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Speaker 1: radio blogs on the Fread Show. It's like for writing

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Speaker 1: in our diaries, except we say them a lot. Our

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Speaker 1: special guest show Bis Shelley By all means do you

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Speaker 1: want to a blog? Sure?

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Speaker 2: I can do a blog.

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Speaker 1: I saw you had many ideas today, But take it away.

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Speaker 1: Whichever one you.

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Speaker 2: Want interested you?

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 3: I feel like there's.

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Speaker 1: Which I keep telling you to take it away. I

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Speaker 1: need to say take it away. This that's my crush

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Speaker 1: of the hours. Take it away. That's okay, gonna stop

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Speaker 1: make a note, stop saying it. Just pick whichever one

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Speaker 1: you want, okay.

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Speaker 2: So, dear blog, I feel like the older you get.

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Speaker 2: We all know this. It's it's difficult to make friends, right,

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Speaker 2: they say that, like the old you get it's tough

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Speaker 2: to make friends. And so I have like a couple

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Speaker 2: like you guys know, my neighbors are my close friends.

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Speaker 2: And then I have maybe like a couple of friends

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Speaker 2: too who are like military spouses as well, that I

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Speaker 2: met through my husband's coworkers. While I was at the

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Speaker 2: park this past weekend with my kids and my daughter,

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Speaker 2: She's like running around and she actually like this woman

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Speaker 2: who was with her kids was at the park and

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Speaker 2: my daughter ran into her and she was so nice

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Speaker 2: to my daughter and she was like complimenting her outfit

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Speaker 2: and so cute. So I walked over there and I

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Speaker 2: got to talking to this mom and she was so cool.

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Speaker 2: She was like so nice. We had a lot in common,

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Speaker 2: and I was like, this is do I like want

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Speaker 2: to be friends with her? And how do I say, like,

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Speaker 2: I want to be friends with you? And so we're

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Speaker 2: talking and she's like, Okay, well I gotta get going.

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Speaker 2: We have to go to lunch. And so I said,

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Speaker 2: this is so weird, but can I get your number?

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Speaker 2: That's for her digits?

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Speaker 1: Wow, you're flame that game it's you And then I

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Speaker 1: scaring it asked for someone's number in the wild, I'm

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Speaker 1: afraid to do that too.

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Speaker 2: Confirm house, like, girl, what do you think of that

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Speaker 2: bird over there? And she's like, oh, I love it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, You're like, yeah, you're for me?

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Speaker 2: So she said, oh yeah, sure here, let me get

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Speaker 2: here's you.

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 2: Realistically, I'm like thinking back, I'm like, am I gonna tell?

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Speaker 1: Like what?

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Speaker 2: Am I going to actually text her? Like, hey, do

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Speaker 2: you want to go to the park again?

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Speaker 1: Like? What? Then?

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Speaker 2: Is like maybe I should have asked for her social media?

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Speaker 2: Do people do this? Like what do you do in

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Speaker 2: that situation?

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Speaker 1: No? I think I think you have kids. I mean

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Speaker 1: I think adults could ask other adults to be friends.

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Speaker 1: I think that, you know, I think it maybe would

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Speaker 1: gets weird if you if it's not truly understood what

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Speaker 1: the intentions are between different genders or people who have

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Speaker 1: this similar interest, right, Like, but I think in your case,

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Speaker 1: you're a mom, she's a mom. There are kids you

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Speaker 1: met in this setting. It is hard to meet people

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Speaker 1: as an adult to make new friends. I'm sure she

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Speaker 1: appreciated that. I'm sure I'm sure she'd love opportunity to

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Speaker 1: do that again, Like where you go do something with

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Speaker 1: the kids, and the kids play with each other, and

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Speaker 1: then you guys get adult time at the same time. True,

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Speaker 1: so she's probably really happy about it. Which was there

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Speaker 1: any hesitation to give you her number?

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Speaker 2: There was like a slightly oh yeah, for sure, like

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Speaker 2: a little like oh like. But then I thought maybe

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Speaker 2: because in this day and age, you know, you just

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Speaker 2: never know about it. I feel like maybe social media

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Speaker 2: would have been the thing to do. But then I

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Speaker 2: feel we're giving my social media, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 2: Because then.

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Speaker 1: I almost think that's more invasive to a complete stranger. Yeah, granted,

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Speaker 1: you do it on the dating apps all the time,

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Speaker 1: but like that's only to verify that you're not a

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Speaker 1: bot or AI that I'm not chatting with Chad GPT.

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Speaker 1: But I think a phone number is less invasive because

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Speaker 1: now it's like, can I see your husband and family

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Speaker 1: and you know where you live? And you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean. I think a phone number is kind of

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Speaker 1: like the way to do that.

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Speaker 3: Really, I do the Instagram thing, Yeah, yeah, that was sure.

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Speaker 3: This is such a random story, but I became friends

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Speaker 3: with Bad Bunny's ex girlfriend's cousin in Puerto Rico.

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Speaker 2: I see, you're bad Bunny.

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Speaker 3: I because she was traveling alone and was sitting next

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Speaker 3: to the hobby and I, you know, we're getting drinks,

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Speaker 3: we're having a good time. Let's go to Puerto Rico

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Speaker 3: a couple like what was it a month ago? And

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Speaker 3: she and her baby were traveling. So I've been through

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Speaker 3: that right, traveling alone with the baby. So I was

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Speaker 3: helping her, holding the baby, let her go to the bathroom.

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Speaker 3: I was doing all the things feeding the baby. I

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Speaker 3: was like mom mode. And then when she got off

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Speaker 3: the plane, she use my phone to call her sister

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Speaker 3: or something like that because she didn't have or her

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Speaker 3: phone wasn't like working or something with some story.

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Speaker 2: But then I was like, what's your Instagram?

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Speaker 3: Let's keep in touch and like now we're friends, and

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Speaker 3: do you.

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Speaker 2: Like message on Instagram?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Well, like keeping touch and stuff.

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Speaker 2: So I want to go back to Puerto Rico.

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Speaker 3: It's like one of my goals, like just to go

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Speaker 3: and like vacation again because it was amazing and she's

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Speaker 3: like cool people. And I felt like safer because I'm like, Okay,

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Speaker 3: we have a connection now. Somehow I get to see

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Speaker 3: her life and you see mine.

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Speaker 1: No, I think you sees this Shelley because it's hard

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Speaker 1: as an adult to meet new people, especially people who

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Speaker 1: were kind of in the same phase of life that

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Speaker 1: you are.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it is hard, And so afterwards, I like questioned myself.

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Speaker 2: I was like, maybe I should have done a social

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Speaker 2: thing for the reasons Paulina is saying, because but then

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Speaker 2: I feel like our socials is a little because we

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Speaker 2: didn't talk about what we did for a living. So

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Speaker 2: then if I already give my social like hey, I'm at.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, then she's gonna start She'll start texting you for

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Speaker 1: Jonah's brothers tickets or whatever.

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Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, okay.

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Speaker 1: I think it's weird that you text her this morning

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Speaker 1: at two in the morning asking if you up, Like,

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Speaker 1: I think that's what I think. That makes it. That

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Speaker 1: makes things a little strange now, but okay, you'll have

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Speaker 1: to deal with that, or hey, are you my twin flame? Like,

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Speaker 1: I think that's weird, but you do. You do what

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Speaker 1: you gotta do. Waiting by the phone. He's new and

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