WEBVTT - New Beginnings, New Season! 0:00:04.920 --> 0:00:07.120 I'm a honey German. My parents are Dominican. I was 0:00:07.160 --> 0:00:09.680 born and raised in New York City. I love sneakers 0:00:09.680 --> 0:00:14.640 and I'm a body positive advocate. I'm Carolina Bermudez, but 0:00:14.720 --> 0:00:17.640 I was born and raised in Ohio. I'm a wife, 0:00:17.800 --> 0:00:21.840 a mama, and a worker bee. This is life in Spanglish. 0:00:22.120 --> 0:00:25.959 It is hard to believe that we are physically less 0:00:25.960 --> 0:00:29.080 than like two feet away from each other. I am 0:00:29.240 --> 0:00:32.840 so blown away in a beautiful my honey German, Oh 0:00:32.880 --> 0:00:35.840 my god, me you It's just I'm bugging out because 0:00:35.840 --> 0:00:37.920 I'm like, this is actually the first time we're doing 0:00:37.920 --> 0:00:42.879 the podcast in person together years? Yes? Is it two years? Yeah? 0:00:42.880 --> 0:00:45.760 It's two full years in March. Yeah, okay, miss snatched. 0:00:45.800 --> 0:00:48.360 Do you guys are not? I mean you have to see, honey, 0:00:48.400 --> 0:00:52.200 you have been working overtime. You look absolutely amazing. List 0:00:52.440 --> 0:00:54.160 where the blaze? Because I don't want to be out here, 0:00:54.160 --> 0:00:57.120 you know, flexing too hard? Why no, are you kidding me? 0:00:57.160 --> 0:00:59.440 You show off that little waist baby and the leather 0:00:59.520 --> 0:01:02.640 pants and your little Jordan's I did it just for you, Okay. 0:01:02.680 --> 0:01:04.280 I was like, nah, Carolyn, I gotta see me looking 0:01:04.319 --> 0:01:07.679 good and you Carolyna looked amazing. Oh, thank you so much, 0:01:07.840 --> 0:01:10.600 you guys. This is like a coming home. I cannot 0:01:10.640 --> 0:01:13.839 believe it. We have been on hiatus, so many things 0:01:13.840 --> 0:01:16.800 have happened. We got our side hustles going right now. 0:01:17.000 --> 0:01:19.640 Oh would had good stuff, I know, and I there 0:01:19.680 --> 0:01:21.080 are so many things that we were going to cover 0:01:21.160 --> 0:01:23.120 on this season that I just cannot wait to discuss. 0:01:23.160 --> 0:01:26.679 But first we have to talk about, Honey, and all 0:01:26.680 --> 0:01:29.000 of the things that you have accomplished. Like I want 0:01:29.040 --> 0:01:31.080 to talk about the Grammy thing that you are a 0:01:31.080 --> 0:01:33.920 part of now, your Twitter space like that you are 0:01:33.959 --> 0:01:36.480 a part of now you are like throughout him moving. 0:01:37.120 --> 0:01:39.440 Matter of fact, I just bought a house last week, Carolyne. 0:01:39.480 --> 0:01:41.119 I didn't want to give it off. I know. Well, 0:01:41.160 --> 0:01:43.360 so okay, so we were supposed to record last week. 0:01:43.480 --> 0:01:46.600 A lot has happened a lot, Well, Honey goes, I 0:01:46.640 --> 0:01:48.560 can't come in. I just bought my house and I 0:01:48.600 --> 0:01:51.120 was like, I'm sorry, you buried the headline. You purchased 0:01:51.200 --> 0:01:53.760 a home. This is like a really big deal. I said, 0:01:53.760 --> 0:01:56.120 my life is in boxes. Forget life in spanglish. It 0:01:56.160 --> 0:01:58.280 was life in boxes. That totally that kind of still is. 0:01:58.440 --> 0:02:02.040 That's our next podcast Life and so wait, so give 0:02:02.080 --> 0:02:04.000 me more, Like where did you guys decide to move. 0:02:04.320 --> 0:02:07.480 We're actually in Jersey, okay, you know, not too far 0:02:07.560 --> 0:02:09.959 from the city, but it was just Long Island was 0:02:10.000 --> 0:02:12.720 super expensive. Anybody who lives in Long Island or from 0:02:12.720 --> 0:02:15.160 Long Island knows that buying a house on Long Island, 0:02:15.160 --> 0:02:17.400 like if you want something nice, is out of the question. 0:02:17.760 --> 0:02:19.560 So we're in Jersey. You know, I could still come 0:02:19.600 --> 0:02:21.720 to work. I could still be part of the Tri 0:02:21.840 --> 0:02:24.200 state area. You know, we had thought about Miami, and 0:02:24.320 --> 0:02:27.040 I kept going back and forth during the pandemic. I saw, yeah, 0:02:27.600 --> 0:02:29.560 give a spot there, and you know, we go sometimes, 0:02:29.560 --> 0:02:31.680 like the month of December. I was there, beautiful the 0:02:31.680 --> 0:02:33.600 whole month. But then home base has to be in 0:02:33.600 --> 0:02:36.040 the East coast, you know, like New York, New Jersey. 0:02:36.080 --> 0:02:38.040 This is where my heart is at. So we're in Jersey. 0:02:38.400 --> 0:02:41.640 We're not just settling just yet, but we're working on it. 0:02:41.720 --> 0:02:44.880 How's my Foxy Roxy? Girl? Foxy Roxy is fourteen. She 0:02:44.960 --> 0:02:48.160 just fell down the basement steps yesterday. She ain't understand 0:02:48.200 --> 0:02:50.720 that what amasement is. We've always lived an apartment. So 0:02:50.760 --> 0:02:54.600 she looked down the door was open. A girl, it was. 0:02:54.639 --> 0:02:56.880 I thought it was open for that bitch. Yesterday she 0:02:56.960 --> 0:02:59.000 was howling like I never heard of house. It was 0:02:59.040 --> 0:03:03.400 an awful way. Foxy Roxy is Honey's little Chihuahua that 0:03:03.520 --> 0:03:05.160 is so adorable. I thought it was a rapper that 0:03:05.240 --> 0:03:08.200 bit yesterday. I said, this dog don't died. I looked 0:03:08.200 --> 0:03:10.800 down the steps. I said, she don't know about basements. 0:03:12.440 --> 0:03:15.200 Guess is she okay? I don't know what her joints 0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:17.120 to look dislocated, but she's walking on it, so I'm 0:03:17.120 --> 0:03:19.240 assuming it's not broken. Oh my gosh. And you know 0:03:19.280 --> 0:03:23.079 those vet bills they hit, they hit hard, that insurance 0:03:23.080 --> 0:03:24.960 because my in laws their dog died and they had 0:03:24.960 --> 0:03:27.239 a ten thousand dollars bet bill. They couldn't even save 0:03:27.280 --> 0:03:29.080 the dog and they paid ten thousand dollars for all 0:03:29.120 --> 0:03:31.960 types of transfusions. Wait, so why is this like a 0:03:32.040 --> 0:03:35.720 common theme right now? Because my my husband's brother was 0:03:35.760 --> 0:03:38.960 telling us about his dog and how she's like, you know, 0:03:39.000 --> 0:03:40.680 and I think it's like end of life, you know 0:03:40.680 --> 0:03:43.000 what I mean, like the elder dogs. But they're a 0:03:43.080 --> 0:03:46.080 part of your family. These are your babies, you know, 0:03:46.200 --> 0:03:47.840 they really are. And you know, I don't know how 0:03:47.840 --> 0:03:50.840 we got started talking about dogs. But last time we 0:03:50.920 --> 0:03:52.920 took Roxy to the vet, the vet was like, yeah, yeah, 0:03:52.960 --> 0:03:54.720 because I have one like that in the basement and 0:03:54.760 --> 0:03:56.040 I have this in the basement. I have that in 0:03:56.040 --> 0:03:57.520 the basement. And we're like, what do you mean you 0:03:57.520 --> 0:03:59.920 have dogs in the basement. He said, people don't want 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:03.360 their dogs sometimes because they pee everywhere, and they come, 0:04:03.400 --> 0:04:04.840 they bring them to put them down, and we keep 0:04:04.880 --> 0:04:07.520 them because we just feel so bad. Horse, so he said, 0:04:07.560 --> 0:04:09.800 his basement at the vet's office is full of animals 0:04:09.800 --> 0:04:12.760 they couldn't put down. Oh my gosh, No, you know what, 0:04:12.840 --> 0:04:14.520 And what a way to start. I'm sorry, Like this 0:04:14.600 --> 0:04:17.000 is this took a turn, This took a turn. Rocks 0:04:17.120 --> 0:04:18.640 is okay, the house is good. She just got to 0:04:18.680 --> 0:04:22.400 familiarize herself with doors leading into basements and addicts and 0:04:22.440 --> 0:04:24.320 things like that. And just don't mess with it, Rocks, 0:04:24.360 --> 0:04:25.760 they don't mess with it. Don't mess with it. Don't 0:04:25.760 --> 0:04:28.200 mess Oh my gosh. Wait, but I also want to 0:04:28.240 --> 0:04:32.400 know almost like have you have you gotten to know 0:04:33.080 --> 0:04:37.480 the neighbors? Girl? Like I'd be through the window, like 0:04:37.520 --> 0:04:40.080 the real ill chi mosa, I got the I got 0:04:40.080 --> 0:04:41.960 wood blinds. I'd be trying to rip them down and 0:04:42.040 --> 0:04:46.480 rip them open. So I've seen the neighbors. Noonie talks 0:04:46.480 --> 0:04:49.880 to the neighbors. He'd be like, hey, guys, I'm telling 0:04:49.920 --> 0:04:52.400 you he is the neighborhood guy. The guy next door, 0:04:52.480 --> 0:04:54.880 I haven't seen him. I feel like maybe he's a hermit. 0:04:55.839 --> 0:04:58.559 There's a nice black couple next door, super dope. Okay, 0:04:58.720 --> 0:05:01.360 you know he's cool. He's already said hi to us. 0:05:01.640 --> 0:05:04.839 Then older white couple across the street, Okay, we have 0:05:04.880 --> 0:05:06.839 every tool you're gonna need to put your house together. 0:05:06.880 --> 0:05:10.800 I'm like, thank you. That's beautiful. How neighborly. Except guy 0:05:10.920 --> 0:05:13.279 to the right, he's got the shibo eno dog. I 0:05:13.320 --> 0:05:15.840 was like, oh, I love your dog, but not yet. 0:05:16.160 --> 0:05:17.520 I don't know. I don't think I'm that type of 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:18.960 person that would go be like, hi, you have your 0:05:19.000 --> 0:05:21.120 neighbor have some cookies? None of that. No, you know, 0:05:21.240 --> 0:05:23.760 it's suburbia because you used to live like in a 0:05:23.880 --> 0:05:27.640 high rise apartment. Beautiful differ. It's just different. But I 0:05:27.680 --> 0:05:31.080 just couldn't. Carolina. These rents one bedroom, three thousand dollars. 0:05:31.120 --> 0:05:33.320 I'm like high, I said, I can't. I cannot do 0:05:33.360 --> 0:05:35.720 this anymore if I'm gonna be paying three thousand dollars. 0:05:35.800 --> 0:05:37.479 Let it be for something that I own. Well, we 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:41.599 are investing in ourselves. We are making that paper, We 0:05:41.680 --> 0:05:44.320 are making it work. Because I'm telling you, between that 0:05:44.440 --> 0:05:46.680 and the egg price is honey. You know, we had 0:05:46.680 --> 0:05:51.440 that whole fluctuation here and there, egflation, eggflation, everything. You know, 0:05:51.600 --> 0:05:53.880 my life has been so crazy. To talk to me, 0:05:54.120 --> 0:05:57.360 I added a job as if I needed another job, Carolina. 0:05:57.440 --> 0:05:58.920 When I saw this, I was like, wait, hold on, 0:05:59.120 --> 0:06:01.480 I know she has time. No. My mother called me. 0:06:01.600 --> 0:06:06.080 My mother called me and she said and I said, Mom, 0:06:06.680 --> 0:06:09.440 you know, in this industry, this media industry that we 0:06:09.480 --> 0:06:13.200 work in, I'm a forty four year old woman. The 0:06:13.240 --> 0:06:18.080 fact that I'm still working is in itself a blessing. Okay, 0:06:18.120 --> 0:06:20.120 the fact that I still have this job in radio 0:06:20.560 --> 0:06:22.880 is such a blessing. So when they came to me 0:06:23.000 --> 0:06:26.280 with this opportunity to even just dip my toe back 0:06:26.279 --> 0:06:29.279 into the TV water, I said, I gotta figure it out. 0:06:29.400 --> 0:06:33.080 I'll make it happen. There are some times where I'm 0:06:33.120 --> 0:06:35.080 paying a babysitter more than what I'm even going to 0:06:35.160 --> 0:06:38.000 go and make, you know, because that's the love of 0:06:38.040 --> 0:06:40.880 the craft, that is, and we say they talk to me, 0:06:40.960 --> 0:06:43.960 Carolina who called you, what was the actual offer like? 0:06:44.120 --> 0:06:46.640 Because I love these Sepa Coles. So I used to 0:06:46.640 --> 0:06:49.520 work for E News back in two thousand and eight, 0:06:49.800 --> 0:06:52.440 and I was a freelance reporter at the time, and 0:06:52.520 --> 0:06:55.520 I basically just would cover their events in New York City. 0:06:55.560 --> 0:06:58.440 They have their hubs La la is where everything is 0:06:58.480 --> 0:07:02.960 for entertainment, and at the time was everything entertainment. Then 0:07:03.360 --> 0:07:06.839 they closed their New York bureau. I feel like a 0:07:06.880 --> 0:07:08.960 lot of it was the Kardashian effect, and I'm not 0:07:09.000 --> 0:07:10.680 saying that in a negative way. I think that they 0:07:10.720 --> 0:07:13.240 paid so much for the Kardashians and they were running 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:15.880 them all day long. I remember that they didn't have 0:07:15.920 --> 0:07:18.200 any original programming. They didn't have the money or the 0:07:18.240 --> 0:07:21.800 budget to have any original programming. They had Chelsea Handler, 0:07:21.920 --> 0:07:24.440 they had a couple of late night shows, but it 0:07:24.480 --> 0:07:26.280 wasn't like what it used to be. Like you used 0:07:26.280 --> 0:07:29.680 to go to E News Talk Soup for entertainment news. Yes, 0:07:30.360 --> 0:07:33.160 Joel McHale, he was amazing. I just told him the 0:07:33.200 --> 0:07:34.400 other day and I was like, Wow, the guy from 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:37.840 talks and he's excellent. He's excellent soum. So that job, 0:07:37.920 --> 0:07:39.880 I think it was like in twenty ten is when 0:07:39.920 --> 0:07:41.800 I finally fizzled out and they were just like okay, 0:07:41.800 --> 0:07:43.480 thank you, but like, no, thank you. Were closing the 0:07:43.480 --> 0:07:45.400 New York Bureau, which was sad, you know, but I 0:07:45.440 --> 0:07:48.640 had radio and I focused on that. So fast forward 0:07:48.640 --> 0:07:51.880 to twenty twenty two and I get a phone call 0:07:51.960 --> 0:07:56.040 from a friend who is a producer at e Now 0:07:56.160 --> 0:08:00.680 and said, look, I know you're busy. I know you 0:08:00.720 --> 0:08:02.480 have a lot on your plate, but we know that 0:08:02.520 --> 0:08:05.400 you can do this, you know, New York, and we 0:08:05.440 --> 0:08:06.840 would like for you to be one of our New 0:08:06.880 --> 0:08:10.960 York correspondents. Really like the person who will go to bitch. 0:08:11.160 --> 0:08:13.840 It is unheard of, you know what I mean, because 0:08:13.880 --> 0:08:20.000 I don't eat news correspondent. Yeah, job as yours. The 0:08:20.160 --> 0:08:23.360 fuck well, you know. There were a couple of other conversations, yeah, 0:08:23.400 --> 0:08:26.040 to have you know, but um, basically I just said, look, 0:08:26.200 --> 0:08:28.320 number one priority for me is always going to be 0:08:28.360 --> 0:08:30.880 my boys. Like I am a full time mom. I 0:08:31.000 --> 0:08:34.199 love that about you. I'm a full time working mom, 0:08:34.280 --> 0:08:37.760 you know. So Um, if there's a conflict, I have 0:08:37.840 --> 0:08:39.920 to feel comfortable to say no. I have to be 0:08:39.960 --> 0:08:42.439 able to say no. If if my son has a 0:08:42.440 --> 0:08:46.920 parent teacher conference. I can't, you know, reschedule that if 0:08:47.080 --> 0:08:49.000 if it comes down to it, I will have to 0:08:49.000 --> 0:08:51.840 say no sometimes. And so they were very generous, they 0:08:51.840 --> 0:08:55.000 were very accommodating, and you know, look, I've said no 0:08:55.080 --> 0:08:58.880 to one thing. It's all work out. It's all working out. 0:08:58.920 --> 0:09:01.040 And so that's where I felt like so inspired to 0:09:01.080 --> 0:09:03.640 share this with people, because it's like just when you think, 0:09:04.400 --> 0:09:06.280 you know, your plate is so full and you just 0:09:06.320 --> 0:09:09.640 can't do it, bet on yourself and think, you know what, 0:09:09.640 --> 0:09:11.440 I'm gonna find a way to make this happen because 0:09:11.440 --> 0:09:13.520 it means so much to me. And what you said, Honey, 0:09:13.600 --> 0:09:17.400 is exactly it. The passion. You know, I get to 0:09:17.520 --> 0:09:20.600 work on television. I get to interview interesting people that 0:09:20.720 --> 0:09:29.920 I admire and look up to. Oh my gosh, can 0:09:30.240 --> 0:09:32.880 we talk about Tamar? But I was like wow, really, 0:09:32.960 --> 0:09:35.120 like this is like somebody we look up to. Like, 0:09:35.120 --> 0:09:37.760 if you are a woman works in media, you understand 0:09:38.000 --> 0:09:40.880 the level of respect this woman gets. She is the icon, 0:09:41.280 --> 0:09:46.679 she is the moment, everything about her. She is a professional. 0:09:47.240 --> 0:09:49.840 The way she carries herself. You know, I was very 0:09:49.880 --> 0:09:53.560 intimidated going in because this is tamarn Hall. Isn't just 0:09:53.600 --> 0:09:57.400 a celebrity, She's a journalist. She is a journalist first, 0:09:57.240 --> 0:10:01.160 that is okay. So working on the Today's Show alongside 0:10:01.240 --> 0:10:03.840 the greats like Al Roker, and you know, she's had 0:10:03.920 --> 0:10:07.480 her way of coming up, she's solidified totally. So then 0:10:07.679 --> 0:10:10.240 you know, when she departed from The Today's Show, there 0:10:10.320 --> 0:10:12.319 was a lot of talk about her and you know 0:10:13.000 --> 0:10:15.360 what she was like and this and that, and I 0:10:15.400 --> 0:10:17.280 personally have been a fan of her show because I 0:10:17.320 --> 0:10:20.280 watched it during the pandemic. She never stopped, so you 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:22.720 got to know her, know her. I'm part of the 0:10:22.760 --> 0:10:25.160 tam fan baby. So when they called me, I was 0:10:25.200 --> 0:10:27.200 just like, are you kidding me? Right now I get 0:10:27.240 --> 0:10:29.520 to go interview her and ask you a question. Yeah, 0:10:29.559 --> 0:10:31.520 did you feel like you needed to button up a 0:10:31.520 --> 0:10:33.040 little bit? Like the way you dressed, Like did you 0:10:33.040 --> 0:10:34.839 feel like you need to match her or not? You 0:10:34.920 --> 0:10:37.240 know the funniest thing, I took a picture and she 0:10:37.360 --> 0:10:39.920 was like all in spring florals and looked amazing. And 0:10:39.960 --> 0:10:42.480 I'm wearing black, like you couldn't like, I am a 0:10:42.480 --> 0:10:46.760 true New Yorker wearing the all blacks were all black. 0:10:46.880 --> 0:10:49.280 I'm telling you, my mom's like, where's the funeral? She 0:10:49.400 --> 0:10:50.959 was like, why were you wearing all black as a 0:10:51.040 --> 0:10:53.800 mom because I didn't know, like, and she has the 0:10:53.840 --> 0:10:57.600 most incredible style. She is just hitting on all points. 0:10:57.640 --> 0:10:59.240 And so for me to get to sit down with 0:10:59.320 --> 0:11:02.959 somebody like that for fifteen minutes and just pick her 0:11:03.000 --> 0:11:05.560 brain and then for that piece to go on the 0:11:05.600 --> 0:11:08.120 air and like, it's just the whole thing is so surreal. 0:11:08.200 --> 0:11:10.360 What about the boys like when they watch it? What 0:11:10.640 --> 0:11:13.440 that tell me? Because you know, I love radio and 0:11:13.520 --> 0:11:16.680 radio is super important. It's just but TV just hits different. 0:11:16.720 --> 0:11:18.319 It's like, yeah, hear my mom on the radio, but 0:11:18.480 --> 0:11:21.360 watching you? How did they react the first time? Oh? 0:11:21.440 --> 0:11:24.440 They love it. They love it. Actually, one of the 0:11:24.480 --> 0:11:27.840 boys teachers called me after school for something that was 0:11:28.320 --> 0:11:30.760 that had happened during school that day and I said, 0:11:30.760 --> 0:11:32.560 oh my gosh, I am so sorry. I know I 0:11:32.600 --> 0:11:34.680 missed her call yesterday, I said, but I was shooting 0:11:35.120 --> 0:11:37.000 and I couldn't pick up the fun She goes, oh, 0:11:37.080 --> 0:11:39.840 I know, Asher told me my mommy's on TV and 0:11:39.880 --> 0:11:41.760 she's doing an interview, so you're not gonna be able 0:11:41.800 --> 0:11:42.960 to get a hold of her. And I was like, 0:11:43.000 --> 0:11:44.839 oh my god. It was like, hold on, let me 0:11:44.880 --> 0:11:46.839 hit you with the big flex real quick. My mother 0:11:46.920 --> 0:11:50.360 on television, she can't answer you. Yeah, but then I'm 0:11:50.360 --> 0:11:52.960 the one that's taking them to basketball practice and like, 0:11:53.320 --> 0:11:55.720 you know, all of the above, because that's how it is, 0:11:55.760 --> 0:11:58.600 like keep das should be on TikTok. I'm like, what 0:11:58.840 --> 0:12:00.240 is this? But I guess you gotta do this step 0:12:00.240 --> 0:12:02.120 and step for your kids anyway. Yeah, but also Kim 0:12:02.200 --> 0:12:05.320 Kardashian is at the basketball game with little Northy, you 0:12:05.320 --> 0:12:06.720 know what I mean. So it's like I feel like 0:12:06.760 --> 0:12:09.240 we're moving in a different direction, and you know, the 0:12:09.280 --> 0:12:13.120 E News thing has just been fantastic, this podcast. I 0:12:13.160 --> 0:12:17.080 am so glad we are back. The feedback from everybody 0:12:17.080 --> 0:12:18.840 there like when are you coming back? We couldn't talk 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:20.880 about it because we didn't get a date, you know, 0:12:20.960 --> 0:12:23.760 and they finally gave us our date. Here we are. Yeah, 0:12:23.800 --> 0:12:25.400 it was like every other question, So what's up with 0:12:25.440 --> 0:12:28.160 the podcast? It's coming, it's coming, We're still doing it. 0:12:28.200 --> 0:12:29.959 I think people worry, like if we're not going to 0:12:30.040 --> 0:12:33.000 bring it back, No, as long as we're here and 0:12:33.040 --> 0:12:36.240 they'll have us, will bring it back a million percent. 0:12:36.360 --> 0:12:38.800 But also we're going to explore so many things. You know, 0:12:38.920 --> 0:12:41.120 I cannot wait to get into you know what you 0:12:41.200 --> 0:12:43.120 have been doing, honey, and all of the things that like, 0:12:43.480 --> 0:12:46.360 I've been so inspired by watching your Instagram and just 0:12:46.400 --> 0:12:50.319 seeing how many beautiful life changes that you've made, the 0:12:50.360 --> 0:12:53.280 motivation that you've you've had. You know what I think 0:12:53.360 --> 0:12:55.719 is the biggest thing that happened in the past year 0:12:55.760 --> 0:12:58.560 for me. I connected with God. Like it was like, 0:12:59.120 --> 0:13:00.840 I'm embarrassed to say that, but God was never a 0:13:00.880 --> 0:13:03.800 priority for me. Don't be embarrassed. It's your truth. And 0:13:03.840 --> 0:13:06.440 then my friend AJ he works over at YouTube. One 0:13:06.480 --> 0:13:07.720 day he was like, you want to go to church? 0:13:07.920 --> 0:13:09.720 And this man and changed in my life. I'm like, 0:13:09.760 --> 0:13:11.960 what is this? This is so random? And he called 0:13:12.000 --> 0:13:13.240 me last week and he was like, you want to 0:13:13.240 --> 0:13:15.680 go to church? And I'll say where. He said, in Jersey. 0:13:17.000 --> 0:13:19.280 You live in Jersey, Hope, I don't know. And the 0:13:19.320 --> 0:13:21.520 first time I was in Miami, he was in Miami. 0:13:21.520 --> 0:13:23.320 He introduced me to church there, and now he introduced 0:13:23.320 --> 0:13:25.120 me to church in Jersey. We're gonna get into that. 0:13:25.120 --> 0:13:26.760 We're gonna get into that topic, you know a little 0:13:26.760 --> 0:13:29.520 bit later. As far as like people coming into your 0:13:29.520 --> 0:13:31.360 life are certain, I feel like that's his only purpose 0:13:31.400 --> 0:13:33.400 in my life. I love him. I'm pretty sure we're 0:13:33.400 --> 0:13:34.920 going to work on other things. But I feel like 0:13:35.200 --> 0:13:38.400 he was put in my life ten years ago so 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:41.240 that now he can connect me with God, you know 0:13:41.280 --> 0:13:43.600 what I mean. And that's why. That's the reason why. 0:13:43.640 --> 0:13:47.719 And honestly, I feel like I've had a similar conversation 0:13:47.760 --> 0:13:51.480 with my sister. My sister is back in New Jersey. 0:13:51.520 --> 0:13:54.920 She moved to New Hampshire. Now she's back, and I 0:13:54.960 --> 0:13:57.880 do take the kids to church most Sundays, not every Sunday, 0:13:57.920 --> 0:13:59.880 but you know, I do try to go on most 0:14:00.240 --> 0:14:02.680 The Lord knows your heart. He does, he sure does. 0:14:02.760 --> 0:14:05.280 But you know, my sister said to me the same 0:14:05.320 --> 0:14:07.680 thing that you said. She goes, I'm embarrassed. I haven't 0:14:07.679 --> 0:14:11.439 been in years, and I said, his doors are always open. Amen, 0:14:11.640 --> 0:14:14.000 you know what I mean. So we will discuss that 0:14:14.080 --> 0:14:16.840 and so much more. We have so many exciting projects 0:14:16.840 --> 0:14:20.400 that we are just I cannot wait to divulge some 0:14:20.440 --> 0:14:21.880 of the things that we have come here. We gotta 0:14:21.920 --> 0:14:24.160 keep some of the stuff under wraps, but we're definitely 0:14:24.200 --> 0:14:27.120 gonna get into it. And you know, our listeners, I 0:14:27.120 --> 0:14:28.440 want to know what they've been up to because I 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:30.920 feel like it's been such a like weird year. You know, 0:14:31.120 --> 0:14:34.040 everything opened back up, but everybody's not ready to be 0:14:34.160 --> 0:14:37.240 fully outside. So it's like, I don't know, I just 0:14:37.240 --> 0:14:38.760 want to hear what everybody's been up to. It's weird 0:14:38.800 --> 0:14:40.600 because I feel like this podcast is like a bunch 0:14:40.640 --> 0:14:43.280 of us friends no totally well familia, you know what 0:14:43.320 --> 0:14:46.600 I mean, and we want to hear I know. That's 0:14:46.600 --> 0:14:48.240 why I say it all the time. I'm like, hey, Prima, 0:14:48.280 --> 0:14:49.880 and they're like what, and I'm like, oh no, no, 0:14:50.080 --> 0:14:52.960 it means cousin, you know, but yes, I feel like 0:14:53.040 --> 0:14:55.840 we are here as our community. It is back. We 0:14:55.920 --> 0:14:59.040 want to answer your questions, we want to help you 0:14:59.080 --> 0:15:01.680 with your life, sit you in your life choices. We're 0:15:01.680 --> 0:15:04.600 gonna be introducing some really cool people that we have 0:15:04.720 --> 0:15:07.240 met along the way. I gotta bring them up here 0:15:07.240 --> 0:15:10.280 because there's so much to be said. And it's like, yeah, 0:15:10.320 --> 0:15:12.560 you know, me and you have so many life experiences 0:15:12.560 --> 0:15:14.600 and you know, we can talk to our listeners, but 0:15:14.800 --> 0:15:17.520 bringing in other people that have you know, you know, 0:15:17.560 --> 0:15:20.040 just little nuggets that we might not have. I think 0:15:20.040 --> 0:15:22.560 that's gonna do wonders for this season. We're also going 0:15:22.640 --> 0:15:24.600 to give you the chiefsman, we're gonna give you all 0:15:24.600 --> 0:15:26.920 of the things. We're gonna talk about all of your 0:15:26.960 --> 0:15:29.360 favorite celebrities. So we want to make sure that you 0:15:29.400 --> 0:15:31.760 guys know that this is gonna be the spot where 0:15:31.800 --> 0:15:34.640 you go make sure before I mean, we're we all 0:15:34.720 --> 0:15:36.720 obviously have a little bit more time, but we want 0:15:36.720 --> 0:15:39.280 to make sure that you are liking and downloading and 0:15:39.320 --> 0:15:42.560 subscribing because that way we can keep you company. You 0:15:42.560 --> 0:15:44.360 don't even have to think about it, you know, and 0:15:44.360 --> 0:15:46.840 when those episodes, job is like a reminder right away, 0:15:46.880 --> 0:15:48.200 you don't even have to be looking for it. Like 0:15:48.280 --> 0:15:51.400 me with the new season of I'm like, when is 0:15:51.400 --> 0:15:55.520 it coming to Netflix? To tell me? Girl, I was 0:15:55.560 --> 0:15:57.880 supposed to come December thirty at that's marking my show 0:15:57.880 --> 0:15:59.560 with it was like, yeah, it's not here yet. I'm 0:15:59.600 --> 0:16:02.160 a net like, come on, get with it. Oh my god. 0:16:02.200 --> 0:16:04.120 So yes, I wish I could set a remind us 0:16:04.120 --> 0:16:06.320 so Netflix like it's here. I'm pretty sure I can, 0:16:06.400 --> 0:16:07.840 But I don't want you to have to do that 0:16:07.840 --> 0:16:09.720 with Life in Spanlish, I want you to get being 0:16:10.160 --> 0:16:13.560 your new episode is here, so subscribe and hit that 0:16:13.560 --> 0:16:15.680 five star. Please don't play with me, don't hit us too. 0:16:16.640 --> 0:16:19.000 She said, don't play with me. So no, honey, Like, 0:16:19.080 --> 0:16:22.160 let's also talk about the family. I want to know 0:16:22.720 --> 0:16:26.000 how my mannoney is. What has he been up to you? Girl? 0:16:26.400 --> 0:16:28.720 Is he all about the suburban life? Am I going 0:16:28.760 --> 0:16:32.480 to see him on a John? Dear girl, this man 0:16:32.760 --> 0:16:34.200 took a video of the house. Oh look at all 0:16:34.200 --> 0:16:36.560 the lights I put outside the house. I was inside cooking. 0:16:36.600 --> 0:16:38.560 He came in. I'm like, he is loving it. And 0:16:38.640 --> 0:16:41.920 you know, homeownership is he always said it wasn't for him. 0:16:41.920 --> 0:16:44.280 He's a Brooklyn boy through and through, like he just 0:16:44.320 --> 0:16:46.000 lived in buildings his whole life. He was like, I 0:16:46.040 --> 0:16:47.880 don't want to no yard. I don't want to know this. 0:16:47.920 --> 0:16:50.240 I don't want to shovel snow. I don't now girl. 0:16:50.680 --> 0:16:53.600 He's like, I ordered a fireplace. I'm like, when, oh, 0:16:53.600 --> 0:16:56.480 when you were sleeping. I'm like, you mean, oh my god, 0:16:56.560 --> 0:16:58.880 do I have a say it? What this? I guess not? No, 0:16:59.360 --> 0:17:01.640 you know what I've done. I just mark. Actually my 0:17:01.720 --> 0:17:05.720 husband has a great eye for design. I've just I 0:17:06.280 --> 0:17:08.480 don't see. I sit back now because like I'll go 0:17:08.520 --> 0:17:10.720 to home goods. I'll get some wicker and he's like, 0:17:10.720 --> 0:17:15.199 oh no, bitch, you get that out of here right now? Yeah, exactly. No. 0:17:15.400 --> 0:17:17.400 So now I am at the point in our lives 0:17:17.440 --> 0:17:19.000 where I'm like, you know what this is like something 0:17:19.000 --> 0:17:21.960 that you enjoy, you like it. I definitely give an opinion, 0:17:22.080 --> 0:17:24.359 but like I'm not I won't fight him for things 0:17:24.400 --> 0:17:26.760 like that. But that's definitely something I want to get 0:17:26.760 --> 0:17:30.440 into in one of our episodes. Buying a house. Yes, 0:17:30.880 --> 0:17:33.359 it's not easy there, but there are ways that you 0:17:33.400 --> 0:17:36.159 can prepare. You know, if we do an episode, I 0:17:36.200 --> 0:17:37.920 could tell you every single thing I had to do. 0:17:38.400 --> 0:17:40.280 You know what you can do three months before you 0:17:40.320 --> 0:17:43.960 even start looking. Yeah, because it wasn't easy. It was 0:17:44.119 --> 0:17:47.160 practically a part time job. Yeah it is. It's it's 0:17:47.200 --> 0:17:49.439 almost like you have to put in that work in 0:17:49.560 --> 0:17:51.680 order to get what you really want. And that's what 0:17:51.720 --> 0:17:58.240 it is, you know. I also want to talk about 0:17:58.640 --> 0:18:01.000 how we are doing so much more more for ourselves 0:18:01.400 --> 0:18:04.639 in the health sense. You know, I have been working 0:18:04.720 --> 0:18:07.800 so hard. I mentioned it before. I am not afraid. 0:18:08.160 --> 0:18:11.240 I'm termed forty five this year and everybody keeps saying 0:18:11.240 --> 0:18:13.119 to me, oh my gosh, forty five, Like how do 0:18:13.160 --> 0:18:16.199 you feel? And I'm like, I look at myself, you 0:18:16.480 --> 0:18:20.119 look up thank you, baby, But I work hard. I 0:18:20.280 --> 0:18:22.679 work hard at it. The number one thing I'm going 0:18:22.720 --> 0:18:25.280