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Speaker 1: Remember these are my thoughts and opinions, and if you're

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Speaker 1: suffering from an issue or hardship, you should seek help

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Speaker 1: from a qualified professional. All right, now, go ahead and

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Speaker 1: leave your question at the sound of the beat. Hey, Janny,

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Speaker 1: I love your podcast. I love your sister's podcast, Jennica

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Speaker 1: over Comfort. Hello, you guys are representing and I love

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Speaker 1: your music. You are a bad bitch to jump into

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Speaker 1: my issues that I would say I'm currently facing. Not

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Speaker 1: Let me know what you think. Hi, Ali, Oh my goodness,

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Speaker 1: thank you for listening to my podcast and loving it,

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Speaker 1: up when you can, because this book talks about things

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Speaker 1: that we do in life because it's socially correct, because

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