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Speaker 1: All right, guys, this is from Angie and Kennebunkport. Angie says,

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Speaker 1: I'm thirty eight years old and I got married last month.

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Speaker 1: My husband has not moved in with me yet because

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Speaker 1: his mom asked him to stay with her until December.

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Speaker 2: First.

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Speaker 1: I can go visit him at her house, but I

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Speaker 1: can't stay overnight because he sleeps on the couch. His

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Speaker 1: mom is still number one in his life. And by

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Speaker 1: the way, nothing is wrong with mom. She's just a

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Speaker 1: self centered b Should I continue to patiently wait for

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Speaker 1: my husband to come home or should I call it

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Speaker 1: quits and get divorced? Wow, I don't know. I don't

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Speaker 1: know how you married?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, surely she had known something, right.

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Speaker 3: You married a man that sleeps on his mama's couch.

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Speaker 3: You don't like a future or none? You ain't want

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Speaker 3: to know. Y'all want to chippy and get apartment y'all

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Speaker 3: want what? How about a bed together? Y'all don't want

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Speaker 3: You didn't want that.

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Speaker 2: And it's just been a month that they've.

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Speaker 3: Been married, and he's staying at his mama's house on

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Speaker 3: the couch, and you can't spend the night over there

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Speaker 3: because she asked him to stay with her to December one.

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Speaker 3: What happens on December second? Yeah, I'm just trying to

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Speaker 3: figure out what happened.

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Speaker 1: Well, he's supposed to come home to his wife, go

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Speaker 1: home to his wife.

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Speaker 3: There's something else that's crazy. Man, But but but but

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Speaker 3: she said that Mamma ain't sick of nothing, ain't nothing

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Speaker 3: wrong with him?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she said. She did say she's just a self

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Speaker 1: centered b. Though no strong.

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Speaker 3: Word she's a self centered b. Is that your husband

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Speaker 3: is a mama's boy boy. You done married this boy

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Speaker 3: hoping he would be a man. But it's hard to

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Speaker 3: be your mama's boy and your woman's man. That's hard

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Speaker 3: to do. Do you need to hear that again? It's

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Speaker 3: hard to be your mama's boy and to become your

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Speaker 3: woman's man. Those are two different requirements. Yeah, the two

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Speaker 3: don't go together. They never will go together. They can't

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Speaker 3: exist at the same time. You can't be a boy

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Speaker 3: and a man at the same time. You can't. It's impossible, Yes.

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Speaker 2: Sir, So that's her question.

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Speaker 1: Should she continually wait patiently for her husband to come

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Speaker 1: home or should she call it quits and get divorced.

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Speaker 3: How long have they been married? Shirley.

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Speaker 2: Did she say they just got married last month? They

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Speaker 2: just got married last month?

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Speaker 3: Why y'all get married?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, exactly if you.

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Speaker 3: Wait for him to come home. So I'm assuming home

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Speaker 3: is your house.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, m hmm.

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Speaker 3: She's not sick, she said.

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Speaker 1: Mom, nothing, she says, she just self centered. B woh

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Speaker 1: strong words.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: All right, moving on, we have time for another one.

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Speaker 1: This is from Deyonce in Colombia. Deonce writes, I did

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Speaker 1: you say Beyonce? I said, Dionce?

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Speaker 2: Oh Deonce? Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Deonce says, I am twenty four years old and I

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Speaker 1: love playing flag football. My dad has a big problem

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Speaker 1: with it. He said it's not girly and he wants

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Speaker 1: me to be in my soft girl era. He said,

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Speaker 1: I'll never get a husband like this. But why I

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Speaker 1: keep my nails done, my wigs are always on point,

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Speaker 1: and I dress like a lady when I'm not playing football.

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Speaker 2: Why can't I switch it up and get down and

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Speaker 2: dirty on the football field? Is this? Here's her question?

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Speaker 2: Is this a turnoff for men?

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Speaker 3: Well? Deonce, now let me explain something. If your name

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Speaker 3: is gonna be.

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Speaker 2: Deonce, Okay, right there, Uh huh.

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Speaker 3: Two things. Let me just say this you wasn't fine

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Speaker 3: enough for them to name you Beyonce.

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Speaker 2: You know what, No, So I'm.

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Speaker 3: Assuming there's gonna be a serious drop off. She said.

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Speaker 1: She keeps her nails done and her wigs are always

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Speaker 1: on point, and she dresses like a lady.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but she played football though. Now we need to

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Speaker 3: find out what position, because it's gonna tell.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 3: If she ain't got no flag, then we know what's happening.

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Speaker 2: Is this a turnoff for men blocking?

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Speaker 3: Well, you know, if you play defensive end on the

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Speaker 3: flag football team, it's a it's a it's a turnoff

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Speaker 3: for me. And your name Deonce.

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Speaker 2: So you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show