how we like, I have like 242 00:10:52,640 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 4: incredible empathy for like people, a lot of people liking something, 243 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 4: and we talked about like, like, oh, I like everyone 244 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 4: likes Game of Thrones. There's like an it posted to 245 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 4: also be like I don't need to watch that, But 246 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 4: I'm like the opposite where I'm like oh, everyone likes 247 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:08,719 Speaker 4: this thing. 248 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 3: I want to know why. 249 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:11,199 Speaker 2: I need to investigate the core of this. 250 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:13,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah and find out for myself. So I felt 251 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:15,440 Speaker 4: like that with the chicken thing. I was like, well, 252 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 4: I guess I have to understand why this is a thing. 253 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 4: And but you know, it was it was okay. It 254 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:24,720 Speaker 4: was just definitely like hurt my hurt my body. So 255 00:11:24,800 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 4: then I like passed out and woke. I just it 256 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:29,080 Speaker 4: was just ruined the whole day. I will you know 257 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 4: how you feeling. You passed out like two o'clock on 258 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:32,680 Speaker 4: a Sunday and you wake up this like nine o'clock, 259 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 4: you feel like you died or something. 260 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:37,199 Speaker 2: It just ate a lukewarm chicken sand they could sleep. 261 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 3: I was like that was not worth that, but it 262 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 3: did taste somewhat good. 263 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm very curious. But yeah, if only it were 264 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:48,079 Speaker 2: in the airport, that would make things so much easier. 265 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:49,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, that would be that would be great. 266 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:51,440 Speaker 2: I mean that airport is struggling with the food. I 267 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 2: mean there's like a Guy Fieri's restaurant and that's it. 268 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:57,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, they don't have a lot of food there. The 269 00:11:57,600 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 3: Popeyes in yeah, they. 270 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:01,720 Speaker 4: Should just I don't know. Location there, or like transfer 271 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 4: that one there. It looks like they're remodeling the one 272 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 4: I went to though, so we'll see what that looks like. 273 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:09,520 Speaker 2: No, when like when you are bothered by bad customer service, 274 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 2: do you say something or is it does it just 275 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:13,800 Speaker 2: bother you? And then that's oh. 276 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:14,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's the thing. 277 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:18,080 Speaker 4: It's a very hard, big contradiction because I'm also somebody 278 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:22,840 Speaker 4: who's like very timid. Yes, I don't really say anything. 279 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 4: I just like just quietly wish they would do their 280 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:28,440 Speaker 4: job better because I'm actually I want to feel that. Actually, 281 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:31,559 Speaker 4: like when I hang with my sister and we go out, 282 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:33,160 Speaker 4: she's like one of the people that will be like 283 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:35,560 Speaker 4: if the food is cold, if anything is wrong, She's like, 284 00:12:35,760 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 4: can we get the manager over here right now? And 285 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 4: because I also, you know, empathize with the work because 286 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:42,280 Speaker 4: I was on of course, other side of that. So 287 00:12:42,320 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 4: it's it's one of those things where I'm like, man, 288 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 4: I want to say something, but it's fine, but also 289 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 4: like in my mind, I'm definitely like I'm never coming 290 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:52,719 Speaker 4: back here, So it's more of a silent. 291 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:54,920 Speaker 2: Like protest, like I'm a passive aggressive. 292 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:58,960 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, like they'll be like like I was at 293 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:03,320 Speaker 4: the hotel stayed out San Francisco. Uh. They you know, 294 00:13:03,400 --> 00:13:06,400 Speaker 4: I had to cancel the first day because I had 295 00:13:06,400 --> 00:13:09,840 Speaker 4: a shoot. And then I saw they basically they charged 296 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:11,360 Speaker 4: me for both days. 297 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:14,240 Speaker 3: What do you call it that? What is that fee? 298 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 3: It's like a resort fee or something. And they charged 299 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:19,080 Speaker 3: me for both days. 300 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:21,640 Speaker 4: And I was like, well, you know, I didn't really 301 00:13:21,679 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 4: stay here the day on Friday. Do you think I 302 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:27,560 Speaker 4: could just pay for the one today? And they're like, well, 303 00:13:27,559 --> 00:13:31,679 Speaker 4: it's policy because there's no refunds. And I was so mad. 304 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:35,079 Speaker 2: And then you didn't even take advantage of the resort, 305 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 2: I know, there was no there. 306 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:39,680 Speaker 4: I was like, I'm noting from this at all, like 307 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 4: and uh, and it just seemed so unfair. And then 308 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:46,000 Speaker 4: I just was like really passive. She was like, well, 309 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 4: I hope you enjoyed your stay. I was like, yeah, yeah, whatever. 310 00:13:49,640 --> 00:13:53,360 Speaker 4: I just then I sat there, Yeah, I sat there 311 00:13:53,720 --> 00:13:57,040 Speaker 4: waiting for my uber and then uh, you know it 312 00:13:57,120 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 4: was crazy though, and then uh, the guy, some guy 313 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:01,640 Speaker 4: this is talking to me because I had on this 314 00:14:01,840 --> 00:14:04,600 Speaker 4: full on Coca Cola outfit. Sure that has like I'm 315 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 4: wearing the pants right now. Actually they have Coca Cola 316 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 4: on let. 317 00:14:07,360 --> 00:14:10,240 Speaker 3: Me tell you check it out. Yeah, you got use 318 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:13,040 Speaker 3: are incredible? Yeah for coke right now? 319 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 2: Yeah? 320 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:16,120 Speaker 4: Oh yeah from I'm from Atlanta, so I got yeah. 321 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 4: All day Coca Cola Museum was like my first field trip, 322 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:20,560 Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying, Like they took us to 323 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:23,520 Speaker 4: the co Cola factory. I mean it's like blew me away, 324 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 4: Like you know what I'm. 325 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 2: Saying, Do you have an allegiance? I mean, are you 326 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 2: fully anti pepsi? 327 00:14:28,640 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 4: No, I'm not anti pepsi, but you know what I say, 328 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:37,120 Speaker 4: I do like some Pepsi products, though, Like, no, I 329 00:14:37,120 --> 00:14:39,160 Speaker 4: guess I am anti PEPs I. Mean I don't really 330 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:42,200 Speaker 4: have a lot to offer because everything they have I 331 00:14:42,320 --> 00:14:44,120 Speaker 4: like this. I do like the coke, like I like 332 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:47,560 Speaker 4: sprite over seven up, sure, I do. Like I guess 333 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 4: Pepsi is involved in the sort of combinations of like 334 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 4: Taco Bell, Pizza Head. 335 00:14:51,680 --> 00:14:52,120 Speaker 2: That's right. 336 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, I understand that I can get down. 337 00:14:54,120 --> 00:14:56,280 Speaker 2: With that nine Flavors of Mountain do it, Taco Bell 338 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:57,200 Speaker 2: all that sort of Yeah. 339 00:14:57,280 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, but oh so, but then so the guy 340 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 4: saw me wearing those clothes and he was like, that's 341 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 4: pretty dope outfit. 342 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 3: He worked. I guess he's some like a bell boy. 343 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:09,600 Speaker 4: Or something like that, and I was like, yeah, man, 344 00:15:09,680 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 4: you know he just we started talking. I'm like, oh, 345 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:14,960 Speaker 4: on my way back to LA. And then the lady 346 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 4: who wouldn't give me the refund was like, oh, you're 347 00:15:17,200 --> 00:15:19,080 Speaker 4: from LA and then I was like yeah. And then 348 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:22,600 Speaker 4: she we found out, Oh, oh you'll know, you'll appreciate this. 349 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 4: So she went to high school with uh Sarah Tapscott. 350 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:28,240 Speaker 2: Well your kid, Yeah, Yarah Scott is a writer. 351 00:15:29,040 --> 00:15:30,680 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. 352 00:15:30,720 --> 00:15:33,400 Speaker 4: So I was like, oh, ship. So now I'm like 353 00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:35,800 Speaker 4: we're having this connection. But in the back of my head, 354 00:15:35,800 --> 00:15:37,480 Speaker 4: I'm like, you also didn't give me that request. I 355 00:15:37,480 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 4: don't think, don't get too close to me. 356 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:43,920 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. And then so I rolled out. 357 00:15:43,280 --> 00:15:47,440 Speaker 4: And I'm in the uber on the way home or 358 00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:48,920 Speaker 4: on the way to the airport, and then I get 359 00:15:48,920 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 4: an email and its like from the hotel was like, 360 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:54,800 Speaker 4: we refund your thing. And I was like, now that 361 00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:57,840 Speaker 4: was slip because that see that's what that's I mean. 362 00:15:58,040 --> 00:15:59,400 Speaker 3: I wish you would have did it anyway. 363 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:02,160 Speaker 4: I done out of the goodness of her exactly, but 364 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:05,320 Speaker 4: I do like the fact that, you know, it was 365 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 4: almost like I became a person to her. 366 00:16:07,320 --> 00:16:09,760 Speaker 2: You know, she finally saw you as a three dimensional, 367 00:16:09,760 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 2: biting customer. 368 00:16:12,560 --> 00:16:15,760 Speaker 4: I feel like that's but that's how every good customer 369 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:17,160 Speaker 4: service is that but. 370 00:16:19,040 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 2: From from the ground floor, they see you as a 371 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:25,080 Speaker 2: human being rather than like having to make a connection. 372 00:16:24,880 --> 00:16:27,560 Speaker 3: And then like forgetting their like rubbans and wars or whatever. 373 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 2: Having some fear of a high school friend finding out 374 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:36,840 Speaker 2: that you charge the resort fee. Oh yeah, I feel 375 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:38,600 Speaker 2: like I'm in the same boat as far like I've 376 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:41,560 Speaker 2: worked in a decent amount of food service jobs and 377 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:44,080 Speaker 2: the sort of thing. So anytime I need to complain, 378 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:49,480 Speaker 2: I don't. I basically dare them to attack me. Like 379 00:16:49,680 --> 00:16:53,120 Speaker 2: at that point I might complain, but otherwise it occasionally 380 00:16:53,120 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 2: I'll email a complaint to a company, but otherwise it's 381 00:16:55,920 --> 00:16:57,200 Speaker 2: just like I'm. 382 00:16:57,040 --> 00:16:59,400 Speaker 3: Want to tell you this too. This is a new thing. Well, 383 00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:00,560 Speaker 3: this is like a black thing. 384 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:03,560 Speaker 4: But when you get your opinion on it, because I 385 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:06,720 Speaker 4: feel like this is like my new issue with restaurants, 386 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:10,440 Speaker 4: and I feel like it's something that is so specific, 387 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:12,439 Speaker 4: but okay, so check it out. I think there's like 388 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:17,480 Speaker 4: a new stereotype that's like developing, because Okay, whenever I 389 00:17:17,480 --> 00:17:21,080 Speaker 4: go to a restaurant by myself, and I don't know 390 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 4: if your audience because I haven't talked to anyone about this. 391 00:17:24,200 --> 00:17:24,639 Speaker 2: Here we go. 392 00:17:24,720 --> 00:17:28,919 Speaker 4: This is yeah, So if anyone anyone can relate to this, 393 00:17:29,040 --> 00:17:30,720 Speaker 4: let me know if I'm either crazy or if this 394 00:17:30,760 --> 00:17:34,240 Speaker 4: is like happening there. Okay, So I go to restaurants 395 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:36,800 Speaker 4: alone sometimes, right, because I like to eat out. Sure, 396 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:39,960 Speaker 4: so I'll go in the restaurant and then I'll you know, 397 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:44,240 Speaker 4: be on my phone or something. And they always lately 398 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:47,200 Speaker 4: the last few times, they think I'm a Postmas delivery. 399 00:17:47,320 --> 00:17:48,360 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I. 400 00:17:48,320 --> 00:17:51,200 Speaker 4: Think And then the only at first I wouldn't have 401 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:55,440 Speaker 4: put racer to the issue. Sure, but every time I'm 402 00:17:55,520 --> 00:17:58,960 Speaker 4: in a restaurant and then now I'm seeing Postmas people 403 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 4: and they're usually like black, But not because that's like 404 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:04,800 Speaker 4: a thing that black people were doing. It's because I 405 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:06,639 Speaker 4: think I'm going if I'm going to, like, say, a 406 00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:10,440 Speaker 4: nice restaurant, and the guys doing postmakester all over the city, 407 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 4: so they might be from another area of town. 408 00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:14,800 Speaker 3: Going to like Beverly Hills or whatever. 409 00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:18,640 Speaker 4: So I'm thinking, like this restaurant owner thinks that I'm 410 00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:22,040 Speaker 4: at would never be here totally right, And I'm like, Oh, 411 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:23,919 Speaker 4: he couldn't have been he couldn't be eating here. He 412 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:30,040 Speaker 4: must work for the gig economy. Like, and it's been 413 00:18:30,040 --> 00:18:32,680 Speaker 4: happening a lot. It's really bothering me because it makes 414 00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 4: me feel like they think I wouldn't be able to 415 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:36,560 Speaker 4: afford to like eat here or something. 416 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:40,800 Speaker 2: I'm going to just assume this is absolutely a reality 417 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:45,399 Speaker 2: because people are horrible and a huge amount of this 418 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:49,920 Speaker 2: country is racist. Yeah, I feel like that's probably what 419 00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:51,520 Speaker 2: could very well be happening. 420 00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:54,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's very weird because it's I've never most of 421 00:18:54,480 --> 00:18:57,159 Speaker 4: the stereotypes about black people. I know, like we're kind 422 00:18:57,200 --> 00:18:59,600 Speaker 4: of already around when I was born or whatever, or 423 00:18:59,640 --> 00:19:01,600 Speaker 4: like they sort of like they're already in the ether, 424 00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 4: you know, black people talking to movie theater or something 425 00:19:06,080 --> 00:19:09,119 Speaker 4: like that. But like this one, I feel like I'm witnessing. 426 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:12,080 Speaker 4: You're like a new stereotype house that's horrify of me. 427 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:14,240 Speaker 4: It's crazy. And it's like, I don't know if anyone's 428 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:17,200 Speaker 4: experience give me a call, you know, like so get 429 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:19,560 Speaker 4: at me or whatever, because this is this is like 430 00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:23,080 Speaker 4: and it's it's it's very subtle. It's like, uh, you know, 431 00:19:23,119 --> 00:19:24,880 Speaker 4: like I went to the sushi spot the other day. 432 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 4: They were just like, no post base, right, and I'm like, no, 433 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:29,679 Speaker 4: I want to eat here. I want to just like 434 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:34,520 Speaker 4: sit down, and uh they were like okay, but it 435 00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 4: was it's really uncomfortable. It's really awkward right there, because 436 00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:40,440 Speaker 4: it also makes me it also highlights that I'm alone. 437 00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 4: Of course, I'm like, I have no because dining alone. 438 00:19:44,240 --> 00:19:47,880 Speaker 2: In somebody spotlights that it's the worst failing in the world. Yeah, 439 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:50,359 Speaker 2: fully aware, I'm alone here, right. I don't need that 440 00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 2: to be echoed back at right right. 441 00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:54,359 Speaker 4: Did I ever tell you about the time when I 442 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:56,520 Speaker 4: was like I went to I don't know, Yeah, I 443 00:19:56,840 --> 00:19:58,800 Speaker 4: guess it is starting to sound like I'm lonely, actually, 444 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:02,280 Speaker 4: but I I went to the Little Dimes, right, and 445 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:04,760 Speaker 4: sure we were. It was like that you don't have 446 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:08,200 Speaker 4: that outside balcony on the where people sit on the outside. 447 00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:12,399 Speaker 4: And then they the hostess walked me out and I 448 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 4: had to basically walk by everybody, just the last table 449 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:18,439 Speaker 4: at the very end. And then when they sat me down, 450 00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:22,680 Speaker 4: the chair like slipped and I like fell in front 451 00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:25,960 Speaker 4: and everyone was watching me, but nobody laughed. It was 452 00:20:26,040 --> 00:20:28,760 Speaker 4: like complete silence, and it was like if you were 453 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:31,680 Speaker 4: to feel alone. That made me feel so alone because 454 00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:33,159 Speaker 4: I had no one to like if you if it 455 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:34,880 Speaker 4: was me and you there, I'd be like, oh man, 456 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:37,120 Speaker 4: that was that's hilarious because that would have made me laugh. 457 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:39,480 Speaker 4: I mean, that's a funny thing. But because no one's laughing, 458 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:40,800 Speaker 4: it's making me uncomfortable. 459 00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:43,199 Speaker 2: You just look like someone with something seriously wrong in 460 00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:47,320 Speaker 2: their life. 461 00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:51,440 Speaker 4: To help him, But I like slowly get up by myself, 462 00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:53,440 Speaker 4: like no one to like banter. 463 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:56,920 Speaker 3: About how silly that was. It was rough. It was, yeah, 464 00:20:57,000 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 3: I need I need to get back out there to no. 465 00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:06,800 Speaker 2: I I am a proud eating out alone person. Uh, 466 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:09,440 Speaker 2: I've like finally figured out how to do it. I 467 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:12,280 Speaker 2: am in a relationship, but I'm still like he's out 468 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:14,840 Speaker 2: of town a lot, so I'm eating out alone a lot. 469 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:18,320 Speaker 2: And it's just like you just have to power through it. 470 00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:21,160 Speaker 2: It's definitely just like a confidence thing, and you're for 471 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:24,199 Speaker 2: me as a like scrawnie white man. I feel like 472 00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:26,600 Speaker 2: the assumption is like, oh, he's this is the last 473 00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:32,720 Speaker 2: meal before he goes out to kill someone, so like, yeah. 474 00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:35,320 Speaker 3: All right, well we better do it right then. 475 00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:36,760 Speaker 2: Somebody's life is on the line. 476 00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:41,440 Speaker 4: Maybe is perfectly melted and everything because I don't want 477 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:42,960 Speaker 4: that's real. 478 00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:45,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I just I will take a book and 479 00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:47,440 Speaker 2: just hope that that as. 480 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:49,680 Speaker 4: Maybe I should do that too. If I bring a book, 481 00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:53,240 Speaker 4: I feel like that it's something to do or something 482 00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:55,879 Speaker 4: I should like bring a project. I should be like 483 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:58,119 Speaker 4: doing a craft or or something, just to be like 484 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 4: I've got I've got things going on, right, But I 485 00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:02,880 Speaker 4: really do like it. It's like it's like I'm going 486 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:04,880 Speaker 4: on a date with myself. Like I'll plan the whole thing. 487 00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:07,399 Speaker 4: I'll talk, I'll talk to myself and be like, so, 488 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:08,600 Speaker 4: what do you want to go tonight? You want to 489 00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:10,199 Speaker 4: go a head And I'll be like, cool, let's make 490 00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:13,160 Speaker 4: some reservation and I'll dress up and ship. And then 491 00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:15,520 Speaker 4: I went with made me feel better about it or 492 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:17,359 Speaker 4: not as weird about it was that I went to 493 00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:20,359 Speaker 4: visit my mom in South Carolina and we were talking 494 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:22,520 Speaker 4: about it, and she's like, I do that all the time. 495 00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:25,200 Speaker 4: Like she goes to the bar and she'll like sit 496 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 4: at the bar and like make friends with the bartender. 497 00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:29,760 Speaker 4: And I was like, yeah, like it's like the old 498 00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:33,120 Speaker 4: days when people used to like have a community in public. 499 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:38,080 Speaker 3: But so I'm a proud I want to be a proud. 500 00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:39,119 Speaker 2: Of Yeah, I feel like we need to get the 501 00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:42,360 Speaker 2: word out that eating alone is can be enjoyable. Yeah, 502 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:44,119 Speaker 2: it could be a good time. Maybe maybe that's a 503 00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:46,560 Speaker 2: sad thing to say, but there are a lot of 504 00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:49,040 Speaker 2: people eating alone. You shouldn't be ashamed of it. 505 00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:52,800 Speaker 4: Also, don't like the conversation around eating, deciding what to 506 00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:57,000 Speaker 4: eat with people that where it's like where we have 507 00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:58,920 Speaker 4: different tastes and stuff and it's like, oh, it's just 508 00:22:59,080 --> 00:22:59,440 Speaker 4: the kind. 509 00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:03,840 Speaker 2: Of enormous struggle. I mean, going out to dinner alone 510 00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:06,119 Speaker 2: is so much easier than going on with another person. 511 00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:09,119 Speaker 2: Going to a movie alone again another thing we need 512 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:11,439 Speaker 2: to support. Yeah, you get to choose the movie. You 513 00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:13,080 Speaker 2: don't have to be worried if someone's going to be 514 00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:16,920 Speaker 2: on time exactly afterward, you don't have to bullshit about 515 00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:18,360 Speaker 2: what you thought about the movie. You can just think 516 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:21,359 Speaker 2: about the movie. Yeah, then maybe later once your thoughts 517 00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:26,200 Speaker 2: have come together discussed with another person. Yeah. What other 518 00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:27,320 Speaker 2: things are enjoyable? 519 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:28,240 Speaker 3: Concerts? 520 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:30,320 Speaker 2: Oh, you can leave whatever you want. 521 00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:31,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, you can get out. You don't have to like, 522 00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:32,360 Speaker 3: hey do you want to stay? 523 00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:33,240 Speaker 2: Oh that's cool. 524 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:33,479 Speaker 1: Thing. 525 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:35,720 Speaker 2: Although the greatest feeling in the world is when you're 526 00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:37,560 Speaker 2: at a concert with a friend and you both realize 527 00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:40,239 Speaker 2: it's time to go, you're yeah, so close to each other. 528 00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:41,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, at that moment where you're. 529 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:44,600 Speaker 2: Like, oh, this is horrible, let's go home. We've made 530 00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:45,119 Speaker 2: a mistake. 531 00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:47,639 Speaker 4: The concerts are I do feel like it is. I 532 00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:49,200 Speaker 4: do enjoy it when I'm with someone there. 533 00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:52,439 Speaker 2: Yes, it is probably more enjoyable with a person, but 534 00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:53,600 Speaker 2: it works. 535 00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:56,640 Speaker 4: Alone, right because it is also like there's an opportunity 536 00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:59,840 Speaker 4: to sort of like be a part of because people 537 00:23:59,880 --> 00:24:02,439 Speaker 4: are there for the same reason. You feel connected to 538 00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:05,560 Speaker 4: the strangers too, so you're not like completely isolated. Where 539 00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:07,800 Speaker 4: like people were like, yeah, you like that song, and 540 00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:13,240 Speaker 4: I'm like, yeah, everything else we're connected on this band, right, 541 00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:18,960 Speaker 4: They said Bunny Bear like, hey ma, it's like you 542 00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:20,639 Speaker 4: were looking at each other like I remember what to 543 00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:25,360 Speaker 4: see Body Bear way back when they did like a 544 00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:28,879 Speaker 4: show at the Hollywood Cemetery. It's like and they played 545 00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 4: through through the sun the sun up. That's oh wait, 546 00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:36,440 Speaker 4: they played through sunrise. 547 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:36,680 Speaker 2: Yeah. 548 00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:39,520 Speaker 4: So it started at like ten twelve o'clock or something, 549 00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:41,840 Speaker 4: and then we went all night into the morning. 550 00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:44,240 Speaker 2: Wait, the concert was like seven hours long. 551 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 4: No, wasn't that it was, but it was a long 552 00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:48,560 Speaker 4: we had to get there at a certain time, okay, 553 00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:50,560 Speaker 4: And I think it was a lot of like a 554 00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:53,600 Speaker 4: lot of other ship going on until they started playing. 555 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:56,600 Speaker 4: But that was very intimate, you know it with all 556 00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:58,920 Speaker 4: the people there. You're like, oh, we kind of slept together. 557 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,840 Speaker 2: Yea right, yeah, yeah. 558 00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:03,600 Speaker 3: If I fail, might see them again. It's going to 559 00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:04,080 Speaker 3: be awkward. 560 00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:11,720 Speaker 4: Remember that time we slept it? 561 00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:12,160 Speaker 3: Wow? 562 00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:17,240 Speaker 2: Well, the obviously kind of very loosely. The theme of 563 00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:20,280 Speaker 2: this podcast is gifts, and I know you grew up 564 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:24,280 Speaker 2: Jehovah's Witness. Yeah, were gifts a part of life at 565 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:25,159 Speaker 2: all as a kid or. 566 00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:26,400 Speaker 3: No, not at all? 567 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:29,439 Speaker 4: Like we didn't do no birthday gifts, no Christmas gifts. 568 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 4: I didn't really start getting down with gifts until I 569 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:36,639 Speaker 4: turn eighteen, went without because my parents got divorced and 570 00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:40,080 Speaker 4: my dad remarried and my stepmom was like fuck all 571 00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:43,840 Speaker 4: that jos and his bullshit, like I'm getting you all gifts, 572 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 4: and she was. She started getting it going, and then 573 00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:48,600 Speaker 4: my dad's like, well, I guess I got to do 574 00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:51,920 Speaker 4: it if my wife is doing it. So then that's 575 00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:54,360 Speaker 4: when it became like, Okay, we're doing it now. 576 00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:56,040 Speaker 2: And were you immediately in tour or it was like 577 00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:58,080 Speaker 2: this is scary, We're doing something done. 578 00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,480 Speaker 4: I had like a huge sense of guilt, like all 579 00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:03,159 Speaker 4: the time I would take something when I would go 580 00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:05,239 Speaker 4: back home because I was still kind of believed at 581 00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:07,480 Speaker 4: that time. I was still really kind of into the 582 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:10,000 Speaker 4: into the religion. So I would be like, I feel 583 00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:13,040 Speaker 4: like I'm doing Like I would have this Christmas like 584 00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,439 Speaker 4: like sweater or something that they got me in and 585 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:17,640 Speaker 4: I'm like I feel like, oh, I don't want them to. 586 00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:19,359 Speaker 3: See these new clothes I got. 587 00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 4: But it was it took It didn't take long though, 588 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:24,040 Speaker 4: I think probably like a year, and then I was like, 589 00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:24,920 Speaker 4: this is fun. 590 00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:26,479 Speaker 3: There's nothing wrong with this. 591 00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:28,800 Speaker 2: So like your first toe in the water outside of 592 00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:32,920 Speaker 2: the religion was just getting gifts yeah, before like celebrating holidays, right. 593 00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:35,080 Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, So that was really because other than that, 594 00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:37,919 Speaker 4: we didn't really in my house. I was like, I 595 00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:40,400 Speaker 4: can't think of any real reason why we were would 596 00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:41,119 Speaker 4: get any gifts. 597 00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:41,760 Speaker 3: They weren't really. 598 00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:44,080 Speaker 4: It doesn't mean my parents would give me stuff, but 599 00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:47,040 Speaker 4: a gift, yeah would just be like oh. 600 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:48,720 Speaker 3: My moms buying me this shirt or whatever. 601 00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:51,560 Speaker 2: But wow, yeah, and is your mom still practicing. 602 00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:54,440 Speaker 3: No, no, none of them are. 603 00:26:55,600 --> 00:27:00,239 Speaker 4: Christmas ruins Jehovah for your family. I was like, I'm like, man, 604 00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:02,440 Speaker 4: so y'all go oh, y'all not doing it? No more 605 00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:04,720 Speaker 4: I could have been, we could have been just getting 606 00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:05,920 Speaker 4: down with Halloween, and all of it. 607 00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:09,480 Speaker 2: Dragged me through an entire childhood without a Halloween. Ye. 608 00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:11,879 Speaker 4: Now I have to celebrate Halloween, and the worst I 609 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:13,720 Speaker 4: feel like this is the worst time in your life 610 00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:16,160 Speaker 4: to celebrate Halloween as like a thirty four year old 611 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:19,280 Speaker 4: adult who like doesn't really want to try to dress up. 612 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 4: It's like it feels like a hassle. I could have 613 00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:23,800 Speaker 4: way more, had enjoyed it more when I was like 614 00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:28,440 Speaker 4: ten or eleven. But I but it was a cool religion. 615 00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:30,040 Speaker 4: It kept me out of trouble for sure. 616 00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:32,880 Speaker 2: And strict religion, you know, yeah, it's a very strict religion. 617 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:36,400 Speaker 2: And you went to college and studied religion, right, yeah? 618 00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:38,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, what did you do it? 619 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 2: Like a four year program? Or what was to deal? 620 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:43,680 Speaker 4: At first I was studying our business and then or 621 00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:46,159 Speaker 4: mark like, because that's what when you don't know what 622 00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:48,080 Speaker 4: to do, just be like I want to be a 623 00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:51,920 Speaker 4: business man. And then I was like this sucks, and 624 00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:54,320 Speaker 4: I was. I also kind of hated school too, so 625 00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:56,720 Speaker 4: but then I was like, I'm gonna change my major, 626 00:27:57,320 --> 00:28:02,600 Speaker 4: and I was kind of debating between philosophy and religious studies. 627 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:04,919 Speaker 4: And I met with some of the religious studies teachers 628 00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:06,560 Speaker 4: and they were just like the coolest people to me, 629 00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:09,400 Speaker 4: and I was like, man, they they're they're like they're 630 00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:11,120 Speaker 4: like the first people I met that were just like 631 00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:14,800 Speaker 4: incredibly empathetic. And it's like there's something about studying religion 632 00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:16,160 Speaker 4: that makes you like empathetic to. 633 00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:19,520 Speaker 2: Like everything everyone's beliefs. Yeah, yeah, trying to figure out 634 00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:22,560 Speaker 2: what they're into, what's driving them, that sort of thing. 635 00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:24,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was dope. Man, I did it. 636 00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:26,320 Speaker 4: So the last two years I was that was my major, 637 00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:28,960 Speaker 4: and then I started getting good grades and stuff and 638 00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:30,720 Speaker 4: that was like okay, I like I'm. 639 00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,679 Speaker 2: Here's something I can do or whatever. Yeah, but then 640 00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:35,240 Speaker 2: that led you to LA and you were working at 641 00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:36,080 Speaker 2: the Wax Music. 642 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:39,000 Speaker 4: I remember the interview was like, so I got a 643 00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:41,640 Speaker 4: degree in religious studies. I think it prepares me to 644 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:44,080 Speaker 4: work with these wax figures like real well. 645 00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:45,680 Speaker 3: You know, but they Yeah. 646 00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:48,920 Speaker 4: I was like also doing like music and stuff, and 647 00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:51,800 Speaker 4: I remember I just was like, Oh, I'm gonna go 648 00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:54,560 Speaker 4: to LA And because I was really trying to do this, 649 00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:58,080 Speaker 4: like like back then, I was a rapper, but I 650 00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:02,120 Speaker 4: had started playing guitar. Atlanta was becoming like a very 651 00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:05,240 Speaker 4: hip hop oriented in its city, Yeah, and I was like, 652 00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:08,160 Speaker 4: I bet the LA music scene is different. I just 653 00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:10,040 Speaker 4: wanted to check it out, see how because what I 654 00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:11,960 Speaker 4: was doing was kind of like weird folky, kind of 655 00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:13,800 Speaker 4: like folk music rap thing. 656 00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:14,280 Speaker 2: Sure. 657 00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:15,960 Speaker 3: And then so I came out here. 658 00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:18,200 Speaker 4: I started doing that for like the first year, and 659 00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:21,760 Speaker 4: then I I was getting more. I was people were 660 00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:24,120 Speaker 4: laughing a lot in the show what people were laughing at, 661 00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:26,200 Speaker 4: you know. I think with me, I just realized that 662 00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:28,920 Speaker 4: my banter was a lot funnier than banter should be. 663 00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:32,400 Speaker 4: You know, like most torture, Yeah, a lot of it 664 00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:34,120 Speaker 4: is bad, but you don't see some good artists who 665 00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:36,000 Speaker 4: can kind of do it well. If you can do both, 666 00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:38,760 Speaker 4: you've really yeah, hey dirt. But I think mine was 667 00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:41,200 Speaker 4: like past the point of doing it well. It was like, oh, 668 00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:42,240 Speaker 4: this guy's like a comedian. 669 00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:44,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, why is he playing music in the first Yeah, yeah, 670 00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:46,520 Speaker 2: stopped during that element of the show. 671 00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:48,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, And then yeah, I started getting to comedy, and 672 00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:50,920 Speaker 4: I kind of I never went back to Atlanta. 673 00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:53,240 Speaker 2: I've never asked you this about the wax Museum, But 674 00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 2: did you have a favorite wax figure. It's what they're 675 00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:57,360 Speaker 2: called a wax. 676 00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:58,240 Speaker 3: Man wax figure. 677 00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:01,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, oh yeah, don't ever call him anequan like that offensive. 678 00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:04,480 Speaker 2: I'm going there later this afternoon. I need to see 679 00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:04,920 Speaker 2: the Mannica. 680 00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:07,880 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, man, you gotta heard. 681 00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:11,440 Speaker 4: They'll be so mad, but yeah, they yeah, we call 682 00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:17,760 Speaker 4: wax figures. And I would say my favorite looking one 683 00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:20,400 Speaker 4: was probably Morgan Freeman, just because that was the one 684 00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:22,960 Speaker 4: that looked the most like Morgan from and most like 685 00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:26,960 Speaker 4: the celebrity. There was also this cool display you know, 686 00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:30,360 Speaker 4: you know, this was before woke times, but it was 687 00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:33,160 Speaker 4: like Michael Jackson, like the life of Michael Jackson. 688 00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:33,560 Speaker 2: Wow. 689 00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:34,760 Speaker 3: So it's like Michael Jackson. 690 00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:37,080 Speaker 4: He was like a little kid with the afro and 691 00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:39,400 Speaker 4: then when he was like moonwalking, and then it's like 692 00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:41,600 Speaker 4: later in life, and when you go into room, you 693 00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:43,640 Speaker 4: kind of feel like you could like experience his whole 694 00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:44,320 Speaker 4: career or whatever. 695 00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:46,719 Speaker 3: That was pretty cool. I think it was a cool exhibit. 696 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:48,840 Speaker 2: Sure, I wonder if that still exists. 697 00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:51,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'd be curious to like what happens to the 698 00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:55,480 Speaker 4: wax figures after they candles or something. Well, in general, 699 00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:58,040 Speaker 4: they would like it was just weird in general, just Hollywood. 700 00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:00,720 Speaker 4: They would be like, you know if there was like 701 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:03,840 Speaker 4: like Ryan Seacrest. I remember when I first started working there, 702 00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:07,000 Speaker 4: they had a huge American idol room. Okay, and then 703 00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:09,680 Speaker 4: it is like there was a time where we didn't 704 00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:12,280 Speaker 4: know what to do with the Ryan Seacrest one, just 705 00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:13,920 Speaker 4: because it seemed like it was a time where he 706 00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:14,440 Speaker 4: wasn't It. 707 00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:18,960 Speaker 3: Wasn't like, yeah, it's where to see him move around. 708 00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:21,200 Speaker 4: It's where to see these celebrities move around as their 709 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:23,320 Speaker 4: career towards the US. 710 00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:28,520 Speaker 2: Were there any wax figures that like would cause trouble 711 00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:32,880 Speaker 2: or like like like attract certain amounts of people or 712 00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:35,960 Speaker 2: like anything like let's keep away from the Britney spirit. 713 00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:37,760 Speaker 2: I'm like you know that sort of thing. 714 00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:40,040 Speaker 4: Well, there was like a few problems, but I could 715 00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:43,960 Speaker 4: by the way, I could talk about this all day. 716 00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:45,960 Speaker 3: There was one. 717 00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:51,480 Speaker 4: Well you know if Shrek was a big deal because uh, 718 00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:55,400 Speaker 4: we put him outside a lot and he would melt, 719 00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:58,800 Speaker 4: like his face would melt, but he would attract so 720 00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:01,160 Speaker 4: many kids and stuff, So we we were like, well, 721 00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:02,760 Speaker 4: we got to put them outside. He's bringing people to 722 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:05,360 Speaker 4: the thing, So it would be like this weird like 723 00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:07,480 Speaker 4: game where like okay, I think we got like an 724 00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,280 Speaker 4: hour before Shruk, and it'd be like on the radio, 725 00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:12,400 Speaker 4: were like Shrek Smeltic Show Speltic, go for it, and 726 00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:13,840 Speaker 4: we all like run out and we have to like 727 00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:15,959 Speaker 4: grab him and bring him inside before it's too late. 728 00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:17,720 Speaker 4: And you'll see it on his face. It's like it 729 00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:19,120 Speaker 4: looks like he's crying a little bit. 730 00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:22,720 Speaker 3: It's so it's really upsetting. 731 00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:25,560 Speaker 2: Actually, oh wow, yeah, so it hasn't been repaired. 732 00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:29,000 Speaker 4: No, well, it's really nothing we can do about it. 733 00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:31,240 Speaker 4: It's it's just melting because it's wax. I mean, yeah, 734 00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:33,320 Speaker 4: so it's not it's not really Shrekes fault at all. 735 00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:36,680 Speaker 4: It's more just the nature of wax in the sun. 736 00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:38,600 Speaker 2: Just become the face of depression. 737 00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:39,840 Speaker 3: Yeah. 738 00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:42,600 Speaker 4: But it's really funny because it's just like we're making 739 00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,240 Speaker 4: this choice that we know is wrong. 740 00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:55,880 Speaker 2: You've got a tract there. Well, of course this podcast 741 00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:59,280 Speaker 2: is called I said no gifts, right, so pretty clear 742 00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:01,760 Speaker 2: directive to the I don't want a gift. 743 00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:02,520 Speaker 3: Okay. 744 00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:07,280 Speaker 2: Unfortunately, here you are and you've brought what appears to 745 00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:10,080 Speaker 2: be a gift wrapped in a very cool I was 746 00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:14,040 Speaker 2: talking to somebody on this show recently who was recommending. 747 00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,240 Speaker 2: Was it on the show or was it a dream 748 00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:18,440 Speaker 2: or real life? It doesn't matter. They were telling me 749 00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:24,120 Speaker 2: that the Japanese used textiles to wrap things, right, which 750 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:27,560 Speaker 2: you've done here. Looks like whatever you've brought is wrapped 751 00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:29,240 Speaker 2: in like a handkerchief or something. 752 00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:32,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, I actually speaking of Halloween. Oh wow. It's like 753 00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:33,920 Speaker 3: these worlds are colliding in a way. 754 00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:37,040 Speaker 4: But like I wore this bandana because I was a 755 00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:39,760 Speaker 4: little nause x for Halloween. Oh perfect, And this is 756 00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:42,720 Speaker 4: like a bandana that you know has cows on it. 757 00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:43,280 Speaker 2: Oh wow. 758 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:45,760 Speaker 3: Also think I mean, if you want that, you can 759 00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:46,120 Speaker 3: keep that. 760 00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:49,480 Speaker 2: Well, we're going to fight about it after because it's 761 00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:51,719 Speaker 2: like a genuinely cool bandana. Where did you get it? 762 00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:55,640 Speaker 4: I got it at that cast of Asi dots. Oh 763 00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:58,000 Speaker 4: yeah sure. And so that was like my little cowboy 764 00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:01,560 Speaker 4: handkerchief or around the neck. And I was thinking a bridge, 765 00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:05,400 Speaker 4: I might like this anyway, And but I also I 766 00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:08,200 Speaker 4: do like the I'm a fan of wrapping gifts and 767 00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:10,000 Speaker 4: textiles for sure. 768 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:14,360 Speaker 2: It's smart. Yeah, so I'm now remembering. Yes, it was. 769 00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:16,560 Speaker 2: It was on this podcast that I spoke to Jessica 770 00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:18,840 Speaker 2: Gow and she told me this information. I'm just my 771 00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:21,280 Speaker 2: own mental clarity. That wasn't a dream. 772 00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:24,400 Speaker 4: Oh man, there's a lot of that lately, where I'm like, 773 00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:26,640 Speaker 4: I can't tell if there's a memory that was from 774 00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:27,000 Speaker 4: a dream. 775 00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:30,279 Speaker 2: Oh, it's all just kind of melting together like a watercolor. 776 00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:33,040 Speaker 2: At this point, well, should I open the Yeah? 777 00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:33,840 Speaker 3: I can't wait for you. 778 00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:37,880 Speaker 2: I mean, this could be anything, This could be a Bible, 779 00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:40,879 Speaker 2: this could be who knows, So let's just open it up. 780 00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:43,520 Speaker 3: Yeah. I almost gave you a Bible, but. 781 00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:46,040 Speaker 2: I would have just read from it for the rest 782 00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:49,879 Speaker 2: of the show. Okay, here we go. 783 00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:51,680 Speaker 3: Oh, oh my god. 784 00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:56,239 Speaker 2: Oh it's a it's my favorite author DJ call it 785 00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:59,160 Speaker 2: the Keys. Yeah, that's have you read this? 786 00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:02,279 Speaker 4: I read the first ten pages, not because it's a 787 00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:04,759 Speaker 4: bad book, but because I've realized that everything in there 788 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:06,080 Speaker 4: is like I've heard him say already. 789 00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:08,960 Speaker 2: Oh sure, I feel like we've all heard the general 790 00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:11,400 Speaker 2: philosophy of this man at this point. Right, it's some 791 00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:14,960 Speaker 2: social media platform or song. Yeah, I mean it's The 792 00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:18,759 Speaker 2: cover obviously has a lion holding a beautiful Golden Key. 793 00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:20,840 Speaker 2: This is almost like a lion the witch in the 794 00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:22,160 Speaker 2: wardrobe style. 795 00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:26,160 Speaker 3: That lion is terrible. It's so detailed, it's like it 796 00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:28,000 Speaker 3: really it's going to jump off the book. 797 00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:30,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, this could easily hop on. And then it's also 798 00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:33,480 Speaker 2: within a like a bed of roses, which I don't 799 00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:35,880 Speaker 2: know what that artistic choice was about, but that's fine. 800 00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:39,719 Speaker 2: The back obviously the DJ himself and it says ride 801 00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:42,880 Speaker 2: with me through the journey of more success. Yeah, so 802 00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:44,640 Speaker 2: you said you read like a few pages of those. 803 00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:48,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's it's very I recently got into like self 804 00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:49,560 Speaker 4: help books in general. 805 00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:52,840 Speaker 3: Sure, and I don't know, I don't know why. 806 00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:55,600 Speaker 4: I just was like, I guess in the same way 807 00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:58,480 Speaker 4: when I was studying religion, was it was any sort 808 00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:01,600 Speaker 4: of extension of that because I started really getting it's 809 00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:04,040 Speaker 4: just the fascinating about religion is just like, Okay, you 810 00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:06,560 Speaker 4: have an issue or life issue, and then it's like 811 00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:09,000 Speaker 4: there's these all these different philosophies how to approach it. 812 00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:12,399 Speaker 4: Kind of an extension of that is like, Okay, there's 813 00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:14,839 Speaker 4: all these self help books out and in a way 814 00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:17,640 Speaker 4: they feel cheesy to me. But then as I wanted 815 00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:19,600 Speaker 4: to start looking into them, and see like, well how 816 00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:22,480 Speaker 4: do they this? This ship got to work and in 817 00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:24,879 Speaker 4: some way, and it's like, it's just interesting to see 818 00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:27,480 Speaker 4: how different people approach certain issues in our lives. 819 00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:29,279 Speaker 2: You know, what have you have you read any that 820 00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:31,600 Speaker 2: have been impacted? 821 00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:31,879 Speaker 1: Yeah? 822 00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:35,520 Speaker 4: The Four Agreements is like, oh okay, seems to be 823 00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:37,800 Speaker 4: one that like people could actually count on, right. 824 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:39,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I love it? 825 00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:41,760 Speaker 2: And what what are the four agreements? 826 00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:42,640 Speaker 3: Can you think? 827 00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:47,880 Speaker 4: So it's don't take things personal, okay, be impeccable with 828 00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:48,359 Speaker 4: your word. 829 00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:54,600 Speaker 3: Right, let's see to I can't remember. I'm like blanking. 830 00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:56,319 Speaker 2: Oh wow, this book has done nothing. 831 00:36:57,880 --> 00:36:58,239 Speaker 3: This is. 832 00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:01,520 Speaker 4: Was like, he's going to ask me about it, and 833 00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:06,600 Speaker 4: then I'm gonna just because I like, I clearly haven't 834 00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:08,759 Speaker 4: lived by that the Agreements at all. 835 00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:11,120 Speaker 2: How long has it been since you read it? 836 00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:12,520 Speaker 3: It's been a while, like a year. 837 00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:14,840 Speaker 2: Well, I mean we've just discussed that our memories are going, 838 00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:15,400 Speaker 2: so it's. 839 00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:18,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, I have the worst memory, but I do like 840 00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:21,000 Speaker 4: those for those two Maybe I remember those for a reason. 841 00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:24,000 Speaker 4: But I like being peccable with your word because I 842 00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:26,719 Speaker 4: think it's like forces you to like think about how 843 00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:29,920 Speaker 4: your words affect other people, which is cool. Yeah, And 844 00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:32,600 Speaker 4: then they don't take the I'm always like whin I'm 845 00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:34,719 Speaker 4: in those situations in the restaurant, it's easy to take 846 00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:36,680 Speaker 4: it personal. 847 00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:39,200 Speaker 2: Ain't really gone, Oh no, they're just busy. 848 00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:40,239 Speaker 3: Or like this. 849 00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:43,319 Speaker 4: What time I was at the I was at CVS, 850 00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:46,000 Speaker 4: I think, and I had this question. I was trying 851 00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:49,439 Speaker 4: to find something in there, like uh uh some sort 852 00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,640 Speaker 4: of medicine or whatever. And then I was going to 853 00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:54,200 Speaker 4: ask the lady. She looked I tell you, she looked 854 00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:56,200 Speaker 4: like the sweetest woman in the world. Looked like she's 855 00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:58,680 Speaker 4: having a great time. She just stalking some stuff. And 856 00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:00,200 Speaker 4: then right before I go up to her, this other 857 00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:02,920 Speaker 4: lady kind of walks up and she was like, excuse me, 858 00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:05,560 Speaker 4: I need to talk to you about the uh pressure 859 00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:07,640 Speaker 4: machine in the back. It's been broke for like four 860 00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:10,520 Speaker 4: months and y'all fixed that ship. And then you can 861 00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:13,600 Speaker 4: tell the lady was like like over overwhelmed by this, 862 00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:17,160 Speaker 4: like just really completely taken up guard and uh, you know, 863 00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:19,239 Speaker 4: she dealt with that, and then the lady was like 864 00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:21,680 Speaker 4: I'm out of here, and then like left. I don't 865 00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:23,239 Speaker 4: know if that was good for her blood pressure to 866 00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:27,160 Speaker 4: get into that, but and then I still have my question. 867 00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:29,080 Speaker 3: So then I went up to it. I was like, 868 00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:30,879 Speaker 3: do you know where the uh? I can't. 869 00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:33,040 Speaker 4: I don't know if it was vitamins or something is that. 870 00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:35,680 Speaker 4: She was like, I don't know what's over there. She 871 00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:38,080 Speaker 4: basically like transferred like that. It was just like weirds 872 00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:43,080 Speaker 4: like that distress, horrible entergy. Yeah, so I didn't take 873 00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:44,840 Speaker 4: a persa because I knew that had just happened. But 874 00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:46,760 Speaker 4: if I didn't know that happened to her, I probably 875 00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:47,840 Speaker 4: would have been mad at you. 876 00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:50,560 Speaker 2: You're a mean person. I mean, my question about that 877 00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:52,480 Speaker 2: first lady is she had four months to find a 878 00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:55,440 Speaker 2: blood pressure machine. There are They're in every grocery, Steff, 879 00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:59,240 Speaker 2: but I wanted in this CBS go find another. Also, 880 00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:01,200 Speaker 2: what is happening with that blood pressure? 881 00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:04,160 Speaker 4: I mean, it's a fair, it's a fair critique be 882 00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:06,560 Speaker 4: broken for that long, that's a while. I do like, 883 00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:08,160 Speaker 4: it's not that lady's fault. 884 00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:12,640 Speaker 2: She's stalking shelves. She's not a blood pressure repair man. 885 00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:15,799 Speaker 2: That's a pharmacy problem. 886 00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:18,239 Speaker 3: It would be an amazing job, Like his only job 887 00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:19,399 Speaker 3: is to fixed blood But it's just. 888 00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:22,520 Speaker 2: Like attach more vel crow and make sure the buttons 889 00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:23,040 Speaker 2: are working. 890 00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:25,080 Speaker 3: Okay, here's the other two. Okay. 891 00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:27,840 Speaker 4: So the other two is don't make assumptions, okay, and 892 00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:31,040 Speaker 4: then always do your do your best. That's a real 893 00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:34,920 Speaker 4: why I didn't really throw that one in at the end. 894 00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:39,440 Speaker 3: But I like that book. But the Keys, the Keys Bridge. 895 00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:40,640 Speaker 3: You're gonna like the Keys. 896 00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:42,239 Speaker 2: The Keys, can you? I mean, I'm just going to 897 00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:46,040 Speaker 2: open it and like from this the front cover thing 898 00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:50,200 Speaker 2: it says stay away from they, right. Can you tell 899 00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:51,719 Speaker 2: me what that means at all? Oh? 900 00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:54,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think they is like. 901 00:39:55,760 --> 00:39:58,640 Speaker 4: They, it's probably what it's sort of like a youth 902 00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:02,160 Speaker 4: and I'm sort of a explain it better. But I 903 00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:04,120 Speaker 4: think of it like when people used to say the man, 904 00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:07,240 Speaker 4: like the man is like this idea of like the system. 905 00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:11,760 Speaker 4: So I think they is probably refers to the collective 906 00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:13,640 Speaker 4: of people that don't want to see you succeed. 907 00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:18,880 Speaker 2: Okay, so just like avoid bad I mean like negative groups. 908 00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:24,759 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, So all those people hating on Bridger, Yeah, 909 00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:27,480 Speaker 4: I'm telling you, man, that's day we gotta we gotta stay. 910 00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:30,239 Speaker 2: We're wanting to take me down on every corner of 911 00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:35,200 Speaker 2: the internet. The second key is secure the bag. This 912 00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:37,920 Speaker 2: one's even moral belieque. 913 00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:40,719 Speaker 4: Oh you're gonna look, this is my favorite one. So 914 00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:45,040 Speaker 4: this is like the the bag is like money. It 915 00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:47,920 Speaker 4: refers to like a bag of money. 916 00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:49,239 Speaker 2: With a giant dollar sign on it. 917 00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:53,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, and then and it's always just like make 918 00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:56,120 Speaker 4: sure it's your when you make decisions. 919 00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:58,640 Speaker 3: It's like the bag is secure, I think. 920 00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:01,799 Speaker 2: Okay, so just like basically hold on to or like 921 00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:03,920 Speaker 2: make sure it's gonna happen. 922 00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:06,879 Speaker 4: Make sure you keep it in a safe just make 923 00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:09,960 Speaker 4: sure the bag is not getting away from me. 924 00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:14,680 Speaker 2: The bag. Do not forget the bag. 925 00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:17,480 Speaker 3: That by the way, the bag. I mean, we can have. 926 00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:20,960 Speaker 4: A conversation about slang in general, but like you know, 927 00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:24,880 Speaker 4: they started slang that stays with us, and it's like 928 00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:27,360 Speaker 4: like cool, right. I have to imagine at some point 929 00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:28,840 Speaker 4: that was like a new slang. 930 00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:32,680 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's it's a weirdly it's maintained its level 931 00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:37,080 Speaker 2: of like it's within slang and our language in a 932 00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:39,160 Speaker 2: nice way that doesn't feel old passioned. But it's been 933 00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:41,120 Speaker 2: around for probably a long time to imagine, least like 934 00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:43,759 Speaker 2: a hundred years we've been saying cool, right, right, But 935 00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:46,160 Speaker 2: at some point, you know, yeah, the DJ call out 936 00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:47,680 Speaker 2: of nineteen fifteen, it. 937 00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:48,600 Speaker 3: Was like cool cool. 938 00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:52,200 Speaker 4: You were like, whoa he's. 939 00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:52,239 Speaker 3: Changing everything for it. 940 00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:54,920 Speaker 4: But this the bag is a new slang that I 941 00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,160 Speaker 4: really I'm a big fan of for money. Like, there's 942 00:41:57,200 --> 00:42:00,920 Speaker 4: been a lot of money's terms like cream or I 943 00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:04,480 Speaker 4: guess lest oh sure, blain blank. I don't know, like 944 00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:06,960 Speaker 4: a lot of stuff like that, but the bags is 945 00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:08,719 Speaker 4: kinda I kind of like that one. I hope that 946 00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:11,440 Speaker 4: one stays around. I like the idea of like referring 947 00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:12,279 Speaker 4: to money as like. 948 00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:14,759 Speaker 2: That's the bag. Yeah, that's nice, and it doesn't feel 949 00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:18,520 Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, I am fully outside of pop 950 00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:21,040 Speaker 2: culture and society at this point, but I don't feel 951 00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:22,919 Speaker 2: like I've heard the bag that often. It's not one 952 00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:27,319 Speaker 2: that's like again, I can't think of an example because 953 00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:31,759 Speaker 2: I'm not cool, but there are certain slang terms that 954 00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:36,680 Speaker 2: like annoying people have won't pick up on and ruin immediately. 955 00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:37,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. 956 00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:41,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, moving to the next key, respect the code. 957 00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:42,920 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I don't know that one. 958 00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:47,520 Speaker 2: I feel like that one probably means on some level, 959 00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:51,719 Speaker 2: there's some level of rules that we've all got a respect. 960 00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:56,640 Speaker 2: Right Again, that doesn't mean anything, but I'm on my 961 00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:58,080 Speaker 2: way to writing my own book. 962 00:42:58,239 --> 00:43:02,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, I wonder if it's like, uh, the code, it's 963 00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:03,560 Speaker 4: different depending on who. 964 00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:05,480 Speaker 3: Everyone has their own code. 965 00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:07,920 Speaker 4: Or maybe and it just got to stick to your 966 00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:10,520 Speaker 4: respect their code, that sort of thing. 967 00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:11,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, something like that. 968 00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:13,799 Speaker 2: I mean, who knows. It's hard to say. But I 969 00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:15,319 Speaker 2: also think that you kind of do your own thing 970 00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:17,120 Speaker 2: with self help books. You just take what you need 971 00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:18,480 Speaker 2: and apply it to your life. 972 00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:18,719 Speaker 1: Yeah. 973 00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:19,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. 974 00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:21,480 Speaker 2: The next one is a little clearer. Believe in the hustle. 975 00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:24,240 Speaker 2: I think we can figure out what that means. Yeah, 976 00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:26,840 Speaker 2: that's a good one. You know, you're just the hustle 977 00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:30,840 Speaker 2: is something you got to do right, right, and hope 978 00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:32,600 Speaker 2: you've got to believe that it's going to have some 979 00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:33,360 Speaker 2: sort of results. 980 00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:36,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, or like the hustle with purpose. This final one, 981 00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:37,879 Speaker 3: there's so many. 982 00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:40,960 Speaker 2: I don't really as far as I know, the final 983 00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:44,479 Speaker 2: final one is win, win, win, no matter what which 984 00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:47,759 Speaker 2: I have I have, I feel like is a complicated 985 00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:51,880 Speaker 2: thing because no matter what encompasses a lot of things. 986 00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:55,560 Speaker 2: That feels like you could get into some dangerous territory. Yeah, 987 00:43:55,640 --> 00:44:00,239 Speaker 2: maybe win win win, uh, like in a reasonable way, Yeah, 988 00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:02,919 Speaker 2: without like causing harm. Yeah, I don't. 989 00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:05,239 Speaker 4: Yeah, the idea of like no matter what, it's like, 990 00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:08,080 Speaker 4: you know, you don't want to win at all, costs 991 00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:10,359 Speaker 4: because I think that would hurt you know, the other thing. 992 00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:13,200 Speaker 4: Eventually you're going to lose is which is uh which 993 00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:17,000 Speaker 4: was respected right yeah, and uh secure the bag. 994 00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:21,040 Speaker 2: I feel like, yeah, you may lose lose hold of 995 00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:24,960 Speaker 2: the bag if you're getting crazy right right, desperation to win, 996 00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:25,480 Speaker 2: win win. 997 00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:26,799 Speaker 3: Yeah. 998 00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:28,600 Speaker 4: But it is like, let me actually this because I 999 00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:31,600 Speaker 4: always as an artist, I feel like as an artist, 1000 00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:36,040 Speaker 4: I'm like incredibly like not that competitive. 1001 00:44:36,239 --> 00:44:39,480 Speaker 3: Okay, So like there is like a you ever meet, like. 1002 00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:41,920 Speaker 4: Those kind of writers are like just like people in 1003 00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:44,560 Speaker 4: again in the industry, and they really wanted to win. 1004 00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:45,319 Speaker 3: Oh yeah. 1005 00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:47,640 Speaker 4: It's like there's part of me that like envies that 1006 00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:49,799 Speaker 4: a little bit because sometimes it does work out for them. 1007 00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:51,680 Speaker 4: Where're like, I'm just trying to be I'm just trying 1008 00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:53,440 Speaker 4: to be on the top. I'm trying to win to Oscar, 1009 00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:56,880 Speaker 4: I'm trying to do everything. But I'm more I always 1010 00:44:56,880 --> 00:45:00,440 Speaker 4: feel more communic, community ish with it, like let's just 1011 00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:02,840 Speaker 4: all make cool stuff to go. Oh yeah, sometimes I 1012 00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:04,080 Speaker 4: feel like it was works for now. 1013 00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:08,719 Speaker 2: The to have like even an ounce of ambition I 1014 00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:11,480 Speaker 2: think would be nice sometimes where I'm like I'm just 1015 00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:15,920 Speaker 2: kind of happy to kind of get run over. Yeah, 1016 00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:18,840 Speaker 2: and then there are plenty of people within and I 1017 00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:24,120 Speaker 2: imagine this is within any industry, but within entertainment there 1018 00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:28,719 Speaker 2: are people who take it ambition and winning to psychotic 1019 00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:33,040 Speaker 2: levels where I could probably make a list of twenty 1020 00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:35,279 Speaker 2: five people in my life currently that I'm like, Oh, yeah, 1021 00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:38,759 Speaker 2: you would probably like send me to die to get 1022 00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:39,600 Speaker 2: a writing. 1023 00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:42,319 Speaker 4: Job, or yeah, yeah that's that no matter what. Yeah, 1024 00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:45,359 Speaker 4: I like yeah when no matter what. 1025 00:45:45,680 --> 00:45:49,000 Speaker 2: No no, happy to win on occasion. 1026 00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:51,520 Speaker 4: I do like the song, like I like the feeling 1027 00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:54,040 Speaker 4: it gives me. But wait, is this a song that yeah, 1028 00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:56,040 Speaker 4: it goes when when no matter what? 1029 00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:56,879 Speaker 3: Remember that song? 1030 00:45:57,760 --> 00:46:00,839 Speaker 2: As I pointed out, I don't know anything out any 1031 00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:06,320 Speaker 2: type of popular guest on a DJ. 1032 00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:11,279 Speaker 3: Track, But so that was I don't know, what do 1033 00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:12,399 Speaker 3: you think? Is that a good gift? 1034 00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:14,200 Speaker 2: I think this is a great gift. I mean, this 1035 00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:17,480 Speaker 2: is an interesting I think I'd like to hear your 1036 00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:21,600 Speaker 2: thoughts on this. I'm somebody who left a religion that 1037 00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:24,760 Speaker 2: told me like, this is the exact way you're supposed 1038 00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:26,560 Speaker 2: to lead your life and all this stuff. If you 1039 00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:29,400 Speaker 2: stop being in this, everything's going to fall apart for you. 1040 00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:32,600 Speaker 2: So when I made the step to leave it. It 1041 00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:35,680 Speaker 2: was like, oh, so what is leading a good life? 1042 00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:36,200 Speaker 3: Right? 1043 00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:38,520 Speaker 2: And so it was like coming up with my own 1044 00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:41,480 Speaker 2: personal code, which basically I like laid down to like 1045 00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:47,640 Speaker 2: be nice to people, mind your own business, and like 1046 00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:52,520 Speaker 2: like I'll be honest and work as hard as you can. So, like, 1047 00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:54,920 Speaker 2: did you like coming out of being a Jehovah's Witness? 1048 00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:57,360 Speaker 2: Was there any like level of uncertainty where You're like, oh, no, 1049 00:46:57,360 --> 00:46:58,680 Speaker 2: my life's going to be out of control and I'm 1050 00:46:58,680 --> 00:46:59,839 Speaker 2: going to be doing meth within a week. 1051 00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:03,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely. I was like very lost for a while. 1052 00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:07,680 Speaker 4: I was, but I was I was also very It 1053 00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:10,560 Speaker 4: was it was happening simultaneously where I was discovering all 1054 00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:13,359 Speaker 4: these new religions. So I definitely like jumped into like 1055 00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:16,240 Speaker 4: a phase of like like a real white girl hippie 1056 00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:18,360 Speaker 4: phase where I was just like jumping into like every 1057 00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:21,400 Speaker 4: religion possible I was trying. I was like going to mosque, 1058 00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:23,000 Speaker 4: I was going to like the wildest tip I was 1059 00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:26,640 Speaker 4: going to like I tried behide for a while, and 1060 00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:30,640 Speaker 4: that was fun in terms of just realizing that all 1061 00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:33,520 Speaker 4: religious were the same in some way in terms of 1062 00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:36,440 Speaker 4: the structure of it, like as cool as it, they 1063 00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:38,560 Speaker 4: all seem really interesting and cool at first, like it's 1064 00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:40,400 Speaker 4: so different from how I grew up, and then somehow 1065 00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:43,440 Speaker 4: they still turn into like the same structural religion that 1066 00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:46,400 Speaker 4: you were believing. But that being said, I mean I 1067 00:47:46,600 --> 00:47:50,560 Speaker 4: was I kind of empathy, I kind of found a 1068 00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:52,440 Speaker 4: love for like all of it. Yeah, at the end 1069 00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:54,600 Speaker 4: of the day, and I'm like, I, you know, I 1070 00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:57,440 Speaker 4: still believe in certain things, like specific things, but I 1071 00:47:57,480 --> 00:48:01,240 Speaker 4: think in general I would be comfortable almost any religion, 1072 00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:03,120 Speaker 4: maybe with the exception of scientology. 1073 00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:08,880 Speaker 2: Sure, this podcast is quickly becoming a real enemy of scientology. 1074 00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:13,759 Speaker 2: Almost every episode we've got something Oh yeah, folks. 1075 00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:14,600 Speaker 3: Yeah that way. 1076 00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:16,440 Speaker 4: I mean even now when I still kind of like, 1077 00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:19,840 Speaker 4: what's going on? What are you guys doing on Sunday? 1078 00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:24,120 Speaker 4: So but to your point of just like it is 1079 00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:27,160 Speaker 4: very confusing because even though I mean, tell me you 1080 00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:29,719 Speaker 4: feel this way, Like even though I'm like, oh man, 1081 00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:32,000 Speaker 4: I feel super enlightened. I've been studying all these different 1082 00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:35,240 Speaker 4: philosophies and stuff, They're just the whold of the Joe's 1083 00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:37,239 Speaker 4: witn is on me is so strong just because I 1084 00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:40,400 Speaker 4: was born into it, and I'm always going to feel 1085 00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:43,439 Speaker 4: like guilty, like I like bailed on something. 1086 00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:46,920 Speaker 2: Oh totally even recording a podcast. I'm like, his mom 1087 00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:48,239 Speaker 2: going to hear this, and then I'm like, oh, no, 1088 00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:51,520 Speaker 2: mom voted for Donald Trump and we have evidently we 1089 00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:54,120 Speaker 2: have audio of him saying he's sexually assaulted people. So 1090 00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:55,279 Speaker 2: maybe it's not a big deal. 1091 00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:57,480 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, but it is like it is like a 1092 00:48:57,520 --> 00:49:00,600 Speaker 4: weird thing where you kind of like I always have this, 1093 00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:04,440 Speaker 4: I have I definitely should go to therapy about this 1094 00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:07,680 Speaker 4: because I have like they when you're born into it. 1095 00:49:07,719 --> 00:49:09,840 Speaker 4: Because the Josmenes believe the world end of the world 1096 00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:10,600 Speaker 4: is coming, and. 1097 00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:13,520 Speaker 2: They also believe like only one hundred thousand people get 1098 00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:14,319 Speaker 2: to go to heaven or something. 1099 00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:17,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's not such a bad thing just 1100 00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:22,040 Speaker 4: because they It's like I think those people are like 1101 00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:24,200 Speaker 4: the people who are like they're not doing nothing. 1102 00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:27,480 Speaker 3: They're not they're not having sex, or they're they're like and. 1103 00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:30,560 Speaker 2: It really takes the edge off of everybody else. It's like, well, yeah, yeah, 1104 00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:32,160 Speaker 2: we're not getting that ticket, so. 1105 00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:32,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, we're good. 1106 00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:36,000 Speaker 4: They believe that we'll be on Earth it'll be like 1107 00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:38,960 Speaker 4: a paradise, which is I think just as nice. Yeah, 1108 00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:42,640 Speaker 4: and it's it's like it's like vip and in the club, 1109 00:49:42,680 --> 00:49:45,759 Speaker 4: but the club is still nice. And then but for 1110 00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:49,000 Speaker 4: me it was like, Okay, I always feel like the 1111 00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:52,160 Speaker 4: end of the world is happening all the time, and 1112 00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:54,239 Speaker 4: it's sort of creating like I'm sorting. I feel like 1113 00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:58,200 Speaker 4: I get I'm having catastrophic brain where anytime anything happens, 1114 00:49:58,239 --> 00:49:59,800 Speaker 4: I feel like it's them. 1115 00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,000 Speaker 2: This is the thing that I was taught to be 1116 00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:03,000 Speaker 2: afraid of, and. 1117 00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:05,520 Speaker 4: Now I've yeah, yeah, and it's like happy, especially now 1118 00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:07,640 Speaker 4: where it seems like everything that's happened it feels like 1119 00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:08,359 Speaker 4: the end of the world. 1120 00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:11,359 Speaker 2: Oh wow, it's just piling on top of each other 1121 00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:12,560 Speaker 2: every single days. 1122 00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:16,600 Speaker 4: But I don't know, I think like I'm like, honestly, 1123 00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:18,840 Speaker 4: my main principal part of that, guys, me is probably 1124 00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:23,239 Speaker 4: like just the empathy thing, where as long as I'm 1125 00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:28,560 Speaker 4: like everybody, everything that's happening to somebody, if I can see, 1126 00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:32,040 Speaker 4: if I could see myself that in that person, then 1127 00:50:32,120 --> 00:50:35,040 Speaker 4: I feel like I'm at least doing some good in 1128 00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:38,120 Speaker 4: terms of like making sure that I'm not in my 1129 00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:41,479 Speaker 4: own ego about like how things should be. I really 1130 00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:47,640 Speaker 4: feel like my whole the last few years, like the 1131 00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:50,080 Speaker 4: way that I've been sort of like being okay with 1132 00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:53,480 Speaker 4: like being outside of religion. It's just like being hopefully 1133 00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:57,960 Speaker 4: working on being empathetic to everything, like everything, not. 1134 00:50:57,960 --> 00:50:59,160 Speaker 3: Having a judgment on anything. 1135 00:50:59,160 --> 00:51:01,879 Speaker 2: Almost it's a very simple cheat I think, like yeah, 1136 00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:03,399 Speaker 2: I mean it takes a minute to realize, but it's 1137 00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:05,600 Speaker 2: just like, oh, yeah, this makes everything easier. Just like 1138 00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:08,600 Speaker 2: think about what that person's going yeah, yeah, and then 1139 00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:11,960 Speaker 2: I yeah breaks it down. I mean, just like the 1140 00:51:12,040 --> 00:51:14,640 Speaker 2: idea of just being nice to everyone to start with, 1141 00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:16,040 Speaker 2: that makes things so much easier. 1142 00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:16,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1143 00:51:16,880 --> 00:51:19,560 Speaker 2: Minding your own business, I think is like for me, 1144 00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:21,960 Speaker 2: like coming from a religion where no one minds their 1145 00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:24,400 Speaker 2: own business, It's like, oh yeah, this is definitely this 1146 00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:28,719 Speaker 2: should be something everybody's talking about. It's like, just do 1147 00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:29,399 Speaker 2: your own thing. 1148 00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:30,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, totally. 1149 00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:35,200 Speaker 2: But yeah, I don't know, I get where you're coming 1150 00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:38,399 Speaker 2: from with the like religion still hanging around your mind. 1151 00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:42,320 Speaker 2: I mean I was out of Mormonism for ten years 1152 00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:44,800 Speaker 2: before I felt comfortable even coming out to my friends 1153 00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:47,040 Speaker 2: or it's like it's insane, right, really, it gets a 1154 00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:47,560 Speaker 2: hold on you. 1155 00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:50,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's and I think that's the ampty thing where 1156 00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:54,279 Speaker 4: it's like it's like okay, like somebody might be thinking like, well, 1157 00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:56,840 Speaker 4: what's the big deal, you know, and it's like that understanding, 1158 00:51:56,880 --> 00:51:58,279 Speaker 4: like well, what would it mean for someone in this 1159 00:51:58,360 --> 00:52:02,600 Speaker 4: situation growing up like this for that person? And like that, 1160 00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:06,200 Speaker 4: Like I was watching what was it Aaron Hernandez documentary? 1161 00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:08,359 Speaker 3: Oh I haven't watched it, Yeah, you got it. It's 1162 00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:08,920 Speaker 3: so crazy. 1163 00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:11,759 Speaker 4: But just like it's just all these everyone's in a 1164 00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:14,000 Speaker 4: different everyone's in a different environment. 1165 00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:16,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, and like it sometimes are here. 1166 00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:19,360 Speaker 4: I'll put it in a simple, lighter context where like 1167 00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:22,719 Speaker 4: I feel like, uh, people people get mad at me 1168 00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:24,000 Speaker 4: because I don't text them back a lot. 1169 00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:29,520 Speaker 2: I will say that your ability to communicate electronically is 1170 00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:31,640 Speaker 2: like fifty fifty hit right. 1171 00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:33,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like you never know. 1172 00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:36,000 Speaker 4: But what happens is, I like the people who are 1173 00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:38,680 Speaker 4: the most upset about it are people who, when I 1174 00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:41,080 Speaker 4: hang out with them, are on their phone all the time. No, 1175 00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:45,440 Speaker 4: I'm if I'm like with you and you're on your 1176 00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:48,440 Speaker 4: phone the whole time, if someone texts you, you're gonna 1177 00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:49,800 Speaker 4: you get text right right away. 1178 00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:52,160 Speaker 3: But I'm using that on my phone like that. 1179 00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:54,719 Speaker 4: But I think what happens is the person who's like 1180 00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:57,000 Speaker 4: that is like, well, I'm texting back all the time, 1181 00:52:57,080 --> 00:53:00,359 Speaker 4: So why why is doing how I do it? And 1182 00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:04,040 Speaker 4: that to me is a lack of empathy, just. 1183 00:53:03,960 --> 00:53:05,840 Speaker 2: Looking for a way out for being a lacy. 1184 00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:08,959 Speaker 3: I feel like, you know, I empathize any better. 1185 00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:12,440 Speaker 2: Today I looked at a text early in the morning, 1186 00:53:12,480 --> 00:53:15,040 Speaker 2: wasn't ready to respond to it, so I email emailed 1187 00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:18,720 Speaker 2: myself respond to that text. I'm right, but I'm trying better. 1188 00:53:18,800 --> 00:53:19,719 Speaker 2: I'm trying to be better. 1189 00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:21,239 Speaker 3: I am working on it. 1190 00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:23,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's difficult. It is difficult, and also it would 1191 00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:25,080 Speaker 2: be nice if we just didn't have to do it 1192 00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:25,440 Speaker 2: at all. 1193 00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:27,839 Speaker 4: If you know what it feels like to me, it 1194 00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:30,399 Speaker 4: feels like someone like it feels like I was having 1195 00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:32,760 Speaker 4: a if I'm having it, like I'm having a conversation 1196 00:53:32,840 --> 00:53:35,000 Speaker 4: with someone, and then I say, I'm having a conversation 1197 00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:37,040 Speaker 4: with you, and then like and then like Steven the 1198 00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:40,279 Speaker 4: engineers like he's like lamar lamar, lamar, lamar lamar, and 1199 00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:42,360 Speaker 4: it's like, that's what's happening in my phone, And I 1200 00:53:42,400 --> 00:53:45,560 Speaker 4: was like, I can't focus. Maybe I just can't do 1201 00:53:45,640 --> 00:53:47,600 Speaker 4: two things at once. I don't know. 1202 00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:50,200 Speaker 2: Steven started just badgering. 1203 00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:52,960 Speaker 3: Answer, can you are you gonna meet me later? You 1204 00:53:53,040 --> 00:53:54,399 Speaker 3: meet me later. Are you going to meet me later? 1205 00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:57,600 Speaker 4: I'm over here, look at me please, and I'm like, Bridge, 1206 00:53:57,640 --> 00:53:59,719 Speaker 4: hold a second, I need to talk to Steve. Steve 1207 00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:02,520 Speaker 4: and you got to leave the answer. I'm like, well, yeah, 1208 00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:04,239 Speaker 4: what do you think ten o'clock? And then he's like 1209 00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:07,200 Speaker 4: does a respond? It just turns away from it, and 1210 00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:10,240 Speaker 4: I'm like, now now we got to wait for his answer. 1211 00:54:11,239 --> 00:54:11,799 Speaker 3: I hate it. 1212 00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:15,919 Speaker 2: I hate my phone to throw it into the ocean, 1213 00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:17,640 Speaker 2: which would be the best feeling in the world. It's 1214 00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:25,839 Speaker 2: all I want that would be trapped there. If there's 1215 00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:28,000 Speaker 2: one man who's going to never tell you to throw 1216 00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:29,840 Speaker 2: your phone in the ocean at STJ cal it, I 1217 00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:32,480 Speaker 2: feel like he wants everybody on a phone at all times. 1218 00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:38,160 Speaker 2: The man is an Instagram king. Yeah, that's like, that's 1219 00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:41,200 Speaker 2: of course. I think we've gone to the part of 1220 00:54:41,239 --> 00:54:42,719 Speaker 2: the podcast where we're going to play a game. 1221 00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:43,839 Speaker 3: Oh sweet, I. 1222 00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:48,080 Speaker 2: Think we're going to play a game called gift Master. 1223 00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:48,840 Speaker 3: Okay. 1224 00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:51,759 Speaker 2: Gift Master Basically what happens is, I'm going to name 1225 00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:57,960 Speaker 2: three gifts, potential gifts, and three famous people, and you're 1226 00:54:58,000 --> 00:55:02,080 Speaker 2: going to tell me which gift go to which famous person? Okay, 1227 00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:04,160 Speaker 2: and why why you would give them that though. 1228 00:55:04,040 --> 00:55:06,279 Speaker 3: So it's what I would do, not what someone else 1229 00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:06,600 Speaker 3: would do. 1230 00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:09,680 Speaker 2: But no, it's like I get if you just had 1231 00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:13,640 Speaker 2: three items and it was three celebrities birthdays, it's time 1232 00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:16,200 Speaker 2: to give them each one of these items. I need 1233 00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:20,279 Speaker 2: a number between one and ten four Okay while I 1234 00:55:20,600 --> 00:55:25,560 Speaker 2: calculate this, Okay, I want you to promote yourself, promote 1235 00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:28,160 Speaker 2: something that you want to do you, I mean, the 1236 00:55:28,160 --> 00:55:30,399 Speaker 2: amount of time you have is who knows, because when 1237 00:55:30,440 --> 00:55:34,800 Speaker 2: I'm calculating a show in any direction, so you go. 1238 00:55:35,239 --> 00:55:38,719 Speaker 4: Allright, Hey guys, So my name is Lamar. I have 1239 00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:42,080 Speaker 4: a movie that's out called It's a Party on Showtime. 1240 00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:43,879 Speaker 4: I would love for you all to watch that. It's 1241 00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:49,200 Speaker 4: starring really funny people, if people like Tone Bell, Tony Baker, 1242 00:55:49,719 --> 00:55:55,600 Speaker 4: Ego Wodhom Kirby, Howe Baptiste. It's an ensemble cast of hilariousness, 1243 00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:57,560 Speaker 4: and I would love you to watch that. If you 1244 00:55:57,600 --> 00:56:00,759 Speaker 4: don't have Showtime, you can watch it on it Amazon 1245 00:56:01,160 --> 00:56:01,920 Speaker 4: or Google Play. 1246 00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:03,400 Speaker 3: What else? 1247 00:56:03,560 --> 00:56:09,120 Speaker 4: I also really want you guys to check out White Women. 1248 00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:14,720 Speaker 4: We are improv group and we perform every second Friday 1249 00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:16,560 Speaker 4: of every month, and we have like a celebrity guest 1250 00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:17,839 Speaker 4: last week. 1251 00:56:17,920 --> 00:56:23,560 Speaker 3: Last month we had Ali grand grand Door. 1252 00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:25,400 Speaker 4: I think I'm saying his last name right, which is 1253 00:56:25,719 --> 00:56:27,439 Speaker 4: the funniest improvisor ever seen. 1254 00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:28,040 Speaker 3: It was great. 1255 00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:29,920 Speaker 4: It was such a fun show. It was awesome. So 1256 00:56:30,040 --> 00:56:31,960 Speaker 4: next one is on Valentine's Day. I don't know when 1257 00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:36,640 Speaker 4: it's coming out, but too lately. Oh my god, it's 1258 00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:38,160 Speaker 4: like every time that happened, it is like I feel 1259 00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:39,360 Speaker 4: like I'm in a time warp. 1260 00:56:39,760 --> 00:56:42,200 Speaker 2: But I will say, you can buy your movie at 1261 00:56:42,239 --> 00:56:46,160 Speaker 2: any point on various services, and everyone should do that. 1262 00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:49,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, that is if you really want to support me, 1263 00:56:49,480 --> 00:56:50,520 Speaker 4: that's how you would do it. 1264 00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:54,760 Speaker 2: Lamar Co wrote this movie, The Accident. It's an incredible cast. 1265 00:56:55,080 --> 00:56:55,799 Speaker 2: Go find it. 1266 00:56:56,040 --> 00:56:58,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's funny too, and it's easy to watch. 1267 00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:00,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, there you go. That's all anybody needs right now. 1268 00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:04,160 Speaker 2: But that doesn't matter because the game is about to begin. 1269 00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:09,520 Speaker 2: Lamar The three gifts that you are going to be 1270 00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:13,680 Speaker 2: presented with here are a tanning bed okay, a Nintendo 1271 00:57:13,719 --> 00:57:16,280 Speaker 2: game Cube, and an out of control bird. 1272 00:57:16,640 --> 00:57:18,400 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, what kind of bird? 1273 00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:18,520 Speaker 1: Though? 1274 00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:19,640 Speaker 3: They're just out of control. 1275 00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:21,880 Speaker 2: That's up to you. It's out of control. So it's 1276 00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:26,000 Speaker 2: just something that is wild, all right, The three people 1277 00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:29,120 Speaker 2: you are going to be tasked to give these gifts 1278 00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:34,080 Speaker 2: to are Jamie Lee Curtis, Okay, Busy Phillips, and will 1279 00:57:34,160 --> 00:57:39,120 Speaker 2: I am Famously of the Black Eyed Peas and a 1280 00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:43,600 Speaker 2: million commercials. Yeah, and just kind of being will I 1281 00:57:43,680 --> 00:57:44,480 Speaker 2: am okay cool? 1282 00:57:45,040 --> 00:57:45,439 Speaker 3: All right? 1283 00:57:45,560 --> 00:57:50,080 Speaker 4: So I would give the out of control bird to 1284 00:57:50,800 --> 00:57:51,600 Speaker 4: Jamie Lee Curtis. 1285 00:57:51,680 --> 00:57:53,800 Speaker 3: I feel like I've met her before. I feel like 1286 00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:54,400 Speaker 3: she would like that. 1287 00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:56,480 Speaker 2: Did she just give it like an out of control 1288 00:57:56,920 --> 00:57:58,040 Speaker 2: bird vibe? 1289 00:57:58,200 --> 00:58:00,400 Speaker 4: She looked like she can control an al control word. 1290 00:58:01,360 --> 00:58:03,760 Speaker 4: She was like, I feel like there's nothing she can't handle. 1291 00:58:03,800 --> 00:58:07,320 Speaker 2: She's taken down. Michael Myers, Yeah, kind of seen it all. 1292 00:58:07,600 --> 00:58:09,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think she and I think she would like it. 1293 00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:12,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. I feel like I could see her with an 1294 00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:14,040 Speaker 2: out of control bird in her house and she's like 1295 00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:15,160 Speaker 2: a bat. 1296 00:58:15,640 --> 00:58:18,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, is like a baseball. 1297 00:58:18,840 --> 00:58:22,120 Speaker 2: Batch's going after it with am I saying that Jamie 1298 00:58:22,360 --> 00:58:23,919 Speaker 2: Curtis is going to kill a bird? I don't think. 1299 00:58:23,960 --> 00:58:28,000 Speaker 2: So let's take it back a note. Maybe she like, uh, 1300 00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:31,000 Speaker 2: she's going to get a pilot bird seed and call 1301 00:58:31,080 --> 00:58:32,160 Speaker 2: it down or something right. 1302 00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:35,640 Speaker 4: Or she like will make some sort of fun game 1303 00:58:35,720 --> 00:58:38,320 Speaker 4: with it, you know, like figuring out a way to 1304 00:58:38,360 --> 00:58:42,800 Speaker 4: like use its nature antrol nature to like benefit her day. 1305 00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:45,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, where did you meet Jamie, like Curtis, we did. 1306 00:58:45,880 --> 00:58:46,320 Speaker 3: I'm here. 1307 00:58:47,280 --> 00:58:51,400 Speaker 4: I think it was a Walmart, No, it was it 1308 00:58:51,520 --> 00:58:53,160 Speaker 4: was I think it was at working for a new girl. 1309 00:58:53,520 --> 00:58:56,400 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, she was. She was dope. She's awesome. 1310 00:58:56,400 --> 00:58:58,160 Speaker 2: I can see her with an out of control bird. 1311 00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:01,000 Speaker 2: I think I feel like her husband, Christopher Guest would 1312 00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:02,600 Speaker 2: be upset hee. 1313 00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:05,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's fine, that's fun. 1314 00:59:07,800 --> 00:59:09,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're probably looking for something, you know. 1315 00:59:09,920 --> 00:59:11,240 Speaker 3: I feel like you need something like that. 1316 00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:13,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's out of control bird. 1317 00:59:13,800 --> 00:59:14,200 Speaker 3: Okay. 1318 00:59:14,600 --> 00:59:16,600 Speaker 4: Well this is tough because now I got this tanning bed, 1319 00:59:16,680 --> 00:59:18,440 Speaker 4: and I don't want to give it to Billy Phillips 1320 00:59:18,560 --> 00:59:20,080 Speaker 4: Busy Phillips, because I feel like. 1321 00:59:20,040 --> 00:59:23,040 Speaker 3: She probably has one or you know, a story of. 1322 00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:25,720 Speaker 2: Doing getting a spray tan She's going to the branch. 1323 00:59:26,080 --> 00:59:28,720 Speaker 3: But I don't really want to give a will I 1324 00:59:28,880 --> 00:59:29,200 Speaker 3: end up? 1325 00:59:30,280 --> 00:59:37,400 Speaker 4: That feels like a problem, boy, have damn it. Well, 1326 00:59:38,240 --> 00:59:41,720 Speaker 4: I guess I'll give her Busy Phillips to tann and 1327 00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:44,400 Speaker 4: bed because I feel like she would use it. 1328 00:59:44,360 --> 00:59:45,200 Speaker 3: More than will I am. 1329 00:59:45,320 --> 00:59:48,280 Speaker 4: Okay, but I would also give it to her a 1330 00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:51,360 Speaker 4: caveat of saying if you want to return it, because 1331 00:59:51,400 --> 00:59:55,080 Speaker 4: I'm sure you don't want to, Like that's something that's 1332 00:59:55,320 --> 00:59:56,280 Speaker 4: just not my expertise. 1333 00:59:56,520 --> 00:59:59,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, and kind of a I mean a dangerous tool. 1334 00:59:59,680 --> 01:00:01,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a little healthy, right. 1335 01:00:01,720 --> 01:00:03,840 Speaker 2: How bad that is for you? Are we supposed to 1336 01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:05,200 Speaker 2: be Yeah, we're not supposed to be doing it. You're 1337 01:00:05,200 --> 01:00:08,320 Speaker 2: not ever supposed to. I mean you're just basically radiating 1338 01:00:08,320 --> 01:00:12,360 Speaker 2: yourself for like half an hour. But Jesus, they continue 1339 01:00:12,400 --> 01:00:14,600 Speaker 2: to exist. People want to be tan and I guess 1340 01:00:14,600 --> 01:00:15,040 Speaker 2: that's the. 1341 01:00:15,400 --> 01:00:16,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's there. 1342 01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:18,400 Speaker 4: Every time I think of tanner Man, I associated with 1343 01:00:18,480 --> 01:00:22,480 Speaker 4: like someone like getting murdered, like like basically like being trapped. 1344 01:00:22,520 --> 01:00:25,200 Speaker 2: Oh totally. Yeah, it's like a scary the light coming 1345 01:00:25,240 --> 01:00:27,520 Speaker 2: out of it. Yeah, it's naked in the air and 1346 01:00:27,560 --> 01:00:31,600 Speaker 2: it's a dangerous situation. So he's going to get a 1347 01:00:31,680 --> 01:00:33,440 Speaker 2: Nintendo GameCube. 1348 01:00:33,360 --> 01:00:35,560 Speaker 4: Okay, So yeah, so he'll get the game. So will 1349 01:00:35,600 --> 01:00:36,720 Speaker 4: I Am gets the game cube? 1350 01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:40,480 Speaker 2: Okay? He feels, you know, like that era two thousand 1351 01:00:40,480 --> 01:00:43,160 Speaker 2: and two. Yeah, you know, like I feel like you're 1352 01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:46,320 Speaker 2: basically giving a Nintendo GameCube to a Nintendo GameCube in the. 1353 01:00:46,320 --> 01:00:50,360 Speaker 3: Situation like this is how I would I think of you. 1354 01:00:50,800 --> 01:00:54,439 Speaker 3: I feel you're right. I feel like I won't say that. 1355 01:00:54,880 --> 01:00:56,760 Speaker 4: I'm going to say they both represent the same thing 1356 01:00:57,040 --> 01:00:59,240 Speaker 4: in a way, but in a good way, because will 1357 01:00:59,240 --> 01:01:04,000 Speaker 4: I have like possess that Jenni I remember the existence 1358 01:01:04,040 --> 01:01:05,800 Speaker 4: of him and sing that generation. 1359 01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:08,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I can Yeah, I can see him holding 1360 01:01:08,680 --> 01:01:10,880 Speaker 2: that little Nintendo GameCube. I mean I could also see 1361 01:01:10,920 --> 01:01:12,840 Speaker 2: him using a tanning bed and like turning it into 1362 01:01:12,880 --> 01:01:18,320 Speaker 2: some sort of bad fashion item or some sort of 1363 01:01:18,400 --> 01:01:21,439 Speaker 2: mess like that. But he could also give it to fergy. 1364 01:01:21,280 --> 01:01:23,280 Speaker 3: Re gift right, or he could have it in his 1365 01:01:23,360 --> 01:01:24,120 Speaker 3: house for guests. 1366 01:01:24,320 --> 01:01:26,680 Speaker 2: Oh that's true. Go into the guest bedroom and there's 1367 01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:29,120 Speaker 2: a tanning bed. Yeah. I think that's a confusing situation. 1368 01:01:30,240 --> 01:01:31,640 Speaker 4: I would be weird enough if I went to stay 1369 01:01:31,680 --> 01:01:34,320 Speaker 4: at someone's house and they like, they don't tan but 1370 01:01:34,360 --> 01:01:35,360 Speaker 4: they suggested I do. 1371 01:01:36,960 --> 01:01:37,960 Speaker 3: You don't use this at all? 1372 01:01:38,400 --> 01:01:40,640 Speaker 2: Take off your shoes and then getting the tanning bed. 1373 01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:43,560 Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, like having a swimming pool, like I 1374 01:01:43,600 --> 01:01:44,360 Speaker 3: don't really use it. 1375 01:01:44,320 --> 01:01:47,360 Speaker 2: But feel free to hop in. All right, Okay, I 1376 01:01:47,360 --> 01:01:50,600 Speaker 2: feel like that's a I think that you qualify as 1377 01:01:50,600 --> 01:01:51,280 Speaker 2: a gift master. 1378 01:01:51,760 --> 01:01:53,480 Speaker 4: I don't know, man, I feel like I was pretty 1379 01:01:53,520 --> 01:01:55,520 Speaker 4: basic with my choices there. I feel like everything kind 1380 01:01:55,520 --> 01:01:56,439 Speaker 4: of worked out well. 1381 01:01:56,440 --> 01:01:58,560 Speaker 2: Everything everything happens for a reason. 1382 01:01:58,720 --> 01:01:59,160 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1383 01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:01,800 Speaker 2: I think that if there's ever been more proof of that, 1384 01:02:02,160 --> 01:02:04,720 Speaker 2: then it's this game that which is fine. 1385 01:02:04,960 --> 01:02:06,600 Speaker 4: I think I was meant to do this to get 1386 01:02:06,600 --> 01:02:09,680 Speaker 4: confidence in my ability to give gifts in general. Like yeah, 1387 01:02:09,680 --> 01:02:11,560 Speaker 4: And I don't know if I've never felt that confident 1388 01:02:11,640 --> 01:02:14,000 Speaker 4: it because I had like eighteen years of like not being. 1389 01:02:13,840 --> 01:02:16,800 Speaker 2: But I feel like you're kind of from the limited 1390 01:02:17,200 --> 01:02:18,760 Speaker 2: view I've seen of you giving gifts, and I have 1391 01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:20,720 Speaker 2: seen you give gifts. I think you're doing a pretty 1392 01:02:20,720 --> 01:02:23,080 Speaker 2: good job of it. We're going to this is called 1393 01:02:23,120 --> 01:02:26,000 Speaker 2: I said no questions. Cool people have been writing into 1394 01:02:26,080 --> 01:02:29,600 Speaker 2: I said no gifts at gmail dot com with you know, 1395 01:02:29,760 --> 01:02:33,000 Speaker 2: just their questions about they need help giving gifts, and 1396 01:02:33,040 --> 01:02:35,560 Speaker 2: so I do my very best to try to assist 1397 01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:38,280 Speaker 2: them with my guests. So let's do one or two 1398 01:02:38,320 --> 01:02:41,800 Speaker 2: of things. Okay, let's see Highbridger. I bought someone a 1399 01:02:41,840 --> 01:02:44,760 Speaker 2: gift recently, but then I realized they hadn't gotten me one. 1400 01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:48,520 Speaker 2: I got too embarrassed on their behalf to give them 1401 01:02:48,520 --> 01:02:51,640 Speaker 2: the gift I got them. Okay, so so she got 1402 01:02:51,680 --> 01:02:53,760 Speaker 2: them a gift and then she's embarrassed that they didn't 1403 01:02:53,760 --> 01:02:56,600 Speaker 2: get her a gift, so she oh, it's a book 1404 01:02:56,640 --> 01:02:59,800 Speaker 2: by Patty Smith. Okay, is my judgment at fault? I mean, 1405 01:02:59,840 --> 01:03:02,400 Speaker 2: more more than my choice of author. Your help would 1406 01:03:02,440 --> 01:03:08,480 Speaker 2: be greatly appreciated. Love, Dipica in London. Dipic, I'm okay. 1407 01:03:08,520 --> 01:03:11,360 Speaker 2: First of all, this feels like a very complicated question, 1408 01:03:11,760 --> 01:03:14,200 Speaker 2: and I feel like it's basically we're boiling it down 1409 01:03:14,280 --> 01:03:17,280 Speaker 2: to was a bad idea to buy a book by 1410 01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:18,560 Speaker 2: Patty Smith as a gift? 1411 01:03:19,200 --> 01:03:19,960 Speaker 3: Is that? Okay? 1412 01:03:20,000 --> 01:03:20,080 Speaker 2: So? 1413 01:03:20,760 --> 01:03:23,480 Speaker 3: Uh No, Patty Smith is awesome. 1414 01:03:23,520 --> 01:03:25,800 Speaker 2: People like Patty Smith. I mean I think with a book, 1415 01:03:25,840 --> 01:03:29,120 Speaker 2: you're always you're always running the risk of giving somebody 1416 01:03:29,160 --> 01:03:30,200 Speaker 2: a homework assignment. 1417 01:03:30,400 --> 01:03:32,720 Speaker 4: So it's yeah, I know who, Yeah, you know I 1418 01:03:32,800 --> 01:03:35,360 Speaker 4: I can relate to the book. You know, giving books 1419 01:03:35,360 --> 01:03:36,040 Speaker 4: as gifts. 1420 01:03:35,960 --> 01:03:38,880 Speaker 2: I mean, we've got one right, and you made a 1421 01:03:38,960 --> 01:03:42,040 Speaker 2: huge mistake that You're kind of just soaking in this. 1422 01:03:45,880 --> 01:03:48,080 Speaker 3: Because I don't want anyone to ever tell me to read. 1423 01:03:48,320 --> 01:03:51,800 Speaker 4: But you know, I think, uh, I think book gifts 1424 01:03:51,960 --> 01:03:56,440 Speaker 4: are fine because you can kind of you can always 1425 01:03:56,440 --> 01:03:58,760 Speaker 4: share that with them and like, but you know, I 1426 01:03:58,800 --> 01:04:01,000 Speaker 4: guess there's no guarantee they're going to read it. Like 1427 01:04:01,040 --> 01:04:02,760 Speaker 4: if I see you, like we do this podcast again, 1428 01:04:03,080 --> 01:04:04,240 Speaker 4: I'm going to ask you if you wrote. 1429 01:04:04,040 --> 01:04:06,400 Speaker 2: Oh yeah that to me like that. I've talked with 1430 01:04:06,440 --> 01:04:08,360 Speaker 2: friends with this about this before, but that is an 1431 01:04:08,400 --> 01:04:11,320 Speaker 2: incredible way to ruin a relationship. Would just give someone 1432 01:04:11,360 --> 01:04:14,439 Speaker 2: a book and then follow up. Never follow up, wait 1433 01:04:14,480 --> 01:04:16,840 Speaker 2: for the person who got the book to tell you 1434 01:04:17,000 --> 01:04:19,400 Speaker 2: to read it, because otherwise you're just a nuisance. You're 1435 01:04:19,480 --> 01:04:22,440 Speaker 2: just like nagging them to read this thing you gave them. 1436 01:04:22,720 --> 01:04:25,840 Speaker 4: It's weird, like because I don't really I don't. I 1437 01:04:25,880 --> 01:04:28,680 Speaker 4: feel like if they if we are headed, we already 1438 01:04:28,680 --> 01:04:31,200 Speaker 4: read it on our own individually and we had the 1439 01:04:31,240 --> 01:04:34,760 Speaker 4: conversation about it. That's much more satisfying conversation. Oh yeah, 1440 01:04:34,840 --> 01:04:36,720 Speaker 4: me being like, read this book so I can talk 1441 01:04:36,760 --> 01:04:38,720 Speaker 4: to you about it. Yeah, I don't really, what's your 1442 01:04:38,960 --> 01:04:40,800 Speaker 4: I don't really want to talk to you about. 1443 01:04:40,600 --> 01:04:44,840 Speaker 2: Well, you're going to be every night after I read 1444 01:04:44,840 --> 01:04:49,920 Speaker 2: a chapter with my tea visual I've got more advice 1445 01:04:50,000 --> 01:04:50,320 Speaker 2: for you. 1446 01:04:51,360 --> 01:04:52,840 Speaker 3: More keys lamar the key. 1447 01:04:53,880 --> 01:04:56,600 Speaker 4: I found the sixth key. What if I see you? 1448 01:04:56,720 --> 01:04:58,520 Speaker 4: Like a couple of bites and you're like driving a 1449 01:04:58,520 --> 01:05:04,000 Speaker 4: bent You have a line in a vackseat. 1450 01:05:02,800 --> 01:05:04,320 Speaker 2: With a license plate that says win. 1451 01:05:04,240 --> 01:05:07,560 Speaker 3: Win win, like man have bit a chade. 1452 01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:09,600 Speaker 2: I'm happy to become that person. 1453 01:05:10,280 --> 01:05:11,360 Speaker 3: I don't think at all. 1454 01:05:11,480 --> 01:05:14,600 Speaker 2: Okay, I think, yeah, Patty Smith, give the like if 1455 01:05:14,600 --> 01:05:16,880 Speaker 2: the person didn't get you another gift, who cares, Like, 1456 01:05:16,920 --> 01:05:18,400 Speaker 2: that's not the reason you give a gift in the 1457 01:05:18,440 --> 01:05:20,960 Speaker 2: first place. Just give them the Patty Smith book and 1458 01:05:20,960 --> 01:05:24,440 Speaker 2: then leave them alone, and maybe the relationship is on 1459 01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:28,480 Speaker 2: its last legs anyway. Yeah, so well, I don't know 1460 01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:32,400 Speaker 2: what to tell you. Moving on, let's see here, Bridger, 1461 01:05:32,480 --> 01:05:34,320 Speaker 2: I'm looking to get a gift for the winner of 1462 01:05:34,320 --> 01:05:37,160 Speaker 2: my fantasy football league. We do want every year, and 1463 01:05:37,200 --> 01:05:39,360 Speaker 2: this year I'm in charge of finding the gift. My 1464 01:05:39,440 --> 01:05:43,160 Speaker 2: friend that one loves all things football, obviously, Indian food, 1465 01:05:43,200 --> 01:05:46,960 Speaker 2: and spending time with his politically active daughter. Thanks for 1466 01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:50,919 Speaker 2: your help, Christian in Kansas City. I mean, first of all, 1467 01:05:50,960 --> 01:05:55,320 Speaker 2: you you came to the wrong football fantasy football, I 1468 01:05:55,360 --> 01:05:58,680 Speaker 2: don't I The only thing I know is the mad 1469 01:05:58,840 --> 01:06:01,520 Speaker 2: and football game. You're not. Everyone in this league already 1470 01:06:01,520 --> 01:06:05,360 Speaker 2: owns that. The Indian food. Do you know anything about 1471 01:06:05,400 --> 01:06:07,680 Speaker 2: fantasy football? What these people like to do. 1472 01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:11,160 Speaker 4: No, I know the I have a basic understanding of it, 1473 01:06:11,200 --> 01:06:13,520 Speaker 4: and I've tried it a couple of times. 1474 01:06:13,240 --> 01:06:16,440 Speaker 3: But I've always kind of like fell off. But I 1475 01:06:16,440 --> 01:06:16,840 Speaker 3: don't know. 1476 01:06:17,160 --> 01:06:21,760 Speaker 4: I guess I know about football, like a football gift. Yeah, 1477 01:06:21,960 --> 01:06:25,040 Speaker 4: I'm sure I've never given anyone a gift who loved 1478 01:06:25,080 --> 01:06:28,000 Speaker 4: football so much that I would give them like a football. 1479 01:06:27,640 --> 01:06:30,840 Speaker 3: Or something like. I don't think. I guess a jersey like. 1480 01:06:31,040 --> 01:06:34,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe like a custom jersey or is that lame? 1481 01:06:34,280 --> 01:06:35,480 Speaker 2: I don't know if. 1482 01:06:35,360 --> 01:06:38,640 Speaker 4: It's their favorite player, if you know their favorite player, 1483 01:06:39,360 --> 01:06:42,720 Speaker 4: Like if someone gave me a jersey of my favorite player, 1484 01:06:43,400 --> 01:06:45,280 Speaker 4: I think that'd be a good gift, only because jerseys 1485 01:06:45,320 --> 01:06:46,120 Speaker 4: are pretty expensive. 1486 01:06:46,200 --> 01:06:48,160 Speaker 2: So how much is a jersey cost? Is that one 1487 01:06:48,240 --> 01:06:48,800 Speaker 2: hundred dollars? 1488 01:06:48,960 --> 01:06:50,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, get a little over that. 1489 01:06:50,480 --> 01:06:53,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I'm a I mean if you want 1490 01:06:53,360 --> 01:06:58,160 Speaker 2: to combine, maybe a jersey that says Tiaka Masalam said 1491 01:06:58,200 --> 01:07:03,360 Speaker 2: something that's too interested in one where jersey? Yeah, more 1492 01:07:03,480 --> 01:07:04,960 Speaker 2: like a sagpaneer. 1493 01:07:05,400 --> 01:07:09,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, I like that like like non bread, oh, like 1494 01:07:09,280 --> 01:07:11,280 Speaker 4: non bread on a basketball jersey. 1495 01:07:11,000 --> 01:07:13,680 Speaker 2: Like y, yeah, this is garlic non and uh. 1496 01:07:14,480 --> 01:07:16,520 Speaker 3: I would love football. 1497 01:07:17,200 --> 01:07:21,479 Speaker 4: No, I would love like restaurant jerseys, like a line 1498 01:07:21,520 --> 01:07:23,120 Speaker 4: of jerseys that could show where restaurants. 1499 01:07:23,160 --> 01:07:25,280 Speaker 2: Oh, I would that's a jersey I could wear where 1500 01:07:25,280 --> 01:07:27,560 Speaker 2: I'd be able to Like people could confront me and say, 1501 01:07:27,560 --> 01:07:29,160 Speaker 2: are you really a fan? And I'd say yes, I 1502 01:07:29,240 --> 01:07:29,760 Speaker 2: hate there. 1503 01:07:29,920 --> 01:07:31,640 Speaker 4: I know I have the problem where I wear football 1504 01:07:31,720 --> 01:07:34,760 Speaker 4: or wear athletic clothing because of the color as not 1505 01:07:34,880 --> 01:07:37,960 Speaker 4: because of this team, and I kind of a FRAUDU. 1506 01:07:39,000 --> 01:07:41,960 Speaker 3: So that would be nice to wear like a what's 1507 01:07:42,000 --> 01:07:45,760 Speaker 3: my favorite restaurant? Like a lot of red lobster, like 1508 01:07:45,800 --> 01:07:47,919 Speaker 3: a red lobster hat and just rock that ship. 1509 01:07:48,000 --> 01:07:50,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. I could be wearing like a Hummus plate jersey 1510 01:07:50,600 --> 01:07:53,320 Speaker 2: and be perfectly at ease with myself. 1511 01:07:53,320 --> 01:07:54,760 Speaker 4: And I don't think I've ever seen anyone give a 1512 01:07:54,800 --> 01:07:57,720 Speaker 4: gift get a gift card from for an Indian food restaurant. 1513 01:07:58,000 --> 01:08:00,880 Speaker 2: That's true. I would love one. Yeah, I love any 1514 01:08:01,160 --> 01:08:04,520 Speaker 2: It's the best. It's a that I mean going back 1515 01:08:04,560 --> 01:08:06,720 Speaker 2: to eating alone is a difficult thing to go to 1516 01:08:06,920 --> 01:08:09,160 Speaker 2: an Indian restaurant alone. You want to have a few dishes, 1517 01:08:09,520 --> 01:08:11,760 Speaker 2: yeah yeah, and you're not doing that alone unless you're 1518 01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:13,040 Speaker 2: like the King of England. 1519 01:08:13,120 --> 01:08:15,439 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, you feel very glad. 1520 01:08:16,200 --> 01:08:19,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, just like eating chicken right off the bone and 1521 01:08:19,280 --> 01:08:21,240 Speaker 2: this sort of thing. So it's so what was. 1522 01:08:21,160 --> 01:08:23,519 Speaker 3: His question was just like what should he do? 1523 01:08:23,680 --> 01:08:28,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, the winner of this fantasy football the thing about 1524 01:08:28,240 --> 01:08:32,360 Speaker 2: he has a politically active daughter. Who cares? I'm sorry, Christian, 1525 01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:35,320 Speaker 2: no one wants a gift to have to do that 1526 01:08:35,400 --> 01:08:39,439 Speaker 2: has to do with their politically active child. I think 1527 01:08:39,439 --> 01:08:42,559 Speaker 2: it's like a football jersey and maybe an Indian restaurant 1528 01:08:42,720 --> 01:08:43,600 Speaker 2: gift certificate. 1529 01:08:45,800 --> 01:08:50,599 Speaker 4: The fact that that's how the daughter's associated was like, Oh, 1530 01:08:50,600 --> 01:08:54,120 Speaker 4: you have that politically active daughter, right, I can't say 1531 01:08:54,200 --> 01:08:56,320 Speaker 4: something about it about the relationship already. It is like 1532 01:08:56,640 --> 01:09:00,320 Speaker 4: if that's what's defining the daughter, I don't know that's 1533 01:09:00,320 --> 01:09:01,759 Speaker 4: a gift. You want to do it in that area? 1534 01:09:01,840 --> 01:09:06,920 Speaker 2: That doesn't Yeah, that's not something that come into play. 1535 01:09:07,360 --> 01:09:11,599 Speaker 2: I know that Diane loves to get out and stump 1536 01:09:11,720 --> 01:09:16,280 Speaker 2: for different candidates. So I got you a button. I 1537 01:09:16,320 --> 01:09:19,719 Speaker 2: think you you stick to. I think an Indian food Yeah, 1538 01:09:19,920 --> 01:09:22,720 Speaker 2: like an Indian restaurant gift certificate. Maybe that makes sense. 1539 01:09:22,840 --> 01:09:27,320 Speaker 4: Move or do like find out a football a like 1540 01:09:27,640 --> 01:09:32,200 Speaker 4: a football player's favorite Indian restaurant and then get on 1541 01:09:32,240 --> 01:09:33,040 Speaker 4: a trip to that one. 1542 01:09:33,080 --> 01:09:39,720 Speaker 2: There you go, there you get, You're going to another. 1543 01:09:40,200 --> 01:09:41,360 Speaker 3: I just thought it was a gift. 1544 01:09:42,120 --> 01:09:47,400 Speaker 2: Are you fail you Okay, well, we've answered a couple 1545 01:09:47,439 --> 01:09:51,360 Speaker 2: of questions, like in a really world class way, I 1546 01:09:51,360 --> 01:09:56,200 Speaker 2: would say, so, no complaints there, Lamar. I think that 1547 01:09:56,240 --> 01:09:59,280 Speaker 2: we've had a nice time here. I'm about to set 1548 01:09:59,280 --> 01:10:05,040 Speaker 2: off on a new journe with the keys. While I'm going, 1549 01:10:06,200 --> 01:10:07,679 Speaker 2: it's up in the air. Just don't ask. 1550 01:10:07,720 --> 01:10:10,200 Speaker 4: I feel like you should read it when you fill 1551 01:10:10,240 --> 01:10:13,600 Speaker 4: in you're sitting around, just a little inspiration. 1552 01:10:13,920 --> 01:10:17,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe I'll give it a shot. I could use 1553 01:10:17,280 --> 01:10:19,599 Speaker 2: a little bit of just uh, you know, get up 1554 01:10:19,640 --> 01:10:23,439 Speaker 2: and go, and the DJ has got it. I would 1555 01:10:23,479 --> 01:10:25,320 Speaker 2: love to be this lion with a key in its mouth. 1556 01:10:25,800 --> 01:10:27,639 Speaker 3: I know this. It really is kind of beautiful. 1557 01:10:27,720 --> 01:10:29,320 Speaker 2: That cover, yeah, gorgeous. 1558 01:10:29,320 --> 01:10:31,679 Speaker 3: I love those that color palette, the gold and purple. 1559 01:10:32,120 --> 01:10:35,720 Speaker 2: Very nice. Well, I think that's kind of the end 1560 01:10:35,760 --> 01:10:39,000 Speaker 2: of the show. Lamar, thank you so much for being here. Yeah, Bridgard, 1561 01:10:39,040 --> 01:10:40,960 Speaker 2: thanks having you have the all time best. 1562 01:10:41,280 --> 01:10:41,960 Speaker 3: This was great. 1563 01:10:42,080 --> 01:10:47,240 Speaker 4: I'm glad we got to talk about, you know, customer service. 1564 01:10:48,400 --> 01:10:50,120 Speaker 3: I really want to, you know, get that out there. 1565 01:10:50,200 --> 01:10:52,120 Speaker 2: We've got to get we've got to get that out 1566 01:10:52,160 --> 01:10:56,559 Speaker 2: into the into the world and just get some more 1567 01:10:56,600 --> 01:10:59,040 Speaker 2: opinions on that. And if you work at a restaurant, 1568 01:10:59,240 --> 01:11:01,840 Speaker 2: maybe don't I ever make an assumption about someone standing 1569 01:11:01,880 --> 01:11:04,519 Speaker 2: in the front. Maybe ask them why they or just 1570 01:11:04,560 --> 01:11:07,759 Speaker 2: say can I help you? I think that's very easy. 1571 01:11:08,000 --> 01:11:08,519 Speaker 3: You never know. 1572 01:11:08,640 --> 01:11:15,439 Speaker 2: Don't be a bad customer service representative. Okay, that's it. 1573 01:11:15,800 --> 01:11:19,320 Speaker 2: I said no gifts isn't exactly right production. It's engineered 1574 01:11:19,320 --> 01:11:22,479 Speaker 2: by Earth Angel Stephen Ray Morris. The theme song is 1575 01:11:22,520 --> 01:11:25,639 Speaker 2: by Miracle Worker Amy Man. You can follow the show 1576 01:11:25,680 --> 01:11:28,840 Speaker 2: on Instagram and Twitter. At I said no gifts, And 1577 01:11:29,080 --> 01:11:31,720 Speaker 2: if you have a question or need help getting a 1578 01:11:31,760 --> 01:11:34,760 Speaker 2: gift for someone in your life, email me at I 1579 01:11:34,800 --> 01:11:38,400 Speaker 2: said no gifts at gmail dot com. Listen and subscribe 1580 01:11:38,439 --> 01:11:41,880 Speaker 2: on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher or wherever you found me. And 1581 01:11:42,040 --> 01:11:43,920 Speaker 2: why not leave a review while you're at it? 1582 01:11:46,680 --> 01:11:47,760 Speaker 3: Why did you. 1583 01:11:47,560 --> 01:11:54,840 Speaker 1: Hear fun a man myself perfectly clear when you're I 1584 01:11:54,880 --> 01:12:03,360 Speaker 1: guess you gotta come to me empty? And I said 1585 01:12:03,760 --> 01:12:10,280 Speaker 1: no guests, your own presences, persons enough. I already had 1586 01:12:10,400 --> 01:12:15,439 Speaker 1: too much stuff, So how do you dare to surbey me?