1 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:16,560 Speaker 1: Radio Radio Radio Commies, a Myth and Bullshit. A radio 2 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:23,320 Speaker 1: phonic novella Local Radio hosted by Malamo. Hello, Hello, Hello, 3 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 1: welcome back to local radio. Welcome back, Welcome back. This 4 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:31,040 Speaker 1: is Mala and this is Dios and we are Last Radio. 5 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 1: A radio phonic novella coming to you once again from 6 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 1: Radio Espasio over here in Boil Heights. Look at Radio 7 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 1: is a radiophonic novella archiving the legacies geniuses and brilliant 8 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:50,840 Speaker 1: of women and fems of color. This is Ca and 9 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 1: there we are, Here, we are, We're back here again. 10 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:55,639 Speaker 1: Thank you for joining us, Thank you for sticking with us, 11 00:00:56,280 --> 00:01:00,240 Speaker 1: Yes on this journey. Yes to shout out to all 12 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:04,400 Speaker 1: our new local motives. We recently did a little flashback 13 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:07,280 Speaker 1: Friday post on the Instagram, and so many of our 14 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:11,200 Speaker 1: local motives left their favorite memories and their favorite cap 15 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 1: laws and that they've been listening since day one and 16 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:16,119 Speaker 1: it's been really sweet and one hell of a ride. 17 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:19,840 Speaker 1: There were a lot of really cute memories. Look at 18 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:23,480 Speaker 1: the memorials that were left in the comments. So Bona 19 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:28,400 Speaker 1: wrote that her favorite memory, look was when we femcied 20 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:32,200 Speaker 1: her um ep release. Yes, that was one of our 21 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 1: first FEMC events. Absolutely, that was a lot of fun 22 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 1: back queer Chicano cheese man. Yes, rubn Um. One of 23 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:42,839 Speaker 1: our listeners said that she met her partner, her current 24 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:46,679 Speaker 1: partner at look At a live a podcast party. Right, 25 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 1: we are look at love connection, y'all. Exactly exactly, look 26 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 1: I thought hearts, look at our lonely hearts no longer? Right, 27 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 1: people are making connections and finding love and friendship. Right. 28 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 1: I love it. I love it. It's cute times. Yes, So, 29 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 1: once again, thank you for tuning into Another Capital Radio. 30 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 1: Last time on look at Our Radio Radio, we interviewed 31 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:13,800 Speaker 1: Ma Da Delaya and it was one of my favorite 32 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 1: interviews to date. Absolutely, that interview was really important, so important. 33 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:23,639 Speaker 1: Like one of our listeners actually commented on the Instagram 34 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 1: that you know, she grew up on my DA's poetry 35 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 1: on YouTube, and I think that that was like the 36 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:32,800 Speaker 1: spirit of the interview. Yeah yeah, like we were raised 37 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 1: on her poetry. Are our sort of journey to understanding 38 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:39,920 Speaker 1: Latini Da and her womanhood. She played a part in 39 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:43,920 Speaker 1: that with her art. Yeah. Absolutely, so I feel so grateful, 40 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: so blessed that we were able to interview someone so 41 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 1: incredible and talented and has been doing the damn thing 42 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:53,360 Speaker 1: for so long. Yes, and and you know, um, we 43 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 1: wanted to keep thriving, so make sure you check out 44 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:58,639 Speaker 1: her book, her book, A Southside Girl's Guide to Love 45 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 1: and Sex by my La davy It. And yeah, since then, 46 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:04,920 Speaker 1: since the interview, we've been up to a bunch of 47 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 1: stuff as always per usual, So we haven't actually posted 48 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 1: about this, but our listeners will be the first to know. 49 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 1: We actually hosted or yeah, we hosted. We facilitated a 50 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 1: discussion with representatives from Adidas, right, and we talked about 51 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 1: film defense, street harassment and podcasts, podcasting and women of 52 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 1: color films thriving. And it was incredible, It was incredible. Um, 53 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 1: you know, Adidas reached out to us. They're like London 54 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 1: office reached out to us because they were putting together 55 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 1: basically a day of talks and workshops and discussions from 56 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 1: different like creators and artists and you know, people with 57 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 1: projects like us um to come out here to meet 58 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 1: with the Adidas folks in l A and sort of 59 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 1: give them a taste of of what the creatives are 60 00:03:57,280 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 1: up to. So we were like the podcasters and it 61 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 1: was really interesting, actually, it was a really interesting evening, 62 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 1: lots of white men, lots of white men. We were 63 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 1: the only Angelina's, Angelina's, the only latinas, only women of 64 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 1: color presenters. Yes, um, so that was at least in 65 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 1: our group that we presented in. It was very interesting 66 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:22,280 Speaker 1: to say the leads. And once again everyone like there 67 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: were so many people there, like with clearly like British accents, 68 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:29,160 Speaker 1: and once again like we're in these industry type events 69 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 1: in Los Angeles, but nobody's from Los Angeles. We're always 70 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 1: the only Angelina. We're the token Angelinos. So it's just 71 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 1: like the token Latina and always the youngest ones, always 72 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 1: the youngest ones, which is also really interesting too. It's 73 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 1: an interesting dynamic to see play out. But yeah, once again, 74 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:51,360 Speaker 1: thank you to the folks that invited us. It was 75 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:54,720 Speaker 1: a really great conversation. It was a great conversation, conversation, 76 00:04:54,800 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 1: great experience. Um, invite us back, send us some Adidas. 77 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 1: It was so funny. My mom she goes Adidas eight black, 78 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:07,600 Speaker 1: and I'm like, Mom, I'm not at the headquarters, Like 79 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 1: I don't just have access to all these Adidas like 80 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 1: so funny, but she was ready sending me her sizes 81 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 1: and everything. Um. Yeah, and then after that UM, I 82 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 1: actually tabled at Fall into Literacy, which was presented by 83 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 1: a United Way. I've tabled for the both of us 84 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 1: for and they put on this yearly Fall into Literacy 85 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:37,480 Speaker 1: event to promote UM, to promote communities of color like 86 00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:42,479 Speaker 1: engaging in literature, especially at starting at a young age. 87 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:45,479 Speaker 1: So it was like really just like a kid's resource center, 88 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 1: which was really cool, like a resource fair, I mean, 89 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:49,719 Speaker 1: And it was really interesting, really cool, and I like 90 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:53,360 Speaker 1: engage with the little children, asking them about UM their 91 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:55,280 Speaker 1: favorite TV shows and if they could have their own 92 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 1: TV show or their own radio show, like what would 93 00:05:57,480 --> 00:05:59,599 Speaker 1: they call it? And one of them was like Sam's 94 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 1: broad cast. It was super cute. And then another girl 95 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:04,720 Speaker 1: told me that she would not tell me the name 96 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 1: of her YouTube channel if she would create it, because 97 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 1: she'll tell me once it's live. I love it. She's 98 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 1: so smart. It was like, yes, protect your intellectual property girl. 99 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:16,840 Speaker 1: It was so cute. She knows that people are out 100 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 1: here plagiarizing literally literally. It was so funny. UM. But yeah, 101 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:22,279 Speaker 1: it was such a good of it. UM a good event, 102 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:24,120 Speaker 1: and it was nice to be in the South Bay 103 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 1: in that community. Also ran into a few a few 104 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:30,000 Speaker 1: listeners that were there. Um, so to shout out to 105 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 1: you listeners, it was really cute running into them. Love 106 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:38,640 Speaker 1: that sometimes sometimes you know, like schedules interfere and we 107 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 1: sometimes have to like represent the podcast. Yes, it's not 108 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 1: like our preferred method of doing things that sometimes like 109 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 1: we had committed to this already, you know, and Mama 110 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:51,280 Speaker 1: wasn't able to make it for personal reasons. So it 111 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:55,160 Speaker 1: just so many many reasons, lots of things she was 112 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 1: not But it was totally fine and it was pouring 113 00:06:57,800 --> 00:07:01,719 Speaker 1: raining bad day. Yeah, but anyway, shout out thank you 114 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:07,360 Speaker 1: United for inviting us. Um. So we started carrying our 115 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 1: look at poppy hats in pink and black here at Espasio. 116 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 1: So you know, Um, we're not really selling our hats online. 117 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 1: We're not you know, like mailing them out, but you 118 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:23,360 Speaker 1: can come to Espasio and buy them in person. Um, 119 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 1: how much are we selling them for? There are twenty 120 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 1: six dollars here at Spasso. Dollars here at Spasio. So yeah, 121 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 1: that's that's an update. Yes, if you're able to come 122 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 1: out here and you've been looking for a poppy hat, 123 00:07:34,960 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 1: this will be the place to get it. Um. You 124 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 1: can also pick them up at one of our events 125 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 1: that we will be having in the near future. Um, 126 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 1: so we will be having a second large scale event, yes, 127 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 1: November sixteen. It's a Friday micro Calendars. There will be music, 128 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 1: there will be guests, there will be looks, lots of things. 129 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:58,680 Speaker 1: There will be cocktails. There will be cocktails, so there 130 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 1: will be dancing Save the day, right. There will be listeners. 131 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 1: You have you heard it first? Basically, like we have 132 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 1: not advertised it on the pot on the Instagram yet, 133 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 1: so somebody posted on the memory like I've been listening 134 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:18,680 Speaker 1: to you all when you were just on SoundCloud love 135 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 1: it and I was like, only real ones now that 136 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 1: we got kicked off of iTunes and had to resubmit 137 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 1: literally literally we got kicked off of iTunes for ridiculous 138 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 1: phobic reasons. Seriously, it was terrible, but I think it's 139 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:34,679 Speaker 1: like now a badge of honor, like, yeah, we got 140 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:37,200 Speaker 1: kicked off iTunes, right, and now we're back and we're back. 141 00:08:37,520 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 1: You can't kill us with two thirty nine stars. By 142 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 1: the way, so if you haven't left us a review yet, 143 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 1: please go leave us a review, leave us five stars. 144 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 1: I would love to see us at three hundred. Yes, 145 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:53,320 Speaker 1: five stars by the end of the year. Yes, absolutely, 146 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:56,840 Speaker 1: And this is something that I think is really important 147 00:08:56,880 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 1: for us to talk about, is loving your favorite podcasts, 148 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 1: loving your favorite creators out loud. Yes, love out loud 149 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 1: because let me tell you something something that we're learning. 150 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 1: I think like as podcasters and as this grows, as 151 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 1: our project grows and expands, if you want to help 152 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:15,760 Speaker 1: your favorite creators, but you can't like buy directly or 153 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 1: give monetary contributions the comments, the ratings, like, as your 154 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 1: favorite creators climb and get more opportunities, we need to 155 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 1: put things together like decks and press kits and folks 156 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:33,160 Speaker 1: and brands and companies like ask for this stuff. And 157 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 1: if our listeners have like written something that could end 158 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:38,559 Speaker 1: up being really helpful for us in the future, you 159 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 1: know what I mean. So never feel like you're bothering 160 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 1: or never feel like it doesn't matter, because the comments 161 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:46,640 Speaker 1: actually do contribute, and we read every single thing that 162 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:49,720 Speaker 1: y'all post, yes literally, and we like take screenshots and 163 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:53,079 Speaker 1: send them to each other. So it's super helpful. So 164 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:55,320 Speaker 1: you know, if you have the time and motivating, yes, 165 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:57,920 Speaker 1: if you have the time, if you feel like leaving 166 00:09:58,000 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 1: us some love, please do so. Some beso, yes, all right, 167 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:09,319 Speaker 1: we're really proud of our friend. Oh my god, she's amazing. 168 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 1: She is on she made it to the Moon. You 169 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 1: can watch her on on Sundays. I believe at it's 170 00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:24,080 Speaker 1: like yes something like that. Um so yes, also follow 171 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 1: the or follow the Latina and seriously like leave love, 172 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:32,320 Speaker 1: like leave this is another example, like leave love. She's 173 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 1: this is the first time the Latina is doing. Meaning 174 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:42,080 Speaker 1: Vanessa is the first quote plus size contestant, and she's 175 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:45,840 Speaker 1: also one of like the only ones that you can 176 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:49,080 Speaker 1: It's obvious that Spanish is her second language, right, and 177 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 1: so she has like that botch Spanish, which we love 178 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:54,440 Speaker 1: and we support, so show her some love. In the beginning, 179 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 1: she was like getting some hate from some people saying one, okay, 180 00:10:59,800 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 1: not in talent, which my response is like, you obviously 181 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 1: have never booked a photo shoot and you've never modeled 182 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:09,320 Speaker 1: fucking anything, and they think that that's not talent and 183 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 1: that's not warm. You've never served a look sweetheart, Honestly, 184 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 1: this I know for certain. Also, like Latina speak tons 185 00:11:16,160 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 1: of languages, right, is not our only language. So also 186 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 1: there's another thing. So there's just one more thing, right, 187 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 1: So just a reminder, Vanessa was on, she was as 188 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:33,040 Speaker 1: an interview guest. And I think this is part of it, right, 189 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 1: we are having the brilliance and legacies of women in 190 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 1: terms of color, Like we interviewed Vanessa and here she 191 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:40,559 Speaker 1: goes like she's going on to do amazing things, and 192 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 1: I'm just so proud to be part of that. Just 193 00:11:43,400 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 1: a little step of yeah, her trajectory an interview on 194 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:49,840 Speaker 1: look at Radio. Yeah we knew her when, yes, we 195 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 1: love her, when yes, I love it. So just this 196 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:54,400 Speaker 1: is another example to love out loud, you know, go 197 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 1: comments like tag her, say how much you love her 198 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:00,400 Speaker 1: as a contestant, say that you want to see her 199 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:04,240 Speaker 1: as the next Latin. Because what I've noticed is all 200 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:08,360 Speaker 1: the other people, all the other contestants, like their fans 201 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:10,559 Speaker 1: are showing up for them, you know what I mean. 202 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:13,000 Speaker 1: And it's important that we do that too, especially because 203 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:15,880 Speaker 1: this is like historical in a way that they're doing 204 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 1: the right you know. Rihanna has her navy, Beyonce has 205 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:24,199 Speaker 1: the bee Hive, We have our locomotes. Yesica has a 206 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:30,080 Speaker 1: Mingo mafia. So Vanessa needs her, she needs yes, yes, yes, 207 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:33,160 Speaker 1: so yes, go forth, go forth. Yes, Um, we talked 208 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 1: about our save the date. I have, um a weird 209 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:40,840 Speaker 1: things white women did this week contribution tell us so 210 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:42,720 Speaker 1: as you all will remember, this is one of our 211 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:46,199 Speaker 1: newer segments that we don't necessarily bring in unless something 212 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:50,000 Speaker 1: has happened. White women don't necessarily do weird things all 213 00:12:50,040 --> 00:12:52,640 Speaker 1: the time. You know, more often than not, they do 214 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 1: these remarkable things. These are exceptional things, right right, So 215 00:12:57,520 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 1: this morning full disclosure. Um, I went to Plant parenthood, 216 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:05,920 Speaker 1: to go to pepsmeir right, shout parenthod, shout up on parenthood. 217 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 1: We love and support, we appreciate. Shoutout paps mars. Yes, 218 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:12,800 Speaker 1: so important. Literally, get you get your paps mir very 219 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 1: good for you. Um, if it applies, go do it. 220 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 1: You know. So I go and I'm pulling up to 221 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:22,040 Speaker 1: the pH um to the parking lot, and there's like 222 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:25,400 Speaker 1: this group of white ladies protesting outside of plant parenthood. 223 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 1: Now I know that people protest planned parenthood all the time. 224 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 1: I personally have not experienced it, you know, in person, 225 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:36,520 Speaker 1: in my my numerous visits to plant parenthood throughout my life, 226 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 1: right the same. So today I'm like, are you fucking 227 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:42,720 Speaker 1: kidding me? And so they're trying to give me like 228 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:45,439 Speaker 1: flyers and they have their signs and all this stuff, 229 00:13:45,480 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 1: and I'm like, why are you protesting my popsmere? Did 230 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:51,000 Speaker 1: you say anything to them? No. I was like in 231 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 1: my little car with my sunglasses, and I'm just like 232 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:55,920 Speaker 1: with my window, I'm like slowly rolled up my windows. 233 00:13:57,559 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 1: Stay away from me, right right right? I have never Yeah, 234 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 1: leave us, leave us alone alone, Like cervical health is 235 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:09,120 Speaker 1: very important, it's very important to all of us. It 236 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:11,360 Speaker 1: should be you should be thanking me for getting a 237 00:14:11,360 --> 00:14:15,319 Speaker 1: PAP smear. Honestly, I've also never seen probably because we're 238 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:19,600 Speaker 1: in l A. But I've never seen myself protesting outside 239 00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:22,880 Speaker 1: of a planned parenthood. I've worked near one um and 240 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:26,600 Speaker 1: I've been to several different locations, and I've never seen one. 241 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:30,600 Speaker 1: Contrary country, where I live, there's a women's clinic and 242 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:35,200 Speaker 1: there's constantly protesters on the weekends, like all the time 243 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:37,560 Speaker 1: Everymber in high school, and I would like run Saturday 244 00:14:37,560 --> 00:14:40,200 Speaker 1: morning through my city like that was. I would always 245 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 1: notice that. And now as an adult, I get like 246 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 1: so fucking enraged. But I see it, and I'm just like, 247 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 1: are you going to like fund for my child that 248 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:51,760 Speaker 1: to have this? You know? You know what? I mean, like, 249 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:53,960 Speaker 1: are you going to provide me the resources that I 250 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:56,520 Speaker 1: would need to raise a child? You know what, I 251 00:14:57,200 --> 00:15:01,440 Speaker 1: probably not, So let me make my decisions, like are 252 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:05,120 Speaker 1: you going to pay for whatever whatever other like medical 253 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:09,160 Speaker 1: care I'm receiving at this clinic, or you're just going 254 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 1: to protest every all the services, everything, all the health checks, everything, 255 00:15:13,480 --> 00:15:16,360 Speaker 1: all everything. I can't have any of it now. Abstinence 256 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 1: is the way, girl, apparently, the way, the truth and 257 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:22,840 Speaker 1: the life. Please please get me out of here, right, no, 258 00:15:23,000 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 1: thank you. Anyways. Anyways, so that that this has been 259 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 1: weird things white women did this week, I kept trying 260 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:32,000 Speaker 1: to think of one to contribute, but I feel like 261 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 1: you have to you, in particular, maybe have to go 262 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 1: out of your way to interact with white women in 263 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:42,240 Speaker 1: your current life setup. Yes, I really you're surrounded. I 264 00:15:42,240 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 1: really like work mainly with Latinas Latin X folks. Where 265 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:53,760 Speaker 1: I live is mainly Latinos Latin X folks where I 266 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 1: spend my time. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's like one s 267 00:15:56,360 --> 00:15:59,360 Speaker 1: in a blue moon. You're in your little all brown 268 00:15:59,400 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 1: all around. Yes, it's very nice, it's cute, it's compy, 269 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 1: it's cozy, it's very compy. But then we end up 270 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:07,040 Speaker 1: on the West side on special occasion, special ecasions, and 271 00:16:07,160 --> 00:16:12,640 Speaker 1: we're like, what they are different? They really are different. 272 00:16:12,640 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 1: They are they really have their own way of doing things. Okay, anyways, 273 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 1: so this time on look, I thought our radio, I 274 00:16:20,360 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 1: thought our radio. Three. We're so excited to interview our 275 00:16:26,680 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 1: next guest. We have Maritza Alva in the house today 276 00:16:31,320 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 1: and she isn't. She is an l a based Betwana 277 00:16:33,880 --> 00:16:37,520 Speaker 1: that advocates for and works with unaccompanied miners and migrant children. 278 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:40,480 Speaker 1: Maria is also a member of the Mummy Collective. So 279 00:16:40,560 --> 00:16:46,840 Speaker 1: shout out to the Internet for bringing us together. Rosa 280 00:17:05,920 --> 00:17:30,199 Speaker 1: and um um um of it and little ship and 281 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:35,160 Speaker 1: we're back with our guest, Mariza. Thank you for being here. 282 00:17:35,880 --> 00:17:39,560 Speaker 1: Can you say hello? Hello? Hello? Her look at Motris Hello, hello, hello. 283 00:17:39,720 --> 00:17:41,719 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for having me. I'm really excited. 284 00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 1: I'm really excited to be here to share this same 285 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:46,680 Speaker 1: with you. I haven't. We don't see each other off 286 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:50,480 Speaker 1: to them, No, we literally only see each other for birthdays. Yeah, 287 00:17:50,720 --> 00:17:53,080 Speaker 1: it's kind of sad. It's kind of sad, but um, 288 00:17:53,080 --> 00:17:56,800 Speaker 1: we're busy. The Mommy Collective like had it's like glory 289 00:17:56,880 --> 00:18:00,800 Speaker 1: days or we were like out every single weekend, multiple 290 00:18:00,880 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 1: times a week, right, and we were at everything and 291 00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:06,159 Speaker 1: that was like such a fun and cute time. But 292 00:18:06,240 --> 00:18:08,199 Speaker 1: you know what, like it was about a year. The 293 00:18:08,280 --> 00:18:11,959 Speaker 1: life goes on, but the friendship remains, you know what 294 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 1: I mean, Like we have to adapt to our life changes. Yeah, 295 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:20,119 Speaker 1: and I mean, um, Mariza, you know you have a 296 00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:23,200 Speaker 1: lot going on. Your work is really important. You've got 297 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:28,359 Speaker 1: your relationship, your social life, your travels, you know. Um, 298 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:30,240 Speaker 1: and I think that's one of the reasons why we're 299 00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 1: really excited to have you on the show, yes, to 300 00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:34,600 Speaker 1: talk about all those wonderful things that you do. Mony 301 00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:37,200 Speaker 1: sent us such incredible work, um, which we're going to 302 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:39,320 Speaker 1: talk about in a bit, But before that, we're going 303 00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:42,520 Speaker 1: to do a short segment of oyelokas with our beautiful, 304 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:46,399 Speaker 1: beautiful guest to Moneys. Alright, Okay, so Mama, do you 305 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 1: want to actually pose this question? Yes? So, um, two 306 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 1: out of the three of us here in this in 307 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:59,879 Speaker 1: this room are in long term relationships, committed relationships, and 308 00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:07,560 Speaker 1: so the question is, like, as sexual beings, right in 309 00:19:07,600 --> 00:19:11,800 Speaker 1: relationships with other sexual beings, how does that maturity and 310 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:14,719 Speaker 1: change in like the sexual life, Like, what does that 311 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:17,320 Speaker 1: look like you know from when you first meet too, 312 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:20,000 Speaker 1: now you have some time under your belt as a couple, 313 00:19:20,119 --> 00:19:22,800 Speaker 1: and how does the sex life grow or change or 314 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:27,920 Speaker 1: like what's you know, what's good with that? I'm prying completely. 315 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:32,440 Speaker 1: No one knows both of our partners because I already know. 316 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:37,400 Speaker 1: I just I want to know the details, like what's 317 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:45,720 Speaker 1: new and sex. That's essentially the question. Um, it's been great. No, 318 00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:48,440 Speaker 1: I have no complaints on my end, and I think 319 00:19:48,440 --> 00:19:51,920 Speaker 1: we talked about it a little bit before the segment. Um, 320 00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 1: how just as you start getting to know each other 321 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:57,639 Speaker 1: more and start getting to be more intimate on just 322 00:19:57,800 --> 00:20:02,240 Speaker 1: various levels like that intimacy, everything just gets better. You 323 00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:03,600 Speaker 1: get to know each other, you get to know each 324 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:05,680 Speaker 1: other's likes, and just like you get to know each 325 00:20:05,720 --> 00:20:09,119 Speaker 1: other's bodies, you get to know each other's energies, like 326 00:20:09,200 --> 00:20:15,639 Speaker 1: all of it all about the It's beautiful absolutely, Um okay, 327 00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:18,520 Speaker 1: I would say that for me being now in a 328 00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:21,399 Speaker 1: long term relationship also my first long term relationship with 329 00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:29,320 Speaker 1: a man um, so there's definitely been some like adjustments, right, 330 00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:33,960 Speaker 1: some like obviously like going over boundaries and like talking 331 00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:36,600 Speaker 1: about consent and he's like really great about checking in 332 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:39,280 Speaker 1: like with me during like does this feel okay? Does 333 00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:40,960 Speaker 1: this feel good? Blah blah blah, all the stuff that 334 00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:44,080 Speaker 1: you should be asking important questions. I would say the 335 00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:47,840 Speaker 1: difference now is that one. It's a lot better because 336 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:51,520 Speaker 1: for similar reasons what what Moneta said that, um, you 337 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:53,439 Speaker 1: just you know each other's bodies more, and you know 338 00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:56,040 Speaker 1: what you like and dislike and all that stuff. But 339 00:20:56,080 --> 00:21:00,320 Speaker 1: I also feel that there's more of a spirit chill 340 00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:05,800 Speaker 1: connection when you're having sex, right because it's literally like 341 00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:09,720 Speaker 1: when you're having casual sex. It's like it's casual, it 342 00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:12,760 Speaker 1: feels good. Maybe it doesn't. There's no really need to 343 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:16,320 Speaker 1: learn more about what the other likes, because you might 344 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:18,360 Speaker 1: not hook up with him, you know what I mean. 345 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:20,840 Speaker 1: So it's just like okay, well on to the next. Um. 346 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:23,640 Speaker 1: But I feel for obviously for this relationship since we've 347 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:26,680 Speaker 1: been in it for over a year now, I would 348 00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 1: definitely say it feels like sometimes feels like very intense, 349 00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 1: like in a very emotional way. At least for me, 350 00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:35,800 Speaker 1: I'm just like, oh my god, this person that I 351 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:40,159 Speaker 1: love is like inside of my body's and that's really 352 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:41,840 Speaker 1: like and when I think about it in those terms, 353 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:45,159 Speaker 1: it really trips me out and it's just like whoaah, 354 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:48,640 Speaker 1: Like it blows my mind. Right, It can be very overwhelming. Yeah, 355 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:52,240 Speaker 1: Like yeah, I've cried. I've cried during sex before, but 356 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:55,919 Speaker 1: because of just being emotionally it's just in it, like 357 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:59,199 Speaker 1: overwhelmed by all of it, and you get in your 358 00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:02,359 Speaker 1: head and like like you're yeah, you're inside of my 359 00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 1: body cavity, and it's very bizarre. It's very bizarre, and 360 00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:08,320 Speaker 1: it's also like so much pleasure that is derived from that, 361 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:11,280 Speaker 1: So it's like very intense. Sex is very intense in 362 00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:15,680 Speaker 1: that way, you know. Um, yes, I am like the 363 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:20,160 Speaker 1: casual hookups. The thing is that you can't really get 364 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:23,919 Speaker 1: as crazy like freak nasty as you really would like to, 365 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:27,040 Speaker 1: because you have to have all your barriers and all 366 00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:30,679 Speaker 1: totally protective factors and like you know, because you have 367 00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 1: to because you have to be safe. Um, but I'd 368 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:37,120 Speaker 1: like no like that. It really is for me one 369 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:40,920 Speaker 1: of the major draws to being in like a committed relationship. 370 00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:43,680 Speaker 1: It's like we can make sure that we're taking steps 371 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:47,080 Speaker 1: to be safe and healthy that way, like if you're 372 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:49,920 Speaker 1: not using condoms and you're not using like other types 373 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:52,159 Speaker 1: of prophylactics, like you're going to be good to go 374 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:55,399 Speaker 1: and you can just really just get in there. You 375 00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:57,639 Speaker 1: can try different things, You can try a lot of 376 00:22:57,680 --> 00:23:02,439 Speaker 1: different things. Definitely. You also, I noticed that vacation sex 377 00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:06,000 Speaker 1: it's like the best. It is like way hotter. There's 378 00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:08,639 Speaker 1: something about being on vacation that really makes you like 379 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:11,320 Speaker 1: let loose and like there was one thing that I 380 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:14,320 Speaker 1: can't say too much, but there was one thing say 381 00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:16,399 Speaker 1: that was just one thing that I had been wanting 382 00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:19,119 Speaker 1: us to try. Um, but I was like kind of 383 00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:22,479 Speaker 1: embarrassed to like ask for this need. And then when 384 00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:24,320 Speaker 1: we were on vacation, I was like can you, like 385 00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:26,399 Speaker 1: can you do this? And then he did and like 386 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:29,160 Speaker 1: now we've incorporated it more into like you know, when 387 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:30,960 Speaker 1: we have sex. N now you know all the time, 388 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:35,640 Speaker 1: you know you were just on vacation. Anythings you tried, 389 00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:38,000 Speaker 1: let us know, why should we be trying with the 390 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:40,320 Speaker 1: vacation sex. I agree with that too. I don't know 391 00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:43,400 Speaker 1: if it's just like oh, it's a new bed, clean sheets, 392 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:48,040 Speaker 1: right environment, let's sunk up, let's market our territory in 393 00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:53,199 Speaker 1: this room. No, there's something about flying to a different 394 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:56,840 Speaker 1: destination to have sex. Yeah, well we low key like 395 00:23:56,920 --> 00:24:00,919 Speaker 1: are taking this vacation for the sex. Yeah, in many ways, 396 00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:02,840 Speaker 1: this is one of the main reasons we're even going 397 00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:05,479 Speaker 1: on vacation. I think so, because when you're on vacation, 398 00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:08,480 Speaker 1: you definitely unplug and you just connect in different ways. 399 00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:10,600 Speaker 1: So it really does allow you to have more of 400 00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:14,280 Speaker 1: like like that physical touch, one on one time intimacy. 401 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:17,560 Speaker 1: Blah blah. I'm sucking dying because this is such We're 402 00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:20,520 Speaker 1: such like this is such a sex in the city 403 00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:23,600 Speaker 1: as conversation right now, Like we are at that age 404 00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:25,919 Speaker 1: where this is like a thing that we do, and 405 00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:28,800 Speaker 1: I'm just this leads us to our next question. Actually 406 00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:32,480 Speaker 1: it does, which is all about the different stages of 407 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:34,800 Speaker 1: our twenties and how we change and grow and like 408 00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:38,320 Speaker 1: our likes and dislikes, even down to our clothes, even 409 00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:42,240 Speaker 1: down to our clothes. Well, I am newly entered the 410 00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:47,879 Speaker 1: mid twenties club. Yes, um so. I I noticed that 411 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:50,280 Speaker 1: when I was actually even shopping for my birthday outfit, 412 00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:53,720 Speaker 1: I like really struggled because I was like, Okay, I 413 00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 1: don't want something like Sena esque, right, like something like 414 00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:59,439 Speaker 1: to like covered up. But then I also I'm like, 415 00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:01,800 Speaker 1: I'm mom, I was like, look shopping at the boutiques 416 00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:03,920 Speaker 1: and I'm like, these are like clubbing dresses. These are 417 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 1: like little like two piece sets that I'm just like 418 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:09,480 Speaker 1: that it's like all leg and like all cleavage. And 419 00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 1: I was just like, uh, like I want to balance, 420 00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:15,280 Speaker 1: you know, like I want to show out and I 421 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:17,480 Speaker 1: want to be sexy, but I also want to be 422 00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:20,399 Speaker 1: a little tame at the same time. But you know 423 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:24,640 Speaker 1: what i mean, even going out less like is I've 424 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:28,480 Speaker 1: noticed noticed that I'm just I'm more drawn to like, Okay, yeah, 425 00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:31,080 Speaker 1: we can be home. I can be home. Yeah, I 426 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:34,000 Speaker 1: know in the past year, I definitely, Um, I stay 427 00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:35,679 Speaker 1: in a lot. I stay home a lot, and on 428 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:37,879 Speaker 1: the weekends I'm home a lot. And Mariita, how have 429 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 1: you like the stages of your twenties? Like how would 430 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 1: you describe the stage that you're in now? What's interesting 431 00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 1: is for me, like what I mean, we've been friends 432 00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:52,359 Speaker 1: for three three years. When I met all of y'all, 433 00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:57,720 Speaker 1: I was six, so I think, and that at that 434 00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:03,000 Speaker 1: time is when I was just starting two baby. It 435 00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:08,240 Speaker 1: was literally I was going so at that age, just 436 00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:10,600 Speaker 1: when I had just started like going out more and 437 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:13,040 Speaker 1: going to the clubs, and like I think it was 438 00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:15,720 Speaker 1: honestly through all of you that I started to become 439 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:18,080 Speaker 1: more comfortable in my body and be like seeing all 440 00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:21,119 Speaker 1: of you just stressing these beautiful outfits and that were 441 00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:24,600 Speaker 1: that really inspired me to try to, like, you know, 442 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,240 Speaker 1: be more comfortable in my own body. And I got 443 00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:29,320 Speaker 1: there and remember the Green Leader, Yes, I was gonna 444 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:35,320 Speaker 1: save money. I can serve a deep plunge hard like, No, 445 00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:38,679 Speaker 1: that was a really important photo. That was a pivotal photo. 446 00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:42,399 Speaker 1: It really was the photo we should use. Can I 447 00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:47,480 Speaker 1: ever go missing my photo on my flyer, everyone will 448 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:50,639 Speaker 1: find me immediately. But yeah, it was really for all 449 00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:52,440 Speaker 1: of y'all that like, that's when I started to become 450 00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 1: more comfortable in my body and like wanting to want 451 00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:57,720 Speaker 1: what I have and be comfortable in my own skin. 452 00:26:57,880 --> 00:26:59,879 Speaker 1: And that was was beautiful. So I think for me 453 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:02,359 Speaker 1: it was a little bit more of the opposite that 454 00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:04,760 Speaker 1: it was in my twenties. Six years when I was 455 00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:07,400 Speaker 1: around twenty six, is that I started to be going 456 00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:09,600 Speaker 1: out more and explore all of that more. And I 457 00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:12,240 Speaker 1: was also recently more new to l A. I had 458 00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:15,399 Speaker 1: moved to l A in two thousand and sixteen and 459 00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:18,440 Speaker 1: had established like more friendships with with folks here living 460 00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:21,840 Speaker 1: in l A that we're all natives. Um so through 461 00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:24,879 Speaker 1: all of that, I think it changed a little bit 462 00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:28,200 Speaker 1: to what all of y'all had earlier in your twenties. Yes, 463 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:30,720 Speaker 1: so I can I can see that it's just being 464 00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:35,040 Speaker 1: a little bit of you know, backwards. But I think 465 00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:38,520 Speaker 1: now with you know, with work being so busy, and 466 00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:41,360 Speaker 1: with other things going on in my life and being 467 00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:43,560 Speaker 1: in the relationship and all of that, things have changed 468 00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:45,639 Speaker 1: a little bit as well. That's say that I'm not 469 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:47,640 Speaker 1: now more also a little bit like I don't mind 470 00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:49,359 Speaker 1: staying at all. Right today I had to wake up 471 00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:51,520 Speaker 1: at mine I am, and I was like stressing out. 472 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:55,159 Speaker 1: We're also like just so tired, so tired. I'm so 473 00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:58,160 Speaker 1: tired all the time, and I'm just like who even 474 00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:00,480 Speaker 1: has the energy to go out? You know what I mean. 475 00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:04,320 Speaker 1: That's how I feel about it, you know, even like shopping, 476 00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:06,560 Speaker 1: like going back to shopping. I think that's what I've 477 00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:09,159 Speaker 1: been realizing, like, oh shit, I am like no longer 478 00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:11,840 Speaker 1: a little like twenty two year old Dasa, you know 479 00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:14,280 Speaker 1: what I mean? Because now, like when I walk into 480 00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:16,680 Speaker 1: a store, I kind of I think about like work 481 00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:19,520 Speaker 1: and like what can I buy for work and for 482 00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:22,200 Speaker 1: me in particular, like at my job, I can't show 483 00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:24,680 Speaker 1: any of my tattoos, so I have to get really 484 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:28,840 Speaker 1: creative with what I wear. And it's also very annoying. 485 00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:31,280 Speaker 1: You know, it's not it's my least favorite thing. It's 486 00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:33,320 Speaker 1: the only thing I don't like about my job. Um 487 00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:35,880 Speaker 1: that I can't show any of my tattoos. And it's 488 00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,400 Speaker 1: uncomfortable and I hate it, but you know, it is 489 00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:42,880 Speaker 1: what it is. Um general generationally like it just it 490 00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:45,520 Speaker 1: makes sense for where I work. Um. But yeah, so 491 00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:47,560 Speaker 1: even like shopping, I like have to think like, okay, 492 00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:49,280 Speaker 1: well I need a new blast for work, right because 493 00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:51,000 Speaker 1: I need to cover my shoulders and I need to 494 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:53,480 Speaker 1: cover my arm and all this stuff as you know, 495 00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:57,440 Speaker 1: yeah yeah, yeah, yeah I am so I'm a teacher now, 496 00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:59,360 Speaker 1: and like with my clothes, I've been thinking a lot 497 00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:01,720 Speaker 1: of too about you know, what am I wearing for work? 498 00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:05,440 Speaker 1: And because that's really where the majority of our dressing 499 00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:08,800 Speaker 1: is happening, is that work. Unfortunately, unfortunately, I have less 500 00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:11,040 Speaker 1: and less reasons to buy going out clothes. If I 501 00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:14,400 Speaker 1: know I have an event, I'm going to buy anything specific. 502 00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:16,520 Speaker 1: I was going to say, and I think because of local. 503 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,360 Speaker 1: When we go out now it's very it's because we're 504 00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:23,680 Speaker 1: working or related exactly. So even then it's more like 505 00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:26,280 Speaker 1: because before when I would go shopping, it would be like, oh, 506 00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:28,680 Speaker 1: this is cute. I'm buying seven pieces that I'm going 507 00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:31,400 Speaker 1: to probably wear out in one week, right, you know 508 00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:34,600 Speaker 1: what I mean? I would like buy dresses every weekend 509 00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:37,240 Speaker 1: because I knew we were going to take picture and 510 00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:40,920 Speaker 1: we were going to go out. It was a lot. 511 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:43,040 Speaker 1: But you know what I find interesting is I really 512 00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:46,280 Speaker 1: am enjoying this practice of dressing up for work, like 513 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:49,160 Speaker 1: in the class. My mom has been a fourth grade 514 00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:51,800 Speaker 1: teacher for many years, and something that she always did 515 00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:54,800 Speaker 1: and would talk to us about is she goes super 516 00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,040 Speaker 1: dressed up and she does her hair, and she wears 517 00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:59,880 Speaker 1: her jewelry, and she's coordinated and her outfits are very colorful. 518 00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:03,440 Speaker 1: And her students have always responded very positively to that. 519 00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:06,960 Speaker 1: And my mom's philosophy has always been as a teacher, 520 00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:10,000 Speaker 1: when you show up like put together, your students can 521 00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:12,560 Speaker 1: tell that you put an effort to be there, that 522 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:16,200 Speaker 1: you're there to work, and that they like appreciate colors, 523 00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:19,880 Speaker 1: and it catches their attention. So I like I am like, okay, mom, 524 00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:23,719 Speaker 1: I'll follow this advice. I'll follow that advice. And so 525 00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:27,440 Speaker 1: I've been really intentional about having like cute outfits and 526 00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:29,640 Speaker 1: it does make a difference because then my students are like, 527 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:34,400 Speaker 1: you have good outfits. They notice, they notice, they notice, 528 00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:35,960 Speaker 1: so it's cute time. Oh my god, I want to 529 00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:38,720 Speaker 1: share real quick. Okay. I was cleaning out my closet 530 00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:42,880 Speaker 1: the other day and I definitely like throughout a lot 531 00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:45,000 Speaker 1: of like the stuff that when we would go out, 532 00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:47,840 Speaker 1: Like do you remember that? Remember that leotard, the like 533 00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:50,520 Speaker 1: pinkish mesh one and I just wore like a bra 534 00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:53,760 Speaker 1: underneath it. Then I do remember that, Okay, I put 535 00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:56,680 Speaker 1: that in the like pile to give away, to donate. 536 00:30:57,400 --> 00:30:59,760 Speaker 1: I just don't see myself wearing that now, you know. 537 00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:02,880 Speaker 1: And then my partner and my mom were both in 538 00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:04,600 Speaker 1: the room with me, like they were like helping me, 539 00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:06,680 Speaker 1: like judging, like yes, give that away, no keep that. 540 00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:10,360 Speaker 1: And I looked at the blue and white dress when 541 00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:12,160 Speaker 1: we all met the night that we all met. I 542 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:15,200 Speaker 1: remember that dress, and my partner was like, oh, no, 543 00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:17,400 Speaker 1: like that one has to go, and I was like, no, 544 00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:20,400 Speaker 1: I'm not ready to part with that dress, like staple. 545 00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:22,800 Speaker 1: That is like even if I don't, I don't even 546 00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:24,520 Speaker 1: feel like i'd wear it again, but I just can't 547 00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:26,920 Speaker 1: part with it. Like that was a night we all met, 548 00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:29,800 Speaker 1: like for real, for real, and the Mommy Collective was born. 549 00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:33,560 Speaker 1: When the museum opens that right, like I need that 550 00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:37,880 Speaker 1: dress on display, looks through the ages, right, I love it. 551 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:40,840 Speaker 1: I love it. Okay, So that has been all you 552 00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:45,040 Speaker 1: look as thanks for those questions. They came from ourselves. 553 00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:49,000 Speaker 1: We came up with those. Thanks to us, So we 554 00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:51,680 Speaker 1: did great. Yes, and someone shout out to our shouts 555 00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:56,360 Speaker 1: shout out mania, thank you for being vulnerable and sharing. Yeah, 556 00:31:56,960 --> 00:32:00,440 Speaker 1: we appreciate it. So now to the gardener of the podcast. Yes, 557 00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:03,680 Speaker 1: let's get into it, Mariza, and you're amazing work. Mariita. 558 00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:05,520 Speaker 1: Can you tell us, um a little bit more in 559 00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:08,600 Speaker 1: detail about what you do, um the organization that you 560 00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:11,440 Speaker 1: work for? Yeah, of course, um So, I work for 561 00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:14,560 Speaker 1: a nonprofit organization. What we do is that we provide 562 00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:19,560 Speaker 1: legal services for unaccompanied miners. UM. My role specifically is 563 00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:22,480 Speaker 1: I am their social services coordinator. So what I do 564 00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:27,120 Speaker 1: is anything that's outside of their legal case, um so, 565 00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:33,480 Speaker 1: assisting them with educational needs, um, housing needs, food, needs UM, 566 00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:37,040 Speaker 1: medical needs UM, anything that is really not connected to 567 00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:38,720 Speaker 1: their legal case, that's where I try to step in. 568 00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:41,400 Speaker 1: So anything social services related, which is such a big, 569 00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:43,959 Speaker 1: big scope of work, UM, is what I help our 570 00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:46,800 Speaker 1: clients with. And it's been just so incredibly rewarding just 571 00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:50,000 Speaker 1: working with my my grant community, working with immigrant children 572 00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:53,760 Speaker 1: and youth. UM. I've thankfully because of this job, I 573 00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:55,840 Speaker 1: found that that is now my passion, that is what 574 00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:58,120 Speaker 1: I want to do long term. So I really am 575 00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:02,360 Speaker 1: enjoying it. Yeah, you do. You do incredible work. And UM, 576 00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:04,480 Speaker 1: I'm really I wanted to ask you because of a 577 00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:07,360 Speaker 1: project that you really spearheaded and facilitated and took the 578 00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:10,760 Speaker 1: lead on, which is Baby Too Baby, And I know 579 00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:12,880 Speaker 1: that you had do you still have the wish lists 580 00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:15,520 Speaker 1: so that our listeners can contribute if they're able to. 581 00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:17,680 Speaker 1: Can you talk about first? First of all, can you 582 00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:20,280 Speaker 1: talk about Baby Too Baby and what that program is 583 00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:23,360 Speaker 1: so one of the great things with my position. I mean, well, 584 00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:25,479 Speaker 1: so let me saying I started my position in two 585 00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:29,920 Speaker 1: thousands sixteen with this nonprofit organization and UM, I was 586 00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:34,040 Speaker 1: actually the first one of anything social services related that 587 00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:37,400 Speaker 1: they started within the organization. So I am one of 588 00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:41,280 Speaker 1: three social services coordinators that they hired for all our 589 00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:44,880 Speaker 1: turn offices throughout the United States. Um So, really, when 590 00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:48,160 Speaker 1: I came into the position, everything it was a clean slate, 591 00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:51,120 Speaker 1: like there was there was nothing for me to fall 592 00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,280 Speaker 1: back on or to work off of. Everybody in my 593 00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:57,280 Speaker 1: office is a legal attorney, um so they didn't really 594 00:33:57,320 --> 00:34:00,640 Speaker 1: know what my job would consist of. So everything I've 595 00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:05,360 Speaker 1: created with my with my nonprofit and working with other partners, 596 00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:07,880 Speaker 1: I've really established on my own over the last almost 597 00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:11,680 Speaker 1: three years. Um So, creating these networks. Networking has been 598 00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:13,720 Speaker 1: a huge, huge part of the work that I do, 599 00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:17,160 Speaker 1: and just going out into the communities and seeing who 600 00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:19,600 Speaker 1: is already doing this work, because there are already so 601 00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:21,960 Speaker 1: many amazing folks out there doing this work for the 602 00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:26,200 Speaker 1: immigrant communities, for undocumented communities, um so partnering with them 603 00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:29,399 Speaker 1: and seeing how can I help you to make help 604 00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:32,880 Speaker 1: us grow together bigger and get our presence known because 605 00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:35,280 Speaker 1: there's a lot of people behind the scenes doing this work. 606 00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:39,560 Speaker 1: Um So. One of the things that came about is 607 00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:43,399 Speaker 1: I met Baby to Baby through literally just a resource fair, 608 00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:46,600 Speaker 1: and um I applied with them for one of their 609 00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:49,080 Speaker 1: partnerships and so many people applied to their program, so 610 00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:51,560 Speaker 1: I was on the wait list for a year and 611 00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:55,399 Speaker 1: UM after that. I the reason I applied to it 612 00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:57,400 Speaker 1: is just I noticed that a lot of our clients 613 00:34:57,440 --> 00:34:59,920 Speaker 1: are just in need of very very basic things, whether 614 00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:03,680 Speaker 1: be diapers or formula UM. A lot of our clients 615 00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:07,600 Speaker 1: are have children of their own UM from a young age, 616 00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:09,880 Speaker 1: and you know, it's struggling to go to school and 617 00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:12,400 Speaker 1: support them at the same time. So I was so 618 00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:15,040 Speaker 1: so grateful to find this partnership with Babe the Baby 619 00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:18,120 Speaker 1: where they're able to provide me with diapers whenever I 620 00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:22,000 Speaker 1: need them, or baby wipes whenever I need them, formulas UM. 621 00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:24,160 Speaker 1: If one of my clients needs a baby stroller, I'm 622 00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:26,200 Speaker 1: able to email Baby to Baby and tell them, hey, 623 00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:28,640 Speaker 1: can you find me a baby stroller? And most of 624 00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:32,160 Speaker 1: the time they find me a brand new, like expensive 625 00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:35,640 Speaker 1: baby stroller or brand new car seat, things like that 626 00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:38,480 Speaker 1: that are just such essential basic items that we take 627 00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:43,719 Speaker 1: for granted sometimes that aren't always accessible to us UM. 628 00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:46,399 Speaker 1: So through that partnership with Baby to Baby UM, they 629 00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:49,800 Speaker 1: have been so supportive for the work that I'm doing 630 00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:55,359 Speaker 1: UM with with unaccompanied miners in my organization. And then 631 00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:58,799 Speaker 1: in the beginning of this summer, when everything, all the 632 00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:03,520 Speaker 1: crazy family separation nonsense started hitting the hitting the media 633 00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:06,840 Speaker 1: and started hitting the headlines. UM, they reached out to 634 00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:09,640 Speaker 1: me and said what can we do to support your work? 635 00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:12,120 Speaker 1: How can I help you? Which I was just so 636 00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:15,120 Speaker 1: taking aback. That's such a big organization like Baby a 637 00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:18,279 Speaker 1: Baby took notice and took their time to come talk 638 00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:20,120 Speaker 1: to me and call me and asked me how they 639 00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:24,800 Speaker 1: can contribute. UM And, like I mentioned, we have offices, 640 00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:28,319 Speaker 1: ten offices throughout the United States. So I mentioned to them, 641 00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:31,680 Speaker 1: I'm like, well, there's so many clients coming right now. 642 00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:35,400 Speaker 1: There's so many children in detention facilities UM And unfortunately 643 00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:38,279 Speaker 1: we don't work directly with kids in detention facilities, but 644 00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:41,560 Speaker 1: they they've been released. The majority of kids have been released, 645 00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:46,000 Speaker 1: thank god. And once they get released, they do eventually 646 00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:50,799 Speaker 1: end up looking looking for legal representation. So over the 647 00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:55,000 Speaker 1: past month and a half, we've started now receiving these 648 00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:58,600 Speaker 1: cases and meeting with these clients in our offices. Clients 649 00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:01,799 Speaker 1: as young as five six years old coming to our 650 00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:07,200 Speaker 1: offices UM with their sponsors looking for legal representation. And thankfully, 651 00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:09,759 Speaker 1: with this partnership with Baby to Baby we've been able 652 00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:13,480 Speaker 1: to provide them just essential items. So Baby to Baby 653 00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:17,440 Speaker 1: UM really reached out to their networks and their partners 654 00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:22,279 Speaker 1: who was pretty like wide celebrity funded um so that 655 00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:26,800 Speaker 1: that's been a huge, huge contribution. Um And through that partnership, 656 00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:29,840 Speaker 1: they reached out to them their networks and put created 657 00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:33,640 Speaker 1: their own wish list without me even asking, they created 658 00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:37,680 Speaker 1: their own wish list and literally in a day, it 659 00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:41,480 Speaker 1: shut down the internet, Like there were so many people 660 00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:45,160 Speaker 1: buying items. They bought every item off the wish list 661 00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:48,879 Speaker 1: that the site broke down because yeah, they had so 662 00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:52,880 Speaker 1: much volume that the site went down and it wasn't working, 663 00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:55,440 Speaker 1: and it was amazing. It was just so overwhelming to 664 00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:58,480 Speaker 1: see that community support over during a time that has 665 00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:02,839 Speaker 1: just been so heartbreaking to see in our communities. UM. 666 00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:05,880 Speaker 1: So they created this this wish list with just basic 667 00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:10,760 Speaker 1: essential items for families, um and that just went viral 668 00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:13,440 Speaker 1: and it was amazing. And then they created another wish 669 00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:16,560 Speaker 1: list through Target and then that one like almost sold 670 00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:19,520 Speaker 1: out as well. UM So that was going on during 671 00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:23,080 Speaker 1: the summer and that was really really successful. UM As 672 00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:25,040 Speaker 1: of now, like we're doing our own wish list within 673 00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:28,920 Speaker 1: our own office, which I can share with you later. Um. 674 00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:31,920 Speaker 1: But yeah, through those items and through that partnership, we 675 00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:36,080 Speaker 1: were able to provide things like they got a bunch 676 00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:40,239 Speaker 1: of donations like towels and toothbrush and toothbrushes and toothpaste 677 00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:45,799 Speaker 1: and shampoo, deodorate, stuffed animals, bilingual books like so many 678 00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,359 Speaker 1: things that are just essentials that we need to live 679 00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:52,120 Speaker 1: everyday life. Um. They were able to collect those items 680 00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:54,839 Speaker 1: for us, and it's just been life changing that they 681 00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:57,120 Speaker 1: were able to, you know, take the time to do 682 00:38:57,200 --> 00:38:59,400 Speaker 1: that since they already have so much going on and 683 00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:03,520 Speaker 1: they so many partners in l A County already, Um, 684 00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:06,000 Speaker 1: and they take note, took note of what we're doing 685 00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:07,879 Speaker 1: in the work we're doing. It was just really really 686 00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:10,680 Speaker 1: nice to see that love coming in from all over 687 00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:13,600 Speaker 1: from all over the world when folks were donating. So 688 00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:17,880 Speaker 1: that was beautiful. Well, congratulations, that's incredible to you and 689 00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:23,160 Speaker 1: your organization. Thank you. Yeah. I mean I am continuously 690 00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:26,839 Speaker 1: amazed by like our friends and just the people that 691 00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:28,760 Speaker 1: we know, and like you are one of those people 692 00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:31,520 Speaker 1: and need to actually trained me. Yeah. I was going 693 00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:34,640 Speaker 1: to say, you know before you share, before you share 694 00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:38,719 Speaker 1: that you know, Mariza has been our friend for three 695 00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:42,759 Speaker 1: years not right, and she is like a person that 696 00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:46,759 Speaker 1: is very low key about all the incredible ship that 697 00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:50,360 Speaker 1: she's doing. That It's kind of like Mom and I 698 00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:52,880 Speaker 1: were like together and we were like looking at Instagram. 699 00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:55,080 Speaker 1: We were talking about our friends, and I was like, um, 700 00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:57,200 Speaker 1: we need to have Monitza on the show because she 701 00:39:57,360 --> 00:40:00,680 Speaker 1: fucking in our circle. It does incredible work, but it's 702 00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:02,840 Speaker 1: very very humble and low key about it, and we 703 00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:05,440 Speaker 1: just really wanted to give you this time to like 704 00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:08,080 Speaker 1: shine and like really talk about all the amazing ship 705 00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:10,640 Speaker 1: that you're doing. Thank you, so thank you again, not 706 00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:13,040 Speaker 1: the interview ever, but thank you again for coming on 707 00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:16,120 Speaker 1: the show, because it's so incredible to hear everything that 708 00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:19,200 Speaker 1: you're doing. Yeah, No, I really appreciate that. It's it's 709 00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:22,759 Speaker 1: like blown up and I've been so grateful for the 710 00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:25,000 Speaker 1: love of folks all over the communities. I Mean, we 711 00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:28,760 Speaker 1: see just terrible things happening in with politics these days, 712 00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:31,480 Speaker 1: but it's nice to see that there are folks that 713 00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:33,960 Speaker 1: support the work that we all do and all that 714 00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:36,560 Speaker 1: love and what that partnership with Baby to Baby. Not 715 00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:39,200 Speaker 1: only were they able to help folks here in l 716 00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:43,120 Speaker 1: A County, they actually sent items to all our ten 717 00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:47,560 Speaker 1: offices that kind of tasks. So they sent out I 718 00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:49,640 Speaker 1: got the numbers and it was like they sent out 719 00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:53,080 Speaker 1: one point five million items to twenty six cities throughout 720 00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:57,040 Speaker 1: the United States. And like, I was crying when I 721 00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:59,160 Speaker 1: heard those numbers when they told me that in person, 722 00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:02,400 Speaker 1: and they were thanking me, like for creating these parts, 723 00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:05,960 Speaker 1: for hooking them up with the other organizations that do 724 00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:08,839 Speaker 1: this work. And I was just in tears to see 725 00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:10,719 Speaker 1: those numbers, to see all the people that we were 726 00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:13,520 Speaker 1: finding that we were able to reach. UM. So that 727 00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:17,120 Speaker 1: was really really beautiful. And you know, other other partnerships 728 00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:20,560 Speaker 1: that I've been able to establish with my position, UM, 729 00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:23,520 Speaker 1: like working with Metro to obtain bus tokens for my 730 00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:27,080 Speaker 1: clients UM, and that gives them the opportunity to get 731 00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:30,080 Speaker 1: to doctor's appointments, to get to school, to come see 732 00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:33,280 Speaker 1: their attorneys in our office, UM, to go to therapy 733 00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:36,600 Speaker 1: on the weekly basis. Things like that are just so 734 00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:39,480 Speaker 1: so so important. And that's another big aspect of the 735 00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:42,839 Speaker 1: work that I do, is focusing on mental health and 736 00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:46,680 Speaker 1: just UM giving the clients that I work with, all 737 00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:49,480 Speaker 1: who are under the age of nineteen, just giving them 738 00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:52,239 Speaker 1: the tools that they need to know how to take 739 00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:54,160 Speaker 1: care of their mental health and the importance of their 740 00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:59,080 Speaker 1: mental health, and constantly telling our clients how important, how 741 00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:02,919 Speaker 1: mental health is just as important as physical health. Um. 742 00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:05,319 Speaker 1: The population that we work with have just gone through 743 00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:07,640 Speaker 1: so much trauma throughout their lives, which is the reason, 744 00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:09,760 Speaker 1: you know why they're in the United States. Like, nobody 745 00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:12,040 Speaker 1: wants to leave their home. Nobody wants to leave their 746 00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:15,640 Speaker 1: home country, their community, their families behind. Nobody wants to 747 00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:19,000 Speaker 1: do that. But unfortunately we can established we come to 748 00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:22,120 Speaker 1: situations that we're forced out of our homes, out of 749 00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:25,359 Speaker 1: you know, just terrible things that are going on, and 750 00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:28,120 Speaker 1: that that's who the population that I'm working with, And 751 00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:31,160 Speaker 1: they've just experienced so much trauma, and they've taught me 752 00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:35,880 Speaker 1: so much about resiliency because just looking at a twelve 753 00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:38,799 Speaker 1: year old that's escape so much violence in their communities 754 00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:41,400 Speaker 1: inside and outside of the home, and I'm just like, 755 00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:44,759 Speaker 1: you're twelve and you're smiling every day, and you're like 756 00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:48,279 Speaker 1: getting straight a's, and you're being this amazing badass kid 757 00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:51,680 Speaker 1: every day. And I'm like, and you've like left all 758 00:42:51,719 --> 00:42:54,560 Speaker 1: of this behind, you left your family behind, and here 759 00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:56,880 Speaker 1: you are shining like teaching me how to be a 760 00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:59,719 Speaker 1: better person. And just like I'm blown away every day 761 00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:02,800 Speaker 1: by working with these youth and and just the beautiful 762 00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:05,120 Speaker 1: things they do. And that's you know, what I want 763 00:43:05,120 --> 00:43:08,960 Speaker 1: to keep doing is keep supporting them, helping them achieve 764 00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:11,800 Speaker 1: whatever they want to do in their lives and reminding 765 00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:14,480 Speaker 1: them that they are capable of everything and anything that 766 00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:17,600 Speaker 1: they set their minds to. Yeah, your passion definitely shows 767 00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:20,480 Speaker 1: and yeah, we can definitely see this is your your 768 00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:22,960 Speaker 1: on path. This is definitely what you're meant to be doing. 769 00:43:23,120 --> 00:43:27,080 Speaker 1: Love it. Love it when purpose aligns with like need. Yes, 770 00:43:27,520 --> 00:43:32,120 Speaker 1: like you know, like, yes, you're doing good, You're doing good, 771 00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:36,360 Speaker 1: thank you, thank you do. And you had an exciting 772 00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:41,560 Speaker 1: experience recently involving Yes, yeah that was the real too, 773 00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:44,040 Speaker 1: because I'm used to seeing like all my friends behind 774 00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:49,319 Speaker 1: the camera being interviewed, being like partnering with Adidas and 775 00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:54,600 Speaker 1: Levies and doing all these badass things. Um so yeah, 776 00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:58,080 Speaker 1: so I mean with my partnership with the baby. Um 777 00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:00,680 Speaker 1: the mayor marre Garcetti took note us of everything that 778 00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:04,240 Speaker 1: was going on, and they've been trying to support immigrant 779 00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:08,120 Speaker 1: families in in the Los Angeles County as well, Um, 780 00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:12,120 Speaker 1: so he saw the work that my my organization is doing, 781 00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:16,040 Speaker 1: the work that we're doing helping immigrant families, and um, 782 00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:17,960 Speaker 1: he wanted to talk to me and meet with me 783 00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:20,200 Speaker 1: and like thank me for the work that I'm doing 784 00:44:20,239 --> 00:44:25,000 Speaker 1: and the contributions um that other organization legal organizations are 785 00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:29,719 Speaker 1: also doing in the community. Um And yeah, and was 786 00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:32,399 Speaker 1: there and the study TV was there and they were 787 00:44:32,440 --> 00:44:35,200 Speaker 1: just asking who the population that we work with is, 788 00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:38,040 Speaker 1: how we're helping, how they can continue to help, how 789 00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:40,560 Speaker 1: they can promote the work. And that was awesome to 790 00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:44,440 Speaker 1: just to reach out to our own communities. Like the 791 00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:46,560 Speaker 1: next day, you know, that same day, like I got 792 00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:49,239 Speaker 1: a text from my sister and she had sent me 793 00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:51,680 Speaker 1: a picture that her friend took while she was at 794 00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:54,400 Speaker 1: home watching TV. And she's like, Hey, your sisters on TV. 795 00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:59,120 Speaker 1: Picture And it was so so sweet. The reach, the 796 00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:05,760 Speaker 1: reach impact, that's amazing. So all this amazing work that's 797 00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:08,520 Speaker 1: so far And what's next? What's next for you? Meriita? 798 00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:12,720 Speaker 1: Um lord, so I am in the process of applying 799 00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:15,960 Speaker 1: to grad school right now. That the whole process it's 800 00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:20,840 Speaker 1: just been work on its own second job. We have 801 00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:23,359 Speaker 1: put it off for that same reason. We've been talking 802 00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:27,840 Speaker 1: about it though we've been discussing. We discuss it, it comes, 803 00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:31,600 Speaker 1: it comes into conversation every few months. But so what 804 00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:34,640 Speaker 1: is that process like or like? Because are we noticed 805 00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:37,000 Speaker 1: that our listeners will ask us those questions and we 806 00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:39,239 Speaker 1: kids do not have the answer because we've been avoiding it, 807 00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:42,640 Speaker 1: like the play. So like for folks that are applying 808 00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:44,759 Speaker 1: or in the process or thinking about it, like, what 809 00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:47,480 Speaker 1: are some from your experience thus far, Like what are 810 00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:51,799 Speaker 1: some tips that you can give them? Honestly, start as 811 00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:54,760 Speaker 1: early as possible. Like in my head, I had given 812 00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:57,680 Speaker 1: myself the deadline up. Okay, by Thanksgiving, you're going to 813 00:45:57,760 --> 00:46:00,400 Speaker 1: have all your applications done, because last year I was 814 00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:03,640 Speaker 1: in the process of doing this, of of applying to schools. 815 00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:07,440 Speaker 1: I had started some of my applications last winter, and 816 00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:10,960 Speaker 1: then life happened, just things out of our control happened. 817 00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:14,480 Speaker 1: I wasn't able to go through with it, and and 818 00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:16,880 Speaker 1: that's okay, Like it gave me that room to grow 819 00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:20,839 Speaker 1: and to really explore more schools and more programs. Um 820 00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:22,840 Speaker 1: So I would just say, start as early as possible, 821 00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:26,279 Speaker 1: just like researching schools, feeling out the programs, like going 822 00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:30,720 Speaker 1: to their information sessions, getting to know the faculty is huge. 823 00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:32,719 Speaker 1: I've learned that over the last couple of months is 824 00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:36,279 Speaker 1: just knowing the faculty, knowing who is working these departments, 825 00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:39,160 Speaker 1: and knowing what their research looks like, how you want 826 00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:42,920 Speaker 1: to contribute to that to that research as well, and 827 00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:44,920 Speaker 1: for them to see know your face and know your 828 00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:47,839 Speaker 1: name so that when they get that application on their desk, 829 00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:50,279 Speaker 1: they're like, oh, I know who this girl is like 830 00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:54,759 Speaker 1: in yeah, So that that's been really really important, And 831 00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:57,400 Speaker 1: I were like, can we apply to grad school with 832 00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:04,160 Speaker 1: We're like, we're a unit. And also like they don't 833 00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:08,200 Speaker 1: use to know our government names parts under the past, 834 00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:15,000 Speaker 1: that's those are That's that's good advice. But it's a 835 00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:18,880 Speaker 1: really intimidating process. It really is. I think just looking 836 00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:22,040 Speaker 1: at these big name institutions and Ivy League schools that 837 00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:24,719 Speaker 1: were never created for us and we're never created for 838 00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:26,960 Speaker 1: people of color and just trying to get into these 839 00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:31,920 Speaker 1: systems and trying to get into these schools um and 840 00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:34,520 Speaker 1: my in my head, I'm just like I'm going to 841 00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:37,200 Speaker 1: get into these schools and my goal is to just 842 00:47:37,239 --> 00:47:41,680 Speaker 1: function up. My goal is to show them why you 843 00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:44,399 Speaker 1: need me in your school, because this is what I'm 844 00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:47,640 Speaker 1: going to bring to the table um, but that process 845 00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:50,160 Speaker 1: is intimidating. It's intimidating process to get there. For me 846 00:47:50,960 --> 00:47:54,600 Speaker 1: to even four or five years ago, I would have 847 00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:57,200 Speaker 1: never even thought of the idea of getting a master's 848 00:47:57,360 --> 00:47:59,920 Speaker 1: was something that was an option for me. Call it. 849 00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:03,479 Speaker 1: It was never something that like we talked about really 850 00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:07,920 Speaker 1: in my household. Um, so I think like, yes, my 851 00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:11,239 Speaker 1: parents were were being on education, but college was never 852 00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:12,880 Speaker 1: like you have to go to college, you have to 853 00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:14,920 Speaker 1: do this. It was never something that was really pushed 854 00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:17,720 Speaker 1: on us. So to me, like I saw my friends 855 00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:19,840 Speaker 1: go to college and saw my friends get their masters 856 00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:22,759 Speaker 1: I'm seeing my friends get their pH d s. And 857 00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:25,799 Speaker 1: now I'm just like I can do this. I saw 858 00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:27,920 Speaker 1: this too, like this is my resume of all the 859 00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:31,439 Speaker 1: badass ship I'm doing. So I'm like I got this. 860 00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:33,800 Speaker 1: So it's been a lot of PEP talks on my own. 861 00:48:34,080 --> 00:48:35,840 Speaker 1: Three days ago, I had was like crying in the 862 00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:38,680 Speaker 1: bathroom because like the whole process is so intimidating of 863 00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:42,640 Speaker 1: just getting it all together and selling yourself honestly to 864 00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:46,000 Speaker 1: these institutions of like this is why you should you 865 00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:49,799 Speaker 1: should bring me on board. Um, it's it's a really 866 00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:53,959 Speaker 1: really intimidating process. So just having folks that have possibly 867 00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:57,080 Speaker 1: already done the process has been huge. Um. I've had 868 00:48:57,120 --> 00:48:59,919 Speaker 1: so many people share with me their personal statements when 869 00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:02,200 Speaker 1: they applied to grad school. So I've been reading and 870 00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:05,960 Speaker 1: going through those like crazy and getting ideas and just 871 00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:08,200 Speaker 1: the way people were things that I'm just like, wait 872 00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:12,120 Speaker 1: a second, I do that, but just different so differently 873 00:49:13,000 --> 00:49:18,520 Speaker 1: that that it changes the whole game. That's amazing. Thank 874 00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:21,640 Speaker 1: you for that advice. I'm going to follow that advice 875 00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:27,880 Speaker 1: myself because I've been I like went through this process 876 00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:30,239 Speaker 1: of like I've done the g R the g R E, 877 00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:32,680 Speaker 1: and so I sat for it and and I took it. 878 00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:37,239 Speaker 1: I got my scores, I requested my transcripts. I like 879 00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:39,920 Speaker 1: did all these applications, and I did everything except the 880 00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:43,839 Speaker 1: personal statement. That's yeah, no, that's always where I stopped too. 881 00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:47,080 Speaker 1: It's the personal statement that's the most intimidating to me. 882 00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:49,720 Speaker 1: And that's why I like, when I was in high school, 883 00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:52,040 Speaker 1: I didn't apply to u c S because you had 884 00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:55,600 Speaker 1: to a personal statement. And I was so intimidating by 885 00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:58,799 Speaker 1: my writing, intimidated by my writing, that I didn't think 886 00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:01,640 Speaker 1: I was good enough. I spent so many years thinking 887 00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:04,440 Speaker 1: that I wasn't good enough, for smart enough for grad school. 888 00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:10,400 Speaker 1: These programs up definitely, and now I'm just like, um No, 889 00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:12,960 Speaker 1: I can get into Gail, I can get into Columbia, 890 00:50:13,000 --> 00:50:15,399 Speaker 1: I can get into you. I can do all these 891 00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:17,919 Speaker 1: things because they need us in these It's true. Yes, 892 00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:22,200 Speaker 1: they did this representation as an immigrant woman, like they 893 00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:26,960 Speaker 1: need my voice. Yes, yeah, yes, sir, yes girl, we 894 00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:31,000 Speaker 1: support you one, any type of support we can offer you, 895 00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:38,080 Speaker 1: taking you coffee, getting coffee, getting a little tell something right, 896 00:50:42,320 --> 00:50:54,359 Speaker 1: an old fashioned anything, anything you need, anything about any beverage. Hey, 897 00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:57,000 Speaker 1: I wan Monita. Thank you so much for being here 898 00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:59,000 Speaker 1: with us today. I'm looking at that our radio. We 899 00:50:59,120 --> 00:51:02,520 Speaker 1: love you. We are pretty. She hate you. Come back soon, yes, 900 00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:07,319 Speaker 1: come back anytime. Our space is your space. Definitely, thank you. 901 00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:09,759 Speaker 1: I love this. Thank you for inviting me. We need 902 00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:13,839 Speaker 1: to hang out more. Yes, other than birthdays. Who has 903 00:51:13,840 --> 00:51:19,080 Speaker 1: the next birthday? You know? Mama January? Mala's in January, Capricorn. 904 00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:24,680 Speaker 1: We need our Christmas party? Yes, okay, so we'll wait 905 00:51:24,840 --> 00:51:29,680 Speaker 1: on the invite from you, Medita. Yes, akay, perfect hosting 906 00:51:29,760 --> 00:51:33,080 Speaker 1: because we're not doing fucking pajamas. This year. I did 907 00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:36,719 Speaker 1: not wear pajama. The pajama party for Christmas last year 908 00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:41,600 Speaker 1: was Mala's idea. And she's the only show in pajamas. 909 00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:44,000 Speaker 1: And we're like, we're literally all wearing pajamas. For you, 910 00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:48,799 Speaker 1: a flaid scar shut up and a sweater dress. It's 911 00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:54,719 Speaker 1: pajama s with like all thigh split. And she would 912 00:51:54,760 --> 00:51:59,680 Speaker 1: just work into Cardi bun and I took a nap. Yes, 913 00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:04,840 Speaker 1: he did, sad you. Firstly, I was so tired. I 914 00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:08,200 Speaker 1: was stressed buying God's present and I couldn't even make anything, 915 00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:10,400 Speaker 1: and I was driving all over. She look up for 916 00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:12,399 Speaker 1: gifts and then fell back because you know, I think 917 00:52:12,719 --> 00:52:15,080 Speaker 1: I think instead of gifts, because the gifts is kind 918 00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:17,760 Speaker 1: of stressful. Who has the time. I think we should 919 00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:22,440 Speaker 1: write meaningful letters to each other, words of affirmation instead 920 00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:25,759 Speaker 1: of buying something. We just write something. I like a 921 00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:31,440 Speaker 1: g I need you don't have to wrap it anyways. 922 00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:37,400 Speaker 1: Money I'm dying, Okay, I can pay for one of 923 00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:41,160 Speaker 1: my applications. We can negociate, we can negotiate something. We'll 924 00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:43,879 Speaker 1: figure something. Yes, we'll figure it out like to bargaining. Yes, 925 00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:49,600 Speaker 1: somebody somewhere else can work. Where can people find you, 926 00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:51,520 Speaker 1: where can people support the work? Well, you don't have 927 00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:53,759 Speaker 1: to share if you're not comfortable sharing, but where can 928 00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:56,680 Speaker 1: people continue to support the work that you do? UM, 929 00:52:56,760 --> 00:52:58,960 Speaker 1: we do have an Amazon wish list. I can share 930 00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:00,560 Speaker 1: that with you if you want to. Yeah, we can 931 00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:03,839 Speaker 1: link it, UM And yeah, through that Amazon wish list, 932 00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:07,960 Speaker 1: we just have items up that are needed for our clients. UM. 933 00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:10,399 Speaker 1: Sometimes I get emails from folks or costs from folks 934 00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:12,360 Speaker 1: in the community asking how can I contribute? Like, I 935 00:53:12,400 --> 00:53:16,719 Speaker 1: don't speak Spanish, I don't have money right right, and 936 00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:20,520 Speaker 1: it's totally understandable. But the thing that I always ask is, UM, 937 00:53:20,760 --> 00:53:22,719 Speaker 1: reach out to folks in your schools or churches or 938 00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:27,200 Speaker 1: communities and just host donation drives. School supplies and toiletry 939 00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:29,960 Speaker 1: drives are huge. They're a huge, huge help for me 940 00:53:30,160 --> 00:53:33,480 Speaker 1: and for for the for our clients. UM. So just 941 00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:37,640 Speaker 1: raising things like deodorants and toothbrushes and toothpaste, or school 942 00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:41,120 Speaker 1: supplies like pencils and notebooks and backpacks, things like that 943 00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:43,000 Speaker 1: are huge and they really really go a long way, 944 00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:45,600 Speaker 1: and their clients are always always grateful. So those are 945 00:53:45,640 --> 00:53:48,120 Speaker 1: things that we need year around, UM. So we always 946 00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:51,080 Speaker 1: appreciate that. UM. Are reach out to me if you 947 00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:54,279 Speaker 1: know folks who are interested in interpreting. We're always looking 948 00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:57,360 Speaker 1: for interpreters for our cases. UM, when we work with 949 00:53:57,400 --> 00:53:59,879 Speaker 1: problem the attorneys, UM, some of the times they don't 950 00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:03,360 Speaker 1: speak Spanish, so we're always looking for interpreters. My mom's 951 00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:06,719 Speaker 1: an interpreter. Oh, that's awesome. It's a mental note. Also, 952 00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:12,840 Speaker 1: we're always looking also for interpreters that speak indigenous languages 953 00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:17,520 Speaker 1: from Central America or from so many folks that know 954 00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:20,960 Speaker 1: indigenous languages that can translate for our clients because a 955 00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:22,839 Speaker 1: lot of times we do have clients that are from 956 00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:27,600 Speaker 1: indigenous communities that Spanish isn't their first language, so interpreters 957 00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:32,800 Speaker 1: in that in that area too are huge. 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