WEBVTT - I Got The Wrong Sister 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.159 Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio 0:00:03.279 --> 0:00:16.320 and the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back 0:00:16.360 --> 0:00:18.599 on the air. Welcome back to yet another carefully reckless 0:00:18.600 --> 0:00:20.079 episode with your Girl just hilarious. 0:00:20.239 --> 0:00:22.200 If I sound tired, you guys are here. 0:00:23.120 --> 0:00:27.680 I'm coming from Baltimore just getting my hair done, and 0:00:28.200 --> 0:00:30.760 I live in New York, New Jersey. Now, like you know, between, 0:00:31.080 --> 0:00:34.720 I'm loyal thought and everybody's like, you know what, It's 0:00:34.960 --> 0:00:36.919 plenty of places that you could have got your hair 0:00:36.960 --> 0:00:39.199 done in Jersey and in New York and Brooklyn and 0:00:39.240 --> 0:00:41.599 Queens and all that, but I don't know them. 0:00:41.920 --> 0:00:43.440 I'm gonna stick to what I know. Person. 0:00:43.600 --> 0:00:45.800 Now, I didn't go to Baltimore in the Hood to 0:00:45.880 --> 0:00:47.879 get my goddamn had done because we were head of 0:00:48.080 --> 0:00:50.240 a caller call up and. 0:00:50.400 --> 0:00:51.279 Envy sold to call. 0:00:51.440 --> 0:00:52.919 I had drove to Baltimore and I got my head 0:00:53.400 --> 0:00:55.280 and he's gonna say, stop the hood book a mess. 0:00:55.400 --> 0:00:57.000 Sorry, don't nobody going to to get it for her? 0:00:57.000 --> 0:00:57.240 Hand on? 0:00:57.800 --> 0:01:01.480 Trust me, I'm not leaving one to go to my 0:01:01.600 --> 0:01:02.880 old hood to get my hair done. 0:01:03.080 --> 0:01:03.560 No, I'm not. 0:01:04.520 --> 0:01:09.200 Kara Mac is definitely professional of all the professionals, and 0:01:09.240 --> 0:01:10.760 she has her own sweet so shout out to her. 0:01:10.800 --> 0:01:15.400 She's in Baltimore and it's not Baltimore City, it's Notingham, Maryland. 0:01:15.520 --> 0:01:17.080 And you know how you just say that one person 0:01:17.280 --> 0:01:21.640 that knows your head, that knows, like exactly how you 0:01:21.760 --> 0:01:24.080 like your parts, because I got full lockshaw knows how 0:01:24.080 --> 0:01:27.319 you like your parts, knows just enough baby hair to 0:01:27.400 --> 0:01:29.600 leave out or edges or whatever if you got them. 0:01:29.640 --> 0:01:31.400 If you don't, you have to take from your hairline 0:01:31.520 --> 0:01:33.000 like I used to, but now I have a little 0:01:33.000 --> 0:01:36.000 bit edges. So she knows exactly the amounts to leave 0:01:36.040 --> 0:01:38.520 out and everything. And have you ever gone to the 0:01:38.560 --> 0:01:42.520 hair salon and you get up and you like it, 0:01:42.560 --> 0:01:44.200 but then you have to go home and fix it 0:01:44.920 --> 0:01:48.000 to your exact liking. I hate having to do that, 0:01:48.080 --> 0:01:50.360 especially with the amounts of money that I pay to 0:01:50.440 --> 0:01:52.120 get my hair done. I don't have to do that 0:01:52.160 --> 0:01:54.200 with Kara at all, not one bit, not single a 0:01:54.240 --> 0:01:57.000 little bit. So I will be traveling no matter what. 0:01:57.080 --> 0:01:59.360 I will cross the ocean for Karra. Even though that 0:01:59.360 --> 0:02:02.720 sounds a little gap. It's about my hair, Okay, So 0:02:02.960 --> 0:02:03.760 we're gonna get into it. 0:02:03.800 --> 0:02:04.400 What do I be doing? 0:02:04.440 --> 0:02:07.160 I'll be fixing mess, and I'm gonna have Taylor reed 0:02:07.600 --> 0:02:08.600 because I don't feel like it. 0:02:08.680 --> 0:02:12.960 You already know what it is, so Taylor kick it off. Girl. 0:02:14.480 --> 0:02:16.840 All right, hey, Jess. So there's gonna be a lot 0:02:16.840 --> 0:02:19.360 of information that's taken. But I was in relationship for 0:02:19.400 --> 0:02:20.919 three years and I was unfaithful. 0:02:21.160 --> 0:02:21.799 I'll be honest. 0:02:21.880 --> 0:02:24.720 There was this one girl I was seeing for quite 0:02:24.720 --> 0:02:27.080 a while on the side that my girl. 0:02:26.840 --> 0:02:27.600 Also knew about. 0:02:27.880 --> 0:02:31.280 Then this third girl came as in my girlfriend, the 0:02:31.320 --> 0:02:34.360 side chick and now another side chick, and I kind 0:02:34.400 --> 0:02:37.119 of fell head over heels for her, so she fell 0:02:37.160 --> 0:02:39.880 in love with the side chick. So I started seeing 0:02:39.919 --> 0:02:40.600 this third girl. 0:02:40.840 --> 0:02:41.480 We hit it off. 0:02:41.520 --> 0:02:43.560 Everything's good, and I tell her that I'm in a 0:02:43.560 --> 0:02:46.400 relationship and she says that she's cool with it, so 0:02:46.440 --> 0:02:48.040 as long as I'm honest with her and tell her 0:02:48.080 --> 0:02:51.079 the truth about everything. Mind you, she had just gotten 0:02:51.080 --> 0:02:54.280 out of relationship herself where the boyfriend was cheating in 0:02:54.360 --> 0:02:56.800 this and that. So I started to pursue something with 0:02:56.840 --> 0:02:59.560 this girl while still in a relationship. And one day 0:02:59.880 --> 0:03:01.880 I'm at work and she calls me saying that she 0:03:01.960 --> 0:03:04.400 found out that I had a second snapchat and that 0:03:04.440 --> 0:03:06.800 I was still talking to the one girl from before, 0:03:07.240 --> 0:03:09.200 and then she said that she basically couldn't trust me 0:03:09.240 --> 0:03:12.079 anymore and she couldn't see herself being with me. Not 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:14.480 I only knew this girl for like a month when 0:03:14.520 --> 0:03:17.079 this happened, but I was head over heels for her 0:03:17.200 --> 0:03:18.480 and wanted her to be mine. 0:03:18.560 --> 0:03:19.680 So I did everything. 0:03:19.840 --> 0:03:22.240 Hold on, men, this person is doing all this in 0:03:22.320 --> 0:03:23.720 a relationship with somebody else. 0:03:23.840 --> 0:03:29.800 Yeah, but what I think it's her girlfriend found out. 0:03:30.000 --> 0:03:31.880 That's how it's making seem okay. 0:03:32.000 --> 0:03:36.240 So her girlfriend found out about the other girl that 0:03:36.320 --> 0:03:38.120 she fell in love with, she was head over heels 0:03:38.160 --> 0:03:40.880 with okay, all right, And then. 0:03:43.000 --> 0:03:45.800 I did the second snapchat. I dropped all my hoes 0:03:45.880 --> 0:03:47.680 and I tried to be faithful to her, but she 0:03:47.800 --> 0:03:49.600 just wanted to be friends and wanted nothing to do 0:03:49.720 --> 0:03:52.600 with me. Now, mind you, behind the scenes, I have 0:03:52.680 --> 0:03:55.680 a friend of four years who knows about everything about 0:03:55.680 --> 0:03:58.720 the side chick, about everything in my relationship at a time, 0:03:58.920 --> 0:04:02.920 and about this girl, every small detail. So after everything, 0:04:02.960 --> 0:04:06.160 and after she said she just wanted to be friends, 0:04:06.320 --> 0:04:08.480 she texted me one day and says that her and 0:04:08.520 --> 0:04:11.160 my friend hung out and that he confessed to have 0:04:11.280 --> 0:04:14.240 feelings for her. Mind you, this was a couple of 0:04:14.320 --> 0:04:16.919 days after she had decided to break things off with me, 0:04:17.120 --> 0:04:19.080 so I was still a little heartbroken. 0:04:19.160 --> 0:04:21.880 She said that she felt the same for him. There's 0:04:21.920 --> 0:04:25.240 a guy involved. Now I am so confused with the. 0:04:25.440 --> 0:04:29.560 How, and I have a retaliation anger of whatever you 0:04:29.600 --> 0:04:31.440 want to call it. I dropped both of them. I 0:04:31.440 --> 0:04:33.719 stopped talking to both of them. I called him a 0:04:33.760 --> 0:04:36.680 piece of shit. To me, he's scum. And the fact 0:04:36.720 --> 0:04:39.120 that he would do that to someone that calls him 0:04:39.120 --> 0:04:40.279 my brother is shitty. 0:04:40.480 --> 0:04:43.520 Okay. So her friends or brother, oh, okay. 0:04:43.600 --> 0:04:46.760 Okay, So her brother started fucking one of her bitches, 0:04:46.920 --> 0:04:50.679 like her homeboy who she considers a brother, started fucking 0:04:50.720 --> 0:04:52.120 with one of the girls that she liked. 0:04:52.440 --> 0:04:55.520 But she is a serial cheater, so it shouldn't matter. Okay, 0:04:55.560 --> 0:04:55.960 go ahead. 0:04:56.680 --> 0:04:58.960 And as for her, I think she's a homie hopping 0:04:59.000 --> 0:05:01.839 bitch that they both s that I was overreacting to 0:05:01.920 --> 0:05:04.440 the situation and I had no right to be upset, 0:05:04.440 --> 0:05:07.200 which I can't understand because I fucked up and betrayed 0:05:07.240 --> 0:05:10.800 her trust. Okay, So her ex basically was fucking with 0:05:10.800 --> 0:05:11.320 her homie. 0:05:11.400 --> 0:05:11.719 Okay. 0:05:11.760 --> 0:05:14.839 So the first girlfriend who she kept on cheating on 0:05:16.080 --> 0:05:22.440 like willingly and intentionally non mistakingly starts dealing with her 0:05:22.480 --> 0:05:24.440 homeboy that she considers to be a brother. 0:05:24.600 --> 0:05:26.119 Yeah, m lord. 0:05:26.720 --> 0:05:31.839 So she seeks comfort under the sheets with the homie 0:05:32.120 --> 0:05:35.960 and the girlfriend finds out, you know, the world, the cheater, 0:05:36.120 --> 0:05:39.599 the original cheater finds out and she can't take that. Yes, 0:05:39.839 --> 0:05:42.360 they can dish it, but they can't take it. Yeah, okay, 0:05:42.480 --> 0:05:43.320 is that story done? 0:05:43.480 --> 0:05:43.560 No? 0:05:43.960 --> 0:05:48.159 Oh, jesus go in there's more homie hopping bitch girl 0:05:48.560 --> 0:05:49.799 after you done slept? 0:05:49.839 --> 0:05:53.320 Whatever? Read? What the hell please? She goes. 0:05:53.320 --> 0:05:55.080 I had no right to be, they said, had no 0:05:55.160 --> 0:05:57.159 right to be upset, which I can understand because I 0:05:57.200 --> 0:05:59.359 fucked up and betrayed her trust, but I try my 0:05:59.440 --> 0:06:01.400 best to get her back. And the fact that my 0:06:01.440 --> 0:06:03.520 best friend would go and think that it's okay to 0:06:03.560 --> 0:06:06.600 take a girl that he knew I want so bad, 0:06:06.640 --> 0:06:09.479 it's fucked up. So I'm sending this message to ask 0:06:09.760 --> 0:06:11.600 was I wrong for feeling the way I do this 0:06:11.680 --> 0:06:14.120 day and holding a grudge against these two people that 0:06:14.160 --> 0:06:16.760 I call friends, and one of them that I would 0:06:16.760 --> 0:06:19.280 have liked to call my girlfriend. It's been four months 0:06:19.360 --> 0:06:21.520 since we've spoken to either of them, and I have 0:06:21.600 --> 0:06:23.719 no intention on going back, but I want to know 0:06:23.800 --> 0:06:26.960 from you guys firsthand if I was wrong or right. 0:06:27.360 --> 0:06:28.880 Don't try and put this out on my mask. She 0:06:28.920 --> 0:06:30.560 did not say I want to know from you guys. 0:06:31.080 --> 0:06:32.279 She said, I want to know from you. 0:06:32.400 --> 0:06:36.800 Jess. Then what you are not the expert here, you're 0:06:36.880 --> 0:06:38.240 just the reader. Thank you. 0:06:38.400 --> 0:06:41.520 I love this show all right now, y'all see, I'll 0:06:41.560 --> 0:06:42.920 tailor try to get in on the girl. 0:06:42.960 --> 0:06:44.200 You are just the narrator. 0:06:45.360 --> 0:06:45.560 Huh. 0:06:45.920 --> 0:06:47.840 Hold up, hold up, I know the shit getting good, 0:06:47.839 --> 0:06:50.160 but listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial. 0:06:50.200 --> 0:06:56.200 If you love me, you'll listen. Okay, So, hell yeah, 0:06:56.200 --> 0:06:57.760 I think you was wrong. What the fuck you mean 0:06:57.839 --> 0:07:00.120 you was wrong? You was wrong from the jump. You 0:07:00.160 --> 0:07:02.360 just got a taste of your own medicine. Now, as 0:07:02.360 --> 0:07:06.480 far as the loyalty lies with your homeboy, okay, there's 0:07:06.520 --> 0:07:08.200 a few things I would like to say about that. 0:07:08.960 --> 0:07:11.480 Maybe he thought it was a free for all. Maybe 0:07:11.520 --> 0:07:14.720 y'all have shared bitches before. You can't say what bitches 0:07:14.760 --> 0:07:16.600 off of them? And what bitch is you feel me, 0:07:16.680 --> 0:07:19.280 especially if you're treating the main bitch like a side bitch. 0:07:19.360 --> 0:07:21.960 You know what I'm saying, so, and then is this 0:07:22.040 --> 0:07:25.040 a woman or is this a okay, and so your 0:07:25.040 --> 0:07:28.840 girl it seems like it is a woman man Okay, 0:07:29.280 --> 0:07:31.600 either way, I'll just answer two ways, just in case 0:07:31.640 --> 0:07:33.600 you are a woman or a man. So, if you 0:07:33.640 --> 0:07:36.400 are a woman, your girlfriend was bisexual, because ain't no 0:07:36.400 --> 0:07:39.000 way a man cause still if she was a full 0:07:39.040 --> 0:07:43.360 blown gay, okay. If you are a man, yeah, he 0:07:43.440 --> 0:07:46.160 broke the brother code. You're a homeboy that you considered 0:07:46.200 --> 0:07:48.920 to be a brother. However, he said he hasn't spoken 0:07:49.000 --> 0:07:51.480 to either one of them. This person said it either 0:07:51.480 --> 0:07:53.840 one for four months. Oh, you're giving them more time 0:07:53.880 --> 0:07:55.440 to be bumping the ground and then, baby, it no 0:07:55.560 --> 0:07:57.600 matter whether you speak to them or not now because 0:07:57.600 --> 0:07:59.840 they both give you a taste of your own medicines. 0:08:00.560 --> 0:08:02.880 They've been fucking Oh. 0:08:03.040 --> 0:08:05.280 Believe that the longer you don't talk to them, the 0:08:05.280 --> 0:08:07.880 more they talk to each other. So I just want 0:08:07.880 --> 0:08:10.960 to let you know you lost them and that's karma 0:08:11.000 --> 0:08:13.680 for your ass you need to do. I hate telling 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:16.520 people to go heal because sometimes that's just how people are. 0:08:16.800 --> 0:08:18.200 You know what I'm saying. I don't know where you 0:08:18.240 --> 0:08:20.720 would be healing from, because I don't know your whole story. 0:08:20.720 --> 0:08:23.360 You just gave me the whole story. I'm talking about hoe. 0:08:23.440 --> 0:08:27.520 You gave me the whole story, not your whole story. 0:08:27.760 --> 0:08:29.640 So I don't know what I would be telling you 0:08:29.680 --> 0:08:32.320 to recover from, or to seek therapy on, or anything 0:08:32.360 --> 0:08:35.280 like that. But you lost them, and it is what 0:08:35.320 --> 0:08:38.000 it is. But you know what, this is a perfect 0:08:38.040 --> 0:08:40.400 case of you never know what you got til it's gone. 0:08:40.400 --> 0:08:43.040 Because you missed this bitch. I know you miss her. 0:08:43.679 --> 0:08:45.320 I know you do, or you wouldn't be writing me 0:08:46.080 --> 0:08:50.079 and revealing all of that crazy business surrounding your relationship 0:08:50.320 --> 0:08:52.520 when you know you're in the wrong. Sometimes people just 0:08:52.559 --> 0:08:55.600 need to hear their own shit repeat it back to 0:08:55.720 --> 0:08:58.160 them because you know you were wrong. You dropped the 0:08:58.200 --> 0:09:00.200 ball on a good girl eyes. I don't know she 0:09:00.320 --> 0:09:03.040 was to be fucking your home boy, but before she 0:09:03.080 --> 0:09:05.200 fucked your home boy, she was a good girl apparently, 0:09:05.440 --> 0:09:07.120 and you were sleeping around on it. Then you said 0:09:07.120 --> 0:09:11.360 you even fell head over heels for a second side, bitch, 0:09:11.679 --> 0:09:14.280 not the first one. Now, at first, I thought you 0:09:14.320 --> 0:09:17.119 were saying you were bringing these girls into your relationship, 0:09:17.160 --> 0:09:19.600 like that's one of you guys's desire. I mean, like 0:09:19.640 --> 0:09:22.040 that's a desire of both of you. Like you guys 0:09:22.080 --> 0:09:24.720 have like a not an open relationship, but what is 0:09:24.720 --> 0:09:28.800 it called? Like, yeah, a polyamorous relationship. We y'all have 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:30.720 a third girlfriend and a fourth girlfriend and y'all actually 0:09:30.760 --> 0:09:32.840 go get bitches together or something like that. 0:09:32.840 --> 0:09:35.400 That's what I was like hoping that that was. 0:09:35.440 --> 0:09:38.240 But no, you was just outright cheating and falling in 0:09:38.280 --> 0:09:39.800 love on her, and now that she fell in love 0:09:39.800 --> 0:09:42.520 with your homie, you ain't talking to neither one of them. 0:09:42.600 --> 0:09:44.280 It is what it is. You obviously need a new 0:09:44.320 --> 0:09:48.120 friend and a wake up call because you need to 0:09:48.120 --> 0:09:50.360 be loyal. That's what loyalty is all about. That's what 0:09:50.440 --> 0:09:53.040 being faithful is all about. You love doing it, but 0:09:53.080 --> 0:09:55.080 you don't like when it's done to you. So your 0:09:55.160 --> 0:09:57.320 question to me was were you wrong? 0:09:57.840 --> 0:09:58.080 Yeah? 0:09:58.120 --> 0:10:00.800 You were wrong because, like I said, this is just 0:10:00.840 --> 0:10:03.600 your karma. Bookie back, So it is what it is. 0:10:03.800 --> 0:10:05.360 Get back to me because I want to be updated. 0:10:05.360 --> 0:10:07.440 I want to know. I don't want to misgender you. 0:10:07.920 --> 0:10:09.240 I want to know if you're a woman, if you're 0:10:09.240 --> 0:10:11.240 a man, I want to know what you went through 0:10:11.240 --> 0:10:13.240 to actually get here, why you couldn't stop cheating on 0:10:13.280 --> 0:10:16.240 your girl. I want to know, do you tell that 0:10:16.280 --> 0:10:18.880 it's any reconciliation between you and your homie? 0:10:18.880 --> 0:10:20.360 How long y'all been homies? Is some shit? 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:21.800 You know, you left quite a lot of meat off 0:10:21.800 --> 0:10:26.480 the bone. So yeah, period, Moving on, Go ahead, Taylor. 0:10:27.200 --> 0:10:29.560 Hey Jess, I can't believe I'm even saying this, but 0:10:29.760 --> 0:10:31.800 I'm very much attracted to my sister in law. 0:10:32.000 --> 0:10:35.200 Wait a minute, what the hell is going on? Oh, 0:10:35.520 --> 0:10:37.439 I can't even believe I'm saying this. I can't believe 0:10:37.440 --> 0:10:40.320 you feel that way with the five All right, go ahead. 0:10:41.040 --> 0:10:43.480 Me and my fiancee have been together for almost sixty 0:10:43.559 --> 0:10:46.120 years now. I'm thirty years old and my fiance is 0:10:46.160 --> 0:10:48.520 thirty one. Don't get me wrong, I love my girl 0:10:48.559 --> 0:10:50.200 and I want to be with her. I don't know 0:10:50.200 --> 0:10:52.360 where these feelings for my sister in law came from, 0:10:52.960 --> 0:10:54.040 but here we are. 0:10:55.280 --> 0:10:57.400 My sister in law has always. 0:10:57.040 --> 0:10:59.680 Been around and me and her are real close because 0:11:00.040 --> 0:11:02.079 I did over smoking, even. 0:11:01.800 --> 0:11:04.920 Showed her how to roll her first blunt. 0:11:05.040 --> 0:11:07.080 She ended up moving to Virginia last year because her 0:11:07.120 --> 0:11:09.440 husband is in the military and got stationed out there. 0:11:09.800 --> 0:11:12.800 She came back here to Arizona after being going for 0:11:12.840 --> 0:11:15.520 about seven months she started for like two months and 0:11:15.559 --> 0:11:17.840 I didn't even I didn't get the feelings. 0:11:17.559 --> 0:11:20.280 Until like two days before she was about to leave. 0:11:21.040 --> 0:11:23.600 I always thought she looked good, but never looked at 0:11:23.600 --> 0:11:25.400 her in the way I do now. You have been 0:11:25.440 --> 0:11:27.679 texting every day since she has left and went back 0:11:27.679 --> 0:11:32.000 to Virginia. Nothing crazy, just TikTok videos and talk about 0:11:32.040 --> 0:11:34.280 random shit. I would never tell her how I feel 0:11:34.360 --> 0:11:38.040 because I don't want her sister my fiance to find 0:11:38.040 --> 0:11:41.360 out and wanted want to mess up our close relationship either. 0:11:41.559 --> 0:11:43.800 Well, if you got damn wife listened to can't fleet 0:11:43.800 --> 0:11:45.559 reckless baby, you'll be divorced by them all. 0:11:46.800 --> 0:11:48.640 I don't know what to do you ever, just think 0:11:48.720 --> 0:11:50.560 sometimes you ended up with the wrong sister. 0:11:52.040 --> 0:11:55.400 Oh god, Oh my god. 0:11:56.120 --> 0:11:58.800 The sister in law was ambitious, sexy, and a hustler. 0:11:59.000 --> 0:12:01.760 My fiance, on the other isn't too ambitious. I think 0:12:01.800 --> 0:12:03.959 that's the reason I'm so attragic to my sister in law. 0:12:04.240 --> 0:12:05.959 Help me out, give me some advice on what I 0:12:05.960 --> 0:12:06.520 should do here. 0:12:07.720 --> 0:12:10.360 Oh my god, what is the matter with you? You 0:12:10.440 --> 0:12:14.000 already married to the system. They're married, yet you're not 0:12:14.040 --> 0:12:16.800 married yet. Nigga talking about if they ain't married yet 0:12:16.800 --> 0:12:17.960 girl would still hope. 0:12:18.200 --> 0:12:21.200 Ah oh gosh, Okay. 0:12:21.280 --> 0:12:23.120 Now we got a commercial and if you click off 0:12:23.120 --> 0:12:25.160 of this podcast, I swear I'm gonna beat your ass. 0:12:25.480 --> 0:12:29.839 Listen now, I'm not even gonna lie neck like I've 0:12:29.880 --> 0:12:31.679 never been in this situation, but not the same. 0:12:31.840 --> 0:12:36.400 Not not mess with the wrong brother, no, but the friend. 0:12:36.640 --> 0:12:37.840 Like you know how you'd be like, damn, I gonna 0:12:37.840 --> 0:12:39.800 mess with the wrong friend because you jumping out. 0:12:39.840 --> 0:12:41.920 They are early in shait. You see this nigga driving 0:12:42.120 --> 0:12:42.640 you cute. 0:12:43.120 --> 0:12:45.120 He got his head on straight, and then you see 0:12:45.120 --> 0:12:46.840 another niggaho got his head on a little straight up. 0:12:46.840 --> 0:12:49.360 He'd be like, ah thish onng boy. Damn, I made 0:12:49.360 --> 0:12:54.200 a choice to quick all right. So I've been in 0:12:54.200 --> 0:12:57.679 that situation before, however I did not act on it. 0:12:57.760 --> 0:13:00.640 But this is even worse because these are siblings. Bookie, 0:13:01.160 --> 0:13:05.839 the fuck? What the fuck is wrong with you? Your 0:13:05.880 --> 0:13:10.760 fiance is gonna be mighty pissed with you. Now, you 0:13:10.800 --> 0:13:13.319 said you didn't want to tell the sister how you feel. 0:13:13.360 --> 0:13:15.320 Do you think the sister feels the same about you? 0:13:16.040 --> 0:13:18.120 That's something that you didn't let me know. And then 0:13:18.160 --> 0:13:21.560 I'm bonding over smoking baby, I even sort of how 0:13:21.600 --> 0:13:22.520 to roll her first blunt? 0:13:22.600 --> 0:13:23.600 What the hell is. 0:13:25.120 --> 0:13:25.440 Y'oll? 0:13:26.080 --> 0:13:30.800 That is crazy? That is so crazy to me. 0:13:31.920 --> 0:13:35.240 It's a little childish, you know, y'all bonding over being 0:13:35.320 --> 0:13:38.880 high and shit, that's crazy. But you said there are 0:13:38.920 --> 0:13:41.160 certain things that you do like about her, her ambition 0:13:41.679 --> 0:13:44.480 and so on and so forth. Are you insinuating that 0:13:44.800 --> 0:13:47.840 your fiance does not have ambition, she does not have 0:13:47.960 --> 0:13:55.240 like goals and you know, potential success? Is that what 0:13:55.360 --> 0:13:57.000 she lacks? Because I'm trying to figure out how you 0:13:57.040 --> 0:13:59.679 are more into her, sister. And then you said at first, 0:13:59.720 --> 0:14:03.679 you you know, did the we do all that like 0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:06.880 make you attract as her two days before she left? 0:14:07.200 --> 0:14:10.679 And then honestly, I don't think it's just innocent tiktoks 0:14:10.760 --> 0:14:13.120 and random shit that y'all speaking about. If you feel 0:14:13.160 --> 0:14:15.640 this strongly about her, and if you're writing me about her, 0:14:15.640 --> 0:14:17.120 it has to what you think, Taylor, I feel like 0:14:17.160 --> 0:14:20.600 it's it's definitely more. Don't get too happy, just answer 0:14:20.800 --> 0:14:23.200 and that's it. 0:14:23.480 --> 0:14:26.000 I think this sister likes him too, because why are 0:14:26.040 --> 0:14:30.400 you talking to my fiancees like y'all too close to talking? 0:14:30.840 --> 0:14:33.640 Yeah? Yeah, do you believe they don't they did anything 0:14:34.760 --> 0:14:35.200 I don't know. 0:14:35.520 --> 0:14:39.520 Yeah, I wouldn't just jump ahead and say like, yeah, 0:14:39.560 --> 0:14:41.920 they've had sex, but I do believe that they've probably 0:14:41.920 --> 0:14:46.920 had conversations about it lightly or they have mentioned, oh, 0:14:47.040 --> 0:14:49.000 if I could be with you, this will happen if 0:14:49.000 --> 0:14:51.520 you weren't dating my sister, or I wish things were 0:14:51.520 --> 0:14:55.440 different those type of situations, as innocent as they could 0:14:55.480 --> 0:15:02.520 probably get it without crossing that line of physical intimacy 0:15:02.800 --> 0:15:04.080 or whatever. 0:15:04.280 --> 0:15:06.680 But I but what was the question again? How do 0:15:06.720 --> 0:15:09.960 I go about it? Or what the hell? Because what 0:15:10.000 --> 0:15:12.320 do you do well? 0:15:12.640 --> 0:15:17.000 Because the whole family knows you, so say if you 0:15:17.120 --> 0:15:19.800 do act like you in the movie, because they do 0:15:19.840 --> 0:15:21.440 the shit in the movies, they'll leave what they wit 0:15:21.680 --> 0:15:25.840 and who their heart lies with. The family gonna hate 0:15:25.880 --> 0:15:30.320 your ass, favel because if this is your fiance, the sister, 0:15:31.400 --> 0:15:36.480 you've met her family already and they'll hate the sister 0:15:36.600 --> 0:15:38.040 and they'll hate you. They're gonna be looking at you 0:15:38.120 --> 0:15:39.960 all for the rest of you all lives like these 0:15:40.080 --> 0:15:41.080 clown as holes. 0:15:41.360 --> 0:15:43.560 You know what I'm saying. They're gonna look at y'all 0:15:43.600 --> 0:15:44.280 real crazy. 0:15:44.680 --> 0:15:47.800 And then think about the heartbreak that the sister would 0:15:47.800 --> 0:15:50.800 feel that your future wife would feel and you talking 0:15:50.800 --> 0:15:53.120 about y'all wanted to find out. This is a big 0:15:53.480 --> 0:15:56.560 secret that you would be keeping from her. I have 0:15:56.680 --> 0:15:58.440 no idea how this will play out for you, but 0:15:58.480 --> 0:16:00.240 I do think both of your asses need to be 0:16:00.240 --> 0:16:02.560 put on blast. And I'm sorry you are very wrong, 0:16:02.680 --> 0:16:05.440 and you should go about it by first sitting down 0:16:05.480 --> 0:16:08.560 with your fiance, telling your fiance how you feel. 0:16:08.920 --> 0:16:10.880 I know he probably listening to this shit like bitch, I. 0:16:10.800 --> 0:16:13.280 Would never go sit down with my but I think 0:16:13.320 --> 0:16:16.040 you should because this feeling is not gonna go away. 0:16:16.400 --> 0:16:18.920 And then you talk to her sister, and then you 0:16:18.960 --> 0:16:21.440 talk to the sister like, well, I told her, so 0:16:22.320 --> 0:16:26.000 we're sol and for some reason, I don't know if 0:16:26.000 --> 0:16:27.200 the sister will be with him though. 0:16:27.200 --> 0:16:30.080 I just think it's or the sister could be trapping 0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:33.080 the fiance. Like see, I told you, m. 0:16:36.560 --> 0:16:39.240 If they play a little games like that and my 0:16:39.320 --> 0:16:41.240 baby drop, I'm hungry, I'm pregnant the baby. 0:16:42.640 --> 0:16:47.760 If they playing little games like that, bitch, I ain't 0:16:47.760 --> 0:16:48.080 gonna lie. 0:16:48.080 --> 0:16:52.400 I would do that too, I ain't gonna lie uh 0:16:53.160 --> 0:16:57.080 my sister, I would cry lad on thinking everything. 0:16:58.000 --> 0:17:01.480 They'd be like, I got you, but that's. 0:17:01.280 --> 0:17:03.120 Wighty you know if they really doing that, that's all 0:17:03.160 --> 0:17:05.119 pretty that shit that I did in my early twenties, 0:17:05.200 --> 0:17:08.320 late teen. It's like, no, we're not doing that just 0:17:08.320 --> 0:17:10.480 to somebody's life. Y'all planning on walking down the aisle, 0:17:10.920 --> 0:17:13.000 be real with your wife. Sarpy can get you do 0:17:13.520 --> 0:17:17.000 any and everything. Tom heals all wounds. I don't know 0:17:17.040 --> 0:17:19.320 about this one, but buddy, you gotta be honest with 0:17:19.400 --> 0:17:21.960 the one that you're walking down the aisle with because 0:17:22.000 --> 0:17:25.400 when y'all exchange those vowels, y'all are best friends. You're 0:17:25.440 --> 0:17:27.960 making a commitment, like you gotta be honest, and sometimes 0:17:28.080 --> 0:17:33.560 honesty definitely pierces, like it hurts. But Tom heals all wounds, 0:17:33.560 --> 0:17:35.600 and I think that she would respect your honesty. She 0:17:35.760 --> 0:17:37.400 probably want to beat the hell out of her sister 0:17:37.960 --> 0:17:40.200 and push back the wedding, if not break up with 0:17:40.240 --> 0:17:42.200 your ass. But at least you got your truth out 0:17:42.480 --> 0:17:44.119 because if you don't tell her, i'ma tell him. 0:17:44.520 --> 0:17:49.080 So we got we got his name. His name is Jeremy, Jeremy. 0:17:49.520 --> 0:17:57.679 Jeremy Taylor, Jeremy. Like I said, I will find your wife, 0:17:58.200 --> 0:18:00.680 your fiance and tell her. If you tell, I'm giving 0:18:00.680 --> 0:18:02.640 you two weeks get back with me, update me, love 0:18:02.680 --> 0:18:05.520 you and ladies and gentlemen. Just like that, we've come 0:18:05.560 --> 0:18:08.679 to yet another ending of another episode with your girl. 0:18:08.720 --> 0:18:13.160 Jo's hilarious and Taylor so and I have something note 0:18:13.200 --> 0:18:16.160 soon announce this is the end of season three. However, 0:18:16.280 --> 0:18:19.960 I've just been renewed for season four Carefully Records, so 0:18:20.000 --> 0:18:22.400 I will be continuing to fix mess in the future. 0:18:23.040 --> 0:18:25.359