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Speaker 1: Second date.

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Speaker 2: A lot of guys like a woman who's down to

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Speaker 2: get dirty.

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Speaker 3: Your darn right, John, Where do you find someone like that?

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Speaker 3: Like Brooks Hometown?

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Speaker 2: Oh sure, Craigslist of course, pole over back at Brooks Hometown.

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Speaker 3: We already covered that.

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Speaker 2: But no, our listener Justin found his special dirty lady

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Speaker 2: Brooks Hometown.

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Speaker 4: No hometown isn't big enough for craigs yea.

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Speaker 2: Noting her in the community garden deep in literal.

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Speaker 3: Dirty, like really dirty, Justin, you like a dirty girl?

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Speaker 3: Huh laugh?

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Speaker 5: Is that the reason why you're on the phone with us? Well?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's uh yeah, we did not meet on dating app. Shocker.

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Speaker 5: Okay, you met over a flower bed.

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Speaker 3: Ye's kind of romantic.

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Speaker 6: I mean she was, uh planting veggiees peas, carrots, whatever.

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Speaker 3: Some nice bulbs. Can we know what her name is?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? Yeah, Katie, Katie.

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Speaker 3: It sounds like a sweet girl.

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Speaker 4: I don't frequent community gardens, but I assume people who

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Speaker 4: do go there often right to tend.

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Speaker 6: Well, you have to take care of your right.

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Speaker 4: So is it something where you'd seen Katie multiple times

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Speaker 4: before you actually went up and talked to her.

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Speaker 6: Yes, the first time I actually got the courage to

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Speaker 6: talk to. He was very casual and I did. We

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Speaker 6: did not exchange numbers or anything. It's more like talking

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Speaker 6: about garden. And I asked her what she was planting.

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Speaker 2: She's telling me Veggie, Oh wow, you got right into the.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I got right into the dirt.

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Speaker 3: Good for you.

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Speaker 1: So then I.

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Speaker 6: Saw her a day or two later, she was back

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Speaker 6: at the garden. So then I went up to her

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Speaker 6: and I was like, oh yo, how how's the radishes?

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Speaker 6: And that got like a chuck off from her.

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Speaker 5: Okay, look at you, mister humor.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I see what the joke is.

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Speaker 6: Yes, she's thinking that I actually care when she was

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Speaker 6: a planting, but I didn't. I just wanted to talk

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Speaker 6: to her. That's yeah, I.

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Speaker 2: Don't care about she doesn't listen back to this if

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Speaker 2: it works out, okay, I.

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Speaker 6: Mean I told her, like, you know, I have to

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Speaker 6: be chatted. Then I got her number and I said, hey,

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Speaker 6: there's a cute pub like a few blocks away. She

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Speaker 5: Oh look at you.

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Speaker 4: Okay, were you talking this fast when you asked her to?

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Speaker 5: Because you seem a little nervous right now?

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Speaker 1: Was I talking?

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Speaker 6: I don't know she's nervous.

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Speaker 3: Girl comes off a little bit sexy. I think that's

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Speaker 3: what Brooke was trying to.

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Speaker 6: Say, rather sexy than nervous.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, it's coming through right now.

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Speaker 3: So tell So you took her to a pub.

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Speaker 6: And it was cool, Everyone's going great. But then the

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Speaker 6: next day I texted her and nothing.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, can we talk a little bit more about

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Speaker 4: your time at the pub, like was flirting happening?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 5: Any?

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Speaker 6: I mean, I try. I don't know how good my

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Speaker 6: game is, but I drive.

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Speaker 3: It's working on us right now, dude, so keep it going.

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Speaker 6: I do have a confession, though, that I didn't tell her.

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Speaker 5: Okay, decide the radish question that you didn't care.

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Speaker 6: What it Wasn't we say this? We I knew she

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Speaker 6: was going to be.

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Speaker 5: There, going to beware you invited her at a.

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Speaker 6: Guard at the garden.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean?

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Speaker 6: Well, okay, my parents are on this dating app where

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Speaker 6: parents kind of meet up with other parents to find

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Speaker 5: Wait, that exists? There's a dating app for parents to

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Speaker 5: meddle in their kids' lives.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, please do not tell us what the name this

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Speaker 1: No, No, I'm not.

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Speaker 6: I'm not telling you. But Katie's parents were in on it.

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Speaker 6: Katie doesn't know, I think, but her parents were on

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Speaker 6: and they're they're so down. They talk to my parents

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Speaker 6: and I know this sounds strange.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I'm trying to miss.

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Speaker 2: This is a site where parents meet up with each

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Speaker 2: other to figure out if their kids would be a

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they're basically like it's basically like a range daity right. So, like,

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Speaker 4: so you're saying Katie's parents told your parents, Katie will

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Speaker 4: be at the garden from three to five.

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Speaker 5: Your son should show up.

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Speaker 6: Then, Yeah, so I got a plot. I don't even garden.

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Speaker 6: I don't know how to garden.

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Speaker 3: Whoa, you don't even know how to garden?

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Speaker 6: Not really, I mean I was just digging hole. I

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Speaker 6: mean I was just like I was digging holes in

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, So you just got a plot to.

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Speaker 6: Meet sun hat. I got a sun hat.

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Speaker 5: Kay didn't have to go that hard a bunch of water.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So this would be fine if Katie knew her

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Speaker 5: But she doesn't know.

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Speaker 6: No, I don't think so. I mean, she didn't mention anything,

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Speaker 6: and I just don't want to freak her out.

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Speaker 3: At least your parents already approve of me.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I wonder if her parents know that she's not responding

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Speaker 2: to you. Now, how long has it been.

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Speaker 6: It's been like about five days.

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Speaker 5: And have you told your parents that she hasn't responded.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and her mother actually reached out tonight. O.

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Speaker 5: Wait, Katie's mother reached out to you.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and she said, I think you will be perfect

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Speaker 6: for her.

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Speaker 1: Now you want more.

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Speaker 4: People in on this, Like you've got two sets of

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Speaker 4: parents already involved, and you want us involved.

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Speaker 1: To me, I don't.

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Speaker 6: I can't. I don't know why I can't have my

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Speaker 2: I don't know idea that it's odd that the most

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Speaker 2: natural thing in this entire situation is actually the fact

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Speaker 2: that you're calling a radio show to intervene in your data.

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Speaker 5: It's like we're a community garden. We've got the radio,

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Speaker 5: we've got the parents. We're just trying to grow a

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Speaker 5: relationship here.

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Speaker 1: It takes it.

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Speaker 3: Remember justin hatess community gardens and doesn't.

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Speaker 5: Care about them, so it doesn't know about it.

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Speaker 6: But I will learn. I mean, if me and her

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Speaker 6: go on more day, I'll have her talk to me

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Speaker 6: about the garden, like educate me, nothing like faking.

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Speaker 5: An interest to get in with somebody.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, who doesn't do that.

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Speaker 2: We're going to share that sentiment with Katie when we

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Speaker 2: come back and call her and try and get you

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Speaker 2: a second date update right after this.

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Speaker 3: Okay, dirty boy.

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Speaker 2: Yes, we're in the middle of a second date call.

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Speaker 2: And when we left, I told Justin that we'd call

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Speaker 2: Katie and share the sentiment. And I'm seeing people texting

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Speaker 2: in at seventy five nine two telling me, don't do that.

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Speaker 2: Don't blow his cover about his parents' matchmaking app.

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Speaker 5: Wait, you said that we were going to tell him

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Speaker 5: though I didn't hear that.

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Speaker 3: That's not what I meant at all.

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Speaker 2: I just meant share the sentiment that he really likes

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Speaker 2: her and is eager to learn more about gardening. You

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Speaker 2: but he's he says he's willing to try maybe. And

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Speaker 2: I guess the more important question, though, that we need

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Speaker 2: hook up their grown kids with each other. I I mean, Justin,

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Speaker 2: how do you what do you think?

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Speaker 3: Do you feel weird about your parents finding you a lover?

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Speaker 6: Well, you know when you like date somebody at the

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Speaker 6: meet their parents and it's always awkward and you're nervous,

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Speaker 6: Like are the parents already approve of me?

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Speaker 4: That's like, you know, such a credit card, like the

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Speaker 4: improved The best relationships can come from, like arrangements.

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Speaker 5: Honestly, like your parents know you best, they really do.

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Speaker 5: Watch cute.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all for voting to bring marriage and relationships back

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Speaker 2: to the nineteen.

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Speaker 5: Twenty Hey, listen, listen.

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Speaker 4: If we're allowing algorithms to help us find love, why

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Speaker 3: We're trying for a one in a million chance.

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Speaker 2: And I'm just gonna say we're not gonna reveal the

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Speaker 5: I do feel like you should do it at some point.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean we'll see, Yeah, just feel it out,

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Speaker 6: all right, I'm gonna.

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Speaker 3: Call it right now.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Hello, Hey is this Katie.

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Speaker 5: I don't know why I'm nervous.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a little nervous too.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you're feeling nervous Katie about being

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Speaker 5: Welcome to our show, Katie.

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Speaker 2: We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning do a

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Speaker 2: radio show, and we're trying to do a segment right

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Speaker 2: now called the Second Date Update.

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Speaker 6: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, So.

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Speaker 2: We're trying to reach out on behalf of one of

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Speaker 2: our listeners who you went out with recently, named Justin.

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Speaker 2: We're trying to read your vibe on if you liked

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Speaker 7: I mean, I'm exiting another relationship right now.

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Speaker 4: Oh oh, so things are a little messy right now.

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Speaker 7: I mean, yeah, I don't really want to talk about

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Speaker 7: it and ended a few weeks ago, but Justin just

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Speaker 7: seems so like sweet and kind and like I just

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Speaker 7: don't want to really get into it until i'm like

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Speaker 4: That's good, Okay, that's actually yeah, So you actually liked him,

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Speaker 4: you're just not calling him back because you didn't want

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Speaker 4: that's like, I respect.

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Speaker 5: It him, right.

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Speaker 7: I don't know what you know about him, but he's

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Speaker 7: a dork, but he's just really sweet. But he was

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Speaker 7: Like I just felt like I knew him. And I

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Speaker 7: just also feel like I've gone out with so many

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Speaker 7: people being crazy or a liar or they're hiding something,

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Speaker 7: and it just feels like.

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Speaker 3: We don't like anything.

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Speaker 7: For once, like I was like, oh, okay, like this

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Speaker 3: Really and all the cards on the table right up front.

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Speaker 3: He sounds genuine, but we know he's.

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Speaker 2: Like, well, I think he's pretty genuine.

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Speaker 5: I will say he is very earnest.

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Speaker 4: He does sound a little dorky in a sweet way.

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Speaker 5: And I tell you, well, I'm with you, Jeff.

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Speaker 1: I mean he was.

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Speaker 5: Attractive, right, you were attracted to him still, Yeah, I.

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Speaker 7: Mean it was kind of funny. We met in a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if Justin were to hear the things that you

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Speaker 5: He's a restaurant.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, yeah, yeah, In fact, I don't have to

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Speaker 6: I'm thrilled that you like me, hunk energy.

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Speaker 7: Why didn't you tell me the phone?

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Speaker 2: Well, we can't all be as honest and transparent as

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Speaker 3: You know, that's just that's more credit to him.

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Speaker 6: And it's totally fine. I mean, like, I heard that

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Speaker 6: I have like a million acts.

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Speaker 7: A million acts.

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Speaker 6: Huh Okay, it's like, literally, okay, four, I don't know

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Speaker 6: don't I literally have like one ex girlfriend. Okay, Actually,

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Speaker 7: It's just kind of a we're saying that you heard

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Speaker 6: That's true, Okay, I I the honesty I am. I

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Speaker 6: And you know, uh, okay, here, I'm just going to

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Speaker 1: Here's the deal.

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Speaker 6: I didn't go to that gardening community gardening because I

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Speaker 1: To be there.

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Speaker 6: Because Okay, my parents and your parents are on this

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Speaker 6: Uh the mine.

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Speaker 3: I don't think she.

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Speaker 6: Your parents loves me. Your parents really love me?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 6: Approof of that? I mean, my parents approve your parents approved.

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Speaker 1: Like, let's make this work.

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Speaker 6: I know that this is weird.

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Speaker 2: Justin, do you have to say everything just one piece

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Speaker 4: Okay, can we just say real quickly, we really hoped

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Speaker 8: Yeah, well yeah, I just you know, like I could

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Speaker 5: Katie, just listen for a second. I mean, who knows

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Speaker 5: you better than dad? Right? No, oh my god, that

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna come to your side on that one. It's

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Speaker 3: a little bit unusual. I will concede that. But Justin

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I actually didn't know.

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Speaker 3: That's okay.

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Speaker 6: I thought he's actually a great idea. I mean it's like,

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Speaker 6: I do not meet any women. I see them all

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Speaker 6: every dating app you could think of, nobody's wife.

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Speaker 8: And Katie, listen, listen.

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Speaker 4: You definitely have to have a conversation with your parents,

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Speaker 5: He he didn't make your parents do this.

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Speaker 1: Some of this is Justin's fault, some of some of

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Speaker 4: Didn't say anything. Okay, well, maybe he just shows up

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Speaker 3: But his heart was in a good place when he

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, absolutely like me.

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Speaker 6: Like he complemented, yourshes your great guard I can learn

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Speaker 6: from you. We're going to talk about you know what.

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Speaker 2: It's at this point, Katie, that I would like to

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Speaker 2: offer to send you to on another date, that we

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Speaker 5: Give it one chance. I mean, that would make your

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not.

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Speaker 7: What about this would be any normal person? Are you crazy?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 2: All right, maybe it's a no right now, but maybe

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Speaker 2: if you want, we can organize so that you and

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Speaker 3: Family reunion John and Julie.

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Speaker 5: I think, I mean, it sounds like they're lovely people.

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Speaker 3: I know they're in for Yeah, they made you.

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Speaker 1: I'm in What do you say? Give you much chances?

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Speaker 6: Like many people have arrangements like we got married, just.

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Speaker 3: Started off good, and then it's all right, We're still there.

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Speaker 5: I think he's still there, Katie.

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Speaker 2: We're running out of time here, so we need to

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Speaker 7: I'm absolutely not.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well justin you're up to a million and one exes.

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Speaker 6: Now my parents can give you a date. Well, I

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Speaker 6: don't know.

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Speaker 3: Those words have never been spoken before. My parents can't

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Speaker 3: give me a day.

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Speaker 1: Who can.

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Speaker 2: Brook Jeffrey in the morning to say that she was

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Speaker 2: a pretty big Understate one hundred.

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Speaker 5: There is going to be a conversation in that family.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not. She was so thrown back by it.

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Speaker 2: I mean, Brook, to imagine that it came out that

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Speaker 2: your husband Michael.

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Speaker 3: Up all those years ago.

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Speaker 2: Everybody knew about it except you. You wouldn't care.

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Speaker 5: At this point. I'm so deep into it.

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Speaker 6: Now.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, if it was the second date, I'd be pissed,

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Speaker 5: you know. Now, It's like, well, I do love him.

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Speaker 5: I guess my mom knew.

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Speaker 2: But in Justin's case, there's probably never been an example

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Speaker 5: I really was like, yeah, I.

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Speaker 3: Just need a week or two to end this one thing,

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Speaker 3: and I think I'm going to focus on him. Should

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Speaker 3: end the call, yeap.

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Speaker 5: His parents knew that he's his own worst enemy.

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Speaker 1: The talking.

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Speaker 2: Don't know why, but I just have a feeling that

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Speaker 4: I think probably sooner, ye like Justine, maybe in a

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Speaker 5: Him, will be calling him to remember.

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Speaker 2: You could check out all of our Second Date podcasts

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Speaker 2: if you ever miss any of them. They're up online

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Speaker 2: wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffery

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Speaker 5: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning