1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:02,320 Speaker 1: Welcome back to More to It, to show that takes 2 00:00:02,360 --> 00:00:05,320 Speaker 1: a deep dive into the biggest stories in sports, entertainment, 3 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:05,880 Speaker 1: and culture. 4 00:00:06,200 --> 00:00:08,200 Speaker 2: Start with headline news and then journey. 5 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:11,200 Speaker 1: The deeper conversations, always finding those life lessons that are 6 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 1: presented in every single story. I'm your host, ourself Swally 7 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: that dude, man, I still got pink ay, y'all, So 8 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 1: don't think I went Hollywood yet. I'm from La, so 9 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 1: the hell I'm gonna go Hollywood. Like, if it ain't 10 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 1: in me, then it ain't gonna be me. Right, That's 11 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 1: how I'm feeling right now, feeling great. I actually don't 12 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:34,560 Speaker 1: look horrible, but I'm milking this a little bit to 13 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 1: t o look because I got a couple of days left, 14 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 1: so I know it looks real ghetto. For those who 15 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 1: can actually see me, you can see my whole setup 16 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:45,800 Speaker 1: to my glasses Gucci down to the shock like a 17 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 1: pop Ma got these glasses at my wedding. 18 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 2: Wedding gift. Yeah, Gucci glasses, yep, because. 19 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 1: You know, damn well, I ain't buy no name brand, 20 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 1: so they better give it to me as a gift. 21 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:00,320 Speaker 2: Pump Man, what's up with that? Dude? 22 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 1: We had our last football practice yesterday, and I walked 23 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 1: in there trying to make sure I kept the itty 24 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 1: biddies focused, letting them know how important this weekend is, 25 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:13,680 Speaker 1: because the way we set it up in our playoffs, 26 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 1: we got to buy we're the number one seed, we're undefeated. 27 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 1: We scored the most points and giving up the fewest 28 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 1: amount of points. Yeah, so that's a recipe for success 29 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 1: or disaster because we're playing with seven year olds. 30 00:01:26,880 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 2: So like damnit, oh man. 31 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 1: So I was trying to make sure they just understand 32 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 1: the urgency of the moment. You know, if you go 33 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:36,800 Speaker 1: out there and play your worst game. And the games 34 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 1: are shorter, they're not an hour long, they're on a 35 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 1: thirty minutes so they could have all three rounds in 36 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 1: one day. So we're in the second round with our 37 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 1: bye week, we're waiting the bye week bye game, and 38 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 1: we get to play the winner of the Jets and 39 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 1: the Giants. Obviously we beat both teams. The Jets was 40 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 1: much tougher to beat. They actually had us twelve zero 41 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 1: and we came back. So that's the point. If they 42 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: get up twelve zero this time with a thirty minute game, 43 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 1: it ain't gonna be enough time to come back. So 44 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 1: I got to let my kids understand they got to 45 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 1: hit the ground running. So I walked in there with 46 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 1: this concept like, you know a lot of times they 47 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 1: always tell you to be loose in big games and stuff, 48 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:17,960 Speaker 1: you know, relax, be yourself, be loose, all. 49 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 2: That kind of stuff. 50 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 1: Or you know, you go into some games and you 51 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 1: can just witness that people are tight. We used to 52 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:25,800 Speaker 1: say our coaches would butthole tight every time we saw them, 53 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 1: like walk normal, coach, Hell, you so nervous about It's 54 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:32,800 Speaker 1: just another game. And I start thinking about lit. You know, 55 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 1: all the kids say, yo, that's lit and all that stuff. 56 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 1: So l it made me think loose And then you know, 57 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 1: the T is for tight. And I've always heard that 58 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 1: in my sports everywhere I played, especially high pressure moments, 59 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 1: and I was like, what's the ide in And I 60 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 1: was like intentional. Yeah, I want my kids to understand that. 61 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:54,640 Speaker 1: I think what we're really trying to get is that 62 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: focus in the moment, in the present. So be intentional, right, 63 00:02:58,280 --> 00:03:00,360 Speaker 1: like when you get on that field, soon as you 64 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:03,680 Speaker 1: cross those white lines, have a mission, have a purpose, 65 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:06,959 Speaker 1: to play your best, and everything else will be taken 66 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 1: care of. So hopefully they show up, because if they 67 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:12,360 Speaker 1: show up, they're gonna show out like it's just that serious. 68 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 1: Like my team is squatted. We got talent, but they 69 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 1: also are well disciplined. And I'll pat myself on the 70 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 1: back for that because I don't let them slip. And 71 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:22,640 Speaker 1: I got a couple guys that got bad habits with 72 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 1: tremendous skills. And that's why I'm coaching to bring that 73 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 1: out of a kid, where I think that gets lost 74 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 1: with some other coaches. 75 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 2: They just want to win the game. They just want 76 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:32,799 Speaker 2: to go out there and. 77 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 1: Make sure that these kids in the short term are successful, 78 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 1: not the marathon, not the journey. So I'm into breaking 79 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: bad habits first and getting full effort. 80 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 2: Everything else comes from that, all Right, what else was? Yesterday? 81 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 1: I had fat boy Friday. Y'all know what fat boy 82 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 1: Friday means. Basically, you add up the whole week. You like, sure, 83 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 1: you know what I'm about to do. I'm about to 84 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 1: just eat car bload, right, no calorie count that day, 85 00:03:57,120 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 1: So I ordered me a pizza. 86 00:03:58,360 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 2: It was nasty too. 87 00:03:59,920 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna tell y'all who it was because I'm 88 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 1: gonna let them redeem themselves. 89 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 2: But damn it. That piece was nasty. 90 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 1: God dog, the piece was so nasty and cold that 91 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 1: when I got it, I had the air fry it 92 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 1: and reheat it up to get it crispy and warm 93 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 1: and then ate it. And it still wasn't that good. 94 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:18,720 Speaker 1: And I was fat because I had all that bread 95 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 1: in them carbs. I was mad at myself. So fat 96 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 1: Boy Friday didn't go as well as planned. 97 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:24,839 Speaker 2: What else I do? 98 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 1: I was watching Air, the second half of Air, and 99 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:30,479 Speaker 1: I crashed on it because I had all those carves 100 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 1: in me and I had what was I drinking on? 101 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:36,479 Speaker 1: I had some bullet some bulleting diet. So I was 102 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:39,039 Speaker 1: just sitting there sipping, had my normal tack on my 103 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 1: legs like I'm a bron. 104 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:42,160 Speaker 2: I'm doing. 105 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 1: I'm doing the most my pickleball, you know, all my 106 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:48,480 Speaker 1: pickaball time. I gotta make sure my body heals up. 107 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:51,640 Speaker 1: So doing all that and that was it, man cumulative 108 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 1: effect of the week. Had a great time. All right, 109 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 1: Just get into these topics and start off with Steph 110 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 1: Curry on the shop Boy, And you know, I have 111 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:03,720 Speaker 1: to highlight the positive stuff. And I understand nobody likes 112 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:06,480 Speaker 1: taking the medicine, even if it tastes good, But dammit, 113 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 1: in this world today, especially in media, we an'll highlight 114 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:13,799 Speaker 1: the good stuff enough, man, And I'm like, on this show, 115 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:17,280 Speaker 1: we got enough bandwidth, I got enough time in space 116 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 1: and ownership that I'm gonna do that. 117 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:21,280 Speaker 2: I'm gonna talk about positive stuff. 118 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:24,280 Speaker 1: So here's Steph Curry, who wins the Kareem Abdul Jabbar 119 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 1: sky Hook Social Justice Champion Award. Sky Hook is not 120 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:32,719 Speaker 1: a part of the award. Golden State Warriors guard Steph Curry, 121 00:05:32,760 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 1: we know who he is named the Kareem ab Dul 122 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:39,039 Speaker 1: Jabbar Social Justice Champion Award winner and the honors named 123 00:05:39,080 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 1: after who Kareem six time a MVP, number two on 124 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:45,919 Speaker 1: the career scoring list, number three all time, I think 125 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:49,240 Speaker 1: in NBA history in terms of greatness, what do y'all think? 126 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:52,039 Speaker 1: And it was given to the player who best embodies 127 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 1: Abdul Jabbar's message of civil rights, black empowerment, and racial equality. 128 00:05:57,560 --> 00:05:59,160 Speaker 1: All right, you know, I'm gonna stop down when I 129 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:02,679 Speaker 1: hear black empowerment because I know what they mean. But demnitt, 130 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 1: I got to make sure that people understand what is 131 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 1: intended here when you talk about equality, which I think 132 00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:17,919 Speaker 1: is a fallacy in this respect. Equality must exist in opportunities, 133 00:06:18,640 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 1: but equality will never exist actualized and realized in experiences. 134 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:25,839 Speaker 2: Do you understand what I'm saying, y'all? 135 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:28,359 Speaker 1: So basically, we got to make sure that we have 136 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 1: They try to divide it now into equity and equality, 137 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 1: and that's where I'm at. You got to make sure 138 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 1: that you level the playing field in terms of, hey, 139 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 1: here's your access to things. 140 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 2: Hey, here's your opportunity to things. 141 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 1: Yes, At the same time, as soon as you give 142 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 1: that access an opportunity, you are going to grade, You're 143 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:51,479 Speaker 1: going to score, You're going to judge that person you 144 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 1: gave that too. And then if that person is not 145 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:57,839 Speaker 1: successful in that, they won't be treated equally or fairly. 146 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 1: I just want everybody to understand that. Okay, I don't 147 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:04,119 Speaker 1: like lying to anybody, even if you're sitting there needing help. 148 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:06,920 Speaker 2: I'm not going to tell you that your leg is okay. 149 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:09,159 Speaker 1: If it's broken, I'm gonna say, nah, that paying you 150 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 1: feel is a broken leg. I'm gonna tell you that 151 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 1: if you're seven years old and you're seventy years old 152 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:16,280 Speaker 1: right now. I don't want the spirit of the black 153 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 1: community to be broken when you hear words like black 154 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 1: empowerment right, like damn, I need power, I need help, 155 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 1: I need access. 156 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 2: Well, maybe the community at large by. 157 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:29,760 Speaker 1: The metrics, yes, but you, the individual black person like me, 158 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 1: the individual black person. 159 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 2: Please don't think this way. 160 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 1: Please don't need to plug into the government and all 161 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 1: these charities and everything else just for you to feel 162 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 1: like you have the power. 163 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 2: Now. 164 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:42,680 Speaker 1: You may need some extra access, you may need capital, 165 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 1: you may need support, you may need infrastructure. Yes, yes, yes, 166 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 1: but debbit, you don't need no extra power. You already 167 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:50,239 Speaker 1: got that. So go inside yourself. 168 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 2: Okay. So Steph Curry Ford. 169 00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 1: Time NBA Champion to time MVP Beasts, selected based on 170 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:59,400 Speaker 1: his work and advocating for voting rights, gender and racial 171 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 1: equity in sports and food. 172 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:03,560 Speaker 2: Scarcity. That word used to get me, y'all. 173 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 1: I used to say scarcity to my scarface in underserved communities. 174 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 2: Courage the co chair of former First Lady. 175 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:14,000 Speaker 1: Michelle Obamas When We All Vote initiative, along with athletes 176 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 1: Chris Paul, Megan Rapino, and Janelle Monnette, who is letting 177 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 1: it loose of late. If y'all don't know what I'm 178 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 1: talking about, Jendael Monette, she is letting them dying. 179 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 2: Hang, that's all I'm gonna say. 180 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 1: All right, So the Initiative's mission is to increase participation 181 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 1: in each and every election by helping to close the 182 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 1: race and age gup. Additionally, as a participant in the 183 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 1: Leagues and player union unions joint social justice focused Coalition. 184 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 1: That just don't even sound like it's working. Let me 185 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 1: say that again. That does not sound like it's really 186 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:49,199 Speaker 1: being effective. But I may have misread it. The Leagues 187 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 1: and Player Unions Joint Social Justice Focused Coalition, all right 188 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:57,560 Speaker 1: behind behind them words League. Curry has pushed forward the 189 00:08:57,600 --> 00:09:00,040 Speaker 1: passage of the Freedom to Vote Act, which seeks to 190 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:05,439 Speaker 1: expand voter registration and voting access. All right, let's talk 191 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 1: about his underrated brand. Curry has provided scholarships for high 192 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 1: school athletes. In twenty nineteen, announce six years, six million 193 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:15,560 Speaker 1: dollar commitment to fund the men's and women's golf teams 194 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 1: at historically black Howard University. 195 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 2: All Right, you got specific with it right there, Okay. 196 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:25,960 Speaker 1: Him and his wife Ai Shahagarl They continue to run 197 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:30,440 Speaker 1: the couple's Eat, Learn, Play Foundation, which focuses on childhood 198 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 1: nutrition and physical activity in Oakland, California. 199 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:36,960 Speaker 2: Where the Warriors played until moving to San Francisco. 200 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 1: We know that, all right. So they provided over two 201 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 1: million meals. Damn they try to keep up with McDonald's 202 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 1: two million served in it, five hundred thousand books. I 203 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:51,560 Speaker 1: love that to Oakland students, every model, four playgrounds in 204 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 1: the city. They're doing some work up there, That's what 205 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 1: I'm talking about. So the winner of the Kareem ab 206 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:59,559 Speaker 1: Bill Jabbar Social Justice Champion Awards given one hundred thousand 207 00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:01,400 Speaker 1: dollars to the charity of his choice, and you know 208 00:10:01,440 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 1: he picked his right. Nope, Steph Curry said, they picked 209 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:08,679 Speaker 1: the University of San Francisco Institute for Non Violence and 210 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:12,959 Speaker 1: Social Justice, which, according to his website, investigates eliminates in 211 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 1: advances the theory and practice of transformational non violence to 212 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:21,560 Speaker 1: confront and overcome injustice and systemic violence, and contribute to 213 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 1: the just resolution of communal conflict. 214 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:26,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're doing all that. 215 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:29,680 Speaker 1: As an athlete, I consistently leverage my platform to amplify 216 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:34,760 Speaker 1: advocacy and address the pervasive issue of systemic racism. Firmly 217 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:37,439 Speaker 1: believed that we must be vocal on both social media 218 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:40,160 Speaker 1: and in real life, taking tangible actions to affect real 219 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 1: change in our society and for generations to come. 220 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 2: All right, let me get stephis props. 221 00:10:46,480 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 1: Amazing work by amazing dude, and he's making a real 222 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 1: impact on the court and off the court. 223 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 2: Now, I know a lot of players are doing the 224 00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 2: same thing. 225 00:10:56,600 --> 00:10:58,840 Speaker 1: Obviously not with the same platform as Steph Curry, but 226 00:10:58,880 --> 00:10:59,959 Speaker 1: a lot of guys are giving their time. 227 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:02,960 Speaker 2: I'm their talent, their treasure to the community. So I 228 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:03,680 Speaker 2: got to just. 229 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:05,920 Speaker 1: Give love to whoever you are out there. Even if 230 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 1: you don't win awards, you are winning the fulfillment conversation. 231 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 1: And I know how good it feels, and I know 232 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:16,600 Speaker 1: how good that connection is making you feel and whoever 233 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:17,360 Speaker 1: you're connected to. 234 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:19,760 Speaker 2: So that's love, right I am. 235 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:23,440 Speaker 1: I have a foundation as well called Project Transition, right, 236 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:28,480 Speaker 1: and we provide resources to the underserved underprivilege, and we 237 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 1: base it on giving to people the five pillars of 238 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:32,839 Speaker 1: a community. 239 00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:33,120 Speaker 2: Right. 240 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:41,720 Speaker 1: We reinforce family, reinforce education, economic empowerment, sports, and experience. 241 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:45,720 Speaker 1: And I tell you, basically, I reverse engineered what helped 242 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:49,440 Speaker 1: me navigate from my early beginnings and my dreams to 243 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:52,960 Speaker 1: a reality. And it was really my family just really 244 00:11:53,000 --> 00:11:57,880 Speaker 1: wanting to give them better opportunities it was my education. 245 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:00,640 Speaker 1: I rode that horse all the way through, ever buying 246 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:03,439 Speaker 1: into the fact that I was just an athlete. I 247 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:05,120 Speaker 1: knew I could do more in this world with my 248 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:08,560 Speaker 1: brain than my body. I also was a guy who 249 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 1: knew that economic empowerment matter because I was broke as 250 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:16,559 Speaker 1: hell on welfare and food stamps, and I just didn't 251 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:19,720 Speaker 1: feel good about myself in those moments. I mean, obviously 252 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:23,079 Speaker 1: it was to take care of us and provide for 253 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:26,560 Speaker 1: our necessities, but man, feeling broke. Even though I had 254 00:12:27,120 --> 00:12:29,680 Speaker 1: the spirit of someone who was rich because I was 255 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 1: well loved, I just didn't have money. 256 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:33,080 Speaker 2: I didn't have access. 257 00:12:33,400 --> 00:12:37,559 Speaker 1: I wasn't even having real big world conversations about money 258 00:12:37,559 --> 00:12:40,439 Speaker 1: and access. I wasn't thinking about legacy because I had 259 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 1: no legacy to give and I had no legacy given 260 00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:47,720 Speaker 1: to me. Sad right, So sports, obviously I used my 261 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 1: body to get to where I wanted to go faster 262 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 1: and increase my volume of my voice. And I think 263 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:57,080 Speaker 1: sports are very important because it brings community. 264 00:12:57,559 --> 00:12:59,319 Speaker 2: Like you look in the huddle, it's. 265 00:12:59,120 --> 00:13:02,679 Speaker 1: Somebody from everywhere, right, nothing like sports man to get 266 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:05,640 Speaker 1: everybody together. And the last thing is experience this I 267 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 1: challenge the word exposure because exposure is basically like it 268 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 1: sounds like a camera exposure. That fast, right, you take 269 00:13:13,920 --> 00:13:16,520 Speaker 1: somebody somewhere, you got exposed, go back to where you are, 270 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 1: and that's it. Now, you got to reinforce this, brother. 271 00:13:19,480 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 1: And that's why I say experiences were coming back. 272 00:13:22,480 --> 00:13:22,640 Speaker 2: Right. 273 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:25,320 Speaker 1: We reinforcing this because I know what happens when you 274 00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:27,160 Speaker 1: plan a seed in somebody and they go back to 275 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 1: their familiar surroundings. People step on it, People try to 276 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 1: just kill that dream before it can blossom, before that 277 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 1: seed can blossom. So through experiences, you continue to reinforce 278 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 1: what you're trying to get through. And more importantly, you 279 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:44,559 Speaker 1: have a connection with that person. So tremendous props to 280 00:13:44,559 --> 00:13:48,080 Speaker 1: Steph Curry to all the work he's doing. I just 281 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 1: want to make sure everybody knows that they have the 282 00:13:50,200 --> 00:13:53,880 Speaker 1: inner power, they have the inner capabilities to make their 283 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:56,520 Speaker 1: dreams a reality. I don't give a damn how much 284 00:13:56,559 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 1: you talk about systemic racism, how much you talk about 285 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:03,960 Speaker 1: you need empowerment. All that is true to degrees, but 286 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 1: be greater than your greatest excuse. You got one lap 287 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 1: around this earth, You got one lap around this track. 288 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 2: You got one life. 289 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:13,439 Speaker 1: To live and do not live your life with the 290 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:17,040 Speaker 1: reason or excuse that somebody else stopped you from what 291 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:18,080 Speaker 1: you want to do at chieve. 292 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 2: Okay, all of us, all of. 293 00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:22,600 Speaker 1: Y'all, all right, let's get into the next story, which 294 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:28,000 Speaker 1: is a disney World employee was arrested for sharing manstock 295 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:33,640 Speaker 1: child pornography a Disney World employee and uploading pictures of 296 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 1: a pals underage daughter online, saying he wanted to impregnate earth. 297 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:39,720 Speaker 2: We got to get into this is crazy. 298 00:14:39,880 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 1: Daniel Rivera who worked at Walt disney World Parks and 299 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:47,480 Speaker 1: Resorts employee over twenty years, booked at the Orange County 300 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:51,400 Speaker 1: Jail following a month's long investigation into his dropbox account 301 00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 1: that contained several files of children under ten having sex 302 00:14:54,760 --> 00:14:55,960 Speaker 1: with adult men. 303 00:14:56,840 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I said that. Look, it was a month long. 304 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 1: But damn it, the day you find out something day one, 305 00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:06,520 Speaker 1: it don't take him up. Let's go get him and 306 00:15:06,520 --> 00:15:09,560 Speaker 1: then we figure out the rest after that, so investigator said. 307 00:15:09,600 --> 00:15:13,040 Speaker 1: Rivera father of two, come home bro admitted to obtaining 308 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 1: child porn about once a week for the last ten years. 309 00:15:17,560 --> 00:15:20,960 Speaker 1: Child porn once a week for the last ten years. 310 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:22,960 Speaker 1: What's scary about this? 311 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:23,360 Speaker 2: Look? 312 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 1: I'm not sitting here saying I'm perfect. I'm not sitting 313 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:28,520 Speaker 1: here even in this lane of judgment. What I'm saying is, 314 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 1: for ten years at least, you and I and we 315 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:37,280 Speaker 1: were taking our kids to a park where this guy 316 00:15:37,600 --> 00:15:42,440 Speaker 1: was doing that whoa about feeding the predator goodness and 317 00:15:42,480 --> 00:15:46,760 Speaker 1: even shared personal information about coworkers on adult sites. That's 318 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:48,600 Speaker 1: what he was doing. He shared about one hundred and 319 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 1: fifty five posts on the sites. Man, he was trying 320 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:54,640 Speaker 1: to just just be out. He was screaming for help, 321 00:15:54,880 --> 00:15:57,960 Speaker 1: including several photos of young girls and women he claims 322 00:15:57,960 --> 00:16:01,160 Speaker 1: he knows several of them includes the co workers dressed 323 00:16:01,320 --> 00:16:04,760 Speaker 1: as Disney characters were. Rivera allegedly posting in an online 324 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:07,960 Speaker 1: forum that hot teens in mouse ears are a weakness 325 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:08,400 Speaker 1: of mind. 326 00:16:09,800 --> 00:16:13,400 Speaker 2: Man stopped this dude. 327 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:16,280 Speaker 1: Another post included a picture of an other age daughter 328 00:16:16,360 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 1: of a friend in the cheerleading uniform with a caption 329 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:22,960 Speaker 1: of how he was fantasizing about having sex and impregnating her. 330 00:16:23,960 --> 00:16:26,320 Speaker 2: Well, why am I bringing up this story? Y'all figure 331 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:26,640 Speaker 2: it out. 332 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:30,880 Speaker 1: A Walt Disney World spokesperson confirmed that Rivera was put 333 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:35,680 Speaker 1: on administrated and administration leave following the rest administration leave. 334 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:38,360 Speaker 1: They must be scared to get sued or something. I 335 00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 1: don't know what the hell what you need to just leave, 336 00:16:41,680 --> 00:16:45,640 Speaker 1: not administrationly, with the hell administrationly. But we gonna figure 337 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:47,880 Speaker 1: out if he's guilty of this, and it sounds like 338 00:16:47,880 --> 00:16:52,040 Speaker 1: he's already admitted to it. Yeah, you figure out the 339 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:56,360 Speaker 1: politics and the paperwork later. Fires Ass Administration lead investigators 340 00:16:56,360 --> 00:16:59,400 Speaker 1: said the case against Rivera began in September when the 341 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:01,880 Speaker 1: Orange came. The Sheriff's office received a tip from the 342 00:17:01,960 --> 00:17:05,280 Speaker 1: National Center for Missing nigg exploited children about the Disney 343 00:17:05,280 --> 00:17:09,520 Speaker 1: employees Dropbox Goodness, then Dropbox Game the IP address, So 344 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:12,399 Speaker 1: here you go. Don't get us caught up in this stuff. 345 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:15,199 Speaker 1: We just hear the store information, which included a computer 346 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 1: linked to Walt Disney World Service, according to court records, Goodness. 347 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:20,360 Speaker 2: This is crazy. 348 00:17:20,640 --> 00:17:23,159 Speaker 1: During the search of his home, police also found a 349 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:27,520 Speaker 1: hard drive unintended I guess, containing images of girls in 350 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:29,000 Speaker 1: erotic poses. 351 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 2: Sick. 352 00:17:31,560 --> 00:17:34,639 Speaker 1: Rivera was charged with transporting child pornography, with other charges 353 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:38,199 Speaker 1: likely to be found against them. According to a court hearing, 354 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:43,000 Speaker 1: all whoa, we now here's the crazy part. He said 355 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:45,200 Speaker 1: he told his wife that he knew he had a problem, 356 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:48,359 Speaker 1: but failed to fix himself before he got arrested, and 357 00:17:48,480 --> 00:17:53,080 Speaker 1: neighbors told that Rivera's wife gave birth to their second 358 00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:58,360 Speaker 1: child recently while he remains locked up in jail. Why 359 00:17:58,359 --> 00:18:00,399 Speaker 1: am I bringing this up because we know I haveolutely 360 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:02,760 Speaker 1: how horrible this is. And nobody likes to get reminded 361 00:18:02,800 --> 00:18:05,040 Speaker 1: of the bottom of this world and the gutter where 362 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:08,080 Speaker 1: people live and actually pray on people. But I have 363 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:11,760 Speaker 1: to because I need you to know how vulnerable you are. 364 00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:14,840 Speaker 1: Some of you guys that I'm talking to, I ain't 365 00:18:14,840 --> 00:18:18,199 Speaker 1: gonna lie, are actually the perpetrators. Like I am not 366 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:23,000 Speaker 1: the person that walks around here aimlessly in some utopia. 367 00:18:23,240 --> 00:18:24,960 Speaker 2: Like oh, somebody I. 368 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:28,040 Speaker 1: Know and I'm connected to, is is not raising an inmate, 369 00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:30,959 Speaker 1: a future inmate. Like there are parents that you know 370 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:34,160 Speaker 1: that I know that are raising future inmates. And I 371 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:37,399 Speaker 1: hope and I pray it ain't me, but it could be, 372 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:39,159 Speaker 1: and I doubt it would be. Like I'm in that 373 00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:41,399 Speaker 1: ninety nine percentile because I am on these kids. But 374 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:45,719 Speaker 1: these kids, you create them, but you don't control. So 375 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:48,480 Speaker 1: I want you to understand that you're vulnerable. The yin 376 00:18:48,600 --> 00:18:51,000 Speaker 1: and the yang is possessed in all of us, right, 377 00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:53,200 Speaker 1: the God and the devil is in all of us. Yes, 378 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:55,280 Speaker 1: and the devil is a lie, but he's gonna keep 379 00:18:55,320 --> 00:18:59,520 Speaker 1: talking crazy, right. And I just want everyone to understand 380 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:02,320 Speaker 1: your vulner so when you're out, be more mindful. 381 00:19:02,359 --> 00:19:04,200 Speaker 2: I see so many parents. 382 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:06,680 Speaker 1: Caught up on their phones, caught up on social media, 383 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:08,960 Speaker 1: call up in their little social circles. When the kids 384 00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:11,840 Speaker 1: are around, and the kids are just through us. Most 385 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:13,600 Speaker 1: is just taking it in. Next thing, you know, you 386 00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:15,720 Speaker 1: got to distract the kid. Next thing you know, I'm coaching, 387 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:19,520 Speaker 1: I'm counseling, I'm mentoring your kid who could got that 388 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:22,919 Speaker 1: same lesson from you, But you weren't attentive. And I 389 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:25,720 Speaker 1: just want us all globally to just be more attentive, 390 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:29,000 Speaker 1: not only to our kids, but who our kids are around, 391 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:32,880 Speaker 1: and in situations where you are vulnerable. It is insane. 392 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:36,439 Speaker 1: So I look at that situation just like really sad. 393 00:19:37,119 --> 00:19:42,000 Speaker 1: And there's a dirty, nasty underbelly, ugly underworld in this 394 00:19:42,080 --> 00:19:47,040 Speaker 1: world that unfortunately we have to coexist in. And since 395 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:49,280 Speaker 1: we have to coexist in it, let's not lie to 396 00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:50,720 Speaker 1: ourselves and let's be prepared. 397 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:52,720 Speaker 2: All right, here's the last one. This is hilarious. 398 00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:56,159 Speaker 1: A woman from England makes men submit a five hundred 399 00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:59,560 Speaker 1: word essay to day She said, asking for an essay 400 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:01,120 Speaker 1: is death a good way of weed. 401 00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:02,720 Speaker 2: Now what you don't want? 402 00:20:03,480 --> 00:20:06,000 Speaker 1: Sounds like she got the gun, right, but it ain't 403 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:07,640 Speaker 1: no fun when the rabbit got the gun. Let's see 404 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:09,720 Speaker 1: if these men get their power back. All right, listen, 405 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:11,879 Speaker 1: she must be fine. Fine, she over there asking for 406 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 1: five hundred words and I already graduated high school. You 407 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:18,960 Speaker 1: ain't getting five hundred out of hell? No, hell no, 408 00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 1: you must be fine. One woman is looking for the 409 00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:24,200 Speaker 1: right man, and I'm not saying right with an r first, 410 00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:25,200 Speaker 1: I'm staying there with a w. 411 00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 2: Good Lauren Kempton from England. 412 00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:33,680 Speaker 1: All right, Lauren requires her suitors to write a five 413 00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:35,400 Speaker 1: hundred word essay if they want to date her. 414 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:39,560 Speaker 2: God dank. Feeling fed up with online Dayton. 415 00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:42,080 Speaker 1: She said she revealed a Dayton strategy last year that 416 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:45,119 Speaker 1: resurface recently. Asked it for an essay is definitely a 417 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:48,000 Speaker 1: good way of weed. Now what you don't want? 418 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:48,400 Speaker 2: All right? 419 00:20:48,440 --> 00:20:52,520 Speaker 1: So oh she thirty six? Whoa, Yeah, she's trying. She 420 00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:55,080 Speaker 1: trying to fast track it. She's thirty six. She's like, oh, 421 00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:58,600 Speaker 1: that clock is ticket. So she went on her hands account. 422 00:20:58,600 --> 00:21:02,439 Speaker 1: I guess that's one of those tenders of England. I 423 00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:04,480 Speaker 1: guess she made it clear if they wanted to have 424 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:06,960 Speaker 1: a chance with her, they must admit an application explaining 425 00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:09,840 Speaker 1: how you will not waste any time. 426 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:13,359 Speaker 2: She's trying to not waste her time. 427 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:17,440 Speaker 1: Boy, you better not date because you're gonna kiss some toads. 428 00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:21,160 Speaker 1: You're gonna kiss some frogs, right and one. You got 429 00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:24,439 Speaker 1: to be built for that endurance, for that journey. Like 430 00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:26,239 Speaker 1: if you are walking into something saying I ain't got 431 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:29,600 Speaker 1: that much time, so hurry up, then you're not ready 432 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:32,200 Speaker 1: for that experience because you're already gonna be on strike too. 433 00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:34,320 Speaker 1: Like somebody says one thing you don't like, I get 434 00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:36,440 Speaker 1: out of here. But that ain't how the game is played. 435 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:39,199 Speaker 1: That ain't how ball works. You get opportunities. In football, 436 00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:42,040 Speaker 1: you get four downs, right and in baseball you get 437 00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:44,359 Speaker 1: three strikes right now, you can get it out, you 438 00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:47,439 Speaker 1: can swing out. But god, somebody just saying the wrong 439 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:51,760 Speaker 1: thing or something you disagree with, they're already out. Doesn't 440 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:54,680 Speaker 1: sound like you really have the bandwidth for this experience. 441 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:55,840 Speaker 2: Probably while you're single. 442 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:58,080 Speaker 1: Let me keep talking it shows you who they are, 443 00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:01,000 Speaker 1: and they've read your profile and understand your humor, she quipped. 444 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:03,880 Speaker 1: She initially added the requirement your profile as a joke, 445 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:06,600 Speaker 1: I know, but Mini Bachelor's took it seriously. I know, 446 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:09,040 Speaker 1: because then every joke there's a little ounce of truth. 447 00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:11,760 Speaker 1: That's why they were like a snap. She must be 448 00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:13,919 Speaker 1: fine for real. Though people might think asking for an 449 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:16,440 Speaker 1: essay was full on of me, but it was really 450 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:18,720 Speaker 1: a bit of fun. I didn't expect someone to make 451 00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:21,600 Speaker 1: so much effort. Oh so we're dealing with a little 452 00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:24,720 Speaker 1: insecurity here too. Now let me start, But what do 453 00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:26,120 Speaker 1: you mean so much effor? You asked them to write 454 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:27,439 Speaker 1: to ask they right to ask you. That ain't so 455 00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:30,760 Speaker 1: much effort. That's just doing what's required. People be trying 456 00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:32,680 Speaker 1: to twist up like they got it all, like they 457 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:34,920 Speaker 1: got the power, Like, oh look everyone loves me. No, 458 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 1: you just asked me to take off my shoes, dammit. 459 00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:40,320 Speaker 1: So one suitor went above and beyond submitting the PowerPoint 460 00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:45,080 Speaker 1: presentation with his detail that say all right, So the 461 00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:50,439 Speaker 1: singles made restored Kempton's faith in men. Hell is their 462 00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:53,440 Speaker 1: job to get her faithful back in men? She didn't 463 00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:55,840 Speaker 1: people just tell on themselves while they asked a single 464 00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:59,080 Speaker 1: Oh no, I got faith in You mean you lost 465 00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:01,159 Speaker 1: faith in those thirty seven dudes you met over your 466 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:03,680 Speaker 1: life that sucked, but and all of them didn't suck. 467 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:06,560 Speaker 1: But damn it, men, I mean men in there or 468 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:09,239 Speaker 1: in this world was a three point eight billion and 469 00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:11,960 Speaker 1: you lost faith in all of them because of thirty seven. 470 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:13,960 Speaker 2: I can't talk. 471 00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:16,960 Speaker 1: After reviewing applications, she went on the day with the 472 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:20,000 Speaker 1: best candidate, but unfortunately it never flourished into anything special. 473 00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:23,479 Speaker 1: Duh you hear how she sounds to me? I know 474 00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:25,400 Speaker 1: I was gonna play out the five hundred word. That's say, 475 00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:30,040 Speaker 1: strategy turned out to be a worm a bust for 476 00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:32,360 Speaker 1: the mom of one. Oh and she a single mama. 477 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 1: Where is Kevin Samuey Rest in peace? Man? 478 00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:36,680 Speaker 2: I know he turning over like girl. Stop. 479 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:40,280 Speaker 1: But she encourages other singles to try the method. Nothing 480 00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:42,080 Speaker 1: wrong with being no single mama in thirty six. But 481 00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:44,480 Speaker 1: damn know who you are? You know what I'm saying. 482 00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:48,200 Speaker 2: No when you're getting drafted, No when to know when 483 00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:49,560 Speaker 2: they gonna call your name? Right? 484 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:53,919 Speaker 1: God dang, she got all these standards and expectations and requirements, 485 00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:57,680 Speaker 1: and you bringing all that with you, ma'am only one. 486 00:23:57,720 --> 00:24:00,840 Speaker 1: Carry on you bringing a lot of life. It's a 487 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:02,800 Speaker 1: good way of getting people to show their humors, sign 488 00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:04,480 Speaker 1: and spend a bit of time making an effort. 489 00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:05,399 Speaker 2: I think this is funny. 490 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:08,960 Speaker 1: I've been single for three years now, you think and 491 00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:11,960 Speaker 1: I found. I'm not found something. I'm ready to settle 492 00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:14,119 Speaker 1: down for. Maybe they have said the same exact thing. 493 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:16,600 Speaker 1: You ever see that your home we come back man. 494 00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:18,400 Speaker 1: I ain't messing with her. I was. I think her 495 00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:21,880 Speaker 1: homegirls saying the same about your ass. They're like, don't 496 00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:22,400 Speaker 1: mess with him. 497 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:22,640 Speaker 2: Girl. 498 00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:25,520 Speaker 1: Everybody like they got the power. Stop talking like you 499 00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:28,119 Speaker 1: always got the power. Ain't nobody messing with you either. 500 00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:30,399 Speaker 1: I'm putting my energy into other things and thinking that 501 00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:34,200 Speaker 1: if it will happen, it will happen. That should run 502 00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:37,480 Speaker 1: concurrently with finding your man. Always put your energy to 503 00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:40,520 Speaker 1: other things to not hold your breath. This was over 504 00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:42,240 Speaker 1: the top. I think this was hilarious. Y'all know what 505 00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:43,520 Speaker 1: I'm about to say. I'm about hit her with a 506 00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:49,280 Speaker 1: why leaism. Don't miss the boat known to yacht. What 507 00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:51,840 Speaker 1: are your standards? I know your expectations are a little 508 00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:52,280 Speaker 1: too much for me. 509 00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:52,760 Speaker 2: I ain't right. 510 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:54,879 Speaker 1: No, found that word that say, first of all, my 511 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:57,720 Speaker 1: best skill is not written, it's oral. 512 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:01,440 Speaker 2: That was nasty is already taking. 513 00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:06,040 Speaker 1: I gotta talk to you, girl, and I gotta talk 514 00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:08,440 Speaker 1: to you with a clean count. Now, No, I ain't 515 00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:11,960 Speaker 1: got time. Hurry up, don't waste my time. Ooh, she 516 00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:14,520 Speaker 1: better level her brain or she gonna be solo creep 517 00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:15,760 Speaker 1: with the baby forever. 518 00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:16,600 Speaker 2: That's real. 519 00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:22,320 Speaker 1: Like these relationships, it's called relatetionn't ship. That means it's relative. 520 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:24,960 Speaker 1: You have to relate to somebody. That means you gotta 521 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:27,600 Speaker 1: give some to get some, right, and to give is 522 00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:28,520 Speaker 1: to get So. 523 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:29,920 Speaker 2: If you ain't. 524 00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:33,359 Speaker 1: Ready and open to give all of you, every single 525 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:36,960 Speaker 1: time vulnerability to find out if that person is ready 526 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:40,000 Speaker 1: for you, you are not gonna meet that person because 527 00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:42,280 Speaker 1: you're gonna try to measure it. I'm gonna give them 528 00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:44,000 Speaker 1: ten percent and see if they worth more. 529 00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:47,160 Speaker 2: Well, but I only giving ten percent. Who in the hell. 530 00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:49,840 Speaker 1: Wants to pay full value for a ten percent product? 531 00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:53,280 Speaker 1: You every think about that miss scared or mister scared 532 00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:55,879 Speaker 1: dudes out there doing it too? Oh, I ain't tripping, 533 00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:57,040 Speaker 1: don't you like her? 534 00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:57,720 Speaker 2: I know? 535 00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:00,600 Speaker 1: But I gotta see if she cool, you like her, 536 00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:03,560 Speaker 1: It's okay. You won't die if she breaks your heart. 537 00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:05,639 Speaker 1: Matter of fact, remember I told y'all this before. The 538 00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:09,960 Speaker 1: heart is a muscle. It can't break, it only gets stronger. 539 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,400 Speaker 1: And even when you break it down, like all muscles, 540 00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:13,520 Speaker 1: they come back stronger. 541 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:17,280 Speaker 2: So be vulnerable, be open. That's why dating. 542 00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:18,920 Speaker 1: Is so hard, because cats be over there trying to 543 00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:22,640 Speaker 1: play it, you know, be straight up, like, look, I'm 544 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:26,040 Speaker 1: here for the physical pace, or be straight up, I'm 545 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:30,359 Speaker 1: looking for the real one. I'm looking for the open relationship, 546 00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:32,880 Speaker 1: be real, or I'm looking for marriage. Whatever the hell 547 00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:36,040 Speaker 1: you looking for. Just say it and be vulnerable. That's 548 00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:36,960 Speaker 1: how you get it. 549 00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:38,960 Speaker 2: To give it to get. Don't miss that boat girl 550 00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 2: waiting on the yacht boom Man. 551 00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:46,840 Speaker 1: Today's why he is a miss. You are as trusting 552 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:52,880 Speaker 1: as your trust worthy making sure my wife's not around here, 553 00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:56,680 Speaker 1: all right, You're as trusting as your trust worthy. 554 00:26:57,600 --> 00:26:58,920 Speaker 2: I remember when this one. 555 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:03,440 Speaker 1: Hit me and I was like, wow, I am actually 556 00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:08,320 Speaker 1: a guy that looks at life through my experiences right 557 00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:12,359 Speaker 1: and through what I really envisioned my life as. And 558 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:14,720 Speaker 1: I started to say, am I the only person like that? 559 00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:17,359 Speaker 1: Am I the only person that's really looking at every 560 00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:20,720 Speaker 1: situation based on what I've been through and then what 561 00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 1: I want from it. 562 00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:24,960 Speaker 2: Now I start asking around, and now I started. 563 00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:29,720 Speaker 1: To realize, Oh, we are all prisoners of our experiences, right, 564 00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:33,400 Speaker 1: That's why parenting is so important. That's also why your 565 00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:36,760 Speaker 1: social circle is so important. Your environment is so important, 566 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:41,480 Speaker 1: Your friends, everything, your community is so important because they 567 00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:45,880 Speaker 1: really cultivate your greatness in you or they can help 568 00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:47,480 Speaker 1: bring some of that bad that's. 569 00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:48,400 Speaker 2: In all of us. Right. 570 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:53,440 Speaker 1: So I started to realize, Man, I'm only as trusting 571 00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:59,200 Speaker 1: as I'm trustworthy. I'm only as open to how I 572 00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:02,399 Speaker 1: feel about my life myself. And it was crazy because 573 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:06,919 Speaker 1: in relationships especially, I had been a cheater. And so 574 00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:08,720 Speaker 1: now when I meet a girl, the first thing I 575 00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:10,800 Speaker 1: want to know is do you know any of my friends? 576 00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:13,040 Speaker 1: You know any of my homie Do you know anybody 577 00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,480 Speaker 1: I know? Which was a dumb ass question because I 578 00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:18,360 Speaker 1: knew people she knew. But I'm sitting there like asking her, 579 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:22,160 Speaker 1: and I finally got checked, like somebody was like why 580 00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:24,480 Speaker 1: you care? Like what do you think this is? Like 581 00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:27,399 Speaker 1: I got a dometer or a mileage counter, Like I 582 00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:29,720 Speaker 1: don't care who you've been with? You with me, and 583 00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:33,960 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, because I'm only as trusting as 584 00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:37,359 Speaker 1: I'm trustworthy. The little cheater in me was like, get 585 00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:40,080 Speaker 1: ahead of this. Find out if she's just like your ass. 586 00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:42,440 Speaker 1: Find out if she's just as crazy as you. And 587 00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:44,720 Speaker 1: I was like, no, you're not gonna find out by 588 00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:45,400 Speaker 1: a questionnaire. 589 00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:46,720 Speaker 2: This ain't an sat. 590 00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:50,200 Speaker 1: You got to go through the experiences, right, And that's 591 00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 1: not just in relationships, not just in intimate relationships, it's 592 00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 1: in life. Like you can't ask life what you're gonna 593 00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:01,400 Speaker 1: do for me, Am I gonna take that risk unless 594 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:04,480 Speaker 1: you tell me how it's gonna be. No, you gotta 595 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:06,800 Speaker 1: take that risk for that reward. Right. So if you 596 00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:09,720 Speaker 1: start looking at everything that you do and the things 597 00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:12,440 Speaker 1: that you limit yourself to or the things that you 598 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:15,480 Speaker 1: jump into, but you also put a glass ceiling on. 599 00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:17,320 Speaker 2: Yourself, I'm only go this far. 600 00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:19,200 Speaker 1: I'm only gonna give them a little of me and 601 00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:22,560 Speaker 1: see how they respond. Maybe you're just like me or 602 00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:26,720 Speaker 1: how it was. You're only as trusting as you're trustworthy. 603 00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:30,160 Speaker 1: All right, y'all got to do it. For more to it, 604 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:31,959 Speaker 1: check the show notes for all the information on our 605 00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:33,080 Speaker 1: topics today today. 606 00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:35,440 Speaker 2: Want to keep the conversation going. Let's talk to find 607 00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:37,280 Speaker 2: me on all socials at Marcel's Wiley. 608 00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:40,080 Speaker 1: More Too is a production of Dan Patrick Production, Debt 609 00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:43,120 Speaker 1: Dude Entertainment, and Workhouse Media's show is executive produced by 610 00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:46,600 Speaker 1: Dan Patrick, Marcel's Whially, Paul Anderson, and Nick Panela. 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