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Speaker 1: It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 3: What is the very best birthday gift that your significant

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Speaker 3: other has ever given you?

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Speaker 1: Alexis, what's your gift?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: They give me gift cards.

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Speaker 4: I stated, I'm not having anything on them, but they

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Speaker 4: were nice when I.

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Speaker 5: Got to wear You're like the worst gold digger I've

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, we're gonna skip Brooke in her twenty minute

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Speaker 3: story about how a man disappointed.

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Speaker 1: Her and right, Jo, you know, we don't want to

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Speaker 1: hear the story.

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Speaker 3: Jose best birthday gift from a girlfriend in your past?

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Speaker 3: I would say it was the time where she gave

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Speaker 3: me a sporting event tickets and told me she loved me.

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Speaker 1: Oh, but wouldn't come to the game with you.

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Speaker 2: I was like, that's the kind of a gift, isn't

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Speaker 2: it for you?

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Speaker 3: But what happens when you give your partner a special

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Speaker 3: gift that's so good you immediately regret ever giving it.

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Speaker 2: Why would you regret a good gift? That's hard.

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Speaker 3: That's the situation with one of our listeners, Stephanie, who's

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Speaker 3: emailed us for help today.

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Speaker 1: Stephanie, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 6: Hi, guys, how are you?

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Speaker 2: Are you the gift giver or receiver?

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Speaker 7: Here?

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Speaker 6: I'm the giver.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, so you're the one with regrets. Interesting?

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Speaker 1: And this is a boyfriend or is this a husband?

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Speaker 6: It's my boyfriend of almost three years, Kyle.

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Speaker 2: Are you guys like living together? That's how serious it is?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay?

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Speaker 1: And what was the situation with the birthday gift?

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Speaker 8: So?

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Speaker 6: I asked my boyfriend a month ago what he wanted

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Speaker 6: for his birthday? It was coming up, and I told

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Speaker 6: him he could have anything.

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Speaker 4: That's usually when you ask yeah, not the day of

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Speaker 4: yea or eight months later.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, did you want something today? Okay, okay, planning ahead?

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Speaker 1: Did he want anything?

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Speaker 6: Well, he was like can I have anything? And I

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Speaker 6: you're so dumb.

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Speaker 1: What was the silly things he was saying?

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Speaker 6: He told me he wanted a hall pass.

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Speaker 2: What I was taking legs silly, would be like a

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Speaker 2: ride on the draft. That's silly to believe is a

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Speaker 1: Is that a joke? Maybe it's a joke.

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Speaker 6: I could have been, but I thought it was a joke.

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Speaker 6: That's why I said, oh my god, shut up, and

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Speaker 6: he laughed and was like, you said anything, it's my birthday?

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Speaker 4: Oh has he met a celebrity recently? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: You did say anything, though.

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Speaker 2: I mean, who is his hall pass?

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Speaker 6: So we weren't really talking about celebrities.

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Speaker 1: Oh you mean it was brooke.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it's not so silly anymore.

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Speaker 1: So what happened at the end of that?

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Speaker 6: I disagree with him. I was like, okay, fine, and

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Speaker 6: what you said, yes.

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Speaker 1: You can have a hall pass.

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Speaker 6: I never thought he was going to use it.

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Speaker 1: Gave him permission, but was the tone of her voice

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Speaker 2: Did he pull out his cell phone and start recording you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? What were you drinking? You must have been drunk

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Speaker 1: when you said that.

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Speaker 4: She thought he was just she was just being lighthearted, like,

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Speaker 4: oh yeah, sure you can have it.

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Speaker 2: You know, I understand that.

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Speaker 1: Oh really, you don't.

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Speaker 2: Believe he's actually asking if he woul cheat on you?

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Speaker 3: Not cheating if you give them a hall pass.

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Speaker 1: That's what a hall pass is. But there's joking.

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Speaker 4: It's a joking conversation, right, that's how you took it.

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Speaker 6: Well, it was a joking conversation, and then he made

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Speaker 6: that's fine.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, you said that's fine again.

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Speaker 2: Why do you keep saying that's fine.

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Speaker 1: That's the next level you doubled down.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I probably should have promised that.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gods. He used to.

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Speaker 6: Well, his birthday's coming up this weekend, and he's brought

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Speaker 6: it up a couple of times. You think he's gonna

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Speaker 4: You don't say, wait, are you guys going to be

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Speaker 2: Does he have plans to go out on his own?

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Speaker 6: I think he's gonna go and his on it. And

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Speaker 6: one time he told me he's gonna use it.

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Speaker 3: What that's the polite thing to do. If somebody gives

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Speaker 1: To use said gift. It's rude to not use the gift.

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Speaker 4: It's like when you get a gift certificate and it

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Speaker 1: I know that helps the person's feelings that gave the gift.

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Speaker 1: If he didn't do it, what type of boyfriend would

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Speaker 3: Imaginehim approaching a girl like, look, my girlfriend got me

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Speaker 1: She's gonna be so mad if I don't use this.

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Speaker 1: And the girl's like, oh, I totally understand. Where's your

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Speaker 3: Where's your head at there, Stephanie, Well, and I think

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Speaker 6: I don't want to give him that gift.

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Speaker 2: No, you want to take it back.

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Speaker 1: So here's where we're at.

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Speaker 3: You've kind of put yourself in this position, Stephanie by

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Speaker 2: This, But I still blame your boyfriend for it. Just

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Speaker 2: for the record record, it's fault.

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Speaker 3: But she said yes and then agreed that she wouldn't

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Speaker 3: take it back regrets. I'm just stating the facts here.

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Speaker 3: I'm not on anybody's side. And the thing is we're

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Speaker 3: now at a severe disadvantage because if this is poker,

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Speaker 3: we basically turned our cards around to the table to

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Speaker 2: All we need to do is tell him that this

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Speaker 1: That our promises don't mean anything. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And you want advice on how to say that

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Speaker 6: I mean I just I don't know, just like maybe

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Speaker 2: Hey, I don't want to get to sleep with other people.

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Speaker 1: I think that's pretty reasonable. Maybe that should have come

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Speaker 2: Well, you know that's why we say better late than never.

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Speaker 1: Jeff, it's a hindsight situation. We're gonna have to call

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Speaker 1: your boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: I guess give you some advice on how to have

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Speaker 2: a backbone here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, get on how to reverse your promise.

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Speaker 3: Yes that he could have a hall pass, but now

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Speaker 3: you're taking it away from him on his birthday.

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Speaker 2: Yes? Good. Why does that sound crazy to you?

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Speaker 1: That sounds totally only normal. Yeah to everybody. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: do it with your awkward Tuesday phone call right after this.

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Speaker 7: Thank you?

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Speaker 1: All right, hold on, it's awkward. It's Tuesday. It's awkward

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Speaker 3: We are in a difficult situation today, and by we

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Speaker 3: I mean Brooky.

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Speaker 4: Are.

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Speaker 3: One of our listeners had a conversation with their boyfriend

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Speaker 3: of three years asking what he wanted for his birthday

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Speaker 3: coming up. He responded, a hall pass.

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Speaker 2: And he didn't say celebrity he met, just.

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Speaker 1: A hall pass.

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Speaker 3: Just a free day, right, which is basically a one

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Speaker 3: night of unbridled passion with anybody who's not your partner.

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Speaker 1: It has to be unbridled.

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Speaker 2: I mean it sounds like you read that from a

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Speaker 2: romance novel.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm trying to put a little romance into it.

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Speaker 2: But it's a little messier than that, Jeff, Okay.

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Speaker 3: A messy night of passion with anybody who's not your partner.

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Speaker 3: And not only did Stephanie say yeah, but she promised

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Speaker 3: him she would not take it back, and now she

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Speaker 3: wants our help to try and take it back today.

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Speaker 3: So let's get some advice for her from the woman

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Speaker 3: who blames the man for his girlfriend saying yes to

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Speaker 1: What are you thinking?

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Speaker 3: How does she take back her own gift that she

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Speaker 5: I think this could easily devolve into a huge fight,

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Speaker 5: big argument, you know, break up absolutely, Alexis.

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Speaker 2: So I think what you do is you try to

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Speaker 4: Angle and you say, okay, listen, I know we were

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Speaker 4: using the hall Pass as like a placeholder for your gift,

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Speaker 4: but I got you something so amazing and expensive that

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Speaker 4: you are going to love it.

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Speaker 1: So why.

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Speaker 5: So you acknowledge that that hall Pass was there, but

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Speaker 5: it's not his gift anymore.

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Speaker 3: What do you think about that, Stephanie trying to one

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Speaker 9: Well, I mean, I think maybe, But I think Kyle

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Speaker 9: guests in general, So doesn't he It's not like even

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Speaker 9: an existing gift that yeah, that's like, that's.

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Speaker 3: Like coming back after signing the terms and agreements to

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Speaker 3: being like, well, I didn't.

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Speaker 1: Mean to sign it.

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Speaker 4: It's not even that she's just not very good at

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Speaker 4: saying no, Like I feel like he's just going to

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Speaker 1: But maybe Jose has a way for her to not

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Speaker 3: What do you think, Hose, He needs a taste of

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Speaker 3: his own medicine, so he knows how it feels to

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Speaker 3: be in your situation. So you ask for your own

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Speaker 3: hall pass for your birthday.

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Speaker 2: Coming up, that's gonna that's where the fight.

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Speaker 3: Startspective Then he's gonna go I don't want my lady.

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Speaker 5: I think he'll be okay, Yes, I didn't think of that.

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Speaker 1: I don't think of that, Stephanie equal playing field for tat.

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Speaker 7: I don't even know if I could do that.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you could pull a man to use

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Speaker 7: No, I mean I could pull a man. Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 7: you don't want to.

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Speaker 2: You have to find someone hotter.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Sure, Well that's our advice for you, Stephanie. We wish

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Speaker 3: to be here in your corner. Thank you be here

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Speaker 3: to support you. But I'm dialing your boyfriend's phone number

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Speaker 3: right now.

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Speaker 2: Okay, like we're sending a sheep out into the wolf town.

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Speaker 1: You've got this, Stephanie. Good luck.

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Speaker 7: Hello, Hey, mab, how are you?

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Speaker 8: Oh hey, are you calling for work or something?

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Speaker 8: But check this out. Someone took a huge crap in

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Speaker 7: Oh god, that is horrible.

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Speaker 7: Well, I wanted to talk to you. About this weekend

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Speaker 8: Yeah, so yeah, out Saturday night, but we can maybe

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Speaker 7: I might be in bad shape, but we'll see. Oh

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Speaker 7: sounds like you have something fun planned. Well yeah, I

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Speaker 8: Not?

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Speaker 7: No, I mean it doesn't have anything to do with

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Speaker 8: I don't know what you're referring to.

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Speaker 6: Like, a few weeks ago, I gave you the Hall

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Speaker 7: You know you brought it up again recently too.

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Speaker 8: What's your what is your question? Give me a birthday gift?

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Speaker 8: I plan to use it.

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Speaker 9: Well that was just a placeholder gift because I actually

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Speaker 7: So you're gonna get that instead?

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Speaker 8: Oh no, no, no, no, you can't take it back

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Speaker 7: Are you messing with me?

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Speaker 7: Are you trying to make me this isn't funny?

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Speaker 8: You said like I could have this, like you promised me,

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Speaker 8: Like you can't. You can't take back a promise like

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Speaker 8: we agreed on that.

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Speaker 6: You know, I was saying whatever because it would make

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Speaker 8: Is it gonna make me really happy?

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Speaker 7: Wow?

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Speaker 9: Wow?

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Speaker 7: Okay, So who is it? Then?

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Speaker 8: I'm not going to tell you this me all bit

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Speaker 7: I'm already been out of shape. You're basically telling me

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Speaker 8: I'm not cheating on you. You gave me permission, which

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Speaker 7: This isn't funny, Kyle, tell me who it is?

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Speaker 1: Fine?

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Speaker 7: You remember the waitress at Chili the Brunette?

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Speaker 8: What? Yeah, I'm thinking about her.

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Speaker 7: She didn't know it yet, but you are you kidding me?

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Speaker 4: Her?

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Speaker 6: Kyle?

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Speaker 5: Her?

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Speaker 1: Why?

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Speaker 4: What she is?

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Speaker 7: Exactly?

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Speaker 1: Exactly?

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Speaker 4: Is he joking?

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Speaker 8: Well? I don't know what is happening?

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Speaker 1: What did?

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Speaker 3: You're on the radio right now with a show called

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Speaker 3: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning's called Awkward Tuesday phone Call.

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Speaker 2: God, that was hard to listen to, Kyle. That was

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Speaker 2: that was difficult?

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Speaker 6: Why am I?

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Speaker 8: Why would you? I am so confused?

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Speaker 2: Like? Why?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: We've been asked to help and join in on this

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Speaker 3: conversation by your girlfriend, Stephanie, who wanted to talk about

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Speaker 1: She doesn't wanting to cheat on her.

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Speaker 8: I'm not cheating on her. I mean she gave me

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Speaker 8: the hall Path again.

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Speaker 9: File Are you serious? I just told you it was

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Speaker 8: They're serious. You did promise, So how am I supposed

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Speaker 2: You're actually like a second grader right now.

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Speaker 1: You can't see how it's a little bit confusing.

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Speaker 3: The informal question here, Like the girl on Chili's doesn't

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Speaker 1: I thought you set it.

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Speaker 5: Up like you're gonna hol over you've got a rizz

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Speaker 4: Still, bro, I don't know that you do.

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Speaker 2: I don't know that you do what.

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Speaker 1: Your bras are gonna go to Chili's and try to

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Speaker 5: Certain Why do I feel like it was just gonna

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Speaker 1: Is it by yourself?

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Speaker 4: Doesn't matter?

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Speaker 3: I think he's just gonna go there and see what happened.

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Speaker 1: And you have you have a thing a thing for

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Speaker 8: She has one tooth that's easily fixed. And I haven't

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Speaker 8: even flirted with anybody for a long time, so like

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Speaker 8: it's a chance to like put myself out there. I haven't.

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Speaker 4: Well, here's okay, this is not a healthy relationship.

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Speaker 2: But Stephanie, I don't think you have anything to be

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Speaker 3: Let's ask her, Stephanie, how do you feel about him

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Speaker 3: going to Chili's and spitting some game.

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Speaker 6: Well, I mean it's actually kind of funny now knowing

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Speaker 7: To ask out. Really, it's still like it still hurts

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Speaker 7: my feelings. I still don't want him to do it.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I just really wish that he understood how I

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Speaker 3: Like took me like, yeah, I mean you got to

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Speaker 1: And is that making you like change how you feel

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Speaker 8: Well, yeah, I mean obviously I care about her. If

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Speaker 8: I don't want to I don't.

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Speaker 1: Feeling so what an understanding boyfriend?

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Speaker 2: What do I still feel like I'm here in the

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Speaker 7: I still would like to.

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Speaker 8: Get that expensive give you're talking about.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh yeah, she has something really big playing for you, bro,

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning,