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Speaker 2: Is your girl Lispee and it's your girl drain and

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Speaker 2: the cold, and you.

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Speaker 1: Are tuned in to another episode of my wearing a

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Speaker 1: drunk Mine speaks sober thought.

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Speaker 3: What's up?

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Speaker 1: Good? What's up? You know what? Every time we get dressed,

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Speaker 1: we're either super coordinated or we're like, what weather is it? Right?

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Speaker 1: Is it? Yeah? It's a little cold outside today.

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Speaker 2: That's why I decided to wear boots though I don't

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Speaker 2: know if they could see my shoes, but you put

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Speaker 2: that shirt on, it's.

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Speaker 1: Very you know, well so late. Well, see, this is

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Speaker 1: the thing with me right now. I'm revamping my closet,

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Speaker 1: so I'm getting rid of like everything in my closet.

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Speaker 1: I've been ordering Hella clothes, but none of it has

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Speaker 1: came in yet. So this was like the last thing

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Speaker 1: in a lot of my little fashion over here is

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Speaker 1: my fashion over dres soy'all gonna get today? Okay, So

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Speaker 1: I actually i'ma skipped the bullshit and we're gonna introduce

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Speaker 1: our guests because it's gonna be some real motherfucking girl

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Speaker 1: talk today. And I'm so Friday. You want to interest

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Speaker 1: because you know I'm gonna do it. Okay, So, first

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Speaker 1: of all, we love a motherfucking baddy. We don't know.

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Speaker 1: We stay with the baddies on pour minds and when

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Speaker 1: I love a girl boss, Yes, we love a girl boss.

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Speaker 1: We love a baddy, and we love girls who are

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Speaker 1: just talented like bars On bars On bars you know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So y'all give it up for our

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Speaker 1: money season. We want to get an audience. Yes, them

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Speaker 1: two clubs don't be hitting the same. That's all. Like,

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Speaker 1: we're getting there. We're getting there. So, first of all,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much. Yes, girls, I am so excited

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Speaker 1: to have you here because I think the first time.

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Speaker 1: First of all, I feel like you went one of

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Speaker 1: your freestyles that went like super viral one time, and

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Speaker 1: I was like the first time I saw you. And

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Speaker 1: then I know you Andrea had been following each other

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Speaker 1: and you were supposed to pull up to one of

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Speaker 1: the shows, so I was like, let me get my

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Speaker 1: you know, I was there, she was there. No, it's

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Speaker 1: all right, it's all right, girls, So thank you for

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Speaker 1: pulling up on Yes, Happy New Year. Okay, So let

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Speaker 1: me ask y'all these I'm gonna ask y'all both these.

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Speaker 1: We are in a New Year. Did y'all all know

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Speaker 1: you did? Did y'all have like new Did you have

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Speaker 1: New Year's resolutions this year? I don't.

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Speaker 2: Normally I do like resolutions throughout the years, Okay, So

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Speaker 2: I feel like there's never too late to kind of

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Speaker 2: because you shouldn't just be evolving one time a year, right.

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Speaker 1: I think like I get more motivated towards the end

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Speaker 1: of the year. It's like I get a new fresh

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Speaker 2: But other than that, like I just feel I don't know, I.

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Speaker 1: Didn't really have one.

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Speaker 2: I just wanted to go harder, I wanted to expand,

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Speaker 2: I wanted to just now.

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Speaker 1: Well, the reason I was asking because you know, we

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Speaker 2: First month of the year it's always super easy to

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Speaker 2: start falling off in like February remarks, Okay, easy to

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Speaker 1: For real February right right? People? Wait, it's me that way.

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Speaker 1: It's a Sunday memorial. That why I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: I have been doing good as far as like the gym.

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Speaker 1: media from what time to what time?

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Speaker 2: Twelve to eight? So no, I'm on there from twelve

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Speaker 1: Eight, that's right. So I actually try something out Like Sunday,

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Speaker 2: Say, it's like you don't really like you need a

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Speaker 1: It's crazy because I'm not gonna lie like I love

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Speaker 1: Auntie Wall, don't let the age y'all. Okay, well, I'm

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Speaker 1: letting y'all know right now, Mama finna get it's a

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Speaker 1: little to right now, how drinks be sold bombed? You

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Speaker 2: By explaining that, and I'll say here and.

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Speaker 1: Then look, she's gonna sneak up behind you with a

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Speaker 2: I started rapping. It was a snow day in Buffalo, Okay,

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Speaker 2: So I took it serious around like be like seventeen eighteen,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So like studio times, like I had to lock

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Speaker 2: DJ is just tapping in with them, just you know,

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Speaker 2: But the point of that was I ain't have no

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Speaker 2: I started running my following up. Like I ran my

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Speaker 1: Was popping in one it wasn't yeah me and be

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Speaker 2: it's like ship like real, but I mean you gotta

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Speaker 2: like nah, fuck that ship back in my day? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you know, I just like really right exactly, So I

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Speaker 1: Well, when I first started.

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Speaker 2: Rapping, like I was a huge like battle rap and

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Speaker 1: they were so aggressive. You want my son, It's New

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Speaker 2: You gotta stay ship that like nobody's thinking of and

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Speaker 1: She was killing ship.

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Speaker 2: She was doing battle raps too, and the battle rap

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Speaker 2: with my sound now is more so like Griselda, But

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Speaker 2: I really love samples obviously, and I also just like

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Speaker 2: grungy hip hop, but I also like to shake ass too.

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Speaker 2: So I just kind of just do whatever I want

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Speaker 2: it's like the Gemini and me. I just don't want

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Speaker 2: to be Pitcheon.

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Speaker 1: You really got ticides. That makes sense, You're like right,

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Speaker 1: that makes that makes a lot of sense. So like

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Speaker 1: That's at least that's how I do it. You have

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Speaker 2: a lot of people do it to troll just because

434
00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:02,440
Speaker 2: they know like that one comment to get them seen

435
00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:04,600
Speaker 2: and may you know, get your attention.

436
00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:07,080
Speaker 1: But the other side of it do be hurt.

437
00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:10,080
Speaker 2: And it's like, you know, we at the age now

438
00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:14,160
Speaker 2: it's just so many suicides and so many yeah, like

439
00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:17,119
Speaker 2: and instead of like spewing out or even letting that

440
00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:19,359
Speaker 2: getting me out of character, like going back and forth

441
00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:21,320
Speaker 2: and stuff like that, I really do be concerned, like.

442
00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:24,879
Speaker 1: Are you okay? Because you can't be if you really

443
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:26,840
Speaker 1: like like if it if.

444
00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:30,080
Speaker 2: It really hurts you that much to say whatever you

445
00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:40,760
Speaker 2: said under my thing, and it'd be a long nasty I.

446
00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:42,800
Speaker 1: Actually had somebody it was like I was deleting it

447
00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:44,800
Speaker 1: and they kept coming back in Commentmber I told you

448
00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:48,159
Speaker 1: about that. They kept coming back and commented they got

449
00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:51,600
Speaker 1: another page. You're like, are y'all okay? So let me

450
00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:53,840
Speaker 1: ask you that, like, how did you find your confidence

451
00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:55,600
Speaker 1: as far as like your looks wise like, because I

452
00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:57,480
Speaker 1: feel like the pressure for women is different than me

453
00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:59,560
Speaker 1: me and don't have to look good. They just got

454
00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:01,399
Speaker 1: to show up. But for us, it's like we have

455
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:03,040
Speaker 1: to be all these things and on top of that

456
00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 1: find right. So where did you find your confidence? I

457
00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:07,440
Speaker 1: found my confidence.

458
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:10,399
Speaker 2: I remember one time I scraped my little coins up

459
00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:13,160
Speaker 2: and I got one of my videos on world Stars

460
00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:20,439
Speaker 2: it world Star Will Rip You the Shred Girl, and

461
00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 2: I literally like, you know, I was talking to my homeboy.

462
00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:26,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, they're going and on my ass, and he

463
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:29,240
Speaker 2: was just like, you know, they going like check the

464
00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:31,919
Speaker 2: post under you and above you, and I think it

465
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:34,760
Speaker 2: was like somebody like Beyonce or Rihanna up there and

466
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:38,240
Speaker 2: it was hers and nobody said, like nobody don't say it,

467
00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:41,760
Speaker 2: like this is like the culture. So once I realized

468
00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:45,040
Speaker 2: that and then just started just really like tapping into

469
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:49,680
Speaker 2: wanting to be a better person. I think a part

470
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:52,240
Speaker 2: of my journey of just you know, self love and

471
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:55,480
Speaker 2: stuff like that was me getting my mind right. Because

472
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:57,360
Speaker 2: you know a lot of people, you know, you hear

473
00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:01,320
Speaker 2: people suffering from like body dysmorphia or low self esteeing

474
00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:05,320
Speaker 2: their beautiful girls and it's more or less about you know,

475
00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 2: how they see themselves. So I wanted my you know,

476
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:10,959
Speaker 2: love for myself to be rooted in something deeper than

477
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:15,119
Speaker 2: lights and something deeper than you know just oh, she's

478
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,359
Speaker 2: fired for right now, because again going back to the

479
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:19,879
Speaker 2: fickle fans, it's like one day you can be popping,

480
00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:21,640
Speaker 2: the next day they saying you trash or you fell

481
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 2: off or whatever.

482
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:26,080
Speaker 1: The case may be. And I can't do that.

483
00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:29,560
Speaker 2: I can't afford for my you know self word for myself,

484
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:32,280
Speaker 2: the love for myself to be rooted and what somebody

485
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:33,159
Speaker 2: else thinks about me.

486
00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 1: So once I did that, it was just like, you know,

487
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:37,879
Speaker 1: fuck them. Yeah, you know.

488
00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 2: That's why I always preach on here about confidence though,

489
00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 2: because he's so important because you just have to have

490
00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:46,199
Speaker 2: that shit in you because people are gonna be rude,

491
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:48,119
Speaker 2: people are gonna be negative. But I think he's so

492
00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:51,679
Speaker 2: important to like feel yourself and up yourself. You know,

493
00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:53,879
Speaker 2: nothing is wrong with that as long as like you

494
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 2: doing that is not downing other people, because I'm big

495
00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:58,199
Speaker 2: on that because I hate people who have to like

496
00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:01,280
Speaker 2: up theyselves and down the people at the same time.

497
00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:03,200
Speaker 1: You know, I want to ask you the same where

498
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:05,040
Speaker 1: you get your confidence from because you came out there

499
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:10,159
Speaker 1: talking about I'm that bitch, give me my bottle. You

500
00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:14,120
Speaker 1: hope can't even crawl like me. You host can't even

501
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 1: where it's niper, like your incavator could never like was

502
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:25,320
Speaker 1: wearing that UK and supreme. I don't know.

503
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:28,879
Speaker 2: I honestly just feel like I was always kind of

504
00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:31,960
Speaker 2: like misunderstood as like a kid and in school and stuff,

505
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:33,920
Speaker 2: because I always kind of being the type of person

506
00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:36,919
Speaker 2: like I'm real to myself and I'll only talk to

507
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:39,840
Speaker 2: people unless they come and talk to me, and so

508
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:41,719
Speaker 2: I feel like people just used to always think I

509
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:43,480
Speaker 2: was like stuck up and stuff. But like if you

510
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:45,919
Speaker 2: come actually have a conversation with me, I'm really like

511
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,439
Speaker 2: a cool last person and I'm nice as fucked like

512
00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 2: me and Lex talk about this all the time, Like

513
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 2: even when we meet people in person, you would think,

514
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:55,919
Speaker 2: because of her personality on the show and stuff, that

515
00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:58,199
Speaker 2: she's like the one that's like, oh my yeah, but

516
00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 2: she'd be getting anxiety when we be out together and

517
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:02,920
Speaker 2: people be coming up to us wanting to talk to us.

518
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:04,840
Speaker 1: I'm the one to be like, okay, let's take the picture.

519
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:05,119
Speaker 1: You know.

520
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:07,440
Speaker 2: So it's like I'm a cool person, but I feel

521
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 2: like people have just kind of always labeled me as

522
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 2: like being a bach for being mean because they don't

523
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 2: know me, and I won't have a conversation with them,

524
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:17,400
Speaker 2: but I don't know. So I just feel like I'm

525
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,639
Speaker 2: just used to being a misunderstood and so it just

526
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 2: made me a confident person because about how people label

527
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:28,040
Speaker 2: you or judge you based what they look.

528
00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 1: And I'd be like, baby, that's nothing like how I am.

529
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 1: But like, how like if I.

530
00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 2: Didn't say two words to you, if I wasn't rude

531
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:38,040
Speaker 2: to you, if you know, we never crossed path. The

532
00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:40,920
Speaker 2: fact that you are projecting me being mean based off

533
00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:43,480
Speaker 2: of what I look like, like, that's.

534
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:45,160
Speaker 1: Your insecurity.

535
00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:49,480
Speaker 2: And I can't be responsible for how you feel based

536
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:51,439
Speaker 2: off of your own insecurity.

537
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm going to be a con and I hate

538
00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 1: even take it there and say this, Look, I don't

539
00:26:56,280 --> 00:27:01,840
Speaker 1: finish my drink. The most beautiful women that I have met,

540
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:05,720
Speaker 1: even on this show, in real life are always way nicest,

541
00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 1: always nicest. Some of the women that I be meaning

542
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:11,399
Speaker 1: that don't be like and I'm not saying ugly, but

543
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 1: just not what people consider, you know, beautiful or whatever.

544
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,160
Speaker 1: The case, maybe that be the ones with the chip

545
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:19,159
Speaker 1: on their shoulder and be me mean to me, like

546
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 1: I did something and it's so crazy to me every

547
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,479
Speaker 1: freaking time. It's so crazy. I need to do a

548
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:26,080
Speaker 1: study on that.

549
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 2: I did a couple of memis though, Yeah, yeah, like

550
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:31,280
Speaker 2: real nasty, like dang your attitude.

551
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:34,040
Speaker 1: Yeah No, I'm not gonna like excuse all of them,

552
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 1: you know, but I'm saying like, for the most part,

553
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:37,719
Speaker 1: like the women that I'll say when it comes to

554
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:39,399
Speaker 1: like poor minds and people coming and sitting on the

555
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 1: couch with us, like most of the women that I

556
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:44,359
Speaker 1: met that I've been like, I mean, they just be

557
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:46,400
Speaker 1: so cool and like and that's what I'm saying. Even

558
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 1: have this conversation with you right now and getting to

559
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:51,280
Speaker 1: know you, like the stuff that you're saying is just

560
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:54,480
Speaker 1: be like wow, because we all go through the same thing,

561
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:57,399
Speaker 1: like trying to prove ourselves and trying to let people

562
00:27:57,400 --> 00:28:00,439
Speaker 1: know like I'm a human too. I hurt too. I

563
00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:03,120
Speaker 1: have my bad days too, Like every day I don't

564
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:05,119
Speaker 1: feel like getting up, but I'm gonna do it, you

565
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying.

566
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 2: So, and I think if more people knew that, then

567
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:11,200
Speaker 2: they wouldn't be so mad at us, Like more people

568
00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 2: knew that, you know, you going through problems with your nigga,

569
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 2: I go to problems.

570
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:17,680
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

571
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 2: I may not you know, I may have to get

572
00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:21,200
Speaker 2: up and take these pictures. I don't feel like it

573
00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:24,000
Speaker 2: or I don't feel cute today, but you know, like

574
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 2: you feel that too, and you know we're more alerted.

575
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 1: We're human as well. So I want to ask you

576
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:32,080
Speaker 1: this last question because it's actually gonna be bring us

577
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:41,120
Speaker 1: into the floop. I gotta like breakfast. It's okay. So

578
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:44,720
Speaker 1: I want to ask you this. Do rappers and ball

579
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:48,440
Speaker 1: players be sliding your dms? You don't want to say

580
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 1: we don't. We definitely don't name drop. Yeah, now do

581
00:28:53,040 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 1: you respond? Mm? Because I'm gonna know so Balanine man,

582
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:02,800
Speaker 1: I'm looking.

583
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:07,080
Speaker 2: I mean it depends like because I'm gonna be honest,

584
00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 2: I'm a horrible texter and I'm an even.

585
00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 1: Count because I mean, I'm a horrible texture.

586
00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 2: You gotta catch me outside, you know, because I don't

587
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:22,960
Speaker 2: like because especially with this generation, it's like it's a horrible,

588
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:25,680
Speaker 2: like nobody knows how to really express themselves.

589
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 1: I'm I like.

590
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 2: To talk on the phone, and especially got an iPhone.

591
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:30,360
Speaker 2: It's like, let's FaceTime, but.

592
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 1: That's the closest We're gonna kiss me through the phone,

593
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 1: you know. I just feel like body.

594
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 2: Language and all of those things play a part in communication,

595
00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 2: and I'm big on communication, Like that's the sexiest things

596
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 2: like to me, you know, if we could.

597
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 1: Talk, then you know it might be up for you,

598
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 1: because that's that's what might like how can somebody eat

599
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:55,160
Speaker 1: you to respond? Just pressure? I feel like.

600
00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 2: Not playing it too cool, Like you know a lot

601
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 2: of niggas they do this on a daily so it's

602
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 2: not really you know, a thing for them to just

603
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:06,640
Speaker 2: slide in somebody d eyes or.

604
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 1: Some weird ship like that. I think. Just I don't know,

605
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 1: I had a guy like pop up at a show.

606
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 1: I love it. I love that, you know, just see

607
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:17,280
Speaker 1: where I.

608
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 2: Was at because I don't Again, I'm always like, okay,

609
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:23,600
Speaker 2: well I'm trying to see, like if you're gonna screenshot

610
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 2: my ship, if you're gonna send it to your friends, like,

611
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 2: or if it's gonna be a situation of I'm one

612
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 2: of many like take me out the chat, you know,

613
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:35,240
Speaker 2: or just I just want something authentic. I want to

614
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 2: see you in person. I want to, you know, so

615
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:39,160
Speaker 2: if you could catch me, and I ain't that hard

616
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 2: to find.

617
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:43,080
Speaker 1: Do you be kind of like like nervous performing in

618
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 1: front of your booze? Yeah? I do. I do too.

619
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 1: Has anybody ever pulled up on the show to see us? Yeah? Yeah,

620
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 1: like a dude you was dealing with.

621
00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 2: Now, remember that nigga came and gave me that money

622
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:57,520
Speaker 2: that time, but he ain't come.

623
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:00,360
Speaker 1: He didn't pull up and said, oh, had to go

624
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 1: outside and get it for I have a good show,

625
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:06,760
Speaker 1: you know, I don't think so.

626
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 2: I don't think any guy that I talked to have

627
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:10,120
Speaker 2: pulled up to any of the shows.

628
00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, you know Rapper Bay was in Houston. Yeah,

629
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:19,080
Speaker 1: I was so fucking nervous. Yeah, popping that ship yourself.

630
00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 1: But then it'd be like talk that ship. I know.

631
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:23,960
Speaker 1: I was like, because I'm like, yeah, pop, mine's you

632
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 1: know what the going on? Yeah? Pull hold on right?

633
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:31,600
Speaker 1: Your voice changed. I'm like, okay, guy, I can imagine

634
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:35,480
Speaker 1: how be yes, But it was a good show because

635
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 1: like how blue is? We packed that bitch. We definitely

636
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 1: showed out. Okay. But anyways, I just had to ask

637
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 1: that because I thought it was just me. I just

638
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 1: wanted to know. Okay, so the DM topic, it leads

639
00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 1: into our first topic, y'all, we ain't even started the

640
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 1: topics yet. We had we want to talk about relationships

641
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 1: that start in the dms, because you know what's crazy.

642
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 1: I had a recent situation where I met a guy.

643
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 1: Oh I hope you don't watch this, so gir be

644
00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:02,320
Speaker 1: so shamed. I met a guy in the nail shop

645
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:05,520
Speaker 1: and I didn't want to talk to him at all

646
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 1: because he was getting his polls done. You know, he

647
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 1: was getting little but it was his first time, and

648
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:12,840
Speaker 1: so he asked me, was like, what do I do.

649
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, just get on the buffalo out

650
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:15,600
Speaker 1: like don't put no you know, I was trying a

651
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 1: little bubblegum on his nails. You money, But I was

652
00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 1: like we were just like small talk, you know. But

653
00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 1: I listened to everything. And one of my biggest things

654
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:30,120
Speaker 1: is I used to work in the service industry. I

655
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 1: pay attention to how people treat people that service them

656
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:34,400
Speaker 1: and I just remember listening to him talk to the

657
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 1: lady and he was being like so nice. I got

658
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 1: to saw the see the way he communicates. He started

659
00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:41,960
Speaker 1: talking to me. We ended up having a good conversation.

660
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 1: He ended up paying for my nails and my toes. Bitch,

661
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:47,200
Speaker 1: I said, oh lord, it was so crazy because when

662
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 1: I got up to go wash my hands, the lady

663
00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 1: ran over there. She was like, he paid for your nail.

664
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 1: Give him your number, She said, give your number. Time

665
00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:00,360
Speaker 1: piped up, bitch, you got a pay for the spirit

666
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:04,240
Speaker 1: finger right. So but I say all that to say,

667
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 1: that's the first time in years that I met somebody organically,

668
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:12,120
Speaker 1: and I loved it so much because I got to

669
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,880
Speaker 1: see how he walked, how he talked, his mannerisms, how

670
00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 1: he treat people. Like all in that little hour that

671
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 1: we were like kind of sitting next to each other

672
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:21,960
Speaker 1: chopping it up. When somebody slides in your DMS, you

673
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 1: can't see that, Yeah, you can't see that at all.

674
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 1: So honestly, for me, you know, I always say this,

675
00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:29,040
Speaker 1: I'm thirty three. If you want to get at me,

676
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:31,560
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to catch me outside. I don't really

677
00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:33,560
Speaker 1: want anybody sliding in my DMS anymore.

678
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 2: And I feel like I'm gonna judge you but off

679
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 2: of your affiliates, Like I'm going.

680
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:42,640
Speaker 1: To like who I'm gonna judge you off your posts.

681
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, because if you're doing like I don't like like,

682
00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:49,400
Speaker 2: I kind of like niggas with no social media. Okay,

683
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 2: I would prefer a nigga without social media, but you know,

684
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:54,440
Speaker 2: if that's what you do or whatever, you know, if

685
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 2: it gives me too like I'm too sexy posting.

686
00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 1: Too much selfies in the car, like you can have

687
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 1: so media.

688
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:04,720
Speaker 2: I don't like a nigga that posts too much, Like yeah,

689
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:06,120
Speaker 2: why are you taking mirror selfie?

690
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can post a lot, especially if you got business.

691
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:12,960
Speaker 2: Don't post no weird ass ship though, like I just

692
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:13,600
Speaker 2: I don't know.

693
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 1: I agree, it's rules. It's rules. So your man having

694
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 1: social media, Yes, it's strict in this motherfucker she.

695
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:23,840
Speaker 2: Right if you promoting your business, Like if you posting

696
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 2: every day, you're promoting your business. Cool, I'm cool with that,

697
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 2: But like, if you posting mirror selfies every day, or

698
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 2: if you posting pictures holding your minium, like standing on.

699
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 1: Top of your card, no Tomato night with this, I'm

700
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:43,640
Speaker 1: not gonna loss y'all. As I get older too, I'm

701
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:46,240
Speaker 1: more like an ignorance is bliss type of girl, especially

702
00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 1: in the beginning stages. I don't want to know that

703
00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:51,400
Speaker 1: you out and about and are going on dates and stuff.

704
00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:53,839
Speaker 1: I hate men that are always just posting everything that

705
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:57,040
Speaker 1: they do. Because if we're just now talking and you

706
00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:00,000
Speaker 1: posting you at dinner, I see somebody hand in the background,

707
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:03,200
Speaker 1: she got a friend. Still, you just got my number yesterday,

708
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna assume that you just moving sloppy. That

709
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 1: would be an immediately no immediate for me. So I

710
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 1: feel like social media can really ruin the chances that

711
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 1: you have with somebody for.

712
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:17,719
Speaker 2: Sure, because I mean, like for me, that kind of

713
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:20,960
Speaker 2: just showcases all your insecurities for me. You know, if

714
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:22,719
Speaker 2: you got to post your money all the time, then

715
00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:25,319
Speaker 2: it showed me like you either just got it or

716
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 2: you think you ain't about to have it for long.

717
00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:33,759
Speaker 1: Right, you don't believe Like, damn, bro, I got two

718
00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:37,760
Speaker 1: days like what I'm supposed.

719
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:37,600
Speaker 3: To do, and.

720
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 2: It showed that you ain't really doing nothing with it.

721
00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:44,440
Speaker 2: And I know what I'm saying, I'm on grown people time.

722
00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:46,320
Speaker 2: It's like, you know, the cash is cool, but credit

723
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:49,319
Speaker 2: is king. So you know, I just I don't want

724
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 2: to still be having to.

725
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:52,399
Speaker 1: Get your rental carsh like that.

726
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 2: I want you to just I don't know, I think

727
00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:57,359
Speaker 2: I'm just past that level. I need somebody that's gonna

728
00:35:57,400 --> 00:36:00,920
Speaker 2: kind of pour into me and teach me about you know,

729
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 2: investments and stuff like that. So the money thing, like

730
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 2: you know, wealth is quiet. It is so I don't

731
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 2: think that if you really got it like that, you

732
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:11,759
Speaker 2: would be doing all of that. And I think that

733
00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:14,319
Speaker 2: you are trying to attract a certain woman and that

734
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:14,920
Speaker 2: woman ain't me.

735
00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 1: Hello, thank you, And look I got a snap on

736
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:24,879
Speaker 1: that because I man, I felt that in my soul

737
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 1: because I feel like, because I hate to go back

738
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 1: to it because we look a certain way. Men think,

739
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:31,800
Speaker 1: Oh if I show her that I got an ap

740
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 1: and I drive a rolls Wars, I know she gonna

741
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 1: let me slide. Absolutely not.

742
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:38,239
Speaker 2: But I think it's also just it's a little different

743
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:40,319
Speaker 2: when you getting money too, Like when you're a woman

744
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:43,040
Speaker 2: that's getting money to you, not easily impressed by those things,

745
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 2: because like you said, you know, wealth is quiet, Like

746
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 2: just because you posting that money, that don't mean you

747
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:48,400
Speaker 2: got it.

748
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 1: Today. I'm I'm gonna starting give me I'm goaet. I'm

749
00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 1: gonna get another tea. You know what, do me a titos,

750
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 1: but make it a short one, but yeah, you might

751
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 1: have had that money, but you ain't got it no more.

752
00:37:05,160 --> 00:37:08,279
Speaker 2: Right right, And I just think like the whole you know,

753
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 2: attracting girls with money, that's just kind of like low

754
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:13,480
Speaker 2: hanging through it is because you're not looking for You're

755
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:15,160
Speaker 2: not looking for a long time. You're looking for a good,

756
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:17,800
Speaker 2: good time. I'm gonna take you shopping. I'm gonna you

757
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, We're gonna do our thing. And

758
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 2: then I'm slide and and.

759
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:23,279
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, like the type of girls. And

760
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:26,160
Speaker 1: I'm not dissing anybody like that because I used to

761
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 1: be that girl. I'm not even gonna sit up here

762
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:29,279
Speaker 1: a lot of you. I used to be that girl.

763
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:31,320
Speaker 1: If you if he had a chance, I was going,

764
00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:34,320
Speaker 1: I don't care. I was going. But now it's like

765
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:36,480
Speaker 1: when I grow and I, like you said, working on

766
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:38,840
Speaker 1: myself as a person and what I really yearned for

767
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:41,400
Speaker 1: and what I really want and honestly what I'm getting

768
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 1: now that you got money. Yeah, it's like it's not

769
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:47,759
Speaker 1: like bare minimal do not even care no more?

770
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:50,760
Speaker 2: And plaus I done had bad situations too with niggas

771
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:52,760
Speaker 2: that I mean in a DM, so I just be overreached.

772
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:54,759
Speaker 1: So you don't do you don't no more.

773
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:58,560
Speaker 2: I'm not saying I don't, but to me, it gotta

774
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:00,960
Speaker 2: seem like it's somebody that got from she to lose

775
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:02,360
Speaker 2: for me to respond.

776
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:08,960
Speaker 1: Okay, So like Donald Trump slide this, y'all would never

777
00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 1: fuck with Donald Trump.

778
00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:11,560
Speaker 3: He got to lose.

779
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:14,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, he ain't never gonna get me to lose me. No,

780
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 2: for real, we ain't gonna never know.

781
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:19,520
Speaker 1: Okay, let me ask you this. If he wasn't married

782
00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 1: and Justin from no Justin Bieber, if Justin Bieber slid,

783
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 1: would you respond to Justin Bieber?

784
00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 2: You keep asking me about our lighter friends I like

785
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:29,359
Speaker 2: black men.

786
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:35,759
Speaker 1: Oh I didn't know. Okay, Well, you don't get a

787
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:40,319
Speaker 1: thousand last. I was gonna lash you up. I was

788
00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 1: gonna last. You don't want that need a thousand nond Okay,

789
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:49,880
Speaker 1: do you take the other side.

790
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 2: I haven't, but like.

791
00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:57,320
Speaker 1: It depends.

792
00:38:58,000 --> 00:38:59,799
Speaker 2: Okay, you know what I'm saying, Like I'm trying to

793
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 2: span my food palette.

794
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:03,680
Speaker 1: It's like maybe I should expand my dating palette. Yeah,

795
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:06,120
Speaker 1: that's fair, that's fair. I get it. You know, I'm

796
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:08,600
Speaker 1: really not the person that's like, oh, you should only

797
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 1: date black. But I do feel like if you're just

798
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 1: trying to try something different, or if somebody hits on

799
00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 1: you and you like them and they just happen not

800
00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:17,360
Speaker 1: to be black, that's fine. I don't like the people.

801
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:19,919
Speaker 1: I can only speak on women. That's what I'm speaking

802
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 1: on right now, because we know men do this, But

803
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:23,719
Speaker 1: I don't like women who are like, if you want

804
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 1: Roman to love, stop dating black men. Yeah, that's what

805
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 1: I don't like. I hate when people do that. Oh,

806
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:30,719
Speaker 1: if you want this and that, you need to get

807
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:32,719
Speaker 1: you a white man, because black men not gonna do it,

808
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:35,920
Speaker 1: absolutely not. They definitely will. Like, let's relax, I'm not

809
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:37,719
Speaker 1: I'm not a man. I used to be a man

810
00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:40,920
Speaker 1: hating man. I used to hate all men. But you know,

811
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:44,719
Speaker 1: as I've matured, I like to hold myself accountable. So

812
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 1: a lot of the things that were happening to me

813
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:48,400
Speaker 1: when I was dating was because of me, and I

814
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:50,560
Speaker 1: was allowing a lot of bullshit, you know what I'm saying.

815
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:52,439
Speaker 1: So one thing I said this year that I'm gonna

816
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:55,080
Speaker 1: do is I want to raise my standards and you know,

817
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:59,879
Speaker 1: just take it slow because I'm a leo. First date

818
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:02,799
Speaker 1: and you ordered love and you order my drink right,

819
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:07,759
Speaker 1: my me and my man. I'll be calling Drean like,

820
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:11,880
Speaker 1: bitch this the one like you be like all right, Lex,

821
00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:16,880
Speaker 1: I'm a sucker for love and I am. Yeah. I

822
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:17,880
Speaker 1: love love.

823
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 2: I definitely love love. It's like almost like a high

824
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:21,440
Speaker 2: for me.

825
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 1: Yes, oh it is for me too, I get it.

826
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 1: But I will say this, it's Drea. Since I've been

827
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:28,239
Speaker 1: dating noo boo, I haven't called you once and been

828
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:32,160
Speaker 1: like I love him. Yeah, have you been keeping it?

829
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 1: I've been keeping it. Last night you did say you

830
00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:40,280
Speaker 1: got a man. I do got a man. He's my boyfriend.

831
00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:44,600
Speaker 1: I may not be his girlfriend, but that's definitely my boyfriend.

832
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 1: Speak into existence.

833
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:52,120
Speaker 2: You know you got a Manifi, Yes, yes, yes.

834
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 1: Okay, But you did say something about having somebody, thank you,

835
00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:00,719
Speaker 1: having somebody that like pours into you. So that goes

836
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:01,800
Speaker 1: into our next topic.

837
00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:05,319
Speaker 2: Yes, So I want us to talk about men that

838
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:09,799
Speaker 2: constantly need reassurance. I cannot date somebody they constantly need

839
00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 2: reassurance all the time.

840
00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 1: Like because I feel like I'm gonna do.

841
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:14,879
Speaker 2: What I need to do is your girl to show

842
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:16,400
Speaker 2: you all the time that I fuck with you and

843
00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 2: that I love you, and that I'm only here for you.

844
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:23,480
Speaker 2: And a man that always need constant reassurance to me

845
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:25,680
Speaker 2: is somebody that's just super insecure and I don't want

846
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:27,520
Speaker 2: to they insecure me and that I have to baby

847
00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:29,600
Speaker 2: seed and coddle you all the time.

848
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:31,760
Speaker 1: That's interesting. I mean, I get that.

849
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 2: But here's I see both sides. Because here's the thing.

850
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:38,200
Speaker 2: You know, love languages is very much a.

851
00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:38,839
Speaker 1: Thing that's true.

852
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:41,120
Speaker 2: So I think you have to like kind of appeal

853
00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:43,560
Speaker 2: to a love language, like a person could be like, well, damn,

854
00:41:43,560 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 2: I don't like a person that always expect me to

855
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:46,759
Speaker 2: get them gifts all the time, Like I feel like

856
00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:49,800
Speaker 2: my time is more valuable, and it may be, but

857
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:54,759
Speaker 2: that's my love language. So I'm very respectful of black

858
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:57,279
Speaker 2: people love languages if I think, you know, if I

859
00:41:57,280 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 2: think it's a trauma thing that I'm fixing, then that different.

860
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:03,520
Speaker 2: But I think you know, people like as far as

861
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:06,760
Speaker 2: like words of affirmations and stuff like that, or physical touch,

862
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:12,759
Speaker 2: you know, if that's your vibe then but y'all don't

863
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:17,319
Speaker 2: think affirmations are different from like having to constantly reassure

864
00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:18,560
Speaker 2: a person that you fuck with.

865
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:22,440
Speaker 1: Them, I feel that you love them. If you're dating

866
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 1: somebody and their love languages, words of affirmation. It kind

867
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:27,080
Speaker 1: of goes hand in hand a little bit because I'm

868
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 1: reassuring you, like I'm telling you constantly, I love you you.

869
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:32,720
Speaker 1: You know, you feel like home to me. I feel

870
00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:35,520
Speaker 1: safe with you. You know, Oh you look handsome today.

871
00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 1: You know. Oh, thank you for making me feel special

872
00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 1: all the time. Like that's me up and down because

873
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:41,400
Speaker 1: I want to hear it every day. You know what

874
00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 1: I'm I feel like words of affirmation. Yeah, so I

875
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:49,880
Speaker 1: feel like a man is never gonna need constant reassurance

876
00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:51,960
Speaker 1: with me because that's just who I am. Where I

877
00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 1: pour into my friends, my family, especially with words. So

878
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 1: if a man needs more reassurance from that, I can

879
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:01,880
Speaker 1: only speak uprom myself. So personally, then you got issues,

880
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:03,640
Speaker 1: You'll have to go sit down on somebody. I can

881
00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 1: guarantee you. And I actually do this to a fault.

882
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:08,760
Speaker 1: Every nigga that I've ever dated in my life probably

883
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:10,360
Speaker 1: feel like they're the I'm the best nigga that they

884
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:12,480
Speaker 1: ever had, Yeah, just because of how I made them feel.

885
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:14,359
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying this because I'm like, if

886
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:16,160
Speaker 1: I'm dealing with you, and when I say dated, I

887
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 1: mean like in a relationship, not like everybody. I was like,

888
00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:21,799
Speaker 1: you know, giving a little kouchie too. But I'm like,

889
00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:24,960
Speaker 1: if we were in a relationship, I guarantee you every

890
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:27,239
Speaker 1: single egg. They probably feel like, oh, I know I

891
00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 1: was Lexi's favorite nigga. It's crazy because I'd be having

892
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:33,840
Speaker 1: some dy hit me up that way, even in my

893
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 1: top five, talking about I know I was your favorite.

894
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:38,680
Speaker 1: I'll be like, no, but I like to make a

895
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:41,880
Speaker 1: nigga feel good, like I just like to make my nigga.

896
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:44,319
Speaker 2: Feel like that, and I aspire to be like that.

897
00:43:44,360 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 2: But I also feel like, you know, I don't know,

898
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:48,279
Speaker 2: and this.

899
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 1: Is very toxic.

900
00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:51,840
Speaker 2: But I've also felt like, you know, you can't with

901
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:55,880
Speaker 2: men sometimes you can't show them your whole hand. I

902
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:58,359
Speaker 2: need you to feel like a little bit like you

903
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:01,360
Speaker 2: ain't the shits just a little right now, just to

904
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 2: stay in line.

905
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 1: Yeah and get to like Bobby brown on to play

906
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:11,600
Speaker 1: that game. Yeah no, no, for real, you a thousand

907
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:13,880
Speaker 1: percent right, because honestly, I'm not gonna sit the paralyze.

908
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 1: It has definitely been me in the ass before. I'm like,

909
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:20,160
Speaker 1: hold on, nigga, like down because as I'm thinking of

910
00:44:20,239 --> 00:44:22,880
Speaker 1: reassurance I'm definitely thinking of it from like a place

911
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:23,640
Speaker 1: the trauma, like.

912
00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 2: You said, like, I'm thinking of like a man that

913
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:28,279
Speaker 2: I'm in a relationship with. And you constantly need me

914
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:30,239
Speaker 2: to reassure you because you donet been through a whole

915
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 2: bunch of bullshit in the past, and you convinced that

916
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 2: just because your x D some shits, you are cheated

917
00:44:35,160 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 2: on you or whatever you think that I'm gonna do

918
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 2: the same sheet. So now I'm having to constantly reassure you, like, no,

919
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 2: I'm not cheating on you, Like I'm not out here

920
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:44,480
Speaker 2: fucking around. Like to me, that type of shit can

921
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:47,279
Speaker 2: get toxic after a while, and I'm too grown for.

922
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:49,960
Speaker 1: This right now. I agree with that, Like somebody who's

923
00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:54,399
Speaker 1: constantly accusing me of cheating, lying all that stuff, I mean, yes,

924
00:44:54,480 --> 00:45:03,440
Speaker 1: I am doing it, but oh my god, like that's

925
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:07,879
Speaker 1: it's tough fault. What I meant to say was if

926
00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:11,200
Speaker 1: somebody is constantly accusing me of something, especially if I'm

927
00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:14,400
Speaker 1: not doing it right, that's gonna piss me off. And

928
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:19,560
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to you. And I do enough ship.

929
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:22,640
Speaker 2: And here's the thing, I'm not really a cheater in relationship,

930
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:23,560
Speaker 2: not really.

931
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:28,440
Speaker 1: But We love honesty. We love honesty in a very

932
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:31,680
Speaker 1: long time. But I will say.

933
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:35,400
Speaker 2: If I'm not doing nothing and I have to like

934
00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:37,520
Speaker 2: fight for my life to prove to you that I'm

935
00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:43,040
Speaker 2: not doing nothing, oh no yeah, like no, yeah, this

936
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:43,839
Speaker 2: is not gonna work.

937
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:45,759
Speaker 1: I like a man who feels like they have to

938
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 1: do a lot to keep me, but also that he

939
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:51,080
Speaker 1: knows that he got me. Because if you feel like

940
00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:52,920
Speaker 1: you're gonna lose me to the next nigga, you are

941
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:54,719
Speaker 1: gonna lose me to the next nigga. Right, you know

942
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I need a man like you.

943
00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 2: Nobody else I ain't putting me through these It's crazy

944
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:05,080
Speaker 2: because my ex, one of his friends, used to always

945
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:07,319
Speaker 2: try to talk to me, like always because he didn't

946
00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:10,200
Speaker 2: know how serious our relationship was, and he used to

947
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:11,479
Speaker 2: be like, oh, bro, you mad.

948
00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 1: He was like, Bro, I'm not mad. I don't care

949
00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:16,120
Speaker 1: because she's not going like because he no, I'm not

950
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 1: going you know what I'm saying. So that's the type

951
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:21,440
Speaker 1: of confidence I need my man to have. Not right, well,

952
00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:22,960
Speaker 1: when he d MS, you did you d him? And

953
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:25,360
Speaker 1: back will send me the messages I need to screenshot

954
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 1: at what it to say he was never on that

955
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:28,560
Speaker 1: type of time because he already was like, man, she

956
00:46:28,719 --> 00:46:29,319
Speaker 1: not going bro.

957
00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:32,279
Speaker 2: Like I don't I feel that, but I still want

958
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:34,200
Speaker 2: you to punch that there in the mouth though, Like

959
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:39,319
Speaker 2: it needs to be a little bit of checking though, you.

960
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:45,840
Speaker 1: Know, because I say this coftable, he kept trying because

961
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:48,440
Speaker 1: the person that he is, he tried to talk to everybody.

962
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 1: He don't care nobody safe. He will try to he

963
00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:52,759
Speaker 1: will try to, like if he's dating somebody, he will

964
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:54,919
Speaker 1: try to fuck your MoMA type shit. That's the type

965
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:56,560
Speaker 1: of man he is, you know what I'm talking about.

966
00:46:57,400 --> 00:47:01,359
Speaker 1: So it's just like he don't care nobody's like, he's

967
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:03,040
Speaker 1: just one of them people. So it was more so

968
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:05,919
Speaker 1: on like my dude at the time knew he's like, man,

969
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:08,879
Speaker 1: she's not going bro. So, but I feel like men

970
00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:12,080
Speaker 1: that need reassurance. If you it's a difference between needing

971
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:15,200
Speaker 1: and wanting. Let's say that if you need it, I'm

972
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:17,080
Speaker 1: probably not gonna do that because I don't want to

973
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 1: do something that I feel forced to do. But if

974
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 1: you want it, that's cool. Yeah.

975
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:23,399
Speaker 2: I feel like if you're in a relationship with somebody,

976
00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:27,640
Speaker 2: you're supposed to constantly pour into give them words of

977
00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:28,520
Speaker 2: affirmation all the time.

978
00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:29,800
Speaker 1: They shouldn't even have to ask for this.

979
00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:32,480
Speaker 2: Yes, and if you're doing what you're supposed to be doing,

980
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 2: you're gonna get it anyway, right, because if you're not

981
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:37,400
Speaker 2: hearing it, you're probably not doing something.

982
00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:38,080
Speaker 1: You're really not.

983
00:47:38,000 --> 00:48:28,480
Speaker 3: Making her happy.

984
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:32,120
Speaker 1: What's up, y'alls? Your girl XP and it's your girl's

985
00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:33,800
Speaker 1: reading a call and we are here to talk to

986
00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:36,680
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987
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990
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991
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992
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994
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995
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996
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1001
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1002
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1003
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1010
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Speaker 1: Yeses like, and I feel like a lot of times

1011
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:42,080
Speaker 1: a man when a man is saying to you, oh,

1012
00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:43,600
Speaker 1: you make me feel like I have to be this

1013
00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:45,439
Speaker 1: man that I'm not. You're trying to turn me into

1014
00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:46,239
Speaker 1: something that i'm not.

1015
00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:48,920
Speaker 2: The reason that you're feeling that way is because you

1016
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:50,120
Speaker 2: really are not doing the things.

1017
00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:52,200
Speaker 1: You're supposed to be doing. So you just need to

1018
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:54,319
Speaker 1: do her a favor and let her go, you know,

1019
00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 1: And y'all need to walk away from each other because

1020
00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:58,000
Speaker 1: if I feel like a man is constantly telling me

1021
00:49:58,040 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 1: to do this and do that, I'm like, you know what,

1022
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 1: maybe I'm just not the woman for you, you know

1023
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

1024
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:05,400
Speaker 2: I feel like it's something to that because to a

1025
00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:08,080
Speaker 2: certain extent, especially when you're growing with the person, if

1026
00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:10,120
Speaker 2: y'all don't got time, investing and stuff.

1027
00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:12,440
Speaker 1: Like that, you're going to change. Yeah.

1028
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:15,320
Speaker 2: So just like like for example, you not drinking, you

1029
00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:18,400
Speaker 2: you operate in you know, your social media at a

1030
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:20,520
Speaker 2: certain you know time and stuff like that.

1031
00:50:20,840 --> 00:50:22,799
Speaker 1: It requires a certain discipline and the.

1032
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:26,160
Speaker 2: Whole goal of it is to be able to elevate yourself.

1033
00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:26,400
Speaker 1: As a woman.

1034
00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:28,719
Speaker 2: So the things that you may be into after this

1035
00:50:28,840 --> 00:50:31,839
Speaker 2: fast you may not have been into before, you know,

1036
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:35,359
Speaker 2: and vice versa. So you have to also like leave

1037
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:37,920
Speaker 2: room for growth in relationships. So a lot of the

1038
00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:40,719
Speaker 2: times y'all may not be on the same you know

1039
00:50:40,920 --> 00:50:44,000
Speaker 2: level or the same type of time. But essentially the

1040
00:50:44,120 --> 00:50:47,399
Speaker 2: goal is to be able to like have back somewhere, Yeah,

1041
00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:50,280
Speaker 2: me back somewhere and just have the you know, the commitment.

1042
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:52,520
Speaker 2: That's where the commitment comes in because it's like, now,

1043
00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:54,600
Speaker 2: you know, we both agreed that we're gonna.

1044
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:56,839
Speaker 1: Work this out. You know. It's crazy though. I saw

1045
00:50:56,880 --> 00:51:00,439
Speaker 1: a clip that Michelle Obama is she didn't a show

1046
00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:02,359
Speaker 1: on Revolt and she was talking about there was a

1047
00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:04,759
Speaker 1: time where her and Barack were not getting along for

1048
00:51:04,800 --> 00:51:08,840
Speaker 1: eight years they had grew apart and for eight years

1049
00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:11,120
Speaker 1: they weren't getting along. Cause y'all do that like somebody

1050
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:14,759
Speaker 1: that you're married to in the eight year period where

1051
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 1: y'all not getting along, y'all not seeing down. But I'm saying,

1052
00:51:19,120 --> 00:51:24,239
Speaker 1: this is your husband, this is your right. I'm saying, though,

1053
00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:26,080
Speaker 1: But that's what she did. And look where they She

1054
00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:28,960
Speaker 1: was like, oh we're happy, now, we're good. Like it's

1055
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:31,279
Speaker 1: get them in on my second marriage.

1056
00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:34,160
Speaker 2: So y'all not doing the eight year things, don't know.

1057
00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 2: It just depends, I'm just talking. It depends on the circumstance.

1058
00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:38,719
Speaker 2: It depends on what are the things that I don't

1059
00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:42,320
Speaker 2: like him for? You know, because I actually am listening

1060
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:46,239
Speaker 2: to her audiobook right now, the first one, Becoming, and

1061
00:51:46,320 --> 00:51:51,560
Speaker 2: she's talking about how at a time where she met

1062
00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:54,920
Speaker 2: Barack and he was so sure of hisself and so

1063
00:51:55,440 --> 00:51:57,920
Speaker 2: like just focused and zeroed in on what his goals

1064
00:51:58,000 --> 00:52:00,200
Speaker 2: was going to be, and she didn't really know at

1065
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:01,920
Speaker 2: a time like where she wanted to be. She was

1066
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:04,360
Speaker 2: studying law and got her degree and was working for

1067
00:52:04,400 --> 00:52:06,360
Speaker 2: a law firm, but knew that she didn't want to

1068
00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:08,880
Speaker 2: be a lawyer. And you know, you know, how you

1069
00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:10,359
Speaker 2: get to that space where it's like you know what

1070
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:12,400
Speaker 2: you don't want to do, but you don't know what

1071
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:13,840
Speaker 2: you want to do looks.

1072
00:52:13,640 --> 00:52:16,200
Speaker 1: Like yet, or what that pass for you looks like yet.

1073
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:19,120
Speaker 2: So it almost like was a slap in the face

1074
00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:20,839
Speaker 2: when you have to constantly go to bed and wake

1075
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:23,400
Speaker 2: up and have breakfast with this person that is constantly

1076
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:25,360
Speaker 2: asking you, like, so, where do you see yourself?

1077
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:27,279
Speaker 1: Or what's your goals? What are you going to do?

1078
00:52:27,400 --> 00:52:29,239
Speaker 1: You know, like, what is it for you? And you

1079
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:33,320
Speaker 1: don't know that yet? That can feel a little weird, especially.

1080
00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:35,640
Speaker 2: When they're accomplishing their goals right and it feels like

1081
00:52:35,719 --> 00:52:38,800
Speaker 2: you're not doing anything, you're getting left behind, getting left behind.

1082
00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:41,879
Speaker 2: So when it comes to dynamics like that, I leave

1083
00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:45,359
Speaker 2: grace for that because essentially I think that that's something

1084
00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:47,040
Speaker 2: that you can kind of grow out of when you

1085
00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:49,839
Speaker 2: just go through the motions of whatever your life's journey is,

1086
00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:53,600
Speaker 2: you know, So that is different than a nigga.

1087
00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:55,600
Speaker 1: Cheating on you for eight years right right?

1088
00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:59,839
Speaker 2: Keeping on well, And I was also going to ask

1089
00:52:59,880 --> 00:53:02,880
Speaker 2: you all too, because I know you brought up love languages.

1090
00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:05,880
Speaker 2: Do y'all think that it's just easier to date somebody

1091
00:53:05,920 --> 00:53:08,080
Speaker 2: that shares your love language.

1092
00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:12,120
Speaker 1: Not necessarily because the way I give love is not

1093
00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:15,000
Speaker 1: necessarily the way I want to receive love, right, if

1094
00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 1: that makes sense.

1095
00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:17,759
Speaker 2: But see, I guess because I feel like words of

1096
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:21,440
Speaker 2: affirmation and gifts are my top two love languages. But

1097
00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:23,239
Speaker 2: I feel like that's the same type of way I

1098
00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:25,080
Speaker 2: like to show love to people too. And I know

1099
00:53:25,160 --> 00:53:27,120
Speaker 2: a lot of people always say that they feel like

1100
00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:29,000
Speaker 2: the way that they like to receive it is the

1101
00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:31,120
Speaker 2: same way they like to give it to see, I

1102
00:53:31,200 --> 00:53:31,960
Speaker 2: want all of them.

1103
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:37,480
Speaker 1: Yes, I feel too like. I had a conversation with

1104
00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:39,640
Speaker 1: somebody about this the other day. I said, they asked

1105
00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:41,440
Speaker 1: me what my love languages were, and I said, honestly,

1106
00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:43,319
Speaker 1: all of them. They were like, oh, everybody says all

1107
00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:45,120
Speaker 1: of them. I was like, no, but the reason I

1108
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:47,680
Speaker 1: say all of them is because that's how I love. Yeah,

1109
00:53:47,719 --> 00:53:50,239
Speaker 1: I give gifts, I want to spend time with you.

1110
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:53,360
Speaker 1: I'm very touchy feely. I'll say, I'm not as touchy

1111
00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:56,160
Speaker 1: phelly as I thought I was because my ex wasn't,

1112
00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:58,120
Speaker 1: so I kind of got out of that habit of

1113
00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:00,160
Speaker 1: being touchy phelly. So it's like when people try to

1114
00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:02,640
Speaker 1: touch you feeling with me. Now I'm a little awkward,

1115
00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:05,080
Speaker 1: but I'm like, okay, I do like it though, so

1116
00:54:05,400 --> 00:54:08,120
Speaker 1: I say, I like to give all of that, so

1117
00:54:08,239 --> 00:54:11,480
Speaker 1: I want off of Yeah, Like, so I guess you

1118
00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:13,040
Speaker 1: know it does make sense how you said.

1119
00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:15,680
Speaker 2: I mean, because I feel like I want all fives too,

1120
00:54:15,719 --> 00:54:18,759
Speaker 2: But you definitely have like two or three that resonate the.

1121
00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:21,520
Speaker 1: Most, right, right, of course, Yeah, I think that's true.

1122
00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:22,040
Speaker 1: I think.

1123
00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:26,000
Speaker 2: Find I think that's just again finding somebody that you're

1124
00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:26,760
Speaker 2: equally open.

1125
00:54:27,320 --> 00:54:29,240
Speaker 1: But again, like like, let's take.

1126
00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:34,000
Speaker 2: For example, you y'all, you know, poor Minds is the

1127
00:54:34,040 --> 00:54:38,560
Speaker 2: next Oprah. You know what I'm saying, you know, like

1128
00:54:38,560 --> 00:54:42,239
Speaker 2: like it's it's Oprah now, yea, Like y'all got opper money,

1129
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:44,399
Speaker 2: y'all got a whole network on your own. Y'all got

1130
00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:46,640
Speaker 2: a whole you know, thing going on or whatever. And

1131
00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:49,080
Speaker 2: money isn't really a thing. Can't nobody buy you nothing

1132
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 2: that you can't buy yourself. Can nobody show you anything

1133
00:54:51,239 --> 00:54:54,759
Speaker 2: that you ain't already experienced? Then time or words of

1134
00:54:54,760 --> 00:54:57,040
Speaker 2: affirmations may be higher on the list.

1135
00:54:57,120 --> 00:54:57,840
Speaker 1: Now that you're.

1136
00:54:57,719 --> 00:55:00,120
Speaker 2: Evolved into a person where it's like I don't he

1137
00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:01,360
Speaker 2: gifts anymore.

1138
00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:03,920
Speaker 1: So how he got you and how you were in

1139
00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:06,360
Speaker 1: love with him for the first ten years may have

1140
00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:08,879
Speaker 1: been buying you stuff, but now that doesn't matter because

1141
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:17,080
Speaker 1: you can do your own that. No, yeah, that definitely

1142
00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:20,160
Speaker 1: makes sense. I just feel like, I don't know. I

1143
00:55:20,200 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 1: think love languages are important, and I know people feel like, oh,

1144
00:55:23,080 --> 00:55:25,120
Speaker 1: it's just overdone and it's overused, but you still have

1145
00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:27,879
Speaker 1: to pay attention to that. Yeah, sure, that'll never die.

1146
00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:31,080
Speaker 2: That's like saying like compatibility is overdone.

1147
00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:34,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it would never be. You have to pay.

1148
00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:38,120
Speaker 1: You have to pay attention to it. Like, okay, you

1149
00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:42,840
Speaker 1: all ready to move on now to get into the

1150
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:49,839
Speaker 1: big bow bow bow bow. Who I'm ready to talk

1151
00:55:49,840 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 1: about this? Oh lord, I'm to it is. So today

1152
00:55:55,040 --> 00:56:00,200
Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about sex positions and it's a missionary

1153
00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:03,960
Speaker 1: better than doggy style. Now, let me kind of give

1154
00:56:04,239 --> 00:56:07,719
Speaker 1: the scenario. You know, a lot of men are not

1155
00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:10,960
Speaker 1: well and doubts, okay, but one thing that you can

1156
00:56:11,040 --> 00:56:13,680
Speaker 1: rest assure is that when you bend it over from

1157
00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:16,440
Speaker 1: the back, he gonna hit that spot. The spot is

1158
00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:19,120
Speaker 1: gonna be hit. I feel like, no matter how bad

1159
00:56:19,160 --> 00:56:22,040
Speaker 1: a man is at sex, doggy style you can get

1160
00:56:22,040 --> 00:56:25,640
Speaker 1: a little something something done. Okay, I feel like growing

1161
00:56:25,960 --> 00:56:28,480
Speaker 1: growing up as when I was a young war dog,

1162
00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:32,759
Speaker 1: I've been fucking for a very long time. Is wrong

1163
00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:36,400
Speaker 1: with you? I've been fucking for a really long time. Okay.

1164
00:56:36,520 --> 00:56:38,560
Speaker 1: So I will say I've always been like a doggy

1165
00:56:38,640 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 1: style type of girl, like that's always the go to position.

1166
00:56:40,800 --> 00:56:44,040
Speaker 1: But for me, we were gonna talk about its missionary

1167
00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:47,640
Speaker 1: better than doggy style, and as a grown woman, missionary

1168
00:56:47,719 --> 00:56:49,040
Speaker 1: is way better than doggy style.

1169
00:56:49,120 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 2: Absolutely, I feel like doggy style is so barbaric.

1170
00:56:53,000 --> 00:57:03,520
Speaker 1: It is I don't know. Okay, So because it got it,

1171
00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:06,480
Speaker 1: you gotta be well and down. I feel like because for.

1172
00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:09,000
Speaker 2: Doggy styles, yeah, I feel like it don't work for

1173
00:57:09,080 --> 00:57:12,320
Speaker 2: some people because I remember, I don't want to overshare.

1174
00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:15,880
Speaker 1: We got over.

1175
00:57:18,280 --> 00:57:21,280
Speaker 2: You know, y'all know we got a lot of ass.

1176
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:23,479
Speaker 2: So like, if you're not well and down, it's gonna

1177
00:57:23,480 --> 00:57:24,320
Speaker 2: be falling out.

1178
00:57:25,320 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 1: I don't like that. So it's not gonna be good.

1179
00:57:28,280 --> 00:57:32,040
Speaker 2: I think missionary, you know, just because like I'm a

1180
00:57:32,080 --> 00:57:32,920
Speaker 2: passionate level.

1181
00:57:33,440 --> 00:57:35,960
Speaker 1: You hit it right on, you know, I want to kiss.

1182
00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:40,480
Speaker 1: I want how much I love you? You know?

1183
00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:41,680
Speaker 3: I look good?

1184
00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:45,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, eye contact, eye contact, and you know you could

1185
00:57:45,680 --> 00:57:47,960
Speaker 2: just say all type of weird ship that's gonna Oh

1186
00:57:48,120 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 2: I love my breath in my face. Yes, I want

1187
00:57:51,400 --> 00:57:58,600
Speaker 2: to smell that little speek. Actually, do you know you

1188
00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 2: do somebody?

1189
00:58:00,760 --> 00:58:01,680
Speaker 3: Well, maybe it wasn't you.

1190
00:58:01,720 --> 00:58:03,200
Speaker 2: Maybe it was an episode we did with somebody and

1191
00:58:03,240 --> 00:58:04,680
Speaker 2: I felt like they said they didn't like this.

1192
00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:12,360
Speaker 1: It wouldn't mean you. No, give me that love it

1193
00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:16,120
Speaker 1: make it real nice fum me. But no. I feel

1194
00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:19,960
Speaker 1: like Missionary is just so much more passionate. I love

1195
00:58:20,400 --> 00:58:23,640
Speaker 1: passionate sex like and I think for me, especially at

1196
00:58:23,680 --> 00:58:26,520
Speaker 1: this age, I can't just fuck the fuck anymore. Like

1197
00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:28,440
Speaker 1: I feel like if I just want to have an orgasm,

1198
00:58:28,480 --> 00:58:31,280
Speaker 1: I have my vibrator for that. So I am not

1199
00:58:31,440 --> 00:58:33,200
Speaker 1: even in the stage of my life where if I

1200
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:35,200
Speaker 1: don't like you or have feelings for you, I can't

1201
00:58:35,200 --> 00:58:38,240
Speaker 1: have sex with right now. One night stands, I mean

1202
00:58:38,520 --> 00:58:39,720
Speaker 1: the last time I had a one nice sound it

1203
00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:41,440
Speaker 1: was probably like twenty two because I.

1204
00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:43,600
Speaker 2: Would literally be thinking about, like all the bitches you

1205
00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:46,000
Speaker 2: fucking oh my, I don't be thinking about.

1206
00:58:45,760 --> 00:58:47,960
Speaker 1: Like, I don't know you. You could be a weirdo.

1207
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:51,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna hope the condom don't break lord. Oh my god,

1208
00:58:51,600 --> 00:59:01,320
Speaker 1: hope he of package and you're your body Like when you.

1209
00:59:01,760 --> 00:59:03,960
Speaker 2: When you having sex with somebody you like, even if

1210
00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:08,680
Speaker 2: it's like the first time, it needs like that conversation

1211
00:59:08,920 --> 00:59:11,560
Speaker 2: before that needs to be fire. Like I like to

1212
00:59:11,560 --> 00:59:13,720
Speaker 2: talk about sex before we have it. I want to know,

1213
00:59:13,840 --> 00:59:15,960
Speaker 2: like what you like. I want to know, like you know,

1214
00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:19,400
Speaker 2: what's your favorite position? Yeah, the freakiest thing you ever did.

1215
00:59:19,560 --> 00:59:21,439
Speaker 2: Like I need to know what I'm getting myself into

1216
00:59:21,520 --> 00:59:24,240
Speaker 2: invice versus. So like when we do finally have sex,

1217
00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:25,800
Speaker 2: it's like explosive.

1218
00:59:26,000 --> 00:59:29,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love explosive sex. And I feel like doggie

1219
00:59:29,320 --> 00:59:33,040
Speaker 1: style is just kind of basic. I not like it's

1220
00:59:33,080 --> 00:59:35,320
Speaker 1: not Yeah, it's just not into me, you know how,

1221
00:59:35,360 --> 00:59:37,360
Speaker 1: Like it was like cool to listen to Lana del

1222
00:59:37,480 --> 00:59:41,200
Speaker 1: Ray and you were edgy. That's how doggy style. Doggy

1223
00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:42,920
Speaker 1: style is giving like oh, you think you did it

1224
00:59:43,960 --> 00:59:47,640
Speaker 1: was trendy, like the girls think they did something like yeah, girl,

1225
00:59:47,640 --> 00:59:49,200
Speaker 1: I threw this ass back on it. We can all

1226
00:59:49,240 --> 00:59:51,280
Speaker 1: throw that ass back everything. I don't care if you

1227
00:59:51,360 --> 00:59:54,880
Speaker 1: got no ass. Everybody got an ass from the back,

1228
00:59:55,160 --> 00:59:58,640
Speaker 1: Like I throw that back back. But I feel like

1229
00:59:58,800 --> 01:00:01,280
Speaker 1: Missionary is like you can really tell if a nigga

1230
01:00:01,280 --> 01:00:03,160
Speaker 1: fuck with you, if a nigga looking into your eyes,

1231
01:00:03,280 --> 01:00:06,400
Speaker 1: he kissing on you. Y'all talking, because if a nigga

1232
01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:08,600
Speaker 1: hit you in Missionary, he just like turning his head

1233
01:00:08,680 --> 01:00:12,200
Speaker 1: and the pillows and he's like, are you looking up?

1234
01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:16,600
Speaker 1: Like you thinking about another being? Like hey, what you

1235
01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:19,560
Speaker 1: like that? Like I need all the focus on me.

1236
01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:21,840
Speaker 1: That's about like doggy styles.

1237
01:00:21,840 --> 01:00:24,040
Speaker 2: It's like that's like the finisher move, like.

1238
01:00:25,400 --> 01:00:28,760
Speaker 1: Are you you taking to this? Let's get this show

1239
01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:32,000
Speaker 1: on the wrong. Yes, yes, So we all vote for

1240
01:00:32,040 --> 01:00:46,920
Speaker 1: Missionary mission Missionary for sure. What's up, y'all? Is your

1241
01:00:46,920 --> 01:00:49,400
Speaker 1: girl XP and it's your girl Drey and the Cold,

1242
01:00:49,600 --> 01:00:51,880
Speaker 1: and we are here to talk about Rocket Money. The

1243
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Speaker 1: worst thing I do is I'll sign up for a subscription,

1244
01:00:55,040 --> 01:00:56,680
Speaker 1: like cause I get a seven day trial and then

1245
01:00:56,720 --> 01:00:59,880
Speaker 1: I'll forget to cancel it. All that stuff quits with

1246
01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:01,280
Speaker 1: Rocket Money. Yeah.

1247
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Speaker 2: One of my New Year's resolutions this year was to

1248
01:01:03,920 --> 01:01:06,840
Speaker 2: save more money and stop spending money on unnecessary things.

1249
01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:08,640
Speaker 2: And that's why I love Rocket Money because I have

1250
01:01:08,680 --> 01:01:11,560
Speaker 2: so many subscriptions that I don't use. And one thing

1251
01:01:11,600 --> 01:01:13,360
Speaker 2: that another thing that I like about it is that

1252
01:01:13,400 --> 01:01:15,800
Speaker 2: it helps you monitor your spending and it can also

1253
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Speaker 2: lower some of your.

1254
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1255
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Speaker 1: The worst thing that these companies beginning you is you

1256
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Speaker 1: can't find out how to cancel your subscription. So all

1257
01:01:24,720 --> 01:01:26,240
Speaker 1: you do is Rocket money is you go to the

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Speaker 1: site where your subscription is and click cancel and they'll

1259
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Speaker 1: cancel it for you. It's super easy. So all you're

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1261
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Speaker 1: poor minds to get started today. Y'all. I'm telling you,

1262
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1263
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1264
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Speaker 1: to get started today. Okay, so before before we get

1266
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Speaker 1: to the next sevent our good sense brought up some gills.

1267
01:01:52,800 --> 01:02:00,240
Speaker 1: She did. I'm excited, so yeah, thank you. So this

1268
01:02:00,320 --> 01:02:04,720
Speaker 1: is from my boutique, Armani's Closet. Okay, and we're gonna

1269
01:02:04,760 --> 01:02:05,880
Speaker 1: drop the link in the bottom.

1270
01:02:05,920 --> 01:02:08,880
Speaker 2: I'm glad that you, you know, refreshing your closet or whatever.

1271
01:02:09,000 --> 01:02:11,960
Speaker 1: I got. Y'all like some staples in the air. Okay.

1272
01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:14,520
Speaker 1: I don't know if this is your logo. Yes, that's

1273
01:02:14,560 --> 01:02:16,480
Speaker 1: the low well that's the old logo. I'm sorry, but

1274
01:02:16,480 --> 01:02:18,360
Speaker 1: we ain't had no stickers in the middle ones yet. Okay,

1275
01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:21,919
Speaker 1: so gonna but.

1276
01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:27,200
Speaker 2: I literally started this twenty nineteen in my closet, like

1277
01:02:27,600 --> 01:02:30,760
Speaker 2: and it just started like turning into something bigger than me.

1278
01:02:31,120 --> 01:02:35,320
Speaker 1: And I think I just said I needed a new

1279
01:02:35,360 --> 01:02:37,640
Speaker 1: black body. So we did you know anything about it?

1280
01:02:37,640 --> 01:02:39,800
Speaker 2: Because I feel like you could wear those with boots

1281
01:02:39,840 --> 01:02:41,600
Speaker 2: in a in a puffer jacket.

1282
01:02:41,320 --> 01:02:43,480
Speaker 1: And to ass when you can wear that in Miami

1283
01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:46,600
Speaker 1: with high up shoes, you know, like you can't go wrong,

1284
01:02:46,760 --> 01:02:47,080
Speaker 1: you can.

1285
01:02:47,120 --> 01:02:49,000
Speaker 2: I know y'all be traveling or whatever. So I wanted

1286
01:02:49,000 --> 01:02:50,400
Speaker 2: to get y'all some stringer kids.

1287
01:02:50,480 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Boom, it's coming. Okay, So

1288
01:02:53,000 --> 01:02:56,520
Speaker 1: I'm about Mexico in the city.

1289
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Speaker 2: I'm about to tag your girl. I'm going to Mexico

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01:02:58,280 --> 01:03:00,959
Speaker 2: next month. Yeah, you know, not like the brown ones.

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01:03:01,080 --> 01:03:04,960
Speaker 2: Just give like once you get that. And the bikini

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01:03:05,040 --> 01:03:07,640
Speaker 2: lines is skinny, so you can know you know its

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01:03:07,640 --> 01:03:09,200
Speaker 2: gonna be fire girl.

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01:03:10,400 --> 01:03:12,120
Speaker 1: Okay, what else we got him?

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01:03:12,880 --> 01:03:17,320
Speaker 2: You had the lights the light of beige one. I

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Speaker 2: think you had it on in one of the episodes.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm like, let me get her thank you,

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01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:25,840
Speaker 1: And then you know that asked me. It's gonna sit there,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, And no, this is real stretching.

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01:03:27,760 --> 01:03:35,360
Speaker 1: And then I'm like, look, this looks like so okay.

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01:03:36,080 --> 01:03:37,600
Speaker 2: You know I wanted to come back and gainst we

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01:03:37,600 --> 01:03:39,080
Speaker 2: missed or whatever, so.

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01:03:40,520 --> 01:03:43,360
Speaker 1: Cute. I'm not gonna I'm excited to wear these jeans.

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01:03:43,360 --> 01:03:46,280
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm gonna put it together. But this,

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01:03:46,680 --> 01:03:48,120
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I'm gonna put this ship.

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01:03:48,320 --> 01:03:50,640
Speaker 2: And I'm gonna have to get your your po box

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01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:51,960
Speaker 2: so I can see you some lip.

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01:03:52,160 --> 01:03:55,120
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I need some for sure. Yes, it muses

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01:03:55,200 --> 01:03:59,360
Speaker 1: that girl when I tell you that Glade need that,

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01:03:59,600 --> 01:04:02,520
Speaker 1: so we don't put the link for our Moni's closet. Yeah,

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01:04:02,880 --> 01:04:05,040
Speaker 1: and the mile Y'll make sure y'all go shopping get

1312
01:04:05,080 --> 01:04:08,880
Speaker 1: you some and if y'all need anything else, just you know,

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01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:13,560
Speaker 1: hit my line of course. Thank you. Love When people

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01:04:13,600 --> 01:04:17,680
Speaker 1: bring giins body to the next out for the next

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01:04:17,680 --> 01:04:25,000
Speaker 1: episode recording, I know that's right, okay, so go ahead

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Speaker 1: with what's the next topic? Girl? Out Look, I'm los

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01:04:31,120 --> 01:04:38,880
Speaker 1: to get into the bow Bow about bow Bye. You know,

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01:04:38,960 --> 01:04:44,080
Speaker 1: gave him some gifts. You y'all know, Mama over here,

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01:04:44,080 --> 01:04:49,280
Speaker 1: a little tip t look got me and I got

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Speaker 1: a whole other episode to do. Hold on, let me

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01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:57,880
Speaker 1: tell you, okay. So y'all know I always am in

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01:04:57,960 --> 01:05:04,000
Speaker 1: my afrobeast bag. There's just something about afrobeats that just

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01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:05,720
Speaker 1: gets me in the vibe and gets me in the mood.

1324
01:05:06,120 --> 01:05:10,360
Speaker 1: So this song is by aria Star. It's called Rush,

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01:05:10,640 --> 01:05:13,200
Speaker 1: and she is so young. And you know what I

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01:05:13,240 --> 01:05:15,320
Speaker 1: will say. I know we make jokes about this a

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01:05:15,320 --> 01:05:17,360
Speaker 1: lot because when I was younger, y'all, I used to

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01:05:17,360 --> 01:05:19,200
Speaker 1: do everything. I thought I wanted to be a singer.

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01:05:19,360 --> 01:05:21,280
Speaker 1: I thought I wanted to be a rapper, I thought

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01:05:21,320 --> 01:05:25,320
Speaker 1: I wanted to be a vlogger. I love seeing the

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01:05:25,400 --> 01:05:29,120
Speaker 1: younger generation just create and just go and just go.

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01:05:29,200 --> 01:05:31,160
Speaker 1: And this girl is young. I think she's like twenty

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01:05:31,240 --> 01:05:34,760
Speaker 1: or twenty one, and her music is just so fire.

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01:05:35,720 --> 01:05:38,280
Speaker 1: So I love seeing you know, the kids make good,

1335
01:05:38,280 --> 01:05:40,400
Speaker 1: good music. I say to kids, cause y'all know I'm unty.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, my bop of the week is Ariya Star Rush.

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01:05:43,760 --> 01:05:46,360
Speaker 1: It's an afrobeat song and it's like she's talking about

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01:05:46,400 --> 01:05:50,040
Speaker 1: getting her money. It's a song about getting money. Yeah,

1339
01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:52,320
Speaker 1: like and that's what I like to see, like young women,

1340
01:05:52,440 --> 01:05:56,080
Speaker 1: like your type is gonna change. A lot of our

1341
01:05:56,120 --> 01:05:59,080
Speaker 1: listeners are so young and they're like, oh but this god,

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01:05:59,240 --> 01:06:01,720
Speaker 1: this god girl all focused on what you want to do.

1343
01:06:02,360 --> 01:06:05,200
Speaker 1: I I feel like I always say this, Lex went

1344
01:06:05,280 --> 01:06:06,720
Speaker 1: through that, so you ain't got to go through that.

1345
01:06:07,920 --> 01:06:11,720
Speaker 1: I went my twenties were I was very male focused.

1346
01:06:11,800 --> 01:06:14,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be a wife, I'm gonna be a good girlfriend.

1347
01:06:14,680 --> 01:06:16,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be in this like I didn't pour into

1348
01:06:16,240 --> 01:06:19,000
Speaker 1: myself and you know what, Tommy is everything, but I'm

1349
01:06:19,080 --> 01:06:21,840
Speaker 1: I'm playing a little ketchup now right. So for me,

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01:06:21,920 --> 01:06:24,240
Speaker 1: it's like this is like a good song to like

1351
01:06:24,320 --> 01:06:27,320
Speaker 1: get you motivated in the morning, you know, get your

1352
01:06:27,360 --> 01:06:30,200
Speaker 1: mind on your money and just grind. So, yeah, are

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01:06:30,280 --> 01:06:32,680
Speaker 1: your star Rush. That's my bop of the week. What

1354
01:06:32,800 --> 01:06:34,760
Speaker 1: you Got a Little Drella? My bop of the week

1355
01:06:34,840 --> 01:06:37,600
Speaker 1: is by money Bag Yo and Glow Reala. You like it?

1356
01:06:37,800 --> 01:06:41,360
Speaker 1: I just I love And.

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01:06:41,400 --> 01:06:43,600
Speaker 2: Maybe that's me just being based because I just like

1358
01:06:43,680 --> 01:06:45,600
Speaker 2: her and I just her personality.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, I need to listen to it again. You know,

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01:06:48,320 --> 01:06:50,760
Speaker 1: I only listen to it like twice, so I gotta

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01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:52,960
Speaker 1: run back. It's a good little turn up song, you

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01:06:53,000 --> 01:06:54,000
Speaker 1: know the songs you do.

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01:06:54,040 --> 01:06:56,840
Speaker 2: Gotta listen to it, yeah you know, oh yeah, but

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Speaker 2: that's my bop of the week.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I love me some glow. Yeah, we need to

1366
01:07:01,720 --> 01:07:04,520
Speaker 1: she needs to come on, she's I mean, we ran

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01:07:04,640 --> 01:07:08,280
Speaker 1: that song to the ground on tour. I mean everybody,

1368
01:07:08,440 --> 01:07:17,800
Speaker 1: the whole world real, that was our ship all summer. Okay, Okay,

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01:07:17,840 --> 01:07:22,120
Speaker 1: So what you've been jamming this week are what have

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01:07:22,240 --> 01:07:22,920
Speaker 1: I been listening to?

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01:07:23,320 --> 01:07:26,680
Speaker 2: Mary J Blige the whole album? You know, her birthday

1372
01:07:26,720 --> 01:07:30,640
Speaker 2: this past year, she was like on my I don't know,

1373
01:07:30,800 --> 01:07:34,040
Speaker 2: like my artists for you, and I went back and

1374
01:07:34,080 --> 01:07:38,680
Speaker 2: listened to My Life with the commentary. Okay, it's just like,

1375
01:07:38,920 --> 01:07:42,240
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, like her talking about the songs and

1376
01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:44,040
Speaker 2: like what she was going through and how her and

1377
01:07:44,040 --> 01:07:47,280
Speaker 2: Puffy was crying together right and stuff, and you know,

1378
01:07:47,360 --> 01:07:49,560
Speaker 2: I'm not in a sad mood, but it's just like

1379
01:07:50,680 --> 01:07:53,920
Speaker 2: it's I just you know, but it's like it was

1380
01:07:53,960 --> 01:07:57,160
Speaker 2: the perfect elements of hip hop and like R and.

1381
01:07:57,160 --> 01:08:01,080
Speaker 1: B, Like she really created that like hip so she

1382
01:08:01,160 --> 01:08:04,800
Speaker 1: really did she did? You know what? My Life is

1383
01:08:04,840 --> 01:08:07,280
Speaker 1: one of my favorite Mary J. BLI songs. But my

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01:08:07,440 --> 01:08:10,720
Speaker 1: favorite MARYA J. Blosh song is everything. I love it

1385
01:08:10,760 --> 01:08:13,560
Speaker 1: so visuals. Yeah, that was such a beautiful she was

1386
01:08:13,880 --> 01:08:16,559
Speaker 1: that beat. Oh my gosh, she looks so good. Okay,

1387
01:08:16,800 --> 01:08:20,960
Speaker 1: so what was what's your favorite song by yourself? Like

1388
01:08:21,080 --> 01:08:22,800
Speaker 1: what is your favorite Armani song, like when you were

1389
01:08:22,840 --> 01:08:25,080
Speaker 1: in the studio, Like, yeah, I ate them bitches up.

1390
01:08:25,320 --> 01:08:27,680
Speaker 1: Like what's your favorite song by you?

1391
01:08:27,840 --> 01:08:31,640
Speaker 2: I would have to say Diana okay, black Okay.

1392
01:08:31,720 --> 01:08:32,800
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think.

1393
01:08:34,160 --> 01:08:38,040
Speaker 2: How it just came about was just like complete alignment.

1394
01:08:38,479 --> 01:08:41,080
Speaker 2: Like I did the song and it was already one

1395
01:08:41,080 --> 01:08:43,160
Speaker 2: of my favorite songs on the record. And when we

1396
01:08:43,160 --> 01:08:45,439
Speaker 2: were like going through trying to like find you know,

1397
01:08:45,560 --> 01:08:49,479
Speaker 2: just put the bells and whistles on the album, you know,

1398
01:08:49,520 --> 01:08:51,360
Speaker 2: we were like at the ending stages of it.

1399
01:08:51,360 --> 01:08:52,920
Speaker 1: I think I was supposed to drop like.

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01:08:52,960 --> 01:08:54,960
Speaker 2: Three weeks from then, right, and I was like, we

1401
01:08:55,000 --> 01:08:56,760
Speaker 2: need somebody on there because it was just my verse,

1402
01:08:56,800 --> 01:08:57,880
Speaker 2: And then it was just about to be the end

1403
01:08:57,880 --> 01:09:01,080
Speaker 2: of the song, right, and I was like, we got

1404
01:09:01,080 --> 01:09:03,840
Speaker 2: to find somebody that like, you know, don't really sound

1405
01:09:03,920 --> 01:09:07,280
Speaker 2: like nothing. Griselda like years, I was like asking my friend,

1406
01:09:07,280 --> 01:09:09,240
Speaker 2: I'm like, who do you think of smoke this, and

1407
01:09:09,360 --> 01:09:11,920
Speaker 2: I was like, what about Kodak And she was like

1408
01:09:12,479 --> 01:09:13,160
Speaker 2: do you know him?

1409
01:09:13,200 --> 01:09:17,200
Speaker 1: I was like no. I was like, but shit, I'm

1410
01:09:17,240 --> 01:09:19,599
Speaker 1: a slide to this DM. See what's up? Like a song?

1411
01:09:20,040 --> 01:09:21,679
Speaker 1: So I said, I'm like, hey, I got a song

1412
01:09:21,680 --> 01:09:22,280
Speaker 1: for you getting on.

1413
01:09:22,360 --> 01:09:25,800
Speaker 2: He like, I sent it through. So I sent the

1414
01:09:25,840 --> 01:09:28,360
Speaker 2: song through and I was like, you're fucking with it?

1415
01:09:28,439 --> 01:09:28,960
Speaker 1: He like yeah.

1416
01:09:29,000 --> 01:09:30,680
Speaker 2: He was like yeah, I'm gonna scirtch the beat and

1417
01:09:30,720 --> 01:09:32,599
Speaker 2: I'm gonna send it back to you. So it's like

1418
01:09:32,640 --> 01:09:36,400
Speaker 2: one o'clock in the morning. By like six o'clock that

1419
01:09:36,439 --> 01:09:38,120
Speaker 2: morning when I woke up, it was in my DM.

1420
01:09:38,200 --> 01:09:40,519
Speaker 1: Do you know how crazy that niggas don't do that?

1421
01:09:40,520 --> 01:09:42,240
Speaker 2: They'd be like, yeah, I'm gonna do it, and don't

1422
01:09:42,280 --> 01:09:43,200
Speaker 2: never fucking do it.

1423
01:09:43,240 --> 01:09:46,400
Speaker 1: Wow. So he was really fucking And then not only that,

1424
01:09:46,439 --> 01:09:46,920
Speaker 1: but then.

1425
01:09:46,800 --> 01:09:48,760
Speaker 2: It was like, oh, we gotta shoot the video for

1426
01:09:48,800 --> 01:09:51,720
Speaker 2: this aces yeah, And then I asked him.

1427
01:09:51,760 --> 01:09:52,720
Speaker 1: I was like, well, where are you gonna be?

1428
01:09:52,760 --> 01:09:54,320
Speaker 2: He was like, well, I got to do Made in

1429
01:09:54,360 --> 01:09:55,840
Speaker 2: America and Philly or whatever.

1430
01:09:55,880 --> 01:09:57,000
Speaker 1: I was like, ba, I'm gonna meet you there. You

1431
01:09:57,040 --> 01:09:59,400
Speaker 1: ain't got to worry about nothing. Just pull up shit.

1432
01:09:59,520 --> 01:10:01,960
Speaker 2: I've got to, don't treatment, you know what I'm saying,

1433
01:10:01,960 --> 01:10:03,280
Speaker 2: put it together on canvas.

1434
01:10:03,800 --> 01:10:11,800
Speaker 1: I know at Cava, but that we got a team

1435
01:10:11,840 --> 01:10:15,760
Speaker 1: we used to stay on. I still use camera for

1436
01:10:15,800 --> 01:10:20,840
Speaker 1: a little you know, not this much getting down on

1437
01:10:20,840 --> 01:10:23,320
Speaker 1: the floor on camera. I love that because you like,

1438
01:10:23,520 --> 01:10:26,160
Speaker 1: but that be the difference between the people who really

1439
01:10:26,200 --> 01:10:28,000
Speaker 1: make it and the people who don't like you. Oh,

1440
01:10:28,080 --> 01:10:29,320
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pull off on you.

1441
01:10:29,520 --> 01:10:32,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, And you just got to have an abundance mindset

1442
01:10:32,200 --> 01:10:32,919
Speaker 2: about yourself.

1443
01:10:32,960 --> 01:10:34,320
Speaker 1: I just think I don't think that.

1444
01:10:34,280 --> 01:10:36,960
Speaker 2: It's anything out there that I can't achieve if I

1445
01:10:37,040 --> 01:10:39,360
Speaker 2: really put the work in and get it. Like I

1446
01:10:39,520 --> 01:10:42,320
Speaker 2: just move in that avenue and I try to stay

1447
01:10:42,360 --> 01:10:44,960
Speaker 2: in that space. Once I get in that limited thing

1448
01:10:45,080 --> 01:10:47,360
Speaker 2: and I start getting fearful and shit like that, I'm like, okay,

1449
01:10:47,360 --> 01:10:49,640
Speaker 2: I gotta recharge or get it away from whoever is

1450
01:10:49,640 --> 01:10:51,920
Speaker 2: around me that's putting that negative ass energy on me.

1451
01:10:52,040 --> 01:10:55,360
Speaker 2: Like I just feel like, you know, especially now, because

1452
01:10:55,560 --> 01:10:57,920
Speaker 2: you know, I'm like ten years plus in a game

1453
01:10:58,040 --> 01:11:00,680
Speaker 2: like trying to you know, make my should even be

1454
01:11:00,840 --> 01:11:03,200
Speaker 2: known to people or you know, doing I was doing

1455
01:11:03,240 --> 01:11:06,360
Speaker 2: shows and fucking little ass bars and stuff. I think

1456
01:11:07,000 --> 01:11:09,519
Speaker 2: so now that I actually have the chance to do it. Oh,

1457
01:11:09,560 --> 01:11:12,680
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go up like I'm gonna do that anyway.

1458
01:11:13,320 --> 01:11:14,679
Speaker 1: Gonna go harder for you than you.

1459
01:11:15,040 --> 01:11:17,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I feel like I owe it to myself

1460
01:11:17,280 --> 01:11:19,639
Speaker 2: and my city and just all the girls that actually

1461
01:11:19,680 --> 01:11:22,320
Speaker 2: like still be watching me on Instagram to like show

1462
01:11:22,360 --> 01:11:24,320
Speaker 2: them like no, like now you have permission to go

1463
01:11:24,360 --> 01:11:27,080
Speaker 2: after yours because you see me attached like attack mine,

1464
01:11:27,520 --> 01:11:29,320
Speaker 2: like achieved mine, right.

1465
01:11:29,360 --> 01:11:31,720
Speaker 1: So that's cool. I love So I wasn't working with

1466
01:11:31,800 --> 01:11:36,400
Speaker 1: kodd it was dope. He's funny as hell. For whin Yeah,

1467
01:11:36,520 --> 01:11:38,280
Speaker 1: he seemed like he's just a funny ass.

1468
01:11:39,360 --> 01:11:41,679
Speaker 2: But he was such a gentleman, like he was fixing

1469
01:11:41,720 --> 01:11:45,240
Speaker 2: my dress, I like and stuff like that. He was

1470
01:11:45,280 --> 01:11:47,120
Speaker 2: just you know, now he had his black and mout

1471
01:11:47,160 --> 01:11:51,160
Speaker 2: in there in the Four Seasons in the Elevator he

1472
01:11:51,200 --> 01:11:54,280
Speaker 2: had the black and mine like all through their way

1473
01:11:55,120 --> 01:11:57,880
Speaker 2: but everything, but like, you know, he's super sweet, he's

1474
01:11:57,880 --> 01:12:00,320
Speaker 2: super cool, and you know, I think something like an

1475
01:12:00,360 --> 01:12:02,800
Speaker 2: article had came out about him before that, like where

1476
01:12:02,800 --> 01:12:04,960
Speaker 2: it was like a female artist that was trying to

1477
01:12:04,960 --> 01:12:06,559
Speaker 2: get him on the record or trying to get a

1478
01:12:06,600 --> 01:12:08,760
Speaker 2: record clear or something like that, and they were trying

1479
01:12:08,760 --> 01:12:11,400
Speaker 2: to like drag him for that, and so I was

1480
01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:14,200
Speaker 2: a little bit, you know, apprehensive about it at first,

1481
01:12:14,240 --> 01:12:15,640
Speaker 2: but then it's like when I met him, it was

1482
01:12:15,720 --> 01:12:18,160
Speaker 2: he was completely experience with him.

1483
01:12:18,240 --> 01:12:19,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was never my experience.

1484
01:12:20,240 --> 01:12:22,479
Speaker 2: And you know, like even when the record came out,

1485
01:12:22,520 --> 01:12:25,519
Speaker 2: he supported it, he posted it, he reposted the video, like,

1486
01:12:25,600 --> 01:12:27,759
Speaker 2: you know, you can't pay for that kind of stuff

1487
01:12:27,800 --> 01:12:28,439
Speaker 2: because you know what a.

1488
01:12:28,439 --> 01:12:30,479
Speaker 1: Lot of times, just because you collaborate with somebody, they

1489
01:12:30,479 --> 01:12:33,599
Speaker 1: don't be reposting shit. They don't tag, they don't they

1490
01:12:33,600 --> 01:12:36,479
Speaker 1: don't do nothing. So it's like just getting them to

1491
01:12:36,520 --> 01:12:39,360
Speaker 1: collaborate with you was only half the battle, because it's

1492
01:12:39,360 --> 01:12:41,400
Speaker 1: like are they gonna repost it? Are they gonna let

1493
01:12:41,479 --> 01:12:43,960
Speaker 1: their fan base know that they did something with you?

1494
01:12:44,840 --> 01:12:47,040
Speaker 1: Especially like me where it's like, you know, he had

1495
01:12:47,080 --> 01:12:48,600
Speaker 1: a list artist. You know, he was one of the

1496
01:12:48,640 --> 01:12:50,360
Speaker 1: top stream people period.

1497
01:12:51,360 --> 01:12:54,360
Speaker 2: You know, I'm just getting my free with right, I

1498
01:12:54,479 --> 01:12:56,759
Speaker 2: just you know, I really appreciated that from the bottom

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01:12:56,800 --> 01:12:57,160
Speaker 2: of my heart.

1500
01:12:57,280 --> 01:12:59,080
Speaker 1: Okay, y'all go stream Diana. Yea.

1501
01:12:59,280 --> 01:13:01,200
Speaker 2: Only he was then, you know, like because the people

1502
01:13:01,360 --> 01:13:02,720
Speaker 2: be like, oh, she probably fucked him for that.

1503
01:13:02,840 --> 01:13:04,280
Speaker 1: He wasn't even knowing that type of time.

1504
01:13:06,360 --> 01:13:08,479
Speaker 2: You know, we got to clear the atcha for real,

1505
01:13:08,680 --> 01:13:10,720
Speaker 2: Like I know that one of the ones where it's

1506
01:13:10,760 --> 01:13:15,000
Speaker 2: just it was very professional good. I was still talking

1507
01:13:15,000 --> 01:13:17,240
Speaker 2: about music. I do want to ask you, like, who

1508
01:13:17,280 --> 01:13:20,240
Speaker 2: is your favorite for female rappers of all time? Like

1509
01:13:20,320 --> 01:13:21,920
Speaker 2: your mount rushmore women?

1510
01:13:22,200 --> 01:13:30,400
Speaker 1: Okay, so like the obvious this Lil Kim, Fridy, Nikki,

1511
01:13:31,600 --> 01:13:37,000
Speaker 1: you'll one left now that's always the wild card. How

1512
01:13:37,040 --> 01:13:37,920
Speaker 1: I'm feeling the other day.

1513
01:13:39,280 --> 01:13:44,440
Speaker 2: Hmmm, artists or rappers, because you know it's a difference.

1514
01:13:44,040 --> 01:13:46,719
Speaker 1: And it's a big difference. Let's stick to rap. Let's

1515
01:13:46,720 --> 01:13:53,120
Speaker 1: do rappers lyricist rappers. Mmmm, dang it, I'm gonna be

1516
01:13:53,160 --> 01:13:58,840
Speaker 1: mad when I watched his back and me, okay, I

1517
01:13:58,960 --> 01:14:01,280
Speaker 1: like that, that's the one. I'm not gonna lie minus

1518
01:14:01,280 --> 01:14:05,760
Speaker 1: pretty much the same. Uh definitely Nikki up there, little

1519
01:14:05,840 --> 01:14:11,960
Speaker 1: Kim like that's not h yeah, not a question for me.

1520
01:14:13,400 --> 01:14:16,840
Speaker 1: I think, like I said, I'm a little Eve. I

1521
01:14:16,880 --> 01:14:18,920
Speaker 1: gotta put Eve in there for my I can still

1522
01:14:19,000 --> 01:14:22,200
Speaker 1: run to this day. And let me tell y'all something

1523
01:14:22,840 --> 01:14:25,439
Speaker 1: I'm getting missed on the show would.

1524
01:14:25,240 --> 01:14:29,360
Speaker 2: Be artist, though rapper a rapper, But she's like, I

1525
01:14:29,360 --> 01:14:30,759
Speaker 2: don't even put her in the thing.

1526
01:14:30,880 --> 01:14:37,000
Speaker 1: Yea, she says she. But when I tell y'all, when

1527
01:14:37,000 --> 01:14:40,320
Speaker 1: I say I was raised on Missy, I was raised

1528
01:14:40,400 --> 01:14:43,559
Speaker 1: on Missy like FLA was my first album ever. Her

1529
01:14:43,680 --> 01:14:46,200
Speaker 1: and Timberland, Like remember y'all remember that bar when she

1530
01:14:46,200 --> 01:14:55,200
Speaker 1: said me with no Timberland is like Timberland was different, different.

1531
01:14:55,240 --> 01:14:59,040
Speaker 1: I don't even put like I put her like she's

1532
01:14:59,080 --> 01:15:01,080
Speaker 1: the superior. Y'all better come get you one of these.

1533
01:15:01,560 --> 01:15:02,400
Speaker 1: She one of the people.

1534
01:15:02,479 --> 01:15:04,360
Speaker 2: I mean again, like if you want to get female

1535
01:15:04,439 --> 01:15:06,280
Speaker 2: artists together, that's who you would call.

1536
01:15:06,400 --> 01:15:08,840
Speaker 1: Man. Missy Elliott is so different and it's just crazy

1537
01:15:08,880 --> 01:15:10,800
Speaker 1: because I had seen something a long time ago where

1538
01:15:10,840 --> 01:15:13,720
Speaker 1: like somebody had disrespected her. She responded to it, and

1539
01:15:13,760 --> 01:15:16,040
Speaker 1: I was just like, that's why I hate this younger

1540
01:15:16,080 --> 01:15:20,000
Speaker 1: generation because y'all just don't know what Missy has done.

1541
01:15:20,120 --> 01:15:22,320
Speaker 1: What is she saying? I can't even remember what it was.

1542
01:15:22,439 --> 01:15:24,439
Speaker 1: What could you say? Yeah? But I think it was

1543
01:15:24,439 --> 01:15:27,280
Speaker 1: just somebody young being like, oh something something they said

1544
01:15:27,280 --> 01:15:30,320
Speaker 1: something to it was stupid. That's how I didn't even

1545
01:15:30,320 --> 01:15:32,960
Speaker 1: remember what the comment was, but it was just so crazy.

1546
01:15:32,960 --> 01:15:35,240
Speaker 1: But everybody started getting on. That person asked was like,

1547
01:15:35,560 --> 01:15:38,519
Speaker 1: do you realize you don't know who you talking to.

1548
01:15:38,720 --> 01:15:44,600
Speaker 1: Missy fucking Elliott Catalog the catalog insane, insane, So you

1549
01:15:44,800 --> 01:15:48,240
Speaker 1: yeat So that would be that would be mine. Okay, Yeah,

1550
01:15:49,280 --> 01:15:52,120
Speaker 1: Like if we're doing it like that, then yeah, I

1551
01:15:52,120 --> 01:15:55,120
Speaker 1: gotta go Missy, what about you or what's your I feel.

1552
01:15:54,760 --> 01:15:57,559
Speaker 2: Like y'all said everybody nobody else for me to add

1553
01:15:57,600 --> 01:16:01,519
Speaker 2: in there now again like they can taxis, No, I

1554
01:16:01,520 --> 01:16:03,800
Speaker 2: wanted to add one. And Beyonce it's a rapper now,

1555
01:16:04,560 --> 01:16:07,520
Speaker 2: it's not a reference Beyoncet.

1556
01:16:07,880 --> 01:16:11,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's she's an artist. Beyonce be rapping. Bro when

1557
01:16:11,400 --> 01:16:13,400
Speaker 1: she what was that song that she gave me your husband?

1558
01:16:13,400 --> 01:16:16,559
Speaker 2: It's like it's dropped that all the song that was

1559
01:16:16,600 --> 01:16:19,439
Speaker 2: on the Beyonce album that came out in twenty thirteen,

1560
01:16:21,080 --> 01:16:21,639
Speaker 2: The Age.

1561
01:16:22,280 --> 01:16:24,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, she was rapping and the girls was mad. She

1562
01:16:24,840 --> 01:16:30,639
Speaker 1: was she had everybody mad, diamonds on my neck. God on, Beyonce,

1563
01:16:30,800 --> 01:16:33,280
Speaker 1: it's a rapper. I'm not trying to be funny, Like

1564
01:16:33,520 --> 01:16:35,200
Speaker 1: we don't have a lot of people that come out

1565
01:16:35,240 --> 01:16:38,160
Speaker 1: of Houston really get out. So it's like beyond say,

1566
01:16:38,320 --> 01:16:40,959
Speaker 1: of course, like trying to scott female rappers.

1567
01:16:41,200 --> 01:16:43,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean right, now we got like we got

1568
01:16:43,720 --> 01:16:45,479
Speaker 2: Ken and the man that's my baby.

1569
01:16:46,760 --> 01:16:49,439
Speaker 1: Let me say about something right now about Ken. Ken

1570
01:16:49,800 --> 01:16:52,519
Speaker 1: is the hardest female rapper in Houston. And I'm not

1571
01:16:52,600 --> 01:16:57,960
Speaker 1: kidding that is not crazy. Ken rap so smooth and

1572
01:16:58,000 --> 01:17:00,759
Speaker 1: it's so authentic everything.

1573
01:17:00,880 --> 01:17:08,000
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Like we did the hip hop cipher. Yeah,

1574
01:17:08,080 --> 01:17:11,519
Speaker 2: and I'm like, yo, like she's different smoking yeah, like

1575
01:17:11,800 --> 01:17:15,360
Speaker 2: and she's so hard, she's so sweet, she's so sweet

1576
01:17:15,479 --> 01:17:17,000
Speaker 2: like yeah.

1577
01:17:16,640 --> 01:17:18,000
Speaker 1: And that's why I said, not a lot of people

1578
01:17:18,080 --> 01:17:20,960
Speaker 1: really like Houston know them. It's like I feel like

1579
01:17:21,120 --> 01:17:23,519
Speaker 1: I really want him to be yeah, loneo.

1580
01:17:24,040 --> 01:17:27,559
Speaker 2: She got like, but it's a difference between like a

1581
01:17:27,600 --> 01:17:29,960
Speaker 2: famous artist and a streaming artist. Yeah, you can go

1582
01:17:30,120 --> 01:17:32,519
Speaker 2: and check kin thing and she doing like damn near

1583
01:17:32,560 --> 01:17:36,880
Speaker 2: a million you know yeah every month, right, you know consistently.

1584
01:17:37,080 --> 01:17:39,559
Speaker 2: You may have a person that may be popular and

1585
01:17:39,600 --> 01:17:41,200
Speaker 2: they have that one song that's.

1586
01:17:41,040 --> 01:17:42,960
Speaker 1: Doing and then the rest of the s is like

1587
01:17:43,120 --> 01:17:46,320
Speaker 1: quiet agree. And that's why I feel like, like I said,

1588
01:17:46,600 --> 01:17:48,280
Speaker 1: Houston don't really have a lot of artists that like

1589
01:17:48,320 --> 01:17:49,800
Speaker 1: make it out. And I'm talking about like the new

1590
01:17:49,800 --> 01:17:52,160
Speaker 1: school artists, like we have all like the ogs and stuff.

1591
01:17:52,200 --> 01:17:56,120
Speaker 1: It's like speaking for women. It's really only like Megan

1592
01:17:56,160 --> 01:17:59,840
Speaker 1: Beyonce that's like super mainstream, you know, that's really it.

1593
01:18:00,640 --> 01:18:05,200
Speaker 1: So and y'all know I'm a hotty period, so yeah,

1594
01:18:05,280 --> 01:18:07,519
Speaker 1: maybe doing her thing. But I feel like, now, let

1595
01:18:07,560 --> 01:18:09,639
Speaker 1: me ask you this, because look, this is how we do.

1596
01:18:09,720 --> 01:18:12,160
Speaker 1: We get a little off topic. Do you feel like

1597
01:18:12,880 --> 01:18:17,479
Speaker 1: writing your own raps is important for music these days?

1598
01:18:18,040 --> 01:18:19,960
Speaker 2: And depending on what kind of music you're doing, right,

1599
01:18:20,240 --> 01:18:22,360
Speaker 2: if you're trying to make Billboard hits and songs and

1600
01:18:22,360 --> 01:18:24,799
Speaker 2: stuff like that, I don't think that's the main focus

1601
01:18:25,040 --> 01:18:27,840
Speaker 2: because you know, you got songwriters that come in and

1602
01:18:27,880 --> 01:18:31,160
Speaker 2: may do hooks and stuff like that. But like in

1603
01:18:31,560 --> 01:18:35,360
Speaker 2: my element, it's like people pride you off of having bars,

1604
01:18:35,400 --> 01:18:37,479
Speaker 2: so if you're not writing them, then it's kind of

1605
01:18:37,560 --> 01:18:39,880
Speaker 2: like what's the fucking boys.

1606
01:18:40,160 --> 01:18:42,679
Speaker 1: Run on your bars every line? I know that's right,

1607
01:18:43,040 --> 01:18:44,320
Speaker 1: but I'm not opposed.

1608
01:18:43,960 --> 01:18:45,559
Speaker 2: To having writers, like if I want to get in

1609
01:18:45,560 --> 01:18:48,519
Speaker 2: that lane, and I want to y'all like me, you know,

1610
01:18:48,800 --> 01:18:52,360
Speaker 2: but I also pride myself on trying to like learn

1611
01:18:52,439 --> 01:18:55,000
Speaker 2: as an artist too, and I want to learn how

1612
01:18:55,040 --> 01:18:57,439
Speaker 2: to create songs. I want to, you know, be around

1613
01:18:57,479 --> 01:19:00,360
Speaker 2: songwriters and not just sit back and let's hear me

1614
01:19:00,360 --> 01:19:02,400
Speaker 2: a piece of paper. I want to like get into

1615
01:19:02,439 --> 01:19:05,400
Speaker 2: the creative process because I feel like music hit different

1616
01:19:05,479 --> 01:19:08,439
Speaker 2: when you connect with it, it's coming from you, you

1617
01:19:08,520 --> 01:19:09,160
Speaker 2: being because.

1618
01:19:09,000 --> 01:19:10,640
Speaker 1: That goes into what we were talking about earlier, like

1619
01:19:10,680 --> 01:19:13,240
Speaker 1: being your authentic self, because I'm not gonna lie. I

1620
01:19:13,240 --> 01:19:15,920
Speaker 1: think Cardi B said this one time. She was like, no,

1621
01:19:15,960 --> 01:19:17,519
Speaker 1: I don't write all my music all the time, but

1622
01:19:17,560 --> 01:19:19,800
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get y'all fucking lit and I'm not

1623
01:19:19,800 --> 01:19:23,559
Speaker 1: gonna lie. Cardi gonna get up that tomorrow. Two verse.

1624
01:19:23,720 --> 01:19:26,240
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck who wrote that. Bitch, she's

1625
01:19:26,280 --> 01:19:29,000
Speaker 1: slid on that hole. She got all the niggas talking

1626
01:19:29,000 --> 01:19:41,840
Speaker 1: about like come on now, niggas again.

1627
01:19:37,640 --> 01:19:40,599
Speaker 2: Like it coming from her, I think that it makes

1628
01:19:40,640 --> 01:19:42,800
Speaker 2: sense and I feel like, you know, the teina she

1629
01:19:42,840 --> 01:19:46,240
Speaker 2: has around her is making her more like an entertainer,

1630
01:19:46,400 --> 01:19:50,519
Speaker 2: all around entertainer, because you know, when we when she

1631
01:19:50,560 --> 01:19:53,360
Speaker 2: first came on the scene, it was like we loved

1632
01:19:53,400 --> 01:19:55,000
Speaker 2: Carti for just her being Cardi.

1633
01:19:56,600 --> 01:19:58,559
Speaker 1: It's like, so it's easy to like anything that.

1634
01:19:58,560 --> 01:20:01,439
Speaker 2: She do any fucking way. It's like, it don't matter

1635
01:20:01,439 --> 01:20:03,160
Speaker 2: what she do, I'm gonna fuck with it. I'm gonna

1636
01:20:03,200 --> 01:20:08,240
Speaker 2: support it because I but no, like her music is

1637
01:20:08,280 --> 01:20:11,200
Speaker 2: fired and you can't the you know, hits is undeniable.

1638
01:20:11,320 --> 01:20:16,519
Speaker 2: It's so I think. But you've got other girls that

1639
01:20:16,560 --> 01:20:18,000
Speaker 2: tried to do it. It ain't really work out.

1640
01:20:18,880 --> 01:20:22,000
Speaker 1: And that's what I hate, because give people they props

1641
01:20:22,080 --> 01:20:24,840
Speaker 1: because this verse may have been written for her, but

1642
01:20:24,880 --> 01:20:27,120
Speaker 1: if somebody would have wrote it for you, you're not

1643
01:20:27,160 --> 01:20:30,240
Speaker 1: gonna give that same delivery, right, I don't care like you.

1644
01:20:32,080 --> 01:20:34,200
Speaker 2: Like they tried to give that to I think, like

1645
01:20:35,280 --> 01:20:38,439
Speaker 2: some country singer that didn't work. Umbrella was supposed to

1646
01:20:38,479 --> 01:20:41,479
Speaker 2: be for Britney Spears, you know, like it's so many

1647
01:20:41,720 --> 01:20:44,040
Speaker 2: like when it comes to that artist thing, some certain

1648
01:20:44,040 --> 01:20:46,320
Speaker 2: people just put a certain little stink on it and

1649
01:20:46,360 --> 01:20:47,080
Speaker 2: it just make.

1650
01:20:47,000 --> 01:20:47,679
Speaker 1: It a little different.

1651
01:20:47,720 --> 01:20:49,920
Speaker 2: I think, even when it's on Twitter the other day

1652
01:20:49,960 --> 01:20:52,080
Speaker 2: with that song so into You by to Me, I

1653
01:20:52,120 --> 01:20:54,920
Speaker 2: guess they had gave it to Beyonce first, and of course,

1654
01:20:54,960 --> 01:20:57,679
Speaker 2: you know we all love Beyonce, but ended up being

1655
01:20:57,680 --> 01:20:59,840
Speaker 2: to me a song and like that's the only way

1656
01:21:00,160 --> 01:21:03,520
Speaker 2: it sound right.

1657
01:21:04,720 --> 01:21:06,960
Speaker 1: And that happens with movies too, y'all know. Will Smith

1658
01:21:07,040 --> 01:21:10,200
Speaker 1: was originally supposed to be in the Matrix. He was

1659
01:21:10,200 --> 01:21:11,960
Speaker 1: originally supposed to be in the Matrix. He was supposed

1660
01:21:12,000 --> 01:21:14,280
Speaker 1: to be Yeah, he was supposed to be neo and

1661
01:21:14,320 --> 01:21:19,240
Speaker 1: get he he slid on it. For Wild Wild West, y'all,

1662
01:21:19,240 --> 01:21:24,400
Speaker 1: Will I should slept, but I'm you make it, But

1663
01:21:24,680 --> 01:21:29,280
Speaker 1: I cannot see was a Wild Wild movie? Because I

1664
01:21:29,320 --> 01:21:30,160
Speaker 1: know he hated that movie.

1665
01:21:30,200 --> 01:21:32,559
Speaker 2: I actually read Will smith book and he was talking

1666
01:21:32,600 --> 01:21:37,400
Speaker 2: about his whole trajectory like or trajectory like as far

1667
01:21:37,439 --> 01:21:42,200
Speaker 2: as his art. He wanted to do all box office hits,

1668
01:21:42,600 --> 01:21:45,320
Speaker 2: and so he said the formula to box office hits

1669
01:21:45,400 --> 01:21:50,320
Speaker 2: was either sci fi. I think he said, like it

1670
01:21:50,400 --> 01:21:52,240
Speaker 2: had to have some kind of special effects in it,

1671
01:21:52,280 --> 01:21:54,439
Speaker 2: which is why he did Men in Black and all

1672
01:21:54,479 --> 01:21:55,080
Speaker 2: of that or whatever.

1673
01:21:55,160 --> 01:21:57,160
Speaker 1: Wild West was one of them. What was the movie

1674
01:21:57,200 --> 01:22:02,720
Speaker 1: that he had? He was a superhero, not leg oh Handcock,

1675
01:22:02,800 --> 01:22:04,280
Speaker 1: Yeah that's my movie. Bitch.

1676
01:22:04,320 --> 01:22:07,759
Speaker 2: Hancock was good, but in the one with the robots robot,

1677
01:22:07,920 --> 01:22:09,280
Speaker 2: he was like it had to be a C. G

1678
01:22:09,360 --> 01:22:11,680
Speaker 2: I thing or or it wasn't going to be a hit.

1679
01:22:11,720 --> 01:22:13,799
Speaker 2: So I think he was just kind of following a formula.

1680
01:22:13,800 --> 01:22:16,479
Speaker 1: But I hate that movie. I mean, we all do.

1681
01:22:16,920 --> 01:22:22,000
Speaker 1: I like I like that. I like that song with Cisco.

1682
01:22:22,320 --> 01:22:28,960
Speaker 1: We're going stream to the w I don't think that

1683
01:22:29,040 --> 01:22:33,400
Speaker 1: it was as bad as I love it. I love

1684
01:22:33,520 --> 01:22:36,400
Speaker 1: Western movies, but it just it wasn't given. It was

1685
01:22:36,439 --> 01:22:39,000
Speaker 1: too they were trying to make it too futuristic. When

1686
01:22:39,040 --> 01:22:41,160
Speaker 1: I want to see a Western movie, bitch, I want

1687
01:22:41,160 --> 01:22:45,280
Speaker 1: to see a Western movie. Fall. Oh my god, we

1688
01:22:45,360 --> 01:22:48,200
Speaker 1: talked about that harder they Fall was so good. I

1689
01:22:48,240 --> 01:22:52,120
Speaker 1: love Jonathan Major's Jonathan Major's agent is the hardest working

1690
01:22:52,320 --> 01:22:55,799
Speaker 1: man or woman in the world. That Nigga isn't every

1691
01:22:56,120 --> 01:22:58,800
Speaker 1: I can't even turn on nothing without seeing that man.

1692
01:22:59,640 --> 01:23:01,600
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm glad. Like when you said, like

1693
01:23:01,640 --> 01:23:04,599
Speaker 1: CARTI has the perfect team, you know what, you can

1694
01:23:04,640 --> 01:23:07,880
Speaker 1: be as talented as fuck. It's all the ways about

1695
01:23:07,920 --> 01:23:10,920
Speaker 1: the people around you, because you're only as strong as

1696
01:23:10,960 --> 01:23:14,200
Speaker 1: your weakest player are. So if you got a solid

1697
01:23:14,280 --> 01:23:16,800
Speaker 1: team of motherfuckers that want to see you win, you're

1698
01:23:16,800 --> 01:23:20,080
Speaker 1: gonna make it because you're already talented with that hard work.

1699
01:23:20,120 --> 01:23:22,280
Speaker 1: And then you got hard working people around you, right,

1700
01:23:24,000 --> 01:23:26,360
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, Yes, I think you know. And it's

1701
01:23:26,400 --> 01:23:29,040
Speaker 1: crazy because I say this because with us we had

1702
01:23:29,080 --> 01:23:31,320
Speaker 1: so many I'm not gonna say so many, but we

1703
01:23:31,400 --> 01:23:36,000
Speaker 1: had opportunities that passed us and that we thought that

1704
01:23:36,080 --> 01:23:38,760
Speaker 1: we wanted, and then we had people approaching us with

1705
01:23:39,280 --> 01:23:42,880
Speaker 1: deals and a lot of things just didn't make sense,

1706
01:23:42,920 --> 01:23:44,400
Speaker 1: you know. And I feel like when we signed with

1707
01:23:44,479 --> 01:23:47,200
Speaker 1: eighty five and made sense like what we wanted to

1708
01:23:47,200 --> 01:23:50,000
Speaker 1: do because we're not giving up this ip, yes, and

1709
01:23:50,200 --> 01:23:53,120
Speaker 1: I allow you the line. We know we always valued

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01:23:53,160 --> 01:23:55,599
Speaker 1: ourselves because we know what we have. Because no, our

1711
01:23:55,640 --> 01:23:58,320
Speaker 1: podcast ain't number one out of all the podcasts, but

1712
01:23:58,400 --> 01:24:01,200
Speaker 1: we are. I'm all about the slow, slow and steady.

1713
01:24:01,120 --> 01:24:03,960
Speaker 2: Right, And you got people again, that's like it's not

1714
01:24:04,200 --> 01:24:08,320
Speaker 2: y'all don't have to get a super like celebrity on

1715
01:24:08,479 --> 01:24:10,799
Speaker 2: here for it to be like I read you'all comments

1716
01:24:10,800 --> 01:24:12,759
Speaker 2: all the time, like people love when it's just y'all

1717
01:24:12,760 --> 01:24:16,320
Speaker 2: two Like they love like y'all banter, y'all back and

1718
01:24:16,320 --> 01:24:17,280
Speaker 2: forth and just the things that.

1719
01:24:17,320 --> 01:24:19,679
Speaker 1: Y'all talking about. It's a friendship. It's different, and it's

1720
01:24:19,720 --> 01:24:21,840
Speaker 1: like one thing about it is like you know, we

1721
01:24:21,880 --> 01:24:23,400
Speaker 1: always talk about this. We used to have to show

1722
01:24:23,400 --> 01:24:26,040
Speaker 1: and we hated each other and we was not getting along.

1723
01:24:26,080 --> 01:24:30,839
Speaker 2: But it's like you know, family screaming them episodes are wet,

1724
01:24:33,360 --> 01:24:37,840
Speaker 2: but because you know, what what jay Z said, nobody.

1725
01:24:37,479 --> 01:24:42,240
Speaker 1: Wind mad at how mad as fu.

1726
01:24:43,439 --> 01:24:45,840
Speaker 2: We're like, okay, gorong, but y'all wouldn't be able to

1727
01:24:45,880 --> 01:24:47,080
Speaker 2: appreciate where y'all at now.

1728
01:24:47,320 --> 01:24:49,519
Speaker 1: And that's the start. And that's what I said. Like that,

1729
01:24:49,640 --> 01:24:52,000
Speaker 1: jay Z bar he said, nobody wins when the family feuds.

1730
01:24:52,080 --> 01:24:55,680
Speaker 1: Family gonna fight. Yeah, it happens. It's life. It just

1731
01:24:55,840 --> 01:24:58,559
Speaker 1: is what it is. So yeah, y'all, I can't see

1732
01:24:58,560 --> 01:25:01,000
Speaker 1: one without the other. Like I think both of y'all

1733
01:25:01,040 --> 01:25:05,360
Speaker 1: are like singularly like this, look our money even we're

1734
01:25:05,360 --> 01:25:09,599
Speaker 1: finish in the studio together. I'm singing. Let me sing

1735
01:25:09,640 --> 01:25:13,599
Speaker 1: a little. Let her in the studio, she asked.

1736
01:25:13,840 --> 01:25:17,320
Speaker 2: Everybody they do music that come on this show, go

1737
01:25:17,560 --> 01:25:19,760
Speaker 2: to the studio, and everybody telling her yes, And I.

1738
01:25:26,439 --> 01:25:29,439
Speaker 1: Like, turn her mic down, turn her mic down some more.

1739
01:25:32,240 --> 01:25:35,920
Speaker 1: I'm it's gonna be a little snippy. It's gonna be

1740
01:25:36,080 --> 01:25:39,639
Speaker 1: all like this. It's gonna being before she actually starts singing,

1741
01:25:40,000 --> 01:25:49,160
Speaker 1: I'd be like that. I like this feature re feed. Okay,

1742
01:25:49,280 --> 01:25:51,439
Speaker 1: do we have the voicemail today or no? We don't

1743
01:25:51,439 --> 01:25:53,439
Speaker 1: have the voicemail that okay, So we're gonna get into

1744
01:25:53,560 --> 01:25:57,080
Speaker 1: our favorite segment of the week. Just pour your heart

1745
01:25:57,320 --> 01:25:58,479
Speaker 1: just pour your heart out.

1746
01:25:58,640 --> 01:26:01,200
Speaker 2: So if y'all have any questions, y'all can always send

1747
01:26:01,240 --> 01:26:04,240
Speaker 2: them to ask poor minds at gmail dot com A

1748
01:26:04,439 --> 01:26:07,200
Speaker 2: s K P O U R in my NDAs at

1749
01:26:07,560 --> 01:26:13,240
Speaker 2: gmail dot com. Sending your questions, sending your testimonials, because

1750
01:26:13,280 --> 01:26:15,280
Speaker 2: sometimes we be fucking y'all life up two and.

1751
01:26:15,320 --> 01:26:17,120
Speaker 1: We want to know about this too? Was the y'all

1752
01:26:17,160 --> 01:26:19,800
Speaker 1: a question? Oh yeah, look, you gotta send it to

1753
01:26:19,800 --> 01:26:22,920
Speaker 1: our text so we can. You gonna really skip the line, right,

1754
01:26:23,120 --> 01:26:26,360
Speaker 1: But Dre, let me say this the voicemail, somebody sent

1755
01:26:26,439 --> 01:26:30,280
Speaker 1: me the cutest name. What did they say? Shot line? Oh,

1756
01:26:31,160 --> 01:26:34,559
Speaker 1: isn't that cute? For the segment. I'm gonna shout her

1757
01:26:34,600 --> 01:26:37,439
Speaker 1: out whenever we do the voice time. So but she

1758
01:26:37,760 --> 01:26:44,120
Speaker 1: be like, oh look you can get a shot at those. Okay,

1759
01:26:45,000 --> 01:26:47,719
Speaker 1: all right, so let's get into the first question. Okay,

1760
01:26:48,680 --> 01:26:52,439
Speaker 1: so look, excuse my reading, y'all see blaming on time.

1761
01:26:52,520 --> 01:26:56,080
Speaker 1: She just brought me another drink. Okay, Question number one, Hey,

1762
01:26:56,160 --> 01:26:58,960
Speaker 1: Dre and Lex love the show. Y'all are like true

1763
01:26:59,000 --> 01:27:01,400
Speaker 1: big sisters that I know had I'll watch you guys

1764
01:27:01,560 --> 01:27:04,280
Speaker 1: every Friday. But okay, let's get to the real. So

1765
01:27:04,479 --> 01:27:06,519
Speaker 1: I'm twenty two years old and I found out some

1766
01:27:06,760 --> 01:27:09,880
Speaker 1: very upsetting news about a previous partner of mine about

1767
01:27:09,960 --> 01:27:13,280
Speaker 1: a year ago. I've been escaping from reality just day

1768
01:27:13,360 --> 01:27:15,920
Speaker 1: by day because now I have a life I have

1769
01:27:16,160 --> 01:27:19,200
Speaker 1: to provide for long story short, I found out I

1770
01:27:19,320 --> 01:27:25,160
Speaker 1: was HIV positive during my pregnancy, which obviously was disturbing news. Instantly,

1771
01:27:25,320 --> 01:27:27,680
Speaker 1: all thoughts just started rushing through my head because I

1772
01:27:27,760 --> 01:27:30,479
Speaker 1: trusted someone, and not only did I trust them, it

1773
01:27:30,560 --> 01:27:33,519
Speaker 1: feels like they just practically ruined my life. I was

1774
01:27:33,600 --> 01:27:36,680
Speaker 1: twenty one when I was diagnosed, and now I'm on

1775
01:27:36,800 --> 01:27:39,280
Speaker 1: my way to being twenty three. I yet still have

1776
01:27:40,000 --> 01:27:42,479
Speaker 1: I yet to still have dated because let's face it,

1777
01:27:42,800 --> 01:27:45,679
Speaker 1: the real world fucking sucks. Who would think I'm worth

1778
01:27:45,880 --> 01:27:49,960
Speaker 1: that risk or even a conversation. You know, I'm not contagious,

1779
01:27:50,080 --> 01:27:52,799
Speaker 1: I'm not disgusting. I'm just a normal girl like anyone

1780
01:27:52,880 --> 01:27:55,280
Speaker 1: else who just got with the wrong guy. I never

1781
01:27:55,320 --> 01:27:58,120
Speaker 1: thought it could happen to me, you know, especially here

1782
01:27:58,360 --> 01:28:01,479
Speaker 1: at this age. I struggle every day with my appearance

1783
01:28:01,640 --> 01:28:04,200
Speaker 1: or just getting up day by day thinking of reasons

1784
01:28:04,240 --> 01:28:06,600
Speaker 1: to still be here. I'm sorry, I'm making it a

1785
01:28:06,720 --> 01:28:09,560
Speaker 1: little depressing, but it's just the truth. So leading to

1786
01:28:09,640 --> 01:28:11,960
Speaker 1: the question, do you think it could still be real

1787
01:28:12,080 --> 01:28:14,200
Speaker 1: love out there for me? Do I have a chance

1788
01:28:14,320 --> 01:28:16,960
Speaker 1: or should I just face reality of possibly being alone

1789
01:28:17,280 --> 01:28:19,759
Speaker 1: considering how much sedating pool already sucks.

1790
01:28:21,439 --> 01:28:24,479
Speaker 2: I feel like, you know, you just have to take

1791
01:28:24,560 --> 01:28:27,000
Speaker 2: things day by day. You have to take things step

1792
01:28:27,080 --> 01:28:29,559
Speaker 2: at a time. And I do feel like you could

1793
01:28:29,560 --> 01:28:30,479
Speaker 2: still find love.

1794
01:28:30,640 --> 01:28:31,160
Speaker 3: You know they have.

1795
01:28:31,640 --> 01:28:33,519
Speaker 1: I feel like, if anything, I'm not sure if you've

1796
01:28:33,560 --> 01:28:35,400
Speaker 1: done this, but I know they don't. They have like

1797
01:28:35,520 --> 01:28:36,360
Speaker 1: groups and stuff.

1798
01:28:36,800 --> 01:28:39,200
Speaker 2: You have to find your community, yeah, and I feel

1799
01:28:39,240 --> 01:28:40,840
Speaker 2: like you can absolutely still find love.

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01:28:40,880 --> 01:28:43,040
Speaker 1: You shouldn't feel like you can't find real love because

1801
01:28:43,080 --> 01:28:45,000
Speaker 1: this happened to you. I have a friend that's HIV

1802
01:28:45,160 --> 01:28:49,840
Speaker 1: positive and he's been knowing for years and he he's

1803
01:28:49,880 --> 01:28:52,080
Speaker 1: probably been with his boyfriend for about three years now,

1804
01:28:52,680 --> 01:28:55,800
Speaker 1: and his boyfriend is negative and he's positive and they

1805
01:28:55,840 --> 01:28:59,120
Speaker 1: have a very healthy relationship. You have to find your community,

1806
01:28:59,200 --> 01:29:01,240
Speaker 1: and you have to be honest. Now, you need to

1807
01:29:01,360 --> 01:29:03,439
Speaker 1: understand that you're dating is going to be different than

1808
01:29:03,479 --> 01:29:06,840
Speaker 1: the average person. So you can't just go on a

1809
01:29:06,920 --> 01:29:09,920
Speaker 1: date with somebody and just disclose that information and not

1810
01:29:10,080 --> 01:29:13,120
Speaker 1: disclose that information, you know what I'm saying. So dating

1811
01:29:13,320 --> 01:29:16,120
Speaker 1: is going to be different for you, but it's definitely

1812
01:29:16,640 --> 01:29:21,040
Speaker 1: possible because y'all need to understand how far medicine has advanced,

1813
01:29:21,120 --> 01:29:23,240
Speaker 1: you know. But you also need to give a person

1814
01:29:23,320 --> 01:29:25,360
Speaker 1: that option if they want to deal with you or not.

1815
01:29:26,040 --> 01:29:29,320
Speaker 1: So I think you need to be okay with understanding

1816
01:29:29,360 --> 01:29:32,160
Speaker 1: that that's not for everybody to deal with, right, And

1817
01:29:32,320 --> 01:29:34,799
Speaker 1: so you have to be a little bit okay with rejection.

1818
01:29:35,640 --> 01:29:38,759
Speaker 1: But you just also just have to have faith and community.

1819
01:29:38,840 --> 01:29:42,680
Speaker 2: Community is find you some stuff and be around supportive,

1820
01:29:42,800 --> 01:29:46,320
Speaker 2: positive people, right, you know, people who speak life into

1821
01:29:46,400 --> 01:29:47,960
Speaker 2: you because.

1822
01:29:47,600 --> 01:29:48,240
Speaker 1: They get money.

1823
01:29:48,600 --> 01:29:51,080
Speaker 2: I think, and I tell all my friends that this

1824
01:29:51,200 --> 01:29:54,160
Speaker 2: is even for myself because most of my friends didn't

1825
01:29:54,160 --> 01:29:59,960
Speaker 2: go anyway. I think that we like give so much

1826
01:30:00,000 --> 01:30:01,560
Speaker 2: and that's to get too spiritual. But I feel like

1827
01:30:02,200 --> 01:30:04,720
Speaker 2: we don't put limits on God when it comes to

1828
01:30:04,800 --> 01:30:07,040
Speaker 2: our careers, when it comes to things that we want

1829
01:30:07,080 --> 01:30:10,160
Speaker 2: to obtain, and I think that the same is true

1830
01:30:10,200 --> 01:30:12,760
Speaker 2: for relationships and somebody. For you, I feel like that

1831
01:30:12,920 --> 01:30:15,080
Speaker 2: that's on your heart and that's something that you really want.

1832
01:30:15,479 --> 01:30:17,280
Speaker 2: I think that you know, you have to change your

1833
01:30:17,320 --> 01:30:19,639
Speaker 2: belief system thinking that it's nobody out here that will

1834
01:30:19,760 --> 01:30:22,439
Speaker 2: accept you, and be open to the fact that there's

1835
01:30:22,600 --> 01:30:26,000
Speaker 2: somebody out here for everyone, and you'll be able to

1836
01:30:26,120 --> 01:30:29,240
Speaker 2: recognize when those people arise, right and you'll start putting

1837
01:30:29,280 --> 01:30:34,000
Speaker 2: yourself in those places where those people are. Obviously you

1838
01:30:34,120 --> 01:30:36,640
Speaker 2: have to be a lot more careful. But let's be real, like,

1839
01:30:36,760 --> 01:30:38,960
Speaker 2: according to the statistics, you not alone.

1840
01:30:40,240 --> 01:30:42,840
Speaker 1: You're very much not alone. So I think you know,

1841
01:30:43,760 --> 01:30:45,640
Speaker 1: obviously you want to be careful and you want to be.

1842
01:30:45,720 --> 01:30:49,720
Speaker 2: Upfront and stuff like that, but you also shouldn't like

1843
01:30:49,920 --> 01:30:53,400
Speaker 2: limit your life. You should still be living and your

1844
01:30:53,479 --> 01:30:55,519
Speaker 2: focus shouldn't be on if they'll like me.

1845
01:30:55,960 --> 01:30:58,200
Speaker 1: It really should be on if you'll like them. Hell,

1846
01:30:58,439 --> 01:31:01,400
Speaker 1: you know, like that's how I always man. That is

1847
01:31:01,479 --> 01:31:06,080
Speaker 1: a word because this is outside of the topic real quick.

1848
01:31:06,160 --> 01:31:09,320
Speaker 1: You know, I had a period where I was just

1849
01:31:09,439 --> 01:31:12,360
Speaker 1: so fucking lonely. I was depressed, I was going through it.

1850
01:31:12,439 --> 01:31:14,320
Speaker 1: I had lost my mom and you know, I still

1851
01:31:14,400 --> 01:31:18,040
Speaker 1: have my moments where I'm sad and I was just like, oh,

1852
01:31:18,200 --> 01:31:20,280
Speaker 1: I'm not finding the right person for me, and I'm

1853
01:31:20,360 --> 01:31:23,960
Speaker 1: like I had a conversation with you and Dre was like, Bro,

1854
01:31:24,280 --> 01:31:26,479
Speaker 1: you trying to figure out if you like, if these

1855
01:31:26,560 --> 01:31:29,320
Speaker 1: niggas like you do you even like these niggas? And

1856
01:31:29,479 --> 01:31:31,400
Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, I realized I was

1857
01:31:31,479 --> 01:31:34,439
Speaker 1: doing all these things out of loneliness. So you really

1858
01:31:34,560 --> 01:31:37,280
Speaker 1: have to figure out sometimes you want somebody to give

1859
01:31:37,320 --> 01:31:40,400
Speaker 1: you a chance just because you feel like you're your waste,

1860
01:31:40,479 --> 01:31:42,400
Speaker 1: or you're a throwaway, or you're not up to part.

1861
01:31:42,760 --> 01:31:45,800
Speaker 1: You need to figure out sometimes people don't meet your standards.

1862
01:31:46,400 --> 01:31:49,040
Speaker 1: Just because you know your HIV positive does not mean

1863
01:31:49,160 --> 01:31:51,120
Speaker 1: that you're a bottom of the barrel, you know what

1864
01:31:51,160 --> 01:31:53,360
Speaker 1: I'm saying. That doesn't The quality of the people that

1865
01:31:53,439 --> 01:31:56,840
Speaker 1: you date is still very important, right exactly, So you're

1866
01:31:56,880 --> 01:32:00,120
Speaker 1: gonna find your person, you know. So I'm glad that

1867
01:32:00,200 --> 01:32:02,200
Speaker 1: you said that you still need to figure out if

1868
01:32:02,240 --> 01:32:05,479
Speaker 1: you like these people and don't just accept somebody because

1869
01:32:05,479 --> 01:32:08,360
Speaker 1: they accept your status, right, because they can be treating

1870
01:32:08,400 --> 01:32:10,080
Speaker 1: you like shit, just like shit.

1871
01:32:10,240 --> 01:32:12,080
Speaker 2: Going back to the loneliness thing, I think it's a

1872
01:32:12,120 --> 01:32:14,640
Speaker 2: lot of people like I even deal with that, you know,

1873
01:32:14,840 --> 01:32:17,800
Speaker 2: to this day, just being completely transparent because I'm such

1874
01:32:17,840 --> 01:32:21,200
Speaker 2: a loner and because like most of like my best friends,

1875
01:32:21,240 --> 01:32:22,760
Speaker 2: they have like regular jobs or.

1876
01:32:22,840 --> 01:32:25,439
Speaker 1: Kids, you know, like that. So it's very like it

1877
01:32:25,520 --> 01:32:25,960
Speaker 1: can get.

1878
01:32:25,960 --> 01:32:28,559
Speaker 2: Lonely when you on a grind that's a separate from

1879
01:32:28,760 --> 01:32:31,599
Speaker 2: everything like normal. You know what I'm saying. My hours

1880
01:32:31,640 --> 01:32:33,760
Speaker 2: are different. You know, I have a business to run.

1881
01:32:33,840 --> 01:32:36,439
Speaker 2: It's you know, so my mindset be completely different. But

1882
01:32:36,960 --> 01:32:39,800
Speaker 2: that usually is a time where I have to like

1883
01:32:39,920 --> 01:32:43,160
Speaker 2: work on myself and you know, continue to try to

1884
01:32:43,200 --> 01:32:45,559
Speaker 2: work on being a better person for myself or it's

1885
01:32:45,560 --> 01:32:47,599
Speaker 2: something that I just need to learn, or it can

1886
01:32:47,680 --> 01:32:50,880
Speaker 2: be God removing distractions, so I can just work on him, like.

1887
01:32:51,120 --> 01:32:54,320
Speaker 1: And kind of you need to do that. Yeah, he

1888
01:32:54,360 --> 01:32:58,560
Speaker 1: will absolutely do this so you can refocus. Yeah, and

1889
01:32:58,640 --> 01:33:02,719
Speaker 1: I tell you, I'm smack me in the face last

1890
01:33:02,840 --> 01:33:06,280
Speaker 1: year and I'd be likeing me in the face. Like

1891
01:33:06,479 --> 01:33:09,080
Speaker 1: it's been a lot. It's been a lot. But you

1892
01:33:09,240 --> 01:33:11,320
Speaker 1: just have to pay attention to the signs and you

1893
01:33:11,479 --> 01:33:15,160
Speaker 1: just have to continuously work on yourself. You can't work

1894
01:33:15,200 --> 01:33:17,599
Speaker 1: on other people. You gotta work on yourself. And people

1895
01:33:17,680 --> 01:33:20,120
Speaker 1: that are going to accept your journey, those are the

1896
01:33:20,120 --> 01:33:23,200
Speaker 1: people that are gonna be around. You're not gonna figure

1897
01:33:23,200 --> 01:33:25,320
Speaker 1: it out in one day, you know. So the people

1898
01:33:25,360 --> 01:33:27,240
Speaker 1: that are going to accept your journey and understand that

1899
01:33:27,280 --> 01:33:29,200
Speaker 1: you're a work in progress. They're going to be there

1900
01:33:29,240 --> 01:33:30,960
Speaker 1: for you. So it'll be very easy for you to

1901
01:33:31,040 --> 01:33:35,200
Speaker 1: read out the people and you're never alone alone, but

1902
01:33:35,320 --> 01:33:39,400
Speaker 1: you're not lonely. Yeah, I think, well, you know, Drey

1903
01:33:39,520 --> 01:33:41,160
Speaker 1: know's I struggled with that because I'd be like, oh,

1904
01:33:41,439 --> 01:33:43,080
Speaker 1: she'd be like, I'm here, bitch, and I'd be like,

1905
01:33:43,720 --> 01:33:46,680
Speaker 1: I am a very get in my shell. Oh and

1906
01:33:47,000 --> 01:33:49,639
Speaker 1: I and what I really I started realizing things about

1907
01:33:49,640 --> 01:33:52,200
Speaker 1: myself like people will be like, oh, I'm here for you,

1908
01:33:52,280 --> 01:33:53,720
Speaker 1: but I'm like, I don't care. I just I don't

1909
01:33:53,720 --> 01:33:55,679
Speaker 1: want to put that on you, and I will still

1910
01:33:55,720 --> 01:33:58,280
Speaker 1: get in my shell. And the thing that I've been

1911
01:33:58,360 --> 01:34:00,400
Speaker 1: battling with this year is I told myself I was

1912
01:34:00,400 --> 01:34:02,519
Speaker 1: getting out of my shell, and then I caught myself

1913
01:34:02,560 --> 01:34:04,880
Speaker 1: slipping back into getting in my show and I'll be

1914
01:34:04,960 --> 01:34:08,400
Speaker 1: like I don't care. And so I said this year,

1915
01:34:08,439 --> 01:34:09,640
Speaker 1: you know, I was like, oh, yeah, I've been doing

1916
01:34:09,680 --> 01:34:11,479
Speaker 1: good in the gym, but I haven't been doing good

1917
01:34:11,520 --> 01:34:15,000
Speaker 1: on staying outside of my shell. Yeah, so I need

1918
01:34:15,080 --> 01:34:17,240
Speaker 1: to reset. And like, and I'm glad you said that earlier.

1919
01:34:17,360 --> 01:34:19,360
Speaker 1: You don't give it to the new year to reset, right,

1920
01:34:19,560 --> 01:34:22,639
Speaker 1: So I'm resetting today, you know what. I so grace.

1921
01:34:22,720 --> 01:34:23,840
Speaker 1: It's like at the end of the day.

1922
01:34:24,160 --> 01:34:26,040
Speaker 2: Instead of looking at it as like a race where

1923
01:34:26,080 --> 01:34:28,280
Speaker 2: it's like you'll get to a point and that'll be

1924
01:34:28,320 --> 01:34:29,840
Speaker 2: the end of it, just look at it as a

1925
01:34:29,920 --> 01:34:32,280
Speaker 2: marathon to where it's like, Okay, you stopped for a minute,

1926
01:34:32,720 --> 01:34:35,920
Speaker 2: but you're not done running the mirror. You're not done,

1927
01:34:36,120 --> 01:34:38,680
Speaker 2: you know, getting to that point. So as long as

1928
01:34:38,720 --> 01:34:40,400
Speaker 2: you don't quit, you didn't lose.

1929
01:34:40,560 --> 01:34:44,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's such a great intermition. Look, period, I was

1930
01:34:44,080 --> 01:34:44,360
Speaker 1: going to.

1931
01:34:44,400 --> 01:34:50,120
Speaker 2: Therapy real quick. Poor all about all right? Question to

1932
01:34:50,240 --> 01:34:53,320
Speaker 2: go ahead, okay, question number two. Hi, I'm a new listener.

1933
01:34:53,439 --> 01:34:55,320
Speaker 2: I just found the show in twenty twenty one, and

1934
01:34:55,439 --> 01:34:58,240
Speaker 2: I can't get enough of y'all's personalities. I need some

1935
01:34:58,360 --> 01:35:01,120
Speaker 2: advice from y'all. I recently he started fucking my ex

1936
01:35:01,280 --> 01:35:02,280
Speaker 2: husband's uncle.

1937
01:35:02,680 --> 01:35:06,280
Speaker 1: All Right, He a freak, bitch, don't you a freak?

1938
01:35:07,439 --> 01:35:09,960
Speaker 2: He's twenty years older than me, and I know that

1939
01:35:10,080 --> 01:35:12,080
Speaker 2: sounds kind of trifling, but me and my ex have

1940
01:35:12,200 --> 01:35:14,840
Speaker 2: been divorced for five years now and he's remarried and

1941
01:35:14,960 --> 01:35:17,400
Speaker 2: living his best life in a new city. To make

1942
01:35:17,439 --> 01:35:20,240
Speaker 2: a long story short, the uncle shot his shot with me.

1943
01:35:20,640 --> 01:35:23,000
Speaker 2: He apparently has had a thing for me for years now,

1944
01:35:23,120 --> 01:35:26,200
Speaker 2: but didn't know how to tell me. We've gone on dates, trips,

1945
01:35:26,320 --> 01:35:28,559
Speaker 2: he treats me like a real man should, and fucks

1946
01:35:28,680 --> 01:35:31,360
Speaker 2: me so good. We've been keeping it on the d

1947
01:35:31,560 --> 01:35:34,120
Speaker 2: L for a few months now. But everyone has caught

1948
01:35:34,200 --> 01:35:39,679
Speaker 2: on to our shenanigans, and now his whole family hates older. Oh,

1949
01:35:42,080 --> 01:35:47,679
Speaker 2: Uncle Leroy, come up again, she said, everybody has caught

1950
01:35:47,760 --> 01:35:51,519
Speaker 2: on to our shenanigans, and now his whole family hates us.

1951
01:35:52,000 --> 01:35:52,400
Speaker 1: Mind you.

1952
01:35:52,640 --> 01:35:54,280
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck how they feel about me,

1953
01:35:54,400 --> 01:35:56,920
Speaker 2: but I feel horrible that his own family wants nothing

1954
01:35:57,000 --> 01:35:59,200
Speaker 2: to do with him. He wants to make things more

1955
01:35:59,240 --> 01:36:01,479
Speaker 2: official and see, but I don't want him to have

1956
01:36:01,600 --> 01:36:04,800
Speaker 2: resentment for me later. If this changes him, wait, if

1957
01:36:04,840 --> 01:36:07,479
Speaker 2: this changes him from not having a family in the future.

1958
01:36:07,920 --> 01:36:10,639
Speaker 2: So am I wrong for getting involved with my exes uncle?

1959
01:36:10,720 --> 01:36:12,280
Speaker 2: Or should I say? Fuck with everyone else?

1960
01:36:12,360 --> 01:36:14,880
Speaker 1: Thinks? And see how this relationship can? Are you already

1961
01:36:14,960 --> 01:36:19,040
Speaker 1: said fuck with everybody else? You look the uncle you

1962
01:36:19,200 --> 01:36:22,160
Speaker 1: said fucky? But you'll be happy girl? Right? He twenty

1963
01:36:22,240 --> 01:36:24,559
Speaker 1: years ahead of you. You talking about Oh, his future?

1964
01:36:24,760 --> 01:36:28,800
Speaker 1: He ain't got that much of a future. Please on

1965
01:36:28,920 --> 01:36:31,559
Speaker 1: his way to the nursing his wife at a nursing home.

1966
01:36:31,680 --> 01:36:34,680
Speaker 1: You're in his future. I mean, I feel like the

1967
01:36:34,800 --> 01:36:37,120
Speaker 1: damage has been done. You obviously love him, and he

1968
01:36:37,240 --> 01:36:38,880
Speaker 1: loves you. The damage has been done. If you was

1969
01:36:38,920 --> 01:36:40,320
Speaker 1: worried about it, you would have never fucked him in

1970
01:36:40,360 --> 01:36:42,439
Speaker 1: the first place. And you said, everybody know at.

1971
01:36:42,360 --> 01:36:46,240
Speaker 2: This point, right, so they're not gonna stop not liking

1972
01:36:46,240 --> 01:36:47,599
Speaker 2: you if y'all break up anything.

1973
01:36:48,080 --> 01:36:50,200
Speaker 1: If they stopped liking you, they probably didn't like you

1974
01:36:50,280 --> 01:36:52,519
Speaker 1: before when you was with the first husband, right, So

1975
01:36:52,720 --> 01:36:53,800
Speaker 1: you can't do nothing now.

1976
01:36:53,920 --> 01:36:56,200
Speaker 2: I can see this being a reason why a family

1977
01:36:56,640 --> 01:36:57,960
Speaker 2: would starting not liking her.

1978
01:36:58,120 --> 01:36:59,920
Speaker 1: But I'm not trying to be funny. My family's like,

1979
01:37:00,040 --> 01:37:01,920
Speaker 1: once you're divorced, and once you're out of our family,

1980
01:37:02,120 --> 01:37:05,120
Speaker 1: we don't fuck with you. So and then you try

1981
01:37:05,160 --> 01:37:07,479
Speaker 1: to come back in our family by fucking somebody else

1982
01:37:07,520 --> 01:37:10,840
Speaker 1: in our family not double don't like you, So girl,

1983
01:37:11,040 --> 01:37:13,320
Speaker 1: you can't. You can't get no bottom of the totem

1984
01:37:13,360 --> 01:37:16,160
Speaker 1: pole even more like it. Do what you want to do.

1985
01:37:16,680 --> 01:37:19,600
Speaker 2: Be happy like you seem like you're very happy. He

1986
01:37:19,720 --> 01:37:22,639
Speaker 2: fucking you good, he taking you one day, like take

1987
01:37:22,680 --> 01:37:23,680
Speaker 2: you on it.

1988
01:37:23,800 --> 01:37:25,840
Speaker 1: Is what it is. Enjoy it for what it is.

1989
01:37:26,240 --> 01:37:28,880
Speaker 1: I ain't married. Don't like you, girl, because some people

1990
01:37:28,920 --> 01:37:29,560
Speaker 1: one thing about it.

1991
01:37:29,640 --> 01:37:31,519
Speaker 2: They may be mad at him, but that's they, that's

1992
01:37:31,600 --> 01:37:34,400
Speaker 2: his family gonna You know what I'm saying, They can't

1993
01:37:34,600 --> 01:37:35,120
Speaker 2: because you.

1994
01:37:35,160 --> 01:37:37,719
Speaker 1: Know, God for me. If y'all break up, it's gonna

1995
01:37:37,720 --> 01:37:39,479
Speaker 1: be another girl that they probably gonna be torturing and

1996
01:37:39,560 --> 01:37:42,880
Speaker 1: being mean to, Like who cares. You gotta stop start

1997
01:37:42,960 --> 01:37:45,200
Speaker 1: living for yourself. And that's one thing that I definitely

1998
01:37:45,960 --> 01:37:51,000
Speaker 1: definitely learned. But you definitely shouldn't start fucking exactly. You

1999
01:37:51,000 --> 01:37:53,280
Speaker 1: should have left Lee Roy alone, but not that you

2000
01:37:53,439 --> 01:37:54,400
Speaker 1: in the miss do you?

2001
01:37:55,080 --> 01:37:57,400
Speaker 2: You don't let don't fall for that line? Ladies, you

2002
01:37:57,479 --> 01:37:59,400
Speaker 2: know niggas love to say. You know, I've been watching

2003
01:37:59,400 --> 01:38:03,160
Speaker 2: you for a long been wanting you. Of course you have, like,

2004
01:38:04,400 --> 01:38:06,200
Speaker 2: don't fall for that, but I mean you feel for

2005
01:38:06,280 --> 01:38:06,679
Speaker 2: it already.

2006
01:38:06,720 --> 01:38:10,160
Speaker 1: So the damage, Oh, he know what he gotta do.

2007
01:38:10,240 --> 01:38:12,800
Speaker 1: This's why he doing our list. They got to play

2008
01:38:12,840 --> 01:38:15,439
Speaker 1: the game, no matter you twenty years younger than him,

2009
01:38:15,640 --> 01:38:17,040
Speaker 1: Like how old was she?

2010
01:38:17,600 --> 01:38:21,960
Speaker 2: She didn't say Shenanigans because it's a difference between being twenty.

2011
01:38:23,320 --> 01:38:25,560
Speaker 1: Because it's a difference between being twenty and dating a

2012
01:38:25,640 --> 01:38:27,360
Speaker 1: forty year old and being thirty and day in a

2013
01:38:27,439 --> 01:38:29,240
Speaker 1: fifty year old. Yeah, you know, it's a bit. It's

2014
01:38:29,280 --> 01:38:34,439
Speaker 1: a difference. I mean, now fifty, I like me a

2015
01:38:34,479 --> 01:38:36,719
Speaker 1: fifty year old. Y'all know, Big Papa is fifty.

2016
01:38:37,040 --> 01:38:39,040
Speaker 2: I don't think I can date nobody feet Big Papa

2017
01:38:39,200 --> 01:38:39,639
Speaker 2: was fifty.

2018
01:38:39,840 --> 01:38:42,240
Speaker 1: It's some young fifties out here, Like, what do we

2019
01:38:42,320 --> 01:38:45,320
Speaker 1: have in common? I'm thirty one, you fifty? Like dre up.

2020
01:38:45,400 --> 01:38:48,600
Speaker 1: Big Papa was fifty and when I was born, and

2021
01:38:49,200 --> 01:38:51,320
Speaker 1: Killo actually calls him Quaivo because he us just dressed

2022
01:38:51,320 --> 01:38:53,719
Speaker 1: like Quevo. He was very up on the styles. Bitch.

2023
01:38:56,400 --> 01:38:59,160
Speaker 1: He dressed like Quevo. He was fifty, and I loved

2024
01:38:59,240 --> 01:39:03,000
Speaker 1: him down. He was like a he's had backwards though, Quevo,

2025
01:39:03,120 --> 01:39:06,280
Speaker 1: don't do this. It was given a little t. I.

2026
01:39:07,000 --> 01:39:11,559
Speaker 1: It was given a little t. I. Okay, oh yeah,

2027
01:39:11,840 --> 01:39:12,840
Speaker 1: you know, okay.

2028
01:39:13,080 --> 01:39:16,040
Speaker 2: I just feel like, you know, to a certain extent,

2029
01:39:16,360 --> 01:39:20,560
Speaker 2: It's also depend on the generation, because like I feel like,

2030
01:39:21,720 --> 01:39:25,360
Speaker 2: if you generationally like you can be ten years apart,

2031
01:39:25,400 --> 01:39:29,599
Speaker 2: but if you dating like uh, you know, two thousand baby,

2032
01:39:30,200 --> 01:39:33,840
Speaker 2: right you it's a little bit. There're lots because ya,

2033
01:39:34,040 --> 01:39:35,840
Speaker 2: you're dealing with somebody that grew up in the social

2034
01:39:35,920 --> 01:39:37,800
Speaker 2: media verse, you know what I'm saying.

2035
01:39:37,840 --> 01:39:40,479
Speaker 1: So I think it depends on the you know, generation,

2036
01:39:40,680 --> 01:39:42,960
Speaker 1: because if I date somebody that's twenty years older than me,

2037
01:39:43,080 --> 01:39:45,040
Speaker 1: I'll be dating somebody that's fifty three. I feel like

2038
01:39:45,080 --> 01:39:46,920
Speaker 1: we can make it work because it's like, to a

2039
01:39:46,960 --> 01:39:50,760
Speaker 1: certain extent, you gotta own so, I know, music tea,

2040
01:39:51,040 --> 01:39:52,519
Speaker 1: so you know, I am.

2041
01:39:52,760 --> 01:39:57,400
Speaker 2: You know, I gots like forty I like is like

2042
01:39:57,520 --> 01:40:01,120
Speaker 2: forty like but girl, that's called it's like the nineteen

2043
01:40:01,200 --> 01:40:01,759
Speaker 2: year olds.

2044
01:40:04,320 --> 01:40:08,439
Speaker 1: Like, do y'all like our Wait? Okay, so AREMANI tell

2045
01:40:08,479 --> 01:40:10,880
Speaker 1: the girls and the guys where they can find you.

2046
01:40:11,160 --> 01:40:13,240
Speaker 1: What you got coming up for twenty twenty two? Three?

2047
01:40:13,479 --> 01:40:19,280
Speaker 1: Oh Lord three and everything? And you know what, We're

2048
01:40:19,280 --> 01:40:20,840
Speaker 1: about to go on tour, so we gotta figure out

2049
01:40:20,880 --> 01:40:25,200
Speaker 1: how we're gonna collabse so I would love that. Yes,

2050
01:40:25,520 --> 01:40:26,519
Speaker 1: so let us know, girl.

2051
01:40:27,479 --> 01:40:30,360
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna be touring soon. My first show is

2052
01:40:30,520 --> 01:40:36,519
Speaker 2: in La March first at Lidge Room. Liz Too is

2053
01:40:36,640 --> 01:40:39,720
Speaker 2: still out, you know, go bump that, go download that

2054
01:40:40,000 --> 01:40:42,799
Speaker 2: Liz One shop Ourmiani's closet.

2055
01:40:44,640 --> 01:40:45,080
Speaker 1: That's fire.

2056
01:40:45,120 --> 01:40:47,000
Speaker 2: We make clothes for the lit girls all day long,

2057
01:40:47,120 --> 01:40:49,719
Speaker 2: and we ship very fast. We got Amazon levels of shipping.

2058
01:40:50,000 --> 01:40:53,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, you may get your next day.

2059
01:40:55,320 --> 01:40:57,080
Speaker 2: And yeah, I'm gonna just be chilling. You wanna see

2060
01:40:57,080 --> 01:40:59,639
Speaker 2: me in the city near you? Okay, so you're living

2061
01:40:59,640 --> 01:41:02,240
Speaker 2: in atlant know, I know I live in Charlotte. Now, okay,

2062
01:41:02,240 --> 01:41:03,320
Speaker 2: you're still in Charlotte, but I'm.

2063
01:41:03,240 --> 01:41:04,559
Speaker 1: Still kind of like a floater.

2064
01:41:04,720 --> 01:41:06,920
Speaker 2: It's like when i'm home, I'm home, but then like

2065
01:41:06,960 --> 01:41:08,479
Speaker 2: if i'm working, then it's like I'm whatever.

2066
01:41:09,160 --> 01:41:11,040
Speaker 1: Okay, you know, I just I drove up here so

2067
01:41:13,120 --> 01:41:14,320
Speaker 1: you'll be outside whatever.

2068
01:41:14,640 --> 01:41:17,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I need to start being outside. So I'm

2069
01:41:18,040 --> 01:41:19,080
Speaker 2: super a home by.

2070
01:41:19,080 --> 01:41:21,960
Speaker 1: Your girl too. We don't be going to know it.

2071
01:41:22,680 --> 01:41:26,840
Speaker 2: I love it or club like you know, living room Okay,

2072
01:41:28,080 --> 01:41:29,280
Speaker 2: that's where I bet most of the time.

2073
01:41:29,360 --> 01:41:31,160
Speaker 1: But I need to be outside because how I'm gonna

2074
01:41:31,160 --> 01:41:33,160
Speaker 1: find my men if I'm in the house. Same. Hey,

2075
01:41:33,320 --> 01:41:35,479
Speaker 1: if I wasn't getting my nails, then I wouldn't be married.

2076
01:41:39,080 --> 01:41:41,720
Speaker 1: So y'all make sure y'all follow our money. And y'all

2077
01:41:41,720 --> 01:41:44,600
Speaker 1: know we're about to get into that karaoke period periods.

2078
01:41:45,960 --> 01:41:48,400
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2079
01:41:48,479 --> 01:41:50,519
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2096
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Speaker 1: girl LEXP and I have a very special announcement to

2097
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2098
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Speaker 1: new studio. Were about to have all new everything, so

2099
01:42:50,479 --> 01:42:52,720
Speaker 1: we wanted to hear from y'all. So if you have

2100
01:42:52,840 --> 01:42:55,000
Speaker 1: something you want to get off your chest, something that's

2101
01:42:55,200 --> 01:42:58,839
Speaker 1: bothering you. Whatever you want to say, you have suggestions anything.

2102
01:42:59,080 --> 01:43:02,160
Speaker 1: We are having a segment that we're adding to the show.

2103
01:43:02,640 --> 01:43:04,519
Speaker 1: So what you're gonna do is you're gonna call a

2104
01:43:04,640 --> 01:43:07,479
Speaker 1: number and leave us a voicemail. Now, y'all know, I

2105
01:43:07,479 --> 01:43:09,559
Speaker 1: don't like when y'all get long, winning and shit. Don't

2106
01:43:09,600 --> 01:43:12,760
Speaker 1: be call leaving no ten minute voicemail and nothing like that.

2107
01:43:13,240 --> 01:43:15,320
Speaker 1: So call, leave us a voicemail. Like I said, if

2108
01:43:15,360 --> 01:43:17,240
Speaker 1: you want to get something off your chest, you have

2109
01:43:17,320 --> 01:43:19,439
Speaker 1: a suggestion for the show. And honestly, y'all can start

2110
01:43:19,520 --> 01:43:22,160
Speaker 1: leaving voicemails right now because I'm trying to figure out

2111
01:43:22,240 --> 01:43:24,080
Speaker 1: what I want to name the segment. You know, me

2112
01:43:24,160 --> 01:43:27,479
Speaker 1: and dreaming brainstorm a little bit. So call this number

2113
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Speaker 1: six seven eight eight two seven one eight two six.

2114
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2115
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Speaker 1: And if you leave a good voicemail, you're gonna be

2116
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Speaker 1: featured on Poor Minds. So let us know what we

2117
01:43:42,600 --> 01:43:45,080
Speaker 1: should name the segment. If y'all have any ideas, leave

2118
01:43:45,120 --> 01:43:48,080
Speaker 1: them in the comments below. Talk to y'all soon. Oh,

2119
01:43:48,800 --> 01:43:50,639
Speaker 1: y'all will tell you what I want, what I really

2120
01:43:50,720 --> 01:43:52,479
Speaker 1: really want. Don't tell me what you want, what you

2121
01:43:52,640 --> 01:43:54,519
Speaker 1: really really want. I'll tell you what I want, what

2122
01:43:54,640 --> 01:43:56,640
Speaker 1: I really really want, Tell me what you want, what

2123
01:43:56,760 --> 01:43:58,519
Speaker 1: you really really want? I want to, I want to,

2124
01:43:58,720 --> 01:44:02,360
Speaker 1: I wanna wanna, I really really really want to say, Yeah,

2125
01:44:02,640 --> 01:44:07,240
Speaker 1: if you want my future, forget my past. If you

2126
01:44:07,320 --> 01:44:11,800
Speaker 1: wanna get with me, better make it past now. Don't

2127
01:44:11,840 --> 01:44:16,800
Speaker 1: go wasted my precious time. Yeah, get your acts, agandle

2128
01:44:17,000 --> 01:44:21,600
Speaker 1: we could be just fine. Yeah, I really want to

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Speaker 1: tell me what you want, what you really really want?

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Speaker 1: The ah way. I wanna. I want to.

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Speaker 3: I want to.

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Speaker 2: I want to really really really want to say and say,

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Speaker 2: we look at it with my friends.

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Speaker 1: Forever, man sham never, and if you want to be

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Speaker 1: my lover, you have got to gain. That's the way. Bro.

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Speaker 1: We hate that ship, Indy. No, I'm not gonna lie,

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Speaker 1: you know, I wat drop the mic stand, not gonna

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Speaker 1: building period. We want to smoke, okay,