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Speaker 4: How many of you guys know this?

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Speaker 6: Sometimes the smallest thing can just irritate you, things that

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Speaker 6: showing me her vacation photos. I hate to date this,

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Speaker 4: She said, I just picked up my vacation photos. Let's

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Speaker 6: So I said, okay, and so we began to look

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Speaker 6: at this beautiful of pictures of blue skies, sandy beaches,

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Speaker 6: And we're looking and I noticed she was getting a

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Speaker 6: I was gonna kind of really check them out and

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Speaker 6: she began to say, I look terrible in that picture.

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Speaker 6: I don't like that picture. I'm not wearing that outfit again.

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Speaker 6: It doesn't photograph well. And she began to pick her

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Speaker 4: See, it went from enjoying her.

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Speaker 6: Vacation to looking at something about herself that I couldn't

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Speaker 6: We forget to look at the blue skies, the sandy beaches,

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Speaker 6: the smiling faces our children, because we see that speck

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Speaker 6: her memory all of a sudden became negative. Think about

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Speaker 6: Adam and Eve. They were in a beautiful garden, lush

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Speaker 6: And one day Eve got her eye on a single bush,

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Speaker 4: In fact, that bush was so.

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Speaker 6: Big it distorted the whole view of the garden. You see,

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Speaker 4: She didn't see the whole picture because all she could

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Speaker 6: Listen, Let's don't see the specks in our life. Let's

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Speaker 6: begin to see the whole picture what we do have.

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Speaker 6: Let's don't let a bush distort this amazing life. God

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Speaker 6: has given us the relationships that we have, because in

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Speaker 6: We focused on some things that we didn't have, and

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Speaker 4: Listen, I don't want to live in regret to you.

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Speaker 6: I want to enjoy what God has given me right now,

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Speaker 6: the beauty of the moment.

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Speaker 4: I think about my friend.

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Speaker 6: And today, I bet if she pulls those same pictures out.

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Speaker 4: She's gonna go I look pretty good in those pictures.

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Speaker 6: You know, sometimes when the years go, God, you don't

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Speaker 6: look as bad as you thought you did. When my

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Speaker 6: and uh, it was the Easter Sunday and everyone was

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Speaker 6: dressed up. You know. All the family was there, the cousins,

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Speaker 6: there and looking so good. You know, we were all

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Speaker 6: a Easter picture. Everybody's so cute, all the little outfits

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Speaker 6: round everybody up to get this Easter picture. We're placing everybody.

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Speaker 6: I look and there's my two little kids. They had

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Speaker 6: changed out of their Easter clothes and put on their

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Speaker 6: looking at them, and it was enough just getting everyone

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Speaker 6: to be perfect. It had to be my way it

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Speaker 6: It's one of my most treasured possessions today, one of

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Speaker 4: But at the.

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Speaker 6: Time, all I saw were those khaki shorts and tennis

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Speaker 4: Not want in my picture.

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Speaker 6: See, we need to step back, We need to remember

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Speaker 6: what life is about.

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Speaker 4: It's about God's goodness, It's about our family, it's about

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Speaker 6: So often we want it to be perfect, we want

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Speaker 4: That's not the case.

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Speaker 6: It really doesn't mess everything up. And we've got to remember.

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Speaker 6: You see, my little kids.

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Speaker 4: They had no idea, They had no idea. They're just kids.

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Speaker 6: I would rather have a good relationship with my kids

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Speaker 4: Let me tell you what. They're in college now.

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Speaker 6: I would give anything to just have a picture with

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Speaker 4: You know, I don't care what they're wearing. I really don't.

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Speaker 6: Have you ever wanted things so perfect and it didn't

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