1 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to Stefan 2 00:00:07,640 --> 00:00:19,840 Speaker 1: never told you a prediction of iHeartRadio, and today we 3 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:22,919 Speaker 1: are I'm not gonna say cheating. 4 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 2: But we're kind of doing a lighter. 5 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 1: Feminist movie Friday slash Wednesday probably Wednesday at this point, 6 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 1: which we talked about in previous episodes, where we're just 7 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 1: gonna have a fun, light conversation about movies or media 8 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 1: that personally made us question if maybe we were gay, 9 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 1: along with some popular internet examples. So we're not focusing 10 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 1: on any one movie this time. I would love if 11 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 1: listeners wrote in and contributed to this, because I saw 12 00:00:57,080 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 1: when I was researching this some of them just tickled 13 00:00:59,880 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 1: me so much. 14 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 2: It was so specific. I loved it. I have some 15 00:01:03,360 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 2: that are pretty funny. 16 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:07,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, tickle me. Wow, that threw me all. That's my 17 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 3: mother's phrase. I've not heard you said that ever. 18 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 2: I'm getting older. 19 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 3: I liked it. 20 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 1: Yes, so I know you've heard to talk about it. 21 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 1: We have had a really busy couple of weeks. I'm 22 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:29,639 Speaker 1: still pretty exhausted, to be honest, with recording this audio 23 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 1: book and continuing to put out all of. 24 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:34,759 Speaker 2: Our episodes and things like that. 25 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 1: So this is going to be a bit of a 26 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 1: lighter one, but we do try to as much as 27 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:43,480 Speaker 1: we like to highlight months like this, we do try 28 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 1: to highlight stuff like this throughout the year. So if 29 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 1: you're like, oh, you're not actually doing a queer movie 30 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 1: what we did, we try to do them through all 31 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:53,559 Speaker 1: of our. 32 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 3: Other just recently did the trance movie like It's we 33 00:01:57,520 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 3: want to celebrate it all year long, never gonna hold 34 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 3: us down. But also we want to talk about some 35 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 3: of the movies that we love that we might not 36 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 3: be watching right. 37 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, yes, I think it's gonna be really fun. 38 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 1: I do wanna. I do have a couple of disclaimers 39 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:16,800 Speaker 1: at the top, one being you can find someone of 40 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 1: the opposite sex or any gender identity attractive and not 41 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 1: be gay, Like that's totally a thing. Who you are 42 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 1: attracted to also doesn't necessarily indicate how you actually identify, 43 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:31,839 Speaker 1: Like I am as perhaps gray sexual, but I would 44 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 1: say a sexual and bi romantic. So even though I'm 45 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:37,359 Speaker 1: attracted to people of all types, that doesn't necessarily mean 46 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 1: I'm bisexual, though I did identify it that way for 47 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 1: a while, and it doesn't mean it won't change in 48 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 1: the future. 49 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:50,640 Speaker 2: So and yeah, I we we kind of we're talking 50 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 2: about this. 51 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 1: At a hangout we had and it was fun and 52 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: so we thought we would just share it. But yes, 53 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:01,239 Speaker 1: we're not. Think most of the things we're going to 54 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:05,240 Speaker 1: talk about are not things that have explicitly queer storylines. 55 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 1: Some of them are kind of queer baby, but we 56 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 1: did want to talk about some of the surprise ones 57 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 1: too that maybe you wouldn't necessarily think of. 58 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 3: I think it's the majority of my movies that I 59 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 3: technically not really queer baby. It just happens to be 60 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:22,399 Speaker 3: this dairy role that they played And I was like, what. 61 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 2: Well, that's kind of what I love about it. That's 62 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 2: what I think is so interesting. 63 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: So before we get into our examples, and I guess 64 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 1: we can kind of go back and forth. I wanted 65 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 1: to give some popular internet examples plus ones that just 66 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 1: made me laugh. Usually it has to do with being 67 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 1: attracted to both the male and female leads, Like that's 68 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 1: sort of the vibe that a lot of people were 69 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 1: putting down for this one of the big ones. When 70 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 1: when I read it, I was like, oh, of course 71 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 1: was cruel intentions. 72 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:57,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's felt queer baty to me though for sure. 73 00:03:57,800 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 2: It probably was. 74 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 1: I actually didn't see that movie until I was quite older, 75 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 1: like we're seeing the last five years. 76 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 3: Maybe it wasn't, I guess because the queer baty is 77 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 3: specific to like pandering, they weren't necessarily pandering, But I 78 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 3: feel like it was for shock value. Is that so 79 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 3: queer Baby? 80 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 1: Well, there's a lot of contention around that. It can't 81 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:20,359 Speaker 1: be for sure it was. It definitely did have that 82 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 1: shock value to it of like, ooh, look at how 83 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:28,280 Speaker 1: quote deprived she is. 84 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:31,239 Speaker 3: And it was definitely like in the melgaze, like still 85 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 3: people who were like, oh what it was still sexual? Yeah, sure, 86 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:36,280 Speaker 3: but it's definitely more towards the mel gaze. 87 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 1: Right right and peak behind the Curtain. We are reading 88 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 1: Ginger Queer for the book club pic this this month, 89 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:49,480 Speaker 1: and I read it last night and it talked a 90 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 1: lot about what we're talking about in here. And also 91 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 1: I was researching the character Willow, who's our upcoming fictional 92 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:02,719 Speaker 1: women around the world. One of the things we're going 93 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:05,800 Speaker 1: to talk about all the issues going on with that. 94 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 1: But one of the things that made her very groundbreaking 95 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 1: was it wasn't done for shock value. It wasn't done 96 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:16,160 Speaker 1: for like, oh, look how sexual they are, Whereas this 97 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:20,719 Speaker 1: felt very much like the way you're saying Sarah Michelle 98 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 1: Geller in both of these, but it was like Sarah 99 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:26,920 Speaker 1: Michelle Geller kind of what's the word for that? When 100 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 1: oh ruining like an innocent person? It did have that vibe, 101 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:38,880 Speaker 1: but I remember it being like, oh, yeah, for sure, yes, 102 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:40,600 Speaker 1: so I totally get that. 103 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:42,040 Speaker 2: I totally get that. Example. 104 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 1: Another one that came up that surprised me, but then 105 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 1: when I was reading people's reasoning was the Mummy. 106 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:51,160 Speaker 3: Was surprising to you? Yes, how is that surprising to you? 107 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 3: Like I didn't? I Yeah, I sit you the whole 108 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:57,359 Speaker 3: there's a whole meme going around, like and it shows 109 00:05:57,400 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 3: each picture and everything's like, yes, no, wonder. I was 110 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 3: so confused between like each character four amazing you're like 111 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 3: five with think amazing characters that you just kind of 112 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:09,840 Speaker 3: sit there the stair at and you're like, what is this? 113 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:14,120 Speaker 3: What's going on here? And I will say Rachel Weiss 114 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 3: has was also on my list for another movie. 115 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:20,719 Speaker 1: Yes she's one of Oh she's not. I took it off, 116 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 1: but yeah, no, I get I get that. No, but 117 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: we we have done The Mummy for a fictional movie Friday, Yes, 118 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 1: and we did talk about how uh. One of the 119 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 1: reasons we chose it for that movie was there was 120 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 1: a blog post about how they were kind of in 121 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:45,479 Speaker 1: opposite gender roles, almost like he was a very supportive, 122 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: kind of holding her up and she was very assertive 123 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:52,359 Speaker 1: in all of these ways. So I thought that that 124 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 1: was interesting. Another one that surprised me. And then when 125 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:56,479 Speaker 1: I thought about it, I was like, oh, yeah, I 126 00:06:56,480 --> 00:06:59,160 Speaker 1: should probably re examine this. Empire strikes back. 127 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:03,039 Speaker 3: Oh so you had already stated that. 128 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 1: I did, but not when I was a kid, I didn't. 129 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 1: I don't think it ever occurred to me that I 130 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 1: because most people said it was because they were attracted 131 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: to Harrison Ford and Carrie Fisher on Solo and Princess Leiah. 132 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: I was attracted to Luke and then I loved Leyah. 133 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 3: But I don't say it wasn't in love. 134 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 1: Right, But I didn't. I don't think it occurred to 135 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 1: me that it could be because it was such a 136 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 1: young age, right, And then when I got older, I 137 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 1: was like, oh, no, Like if I had a chance 138 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 1: with Leyah, which I wouldn't because she's too good for me, 139 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 1: But if I did. 140 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 2: It would be all about it. 141 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 1: So it's just it's now that I think about it, 142 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 1: that was probably always there. I just didn't believe that 143 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 1: it was an option or at another one that we've 144 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 1: talked about. 145 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 2: Jennifer's body. 146 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 3: Jennifer's Body, that's a I think we've already talked about that, 147 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 3: because we talked about this movie and what it was 148 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 3: supposed to be satire in itself, but like, yeah, I 149 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 3: did feel queerbaity, but it was host to as a commentary, right, 150 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 3: That's what we've decided. 151 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 1: Right, And it was because it was shots with mostly 152 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 1: women kind of controlling like the Angle, and it was 153 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 1: women in it, and it was kind of their friendship, 154 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 1: but also they were you know, adolescents who were figuring 155 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 1: things out as they say. Yeah, no, I totally get 156 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 1: that one too. I totally get that one too. This 157 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:32,080 Speaker 1: one cracks me up, Matilda, Matilda. 158 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:36,080 Speaker 3: Because of the Honey okay, and it's a specific scene 159 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:39,640 Speaker 3: where miss Honey like everyone kept using the gift where 160 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 3: she like brings her glasses. 161 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 2: And it made me laugh so hard. I'm so happy. 162 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:50,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, completely didn't think about that one. 163 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 1: No, No, I didn't either, And I don't think this 164 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 1: was the what they were saying at all, but it 165 00:08:57,080 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 1: did make me start thinking about how that sort of 166 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 1: trope of older women who live alone must be lesbians. 167 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 1: I don't think that's what they were saying at all, 168 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:13,199 Speaker 1: but it just kind of made me think about it. 169 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 3: Have you ever seen Mansfield Park? I have not, because 170 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:20,079 Speaker 3: the woman who plays Missus Honey is in Mansfield Park 171 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 3: with Johnny Lee Miller. M hm, let me see if 172 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 3: you can read off the cast, because if you like, 173 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 3: I love this movie and it's the most ridiculous movie 174 00:09:28,880 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 3: because it's the an awful telling of Mansfield Park. They 175 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 3: took a lot of liberty, but it had like it 176 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 3: had her, Frances O'Connor, who she's doing several other things, 177 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:44,960 Speaker 3: King's speech, several other things, as well as Alexandro Novola. 178 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:47,960 Speaker 3: I think I'm saying his name right, and he's another 179 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:51,000 Speaker 3: big I think he's an English actor. I forgot what movie. 180 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:53,120 Speaker 3: But the four of them are probably the four most 181 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 3: attractive people. And I say that as like the entirety 182 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:58,720 Speaker 3: of that cast. So I'm like, now I'm thinking about 183 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 3: her relaying it to the that movie, I'm like, they're 184 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 3: actually really attract Oh maybe that could have been one 185 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:07,800 Speaker 3: of my lists because I loved that movie. Okay, I'm 186 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 3: gonna have to make you watch it. 187 00:10:09,160 --> 00:10:22,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm into it. I'm into it. Another movie I 188 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:25,079 Speaker 1: haven't seen this Bridegreen Tomatoes. 189 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 3: You've never seen. I think we have to remedy that soon. 190 00:10:28,480 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 2: Another to the list. 191 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:32,599 Speaker 3: Another because I could see that there's so much to this, 192 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:36,560 Speaker 3: like because you know, I love women's friendships, love love 193 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:39,840 Speaker 3: love women's friendships and anything. And I loved their friendships 194 00:10:39,960 --> 00:10:43,599 Speaker 3: so much that to the point, like because their relationships 195 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:47,360 Speaker 3: with men were so awful that you do want them 196 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 3: to be with each other forever and ever and ever 197 00:10:49,160 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 3: and ever, and men are not portrayed well in this 198 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:57,720 Speaker 3: movie and rightly so I'm okay with it. But wanting 199 00:10:57,720 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 3: them to be together makes sense. Yeah, And there is 200 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:01,959 Speaker 3: like conversation of like, if you look, but I think 201 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 3: the actual book may have leaned it towards it. Actually, 202 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 3: now that I'm thinking about it, I think the actual 203 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 3: book does lean to that fact that they are they're 204 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 3: in love with each other, but of course the movie didn't, 205 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 3: so that makes more sense. 206 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:16,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's I found a whole essay about it. And 207 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:19,280 Speaker 1: they were talking about like, you know, they didn't say 208 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:23,040 Speaker 1: it in the movie, but they are queer. 209 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:25,559 Speaker 3: And it's great. The Portrell is beautiful. 210 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:28,679 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, we have. 211 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 3: To that might be a next month movie because we 212 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 3: need to watch that movie. 213 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm into that too for one. 214 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 1: For one, it it's it relates to something else that 215 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 1: I'm going to talk about in a lot of my picks. 216 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:42,839 Speaker 1: But we also talked about in things like practical magic 217 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:45,720 Speaker 1: of that idea of you know, this friendship between women 218 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:48,640 Speaker 1: and kind of growing older together, and a lot of 219 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:54,400 Speaker 1: people rightly or wrongly assuming or thinking like, oh, they. 220 00:11:54,360 --> 00:11:59,080 Speaker 3: Must be really together, like we talked about platonic marriages 221 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 3: before we did, and like it makes sense I have 222 00:12:02,320 --> 00:12:04,840 Speaker 3: maybe this and you I've been talking about this recently, 223 00:12:05,559 --> 00:12:06,960 Speaker 3: and you and I have talked about it too, just 224 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 3: like in general, like not having the fear of being 225 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:13,000 Speaker 3: single that's not a thing, and knowing that we'll be okay, 226 00:12:13,080 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 3: we'll survive. I think part of that is knowing that 227 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:18,600 Speaker 3: I have good friends like yourself and Caroline, who they're well, 228 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 3: we're all like me and Caroline and myself are both 229 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:22,920 Speaker 3: the relationships and the majority of people are. But if 230 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:25,760 Speaker 3: we're not, we'll always be there for each other, like 231 00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:29,720 Speaker 3: it doesn't matter if things go right or wrong however 232 00:12:29,760 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 3: you want to see it because and that feels so 233 00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:35,560 Speaker 3: secure that it makes everything else feel easier. Like I 234 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:39,559 Speaker 3: would rather be single with my friends who have all 235 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:42,840 Speaker 3: kind of come into this mindset, right, than miserable in 236 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:45,080 Speaker 3: a relationship where I'm isolated from my friends. 237 00:12:46,120 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 2: Right. 238 00:12:47,080 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 3: That's that kind of level of like seeing that it's 239 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:53,840 Speaker 3: no longer said that you don't have the perfect marriage 240 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:57,600 Speaker 3: or whatever whatnot? Right, And I idealistic. 241 00:12:58,480 --> 00:13:02,360 Speaker 1: I do think that there are a couple of things 242 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:04,240 Speaker 1: going on here, and one of them is something I 243 00:13:04,240 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 1: want to come back and talk about in a happy hour. 244 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 1: I've mentioned it recently, But platonic love can be so beautiful, 245 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:16,080 Speaker 1: like the love between friendships can be so beautiful, like 246 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:19,680 Speaker 1: more beautiful than romantic love. But I think because so 247 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 1: much of our media frames romantic love as the end 248 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:24,319 Speaker 1: all be all, this is the best thing you can achieve. 249 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:28,319 Speaker 1: And on top of that, we don't see a lot 250 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 1: of queer storylines that a lot of people, myself included, 251 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:36,040 Speaker 1: I've done it, do this where we're like. 252 00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:37,080 Speaker 2: Maybe they're queer. 253 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 1: Maybe this is like the representation I've been waiting for yeah, 254 00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:44,439 Speaker 1: where like platonic love should be just as respected and celebrated, 255 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 1: but it's because we don't have those queer storylines. I 256 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:50,679 Speaker 1: totally get it too. But as I've been writing fan fiction, 257 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:53,440 Speaker 1: I've noticed I do it. I do it even though 258 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:56,960 Speaker 1: I don't believe it. But it feels like a relationship 259 00:13:57,000 --> 00:14:01,960 Speaker 1: isn't as important or dramatic unless it's romantic, which is 260 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:05,679 Speaker 1: not true. I want to be one hundred thousand, it's 261 00:14:05,760 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 1: not true. 262 00:14:06,679 --> 00:14:11,000 Speaker 3: And in real life, we don't want that drama exactly exactly. 263 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:12,440 Speaker 2: I get way. 264 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 1: It makes her a good storyline, like as I'm writing it, 265 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:15,959 Speaker 1: but it does like. 266 00:14:17,240 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 3: Okay, dramas I've seen that because I get so mad, 267 00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 3: like this is the dumbest thing. You shouldn't go for this, dude, 268 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 3: He's awful. Why are you doing this? Don't I've been 269 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:28,920 Speaker 3: yelling at this TV more recently and getting very upset 270 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:31,440 Speaker 3: at the lead, like this is awful, what are you doing? 271 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 3: And then like knowing that if if they resolved that 272 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 3: the way I wanted to, it would no longer be 273 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:36,480 Speaker 3: it would be the end of the show. 274 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:44,720 Speaker 1: Right still, right, yeah, yeah, No, I totally get it, 275 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 1: and now it cracks me up that you're yelling at 276 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:51,400 Speaker 1: the TV that that's funny. I'm that person now, yes, yes, 277 00:14:51,880 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 1: uh so, I guess we should break into our examples, 278 00:14:57,080 --> 00:14:59,320 Speaker 1: starting with yours, the one that. 279 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:03,480 Speaker 3: Mind the whole conversation because you said that you brought 280 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:06,160 Speaker 3: up You're like, I'm interested in you know, the movies 281 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:08,880 Speaker 3: that you made you go wait, And the one movie 282 00:15:08,960 --> 00:15:18,840 Speaker 3: which ended up getting man's plain to us anyway was 283 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 3: who framed Roger Rabbit? Because for some reason I watched 284 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:26,440 Speaker 3: this as a kid, and I know, like I think 285 00:15:26,440 --> 00:15:28,600 Speaker 3: all of us had in a moment like that is petrifying. 286 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:32,400 Speaker 3: Christopher Lloyd's character is the most petrifying villain I've ever 287 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:35,240 Speaker 3: met in my life. I don't understand how a cartoon 288 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:40,920 Speaker 3: got that freakishly frightening so quickly. The appearance of Jessica 289 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:46,480 Speaker 3: Rabbit singing why don't you do right? I it's a 290 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 3: damn cartoon, and I was like, what is happening? And 291 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 3: obviously everything about that character is in the male gaze. 292 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 3: It is definitely all very sexualized. She is a sexualized character. However, 293 00:15:59,040 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 3: there was something to that performance and I was like, well, damn, 294 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:10,720 Speaker 3: And I say that with my full chest because I 295 00:16:10,880 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 3: was I love love that movie is probably I haven't 296 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:16,680 Speaker 3: watched it in years. I feel like we should do 297 00:16:16,680 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 3: a rewatch, maybe like I need to do this as 298 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 3: an episode just for being funny, like maybe whatever. Whatnot 299 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:25,160 Speaker 3: not being a feminist movie because it's I don't it's 300 00:16:25,200 --> 00:16:27,520 Speaker 3: not a feminist movie. There's no nothing about that is 301 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:33,840 Speaker 3: a feminist movie. Everything is about like being villainized essentially, 302 00:16:33,880 --> 00:16:39,160 Speaker 3: and then you know cartoons. But but I did. I 303 00:16:39,200 --> 00:16:42,520 Speaker 3: had that moment with like watching that performance and loving 304 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:46,880 Speaker 3: that song, loving that rendition of that song and having 305 00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:50,880 Speaker 3: to not only did I want to be her, but yes, 306 00:16:50,960 --> 00:16:54,160 Speaker 3: I wanted to stand next to her. Like that's the 307 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 3: best explanation I had. 308 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:59,520 Speaker 2: Mm hmmm, that's yeah. 309 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 1: That's interesting because that movie is scared me so bad 310 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:04,920 Speaker 1: as a kid. I haven't seen it since I was 311 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:07,200 Speaker 1: very young, and I was like, and I can't even 312 00:17:07,240 --> 00:17:07,680 Speaker 1: tell you why. 313 00:17:07,720 --> 00:17:08,920 Speaker 2: I just remember being scared. 314 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:12,480 Speaker 3: The eye, the high pitch. It was scary. 315 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:14,960 Speaker 2: I would love to revisit it. I think we could 316 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:16,240 Speaker 2: have we could have. 317 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:22,760 Speaker 1: Like a not feminist movie, feminist movie because I want 318 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 1: to talk about the Super Mario. 319 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:30,440 Speaker 3: Also movies that like we just want to make each 320 00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:33,040 Speaker 3: other suffer. I feel like I make ourselves suffer. 321 00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:35,520 Speaker 2: There's a part of it. But there's a joy in 322 00:17:35,600 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 2: sharing the suffering. 323 00:17:40,520 --> 00:17:42,640 Speaker 1: There is, and I think there's a lot to talk 324 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:47,200 Speaker 1: about there. I definitely have felt attraction to cartoon characters, 325 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:51,160 Speaker 1: so uh, no judgment there. And I know people who 326 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:54,840 Speaker 1: Jessica Rabbit, you're not alone. 327 00:17:57,000 --> 00:18:00,159 Speaker 3: I'm loved to know. I yeah, there was so of 328 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:04,800 Speaker 3: it to me. That scene, everything about that scene. Yeah, 329 00:18:04,880 --> 00:18:09,520 Speaker 3: I'm just like, what, yes, But yes, we did get 330 00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 3: a whole like ten minute men explain about how that 331 00:18:12,080 --> 00:18:14,800 Speaker 3: movie was one of the most incredibly expensive movies and 332 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:16,760 Speaker 3: all these things. You were there with me, any why 333 00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:17,800 Speaker 3: are you looking like your surprise? 334 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:20,840 Speaker 2: I think I was over. I told you my ears 335 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:23,000 Speaker 2: got whelmed. 336 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:27,080 Speaker 1: I was getting caught in like fifteen different conversations, so 337 00:18:27,119 --> 00:18:29,080 Speaker 1: I caught parts of it, but I was. 338 00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:31,280 Speaker 3: Like, I just sat there and stared out and I 339 00:18:31,320 --> 00:18:32,560 Speaker 3: was like, I don't. 340 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:35,800 Speaker 2: Care to be fair. 341 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:38,240 Speaker 1: That is something I would do if I had the 342 00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:40,720 Speaker 1: right amount of alcohol, I would tell you about you know, 343 00:18:40,800 --> 00:18:44,800 Speaker 1: an empire strikes back, so I can't judge too hard. 344 00:18:45,200 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Well, so for me, I'm going to kind 345 00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:56,679 Speaker 1: of cheat and combine some because I have more than you, 346 00:18:56,720 --> 00:19:00,159 Speaker 1: but also I've talked about some of these before X files. 347 00:19:01,119 --> 00:19:06,360 Speaker 1: That is probably my first clear memory. I don't think 348 00:19:06,359 --> 00:19:08,399 Speaker 1: it's the first time, but it's my first clear memory 349 00:19:08,440 --> 00:19:11,520 Speaker 1: of being like, uh, what's going on here because I'm 350 00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:18,040 Speaker 1: attracted to her and oh no, and one thing, one 351 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:19,360 Speaker 1: thing I want to bring up. And I know we're 352 00:19:19,359 --> 00:19:20,920 Speaker 1: going to talk about this more in our book club, 353 00:19:22,040 --> 00:19:24,439 Speaker 1: but you recently owned Sex and the City. You asked me, like, 354 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:27,679 Speaker 1: what is your type? And I was like, I have 355 00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:30,760 Speaker 1: such a specific type. It's hilarious. And the more that 356 00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:33,560 Speaker 1: I thought about it, and after I read that book, 357 00:19:33,600 --> 00:19:36,040 Speaker 1: I was like, it's kind of for me. It's very 358 00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:43,520 Speaker 1: specifically in it's effeminatee men, it's men who are pretty, 359 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:47,560 Speaker 1: but it's also people. It's people who are like not 360 00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 1: they're not quite in their very traditional stereotypical gender roles. 361 00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:57,000 Speaker 1: They're kind of like more masculine women or more feminine men. 362 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 1: That's really what it is. And I wouldn't say Molder 363 00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 1: was a feminine at all, but he did have kind 364 00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 1: of my look. But she was a very kind of masculine, 365 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:13,080 Speaker 1: even though she's beautiful in a pretty traditional feminine way, 366 00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:16,080 Speaker 1: but she had a like really masculine vibe about her. 367 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 3: I wonder if it's masculine more so, like just non binary, 368 00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:23,800 Speaker 3: because I don't think she was either no exiled and 369 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:25,720 Speaker 3: we just want to call it masculine because it wasn't 370 00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:28,760 Speaker 3: so feminine, right, I thought she was non binary more 371 00:20:28,760 --> 00:20:29,680 Speaker 3: so than anything else. 372 00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:32,159 Speaker 1: I agree, And that is a good point, and that 373 00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:34,160 Speaker 1: is what part of the book club it will be about. 374 00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:38,960 Speaker 1: But yeah, it's sort of more like in that place. Yeah, yeah, 375 00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:41,760 Speaker 1: that's what it is. Yeah, And so I think that 376 00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 1: for me was a big That was the one I 377 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:47,359 Speaker 1: was sitting in my room in seventh grade and I 378 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:54,800 Speaker 1: was like, oh, but now, after I did this research 379 00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:58,320 Speaker 1: for Buffy the Vampire Slayer, I forgot I had a 380 00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:03,520 Speaker 1: crush on Seth Green's character Ozio. 381 00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 3: I loved Seth. I love redheads though. Yeah, yeah, Michael Rappaport, 382 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:12,960 Speaker 3: which he is a hilarious person, but I had a 383 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:15,000 Speaker 3: huge crush on him too, And I don't think I've 384 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 3: ever met anyone who would say that. 385 00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:21,800 Speaker 1: That's always a fun exercise. I might be the only 386 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:29,080 Speaker 1: person a huge crush on this person, his nerdyess. Yes, Yes, 387 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:31,720 Speaker 1: I had a huge crush on him. He's the reason 388 00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:37,680 Speaker 1: I went to see Austin Powers. Oh no, yeah, hor 389 00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:40,080 Speaker 1: old me who doesn't get these jokes and made my 390 00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:45,160 Speaker 1: parents come and they're like, oh my god, it wasn't good. 391 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:46,160 Speaker 2: It wasn't good. 392 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:52,040 Speaker 1: But yeah, I I'm definitely like, looks are a big 393 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:53,600 Speaker 1: part of it, but they come second to me. 394 00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:56,120 Speaker 2: It's like I have to like the person. 395 00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:59,240 Speaker 1: Usually I have to like the personality first, and then 396 00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:02,480 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, they're so attractive. Sometimes it goes the 397 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:06,680 Speaker 1: other way, but usually and I feel like I never 398 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:12,639 Speaker 1: really can. I remember Seth Green very clearly, but will oh, 399 00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 1: I did kind of have a crush on two and 400 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,080 Speaker 1: then she started dating Tara, and we're gonna talk about 401 00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:21,600 Speaker 1: that in the fictional Women episode. But I was like, wow, 402 00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:27,639 Speaker 1: I haven't seen this before, Like honestly, legitimately, I've not 403 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:28,960 Speaker 1: seen it before. Yeah. 404 00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:32,240 Speaker 3: It was very cute too, and it wasn't too like 405 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:39,800 Speaker 3: really hot women. Yeah they were both cute sweet yeah ueah, yeah, 406 00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:42,640 Speaker 3: I guess mine was. I talked about this because it's 407 00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:45,440 Speaker 3: probably one of the worst movies. I mean, in existence, 408 00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:48,000 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie, Like, the script is real bad, 409 00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:51,200 Speaker 3: the ending is real bad. Adam Sandler is real bad 410 00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:56,560 Speaker 3: but it's Spanglish. It's pause Vega. It was only her 411 00:22:56,640 --> 00:23:02,160 Speaker 3: who actually is in the Netflix series Kaleidoscope, which I loved. 412 00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:05,840 Speaker 3: That show was really fun to watch. I loved Positvega. 413 00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:07,520 Speaker 3: I don't know what it was, but I was just like, 414 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:12,800 Speaker 3: holy crap. So it is like for me on this note, 415 00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:15,679 Speaker 3: was I think most of these things now then my 416 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 3: last movie is not But most of the rest of 417 00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:20,000 Speaker 3: them were like just the women and like they're like, 418 00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 3: don't I don't know if this maybe their overall avert sexuality, 419 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:26,840 Speaker 3: but it wasn't sexual, of course. Jessica Rabbit, Yes it 420 00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:31,040 Speaker 3: was sexual, but like for Pasvega, her character was a 421 00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:34,159 Speaker 3: mother and she's trying to comfort people and she's just 422 00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:37,240 Speaker 3: kind of compassionate in all these things. But there was 423 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:43,320 Speaker 3: something about her character that was just confidently sexual without 424 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,959 Speaker 3: being overly sexual. I don't know what it was, but 425 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:49,119 Speaker 3: I loved I loved that movie. It's such a bad movie. 426 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:52,800 Speaker 3: Kayl Ilney was a great actress and she did an 427 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:55,879 Speaker 3: amazing job, but you like she was created to not 428 00:23:55,960 --> 00:24:00,479 Speaker 3: be liked, right, and I hate that for her. Yeah, 429 00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:03,280 Speaker 3: and she played it too well. And then Adam Sandler's 430 00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:08,520 Speaker 3: just there. But I loved, loved watching pas Vega and 431 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:10,200 Speaker 3: was a huge fan. And I know she was doing 432 00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:14,240 Speaker 3: she did Sex and Lucia, which won a lot of awards. 433 00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:17,200 Speaker 3: Like she was that that was her big movie beforehand. 434 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,960 Speaker 3: But like, I don't know, she's just such a confident 435 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:24,199 Speaker 3: woman that it just her and pad Malakshmi like to me, 436 00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:27,119 Speaker 3: they're on that same level that I'm just like, again, 437 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:30,000 Speaker 3: I want to stand with you and I want to 438 00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:31,400 Speaker 3: be you. How do I do this? 439 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:35,399 Speaker 2: It's interesting, Yeah, it's. 440 00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:37,920 Speaker 3: Like that this whole like, man, how do I become 441 00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:40,160 Speaker 3: more like you? But also can I be with you here? 442 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:40,600 Speaker 3: Thank you? 443 00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:43,520 Speaker 4: Right? 444 00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:47,919 Speaker 1: I remember pad Mlashi was on your list of like 445 00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:51,280 Speaker 1: dream guests. Yeah, I thought, and we got rejected. I'm like, 446 00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:52,680 Speaker 1: it's probably a good thing because I think I would 447 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:57,639 Speaker 1: just pass out. Yeah yeah, And I understand I have 448 00:24:57,760 --> 00:24:58,920 Speaker 1: my guests like that as well. 449 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:02,439 Speaker 2: But it was just funny. I don't know how that 450 00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:03,399 Speaker 2: interview is going to go. 451 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:07,280 Speaker 3: I would just out because I already get nervous with 452 00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:09,040 Speaker 3: people I'm not nervous around. I know. 453 00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:22,640 Speaker 2: Well, my next one is not a movie. 454 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:27,240 Speaker 1: It is a video game, Final Fantasy seven and This 455 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:29,800 Speaker 1: is one of my favorite video games of all time. 456 00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:33,080 Speaker 1: The part I'm talking about specifically is pretty problematic, but 457 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:36,919 Speaker 1: I'll talk about that more in a second. So the 458 00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:39,760 Speaker 1: plotline is way too confusing to break down here. But 459 00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,359 Speaker 1: you're a crew of people and you're going to save 460 00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:48,600 Speaker 1: the world. And I had a crush on the main 461 00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:55,400 Speaker 1: character Cloud, mostly because he was sad in the right 462 00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:57,639 Speaker 1: way of sat that I liked at the time. It 463 00:25:57,680 --> 00:25:59,920 Speaker 1: maybe be like, oh, I can pick care of you, 464 00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:02,120 Speaker 1: which is not healthy, I know, but it was kind 465 00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:04,000 Speaker 1: of like that vibe. I was like, Oh, he's so 466 00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:06,000 Speaker 1: tragic and let me help you. 467 00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:06,840 Speaker 3: Oh yeah. 468 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:09,200 Speaker 1: But then there's a whole plot point in the game 469 00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:16,879 Speaker 1: where you have to Cloud, who's a male character, has 470 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:19,960 Speaker 1: to dress up as a woman convincingly and go on 471 00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:25,760 Speaker 1: a date, and based on what you do, it depends 472 00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:29,800 Speaker 1: on the characters that go with you. But then later 473 00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:33,880 Speaker 1: who you end up dating, and you know, there's it's 474 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:40,000 Speaker 1: harder to get certain characters. So the main two are 475 00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:44,919 Speaker 1: Erith and Tifa, and I had a big crush on Tifa, 476 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:48,560 Speaker 1: even though I wanted him to be with Rith. It 477 00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:50,440 Speaker 1: had nothing to do with the kind of the sentiment 478 00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:53,520 Speaker 1: you see with a lot of like young girls who 479 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:55,359 Speaker 1: are fans of things where they're like, oh, they can't 480 00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:57,479 Speaker 1: end up with this person. It was more like I 481 00:26:57,520 --> 00:27:00,119 Speaker 1: just thought erith and him were a better couple, but 482 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,359 Speaker 1: I was. I had a pretty big crush on Tifa 483 00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:08,119 Speaker 1: and Titha was really cool. She was definitely sexualized. She 484 00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:14,280 Speaker 1: is one of the characters that infamously has a huge 485 00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:20,639 Speaker 1: like boob bouncing scene that is totally unnecessary, like completely 486 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:27,199 Speaker 1: and it's it's played for laughs for sure, because you 487 00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:29,960 Speaker 1: can end up with if you try really hard. You 488 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:33,920 Speaker 1: can end up with Barrett, who is like this big, 489 00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:40,359 Speaker 1: tough black guy and it's very like comical in the 490 00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:43,320 Speaker 1: game that you end up together, which is not cool. 491 00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:45,280 Speaker 2: But I did. 492 00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,720 Speaker 1: I think that whole matching people in video games really 493 00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:53,400 Speaker 1: did open the door for me where I'm like, oh, oh, 494 00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:55,040 Speaker 1: well they could be together or they could be together, 495 00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:56,480 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna talk about that a bit more because 496 00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:58,679 Speaker 1: part of a lot of mine are not even I 497 00:27:58,720 --> 00:27:59,440 Speaker 1: want to be with them. 498 00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:03,560 Speaker 2: It's that I liked that they were together and they 499 00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:04,080 Speaker 2: were gay. 500 00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:10,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yes, so that's Final Fantasy seven. 501 00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:13,879 Speaker 3: I remember when I was like, what is this and 502 00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:18,919 Speaker 3: that's a fast and Furious seven. I was so confused. 503 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:22,800 Speaker 1: I should watch Past and Furious seven and see if 504 00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:24,159 Speaker 1: there's any anything going on. 505 00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:27,760 Speaker 4: I'm going to tell you no, okay, just no, just 506 00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:32,040 Speaker 4: just automatically no, got it. Yeah, So one of the 507 00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:34,720 Speaker 4: movies that this is what I was referring to. 508 00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:38,240 Speaker 3: That's the cast. I was like, yes, this cast Constantine 509 00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:41,680 Speaker 3: because it is racial vice, Keanu rees till This Winton, 510 00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:46,480 Speaker 3: and even Gavin Bush, like the four of them. Yes, 511 00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:50,360 Speaker 3: just yes, a good pick. 512 00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:52,320 Speaker 1: I'd forgotten about that movie until you said it, and 513 00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:54,160 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, yeah, just. 514 00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:56,080 Speaker 3: If you the whole thing because like, first of all, 515 00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:59,920 Speaker 3: till This Swinton in her own like non binary cell 516 00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:04,640 Speaker 3: playing one of the archangels coming down and giving wrath 517 00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:09,720 Speaker 3: and hate but like loving that, and then having you know, 518 00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:12,640 Speaker 3: Gavin Bush being the devil that just slides away with 519 00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:17,520 Speaker 3: his accent and bad acting, a sly voice, Constantine, Keanu 520 00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:20,280 Speaker 3: Reeves just coming in and out being angry and dying 521 00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:23,040 Speaker 3: all the time. And then Rachel Weiss, who they don't 522 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:25,480 Speaker 3: have the greatest chemistry, I will say this, which is 523 00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:27,080 Speaker 3: also why I think I did like it, because it 524 00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:29,120 Speaker 3: felt like they're not gonna be together. I could like 525 00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:30,200 Speaker 3: both of them type of thing. 526 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:34,880 Speaker 1: Right. Yeah, I loved that movie. I made Mom see it, 527 00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:37,840 Speaker 1: and she hated it because she was kind of religious. 528 00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:39,280 Speaker 2: She's religious now. 529 00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:42,440 Speaker 1: But also, that's the movie. I think I've told this 530 00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:46,960 Speaker 1: story before, but I ate a sixty four ounce chocolate 531 00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:50,200 Speaker 1: bar during it, and I threw up straight chocolate for 532 00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:51,080 Speaker 1: over an hour. 533 00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:53,480 Speaker 3: Did you eat a sixty four ounce chocolate bar? 534 00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:54,960 Speaker 2: I don't know. It's hard to say. 535 00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:59,160 Speaker 1: It was foolish and embarrassing, but I paid the price 536 00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:00,000 Speaker 1: for it. 537 00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:00,440 Speaker 2: Done it? 538 00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:03,920 Speaker 3: Since you surely did? You surely did. 539 00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:07,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's also when I learned to do the coin. 540 00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:10,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. 541 00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:14,480 Speaker 3: I love that movie. And in a recent interview Keanu 542 00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:16,920 Speaker 3: Reeves did was literally saying that this is the one 543 00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:20,800 Speaker 3: movie he wish he could read like, have a second movie, and. 544 00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:23,640 Speaker 2: I think doing something. 545 00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:26,920 Speaker 3: Apparently there's another damn john Wick movie, So why can't 546 00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:28,120 Speaker 3: we have another Constantine? 547 00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 2: That's the call to action? Come on for this, come on, No, 548 00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:34,920 Speaker 2: I can definitely see that one. 549 00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:37,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, that was that was that was the pick. I 550 00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:38,640 Speaker 3: was like, Yeah, I mean we've talked about the Matrix, 551 00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:41,200 Speaker 3: which I'm surprised wasn't on that other list by the way. 552 00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:45,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it did show up, it just didn't 553 00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:47,640 Speaker 1: show up as much as the cow. 554 00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:49,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that. 555 00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:58,640 Speaker 1: Hell yeah, it's one of my biggest questions I've ever had. Yeah, 556 00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:03,800 Speaker 1: oh yes, well looking back for me Star Wars, as 557 00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:07,400 Speaker 1: I said, obviously obviously, but I did want to say 558 00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:11,920 Speaker 1: with the sequels. I've talked about this before, but the sequels, 559 00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:14,960 Speaker 1: as much as I was kind of like iffy on them, 560 00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:20,200 Speaker 1: it was one of the first times I've shipped a 561 00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:22,280 Speaker 1: couple in a long time, and I was kind of 562 00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:25,040 Speaker 1: surprised by it, which was a storm pilot fin and 563 00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:25,960 Speaker 1: po oh. 564 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:26,440 Speaker 3: That's right. 565 00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:28,520 Speaker 1: It's kind of a brief it like flared out really quickly, 566 00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:31,400 Speaker 1: but I remember it because it was alongside when I 567 00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:36,240 Speaker 1: was coming more to terms with oh, you're asexual, then 568 00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:38,080 Speaker 1: what does it mean that I'm shipping that? Like I 569 00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:41,040 Speaker 1: was kind of like, what's going on here? So that 570 00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:45,560 Speaker 1: was an interesting experience. And then, as I said, I 571 00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:48,720 Speaker 1: write slash fan fiction now and I'm not sure. 572 00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:52,880 Speaker 2: I don't know. I've got a lot to think about still. 573 00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:57,440 Speaker 1: But one of the things I sent you that kind 574 00:31:57,440 --> 00:32:00,479 Speaker 1: of cracks me up is this movie, little known movie, 575 00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:05,000 Speaker 1: I think it went straight to video called Gold Diggers 576 00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:12,600 Speaker 1: The Secret of Bear Mountain. This movie. I don't know 577 00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:17,280 Speaker 1: what was going on in my life that I loved 578 00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:22,760 Speaker 1: this movie so much. But the plot is like, it's 579 00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:26,480 Speaker 1: a very You've got your city girl and she has 580 00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:30,960 Speaker 1: to move to the country and there's talk of this 581 00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:38,000 Speaker 1: trouble maker who they become friends. Christina Ricci is the 582 00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:42,040 Speaker 1: city girl and Ah Slumsky is the kind of mountain 583 00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:47,440 Speaker 1: mountain girl and they become unlikely friends. It is a very, 584 00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:51,440 Speaker 1: like looking back, a pretty dark plot because Anna Slumsky's 585 00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:55,440 Speaker 1: father's abusive and like you actually see it happen, her 586 00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:58,960 Speaker 1: mother ends up in the hospital, she has injuries, there's 587 00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:01,080 Speaker 1: like a near drowning that still. 588 00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:01,680 Speaker 2: Sticks with me. 589 00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:06,160 Speaker 1: But I remember being pretty young watching this. I get 590 00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:10,200 Speaker 1: eight or nine, I think, and I wanted them to kiss. 591 00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:16,239 Speaker 1: I remember very clearly. I just was like, this is it. 592 00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:18,800 Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like they should kiss, that they're 593 00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:21,040 Speaker 1: perfect for each other, and it was sort of the 594 00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:25,080 Speaker 1: I never would have at that moment said oh, you're gay, 595 00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:29,040 Speaker 1: but I just remember thinking, oh, I wanted to kiss 596 00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:29,520 Speaker 1: so bad. 597 00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:35,520 Speaker 3: I feel like Christina Ricci maybe a poster girl for 598 00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:39,240 Speaker 3: so many movies like that, because she was also in 599 00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:43,360 Speaker 3: Now and Then, which they like they never pretend like 600 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:45,880 Speaker 3: any of them are lesbians, but it definitely has like 601 00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:49,960 Speaker 3: Rosie o'donald to be more all of them. And there's 602 00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:54,280 Speaker 3: this aspect of these like the girls being so close 603 00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:57,800 Speaker 3: that it kind of would make sense now and Then. 604 00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:00,320 Speaker 3: It's probably one of my favorite favorite movies growing up. 605 00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:03,200 Speaker 3: But like I'm thinking about so many of the things, 606 00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:06,440 Speaker 3: is also like a sleepy hollow kind of like not 607 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:07,960 Speaker 3: that you want her to be with the girl, but 608 00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:13,200 Speaker 3: she's she feels like she's built for other women or 609 00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:15,480 Speaker 3: some of the men. I don't know, like like it. 610 00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:19,640 Speaker 3: Am I being odd about this? Yes? Yes I am. 611 00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:20,560 Speaker 4: No. 612 00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:24,000 Speaker 1: I mean I can't specify why, because it's not like 613 00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:28,880 Speaker 1: I hadn't seen movies that had to write girls in 614 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:31,920 Speaker 1: them that were best friends, and I hadn't been like, oh, 615 00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:35,000 Speaker 1: they should make out this one in specific either the 616 00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:37,800 Speaker 1: time was right. I haven't seen this movie in forever, 617 00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:40,479 Speaker 1: so I can't say. Maybe there was some vibe going 618 00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:42,040 Speaker 1: on that I was picking up on. 619 00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,280 Speaker 3: I don't like again Christina Ricci. 620 00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:50,360 Speaker 2: I think it might be her, but also one of 621 00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:51,480 Speaker 2: the things that. 622 00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:54,920 Speaker 1: And this I think I had not I hadn't even 623 00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:57,319 Speaker 1: discovered fan fiction yet, but it was right around the 624 00:34:57,360 --> 00:35:01,000 Speaker 1: corner I was coming. But one of the things that 625 00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:05,560 Speaker 1: I really enjoy that can be platonic and should be platonic, 626 00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:08,719 Speaker 1: but also can be romantic and should be romantic, is 627 00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:11,319 Speaker 1: I love like when people just fiercely care about each other, 628 00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:14,680 Speaker 1: Like I love like kind of that protective I'm with you, 629 00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:17,520 Speaker 1: I'm going to protect you. And I feel like that's 630 00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:19,960 Speaker 1: sort of what was going on here, is that they 631 00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:21,759 Speaker 1: were both very protective. 632 00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:21,799 Speaker 2: Of each other. 633 00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:23,560 Speaker 3: I can see that. 634 00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:27,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's definitely one of my my things. 635 00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,560 Speaker 3: Again now and then it was close to that as well. 636 00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:31,640 Speaker 3: I think I would I would go to that as well. 637 00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:33,279 Speaker 2: Hmm. 638 00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:36,920 Speaker 1: Well, my final one I've already talked about, and that 639 00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:38,719 Speaker 1: was Black Swan, and I want to mention it because 640 00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:40,799 Speaker 1: it was the first time in my entire life I 641 00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:43,040 Speaker 1: ever had a sex stream was after I saw that movie. 642 00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:43,520 Speaker 3: That's right. 643 00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:51,799 Speaker 1: I like, Natalie Portman did show up on a lot 644 00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:53,640 Speaker 1: of people's list. 645 00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:55,960 Speaker 3: I was trying to think she ever made my list 646 00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:58,960 Speaker 3: because I saw Black Swan coming up like and being like, 647 00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:07,400 Speaker 3: oh no, because I saw her in shoot, well she's pregnant. 648 00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:10,560 Speaker 3: Oh no. Her first movie I saw I was a professional. Yeah, 649 00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:12,400 Speaker 3: which makes me sad looking back on it because she 650 00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:14,960 Speaker 3: was really mistreated. But I did love that movie, and 651 00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:17,640 Speaker 3: now I'm like, oh, no, that's awful. But then but 652 00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:18,279 Speaker 3: then like the. 653 00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:20,719 Speaker 2: Movie uh where the hurt is? 654 00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:24,880 Speaker 3: Yes, that when I read the book first and she 655 00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:27,680 Speaker 3: was so I thought she was such a bad actor. 656 00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:33,960 Speaker 2: In it, and I was like, no, I kind of 657 00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:35,320 Speaker 2: had a crush on her, as Padme. 658 00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:38,160 Speaker 3: I assumed you did. I thought that's what you were 659 00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:40,720 Speaker 3: talking about when you were talking about like prequels and sequels. 660 00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:42,040 Speaker 2: No. 661 00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:44,279 Speaker 1: No, but I think again, I don't think I would 662 00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:47,960 Speaker 1: have ever. I just assumed I wasn't gay. It kind 663 00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:50,399 Speaker 1: of breaks my heart now, but I just assumed I wasn't. 664 00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:52,040 Speaker 1: So I think I was more like, oh, she's a 665 00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:55,359 Speaker 1: really cool and I did find her very attractive, But 666 00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:57,799 Speaker 1: I think it was more like I thought it was appreciating, 667 00:36:57,840 --> 00:36:59,840 Speaker 1: Oh she's a beautiful woman and look at this fashion 668 00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:03,480 Speaker 1: and like our lead character, right, was. 669 00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:05,520 Speaker 3: Kate play shit on any of the lists? Because I 670 00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:06,360 Speaker 3: would assume, like. 671 00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:08,680 Speaker 2: The thor, I didn't see any of that. 672 00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:10,839 Speaker 3: But honestly a character I would put her up there. 673 00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:15,400 Speaker 2: I didn't. If listeners again, please send in your thoughts. 674 00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:19,080 Speaker 1: Yes, but because I didn't find as much as I 675 00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:21,480 Speaker 1: thought I would, And it's perhaps I wasn't entering the 676 00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:25,600 Speaker 1: correct Google search, but I didn't, I don't think, because 677 00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:27,880 Speaker 1: I would have included that, right, I don't think I 678 00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:28,520 Speaker 1: saw that one, but. 679 00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:34,480 Speaker 3: I mean, m h, I mean between her and Tessa Thompson, 680 00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:37,279 Speaker 3: I would assume the two of them would have been 681 00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:38,040 Speaker 3: on that list. 682 00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:43,759 Speaker 1: Yes, I thought there would be more Tessa Thompson, uh, 683 00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:46,720 Speaker 1: because she was definitely, but at that point I already 684 00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:47,680 Speaker 1: knew I was queer. 685 00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:50,080 Speaker 3: So I was like, yeah, but I'm like, maybe it's 686 00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:51,600 Speaker 3: just all the old movies, because I would have, like 687 00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:55,040 Speaker 3: I said, thought that that especially thor Ragnarrock would have 688 00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:57,400 Speaker 3: been pretty high on that list because the two of 689 00:37:57,440 --> 00:37:58,880 Speaker 3: them really just kind of carried. 690 00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:03,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, that would be interesting if you compare sort of 691 00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:06,120 Speaker 1: you know, younger generations or SUSA generations, because that might 692 00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:08,400 Speaker 1: show up, like maybe a decade from now on people's 693 00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:13,319 Speaker 1: list who haven't you know, realized that they're FI. Yeah, yes, 694 00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:18,560 Speaker 1: that'd be interesting, and again please send in your suggestions. 695 00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:21,920 Speaker 1: But also this was when you're attracted to someone that 696 00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:24,440 Speaker 1: doesn't necessarily at all mean you're gay. But we were 697 00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:28,239 Speaker 1: just having kind of this conversation about when you start 698 00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:30,200 Speaker 1: to think maybe at. 699 00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:33,800 Speaker 3: This point like oh, this makes sense, right, but you're like, oh. 700 00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:36,360 Speaker 1: Like for me it was x files and for not 701 00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:37,960 Speaker 1: just me it was x files, but a lot of 702 00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:43,000 Speaker 1: people did say this is when I realized, right, So 703 00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:45,000 Speaker 1: it's not it doesn't have. 704 00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:46,960 Speaker 2: To be that, but it has been that for a 705 00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:47,880 Speaker 2: lot of people, and. 706 00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:51,359 Speaker 3: Then for us it's just like questioning because they could 707 00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:55,839 Speaker 3: be like, oh that I can see it that moment too. 708 00:38:56,800 --> 00:39:01,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I feel like I'm gonna after we'd die, 709 00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:03,920 Speaker 1: I'm going to have this whole epiphany of so many more. 710 00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:06,920 Speaker 2: But I feel like gold Digger's the secret of Bear 711 00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:08,920 Speaker 2: Mountain was that that was that was gold. 712 00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:11,640 Speaker 3: But I can remembering that one between you and I 713 00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:14,800 Speaker 3: maybe with the who plays Roger rabbit Ball, like, okay, 714 00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:17,880 Speaker 3: keep that in the interesting. 715 00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:21,440 Speaker 2: Yes, I love it. I love it. 716 00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:23,040 Speaker 1: I mean I have on my phone because I'm a 717 00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:25,000 Speaker 1: total nerd the list of all the crushes I've had 718 00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:27,640 Speaker 1: in my life, and some of them are outright embarrassing 719 00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:31,160 Speaker 1: in their cartoons and it's like what was going on here? 720 00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:36,520 Speaker 1: But yes, we would love to hear from you about this. Listeners, 721 00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:40,720 Speaker 1: and we will return with our regular feminist movie Wednesday Friday, 722 00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:46,920 Speaker 1: unfeminist movie perhaps next month, but in the meantime, if 723 00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:48,759 Speaker 1: you have any suggestions, if you have any thoughts about this, 724 00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:51,839 Speaker 1: any examples of your own, we would love to hear 725 00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:54,200 Speaker 1: from you. 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Apparently you can get it on 733 00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:19,000 Speaker 1: an audible now too. 734 00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:22,000 Speaker 3: Yes, okay, listen to it yet, but you can pre 735 00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:22,799 Speaker 3: order it if. 736 00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:26,000 Speaker 1: You are relind Yes, if you're so inclined, and we 737 00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:31,320 Speaker 1: would appreciate it. Thanks as always to our super producer Christina, 738 00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:34,239 Speaker 1: our executive producer Maya, and our contributor Joey. 739 00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:35,840 Speaker 3: I have to know if they've heard of any of 740 00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:37,440 Speaker 3: these movies. Have y'all heard of any of these movies? 741 00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:38,840 Speaker 3: Because y'all are youngins. 742 00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:40,800 Speaker 2: Yes, what are your examples? 743 00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:43,040 Speaker 3: It's maybe not the thin, but I'd like who framed 744 00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:44,799 Speaker 3: Roger Rabbit? Do they know about this movie? 745 00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:52,720 Speaker 2: We've got to know? Please write in yes. And thanks 746 00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:55,239 Speaker 2: to you listeners for listening. Stefan never told me the 747 00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:56,239 Speaker 2: protection of iHeartRadio. 748 00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:58,000 Speaker 1: For more podcast from My Heart Radio, you can check 749 00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:00,279 Speaker 1: out the iHeart Radio app, Apple podcast Regular listen to 750 00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:01,080 Speaker 1: your favorite shows