Speaker 1: I'm a honey German. My parents are Dominican. I was
Speaker 1: born and raised in New York City. I love sneakers
Speaker 1: and I'm a body positive advocate. I'm Carolina Bermudez, but
Speaker 1: I was born and raised in Ohio. I'm a wife,
Speaker 1: a mama, and a worker bee. This is life in Spanglish.
Speaker 1: It is hard to believe that we are physically less
Speaker 1: than like two feet away from each other. I am
Speaker 1: so blown away in a beautiful my honey German, Oh
Speaker 1: my god, me you It's just I'm bugging out because
Speaker 1: I'm like, this is actually the first time we're doing
Speaker 1: the podcast in person together years? Yes? Is it two years? Yeah?
Speaker 1: It's two full years in March. Yeah, okay, miss snatched.
Speaker 1: Do you guys are not? I mean you have to see, honey,
Speaker 1: you have been working overtime. You look absolutely amazing. List
Speaker 1: where the blaze? Because I don't want to be out here,
Speaker 1: you know, flexing too hard? Why no, are you kidding me?
Speaker 1: You show off that little waist baby and the leather
Speaker 1: pants and your little Jordan's I did it just for you, Okay.
Speaker 1: I was like, nah, Carolyn, I gotta see me looking
Speaker 1: good and you Carolyna looked amazing. Oh, thank you so much,
Speaker 1: you guys. This is like a coming home. I cannot
Speaker 1: believe it. We have been on hiatus, so many things
Speaker 1: have happened. We got our side hustles going right now.
Speaker 1: Oh would had good stuff, I know, and I there
Speaker 1: are so many things that we were going to cover
Speaker 1: on this season that I just cannot wait to discuss.
Speaker 1: But first we have to talk about, Honey, and all
Speaker 1: of the things that you have accomplished. Like I want
Speaker 1: to talk about the Grammy thing that you are a
Speaker 1: part of now, your Twitter space like that you are
Speaker 1: a part of now you are like throughout him moving.
Speaker 1: Matter of fact, I just bought a house last week, Carolyne.
Speaker 1: I didn't want to give it off. I know. Well,
Speaker 1: so okay, so we were supposed to record last week.
Speaker 1: A lot has happened a lot, Well, Honey goes, I
Speaker 1: can't come in. I just bought my house and I
Speaker 1: was like, I'm sorry, you buried the headline. You purchased
Speaker 1: a home. This is like a really big deal. I said,
Speaker 1: my life is in boxes. Forget life in spanglish. It
Speaker 1: was life in boxes. That totally that kind of still is.
Speaker 1: That's our next podcast Life and so wait, so give
Speaker 1: me more, Like where did you guys decide to move.
Speaker 1: We're actually in Jersey, okay, you know, not too far
Speaker 1: from the city, but it was just Long Island was
Speaker 1: super expensive. Anybody who lives in Long Island or from
Speaker 1: Long Island knows that buying a house on Long Island,
Speaker 1: like if you want something nice, is out of the question.
Speaker 1: So we're in Jersey. You know, I could still come
Speaker 1: to work. I could still be part of the Tri
Speaker 1: state area. You know, we had thought about Miami, and
Speaker 1: I kept going back and forth during the pandemic. I saw, yeah,
Speaker 1: give a spot there, and you know, we go sometimes,
Speaker 1: like the month of December. I was there, beautiful the
Speaker 1: whole month. But then home base has to be in
Speaker 1: the East coast, you know, like New York, New Jersey.
Speaker 1: This is where my heart is at. So we're in Jersey.
Speaker 1: We're not just settling just yet, but we're working on it.
Speaker 1: How's my Foxy Roxy? Girl? Foxy Roxy is fourteen. She
Speaker 1: just fell down the basement steps yesterday. She ain't understand
Speaker 1: that what amasement is. We've always lived an apartment. So
Speaker 1: she looked down the door was open. A girl, it was.
Speaker 1: I thought it was open for that bitch. Yesterday she
Speaker 1: was howling like I never heard of house. It was
Speaker 1: an awful way. Foxy Roxy is Honey's little Chihuahua that
Speaker 1: is so adorable. I thought it was a rapper that
Speaker 1: bit yesterday. I said, this dog don't died. I looked
Speaker 1: down the steps. I said, she don't know about basements.
Speaker 1: Guess is she okay? I don't know what her joints
Speaker 1: to look dislocated, but she's walking on it, so I'm
Speaker 1: assuming it's not broken. Oh my gosh. And you know
Speaker 1: those vet bills they hit, they hit hard, that insurance
Speaker 1: because my in laws their dog died and they had
Speaker 1: a ten thousand dollars bet bill. They couldn't even save
Speaker 1: the dog and they paid ten thousand dollars for all
Speaker 1: types of transfusions. Wait, so why is this like a
Speaker 1: common theme right now? Because my my husband's brother was
Speaker 1: telling us about his dog and how she's like, you know,
Speaker 1: and I think it's like end of life, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, like the elder dogs. But they're a
Speaker 1: part of your family. These are your babies, you know,
Speaker 1: they really are. And you know, I don't know how
Speaker 1: we got started talking about dogs. But last time we
Speaker 1: took Roxy to the vet, the vet was like, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: because I have one like that in the basement and
Speaker 1: I have this in the basement. I have that in
Speaker 1: the basement. And we're like, what do you mean you
Speaker 1: have dogs in the basement. He said, people don't want
Speaker 1: their dogs sometimes because they pee everywhere, and they come,
Speaker 1: they bring them to put them down, and we keep
Speaker 1: them because we just feel so bad. Horse, so he said,
Speaker 1: his basement at the vet's office is full of animals
Speaker 1: they couldn't put down. Oh my gosh, No, you know what,
Speaker 1: And what a way to start. I'm sorry, Like this
Speaker 1: is this took a turn, This took a turn. Rocks
Speaker 1: is okay, the house is good. She just got to
Speaker 1: familiarize herself with doors leading into basements and addicts and
Speaker 1: things like that. And just don't mess with it, Rocks,
Speaker 1: they don't mess with it. Don't mess with it. Don't
Speaker 1: mess Oh my gosh. Wait, but I also want to
Speaker 1: know almost like have you have you gotten to know
Speaker 1: the neighbors? Girl? Like I'd be through the window, like
Speaker 1: the real ill chi mosa, I got the I got
Speaker 1: wood blinds. I'd be trying to rip them down and
Speaker 1: rip them open. So I've seen the neighbors. Noonie talks
Speaker 1: to the neighbors. He'd be like, hey, guys, I'm telling
Speaker 1: you he is the neighborhood guy. The guy next door,
Speaker 1: I haven't seen him. I feel like maybe he's a hermit.
Speaker 1: There's a nice black couple next door, super dope. Okay,
Speaker 1: you know he's cool. He's already said hi to us.
Speaker 1: Then older white couple across the street, Okay, we have
Speaker 1: every tool you're gonna need to put your house together.
Speaker 1: I'm like, thank you. That's beautiful. How neighborly. Except guy
Speaker 1: to the right, he's got the shibo eno dog. I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I love your dog, but not yet.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't think I'm that type of
Speaker 1: person that would go be like, hi, you have your
Speaker 1: neighbor have some cookies? None of that. No, you know,
Speaker 1: it's suburbia because you used to live like in a
Speaker 1: high rise apartment. Beautiful differ. It's just different. But I
Speaker 1: just couldn't. Carolina. These rents one bedroom, three thousand dollars.
Speaker 1: I'm like high, I said, I can't. I cannot do
Speaker 1: this anymore if I'm gonna be paying three thousand dollars.
Speaker 1: Let it be for something that I own. Well, we
Speaker 1: are investing in ourselves. We are making that paper, We
Speaker 1: are making it work. Because I'm telling you, between that
Speaker 1: and the egg price is honey. You know, we had
Speaker 1: that whole fluctuation here and there, egflation, eggflation, everything. You know,
Speaker 1: my life has been so crazy. To talk to me,
Speaker 1: I added a job as if I needed another job, Carolina.
Speaker 1: When I saw this, I was like, wait, hold on,
Speaker 1: I know she has time. No. My mother called me.
Speaker 1: My mother called me and she said and I said, Mom,
Speaker 1: you know, in this industry, this media industry that we
Speaker 1: work in, I'm a forty four year old woman. The
Speaker 1: fact that I'm still working is in itself a blessing. Okay,
Speaker 1: the fact that I still have this job in radio
Speaker 1: is such a blessing. So when they came to me
Speaker 1: with this opportunity to even just dip my toe back
Speaker 1: into the TV water, I said, I gotta figure it out.
Speaker 1: I'll make it happen. There are some times where I'm
Speaker 1: paying a babysitter more than what I'm even going to
Speaker 1: go and make, you know, because that's the love of
Speaker 1: the craft, that is, and we say they talk to me,
Speaker 1: Carolina who called you, what was the actual offer like?
Speaker 1: Because I love these Sepa Coles. So I used to
Speaker 1: work for E News back in two thousand and eight,
Speaker 1: and I was a freelance reporter at the time, and
Speaker 1: I basically just would cover their events in New York City.
Speaker 1: They have their hubs La la is where everything is
Speaker 1: for entertainment, and at the time was everything entertainment. Then
Speaker 1: they closed their New York bureau. I feel like a
Speaker 1: lot of it was the Kardashian effect, and I'm not
Speaker 1: saying that in a negative way. I think that they
Speaker 1: paid so much for the Kardashians and they were running
Speaker 1: them all day long. I remember that they didn't have
Speaker 1: any original programming. They didn't have the money or the
Speaker 1: budget to have any original programming. They had Chelsea Handler,
Speaker 1: they had a couple of late night shows, but it
Speaker 1: wasn't like what it used to be. Like you used
Speaker 1: to go to E News Talk Soup for entertainment news. Yes,
Speaker 1: Joel McHale, he was amazing. I just told him the
Speaker 1: other day and I was like, Wow, the guy from
Speaker 1: talks and he's excellent. He's excellent soum. So that job,
Speaker 1: I think it was like in twenty ten is when
Speaker 1: I finally fizzled out and they were just like okay,
Speaker 1: thank you, but like, no, thank you. Were closing the
Speaker 1: New York Bureau, which was sad, you know, but I
Speaker 1: had radio and I focused on that. So fast forward
Speaker 1: to twenty twenty two and I get a phone call
Speaker 1: from a friend who is a producer at e Now
Speaker 1: and said, look, I know you're busy. I know you
Speaker 1: have a lot on your plate, but we know that
Speaker 1: you can do this, you know, New York, and we
Speaker 1: would like for you to be one of our New
Speaker 1: York correspondents. Really like the person who will go to bitch.
Speaker 1: It is unheard of, you know what I mean, because
Speaker 1: I don't eat news correspondent. Yeah, job as yours. The
Speaker 1: fuck well, you know. There were a couple of other conversations, yeah,
Speaker 1: to have you know, but um, basically I just said, look,
Speaker 1: number one priority for me is always going to be
Speaker 1: my boys. Like I am a full time mom. I
Speaker 1: love that about you. I'm a full time working mom,
Speaker 1: you know. So Um, if there's a conflict, I have
Speaker 1: to feel comfortable to say no. I have to be
Speaker 1: able to say no. If if my son has a
Speaker 1: parent teacher conference. I can't, you know, reschedule that if
Speaker 1: if it comes down to it, I will have to
Speaker 1: say no sometimes. And so they were very generous, they
Speaker 1: were very accommodating, and you know, look, I've said no
Speaker 1: to one thing. It's all work out. It's all working out.
Speaker 1: And so that's where I felt like so inspired to
Speaker 1: share this with people, because it's like just when you think,
Speaker 1: you know, your plate is so full and you just
Speaker 1: can't do it, bet on yourself and think, you know what,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna find a way to make this happen because
Speaker 1: it means so much to me. And what you said, Honey,
Speaker 1: is exactly it. The passion. You know, I get to
Speaker 1: work on television. I get to interview interesting people that
Speaker 1: I admire and look up to. Oh my gosh, can
Speaker 1: we talk about Tamar? But I was like wow, really,
Speaker 1: like this is like somebody we look up to. Like,
Speaker 1: if you are a woman works in media, you understand
Speaker 1: the level of respect this woman gets. She is the icon,
Speaker 1: she is the moment, everything about her. She is a professional.
Speaker 1: The way she carries herself. You know, I was very
Speaker 1: intimidated going in because this is tamarn Hall. Isn't just
Speaker 1: a celebrity, She's a journalist. She is a journalist first,
Speaker 1: that is okay. So working on the Today's Show alongside
Speaker 1: the greats like Al Roker, and you know, she's had
Speaker 1: her way of coming up, she's solidified totally. So then
Speaker 1: you know, when she departed from The Today's Show, there
Speaker 1: was a lot of talk about her and you know
Speaker 1: what she was like and this and that, and I
Speaker 1: personally have been a fan of her show because I
Speaker 1: watched it during the pandemic. She never stopped, so you
Speaker 1: got to know her, know her. I'm part of the
Speaker 1: tam fan baby. So when they called me, I was
Speaker 1: just like, are you kidding me? Right now I get
Speaker 1: to go interview her and ask you a question. Yeah,
Speaker 1: did you feel like you needed to button up a
Speaker 1: little bit? Like the way you dressed, Like did you
Speaker 1: feel like you need to match her or not? You
Speaker 1: know the funniest thing, I took a picture and she
Speaker 1: was like all in spring florals and looked amazing. And
Speaker 1: I'm wearing black, like you couldn't like, I am a
Speaker 1: true New Yorker wearing the all blacks were all black.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, my mom's like, where's the funeral? She
Speaker 1: was like, why were you wearing all black as a
Speaker 1: mom because I didn't know, like, and she has the
Speaker 1: most incredible style. She is just hitting on all points.
Speaker 1: And so for me to get to sit down with
Speaker 1: somebody like that for fifteen minutes and just pick her
Speaker 1: brain and then for that piece to go on the
Speaker 1: air and like, it's just the whole thing is so surreal.
Speaker 1: What about the boys like when they watch it? What
Speaker 1: that tell me? Because you know, I love radio and
Speaker 1: radio is super important. It's just but TV just hits different.
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, hear my mom on the radio, but
Speaker 1: watching you? How did they react the first time? Oh?
Speaker 1: They love it. They love it. Actually, one of the
Speaker 1: boys teachers called me after school for something that was
Speaker 1: that had happened during school that day and I said,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I am so sorry. I know I
Speaker 1: missed her call yesterday, I said, but I was shooting
Speaker 1: and I couldn't pick up the fun She goes, oh,
Speaker 1: I know, Asher told me my mommy's on TV and
Speaker 1: she's doing an interview, so you're not gonna be able
Speaker 1: to get a hold of her. And I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god. It was like, hold on, let me
Speaker 1: hit you with the big flex real quick. My mother
Speaker 1: on television, she can't answer you. Yeah, but then I'm
Speaker 1: the one that's taking them to basketball practice and like,
Speaker 1: you know, all of the above, because that's how it is,
Speaker 1: like keep das should be on TikTok. I'm like, what
Speaker 1: is this? But I guess you gotta do this step
Speaker 1: and step for your kids anyway. Yeah, but also Kim
Speaker 1: Kardashian is at the basketball game with little Northy, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. So it's like I feel like
Speaker 1: we're moving in a different direction, and you know, the
Speaker 1: E News thing has just been fantastic, this podcast. I
Speaker 1: am so glad we are back. The feedback from everybody
Speaker 1: there like when are you coming back? We couldn't talk
Speaker 1: about it because we didn't get a date, you know,
Speaker 1: and they finally gave us our date. Here we are. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was like every other question, So what's up with
Speaker 1: the podcast? It's coming, it's coming, We're still doing it.
Speaker 1: I think people worry, like if we're not going to
Speaker 1: bring it back, No, as long as we're here and
Speaker 1: they'll have us, will bring it back a million percent.
Speaker 1: But also we're going to explore so many things. You know,
Speaker 1: I cannot wait to get into you know what you
Speaker 1: have been doing, honey, and all of the things that like,
Speaker 1: I've been so inspired by watching your Instagram and just
Speaker 1: seeing how many beautiful life changes that you've made, the
Speaker 1: motivation that you've you've had. You know what I think
Speaker 1: is the biggest thing that happened in the past year
Speaker 1: for me. I connected with God. Like it was like,
Speaker 1: I'm embarrassed to say that, but God was never a
Speaker 1: priority for me. Don't be embarrassed. It's your truth. And
Speaker 1: then my friend AJ he works over at YouTube. One
Speaker 1: day he was like, you want to go to church?
Speaker 1: And this man and changed in my life. I'm like,
Speaker 1: what is this? This is so random? And he called
Speaker 1: me last week and he was like, you want to
Speaker 1: go to church? And I'll say where. He said, in Jersey.
Speaker 1: You live in Jersey, Hope, I don't know. And the
Speaker 1: first time I was in Miami, he was in Miami.
Speaker 1: He introduced me to church there, and now he introduced
Speaker 1: me to church in Jersey. We're gonna get into that.
Speaker 1: We're gonna get into that topic, you know a little
Speaker 1: bit later. As far as like people coming into your
Speaker 1: life are certain, I feel like that's his only purpose
Speaker 1: in my life. I love him. I'm pretty sure we're
Speaker 1: going to work on other things. But I feel like
Speaker 1: he was put in my life ten years ago so
Speaker 1: that now he can connect me with God, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. And that's why. That's the reason why.
Speaker 1: And honestly, I feel like I've had a similar conversation
Speaker 1: with my sister. My sister is back in New Jersey.
Speaker 1: She moved to New Hampshire. Now she's back, and I
Speaker 1: do take the kids to church most Sundays, not every Sunday,
Speaker 1: but you know, I do try to go on most
Speaker 1: The Lord knows your heart. He does, he sure does.
Speaker 1: But you know, my sister said to me the same
Speaker 1: thing that you said. She goes, I'm embarrassed. I haven't
Speaker 1: been in years, and I said, his doors are always open. Amen,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So we will discuss that
Speaker 1: and so much more. We have so many exciting projects
Speaker 1: that we are just I cannot wait to divulge some
Speaker 1: of the things that we have come here. We gotta
Speaker 1: keep some of the stuff under wraps, but we're definitely
Speaker 1: gonna get into it. And you know, our listeners, I
Speaker 1: want to know what they've been up to because I
Speaker 1: feel like it's been such a like weird year. You know,
Speaker 1: everything opened back up, but everybody's not ready to be
Speaker 1: fully outside. So it's like, I don't know, I just
Speaker 1: want to hear what everybody's been up to. It's weird
Speaker 1: because I feel like this podcast is like a bunch
Speaker 1: of us friends no totally well familia, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, and we want to hear I know. That's
Speaker 1: why I say it all the time. I'm like, hey, Prima,
Speaker 1: and they're like what, and I'm like, oh no, no,
Speaker 1: it means cousin, you know, but yes, I feel like
Speaker 1: we are here as our community. It is back. We
Speaker 1: want to answer your questions, we want to help you
Speaker 1: with your life, sit you in your life choices. We're
Speaker 1: gonna be introducing some really cool people that we have
Speaker 1: met along the way. I gotta bring them up here
Speaker 1: because there's so much to be said. And it's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, me and you have so many life experiences
Speaker 1: and you know, we can talk to our listeners, but
Speaker 1: bringing in other people that have you know, you know,
Speaker 1: just little nuggets that we might not have. I think
Speaker 1: that's gonna do wonders for this season. We're also going
Speaker 1: to give you the chiefsman, we're gonna give you all
Speaker 1: of the things. We're gonna talk about all of your
Speaker 1: favorite celebrities. So we want to make sure that you
Speaker 1: guys know that this is gonna be the spot where
Speaker 1: you go make sure before I mean, we're we all
Speaker 1: obviously have a little bit more time, but we want
Speaker 1: to make sure that you are liking and downloading and
Speaker 1: subscribing because that way we can keep you company. You
Speaker 1: don't even have to think about it, you know, and
Speaker 1: when those episodes, job is like a reminder right away,
Speaker 1: you don't even have to be looking for it. Like
Speaker 1: me with the new season of I'm like, when is
Speaker 1: it coming to Netflix? To tell me? Girl, I was
Speaker 1: supposed to come December thirty at that's marking my show
Speaker 1: with it was like, yeah, it's not here yet. I'm
Speaker 1: a net like, come on, get with it. Oh my god.
Speaker 1: So yes, I wish I could set a remind us
Speaker 1: so Netflix like it's here. I'm pretty sure I can,
Speaker 1: But I don't want you to have to do that
Speaker 1: with Life in Spanlish, I want you to get being
Speaker 1: your new episode is here, so subscribe and hit that
Speaker 1: five star. Please don't play with me, don't hit us too.
Speaker 1: She said, don't play with me. So no, honey, Like,
Speaker 1: let's also talk about the family. I want to know
Speaker 1: how my mannoney is. What has he been up to you? Girl?
Speaker 1: Is he all about the suburban life? Am I going
Speaker 1: to see him on a John? Dear girl, this man
Speaker 1: took a video of the house. Oh look at all
Speaker 1: the lights I put outside the house. I was inside cooking.
Speaker 1: He came in. I'm like, he is loving it. And
Speaker 1: you know, homeownership is he always said it wasn't for him.
Speaker 1: He's a Brooklyn boy through and through, like he just
Speaker 1: lived in buildings his whole life. He was like, I
Speaker 1: don't want to no yard. I don't want to know this.
Speaker 1: I don't want to shovel snow. I don't now girl.
Speaker 1: He's like, I ordered a fireplace. I'm like, when, oh,
Speaker 1: when you were sleeping. I'm like, you mean, oh my god,
Speaker 1: do I have a say it? What this? I guess not? No,
Speaker 1: you know what I've done. I just mark. Actually my
Speaker 1: husband has a great eye for design. I've just I
Speaker 1: don't see. I sit back now because like I'll go
Speaker 1: to home goods. I'll get some wicker and he's like,
Speaker 1: oh no, bitch, you get that out of here right now? Yeah, exactly. No.
Speaker 1: So now I am at the point in our lives
Speaker 1: where I'm like, you know what this is like something
Speaker 1: that you enjoy, you like it. I definitely give an opinion,
Speaker 1: but like I'm not I won't fight him for things
Speaker 1: like that. But that's definitely something I want to get
Speaker 1: into in one of our episodes. Buying a house. Yes,
Speaker 1: it's not easy there, but there are ways that you
Speaker 1: can prepare. You know, if we do an episode, I
Speaker 1: could tell you every single thing I had to do.
Speaker 1: You know what you can do three months before you
Speaker 1: even start looking. Yeah, because it wasn't easy. It was
Speaker 1: practically a part time job. Yeah it is. It's it's
Speaker 1: almost like you have to put in that work in
Speaker 1: order to get what you really want. And that's what
Speaker 1: it is, you know. I also want to talk about
Speaker 1: how we are doing so much more more for ourselves
Speaker 1: in the health sense. You know, I have been working
Speaker 1: so hard. I mentioned it before. I am not afraid.
Speaker 1: I'm termed forty five this year and everybody keeps saying
Speaker 1: to me, oh my gosh, forty five, Like how do
Speaker 1: you feel? And I'm like, I look at myself, you
Speaker 1: look up thank you, baby, But I work hard. I
Speaker 1: work hard at it. The number one thing I'm going
Speaker 1: to tell you, guys, the number one thing coming up
Speaker 1: this season that we all need to do to change
Speaker 1: our lives and our health. And it's going to blow
Speaker 1: you away. It's so simple and I cannot wait to
Speaker 1: share that with you. But you know, I mean, I
Speaker 1: have Mark, My husband has completely changed his lifestyle. Really,
Speaker 1: I want to hear all about this. He is going
Speaker 1: to the gym. By the way, you know, Tom Brady
Speaker 1: posted a thirst trap a couple of weeks ago. Okay,
Speaker 1: Tom Brady's gotten nothing on Mark Grossman. I will tell
Speaker 1: you right now. I will put a side by side
Speaker 1: up right now, because I am all about it. You
Speaker 1: know that these are the things that like we're finding
Speaker 1: ourselves again, you know, going out, going to concerts, going
Speaker 1: to events and things like we were home for so long.
Speaker 1: I think that Mark and I got into like a
Speaker 1: little bit of a relationship run and now no, no,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, please never. But like I feel like
Speaker 1: we're back on track, you know what I mean, Like
Speaker 1: we're both taking care of ourselves mentally, physically, and I
Speaker 1: think emotionally we are getting back to Liken. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: so I want to discuss relationship. Why you just said
Speaker 1: about tantric sex. Well, honey, I'm like, okay, yeah, connecting
Speaker 1: that that that she said deep, Yes, no it is,
Speaker 1: it's serious. Yes, no, And I'm not even kidding you.
Speaker 1: We've the other night and I like, we'll discuss this
Speaker 1: in another episode. But the other night Mark and I
Speaker 1: were together and I looked at him and I felt
Speaker 1: something in my heart and I was like, this, this
Speaker 1: is why. It's just a feeling. It is a true feeling,
Speaker 1: you know. And I looked at him and I was like,
Speaker 1: I cannot believe it's been fourteen years that I've been
Speaker 1: with this man. Eleven or twelve. We're gonna be married
Speaker 1: twelve years. I think this June. I'm bad at math um.
Speaker 1: But anyway, I looked at him and I was just like,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, we have put in the work and
Speaker 1: now we're seeing like the beauty of that work. That's amazing.
Speaker 1: It's like you you've arrived, even though it's still ongoing.
Speaker 1: You feel like this is the moment. Yeah, Because the
Speaker 1: things that we would fight about before, like you know,
Speaker 1: the silent treatment stuff that I used to pull on him.
Speaker 1: It's just like it's not it's not hitting anymore, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. You was in your thirties, you
Speaker 1: were still a fight. Like really, like why do we
Speaker 1: even do this to the men we love? That's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. And so there's been a realization that this
Speaker 1: relationship is so much more than you know, I I
Speaker 1: ever imagined it could be. And it's it's getting into
Speaker 1: a stage where it's so beautiful and I'm present and
Speaker 1: he's present and we're in it together. So I don't know,
Speaker 1: I feel like there's just so much goodness that we
Speaker 1: want to share with you guys, and we also want
Speaker 1: to make sure that we are helping you with those
Speaker 1: life situations too. That's a fact, you know, because I
Speaker 1: feel like with this podcast, like us just talking about
Speaker 1: our situation, how we overcome, you know, how we make
Speaker 1: things better. It just helps our listeners. And podcasting is
Speaker 1: the way to go, like this is what people are
Speaker 1: consuming now, like they just love it. Most people just
Speaker 1: help me. Oh, I only listen to podcasts, Like it's weird,
Speaker 1: Like they don't even want to watch TV. People not
Speaker 1: even reading books. Okay, that hurts. That hurts. Make sure
Speaker 1: you're still listening in the morning shows. Please, oh well
Speaker 1: that don't listen. I wasn't going to drag radio into this, no,
Speaker 1: but you know what, the radio side too, has totally
Speaker 1: changed for me. You know, I've been working with Greg T.
Speaker 1: That situation has evolved so much. I was working with
Speaker 1: Greg T, the stunt guy from Elvis Durransey one. I've
Speaker 1: always loved him, adored him. We're like brother and sister.
Speaker 1: But just like my relationship with Mark, we got feedback
Speaker 1: and it's like we're firing on all cylinders. Like he
Speaker 1: and I. You feel like now you're in a good groove.
Speaker 1: We're jelling, you know, and it's making sense. And you know,
Speaker 1: to his credit, he never really got the training. You know.
Speaker 1: I was always a co host, you as a pro,
Speaker 1: like you knew what she was doing. He was always
Speaker 1: the stunt guy or the side guy, you know, and
Speaker 1: so he would come in and out. Yea spotlight wasn't
Speaker 1: on him the whole hour, let's say. But to see
Speaker 1: him now doing a four hour show and just that evolution,
Speaker 1: you know, professionally, I'm so proud of him. Personally as
Speaker 1: a friend, I'm so proud of him. And so you know,
Speaker 1: those are the things too that we can hit on
Speaker 1: and touch on. If you're in a place in your
Speaker 1: life where you feel like you want to grow, We're
Speaker 1: gonna get you there. We're gonna give you that those
Speaker 1: tools that you need to get you to that next level.
Speaker 1: And there's a lot happening, you know, within the Latino community,
Speaker 1: you know, like the migrant situation that we have here.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of different opinions. You know. I definitely
Speaker 1: want to get into that Bunny and like that man
Speaker 1: has taken over the world. Like I've been a Bad
Speaker 1: Bunny fan for like five years, like ever since he
Speaker 1: bust on the scene. Like I feel the way, I
Speaker 1: don't know everybody with the bandwagon thing, I don't know. Well,
Speaker 1: Bad Bunny is going to take an entire episode we
Speaker 1: and I don't want to give things away, but we
Speaker 1: are going to discuss his rise to fame, the interaction
Speaker 1: with the fan that got some feedback, the Grammy snub,
Speaker 1: which I will just go ahead and put it out there.
Speaker 1: I was going to lose my mind when that happened, honey.
Speaker 1: That's why I'm saying we are going to devote an
Speaker 1: entire episode to Benito, which you know we love him
Speaker 1: because you know what, and I will say this, I
Speaker 1: haven't been a fan for five years like you, but
Speaker 1: I clearly remember before the pandemic, the twins Lulu and
Speaker 1: Lalla came to me and they said, we're gonna go
Speaker 1: to the show tonight for Bad Bunny. And I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I heard of him, you know, I wanted. It is
Speaker 1: my biggest regret that I did not go to the
Speaker 1: show that night, because then the world shut down. I
Speaker 1: know that was probably that's when he dropped. I think
Speaker 1: I think that album yeah around there, almost three four
Speaker 1: years ago, probably, yes, And so that was like one
Speaker 1: of my biggest regrets. And so now you know, now
Speaker 1: I got my little boys singing and I'm like, wait
Speaker 1: a minute, wait, you can't say certain words like you know,
Speaker 1: all right, we're gonna get into the censor, you know,
Speaker 1: all of them. That was last summer. Last summer was
Speaker 1: little I was in Miami with that album. It was
Speaker 1: a good time. It was a good time. But now
Speaker 1: we're back over here on the East coast free, I know,
Speaker 1: and look at us, Look how grown we are. Look
Speaker 1: at us. This is crazy and life in spanglish. Our
Speaker 1: baby is growing. I got to remind it the other
Speaker 1: day and it said like three years ago. I'm like,
Speaker 1: what the hell is this that we've been around three years?
Speaker 1: And the other thing too that we just really want
Speaker 1: to point out to you when all of this stuff
Speaker 1: was happening, when podcasting first started, when Honey and I
Speaker 1: looked at each other and it was literally a hallway conversation,
Speaker 1: we were like, we need to do this. We need
Speaker 1: to talk about our lives, our culture, give people the voice,
Speaker 1: because it wasn't happening out there. No, I really it wasn't.
Speaker 1: I couldn't find a podcast I could relate to, and
Speaker 1: in radio, I never felt like I had time. You know,
Speaker 1: I never did like a show like a morning show.
Speaker 1: I always did weekends or filling or just part of
Speaker 1: are show. I never had a microphone where I can
Speaker 1: really express my thoughts or you know, even connect with
Speaker 1: people the right way. So this gave me that opportunity
Speaker 1: and I'm forever grateful for that. And this is it, babe.
Speaker 1: So we are in it, and we have a whole
Speaker 1: new season, a fresh season of life and Spanglish that's
Speaker 1: coming up for you, guys, and we cannot wait for
Speaker 1: you to be a part of it. We do want
Speaker 1: you to email us or dm us at li Spanglish
Speaker 1: on Instagram so you can hit us through in the
Speaker 1: DMS if you want to slide through it was on
Speaker 1: the Twitter. Wherever you want to hit us, you can
Speaker 1: find us, and you know we'll hit you back. Our
Speaker 1: fabulous producer Andrew's back and we are going to embarrass him.
Speaker 1: I have no doubt at some point in time throughout
Speaker 1: this season. So we'll bring him in and ask him
Speaker 1: his GREENO opinion and yeah, we got on. Come, okay, fine,
Speaker 1: he's Italiano. I mean he is still our little greedy
Speaker 1: and I say it with love. No, so Andrew is
Speaker 1: gonna be in charge. He's gonna keep us in line,
Speaker 1: and no, we cannot wait to share this next season
Speaker 1: with you guys. He's gonna be lit. Lifense Banglish is
Speaker 1: a production of Lifense Banglish Productions in partnership with I Heearts,
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