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Speaker 1: First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 1: Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com. Celeste is on the

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Speaker 1: phone today for a first date follow up, and she's

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Speaker 1: getting ghosted by a dude named Shane. So in a

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Speaker 1: few minutes we'll call him and see if you'll tell

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Speaker 1: us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date.

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Speaker 1: But first, So, Leste, how long has it been since

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Speaker 1: you heard from Shane?

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Speaker 2: It feels like like two weeks, but it's honestly probably been.

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Speaker 3: Like two days.

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Speaker 2: Wait, I swear like you know when you're like waiting

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Speaker 2: and you're just like, okay, I see like you left

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Speaker 2: me on read like I know you read it like

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Speaker 2: I already know you know. So he's just like, I

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Speaker 2: don't know, like making some kind of like major life

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Speaker 2: decision to call me back. But it's like it's very confusing.

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Speaker 2: I have no idea what happened, because like, in my

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Speaker 2: mind we had an amazing time to kill her. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: like it was just a date that went really really well,

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Speaker 2: like definitely stood out in my mind. We went to

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Speaker 2: top Is first. It was cute, viby, just like small bites,

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Speaker 2: little cocktails, even like mocktails like you can pick and choose,

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Speaker 2: like to during.

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Speaker 3: Adventure super fun.

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Speaker 4: He was like.

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Speaker 3: Super chill, not like cocky, you know, but.

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Speaker 2: Like lokey hot, like just like a very inner confidence,

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Speaker 2: you know, like he didn't have to broadcast it, you know,

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Speaker 2: like he just had it, you know. And yeah, and

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Speaker 2: like so he said he loved to dance, so I

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Speaker 2: was like, okay, like let's do this, you know. And

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Speaker 2: I got us into nightclub No Wine, and I happened

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Speaker 2: to know the DJ, and Shane said he'd always wanted.

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Speaker 3: To go, so I made it happen.

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Speaker 2: And it was like we were just really vibing, like

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Speaker 2: we were dancing. The energy was fire. I thought, like

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Speaker 2: I thought we were vibing hard, you know. And I

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Speaker 2: mean we were like flirting, hands on heads, like got

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Speaker 3: And he smells really good and.

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Speaker 2: It was just like it was perfect honestly, And I

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Speaker 2: don't understand why he would just like vanish, you know,

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Speaker 2: Like he was sweet. He wasn't trying too hard, I mean,

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Speaker 2: but he was like clearly into me. I mean, he

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Speaker 2: But like then he would let me take the lead,

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Speaker 2: which is kind of rare. You know, most guys like

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Speaker 3: But I don't know. Shean like just let me shine,

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Speaker 3: you know, and that's hot. So I mean, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: He like looked at me while we were.

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Speaker 2: Dancing, and it was more than just checking me out,

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Speaker 2: you know. It was like he like saw me, you know,

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Speaker 2: like there was it was like a real connection. So

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Speaker 2: I just I'm probably overthinking this, but like I told you,

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Speaker 2: I've had time to think about this, like full two days,

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Speaker 2: thinking about this a lot, and I'm like, Okay, what

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Speaker 2: could have gone wrong? And like maybe I spent a

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Speaker 2: I mean it was mostly for the content, you know,

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Speaker 2: I don't think it was that long. But like when

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Speaker 2: I think back, I'm like, Okay, maybe I.

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Speaker 3: Was in there for like an hour.

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Speaker 2: So you were in the DJ booth, he was on

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Speaker 2: you know, and I yeah, like I totally called him out.

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Speaker 2: I even tagged him in the TikTok I made from

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Speaker 2: the club and there was like no reaction. So I

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Speaker 2: texted him actually yeah, and I was like, hey, I

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Speaker 2: tagged you, and that was what he left on.

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Speaker 3: Rad So I just like, I don't get it. I'm

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well we'll try to figure it out

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Speaker 1: for you. We'll play a song thank you come back,

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Speaker 1: and then call him and see hotels why he's ghosting

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Speaker 1: you and maybe get you a second date. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, we'll make your first day follow up right

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Speaker 1: after this. Right in the middle of your first date

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Speaker 1: follow up, And if you're just joining us, a celestis

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Speaker 1: on the phone and she's getting ghosted by Shane. So

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Speaker 1: in a second we're gonna call him and see if

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Speaker 1: you'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get

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Speaker 1: her a second date. But before we do that, refresh

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Speaker 1: our memory about your day with Shane.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no problem. I had an awesome time with this guy.

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Speaker 2: Like, we went to a super fine club, We danced,

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Speaker 2: and then I head up the DJ booth because I

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Speaker 2: like knew the DJ and I think somewhere between us

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Speaker 2: disconnect because like, I'm not sure what happened. I tagged

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Speaker 3: Did you have a good time? Like did you see

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Speaker 3: the TikTok? And he's like like he's just left me

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not awesome. All right, Well we'll see if

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Speaker 1: we can figure it out for you. Are you ready

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Speaker 1: for us to call him?

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Speaker 3: I think so?

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Speaker 1: All right? Hello, Hi, man, speak to Shane please. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: right here, Hey Shane, how are you? This is a

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Speaker 1: radio show. It's called The Jubil Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Shane, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 1: My name is Jubel. How are you.

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Speaker 5: That's not why I thought what happened? When I think

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Speaker 5: of the song, I'm.

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Speaker 3: It's going on.

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Speaker 1: We're calling you today because we do a segment on

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Speaker 1: the show that's called the First Aid follow Up. That's

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Speaker 1: where if you go out on a date with somebody

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Speaker 1: and then you ghost them, they can email us to

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Speaker 1: get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.

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Speaker 1: So we got an email about you, Shane.

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Speaker 5: Okay, your ghosts in Shane, I know exactly what I mean.

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Speaker 5: I've only been on one day, so it's celest.

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Speaker 1: Right, Yes, it is, so Celeste is wondering why you're

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Speaker 1: ghosting or she thought you guys had a really good

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Speaker 1: time and she liked you a lot. Do you mind

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Speaker 1: telling me?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I probably shouldn't have like done that, like handled

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Speaker 5: it a different a little differently, but yeah, I totally

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Speaker 5: ghosted her. And honestly it was like way more than

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Speaker 5: I can handle, just just a lot.

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Speaker 4: You know what does that mean?

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Speaker 5: All right? Well, that it started out like fine, like

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Speaker 5: dinner was great. It was fun and chill conversation, like

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Speaker 5: girl seems fun. Then after that she like completely turned

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Speaker 5: And so we leave the little restaurant and then like boom,

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Speaker 5: this like light comes out. She like has her own

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Speaker 5: and she's filming like a review. And I was like,

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Speaker 5: oh no, but up, fine, you know, like you do

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Speaker 5: that stuff. And I guess people make money being like

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Speaker 5: influencer types or whatever. And but then we get to

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Speaker 5: this like alter ego that she refers to as selly

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Speaker 5: cell like from celest or something, and like, oh, that

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Speaker 5: that's a lot for me to chew on. And then

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Speaker 5: she she it's cute to hear about maybe, but when

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Speaker 5: you're there, it's a little different. And she like gets

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Speaker 5: on the mic, like the DJ mic. She like hops

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Speaker 5: in the boost. She's been here before, but it's my

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Speaker 5: first time at the club. She like got me in

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Speaker 5: or whatever. And she called out my name and told

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Speaker 5: like all the girls that like that's my man, and

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Speaker 5: I was hers and all this, and she pointed at

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Speaker 5: yelled at them like told them to back really like

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Speaker 5: super aggressive.

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Speaker 4: Yeah on the microphone. Yeah, yeah, I've heard.

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Speaker 2: The whole you know.

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Speaker 5: And I'm just like this dude in there, I don't

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Speaker 5: even I don't even know what to do with my hands,

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Speaker 5: you know, like I'm like drinking too much, just trying to.

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Speaker 3: It's just awful.

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Speaker 5: And so I just bailed. I like totally left.

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Speaker 4: You just left. You didn't say her anything.

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Speaker 5: I just scooted the hell out of there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Shane, are you sure there's no chance of another?

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Speaker 5: I'm real positive about that. Like I'm sure she would

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Speaker 5: have been like she's always like a good person to

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Speaker 5: I think there's probably something very fun about her, but

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Speaker 5: like I cannot handle that level of filming everything and

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Speaker 5: like the sort of social media persona interspecting with maybe

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Speaker 5: that person really is at the same there's no I

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Speaker 5: have no, I'm not a psychologist. I can't.

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Speaker 1: She's on the phone Shane and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Hi, Hi, I'm here, Like, oh my god, I can't.

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Speaker 3: I can't believe you left, Like you just abandoned me.

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Speaker 5: You really wait, I'm sorry you didn't know I left.

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Speaker 2: No, I saw you and I like waved and I

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Speaker 2: did a little winky face and I like called you

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Speaker 2: out on the dance floor and I was like I

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Speaker 5: That didn't translate. Really, there's kind of a difference between

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Speaker 5: they're on like an episode.

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Speaker 3: Of Bad Girls Club or something.

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Speaker 5: It felt like I was I can't, guys, I swear

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Speaker 5: to god, I was like looking around for cameras because

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Speaker 5: I didn't think some I thought, Wow, someone was putting

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Speaker 3: Did you leave before or after we made out?

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Speaker 5: We didn't make out that was someone else?

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Speaker 3: Why a better.

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, no, are you kidding me? I mean

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Speaker 2: Super dark and there were like strobe lights, But like,

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Speaker 2: what the last how.

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Speaker 3: Did you do this to me? Maybe make out with

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Speaker 3: someone else? Like no, I was thrown into that situation. Really,

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Speaker 3: I had no choice.

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Speaker 4: Why would you do that to me?

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Speaker 5: If you get anything out of our time together, you

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Speaker 5: have to know you've got to tap on the brakes

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Speaker 5: a little bit. I think there's a little my god,

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Speaker 5: there's little too much cons Oh wait, oh my god,

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Speaker 5: I must see who Mark is.

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Speaker 3: You guys are like texting me NonStop and like who

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Speaker 3: is that?

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Speaker 2: I didn't even care because I was like wanting to

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Speaker 2: talk to you, but by Bobby Booi like dam.

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Speaker 1: I feel like you guys have to try. Ud you

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Speaker 1: like to go out with the less one more time?

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Speaker 4: We'll pay for it, Shane.

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Speaker 5: I think we should get to the bottom of why

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Speaker 5: Mark feels ghosted and just you should just go that

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Speaker 5: route with this storyline here and then I will I

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Speaker 5: will just make my departure the answer is new.

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Speaker 3: Yeah it I thought Mark was you, like, I want

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Speaker 3: him to make up with you.

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Speaker 5: I have no respond I don't even know. Are you sure, Shane,

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Speaker 5: I'm super sure. I just have never been more sure

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Speaker 5: about anything in my life. Given me, I mean, what

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Speaker 5: do you want me to send me my good you

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Speaker 5: should play.

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Speaker 3: I'm a little hurt. I'm gonna be honest, I'm a

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Speaker 3: little drunk.

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Speaker 5: I think it's still or you've been drinking since noon

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Speaker 5: or something in morning.

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Speaker 3: No, No, this is just me so less.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. It doesn't sound like he wants to go

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Speaker 1: out again, but.

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Speaker 4: Thankfully you have Mark still on the back burners.

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Speaker 3: So rude.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I guess we'll find out if Mark's

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Speaker 2: really cute. I mean, I don't remember. I thought it

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Speaker 2: was shame.

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Speaker 3: Juble's first date follow up