Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio
Speaker 1: and the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back
Speaker 1: on the air. Welcome back to yet another carefully reckless
Speaker 1: episode with your Girl just hilarious.
Speaker 2: If I sound tired, you guys are here.
Speaker 1: I'm coming from Baltimore just getting my hair done, and
Speaker 1: I live in New York, New Jersey. Now, like you know, between,
Speaker 1: I'm loyal thought and everybody's like, you know what, It's
Speaker 1: plenty of places that you could have got your hair
Speaker 1: done in Jersey and in New York and Brooklyn and
Speaker 1: Queens and all that, but I don't know them.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna stick to what I know. Person.
Speaker 1: Now, I didn't go to Baltimore in the Hood to
Speaker 1: get my goddamn had done because we were head of
Speaker 1: a caller call up and.
Speaker 2: Envy sold to call.
Speaker 1: I had drove to Baltimore and I got my head
Speaker 1: and he's gonna say, stop the hood book a mess.
Speaker 2: Sorry, don't nobody going to to get it for her?
Speaker 2: Hand on?
Speaker 1: Trust me, I'm not leaving one to go to my
Speaker 1: old hood to get my hair done.
Speaker 2: No, I'm not.
Speaker 1: Kara Mac is definitely professional of all the professionals, and
Speaker 1: she has her own sweet so shout out to her.
Speaker 1: She's in Baltimore and it's not Baltimore City, it's Notingham, Maryland.
Speaker 1: And you know how you just say that one person
Speaker 1: that knows your head, that knows, like exactly how you
Speaker 1: like your parts, because I got full lockshaw knows how
Speaker 1: you like your parts, knows just enough baby hair to
Speaker 1: leave out or edges or whatever if you got them.
Speaker 1: If you don't, you have to take from your hairline
Speaker 1: like I used to, but now I have a little
Speaker 1: bit edges. So she knows exactly the amounts to leave
Speaker 1: out and everything. And have you ever gone to the
Speaker 1: hair salon and you get up and you like it,
Speaker 1: but then you have to go home and fix it
Speaker 1: to your exact liking. I hate having to do that,
Speaker 1: especially with the amounts of money that I pay to
Speaker 1: get my hair done. I don't have to do that
Speaker 1: with Kara at all, not one bit, not single a
Speaker 1: little bit. So I will be traveling no matter what.
Speaker 1: I will cross the ocean for Karra. Even though that
Speaker 1: sounds a little gap. It's about my hair, Okay, So
Speaker 1: we're gonna get into it.
Speaker 2: What do I be doing?
Speaker 1: I'll be fixing mess, and I'm gonna have Taylor reed
Speaker 1: because I don't feel like it.
Speaker 2: You already know what it is, so Taylor kick it off. Girl.
Speaker 3: All right, hey, Jess. So there's gonna be a lot
Speaker 3: of information that's taken. But I was in relationship for
Speaker 3: three years and I was unfaithful.
Speaker 2: I'll be honest.
Speaker 3: There was this one girl I was seeing for quite
Speaker 3: a while on the side that my girl.
Speaker 2: Also knew about.
Speaker 3: Then this third girl came as in my girlfriend, the
Speaker 3: side chick and now another side chick, and I kind
Speaker 3: of fell head over heels for her, so she fell
Speaker 3: in love with the side chick. So I started seeing
Speaker 3: this third girl.
Speaker 2: We hit it off.
Speaker 3: Everything's good, and I tell her that I'm in a
Speaker 3: relationship and she says that she's cool with it, so
Speaker 3: as long as I'm honest with her and tell her
Speaker 3: the truth about everything. Mind you, she had just gotten
Speaker 3: out of relationship herself where the boyfriend was cheating in
Speaker 3: this and that. So I started to pursue something with
Speaker 3: this girl while still in a relationship. And one day
Speaker 3: I'm at work and she calls me saying that she
Speaker 3: found out that I had a second snapchat and that
Speaker 3: I was still talking to the one girl from before,
Speaker 3: and then she said that she basically couldn't trust me
Speaker 3: anymore and she couldn't see herself being with me. Not
Speaker 3: I only knew this girl for like a month when
Speaker 3: this happened, but I was head over heels for her
Speaker 3: and wanted her to be mine.
Speaker 2: So I did everything.
Speaker 1: Hold on, men, this person is doing all this in
Speaker 1: a relationship with somebody else.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but what I think it's her girlfriend found out.
Speaker 2: That's how it's making seem okay.
Speaker 1: So her girlfriend found out about the other girl that
Speaker 1: she fell in love with, she was head over heels
Speaker 1: with okay, all right, And then.
Speaker 3: I did the second snapchat. I dropped all my hoes
Speaker 3: and I tried to be faithful to her, but she
Speaker 3: just wanted to be friends and wanted nothing to do
Speaker 3: with me. Now, mind you, behind the scenes, I have
Speaker 3: a friend of four years who knows about everything about
Speaker 3: the side chick, about everything in my relationship at a time,
Speaker 3: and about this girl, every small detail. So after everything,
Speaker 3: and after she said she just wanted to be friends,
Speaker 3: she texted me one day and says that her and
Speaker 3: my friend hung out and that he confessed to have
Speaker 3: feelings for her. Mind you, this was a couple of
Speaker 3: days after she had decided to break things off with me,
Speaker 3: so I was still a little heartbroken.
Speaker 2: She said that she felt the same for him. There's
Speaker 2: a guy involved. Now I am so confused with the.
Speaker 3: How, and I have a retaliation anger of whatever you
Speaker 3: want to call it. I dropped both of them. I
Speaker 3: stopped talking to both of them. I called him a
Speaker 3: piece of shit. To me, he's scum. And the fact
Speaker 3: that he would do that to someone that calls him
Speaker 3: my brother is shitty.
Speaker 2: Okay. So her friends or brother, oh, okay.
Speaker 1: Okay, So her brother started fucking one of her bitches,
Speaker 1: like her homeboy who she considers a brother, started fucking
Speaker 1: with one of the girls that she liked.
Speaker 2: But she is a serial cheater, so it shouldn't matter. Okay,
Speaker 2: go ahead.
Speaker 3: And as for her, I think she's a homie hopping
Speaker 3: bitch that they both s that I was overreacting to
Speaker 3: the situation and I had no right to be upset,
Speaker 3: which I can't understand because I fucked up and betrayed
Speaker 3: her trust. Okay, So her ex basically was fucking with
Speaker 3: her homie.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: So the first girlfriend who she kept on cheating on
Speaker 1: like willingly and intentionally non mistakingly starts dealing with her
Speaker 1: homeboy that she considers to be a brother.
Speaker 2: Yeah, m lord.
Speaker 1: So she seeks comfort under the sheets with the homie
Speaker 1: and the girlfriend finds out, you know, the world, the cheater,
Speaker 1: the original cheater finds out and she can't take that. Yes,
Speaker 1: they can dish it, but they can't take it. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: is that story done?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 1: Oh, jesus go in there's more homie hopping bitch girl
Speaker 1: after you done slept?
Speaker 2: Whatever? Read? What the hell please? She goes.
Speaker 3: I had no right to be, they said, had no
Speaker 3: right to be upset, which I can understand because I
Speaker 3: fucked up and betrayed her trust, but I try my
Speaker 3: best to get her back. And the fact that my
Speaker 3: best friend would go and think that it's okay to
Speaker 3: take a girl that he knew I want so bad,
Speaker 3: it's fucked up. So I'm sending this message to ask
Speaker 3: was I wrong for feeling the way I do this
Speaker 3: day and holding a grudge against these two people that
Speaker 3: I call friends, and one of them that I would
Speaker 3: have liked to call my girlfriend. It's been four months
Speaker 3: since we've spoken to either of them, and I have
Speaker 3: no intention on going back, but I want to know
Speaker 3: from you guys firsthand if I was wrong or right.
Speaker 1: Don't try and put this out on my mask. She
Speaker 1: did not say I want to know from you guys.
Speaker 1: She said, I want to know from you.
Speaker 2: Jess. Then what you are not the expert here, you're
Speaker 2: just the reader. Thank you.
Speaker 1: I love this show all right now, y'all see, I'll
Speaker 1: tailor try to get in on the girl.
Speaker 2: You are just the narrator.
Speaker 4: Huh.
Speaker 1: Hold up, hold up, I know the shit getting good,
Speaker 1: but listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial.
Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen. Okay, So, hell yeah,
Speaker 1: I think you was wrong. What the fuck you mean
Speaker 1: you was wrong? You was wrong from the jump. You
Speaker 1: just got a taste of your own medicine. Now, as
Speaker 1: far as the loyalty lies with your homeboy, okay, there's
Speaker 1: a few things I would like to say about that.
Speaker 1: Maybe he thought it was a free for all. Maybe
Speaker 1: y'all have shared bitches before. You can't say what bitches
Speaker 1: off of them? And what bitch is you feel me,
Speaker 1: especially if you're treating the main bitch like a side bitch.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, so, and then is this
Speaker 1: a woman or is this a okay, and so your
Speaker 1: girl it seems like it is a woman man Okay,
Speaker 1: either way, I'll just answer two ways, just in case
Speaker 1: you are a woman or a man. So, if you
Speaker 1: are a woman, your girlfriend was bisexual, because ain't no
Speaker 1: way a man cause still if she was a full
Speaker 1: blown gay, okay. If you are a man, yeah, he
Speaker 1: broke the brother code. You're a homeboy that you considered
Speaker 1: to be a brother. However, he said he hasn't spoken
Speaker 1: to either one of them. This person said it either
Speaker 1: one for four months. Oh, you're giving them more time
Speaker 1: to be bumping the ground and then, baby, it no
Speaker 1: matter whether you speak to them or not now because
Speaker 1: they both give you a taste of your own medicines.
Speaker 2: They've been fucking Oh.
Speaker 1: Believe that the longer you don't talk to them, the
Speaker 1: more they talk to each other. So I just want
Speaker 1: to let you know you lost them and that's karma
Speaker 1: for your ass you need to do. I hate telling
Speaker 1: people to go heal because sometimes that's just how people are.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I don't know where you
Speaker 1: would be healing from, because I don't know your whole story.
Speaker 1: You just gave me the whole story. I'm talking about hoe.
Speaker 1: You gave me the whole story, not your whole story.
Speaker 1: So I don't know what I would be telling you
Speaker 1: to recover from, or to seek therapy on, or anything
Speaker 1: like that. But you lost them, and it is what
Speaker 1: it is. But you know what, this is a perfect
Speaker 1: case of you never know what you got til it's gone.
Speaker 1: Because you missed this bitch. I know you miss her.
Speaker 1: I know you do, or you wouldn't be writing me
Speaker 1: and revealing all of that crazy business surrounding your relationship
Speaker 1: when you know you're in the wrong. Sometimes people just
Speaker 1: need to hear their own shit repeat it back to
Speaker 1: them because you know you were wrong. You dropped the
Speaker 1: ball on a good girl eyes. I don't know she
Speaker 1: was to be fucking your home boy, but before she
Speaker 1: fucked your home boy, she was a good girl apparently,
Speaker 1: and you were sleeping around on it. Then you said
Speaker 1: you even fell head over heels for a second side, bitch,
Speaker 1: not the first one. Now, at first, I thought you
Speaker 1: were saying you were bringing these girls into your relationship,
Speaker 1: like that's one of you guys's desire. I mean, like
Speaker 1: that's a desire of both of you. Like you guys
Speaker 1: have like a not an open relationship, but what is
Speaker 1: it called? Like, yeah, a polyamorous relationship. We y'all have
Speaker 1: a third girlfriend and a fourth girlfriend and y'all actually
Speaker 1: go get bitches together or something like that.
Speaker 2: That's what I was like hoping that that was.
Speaker 1: But no, you was just outright cheating and falling in
Speaker 1: love on her, and now that she fell in love
Speaker 1: with your homie, you ain't talking to neither one of them.
Speaker 1: It is what it is. You obviously need a new
Speaker 1: friend and a wake up call because you need to
Speaker 1: be loyal. That's what loyalty is all about. That's what
Speaker 1: being faithful is all about. You love doing it, but
Speaker 1: you don't like when it's done to you. So your
Speaker 1: question to me was were you wrong?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: You were wrong because, like I said, this is just
Speaker 1: your karma. Bookie back, So it is what it is.
Speaker 1: Get back to me because I want to be updated.
Speaker 2: I want to know. I don't want to misgender you.
Speaker 1: I want to know if you're a woman, if you're
Speaker 1: a man, I want to know what you went through
Speaker 1: to actually get here, why you couldn't stop cheating on
Speaker 1: your girl. I want to know, do you tell that
Speaker 1: it's any reconciliation between you and your homie?
Speaker 2: How long y'all been homies? Is some shit?
Speaker 1: You know, you left quite a lot of meat off
Speaker 1: the bone. So yeah, period, Moving on, Go ahead, Taylor.
Speaker 3: Hey Jess, I can't believe I'm even saying this, but
Speaker 3: I'm very much attracted to my sister in law.
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, what the hell is going on? Oh,
Speaker 1: I can't even believe I'm saying this. I can't believe
Speaker 1: you feel that way with the five All right, go ahead.
Speaker 3: Me and my fiancee have been together for almost sixty
Speaker 3: years now. I'm thirty years old and my fiance is
Speaker 3: thirty one. Don't get me wrong, I love my girl
Speaker 3: and I want to be with her. I don't know
Speaker 3: where these feelings for my sister in law came from,
Speaker 3: but here we are.
Speaker 2: My sister in law has always.
Speaker 3: Been around and me and her are real close because
Speaker 3: I did over smoking, even.
Speaker 2: Showed her how to roll her first blunt.
Speaker 3: She ended up moving to Virginia last year because her
Speaker 3: husband is in the military and got stationed out there.
Speaker 3: She came back here to Arizona after being going for
Speaker 3: about seven months she started for like two months and
Speaker 3: I didn't even I didn't get the feelings.
Speaker 2: Until like two days before she was about to leave.
Speaker 3: I always thought she looked good, but never looked at
Speaker 3: her in the way I do now. You have been
Speaker 3: texting every day since she has left and went back
Speaker 3: to Virginia. Nothing crazy, just TikTok videos and talk about
Speaker 3: random shit. I would never tell her how I feel
Speaker 3: because I don't want her sister my fiance to find
Speaker 3: out and wanted want to mess up our close relationship either.
Speaker 1: Well, if you got damn wife listened to can't fleet
Speaker 1: reckless baby, you'll be divorced by them all.
Speaker 3: I don't know what to do you ever, just think
Speaker 3: sometimes you ended up with the wrong sister.
Speaker 2: Oh god, Oh my god.
Speaker 3: The sister in law was ambitious, sexy, and a hustler.
Speaker 3: My fiance, on the other isn't too ambitious. I think
Speaker 3: that's the reason I'm so attragic to my sister in law.
Speaker 3: Help me out, give me some advice on what I
Speaker 3: should do here.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, what is the matter with you? You
Speaker 1: already married to the system. They're married, yet you're not
Speaker 1: married yet. Nigga talking about if they ain't married yet
Speaker 1: girl would still hope.
Speaker 2: Ah oh gosh, Okay.
Speaker 1: Now we got a commercial and if you click off
Speaker 1: of this podcast, I swear I'm gonna beat your ass.
Speaker 1: Listen now, I'm not even gonna lie neck like I've
Speaker 1: never been in this situation, but not the same.
Speaker 2: Not not mess with the wrong brother, no, but the friend.
Speaker 1: Like you know how you'd be like, damn, I gonna
Speaker 1: mess with the wrong friend because you jumping out.
Speaker 2: They are early in shait. You see this nigga driving
Speaker 2: you cute.
Speaker 1: He got his head on straight, and then you see
Speaker 1: another niggaho got his head on a little straight up.
Speaker 1: He'd be like, ah thish onng boy. Damn, I made
Speaker 1: a choice to quick all right. So I've been in
Speaker 1: that situation before, however I did not act on it.
Speaker 1: But this is even worse because these are siblings. Bookie,
Speaker 1: the fuck? What the fuck is wrong with you? Your
Speaker 1: fiance is gonna be mighty pissed with you. Now, you
Speaker 1: said you didn't want to tell the sister how you feel.
Speaker 1: Do you think the sister feels the same about you?
Speaker 1: That's something that you didn't let me know. And then
Speaker 1: I'm bonding over smoking baby, I even sort of how
Speaker 1: to roll her first blunt?
Speaker 2: What the hell is.
Speaker 4: Y'oll?
Speaker 2: That is crazy? That is so crazy to me.
Speaker 1: It's a little childish, you know, y'all bonding over being
Speaker 1: high and shit, that's crazy. But you said there are
Speaker 1: certain things that you do like about her, her ambition
Speaker 1: and so on and so forth. Are you insinuating that
Speaker 1: your fiance does not have ambition, she does not have
Speaker 1: like goals and you know, potential success? Is that what
Speaker 1: she lacks? Because I'm trying to figure out how you
Speaker 1: are more into her, sister. And then you said at first,
Speaker 1: you you know, did the we do all that like
Speaker 1: make you attract as her two days before she left?
Speaker 1: And then honestly, I don't think it's just innocent tiktoks
Speaker 1: and random shit that y'all speaking about. If you feel
Speaker 1: this strongly about her, and if you're writing me about her,
Speaker 1: it has to what you think, Taylor, I feel like
Speaker 1: it's it's definitely more. Don't get too happy, just answer
Speaker 1: and that's it.
Speaker 3: I think this sister likes him too, because why are
Speaker 3: you talking to my fiancees like y'all too close to talking?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, do you believe they don't they did anything
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I wouldn't just jump ahead and say like, yeah,
Speaker 1: they've had sex, but I do believe that they've probably
Speaker 1: had conversations about it lightly or they have mentioned, oh,
Speaker 1: if I could be with you, this will happen if
Speaker 1: you weren't dating my sister, or I wish things were
Speaker 1: different those type of situations, as innocent as they could
Speaker 1: probably get it without crossing that line of physical intimacy
Speaker 1: or whatever.
Speaker 2: But I but what was the question again? How do
Speaker 2: I go about it? Or what the hell? Because what
Speaker 2: do you do well?
Speaker 1: Because the whole family knows you, so say if you
Speaker 1: do act like you in the movie, because they do
Speaker 1: the shit in the movies, they'll leave what they wit
Speaker 1: and who their heart lies with. The family gonna hate
Speaker 1: your ass, favel because if this is your fiance, the sister,
Speaker 1: you've met her family already and they'll hate the sister
Speaker 1: and they'll hate you. They're gonna be looking at you
Speaker 1: all for the rest of you all lives like these
Speaker 1: clown as holes.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. They're gonna look at y'all
Speaker 2: real crazy.
Speaker 1: And then think about the heartbreak that the sister would
Speaker 1: feel that your future wife would feel and you talking
Speaker 1: about y'all wanted to find out. This is a big
Speaker 1: secret that you would be keeping from her. I have
Speaker 1: no idea how this will play out for you, but
Speaker 1: I do think both of your asses need to be
Speaker 1: put on blast. And I'm sorry you are very wrong,
Speaker 1: and you should go about it by first sitting down
Speaker 1: with your fiance, telling your fiance how you feel.
Speaker 2: I know he probably listening to this shit like bitch, I.
Speaker 1: Would never go sit down with my but I think
Speaker 1: you should because this feeling is not gonna go away.
Speaker 1: And then you talk to her sister, and then you
Speaker 1: talk to the sister like, well, I told her, so
Speaker 1: we're sol and for some reason, I don't know if
Speaker 1: the sister will be with him though.
Speaker 2: I just think it's or the sister could be trapping
Speaker 2: the fiance. Like see, I told you, m.
Speaker 1: If they play a little games like that and my
Speaker 1: baby drop, I'm hungry, I'm pregnant the baby.
Speaker 2: If they playing little games like that, bitch, I ain't
Speaker 2: gonna lie.
Speaker 1: I would do that too, I ain't gonna lie uh
Speaker 1: my sister, I would cry lad on thinking everything.
Speaker 2: They'd be like, I got you, but that's.
Speaker 1: Wighty you know if they really doing that, that's all
Speaker 1: pretty that shit that I did in my early twenties,
Speaker 1: late teen. It's like, no, we're not doing that just
Speaker 1: to somebody's life. Y'all planning on walking down the aisle,
Speaker 1: be real with your wife. Sarpy can get you do
Speaker 1: any and everything. Tom heals all wounds. I don't know
Speaker 1: about this one, but buddy, you gotta be honest with
Speaker 1: the one that you're walking down the aisle with because
Speaker 1: when y'all exchange those vowels, y'all are best friends. You're
Speaker 1: making a commitment, like you gotta be honest, and sometimes
Speaker 1: honesty definitely pierces, like it hurts. But Tom heals all wounds,
Speaker 1: and I think that she would respect your honesty. She
Speaker 1: probably want to beat the hell out of her sister
Speaker 1: and push back the wedding, if not break up with
Speaker 1: your ass. But at least you got your truth out
Speaker 1: because if you don't tell her, i'ma tell him.
Speaker 2: So we got we got his name. His name is Jeremy, Jeremy.
Speaker 1: Jeremy Taylor, Jeremy. Like I said, I will find your wife,
Speaker 1: your fiance and tell her. If you tell, I'm giving
Speaker 1: you two weeks get back with me, update me, love
Speaker 1: you and ladies and gentlemen. Just like that, we've come
Speaker 1: to yet another ending of another episode with your girl.
Speaker 1: Jo's hilarious and Taylor so and I have something note
Speaker 1: soon announce this is the end of season three. However,
Speaker 1: I've just been renewed for season four Carefully Records, so
Speaker 1: I will be continuing to fix mess in the future.
Speaker 1: And I'm only taking a few weeks off, y'all. Nothing
Speaker 1: nothing big, nothing major, maybe like two weeks and then
Speaker 1: I'll be back with season four, new cover art, news stories,
Speaker 1: bigger stories. Taylor, you're gonna read again until I had
Speaker 1: this baby. Yeah, yeah, so she's gonna read from me, y'all,
Speaker 1: either her or Naya. Love y'all and in my deepest panboys, peace.
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