1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,200 Speaker 1: I'm breaking up with my girlfriend because she hid a 2 00:00:02,400 --> 00:00:05,840 Speaker 1: huge present that she got from her ex. John, what 3 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:08,480 Speaker 1: do you think is this breakup worthy? What kind of 4 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:11,040 Speaker 1: present would your girlfriend have to receive from an ex 5 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 1: for you to be to consider a house a house 6 00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 1: a house? 7 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:19,239 Speaker 2: So if if X you get her house, I'm like, 8 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 2: don't do that, bro. 9 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 3: But then you have a house that you can stay in. 10 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:24,080 Speaker 3: Well that's funny. You're right. 11 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:26,240 Speaker 2: Actually we could rent it out and get passive income. 12 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 3: Yeah. Maybe I just continue to siphon from the air. 13 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:32,240 Speaker 2: You're saying, if IVA got a house from an ex, 14 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 2: you would be like, no return it. You're right, I'll 15 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 2: be like keep that. I'm a filthy lot somebody. But 16 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 2: I yeah, I kind of. I guess it depends on 17 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 2: the gift. But if I'm going off rip with no context, 18 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 2: which is what we're doing here, I'm like kind of like, 19 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:43,639 Speaker 2: what's the big deal? 20 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 3: I don't way? Yeah, yeah, what are you hiding? What 21 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:46,920 Speaker 3: are you hiding? I don't know? All right, Well let's 22 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 3: get into it. 23 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 1: So my girlfriend and I were lying in bed last 24 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 1: night cuddling and shitting no oh god, when it dawned 25 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 1: on me all of a sudden that none of my 26 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 1: friends were in relationships anymore. All of them had broken 27 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 1: up with their partners within the past few months, which 28 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 1: is more or less the same length of time my 29 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:04,679 Speaker 1: girlfriend and I had been together. 30 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:07,319 Speaker 2: Oh no, don't please, don't tell me this is going 31 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 2: where I think it is. He sees all his friends 32 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 2: getting accepted. I want to be single. He's trying to 33 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:12,479 Speaker 2: join the crowd. 34 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 1: I shared this revelation with my girlfriend mid cuddle before 35 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 1: asking her what I thought was a funny and harmless 36 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 1: question at the time. 37 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:21,040 Speaker 3: She's a funny harmlesus question. 38 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 1: I asked her what she thought would be the end 39 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:26,680 Speaker 1: of us and encouraged her to come up with ridiculous 40 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 1: reasons only. Okay, so, which is a dangerous game? 41 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:33,400 Speaker 3: Dangerous game? 42 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:37,479 Speaker 1: Full disclosure, my girlfriend and I were both high during 43 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:39,760 Speaker 1: the inception of this fuck up. Okay, so keep that 44 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 1: in mind if some of her actions come across as 45 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 1: somewhat random. Anyway, So, as per my question, my girlfriend 46 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: provided the following reasons that would cause our relationship to crumble. 47 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 1: One if I stopped showering. Two if during sex I 48 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 1: said I'm gonna come dot dot dot question work, I'm 49 00:01:56,960 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 1: gonna come. That's that's relationship. 50 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 3: I mean, I think it's like they're trying to be silly. 51 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 3: I guess so. 52 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 1: Three if I lived on the thirteenth floor. Four if 53 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 1: I psted at someone whose name I knew, like instead. 54 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 3: Of hey John, yeah you go, that is kind of annoying. 55 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 1: Location If I also ripped all of her audio listeners, 56 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 1: that are getting just as if I used a spoon 57 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 1: to drink tea or coffee like it was medicine. Six 58 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 1: If I literally licked my thumb before turning to the 59 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 1: next page of a book. 60 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:34,080 Speaker 2: Who was doing that recently? I feel like it's just 61 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 2: like a I don't know how it started, but. 62 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:39,239 Speaker 1: I know I saw what someone close to me lick 63 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:40,839 Speaker 1: their their fingers. 64 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 3: Who did that? Was it you? No? I doubt it. No, 65 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 3: I don't. I don't lick my fingers on it was it? Oh? 66 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 3: It was my dad. It was my dad. 67 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:50,920 Speaker 2: My dad licked his fingers before picking up a fucking 68 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 2: card of like we were playing a game of cards 69 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 2: and he goes. 70 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 3: Like, picks up the car. I didn't say. 71 00:02:57,240 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 2: Anything, but bro, that is weird. Look at your juice's 72 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 2: all over? These cards were that much traction to pick. 73 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:06,399 Speaker 1: Up a freak man quite cool out with that, Yeah, 74 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:09,920 Speaker 1: exactly if I found out she had a dildo replica 75 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 1: of her exes penis, No way, that's the gift. 76 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:16,799 Speaker 2: Oh, no way, that's the game. 77 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:19,080 Speaker 3: My god, Riley, what are you doing to us? 78 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 1: I paused my girlfriend when she got to the seventh 79 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 1: season and asked her if number seven was something real 80 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 1: or ridiculous, because it sounded a lot less random than 81 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 1: the other reasons. My girlfriend said it was both real 82 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 1: and ridiculous, while laughing because at that point the atmosphere 83 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 1: in the room was still lighthearted. 84 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 3: I asked her. 85 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 1: Why she still had her exes fake penis in her possession. 86 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 1: She said, if I found out she had a dildo 87 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 1: replica of her ex's penis. So she's admitting to this thing, 88 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:50,119 Speaker 1: this relationship ender. 89 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 2: Yes, that is, and it's also kind of weird because 90 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 2: she was the one brought that. 91 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 1: She's like, if you found out about this thing that 92 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 1: is true, we would probably break up up. Wow, and 93 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 1: she had a girlfriend that had a replica of her 94 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 1: ex boyfriend's penis. 95 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 3: You'd be like, can I get a copy? Yeah? It's 96 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 3: like like a key, like a yeah, did you make 97 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:16,280 Speaker 3: a copy? Replicate this? Please? Oh? 98 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 2: Sorry, I says, do not duplicate on the penis. Got 99 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 2: one of those models, okay. 100 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 1: I asked her why she still had her ex's fake 101 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 1: penis in her possession. She shrugged and said it was 102 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:27,840 Speaker 1: a decent dildo. I was about to ask her if 103 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:30,359 Speaker 1: she still used the dildo, but she predicted my question 104 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 1: and said it's been a long time since she used it. 105 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 1: I think my face was beginning to show me mixed 106 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:38,600 Speaker 1: feelings because my girlfriend decided to tickle me out of 107 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 1: the blue until I laughed. I did laugh thanks to 108 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:41,920 Speaker 1: the tickle, but. 109 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:45,560 Speaker 2: I was unable to forget about the clone a willy situation. 110 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 3: It was bugging me. Bro. 111 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:50,840 Speaker 1: If if you had a flashlight made out of an 112 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:53,920 Speaker 1: ex girlfriend's vagina, she would be pissed. 113 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 2: I wouldn't be a lot. I would be buried in 114 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 2: the dirt, So that is not even possible. I would 115 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 2: not be sitting here on this podcast. 116 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:03,239 Speaker 3: That is nuts. 117 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:05,920 Speaker 2: Also, I feel like it's very common for a lot 118 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 2: of girls to have an assortment of dildos, but it's 119 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 2: frowned upon for guys to have flashlights. 120 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 3: Yes, then. 121 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 1: I have a question for the women in actually basically 122 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 1: everybody you own if you own a dildo. What would 123 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 1: you think of a man owning a flashlight? 124 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:24,680 Speaker 3: Like? 125 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:27,040 Speaker 1: Do you have any weird feelings about it? And if 126 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 1: you don't know what a flashlight is adorable? 127 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 2: I've never owned a flesh light. Have you had a 128 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:40,279 Speaker 2: flash light? He looked, No, Oh, this is funny. Okay, 129 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:41,600 Speaker 2: So I had to see it. 130 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 4: So no, god, op, it's kind of hard to lift 131 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 4: on the ground. Could you help me out? Could you 132 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 4: lend a hand? O? So I asked my girlfriend to 133 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 4: show it to me. She reluctantly agreed to show it 134 00:05:56,640 --> 00:05:59,159 Speaker 4: to me if I promised to file this whole situation 135 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 4: under something that means nothing. 136 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:03,920 Speaker 3: And move on. No, all man's in for a world 137 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 3: of hurt. 138 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:07,599 Speaker 1: I promised for someone who said she struggled to remember 139 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 1: when lash she used the delfo my girlfriend, didn't you, 140 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:13,040 Speaker 1: and have to think about where she stored it, just 141 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:16,039 Speaker 1: in case it's unclear we were in her flat. As 142 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 1: soon as I witnessed the clone dildo with my own 143 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 1: two eyes, I knew, oh yeah, that shit was going 144 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 1: to live a rentrey. In the back of my mind, 145 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 1: of course, it was big. I mean, what other size 146 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:29,839 Speaker 1: is there when it comes to X's. 147 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 2: Oh, my girlfriend asked if I wanted her to get 148 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:37,159 Speaker 2: rid of it. My mindset guess, but my mouth said 149 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:40,599 Speaker 2: it was her choice, which is the nice boyfriend thing 150 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:43,039 Speaker 2: to do. I guess, But bro, I would be like, yes, 151 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 2: get rid of it. 152 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:48,360 Speaker 3: My mind is telling me, yes, I have a quick 153 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:50,920 Speaker 3: story about something related, but I'll want to get to 154 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:52,880 Speaker 3: the update. That's a juicy story, all right. 155 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 1: She shrugged and said it was just another sex toy. 156 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 1: It's not it's not you got history of that thing. Yeah, 157 00:06:58,160 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 1: I said, A promise is a promise before to sign 158 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 1: to make us some coffee, which I drank with a spoon. 159 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:05,279 Speaker 1: Playing the breakup game was not the smartest decision on 160 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:07,279 Speaker 1: my part. Now I'm cursed with the knowledge that my 161 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:10,239 Speaker 1: girlfriend not only kept her ex's clone cock, but most 162 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 1: likely used it whenever she wanted, which may or may 163 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:16,160 Speaker 1: not have been during our relationship. And there is a 164 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 1: juicy update. But John, do you think this guy should 165 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 1: ask to get rid of this thing? 166 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 3: Yeah? 167 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 2: I mean, it's just like I feel like if you 168 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:26,040 Speaker 2: satur down and I'm like, listen, there's just no way 169 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:29,160 Speaker 2: this cannot be in my mind, you know, Yeah, Like 170 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 2: I feel like that's a pretty like I get it, 171 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:34,240 Speaker 2: you know, like I feel like a reasonable person to 172 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 2: be like, yeah, that's kind wish again you flip the scenario. 173 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 2: I think there's an emotional connection to it, you know, 174 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 2: and so just like buy one of the same, just 175 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 2: you know, yeah, get a different one, the booty Buster 176 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 2: nine thousand, like just yeah, dude, John's got those things 177 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 2: on lock. 178 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, don't look at my search history. 179 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 2: I once had an ex girlfriend that told me a 180 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 2: story about an ex right, and like we were telling 181 00:08:01,080 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 2: like funny stories about hookups, right. 182 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 3: And another dangerous game yeah, yeah, terrible, terrible game to play. 183 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 1: And she's like, yeah, there was this one guy that 184 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 1: I dated and he like had this like weird penis 185 00:08:13,280 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 1: and he said all like I make girls come quickly, 186 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:17,120 Speaker 1: and she's like I don't believe it, and I'm like 187 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 1: harrying myself for like like it's going to go badly. 188 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 1: And then we hooked up and I came instantly, and 189 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 1: I'm like and then then that was it. 190 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 3: That was the end of the story. And I'm like, 191 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 3: why did you tell me that? 192 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 2: And that was before like I figured out all the 193 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:35,560 Speaker 2: knobs and the buttons. I'm like, how old are you 194 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 2: do you remember, I don't want to say. Okay, yeah, 195 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:48,199 Speaker 2: no more context goes for you, Riley, no more, no more, 196 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 2: It's over. 197 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 3: Oh dang yeah, I kind of games. 198 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 2: No, guys, can we just all stop playing these games? 199 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 3: Like, let's end the game. The game is over? Are over? Okay, 200 00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:05,560 Speaker 3: the game are bad? Everybody loses. Well I guess, I 201 00:09:05,559 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 3: guess we lose. Riley seems right, Riley. 202 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 2: Riley is winning right now. He is filled with joy, 203 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 2: Sam's pain dry. 204 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 3: Sorry. Oh, let's get back to this story. 205 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:24,960 Speaker 2: So I was building up towards sharing my feelings with 206 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:27,440 Speaker 2: my girlfriend, but she beat me to it and ended 207 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:29,520 Speaker 2: up telling me that she got rid of her ex's 208 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 2: clone a Willie because she could tell how much it 209 00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 2: bothered me. I confirmed what she said about my feelings 210 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 2: and thanked her for disposing of her exes dick, which 211 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 2: is not a sentence that you want thanks said in relationship. 212 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 2: My girlfriend said I should not be thanking her yet, 213 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:44,680 Speaker 2: because she was not one hundred percent honest with me 214 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:47,720 Speaker 2: when she initially said that she used her ex's clone 215 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:50,000 Speaker 2: a Willie a long time ago. At that moment, I 216 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 2: knew she was going to tell me that she used 217 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:54,080 Speaker 2: the clone a Willy during her relationship with her ex, 218 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 2: which was whatever, and during her relationship with me, which 219 00:09:58,440 --> 00:10:01,319 Speaker 2: was where it kind of became a ray area. From 220 00:10:01,480 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 2: a current boyfriend. 221 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:06,760 Speaker 1: Perspective, my girlfriend came clean about using her ex's clone 222 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:09,440 Speaker 1: a Willie until the two of us finally figured each 223 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 1: other out sexually. So basically, it was like, once you 224 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:18,520 Speaker 1: got all those knobs and buttons working, then I stopped, Finn. 225 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 1: You are certified, the new certified, and then I will 226 00:10:20,880 --> 00:10:25,559 Speaker 1: clone your Willy. Ye have a cycle continuance. I understood 227 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 1: what she was saying. The chemistry between us was there 228 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 1: since the beginning of our relationship, but the first few 229 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 1: times we had sex was a bit of a learning 230 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 1: curve for both of us. That sex was enjoyable for 231 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 1: the most part, but despite our best efforts, we struggled 232 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 1: to get each other off. 233 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:38,640 Speaker 3: For some reason. 234 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:41,200 Speaker 1: During that time, my girlfriend said she low key relied 235 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:44,680 Speaker 1: on her ex's Clona Willie, which apparently made her orgasm 236 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:48,520 Speaker 1: without fail call the insecure Whenever, but hearing that made 237 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:51,400 Speaker 1: me go out on the inside. Brother, I feel you, 238 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 1: My girlfriend said, the irony of relying on her ex's 239 00:10:56,960 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 1: Clona Willie while we struggled to find her sweet spot 240 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:01,960 Speaker 1: in the bedroom was the fact that she realized later 241 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:04,559 Speaker 1: on that her attachment to something from the past might 242 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 1: have prevented her from fully committing to something in the present, 243 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:08,200 Speaker 1: or something like that. 244 00:11:08,600 --> 00:11:10,839 Speaker 3: She said it better. My girlfriend assured me that when 245 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 3: she told me. 246 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 1: Her ex'es Clona Willy was just another sex toy, she 247 00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: meant it because that was what eventually became when she 248 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:20,280 Speaker 1: learned to let go of lingering feelings. Why does this 249 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:21,360 Speaker 1: feel like poetic? 250 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:26,599 Speaker 2: Like this Clona Willy is like the embodiment of the 251 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:29,360 Speaker 2: relationship and letting go of all the memory. It is 252 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 2: a symbol that represented us, like imagining him putting it 253 00:11:34,440 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 2: on like a toy rowboat, and like sticking it on 254 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 2: there and then watching it drift off to see as 255 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:41,720 Speaker 2: it burns and like themory yeah, yeah, and the arrow 256 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 2: is just large into its beautiful anyway, and then fully 257 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 2: embraced the new connection she had it with me. She 258 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:52,840 Speaker 2: made it sound like one of the reasons our sex 259 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:55,800 Speaker 2: life became the complete packages now was due to the 260 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 2: fact she stopped using the Clona Willy as her main 261 00:11:58,200 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 2: sourcing it off. She apologized for being vulnerable enough to 262 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:04,640 Speaker 2: unpack the impact her ex had on the beginning stages 263 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 2: of relationship, and promised that her flat was now free 264 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 2: of all her ex's Clona Willy dildos. 265 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:13,680 Speaker 3: All them. Oh no, find of the secrets. 266 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:16,200 Speaker 1: Oh jeez, I thought she implied that there was more 267 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 1: than one Clona Willy as a joke to get a 268 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 1: reaction out of me, But as soon as she opened 269 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:24,320 Speaker 1: the garbage bin, I realized her ex really loved cloning 270 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 1: his dick. I counted three, including the one I knew about. 271 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:30,760 Speaker 1: The other two were both glow in the dark. 272 00:12:31,200 --> 00:12:34,440 Speaker 2: Not vision enhanced, so you can find it at anytime. 273 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 3: My girlfriend and I laughed about it. 274 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:38,720 Speaker 2: I have a feeling we're gonna be okay, that said, 275 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:42,280 Speaker 2: not sure, I'll easily forget about her well endowed ex 276 00:12:42,320 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 2: boyfriend who pieced out of his relationship with my girlfriend 277 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:49,320 Speaker 2: by leaving behind not one, not two, but three of 278 00:12:49,400 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 2: his dicks. Wow, Honestly, every girlfriend I have from now 279 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 2: on is getting a clone of my deck. Like we're 280 00:12:57,360 --> 00:13:01,440 Speaker 2: locking this in, babe. Okay, that's great, that's a great gift. 281 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:05,800 Speaker 3: It is. It is like a distance. Yeah, like a 282 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 3: way to stay connected. 283 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:11,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, even when I'm not here. Yeah, I'm inside exactly 284 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:12,800 Speaker 2: your heart. 285 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:15,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, and other things. Oh man, what a story, that 286 00:13:15,760 --> 00:13:18,840 Speaker 3: story right, that was great, good job pick look at this. 287 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 3: Producers go around applause, gentlemen. Oh man. 288 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 2: Anyway, how would you feel if your partner had a 289 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:29,760 Speaker 2: cloned dildo and or flashlight? Put your answers in the 290 00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 2: comments and with that that's a wrap. We love you 291 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:33,000 Speaker 2: and we'll see you soon. 292 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:36,960 Speaker 3: Peace. This is an episode from Deep within the Archives. 293 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 3: Time for okop rewlam. 294 00:13:41,080 --> 00:13:44,079 Speaker 2: Am I the a hole for forcing my stupid, pathetic 295 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:48,160 Speaker 2: daughter to share her presence with my incredible, amazing step daughter. 296 00:13:48,440 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 3: Yo, she's so stupid and pathetic. Just deserve presidents. She 297 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:55,120 Speaker 3: just came out of me. 298 00:13:55,600 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 2: She's stupid, she's dude. That's some self hatred. If I 299 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:02,760 Speaker 2: ever heard wonder like why do they favor the step 300 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:06,559 Speaker 2: children like you would? Logically I would favor my own child. 301 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 3: Over someone I didn't birth. Yo. And that's where you're 302 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:12,360 Speaker 3: gonna make a terrible parent, John. Yeah, Yeah, there we go. Yeah, 303 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 3: now we know. 304 00:14:13,200 --> 00:14:15,920 Speaker 1: Now we know the secret to parenting is hating your 305 00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:19,600 Speaker 1: own children. Of course, how could you not? How could 306 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 1: he not see it? Yes, well we're about to get 307 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 1: a masterclass here. I forty female, was a single mother 308 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 1: to my daughter Amy fifteen. I came out three years 309 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:32,120 Speaker 1: ago and married my wife, Jenna forty two female, last year. 310 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 1: She has a daughter, Nora thirteen female, and we all 311 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:37,760 Speaker 1: lived together as I have full custody of my daughter. 312 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 1: It was kind of hard for her to adjust to 313 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:42,440 Speaker 1: having a second mom, but they ended up getting along well. 314 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 1: The girls have their birthdays very close, only two days apart, 315 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 1: so we decided to do a joint birthday party for them. 316 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 1: Mistake number one. 317 00:14:50,520 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 2: Joint birthdays are kind of rough, the not when it's forced. 318 00:14:55,600 --> 00:14:58,720 Speaker 2: I actually used to do joint birthdays by choice really 319 00:14:58,760 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 2: with who mac Actually oh really we were born literally 320 00:15:02,240 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 2: one day apart from each other. 321 00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:07,760 Speaker 3: No way, that's lit. It was it a fun joint birthday. 322 00:15:07,800 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 3: It was always fun. 323 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:10,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like we would just like get like a giant 324 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:11,920 Speaker 2: group of people together and just. 325 00:15:12,120 --> 00:15:16,200 Speaker 3: Do crazy rambunctious. That sounds that sounds ideal. It was awesome. 326 00:15:16,200 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 1: I feel like like a cool aspect of a joint 327 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:22,720 Speaker 1: birthday is you can go even more wild because it's like, 328 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 1: oh maybe like you know, double the spending budget or whatever. 329 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's it was also cool because like we 330 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 2: would always bring like people that my friends that she 331 00:15:30,240 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 2: didn't know, and then her friends that I didn't know, 332 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 2: and then. 333 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 3: Like compare them together like a transformer. 334 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:37,800 Speaker 2: Now, since Nora had a hard time making new friends, 335 00:15:37,920 --> 00:15:40,080 Speaker 2: they moved in with us, and she's very, very shy. 336 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 2: Most of my family lives out of the country. So 337 00:15:42,880 --> 00:15:45,640 Speaker 2: the gifts were sent a week early. Okay, it was 338 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:48,200 Speaker 2: a huge bag with at least twenty gifts. 339 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:51,040 Speaker 3: That's a good amount of gift. Nice. The party was nice, 340 00:15:51,240 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 3: and we opened the bag at night. 341 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:55,480 Speaker 2: Once everybody left, my wife Jenna handed out the presence 342 00:15:55,760 --> 00:15:59,040 Speaker 2: after twelve gifts in a row, now just for Amy. 343 00:15:59,440 --> 00:16:01,960 Speaker 2: I checked the bag and froze to see that there 344 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 2: was only one gift for Nora. Oh that's so. That's rough, dude, 345 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:10,640 Speaker 2: what are you gonna do? And that gift was from 346 00:16:10,680 --> 00:16:11,200 Speaker 2: my parents. 347 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:11,760 Speaker 3: Oh. 348 00:16:12,560 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 2: Nora pretended it wasn't a big deal, but as she 349 00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:17,720 Speaker 2: opened up the present, I saw her eyes drop. It 350 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 2: was a fifteen dollars tumbler from Walmart Oh oh Man. 351 00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:28,040 Speaker 2: Not to sound ungrateful, but Amy's gifts were much more expensive. 352 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:31,200 Speaker 2: Lots of gift cards for over one hundred dollars, a 353 00:16:31,280 --> 00:16:35,760 Speaker 2: new phone limited edition Funkos designer clothes and lots of 354 00:16:35,800 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 2: cards wishing her happy birthday. 355 00:16:37,960 --> 00:16:42,120 Speaker 3: Z bro. Also, this is a hall, this is this 356 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:43,920 Speaker 3: is there's some good friends. 357 00:16:43,960 --> 00:16:48,000 Speaker 2: Bro, dude, what I want those friends? Needless to say, 358 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:51,320 Speaker 2: I blew up on the family chat. I called out 359 00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:55,000 Speaker 2: her parents, siblings and extended family who sent out gifts 360 00:16:55,040 --> 00:16:58,840 Speaker 2: not considering Nora, and for my parents for the cheap gift. 361 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:00,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's almost worse. 362 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 2: Like you get like dolls you see you see like, 363 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:06,480 Speaker 2: uh oh, Grandma and grandpa got me like no Gucci pants, thanks, 364 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 2: and then. 365 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:11,040 Speaker 3: You get a Walmart tumbler Like that's not so who's 366 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:11,880 Speaker 3: getting all of these? 367 00:17:12,240 --> 00:17:15,159 Speaker 2: Uh so her biological daughter Amy is the one getting 368 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:18,240 Speaker 2: all the okay, and her stepdaughter But why why why 369 00:17:18,320 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 2: is it like the mom getting something nice for the stepdaughter. 370 00:17:21,160 --> 00:17:22,280 Speaker 3: That's a great question. 371 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 2: Should maybe she should have like done a little RESEARCHA well, 372 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:27,439 Speaker 2: I guess maybe you kind of just expect like the 373 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:31,680 Speaker 2: presents to be somewhat equal. But yeah wait wait yeah 374 00:17:31,720 --> 00:17:34,760 Speaker 2: she got one present from the grandparents. Yeah, get two 375 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:38,400 Speaker 2: from each mom? Yeah, and also like maybe one from 376 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:39,400 Speaker 2: the stepdad too. 377 00:17:39,520 --> 00:17:41,440 Speaker 3: Why is it? Why is an op giving? Yeah? 378 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:44,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, why isn't ope giving any presents to a stepdaughter. 379 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:47,640 Speaker 3: That's the question. It's two women, by the way, Oh, 380 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:50,800 Speaker 3: two moms. Okay. Also like should it, like Ope give 381 00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:54,080 Speaker 3: a present? Oh, should give a gift the step mom? 382 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:58,199 Speaker 2: Shouldn't opee give a present to her stepdaughter? Yes, one 383 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:03,240 Speaker 2: hundred percent. And Nora is my And where's where's Nora's family? 384 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:05,280 Speaker 2: Like their side of the family. Oh, PE's family is 385 00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:07,439 Speaker 2: getting all these gifts for Amy, but the other family 386 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:08,800 Speaker 2: know where to be found. 387 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 3: A dude, I feel bad. Yeah, that's that sucks for Nora. 388 00:18:12,080 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 2: No one took me seriously, since it's not our duty 389 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:19,800 Speaker 2: to give gifts to somebody else's freaking whatever kid, and 390 00:18:20,240 --> 00:18:23,200 Speaker 2: Amy deserves them since I didn't even throw her her 391 00:18:23,240 --> 00:18:28,360 Speaker 2: own birthday party. Stupid emphasizing that Jenna and Nora are 392 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 2: my problems, not theirs, which is kind of fair, kind 393 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:36,800 Speaker 2: of fair. I don't know, like you could probably say 394 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:39,920 Speaker 2: it in a nice way, but like, but that is true, 395 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:42,320 Speaker 2: like honestly, Like this is the person I'm related to, 396 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 2: I know, I know them, Like I wouldn't even know 397 00:18:44,119 --> 00:18:46,840 Speaker 2: what to gift this other person, like not related, blah 398 00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 2: blah blah. Nora was clearly hurt since it's the first 399 00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:52,560 Speaker 2: time that my family has left her out at night. 400 00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:55,120 Speaker 2: I asked Amy to share some of the gifts with 401 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:58,199 Speaker 2: her stepsister, now all of them, just a couple of 402 00:18:58,240 --> 00:18:59,640 Speaker 2: gift cards and some of. 403 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:01,720 Speaker 3: The new Amy refused. 404 00:19:02,080 --> 00:19:05,119 Speaker 2: This surprised me since she never had a problem with sharing, 405 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:08,040 Speaker 2: and even though she and Nora are not BFFs, they 406 00:19:08,119 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 2: usually get along. After asking why, Amy started crying, saying 407 00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:14,639 Speaker 2: that she never wanted a joint birthday party and that 408 00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:17,480 Speaker 2: I forced her to share everything with Nora. They share 409 00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:20,400 Speaker 2: a room for space, and I make sure they're both 410 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 2: invited to the same parties and sleepovers. It's getting more 411 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:27,200 Speaker 2: and more suspicious so that Nora won't be left out. 412 00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 3: I think. 413 00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 1: I think OPI's actually trying to do a good thing, 414 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:33,159 Speaker 1: Like her heart's in the right place, I think, But 415 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:36,040 Speaker 1: I because because she also mentioned earlier that Nora has 416 00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 1: a hard time like making friends and stuff. 417 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:39,159 Speaker 3: So I was like, oh, well, like, I'll get her 418 00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 3: in the mid. 419 00:19:41,280 --> 00:19:46,360 Speaker 2: But there's definitely a delicate balance between like forcing her 420 00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:49,240 Speaker 2: on Amy's life, which like, isn't really fair to Amy. 421 00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 2: At the end of the day, I think the actual 422 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:53,960 Speaker 2: mom also should be made playing a more like literally's 423 00:19:54,119 --> 00:19:58,040 Speaker 2: where's Nora's mom? Like just hanging out, just twiddling your thumbs. 424 00:19:58,080 --> 00:20:01,199 Speaker 2: Amy stated that she at least wanted her own gifts 425 00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:04,560 Speaker 2: to be hers alone. I scolded her for being selfish 426 00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:07,720 Speaker 2: with her stepsister. I grounded her, and I took a 427 00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:10,040 Speaker 2: couple of the presents away from her to give them 428 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:13,960 Speaker 2: to Nora. M Yeah, but I feel like actually, like 429 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:18,320 Speaker 2: I mean, the reaction from her daughter is is kind 430 00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:21,720 Speaker 2: of fair. I mean not like like not completely fair, 431 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:23,240 Speaker 2: but it's like it is her style. 432 00:20:23,280 --> 00:20:24,280 Speaker 3: She's right to be upset. 433 00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:26,480 Speaker 2: And then she and I think she feels like I 434 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 2: think she does feel like now she's having to share everything, 435 00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:33,080 Speaker 2: and it's like, dude, I don't I don't necessarily even 436 00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:35,399 Speaker 2: want to hang out with Nora. And the joint birthday 437 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:37,679 Speaker 2: is a terrible idea, Like that's the biggest thing. Is 438 00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:40,320 Speaker 2: like there's literally no like okay, yeah, I get it, 439 00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:43,960 Speaker 2: they're close together, but just playing two separate things. 440 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:46,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, would do two different weekends. It's simple. 441 00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:48,240 Speaker 2: I went to give them to Nora, but she turned 442 00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:50,960 Speaker 2: them down because she doesn't want any problems with Amy 443 00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:54,480 Speaker 2: and because it felt like pity, I mean, yeah, kind 444 00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 2: of his it is since then Amy has been cold 445 00:20:57,440 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 2: to all of us. I just wanted my two girls 446 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:02,880 Speaker 2: to be closer with the joint party and have the 447 00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:03,800 Speaker 2: same things. 448 00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:05,160 Speaker 3: Am I the a whole? 449 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:07,800 Speaker 2: I don't think Op is an a whole. It's just like, 450 00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 2: but you are. I think you are fucking up a 451 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:12,240 Speaker 2: little bit. Yeah, you have to you have to be 452 00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:15,040 Speaker 2: more aware of your own daughter's needs because you are. 453 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:15,199 Speaker 3: Like. 454 00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:17,600 Speaker 2: It shouldn't be like I want them to have the 455 00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:20,480 Speaker 2: same things. That's like the wrong mindset. It should be like, 456 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:23,960 Speaker 2: I want to make sure Nora feels included and like 457 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:26,760 Speaker 2: feels like she's enjoying things like my own daughter. 458 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 3: And maybe you should have thought about getting Nora a present. 459 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:33,760 Speaker 2: Okay, so there. There's a quick update below that says 460 00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:37,080 Speaker 2: Op and her wife got gifts for both of the 461 00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 2: girls their own tablets as well as their friends, and 462 00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:43,240 Speaker 2: Nora also received gifts from the extended family, but they 463 00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:45,000 Speaker 2: sent for Amy as well. 464 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 3: Wait what does that mean? 465 00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:48,920 Speaker 2: So Nora received gifts from extended family, but they sent 466 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:49,919 Speaker 2: for Amy as. 467 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:50,560 Speaker 3: What none were sent? 468 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:53,480 Speaker 2: Maybe maybe none more centen Okay, yeah, either way, Okay, 469 00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:57,040 Speaker 2: so that Op actually did give a present. It's not 470 00:21:57,040 --> 00:22:00,960 Speaker 2: the extended family's job. To like make sure they're getting 471 00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:01,840 Speaker 2: the same presence. 472 00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:02,240 Speaker 3: I think. 473 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:04,560 Speaker 2: I think what you do in that case is like, hey, look, 474 00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:07,639 Speaker 2: I know, like it wasn't fun that, you know, you 475 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:10,040 Speaker 2: didn't get a bunch of gifts, But like, let's go 476 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:10,520 Speaker 2: out to it. 477 00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:11,560 Speaker 3: Like where do you want to go? Like do you 478 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:12,720 Speaker 3: want to go to Clayre's you want to go? 479 00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:14,440 Speaker 2: Like maybe we could go to amusement park, Like let's 480 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:16,320 Speaker 2: let's do a special day and like just enjoy the 481 00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:19,359 Speaker 2: two of us or something. Yeah, that's like I feel 482 00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:23,680 Speaker 2: like a better way than like, daughter, give me your stuff. 483 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:25,520 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. 484 00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:28,439 Speaker 2: Also, maybe opening up all those presents in front of 485 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:30,480 Speaker 2: the other kid maybe not the best move. 486 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:33,000 Speaker 3: Read the labels next time, Yeah, read the labels. Maybe 487 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:34,960 Speaker 3: look at it beforehand at the end of the day. 488 00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:37,119 Speaker 2: Op, he's not an a hole. It's just like just 489 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:39,800 Speaker 2: fucking up as a parent. You know, it's hard, dude. Yeah, 490 00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:41,600 Speaker 2: there's no rule. But I do feel for her a 491 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 2: little bit because it's it's a tricky situation. 492 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:44,600 Speaker 3: It is. It's so tricky. 493 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:46,240 Speaker 2: I think the only a whole move is blowing up 494 00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:48,720 Speaker 2: at the family for not giving gifts. It's like it's 495 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:51,159 Speaker 2: the grounding the daughter and grounding the daughter. But I 496 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:54,399 Speaker 2: overall she's like she had carts in the right place. 497 00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:57,200 Speaker 2: It's just the execution is not quite there.