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Speaker 2: Brook is on the phone today for our first day
Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Craig.
Speaker 2: So in a second we're gonna call him and see
Speaker 2: if you tell us why he's ghostinger or maybe get
Speaker 2: her another date. But first, Brook, how long is the
Speaker 2: vinces you heard from Craig?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 4: Hey, oh gosh, I haven't heard from Craig in a
Speaker 4: few days, which is weird because before the date we
Speaker 4: were texting all the time.
Speaker 1: Have you reached out to him in that time though?
Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, at the end of our date, he was like, okay,
Speaker 4: well just hit me up when you're ready to hang
Speaker 4: out again, and so I did.
Speaker 3: And then Cricket like just nothing.
Speaker 1: Okay, thanks, let's go backwards and play detective. Tell us
Speaker 1: about your date.
Speaker 4: We met on a dating app, like most people. I
Speaker 4: think it was Hinge, and I had seen on his
Speaker 4: profile leader he had like pictures of him doing that
Speaker 4: axpiring thing. So I set up the perfect date where
Speaker 4: we threw axes, which, by the way, is really freaking
Speaker 4: hard than you think. Oh my god, my shoulders still hurt,
Speaker 4: so he totally kicked my butt, but like it was
Speaker 4: super fun, Like we had fun challenging each other and
Speaker 4: we were having so much fun that we went to
Speaker 4: the bar next door and kept happing drinks all night
Speaker 4: where we played stars, where he also kicked my butt. Again,
Speaker 4: I'm not very good at these things, but point being
Speaker 4: that we had a lot of fun. Like he was
Speaker 4: laughing the whole time with me, Like it's not in
Speaker 4: my head, like he really had a good time, I'm
Speaker 4: pretty sure.
Speaker 1: Well, other than laughing and stuff, what kind of gave
Speaker 1: you the vibe that he was into it?
Speaker 4: I mean, he asked me to go home with him?
Speaker 1: Did you go?
Speaker 4: I did? He did? I mean I felt safe with him,
Speaker 4: like we've really connected or so I thought.
Speaker 2: Well, what happened at his place? Did all kinds of
Speaker 2: fun things happen?
Speaker 4: Uh, there were some fun adult things that happened.
Speaker 5: But I'm like a.
Speaker 4: Little worried because when we first got to his apartment,
Speaker 4: he has a roommate that was just chilling on the
Speaker 4: couch and we like said hello to him, and he
Speaker 4: was really hot, and in my drunken state, I may
Speaker 4: have been like, oh my god, your roommate is totally fine.
Speaker 4: So I don't know if that like offended him, but
Speaker 4: like I clearly went into credroom so that she was
Speaker 4: not going to hook up with his roommate. I don't
Speaker 4: know if that's why he's ghosting me.
Speaker 1: How would you feel, Jubil, you take a girl home
Speaker 1: to hook up with you, you have a roommate on
Speaker 1: on her way to your bedroom. She says, Man, your
Speaker 1: roommate is so hot.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess it depends how hot he is. It
Speaker 2: might be like, yeah, I agree, I know he's very hot,
Speaker 2: but you're with me, so probably wouldn't bother me that much,
Speaker 2: although maybe it should. I don't know what did he
Speaker 2: do when you said that.
Speaker 4: He just kind of ignored it, like there wasn't a
Speaker 4: reciprocal conversation about his roommate being hot.
Speaker 5: And then I was like, oh, I'm just like drunk
Speaker 5: and rambling.
Speaker 4: But then we just started making out, so, you know,
Speaker 4: no more conversation needed.
Speaker 1: I wonder if he like kind of got in his
Speaker 1: head and thought maybe you were fantasizing about the roommate,
Speaker 1: would you still follow through the hooking up with a girl,
Speaker 1: Jubile if you knew that she was thinking about somebody else.
Speaker 2: Depends how much I liked her. If I really liked her, no, but.
Speaker 1: She's thinking about somebody else, wouldn't that be worse?
Speaker 2: Well if I didn't, if I didn't really like her
Speaker 2: that much. Whatever, Yeah, you think about whatever you want, okay. Yeah,
Speaker 2: but if you liked her and then I liked her,
Speaker 2: I would rather be thinking about me, Yeah for sure. Yeah.
Speaker 4: Well that's why I want you to call him, because clearly,
Speaker 4: if he's thinking that, it's wrong, like I just made
Speaker 4: an off the cuff comment while drunk, so I want
Speaker 4: to make sure he's not like looking too much into it.
Speaker 4: I really liked him, like a lot, Like we had
Speaker 4: a lot of fun. I really want to see him again.
Speaker 4: He's super hot.
Speaker 2: And how did things end when you left?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean we had a nice time together and
Speaker 4: he said, like, you know, hit me up when you
Speaker 4: want to hang out again. So I felt like we
Speaker 4: both were into it and wanted to go on another date.
Speaker 4: But then, you know, I texted him, it's been a
Speaker 4: few days and then now just nothing.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, we'll see if we can figure it out. For you,
Speaker 2: play as song come back, and then call him and
Speaker 2: ask him why is ghosting you? And maybe get you
Speaker 2: another date?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 5: Are cool?
Speaker 1: Thank you?
Speaker 4: What?
Speaker 2: All right? We'll play a song come back, get your
Speaker 2: first Day follow up next if you're just joining us
Speaker 2: for today is the first day follow up. Brooke is
Speaker 2: on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude
Speaker 2: named Craig. So we're about to call him and see
Speaker 2: if he'll tell us why is ghostinger and maybe get
Speaker 2: her another date? But first, Brook, why don't you refresh
Speaker 2: everybody's memory on your situation?
Speaker 4: Yes, so met Craig on Hinge. We had a great
Speaker 4: date where we played some sports y light games that
Speaker 4: I sucked at. Then we went back to his place
Speaker 4: and we had a really great night together. But I
Speaker 4: may have put my foot in my mouth and made
Speaker 4: a comment about his roomy being hot, and I'm wondering
Speaker 4: if that's why he's now ghosting me.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Please?
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go, Hello him. I seen to Craig. Please,
Speaker 2: Yes you are Craig. How are you? My name is Jewel.
Speaker 2: I host the radio show. It's called The Jewel Show.
Speaker 1: Hi, Craig, I'm Nina. Also on the show, Hi, I
Speaker 1: am Victoria.
Speaker 2: How are you?
Speaker 3: Hey?
Speaker 5: Hello, I'm fine.
Speaker 2: You ever listened to the.
Speaker 3: Show Let's Do It all the Time?
Speaker 2: Oh? Sweet cool man. Well then you've probably heard a
Speaker 2: first day follow up before. Yeah yeah, oh yeah, perfect.
Speaker 2: Well if since you already know, I'll say it anyway.
Speaker 2: A first a follow up is where if you go
Speaker 2: on a date with someone and then you ghost them,
Speaker 2: they can email us to get you on the phone
Speaker 2: and ask why you're ghosting them. And we got to
Speaker 2: email about you, Craig, you.
Speaker 3: Said you got email about me? Yes, okay, I am.
Speaker 2: I was from a woman named Brooke.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she emailed us, told us about your dates. Say,
Speaker 2: she really likes you, but she's confused because you haven't
Speaker 2: called her back.
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah yeah.
Speaker 4: Uh.
Speaker 5: I remember she's she's she's beautiful, she's one of them.
Speaker 5: She's gorgeous. I mean she I'm a sucker for red
Speaker 5: lipstick and she wasn't well. I had a lot of fun.
Speaker 5: Whether she's she's gorgeous, she's fun. I had a great
Speaker 5: time with her. We went on a date acts throwing
Speaker 5: she's not good at it. Uh, went on another day,
Speaker 5: I mean on the same night.
Speaker 2: Throwing and then you know, like hung out and went
Speaker 2: back to your place, and she thought you guys were
Speaker 2: really vibing.
Speaker 5: We yeah, yeah, we were, we were.
Speaker 3: Okay, I gotta be honest with you.
Speaker 5: She's kind of weird to me. She's kind of weird
Speaker 5: to me. Okay, Well we got back to our place, well,
Speaker 5: I mean my place. I'm sorry, I'm talking about the
Speaker 5: place and everything. Well hooking up, we're having a good time.
Speaker 5: I'm robbing with everything's great. And she asked me to bark.
Speaker 2: Like a dog, like a dog like bark.
Speaker 3: Yes, she asked me to bark, and okay, I did it,
Speaker 3: but I didn't feel quite comfortable, you know, because it's barking.
Speaker 2: You know, this is the first time anybody's asked you
Speaker 2: to bark in the bedroom.
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, dal quickly came out.
Speaker 5: Yes that it came out. It's very Yeah, I'd never
Speaker 5: had I mean like she was asking for like a
Speaker 5: husky what wilder barks. It wasn't the two while stuff.
Speaker 5: She wanted real like like from a gut bark.
Speaker 1: How far into the you guys getting intimate did she
Speaker 1: request us?
Speaker 5: I would say, all of maybe it is five minutes,
Speaker 5: five minutes. You know, well huggin we're kissing, calls it
Speaker 5: coming off and we're about to do it, and she's like, hey,
Speaker 5: I like you to bark for me. And she was
Speaker 5: an assistent like like like her voice dropped like five octas,
Speaker 5: like I really wish you would bark for me. You
Speaker 5: got it?
Speaker 3: Whatever, hand able because I'm barking.
Speaker 5: I'm literally barking for my life right now because I
Speaker 5: don't know what this one was about. I mean, she's cool.
Speaker 5: I mean she brought a bag.
Speaker 3: In a room. People, she brought a bag in a
Speaker 3: room with me.
Speaker 5: I don't know what's in the bag. You could have
Speaker 5: been like t Didy party favorite.
Speaker 1: Probably her purse in a leather satchel.
Speaker 3: It was a leather bag with a clip you protect me.
Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 2: She's cool.
Speaker 5: No, she's cool, and she's beautiful. My god, red lipstick.
Speaker 5: Oh but it was just too much.
Speaker 2: But she's beautiful and the red lipstick and everything else,
Speaker 2: like that's why.
Speaker 3: That's why, I mean, I gotta judge. I know you're
Speaker 3: on the radio, but I'm.
Speaker 1: Just letting you know.
Speaker 3: That's what's scared and U off. Okay, the barking got me.
Speaker 4: You couldn't have been that scared crag, because jeez, you
Speaker 4: barked for me like it was no problem. You can't
Speaker 4: and you set white shid wi Are you bothered after
Speaker 4: the fact?
Speaker 5: Woh whoa whoa whoa whoa wha wha Is that is that? Brooks? Yes?
Speaker 5: Oh see I knew what I was.
Speaker 3: Gone again? Okay, okay, Hi Brook, Hi Brook him tie Brook?
Speaker 4: So wait, did you did you really not like it?
Speaker 4: Because I am a very consent based person, like I
Speaker 4: would never make you do something you're uncomfortable with.
Speaker 5: You stared at me like Hannibal ruptor.
Speaker 4: Like the next answer.
Speaker 5: Should have been, yes, I was scared, Brooke. You mean
Speaker 5: I don't know you?
Speaker 4: Plus that bag?
Speaker 5: Brook, Honey, you you brought the.
Speaker 3: Axe from off first date.
Speaker 5: You brought the.
Speaker 3: Ax home from off first date?
Speaker 4: Your hands, you're like.
Speaker 5: A right, Like, how did you get out.
Speaker 3: The how did you get out the club you brought
Speaker 3: to act with you? You stole to from first I
Speaker 3: did not like to.
Speaker 4: Act with me. You're being ridiculous.
Speaker 5: Listen, I'm just saying they.
Speaker 1: Actually sound really good together. I don't know about you guys, but.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, so like Hopefully it's okay, Craig, because we're
Speaker 4: stilling some tea. He talked about my bark fetish.
Speaker 3: Well, Craig has the first fetish, and listen, it's.
Speaker 4: Not really my thing, but I'm going to give you
Speaker 4: my feet if that's what you want, and I give
Speaker 4: him to you.
Speaker 5: So like, hey, hey, hey, hey, no one talks about
Speaker 5: the feet. That's a personal thing to me. I love
Speaker 5: the feet. The websites that cater to feet. There's no
Speaker 5: websites catering to dudes barking.
Speaker 4: My friends.
Speaker 5: On the dark Web. Yes, on the dark Web they are.
Speaker 5: And I don't want to be a member of that
Speaker 5: little little scenario. I don't want to be a dark Web member. Like, oh,
Speaker 5: look at the dude, he's in the lips. Let us
Speaker 5: skin barking. Oh there goes one down.
Speaker 2: You don't at all, Craig.
Speaker 5: Barking is a gateway drug man.
Speaker 4: At least the.
Speaker 5: Leather and whips and dominatrix healed on a neck. I
Speaker 5: don't know her well enough like that. I don't know.
Speaker 4: Let's have a conversation and we can get to know
Speaker 4: each other and slow down in the bedroom if you're uncomfortable.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I said it spotted to the fly.
Speaker 4: Say you know, I want to back of the milk
Speaker 4: carton talking Bob.
Speaker 3: Last time I saw him, he was walking, Craig.
Speaker 2: Would you like to go on another date with Brooke?
Speaker 2: We'll pay for it and then you guys can have
Speaker 2: more of a conversation.
Speaker 5: Heay, book, When you saw him, my roomie, how did you?
Speaker 5: What were you thinking when you said he looks hot?
Speaker 5: What does that mean?
Speaker 4: I totally knew you were about my roommate. Listen, you're
Speaker 4: totally hot, and so is your roommate. Hidy hot doesn't
Speaker 4: take away my attraction from you. I realized I was
Speaker 4: kind of drunk and I shouldn't have.
Speaker 5: Made that comment.
Speaker 4: And I can see why you might take that and
Speaker 4: feel insecure. But I really like you, not just because
Speaker 4: you're hot, because.
Speaker 1: You are, but because we have fun to get there.
Speaker 5: You're crazy, obviously all I just want to make sure
Speaker 5: that we have an understanding that I'm the hot.
Speaker 4: One here, thank you, the bark one, since you're going
Speaker 4: to take me out again?
Speaker 3: See see that's why guy? All right there?
Speaker 2: Yeah, bark once if you want to take her out again,
Speaker 2: a fair request.
Speaker 3: Twice if you really want to do this to me.
Speaker 5: Aren't you're really gonna make me bark.
Speaker 1: Yeah for yes or two for no?
Speaker 3: Okay, bok park bock park.
Speaker 5: Wow, So you've got me walk already. It's looking a
Speaker 5: good relationship if I'm barking on the radio already.
Speaker 2: So is that a nos in, Craig?
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, bark. I will go out with you again
Speaker 5: and make sure I bring my column.
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