1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the 3 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 1: milling bus things. And it's good. Start listening to the 4 00:00:25,160 --> 00:01:41,040 Speaker 1: mother for st I don't joint turn. You gotta turn 5 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 1: to turnout, turn got to turn out. Then turn the 6 00:01:46,959 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 1: water the water go. Come come on your fah I 7 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 1: show will good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, 8 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 1: Come on dig me now. One and only Steve Harvey 9 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 1: got a radio show. Yoh man. God is in the 10 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 1: blessing business all day every day. God got hundreds of 11 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:25,640 Speaker 1: millions of blessings that he passes out every day. All 12 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 1: I want to do is be the recipient that I'm 13 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 1: the recipient of what He has for me. That's all 14 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 1: I want. I just want God's favor, and I go. 15 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 1: I want God's blessings. You know, of course I need 16 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 1: his mercy and his grace, but I just want his 17 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 1: blessings and his favor. I want. I want that in 18 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: my life because it does things for me that I'm 19 00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:58,639 Speaker 1: absolutely incapable of doing for myself. And I've been a 20 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 1: recipient of many of those, and you can be the 21 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 1: recipient of them too. You already are, really, really you 22 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 1: already are. If you're getting up every morning, that's a blessing. 23 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 1: If you're getting one day closer to anything you're trying 24 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 1: to accomplish, that's a blessing. But now let me talk 25 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 1: to you about this part right here, folks, because this 26 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 1: is the part that messages people up a great deal. 27 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:27,079 Speaker 1: What happens when you get off track? What is that? 28 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 1: What does that mean? When you get off track? See, 29 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 1: I've been off track. I can't tell you how many times, 30 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 1: and it happens in so many aspects of your life. 31 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 1: But but what is it that makes getting off track 32 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 1: so debilitating to some people? You know, there are some 33 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:50,839 Speaker 1: people who want stay off track. They off course, they 34 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:54,120 Speaker 1: off the dream, they own to something else. And you 35 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 1: cannot allow the fact that you've gotten off track to stop. 36 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 1: You can't tell you something. Everybody gets off tracked. That 37 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 1: are people who are living their life's dreams in spite 38 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 1: of getting off track. See what happens when you get 39 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 1: off track? Here's the simple thing to do. The simple 40 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:21,920 Speaker 1: thing is just to get back on track. Now that's 41 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:26,040 Speaker 1: that's But that's easier said than done, ain't it, Steve? Yeah? 42 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 1: Because see people when you get off track. Here's some 43 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 1: of the things that happen. See you get the here 44 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 1: come to they sayers, some of them from the outside, 45 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 1: some of them internally. Here's what gets said when you 46 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:45,799 Speaker 1: get off track. See, I told you, I told you. 47 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:53,120 Speaker 1: You know you. You start hearing that it's not for you. Okay, 48 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:56,480 Speaker 1: this is all just because you got off track. It's 49 00:04:56,520 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 1: not for you. Okay, here's another one. It ain't meant 50 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:04,559 Speaker 1: to be. You can hear it, or you could say it. Well, 51 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 1: I guess it's just not meant to be. But let 52 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 1: me ask you a question, though, who made the rule 53 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 1: that when you get off track you can't get back on? 54 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:22,239 Speaker 1: Who made that rule? Where has that written that once 55 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 1: you get off track you can't get back on? See, 56 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:29,600 Speaker 1: because I'm gonna tell you something, folks, there's no such rule. 57 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, it's quite the opposite. See, 58 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 1: everybody in pursuit of a dream, a goal and aspiration 59 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 1: or a mission, it's going to get off track. Sometimes 60 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 1: you're going to get derailed. They are going to be 61 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:51,039 Speaker 1: days where you're not going to get it right. That 62 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:53,600 Speaker 1: are going to be days where you feel like giving up. 63 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:56,119 Speaker 1: There's going to be days when you're just gonna flat 64 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 1: out get it wrong. That's the journey. But let me 65 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 1: tell you something. Every successful person that I know, ever met, 66 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 1: talked to, set out, and chopped it up with, have 67 00:06:05,920 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 1: shared one thing in common. We all get off track. 68 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 1: We all get it wrong along the way. I don't 69 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 1: care who the person is. The president got it wrong 70 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 1: along the way. Your pastor got it wrong along the way. 71 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 1: Qui director Gui got it wrong along the way. The 72 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 1: principle at your school got it wrong along the way. 73 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:33,359 Speaker 1: The valor victoria of your class got it wrong along 74 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:38,159 Speaker 1: the way. The star of the team got it wrong 75 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 1: along the way. They've all been off track. Your boss 76 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 1: down at your job, he got it wrong along the way. 77 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: Your immediate supervisor got it wrong along the way. Everybody 78 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 1: I know that has any measure of success in every 79 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:00,480 Speaker 1: level that you call success, however you want to label it, 80 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:07,000 Speaker 1: has gotten off track. As a matter of fact, it's impossible. 81 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:12,080 Speaker 1: Listen to me, it is impossible not to get off 82 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 1: track in pursuit of your dreams, goals, visions, aspirations. It 83 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:23,120 Speaker 1: is impossible. Don't you let nobody tell you that they 84 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 1: got through life unscathed, that they made it because they 85 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 1: was just so determined and I would let nothing turn 86 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 1: me back. Yeah, you might not have let nothing turn 87 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:37,680 Speaker 1: you back because you hear all but you thought about it. Oh, 88 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 1: you thought about it on days when you was off track. 89 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:42,800 Speaker 1: But see, people don't like to tell the whole story. 90 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 1: They just want you to think as much as you 91 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 1: can about them. So when they tell you that story, 92 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 1: they leave out the stuff alone the way it was 93 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 1: just hard work and determination that got me here. No 94 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:57,600 Speaker 1: it wasn't, No, it wasn't. It was the fact that 95 00:07:57,640 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 1: you got off track and the grace and mercy of 96 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 1: God allowed you to get back on. His forgiveness allowed 97 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 1: you to get back on because you would not believe 98 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 1: what some of the people have done. So when you 99 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 1: get off track, don't allow the naysayers outside and the 100 00:08:14,920 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 1: big nay sayer inside, because let me tell you something, 101 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 1: the biggest naysayer of them all comes from inside. See, 102 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 1: it don't matter what other people say out there. It 103 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 1: takes some time for you to learn this. And I 104 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 1: understand because it took me some time to learn it. See, 105 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 1: I have a lot of naysayers out there, but I 106 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 1: ain't operating for them, operating function for the ones that 107 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 1: love me, for the ones that get me, for the 108 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 1: ones that understand what I'm really trying to do. And 109 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 1: so don't you be the one that doesn't allow yourself 110 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:52,080 Speaker 1: to get back on track when you get off track, because, 111 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 1: like I said, who made the rule up that you 112 00:08:54,559 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 1: can't get back on track? There's no such rule out 113 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 1: there stopping yourself from getting it right. So what you 114 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:07,440 Speaker 1: started to diet at the beginning of the year, and 115 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:13,559 Speaker 1: you already off start another one, start over, try it again, 116 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 1: don't ever stop trying. If you stop trying, you can't 117 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:20,040 Speaker 1: make it. But if you never give up the effort, 118 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 1: if you never give up and say it's over, it 119 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 1: ain't over. You heard just saying it ain't over to 120 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 1: the fat ladies saying I never invite her. She's not invited. 121 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 1: It ain't over to the fat ladies, saying I don't 122 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 1: know where the fat ladies stay. I am not sending 123 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:41,320 Speaker 1: her an invitation to none of my events. She's not 124 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 1: welcome here. She didn't ask me a couple of times 125 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 1: how come I never get invited? Because you're gonna start 126 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 1: saying it and I ain't got time for that, all right, 127 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 1: stop inviting the fat lady to all your events. Thank 128 00:09:56,760 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 1: you you're listening out, ah wor war lord, But now 129 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 1: I'm fine your lord, mom who nah lord? I am 130 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 1: for my lord, my lord, I have found the Steve 131 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:58,079 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show and fold that you was lost sherely 132 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 1: stroll back. Thank God, I'm found. Good morning, I call 133 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 1: it Friday. Good morning, Steve never man on a Friday. 134 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:10,439 Speaker 1: Oh look at here, Ladies and gentlemen kiss face. They 135 00:11:10,520 --> 00:11:13,959 Speaker 1: call him Julian morning, mint morning, a body morning fat 136 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 1: And I then jaredy Brown didn't know that was me 137 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 1: on tambourine. That was me. No, nobody else brings toys 138 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 1: to work. Nobody brings no as to work. You got 139 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:36,239 Speaker 1: bullhorns and monic because good I ain't never seen nobody. 140 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 1: When he does show up, it's a damn party. Yes, 141 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 1: ladies and gentleman, King of Prinks, Nephew Tommy, Friday, Uncle Steve, 142 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:53,559 Speaker 1: It's Friday, baby, let's get it right. Who happy to 143 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 1: just have a tambourine at work? Though? Just pull it out? 144 00:11:57,080 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 1: Wouldn't need tambourina. No, you didn't know you did. If 145 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:06,559 Speaker 1: you came more often, you know that. I thought it 146 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:11,840 Speaker 1: was part of the work for your job description. Who 147 00:12:11,880 --> 00:12:16,680 Speaker 1: comes to work, not yeah and a harmonica. They got 148 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 1: old band stand equipment. Now here is what I thought 149 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:25,319 Speaker 1: would be a good idea for people in the workplace. 150 00:12:26,559 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 1: And I made as a suggestion on a zoom call 151 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:34,599 Speaker 1: because whenever I come in the room on zoom, I 152 00:12:34,679 --> 00:12:36,440 Speaker 1: don't care what it is. I just had a meeting 153 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:40,719 Speaker 1: with ABC the other day. I make everybody on the 154 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:43,560 Speaker 1: zoom call when they say, well, mister Harves here, I 155 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:49,440 Speaker 1: make everybody clap, because when we go to work, people clap. 156 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:54,839 Speaker 1: And I think that all companies should implement this policy 157 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:59,240 Speaker 1: to call it jesse O Day and they nominate whose 158 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:01,760 Speaker 1: day it'll be doing the week, and when that person 159 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:05,880 Speaker 1: come to work for the entire week, the entire office 160 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:08,559 Speaker 1: gives them a round of applause when they come in. 161 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:11,800 Speaker 1: I'm telling you the morale in the workplace and the 162 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 1: culture we're changing, miss Ley, and you all would find 163 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 1: out the sheer joy of coming to work in the morning. 164 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 1: We're the round of approp ladies and gentlemen. Steve Harvey, 165 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:29,240 Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, I thank you so much. I 166 00:13:29,400 --> 00:13:32,840 Speaker 1: can't tell y'all how that makes me feel. And I 167 00:13:32,920 --> 00:13:36,760 Speaker 1: think all jobs should have that. All right, Steve, I 168 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:40,439 Speaker 1: feel you coming up next, asked the CLO Chief Love 169 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:43,840 Speaker 1: Officer Steve Harvey in the building right after this, you're 170 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:47,719 Speaker 1: listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right time now for 171 00:13:47,920 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 1: ask the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey at the ready. 172 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:56,400 Speaker 1: Here we go. This one is from Shiva and Mobile. 173 00:13:56,840 --> 00:13:59,440 Speaker 1: Schiva writes, I'm thirty seven years old and my husband 174 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 1: will be four in December. He wants a fortieth birthday party, 175 00:14:03,040 --> 00:14:06,559 Speaker 1: but I already have a big surprise plan for him, 176 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:08,960 Speaker 1: and it's so expensive that I won't be able to 177 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 1: afford my surprise and a big expensive birthday party. I've 178 00:14:12,679 --> 00:14:16,440 Speaker 1: planned to get breast in plans for him, and I 179 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:19,640 Speaker 1: have it all worked out by telling him I'm visiting 180 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:22,400 Speaker 1: my mom for a week. That way I can heal 181 00:14:22,680 --> 00:14:25,800 Speaker 1: without him seeing me. I don't want him to be disappointed, 182 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 1: So do I tell him what I have planned and 183 00:14:28,520 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 1: let him decide what he wants? You know, that's an 184 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 1: interesting thing, because wow, I don't know that's a that's 185 00:14:40,360 --> 00:14:43,200 Speaker 1: a tough one, I actually think, because she does have 186 00:14:43,240 --> 00:14:48,440 Speaker 1: a real problem now. The big birthday party will be 187 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 1: a memorable occasion, but their new breast though, Yeah, can 188 00:14:54,720 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 1: be life changing for her or him. But it's interesting 189 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 1: because a bit of what you're doing, you're saying it's 190 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 1: for him, but you do know it's for yourself. And 191 00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 1: so now that becomes the issue. The man wants a 192 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 1: big birthday party. You could tell him and let him decide. 193 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:19,400 Speaker 1: I think you should do. You should tell him and 194 00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:22,600 Speaker 1: let him decide. And now, don't get your feelings hurt 195 00:15:22,640 --> 00:15:25,360 Speaker 1: where you want the party and the breast because he 196 00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:31,360 Speaker 1: gonna want both your birthday. But ain't nobody turning down. 197 00:15:31,400 --> 00:15:40,000 Speaker 1: Now that's the thing you did. What okay, what's up? 198 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:42,440 Speaker 1: And I don't know how long it takes the heel 199 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:46,160 Speaker 1: from that, but when you come back, you're gonna come 200 00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:49,360 Speaker 1: back just in time for the birthday. I don't understand 201 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:51,360 Speaker 1: what you're gonna do, but you gotta think that out 202 00:15:51,400 --> 00:15:54,160 Speaker 1: a little bit. I would present the option to him 203 00:15:54,240 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 1: because I don't think could you do one and still 204 00:15:57,360 --> 00:16:10,880 Speaker 1: have the party? Could you do one to right there? Anyway, 205 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 1: it's gonna take more than a week at mom's to heal. 206 00:16:14,280 --> 00:16:21,000 Speaker 1: That's all right, Moving on, Moving on. Erica and Saint 207 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:23,640 Speaker 1: Louis says, I'm a newly wed and living with my 208 00:16:23,760 --> 00:16:26,840 Speaker 1: husband is a challenge. He lived with his parents until 209 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 1: we got married, and his fom did everything for him 210 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:33,040 Speaker 1: and his dad. He loves a home cooked dinner almost daily, 211 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:36,320 Speaker 1: so I want to keep him happy. The only issue 212 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:39,440 Speaker 1: is that he doesn't eat leftovers. If I suggest that 213 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:42,960 Speaker 1: we eat leftovers, he orders food to be delivered. He's 214 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 1: done it more than a few times, and he never 215 00:16:44,920 --> 00:16:47,840 Speaker 1: asked if I want anything. He's twenty seven and he 216 00:16:47,880 --> 00:16:50,800 Speaker 1: should know better. Should I start cooking just for myself 217 00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:56,240 Speaker 1: to get back at him? Wow, y'all tripping already? Already, 218 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 1: y'all ain't even ran into a major problem yet. That's 219 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:04,439 Speaker 1: what's really um. I don't really see this lasting at 220 00:17:04,520 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 1: all unless y'all find some other ones because right now, 221 00:17:07,920 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 1: you you you you didn't get back mold. Y'all ain't 222 00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:15,359 Speaker 1: even repair mode and get back mold gonna get you 223 00:17:15,400 --> 00:17:18,680 Speaker 1: in divorce court. Y'all need to start trying to figure 224 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:23,000 Speaker 1: out some uh you know, some conflict resolution ways of 225 00:17:23,080 --> 00:17:26,640 Speaker 1: solving y'all's issues. This is a small one, and now 226 00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 1: all your method is to get back at him. He 227 00:17:29,840 --> 00:17:32,720 Speaker 1: is being selfish, and you do need to talk to him. 228 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:35,919 Speaker 1: You've married us a selfish mama's boy. You got a 229 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:38,840 Speaker 1: couple of problems. So, but I do think you need 230 00:17:38,840 --> 00:17:41,760 Speaker 1: to talk. He y'all ain't left over. I go up 231 00:17:41,800 --> 00:17:46,240 Speaker 1: in the refrigerator the heartbeat. I'm the warm up king. 232 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:57,400 Speaker 1: Especially if it was good. He chicken forget it the 233 00:17:57,440 --> 00:18:04,720 Speaker 1: next day. That old all right. Moving on, Ginger and Arlington, 234 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:07,879 Speaker 1: Virginia says, my twenty year old son is dating a 235 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:10,919 Speaker 1: girl that is twenty two years old, and she's too 236 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:15,199 Speaker 1: advanced for my son. Her parents are wealthy, and she 237 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:18,440 Speaker 1: drives an expensive car and wears a designer this and that. 238 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 1: I am a single mom and I've taught my son 239 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:23,960 Speaker 1: how to treat a young lady. But this girl runs 240 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:27,000 Speaker 1: the relationship. She buys him things he can't afford, and 241 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:29,160 Speaker 1: she tells him what to wear when they go out. 242 00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:31,359 Speaker 1: I don't want my son to feel like less than 243 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 1: a man because he's not in control. Well, this type 244 00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:38,440 Speaker 1: of relationship ruined him for other women. Girl, you need 245 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:43,720 Speaker 1: to mind your damn business. You know you don't understand 246 00:18:43,840 --> 00:18:51,159 Speaker 1: beer with us said it best, my friend. They feel 247 00:18:51,560 --> 00:18:56,640 Speaker 1: is their appointed duty. They keep trying to tell me 248 00:18:57,240 --> 00:19:02,959 Speaker 1: that I ought not let you just use me. But brother, 249 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:07,639 Speaker 1: if you only knew you'd wish that you were in 250 00:19:07,840 --> 00:19:14,679 Speaker 1: my shoes all so just keep on using me until 251 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:20,240 Speaker 1: you use me up. Yeah, Dave, if you could find 252 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:26,639 Speaker 1: that for me, that would be my damn straw. But 253 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:31,440 Speaker 1: why are you in it? Did you hear what your son? 254 00:19:31,560 --> 00:19:34,840 Speaker 1: Twenty twenty two? She too much for your son? He 255 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:44,640 Speaker 1: needs to know what too much he is? Yeah. See, 256 00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:51,240 Speaker 1: this was written for people like you and your son. 257 00:19:51,920 --> 00:20:00,960 Speaker 1: My friends, they feel as though it's they are appointed 258 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:04,399 Speaker 1: duty and what they do being they keep on trying 259 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:08,520 Speaker 1: to tell me And here's the advice. They can't keep 260 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:13,480 Speaker 1: laying out use me. All she want to do is 261 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:21,159 Speaker 1: use it happen mind, But this is my reply and 262 00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:25,240 Speaker 1: all out to use met Come on home, use me. 263 00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:35,120 Speaker 1: I ad news that if the deal is get you, 264 00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:40,879 Speaker 1: keep on me. Hey, do what tim me girl? Until 265 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:49,160 Speaker 1: you use me? Why me? Something else? All right? He's 266 00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 1: working aware I put it out. Hey, run that brank back? 267 00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:57,439 Speaker 1: Coming up right after this. You're listening to the Steve 268 00:20:57,560 --> 00:21:00,399 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show coming up at the top of the 269 00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:03,800 Speaker 1: hour and entertainment news. The White House has invited Nicki 270 00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:08,359 Speaker 1: Minaj to meet to discuss vaccine safety. Speaking of Nikki, 271 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:11,440 Speaker 1: she has been debunked by the public Minister of Health 272 00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:18,160 Speaker 1: in Trinidad. And in other entertainment news, other entertainment news, 273 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:20,600 Speaker 1: Carl has got some music news for us. She'll give 274 00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:24,000 Speaker 1: us the latest regarding Fat Joe's apology tour from his 275 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:27,399 Speaker 1: versus battle this week. We'll also talk about all of 276 00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:29,320 Speaker 1: these stories at the top of the hour and other 277 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:32,560 Speaker 1: things too. But right now, the nephew is here, will 278 00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:34,560 Speaker 1: run that brank back what you got for his nap. 279 00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:42,000 Speaker 1: Adoption agency, adoption agency. Ain't about have been adopted on 280 00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:46,080 Speaker 1: this show? Who has been adoption? You? Who told you to? 281 00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:53,800 Speaker 1: You know who told me? Okay, it's not true. No, 282 00:21:54,000 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 1: it's not I'm not adopted. Nothing wrong will be an adopted? See, okay, 283 00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:04,960 Speaker 1: nothing wrong with it? Right? Working, All right, let's go. 284 00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:08,880 Speaker 1: This is right. He is adoption agency. Come okay, Hello, Hello, 285 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:12,040 Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Clarence. Uh yeah, this is e Clarence. 286 00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:15,000 Speaker 1: How you doing, man? This is Robert Robert. We were 287 00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 1: trying to get a schedule with you guys. Maybe we 288 00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:20,600 Speaker 1: can swing through and uh pick up a little Clarence. 289 00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:23,480 Speaker 1: I guess around six, if you guys are available around six. 290 00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:27,480 Speaker 1: Uh okay, Hey, what do you mean? Picking up little clans. Well, 291 00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 1: we got the um, we got the call that we 292 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:32,159 Speaker 1: can come and actually pick up Clarence and and and 293 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:34,360 Speaker 1: take him with us. If you guys packed this things 294 00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:37,840 Speaker 1: up yet we waity man got the call from who 295 00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:39,800 Speaker 1: did you can come pick him up? I don't know 296 00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:43,159 Speaker 1: nothing about this. Well, my name is Robert, Robert and 297 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:45,800 Speaker 1: my wife and I got the call that we could do. 298 00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:50,320 Speaker 1: You not know about us um adopting little Clarence? Oh 299 00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:54,240 Speaker 1: what adopting who? Okay wait mante are you guys that 300 00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:58,640 Speaker 1: are you guys that drive? Yeah, that's that's my address. 301 00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 1: But uh, what talking about you're gonna come taking my 302 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:04,159 Speaker 1: son from you? Okay, but you're you're your son is 303 00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:07,639 Speaker 1: two years old? Right, yeah he's too. What what you 304 00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:09,680 Speaker 1: come to pick up my son? And what is this 305 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:15,480 Speaker 1: agency's number? The agency told us that what adoption agency? 306 00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:18,080 Speaker 1: They've got all our information, We've we've filled out all 307 00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:21,000 Speaker 1: the paperwork and you you guys aren't aware that that 308 00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:24,000 Speaker 1: we're supposed to come there today to pick him up? Well? No, 309 00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:27,440 Speaker 1: what what adoptionation said? As well? How to get my information? 310 00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:31,440 Speaker 1: I'm not sure We've we've got pictures of Clarence and 311 00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:34,600 Speaker 1: and uh, you know, my wife has actually going out 312 00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,240 Speaker 1: and bought balloons and everything, and and we were gonna 313 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:39,879 Speaker 1: come through. They told us anytime today, so we felt 314 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:42,320 Speaker 1: maybe like around six pm we'd come get it. Now, 315 00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:44,520 Speaker 1: you ain't coming here to pick up no clans tell 316 00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:47,199 Speaker 1: you that right now? Okay, wait, wait a minute, now 317 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:51,600 Speaker 1: like this this, this, I mean, this can't be happening. Okay, 318 00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:56,159 Speaker 1: wait a minute. You're you're you're you're Clarence Senior. Correct, yes, 319 00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:58,720 Speaker 1: I am. And you don't know anything about us to 320 00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:00,960 Speaker 1: come over there to pick the baby, y'all. Hell know, 321 00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:06,800 Speaker 1: I don't remember about this. See what's your names? Adoption agents? 322 00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:09,040 Speaker 1: Who buil you my information? And how they get my 323 00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:12,080 Speaker 1: information to come pick up my son. I don't know that, sir. 324 00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:15,560 Speaker 1: All I know is is, uh, we've bought a car 325 00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:19,080 Speaker 1: seat where you know my wife has bought balloons. Man, 326 00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:22,399 Speaker 1: I don't care, y'all bought a car seat, balloons, hot chair, whatever. 327 00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,399 Speaker 1: You ain't come and get my son, okay, sir. I mean, 328 00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:28,359 Speaker 1: what I'm not gonna do is tell my wife that 329 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 1: we're not coming to get Clarence Junior today. Oh yeah, 330 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:32,280 Speaker 1: y'all you're gonna have to tell her that because you 331 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:34,840 Speaker 1: ain't coming here to pick up sir from with the 332 00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:38,600 Speaker 1: paperwork that I have. Clarence is actually my son. Now, man, 333 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 1: you ain't your paperwork. You ain't come in here to 334 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:44,200 Speaker 1: pick up my son. Sir Clarence Junior is mine, and 335 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:46,920 Speaker 1: I'm actually gonna change his name to Robert, so I 336 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,919 Speaker 1: mean like him. You are, come on over here if 337 00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 1: you want to come on over here. I'm waiting to play. 338 00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:53,800 Speaker 1: I'm standing in that way right now. Okay, we'll wait 339 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:56,520 Speaker 1: a minute. The adoption agency tell us that you guys 340 00:24:56,560 --> 00:25:00,720 Speaker 1: are not doing well financial financial Are you working? No, 341 00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:03,240 Speaker 1: I ain't working. I think I'm doing anything. I ain't 342 00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:05,600 Speaker 1: gonna get rid of my son just because I ain't working. Okay, 343 00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:08,000 Speaker 1: but but but in other words, you're not You're not 344 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:11,200 Speaker 1: able to provide for him. From what I understand, my 345 00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:13,640 Speaker 1: son ain't miss now me. He got clothes on the back, 346 00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:15,640 Speaker 1: he got a roof over his head. Man, I'm out. 347 00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:17,399 Speaker 1: You ain't coming here and pick up my son. I 348 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:18,960 Speaker 1: don't care what I got to do, man, I go 349 00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:20,920 Speaker 1: out cut grasses. I'll make money on the side and 350 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:23,760 Speaker 1: watching cars nearthing. Okay, okay, about to come here and 351 00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:26,119 Speaker 1: get my sons. But don't you think he deserves a 352 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,240 Speaker 1: better home. I don't know what the but the screw 353 00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,560 Speaker 1: up is. I don't know, but I'm trying at least 354 00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:33,639 Speaker 1: rationalize with you so you can understand why me and 355 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:36,159 Speaker 1: my wish Junior ain't coming to get my son. He 356 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:38,600 Speaker 1: ain't to be home right now. I learned my son. 357 00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:41,160 Speaker 1: You ain't taking nowhere. I'm telling I'm right any that way. 358 00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:43,119 Speaker 1: Come on over here, sir. I don't want to go 359 00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:45,000 Speaker 1: back and forth, but I am. Me and my wife 360 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:48,280 Speaker 1: are coming to get Clarence today. Okay, come on, come on, 361 00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:50,479 Speaker 1: I'm waiting for you. I'm not rich words about two 362 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:52,359 Speaker 1: three times. Come on, I'll be waiting right here. I 363 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:54,960 Speaker 1: get you, sir. I don't want any altercations when I 364 00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:57,159 Speaker 1: get there. I just want Clarence to get in the 365 00:25:57,240 --> 00:25:58,879 Speaker 1: car and me and my wife are gonna take him 366 00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:01,080 Speaker 1: to his new home. You get it's gonna be one 367 00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:03,280 Speaker 1: hell of an offcases or you might won't come to law. 368 00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:06,160 Speaker 1: Whoever gonna come with you bring my adoption ation too, 369 00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:08,679 Speaker 1: so I can whoop that too. You know what, man, 370 00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:10,640 Speaker 1: if you was to be able to provide for your family, 371 00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:12,639 Speaker 1: wouldn't nobody to be trying to adopt your child. The 372 00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 1: problem is that you can't take care of your family. 373 00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:16,880 Speaker 1: Now I'm near my wife coming over there, and we're 374 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:20,680 Speaker 1: coming to get Claire and Junior. You ain't coming down 375 00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:23,000 Speaker 1: here to get my child. Man, you get down here. 376 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:25,239 Speaker 1: You ain't your wife's up. How about it? Don't wait 377 00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:26,760 Speaker 1: a minut wait, will you gonna do whate to my wife? 378 00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:28,800 Speaker 1: I don't hear women, but I'm gonna tell you right 379 00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:31,280 Speaker 1: now you ain't. Your wife's gonna come down here. I'm 380 00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:33,520 Speaker 1: gonna hurt most of you. Anybody come down here and 381 00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:35,879 Speaker 1: try to take my child. About them as they're gonna do. 382 00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:39,440 Speaker 1: I'm coming to get it. I got to do what 383 00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,520 Speaker 1: I got there here. I'm gonna tell you right now, 384 00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:43,760 Speaker 1: you ain't coming down here and get my son. You 385 00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:47,280 Speaker 1: your wife are telling you. Nobody's gonna come here and 386 00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:49,040 Speaker 1: tell you. I feel this's the point my wife has 387 00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:50,760 Speaker 1: got my No. I don't know how you got my 388 00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:53,920 Speaker 1: all dress. I don't care what the agent seen you 389 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,720 Speaker 1: got going through or whatever going on, but I'm telling 390 00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:59,000 Speaker 1: right now you come down here. I don't y'all up. 391 00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:01,000 Speaker 1: I don't trying to this point my wife. Now just 392 00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,760 Speaker 1: say we're coming to get I don't give him disappoint 393 00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 1: where you wan't disappoint. I don't get nothing right now. 394 00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,600 Speaker 1: But you ain't gonna take my son about the coming 395 00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:11,400 Speaker 1: kid him out that I might have told my wife 396 00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:13,879 Speaker 1: I was coming to kidding man. I'm telling man, you 397 00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:16,600 Speaker 1: better tell your wife you come this driveway. I'm gonna 398 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,239 Speaker 1: be sitting my whole waiting for him. The last one. 399 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:21,959 Speaker 1: Y'all up, every last one. Y I don't care who 400 00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:25,240 Speaker 1: he brings, you bringing pleasure the Oldbama. I'm gonna you 401 00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:27,320 Speaker 1: ain't been the tune. Now you ain't been. You ain't 402 00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:29,359 Speaker 1: been trying my son out of the house. I'm gonna 403 00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:32,879 Speaker 1: tell ride now everybody didn't. I'm hanna do it. Let 404 00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:35,920 Speaker 1: you know this. I'm coming to get clears, Junior. You 405 00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,120 Speaker 1: ain't got none to tell me or let me new 406 00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:40,920 Speaker 1: I'm letting you know. Ride Now, you better come here 407 00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:43,600 Speaker 1: with the corner and everybody, because I'm about you up. 408 00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:46,879 Speaker 1: You're gonna leave here with a come on, let me 409 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:48,840 Speaker 1: tell you something. Let me tell you something. You get 410 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:51,920 Speaker 1: his clothes, we get coming hive a better life. He's 411 00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,680 Speaker 1: not living a good life there. You get him. I'm 412 00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:57,959 Speaker 1: told you about six and ain't time bring you more 413 00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:02,679 Speaker 1: down here? And i'm you and whoever you bringing down here? 414 00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:05,399 Speaker 1: You trying to you know who else I'm bringing with me? 415 00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:08,480 Speaker 1: Because I'm bringing somebody. You better bring a horny and 416 00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:11,239 Speaker 1: say what it better be amy to come down here? 417 00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:14,919 Speaker 1: Then get my son about the house. I'm bringing nephew 418 00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:20,440 Speaker 1: Timmy with me. I'm I'm bringing nephew Timmy from the 419 00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:25,800 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey more than his show with me. Oh man, 420 00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:29,440 Speaker 1: you lands this is Timmy. Man, this is nephew Tommy. Man. 421 00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:34,400 Speaker 1: Who who I'm got anybody out here? Man come down 422 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:36,760 Speaker 1: and taking my show? Brother named Benjamin. Got me to 423 00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,840 Speaker 1: get you dog. Oh man, See that's my family. Get Pepsy. 424 00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:43,400 Speaker 1: Next time I see him. It's on here. Man. That 425 00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:46,120 Speaker 1: was a good one. Now, oh man, all right, Paul, 426 00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:48,320 Speaker 1: tell me one more thing. Man, what's the baddest and 427 00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 1: I mean the baddest radio show in the land, the 428 00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:54,920 Speaker 1: Steve's Hall, the Morning Show. I don't think he was 429 00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:57,120 Speaker 1: gonna let me come get that little clan junior wether 430 00:28:57,160 --> 00:29:02,200 Speaker 1: you weren't gonna You know what I like about all 431 00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:06,440 Speaker 1: your calls. The people be in the driveway, they go 432 00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:12,640 Speaker 1: immediately out to the Drive coming up at the top 433 00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:16,160 Speaker 1: of the hour, Entertainment News right after this. You're listening 434 00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:22,160 Speaker 1: to The Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey, it's Shirley Strawberry here. 435 00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:25,760 Speaker 1: Listen up, listen up. Whenever we asked the Steve Harvey 436 00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:29,520 Speaker 1: Nation to do something for the greater good, you always 437 00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:31,880 Speaker 1: do it, and we thank you for that. You always 438 00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:35,120 Speaker 1: do it without hesitation. That's why we have the best 439 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:38,760 Speaker 1: listeners in the world. 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Yes, thank 459 00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:58,720 Speaker 1: you is dead on the box. Have y'all the person? Yeah, 460 00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:02,920 Speaker 1: I have one that y'all good hair, well, that light 461 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:09,760 Speaker 1: ass y'all, don't hate, don't hate. That's thank you, Thank you, 462 00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:12,720 Speaker 1: Thank you for all the ladies who participated. Is a 463 00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:17,920 Speaker 1: wonderful campaign. Cool, all right, we're gonna switch gears here 464 00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:22,440 Speaker 1: and talk some entertainment news. Nicki Minaj is still trending, 465 00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:25,720 Speaker 1: still trending, So in case you missed it, the White 466 00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:30,080 Speaker 1: House called Nicki Minaj to discuss vaccine safety. Nicki tweeted 467 00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:34,680 Speaker 1: to her millions of followers a dubious claim we remember 468 00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:39,200 Speaker 1: this from yesterday that her cousin's friend's fiance in Trinidad 469 00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:43,479 Speaker 1: called off the wedding because the vaccine caused the friends 470 00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:47,200 Speaker 1: testicles to swell. Remember, we talked about that. You know 471 00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:58,560 Speaker 1: everybody everybody's Nicki tweeted, I think it was a national holiday. Yesterday, 472 00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:04,800 Speaker 1: Nikki tweeted that she's been invited to the White House. Quote, yes, 473 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:08,040 Speaker 1: I'm going. I'll be dressed in all pink, like legally blonde, 474 00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:11,800 Speaker 1: so they will know I mean business. I'll ask questions 475 00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:15,840 Speaker 1: on behalf of the people, says Nikki. Also, the Minister 476 00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:21,160 Speaker 1: of Health in Trinidad, doctor Terrence H. De Lane Sink 477 00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:26,760 Speaker 1: Di y'all Sink, also debunked Nikki's misinformation, claimed that the 478 00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:30,960 Speaker 1: vaccine caused swelling of the testicles. The doctor said, this 479 00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:35,200 Speaker 1: is absolutely There is absolutely no reported such side effect 480 00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:38,840 Speaker 1: in Trinidad and none that we know of anywhere else 481 00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:42,000 Speaker 1: in the world. Can we talk to the cousins friend 482 00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:46,560 Speaker 1: that's got the swollenester. But you know something, the sad 483 00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:51,600 Speaker 1: thing about this is social media is so powerful and 484 00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:56,040 Speaker 1: these people have these platforms and they're actually because do 485 00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:58,480 Speaker 1: you a lot of young people get their news off 486 00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:02,360 Speaker 1: social media. Sad to say, what's sad about it is 487 00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 1: man Nicki Mina swings that much weight. The head of 488 00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:14,360 Speaker 1: Trinidad and got involved, and now the president, the president 489 00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:17,120 Speaker 1: of the United States, got involved Now that's a testament 490 00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:23,400 Speaker 1: to Nikki's popularity. And she has an opportunity here to 491 00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:28,400 Speaker 1: find out the facts and relay the facts and stop 492 00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:33,360 Speaker 1: relaying rumors. That's the upside to this. And I hope 493 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:35,560 Speaker 1: she winds up getting the shot after she gets all 494 00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:38,360 Speaker 1: the information. I hope it leads to that. Right. Well, 495 00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:43,080 Speaker 1: she do her own research, and she says again, she'll 496 00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:50,920 Speaker 1: ask questions on what you're doing research. They got all 497 00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:56,120 Speaker 1: wouldn't it be a picture of the swollen testicles? I mean, 498 00:33:56,360 --> 00:34:01,000 Speaker 1: you know what? All right, now, you're right right proof, 499 00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:06,240 Speaker 1: We're moving on. We're moving on. Okay, Carlin is here 500 00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:09,719 Speaker 1: with today's music news. What you got, Carlin A Fat 501 00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:15,960 Speaker 1: Joe Tommy. Yeah, so you know the versus battle was 502 00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:20,200 Speaker 1: earlier this week, Fat Joe and Ja Rule, Right yeah, right, okay, 503 00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:23,480 Speaker 1: but you saw all of this, so fact Joe is 504 00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:26,239 Speaker 1: he has been on an apology tour. He got a 505 00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:29,439 Speaker 1: lot of backlash in the moment. You know, Ja Rule 506 00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:32,759 Speaker 1: had Little Mole and Veet on stage, and you know 507 00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:35,759 Speaker 1: they did their jams and they were perform and put 508 00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:38,960 Speaker 1: it on me and then Ja Rule they were just 509 00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:41,640 Speaker 1: trash talking and he said, I it's pathetic you had 510 00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:44,520 Speaker 1: to go get Remy Mob. Well, then Fat Joe was 511 00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:47,719 Speaker 1: trash talking too, and he said you had to go 512 00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:54,560 Speaker 1: get Dusty b Words to come out on stage. The 513 00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:59,799 Speaker 1: social media star draging Fat Joe for referring to Little 514 00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:05,760 Speaker 1: and Beta as dusty bees. Uh. He's been apologizing ever since. 515 00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:08,880 Speaker 1: He said he's sorry, he didn't mean to disrespect and 516 00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:12,640 Speaker 1: he loves black women. Now, Remy Ma, she's in it. 517 00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:15,120 Speaker 1: She's trying to defend Fat Joe because she said when 518 00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:17,680 Speaker 1: it was all over, she thought that Little Moe and 519 00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:20,719 Speaker 1: Fat Joe squashed the beef. But now it's out on 520 00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:24,719 Speaker 1: social media, so it's fat Joe just doesn't have a chance. 521 00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:27,080 Speaker 1: And then the other thing that's trending real quick about 522 00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:32,120 Speaker 1: this Nellie on stage. He saw a shanty. You know, 523 00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,200 Speaker 1: Nellie and a shanty used to go together, and you 524 00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:36,840 Speaker 1: know a shanty is beautiful. Her body is banging. He 525 00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:39,560 Speaker 1: walked right past Fat Joe and jar Rule and went 526 00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:43,480 Speaker 1: to get a hug from his ex. So Nick was 527 00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:46,560 Speaker 1: looking that good, but they performing He like, get out 528 00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:55,000 Speaker 1: my way, hey baby. She looked all right. Coming up 529 00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:57,680 Speaker 1: in twenty minutes, twenty minutes after the hour, we're looking 530 00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:00,480 Speaker 1: to the crazy mind of j Anthony Brown. After this, 531 00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:06,480 Speaker 1: Oh lord, you're listening, all right, Steve, this is your boy. 532 00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:11,120 Speaker 1: Come on introduce him. Let's go, gentlemen, Jay Anthony he 533 00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:16,960 Speaker 1: is now Brown. I didn't hear that. I know you 534 00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:23,080 Speaker 1: didn't this cause you ladies and gentlemen. Here is that Jay. Here, 535 00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:30,360 Speaker 1: he is now Brown. First of all, let me congratulate 536 00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:36,719 Speaker 1: Los Angeles, California for whipping Larry Elder's ass. I wasn't 537 00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:41,160 Speaker 1: there celebrated. I have moved to Atlanta. I heard they 538 00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:44,880 Speaker 1: were dancing in the street. There was balloons, it was paraded, 539 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:48,680 Speaker 1: tripples was given half price. It was a great day. 540 00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:54,960 Speaker 1: And lost Angelus. They whipped his ass. Now you know 541 00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:59,160 Speaker 1: about your little radio show and talk that bs you've 542 00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:03,360 Speaker 1: been talking and because we don't like you. You know 543 00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:06,520 Speaker 1: when a homeless person throws our egg at your ass, 544 00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:09,640 Speaker 1: food when they give up, when they give up their 545 00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:17,640 Speaker 1: food and chunk it gave up breakfast. When a homeless 546 00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:22,000 Speaker 1: person gives up breakfast or the meal that they can eat, 547 00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:26,759 Speaker 1: hit home and throw it directlets at your ass and 548 00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:32,359 Speaker 1: aintry that it didn't hit you, that it didn't. Yes, 549 00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:38,800 Speaker 1: we hate you, Larry Eldert. Trump's clone anyway. With that 550 00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:42,239 Speaker 1: being said, With that being said, I had to write 551 00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:45,719 Speaker 1: a song, just a little short song, but Larry Elder, Now, 552 00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:48,640 Speaker 1: I wrote it about a television show, and I chose 553 00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:52,040 Speaker 1: shows that I'm sure you would be watching. I didn't 554 00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:55,719 Speaker 1: choose any black shows because I'm sure you ain't watching nothing. 555 00:37:55,960 --> 00:38:01,480 Speaker 1: I'm sure you ain't seen Sanford and Son. Oh name 556 00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:08,320 Speaker 1: another black show, anybody. You ain't seen none of that. 557 00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:13,520 Speaker 1: So I'm saying, I'm saying what you we know you 558 00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:19,000 Speaker 1: have seen. Here we go, Larry Elder. I know you're listening, Joe, 559 00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:29,239 Speaker 1: come and listen to my story by Larry Elder. He 560 00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:36,480 Speaker 1: wanted to be governor, but we really didn't curse. He 561 00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:39,080 Speaker 1: was talking all that smack because he made himself cool 562 00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:48,920 Speaker 1: bleeped days, but he ended up sounding like a bo crazy, 563 00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:54,719 Speaker 1: dumb as hell, stupid ass. Don't come back now you're here. 564 00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:04,520 Speaker 1: I'm at the Jamespot Friday and Saturday, Los Angeles, California. 565 00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:08,359 Speaker 1: Might love Geet Thing and Ron Gee Baby watch out there. 566 00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:16,480 Speaker 1: Never's your friend Steve Harvey back now, Yeah, yeah, I 567 00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:18,200 Speaker 1: was a little proud of him on that one though. 568 00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:21,520 Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Jake. Coming up in thirty four 569 00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:24,879 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour of September Sickle Cell Awareness Month. 570 00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:28,080 Speaker 1: We will talk about sickle cell awareness when we come 571 00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:35,400 Speaker 1: back right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey, everybody, listen. September. 572 00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:37,280 Speaker 1: We want you to be aware of this is National 573 00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:40,840 Speaker 1: sickle cell Awareness Month. And this is a special interview 574 00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:44,600 Speaker 1: because our family member Junior here on the show was 575 00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:48,200 Speaker 1: born with sickle celler needia. He's made us so aware 576 00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:52,000 Speaker 1: of this and supported to this cause and really bought 577 00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:54,320 Speaker 1: an awareness to it that hasn't been on it before 578 00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:58,160 Speaker 1: joining us this morning. Is a renowned physician that has 579 00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:01,640 Speaker 1: done in depth research over years on sickle cell disease. 580 00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:05,200 Speaker 1: He is the chief medical Officer at Dillick University and 581 00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:09,359 Speaker 1: a professor at both Louisiana State University and Two Lane 582 00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:12,279 Speaker 1: Medical Celler. You've got to be smart to get all 583 00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:15,440 Speaker 1: them jobs. He's going to share some important information on 584 00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:19,480 Speaker 1: sickle cell Please. Welcome to the show, Doctor Corey A Bear. 585 00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:23,080 Speaker 1: How you're doing today? How you do How y'all doing 586 00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:28,200 Speaker 1: a good fight? Tighten a good fight? Absolute man, thank 587 00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:30,319 Speaker 1: you for being on this morning. Man. Hey, doctor Aberl, 588 00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:31,960 Speaker 1: let me ask you something. Man, you know sickle cell 589 00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:35,279 Speaker 1: is a disease. It's rare inherited blood disorder that causes 590 00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:39,560 Speaker 1: debilitating pain, disability, and decreases life expected up to thirty years. 591 00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:44,319 Speaker 1: So when you say blood disorder, explain what that means exactly. Well, 592 00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:47,440 Speaker 1: I'm about to blow your mind this morning, because the 593 00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:50,160 Speaker 1: issue is a blood disorder, is something that causes your 594 00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:52,800 Speaker 1: your red blood cell the white blood cells to not 595 00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:56,520 Speaker 1: act right, Okay, And so sickle cell disease deals with 596 00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:59,399 Speaker 1: the red blood cell and it causes it to turn 597 00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:02,640 Speaker 1: into sickle shape, which means that it can't get through 598 00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:07,200 Speaker 1: the veins appropriately and causing pain. It causes you to 599 00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:10,560 Speaker 1: have difficulty breathing. It caused you to have kidney problems, 600 00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:13,520 Speaker 1: vision problems, and you can then you can die at 601 00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:17,440 Speaker 1: a very early age. And it's very preventable disease, absolutely, man, 602 00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:19,080 Speaker 1: because I know I go through all of that everything 603 00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:21,399 Speaker 1: you just said, I've had all them symptoms. Now listen, 604 00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:25,439 Speaker 1: Are there any new medications or treatments that suppressed sickle 605 00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:28,920 Speaker 1: cell disease or help with the symptoms. Yeah, yeah, there are. 606 00:41:29,040 --> 00:41:31,720 Speaker 1: There's For the longest time, we didn't have any medicine 607 00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:34,520 Speaker 1: for about forty years. Br The reason why because basically 608 00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:36,839 Speaker 1: it's a black disease, so people didn't put a lot 609 00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:39,320 Speaker 1: of money, and the other diseases that are kind of 610 00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:42,640 Speaker 1: like this, they actually get like thirty times or money 611 00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:45,560 Speaker 1: in research, which is you know, obviously that's gonna always 612 00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:47,719 Speaker 1: be an issue. But there there is a medicine called 613 00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:50,960 Speaker 1: in Valley that's pretty new amongst the other ones. And uh, 614 00:41:51,040 --> 00:41:53,400 Speaker 1: basically it's a it's a glue to me. And and 615 00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:56,000 Speaker 1: you know, we have all kind of medicines and all 616 00:41:56,080 --> 00:41:58,600 Speaker 1: kinds of side effects. But you know, Junior, that when 617 00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:00,919 Speaker 1: you talk about the medicine, you got to talk about 618 00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:03,680 Speaker 1: something that's already in your body. L Glutamine is already 619 00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:05,560 Speaker 1: in your body. And it's kind of complicated, just like 620 00:42:05,960 --> 00:42:10,160 Speaker 1: all kinds of medicines are. But basically, when you have antioxidants, 621 00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:14,400 Speaker 1: antioxidants can be issued in the body. But when you 622 00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:20,200 Speaker 1: have a medicine that actually restores the nadh in ad ratio, 623 00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:22,239 Speaker 1: and I know this is complicated, so I'm gonna go 624 00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:25,120 Speaker 1: deep in this with y'all please. Basically, it prevents the 625 00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:28,640 Speaker 1: oxidati damage which causes sickle cell problem. So it's a 626 00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:30,960 Speaker 1: good medicine. These side effects are very low and a 627 00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:33,239 Speaker 1: lot of people in sickle cell don't even know that 628 00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:35,960 Speaker 1: it exists. But it's FDA of food and it's very 629 00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:38,640 Speaker 1: low side effect because the L glutamine is already in 630 00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:42,000 Speaker 1: the body. Rust. Do you know about this medicine, June, Absolutely, 631 00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:44,279 Speaker 1: we've we've talked about it. It's the newest drug that's 632 00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:46,480 Speaker 1: been approved by the FDA. And have you ever had 633 00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:48,320 Speaker 1: to use it? No? I never had to use it. 634 00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:50,400 Speaker 1: It just came out and we've talked about getting me some. 635 00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:53,600 Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, you're gonna have some. I'm 636 00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:58,719 Speaker 1: gonna have bro. Yeah, thank you, I appreciate it. Man. 637 00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:01,200 Speaker 1: Let me ask you something, though, what can we do 638 00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:03,479 Speaker 1: to bring more awareness and funding for six CEL disease 639 00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:05,879 Speaker 1: of research? Benchman, this is where I'm about to blow 640 00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:08,120 Speaker 1: your mind, Okay, and this is why I mean daughter, really, 641 00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:11,720 Speaker 1: just handle this with me, Okay. When you talk about 642 00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:15,240 Speaker 1: one of the number one causes of death, and previously 643 00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:19,040 Speaker 1: the number one cause of death in new black military 644 00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:22,880 Speaker 1: recruits in America, it was sickle felt traits, not disease. 645 00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:26,920 Speaker 1: Now so many people in the United States have sickle 646 00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:31,799 Speaker 1: felt traits or million black people have sickle Feld traits, 647 00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:35,200 Speaker 1: and you don't know that you could die. You could 648 00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:38,240 Speaker 1: drop dead and have no idea that you have sickle 649 00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:41,880 Speaker 1: felt traite. Sixteen young black men have dropped dead on 650 00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:47,560 Speaker 1: the football field of Sicklefelm traits, not disease. Every person 651 00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:52,520 Speaker 1: in America is tested. It's for sickle felt traite in America. 652 00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:55,040 Speaker 1: It is a federal law, black or white, and the 653 00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:58,759 Speaker 1: death is already done on everybody. All you gotta do 654 00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:01,520 Speaker 1: is call your states, are called the hospital you are born, 655 00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:04,640 Speaker 1: and you can get the result because it's criminal that 656 00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:06,719 Speaker 1: black people don't know that and they can drop dead 657 00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:09,279 Speaker 1: right now, dude, then it's emergency, just the emergency. Bro. 658 00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:11,520 Speaker 1: We really appreciate you, man, and we're gonna we're gonna 659 00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:13,440 Speaker 1: make this a national thing. Man, I'm gonna get which 660 00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:16,239 Speaker 1: We're gonna start a program. Bro, great job, Junior, and 661 00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:20,319 Speaker 1: doctor Abat coming up next, we're gonna switch gears because 662 00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:23,279 Speaker 1: the nephew is here. With today's praying phone call that's 663 00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:27,839 Speaker 1: coming up right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 664 00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:31,120 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour right about 665 00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:33,759 Speaker 1: four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today. The 666 00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:38,360 Speaker 1: subject is Vengeance is Mine. We'll get into that in 667 00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:42,840 Speaker 1: just a bit. Yeah, scribbleshaw. But right now the nephew 668 00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:45,279 Speaker 1: is here with today's praying phone call. What you got 669 00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:50,200 Speaker 1: for us, nap, mappy hair, Let's go to it. Come okay, 670 00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:53,880 Speaker 1: mappy hair. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to get Francis. This 671 00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:56,760 Speaker 1: is hey, friends. How you doing. My name is Daryl 672 00:44:56,840 --> 00:45:00,839 Speaker 1: d our kids. They go to our together. Oh yeah, yeah, 673 00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:03,920 Speaker 1: your daughters Kalin right, yes, okay, and my son is 674 00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:07,239 Speaker 1: a DJ Darryl Junior. I think I may have met 675 00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:09,600 Speaker 1: you at the beginning of the school. Yeah you remember 676 00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:12,480 Speaker 1: meeting me, Darryl dyl Oh, I met a lot of people, 677 00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:15,320 Speaker 1: but I'm sorry I can't place you right now. Okay, 678 00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:18,719 Speaker 1: no problem. Hey listen, um, I was getting your call. 679 00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:22,000 Speaker 1: You know, there's only a handful of black kids at 680 00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:24,399 Speaker 1: the school, you know, being a private school and all, 681 00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:28,440 Speaker 1: and we the black parents, we all got together and 682 00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:30,880 Speaker 1: had a meeting a couple of nights ago. Okay, you 683 00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:33,640 Speaker 1: said all the black parents. Okay, I wasn't there. Why 684 00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:36,960 Speaker 1: wasn't our call? Uh? Well, we actually had a meeting 685 00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:40,440 Speaker 1: about your daughter, Kaylin. Oh well what about Kaylin? She 686 00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:43,480 Speaker 1: is there a problem at school that she's created or something? 687 00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:46,000 Speaker 1: I don't even know about what's what's going on with Well, 688 00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:49,120 Speaker 1: actually we're you know, we feel privileged to be you know, 689 00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:51,399 Speaker 1: you know, like I said, there's only a handful of blacks, 690 00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:53,839 Speaker 1: and we try to carry ourselves in a dignified way. 691 00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:58,560 Speaker 1: Our presidents, our attitude, the way we handle ourselves. And uh, 692 00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:00,920 Speaker 1: you know, Kaylin's doing very good in school, but want 693 00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:02,719 Speaker 1: I understand, and very nice with all the rest of 694 00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:05,320 Speaker 1: the kids. He's getting along. That's not the problem. What 695 00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:10,240 Speaker 1: we're what we're trying to get is the grooming of Kaylin. 696 00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:13,799 Speaker 1: You know, Kaylin's has these braids, and what we were 697 00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:15,920 Speaker 1: trying to do is give you know, we had a 698 00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:18,279 Speaker 1: meeting about it. We want to have a wood hold 699 00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:21,759 Speaker 1: of did you just say her grooming? Something wrong with 700 00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:24,600 Speaker 1: her grooming? Well, it's not necessarily her clothing, of course, 701 00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:27,360 Speaker 1: you know, the kids were the uniforms, but the braids. 702 00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:30,600 Speaker 1: You know, we want to represent ourselves with a lot 703 00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:33,920 Speaker 1: of dignity. The way we carry ourselves. We want to 704 00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:37,560 Speaker 1: be um, you know, pretty much nice and clean, spitting polished. 705 00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:40,160 Speaker 1: We would really prefer for her hair was straight and 706 00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:44,080 Speaker 1: opposed to being braided up, you know, I mean that 707 00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:46,560 Speaker 1: kind of gives off a ghetto type of look to it, 708 00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:49,920 Speaker 1: and that's what we're trying to avoid. Are you crazy? 709 00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:52,719 Speaker 1: It's something wrong with you you. First of all, how 710 00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:55,440 Speaker 1: the hell you get my mom? If you couldn't call 711 00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:56,920 Speaker 1: me for the meeting, why are you calling me now? 712 00:46:57,400 --> 00:46:59,200 Speaker 1: Like I said, man, the meeting was to get the 713 00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:01,480 Speaker 1: general consensus on where all the parents feel in the 714 00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:04,520 Speaker 1: same way about your daughter and her braids. You know, 715 00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:07,080 Speaker 1: we're just trying to keep everything class here. When it 716 00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:09,239 Speaker 1: comes to the blacks that attend of school, it's only 717 00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:12,520 Speaker 1: ten of us, you know, ten children attending. I'll tell 718 00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:14,640 Speaker 1: you what you can attend you could what you can 719 00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:17,920 Speaker 1: attend to is this phone hanging up in your face. 720 00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:20,800 Speaker 1: You tell up the parents, all of them for me. 721 00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:23,839 Speaker 1: Y'all can go straight and hit rock bottom out of hell. 722 00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:26,800 Speaker 1: Talk about my child and her braids. Her braids are ethnic, 723 00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:29,680 Speaker 1: they are nice, she's wearing rooms. And I don't know 724 00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:32,520 Speaker 1: how in the hell you got my telephone number. But 725 00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:35,080 Speaker 1: tell all the parents from me to kiss the crack 726 00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:37,160 Speaker 1: of out, you know what. Listen, First of all, I 727 00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:38,919 Speaker 1: don't like the way that you're talking to me, Okay. 728 00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:42,839 Speaker 1: I carry myself with class, with dignity. I'm spitting polish man. 729 00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:50,680 Speaker 1: I want to subject you call me I can just 730 00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:53,040 Speaker 1: as ghetto as her hairstyle, and let me say something 731 00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:57,759 Speaker 1: real ghetto to your Okay, you and all parents can 732 00:47:57,880 --> 00:48:00,320 Speaker 1: hit rock from out of hell. Don't call me no 733 00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:04,160 Speaker 1: more when like this. This is ignorant. I'm far beyond this. 734 00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:07,200 Speaker 1: My child is well groomed. She is gonna go to 735 00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:09,239 Speaker 1: s as a matter of fact, as much money as 736 00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:11,279 Speaker 1: it costs to go there too. Y'all should have been 737 00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:13,920 Speaker 1: meeting on how we can get together and pay the tuition. 738 00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:16,160 Speaker 1: How about fact? Are you trying to sit here and 739 00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:18,120 Speaker 1: tell me that you've got a problem taking her brains 740 00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:20,200 Speaker 1: down and wearing her hair straight so she can look 741 00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:22,759 Speaker 1: a lot more classy than what she looks right now 742 00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:25,279 Speaker 1: at your pathetic look, because she's having right now. You 743 00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:27,640 Speaker 1: know what I don't. What's your hair looked like? Take 744 00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:29,640 Speaker 1: a picture of your self and sent it to me, 745 00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:32,160 Speaker 1: texted to me. Since you get folks phoned, I'm give 746 00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:34,320 Speaker 1: it to you. Take a picture of your self and 747 00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:36,239 Speaker 1: texted to me. I bet you you look like who 748 00:48:36,280 --> 00:48:39,080 Speaker 1: would have thought it? My daughter's braids are gonna stay 749 00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:41,319 Speaker 1: up for the rest of the years. As a matter 750 00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:43,880 Speaker 1: of fact, we ain't gonna rebraided. It's gonna stay that 751 00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:46,279 Speaker 1: way so it can be madd at and represent that's 752 00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:48,759 Speaker 1: what we're gonna do. Francis listening, I don't I don't 753 00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:50,719 Speaker 1: want to argue. I just wanted to call and see 754 00:48:50,760 --> 00:48:53,480 Speaker 1: if we can actually, you know, come to a medium 755 00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:56,320 Speaker 1: on this. Do you think that there's a possibility that 756 00:48:56,800 --> 00:49:00,640 Speaker 1: I mean, when I'm I'm picking up DJ tomorrow after school, 757 00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:02,920 Speaker 1: it would it be all right if I picked up 758 00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:06,080 Speaker 1: little Kaylin and brought her home and let my wife 759 00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:11,160 Speaker 1: do our hair. Please. I wish that you would pick 760 00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:13,360 Speaker 1: my start up and see what the hell I do. 761 00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:15,239 Speaker 1: I'm gonna call my husband and him to come over 762 00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:19,560 Speaker 1: your house and whoop y'all after he braids. Yo, I 763 00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:21,920 Speaker 1: wish you would pick up my thought I call the 764 00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:24,160 Speaker 1: police on. As a matter of fact, you're gonna have 765 00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:27,280 Speaker 1: to call the police on me and my husband Steward 766 00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:29,239 Speaker 1: and see what happens. Ma'am. I'm just trying to get 767 00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:31,680 Speaker 1: some class here, that's all we're wanting. We're not wanting 768 00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:34,600 Speaker 1: to fight with you. It's just the blocks here. We 769 00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:36,919 Speaker 1: think that we want a little bit more classy look 770 00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:39,080 Speaker 1: of the way we are, groom, that's the only thing 771 00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:41,359 Speaker 1: we're looking for. The only person who's gonna be taking 772 00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:43,879 Speaker 1: the classes. And when we get to whoop, you're gonna 773 00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:47,600 Speaker 1: be taking the class. How about bad? Yeah? I can't 774 00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:52,480 Speaker 1: stand up like you. Y'all. Get five dollars and one 775 00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:54,960 Speaker 1: penny in your pocket that and think you better than 776 00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:57,399 Speaker 1: everybody as you to get where you came from. As 777 00:49:57,400 --> 00:50:00,600 Speaker 1: a matter of fact, what's what's your name? I'm calling 778 00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:03,880 Speaker 1: the princess on your day? Give me your name, and 779 00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:08,680 Speaker 1: mister hoole, what's your name? Uh, that's that's that's that's 780 00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:10,800 Speaker 1: that's not that's not really what my name is. But 781 00:50:10,880 --> 00:50:13,640 Speaker 1: that's what told me when you first Cammy, what is 782 00:50:13,719 --> 00:50:16,279 Speaker 1: your real name? My name is my name. My real 783 00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:20,319 Speaker 1: name is Tommy Thomas. No, no, my last name either. 784 00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:22,520 Speaker 1: What what the hell is your name? Do you know? 785 00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:26,200 Speaker 1: My name is Tommy nephew Tommy from the Steve Horby 786 00:50:26,320 --> 00:50:29,640 Speaker 1: Morning Show. Your husband Keith got me the plank phone 787 00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:41,719 Speaker 1: call you be Oh my god, keep you got me 788 00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:46,800 Speaker 1: ready to kick your the pts, the girls school and 789 00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:50,120 Speaker 1: every boy here. I tell you what, keep eat out 790 00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:56,960 Speaker 1: for the rest of the week. Me so mean he said, man, 791 00:50:57,400 --> 00:50:59,239 Speaker 1: he said, it don't take but about two and a 792 00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:02,120 Speaker 1: half men for my wife to go off. He said, 793 00:51:02,160 --> 00:51:04,399 Speaker 1: it don't take for two and a half. He said, 794 00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:12,279 Speaker 1: you all right, Oh, may calm down. Let me ask 795 00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:14,239 Speaker 1: you something. What what I got one more thing to 796 00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:16,520 Speaker 1: ask you? What is the baddest and I mean the 797 00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:21,000 Speaker 1: baddest radio show in the land. You know, it's a 798 00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:27,080 Speaker 1: Steve Harvid Morning Show. Come on, Francis, Come on, frances 799 00:51:28,080 --> 00:51:30,960 Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, y'all, y'all, hold up, hold up. 800 00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:36,680 Speaker 1: This was my favorite visual hit, that whole thing. Wait 801 00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:41,080 Speaker 1: a minute, I'm gonna tell my husband. Then he gonna 802 00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:44,560 Speaker 1: come over there and flop your ass and then braid 803 00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:52,000 Speaker 1: your hand. Yeah. I saw this dude sitting between this 804 00:51:52,239 --> 00:52:01,160 Speaker 1: big as Black News getting his half braid. Shut you. 805 00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:08,160 Speaker 1: I like, let my wife come over there, pick up 806 00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:24,800 Speaker 1: your child and braid boy. What do Yeah? Five dollars, 807 00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:30,560 Speaker 1: five dollars in a penny, y'all better than everybody? Make 808 00:52:30,640 --> 00:52:35,920 Speaker 1: me sick? Oh well, that's what the blacks were as 809 00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:38,120 Speaker 1: the blacks have had a meeting about this, and we 810 00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:42,480 Speaker 1: just want to straighten the black ain't but ten black. 811 00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:44,440 Speaker 1: You get my number from you got my number to 812 00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:46,400 Speaker 1: call me with this. Magine had my number to call 813 00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:53,000 Speaker 1: me for the meeting. Francis was the truth keeping stupid, 814 00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:56,000 Speaker 1: baby stupid coming to West Palm Beach next Friday and Sidurday. 815 00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:58,680 Speaker 1: Tickets on sale right now. That's September twenty four from 816 00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:01,279 Speaker 1: twenty fifth. Didn't have you come to town? Back on 817 00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:04,719 Speaker 1: the road, back on the microphone, back on stage. Come on, y'all, 818 00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:07,920 Speaker 1: what Yes, we are back slanging these jokes. We are, 819 00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:10,800 Speaker 1: and we ain't leaving ever again. God be will it. 820 00:53:11,040 --> 00:53:13,080 Speaker 1: We're gonna slang up till we can't slang them no more. 821 00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:15,960 Speaker 1: And I'm slanging them next ride in Saturday, West Palm Beach. 822 00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:18,600 Speaker 1: Impro get the tickets. They all say it right now. 823 00:53:20,000 --> 00:53:23,360 Speaker 1: All right, now, take some grits with you. Don't forget. 824 00:53:24,040 --> 00:53:27,960 Speaker 1: We'll do definitely all Right's coming up next. It's my 825 00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:32,080 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter for today. The subject is vengeance is mine? 826 00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:38,359 Speaker 1: Say I the Lord? Okay, but the Lord didn't write 827 00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:42,480 Speaker 1: this letter though. I'll tell you that vengeance is Mine 828 00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:46,239 Speaker 1: is the subject. We'll get into it right after this. 829 00:53:46,840 --> 00:53:51,759 Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well time now, guys, 830 00:53:51,880 --> 00:53:56,960 Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 831 00:53:57,000 --> 00:53:59,920 Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey 832 00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:03,439 Speaker 1: FM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could 833 00:54:03,440 --> 00:54:06,000 Speaker 1: be reading your letter live on the air, just like 834 00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:10,040 Speaker 1: we're gonna read this one right here, right now. Yeah, 835 00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:12,360 Speaker 1: that's for you, Jay, could be yours, you never know, 836 00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:15,080 Speaker 1: could be you never know. Well, buckle love and hold 837 00:54:15,120 --> 00:54:16,680 Speaker 1: on tight. We got it for you here. It is 838 00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:20,600 Speaker 1: a Strawberry letter. Thank you enough. Subject vengeance is mine. 839 00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:23,800 Speaker 1: Here's Stephen Shirley. I was married for seven years and 840 00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:27,279 Speaker 1: I'm almost divorced. My husband and I didn't really know 841 00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:29,560 Speaker 1: each other as well as we should have before we 842 00:54:29,640 --> 00:54:33,120 Speaker 1: got married, and we had argument on a daily basis. 843 00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:36,120 Speaker 1: I became bitter over his lack of attentiveness, and he 844 00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:39,239 Speaker 1: was tired of living with a crazy bea. Those were 845 00:54:39,280 --> 00:54:42,520 Speaker 1: his exact words. The day he filed for divorce, he 846 00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:45,719 Speaker 1: told me I am terrible in bed, teased me for 847 00:54:45,840 --> 00:54:49,040 Speaker 1: gaining a few pounds and said he's been miserable for 848 00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:53,560 Speaker 1: seven years. I'm slightly heavier when we got married, you know, 849 00:54:53,640 --> 00:54:57,160 Speaker 1: when we got married, but he gained almost fifteen pounds. 850 00:54:57,560 --> 00:55:01,200 Speaker 1: There's a lot when you're that's a lot when you're 851 00:55:01,239 --> 00:55:04,719 Speaker 1: only five eight. He loves to argue and debate over 852 00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:08,040 Speaker 1: any and everything. I got tired of it and was 853 00:55:08,160 --> 00:55:11,600 Speaker 1: relieved that he had the guts defiled for divorce. We 854 00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:14,239 Speaker 1: have lots of married friends and our circle, and most 855 00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:17,680 Speaker 1: of them were my friends before I met and married him. 856 00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:20,480 Speaker 1: We had a huge blowout one night in front of 857 00:55:20,560 --> 00:55:22,799 Speaker 1: our friends, and he blurted out a lot of things 858 00:55:22,880 --> 00:55:25,720 Speaker 1: I had said to him in confidence about certain people. 859 00:55:26,120 --> 00:55:28,960 Speaker 1: The most damaging thing he said is what I told 860 00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:31,800 Speaker 1: him about my best friend's marriage. She and her husband 861 00:55:31,840 --> 00:55:34,480 Speaker 1: hook up often with their nanny and took her on 862 00:55:34,600 --> 00:55:39,000 Speaker 1: vacation with them. I couldn't believe he had stopped He 863 00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:42,560 Speaker 1: had stooped that low, and because of it, my close 864 00:55:42,640 --> 00:55:45,160 Speaker 1: friend and all the other couples in the group chose 865 00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:49,239 Speaker 1: to remain friends with him, and that stunned me. They 866 00:55:49,320 --> 00:55:52,800 Speaker 1: stunned me. I've heard that they have secret get togethers 867 00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:55,839 Speaker 1: without telling me. It breaks my heart that he got 868 00:55:55,880 --> 00:55:58,359 Speaker 1: away with this. I want the group to know all 869 00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:01,480 Speaker 1: about the weird and dirty thing I had to do 870 00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:04,640 Speaker 1: to him during sex. Over the years, his boys will 871 00:56:04,719 --> 00:56:08,040 Speaker 1: definitely think twice about hanging with him after that. He 872 00:56:08,200 --> 00:56:11,399 Speaker 1: made me miserable for far too long. Should I seek 873 00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:14,520 Speaker 1: revenge or let it go and move on without him 874 00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:20,080 Speaker 1: and them? Wow? Well, I think there's your answer right 875 00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:22,840 Speaker 1: there at the bottom of it. You don't need revenge. 876 00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:26,840 Speaker 1: For seven years you've been miserable, he's been miserable, and 877 00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:29,920 Speaker 1: there's your answer. You said it, move on without him 878 00:56:30,200 --> 00:56:33,920 Speaker 1: and them period. My answer won't be long, Steve. This 879 00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:37,320 Speaker 1: relationship has been toxic for both of you for a 880 00:56:37,480 --> 00:56:40,000 Speaker 1: very long time, and you heard with your own ears 881 00:56:40,360 --> 00:56:43,759 Speaker 1: that he really cares nothing for you. Why else would 882 00:56:43,760 --> 00:56:46,160 Speaker 1: he say in front of your friends, the ones you 883 00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:50,080 Speaker 1: introduced him to, what you told him in confidence, in 884 00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:54,560 Speaker 1: secret about the other married couple. And no, these are 885 00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:58,680 Speaker 1: not your friends, not anymore. They took his side, they 886 00:56:58,760 --> 00:57:01,759 Speaker 1: abandoned you, so you should be too happy to say 887 00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:07,000 Speaker 1: good writtens to all of them. Boy. Bye, Okay, that's it, Steve, 888 00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:15,000 Speaker 1: Well that's it. I like the response, Sherlley, I really do. 889 00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:19,080 Speaker 1: So all I'm gonna do now is read you this 890 00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:29,000 Speaker 1: letter and show you why this marriage has got it immimmediately. 891 00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:36,200 Speaker 1: There is no salvaging this. This is unfixable, nor should 892 00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:39,600 Speaker 1: you even want to fix you all right, here we go. 893 00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:42,880 Speaker 1: I've been married for seven years and I'm almost divorced. 894 00:57:43,040 --> 00:57:47,360 Speaker 1: Right there, that's a good clue that it's over. Thank you, mys, 895 00:57:47,400 --> 00:57:50,560 Speaker 1: and y'all ain't know each other when y'all got married. Here, 896 00:57:51,160 --> 00:57:53,840 Speaker 1: let me just go down the list of everything is wrong. 897 00:57:55,200 --> 00:58:00,760 Speaker 1: We all go on a daily basis. God, I became 898 00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:04,840 Speaker 1: bitter over his lack of attentiveness, he paying no attention. 899 00:58:05,680 --> 00:58:09,640 Speaker 1: Then he said he was tired of living with a 900 00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:17,640 Speaker 1: crazy bee. Yeah, y'all following this letter, there's nothing good 901 00:58:17,760 --> 00:58:22,120 Speaker 1: happening here. She said. Those were his exact words the 902 00:58:22,280 --> 00:58:24,800 Speaker 1: day he filed for divorce. He was holding that for 903 00:58:25,000 --> 00:58:29,800 Speaker 1: seven years. He told me that he would go again. 904 00:58:31,560 --> 00:58:38,760 Speaker 1: Number one, I'm terrible in bad. That's never good. Then 905 00:58:38,880 --> 00:58:42,520 Speaker 1: he said, you gained a food a few pounds, and 906 00:58:42,760 --> 00:58:49,560 Speaker 1: then he said he'd been miserable for the whole seven years. Well, 907 00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:53,000 Speaker 1: I mean that's a true statement. If y'all aging every day, 908 00:58:54,280 --> 00:58:58,320 Speaker 1: you bitter, he thank you crazy, and y'all ain't good 909 00:58:58,360 --> 00:59:02,200 Speaker 1: in the sack together. That's seven years of street misery. 910 00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:06,240 Speaker 1: Then she said, I'm slightly heavier than whom he got married, 911 00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:10,600 Speaker 1: but he's gained almost fifteen pounds, and that's a lot 912 00:59:10,720 --> 00:59:14,640 Speaker 1: when you're only five nine five eight. Now you're married 913 00:59:14,680 --> 00:59:19,320 Speaker 1: to the lys shout fat man. But he don't see 914 00:59:19,360 --> 00:59:22,240 Speaker 1: that because he's so busy throwing mud on you. But 915 00:59:22,400 --> 00:59:24,880 Speaker 1: that's what they do when something wrong with you. They 916 00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:28,360 Speaker 1: try to dirty you up more than they are. All right, 917 00:59:29,960 --> 00:59:32,680 Speaker 1: And but then here's the other part, that this relationship 918 00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:38,440 Speaker 1: is over. I was relieved that he had the guts 919 00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:43,439 Speaker 1: to file for divorce. Oh my god, this is an out. 920 00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:47,800 Speaker 1: This is a free out handed to you by God, 921 00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:52,640 Speaker 1: a boone through the lys shout fat man. God works 922 00:59:52,640 --> 00:59:57,400 Speaker 1: in mysterious ways, and he used the problem you have 923 00:59:57,560 --> 01:00:01,920 Speaker 1: in your life to provide the salute. Your problem is 924 01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:05,400 Speaker 1: the little short fat man. But the little shot fat 925 01:00:05,520 --> 01:00:09,240 Speaker 1: man came in with the solution. Oh man, it don't 926 01:00:09,280 --> 01:00:12,240 Speaker 1: get no better than this. Don't you know how joyous 927 01:00:12,280 --> 01:00:16,200 Speaker 1: and wonderful occasion it is, y'all when your problem becomes 928 01:00:16,240 --> 01:00:20,600 Speaker 1: your solution. Oh man, to be in a relationship with 929 01:00:20,760 --> 01:00:23,760 Speaker 1: somebody horrible and then the horrible person come up to 930 01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:25,840 Speaker 1: you and say, I think we all are end this. 931 01:00:26,400 --> 01:00:30,360 Speaker 1: Let the church saying man, he man, and hold it 932 01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:33,600 Speaker 1: right there, Steve. We'll have Part two of your rent 933 01:00:33,640 --> 01:00:37,040 Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Strawberry 934 01:00:37,080 --> 01:00:40,120 Speaker 1: Letter subject for today, vengeance is Mine, will get right 935 01:00:40,200 --> 01:00:43,560 Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening to the 936 01:00:43,680 --> 01:00:47,440 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Come on, Steve, let's recap today's 937 01:00:47,440 --> 01:00:51,400 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter, Vengeance is Mine. Now. We're gonna get to 938 01:00:51,480 --> 01:00:53,960 Speaker 1: this vengeance part right now in this section of the letter, 939 01:00:53,960 --> 01:00:56,000 Speaker 1: because we got a marriage that's been doomed. They've been 940 01:00:56,040 --> 01:00:59,920 Speaker 1: married seven years and it's been horrible. It's been horrible 941 01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:03,840 Speaker 1: the entire time. They argu on a daily basis. That's 942 01:01:03,960 --> 01:01:06,880 Speaker 1: seven years of huguing with somebody who wants to be 943 01:01:07,040 --> 01:01:10,440 Speaker 1: in that Now she's better because he don't pay her attention. 944 01:01:10,760 --> 01:01:13,080 Speaker 1: And the day he filed for divorce, he told her 945 01:01:13,360 --> 01:01:16,520 Speaker 1: he didn't want to live with a crazy be Then 946 01:01:16,640 --> 01:01:19,360 Speaker 1: he told a woman she was terrible in bed and 947 01:01:19,560 --> 01:01:23,439 Speaker 1: teased her about gaining a few pounds and had said 948 01:01:23,480 --> 01:01:26,640 Speaker 1: he'd been miserable for seven years. She fired back on him, though, 949 01:01:26,920 --> 01:01:29,160 Speaker 1: and said, when you gained fifteen pounds and you ain't 950 01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:32,720 Speaker 1: be five eight, that's amazing right there. And that's people 951 01:01:32,760 --> 01:01:34,600 Speaker 1: do on our show to can relate to that, not 952 01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:37,480 Speaker 1: to the weight game because they are you know, he'd 953 01:01:37,520 --> 01:01:39,720 Speaker 1: take good cares self. But he knows what you're talking 954 01:01:39,720 --> 01:01:42,600 Speaker 1: about when you coming to these people about five eight. Now, 955 01:01:42,600 --> 01:01:45,000 Speaker 1: I don't really think you know, you should have hit 956 01:01:45,160 --> 01:01:48,120 Speaker 1: him up too hard about when being that five and 957 01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:52,400 Speaker 1: is not you know, it's not fair for what Jay, 958 01:01:53,480 --> 01:01:57,280 Speaker 1: That's not fair that you said that. It's wrong. I 959 01:01:57,400 --> 01:02:00,720 Speaker 1: said what Jay, people on this show can relate to 960 01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:04,040 Speaker 1: the short I don't feel that I'm right here, Okay, 961 01:02:04,240 --> 01:02:07,640 Speaker 1: I am right here. I am right here. I don't 962 01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:11,440 Speaker 1: know all this talking around. I'm right here, so we 963 01:02:11,480 --> 01:02:16,040 Speaker 1: can quit all this like I'm not here. I'm right here. Wow. 964 01:02:16,160 --> 01:02:18,280 Speaker 1: I was just talking to the lady the letters so 965 01:02:18,440 --> 01:02:20,880 Speaker 1: she could not that we was relatable. You want to 966 01:02:20,920 --> 01:02:22,320 Speaker 1: talking to that lady when you start talking about this 967 01:02:22,360 --> 01:02:24,720 Speaker 1: damn show, you know who you talking about right here? Well, 968 01:02:24,760 --> 01:02:26,800 Speaker 1: I was just trying to show her how we as 969 01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:33,320 Speaker 1: the more to Show were relatable. We are steen pound, 970 01:02:33,400 --> 01:02:35,840 Speaker 1: he lost fifteen pound, he in great shape. But he 971 01:02:36,000 --> 01:02:38,680 Speaker 1: definitely almost didn't know say who I was talking about. 972 01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:41,160 Speaker 1: But that's what I was saying. Steve, you didn't say 973 01:02:41,160 --> 01:02:43,480 Speaker 1: anything about the wait, you know, you didn't pick anybody 974 01:02:43,560 --> 01:02:46,440 Speaker 1: out on the show, and y'all gonna continue to elaborate. 975 01:02:46,680 --> 01:02:50,280 Speaker 1: Are we gonna keep elaborating? But you know you say 976 01:02:50,400 --> 01:02:52,920 Speaker 1: five eight, you know we can help with that. I 977 01:02:53,040 --> 01:02:59,360 Speaker 1: am not five eight time, I am not. I'm not 978 01:02:59,560 --> 01:03:02,360 Speaker 1: saying and your doctor and told you to stop saying 979 01:03:02,400 --> 01:03:04,720 Speaker 1: that because he I got a new doctor. And then 980 01:03:12,080 --> 01:03:14,840 Speaker 1: I'm trying to help people out and making sure that 981 01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:18,320 Speaker 1: they know we're relatable. But then you know, like she said, 982 01:03:18,360 --> 01:03:20,880 Speaker 1: it's a lot when you pick up fifteen pounds and 983 01:03:21,000 --> 01:03:25,280 Speaker 1: you're only five eight. And then he loves to agur 984 01:03:25,400 --> 01:03:29,440 Speaker 1: and debate over any and everything. And she was relieved 985 01:03:29,560 --> 01:03:31,960 Speaker 1: when he had the guts to file for divorce. Now 986 01:03:32,080 --> 01:03:34,160 Speaker 1: here's what the letter is really about. They had a 987 01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:36,600 Speaker 1: huge blowout one night in front of their friends because 988 01:03:36,600 --> 01:03:39,160 Speaker 1: they go out with this circle of friends. Right at 989 01:03:40,920 --> 01:03:43,880 Speaker 1: he blurted out a lot of things that this woman 990 01:03:44,000 --> 01:03:47,680 Speaker 1: had said to him in confidence about other people. And 991 01:03:47,840 --> 01:03:51,840 Speaker 1: the thing that was most damaging in front of the group, 992 01:03:53,160 --> 01:03:56,560 Speaker 1: what's what he told them about her best friend's marriage, 993 01:03:56,960 --> 01:04:00,280 Speaker 1: that her and her husband hook up often. When then 994 01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:05,560 Speaker 1: Nanny and they took on vacation with them, she said, 995 01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:10,560 Speaker 1: I couldn't believe he stooped that low and because of it, 996 01:04:10,840 --> 01:04:13,200 Speaker 1: my close friend and all the other couples in the 997 01:04:13,320 --> 01:04:17,160 Speaker 1: group chose to remain friends with him. And they shunned me. 998 01:04:17,640 --> 01:04:21,200 Speaker 1: You know why because you the one said. See, you 999 01:04:21,440 --> 01:04:24,720 Speaker 1: told it in confidence, what your girl told you, and 1000 01:04:24,960 --> 01:04:28,120 Speaker 1: he blurted it out. You can't believe he stooped that 1001 01:04:28,280 --> 01:04:30,840 Speaker 1: lowd You know who you married too. You know exactly 1002 01:04:30,920 --> 01:04:34,560 Speaker 1: who you're married too. You know, you know, you know 1003 01:04:34,720 --> 01:04:38,560 Speaker 1: he Petti. So they've shunned you, and they remained friends 1004 01:04:38,600 --> 01:04:41,120 Speaker 1: with him. And then you heard the day have secret 1005 01:04:41,160 --> 01:04:44,439 Speaker 1: get togethers without telling you. And it breaks my heart 1006 01:04:44,600 --> 01:04:48,200 Speaker 1: that he got away with this. Now here's her solution. 1007 01:04:48,360 --> 01:04:51,560 Speaker 1: This is the vengeance's mind part. I want the group 1008 01:04:51,640 --> 01:04:55,360 Speaker 1: to know about all the weird and dirty things I 1009 01:04:55,480 --> 01:04:57,959 Speaker 1: had to do to him doing sex over the years. 1010 01:04:58,720 --> 01:05:07,360 Speaker 1: What is that you gonna tell that girl? I wouldn't 1011 01:05:07,400 --> 01:05:12,480 Speaker 1: do it, but just for radio purposes, let's have an 1012 01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:17,400 Speaker 1: open discussion about what these little dirty things you'd have 1013 01:05:17,520 --> 01:05:20,960 Speaker 1: done to him that his free state find out about. 1014 01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:25,440 Speaker 1: Are you referring to the time that you had to 1015 01:05:25,520 --> 01:05:31,840 Speaker 1: stop by the pet stoke and by two Gerbils? What 1016 01:05:31,960 --> 01:05:41,440 Speaker 1: you're talking about I'm just asking. I'm just asking. I 1017 01:05:41,520 --> 01:05:45,160 Speaker 1: don't know what dirty little secret you're canna tell on 1018 01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:48,440 Speaker 1: this man. Are you Are you referring to the time 1019 01:05:49,400 --> 01:05:55,880 Speaker 1: that you had to hire two little people to come 1020 01:05:55,920 --> 01:05:59,880 Speaker 1: in the room with video cameras and with acrobatic skills. 1021 01:06:00,000 --> 01:06:06,200 Speaker 1: Are you referring to that night? Are you want to 1022 01:06:06,280 --> 01:06:09,560 Speaker 1: talk about the time that you rented the organ grinders? Monkey? 1023 01:06:12,760 --> 01:06:23,680 Speaker 1: What was that? Abo? What was that about? Are you 1024 01:06:23,840 --> 01:06:27,120 Speaker 1: talking about that time you had to scrape the grease 1025 01:06:27,200 --> 01:06:29,960 Speaker 1: off the top of the spam? Can so y'all could 1026 01:06:30,040 --> 01:06:36,520 Speaker 1: finish that? All right? You know that grease that be 1027 01:06:36,600 --> 01:06:38,400 Speaker 1: on the top of the spam when you open it, 1028 01:06:38,920 --> 01:06:42,560 Speaker 1: scrape it off, and so y'all could finish as that 1029 01:06:42,800 --> 01:06:47,040 Speaker 1: what you're talking about? But we got to go. We 1030 01:06:47,200 --> 01:06:51,240 Speaker 1: need to notice here on today's Strubberry letter at Steve HARVEYFM, 1031 01:06:51,280 --> 01:06:53,800 Speaker 1: on Instagram and Facebook, check out the Strubberry. Are you 1032 01:06:53,960 --> 01:06:56,640 Speaker 1: talking about the time he bagged up on the doorknob 1033 01:06:56,720 --> 01:07:01,200 Speaker 1: and now y'all can't find the doknob? Nothing? Junior coming 1034 01:07:01,280 --> 01:07:09,000 Speaker 1: up next six minutes after right after you're listening Steve 1035 01:07:09,560 --> 01:07:12,280 Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, here we go. Junior is here 1036 01:07:12,320 --> 01:07:20,480 Speaker 1: with sports talk what you got, Junior Hio pipping, Hey, everybody, 1037 01:07:20,560 --> 01:07:23,240 Speaker 1: what's up? Pipping back in the building. What's up, ladies? 1038 01:07:24,760 --> 01:07:26,959 Speaker 1: Hey Dick. So this way we're gonna do it, y'all. 1039 01:07:27,600 --> 01:07:30,120 Speaker 1: Pimping is picking who's gonna win the game? Steve b 1040 01:07:30,280 --> 01:07:33,080 Speaker 1: picking because he owned the radio in your area. That 1041 01:07:33,200 --> 01:07:37,360 Speaker 1: ain't got nothing, new d game. Let's go Junior, all right, 1042 01:07:37,720 --> 01:07:40,880 Speaker 1: New England Patris versus New York Jets, New England, no doubt, 1043 01:07:42,920 --> 01:07:48,000 Speaker 1: Denver at Jacksonville, Jacksonville, cause well, we is on the radio. 1044 01:07:50,200 --> 01:07:53,800 Speaker 1: Buffalo at Lammy oh Man Buffalo evening to lode To 1045 01:07:53,920 --> 01:07:56,120 Speaker 1: in the rope him, I'm gonna tell you Buffalo, it 1046 01:07:56,280 --> 01:08:01,040 Speaker 1: is San Francisco at Philly oh Man. Jalen Hurtel's own 1047 01:08:01,160 --> 01:08:04,960 Speaker 1: cue was on with you boy, Chilly lost Ange Ram 1048 01:08:05,120 --> 01:08:08,440 Speaker 1: ended outfas coach. I'm gonna have to go with the Rams, 1049 01:08:09,240 --> 01:08:14,160 Speaker 1: Las Vegas Raiders and Pittsburgh's Raids Raidos out of hate 1050 01:08:14,240 --> 01:08:17,879 Speaker 1: for Pitchburg. That's all this is sensing that in Chicago, 1051 01:08:18,800 --> 01:08:22,040 Speaker 1: Come on, Chicago, put that boy in from Ohio stating 1052 01:08:22,120 --> 01:08:25,479 Speaker 1: quitting playing around Andy Dalton game, gonna win on damn game. 1053 01:08:26,520 --> 01:08:30,280 Speaker 1: New Orleans Saints and Carolina Panthers, Jamison Wiston on five 1054 01:08:30,439 --> 01:08:34,599 Speaker 1: Baby new Allans on the way it is, Minnesota Vikings 1055 01:08:34,640 --> 01:08:38,400 Speaker 1: at the Arizona Carders, Arizona Cardinals, Baby, come on, Calor man, 1056 01:08:38,439 --> 01:08:40,400 Speaker 1: I should have picked him last week, trying to give 1057 01:08:40,479 --> 01:08:44,920 Speaker 1: Tennessee some love. Atlanta Falcons at Tampa Bay bucking men. 1058 01:08:45,360 --> 01:08:47,640 Speaker 1: Stop this, come on, let's go keep it moving. You 1059 01:08:47,720 --> 01:08:50,880 Speaker 1: know can in this game? Dirty birds gonna need a 1060 01:08:50,920 --> 01:08:57,759 Speaker 1: bath after this. Tennessee Seattle Seahawks, Seahawks Baby Russell Wilson, 1061 01:08:58,640 --> 01:09:04,960 Speaker 1: Dallas Cowboys and LA Charts. You know what, man, come on, 1062 01:09:05,479 --> 01:09:11,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna pick the cowboy. Cowboy very good last week, man, 1063 01:09:11,400 --> 01:09:15,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna pick the cowboy. Okay, all right? Kansas City, 1064 01:09:15,520 --> 01:09:21,000 Speaker 1: Kansas City Chief said Baltimore Rader. Yeah, you know, nice 1065 01:09:21,160 --> 01:09:29,880 Speaker 1: run lama Hey Detroit on Monday night at Green Bay. Well, see, 1066 01:09:29,920 --> 01:09:32,800 Speaker 1: that's gonna be tricky because I love Detroit. Man. There's 1067 01:09:32,840 --> 01:09:37,040 Speaker 1: so many pimps up down an Lodgers ain't gonna lose 1068 01:09:37,160 --> 01:09:39,160 Speaker 1: to it. The row man. I don't know what's happening 1069 01:09:39,240 --> 01:09:42,640 Speaker 1: with them going green Bay. Yeah, I got to go 1070 01:09:42,760 --> 01:09:45,920 Speaker 1: on Green Bay man, all right. And the last but 1071 01:09:46,040 --> 01:09:49,200 Speaker 1: not least on Sunday though to Houston, Texas and Cleveland brows. 1072 01:09:49,320 --> 01:09:53,000 Speaker 1: He come on, you know y'all had a good game 1073 01:09:53,160 --> 01:09:56,640 Speaker 1: last week because Tyron Taylor played out his booty. But 1074 01:09:56,800 --> 01:10:02,679 Speaker 1: I got ten news for you man. We have in Cleveland, y'all. 1075 01:10:02,760 --> 01:10:07,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell all y'all ruts and if you don't 1076 01:10:07,080 --> 01:10:13,320 Speaker 1: win a game Funday, take Monday off. It is all right, 1077 01:10:13,479 --> 01:10:16,160 Speaker 1: Thank you, Junior, Thank you. Pimpon coming up at the 1078 01:10:16,200 --> 01:10:21,280 Speaker 1: time of the hour, Hey, Pempon, Jay, Anthony Brown's comedy 1079 01:10:21,360 --> 01:10:25,160 Speaker 1: Roulette coming up next. Pempon, Yeah, you're listening to the 1080 01:10:25,320 --> 01:10:30,479 Speaker 1: String Show. All right, guys, it is time now for 1081 01:10:30,720 --> 01:10:35,800 Speaker 1: comedy Roulette. Jay. Please set it up. Here go put 1082 01:10:35,880 --> 01:10:38,719 Speaker 1: three subjects on the wheel. Spun the wheel where stop. 1083 01:10:38,920 --> 01:10:42,760 Speaker 1: We'll make it funny because we's comedians. All right, Here 1084 01:10:42,840 --> 01:10:48,920 Speaker 1: we go. Here are the categories things men say, henpecked 1085 01:10:48,960 --> 01:10:52,040 Speaker 1: men say when they can't hang with the fellas. All right, 1086 01:10:55,600 --> 01:11:00,280 Speaker 1: reason people say they are returning something and us that 1087 01:11:00,400 --> 01:11:04,080 Speaker 1: a substitute teacher might say to take control of the class. 1088 01:11:04,720 --> 01:11:08,200 Speaker 1: All right, all right, we're gonna spend the wheel right now, 1089 01:11:11,280 --> 01:11:16,439 Speaker 1: better treat stuff back. I take some stuff back, so 1090 01:11:16,520 --> 01:11:19,720 Speaker 1: I'll do all right, we got this is where we 1091 01:11:19,840 --> 01:11:24,040 Speaker 1: got though. Things hen pecked men say when they can't 1092 01:11:24,400 --> 01:11:29,040 Speaker 1: hang with the fellas. Things a hen pecked man would say, 1093 01:11:29,800 --> 01:11:32,560 Speaker 1: so he because he can't hang with the fellas. I 1094 01:11:32,680 --> 01:11:35,200 Speaker 1: got to watch him for my wife's underwear. I can't 1095 01:11:35,240 --> 01:11:40,400 Speaker 1: hang out with y'all man, I said things he can't 1096 01:11:40,400 --> 01:11:41,960 Speaker 1: picked me and say, because they can't hang out with 1097 01:11:42,120 --> 01:11:44,320 Speaker 1: they fellas well. Man, No, she said, I can't go, 1098 01:11:44,479 --> 01:11:51,719 Speaker 1: and she right, I can't go. Get in here. Things 1099 01:11:51,840 --> 01:11:53,680 Speaker 1: hen pecked man say when they can't hang out with 1100 01:11:53,800 --> 01:11:58,479 Speaker 1: the fella No, no, Barbara want me to scratch her eggs, 1101 01:11:58,600 --> 01:12:03,040 Speaker 1: but this evening, you know, she I gotta do that. 1102 01:12:04,120 --> 01:12:10,479 Speaker 1: That's that's a must know. Things that henn't picked me 1103 01:12:10,640 --> 01:12:12,920 Speaker 1: and say when he can't hang out with his friend, 1104 01:12:13,880 --> 01:12:16,720 Speaker 1: ain't hey fellas My wife said, y'all said it was 1105 01:12:16,880 --> 01:12:25,080 Speaker 1: next Friday, changed the day and she said, y'all standing 1106 01:12:25,240 --> 01:12:29,799 Speaker 1: right here, don't can't tell you mean I ain't comedy 1107 01:12:29,880 --> 01:12:32,160 Speaker 1: route let things a hitting pick man would say, why 1108 01:12:32,200 --> 01:12:34,880 Speaker 1: he can't hang out with the boys already asked the 1109 01:12:35,000 --> 01:12:37,120 Speaker 1: one time, and if I asked her again, to get 1110 01:12:37,240 --> 01:12:46,960 Speaker 1: real angry and beat me things hen picked me and 1111 01:12:47,040 --> 01:12:49,320 Speaker 1: say when they can't hid with the fellas. Uh, she 1112 01:12:49,439 --> 01:12:51,360 Speaker 1: don't want nothing to happen to me, so it's best 1113 01:12:51,400 --> 01:12:54,559 Speaker 1: I stay hip. She got something could happen, right, she right, 1114 01:12:54,640 --> 01:12:58,320 Speaker 1: something could happen, Yes, she right, yes, right things hent 1115 01:12:58,360 --> 01:13:00,040 Speaker 1: picked me and say when they can't hang out with 1116 01:13:00,160 --> 01:13:03,479 Speaker 1: the Fellah, I can't go out when the street lights 1117 01:13:03,520 --> 01:13:07,400 Speaker 1: it can y'all move it up to a different times 1118 01:13:07,439 --> 01:13:12,360 Speaker 1: the street lights it. I can't be out like that. 1119 01:13:12,840 --> 01:13:17,800 Speaker 1: You don't allow that. Things are hen peck me and 1120 01:13:17,880 --> 01:13:20,920 Speaker 1: say when they can't hang out with their friends. My 1121 01:13:21,080 --> 01:13:30,559 Speaker 1: wife was reading that golf causes blood clots. My wife 1122 01:13:30,600 --> 01:13:38,639 Speaker 1: had red where caused. I think the man can say 1123 01:13:38,680 --> 01:13:41,240 Speaker 1: where he can't hang out with the boys. Could we 1124 01:13:41,360 --> 01:13:43,320 Speaker 1: just sit in the car in the front yard and 1125 01:13:43,479 --> 01:13:45,840 Speaker 1: talk and that'd be cool that when she could see 1126 01:13:45,920 --> 01:13:54,360 Speaker 1: men pick men and say when they can't hang out 1127 01:13:54,400 --> 01:13:56,360 Speaker 1: with the fellas. Hey, I know the game came on 1128 01:13:56,479 --> 01:13:58,080 Speaker 1: the day. Y'all know it's coming on, but I can't 1129 01:13:58,080 --> 01:14:00,280 Speaker 1: go with y'all because I missed church this morning. She said, 1130 01:14:00,280 --> 01:14:01,720 Speaker 1: I don't need to hang out since I met the church, 1131 01:14:01,760 --> 01:14:09,080 Speaker 1: And she's right, right, right, men say when they can't 1132 01:14:09,120 --> 01:14:12,760 Speaker 1: hang out with the fellas. No, no, no, see, I 1133 01:14:12,800 --> 01:14:16,040 Speaker 1: gotta I gotta scratch Regina Dander tonight if I didn't 1134 01:14:16,040 --> 01:14:30,080 Speaker 1: have to do that station. Yeah, it's just last one 1135 01:14:33,600 --> 01:14:36,760 Speaker 1: Top ten. I mean things that hens peck men say, 1136 01:14:39,560 --> 01:14:42,360 Speaker 1: things that hen't peck men say when he can't hang 1137 01:14:42,439 --> 01:14:52,080 Speaker 1: out with his friends. Y'all be quiet, y'all be quiet. 1138 01:14:53,560 --> 01:14:59,960 Speaker 1: My wife told me to shut up. Last still ain't saying. 1139 01:15:00,560 --> 01:15:06,760 Speaker 1: He said none in a week more, we'll have more 1140 01:15:06,760 --> 01:15:09,400 Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up in twenty 1141 01:15:09,439 --> 01:15:13,200 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, right after you're listening to the 1142 01:15:13,360 --> 01:15:20,559 Speaker 1: Stay Show. Social media exploded after actress Keiki Palmer exposed 1143 01:15:20,560 --> 01:15:24,160 Speaker 1: the Met Gala's negative food review. The criticism is getting 1144 01:15:24,240 --> 01:15:27,080 Speaker 1: to This year's Met Gala head chef and two thousan 1145 01:15:27,200 --> 01:15:31,519 Speaker 1: ten Bravo Top Chef Masters winner, Marcus Samuelson, had spoken 1146 01:15:31,560 --> 01:15:34,920 Speaker 1: out to defend his plant base menu. Samuelson says the 1147 01:15:35,080 --> 01:15:39,000 Speaker 1: three course meal tasted plenty good, and one thing's for sure, 1148 01:15:39,160 --> 01:15:43,840 Speaker 1: it was not fire. Festival Cuisine chef Samuelson helped select 1149 01:15:43,920 --> 01:15:47,200 Speaker 1: ten of New York top chefs to create the all 1150 01:15:47,320 --> 01:15:50,960 Speaker 1: vegan menu, and he couldn't be producer of their memorable meal. 1151 01:15:52,160 --> 01:15:54,960 Speaker 1: He couldn't be prouder of their memorable meal. It was 1152 01:15:55,000 --> 01:15:57,200 Speaker 1: all vegan, he said, he could be prouder of it. 1153 01:15:57,280 --> 01:16:08,760 Speaker 1: No meat, no profile. So what was it? Man Kiky 1154 01:16:08,840 --> 01:16:12,959 Speaker 1: Palmer's plate heads and barley and roasted mushrooms with zucchini 1155 01:16:13,040 --> 01:16:17,559 Speaker 1: slices and a tomato corn salad. If you don't kiss, 1156 01:16:20,160 --> 01:16:24,240 Speaker 1: I'm with you. Vegans need to know. Everybody don't like plants. 1157 01:16:27,120 --> 01:16:31,439 Speaker 1: A lot of us don't have them in our house, shrubs. 1158 01:16:33,360 --> 01:16:37,920 Speaker 1: It was. It was zucchini slices, rusted roasted mushrooms and 1159 01:16:38,080 --> 01:16:47,920 Speaker 1: barley and tomato corn salad. That is good, absolutely right, 1160 01:16:49,680 --> 01:16:56,160 Speaker 1: Tomato the entree. All right? Coming up next, we'll have 1161 01:16:56,280 --> 01:16:58,200 Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show with thirty three 1162 01:16:58,240 --> 01:17:02,639 Speaker 1: minutes after. Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1163 01:17:03,160 --> 01:17:06,880 Speaker 1: All right. Time now for ask the CLO Chief Love 1164 01:17:07,040 --> 01:17:10,519 Speaker 1: Officer Steve Harvey at the ready. Here we go. This 1165 01:17:10,680 --> 01:17:14,320 Speaker 1: one is from Shiba and Mobile Siba Rides. I'm thirty 1166 01:17:14,360 --> 01:17:17,280 Speaker 1: seven years old and my husband will be forty in December. 1167 01:17:17,640 --> 01:17:20,479 Speaker 1: He wants a fortieth birthday party, but I already have 1168 01:17:20,600 --> 01:17:24,320 Speaker 1: a big surprise plan for him. And it's so expensive 1169 01:17:24,400 --> 01:17:26,519 Speaker 1: that I won't be able to afford my surprise and 1170 01:17:26,680 --> 01:17:30,000 Speaker 1: a big, expensive birthday party. I've planned to get breast 1171 01:17:30,080 --> 01:17:34,160 Speaker 1: in plans for him and have it all worked out 1172 01:17:34,479 --> 01:17:37,080 Speaker 1: by telling him I'm visiting my mom for a week. 1173 01:17:37,520 --> 01:17:40,600 Speaker 1: That way I can heal without him seeing me. I 1174 01:17:40,640 --> 01:17:43,320 Speaker 1: don't want him to be disappointed. So do I tell 1175 01:17:43,439 --> 01:17:45,920 Speaker 1: him what I have planned and let him decide what 1176 01:17:46,120 --> 01:17:49,840 Speaker 1: he wants? Wow, I don't know. That's a that's a 1177 01:17:49,960 --> 01:17:52,720 Speaker 1: tough one, I actually think, because she does have a 1178 01:17:52,800 --> 01:17:57,240 Speaker 1: real problem. Now the big birthday party will be a 1179 01:17:57,360 --> 01:18:02,040 Speaker 1: memorable occasion, but your new rest though it can be 1180 01:18:02,240 --> 01:18:09,040 Speaker 1: life changing, hurt him. But it's interesting because a bit 1181 01:18:09,120 --> 01:18:11,880 Speaker 1: of what you're doing, you're saying it's for him, but 1182 01:18:12,040 --> 01:18:17,280 Speaker 1: you do know it's for yourself. And so now that 1183 01:18:17,720 --> 01:18:21,599 Speaker 1: becomes the issue. The man wants a big birthday party. 1184 01:18:21,880 --> 01:18:24,760 Speaker 1: You could tell him and let him decide. I think 1185 01:18:24,840 --> 01:18:27,040 Speaker 1: you should. You should tell him and let him decide. 1186 01:18:27,640 --> 01:18:29,800 Speaker 1: And now, don't get your feelings hurt. What you want 1187 01:18:29,840 --> 01:18:32,920 Speaker 1: the party and the breast, because he gonna want both 1188 01:18:35,720 --> 01:18:39,600 Speaker 1: on the birthday. But ain't nobody turning down. Now that 1189 01:18:42,760 --> 01:18:47,760 Speaker 1: you did what you came what's up. And I don't 1190 01:18:47,800 --> 01:18:49,920 Speaker 1: know how long it takes the heel from that. But 1191 01:18:50,640 --> 01:18:53,560 Speaker 1: when you come back, you're gonna come back just in 1192 01:18:53,680 --> 01:18:56,800 Speaker 1: time for the birthday. I don't understand what you're gonna do, 1193 01:18:56,960 --> 01:18:59,200 Speaker 1: but you gotta think that out a little bit. I 1194 01:18:59,240 --> 01:19:02,639 Speaker 1: would present option to him because I don't know. Could 1195 01:19:02,760 --> 01:19:05,280 Speaker 1: she do one? Can still have the parting? Could she 1196 01:19:05,400 --> 01:19:19,080 Speaker 1: do one? Anyway? It's gonna take more than a week 1197 01:19:19,120 --> 01:19:26,560 Speaker 1: at Moms to heal. That's all right, Moving on, Moving on, 1198 01:19:26,880 --> 01:19:30,040 Speaker 1: Erica and Saint Louis says, I'm a newlywed and living 1199 01:19:30,120 --> 01:19:32,800 Speaker 1: with my husband is a challenge. He lived with his 1200 01:19:32,920 --> 01:19:35,960 Speaker 1: parents until we got married, and his mom did everything 1201 01:19:36,080 --> 01:19:38,479 Speaker 1: for him and his dad. He loves a home, cooks 1202 01:19:38,560 --> 01:19:41,719 Speaker 1: dinner almost daily, so I want to keep him happy. 1203 01:19:42,160 --> 01:19:45,360 Speaker 1: The only issue is that he doesn't eat leftovers. If 1204 01:19:45,439 --> 01:19:48,519 Speaker 1: I suggest that we eat leftovers, he orders food to 1205 01:19:48,640 --> 01:19:51,040 Speaker 1: be delivered. He's done it more than a few times, 1206 01:19:51,080 --> 01:19:53,799 Speaker 1: and he never asked if I want anything. He's twenty 1207 01:19:53,880 --> 01:19:56,559 Speaker 1: seven and he should know better. Should I start cooking 1208 01:19:56,680 --> 01:20:00,479 Speaker 1: just for myself to get back at him? Wow? Tripping 1209 01:20:00,520 --> 01:20:04,400 Speaker 1: already already, y'all ain't even ran into a major problem. 1210 01:20:04,600 --> 01:20:08,640 Speaker 1: Yet that's what's really all right. Coming up next, it 1211 01:20:08,800 --> 01:20:10,840 Speaker 1: is our last break of the day and at forty 1212 01:20:10,920 --> 01:20:13,280 Speaker 1: nine minutes after the hour, Steve Harvey it is the 1213 01:20:13,520 --> 01:20:22,000 Speaker 1: last three day. Well, Steve Harvey will have some closing 1214 01:20:22,080 --> 01:20:26,040 Speaker 1: remarks too coming up right after this. You're listening to 1215 01:20:26,479 --> 01:20:29,400 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, here we are 1216 01:20:29,520 --> 01:20:31,519 Speaker 1: our last break of the day and of the week 1217 01:20:31,600 --> 01:20:36,040 Speaker 1: on this Friday. Feeling good today. That's a good waiting 1218 01:20:36,680 --> 01:20:40,720 Speaker 1: on Friday. Yeah, Junior, another compliment to you for a 1219 01:20:40,760 --> 01:20:45,360 Speaker 1: wonderful interview earlier this morning with coming on man and 1220 01:20:45,479 --> 01:20:50,519 Speaker 1: sharing that Man, the fight continue, you know, formation for 1221 01:20:50,880 --> 01:20:53,320 Speaker 1: for sickle sale, you know, for sickle sale. If that 1222 01:20:53,479 --> 01:20:57,920 Speaker 1: new drug, what's it called in dari in dary and unco. 1223 01:20:57,920 --> 01:21:01,200 Speaker 1: I'm getting it by the truck load. You need to 1224 01:21:01,280 --> 01:21:08,559 Speaker 1: start taking it. Yeah, yeah, Junior Tellings, Oh yeah. If 1225 01:21:08,560 --> 01:21:10,519 Speaker 1: you want to find out more information about sickle Cell 1226 01:21:10,600 --> 01:21:12,879 Speaker 1: and what we're doing our community, you can follow my foundation. 1227 01:21:13,000 --> 01:21:15,479 Speaker 1: Go to kiars Hope k I E R s h 1228 01:21:15,640 --> 01:21:19,240 Speaker 1: Ope dot org. That's kars Hope dot org, man, and 1229 01:21:19,560 --> 01:21:21,000 Speaker 1: sign up on the email list man, so we can 1230 01:21:21,040 --> 01:21:23,400 Speaker 1: email your information education and keep the awareness going on 1231 01:21:23,600 --> 01:21:26,920 Speaker 1: my long man, that's what we're doing. I'm really proud 1232 01:21:26,960 --> 01:21:32,160 Speaker 1: to be a part of that. Fantastically Yeah, great job. Yeah, 1233 01:21:32,720 --> 01:21:36,080 Speaker 1: all right, Steve, we are. I'm gonna give you a donation. 1234 01:21:36,160 --> 01:21:41,360 Speaker 1: Junior'all don't want you to send me email keep asking Wow, 1235 01:21:41,800 --> 01:21:45,960 Speaker 1: that's how Wow. Just take the donation. I'm not I'll 1236 01:21:46,000 --> 01:21:48,600 Speaker 1: just said wow. I didn't even have to ask, you know, 1237 01:21:48,640 --> 01:21:50,880 Speaker 1: I'm I gotta get I gotta get sick to get one. Well, 1238 01:21:50,960 --> 01:21:55,120 Speaker 1: if I give you my email, then keep on, get 1239 01:21:55,160 --> 01:22:04,920 Speaker 1: on your nerves, you know, give it the email one more. Yeah, surely, 1240 01:22:05,280 --> 01:22:09,479 Speaker 1: all right, we have another CLO question before we get 1241 01:22:09,520 --> 01:22:11,759 Speaker 1: out of here. Okay, this is for the Chief Love Officer. 1242 01:22:11,880 --> 01:22:15,120 Speaker 1: This is from Olivia in Little Rock. She says, I 1243 01:22:15,240 --> 01:22:17,840 Speaker 1: met a nice man online and we went on our 1244 01:22:17,880 --> 01:22:20,800 Speaker 1: first date at an upscale restaurant. I could tell he 1245 01:22:20,920 --> 01:22:23,639 Speaker 1: was nervous, so I overlooked his lack of table manners 1246 01:22:23,960 --> 01:22:27,160 Speaker 1: and all of the swearing, all of the sweating. Our 1247 01:22:27,200 --> 01:22:29,360 Speaker 1: conversation was great and I think we have a lot 1248 01:22:29,479 --> 01:22:32,240 Speaker 1: in common. He walked me to my car after dinner, 1249 01:22:32,280 --> 01:22:34,960 Speaker 1: and as I drove off, my cell phone slipped between 1250 01:22:35,000 --> 01:22:37,400 Speaker 1: the seats, so I pulled over to get it. I 1251 01:22:37,560 --> 01:22:41,280 Speaker 1: looked back and noticed he got on a bus. Either 1252 01:22:41,400 --> 01:22:44,880 Speaker 1: he is frugal or he doesn't have a car. Why 1253 01:22:44,920 --> 01:22:47,160 Speaker 1: didn't he mention that? Should I ask him if he 1254 01:22:47,240 --> 01:22:53,920 Speaker 1: has a car? Being at should you ask you? Yes? Yeah, 1255 01:22:54,600 --> 01:22:57,120 Speaker 1: I saw you get on the bus. Were you okay? 1256 01:22:57,200 --> 01:22:58,840 Speaker 1: You could have told me I would have given you 1257 01:22:58,920 --> 01:23:01,840 Speaker 1: a lift and then just start the conversation like that. 1258 01:23:01,960 --> 01:23:04,679 Speaker 1: But you need to find out though your cell phone 1259 01:23:04,720 --> 01:23:06,559 Speaker 1: feel and you look back he was getting on the bus. 1260 01:23:07,000 --> 01:23:10,200 Speaker 1: We're nothing to do. How old is here? It don't matter? 1261 01:23:13,120 --> 01:23:14,960 Speaker 1: And why are you in the restaurant eating up your 1262 01:23:15,000 --> 01:23:19,400 Speaker 1: down payment for cord? That's what I yet? A high 1263 01:23:19,479 --> 01:23:32,240 Speaker 1: class restaurant. I mean all the COVID restriction your ass 1264 01:23:32,320 --> 01:23:40,720 Speaker 1: upon the bus. So you're saying you should ask him 1265 01:23:41,200 --> 01:23:43,280 Speaker 1: if he has a car, and then, well it's slick 1266 01:23:43,360 --> 01:23:47,120 Speaker 1: ways to do it, you know, why don't you next time? 1267 01:23:47,160 --> 01:23:49,680 Speaker 1: You ain't even got to ask. Make sure that your 1268 01:23:49,840 --> 01:23:53,880 Speaker 1: next date is in a place where you can't bust too, 1269 01:23:55,840 --> 01:23:58,280 Speaker 1: and then you'll know if you get out the back seat. 1270 01:23:58,360 --> 01:24:02,960 Speaker 1: That's uber okay, what if he doesn't have a car, 1271 01:24:03,120 --> 01:24:10,719 Speaker 1: what are you saying, scoop me? And then both y'all 1272 01:24:10,760 --> 01:24:19,479 Speaker 1: get in the back seat. Uber. If bus pass, that's 1273 01:24:19,520 --> 01:24:26,360 Speaker 1: a bush. Every time he come over, it's a different car. 1274 01:24:26,960 --> 01:24:33,080 Speaker 1: That's uber Uber. Yeah. But what I'm asking is that, okay, 1275 01:24:33,280 --> 01:24:35,840 Speaker 1: should she be okay with no y'all? No, it ain't okay. 1276 01:24:36,000 --> 01:24:38,200 Speaker 1: That's what I want to know. If y'all live in 1277 01:24:38,320 --> 01:24:41,960 Speaker 1: New York, that's okay. Air Whales, you need a car, 1278 01:24:42,560 --> 01:24:44,800 Speaker 1: No air Whales, you need to call you live in 1279 01:24:44,880 --> 01:24:46,679 Speaker 1: New York. There's a lot of people don't have cars 1280 01:24:46,720 --> 01:24:48,880 Speaker 1: in New York, right, Yeah, a lot of people don't 1281 01:24:48,880 --> 01:24:51,880 Speaker 1: have cars. Right. But if you ain't in New York, 1282 01:24:51,960 --> 01:24:53,680 Speaker 1: you need to call you in Alanta. You guys, have 1283 01:24:53,800 --> 01:24:55,479 Speaker 1: a car, you in La. If you ain't gonna call 1284 01:24:55,520 --> 01:25:02,400 Speaker 1: in La, you're not. Yeah. If you hear a lot 1285 01:25:02,400 --> 01:25:04,800 Speaker 1: a lot of change in his pocket, a lot of 1286 01:25:04,880 --> 01:25:11,080 Speaker 1: loose change in his pocket, that's the bus. Okay. If 1287 01:25:11,120 --> 01:25:13,439 Speaker 1: when it's time for y'all to leave, he got to 1288 01:25:13,520 --> 01:25:17,599 Speaker 1: slip off and make a phone call, that's ubers. Yeah. 1289 01:25:18,360 --> 01:25:21,000 Speaker 1: If he said we need to get on the corner 1290 01:25:21,600 --> 01:25:34,160 Speaker 1: now right now, three sevens coming right now now, right now, 1291 01:25:35,080 --> 01:25:37,760 Speaker 1: you're walking to slow. Look, we're gonna have to run. 1292 01:25:41,520 --> 01:25:47,679 Speaker 1: But every time you pick him up, you here, yeah, break, 1293 01:25:48,400 --> 01:25:57,320 Speaker 1: what is that? If we're he getting in the vehicle 1294 01:25:57,479 --> 01:26:01,920 Speaker 1: and you hear this right here, that's that first high 1295 01:26:02,000 --> 01:26:07,160 Speaker 1: step on the to that bus. If he keeps his 1296 01:26:07,479 --> 01:26:15,759 Speaker 1: arm in the air like he's holding on something, the bust. 1297 01:26:20,560 --> 01:26:25,000 Speaker 1: If y'all talking and at any point you hear him say, 1298 01:26:26,160 --> 01:26:35,360 Speaker 1: is anybody sitting here a restaurant? That's a bus? If 1299 01:26:35,439 --> 01:26:39,280 Speaker 1: he says that, anytime when y'all in the restaurant, back 1300 01:26:39,360 --> 01:26:52,439 Speaker 1: dough the back door you're riding and you here, hey, 1301 01:26:54,120 --> 01:27:03,519 Speaker 1: look back him open the door, y'all have them going. Man. 1302 01:27:03,960 --> 01:27:06,080 Speaker 1: I hope y'all enjoyed the show today. We'll see y'all 1303 01:27:06,120 --> 01:27:11,400 Speaker 1: tomorrow morning. No, we won't. 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