WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Secret Garden Shocker

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<v Speaker 1>Second date.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of guys like a woman who's down to

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<v Speaker 2>get dirty.

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<v Speaker 3>Your darn right, John, Where do you find someone like that?

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<v Speaker 3>Like Brooks Hometown?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh sure, Craigslist of course, pole over back at Brooks Hometown.

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<v Speaker 3>We already covered that.

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<v Speaker 2>But no, our listener Justin found his special dirty lady

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<v Speaker 2>Brooks Hometown.

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<v Speaker 4>No hometown isn't big enough for craigs yea.

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<v Speaker 2>Noting her in the community garden deep in literal.

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<v Speaker 3>Dirty, like really dirty, Justin, you like a dirty girl?

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<v Speaker 3>Huh laugh?

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<v Speaker 5>Is that the reason why you're on the phone with us? Well?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, that's uh yeah, we did not meet on dating app. Shocker.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, you met over a flower bed.

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<v Speaker 3>Ye's kind of romantic.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean she was, uh planting veggiees peas, carrots, whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>Some nice bulbs. Can we know what her name is?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? Yeah, Katie, Katie.

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<v Speaker 3>It sounds like a sweet girl.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't frequent community gardens, but I assume people who

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<v Speaker 4>do go there often right to tend.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, you have to take care of your right.

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<v Speaker 4>So is it something where you'd seen Katie multiple times

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<v Speaker 4>before you actually went up and talked to her.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, the first time I actually got the courage to

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<v Speaker 6>talk to. He was very casual and I did. We

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<v Speaker 6>did not exchange numbers or anything. It's more like talking

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<v Speaker 6>about garden. And I asked her what she was planting.

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<v Speaker 2>She's telling me Veggie, Oh wow, you got right into the.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I got right into the dirt.

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<v Speaker 3>Good for you.

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<v Speaker 1>So then I.

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<v Speaker 6>Saw her a day or two later, she was back

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<v Speaker 6>at the garden. So then I went up to her

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<v Speaker 6>and I was like, oh yo, how how's the radishes?

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<v Speaker 6>And that got like a chuck off from her.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, look at you, mister humor.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if I see what the joke is.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, she's thinking that I actually care when she was

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<v Speaker 6>a planting, but I didn't. I just wanted to talk

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<v Speaker 6>to her. That's yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't care about she doesn't listen back to this if

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<v Speaker 2>it works out, okay, I.

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<v Speaker 6>Mean I told her, like, you know, I have to

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<v Speaker 6>be chatted. Then I got her number and I said, hey,

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<v Speaker 6>there's a cute pub like a few blocks away. She

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<v Speaker 6>wanted to go for a drink after.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh look at you.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, were you talking this fast when you asked her to?

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<v Speaker 5>Because you seem a little nervous right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Was I talking?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know she's nervous.

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<v Speaker 3>Girl comes off a little bit sexy. I think that's

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<v Speaker 3>what Brooke was trying to.

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<v Speaker 6>Say, rather sexy than nervous.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, it's coming through right now.

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<v Speaker 3>So tell So you took her to a pub.

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<v Speaker 6>And it was cool, Everyone's going great. But then the

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<v Speaker 6>next day I texted her and nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, can we talk a little bit more about

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<v Speaker 4>your time at the pub, like was flirting happening?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 5>Any?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I try. I don't know how good my

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<v Speaker 6>game is, but I drive.

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<v Speaker 3>It's working on us right now, dude, so keep it going.

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<v Speaker 6>I do have a confession, though, that I didn't tell her.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, decide the radish question that you didn't care.

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<v Speaker 6>What it Wasn't we say this? We I knew she

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<v Speaker 6>was going to be.

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<v Speaker 5>There, going to beware you invited her at a.

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<v Speaker 6>Guard at the garden.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, okay, my parents are on this dating app where

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<v Speaker 6>parents kind of meet up with other parents to find

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<v Speaker 6>dates for their single like young adults.

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<v Speaker 5>Wait, that exists? There's a dating app for parents to

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<v Speaker 5>meddle in their kids' lives.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, please do not tell us what the name this

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<v Speaker 3>side is.

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<v Speaker 1>No, No, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not telling you. But Katie's parents were in on it.

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<v Speaker 6>Katie doesn't know, I think, but her parents were on

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<v Speaker 6>and they're they're so down. They talk to my parents

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<v Speaker 6>and I know this sounds strange.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, I'm trying to miss.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a site where parents meet up with each

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<v Speaker 2>other to figure out if their kids would be a

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<v Speaker 2>good match.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, they're basically like it's basically like a range daity right. So, like,

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<v Speaker 4>so you're saying Katie's parents told your parents, Katie will

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<v Speaker 4>be at the garden from three to five.

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<v Speaker 5>Your son should show up.

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<v Speaker 6>Then, Yeah, so I got a plot. I don't even garden.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know how to garden.

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<v Speaker 3>Whoa, you don't even know how to garden?

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<v Speaker 6>Not really, I mean I was just digging hole. I

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<v Speaker 6>mean I was just like I was digging holes in

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<v Speaker 6>the dark, pretending.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, So you just got a plot to.

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<v Speaker 6>Meet sun hat. I got a sun hat.

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<v Speaker 5>Kay didn't have to go that hard a bunch of water.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So this would be fine if Katie knew her

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<v Speaker 4>parents were doing this.

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<v Speaker 5>But she doesn't know.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I don't think so. I mean, she didn't mention anything,

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<v Speaker 6>and I just don't want to freak her out.

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<v Speaker 3>At least your parents already approve of me.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I wonder if her parents know that she's not responding

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<v Speaker 2>to you. Now, how long has it been.

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<v Speaker 6>It's been like about five days.

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<v Speaker 5>And have you told your parents that she hasn't responded.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, and her mother actually reached out tonight. O.

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<v Speaker 5>Wait, Katie's mother reached out to you.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, and she said, I think you will be perfect

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<v Speaker 6>for her.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you want more.

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<v Speaker 4>People in on this, Like you've got two sets of

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<v Speaker 4>parents already involved, and you want us involved.

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<v Speaker 1>To me, I don't.

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<v Speaker 6>I can't. I don't know why I can't have my

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<v Speaker 6>own relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know idea that it's odd that the most

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<v Speaker 2>natural thing in this entire situation is actually the fact

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<v Speaker 2>that you're calling a radio show to intervene in your data.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like we're a community garden. We've got the radio,

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<v Speaker 5>we've got the parents. We're just trying to grow a

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<v Speaker 5>relationship here.

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<v Speaker 1>It takes it.

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<v Speaker 3>Remember justin hatess community gardens and doesn't.

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<v Speaker 5>Care about them, so it doesn't know about it.

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<v Speaker 6>But I will learn. I mean, if me and her

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<v Speaker 6>go on more day, I'll have her talk to me

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<v Speaker 6>about the garden, like educate me, nothing like faking.

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<v Speaker 5>An interest to get in with somebody.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, who doesn't do that.

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<v Speaker 2>We're going to share that sentiment with Katie when we

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<v Speaker 2>come back and call her and try and get you

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<v Speaker 2>a second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, dirty boy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, we're in the middle of a second date call.

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<v Speaker 2>And when we left, I told Justin that we'd call

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<v Speaker 2>Katie and share the sentiment. And I'm seeing people texting

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<v Speaker 2>in at seventy five nine two telling me, don't do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't blow his cover about his parents' matchmaking app.

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<v Speaker 5>Wait, you said that we were going to tell him

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<v Speaker 5>though I didn't hear that.

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<v Speaker 3>That's not what I meant at all.

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<v Speaker 2>I just meant share the sentiment that he really likes

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<v Speaker 2>her and is eager to learn more about gardening. You

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<v Speaker 2>could see what he really doesn't want to do that,

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<v Speaker 2>but he's he says he's willing to try maybe. And

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<v Speaker 2>I guess the more important question, though, that we need

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<v Speaker 2>to talk about, is are we all okay with hiding

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<v Speaker 2>the fact that her parents matched her with a guy

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<v Speaker 2>without her knowledge on a dating site for parents that

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<v Speaker 2>hook up their grown kids with each other. I I mean, Justin,

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<v Speaker 2>how do you what do you think?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you feel weird about your parents finding you a lover?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, you know when you like date somebody at the

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<v Speaker 6>meet their parents and it's always awkward and you're nervous,

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<v Speaker 6>Like are the parents already approve of me?

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<v Speaker 4>That's like, you know, such a credit card, like the

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<v Speaker 4>improved The best relationships can come from, like arrangements.

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly, like your parents know you best, they really do.

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<v Speaker 5>Watch cute.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all for voting to bring marriage and relationships back

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<v Speaker 2>to the nineteen.

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<v Speaker 5>Twenty Hey, listen, listen.

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<v Speaker 4>If we're allowing algorithms to help us find love, why

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<v Speaker 4>wouldn't we let our parents also help us.

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<v Speaker 3>We're trying for a one in a million chance.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm just gonna say we're not gonna reveal the

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<v Speaker 2>parents matchmaking app, but justin if you want to do that,

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<v Speaker 2>that's totally up to you.

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<v Speaker 5>I do feel like you should do it at some point.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean we'll see, Yeah, just feel it out,

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<v Speaker 6>all right, I'm gonna.

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<v Speaker 3>Call it right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Hello, Hey is this Katie.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know why I'm nervous.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm a little nervous too.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if you're feeling nervous Katie about being

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<v Speaker 2>on a radio show right now because you are what

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<v Speaker 2>ye surprise.

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<v Speaker 5>Welcome to our show, Katie.

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<v Speaker 2>We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning do a

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<v Speaker 2>radio show, and we're trying to do a segment right

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<v Speaker 2>now called the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 6>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Okay, So.

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<v Speaker 2>We're trying to reach out on behalf of one of

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<v Speaker 2>our listeners who you went out with recently, named Justin.

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<v Speaker 2>We're trying to read your vibe on if you liked

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<v Speaker 2>him or not.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, I'm exiting another relationship right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh oh, so things are a little messy right now.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, yeah, I don't really want to talk about

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<v Speaker 7>it and ended a few weeks ago, but Justin just

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<v Speaker 7>seems so like sweet and kind and like I just

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<v Speaker 7>don't want to really get into it until i'm like

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<v Speaker 7>fully unattached.

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<v Speaker 4>That's good, Okay, that's actually yeah, So you actually liked him,

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<v Speaker 4>you're just not calling him back because you didn't want

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<v Speaker 4>that's like, I respect.

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<v Speaker 5>It him, right.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know what you know about him, but he's

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<v Speaker 7>a dork, but he's just really sweet. But he was

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<v Speaker 7>just so honest and so kind and just so transparent,

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<v Speaker 7>Like I just felt like I knew him. And I

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<v Speaker 7>just also feel like I've gone out with so many

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<v Speaker 7>people being crazy or a liar or they're hiding something,

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<v Speaker 7>and it just feels like.

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<v Speaker 3>We don't like anything.

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<v Speaker 7>For once, like I was like, oh, okay, like this

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<v Speaker 7>guy's actually.

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<v Speaker 3>Really and all the cards on the table right up front.

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<v Speaker 3>He sounds genuine, but we know he's.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, well, I think he's pretty genuine.

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<v Speaker 5>I will say he is very earnest.

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<v Speaker 4>He does sound a little dorky in a sweet way.

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<v Speaker 5>And I tell you, well, I'm with you, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he was.

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<v Speaker 5>Attractive, right, you were attracted to him still, Yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 7>Mean it was kind of funny. We met in a

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<v Speaker 7>community garden and he was just like, I don't know

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<v Speaker 7>that he's particularly good at gardening. He was just like

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<v Speaker 7>digging holes in the dirt.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if Justin were to hear the things that you

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<v Speaker 2>were saying right now, he'd probably be really happy with

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<v Speaker 2>your review of him and of your time spent together.

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<v Speaker 5>He's a restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, yeah, yeah, In fact, I don't have to

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<v Speaker 2>guess if he liked it, because I could just ask

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<v Speaker 2>him since he's on the other line right now listening

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<v Speaker 2>and wanting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm thrilled that you like me, hunk energy.

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<v Speaker 7>Why didn't you tell me the phone?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we can't all be as honest and transparent as

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<v Speaker 2>the justice of the world.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, that's just that's more credit to him.

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<v Speaker 6>And it's totally fine. I mean, like, I heard that

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<v Speaker 6>you have an ex. I mean, I'm totally cool with that.

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<v Speaker 6>I have like a million acts.

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<v Speaker 1>Million Wow, very strange.

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<v Speaker 7>A million acts.

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<v Speaker 6>Huh Okay, it's like, literally, okay, four, I don't know

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<v Speaker 6>that many days. How am I to have acted? I

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<v Speaker 6>don't I literally have like one ex girlfriend. Okay, Actually,

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<v Speaker 6>you know.

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<v Speaker 3>I just closed the mouth for a second.

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<v Speaker 6>Zero.

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<v Speaker 7>It's just kind of a we're saying that you heard

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<v Speaker 7>me say all that. But I really think that you're

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<v Speaker 7>just a really sweet, honest person.

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<v Speaker 6>That's true, Okay, I I the honesty I am. I

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<v Speaker 6>am mostly honest. What you keep mentioning, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 6>I do not like lying. I mean I did lie

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<v Speaker 6>that I had a billion girlfriends ex girlfriends, and.

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<v Speaker 1>It is a joke.

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<v Speaker 6>And you know, uh, okay, here, I'm just going to

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<v Speaker 6>say it.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the deal.

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't go to that gardening community gardening because I

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<v Speaker 6>like the garden. I knew you were going.

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<v Speaker 1>To be there.

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<v Speaker 6>Because Okay, my parents and your parents are on this

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<v Speaker 6>dating app where they helped their single i'll get dates.

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<v Speaker 6>Uh the mine.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think she.

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<v Speaker 6>Your parents loves me. Your parents really love me?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 6>Approof of that? I mean, my parents approve your parents approved.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, let's make this work.

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<v Speaker 6>I know that this is weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Justin, do you have to say everything just one piece

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<v Speaker 2>of information at a time.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, can we just say real quickly, we really hoped

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<v Speaker 4>that Katie, you already knew this.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, well yeah, I just you know, like I could

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<v Speaker 8>see why a dating app like that would work.

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<v Speaker 5>Katie, just listen for a second. I mean, who knows

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<v Speaker 5>you better than dad? Right? No, oh my god, that

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<v Speaker 5>is not parent approved language, Katie.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna come to your side on that one. It's

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit unusual. I will concede that. But Justin

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<v Speaker 3>didn't know that his parents were setting him up either.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I actually didn't know.

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<v Speaker 3>That's okay.

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<v Speaker 6>I thought he's actually a great idea. I mean it's like,

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<v Speaker 6>I do not meet any women. I see them all

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<v Speaker 6>over the place, but I don't meet them. I'm not

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<v Speaker 6>every dating app you could think of, nobody's wife.

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<v Speaker 8>And Katie, listen, listen.

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<v Speaker 4>You definitely have to have a conversation with your parents,

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<v Speaker 4>and you can be angry at them, but this isn't

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<v Speaker 4>Justin's fault.

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<v Speaker 5>He he didn't make your parents do this.

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<v Speaker 1>Some of this is Justin's fault, some of some of

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<v Speaker 1>it he.

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<v Speaker 4>Didn't say anything. Okay, well, maybe he just shows up

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<v Speaker 4>in a garden digging home.

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<v Speaker 3>But his heart was in a good place when he

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<v Speaker 3>did it.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my god, absolutely like me.

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<v Speaker 6>Like he complemented, yourshes your great guard I can learn

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<v Speaker 6>from you. We're going to talk about you know what.

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<v Speaker 2>It's at this point, Katie, that I would like to

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<v Speaker 2>offer to send you to on another date, that we

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<v Speaker 2>would pay for any restaurant in the city and far

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<v Speaker 2>far away from both of your.

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<v Speaker 3>Sets of parents.

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<v Speaker 5>Give it one chance. I mean, that would make your

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<v Speaker 5>parents so happy.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 7>What about this would be any normal person? Are you crazy?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>All right, maybe it's a no right now, but maybe

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<v Speaker 2>you should take some time to think about it, and

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<v Speaker 2>if you want, we can organize so that you and

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<v Speaker 2>Justin and both of your sets of parents can all

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<v Speaker 2>have dinner.

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<v Speaker 3>Family reunion John and Julie.

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<v Speaker 5>I think, I mean, it sounds like they're lovely people.

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<v Speaker 3>I know they're in for Yeah, they made you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in What do you say? Give you much chances?

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<v Speaker 6>Like many people have arrangements like we got married, just.

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<v Speaker 3>Started off good, and then it's all right, We're still there.

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<v Speaker 5>I think he's still there, Katie.

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<v Speaker 2>We're running out of time here, so we need to

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<v Speaker 2>get an answer from you, yes or no on another date.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, well justin you're up to a million and one exes.

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<v Speaker 6>Now my parents can give you a date. Well, I

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<v Speaker 6>don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Those words have never been spoken before. My parents can't

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<v Speaker 3>give me a day.

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<v Speaker 1>Who can.

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<v Speaker 2>Brook Jeffrey in the morning to say that she was

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<v Speaker 2>not happy that her parents set her up would be

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<v Speaker 2>a pretty big Understate one hundred.

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<v Speaker 5>There is going to be a conversation in that family.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm not. She was so thrown back by it.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, Brook, to imagine that it came out that

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<v Speaker 2>your parents are actually the ones who set you and

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<v Speaker 2>your husband Michael.

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<v Speaker 3>Up all those years ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody knew about it except you. You wouldn't care.

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<v Speaker 5>At this point. I'm so deep into it.

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<v Speaker 6>Now.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, if it was the second date, I'd be pissed,

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<v Speaker 5>you know. Now, It's like, well, I do love him.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess my mom knew.

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<v Speaker 2>But in Justin's case, there's probably never been an example

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<v Speaker 2>of someone who talked themselves out of a date faster

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<v Speaker 2>than he did. Oh my god, I think there was

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<v Speaker 2>like a five percent chance it still would have worked

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<v Speaker 2>if he had just been quiet.

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<v Speaker 5>I really was like, yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Just need a week or two to end this one thing,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think I'm going to focus on him. Should

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<v Speaker 3>end the call, yeap.

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<v Speaker 5>His parents knew that he's his own worst enemy.

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<v Speaker 1>The talking.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't know why, but I just have a feeling that

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<v Speaker 2>he's going to be back with us someday.

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<v Speaker 4>I think probably sooner, ye like Justine, maybe in a

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<v Speaker 4>couple of weeks, and we'll be ready for.

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<v Speaker 5>Him, will be calling him to remember.

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<v Speaker 2>You could check out all of our Second Date podcasts

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<v Speaker 2>if you ever miss any of them. They're up online

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<v Speaker 2>wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffery

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<v Speaker 5>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning