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Speaker 1: Wine Down with Janet Kramer and I Heart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 1: Apologies for those listening. It's a how do we say?

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Speaker 1: Joe certifiable? This might be our biggest show moment and

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Speaker 1: we've had a lot so for him for me to

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Speaker 1: move this one up to the top of the ranks.

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Speaker 1: It's Sunday, you guys are listening to this now, Monday,

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Speaker 1: the day before. Usually we record like the middle of

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Speaker 1: the week, yeah, for a next week's episode, but I

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Speaker 1: was in England, so I was like, well, let's just

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Speaker 1: do it on Sunday. And there we are. She just

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Speaker 1: got back from a cheer competition, which is this her

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Speaker 1: last one? No, she's got one more. It's never her

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Speaker 1: last never. Yeah, this was yeah. No, I'm just tired

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Speaker 1: my brain. Cheer captain cat is what I'm gonna start

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Speaker 1: calling your mom? Oh I had my cheer mom, Captain.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna scrimp anyway, Um, what about y'all? And then

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Speaker 1: Kristen was just out of breath from existing where you'd

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Speaker 1: like a birthday party or what were you doing? It?

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Speaker 1: Just a little family hangout. I feel like I haven't

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Speaker 1: seen anyone. Yeah, do you feel that? Like? You guys?

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Speaker 1: It was like New Year's Eve and then all of

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Speaker 1: a sudden, it's March, and I'm just a little confused

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Speaker 1: how that happened, and all I just I just haven't

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Speaker 1: seen conversation with my husband. It's weird. But at the

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Speaker 1: same time, I just it's it's there's so much it's

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Speaker 1: hard to I know, it was so sincere, I really

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Speaker 1: feel it. But also when Kristen was coming to the house,

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Speaker 1: one of my neighbor's dogs like ran into the house

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Speaker 1: and then I was on a street with a two

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Speaker 1: year old and she's like, what happened? It was like

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Speaker 1: an episode of like Doctor Doolittle or something. There was

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Speaker 1: like there was like dogs running everywhere, and then there's

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Speaker 1: a baby in a stroller in the middle of the

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Speaker 1: street and you're just next to it. And I was like, hmmmily,

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Speaker 1: there's circumstances around this. I just don't know what they are.

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Speaker 1: But to that point is I haven't seen such a

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Speaker 1: sweet I love this girl in my neighborhood. And I

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Speaker 1: said some thing to another neighbor the other day when

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Speaker 1: so we had a showing at the house and I

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Speaker 1: was like, well, I don't want to leave this only

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Speaker 1: thirty minutes. So we just were like driving around. When

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Speaker 1: we went to drive, we drove to go see the

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Speaker 1: new house, but then like Juliet to Peace and then

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Speaker 1: we drove back and so we stopped at Pam's house

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Speaker 1: to use the restroom and then but I saw like

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Speaker 1: one of our neighbors and I'm like, oh, he's like,

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Speaker 1: I feel like I haven't seen you all. I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'll see you in summer, because that's like besides that,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like it's hard to see anybody. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's hard. And it's a pretty day today. Say, people

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Speaker 1: are out, people are out. I know we all come

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Speaker 1: out of hibernation in Tennessee, Yes we do. So Hello,

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Speaker 1: welcome to wine. Now that we've just word vomited all

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Speaker 1: over you about our lives, I think it's going to

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Speaker 1: be a good week, though, I'm projecting a great week.

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Speaker 1: Having said that, I feel like a weather forecast. I

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Speaker 1: feel like you're on a green screen. Guy that from

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Speaker 1: copy that? Can I tell them the copy that? Sure?

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Speaker 1: I really like, I know I say it on sets

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Speaker 1: like a copy that or can't work stuff you guys.

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Speaker 1: I literally was here for like five minutes and I

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Speaker 1: looked at Kat and I was like if we played

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Speaker 1: a drinking game for every time I heard the words

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Speaker 1: copy that. Since I got here, I'm really from you

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Speaker 1: for sure, not all of us, just you. I hear mom,

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Speaker 1: I'm going Pete, and then I'll hear is Kramer go

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Speaker 1: copy that. I was like, she just copied that dirt

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Speaker 1: four year old seven? But oh I didn't know which

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Speaker 1: one it was. Well, you still copied that to your

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Speaker 1: seven year old? Copy that copy that. I don't know

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Speaker 1: why I say that. It's almost like a different way

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Speaker 1: of saying okay, I don't know, that is what it is.

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Speaker 1: It's almost like saying I heard you and I understand that. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Actually thoughts with Jane Kramer? Did you have a pop

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Speaker 1: brownie for your love you guys? So she came in,

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Speaker 1: I'm loving this Okay, oh god, It's like, okay, I

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Speaker 1: heard you that. Yeah I do, I really do. It's

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Speaker 1: So it's like I be that like acknowledging and I

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Speaker 1: got it, sir yeah or ma'am where the director is Yes,

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Speaker 1: I started noticing it on set. Only used to do it,

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Speaker 1: and I agree with you because or it's like, okay,

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Speaker 1: oh okay, I got it. That's four Oh boy, okay,

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Speaker 1: got it? Copy? Oh so I go about okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: isn't it fair? Okay? Got it? Yeah? Yeah. So it's

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Speaker 1: like four syllables verse gotty that you guys copy that three? Okay?

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Speaker 1: You beat me by one? Gy if I just say

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Speaker 1: everybody okay yeah o K though you just I mean,

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Speaker 1: I don't say K and I never say love you.

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Speaker 1: I always say I love you. Fun fact you'll never

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Speaker 1: see me say so. I think there was a meme

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Speaker 1: that was going around that said it takes less than

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Speaker 1: a second to add the eye before I love you,

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Speaker 1: and the meaning behind it's saying I love you versus

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Speaker 1: I love you. It matters to me so much. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm to think about that every time I tell you

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Speaker 1: I love you? Now, Oh, do with an eye? Can't you?

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Speaker 1: I don't know? So I agree, I never do it

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Speaker 1: without it, but it's only I don't only with a relationship.

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Speaker 1: Do I care about the eye? If I was doing

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Speaker 1: it for you, I'd be like, love you, Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: do my friend, Yeah, love you. Oh I need do

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Speaker 1: for you because I know now, I know yeah this

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Speaker 1: whole time because I'm like love you no, but I'll

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Speaker 1: you guys. When the soft light goes out, it's like

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Speaker 1: last call at the bar. It's really tragic of a

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Speaker 1: sudden anything at the bar. Okay. So we have a

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Speaker 1: another hot topics episode that I'm going to get to.

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Speaker 1: But I have a hot topic that I want to

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Speaker 1: how do I say this? Let's teeter all a lot

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Speaker 1: of the details. And so when I was thinking, I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 1: how do I have this conversation, something happened. I'm not

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Speaker 1: going to say when Okay, guys, I feel scared. You

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Speaker 1: feel scared? Oh don't. It's really not scary. Okay, but okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: So an incident happened and it brought up a really

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Speaker 1: good topic. Katherine and I were together at something and

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Speaker 1: I wasn't there, so I already dislike it. And a

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Speaker 1: topic came up in my mind that I go, huh,

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Speaker 1: I wonder what would what would you do? What Catherine do?

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Speaker 1: Also what would christ and do? What would you do?

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Speaker 1: And just like what would you do? So at something?

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Speaker 1: months into well, and I was like, you know, actually

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Speaker 1: hanging out right, so fair, Yeah, that touche. I have

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Speaker 1: my best podcast, my favorite one so far. So but

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Speaker 1: how it fizzled was it was kind of, um, I

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Speaker 1: the person said a lot of not nice things, especially

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Speaker 1: a courtship with respect and walking away and going, you

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Speaker 1: know what, we just weren't right for each other, right,

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Speaker 1: So but I always will like be kosher and be

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Speaker 1: We said something the other day another podcast where yes,

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Speaker 1: I think I was like friends with my exes back

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Speaker 1: in the past, but I really am not friends with

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Speaker 1: so it's I'm not I don't know why I held

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Speaker 1: on and was friends with my exes in my twenties.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if that was something that I was

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Speaker 1: I don't know I did that, did you in twenties? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the twenty year old version of me was doing a

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Speaker 1: because maybe some like if I saw like my highlol sweetheart,

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Speaker 1: it's like a people pleasing to you. That makes sense.

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Speaker 1: Well you kind of hug everybody too, yeah, like you're

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Speaker 1: a hugger. Yeah, I'm a hugger for sure. But even

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Speaker 1: Like I mean, I have hug Mike. I don't want to.

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Speaker 1: and then I also had this happened to me or

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Speaker 1: an X ran into my one of my husband's exes

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Speaker 1: ran into him copy what not? Copied, uncopy, uncopy, uncopy

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Speaker 1: and unpaced. M we. I was in a situation where

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Speaker 1: I was there and she came in big bear, huggy,

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, and I was like, this is where the

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Speaker 1: because I hug a lot of people. But if I don't,

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Speaker 1: like if it's if you're in that category, you're in

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Speaker 1: that category, I don't hug you, got it. Yeah. I

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Speaker 1: I hadn't seen that person in a long time, ming

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Speaker 1: I didn't. I yeah, okay, And I'm a huggy girl,

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Speaker 1: right cap No, well, I actually hug more than you

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Speaker 1: think for like that uncomfortable like first meeting, like I'll

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Speaker 1: hug not in that situation. No, no, hug. I'm really

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Speaker 1: proud of all of us because I think that's just

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Speaker 1: like a very like it's very in alignment your actions

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Speaker 1: how many reunion parts can we get, you know, for

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00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:24,719
Speaker 1: all this? So I'm not sure, Like I really everybody

422
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 1: seems really upset, So I think maybe it's I think

423
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 1: it's real because that's the thing where I feel like

424
00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:32,240
Speaker 1: a lot of these because you know, many people do

425
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 1: reality TV shows. Yeah, there's obviously going to be drama,

426
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 1: but there's a lot like hey say this, or let's

427
00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:41,119
Speaker 1: let's cloud this storyline. Like even when we did that

428
00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:43,600
Speaker 1: little thing, it's like, all right, try to get them

429
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:45,480
Speaker 1: to talk about this, which then called And so I'm like,

430
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:49,919
Speaker 1: I'm sure things happen, and obviously it's the only thing

431
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:53,119
Speaker 1: that just feels a little ironic or something. That is

432
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:56,880
Speaker 1: the fact that to me, and again this is maybe

433
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,919
Speaker 1: not all cheaters do this, but my X was very

434
00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 1: good at maybe changing the name in the phone. So

435
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:08,960
Speaker 1: if there was a if he put Raquel in there

436
00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 1: and then put those messages, I mean, that's just sloppy

437
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:16,200
Speaker 1: cheating number one. But number two, Yeah, it's like but

438
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:20,119
Speaker 1: also that just seems a little convenient that that's like

439
00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:23,199
Speaker 1: her name was in the phone. But I'm gosh, I mean,

440
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:24,920
Speaker 1: I would I would hope that wasn't because I'd hate

441
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:28,399
Speaker 1: when people I mean the fact that like Ariana's you know,

442
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 1: got got hurt and anyone's hurting. But at the same time,

443
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:36,000
Speaker 1: I wouldn't put it past anybody to have it to cheat. Unfortunately,

444
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 1: there's like so much information coming out from every everywhere,

445
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,320
Speaker 1: Like people are saying, I was at Tom's show last night.

446
00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:45,080
Speaker 1: People were screaming arian his name because on Saturday or

447
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 1: Friday night or Saturday night he had a show for

448
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 1: his own cover band in Orange County, and so there's

449
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:53,160
Speaker 1: just so much information coming out about it. I think,

450
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:56,240
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's a lot like it's like for

451
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 1: Bravo fans are like minds are blown Okay, okay, what

452
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 1: a Tom's Okay, here we go, word of Tom. Hey,

453
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:07,200
Speaker 1: I fully understand and deserve your anger and disappointment towards me,

454
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 1: but please leave Schwartz, my friends, and family out of

455
00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 1: the situation. Schwartz specifically only found out about this very

456
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:16,159
Speaker 1: recently and most definitely did not condone my actions. This

457
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:19,360
Speaker 1: was a very personal thing. Also, Schwartz and Sandies. That's

458
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,840
Speaker 1: the name of the bar that they owned together. I

459
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 1: might have a name on it, but also there are

460
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:26,960
Speaker 1: three other partners and twenty employees who especially rely on

461
00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 1: the restaurant for income for them and their families, just

462
00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:31,959
Speaker 1: like Tom Tom, which is another bar that they did

463
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:35,359
Speaker 1: together with Lisa Vanderpump. I am a small part of

464
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:37,920
Speaker 1: a much bigger thing. Please direct your anger towards me

465
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 1: and not them. They did nothing wrong. I'm so sorry

466
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:43,200
Speaker 1: that my partners, Greg Brett and Schwartz, and our employees

467
00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:45,359
Speaker 1: have to suffer for my actions. I will be taking

468
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:47,680
Speaker 1: a step back and taking a hiatus out of respect

469
00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:49,879
Speaker 1: for my employees and partners. I need some time to

470
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:55,520
Speaker 1: address everything else. Sorry for everything. Did Rackel did Raquel

471
00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:57,920
Speaker 1: name the bar Tom Tom? Because that seems like something

472
00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:04,120
Speaker 1: she's into interesting. That makes me feel like it's real. Yeah,

473
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 1: that makes me definitely feel like it's real. People are responding,

474
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 1: the castmates are responding, say what about Ariana? No, sorry

475
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:13,760
Speaker 1: to Arianna. That's where I'm at. Yeah, I know it's terrible.

476
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:16,400
Speaker 1: You know. It's interesting though, from that apology, I almost

477
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:19,679
Speaker 1: like the fact that he hopefully he's doing an internal

478
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:24,040
Speaker 1: apology and not just doing the blanket like I'm so

479
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 1: sorry for hurting you, because he needs to be saying

480
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:28,240
Speaker 1: that to her and not because a lot of the

481
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:31,400
Speaker 1: times when you see those Tristan or the whatever Levine apologies,

482
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 1: they're like, they don't really. The only one that really

483
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:36,879
Speaker 1: did it good was Timberlakes. He's like, I hurt her,

484
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 1: and you know, he like really empathized with her pain,

485
00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 1: and and everybody else is like, I'm just so sorry.

486
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 1: I loved you so much. I hate the public apologies honestly.

487
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:47,160
Speaker 1: I mean, I get why they have to do them,

488
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:48,920
Speaker 1: but I hate him. Yeah, I would have just like

489
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:52,160
Speaker 1: some mention of her like I am handling my relationship

490
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 1: with Arianna and I have got you know whatever. It's yeah,

491
00:27:57,320 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 1: his business. Yeah, that's a little yeah. Yeah, And he's

492
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 1: like and free beers on Friday night. Yeah, is this

493
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 1: guy talking? Don't let this suffer? And maybe he's not

494
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 1: sorry for the affair, maybe he's not whatever, who knows,

495
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 1: and maybe that is his concern right now. I get that,

496
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 1: but it seems very said that. I mean, I just

497
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 1: I keep thinking back to like, you know you were

498
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 1: on I mean, that's I mean shot with my ex.

499
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:28,120
Speaker 1: We were filming a reality show when he was cheating.

500
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, don't you know that stuff's gonna come out?

501
00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 1: I just don't think always comes out. I just don't

502
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 1: think they think. Yeah, I truly don't think that they're thinking.

503
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 1: They're thinking with their and for once, like can a

504
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 1: guy just I would have so much more respect if

505
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:48,520
Speaker 1: a man came and said, I dub yes, I'm so

506
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:52,720
Speaker 1: sorry I and whether you stay with me or not,

507
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 1: Like it's the discovery is the worst part because you

508
00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 1: can't trust anything they say moving forward. That's why it's

509
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 1: like when a cheater whatever, like, how are you ever

510
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 1: going to trust them again? They didn't tell you? So.

511
00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:09,720
Speaker 1: Was Raquel and Ariana friends as well? Yes, they were friends.

512
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 1: She was closer to Shena on the show, but they

513
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:16,240
Speaker 1: were friends because member. Yeah. Yeah, they're all cast members

514
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 1: and um, there was even so people are now going

515
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:23,520
Speaker 1: back to like Tom Sandovald's interviews and Raquel's interviews and

516
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 1: recently on Watch What Happens Live, Andy ass which Tom

517
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 1: do you think is more attractive? Tom Sandoval Tom Schwartz

518
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 1: And then she answered Tom Sandoal So, like people are

519
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 1: dissecting this and there's like Reddit saying that they're in love,

520
00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 1: that he's been wanting to read. Um, he's been wanting

521
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 1: to leave Arianna. This is all like stuff online, So

522
00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:43,080
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's true. Yeah, we don't give

523
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 1: any credit to that here on the wind Down podcast. Yeah, well,

524
00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 1: you know I would just say to Ariana better. I

525
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 1: mean nine years so it's so hard, but I just

526
00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:01,880
Speaker 1: hate that she's hurting and whatever. Everyone else needs to

527
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 1: figure out, Like, I hope they all do their internal

528
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:07,200
Speaker 1: work to figure out why they've went that path instead

529
00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:11,000
Speaker 1: of doing it better. We all make mistakes, but hopefully

530
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 1: they can look in how hard man with how public

531
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:17,200
Speaker 1: it is so public, that's what I was just thinking.

532
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 1: It hurts me. I mean, they don't have a choice.

533
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 1: It's just so public, and people think are so emotionally invested,

534
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:28,680
Speaker 1: like Jackie, Oh my gosh, everybody's invested, and I just

535
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:32,000
Speaker 1: and even like on our podcast producers text, we're all

536
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:36,040
Speaker 1: just like what is going on? But yeah, because it

537
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 1: is a reality show. They're part of a reality show

538
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 1: that people have been watching their relationship. We watched from

539
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:43,480
Speaker 1: the beginning of their relationship, are on and tom of

540
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 1: them getting together, and so I think a lot of

541
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:48,360
Speaker 1: people have watched them grow and go through things together.

542
00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 1: So I think it's like a relationship you almost feel

543
00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 1: like you're a part of because you've seen the growth

544
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 1: with them. They bought a house together, and they fell

545
00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 1: in love on the show and all that. So you're

546
00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 1: just kind of like, well, like my friends, I've been

547
00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:02,880
Speaker 1: watching for nine years on a reality show and now

548
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 1: they're broken up, and then you feel for it. Yeah,

549
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 1: that's sad. That's where I always go with, you know,

550
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 1: because we've obviously have filmed those little teasers and stuff

551
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 1: for reality stuff for reality shows, and a part of it, Yeah,

552
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 1: it would be already show because I feel like social media,

553
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 1: our phones are our own private reality story reality show, right, So,

554
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 1: but this is like a whole different level. So I

555
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:34,480
Speaker 1: often wonder, you know, as fun as it would be

556
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:36,320
Speaker 1: to have all of us like we did like a show.

557
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 1: How scary the flip side of that is to be

558
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:43,120
Speaker 1: so dissected and then when the drama happens, it's like

559
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 1: but and having said all that, though, I mean, then

560
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 1: you look at the Kardashians and they've found a way

561
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 1: to just block out the negative noises and the things

562
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 1: that I think the key is the executive producer or

563
00:31:56,640 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 1: the producer piece of it, because you still the reality

564
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 1: TV moment I had was not a nurturing, loving one

565
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 1: because I literally signed like one hundred and sixty pages

566
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 1: that was just like edit me anyway you want to,

567
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 1: and also you could kill me. It's not your fault.

568
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 1: And I was like XO xo, you know, like I

569
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:16,000
Speaker 1: can't wait. Yeah. The problem is, though, is you're still

570
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 1: getting doesn't matter if you have a little bit of

571
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:21,440
Speaker 1: control over it. They are still going to dissect every

572
00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:23,880
Speaker 1: little thing. And you have full control over what you

573
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 1: put on social media. Yeah, that's just the thing that

574
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 1: So are we going to start our own online social

575
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 1: media reality TV show? Yep? Okay, maybe you and you

576
00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:39,440
Speaker 1: are my participating players, not me anymore, because that's terrifying. No,

577
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 1: I mean it's scary. I just hate anybody that has

578
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:44,719
Speaker 1: to do any of this publicly. I felt that way

579
00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 1: about Ukramer the entire time, like it's just it's not fair.

580
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 1: It's all of that is heartbreak anyways. I mean, even

581
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 1: if say all of this is scripted, all of it's

582
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 1: a big setup blah la lah, like there's still your

583
00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:59,760
Speaker 1: character is being just drug through the mud either way,

584
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 1: you know, and you've got and then you've got people

585
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:04,720
Speaker 1: pitying you and you guys like it's it's just no

586
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:09,120
Speaker 1: wonder like silent the social media try out yourself sister, Yeah, yeah, yeah, no.

587
00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 1: I shoot, I remember the I wrote this down and

588
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 1: something that you'll read one day. But it was the

589
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:17,800
Speaker 1: because you guys had told me not to put Instagram

590
00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:20,280
Speaker 1: on for a minute, like after I filed, but of

591
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:22,840
Speaker 1: course I looked, because if the anxiety almost felt worse

592
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,160
Speaker 1: to like not look at it, and then you see

593
00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 1: all these things with like our picture with like the

594
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:31,000
Speaker 1: heart through it and like the it's just like you're

595
00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:34,680
Speaker 1: just the anxiety. The like of all of that was

596
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 1: the worst feeling in the world. But yeah, I feel

597
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:43,320
Speaker 1: for that's crap. I hate to pick a team, but

598
00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 1: Bye Tom, Bye Tom Tom, Bye Double Tom. I agree.

599
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:50,959
Speaker 1: I actually kind of feel bad for the other time. Literally,

600
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:57,160
Speaker 1: can the poor Tom, poor Tom shorts? The other Tom

601
00:33:57,280 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 1: was use a facade. So yeah, he's like, He's like,

602
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:01,840
Speaker 1: I just gotten a divorce. I thought I had a

603
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:06,000
Speaker 1: hot girlfriend. She's making out with my best friend and partner. Yeah. Yeah,

604
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go team Arian on this one too. And

605
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:12,919
Speaker 1: if you need advice on how to get over a cheater,

606
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:17,040
Speaker 1: slide into my DMS. Yeah, got you, girl, Actually just

607
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 1: grab a copy of that's coming soon. Can we move

608
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:36,279
Speaker 1: on to something lighter? Yeah? What would you like to

609
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:37,959
Speaker 1: move on to? I like to move on to Bette

610
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 1: Miller's finally coming out that she tailored her face. Hey girl,

611
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 1: Hey girl, girl, come on now, we already knew. Would

612
00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 1: she say? Is she saying she just now? I think

613
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:52,800
Speaker 1: she just admitted that. Like the focus star got candid

614
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:55,400
Speaker 1: about her seemingly ageless appearance during her acceptance speech to

615
00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 1: the Costume Designs Designer's Guild. Monday Night Time has a

616
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:01,279
Speaker 1: way of smoothing everyth out, the seventy seven year old

617
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 1: joked while accepting Distinguished Collaborator Award. I've been at it

618
00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:07,240
Speaker 1: for close to sixty years, and I do look fabulous,

619
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 1: I know, she joked, as the crowd cheered, I've been

620
00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 1: I've had some tailoring done on my face. I'm using

621
00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:16,400
Speaker 1: that phrase speculation. The singer had previously gone a facelifter botox.

622
00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:20,879
Speaker 1: Miller has been mum on the matter until not until now.

623
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 1: I just like it when everybody can. I think it's

624
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:27,719
Speaker 1: fair to say what you've done. I'm very loud and

625
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 1: proud about my botox, my all my injections, because I

626
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:35,840
Speaker 1: don't think it's fair to sit back like I have

627
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 1: a lot of girls in my hometown. They're like, oh

628
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:39,879
Speaker 1: you're you know, like you look so pretty or you're

629
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 1: this was like, first of all, it was a red carpet,

630
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 1: I'm spray tanned. You know, I have a corset on

631
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:46,959
Speaker 1: and I have spanks, double spanks this last time because

632
00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:49,279
Speaker 1: I had to hide a little secret guest. And then

633
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:52,840
Speaker 1: you know it's like I'm so I just I don't know.

634
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:55,279
Speaker 1: I guess it's part of in my brain, like playing

635
00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 1: fair for females, Like am I making any sense? I

636
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:02,400
Speaker 1: don't think it's fair to be like, oh yeah, I

637
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:05,640
Speaker 1: just age gracefully, or you know, like I have good genetics.

638
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:07,759
Speaker 1: My mom is super pretty and doesn't look our age.

639
00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 1: My grandma doesn't look our age. But I'm also botoxy

640
00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 1: and the shi t out of my face like and

641
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 1: I'm I say that because I don't think it's fair

642
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:18,400
Speaker 1: for anybody to compare themselves and not know the tools

643
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 1: that are being used. Yeah, I agree with you, but

644
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 1: at the same time, I agree with you, and if

645
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:27,880
Speaker 1: that were me, I would tell everybody. But at the

646
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:30,880
Speaker 1: same time, it's their body, it's their choice, and I

647
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:32,759
Speaker 1: also feel like it's kind of their choice whether they

648
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:36,120
Speaker 1: want to tell people or not. I don't know once

649
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:39,640
Speaker 1: you're in public. Oh well, I think it's the thing

650
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 1: is I think it's kind of obvious too, like when

651
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:43,480
Speaker 1: you look at like a madonna, like you know that

652
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 1: certain people have gotten work done, and I hate that

653
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 1: we have to be made to feel bad that we

654
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:52,839
Speaker 1: have gotten worked one or like, oh look how much

655
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:56,279
Speaker 1: their face has changed. It's like, you know, guy can

656
00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:58,919
Speaker 1: go wrinkly until they're eighty and look like Harrison forty

657
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 1: is a very track of man or Kevin Costner, but

658
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 1: a woman can't be like you know, I remember they

659
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:08,400
Speaker 1: used to talk about Nicole Kidman not being able to

660
00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 1: move her face. Well, I hope they say that about

661
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 1: me behind my back that Kristen brush. She can barely

662
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 1: move her face. That's right, and you could too. I

663
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:24,279
Speaker 1: think there's ways of slowing the process down. Now. I

664
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 1: think sometimes women may might do it where it may

665
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:31,840
Speaker 1: might make them look older too. I want to have

666
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:37,520
Speaker 1: the middle ground where you know, yeah, I do botox.

667
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:39,400
Speaker 1: I don't do it every three months. I do like

668
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 1: every like five to six, so, like you know, twice

669
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 1: a year, just to whatever, just to help slow down

670
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 1: the process. Lit. My mom has never done botox once

671
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 1: in her life. She's so cute and she doesn't have

672
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:52,279
Speaker 1: like a barely wrinkle. But like you said, I just

673
00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:56,360
Speaker 1: slowing down. Having said that, it is something where I

674
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:59,840
Speaker 1: noticed when I was smiling, how wrinkly and then like that,

675
00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 1: you know, when your eyelids start to get and so

676
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:06,440
Speaker 1: I think there's things like those eyelid surgeries. Now, I

677
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:08,480
Speaker 1: just think there's a balance if you want to do

678
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 1: it great, yes, absolutely, Now I don't know that I

679
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 1: could be on the extreme side of things, But I

680
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:18,319
Speaker 1: also think there can be like a healthy balance. Having

681
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:21,400
Speaker 1: said all of that, I am having an issue with

682
00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:26,320
Speaker 1: so I've been really deep diving. I love Bethany Frankel.

683
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 1: I've just been like in such a deep dive and

684
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:33,680
Speaker 1: she's been doing a unfilter follow and so for the

685
00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 1: last three days, I've made myself not do a filter

686
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:43,239
Speaker 1: on my stories, and it's it plays with your mind

687
00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:47,359
Speaker 1: so much because I've been so used to and I haven't.

688
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:49,320
Speaker 1: I haven't used like the real extreme ones like the

689
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 1: one that I used kind of makes your lips a

690
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:57,400
Speaker 1: teeny bit bigger, you know, and like one that's like

691
00:38:57,680 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 1: syringe will too. I just I'm not there. I don't

692
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:03,120
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't know. Maybe when I'm older,

693
00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 1: I might touch my lips. But I've only ever done botox.

694
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 1: That's it. It's only I'm obviously my boobs. That's they're

695
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:14,640
Speaker 1: o hey girls, Hey girls. But with everything else and

696
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:18,600
Speaker 1: so so the filters. It's just it makes me feel

697
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:20,279
Speaker 1: sad because I'm like, man, like, I would never I

698
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 1: keep going back to Jolie. I would never want her

699
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:24,880
Speaker 1: to filter her face on Instagram, and I'm like, here's

700
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 1: her mom filtering her face. And I've just I've loved

701
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 1: watching what Bethany's done. Now I'm not ready to say

702
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 1: I'm never going to filter myself, right, So that's why

703
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 1: I haven't done it. But I'm trying to like just

704
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:38,080
Speaker 1: not do it as much. So maybe I went back

705
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:40,359
Speaker 1: to the nineteen eighty seven one where it doesn't change

706
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 1: your face, just gives you a slight tan eighty seven. Yeah,

707
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:46,279
Speaker 1: so I've I've I'm like, maybe I'm just gonna go

708
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 1: back to that because that one just gives you a

709
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:52,000
Speaker 1: little little a little bronze. Okay, so I've been doing something. Okay,

710
00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:56,359
Speaker 1: I don't do my videos on Instagram first. I only

711
00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 1: do them on my camera first, and that'll keep you

712
00:39:58,680 --> 00:40:02,400
Speaker 1: from filtering it. Yeah, that's smart. So I just posted

713
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:03,840
Speaker 1: this one of Love and I the other day and

714
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 1: she had bunny ears on and I have about nine

715
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:12,440
Speaker 1: thousand wrinkles in my forehead because I haven't votoxed and

716
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:14,800
Speaker 1: because you know, you can't do that when you're pregnant,

717
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:17,040
Speaker 1: and I can't wait to just swing through on the

718
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:19,920
Speaker 1: way home from the hospital I get injected. But I

719
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 1: was like, I don't want to. I almost didn't post it,

720
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:24,320
Speaker 1: and it was so cute of her, and I was like,

721
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:26,400
Speaker 1: you know what, this is just reality, and I'm just

722
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:29,160
Speaker 1: going to do it. Yeah, so I didn't do I

723
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:31,759
Speaker 1: didn't even paris it. I did New York on it

724
00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:33,839
Speaker 1: at the swipepee to make it look a little greeny

725
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:37,200
Speaker 1: in old school. But is it's it's it's like my

726
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 1: challenge though. I will say it's like a few things

727
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 1: that I having something I don't look cute. I would

728
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:43,360
Speaker 1: have felt cute if I did the filter, and I'm like,

729
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:45,359
Speaker 1: that's so messed up. I know. That's why I had

730
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:48,080
Speaker 1: to stop, because then I was being hard on myself. Yeah,

731
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:51,799
Speaker 1: like I like a false reality, yeah, even for yourself,

732
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:54,279
Speaker 1: which gets weird and really kind of crazy. And I

733
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:55,840
Speaker 1: was like, I'm not doing this to me anymore. Like

734
00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 1: you guys, we all look good and we're healthy, you know,

735
00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 1: like we're trying. So it were so picked up part,

736
00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:04,440
Speaker 1: and then you see all these other people using these

737
00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:06,759
Speaker 1: filters that I'm like, this is that really what they

738
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:08,440
Speaker 1: look like? And then I go I'm like, WHOA, Like

739
00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:11,960
Speaker 1: that looks nothing. I just had this conversation about weight

740
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:15,319
Speaker 1: and the weight loss drug that's running rampant, like all

741
00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:18,040
Speaker 1: over the place. Everyone's getting these shots of this, the

742
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:22,200
Speaker 1: diabetic medicine that is making everybody super tiny, and I

743
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 1: had this conversation with a girlfriend the other day. I

744
00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:28,759
Speaker 1: was like, man, that just it feels like an unfair race,

745
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:34,440
Speaker 1: you know, like it feels like because your kins on

746
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 1: that one. But yeah, me too, because I don't think

747
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:38,719
Speaker 1: it's good for your body if you don't need that

748
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:41,279
Speaker 1: medicine plus all the other things, like people that need

749
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 1: it have a hard time getting it. But you know,

750
00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:46,879
Speaker 1: like we have to walk carpets with people that aren't

751
00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 1: playing the same aren't racing the same race as us.

752
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:54,000
Speaker 1: I already walk carpets as an older wife, which is

753
00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 1: crazy at forty, but at forty, I'm one of the

754
00:41:56,600 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 1: older ones, and now I'm the one. It's like working

755
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 1: out five times a week and I'm not doing any

756
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:05,600
Speaker 1: of these not saying other wives there are, but I'm

757
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 1: just saying, like, if you're in these public places, I

758
00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:10,480
Speaker 1: don't know who is and who isn't. But I know

759
00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:16,239
Speaker 1: everyone is rapidly shrinking lately, everyone, I mean, from LA

760
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:19,440
Speaker 1: to New York and everybody in between. But what makes

761
00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 1: me sad about that whole conversation. You just compared yourself

762
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:28,400
Speaker 1: to people for five minutes older, shrinking small, Like whatever

763
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:32,880
Speaker 1: happened everyone being different sizes? I know different ages like that, honestly,

764
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:35,400
Speaker 1: but it's so angry. It's the pick apart piece, right

765
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:37,520
Speaker 1: because like when you're working yourself apart. No, but like

766
00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 1: on a I think I look great on a carpet

767
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:46,360
Speaker 1: because so the skinnier, the younger, whatever. And it's but

768
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 1: I also just I'm so proud of my body because

769
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:52,040
Speaker 1: it's a healthy body. I workt really hard. And yeah,

770
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:54,360
Speaker 1: I mean I hear you. I just hate hearing people.

771
00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:57,880
Speaker 1: But like you are older, you are forty, I know,

772
00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 1: but it's weird to be in all of that. I

773
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 1: don't know, it's just crazy. That's I get. I'm not

774
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 1: on red carpet, so I I understand that that's a

775
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:07,759
Speaker 1: different Well. They just wouldn't know how old I am.

776
00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:11,319
Speaker 1: You know, it doesn't matter. All I'm saying is Bet

777
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 1: Middler finally freaking said it. Thank you. We need you

778
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:17,440
Speaker 1: to say it. It's like we didn't. But why did

779
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:19,319
Speaker 1: she have to say it? That's the thing too, It's

780
00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:20,920
Speaker 1: like kind of what I think what Cat said. It's like,

781
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:24,759
Speaker 1: you don't we Harrison Ford is not to say like

782
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:27,399
Speaker 1: like I look amazing with my wrinkles. It's like, who,

783
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:30,560
Speaker 1: like let people age however they want to age right?

784
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:32,920
Speaker 1: And why did we have to always mention the girls,

785
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:36,400
Speaker 1: how we age the women. It's just such a comparison

786
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:38,800
Speaker 1: thing that just makes you. It's it's always back to

787
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:41,239
Speaker 1: that comparison. It's like we're always it's the filter, it's

788
00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:44,680
Speaker 1: everything you always comparing ourselves. But we're doing it to ourselves.

789
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:48,759
Speaker 1: We are literally doing But it's because it's, as I'm saying,

790
00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 1: because it's there and it's able to like one one

791
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:54,719
Speaker 1: click left, I have this really pretty thinner nose, a

792
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 1: bigger lip, and like a nice like makeup thing. I

793
00:43:57,640 --> 00:44:01,080
Speaker 1: understand I've stopped now trying to do is I'm like, okay,

794
00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:03,120
Speaker 1: I am me, this is that's not what I look like.

795
00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:06,680
Speaker 1: Let's okay, filter in the public eye. Do you truly

796
00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:10,720
Speaker 1: and answer this, like, if you post the same video twice,

797
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 1: are you going to get one? Are you going to

798
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:15,480
Speaker 1: get people texting or messaging back saying you look ugly

799
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:18,640
Speaker 1: in this video? I because I see what the other

800
00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:21,200
Speaker 1: one looks like. I look prettier in the filtered But

801
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:23,759
Speaker 1: you're saying that, I am saying it, so I'm saying,

802
00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:26,239
Speaker 1: so we're doing it to ourselves, Like I've never had

803
00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:28,200
Speaker 1: someone send me a message being like, you look ugly

804
00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:30,320
Speaker 1: in that. Now, I don't have a following like y'all do,

805
00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 1: and maybe y'll do. But let's not lump me and

806
00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 1: Cramer together. I'm just two million. People's a lot of opinions,

807
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 1: is it, truly? Because I think about me when I filter.

808
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:44,480
Speaker 1: I do a filter, and it's just about what I

809
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:46,880
Speaker 1: think and me looking for. It's not anyone coming to

810
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:48,799
Speaker 1: me and saying you look better this way or look

811
00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:51,560
Speaker 1: better that way. You know what. I'm filters only for me.

812
00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:54,360
Speaker 1: It's literally only for as. Then I started feeling like

813
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:56,880
Speaker 1: it's not fair to me. That's why I stopped doing it.

814
00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:59,719
Speaker 1: And I'm doing the originals on my phone because I'm like,

815
00:44:59,800 --> 00:45:02,680
Speaker 1: I there's something i'm doing or needing from that that

816
00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:05,359
Speaker 1: I don't like. That's That's what I'm getting at. Yeah,

817
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:07,520
Speaker 1: it's like that I'm still going to get so we're

818
00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:12,920
Speaker 1: super clear. I mean, I just I just want everybody

819
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 1: stop comparing so much. And you're right right now, it's

820
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 1: really hard because there's a lot of drugs out there

821
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:20,960
Speaker 1: that people are getting skinnier, and they're you know, well

822
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:23,480
Speaker 1: what there's quick fixes for everything. I mean even my

823
00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 1: botox is a quick fix. Really, yeah, for sure, but yeah,

824
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,440
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just wish everyone knew how pretty

825
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:33,560
Speaker 1: they really are. Same yeah, and different ages, different wrinkles,

826
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:36,840
Speaker 1: different sizes. You guys, well, I think everyone's trying to

827
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 1: look younger and thinner, and you know, and especially when

828
00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:44,040
Speaker 1: you're seeing it so much on a platform that we

829
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:48,759
Speaker 1: have in our hand. Yeah, the day. Yeah, let's do

830
00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:51,959
Speaker 1: a no filter things. I'm really I'm not ready to commit. Okay,

831
00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 1: but have you noticed Yeah? I didn't notice. Yeah, what

832
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 1: you notice any different? I don't think you look any different.

833
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:05,080
Speaker 1: I didn't notice it. It's in a way of like,

834
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:07,839
Speaker 1: oh she looks different. I just noticed it wasn't up there,

835
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:09,400
Speaker 1: you guys. Some of these are making people look like

836
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 1: l ol dolls. Like I'm like, okay, we gotta get real. No. No,

837
00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:15,279
Speaker 1: the one I use was, you know, it's it's like

838
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 1: the natural It's is like natural beauty, and like, I

839
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Speaker 1: like that one, but it's also natural. It's not natural.

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Speaker 1: So I just I shout out to Bethany. I'm close.

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00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 1: I'm close to to to pulling the to pulling the trigger.

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00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:34,359
Speaker 1: My problem is that when I do it, I want

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Speaker 1: to be like, you guys know this is unfiltered, right,

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00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:41,239
Speaker 1: Probably something deeper there too, another conversation on another day. Disclaimer,

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Speaker 1: Oh man, well we really did it. We really did

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Speaker 1: do it. We have a lot of other hot topics

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00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:49,000
Speaker 1: that will discuss it a later time. But I feel

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00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:53,120
Speaker 1: like this is a good wrap up and just look

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Speaker 1: in the mirror and tell yourself you're beautiful. It's kind

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Speaker 1: of I know it sounds really silly to do, but

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Speaker 1: I okay, So I just have it's really fast up.

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00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:02,759
Speaker 1: When I was flying back from England, I started to

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Speaker 1: have a little anxiety because I was in the middle seat.

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00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:14,440
Speaker 1: Oh oh honey, that's no place for craneer anyway, and

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Speaker 1: so I was starting to like really freak myself. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was like, okay, like freaking myself up. And remember

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Speaker 1: Mel Robbins was like, high five yourself. No, it's okay,

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00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:28,759
Speaker 1: so yeah, but no, it's it's the high five. It's

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Speaker 1: the high five. But I was like, I, for some

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Speaker 1: reason can't do the high five. It just feels a

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Speaker 1: little too much for me. The high five, Well, I

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Speaker 1: don't really high five people in real life. If I

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00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:38,520
Speaker 1: could hug myself, I would. I love the idea of it,

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00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:40,440
Speaker 1: and I tried it like once or twice, and then

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Speaker 1: I'm like what I'm like, now I'm putting a mark

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Speaker 1: on my mirror. And so that the windex thing was

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Speaker 1: an issue. So I was what I started to do.

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Speaker 1: And this was like a little tip for the anxiety

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Speaker 1: is I would I'd go into the bathroom the so

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Speaker 1: the first time i'd have to This sounds so stupid,

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Speaker 1: you guys. No, I'd go into the restroom at like

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Speaker 1: when I had to go on airplane, even if I

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00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:03,200
Speaker 1: didn't have to pee, I would look in the mirror

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00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:05,880
Speaker 1: and goes, you got this, You're okay, you are safe,

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00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:09,560
Speaker 1: like you're not alone on this flight. And then halfway

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00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:12,439
Speaker 1: through the plane, I'd go, you're doing so good, keep

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00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:15,279
Speaker 1: going like you know, and like literally like looking like

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00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:18,200
Speaker 1: cheering yourself on. And then I was like it's somehow

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00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:21,080
Speaker 1: didn't it worked like for the anxiety. So I'm like,

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00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:23,919
Speaker 1: I'm kind of flipping it now, I'm going, you don't

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00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 1: need this, like you're beautiful post it. Hey, So I

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Speaker 1: hate girl myself. Hey girl, I go, hey girl in

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Speaker 1: the mirror in the bathroom. In the bathroom, I wouldn't

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00:48:35,960 --> 00:48:38,080
Speaker 1: high five anyone either. It feels very corporate for me,

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00:48:38,239 --> 00:48:39,960
Speaker 1: so I won't do that. But I'm like, hey girl,

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Speaker 1: like literally never do that in one million years. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I just feel better about myself. So whatever you need

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00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:48,440
Speaker 1: to do, and if you need to, hay girl, yourself,

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Speaker 1: Kathy and you got to find yours. Whatever that is, Gromise,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna tell us next week what it is. Yeah,

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00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:56,719
Speaker 1: because I've got I've got the Jane. So you know

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00:48:56,800 --> 00:48:59,000
Speaker 1: Everyoneways says when they go one tour, you're either a Katherine,

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00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:02,799
Speaker 1: a Christen or a Janel. Right, so I'm still figurings. Yeah,

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00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:06,239
Speaker 1: so the Janna would go, you got this girl, and

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00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:09,239
Speaker 1: like keep going like you know whatever, and then Chris

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00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:14,040
Speaker 1: and was going, hey girl, hey girl, and Katherine, we're

897
00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 1: still figuring that one out, but we're gonna get there.

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Speaker 1: So you just go look in that mirror because you're beautiful.

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Speaker 1: You're beautiful, more beautiful than Cinderella was that Bridesmaids no item, No,

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Speaker 1: you don't know it. I don't know that one. Come on, guys,

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00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:27,520
Speaker 1: all right, I don't want to leave you hanging. You

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Speaker 1: got this, You're strong, you can do the next week