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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Hello and welcome to

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Speaker 1: reasonably Shity. My name is Gielle Brian and we are here.

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Speaker 1: What's up? I love the way you say that you

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Speaker 1: do again, reasonably shity. What's up? Everyone? This is Robin

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Speaker 1: Dixon and I am so blessed to be here once again.

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Speaker 1: And you're listening to my nasally voice, so please forgive

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Speaker 1: me it's my hopefully it sounds sultry to you. Yes,

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Speaker 1: this is your sex s voice. Actress's name Earth the Kids,

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Speaker 1: Earth up with the white Lady, Sophia Loren that one. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that's what I'm going for. Yes, Okay, anyway, what's up y'all? Um? Okay,

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Speaker 1: so robbing, we're gonna do what we do. What is

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Speaker 1: your reasonably shady moment of the week? Okay, So my

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Speaker 1: reasonably shady moment of the week goes to people in

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Speaker 1: my house who gave me this cold that I had. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: called children's Okay, was a Corey was a Carter? It

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Speaker 1: was both of them actually, So I think it really

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Speaker 1: started from a basketball teammate that spent the night kind

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Speaker 1: of stuff. He knows. And then then like a couple

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Speaker 1: of days later, Carter was complaining of a stuff he knows,

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Speaker 1: and I'm, you know, terrible mom me. I'm like, oh boy,

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Speaker 1: you all right, suck it up. Whatever. Here, here's some

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Speaker 1: nasal spray. I'm like, god, stop lining, You're fine, right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: because you're a great mom Yeah, I'm awesome. And so

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Speaker 1: then it passed to Corey. Corey, I gotta stuff he knows.

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Speaker 1: Oh boy, here's a hot towel. You all right, like,

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Speaker 1: you know, whatever you find, go play basketball. Then it

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Speaker 1: hit me and I want to be laid out on

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Speaker 1: the couch. I want to be that's got real miserable.

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Speaker 1: So I am congested. I've been snuff stuffy. I've been

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Speaker 1: sneezing like a total head cold, which we have not

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Speaker 1: seen for shoot, over a year and a half because

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Speaker 1: we've been in a pandemic wearing masks. So now that

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Speaker 1: we're out and about and the kids are, you know,

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Speaker 1: we're maskless everywhere. Now we're getting these germs and getting cold. Now,

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Speaker 1: do you have to like, okay, this is another question,

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Speaker 1: but you know, now that we're not wearing masks, do

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Speaker 1: you have to like pay attention to how you your

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Speaker 1: your face looks, meaning like I would do whatever with

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Speaker 1: my mouth with a mask, going oh your mouth, my face. Shoot, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's a it's a whole new re education of how

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Speaker 1: to move my mouth. Right, It's like, okay, right, it's

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Speaker 1: it's that it's like you have to be reacclimated to

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Speaker 1: the world. And then now when I'm going in places,

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm missing my mask. So like I'll

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Speaker 1: go into place and they'll be like, oh wait a minute,

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Speaker 1: don't need to go get my mask. Like it's now

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Speaker 1: it's like it almost you became so used to it

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Speaker 1: that I feel like I'm missing something when I go

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Speaker 1: somewhere without a mask. Yes, but but yeah, those kids

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Speaker 1: they got me sick and pull them kids are shady.

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Speaker 1: Them kids are shady. Okay, alright, so my reasonably shady

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Speaker 1: moment is and I'm gonna have to call them out.

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Speaker 1: And I love them because I spent a lot of

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Speaker 1: money there. But restoration hardware happened so February, around February

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Speaker 1: four ish. It wasn't a Valentine's present, but it was

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Speaker 1: just around that time. I ordered four big bath towels.

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Speaker 1: Bath sheets are what they called cost a thousand dollars.

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Speaker 1: They cost a whole lot of money, but I love them.

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Speaker 1: And because they're huge, you can wrap your body around

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Speaker 1: about four times in it, unless you're really big and

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Speaker 1: it's just once, but me it's like four times. And um,

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Speaker 1: and then some little hand to was okay, So they

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Speaker 1: sent the hands. I was face towels, so they sent

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Speaker 1: to face towels. I waited five months five months or

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Speaker 1: some town for my bath towels. Yes I did. Restoration

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Speaker 1: hardware is shady. I don't know what your problem is.

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Speaker 1: It has nothing to do with COVID. It has nothing

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Speaker 1: to do with um, the embarkgo or not, stuff coming

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Speaker 1: in here from other countries. You have had nothing to

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Speaker 1: do with that. It's just freaking towels. Okay. So y'all

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Speaker 1: wrong for that. Okay, So did you get them yet? Oh?

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Speaker 1: I have them. I just got them okay. And are

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Speaker 1: they everything? Oh? My towels everything everything, it was. It

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Speaker 1: was worth the way. But restoration hardware got my eye

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Speaker 1: on you. I'm side eyeing y'all. I mean, yeah that,

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Speaker 1: but you know what that's going on with everything everywhere?

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Speaker 1: And I mean just but towels towels. It might and

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Speaker 1: you know, it probably wasn't. It's like, it's not the

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Speaker 1: towel itself, it's like the little micro chip that the

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Speaker 1: because I was I went to the dealer um just

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Speaker 1: But it's because there's a microchip shortage, yes, and so

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Speaker 1: this little microchip is preventing them from being able to

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Speaker 1: like produce these big old cars. Listen, So it's several TuS.

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Speaker 1: It was probably was like a little a little needle

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Speaker 1: or something that they just couldn't produce a touse for,

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Speaker 1: Like I mean, it's just restoration, hardwam side eye and y'all.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, we would be remiss if we did not

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Speaker 1: bring up the fact that The Real Housewives Up but

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Speaker 1: oh mag Season six has premiered. So you know, if

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Speaker 1: you didn't get to see it, you better get to

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Speaker 1: your DVR or your TV or your whatever it is

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Speaker 1: that you watch these things on, and you better get

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Speaker 1: your watching on because it was amazing. It was it

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Speaker 1: was amazing. I mean can you believe that? Like we

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Speaker 1: have been doing this for six seasons, like I mean, so,

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Speaker 1: to be honest with you, our listeners, we aren't really

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Speaker 1: allowed to talk a lot about the show general, just

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Speaker 1: as part of our you know, um contractual obligations. We

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Speaker 1: can't really give up too much about the show, but

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Speaker 1: we can speak in general. You know. I just want

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Speaker 1: to put out there and say thank you to everyone

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Speaker 1: who has supported the show, who has supported us, who

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Speaker 1: has helped us get to six seasons. I guess when

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Speaker 1: we started the show, yeah, you think about like wow, um,

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Speaker 1: the what ifs and where it could go. And trust me,

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Speaker 1: six seasons was not on my list. Listen, we didn't

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Speaker 1: think we'd make it pass one. Okay, but we're still

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Speaker 1: here and we're rock and y'all are rocking with us.

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Speaker 1: Y'all have been on this journey with us, and we

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Speaker 1: really really appreciate it. Yes, and thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for watching this the season premiere. It's going to be

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Speaker 1: a great season. Yes, despite the fact that we filmed

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Speaker 1: it in COVID. COVID, I would like to call it's

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Speaker 1: like the Eighth Housewife. It gets a champagne class drama. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that COVID. We hated that girl, but anyway we made

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Speaker 1: it through. Yes, thank you, thank you, thank you for that. Yes,

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Speaker 1: and so Sunday a p M. Don't miss it anyway.

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Speaker 1: I felt like we have so many current events, hot topics.

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Speaker 1: All this ship is just happening out here. Okay, it's

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Speaker 1: a lot going on, and I want to first start

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Speaker 1: with something lightweight. Okay, light weight. So the other day,

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Speaker 1: Jada Pinkins said that she, back in her day, okay,

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Speaker 1: could drink everybody under the table. Okay, so if you

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Speaker 1: was drinking with her, you was going to total to

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Speaker 1: with her, trust and believe she was drinking your gass

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Speaker 1: under the table, like five ft. She is a buck on,

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Speaker 1: she's four eleven, she weighs seventy eight pounds. Okay. How

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Speaker 1: does she not die from that? I don't know, but

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Speaker 1: I want to tell Jada, I want to make an

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Speaker 1: announcement right here. Um, Jada, you don't got nothing on

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Speaker 1: Robin Dick. Okay, Robin Dixon, trust and believe got you beat. Okay.

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Speaker 1: But I have like inches on her, I have I

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Speaker 1: have meat on her. You know, I'm a hundred and

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Speaker 1: Jada can drink people under the table and still wake

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Speaker 1: up the next day, Hey, I'm impressed. Yeah, okay, but

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Speaker 1: you're right. So when you saw that, did you think

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Speaker 1: of me? I immmediately thought of you. I was like really,

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Speaker 1: I was like, Jade Baking, you're lying because you haven't

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Speaker 1: our match, Robbin Tixon. So that's that is a Red

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Speaker 1: Table Talk challenge Jada that we're putting out there. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's my Baltimore and I fell a little Baltimore. And

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Speaker 1: next time if I ever see you or whatever, we

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Speaker 1: are drinking. Okay, we'll be drinking you want. I could

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Speaker 1: do that vodka. I got that whiskey. Give it to me. Jesus,

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Speaker 1: say though, like as we get older, our bodies mine.

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Speaker 1: next day that like anymore. Yes, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: It's hard to recover, and for me, I feel it.

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Speaker 1: I gotta go to the bathroom. Life Wait, too much information.

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Speaker 1: I'm not trying to be tom but that's where it

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Speaker 1: a little bit more serious topics because a lot kind

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Speaker 1: of blew my mind. I think it was last week

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Speaker 1: That's that bill cost And you know, I said to myself,

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Speaker 1: this man admitted it, admitted to sexually violating women. Well, okay,

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Speaker 1: did say to myself, damn, he got some good lawyers.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh, let's be clear, if anything ever goes down

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Speaker 1: have any money left? Like okay, so like what have

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Speaker 1: these lawyers to help you get out? Listen that that

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Speaker 1: that syndication money is long okay, but but no one's

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Speaker 1: airing Cosby shore. Yeah oh yeah, that that money has

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Speaker 1: dried up. But I just want to say, you know,

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Speaker 1: like you know, clearly everybody had their thoughts on this,

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Speaker 1: and Felicia's shote. You got your ass handed to you.

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Speaker 1: You just kept your mouth all the way, all the

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Speaker 1: way all the way quiet. But like when sixty women

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Speaker 1: like not. I just believe in karma and God's gonna

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Speaker 1: deal with Bill. Oh gosh, that's what that's my that's

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Speaker 1: my thoughts and I'm sticking to it. We Um, did

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Speaker 1: you hear what Judge Joe Brown says? Yeah? I did. Oh, now,

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Speaker 1: Judge Brown, you don't need to shut the hell up

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Speaker 1: to right, Okay. But I mean he was pretty much like, yes,

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Speaker 1: what the end of seventies? The women, they was groupies

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Speaker 1: money that they get when they make it to the

420
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Speaker 1: pros if they make it to the pros? Oh? No,

421
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Speaker 1: not at all. I mean that's just gonna It's so

422
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Speaker 1: if there's an athlete and he's able to sign a

423
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Speaker 1: you know, a million dollar sneaker contract which in college, um,

424
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Speaker 1: and and you know he makes it to the pros,

425
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Speaker 1: that's only only going to help him elevate the amount

426
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Speaker 1: of money that he can make in so yeah, that

427
00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:55,239
Speaker 1: won't affect them in the pros, but it is I mean,

428
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Speaker 1: it was insane, and it's like, uh, the n C

429
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Speaker 1: double A would try to prevent It's like, how do

430
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:04,679
Speaker 1: you regulate you know, Okay, most of the big sports,

431
00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:07,719
Speaker 1: what basketball, football, those are the ones that are more

432
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:11,960
Speaker 1: like the revenue generating sports. And they created these rules

433
00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:15,440
Speaker 1: because it's not fair to the other athletes, um, you know,

434
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Speaker 1: the swimming and the tendons in the soccer and the lacrosse.

435
00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:21,160
Speaker 1: So they would kind of just put out these blanket

436
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Speaker 1: rules because it's like it's not fair to all the

437
00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:26,440
Speaker 1: other athletes. I think they just didn't want kids to

438
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Speaker 1: have that kind of money while they were in school

439
00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:32,480
Speaker 1: and still kind of relatively young, because I mean, let's

440
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Speaker 1: be clear, someone Gonda just while out, well, I mean

441
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Speaker 1: that's true. I think it's more of control. I really do. Yeah,

442
00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:40,760
Speaker 1: it's just more it's more of a control thing, you know.

443
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Speaker 1: I don't know, if you know, there's like a lot

444
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Speaker 1: of young athletes that are like foregoing college and they're

445
00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:48,680
Speaker 1: doing these like amateur leagues and they're doing and I

446
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 1: think this will help maybe preserve some of that and

447
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 1: keep some of the kids, you know, in college, to

448
00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:55,920
Speaker 1: say okay, well now you can make money. Now you

449
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Speaker 1: can go to college. Now you can have the experience. Um,

450
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Speaker 1: now you can develop instead of the kids saying like

451
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,600
Speaker 1: I want to make money. Now now I agree with that.

452
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:06,399
Speaker 1: So it's a good thing. But one is like, somebody

453
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Speaker 1: owe me a whole bunch of money. What was his reparations?

454
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Speaker 1: That's that's a that's a whole kid. I mean, do

455
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Speaker 1: you know how many people would be like, she I

456
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:20,680
Speaker 1: need some money, yeah, some money. But speaking of big money,

457
00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:24,080
Speaker 1: big money that we weren't. We didn't even see this coming,

458
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Speaker 1: did you. Did you see the announcement that Shaquille O'Neil

459
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:31,480
Speaker 1: made that he owns Jesus he owns everything. I mean, okay,

460
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Speaker 1: so tell me more, because that's something like he's an

461
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Speaker 1: angel investor in some of these companies or later like

462
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Speaker 1: so he he was at um I think a black effect.

463
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Speaker 1: He was at something right and um he was talking

464
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Speaker 1: business and entrepreneur nurism and you know, making sure that

465
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Speaker 1: you really put your money in great places. Right, So

466
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:53,359
Speaker 1: he was like, you know who owns Marylyn wrote, Okay,

467
00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 1: I had to do my Shaquille voice, who owns Maryland

468
00:24:56,800 --> 00:25:00,960
Speaker 1: my rope? And then everybody was like playboy does. And

469
00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 1: then he was like who owns Elvis Presley? Everybody's like huh.

470
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:09,359
Speaker 1: He was like who owns J. C. Penny? And he

471
00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:12,240
Speaker 1: was like everybody's like who huh. He was like I

472
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 1: do I own all of it? And everybody's like what

473
00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 1: meaning he's got He's got ownership and all of these

474
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Speaker 1: things that we didn't even think he even knew about.

475
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Speaker 1: How do you have ownership in Maryland my room? Maybe

476
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Speaker 1: her estate or her her pattern or her likeness or whatever.

477
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Speaker 1: The n n f t s have you heard this?

478
00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:38,200
Speaker 1: This whole new thing we need to have like a

479
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Speaker 1: episode on n f t S and Crypto and all

480
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 1: this type of we're not gonna talk about that because

481
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Speaker 1: I don't know what that means. But my point is

482
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Speaker 1: Shaquille was looking attractive at that moment, like he looked

483
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 1: like she killed could get it, Like what she killed? Kill?

484
00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 1: Owns about eighteen companies his money every day I saw

485
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Speaker 1: where he was. Um he invested in ring Ye and

486
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Speaker 1: then it was Pizza Hut. Then Amazon bought it for

487
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:05,159
Speaker 1: like a trillion dollars. Yes, yes, Quill, you're looking good

488
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 1: these days, Sir, I just want to put that out.

489
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Speaker 1: The industry smart, very smart, and I think it's great

490
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Speaker 1: if he's sharing his stories. I mean clearly like most

491
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Speaker 1: of us aren't able to own Marilyn my Row. But

492
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Speaker 1: if we, you know, kind of have the foresight to

493
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Speaker 1: to own something, yes, invest their money somewhere. And I

494
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:24,879
Speaker 1: feel like there's only like a handful I don't know,

495
00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:26,240
Speaker 1: I want to say a handful, but you know, we

496
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:30,400
Speaker 1: know the athletes that have done well after they left

497
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Speaker 1: the league. With regards to business, we have a Magic Johnson,

498
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Speaker 1: we have Shaquille Obviously, I think le Bronze hare all

499
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Speaker 1: done Bronson job while he's playing to create, yes, different

500
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Speaker 1: streams of income. Yes, And and for these guys to

501
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:46,959
Speaker 1: really talk about it and really share, like you need

502
00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:49,000
Speaker 1: to make sure that you are investing in other things

503
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:51,359
Speaker 1: that you don't know anything about, right, It ain't It

504
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:53,879
Speaker 1: ain't just sports. For them is making sure that they

505
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:58,879
Speaker 1: touch other avenues so that you know, everybody sitting out everybody.

506
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:00,480
Speaker 1: Remember Jamal used to Alway to say, you know, you

507
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 1: need to have like four or five streams from InCom

508
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 1: coming in and that's how you build wealth. One other

509
00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 1: thing I want to ask you because like I've been

510
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:10,160
Speaker 1: binging something on TV and I just want to share.

511
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:14,880
Speaker 1: Have you been been I've been something the other day. Okay, okay, okay,

512
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 1: never me tell me. Okay. So my sister, you know,

513
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 1: my sister was really into documentaries and she really likes, like,

514
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:24,359
Speaker 1: you know, a full, like exact story about something. So

515
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:27,600
Speaker 1: she was like, oh my gosh, I watch Narco Wars

516
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:34,520
Speaker 1: on National Geographic. Okay, yeah, yeah. So they're now in

517
00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:39,240
Speaker 1: a season two and it really dives into the nonsense

518
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 1: of the drug cartels. Pablo Escobar, Um, what's the boy?

519
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 1: What's the other one? There's Pablo and then there's the one,

520
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 1: a little short one that went to jail and he

521
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 1: um Chopo. So so we got basketball, we got Choppo,

522
00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:01,040
Speaker 1: we have the Now we're into the the Italians, Celia Mafia.

523
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:04,919
Speaker 1: I mean it's okay, long story short for me at

524
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 1: this point because this is a real straight up documentary.

525
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:09,440
Speaker 1: So I'm able to be the wrong business. No, I'm

526
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:12,440
Speaker 1: not in the wrong business. I want it legalized. I

527
00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 1: just want drugs. And I know people don't feel this way,

528
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:17,920
Speaker 1: but like so many people have died and the wrong

529
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 1: people are getting rich the minute they legalized drugs. I'm

530
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 1: opening up a store because is gonna be rich. Okay,

531
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:28,560
Speaker 1: rich rich, I'm gonna be a rich bitch like it.

532
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:31,960
Speaker 1: It's absurd the amount of money that's being made and

533
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 1: the amount of people that are dying. All that's insane,

534
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 1: and it's like they're so heartless and useless. It's like

535
00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 1: it's nothing just for them to kill people for no reason.

536
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 1: I love watching shows like that. So Narco wars on

537
00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: National Geographics check it out. Okay, So for me on

538
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 1: the like, this is like a totally different topic. I

539
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:56,920
Speaker 1: watched I binged four episodes of UM the Encore, which

540
00:28:57,000 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 1: is on b ET produced by Carlos King, which former yes,

541
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 1: the former Real Housewives of Atlanta ep UM, and I

542
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:09,040
Speaker 1: must say I was thoroughly entertained. Yes, yes, yes, So

543
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 1: if you're not watching Encore, you need to. So so Encore,

544
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 1: they pretty much pulled together nine former female R and

545
00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:19,880
Speaker 1: B singers put them in a house with the intentions

546
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 1: of making a like a mega girl group. Okay, okay,

547
00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 1: so first of all, that is a recipe for disaster,

548
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 1: and Carlos knew that nine we're making a singing group

549
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 1: with nine people. Yeah, there is no nine singing groups

550
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:40,560
Speaker 1: singing people? How does that work? Nine people? First of all,

551
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 1: how many girl groups are there today? Zero? Zero? Right,

552
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 1: because girl groups cannot function. They can't get it together,

553
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:51,719
Speaker 1: they can't agree, they can't you know, you got one,

554
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:54,400
Speaker 1: this insecure, you got one this you know thinks she's

555
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 1: the ship you got like, I mean, it's just like

556
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 1: it's insane. So there are no girl groups to this day,

557
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 1: but well, you know, any more because they don't work.

558
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:04,640
Speaker 1: But these are kind of my takeaway. So one takeaway

559
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 1: I have is like and I'm watching you know, Okay,

560
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 1: So like there's um Kilee from three l W. There's

561
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 1: two former two people from seven oh two. There are

562
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 1: these twins from Cherish. Do you know them? I've never

563
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 1: even heard of a Cherish? What's a Cherish? Cherish? Their twins? Um?

564
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 1: You have Shamari from Black Black Black? Is it black

565
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:36,560
Speaker 1: black black black black? Okay? Um? Oh? Pam from Total

566
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:42,400
Speaker 1: who is like remember Total? Okay? Yeah, I remember Total pay.

567
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Speaker 1: I don't remember a Pam. Pam short hair, the short hair, Okay,

568
00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 1: her name is Pam? Okay, okay, Pam? Anybody found God?

569
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:51,240
Speaker 1: Like so she went through like you know, drinking and

570
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:54,560
Speaker 1: drugs and she found God, she's now she preaching. Yes, Okay,

571
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:57,720
Speaker 1: so do we have any from escape we know? Okay,

572
00:30:57,760 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 1: so we don't have Candy Burrs in the house. Okay,

573
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 1: Toy Tucker is a co producer. Had Candy had something

574
00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 1: to do with because they're just rich bitches? Okay, so

575
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:10,280
Speaker 1: they knew exactly exactly. Okay, who else whom? I missing?

576
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:13,480
Speaker 1: Aubrey from Dannity King, Okay, I like, I like her? Yeah,

577
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 1: Alreka sang, yeah, she looked a little different now what

578
00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 1: she cot saying. So anyway, so they have them like,

579
00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:24,360
Speaker 1: you know, singing and dancing and stuff. And as I

580
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 1: watched it, I'm like, okay, Robin, you could have been

581
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:33,120
Speaker 1: in a girl group. Okay maybe that maybe that's our

582
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 1: next job, rob, but we're gonna stop our group. What

583
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 1: because they can't sing? Dance? I mean I could have

584
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:41,320
Speaker 1: done and they was done. I was so mad. I

585
00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 1: was like, you know what, when you were breaking eight sticks,

586
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,240
Speaker 1: you should have been in a girl group because I

587
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 1: could have survived. I didn't know that. I always thought

588
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:54,400
Speaker 1: I couldn't sing. I want to know I couldn't dance.

589
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 1: I could have been in a girl group, Carlos, you

590
00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:59,160
Speaker 1: here that you better be robbing in the next episode.

591
00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 1: So when you want to make encore of Old Washed Up,

592
00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 1: could have been leave. I don't know if that's a show,

593
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 1: but okay, I'm here for it. I am here for

594
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 1: it Girl Group. Okay, I'm just telling you. That's my

595
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 1: Reasonably Shady moments. No, that was all shady shady to

596
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:22,720
Speaker 1: the encore. Okay, for the record, if ya didn't catch

597
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 1: that shade, that was a robbin shade. But please, if

598
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:27,600
Speaker 1: you want to be entertained, and I'm talking about Chuckle

599
00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:31,320
Speaker 1: Lean and I mean, it's it's just you have women

600
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 1: who are former Girl Group members who are like older

601
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 1: their moms, they're married, they're setting their ways, their days

602
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:43,880
Speaker 1: are past, and just seeing them interact and yes, okay,

603
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:46,440
Speaker 1: so I would definitely, I would definitely check that out.

604
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 1: We love y'all and we always want to answer the

605
00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 1: questions that y'all asked, So, to be quite honest, this

606
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 1: episode is called you Ask and we answer. Okay, that's

607
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 1: what's going down today. We put out there on our email,

608
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 1: which is what's up at reasonably Shady dot com. We

609
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:14,440
Speaker 1: put it out there. You guys ask questions and we

610
00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 1: will answer them. So we have a couple that we're

611
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:19,320
Speaker 1: gonna answer and we're even going to say where they

612
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:22,120
Speaker 1: came from. Right, Okay, So what's the first one? The

613
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 1: first one that we got here? Um? Yes, and and

614
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 1: please everyone keep your questions coming, comments all that. We're

615
00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:32,719
Speaker 1: gonna definitely try to address as many of them as

616
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 1: we can. And we don't mind if they're shady, because

617
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 1: we know y'all know how to be shady out here

618
00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:41,960
Speaker 1: in these streets for sure. But we want to give advice, yes,

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Speaker 1: we want you know, just your feedback, comments, all of

620
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:51,200
Speaker 1: that good stuff. Okay, So I'm gonna read the first one, okay,

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Speaker 1: and this is from Kelly Jarbo. Hi, Kelly, how you

622
00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:58,560
Speaker 1: doing it? She says, Hi there, I'm really enjoying your

623
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 1: podcast because any chance to have more Robin and Giselle

624
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:06,200
Speaker 1: is good with me. Smiley face, Thank you, Kelly. At

625
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 1: the end of May, before picking up my son at

626
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:13,600
Speaker 1: the University of Maryland, Go, I stopped in Ikea for

627
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:17,840
Speaker 1: a quick Ikea fix. While there, I was convinced for

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Speaker 1: a minute that I saw Corey and Carter. Was that wrong? Bummer?

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Speaker 1: She says, Bummer, I was so ready to see rob

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Speaker 1: and come around the corner. Did y'all ever shop it

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Speaker 1: at the college park Ikea? Is there any hope that

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Speaker 1: maybe someday, just maybe, fingers crossed, I would run into

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Speaker 1: y'all there. Keep up the great work, ladies. I can't

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Speaker 1: wait for the new season. You're devoted fan in southern Maryland. Kelly, Kelly,

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Speaker 1: we love you. I just want to say that for

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Speaker 1: the record, we love you. That's number one. Number two. No,

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Speaker 1: that was not Coorey and Carter. That was some other

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Speaker 1: light skinned black kids. And um, I haven't been into

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Speaker 1: I know exactly what story the ikea that you're talking about,

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Speaker 1: and I haven't been in there in twenty five years. No, right, so, yes,

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00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:00,960
Speaker 1: that was not a Korean Carter. Um, you probably will

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Speaker 1: not find me in that Ikia. I've been there in

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Speaker 1: the parking lot to like do handoffs of kids, like

644
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:09,479
Speaker 1: you know when you kind of meet people and say, okay,

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Speaker 1: drop my kid off the parking lot of Ikia and

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00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 1: you know, I'm dropping my kid off and stuff like that. Um,

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00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:20,719
Speaker 1: if Kelly, if you want to run into me um

648
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:23,920
Speaker 1: in the in the you know, college in the area,

649
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 1: you might want to go to a basketball gym. Oh. Yes, yes,

650
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:29,799
Speaker 1: Robin is there. She's in there. That's where I am.

651
00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:33,040
Speaker 1: Otherwise I'm door Dash and I'm instat cart and I'm

652
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:39,360
Speaker 1: ordering everything online. Right, I'm right, I'm not leaving my house. Yes, yes, indeed. Okay, alright,

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Speaker 1: So we have another one from Elizabeth Whistler. Alright, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna rate this one how girls love the podcast. My

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00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:48,480
Speaker 1: question is for Giselle. On the girlfriend episode, Gaselle was

656
00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:52,399
Speaker 1: saying how she's out once someone gets deep. What does

657
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 1: that mean? Like, if you're just meeting someone and are

658
00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 1: not much more than an acquaintance, you don't want to

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Speaker 1: get deep or ever for anyone. It made me feel

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00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 1: a little bit sad when she said that, because some

661
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 1: of my girls know my deepest thoughts, and I know

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00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:11,840
Speaker 1: there's I treasure those relationships. The light, fun and shady

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00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:14,720
Speaker 1: moments have their place as well. I guess I wondered

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Speaker 1: if Giselle ever lets anyone in You know what, Elizabeth,

665
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:22,800
Speaker 1: that's a really great question, Elizabeth Whistler. You all in

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Speaker 1: my business, honey, And let me just say this, most

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Speaker 1: of my girlfriends I've had for a very long time,

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Speaker 1: and so when I do have something deep to talk

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Speaker 1: about which is not very often like every other year

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Speaker 1: on a Tuesday at four o'clock. Um. I have people

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Speaker 1: that I can do that with, but it's just not

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Speaker 1: what I like to do on a regular basis, to

673
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 1: have deep conversations. Like who wants to do that? Right?

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Speaker 1: I mean I think it's like you definitely don't want

675
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:48,360
Speaker 1: to have deep conversations with people you just met. But

676
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 1: I also think your way of having a deep conversation

677
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:55,120
Speaker 1: does not sound like a deep conversation. True, that is

678
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:57,040
Speaker 1: very true. Robin knows me well, you know what I mean.

679
00:36:57,120 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 1: It's like it comes with like a lighthearted humors, um,

680
00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:07,440
Speaker 1: but it could be a serious topic. But um, justlle

681
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 1: Justelle has has um, I have deep moments, deep moments,

682
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:16,120
Speaker 1: And yeah, I would say, yeah, she can be deep,

683
00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:19,359
Speaker 1: but she doesn't like to like make it feel deep, right,

684
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Speaker 1: And I don't want to sit around and just start

685
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:24,600
Speaker 1: crying and oh my gosh, and we gotta braid each

686
00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 1: other's hair and hug and all of that. No, I don't.

687
00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:29,360
Speaker 1: I just's just not me. That's just not me, and

688
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 1: it's really not Robbin either, So let's just be clear

689
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 1: on that. But I don't want you Elizabeth to feel

690
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:37,319
Speaker 1: sorry for me, because when I want to say something deep,

691
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:42,200
Speaker 1: I'm probably not gonna say it. I'm just it's just

692
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 1: not what I do. But thank you Elizabeth for for

693
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Speaker 1: being concerned. Okay, So, but I think some people in

694
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:50,120
Speaker 1: general are just a little more emotional, a little more introspective.

695
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:54,200
Speaker 1: Like you know, everyone kind of like copes differently, and

696
00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:57,120
Speaker 1: you just don't. You don't really like hold onto things.

697
00:37:57,400 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 1: I think, yeah, I think you easily let stuff go

698
00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:01,479
Speaker 1: and you move on to the next where some people

699
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:04,319
Speaker 1: hold on the stuff and then yes, and if they

700
00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:08,319
Speaker 1: just it's internal. No. Um, I want to read. Okay,

701
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:10,440
Speaker 1: so this is not a question that was sent to

702
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:15,719
Speaker 1: our email. But UM, I read some reviews on Apple podcasts,

703
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:18,839
Speaker 1: and thank you everyone for taking the time to leave

704
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Speaker 1: a review. If you're if you're listening, please you know,

705
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:24,399
Speaker 1: leave one. Um and rate us, give us a rating.

706
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 1: We're doing really really well. I'm so excited. So for

707
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:30,239
Speaker 1: the most part, everyone has like really great things to say. Um.

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00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:33,120
Speaker 1: This one I thought was so interesting it kind of

709
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:34,719
Speaker 1: made me smile. Well I didn't make me smile, So

710
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:36,840
Speaker 1: I just want to read this one. So this is

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00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 1: from jay Lemonade nineteen. She said, these two ladies, despite

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Speaker 1: one of them being my sore roar slash a k A.

713
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Speaker 1: So he's talking about to Zoe display contradicting and hypocritical

714
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Speaker 1: views on the rho P, especially within the last season.

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Speaker 1: What's your Name? J Lemonade nineteen Jay Lemonade, I'm coming

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00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:59,879
Speaker 1: for you. Okay, keep reading, um, she said, I grew

717
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:03,320
Speaker 1: from really liking them to feeling like they are not authentic,

718
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:05,759
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh gosh, where is this going?

719
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:08,800
Speaker 1: But then they got better? Okay, so she said, But honestly,

720
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:11,160
Speaker 1: that perspective is skewed because editing is crazy and I

721
00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:14,600
Speaker 1: really don't know these women personally. However, being a black

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00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:17,239
Speaker 1: woman who was in the podcast game and have a

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Speaker 1: background in higher education and the communication field, I was

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Speaker 1: eager to listen to their podcast to see what it

725
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:26,239
Speaker 1: was about. Well, Jay Lemonade, I'm so thankful that you listen,

726
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 1: because she says, she goes and say, and I am

727
00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:32,360
Speaker 1: so pleased to say that they are showing and giving

728
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Speaker 1: us more of their personality. It's like I can listen

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00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:39,239
Speaker 1: to their podcast and actually get a better perspective of

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Speaker 1: who they are, and I can maturely separate their podcast

731
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Speaker 1: selves from their reality personality. Great job, ladies. Okay, Jay Lemonade,

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Speaker 1: you redeemed just like that was honestly for people who

733
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:56,000
Speaker 1: have those feelings about us just from watching a show

734
00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 1: like I. I am happy to know that that is

735
00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:01,640
Speaker 1: what you're getting to the podcast from us, because we

736
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:04,360
Speaker 1: want y'all to learn more about us. So thank you

737
00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:07,840
Speaker 1: for everyone who gave us a chance. I like that.

738
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Speaker 1: I like that at first. All right, yeah, and you

739
00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 1: know we're were we are normal and very nice if

740
00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:17,560
Speaker 1: we like you the end. Okay, so we're we're This

741
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:23,959
Speaker 1: is our last one. This is from Tierra. Okay, she says, Hi, ladies. First,

742
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Speaker 1: let me let me say how much she should be

743
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:29,680
Speaker 1: saying people's names sometimes. Wow, let's just say the first name,

744
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:34,520
Speaker 1: just because what if the person she's talking about listens

745
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 1: to and she might know what. Oh okay, she's talking

746
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:39,720
Speaker 1: about somebody. Oh okay, that's right, that's right. Okay, Okay,

747
00:40:40,120 --> 00:40:44,480
Speaker 1: it's not her name is not Tara, it's something else. Okay, Okay,

748
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:47,279
Speaker 1: here we go. Hi, ladies. First, let you say how

749
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:50,680
Speaker 1: much I love y'all. And now my shady as a

750
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Speaker 1: moment side, I already love you because you have a

751
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:56,279
Speaker 1: shady moment. Okay, I know. I'm known for throwing a

752
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:58,920
Speaker 1: nice party or cook out. The food is good, the

753
00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:02,120
Speaker 1: music is right in the rings flow. For the fourth

754
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 1: m For the fourth me and my husband decided to

755
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:09,040
Speaker 1: host a barbecue. Not tons of people, just some friends

756
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:11,480
Speaker 1: and their kids over to swim and eat. She got

757
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:16,400
Speaker 1: a pool too. Okay, Okay, Well, this chick I know,

758
00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:19,840
Speaker 1: but don't really talk to like that said she was coming,

759
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:25,520
Speaker 1: said not asked. What she didn't say was what can

760
00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:28,760
Speaker 1: I bring? She's been known to show up empty handed

761
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:34,040
Speaker 1: and just unhinge her jaw and inhale. I don't know

762
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:36,480
Speaker 1: what that means, but it's getting good, y'all eating? Okay,

763
00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:39,640
Speaker 1: I got eating good. Hell, she showed up to my

764
00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:42,840
Speaker 1: birthday party without so much as even a card, just

765
00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:46,600
Speaker 1: sat there quietly and ate crabs, belched and left. Now,

766
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:51,680
Speaker 1: this is funny, not okay. Most of the time when

767
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:55,960
Speaker 1: someone asked me what that means. Most of the time,

768
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Speaker 1: when someone asked what they can bring, I tell them nothing.

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Speaker 1: But she never asked. I'm really tired of her and

770
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:06,839
Speaker 1: her bad manners. She never invites me anywhere, but it's

771
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:09,680
Speaker 1: quick to pop up at my parties and such empty handed.

772
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:12,840
Speaker 1: I want her to go away. I'm about I'm about

773
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Speaker 1: ready to block her on all social media and block

774
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:18,759
Speaker 1: her number. But before I do, I wanted to see

775
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:22,359
Speaker 1: if y'all had a better solution. Luckily she didn't show

776
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 1: up on the fourth, but I know the opportunity for

777
00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:28,560
Speaker 1: her to party crash bringing nothing, but her appetite was

778
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:33,839
Speaker 1: present itself. Again thanks, and then she gives her name,

779
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:37,800
Speaker 1: which we won't say, but it's Tierira. Okay, So I

780
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:39,960
Speaker 1: don't really know what the question is here. So the

781
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:42,239
Speaker 1: question is how do you deal with a friend that

782
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 1: pretty much is a moocher? Like that guy is always

783
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:47,759
Speaker 1: coming to your stuff empty handed? Well, first of all,

784
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Speaker 1: it sounded like she invited herself. So you invite yourself

785
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 1: and you come handed, Yes, and you eat all the food,

786
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 1: right and yes? And then you and then she doesn't

787
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:59,600
Speaker 1: invite her to anything? Yes, So but does she have

788
00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:02,839
Speaker 1: anything to invite you to? That's number one? Probably not right?

789
00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:06,920
Speaker 1: Number two? Okay, So I feel like I'm I need

790
00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:11,239
Speaker 1: to do better at this. I'm really bad because I

791
00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:13,960
Speaker 1: think she's talking about me. I show up empty handed

792
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 1: because it is like so much for me just to

793
00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:18,880
Speaker 1: get out the house that like I'm like, oh my gosh,

794
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:21,959
Speaker 1: I gotta find something like for me to like stop

795
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Speaker 1: somewhere and bring something. It's too much, so I'm like

796
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Speaker 1: my presence. Okay that after that, but you have Okay,

797
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:33,920
Speaker 1: but you're eating the food because we eat, we like

798
00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:36,960
Speaker 1: to eat. And then okay, but are you ever inviting

799
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Speaker 1: people to anything you do? Yeah? Okay, okay, but all right,

800
00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:44,640
Speaker 1: let's let's say in tears because it sounds like, okay,

801
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:47,640
Speaker 1: I feel like you don't really like the girl period,

802
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:49,879
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like if you liked her

803
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:53,640
Speaker 1: and she showed him empty handed, you wouldn't really notice, correct,

804
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:55,719
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? If it was one of

805
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:57,960
Speaker 1: your good girl friends, you wouldn't care. You would just

806
00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:00,919
Speaker 1: be happy to see her. Yes, true, But people can't

807
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:04,960
Speaker 1: wear then they're they're welcome. They can wear out that welcome. Okay.

808
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Speaker 1: But I think if it's like, really, you're really good friend,

809
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Speaker 1: you like there's some such thing, and if it's a

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Speaker 1: really good friend, you're inviting them. This girl has having

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Speaker 1: to invite herself. Let me tell you something, Tira, Yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm with you. Social media, black herb block her number,

813
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:20,800
Speaker 1: all of that, right, Like, who was telling her that

814
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Speaker 1: you're having this party. That's that's that maybe we need

815
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Speaker 1: to tell people. Can y'all stop telling the girl and

816
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Speaker 1: I'm having something because I didn't invite her and she

817
00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:31,279
Speaker 1: comes empty handed and she eats all the food to

818
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:35,239
Speaker 1: crab the crabs. Not the crabs. She need to pitch

819
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 1: in at least crabs expensive these days. Something at the door.

820
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Speaker 1: That's a hard one. I mean it's not that. I

821
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Speaker 1: just feel like, Tira is your house party. And if

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Speaker 1: you're having a party and you don't want extra folk

823
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Speaker 1: there that are invited, you should say that when you invite,

824
00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 1: you know, when you send out your lists. Yes, I

825
00:44:57,560 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 1: don't know. Maybe now you just need to have a disclosure,

826
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:01,399
Speaker 1: like okay, text me to see what you can bring,

827
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Speaker 1: like on your invite. Yes, just like text me to

828
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Speaker 1: see what you can bring. You know what this what

829
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:10,719
Speaker 1: you should do? Call the pot luck? And then people

830
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 1: will reach out and say what should I bring? And

831
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Speaker 1: if if you really don't need to bring anything, and

832
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:16,120
Speaker 1: be like, no, I'm gol need to bring anything. But

833
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 1: when the Belchian girl says, okay, it's a pot lug,

834
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Speaker 1: what should I bring? Then you tell her to bring Yes,

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Speaker 1: you know, craps, bring something, just bringing the money for

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Speaker 1: all the food that you didn't eat. Okay, I appreciate

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Speaker 1: the questions. I think the questions were. That was that

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Speaker 1: our only question. No, we have a whole bunch more,

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Speaker 1: but we don't have that. Yes we don't have we

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Speaker 1: don't have that much time. That that's actually Tierra, you

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Speaker 1: are ending our show. Thank you so much. That is

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Speaker 1: our show today. And long story short, get rid of

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Speaker 1: your friends, okay, scrap them and start over. And you

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Speaker 1: can tell her that I said you can be shady. Okay, yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: just put it out there. Yes, the girl can't read

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Speaker 1: your mind. Yes, and and and that is our show.

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Speaker 1: Reasonably Shady, Bye, guys. Reasonably Shady is a production of

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Speaker 1: the Black Affect podcast Network. For more podcasts from our

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio, visit the I Heart Radio app, Apple podcast,

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Speaker 1: or wherever you listen to your favorite shows, and you

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Speaker 1: can connect with us on social media at Robin Dixon, ten,

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Speaker 1: Giselle Bryant, and Reasonably Shady.