1 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:11,719 Speaker 1: To Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and Tamra Judge. Hi, guys, 2 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 1: welcome to this week's to Cheese and a Pod with myself, 3 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:20,239 Speaker 1: Teddy Mellencamp and Tambra Judge. We have a big guest today, 4 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 1: very own Vicky Gundlsen. But before we bring Vicki en 5 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:32,360 Speaker 1: hot off the presses. You're gonna be excited about this, Tom. 6 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:38,480 Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Miami's Nicole Martin engaged to Anthony Lopez, 7 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:43,560 Speaker 1: a total surprise. According to People dot Com, they're going gay. 8 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 1: They well, that's good, congratulations. I really like her. I 9 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 1: like them together. I feel like you could see chemistry 10 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 1: on you know, watching these housewives shows, so many husbands 11 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 1: and wives have zero chemistry. You're like, I'm they're doomed. 12 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 1: But these two, it's effortless, like they have fun. I 13 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 1: love them together. But is it a total probze? Haven't 14 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 1: they been together? Like remember he was like really pushing 15 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 1: back when they were asking any engagement questions. But maybe 16 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:09,319 Speaker 1: it's because he's been planning it this whole time. Yeah, 17 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:12,839 Speaker 1: or maybe it's a wedding for season five. But here's 18 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 1: the real real bummer. They got engaged on New Year's 19 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 1: Eve while vacation and Aspen. I was in Aspen. Why 20 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 1: didn't they reach out Nicole? Hello, Kyle and I were there. 21 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:29,760 Speaker 1: Everybody was an Aspen but me. I know, next time, 22 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:35,319 Speaker 1: I was at home coffee. Congratulations to them. That's all right. Well, 23 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 1: I'm excited to bring Vicky on. Have you met Vickiett Well, 24 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:41,279 Speaker 1: Vicky and I were chatting when you were going potty. 25 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:44,600 Speaker 1: Ourst thing that she said to me is, she goes, 26 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:47,200 Speaker 1: how come you and tam are getting paid to do 27 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 1: this and I'm not You're getting paid? Okay, Well we'll 28 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 1: send you We'll see already. Okay, Okay, it's it's how 29 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 1: much do we owe you? Mrs Gumblson. I don't know whatever. 30 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 1: You guys get paid on the face, Yeah, we only 31 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 1: get hold on Vicky. First things first, I'm a little 32 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 1: bit I'm a little hurt that you told Tamarra that 33 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:15,400 Speaker 1: she shouldn't do the podcast with me. She should do 34 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:19,800 Speaker 1: a podcast with you. Should he talked about it. You know, 35 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 1: I mentioned you, Teddy, because her and I were on 36 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 1: the same show. We talked about doing a podcast Nextie. 37 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 1: I know, look at the split You're like, oh, yeah, 38 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 1: but like, okay, whatever, that's weird. But oh my good, 39 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 1: do I have sense jealous spice? Well maybe a little 40 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:37,399 Speaker 1: bit about you know what she told me. I'm telling 41 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: that would be the first one chosen over you because 42 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 1: we're best friends. If we live in the same very, 43 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:45,320 Speaker 1: we're on the same show. But I joined her podcast. 44 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 1: You understand that, right, we named it. Okay, Oh my god. 45 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:54,679 Speaker 1: I love you so much. I love that you keep 46 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 1: it real. You always speak your mind. Here's the thing 47 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 1: you don't well whatever you want your welcome to come 48 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 1: on here unpaid? You didn't come work for cow to insurance. 49 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 1: I'm paid. How's that perfect? Perfect? It's done and done? Yes? Okay, Vic, Yes, 50 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:15,399 Speaker 1: would you invite me and Teddy to come hang out 51 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 1: with you and putavirta and we can look it up 52 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 1: at underlas. She's not gonna invite me. You wouldn't do 53 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:27,240 Speaker 1: would you will love Teddy? Well? I know she shouldn't 54 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: be a best friend. And we're doing to teest. I 55 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 1: feel like you're gonna like me. You you're saying, there's 56 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 1: a shock that like you. But I'm just saying it's 57 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 1: kind of weird. Friend and seeing a podcast with some 58 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 1: other franchise persons. But that's because we have we need 59 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 1: to have different views. We can't. We can't be like 60 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:54,240 Speaker 1: the Amigas or whatever. Different viewpoints. Let me tell you 61 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 1: that we do. You've been gone for a very long time. 62 00:03:57,120 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 1: It has been I went on a date the other night. Oh, 63 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 1: let's hear about it. I want to hear about it. 64 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 1: I've already heard about it, but you need to tell 65 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 1: Teddy about it. I have had more of a ship 66 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 1: show here in three weeks than I do in Orange 67 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 1: Tony shocker. Okay, so how did one? How did you 68 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 1: meet him? Was it an app? Was it a set up? 69 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 1: I don't do apps? And by the way, is your 70 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 1: dad single? Is earlier one? You do not want to 71 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: date my dad? How old is your dad? I don't 72 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:30,600 Speaker 1: in SIXTI maybe I don't know? Oh that old? The 73 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:32,839 Speaker 1: maximum I will go is sixty three, but I'll do 74 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 1: sixty five if he's really good for the cougs for cos. Okay, 75 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 1: so you want to date, but he's not Teddy's husband's dad. 76 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:43,359 Speaker 1: He's not tall enough for you. I heard that you 77 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 1: need a six foot requirement. Yeah, six six one? Is 78 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 1: he a six one six? But I really like six one, No, 79 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 1: he's maybe five nine. Maybe he's not tall enough for you. Okay, next, Okay, 80 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:01,360 Speaker 1: so I kind of feel like you're not young enough 81 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:08,040 Speaker 1: for him. Okay. Never My this is my list. So 82 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 1: if any of you listeners, okay, tell us, I'll tell 83 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:17,640 Speaker 1: you number one. They must love Jesus age fifty five 84 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:20,839 Speaker 1: to sixty three, so that out. I want to be 85 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:23,359 Speaker 1: treated like a lady. I want a family man. I 86 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:26,839 Speaker 1: want to have them to be self sufficient, someone I 87 00:05:26,839 --> 00:05:30,840 Speaker 1: can wrap with, someone who will adore me. Yes, I 88 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 1: love that. Like to travel new experiences. Someone to cook 89 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:39,600 Speaker 1: with me and drink wine. Yes to love with me. Um, 90 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 1: but not being an alcoholic, I can't do the drugs 91 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:44,599 Speaker 1: and alcoh healthy. Um. Attractive to me. He has to 92 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 1: like fine Brooks said, it's a vagina, her vagina I love. Yeah. 93 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 1: He has to be confident but not egotistic cocky, to 94 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 1: be loyal and committed, no lies. Last A lot of people, 95 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:03,920 Speaker 1: A lot of things on your lips. I thought this 96 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:08,159 Speaker 1: was going to be a list of people my matchmaker. Um, 97 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 1: okay for me. Important to me, someone did love my 98 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 1: friends and my family, non smoke for no drugs, not 99 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:17,479 Speaker 1: focused on you, thought the coops was gonna be appropriate, 100 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:20,840 Speaker 1: he smokes, you know, any of you about them? I 101 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 1: think startling anyway. He loves to see at the cowboy 102 00:06:23,560 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 1: hat where is a plus? Or cowboy bootwear is a plus? 103 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 1: Midwestern guy. Someone who respects me in my career. Someone 104 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 1: who likes boating the river. Someone who is not intimidated 105 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 1: by my success. Must have good tea, dress is good, 106 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:39,159 Speaker 1: owned a home, likes Mexico, entrepreneur, flexible with work. Likes 107 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:41,839 Speaker 1: to have sex with me to be continued, lives to 108 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 1: have sex with me to be continue. Your list is 109 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 1: this long, Vicky? Your list is I mean thinks it's 110 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 1: keeps going. Okay, okay, So you went on a date 111 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:57,720 Speaker 1: with a guy recently, a Canadian guy. How did you 112 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:00,720 Speaker 1: meet him? Okay, we know you didn't do a fun 113 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:03,160 Speaker 1: place down here. I don't do ask because all the 114 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:06,400 Speaker 1: freaks out out at a local place. He came up 115 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:08,640 Speaker 1: to me said, O, God, your dimpoles that. I'm like, yeah, 116 00:07:08,680 --> 00:07:11,120 Speaker 1: they're They're with everywhere I go. They're always gonna be there. 117 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 1: And then he's like, can I take you out this 118 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 1: week and let me get your phone number? I'm like, 119 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 1: so I gave my WhatsApp number international and he texted 120 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 1: me split. The next morning, he's like, where'd you like 121 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 1: to go? What day? He said, let's go to the cliff. 122 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, that's when my fiance asked his fiance, hold on, 123 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 1: did you challenge? Did you go there? No? I didn't 124 00:07:31,960 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 1: go there yet? Okay, but did you tell him? I 125 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 1: got tell everything? Can I find on the world Wide Web? 126 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 1: Probably done? Can you see me forty? I feel like 127 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 1: you sent me a picture. He's Forty's too young. He's 128 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 1: too young. That's problematic. Any we went on this date 129 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 1: was a very nice date, very nice cast. She's showing. No, 130 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 1: I'm trying to find a picture of him. I do 131 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 1: not want expose him. Please, she's not going to show 132 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 1: I thought, I really, I think he's really good looking. 133 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 1: That's this little thing right here, you know, like a 134 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 1: little thing, yeah, like like taste saver. Yes. No, man, no, 135 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 1: like he's got the little No. Let me let me go, 136 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 1: let me go a little further because we're gonna okay, 137 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 1: let's talk about so did you see his wain? No? 138 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 1: You may as well have seen his wer you. Okay, 139 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you this, Vicky. Anyone with the taste saver. 140 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 1: That's nowt saver, taste saver, to taste means that means 141 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 1: he can like okay, so okay, and he go to 142 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:49,280 Speaker 1: one of my favorite restaurants in towns very fancy Sonora 143 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:52,480 Speaker 1: Primot was this beautiful sexy dress with a little bit, 144 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 1: you know, and he was the whole time like, wander 145 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 1: hold my hand. He said, Oh my god, you're so gorgeous. 146 00:08:57,200 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 1: I love smell, I love look, I love everything. You 147 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 1: want to bang you. So I'm like, okay, that's how 148 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 1: he goes. You want to drink after after dinner drink. 149 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I'm good. I mean we had a 150 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:09,559 Speaker 1: whole bottle of came as he quoted a beautiful rabbi 151 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:12,400 Speaker 1: on the salt plank and mushrooms and it was all 152 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 1: like perfect. Then we get in the cab to go 153 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 1: back to my house and you were bringing him home, 154 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 1: taking him home night one. Wait, you took him home 155 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 1: night one home and I said, you know what, let's 156 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:27,199 Speaker 1: just sit on my balcony. It's a beautiful moon tonight. 157 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 1: Let's have a glass of tequila and then you can 158 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:32,640 Speaker 1: get out right. So it was very respectaful. He's like 159 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 1: your place is incredible. Who do you own it? With? Him? 160 00:09:34,559 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 1: Like me myself and I I bought it myself cash 161 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 1: I went through the whole story about why you're all that. 162 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 1: So anyway, the next night we play under meet up again. 163 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 1: After I was at dinner with a bunch of people. 164 00:09:51,280 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 1: So we met up at this other place and I 165 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 1: could see him walking around the side of the bar, 166 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:59,000 Speaker 1: but he never came up to me. He was watching me, 167 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:04,679 Speaker 1: like how I interrupting, and so Ab said, I go, Hi, like, 168 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 1: what are you doing over there? When you tryd of 169 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 1: have a thing, they're like top tonight or whatever. And 170 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:11,880 Speaker 1: he comes up. He goes, why are people taking your picture? 171 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:14,000 Speaker 1: I've been seeing three people take your picture? I said, 172 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:16,600 Speaker 1: I've been a little real. I was at a little 173 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 1: reality show and fourteen years later, I still get recognized. 174 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:23,199 Speaker 1: And there's bachelor parties here, at birthday parties here, and 175 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 1: people come here to see me and I radically they're 176 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 1: here this soon. And he didn't like that. He did 177 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 1: not like that. He said, let's dance. I'm like, okay, 178 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 1: let's dance. And I, by the way, I need to 179 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:34,080 Speaker 1: take dancing lesson. So he was a really good dancer 180 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:38,080 Speaker 1: and he's like, I'm the man. You follow me. I'm like, okay, 181 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:40,600 Speaker 1: but I'm an alpha female, so you follow a meek. 182 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 1: So anyway, it was a really great dance and then 183 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:48,320 Speaker 1: he tried to make out with you at the place 184 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 1: on the dance force. I'm like, everyone's gonna be trying 185 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:54,680 Speaker 1: to take your picture if they've already been trying to 186 00:10:55,240 --> 00:10:57,440 Speaker 1: Did you give that? Did you give him some tongue? No, 187 00:10:57,720 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 1: So I said, I don't do that, even if we're married, 188 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:02,120 Speaker 1: I don't do that. I mean, that's whe the budget, 189 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:04,840 Speaker 1: but I don't do that. And he's like, well, I'm 190 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 1: really having a problem with you not showing me affection 191 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 1: here one and a half Like literally, okay, okay, well 192 00:11:14,280 --> 00:11:17,959 Speaker 1: don't let don't let that date discourage you because there's 193 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 1: a lot of great guys. I now, I'm just gonna 194 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:23,080 Speaker 1: find they're gonna have to find me. Oh wait, there's more. 195 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:25,839 Speaker 1: So I'm just gonna end it where he said to me. 196 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:30,560 Speaker 1: So so he ended it's at two thirty in the morning. 197 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 1: He says, Hi, oh, night hunt at two thirty in 198 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 1: the morning. Hi O, n h. Just a bit too 199 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:44,080 Speaker 1: popular for me. I wish I met you otherwise or 200 00:11:44,120 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 1: in another way. I said, okay, well it was nice 201 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:49,600 Speaker 1: to you too, And then the morning I get hey, babe, 202 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 1: I feel you deserve an explanation. I think you are 203 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 1: an absolutely beautiful person inside and out. I just don't 204 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:58,320 Speaker 1: care for the idea that we couldn't dance or talk 205 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:00,600 Speaker 1: without somebody getting in your face, which is a lie. 206 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:04,040 Speaker 1: Two people said, I take a picture when you're done dancing. Um, 207 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:06,880 Speaker 1: because I didn't realize how much that happened. I also 208 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:09,359 Speaker 1: want to be able to show the person I am 209 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 1: with affection while in public. Otherwise I enjoyed our time 210 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 1: to go other I said, oh good, whoever has the 211 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:18,360 Speaker 1: opportunity to end up with me, we'll have to embrace 212 00:12:18,559 --> 00:12:21,680 Speaker 1: all of me and accepted and cherish it. Yeah, you're 213 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:25,920 Speaker 1: totally worth it. I think I overwrapped reacted. So that 214 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 1: was my first, my first experience here going on the day. 215 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:35,200 Speaker 1: But I think I told you I hired a matchmaker. Yes, 216 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 1: so you hired a matchmaker in Chicago, right, And then 217 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 1: on my fourth date with a guy from Chicago from 218 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 1: the matchmaker, he's setting up from the airport when I 219 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 1: get Chicago. So what's next, bick, What do you think 220 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:01,600 Speaker 1: is next? Do you are you? Are you over the 221 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:04,320 Speaker 1: Steve thing? Are you still? I'll never be over him? 222 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:07,440 Speaker 1: Why why are you not over him? To me, when 223 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:10,200 Speaker 1: you fall in love with somebody as deep as I did, 224 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:12,960 Speaker 1: you got to move out of somebody's house and into 225 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 1: the next one. Do you remember when we were in Mexico, 226 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 1: um and in normal days you would be moving it up, partying. 227 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:23,640 Speaker 1: I was naked, Shannon was in nurse banks, and You're like, 228 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 1: I can't do this, I can't do this, I can't 229 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 1: do this. I said, oh my god, she's gonna get fired. 230 00:13:27,640 --> 00:13:29,720 Speaker 1: She has not the same Vickie that she's been for 231 00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:33,280 Speaker 1: so many years because you're so afraid of what he thought. 232 00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:35,680 Speaker 1: I didn't want to lose him, And I thought, as 233 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:38,080 Speaker 1: you are in a partnership, if one of your partners 234 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:40,439 Speaker 1: wants you to kind of calling it down, which is 235 00:13:40,559 --> 00:13:42,520 Speaker 1: very difficult to me. It's like it's like horse when 236 00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:43,840 Speaker 1: you to get out of the cage, Like I want 237 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:46,880 Speaker 1: to go full throttle all the time. So I really 238 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:49,680 Speaker 1: was okay with toning it down as I was getting older, 239 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 1: because I'm like, you know what, at the end of the 240 00:13:50,760 --> 00:13:53,720 Speaker 1: the day, but I don't feel really feel like there's 241 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 1: toning down Vicky Gumbelson like, there's no toning you down. 242 00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 1: Your full throttle all the time, and that's how people 243 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:03,320 Speaker 1: love about you. I know. But if I was going 244 00:14:03,400 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 1: to keep him, you had to towne in town. I 245 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:08,440 Speaker 1: had to because to me, that was worth it. I 246 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 1: have to ask because this is honestly. When I did 247 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:15,679 Speaker 1: my Instagram question yesterday and everybody was asking their questions, 248 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:20,080 Speaker 1: the main question that was asked was do you ever 249 00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:24,520 Speaker 1: miss Don? Yeah? Don and I are actually really have 250 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:29,000 Speaker 1: re sparked a really quality friendship. He just got recovered 251 00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:31,240 Speaker 1: from COVID. He was alone, so I did you know 252 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:34,360 Speaker 1: insta card kept breaking. You were sending him food, food 253 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 1: and medication, start medication and got him with my doctor 254 00:14:38,160 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 1: and he was really heartfelt. He said you became all 255 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:44,560 Speaker 1: alone and you said he was very thankful. Yeah, very 256 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 1: Would you ever would you ever consider reigniting that flame? 257 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:53,120 Speaker 1: Because people love you? Guys know I love Don. I 258 00:14:53,160 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 1: am full to blame whatever the number is done. It 259 00:14:58,160 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 1: wasn't a good husband. Towards the end, I wasn't a 260 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:02,560 Speaker 1: good wife. It wasn't we're not a good past. We're 261 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:07,680 Speaker 1: good people. We never think it was the show and 262 00:15:07,760 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 1: Chimercott was getting divorced from Simon, so I thought I 263 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:12,240 Speaker 1: had to do what she was doing. It's my time, 264 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 1: it's always my fun. No, I mean, I will call 265 00:15:15,640 --> 00:15:18,920 Speaker 1: Don right now and be like, hey, let me love him. 266 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:22,040 Speaker 1: He knows you love him, and I love Don and 267 00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:24,400 Speaker 1: I feel like you guys just should just get it 268 00:15:24,440 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 1: back together. I mean, it's been eleven years since you know, 269 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 1: could you imagine the sex after eleven years? I love sex, 270 00:15:31,680 --> 00:15:36,360 Speaker 1: so I know you do. So now she's not well 271 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 1: that you just said that. I really feel like we 272 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:41,440 Speaker 1: need to make the effort with Dawn. I also think 273 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:45,960 Speaker 1: Teddy there might be more opportunities. I mean, I don't 274 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:47,640 Speaker 1: know what the Lord has playing for me. I pray 275 00:15:47,640 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 1: about it every single day. I thought, Steve Lodjoy is 276 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:55,360 Speaker 1: gonna be my forever man? Why why not fun put 277 00:15:55,400 --> 00:15:58,800 Speaker 1: that ring on me? You are you were in love 278 00:15:58,840 --> 00:16:01,560 Speaker 1: with the idea of being in love and being settled down. 279 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 1: I don't feel like he was the one. I don't 280 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:06,080 Speaker 1: feel like he's a horrible person. I don't feel like 281 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:08,880 Speaker 1: attracted to him and I had But are you really 282 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:14,960 Speaker 1: so much? Yeah? But I do are what I was? Yeah? 283 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:19,200 Speaker 1: Who do you think's worse Steve or Brooks. Uh, somebody 284 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:22,120 Speaker 1: learned about cancer pretty shitty, Vicky. I can tell you 285 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 1: this from therapy, which because after I got the boot 286 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:29,680 Speaker 1: from Housewives, I was like struggling and I was like, 287 00:16:29,720 --> 00:16:33,720 Speaker 1: what is going on? As we can, and my therapist 288 00:16:33,760 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 1: was like, there's something in you from a young age 289 00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 1: where like you didn't feel unconditional love. For whatever reason, 290 00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:42,160 Speaker 1: he wants to go back to what I was a childhood. 291 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:46,640 Speaker 1: My childhood was perfect since curely every therapist was totally 292 00:16:46,640 --> 00:16:50,120 Speaker 1: about your childhood. It was perfect. Yeah, but but the 293 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:52,640 Speaker 1: people for the people that didn't have perfect childhood's like 294 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:56,200 Speaker 1: it it comes up, you know, and there's no part 295 00:16:56,280 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 1: of your life that you feel like you're searching for. 296 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:04,359 Speaker 1: You're trying to get that validation. Loved. I don't like 297 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:07,920 Speaker 1: being alone. I don't Steve knew that. Don't never leave me. 298 00:17:08,240 --> 00:17:10,280 Speaker 1: Let's whatever we're going through, let's work it out together. 299 00:17:10,280 --> 00:17:13,840 Speaker 1: Because I afford him. You're not you're not talking to 300 00:17:13,920 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 1: him right now. No, I haven't talked him since the 301 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:17,520 Speaker 1: day walked out of my house. Oh he did tell 302 00:17:17,560 --> 00:17:21,680 Speaker 1: me that I need uh, I need help. I said, Okay, 303 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:25,359 Speaker 1: I'm getting it. Okay, you know, but no, there's no conversation. 304 00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:28,920 Speaker 1: So where do you plan to go from here? Tell 305 00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:30,560 Speaker 1: me that's the weirdest question you asked from me. You know, 306 00:17:30,640 --> 00:17:33,159 Speaker 1: I'm just asking, like, you know, like you needn't have 307 00:17:33,160 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 1: a pool in a little bit, You're gonna go on 308 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 1: the pool a little bit. So I'm just saying, like, 309 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:39,840 Speaker 1: it is what it is. He did to you, what 310 00:17:39,920 --> 00:17:42,240 Speaker 1: he did to you. You came, you went from Brooks. 311 00:17:44,240 --> 00:17:46,840 Speaker 1: I had ten months in between Brooks and Steve, which 312 00:17:47,040 --> 00:17:51,480 Speaker 1: which one was harder to get over Steve because I 313 00:17:51,480 --> 00:17:54,280 Speaker 1: would have said Brooks now when Brooks drove away because 314 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:57,280 Speaker 1: he hurt me so bad with that cancer scam. Um. 315 00:17:57,320 --> 00:18:00,640 Speaker 1: I I thought this time around, I got it right. 316 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:03,440 Speaker 1: I really did. I did a lot of praying about 317 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:05,840 Speaker 1: his family and I were totally connected. Okay, let me 318 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:08,160 Speaker 1: ask you a question about that. Because I have married 319 00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:10,399 Speaker 1: because I felt like this is what I need to 320 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 1: do for my life. And when I'm married Simon, I 321 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 1: felt like I needed somebody with structure. I needed somebody, 322 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:19,840 Speaker 1: you know. That was just very grounded. And I married 323 00:18:19,880 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 1: Simon not because I loved him. We have fun together, 324 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 1: but it wasn't it wasn't love you as much as 325 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 1: I love it. But do you feel like you were 326 00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:33,719 Speaker 1: in love with Steve? Yeah? You do, I totally do. 327 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:35,919 Speaker 1: But do you think maybe you thought you were in 328 00:18:35,960 --> 00:18:37,760 Speaker 1: love with him because he didn't love you the way 329 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:39,560 Speaker 1: that you needed to be loved and you were like 330 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:43,000 Speaker 1: searching for that. I feel like you loved works better more. 331 00:18:43,480 --> 00:18:46,320 Speaker 1: I don't know, guys. We have to get into listener 332 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:49,680 Speaker 1: questions or I'm gonna get the freaking hammer. So we're 333 00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:52,200 Speaker 1: gonna tell you a quick little break and I don't 334 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:54,520 Speaker 1: want to talk about him anymore. Okay, we're moving on. 335 00:18:54,920 --> 00:18:56,720 Speaker 1: Take a quick break and we'll come right back. We're 336 00:18:56,720 --> 00:18:59,440 Speaker 1: gonna answer what to do a break because we have 337 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:03,320 Speaker 1: we have ad that. How are we gonna pay you, Vickia, 338 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:06,400 Speaker 1: I don't get it. We're gonna pay you. We will 339 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:18,760 Speaker 1: pay you. Okay, all right, guys, we're back. We're getting 340 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 1: into listener questions. Vicky is slightly disgruntled about her paycheck, 341 00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:28,639 Speaker 1: but we're handling it. The first question is are you 342 00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:31,960 Speaker 1: watching Real Housewives of Orange County this season? And what 343 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:37,439 Speaker 1: are your thoughts? I'm not you have not watched one episode. No, 344 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:40,159 Speaker 1: I watched a clip, but here in Mexico. Can't get it? 345 00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:43,280 Speaker 1: You can't, Okay. So have you seen any of the 346 00:19:43,359 --> 00:19:46,280 Speaker 1: highlights on social media? Did you see the fight between 347 00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:49,280 Speaker 1: Shannon and Heather on social media? Okay? And what are 348 00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 1: your thoughts on that? I think it's stupid, I think, 349 00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 1: But are you t are like tam is always choosing 350 00:19:57,240 --> 00:20:00,639 Speaker 1: how they're always always because I like Heather and I 351 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:02,680 Speaker 1: feel like I know where she's coming back from the 352 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:07,080 Speaker 1: point what Nicole did twenty years ago? Who cares? Okay? 353 00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:10,240 Speaker 1: But do you feel do you feel like Shannon brought 354 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:15,920 Speaker 1: it up because she knew that it was an issue? Hm? Well, 355 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:17,520 Speaker 1: I mean if she didn't know his an issue, would 356 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:21,199 Speaker 1: she bring it up the way that they made it 357 00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 1: look like, Oh, it was just nonchalant? Is that Nicolebe's 358 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 1: you know what? Right now? I look at that ship 359 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:30,400 Speaker 1: like it's so mindless and it's so stupid. I am 360 00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:35,919 Speaker 1: all about building a solid quality mind when we are 361 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:38,560 Speaker 1: with these women, as you all know, well, you know 362 00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:40,600 Speaker 1: that's not what the show. So, but I have a question, 363 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:45,879 Speaker 1: who would you rather hang out with? Shannon or Heather? Shannon? Really, 364 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:47,520 Speaker 1: but when was the last time you talked to Shannon? 365 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:51,560 Speaker 1: Heather and I have no issues, and I like Heather, 366 00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:54,280 Speaker 1: and I always thought how the looks down at me 367 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:56,400 Speaker 1: because I don't have an extra zero on the back 368 00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:58,280 Speaker 1: end of mine. But I don't feel like Heather looks 369 00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:02,119 Speaker 1: down on you at all. I do. Why. It's the 370 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:04,840 Speaker 1: way I feel. You know, Sometimes it's not what they say, 371 00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:07,800 Speaker 1: it's how they make you feel. Yeah, sometimes words don't 372 00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:09,680 Speaker 1: even have to do. But it could be a youth 373 00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:13,119 Speaker 1: thing and not of her thing as well. When was 374 00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:16,600 Speaker 1: the last time Heather made an effort to see either 375 00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:19,720 Speaker 1: one of you. She's never made an effort to see me. 376 00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:22,320 Speaker 1: I went into her masters, I know that, but there's 377 00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:25,320 Speaker 1: no effort. I'm not in her league. I can't with 378 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:28,000 Speaker 1: your face right now, Tamara, that this is the problem 379 00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:32,400 Speaker 1: I have and somebody, somebody being nice via text message 380 00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:36,520 Speaker 1: isn't enough. Yeah, come on, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 381 00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:39,240 Speaker 1: no no, Okay, So I'll be totally honest. Heather has 382 00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:41,679 Speaker 1: always been nice to me. She always reaches out to 383 00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:43,639 Speaker 1: me when it's my anniversary or my birthday or my 384 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:46,000 Speaker 1: kid's birthday or whatever. She's always gonna be super sweet 385 00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:48,920 Speaker 1: about that. Does she invite me to her house? No, 386 00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:52,960 Speaker 1: I mean I happened her house once, but I always 387 00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:55,600 Speaker 1: thought that because she wasn't on the show anymore, like 388 00:21:55,640 --> 00:21:58,880 Speaker 1: she wanted to disengage from it, because I got it. 389 00:21:59,119 --> 00:22:01,200 Speaker 1: She's the one that talk me as soon as you 390 00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:04,480 Speaker 1: get let go block everything housewives, because that's the best 391 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:08,560 Speaker 1: way that you can. But I'm not like that at all, 392 00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:11,840 Speaker 1: Like I my best friend is still a housewife. I 393 00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:14,040 Speaker 1: know that's got to be hard. Why is she staying 394 00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:17,000 Speaker 1: the block it? That's ridiculous. You have to live whoever 395 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:20,120 Speaker 1: you authentically are, Like, I'm not gonna not be best 396 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:22,159 Speaker 1: friends with my best friend because she's still on a 397 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:25,040 Speaker 1: show that's creating money and a life for her. But 398 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:26,960 Speaker 1: I don't feel like how there's a mean person, Like 399 00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:30,800 Speaker 1: she's not a mean person. She doesn't want to I 400 00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:34,600 Speaker 1: just feel like Shannon is such as she's so into 401 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:39,320 Speaker 1: the show and everything she does about the show Emily 402 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:42,439 Speaker 1: so so is everybody on the show. But I mean, 403 00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:45,159 Speaker 1: you can't get mad at that. You have to go like, 404 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:47,240 Speaker 1: who did I have more fun with I'll have more 405 00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:50,480 Speaker 1: fun with Shannon with you? But do you still talk 406 00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:54,199 Speaker 1: to Shannon? But why because she's talking to us as 407 00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:56,000 Speaker 1: soon as we got fireds talking to me when I 408 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:59,119 Speaker 1: didn't get asked back. Yeah. Oh so same with Tamara. 409 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:02,399 Speaker 1: It wasn't exclude so same with me, Same with Megan, 410 00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:06,359 Speaker 1: same with Heather de Barrow shooted to everybody. I don't 411 00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:09,160 Speaker 1: like that. I don't like Heather. It'll happen to her 412 00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,640 Speaker 1: one but and I'm not going to come to her defense. 413 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:13,760 Speaker 1: And that's the thing that that bugs me. It's like, 414 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:16,679 Speaker 1: am I going to run to her because she's hurt? No, 415 00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:21,359 Speaker 1: shouldn't run to me when I was hurt. So I 416 00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:24,240 Speaker 1: don't know. I feel like you still have friendships on 417 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:26,200 Speaker 1: the show with people regardless off you're on the show 418 00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:29,440 Speaker 1: or not. When it comes to Orange County, like Vicky 419 00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:32,800 Speaker 1: and I we left at the same time, right, not 420 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:36,960 Speaker 1: because we wanted to and and part of the most 421 00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:40,240 Speaker 1: of the cast is like bye bye, you know anything 422 00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:44,639 Speaker 1: because they're threatened. Yeah, all I come on, I go 423 00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:48,240 Speaker 1: to work every day. I lonely right now. Tamma never 424 00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:50,920 Speaker 1: calls me up. So, oh my god, you guys are 425 00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:54,280 Speaker 1: always talking talking every single day. Asshole, When the last 426 00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:56,960 Speaker 1: time I saw you, well, because you're being in Mexico 427 00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:59,639 Speaker 1: for three weeks and you haven't even invited us or 428 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:03,080 Speaker 1: done anythings to get us there to do a group pod. Okay, 429 00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:07,080 Speaker 1: can you invite us to go to your house in Mexico. Yes, 430 00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:10,440 Speaker 1: I'm having a big birthday party for myself. Yeah, it's 431 00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:15,560 Speaker 1: only ten person. No, it's not you're charging. No, I'm 432 00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:18,800 Speaker 1: not charginging. We're going to a private island. I'm not trying. No, no, 433 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:24,320 Speaker 1: but I have Fire Island, Fire Island. I know it's 434 00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:26,920 Speaker 1: gonna be amazing. It's gonna be amazing. But when we're 435 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:30,760 Speaker 1: saying is why don't you invite a close group of 436 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:34,120 Speaker 1: friends to just hang out at your house, not your birthday, 437 00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:36,800 Speaker 1: just to have fun and part of our I'm going 438 00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:39,040 Speaker 1: to be here more than ever. I mean, I love 439 00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:41,520 Speaker 1: it here, you are. I can run a lot of 440 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:45,119 Speaker 1: my business from here. I have a full office phone. Okay, okay, 441 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:48,320 Speaker 1: So you have your house in Mexico. You have your 442 00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:51,119 Speaker 1: house and Kodo. You sold your house in Chicago, right 443 00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:54,160 Speaker 1: because we had we had some listeners. There's like, did 444 00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 1: she sell her house? You had a house in Chicago. 445 00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:00,400 Speaker 1: I didn't sell it. No, North Carolina out in North 446 00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:03,240 Speaker 1: Carolina buying another house. You saw that. So you're gonna 447 00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:05,399 Speaker 1: buy an house in Chicago? Do you think that you're 448 00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:07,440 Speaker 1: gonna stay in our county or do you think you're 449 00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:09,919 Speaker 1: gonna bounce? I don't think I'm gonna stand which county. 450 00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:11,560 Speaker 1: Do you think you're going to move full time to 451 00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:14,600 Speaker 1: Porto ve ARCTA or Chicago. I don't think I'll live 452 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:16,480 Speaker 1: here full time, but I want to spend at least 453 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:18,760 Speaker 1: six months a year here. But you have a very 454 00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:22,399 Speaker 1: nice life. You travel. I love my life, except and 455 00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 1: I want a man that will experience life with me. 456 00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:28,640 Speaker 1: And what are not doubt about a woman? We're not 457 00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:31,600 Speaker 1: done talking about house lives. I'm sorry that the listeners 458 00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:33,600 Speaker 1: want to know about Kelly Dodd. They want to know 459 00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:36,280 Speaker 1: what your thoughts are with her? Are you still talking 460 00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:38,560 Speaker 1: to her? I'm sorry you guys. I have to do 461 00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:41,600 Speaker 1: and I always do the dirty words, all right. I 462 00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 1: love I reached out to Kelly two months ago and said, 463 00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:46,760 Speaker 1: do I meet? So we did and it was nice, 464 00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:48,879 Speaker 1: you know. When I left her at the union, we 465 00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:50,719 Speaker 1: hugged it out and then we never talked after that, 466 00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:54,200 Speaker 1: and lugs me because I really liked Kelly, and I thought, 467 00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:56,720 Speaker 1: what the hell happened? So I reached out to and 468 00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:58,400 Speaker 1: she goes, it's all good, and I go, I don't 469 00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 1: really want to know what our French this, but I 470 00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:04,000 Speaker 1: don't like na musty with anybody. I hate it. Did 471 00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:06,640 Speaker 1: you did you see the fight that she got into 472 00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:12,720 Speaker 1: with the Heather do bro foe account. She thought it 473 00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:15,280 Speaker 1: was Heather do Bro, but really it was like a 474 00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:17,639 Speaker 1: one of the Prodigy. It was a prodigy account, not 475 00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:26,840 Speaker 1: a Prodigy pre parody, a parody account offense to and 476 00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:29,960 Speaker 1: she said, um. Then she's like, it's because you're so 477 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:32,479 Speaker 1: fuggly blah blah blah, and like goes off on this 478 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:36,920 Speaker 1: huge rant. But it wasn't even her, Okay, So she 479 00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:44,240 Speaker 1: went after Heather to brow on a prodigy prodigy. There's 480 00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:46,800 Speaker 1: a parody on YouTube that always comes after me and 481 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,760 Speaker 1: it makes me very mad to talk about the question 482 00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:52,280 Speaker 1: too on her finger, I got in the eighth grade 483 00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:57,439 Speaker 1: somewhere down to great Where were your parents on tour? 484 00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:01,800 Speaker 1: She has a tattoo from eighth grade? Okay, anyways, I'm 485 00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:05,600 Speaker 1: gonna ignore that. So she had a parody, a parody, 486 00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:08,520 Speaker 1: a parody account. Okay, so it makes fun account, right, 487 00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:11,560 Speaker 1: What was it? What did you say? So? First off, 488 00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:13,800 Speaker 1: what happened was that there was a message that came 489 00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:17,840 Speaker 1: out that said like reviews are low blah blah blah. 490 00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:21,120 Speaker 1: It's in the French, You're welcome to get um reviews. 491 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:24,080 Speaker 1: Like ratings are the lowest they've ever been blah blah blah. 492 00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:26,600 Speaker 1: And then the parody account of Heather Dubro, which is 493 00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:31,200 Speaker 1: like Heather Dobra whatever it is, Heather dumb Bro. Dumb 494 00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:36,000 Speaker 1: Bro says I got you fired. And Kelly's like in 495 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:39,199 Speaker 1: Mexico or living her best life wherever she is and 496 00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:44,639 Speaker 1: writes back, Um, it's because you're fuggly and fuggily nobody 497 00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:48,480 Speaker 1: wants to hear about your child sexuality like hi, pony, 498 00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:52,960 Speaker 1: She goes in deep, but I mean I gotta laugh 499 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:56,160 Speaker 1: at Here's what I don't understand about Kelly. And I'm 500 00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:58,800 Speaker 1: asking you guys completely. I'm not trying to stir ship, 501 00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:01,080 Speaker 1: which is my favorite thing to do. I met her 502 00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:05,560 Speaker 1: once and she just totally lovely to me at a 503 00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:08,600 Speaker 1: facial place, like they were gifting us facials. First she 504 00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,040 Speaker 1: met my husband and he was like, hey, there's a 505 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:13,440 Speaker 1: girl named Kelly Dodd here. She's really nice, but why 506 00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:15,679 Speaker 1: are you're coming in. There's this guy named Josh and 507 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:18,680 Speaker 1: he gave us all housewives facial so let me was 508 00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:21,080 Speaker 1: so so nice. Let me tell you a little bit 509 00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:24,520 Speaker 1: about Kelly Dott. You guys are boring my asses right now. Okay, okay, 510 00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:30,320 Speaker 1: faky with g Kelly with Kelly Dodd. Old people and 511 00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:34,840 Speaker 1: kids love her and animals, and that is like, okay, 512 00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:37,920 Speaker 1: When old people, kids and animals love you, you you kind 513 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:41,560 Speaker 1: of feel like they have instincts, like they like, yeah, 514 00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:44,800 Speaker 1: they wouldn't know. I think that Kelly has a very 515 00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:47,600 Speaker 1: sweet side to her. She's very down to earth, but 516 00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:49,920 Speaker 1: then she's got, you know, a little a little bit 517 00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,080 Speaker 1: of a truth sturm running through her veins where she 518 00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:57,040 Speaker 1: I do I do. I don't hate Kelly. I don't 519 00:28:57,040 --> 00:29:00,600 Speaker 1: hear at all. No, no, Um, you had to be 520 00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:02,680 Speaker 1: on the I'm asking both of you if you had 521 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:06,240 Speaker 1: to be on the deserted island with one person each, 522 00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:12,200 Speaker 1: and the options are we got options. Kelly. I want Kelly, 523 00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:17,680 Speaker 1: Shannon Kelly. I would take Kelly over Shannon Kelly. Yeah, 524 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:21,560 Speaker 1: favorite person other than Tamera from Ultimate Girls Truck? Who's 525 00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:25,680 Speaker 1: your favorite? You can't say Tamra? No. I like Pedra. 526 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:30,280 Speaker 1: She was cool. Phedre was super cool, gray spiritual. I 527 00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:34,600 Speaker 1: love them. What about Taylor? I'm Tamor's nice. I just 528 00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:39,920 Speaker 1: I would say, what are you saying that snore anything? 529 00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:45,880 Speaker 1: Um said? I probably say fare because I never knew Pedra. Okay, 530 00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:51,640 Speaker 1: what about Eva? What about Brandy? I didn't connect with Eva. Um. 531 00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:53,400 Speaker 1: It's not that I don't like her, I just don't 532 00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:57,120 Speaker 1: know her. Okay, what about Brandy? Fine? I mean she 533 00:29:57,320 --> 00:29:59,440 Speaker 1: came at me a couple of times. Yeah, a couple 534 00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:06,160 Speaker 1: of times, three catching my belt? Yeah? What about all 535 00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:07,800 Speaker 1: these weights the other day? And I do it on 536 00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:12,240 Speaker 1: YouTube every morning? You're doing YouTube YouTube? That's they have 537 00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:14,560 Speaker 1: a gym down there, but sometimes at night if I 538 00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:19,120 Speaker 1: just want to do okay, get it? Okay. Um, So 539 00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:23,240 Speaker 1: that's answer. Next answer is what questions? What? I don't know. 540 00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:24,760 Speaker 1: I don't think we have any more questions for you 541 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 1: except for when are we gonna want question the whole hour? 542 00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:30,520 Speaker 1: Oh my god, Now she's judging it. Here's what she's 543 00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 1: gonna do it. Now she's gonna go around. I feel 544 00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:35,640 Speaker 1: like you're gonna go around and say, like Tamer and 545 00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:40,600 Speaker 1: Teddy's podcast, they don't know they're curriculing. I hate it. 546 00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:43,640 Speaker 1: How would you how would you change our podcast? What 547 00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:46,160 Speaker 1: would you do to make it better? Yeah? If you're 548 00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:48,960 Speaker 1: on my podcast, I wouldn't let me talk so much 549 00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:51,800 Speaker 1: so you never even got your questions out. I wanted 550 00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:54,360 Speaker 1: to see how would you work? Oh oh, this was 551 00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:58,000 Speaker 1: a test test. So our questions were not good enough. 552 00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:01,880 Speaker 1: You didn't even ask any like too, like we just 553 00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:07,120 Speaker 1: let you talk and dig your own home witch boring? 554 00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:11,920 Speaker 1: Do you guys? I've come up with a new insult. 555 00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:15,320 Speaker 1: That one's that one's played out. But I mean, why 556 00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:17,640 Speaker 1: are so many people watching podcast late? I don't get it. 557 00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:19,600 Speaker 1: They don't watch, they listen to the listen to what 558 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:23,440 Speaker 1: they do watch too. We were in the top twenty good. 559 00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:27,120 Speaker 1: I was top one, top one. I gotta I gotta 560 00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:29,680 Speaker 1: look into that. I whooping up with Vicky and my 561 00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:32,080 Speaker 1: reality with Vicky was top well. I was on one 562 00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:33,720 Speaker 1: for a couple of weeks, and you were one. You 563 00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:37,480 Speaker 1: were never one number both of you. I'm bowing down 564 00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:41,680 Speaker 1: you are? I don't. I don't see anything. I don't 565 00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:44,960 Speaker 1: I don't see any bowing. Are you not happy for me? 566 00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:49,720 Speaker 1: But what she's taking us? All right? We were going 567 00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:53,240 Speaker 1: to continue discussing this and hold on. Someone entered the room. 568 00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:56,800 Speaker 1: Was that is that my sister in law? That it 569 00:31:56,880 --> 00:32:02,000 Speaker 1: was a guy. Do you have a day to night? No? No, okay, 570 00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:04,000 Speaker 1: she had to think about how was the matchmaker going. 571 00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:06,000 Speaker 1: I just want to put my questions in there because 572 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:08,280 Speaker 1: I only asked you. One and I are going to 573 00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:10,440 Speaker 1: see each other next week when I'm tell him it's 574 00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:16,120 Speaker 1: the guy from Canada's fifty five. No from Canada is 575 00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:19,440 Speaker 1: the one with the taste saver. Okay, so who's I 576 00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:23,000 Speaker 1: told you? But he's in Chicago because I will only 577 00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:26,560 Speaker 1: day to midwestern man. Okay, I suck right now unless 578 00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:29,920 Speaker 1: somebody wants to tell me they relocated from Chicago. Okay, 579 00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:34,160 Speaker 1: So anyway, we'll be at date four next week. Day 580 00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:37,360 Speaker 1: four that means sex. Yeah no, no, no, no, no no no. 581 00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:40,040 Speaker 1: When a sex happened, I don't know what it happened 582 00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:44,320 Speaker 1: soon because I am she's hornier than ship. She's always horning. 583 00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:49,360 Speaker 1: You just want to Tama's vibrators. I need them to 584 00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:51,120 Speaker 1: say that kind of figure out how to use it. 585 00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:54,560 Speaker 1: That good, Well, I'll show you that's weird. No, I 586 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:56,680 Speaker 1: need somebody told me they love me. They think I'm pretty, 587 00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,080 Speaker 1: they like my dimples, They wonder what I want for dessert, 588 00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:02,200 Speaker 1: like I need to be shed a weener. I want 589 00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:05,600 Speaker 1: a relationship. I don't want a weener. No, I don't 590 00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:08,680 Speaker 1: want that. I want a relationship. Weiner. You don't want 591 00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:10,400 Speaker 1: to you don't want to vibrate or you want a weener. 592 00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:15,560 Speaker 1: I would an nonline perfect relationship, which I thought I 593 00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:21,440 Speaker 1: had with my fiance. Well, we ran out of time, Vicky, 594 00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:25,480 Speaker 1: he's come come back on. We're gonna talk about the 595 00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:29,680 Speaker 1: relationship you guys want on your social social media saying, oh, 596 00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:31,719 Speaker 1: what do you want to know about? Bicky? And then 597 00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:34,800 Speaker 1: you don't even ask any questions We did. We asked 598 00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:38,200 Speaker 1: you a ton of questions. You covered a lot for us. 599 00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:41,200 Speaker 1: That's the beauty of you, I did. How do you 600 00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:44,520 Speaker 1: feel about the show you started, how it started, and 601 00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:48,120 Speaker 1: where it's at now. I don't feel good about it. 602 00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:49,720 Speaker 1: I want to be back on and change it. But 603 00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:52,840 Speaker 1: we're never gonna be back on camera. That's the facts. Well, 604 00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,480 Speaker 1: we're never gonna be back, okay, Well time our own 605 00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:58,800 Speaker 1: show we were on for a very long time. Vicky. 606 00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:02,400 Speaker 1: What if Tamer and I get a show and you're not, 607 00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:06,880 Speaker 1: she's never gonna be friends with me again? Then because 608 00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:10,160 Speaker 1: Tamer and I talked about it, So you can't do that, Okay, 609 00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:13,480 Speaker 1: you have to have some sense of loyalty always. Okay, 610 00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:16,840 Speaker 1: I would never do a podcast with Teddy and not 611 00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:19,359 Speaker 1: invite you. Never. Well, I didn't invite you. You're here 612 00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:25,600 Speaker 1: right now as a not paying participants. Not. I can't 613 00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:28,600 Speaker 1: really tell when Vicky's never joking or not. I'm not joking. 614 00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:31,120 Speaker 1: I would never do that. I'm not joking. I would 615 00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:33,120 Speaker 1: never do that to her. But I went on your podcast, 616 00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:36,040 Speaker 1: but I didn't get paid. I didn't get paid. Why 617 00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:38,080 Speaker 1: didn't you get paid? What kind of deal did you sign? 618 00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,279 Speaker 1: Because it was in COVID and it was like you 619 00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:43,279 Speaker 1: didn't get paid on your own podcast. Okay, well you 620 00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:46,719 Speaker 1: need that you want me to do your deal. That's 621 00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:48,879 Speaker 1: why I stopped it. Okay, maybe I heart would give 622 00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:51,560 Speaker 1: your own show. Maybe, but maybe I'll ask Timber to 623 00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:53,000 Speaker 1: be on it. How would that make you feel at Teddy? 624 00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:59,239 Speaker 1: Kind of piss right? Yeah? I started writing, Oh my god, 625 00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:01,400 Speaker 1: I can't I care that I'm having a fire with 626 00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:05,319 Speaker 1: Rookie right now. I love you so much, Vicky. Fight 627 00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:08,160 Speaker 1: for when we're in person and there's cameras. Yes, let's 628 00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:10,440 Speaker 1: go and ask call your Gretchen to be on my podcast. 629 00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:14,120 Speaker 1: That's not going to be a good podcast. No, I 630 00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:17,839 Speaker 1: think you go do Kelly. But Gretchen, are you gonna 631 00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:21,280 Speaker 1: get not? How's your face tone? Yeah? How's your face tune? 632 00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:25,319 Speaker 1: Can I blow your nose out? Oh, Tamra, I got 633 00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:28,759 Speaker 1: this great doctor. Here's a little bruiser here. Yeah, I 634 00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:30,360 Speaker 1: got a little bit of What did he do to you? 635 00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:33,840 Speaker 1: It's a woman and there's a line out the door. Okay, 636 00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:36,759 Speaker 1: we look beautiful by yeah, you look amazing. What did 637 00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:41,040 Speaker 1: he do? She? She? She she has a clinic car 638 00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:44,680 Speaker 1: that I'm coming here for like seven years, the best 639 00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:48,560 Speaker 1: everything everything, like is it injections in your jaw? What 640 00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:51,160 Speaker 1: is it? But she did a little something something right here. 641 00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:53,600 Speaker 1: I just closed marriazine. She gave me a dental block 642 00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:56,080 Speaker 1: because I'm getting like these lines here and she says, oh, 643 00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:58,920 Speaker 1: well make them go away? Oh okay? How how many 644 00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:03,000 Speaker 1: that cost? She didn't do fillers? Okay, I don't want 645 00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:07,279 Speaker 1: ever a filler? Okay? How many paces was that? Two 646 00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:10,560 Speaker 1: d three dollars? And I was there for two hours? Whoa, 647 00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:15,279 Speaker 1: that's a long time in Chicago. She said she will 648 00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:19,480 Speaker 1: never go to anybody else. Aga, okay, okay, so we 649 00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:21,759 Speaker 1: will come out, We'll come there we're gonna spend two. 650 00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:26,839 Speaker 1: We're gonna loop it up. We're today morning for eighty 651 00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:32,000 Speaker 1: minutes for sixteen dollars. Did you get the happy ending? 652 00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:37,200 Speaker 1: Now happening? Nothing's happening down there, but I'm all Brazilian waxed. 653 00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:40,360 Speaker 1: Where did you go? And nothing's happening? Use this in 654 00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:44,399 Speaker 1: the promo. She's Brazilian waxed and ready if you're six, 655 00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:48,120 Speaker 1: but carrying things pretty likes her dimples, ready for all 656 00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:52,759 Speaker 1: the things, all things and to be continued. Oh my god, 657 00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:56,600 Speaker 1: I love you, Thank you. I'm home because you're too 658 00:36:56,680 --> 00:37:01,000 Speaker 1: far away. Bye. Heard that you guys should say good bye. 659 00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:05,200 Speaker 1: So we just got started. Well, we have other lives 660 00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:07,759 Speaker 1: to do. We can't help man. I we have to go. 661 00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:11,800 Speaker 1: I gotta cut off Sophia from school. By love you