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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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<v Speaker 1>Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Hello and welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>reasonably Shity. My name is Gielle Brian and we are here.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? I love the way you say that you

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<v Speaker 1>do again, reasonably shity. What's up? Everyone? This is Robin

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<v Speaker 1>Dixon and I am so blessed to be here once again.

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<v Speaker 1>And you're listening to my nasally voice, so please forgive

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<v Speaker 1>me it's my hopefully it sounds sultry to you. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>this is your sex s voice. Actress's name Earth the Kids,

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<v Speaker 1>Earth up with the white Lady, Sophia Loren that one. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm going for. Yes, Okay, anyway, what's up y'all? Um? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so robbing, we're gonna do what we do. What is

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<v Speaker 1>your reasonably shady moment of the week? Okay, So my

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<v Speaker 1>reasonably shady moment of the week goes to people in

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<v Speaker 1>my house who gave me this cold that I had. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>called children's Okay, was a Corey was a Carter? It

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<v Speaker 1>was both of them actually, So I think it really

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<v Speaker 1>started from a basketball teammate that spent the night kind

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<v Speaker 1>of stuff. He knows. And then then like a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of days later, Carter was complaining of a stuff he knows,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm, you know, terrible mom me. I'm like, oh boy,

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<v Speaker 1>you all right, suck it up. Whatever. Here, here's some

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<v Speaker 1>nasal spray. I'm like, god, stop lining, You're fine, right, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because you're a great mom Yeah, I'm awesome. And so

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<v Speaker 1>then it passed to Corey. Corey, I gotta stuff he knows.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh boy, here's a hot towel. You all right, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, whatever you find, go play basketball. Then it

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<v Speaker 1>hit me and I want to be laid out on

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<v Speaker 1>the couch. I want to be that's got real miserable.

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<v Speaker 1>So I am congested. I've been snuff stuffy. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>sneezing like a total head cold, which we have not

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<v Speaker 1>seen for shoot, over a year and a half because

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<v Speaker 1>we've been in a pandemic wearing masks. So now that

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<v Speaker 1>we're out and about and the kids are, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we're maskless everywhere. Now we're getting these germs and getting cold. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>do you have to like, okay, this is another question,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, now that we're not wearing masks, do

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<v Speaker 1>you have to like pay attention to how you your

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<v Speaker 1>your face looks, meaning like I would do whatever with

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<v Speaker 1>my mouth with a mask, going oh your mouth, my face. Shoot, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a it's a whole new re education of how

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<v Speaker 1>to move my mouth. Right, It's like, okay, right, it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's that it's like you have to be reacclimated to

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<v Speaker 1>the world. And then now when I'm going in places,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I'm missing my mask. So like I'll

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<v Speaker 1>go into place and they'll be like, oh wait a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>don't need to go get my mask. Like it's now

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<v Speaker 1>it's like it almost you became so used to it

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<v Speaker 1>that I feel like I'm missing something when I go

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<v Speaker 1>somewhere without a mask. Yes, but but yeah, those kids

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<v Speaker 1>they got me sick and pull them kids are shady.

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<v Speaker 1>Them kids are shady. Okay, alright, so my reasonably shady

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<v Speaker 1>moment is and I'm gonna have to call them out.

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<v Speaker 1>And I love them because I spent a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>money there. But restoration hardware happened so February, around February

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<v Speaker 1>four ish. It wasn't a Valentine's present, but it was

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<v Speaker 1>just around that time. I ordered four big bath towels.

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<v Speaker 1>Bath sheets are what they called cost a thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>They cost a whole lot of money, but I love them.

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<v Speaker 1>And because they're huge, you can wrap your body around

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<v Speaker 1>about four times in it, unless you're really big and

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<v Speaker 1>it's just once, but me it's like four times. And um,

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<v Speaker 1>and then some little hand to was okay, So they

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<v Speaker 1>sent the hands. I was face towels, so they sent

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<v Speaker 1>to face towels. I waited five months five months or

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<v Speaker 1>some town for my bath towels. Yes I did. Restoration

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<v Speaker 1>hardware is shady. I don't know what your problem is.

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<v Speaker 1>It has nothing to do with COVID. It has nothing

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<v Speaker 1>to do with um, the embarkgo or not, stuff coming

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<v Speaker 1>in here from other countries. You have had nothing to

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<v Speaker 1>do with that. It's just freaking towels. Okay. So y'all

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<v Speaker 1>wrong for that. Okay, So did you get them yet? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>I have them. I just got them okay. And are

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<v Speaker 1>they everything? Oh? My towels everything everything, it was. It

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<v Speaker 1>was worth the way. But restoration hardware got my eye

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<v Speaker 1>on you. I'm side eyeing y'all. I mean, yeah that,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know what that's going on with everything everywhere?

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean just but towels towels. It might and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it probably wasn't. It's like, it's not the

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<v Speaker 1>towel itself, it's like the little micro chip that the

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<v Speaker 1>machine uses to put the towels together. Like a shortage

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<v Speaker 1>of cars right now, because there's a microchip right that,

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<v Speaker 1>because I was I went to the dealer um just

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<v Speaker 1>the other day to get my car service and I

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<v Speaker 1>pulled up and I'm like, damn, this lot is empty.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's because there's a microchip shortage, yes, and so

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<v Speaker 1>this little microchip is preventing them from being able to

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<v Speaker 1>like produce these big old cars. Listen, So it's several TuS.

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<v Speaker 1>It was probably was like a little a little needle

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<v Speaker 1>or something that they just couldn't produce a touse for,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I mean, it's just restoration, hardwam side eye and y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyway, we would be remiss if we did not

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<v Speaker 1>bring up the fact that The Real Housewives Up but

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<v Speaker 1>oh mag Season six has premiered. So you know, if

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't get to see it, you better get to

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<v Speaker 1>your DVR or your TV or your whatever it is

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<v Speaker 1>that you watch these things on, and you better get

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<v Speaker 1>your watching on because it was amazing. It was it

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<v Speaker 1>was amazing. I mean can you believe that? Like we

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<v Speaker 1>have been doing this for six seasons, like I mean, so,

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest with you, our listeners, we aren't really

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<v Speaker 1>allowed to talk a lot about the show general, just

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<v Speaker 1>as part of our you know, um contractual obligations. We

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<v Speaker 1>can't really give up too much about the show, but

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<v Speaker 1>we can speak in general. You know. I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to put out there and say thank you to everyone

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<v Speaker 1>who has supported the show, who has supported us, who

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<v Speaker 1>has helped us get to six seasons. I guess when

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<v Speaker 1>we started the show, yeah, you think about like wow, um,

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<v Speaker 1>the what ifs and where it could go. And trust me,

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<v Speaker 1>six seasons was not on my list. Listen, we didn't

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<v Speaker 1>think we'd make it pass one. Okay, but we're still

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<v Speaker 1>here and we're rock and y'all are rocking with us.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all have been on this journey with us, and we

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<v Speaker 1>really really appreciate it. Yes, and thank you so much

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<v Speaker 1>for watching this the season premiere. It's going to be

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<v Speaker 1>a great season. Yes, despite the fact that we filmed

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<v Speaker 1>it in COVID. COVID, I would like to call it's

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<v Speaker 1>like the Eighth Housewife. It gets a champagne class drama. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that COVID. We hated that girl, but anyway we made

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<v Speaker 1>it through. Yes, thank you, thank you, thank you for that. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and so Sunday a p M. Don't miss it anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like we have so many current events, hot topics.

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<v Speaker 1>All this ship is just happening out here. Okay, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot going on, and I want to first start

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<v Speaker 1>with something lightweight. Okay, light weight. So the other day,

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<v Speaker 1>Jada Pinkins said that she, back in her day, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>could drink everybody under the table. Okay, so if you

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<v Speaker 1>was drinking with her, you was going to total to

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<v Speaker 1>with her, trust and believe she was drinking your gass

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<v Speaker 1>under the table, like five ft. She is a buck on,

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<v Speaker 1>she's four eleven, she weighs seventy eight pounds. Okay. How

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<v Speaker 1>does she not die from that? I don't know, but

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<v Speaker 1>I want to tell Jada, I want to make an

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<v Speaker 1>announcement right here. Um, Jada, you don't got nothing on

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<v Speaker 1>Robin Dick. Okay, Robin Dixon, trust and believe got you beat. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>But I have like inches on her, I have I

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<v Speaker 1>have meat on her. You know, I'm a hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>sixty pounds. So so I'm impressed you know, if if

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<v Speaker 1>Jada can drink people under the table and still wake

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<v Speaker 1>up the next day, Hey, I'm impressed. Yeah, okay, but

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<v Speaker 1>you're right. So when you saw that, did you think

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<v Speaker 1>of me? I immmediately thought of you. I was like really,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, Jade Baking, you're lying because you haven't

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<v Speaker 1>our match, Robbin Tixon. So that's that is a Red

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<v Speaker 1>Table Talk challenge Jada that we're putting out there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's my Baltimore and I fell a little Baltimore. And

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<v Speaker 1>next time if I ever see you or whatever, we

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<v Speaker 1>are drinking. Okay, we'll be drinking you want. I could

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<v Speaker 1>do that vodka. I got that whiskey. Give it to me. Jesus,

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus lord. I just feel a headache coming on right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I'm micrain. No. I mean I can't

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<v Speaker 1>say though, like as we get older, our bodies mine.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna speak for myself. My body cannot tolerate the

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<v Speaker 1>next day that like anymore. Yes, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hard to recover, and for me, I feel it.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta go to the bathroom. Life Wait, too much information.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not trying to be tom but that's where it

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<v Speaker 1>shows up on me. Anyway, we're gonna move on to

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit more serious topics because a lot kind

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<v Speaker 1>of blew my mind. I think it was last week

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<v Speaker 1>when we saw the chocolate pudding eating man leave jail.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that bill cost And you know, I said to myself,

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<v Speaker 1>my hand was cocked to the side, and I said

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<v Speaker 1>to myself, what the hell is happening right now? Because

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<v Speaker 1>this man admitted it, admitted to sexually violating women. Well, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>apparently he did not admit to that. He admitted to Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>he admitted to drugging them and sexual violations. Yes he did.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, Okay, see this summer, I don't read, I

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<v Speaker 1>read happen. But he admitted that in a civil case.

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<v Speaker 1>He did a deposition in a civil case, and he said,

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<v Speaker 1>the only reason why I will admit this is because

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<v Speaker 1>you cannot use it ever in a criminal case against him.

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<v Speaker 1>So so that's how the technicality came up that he

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<v Speaker 1>got out. Oh wow. So it wasn't like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>he's an innocent man. He was wrongly convicted, right, No,

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<v Speaker 1>he got out on Technic County. Wow. Okay, So yes,

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<v Speaker 1>when I saw that and I did not read, you

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<v Speaker 1>know the wise and how this happened. Um, but I

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<v Speaker 1>did say to myself, damn, he got some good lawyers.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh, let's be clear, if anything ever goes down

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<v Speaker 1>with you and Philly, you better get Bill Cosby's lawyers right,

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<v Speaker 1>because they're gonna get you off. And I wonder are

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<v Speaker 1>they the same ones that he started with or these

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<v Speaker 1>new lawyers, because you don't know, because like does he

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<v Speaker 1>have any money left? Like okay, so like what have

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<v Speaker 1>you gonna get out? And where how's he gonna pay

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<v Speaker 1>these lawyers to help you get out? Listen that that

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<v Speaker 1>that syndication money is long okay, but but no one's

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<v Speaker 1>airing Cosby shore. Yeah oh yeah, that that money has

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<v Speaker 1>dried up. But I just want to say, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, clearly everybody had their thoughts on this,

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<v Speaker 1>and Felicia's shote. You got your ass handed to you.

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<v Speaker 1>You just kept your mouth all the way, all the

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<v Speaker 1>way all the way quiet. But like when sixty women

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<v Speaker 1>come out against you, sixty, it's not six zero, that's

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<v Speaker 1>like not. I just believe in karma and God's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>deal with Bill. Oh gosh, that's what that's my that's

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<v Speaker 1>my thoughts and I'm sticking to it. We Um, did

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<v Speaker 1>you hear what Judge Joe Brown says? Yeah? I did. Oh, now,

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<v Speaker 1>Judge Brown, you don't need to shut the hell up

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<v Speaker 1>to right, Okay. But I mean he was pretty much like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>what the end of seventies? The women, they was groupies

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<v Speaker 1>and they was just giving it up and that they

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<v Speaker 1>knew what they was doing. And and I'm like, this

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<v Speaker 1>is a judge saying this, which kind of was scary

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<v Speaker 1>to me. It was extremely scary. It made me feel like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're letting any man that violates a woman get

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<v Speaker 1>off scott free because because she was a groupie, Because

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<v Speaker 1>she was a groupie and she was there and she

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<v Speaker 1>so just because I do drugs with you does not

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<v Speaker 1>mean you can have sex with me. Those are two

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<v Speaker 1>different things. So Judge Brown, I'm looking at you side

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<v Speaker 1>out too. Is he retired? He needs to retire? He

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<v Speaker 1>is god? But um, yeah that that you know, I mean, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>Bill Cosby, it's one of those things like when O.

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<v Speaker 1>J got out or when he got out from well,

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<v Speaker 1>first all you got off of you know whatever, and

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<v Speaker 1>then he got out from the stealing thing or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>and then it's like, Okay, now what do you do

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<v Speaker 1>with your life? So what does Bill gonna do? Bill

0:12:19.559 --> 0:12:21.599
<v Speaker 1>Cosby is an asshole because he said he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>sue the state of Philadelphia, I mean of Pennsylvania. He

0:12:25.080 --> 0:12:27.120
<v Speaker 1>wants to sue Pennsylvania. Oh wait, no, no, no, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I saw? Did you see this? He said

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<v Speaker 1>he's going on tour. Yeah, he's gonna go on tour

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<v Speaker 1>because who's gonna buy tickets for that show? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>That's number one and number he's delusional and and and

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<v Speaker 1>you want to sue for the days that you were

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<v Speaker 1>in jail because you were wrongfully accused, No, sir, wrongfully convicted.

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<v Speaker 1>But okay, um didn't he claim to be blind when

0:12:46.559 --> 0:12:49.360
<v Speaker 1>he was in ye jail? It was like asking for

0:12:49.559 --> 0:12:52.520
<v Speaker 1>like and now you are you can see twenty twenty.

0:12:52.600 --> 0:12:57.680
<v Speaker 1>Your vision is twenty twenty to the comedy cluse, stop

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<v Speaker 1>it and goodbye. Like with your eighty two year olds,

0:13:00.200 --> 0:13:02.000
<v Speaker 1>you just better go home and eat your chocolate cake.

0:13:02.559 --> 0:13:04.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I do want to say, like, Bill Cozy

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<v Speaker 1>always reminded me of my dad, and so to see

0:13:07.280 --> 0:13:09.559
<v Speaker 1>him go, you know, to see that this is what

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<v Speaker 1>has come about, like it totally like made me very

0:13:14.240 --> 0:13:16.160
<v Speaker 1>upset and so I hate, I hate all of this.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna move on to our black girl magic at

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<v Speaker 1>the Olympics, okay, because we got a lot to unpack here,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. First of all, first and foremost, it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>the Olympics, but I think of her because the Olympics

0:13:32.360 --> 0:13:34.520
<v Speaker 1>is coming up. But we were going to have an

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<v Speaker 1>Olympics without Serena Williams. I know, and um, well, women right,

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<v Speaker 1>because she injured herself very early in Wimbledon. Yes, and

0:13:42.440 --> 0:13:47.240
<v Speaker 1>I was, yeah, very upset. I love to watch Serena play, right,

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<v Speaker 1>watching her walk off the court. I was in tears.

0:13:51.920 --> 0:13:53.559
<v Speaker 1>But she did it bad though. If you want to

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<v Speaker 1>leave and say, you know what, I might retire. She

0:13:56.440 --> 0:13:59.480
<v Speaker 1>had on that shirt that was like a train or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what it was, but it was amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>It was all white, that that thing looked good doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>She looked good. So what is she done? Done? I mean,

0:14:09.280 --> 0:14:12.280
<v Speaker 1>people are speculating that she's done done because she's you know,

0:14:12.920 --> 0:14:17.439
<v Speaker 1>she looks in pain and she's no spring chicken. She's

0:14:17.480 --> 0:14:20.960
<v Speaker 1>no spring chicken. But listen, she has paved the way

0:14:21.040 --> 0:14:23.960
<v Speaker 1>for all of these girls. I know. I tell every

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<v Speaker 1>little blacker, every every little black gir I see, Like

0:14:26.080 --> 0:14:28.320
<v Speaker 1>if I see, you know a family and they have

0:14:28.360 --> 0:14:30.440
<v Speaker 1>a little young baby girl, I said, make sure she

0:14:30.520 --> 0:14:33.200
<v Speaker 1>plays tennis. She plays tennis. Yes, yes, we need a

0:14:33.240 --> 0:14:37.720
<v Speaker 1>whole lot more Venuses and Serena Astely and golf and

0:14:38.120 --> 0:14:41.040
<v Speaker 1>was you know Naomi good? We need a whole lot

0:14:41.120 --> 0:14:42.920
<v Speaker 1>more of them right now. And that's what who I

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk about next, Naomi, because I get it

0:14:47.880 --> 0:14:50.880
<v Speaker 1>like she wants to play tennis, she wants to get

0:14:50.920 --> 0:14:52.920
<v Speaker 1>on that court. She wants to demolish your opponent, and

0:14:53.000 --> 0:14:55.000
<v Speaker 1>she wants to put on her clothes and go the

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<v Speaker 1>hell home. Why do you have the top press? Why

0:14:58.160 --> 0:15:00.520
<v Speaker 1>do y'all have to talk to her? I don't get it. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to look at the flip side. She's making

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<v Speaker 1>a living doing this job. And so if you're playing

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<v Speaker 1>for a tournament that has a media component, and the

0:15:09.760 --> 0:15:13.400
<v Speaker 1>media component actually fuels, you know, the money that they're

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<v Speaker 1>able to make, you know, because they're broadcasting this and

0:15:17.480 --> 0:15:19.440
<v Speaker 1>it brings them attention, and then you have to I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's like it's bigger than just a media interview.

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<v Speaker 1>But shouldn't it be choice? Okay, So imagine if none

0:15:27.080 --> 0:15:31.440
<v Speaker 1>of the athletes gave media interviews. Right, then it's just

0:15:31.560 --> 0:15:34.560
<v Speaker 1>taking away from the sport and then being able to

0:15:34.680 --> 0:15:37.320
<v Speaker 1>promote the sport. So now we're gonna okay, so so

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<v Speaker 1>this should the n b A. I'm sorry, but they

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<v Speaker 1>get fined if they don't do their media interviews the NFL,

0:15:44.280 --> 0:15:46.520
<v Speaker 1>they'll get fine. So you know there's times like, um,

0:15:47.120 --> 0:15:49.800
<v Speaker 1>what's the football player? Um that ate the skittles? Um,

0:15:51.200 --> 0:15:57.360
<v Speaker 1>um talks um what's his name? Dang it? Um Mark

0:15:57.400 --> 0:16:01.400
<v Speaker 1>Shawn Lynch. Right, he literally just like show up to

0:16:01.640 --> 0:16:05.440
<v Speaker 1>like he hated doing interviews, but because it's required of,

0:16:05.760 --> 0:16:08.240
<v Speaker 1>you know, to play in the NFL, Like it's it's

0:16:08.600 --> 0:16:11.600
<v Speaker 1>you're contractually required to do media interviews. Like he would

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<v Speaker 1>literally like answer with one word, what do you say? Skittles?

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<v Speaker 1>What would he say? I'm here so I won't get fine.

0:16:22.160 --> 0:16:24.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm here so I won't get fine. I'm here so

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<v Speaker 1>I won't get fined. I'm here so I won't get fine.

0:16:27.640 --> 0:16:30.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm just here so I won't get fine. Well, why,

0:16:30.960 --> 0:16:33.080
<v Speaker 1>why what does skittles have to do with this? Oh,

0:16:33.120 --> 0:16:36.080
<v Speaker 1>he would eat skittles during the game to give him energy. Okay,

0:16:36.200 --> 0:16:39.240
<v Speaker 1>because skittles have cocaine in it or something. I don't know.

0:16:39.520 --> 0:16:43.440
<v Speaker 1>I mean, what what sounds crazy? Okay, but but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just saying, like I get it, Naomi, Like I understand,

0:16:46.640 --> 0:16:49.160
<v Speaker 1>but you also have to understand, like this is a business.

0:16:49.480 --> 0:16:51.800
<v Speaker 1>So yes, but if it's affecting your mental health, can

0:16:51.880 --> 0:16:53.800
<v Speaker 1>she get a pass? Can we give her a pass?

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<v Speaker 1>But she can she can sit in these Mania media

0:16:56.360 --> 0:16:58.400
<v Speaker 1>interviews and do the same thing that these other people do.

0:16:58.840 --> 0:17:01.400
<v Speaker 1>So she just has to figure out a trick trick trade.

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<v Speaker 1>She just has to get savvy with it. But I

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<v Speaker 1>really think like it's just part of it, is kind

0:17:06.640 --> 0:17:08.959
<v Speaker 1>of part of the job. Like so for me, if

0:17:09.000 --> 0:17:12.440
<v Speaker 1>i'm her, like give me the fine. Fine, but like

0:17:13.119 --> 0:17:16.280
<v Speaker 1>if they want to find her, then okay, she'll she'll

0:17:16.320 --> 0:17:18.159
<v Speaker 1>pay the fine and then she can go play, Like

0:17:18.240 --> 0:17:20.760
<v Speaker 1>as long as she's willing to pay that fine, and

0:17:20.920 --> 0:17:22.760
<v Speaker 1>she should be able to play. But I don't want

0:17:22.800 --> 0:17:26.680
<v Speaker 1>her to not play because they you know that she

0:17:26.800 --> 0:17:29.760
<v Speaker 1>because she has to do media and right right that

0:17:29.880 --> 0:17:32.640
<v Speaker 1>that that's a tricky one. Okay, So let's move let's

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<v Speaker 1>move on to that would be smoking weed. Okay, Sky Richardson,

0:17:40.600 --> 0:17:44.159
<v Speaker 1>you can tell that you don't smoke I don't at all. Okay,

0:17:44.320 --> 0:17:49.560
<v Speaker 1>So people are so torn about the you know, whether

0:17:49.680 --> 0:17:51.879
<v Speaker 1>she should be able to go or not. I mean,

0:17:52.040 --> 0:17:54.280
<v Speaker 1>how do you feel it's another one. It's like, the

0:17:54.400 --> 0:17:58.840
<v Speaker 1>rule is the rule. And yes, as as frivolous as

0:17:58.880 --> 0:18:01.800
<v Speaker 1>it seems, okay, like eat as legal in so many places,

0:18:02.040 --> 0:18:05.320
<v Speaker 1>and you know she whatever the reason, Oh she did

0:18:05.359 --> 0:18:07.960
<v Speaker 1>it because her mom had passed. Like I'm okay, I'm

0:18:08.000 --> 0:18:11.320
<v Speaker 1>sorry this is probably unpopular opinion, but that was not

0:18:11.400 --> 0:18:15.080
<v Speaker 1>the first time she smoked. We like, I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just not But the rule is the rule, and they're

0:18:18.160 --> 0:18:21.240
<v Speaker 1>there for a reason as as wrong as you know,

0:18:21.400 --> 0:18:23.760
<v Speaker 1>as unfair as it is, and as widely you know

0:18:24.520 --> 0:18:27.640
<v Speaker 1>used like marijuana so widely used. Now, it's still part

0:18:27.680 --> 0:18:30.080
<v Speaker 1>of the rules. It's part of the rules. You gotta

0:18:30.119 --> 0:18:32.320
<v Speaker 1>follow the rules. You can't bring the rules for one

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<v Speaker 1>person and not the rest of the Olympic people. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's part of being a discipline athlete, like you choose

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<v Speaker 1>to It's kind of it's hard because like you choose

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<v Speaker 1>to train every day and eat right. Part of that

0:18:44.280 --> 0:18:47.159
<v Speaker 1>is also being disciplined and not breaking the rules. And

0:18:47.440 --> 0:18:51.000
<v Speaker 1>and it's just like where does it stop, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because there's rules in college sports, and you know, and

0:18:54.280 --> 0:18:56.200
<v Speaker 1>if you make an exception for one person, you gotta

0:18:56.240 --> 0:18:58.760
<v Speaker 1>make it for everyone. You do, you do? And I

0:18:59.280 --> 0:19:01.840
<v Speaker 1>feel bad? Who feel bad for her? I do? Yeah,

0:19:01.880 --> 0:19:05.320
<v Speaker 1>I feel horrible. But it's like if you break you know,

0:19:05.359 --> 0:19:07.200
<v Speaker 1>if someone breaks the rule and then they come back

0:19:07.200 --> 0:19:09.320
<v Speaker 1>and say, okay, well we'll give you an exception, then

0:19:09.359 --> 0:19:12.639
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna have all these other people who you know,

0:19:12.800 --> 0:19:14.720
<v Speaker 1>we're subject to this rule and they weren't able to

0:19:14.800 --> 0:19:18.280
<v Speaker 1>participate in the past for whatever reason, whatever sport, whatever event,

0:19:18.560 --> 0:19:19.960
<v Speaker 1>and they're gonna come back and be like, that's not

0:19:20.119 --> 0:19:23.560
<v Speaker 1>their out. I mean, I hate it. The rule sucks,

0:19:24.000 --> 0:19:26.240
<v Speaker 1>but the rules the rule, yes, And I was just

0:19:26.320 --> 0:19:27.920
<v Speaker 1>looking forward to her hair. I mean, I just wanted

0:19:27.920 --> 0:19:29.840
<v Speaker 1>to see what color was gonna be at the Olympics.

0:19:29.920 --> 0:19:31.760
<v Speaker 1>I know, was it gonna be purple? Was it gonna

0:19:31.760 --> 0:19:35.960
<v Speaker 1>be great? I mean I needed to see that she's well.

0:19:36.080 --> 0:19:39.000
<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to see her win. But that's not hopefully,

0:19:39.119 --> 0:19:41.160
<v Speaker 1>you know. And I did see a tweet from another

0:19:41.200 --> 0:19:46.080
<v Speaker 1>Olympian track runner, um, Gabby Gabby Gabby Thomas something something

0:19:46.359 --> 0:19:49.399
<v Speaker 1>excuse me, I apologize, UM, saying like, hopefully this you know,

0:19:49.520 --> 0:19:51.680
<v Speaker 1>people are saying they're going to boycott the Olympics because

0:19:51.680 --> 0:19:55.560
<v Speaker 1>of what's over Shakari, but like there are many other

0:19:56.280 --> 0:19:59.480
<v Speaker 1>young black athletes that are running in the Olympics or

0:19:59.520 --> 0:20:03.480
<v Speaker 1>performing and you know, gymnastics whatever, like that's that's I agree, Like,

0:20:03.760 --> 0:20:06.280
<v Speaker 1>let's not boycott because I'm sorry, she broke a rule,

0:20:06.400 --> 0:20:08.320
<v Speaker 1>she broke a role, and like let's speak clear, Like

0:20:08.320 --> 0:20:11.680
<v Speaker 1>the Olympics, these people are representing the United States of America,

0:20:12.359 --> 0:20:14.960
<v Speaker 1>like black, white, purple. They you know, we're Americans, and

0:20:15.080 --> 0:20:18.879
<v Speaker 1>so we should be out there cheering for Americans, right

0:20:19.040 --> 0:20:21.560
<v Speaker 1>because it's not that the Americans set the rule, it's

0:20:21.640 --> 0:20:24.400
<v Speaker 1>the you know, Olympics as a whole. That's the Olympic committee.

0:20:24.400 --> 0:20:26.639
<v Speaker 1>Like and yeah, the rules are probably archaic and ancient,

0:20:26.680 --> 0:20:28.800
<v Speaker 1>and hopefully they'll revise them at some point, but the

0:20:28.880 --> 0:20:32.000
<v Speaker 1>rule is the rule. Right now, speaking of like athletes,

0:20:32.040 --> 0:20:35.400
<v Speaker 1>because I know you know all about this particular subject,

0:20:35.920 --> 0:20:39.840
<v Speaker 1>they did pass a rule so college athletes can get

0:20:39.880 --> 0:20:43.040
<v Speaker 1>paid now for what is it, Yes, so they're able

0:20:43.119 --> 0:20:45.879
<v Speaker 1>to make money period. So like now it's not that

0:20:46.080 --> 0:20:49.879
<v Speaker 1>like they're going to pay them to play basketball, but

0:20:50.240 --> 0:20:54.640
<v Speaker 1>they have the ability to go get paid for an appearance. Um,

0:20:54.880 --> 0:20:58.119
<v Speaker 1>so if a company, say a restaurant in town is

0:20:58.200 --> 0:21:00.960
<v Speaker 1>opening and they want to pay a college athlete to

0:21:01.040 --> 0:21:03.919
<v Speaker 1>come make an appearance, they can do that, which they

0:21:03.920 --> 0:21:06.560
<v Speaker 1>couldn't do before, which I always thought was insane. It's like,

0:21:06.640 --> 0:21:09.959
<v Speaker 1>how why would you prevent the you know in the schools, Oh,

0:21:10.080 --> 0:21:13.159
<v Speaker 1>y'all can sell jerseys with their numbers, but you know

0:21:13.200 --> 0:21:15.040
<v Speaker 1>they're slick with it because they don't put the names

0:21:15.200 --> 0:21:16.760
<v Speaker 1>on it. So they don't put the last name on

0:21:16.840 --> 0:21:19.000
<v Speaker 1>the jersey. But it's like, for one, Walm was number

0:21:19.040 --> 0:21:22.000
<v Speaker 1>three in Maryland. There were tons of You've seen tons

0:21:22.040 --> 0:21:25.399
<v Speaker 1>and tons and tons of number three jerseys around campus

0:21:25.480 --> 0:21:28.920
<v Speaker 1>in the gym wherever. I got one? Okay, now I don't,

0:21:29.080 --> 0:21:33.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't, I'm line right, but you know, but it

0:21:33.680 --> 0:21:36.040
<v Speaker 1>doesn't say Dixon on it. So it's like, oh, well,

0:21:36.240 --> 0:21:37.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, they're just bought the number three jersey. They

0:21:37.800 --> 0:21:42.160
<v Speaker 1>didn't buy it's Dixon jersey. So it's representing it's it's

0:21:42.200 --> 0:21:45.960
<v Speaker 1>one's likeness, right, it's representing one when he was at

0:21:46.000 --> 0:21:48.399
<v Speaker 1>Maryland and he gets no profit from it, right, So

0:21:48.840 --> 0:21:51.640
<v Speaker 1>now do the kids get money? So so I feel

0:21:51.680 --> 0:21:53.280
<v Speaker 1>like this is one of those it's like where do

0:21:53.359 --> 0:21:55.960
<v Speaker 1>they draw the line? Um, I think it's more and

0:21:56.000 --> 0:21:58.080
<v Speaker 1>I haven't really read a whole lot into it. I

0:21:58.160 --> 0:22:00.080
<v Speaker 1>think it's just more like, Okay, now they have the

0:22:00.160 --> 0:22:03.440
<v Speaker 1>ability to make um money, Like so they can go

0:22:03.600 --> 0:22:06.520
<v Speaker 1>do appearances. They can you know, go do a you know, oh,

0:22:06.680 --> 0:22:08.800
<v Speaker 1>come meet me at the club and making they can

0:22:08.840 --> 0:22:11.640
<v Speaker 1>sign autographs and make money for that. But I think

0:22:11.720 --> 0:22:15.320
<v Speaker 1>when it comes to like the schools, Um, they're probably

0:22:15.359 --> 0:22:18.200
<v Speaker 1>still going to try to like keep as much money

0:22:18.240 --> 0:22:20.240
<v Speaker 1>for themselves, but at least they won't stop them from

0:22:20.840 --> 0:22:23.560
<v Speaker 1>making money on it. Now do you think that's gonna change?

0:22:23.560 --> 0:22:26.040
<v Speaker 1>Because you know, these kids potentially can make a lot

0:22:26.119 --> 0:22:29.560
<v Speaker 1>of money while they're in college, which is great. Um,

0:22:30.280 --> 0:22:32.920
<v Speaker 1>do you think that's potentially gonna change the level of

0:22:33.000 --> 0:22:34.280
<v Speaker 1>money that they get when they make it to the

0:22:34.320 --> 0:22:36.359
<v Speaker 1>pros if they make it to the pros? Oh? No,

0:22:36.880 --> 0:22:38.879
<v Speaker 1>not at all. I mean that's just gonna It's so

0:22:39.119 --> 0:22:41.359
<v Speaker 1>if there's an athlete and he's able to sign a

0:22:41.800 --> 0:22:45.240
<v Speaker 1>you know, a million dollar sneaker contract which in college, um,

0:22:45.480 --> 0:22:47.840
<v Speaker 1>and and you know he makes it to the pros,

0:22:47.920 --> 0:22:50.240
<v Speaker 1>that's only only going to help him elevate the amount

0:22:50.280 --> 0:22:52.639
<v Speaker 1>of money that he can make in so yeah, that

0:22:52.680 --> 0:22:55.239
<v Speaker 1>won't affect them in the pros, but it is I mean,

0:22:55.440 --> 0:22:59.000
<v Speaker 1>it was insane, and it's like, uh, the n C

0:22:59.119 --> 0:23:02.119
<v Speaker 1>double A would try to prevent It's like, how do

0:23:02.240 --> 0:23:04.679
<v Speaker 1>you regulate you know, Okay, most of the big sports,

0:23:04.720 --> 0:23:07.719
<v Speaker 1>what basketball, football, those are the ones that are more

0:23:07.840 --> 0:23:11.960
<v Speaker 1>like the revenue generating sports. And they created these rules

0:23:12.000 --> 0:23:15.440
<v Speaker 1>because it's not fair to the other athletes, um, you know,

0:23:15.600 --> 0:23:18.440
<v Speaker 1>the swimming and the tendons in the soccer and the lacrosse.

0:23:18.720 --> 0:23:21.160
<v Speaker 1>So they would kind of just put out these blanket

0:23:21.280 --> 0:23:23.639
<v Speaker 1>rules because it's like it's not fair to all the

0:23:23.720 --> 0:23:26.440
<v Speaker 1>other athletes. I think they just didn't want kids to

0:23:26.560 --> 0:23:29.480
<v Speaker 1>have that kind of money while they were in school

0:23:29.640 --> 0:23:32.480
<v Speaker 1>and still kind of relatively young, because I mean, let's

0:23:32.520 --> 0:23:35.040
<v Speaker 1>be clear, someone Gonda just while out, well, I mean

0:23:35.119 --> 0:23:38.040
<v Speaker 1>that's true. I think it's more of control. I really do. Yeah,

0:23:38.080 --> 0:23:40.760
<v Speaker 1>it's just more it's more of a control thing, you know.

0:23:40.840 --> 0:23:42.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, if you know, there's like a lot

0:23:42.240 --> 0:23:45.560
<v Speaker 1>of young athletes that are like foregoing college and they're

0:23:45.640 --> 0:23:48.680
<v Speaker 1>doing these like amateur leagues and they're doing and I

0:23:48.800 --> 0:23:51.720
<v Speaker 1>think this will help maybe preserve some of that and

0:23:51.840 --> 0:23:54.240
<v Speaker 1>keep some of the kids, you know, in college, to

0:23:54.320 --> 0:23:55.920
<v Speaker 1>say okay, well now you can make money. Now you

0:23:55.960 --> 0:23:58.560
<v Speaker 1>can go to college. Now you can have the experience. Um,

0:23:58.640 --> 0:24:00.960
<v Speaker 1>now you can develop instead of the kids saying like

0:24:01.200 --> 0:24:03.600
<v Speaker 1>I want to make money. Now now I agree with that.

0:24:03.760 --> 0:24:06.399
<v Speaker 1>So it's a good thing. But one is like, somebody

0:24:06.440 --> 0:24:10.399
<v Speaker 1>owe me a whole bunch of money. What was his reparations?

0:24:12.600 --> 0:24:14.200
<v Speaker 1>That's that's a that's a whole kid. I mean, do

0:24:14.200 --> 0:24:17.040
<v Speaker 1>you know how many people would be like, she I

0:24:17.119 --> 0:24:20.680
<v Speaker 1>need some money, yeah, some money. But speaking of big money,

0:24:21.520 --> 0:24:24.080
<v Speaker 1>big money that we weren't. We didn't even see this coming,

0:24:24.359 --> 0:24:26.399
<v Speaker 1>did you. Did you see the announcement that Shaquille O'Neil

0:24:26.480 --> 0:24:31.480
<v Speaker 1>made that he owns Jesus he owns everything. I mean, okay,

0:24:31.520 --> 0:24:33.679
<v Speaker 1>so tell me more, because that's something like he's an

0:24:33.720 --> 0:24:36.560
<v Speaker 1>angel investor in some of these companies or later like

0:24:37.119 --> 0:24:40.000
<v Speaker 1>so he he was at um I think a black effect.

0:24:40.320 --> 0:24:43.240
<v Speaker 1>He was at something right and um he was talking

0:24:43.359 --> 0:24:46.040
<v Speaker 1>business and entrepreneur nurism and you know, making sure that

0:24:46.200 --> 0:24:49.520
<v Speaker 1>you really put your money in great places. Right, So

0:24:49.800 --> 0:24:53.359
<v Speaker 1>he was like, you know who owns Marylyn wrote, Okay,

0:24:53.600 --> 0:24:56.720
<v Speaker 1>I had to do my Shaquille voice, who owns Maryland

0:24:56.800 --> 0:25:00.960
<v Speaker 1>my rope? And then everybody was like playboy does. And

0:25:01.040 --> 0:25:05.560
<v Speaker 1>then he was like who owns Elvis Presley? Everybody's like huh.

0:25:05.920 --> 0:25:09.359
<v Speaker 1>He was like who owns J. C. Penny? And he

0:25:09.600 --> 0:25:12.240
<v Speaker 1>was like everybody's like who huh. He was like I

0:25:12.400 --> 0:25:17.520
<v Speaker 1>do I own all of it? And everybody's like what

0:25:17.920 --> 0:25:22.280
<v Speaker 1>meaning he's got He's got ownership and all of these

0:25:22.320 --> 0:25:25.000
<v Speaker 1>things that we didn't even think he even knew about.

0:25:25.080 --> 0:25:27.400
<v Speaker 1>How do you have ownership in Maryland my room? Maybe

0:25:27.560 --> 0:25:33.600
<v Speaker 1>her estate or her her pattern or her likeness or whatever.

0:25:33.840 --> 0:25:36.320
<v Speaker 1>The n n f t s have you heard this?

0:25:36.520 --> 0:25:38.200
<v Speaker 1>This whole new thing we need to have like a

0:25:38.560 --> 0:25:40.720
<v Speaker 1>episode on n f t S and Crypto and all

0:25:40.760 --> 0:25:43.200
<v Speaker 1>this type of we're not gonna talk about that because

0:25:43.200 --> 0:25:45.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what that means. But my point is

0:25:45.560 --> 0:25:48.359
<v Speaker 1>Shaquille was looking attractive at that moment, like he looked

0:25:48.400 --> 0:25:51.800
<v Speaker 1>like she killed could get it, Like what she killed? Kill?

0:25:51.880 --> 0:25:54.720
<v Speaker 1>Owns about eighteen companies his money every day I saw

0:25:54.800 --> 0:25:57.920
<v Speaker 1>where he was. Um he invested in ring Ye and

0:25:58.760 --> 0:26:01.119
<v Speaker 1>then it was Pizza Hut. Then Amazon bought it for

0:26:01.200 --> 0:26:05.159
<v Speaker 1>like a trillion dollars. Yes, yes, Quill, you're looking good

0:26:05.240 --> 0:26:06.840
<v Speaker 1>these days, Sir, I just want to put that out.

0:26:06.840 --> 0:26:09.600
<v Speaker 1>The industry smart, very smart, and I think it's great

0:26:09.640 --> 0:26:12.080
<v Speaker 1>if he's sharing his stories. I mean clearly like most

0:26:12.119 --> 0:26:14.800
<v Speaker 1>of us aren't able to own Marilyn my Row. But

0:26:15.080 --> 0:26:17.119
<v Speaker 1>if we, you know, kind of have the foresight to

0:26:17.400 --> 0:26:20.639
<v Speaker 1>to own something, yes, invest their money somewhere. And I

0:26:21.800 --> 0:26:24.879
<v Speaker 1>feel like there's only like a handful I don't know,

0:26:24.920 --> 0:26:26.240
<v Speaker 1>I want to say a handful, but you know, we

0:26:26.480 --> 0:26:30.400
<v Speaker 1>know the athletes that have done well after they left

0:26:30.440 --> 0:26:34.280
<v Speaker 1>the league. With regards to business, we have a Magic Johnson,

0:26:35.000 --> 0:26:38.359
<v Speaker 1>we have Shaquille Obviously, I think le Bronze hare all

0:26:38.520 --> 0:26:41.760
<v Speaker 1>done Bronson job while he's playing to create, yes, different

0:26:41.800 --> 0:26:44.000
<v Speaker 1>streams of income. Yes, And and for these guys to

0:26:44.119 --> 0:26:46.959
<v Speaker 1>really talk about it and really share, like you need

0:26:47.000 --> 0:26:49.000
<v Speaker 1>to make sure that you are investing in other things

0:26:49.080 --> 0:26:51.359
<v Speaker 1>that you don't know anything about, right, It ain't It

0:26:51.359 --> 0:26:53.879
<v Speaker 1>ain't just sports. For them is making sure that they

0:26:54.000 --> 0:26:58.879
<v Speaker 1>touch other avenues so that you know, everybody sitting out everybody.

0:26:58.960 --> 0:27:00.480
<v Speaker 1>Remember Jamal used to Alway to say, you know, you

0:27:00.560 --> 0:27:02.320
<v Speaker 1>need to have like four or five streams from InCom

0:27:02.480 --> 0:27:05.600
<v Speaker 1>coming in and that's how you build wealth. One other

0:27:05.600 --> 0:27:07.800
<v Speaker 1>thing I want to ask you because like I've been

0:27:07.840 --> 0:27:10.160
<v Speaker 1>binging something on TV and I just want to share.

0:27:10.600 --> 0:27:14.880
<v Speaker 1>Have you been been I've been something the other day. Okay, okay, okay,

0:27:15.400 --> 0:27:17.840
<v Speaker 1>never me tell me. Okay. So my sister, you know,

0:27:17.920 --> 0:27:20.720
<v Speaker 1>my sister was really into documentaries and she really likes, like,

0:27:21.000 --> 0:27:24.359
<v Speaker 1>you know, a full, like exact story about something. So

0:27:24.480 --> 0:27:27.600
<v Speaker 1>she was like, oh my gosh, I watch Narco Wars

0:27:28.400 --> 0:27:34.520
<v Speaker 1>on National Geographic. Okay, yeah, yeah. So they're now in

0:27:34.600 --> 0:27:39.240
<v Speaker 1>a season two and it really dives into the nonsense

0:27:40.160 --> 0:27:47.080
<v Speaker 1>of the drug cartels. Pablo Escobar, Um, what's the boy?

0:27:47.440 --> 0:27:50.080
<v Speaker 1>What's the other one? There's Pablo and then there's the one,

0:27:50.119 --> 0:27:52.000
<v Speaker 1>a little short one that went to jail and he

0:27:53.160 --> 0:27:57.000
<v Speaker 1>um Chopo. So so we got basketball, we got Choppo,

0:27:57.480 --> 0:28:01.040
<v Speaker 1>we have the Now we're into the the Italians, Celia Mafia.

0:28:01.560 --> 0:28:04.919
<v Speaker 1>I mean it's okay, long story short for me at

0:28:05.000 --> 0:28:07.080
<v Speaker 1>this point because this is a real straight up documentary.

0:28:07.119 --> 0:28:09.440
<v Speaker 1>So I'm able to be the wrong business. No, I'm

0:28:09.480 --> 0:28:12.440
<v Speaker 1>not in the wrong business. I want it legalized. I

0:28:12.520 --> 0:28:14.800
<v Speaker 1>just want drugs. And I know people don't feel this way,

0:28:15.200 --> 0:28:17.920
<v Speaker 1>but like so many people have died and the wrong

0:28:18.040 --> 0:28:21.040
<v Speaker 1>people are getting rich the minute they legalized drugs. I'm

0:28:21.080 --> 0:28:24.720
<v Speaker 1>opening up a store because is gonna be rich. Okay,

0:28:25.000 --> 0:28:28.560
<v Speaker 1>rich rich, I'm gonna be a rich bitch like it.

0:28:28.960 --> 0:28:31.960
<v Speaker 1>It's absurd the amount of money that's being made and

0:28:32.440 --> 0:28:35.560
<v Speaker 1>the amount of people that are dying. All that's insane,

0:28:35.640 --> 0:28:38.320
<v Speaker 1>and it's like they're so heartless and useless. It's like

0:28:38.480 --> 0:28:42.080
<v Speaker 1>it's nothing just for them to kill people for no reason.

0:28:42.360 --> 0:28:45.560
<v Speaker 1>I love watching shows like that. So Narco wars on

0:28:45.720 --> 0:28:49.360
<v Speaker 1>National Geographics check it out. Okay, So for me on

0:28:49.640 --> 0:28:52.520
<v Speaker 1>the like, this is like a totally different topic. I

0:28:52.760 --> 0:28:56.920
<v Speaker 1>watched I binged four episodes of UM the Encore, which

0:28:57.000 --> 0:29:01.080
<v Speaker 1>is on b ET produced by Carlos King, which former yes,

0:29:01.240 --> 0:29:05.000
<v Speaker 1>the former Real Housewives of Atlanta ep UM, and I

0:29:05.280 --> 0:29:09.040
<v Speaker 1>must say I was thoroughly entertained. Yes, yes, yes, So

0:29:09.080 --> 0:29:11.600
<v Speaker 1>if you're not watching Encore, you need to. So so Encore,

0:29:12.440 --> 0:29:16.040
<v Speaker 1>they pretty much pulled together nine former female R and

0:29:16.120 --> 0:29:19.880
<v Speaker 1>B singers put them in a house with the intentions

0:29:19.960 --> 0:29:24.200
<v Speaker 1>of making a like a mega girl group. Okay, okay,

0:29:24.280 --> 0:29:29.200
<v Speaker 1>so first of all, that is a recipe for disaster,

0:29:29.520 --> 0:29:33.000
<v Speaker 1>and Carlos knew that nine we're making a singing group

0:29:33.040 --> 0:29:36.320
<v Speaker 1>with nine people. Yeah, there is no nine singing groups

0:29:36.320 --> 0:29:40.560
<v Speaker 1>singing people? How does that work? Nine people? First of all,

0:29:40.840 --> 0:29:45.000
<v Speaker 1>how many girl groups are there today? Zero? Zero? Right,

0:29:45.320 --> 0:29:49.200
<v Speaker 1>because girl groups cannot function. They can't get it together,

0:29:49.680 --> 0:29:51.719
<v Speaker 1>they can't agree, they can't you know, you got one,

0:29:51.760 --> 0:29:54.400
<v Speaker 1>this insecure, you got one this you know thinks she's

0:29:54.480 --> 0:29:56.320
<v Speaker 1>the ship you got like, I mean, it's just like

0:29:56.440 --> 0:29:58.960
<v Speaker 1>it's insane. So there are no girl groups to this day,

0:29:59.040 --> 0:30:01.480
<v Speaker 1>but well, you know, any more because they don't work.

0:30:02.200 --> 0:30:04.640
<v Speaker 1>But these are kind of my takeaway. So one takeaway

0:30:04.680 --> 0:30:06.880
<v Speaker 1>I have is like and I'm watching you know, Okay,

0:30:06.920 --> 0:30:11.720
<v Speaker 1>So like there's um Kilee from three l W. There's

0:30:12.240 --> 0:30:16.040
<v Speaker 1>two former two people from seven oh two. There are

0:30:16.080 --> 0:30:20.080
<v Speaker 1>these twins from Cherish. Do you know them? I've never

0:30:20.200 --> 0:30:23.920
<v Speaker 1>even heard of a Cherish? What's a Cherish? Cherish? Their twins? Um?

0:30:24.080 --> 0:30:27.640
<v Speaker 1>You have Shamari from Black Black Black? Is it black

0:30:27.720 --> 0:30:36.560
<v Speaker 1>black black black black? Okay? Um? Oh? Pam from Total

0:30:37.360 --> 0:30:42.400
<v Speaker 1>who is like remember Total? Okay? Yeah, I remember Total pay.

0:30:42.440 --> 0:30:45.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't remember a Pam. Pam short hair, the short hair, Okay,

0:30:45.680 --> 0:30:49.360
<v Speaker 1>her name is Pam? Okay, okay, Pam? Anybody found God?

0:30:49.440 --> 0:30:51.240
<v Speaker 1>Like so she went through like you know, drinking and

0:30:51.360 --> 0:30:54.560
<v Speaker 1>drugs and she found God, she's now she preaching. Yes, Okay,

0:30:54.680 --> 0:30:57.720
<v Speaker 1>so do we have any from escape we know? Okay,

0:30:57.760 --> 0:30:59.720
<v Speaker 1>so we don't have Candy Burrs in the house. Okay,

0:31:00.640 --> 0:31:04.800
<v Speaker 1>Toy Tucker is a co producer. Had Candy had something

0:31:04.840 --> 0:31:07.200
<v Speaker 1>to do with because they're just rich bitches? Okay, so

0:31:07.320 --> 0:31:10.280
<v Speaker 1>they knew exactly exactly. Okay, who else whom? I missing?

0:31:10.800 --> 0:31:13.480
<v Speaker 1>Aubrey from Dannity King, Okay, I like, I like her? Yeah,

0:31:14.080 --> 0:31:16.240
<v Speaker 1>Alreka sang, yeah, she looked a little different now what

0:31:16.320 --> 0:31:20.160
<v Speaker 1>she cot saying. So anyway, so they have them like,

0:31:20.600 --> 0:31:24.360
<v Speaker 1>you know, singing and dancing and stuff. And as I

0:31:24.480 --> 0:31:27.400
<v Speaker 1>watched it, I'm like, okay, Robin, you could have been

0:31:27.440 --> 0:31:33.120
<v Speaker 1>in a girl group. Okay maybe that maybe that's our

0:31:33.200 --> 0:31:35.680
<v Speaker 1>next job, rob, but we're gonna stop our group. What

0:31:35.920 --> 0:31:38.280
<v Speaker 1>because they can't sing? Dance? I mean I could have

0:31:38.360 --> 0:31:41.320
<v Speaker 1>done and they was done. I was so mad. I

0:31:41.480 --> 0:31:45.840
<v Speaker 1>was like, you know what, when you were breaking eight sticks,

0:31:45.880 --> 0:31:48.240
<v Speaker 1>you should have been in a girl group because I

0:31:48.360 --> 0:31:51.520
<v Speaker 1>could have survived. I didn't know that. I always thought

0:31:51.560 --> 0:31:54.400
<v Speaker 1>I couldn't sing. I want to know I couldn't dance.

0:31:54.800 --> 0:31:57.120
<v Speaker 1>I could have been in a girl group, Carlos, you

0:31:57.240 --> 0:31:59.160
<v Speaker 1>here that you better be robbing in the next episode.

0:31:59.560 --> 0:32:04.160
<v Speaker 1>So when you want to make encore of Old Washed Up,

0:32:04.480 --> 0:32:08.720
<v Speaker 1>could have been leave. I don't know if that's a show,

0:32:08.920 --> 0:32:11.360
<v Speaker 1>but okay, I'm here for it. I am here for

0:32:11.480 --> 0:32:15.320
<v Speaker 1>it Girl Group. Okay, I'm just telling you. That's my

0:32:15.560 --> 0:32:20.560
<v Speaker 1>Reasonably Shady moments. No, that was all shady shady to

0:32:20.640 --> 0:32:22.720
<v Speaker 1>the encore. Okay, for the record, if ya didn't catch

0:32:22.760 --> 0:32:24.960
<v Speaker 1>that shade, that was a robbin shade. But please, if

0:32:25.000 --> 0:32:27.600
<v Speaker 1>you want to be entertained, and I'm talking about Chuckle

0:32:28.080 --> 0:32:31.320
<v Speaker 1>Lean and I mean, it's it's just you have women

0:32:31.360 --> 0:32:35.600
<v Speaker 1>who are former Girl Group members who are like older

0:32:35.680 --> 0:32:38.880
<v Speaker 1>their moms, they're married, they're setting their ways, their days

0:32:38.920 --> 0:32:43.880
<v Speaker 1>are past, and just seeing them interact and yes, okay,

0:32:43.960 --> 0:32:46.440
<v Speaker 1>so I would definitely, I would definitely check that out.

0:32:52.520 --> 0:32:55.840
<v Speaker 1>We love y'all and we always want to answer the

0:32:56.000 --> 0:32:59.080
<v Speaker 1>questions that y'all asked, So, to be quite honest, this

0:32:59.240 --> 0:33:03.560
<v Speaker 1>episode is called you Ask and we answer. Okay, that's

0:33:03.600 --> 0:33:08.280
<v Speaker 1>what's going down today. We put out there on our email,

0:33:08.760 --> 0:33:12.200
<v Speaker 1>which is what's up at reasonably Shady dot com. We

0:33:12.280 --> 0:33:14.440
<v Speaker 1>put it out there. You guys ask questions and we

0:33:14.520 --> 0:33:15.920
<v Speaker 1>will answer them. So we have a couple that we're

0:33:15.920 --> 0:33:19.320
<v Speaker 1>gonna answer and we're even going to say where they

0:33:19.360 --> 0:33:22.120
<v Speaker 1>came from. Right, Okay, So what's the first one? The

0:33:22.480 --> 0:33:26.320
<v Speaker 1>first one that we got here? Um? Yes, and and

0:33:26.680 --> 0:33:30.120
<v Speaker 1>please everyone keep your questions coming, comments all that. We're

0:33:30.120 --> 0:33:32.719
<v Speaker 1>gonna definitely try to address as many of them as

0:33:32.800 --> 0:33:35.680
<v Speaker 1>we can. And we don't mind if they're shady, because

0:33:35.760 --> 0:33:37.560
<v Speaker 1>we know y'all know how to be shady out here

0:33:37.600 --> 0:33:41.960
<v Speaker 1>in these streets for sure. But we want to give advice, yes,

0:33:42.640 --> 0:33:46.800
<v Speaker 1>we want you know, just your feedback, comments, all of

0:33:46.840 --> 0:33:51.200
<v Speaker 1>that good stuff. Okay, So I'm gonna read the first one, okay,

0:33:51.280 --> 0:33:54.840
<v Speaker 1>and this is from Kelly Jarbo. Hi, Kelly, how you

0:33:54.920 --> 0:33:58.560
<v Speaker 1>doing it? She says, Hi there, I'm really enjoying your

0:33:58.640 --> 0:34:02.280
<v Speaker 1>podcast because any chance to have more Robin and Giselle

0:34:02.440 --> 0:34:06.200
<v Speaker 1>is good with me. Smiley face, Thank you, Kelly. At

0:34:06.240 --> 0:34:08.960
<v Speaker 1>the end of May, before picking up my son at

0:34:09.120 --> 0:34:13.600
<v Speaker 1>the University of Maryland, Go, I stopped in Ikea for

0:34:13.719 --> 0:34:17.840
<v Speaker 1>a quick Ikea fix. While there, I was convinced for

0:34:18.000 --> 0:34:23.640
<v Speaker 1>a minute that I saw Corey and Carter. Was that wrong? Bummer?

0:34:23.960 --> 0:34:27.400
<v Speaker 1>She says, Bummer, I was so ready to see rob

0:34:27.440 --> 0:34:29.600
<v Speaker 1>and come around the corner. Did y'all ever shop it

0:34:29.800 --> 0:34:32.640
<v Speaker 1>at the college park Ikea? Is there any hope that

0:34:32.880 --> 0:34:36.160
<v Speaker 1>maybe someday, just maybe, fingers crossed, I would run into

0:34:36.200 --> 0:34:38.959
<v Speaker 1>y'all there. Keep up the great work, ladies. I can't

0:34:39.000 --> 0:34:43.000
<v Speaker 1>wait for the new season. You're devoted fan in southern Maryland. Kelly, Kelly,

0:34:43.080 --> 0:34:44.239
<v Speaker 1>we love you. I just want to say that for

0:34:44.280 --> 0:34:46.600
<v Speaker 1>the record, we love you. That's number one. Number two. No,

0:34:46.800 --> 0:34:48.319
<v Speaker 1>that was not Coorey and Carter. That was some other

0:34:48.400 --> 0:34:52.000
<v Speaker 1>light skinned black kids. And um, I haven't been into

0:34:52.239 --> 0:34:55.680
<v Speaker 1>I know exactly what story the ikea that you're talking about,

0:34:55.680 --> 0:34:58.560
<v Speaker 1>and I haven't been in there in twenty five years. No, right, so, yes,

0:34:58.640 --> 0:35:00.960
<v Speaker 1>that was not a Korean Carter. Um, you probably will

0:35:01.000 --> 0:35:03.960
<v Speaker 1>not find me in that Ikia. I've been there in

0:35:04.000 --> 0:35:07.320
<v Speaker 1>the parking lot to like do handoffs of kids, like

0:35:07.560 --> 0:35:09.479
<v Speaker 1>you know when you kind of meet people and say, okay,

0:35:09.560 --> 0:35:13.000
<v Speaker 1>drop my kid off the parking lot of Ikia and

0:35:13.360 --> 0:35:15.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm dropping my kid off and stuff like that. Um,

0:35:16.120 --> 0:35:20.719
<v Speaker 1>if Kelly, if you want to run into me um

0:35:21.239 --> 0:35:23.920
<v Speaker 1>in the in the you know, college in the area,

0:35:24.800 --> 0:35:27.560
<v Speaker 1>you might want to go to a basketball gym. Oh. Yes, yes,

0:35:27.719 --> 0:35:29.799
<v Speaker 1>Robin is there. She's in there. That's where I am.

0:35:30.040 --> 0:35:33.040
<v Speaker 1>Otherwise I'm door Dash and I'm instat cart and I'm

0:35:33.120 --> 0:35:39.360
<v Speaker 1>ordering everything online. Right, I'm right, I'm not leaving my house. Yes, yes, indeed. Okay, alright,

0:35:39.400 --> 0:35:42.680
<v Speaker 1>So we have another one from Elizabeth Whistler. Alright, I'm

0:35:42.680 --> 0:35:44.960
<v Speaker 1>gonna rate this one how girls love the podcast. My

0:35:45.040 --> 0:35:48.480
<v Speaker 1>question is for Giselle. On the girlfriend episode, Gaselle was

0:35:48.520 --> 0:35:52.399
<v Speaker 1>saying how she's out once someone gets deep. What does

0:35:52.480 --> 0:35:56.520
<v Speaker 1>that mean? Like, if you're just meeting someone and are

0:35:56.600 --> 0:35:59.120
<v Speaker 1>not much more than an acquaintance, you don't want to

0:35:59.160 --> 0:36:02.640
<v Speaker 1>get deep or ever for anyone. It made me feel

0:36:02.640 --> 0:36:04.520
<v Speaker 1>a little bit sad when she said that, because some

0:36:04.600 --> 0:36:07.560
<v Speaker 1>of my girls know my deepest thoughts, and I know

0:36:07.719 --> 0:36:11.840
<v Speaker 1>there's I treasure those relationships. The light, fun and shady

0:36:11.920 --> 0:36:14.720
<v Speaker 1>moments have their place as well. I guess I wondered

0:36:14.719 --> 0:36:18.640
<v Speaker 1>if Giselle ever lets anyone in You know what, Elizabeth,

0:36:18.680 --> 0:36:22.800
<v Speaker 1>that's a really great question, Elizabeth Whistler. You all in

0:36:22.880 --> 0:36:25.399
<v Speaker 1>my business, honey, And let me just say this, most

0:36:25.440 --> 0:36:27.200
<v Speaker 1>of my girlfriends I've had for a very long time,

0:36:27.719 --> 0:36:29.719
<v Speaker 1>and so when I do have something deep to talk

0:36:29.719 --> 0:36:32.680
<v Speaker 1>about which is not very often like every other year

0:36:33.040 --> 0:36:37.080
<v Speaker 1>on a Tuesday at four o'clock. Um. I have people

0:36:37.120 --> 0:36:39.160
<v Speaker 1>that I can do that with, but it's just not

0:36:39.640 --> 0:36:41.320
<v Speaker 1>what I like to do on a regular basis, to

0:36:41.360 --> 0:36:43.600
<v Speaker 1>have deep conversations. Like who wants to do that? Right?

0:36:43.719 --> 0:36:46.040
<v Speaker 1>I mean I think it's like you definitely don't want

0:36:46.040 --> 0:36:48.360
<v Speaker 1>to have deep conversations with people you just met. But

0:36:48.520 --> 0:36:52.080
<v Speaker 1>I also think your way of having a deep conversation

0:36:52.239 --> 0:36:55.120
<v Speaker 1>does not sound like a deep conversation. True, that is

0:36:55.200 --> 0:36:57.040
<v Speaker 1>very true. Robin knows me well, you know what I mean.

0:36:57.120 --> 0:37:02.680
<v Speaker 1>It's like it comes with like a lighthearted humors, um,

0:37:02.719 --> 0:37:07.440
<v Speaker 1>but it could be a serious topic. But um, justlle

0:37:07.600 --> 0:37:12.560
<v Speaker 1>Justelle has has um, I have deep moments, deep moments,

0:37:12.960 --> 0:37:16.120
<v Speaker 1>And yeah, I would say, yeah, she can be deep,

0:37:16.200 --> 0:37:19.359
<v Speaker 1>but she doesn't like to like make it feel deep, right,

0:37:19.400 --> 0:37:22.160
<v Speaker 1>And I don't want to sit around and just start

0:37:22.280 --> 0:37:24.600
<v Speaker 1>crying and oh my gosh, and we gotta braid each

0:37:24.600 --> 0:37:27.520
<v Speaker 1>other's hair and hug and all of that. No, I don't.

0:37:27.600 --> 0:37:29.360
<v Speaker 1>I just's just not me. That's just not me, and

0:37:29.640 --> 0:37:31.480
<v Speaker 1>it's really not Robbin either, So let's just be clear

0:37:31.520 --> 0:37:34.560
<v Speaker 1>on that. But I don't want you Elizabeth to feel

0:37:34.600 --> 0:37:37.319
<v Speaker 1>sorry for me, because when I want to say something deep,

0:37:38.239 --> 0:37:42.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm probably not gonna say it. I'm just it's just

0:37:42.280 --> 0:37:44.520
<v Speaker 1>not what I do. But thank you Elizabeth for for

0:37:44.680 --> 0:37:47.200
<v Speaker 1>being concerned. Okay, So, but I think some people in

0:37:47.320 --> 0:37:50.120
<v Speaker 1>general are just a little more emotional, a little more introspective.

0:37:50.520 --> 0:37:54.200
<v Speaker 1>Like you know, everyone kind of like copes differently, and

0:37:55.040 --> 0:37:57.120
<v Speaker 1>you just don't. You don't really like hold onto things.

0:37:57.400 --> 0:37:59.600
<v Speaker 1>I think, yeah, I think you easily let stuff go

0:37:59.760 --> 0:38:01.479
<v Speaker 1>and you move on to the next where some people

0:38:01.840 --> 0:38:04.319
<v Speaker 1>hold on the stuff and then yes, and if they

0:38:04.440 --> 0:38:08.319
<v Speaker 1>just it's internal. No. Um, I want to read. Okay,

0:38:08.360 --> 0:38:10.440
<v Speaker 1>so this is not a question that was sent to

0:38:10.640 --> 0:38:15.719
<v Speaker 1>our email. But UM, I read some reviews on Apple podcasts,

0:38:15.880 --> 0:38:18.839
<v Speaker 1>and thank you everyone for taking the time to leave

0:38:18.880 --> 0:38:21.200
<v Speaker 1>a review. If you're if you're listening, please you know,

0:38:21.440 --> 0:38:24.399
<v Speaker 1>leave one. Um and rate us, give us a rating.

0:38:24.480 --> 0:38:26.640
<v Speaker 1>We're doing really really well. I'm so excited. So for

0:38:26.719 --> 0:38:30.239
<v Speaker 1>the most part, everyone has like really great things to say. Um.

0:38:30.480 --> 0:38:33.120
<v Speaker 1>This one I thought was so interesting it kind of

0:38:33.160 --> 0:38:34.719
<v Speaker 1>made me smile. Well I didn't make me smile, So

0:38:34.960 --> 0:38:36.840
<v Speaker 1>I just want to read this one. So this is

0:38:36.920 --> 0:38:40.400
<v Speaker 1>from jay Lemonade nineteen. She said, these two ladies, despite

0:38:40.440 --> 0:38:43.120
<v Speaker 1>one of them being my sore roar slash a k A.

0:38:43.320 --> 0:38:47.480
<v Speaker 1>So he's talking about to Zoe display contradicting and hypocritical

0:38:47.640 --> 0:38:51.480
<v Speaker 1>views on the rho P, especially within the last season.

0:38:52.280 --> 0:38:55.879
<v Speaker 1>What's your Name? J Lemonade nineteen Jay Lemonade, I'm coming

0:38:55.920 --> 0:38:59.879
<v Speaker 1>for you. Okay, keep reading, um, she said, I grew

0:39:00.000 --> 0:39:03.320
<v Speaker 1>from really liking them to feeling like they are not authentic,

0:39:04.040 --> 0:39:05.759
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, oh gosh, where is this going?

0:39:06.280 --> 0:39:08.800
<v Speaker 1>But then they got better? Okay, so she said, But honestly,

0:39:08.840 --> 0:39:11.160
<v Speaker 1>that perspective is skewed because editing is crazy and I

0:39:11.239 --> 0:39:14.600
<v Speaker 1>really don't know these women personally. However, being a black

0:39:14.640 --> 0:39:17.239
<v Speaker 1>woman who was in the podcast game and have a

0:39:17.320 --> 0:39:20.719
<v Speaker 1>background in higher education and the communication field, I was

0:39:20.800 --> 0:39:23.040
<v Speaker 1>eager to listen to their podcast to see what it

0:39:23.160 --> 0:39:26.239
<v Speaker 1>was about. Well, Jay Lemonade, I'm so thankful that you listen,

0:39:26.360 --> 0:39:29.120
<v Speaker 1>because she says, she goes and say, and I am

0:39:29.280 --> 0:39:32.360
<v Speaker 1>so pleased to say that they are showing and giving

0:39:32.520 --> 0:39:36.160
<v Speaker 1>us more of their personality. It's like I can listen

0:39:36.200 --> 0:39:39.239
<v Speaker 1>to their podcast and actually get a better perspective of

0:39:39.360 --> 0:39:43.040
<v Speaker 1>who they are, and I can maturely separate their podcast

0:39:43.120 --> 0:39:47.840
<v Speaker 1>selves from their reality personality. Great job, ladies. Okay, Jay Lemonade,

0:39:47.880 --> 0:39:52.920
<v Speaker 1>you redeemed just like that was honestly for people who

0:39:53.600 --> 0:39:56.000
<v Speaker 1>have those feelings about us just from watching a show

0:39:56.120 --> 0:39:59.080
<v Speaker 1>like I. I am happy to know that that is

0:39:59.160 --> 0:40:01.640
<v Speaker 1>what you're getting to the podcast from us, because we

0:40:01.760 --> 0:40:04.360
<v Speaker 1>want y'all to learn more about us. So thank you

0:40:04.960 --> 0:40:07.840
<v Speaker 1>for everyone who gave us a chance. I like that.

0:40:08.320 --> 0:40:11.040
<v Speaker 1>I like that at first. All right, yeah, and you

0:40:11.120 --> 0:40:14.680
<v Speaker 1>know we're were we are normal and very nice if

0:40:14.719 --> 0:40:17.560
<v Speaker 1>we like you the end. Okay, so we're we're This

0:40:17.600 --> 0:40:23.959
<v Speaker 1>is our last one. This is from Tierra. Okay, she says, Hi, ladies. First,

0:40:24.040 --> 0:40:26.040
<v Speaker 1>let me let me say how much she should be

0:40:26.120 --> 0:40:29.680
<v Speaker 1>saying people's names sometimes. Wow, let's just say the first name,

0:40:30.080 --> 0:40:34.520
<v Speaker 1>just because what if the person she's talking about listens

0:40:34.560 --> 0:40:36.960
<v Speaker 1>to and she might know what. Oh okay, she's talking

0:40:36.960 --> 0:40:39.720
<v Speaker 1>about somebody. Oh okay, that's right, that's right. Okay, Okay,

0:40:40.120 --> 0:40:44.480
<v Speaker 1>it's not her name is not Tara, it's something else. Okay, Okay,

0:40:44.640 --> 0:40:47.279
<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hi, ladies. First, let you say how

0:40:47.360 --> 0:40:50.680
<v Speaker 1>much I love y'all. And now my shady as a

0:40:50.760 --> 0:40:53.279
<v Speaker 1>moment side, I already love you because you have a

0:40:53.320 --> 0:40:56.279
<v Speaker 1>shady moment. Okay, I know. I'm known for throwing a

0:40:56.440 --> 0:40:58.920
<v Speaker 1>nice party or cook out. The food is good, the

0:40:59.040 --> 0:41:02.120
<v Speaker 1>music is right in the rings flow. For the fourth

0:41:02.480 --> 0:41:05.200
<v Speaker 1>m For the fourth me and my husband decided to

0:41:05.280 --> 0:41:09.040
<v Speaker 1>host a barbecue. Not tons of people, just some friends

0:41:09.320 --> 0:41:11.480
<v Speaker 1>and their kids over to swim and eat. She got

0:41:11.600 --> 0:41:16.400
<v Speaker 1>a pool too. Okay, Okay, Well, this chick I know,

0:41:17.200 --> 0:41:19.840
<v Speaker 1>but don't really talk to like that said she was coming,

0:41:20.760 --> 0:41:25.520
<v Speaker 1>said not asked. What she didn't say was what can

0:41:25.560 --> 0:41:28.760
<v Speaker 1>I bring? She's been known to show up empty handed

0:41:28.800 --> 0:41:34.040
<v Speaker 1>and just unhinge her jaw and inhale. I don't know

0:41:34.120 --> 0:41:36.480
<v Speaker 1>what that means, but it's getting good, y'all eating? Okay,

0:41:36.680 --> 0:41:39.640
<v Speaker 1>I got eating good. Hell, she showed up to my

0:41:39.719 --> 0:41:42.840
<v Speaker 1>birthday party without so much as even a card, just

0:41:43.000 --> 0:41:46.600
<v Speaker 1>sat there quietly and ate crabs, belched and left. Now,

0:41:46.719 --> 0:41:51.680
<v Speaker 1>this is funny, not okay. Most of the time when

0:41:51.760 --> 0:41:55.960
<v Speaker 1>someone asked me what that means. Most of the time,

0:41:56.040 --> 0:41:59.200
<v Speaker 1>when someone asked what they can bring, I tell them nothing.

0:41:59.640 --> 0:42:03.759
<v Speaker 1>But she never asked. I'm really tired of her and

0:42:03.880 --> 0:42:06.839
<v Speaker 1>her bad manners. She never invites me anywhere, but it's

0:42:06.880 --> 0:42:09.680
<v Speaker 1>quick to pop up at my parties and such empty handed.

0:42:10.040 --> 0:42:12.840
<v Speaker 1>I want her to go away. I'm about I'm about

0:42:12.920 --> 0:42:16.040
<v Speaker 1>ready to block her on all social media and block

0:42:16.080 --> 0:42:18.759
<v Speaker 1>her number. But before I do, I wanted to see

0:42:18.800 --> 0:42:22.359
<v Speaker 1>if y'all had a better solution. Luckily she didn't show

0:42:22.440 --> 0:42:24.120
<v Speaker 1>up on the fourth, but I know the opportunity for

0:42:24.200 --> 0:42:28.560
<v Speaker 1>her to party crash bringing nothing, but her appetite was

0:42:29.280 --> 0:42:33.839
<v Speaker 1>present itself. Again thanks, and then she gives her name,

0:42:33.880 --> 0:42:37.800
<v Speaker 1>which we won't say, but it's Tierira. Okay, So I

0:42:37.920 --> 0:42:39.960
<v Speaker 1>don't really know what the question is here. So the

0:42:40.120 --> 0:42:42.239
<v Speaker 1>question is how do you deal with a friend that

0:42:42.360 --> 0:42:45.080
<v Speaker 1>pretty much is a moocher? Like that guy is always

0:42:45.120 --> 0:42:47.759
<v Speaker 1>coming to your stuff empty handed? Well, first of all,

0:42:47.760 --> 0:42:50.840
<v Speaker 1>it sounded like she invited herself. So you invite yourself

0:42:50.880 --> 0:42:53.520
<v Speaker 1>and you come handed, Yes, and you eat all the food,

0:42:53.680 --> 0:42:57.080
<v Speaker 1>right and yes? And then you and then she doesn't

0:42:57.120 --> 0:42:59.600
<v Speaker 1>invite her to anything? Yes, So but does she have

0:42:59.640 --> 0:43:02.839
<v Speaker 1>anything to invite you to? That's number one? Probably not right?

0:43:03.520 --> 0:43:06.920
<v Speaker 1>Number two? Okay, So I feel like I'm I need

0:43:07.000 --> 0:43:11.239
<v Speaker 1>to do better at this. I'm really bad because I

0:43:11.320 --> 0:43:13.960
<v Speaker 1>think she's talking about me. I show up empty handed

0:43:14.000 --> 0:43:16.040
<v Speaker 1>because it is like so much for me just to

0:43:16.080 --> 0:43:18.880
<v Speaker 1>get out the house that like I'm like, oh my gosh,

0:43:19.800 --> 0:43:21.959
<v Speaker 1>I gotta find something like for me to like stop

0:43:22.040 --> 0:43:24.880
<v Speaker 1>somewhere and bring something. It's too much, so I'm like

0:43:25.520 --> 0:43:32.279
<v Speaker 1>my presence. Okay that after that, but you have Okay,

0:43:32.320 --> 0:43:33.920
<v Speaker 1>but you're eating the food because we eat, we like

0:43:34.080 --> 0:43:36.960
<v Speaker 1>to eat. And then okay, but are you ever inviting

0:43:37.000 --> 0:43:41.360
<v Speaker 1>people to anything you do? Yeah? Okay, okay, but all right,

0:43:41.440 --> 0:43:44.640
<v Speaker 1>let's let's say in tears because it sounds like, okay,

0:43:44.840 --> 0:43:47.640
<v Speaker 1>I feel like you don't really like the girl period,

0:43:48.120 --> 0:43:49.879
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, Like if you liked her

0:43:50.000 --> 0:43:53.640
<v Speaker 1>and she showed him empty handed, you wouldn't really notice, correct,

0:43:53.719 --> 0:43:55.719
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? If it was one of

0:43:55.800 --> 0:43:57.960
<v Speaker 1>your good girl friends, you wouldn't care. You would just

0:43:58.160 --> 0:44:00.919
<v Speaker 1>be happy to see her. Yes, true, But people can't

0:44:00.920 --> 0:44:04.960
<v Speaker 1>wear then they're they're welcome. They can wear out that welcome. Okay.

0:44:05.480 --> 0:44:07.879
<v Speaker 1>But I think if it's like, really, you're really good friend,

0:44:07.920 --> 0:44:10.400
<v Speaker 1>you like there's some such thing, and if it's a

0:44:10.480 --> 0:44:13.080
<v Speaker 1>really good friend, you're inviting them. This girl has having

0:44:13.120 --> 0:44:15.920
<v Speaker 1>to invite herself. Let me tell you something, Tira, Yes,

0:44:15.960 --> 0:44:18.479
<v Speaker 1>I'm with you. Social media, black herb block her number,

0:44:18.880 --> 0:44:20.800
<v Speaker 1>all of that, right, Like, who was telling her that

0:44:20.880 --> 0:44:23.960
<v Speaker 1>you're having this party. That's that's that maybe we need

0:44:24.040 --> 0:44:26.920
<v Speaker 1>to tell people. Can y'all stop telling the girl and

0:44:27.040 --> 0:44:29.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm having something because I didn't invite her and she

0:44:29.120 --> 0:44:31.279
<v Speaker 1>comes empty handed and she eats all the food to

0:44:31.320 --> 0:44:35.239
<v Speaker 1>crab the crabs. Not the crabs. She need to pitch

0:44:35.280 --> 0:44:39.680
<v Speaker 1>in at least crabs expensive these days. Something at the door.

0:44:42.800 --> 0:44:44.759
<v Speaker 1>That's a hard one. I mean it's not that. I

0:44:44.880 --> 0:44:50.279
<v Speaker 1>just feel like, Tira is your house party. And if

0:44:50.360 --> 0:44:52.560
<v Speaker 1>you're having a party and you don't want extra folk

0:44:52.600 --> 0:44:55.120
<v Speaker 1>there that are invited, you should say that when you invite,

0:44:55.360 --> 0:44:57.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, when you send out your lists. Yes, I

0:44:57.560 --> 0:44:59.480
<v Speaker 1>don't know. Maybe now you just need to have a disclosure,

0:44:59.520 --> 0:45:01.399
<v Speaker 1>like okay, text me to see what you can bring,

0:45:01.480 --> 0:45:04.200
<v Speaker 1>like on your invite. Yes, just like text me to

0:45:04.200 --> 0:45:06.920
<v Speaker 1>see what you can bring. You know what this what

0:45:06.960 --> 0:45:10.719
<v Speaker 1>you should do? Call the pot luck? And then people

0:45:10.800 --> 0:45:12.560
<v Speaker 1>will reach out and say what should I bring? And

0:45:12.640 --> 0:45:14.400
<v Speaker 1>if if you really don't need to bring anything, and

0:45:14.440 --> 0:45:16.120
<v Speaker 1>be like, no, I'm gol need to bring anything. But

0:45:16.320 --> 0:45:19.040
<v Speaker 1>when the Belchian girl says, okay, it's a pot lug,

0:45:19.040 --> 0:45:21.399
<v Speaker 1>what should I bring? Then you tell her to bring Yes,

0:45:21.640 --> 0:45:24.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, craps, bring something, just bringing the money for

0:45:24.640 --> 0:45:27.680
<v Speaker 1>all the food that you didn't eat. Okay, I appreciate

0:45:27.719 --> 0:45:30.520
<v Speaker 1>the questions. I think the questions were. That was that

0:45:30.560 --> 0:45:32.279
<v Speaker 1>our only question. No, we have a whole bunch more,

0:45:32.360 --> 0:45:33.680
<v Speaker 1>but we don't have that. Yes we don't have we

0:45:33.719 --> 0:45:36.840
<v Speaker 1>don't have that much time. That that's actually Tierra, you

0:45:36.920 --> 0:45:39.160
<v Speaker 1>are ending our show. Thank you so much. That is

0:45:39.239 --> 0:45:42.400
<v Speaker 1>our show today. And long story short, get rid of

0:45:42.440 --> 0:45:49.440
<v Speaker 1>your friends, okay, scrap them and start over. And you

0:45:49.520 --> 0:45:54.279
<v Speaker 1>can tell her that I said you can be shady. Okay, yes, yes, yes,

0:45:55.800 --> 0:45:57.799
<v Speaker 1>just put it out there. Yes, the girl can't read

0:45:57.800 --> 0:46:01.000
<v Speaker 1>your mind. Yes, and and and that is our show.

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<v Speaker 1>Reasonably Shady, Bye, guys. Reasonably Shady is a production of

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<v Speaker 1>the Black Affect podcast Network. For more podcasts from our

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