1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,159 Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 1: and the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back 3 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:18,599 Speaker 1: on the air. Welcome back to yet another carefully reckless 4 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:20,079 Speaker 1: episode with your Girl just hilarious. 5 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 2: If I sound tired, you guys are here. 6 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 1: I'm coming from Baltimore just getting my hair done, and 7 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 1: I live in New York, New Jersey. Now, like you know, between, 8 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 1: I'm loyal thought and everybody's like, you know what, It's 9 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:36,919 Speaker 1: plenty of places that you could have got your hair 10 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:39,199 Speaker 1: done in Jersey and in New York and Brooklyn and 11 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:41,599 Speaker 1: Queens and all that, but I don't know them. 12 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 2: I'm gonna stick to what I know. Person. 13 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:45,800 Speaker 1: Now, I didn't go to Baltimore in the Hood to 14 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:47,879 Speaker 1: get my goddamn had done because we were head of 15 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:50,240 Speaker 1: a caller call up and. 16 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:51,279 Speaker 2: Envy sold to call. 17 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:52,919 Speaker 1: I had drove to Baltimore and I got my head 18 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 1: and he's gonna say, stop the hood book a mess. 19 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 2: Sorry, don't nobody going to to get it for her? 20 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 2: Hand on? 21 00:00:57,800 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 1: Trust me, I'm not leaving one to go to my 22 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 1: old hood to get my hair done. 23 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 2: No, I'm not. 24 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 1: Kara Mac is definitely professional of all the professionals, and 25 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 1: she has her own sweet so shout out to her. 26 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:15,400 Speaker 1: She's in Baltimore and it's not Baltimore City, it's Notingham, Maryland. 27 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: And you know how you just say that one person 28 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 1: that knows your head, that knows, like exactly how you 29 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 1: like your parts, because I got full lockshaw knows how 30 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:27,319 Speaker 1: you like your parts, knows just enough baby hair to 31 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 1: leave out or edges or whatever if you got them. 32 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:31,400 Speaker 1: If you don't, you have to take from your hairline 33 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 1: like I used to, but now I have a little 34 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 1: bit edges. So she knows exactly the amounts to leave 35 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 1: out and everything. And have you ever gone to the 36 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 1: hair salon and you get up and you like it, 37 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 1: but then you have to go home and fix it 38 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 1: to your exact liking. I hate having to do that, 39 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 1: especially with the amounts of money that I pay to 40 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 1: get my hair done. I don't have to do that 41 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 1: with Kara at all, not one bit, not single a 42 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 1: little bit. So I will be traveling no matter what. 43 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 1: I will cross the ocean for Karra. Even though that 44 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: sounds a little gap. It's about my hair, Okay, So 45 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 1: we're gonna get into it. 46 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 2: What do I be doing? 47 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 1: I'll be fixing mess, and I'm gonna have Taylor reed 48 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 1: because I don't feel like it. 49 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 2: You already know what it is, so Taylor kick it off. Girl. 50 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 3: All right, hey, Jess. So there's gonna be a lot 51 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:19,360 Speaker 3: of information that's taken. But I was in relationship for 52 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:20,919 Speaker 3: three years and I was unfaithful. 53 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:21,799 Speaker 2: I'll be honest. 54 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 3: There was this one girl I was seeing for quite 55 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 3: a while on the side that my girl. 56 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 2: Also knew about. 57 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 3: Then this third girl came as in my girlfriend, the 58 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:34,360 Speaker 3: side chick and now another side chick, and I kind 59 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:37,119 Speaker 3: of fell head over heels for her, so she fell 60 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 3: in love with the side chick. So I started seeing 61 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 3: this third girl. 62 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 2: We hit it off. 63 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 3: Everything's good, and I tell her that I'm in a 64 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 3: relationship and she says that she's cool with it, so 65 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 3: as long as I'm honest with her and tell her 66 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:51,079 Speaker 3: the truth about everything. Mind you, she had just gotten 67 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 3: out of relationship herself where the boyfriend was cheating in 68 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:56,800 Speaker 3: this and that. So I started to pursue something with 69 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 3: this girl while still in a relationship. And one day 70 00:02:59,880 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 3: I'm at work and she calls me saying that she 71 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 3: found out that I had a second snapchat and that 72 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 3: I was still talking to the one girl from before, 73 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 3: and then she said that she basically couldn't trust me 74 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:12,079 Speaker 3: anymore and she couldn't see herself being with me. Not 75 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 3: I only knew this girl for like a month when 76 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:17,079 Speaker 3: this happened, but I was head over heels for her 77 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 3: and wanted her to be mine. 78 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 2: So I did everything. 79 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:22,240 Speaker 1: Hold on, men, this person is doing all this in 80 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 1: a relationship with somebody else. 81 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, but what I think it's her girlfriend found out. 82 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 2: That's how it's making seem okay. 83 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 1: So her girlfriend found out about the other girl that 84 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 1: she fell in love with, she was head over heels 85 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:40,880 Speaker 1: with okay, all right, And then. 86 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 3: I did the second snapchat. I dropped all my hoes 87 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 3: and I tried to be faithful to her, but she 88 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 3: just wanted to be friends and wanted nothing to do 89 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 3: with me. Now, mind you, behind the scenes, I have 90 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 3: a friend of four years who knows about everything about 91 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 3: the side chick, about everything in my relationship at a time, 92 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 3: and about this girl, every small detail. So after everything, 93 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 3: and after she said she just wanted to be friends, 94 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 3: she texted me one day and says that her and 95 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 3: my friend hung out and that he confessed to have 96 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 3: feelings for her. Mind you, this was a couple of 97 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:16,919 Speaker 3: days after she had decided to break things off with me, 98 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 3: so I was still a little heartbroken. 99 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 2: She said that she felt the same for him. There's 100 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 2: a guy involved. Now I am so confused with the. 101 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 3: How, and I have a retaliation anger of whatever you 102 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 3: want to call it. I dropped both of them. I 103 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:33,719 Speaker 3: stopped talking to both of them. I called him a 104 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 3: piece of shit. To me, he's scum. And the fact 105 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 3: that he would do that to someone that calls him 106 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:40,279 Speaker 3: my brother is shitty. 107 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 2: Okay. So her friends or brother, oh, okay. 108 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: Okay, So her brother started fucking one of her bitches, 109 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:50,679 Speaker 1: like her homeboy who she considers a brother, started fucking 110 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 1: with one of the girls that she liked. 111 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 2: But she is a serial cheater, so it shouldn't matter. Okay, 112 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 2: go ahead. 113 00:04:56,680 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 3: And as for her, I think she's a homie hopping 114 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:01,839 Speaker 3: bitch that they both s that I was overreacting to 115 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 3: the situation and I had no right to be upset, 116 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 3: which I can't understand because I fucked up and betrayed 117 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 3: her trust. Okay, So her ex basically was fucking with 118 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:11,320 Speaker 3: her homie. 119 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:11,719 Speaker 2: Okay. 120 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:14,839 Speaker 1: So the first girlfriend who she kept on cheating on 121 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 1: like willingly and intentionally non mistakingly starts dealing with her 122 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 1: homeboy that she considers to be a brother. 123 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:26,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, m lord. 124 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:31,839 Speaker 1: So she seeks comfort under the sheets with the homie 125 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 1: and the girlfriend finds out, you know, the world, the cheater, 126 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:39,599 Speaker 1: the original cheater finds out and she can't take that. Yes, 127 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 1: they can dish it, but they can't take it. Yeah, okay, 128 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 1: is that story done? 129 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:43,560 Speaker 3: No? 130 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:48,159 Speaker 1: Oh, jesus go in there's more homie hopping bitch girl 131 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:49,799 Speaker 1: after you done slept? 132 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 2: Whatever? Read? What the hell please? She goes. 133 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 3: I had no right to be, they said, had no 134 00:05:55,160 --> 00:05:57,159 Speaker 3: right to be upset, which I can understand because I 135 00:05:57,200 --> 00:05:59,359 Speaker 3: fucked up and betrayed her trust, but I try my 136 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 3: best to get her back. And the fact that my 137 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 3: best friend would go and think that it's okay to 138 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:06,600 Speaker 3: take a girl that he knew I want so bad, 139 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:09,479 Speaker 3: it's fucked up. So I'm sending this message to ask 140 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:11,600 Speaker 3: was I wrong for feeling the way I do this 141 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:14,120 Speaker 3: day and holding a grudge against these two people that 142 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 3: I call friends, and one of them that I would 143 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:19,280 Speaker 3: have liked to call my girlfriend. It's been four months 144 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 3: since we've spoken to either of them, and I have 145 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:23,719 Speaker 3: no intention on going back, but I want to know 146 00:06:23,800 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 3: from you guys firsthand if I was wrong or right. 147 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 1: Don't try and put this out on my mask. She 148 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:30,560 Speaker 1: did not say I want to know from you guys. 149 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:32,279 Speaker 1: She said, I want to know from you. 150 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 2: Jess. Then what you are not the expert here, you're 151 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:38,240 Speaker 2: just the reader. Thank you. 152 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 1: I love this show all right now, y'all see, I'll 153 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:42,920 Speaker 1: tailor try to get in on the girl. 154 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 2: You are just the narrator. 155 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 4: Huh. 156 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:47,840 Speaker 1: Hold up, hold up, I know the shit getting good, 157 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:50,160 Speaker 1: but listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial. 158 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen. Okay, So, hell yeah, 159 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 1: I think you was wrong. What the fuck you mean 160 00:06:57,839 --> 00:07:00,120 Speaker 1: you was wrong? You was wrong from the jump. You 161 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:02,360 Speaker 1: just got a taste of your own medicine. Now, as 162 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:06,480 Speaker 1: far as the loyalty lies with your homeboy, okay, there's 163 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 1: a few things I would like to say about that. 164 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 1: Maybe he thought it was a free for all. Maybe 165 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:14,720 Speaker 1: y'all have shared bitches before. You can't say what bitches 166 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:16,600 Speaker 1: off of them? And what bitch is you feel me, 167 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 1: especially if you're treating the main bitch like a side bitch. 168 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, so, and then is this 169 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 1: a woman or is this a okay, and so your 170 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 1: girl it seems like it is a woman man Okay, 171 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:31,600 Speaker 1: either way, I'll just answer two ways, just in case 172 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 1: you are a woman or a man. So, if you 173 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:36,400 Speaker 1: are a woman, your girlfriend was bisexual, because ain't no 174 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 1: way a man cause still if she was a full 175 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 1: blown gay, okay. If you are a man, yeah, he 176 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 1: broke the brother code. You're a homeboy that you considered 177 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 1: to be a brother. However, he said he hasn't spoken 178 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 1: to either one of them. This person said it either 179 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:53,840 Speaker 1: one for four months. Oh, you're giving them more time 180 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 1: to be bumping the ground and then, baby, it no 181 00:07:55,560 --> 00:07:57,600 Speaker 1: matter whether you speak to them or not now because 182 00:07:57,600 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 1: they both give you a taste of your own medicines. 183 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 2: They've been fucking Oh. 184 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 1: Believe that the longer you don't talk to them, the 185 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 1: more they talk to each other. So I just want 186 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 1: to let you know you lost them and that's karma 187 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:13,680 Speaker 1: for your ass you need to do. I hate telling 188 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 1: people to go heal because sometimes that's just how people are. 189 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I don't know where you 190 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 1: would be healing from, because I don't know your whole story. 191 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 1: You just gave me the whole story. I'm talking about hoe. 192 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 1: You gave me the whole story, not your whole story. 193 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 1: So I don't know what I would be telling you 194 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:32,320 Speaker 1: to recover from, or to seek therapy on, or anything 195 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 1: like that. But you lost them, and it is what 196 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 1: it is. But you know what, this is a perfect 197 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 1: case of you never know what you got til it's gone. 198 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 1: Because you missed this bitch. I know you miss her. 199 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 1: I know you do, or you wouldn't be writing me 200 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:50,079 Speaker 1: and revealing all of that crazy business surrounding your relationship 201 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 1: when you know you're in the wrong. Sometimes people just 202 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 1: need to hear their own shit repeat it back to 203 00:08:55,720 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 1: them because you know you were wrong. You dropped the 204 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:00,200 Speaker 1: ball on a good girl eyes. I don't know she 205 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:03,040 Speaker 1: was to be fucking your home boy, but before she 206 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:05,200 Speaker 1: fucked your home boy, she was a good girl apparently, 207 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 1: and you were sleeping around on it. Then you said 208 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 1: you even fell head over heels for a second side, bitch, 209 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 1: not the first one. Now, at first, I thought you 210 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:17,119 Speaker 1: were saying you were bringing these girls into your relationship, 211 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 1: like that's one of you guys's desire. I mean, like 212 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 1: that's a desire of both of you. Like you guys 213 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:24,720 Speaker 1: have like a not an open relationship, but what is 214 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 1: it called? Like, yeah, a polyamorous relationship. We y'all have 215 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:30,720 Speaker 1: a third girlfriend and a fourth girlfriend and y'all actually 216 00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:32,840 Speaker 1: go get bitches together or something like that. 217 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 2: That's what I was like hoping that that was. 218 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 1: But no, you was just outright cheating and falling in 219 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:39,800 Speaker 1: love on her, and now that she fell in love 220 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 1: with your homie, you ain't talking to neither one of them. 221 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 1: It is what it is. You obviously need a new 222 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 1: friend and a wake up call because you need to 223 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 1: be loyal. That's what loyalty is all about. That's what 224 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 1: being faithful is all about. You love doing it, but 225 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:55,080 Speaker 1: you don't like when it's done to you. So your 226 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:57,320 Speaker 1: question to me was were you wrong? 227 00:09:57,840 --> 00:09:58,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? 228 00:09:58,120 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 1: You were wrong because, like I said, this is just 229 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 1: your karma. Bookie back, So it is what it is. 230 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:05,360 Speaker 1: Get back to me because I want to be updated. 231 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:07,440 Speaker 2: I want to know. I don't want to misgender you. 232 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 1: I want to know if you're a woman, if you're 233 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:11,240 Speaker 1: a man, I want to know what you went through 234 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 1: to actually get here, why you couldn't stop cheating on 235 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 1: your girl. I want to know, do you tell that 236 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 1: it's any reconciliation between you and your homie? 237 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 2: How long y'all been homies? Is some shit? 238 00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 1: You know, you left quite a lot of meat off 239 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:26,480 Speaker 1: the bone. So yeah, period, Moving on, Go ahead, Taylor. 240 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:29,560 Speaker 3: Hey Jess, I can't believe I'm even saying this, but 241 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 3: I'm very much attracted to my sister in law. 242 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:35,200 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, what the hell is going on? Oh, 243 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:37,439 Speaker 1: I can't even believe I'm saying this. I can't believe 244 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:40,320 Speaker 1: you feel that way with the five All right, go ahead. 245 00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:43,480 Speaker 3: Me and my fiancee have been together for almost sixty 246 00:10:43,559 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 3: years now. I'm thirty years old and my fiance is 247 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:48,520 Speaker 3: thirty one. Don't get me wrong, I love my girl 248 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:50,200 Speaker 3: and I want to be with her. I don't know 249 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:52,360 Speaker 3: where these feelings for my sister in law came from, 250 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 3: but here we are. 251 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:57,400 Speaker 2: My sister in law has always. 252 00:10:57,040 --> 00:10:59,680 Speaker 3: Been around and me and her are real close because 253 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:02,079 Speaker 3: I did over smoking, even. 254 00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 2: Showed her how to roll her first blunt. 255 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:07,080 Speaker 3: She ended up moving to Virginia last year because her 256 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:09,440 Speaker 3: husband is in the military and got stationed out there. 257 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 3: She came back here to Arizona after being going for 258 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 3: about seven months she started for like two months and 259 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 3: I didn't even I didn't get the feelings. 260 00:11:17,559 --> 00:11:20,280 Speaker 2: Until like two days before she was about to leave. 261 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 3: I always thought she looked good, but never looked at 262 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 3: her in the way I do now. You have been 263 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:27,679 Speaker 3: texting every day since she has left and went back 264 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 3: to Virginia. Nothing crazy, just TikTok videos and talk about 265 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 3: random shit. I would never tell her how I feel 266 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:38,040 Speaker 3: because I don't want her sister my fiance to find 267 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 3: out and wanted want to mess up our close relationship either. 268 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 1: Well, if you got damn wife listened to can't fleet 269 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:45,559 Speaker 1: reckless baby, you'll be divorced by them all. 270 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:48,640 Speaker 3: I don't know what to do you ever, just think 271 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:50,560 Speaker 3: sometimes you ended up with the wrong sister. 272 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 2: Oh god, Oh my god. 273 00:11:56,120 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 3: The sister in law was ambitious, sexy, and a hustler. 274 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 3: My fiance, on the other isn't too ambitious. I think 275 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:03,959 Speaker 3: that's the reason I'm so attragic to my sister in law. 276 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:05,959 Speaker 3: Help me out, give me some advice on what I 277 00:12:05,960 --> 00:12:06,520 Speaker 3: should do here. 278 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 1: Oh my god, what is the matter with you? You 279 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 1: already married to the system. They're married, yet you're not 280 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:16,800 Speaker 1: married yet. Nigga talking about if they ain't married yet 281 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:17,960 Speaker 1: girl would still hope. 282 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:21,200 Speaker 2: Ah oh gosh, Okay. 283 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:23,120 Speaker 1: Now we got a commercial and if you click off 284 00:12:23,120 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 1: of this podcast, I swear I'm gonna beat your ass. 285 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:29,839 Speaker 1: Listen now, I'm not even gonna lie neck like I've 286 00:12:29,880 --> 00:12:31,679 Speaker 1: never been in this situation, but not the same. 287 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:36,400 Speaker 2: Not not mess with the wrong brother, no, but the friend. 288 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:37,840 Speaker 1: Like you know how you'd be like, damn, I gonna 289 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 1: mess with the wrong friend because you jumping out. 290 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:41,920 Speaker 2: They are early in shait. You see this nigga driving 291 00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:42,640 Speaker 2: you cute. 292 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 1: He got his head on straight, and then you see 293 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:46,840 Speaker 1: another niggaho got his head on a little straight up. 294 00:12:46,840 --> 00:12:49,360 Speaker 1: He'd be like, ah thish onng boy. Damn, I made 295 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:54,200 Speaker 1: a choice to quick all right. So I've been in 296 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:57,679 Speaker 1: that situation before, however I did not act on it. 297 00:12:57,760 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 1: But this is even worse because these are siblings. Bookie, 298 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:05,839 Speaker 1: the fuck? What the fuck is wrong with you? Your 299 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 1: fiance is gonna be mighty pissed with you. Now, you 300 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:13,319 Speaker 1: said you didn't want to tell the sister how you feel. 301 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:15,320 Speaker 1: Do you think the sister feels the same about you? 302 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 1: That's something that you didn't let me know. And then 303 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:21,560 Speaker 1: I'm bonding over smoking baby, I even sort of how 304 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:22,520 Speaker 1: to roll her first blunt? 305 00:13:22,600 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 2: What the hell is. 306 00:13:25,120 --> 00:13:25,440 Speaker 4: Y'oll? 307 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:30,800 Speaker 2: That is crazy? That is so crazy to me. 308 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 1: It's a little childish, you know, y'all bonding over being 309 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 1: high and shit, that's crazy. But you said there are 310 00:13:38,920 --> 00:13:41,160 Speaker 1: certain things that you do like about her, her ambition 311 00:13:41,679 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 1: and so on and so forth. Are you insinuating that 312 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:47,840 Speaker 1: your fiance does not have ambition, she does not have 313 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 1: like goals and you know, potential success? Is that what 314 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 1: she lacks? Because I'm trying to figure out how you 315 00:13:57,040 --> 00:13:59,679 Speaker 1: are more into her, sister. And then you said at first, 316 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:03,679 Speaker 1: you you know, did the we do all that like 317 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 1: make you attract as her two days before she left? 318 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:10,679 Speaker 1: And then honestly, I don't think it's just innocent tiktoks 319 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:13,120 Speaker 1: and random shit that y'all speaking about. If you feel 320 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:15,640 Speaker 1: this strongly about her, and if you're writing me about her, 321 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:17,120 Speaker 1: it has to what you think, Taylor, I feel like 322 00:14:17,160 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 1: it's it's definitely more. Don't get too happy, just answer 323 00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 1: and that's it. 324 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:26,000 Speaker 3: I think this sister likes him too, because why are 325 00:14:26,040 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 3: you talking to my fiancees like y'all too close to talking? 326 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:33,640 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, do you believe they don't they did anything 327 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:35,200 Speaker 2: I don't know. 328 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:39,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I wouldn't just jump ahead and say like, yeah, 329 00:14:39,560 --> 00:14:41,920 Speaker 1: they've had sex, but I do believe that they've probably 330 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:46,920 Speaker 1: had conversations about it lightly or they have mentioned, oh, 331 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:49,000 Speaker 1: if I could be with you, this will happen if 332 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:51,520 Speaker 1: you weren't dating my sister, or I wish things were 333 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:55,440 Speaker 1: different those type of situations, as innocent as they could 334 00:14:55,480 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 1: probably get it without crossing that line of physical intimacy 335 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 1: or whatever. 336 00:15:04,280 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 2: But I but what was the question again? How do 337 00:15:06,720 --> 00:15:09,960 Speaker 2: I go about it? Or what the hell? Because what 338 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:12,320 Speaker 2: do you do well? 339 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:17,000 Speaker 1: Because the whole family knows you, so say if you 340 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:19,800 Speaker 1: do act like you in the movie, because they do 341 00:15:19,840 --> 00:15:21,440 Speaker 1: the shit in the movies, they'll leave what they wit 342 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:25,840 Speaker 1: and who their heart lies with. The family gonna hate 343 00:15:25,880 --> 00:15:30,320 Speaker 1: your ass, favel because if this is your fiance, the sister, 344 00:15:31,400 --> 00:15:36,480 Speaker 1: you've met her family already and they'll hate the sister 345 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:38,040 Speaker 1: and they'll hate you. They're gonna be looking at you 346 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:39,960 Speaker 1: all for the rest of you all lives like these 347 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:41,080 Speaker 1: clown as holes. 348 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. They're gonna look at y'all 349 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 2: real crazy. 350 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:47,800 Speaker 1: And then think about the heartbreak that the sister would 351 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:50,800 Speaker 1: feel that your future wife would feel and you talking 352 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 1: about y'all wanted to find out. This is a big 353 00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 1: secret that you would be keeping from her. I have 354 00:15:56,680 --> 00:15:58,440 Speaker 1: no idea how this will play out for you, but 355 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:00,240 Speaker 1: I do think both of your asses need to be 356 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 1: put on blast. And I'm sorry you are very wrong, 357 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:05,440 Speaker 1: and you should go about it by first sitting down 358 00:16:05,480 --> 00:16:08,560 Speaker 1: with your fiance, telling your fiance how you feel. 359 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:10,880 Speaker 2: I know he probably listening to this shit like bitch, I. 360 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:13,280 Speaker 1: Would never go sit down with my but I think 361 00:16:13,320 --> 00:16:16,040 Speaker 1: you should because this feeling is not gonna go away. 362 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:18,920 Speaker 1: And then you talk to her sister, and then you 363 00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:21,440 Speaker 1: talk to the sister like, well, I told her, so 364 00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:26,000 Speaker 1: we're sol and for some reason, I don't know if 365 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:27,200 Speaker 1: the sister will be with him though. 366 00:16:27,200 --> 00:16:30,080 Speaker 2: I just think it's or the sister could be trapping 367 00:16:30,320 --> 00:16:33,080 Speaker 2: the fiance. Like see, I told you, m. 368 00:16:36,560 --> 00:16:39,240 Speaker 1: If they play a little games like that and my 369 00:16:39,320 --> 00:16:41,240 Speaker 1: baby drop, I'm hungry, I'm pregnant the baby. 370 00:16:42,640 --> 00:16:47,760 Speaker 2: If they playing little games like that, bitch, I ain't 371 00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:48,080 Speaker 2: gonna lie. 372 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 1: I would do that too, I ain't gonna lie uh 373 00:16:53,160 --> 00:16:57,080 Speaker 1: my sister, I would cry lad on thinking everything. 374 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:01,480 Speaker 2: They'd be like, I got you, but that's. 375 00:17:01,280 --> 00:17:03,120 Speaker 1: Wighty you know if they really doing that, that's all 376 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:05,119 Speaker 1: pretty that shit that I did in my early twenties, 377 00:17:05,200 --> 00:17:08,320 Speaker 1: late teen. It's like, no, we're not doing that just 378 00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 1: to somebody's life. Y'all planning on walking down the aisle, 379 00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:13,000 Speaker 1: be real with your wife. Sarpy can get you do 380 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:17,000 Speaker 1: any and everything. Tom heals all wounds. I don't know 381 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:19,320 Speaker 1: about this one, but buddy, you gotta be honest with 382 00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:21,960 Speaker 1: the one that you're walking down the aisle with because 383 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:25,400 Speaker 1: when y'all exchange those vowels, y'all are best friends. You're 384 00:17:25,440 --> 00:17:27,960 Speaker 1: making a commitment, like you gotta be honest, and sometimes 385 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:33,560 Speaker 1: honesty definitely pierces, like it hurts. But Tom heals all wounds, 386 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:35,600 Speaker 1: and I think that she would respect your honesty. She 387 00:17:35,760 --> 00:17:37,400 Speaker 1: probably want to beat the hell out of her sister 388 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:40,200 Speaker 1: and push back the wedding, if not break up with 389 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:42,200 Speaker 1: your ass. But at least you got your truth out 390 00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:44,119 Speaker 1: because if you don't tell her, i'ma tell him. 391 00:17:44,520 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 2: So we got we got his name. His name is Jeremy, Jeremy. 392 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:57,679 Speaker 1: Jeremy Taylor, Jeremy. Like I said, I will find your wife, 393 00:17:58,200 --> 00:18:00,680 Speaker 1: your fiance and tell her. If you tell, I'm giving 394 00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:02,640 Speaker 1: you two weeks get back with me, update me, love 395 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:05,520 Speaker 1: you and ladies and gentlemen. Just like that, we've come 396 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:08,679 Speaker 1: to yet another ending of another episode with your girl. 397 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:13,160 Speaker 1: Jo's hilarious and Taylor so and I have something note 398 00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:16,160 Speaker 1: soon announce this is the end of season three. However, 399 00:18:16,280 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 1: I've just been renewed for season four Carefully Records, so 400 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:22,400 Speaker 1: I will be continuing to fix mess in the future. 401 00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:25,359 Speaker 1: And I'm only taking a few weeks off, y'all. Nothing 402 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:29,439 Speaker 1: nothing big, nothing major, maybe like two weeks and then 403 00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:33,320 Speaker 1: I'll be back with season four, new cover art, news stories, 404 00:18:33,760 --> 00:18:37,280 Speaker 1: bigger stories. Taylor, you're gonna read again until I had 405 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:43,439 Speaker 1: this baby. Yeah, yeah, so she's gonna read from me, y'all, 406 00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:48,920 Speaker 1: either her or Naya. Love y'all and in my deepest panboys, peace. 407 00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:34,639 Speaker 4: Taken a. 408 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:03,760 Speaker 1: Handfully Reckless is a production of iHeartRadio and The Black Effect. 409 00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:08,880 Speaker 1: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 410 00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:10,960 Speaker 1: or wherever you listen to your favorite shows.