1 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: What's at this lift service, and we're gonna have a 2 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:09,040 Speaker 1: good time talking about monogamy or not today. I'm Angela Yee, 3 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: I'm g McGuire, I'm Luriale And we got thrown special 4 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:16,640 Speaker 1: guests from the series of Monogamy, Jill Murray, Jones, Vanessa Simmons. 5 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: All right, Blue is the only guy in the room. 6 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:22,400 Speaker 1: So this is a rarity. So we're gonna have some 7 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:24,640 Speaker 1: fun with you today. Now, I gotta ask you, guys, um, 8 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:27,560 Speaker 1: could you be in a non monogamous relationship and do 9 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 1: you think that's what works best in this day and age? 10 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 1: A non monogamous one? Yeah, not monogamous. Non monogamy has 11 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:39,880 Speaker 1: a clarified note. I couldn't. Yeah, I couldn't. I couldn't either. Mind, 12 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 1: you ain't being um all clean like we were earlier. 13 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 1: They want you all to take the gloves off. Yeah, yeah, 14 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 1: you're trying to be clean earlier. I need one person. 15 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 1: I need that one person to be strictly with me. 16 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 1: I don't want to share. Oh, I like that usually 17 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:14,679 Speaker 1: is strictly dick, but strictly with you. Alright, But you 18 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 1: think that like, okay, let's say that you were with 19 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:18,399 Speaker 1: a guy y'all are in love, but every now and 20 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 1: then he wants to step out a little bit. I'm 21 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 1: not cool with that. I get crazy. Yeah, I'm territorial 22 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:27,559 Speaker 1: when it comes to mind, territory. Is that a reason 23 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: for breaking up or could you work past it? I 24 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 1: think I can work past it. It's not a deal 25 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:35,119 Speaker 1: breaker for me necessarily. It's definitely something you can work 26 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:36,960 Speaker 1: past if you really want to. And it depends on 27 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 1: how badly you would disrespected, because at the end of 28 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 1: the day, I feel like if that's not something you have, 29 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 1: you don't have an open relationship, then you're being disrespected. 30 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 1: So it depends on how bad the infidelity was. And 31 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 1: no one that I know, here's the rules. Somebody went 32 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 1: to my home. I mean, that's just so disrespecting, right 33 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 1: would you rather somebody seeing one of your friends at 34 00:01:57,720 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 1: your enemy's? Well? Either, what's worse though, what's worse? I 35 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 1: think a friend is worse. Friend just worse. Enous enemy 36 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 1: is bad, to a friend is bad. But I think 37 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 1: a friend is worse because it's the betrayal factor and 38 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 1: you know she's going to change that. You're not going 39 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 1: to be betrayed by your enemy. You're being betrayed by 40 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 1: your friend, and your enemy gonna be posting all kind 41 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 1: of stubs. I mean, your enemy will have one up 42 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: on you. I think I think it matters more than 43 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: it comes from a friend and not from an enemy, 44 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:29,359 Speaker 1: because you don't never want your enemy to have that 45 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 1: one up. That's what Biggie was like, I'm getting a 46 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 1: whole divorce from this bitch because he would have been 47 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 1: I'm just saying I feel like he would have let 48 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 1: it slide if she would have like hump puff. But 49 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:50,920 Speaker 1: when it was, it was like, na, No, I got 50 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:53,800 Speaker 1: to get rid of her. That's what I believe. Now, Blue, 51 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 1: could you be in a non monogamous relationship and that 52 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: means not only are you seeing other people, so is she? 53 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 1: Because I know a lot of times women are in 54 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 1: relationships but men aren't. Like I said, it's different situations. 55 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 1: Like y'all keep saying, it won't be this, won't be that. 56 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 1: It's all about you know what you established at the beginning, 57 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 1: so you could do it. It's just it just it 58 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 1: has to be what it is based on, you know 59 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 1: what I mean. It depends. So she could just go 60 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:20,920 Speaker 1: ahead use the wet wipe and then you come in 61 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:31,639 Speaker 1: I've actually been in an open relationship before. It lasted 62 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 1: for two and a half years and established though there 63 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 1: were rules, Um, what's the rules something like that, with him, 64 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 1: he just wanted to know like everything, Like he wanted 65 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:48,160 Speaker 1: to know like every detail. It was kind of weird. Um. 66 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 1: And I would tell him it was funny to me, 67 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 1: you know, it sounds like he likes men to right. 68 00:03:52,400 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 1: He's like, so he's like, I'm coming your mouth. Um. 69 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 1: It ended because he got another woman pregnant and lied 70 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 1: about it, like, yeah, he said it wasn't his. Yeah, damn. 71 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 1: Maybe he didn't know, you know, it was his. The 72 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 1: baby had a name already and everything. What I'm saying, 73 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:19,719 Speaker 1: maybe he actually thought it wasn't. No, he knew it was. 74 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:25,720 Speaker 1: It looked just like he was planning for that baby. Yeah. So, 75 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:27,960 Speaker 1: and I found out because one of his friends it 76 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 1: came up as a topic at dinner and the friend 77 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 1: thought out was already aware. I wasn't. And yeah, so 78 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:41,920 Speaker 1: I ended up breaking up with him over that. But 79 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 1: I mean it was a very unhealthy relationship. And at 80 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:48,039 Speaker 1: the time, yeah, at the time, I had, you know, 81 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 1: been through it all, and I just felt like, you know, 82 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 1: why not give this a try. It was like we 83 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:56,160 Speaker 1: had a respect with each other, but we're still doing 84 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:59,599 Speaker 1: our own thing, and everybody knew us, knew we were together, 85 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 1: even we kind of did our own things. Play angel, 86 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 1: let me play chick flick and interject. So what I'm 87 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 1: saying you did that you had the open relationship you 88 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 1: said for two years. That's a long relationship. So in comparison, 89 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 1: you know that open relationship to your monogamously, I would 90 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 1: never do it again. Okay, So what do you mean? 91 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 1: He wanted to know everything? Like what do you want 92 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 1: to know? I'll be like, oh, I'm going out with 93 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 1: such and such. So then I talked to him like 94 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:26,719 Speaker 1: later on that night or the next day, and he'd 95 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 1: be like, so where y'all go? What y'all do? Did 96 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 1: you fuck? Did you like it? This is weird? What 97 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:36,840 Speaker 1: do you think this indicates? Well? I mean, I think 98 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:40,359 Speaker 1: on the skill from zero to tend tend being like hot, 99 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 1: How where's the Josey level? I was never jealous, but 100 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 1: I think he was though right um, because I think 101 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:51,280 Speaker 1: a lot of times guys they have this fantasy, like 102 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 1: you know, two women or they have this fantasy, but 103 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 1: in reality, when it actually happens. I think most times 104 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:02,040 Speaker 1: it's it's the man that have the problem. He kind 105 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 1: of like encouraged it though, so it's like cuckolding. I 106 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:06,720 Speaker 1: think it was like it was like a freak thing 107 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:09,720 Speaker 1: for him. It was like a you know, a cuckold, 108 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:15,920 Speaker 1: like a guy, Jeff. When the guy wants his woman 109 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:20,680 Speaker 1: to be with another man and he watches that is 110 00:06:20,760 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 1: usually some old. He never asked to watch, but he 111 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:25,280 Speaker 1: would ask a lot of details, like he would want 112 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:26,560 Speaker 1: to know like what, how did it happened? What if 113 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 1: you were like I had to tape you want to 114 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 1: see it? But that's if you can listen in one time? 115 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 1: What fucking out? He was interested in the man. So yeah, 116 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:38,599 Speaker 1: so you got all kind of different looks like he 117 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:40,840 Speaker 1: wanted to listen to me get Jeff, come on, now, 118 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 1: what do you think if a man was like, I 119 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 1: want to hear you and another man have sex at 120 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 1: a know, that's that's that's weird to know. That's what 121 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 1: I'm saying. That's that's different. That's the level. I mean. 122 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:57,120 Speaker 1: I didn't let him listen, but I'm just saying, why 123 00:06:57,160 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 1: would you want to hear that? You want to be there? No, 124 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 1: he just wanted to like listen over the phone. You 125 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:05,160 Speaker 1: think he was masturbating while he was listening. He didn't listen, 126 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:09,800 Speaker 1: but he probably wasn't that one. Now, I feel like 127 00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 1: that's open. Get what I'm saying. He was grooming her 128 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 1: for the next right, Yeah, and he was like that. 129 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 1: He was pretty um, he was pretty older. He's a 130 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 1: retired baseball player, so he's like a very well experienced 131 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 1: you know gentlemen, older gentleman. He wants to hear you 132 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 1: get your backblown now. Yeah. Do you think there's a 133 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 1: difference in why men and women cheat, Like why men cheating? 134 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 1: Women cheat because they can they chief because it's in 135 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 1: their DNA. I think when a woman cheats, I think 136 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 1: it's there's some emotional who depends on you know, there's 137 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 1: something latching like in her own personal relationship. She seeks 138 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 1: either that or or or is to get back. It's 139 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 1: and we know we're about to leave, so we're like, well, 140 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 1: let me just start something over here so when I 141 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 1: leave it's easier. Yeah. I think that that's a quick 142 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:09,200 Speaker 1: way to exit because you got to backup playing. So 143 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 1: you're like, I don't care what this guy over here 144 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 1: doing because I got somebody over here and waiting already. 145 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 1: That's why I blew a lot of times. When a 146 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 1: woman breaks up with you, she already didn't broke up 147 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 1: months ago or yeah, or years, and she was able 148 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 1: to do that. She needed somewhere to live when a man, 149 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 1: When a man cheats, it's not that. It's not that 150 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 1: y'all got levels in this this and that I broke 151 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:34,679 Speaker 1: up with you six months. I just wanted to get 152 00:08:34,720 --> 00:08:36,719 Speaker 1: you back. No, he just saw a fat ass and 153 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:39,200 Speaker 1: he lost it at the mon He doesn't think about 154 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:46,439 Speaker 1: his family like he d to risk it all. That's 155 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 1: what it was at the moment y'all talk about. It 156 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 1: was this was that it was that he's just a 157 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:52,960 Speaker 1: stupid You think men don't cheat, because sometimes I feel 158 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 1: like men cheat because they're insecure. Let me break about man. 159 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 1: I mean, I guess it's different the levels of man too, 160 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:04,520 Speaker 1: But when we just get into default a man. When 161 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:08,679 Speaker 1: it comes to women, no, two women are like like 162 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:11,839 Speaker 1: a snowflake, just period. Like you and you could be 163 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:15,680 Speaker 1: twin sisters, but nothing about you are like the way 164 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 1: you feel your emotions, her emotions, the way her body 165 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:21,680 Speaker 1: will feel, the way her body will feel the way 166 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 1: that her womb, vagina, vagina, don't get me in trouble 167 00:09:33,160 --> 00:09:35,319 Speaker 1: and had it's going up? What the ever? But no, 168 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 1: two women are like No, two pussies are like period. 169 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:44,360 Speaker 1: So period period. So when a man sees a woman 170 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 1: or whatever, it's about a woman. It's not about cheating 171 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 1: or whatever. You're on that level. But men just desire 172 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 1: to possess a woman, to see what she actually is. 173 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 1: It's not about that's bad. Yeah, let's let's since were 174 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:08,360 Speaker 1: in it. And sometimes it's not even about being greedy, 175 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:11,840 Speaker 1: like you can have whatever whatever, but you just see 176 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:15,079 Speaker 1: a woman or sometimes and you just want to know 177 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:24,120 Speaker 1: or you wonder curiosity killings. But the main level about it, No, 178 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 1: two women are like. So if you're in love with 179 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:30,439 Speaker 1: your woman, you can still cheat on her. Men have 180 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 1: done it. You speaking hypothetically, like I said, you can 181 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:40,439 Speaker 1: be head over heels in love what you want and 182 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:44,200 Speaker 1: still have mistakes or still can you just say it's 183 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:50,480 Speaker 1: still cheat? Yeah, answers because I'm always trying to protect 184 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 1: my damn self. Just over y'all got cameras on. Let 185 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:57,000 Speaker 1: me break this down to you. So you talk about 186 00:10:57,040 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 1: love love this this bad bitch, bad back you don't 187 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:08,079 Speaker 1: say Hollyberry too baddest bitches on the earth, the bad 188 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:13,599 Speaker 1: and she's been cheated on. Holly Berry's the prettiest you know, 189 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:17,439 Speaker 1: black Hollywood. Ever, every man is stepped out on Hollyberry. 190 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 1: Everyone's fault to you. So it runs from every man 191 00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:26,640 Speaker 1: she's been with, from Dave Justice, who was she married to, 192 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:30,480 Speaker 1: every Wesley, every single dude she doesn't been with, even 193 00:11:30,520 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 1: the white boy she was with now or whatever. And 194 00:11:34,440 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 1: she's the epitome of fine. So it ain't got shipped 195 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:39,840 Speaker 1: to do with me. And I got the baddest girl. 196 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 1: And this is my trush just about being in love. 197 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:46,440 Speaker 1: I'm just whatever. But all that stuff goes out the window, 198 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:48,280 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Yeah, I love you and 199 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:50,679 Speaker 1: I'm head over heels in love with you. But a 200 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 1: man can still be a man at any moment. Because 201 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 1: have you ever been in love for real love? Question? 202 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:10,640 Speaker 1: Yve that No, I can't really say that I have, 203 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:14,199 Speaker 1: because if I had been in love like that, I 204 00:12:14,240 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 1: would be married, right. I think that that probably has 205 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:20,760 Speaker 1: a lot to do with your previous answer. You know 206 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:22,280 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. If you said if I was in 207 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:25,600 Speaker 1: love like that, then that person would have been my wife. 208 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:27,679 Speaker 1: I'll still be married to her. So you think you 209 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:29,480 Speaker 1: could be and you could be in love though, and 210 00:12:29,559 --> 00:12:32,920 Speaker 1: then not, you know what I'm saying. She's asked me, 211 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 1: have I ever been? You think that you are preventing 212 00:12:36,400 --> 00:12:38,199 Speaker 1: yourself and being in love or you haven't found the 213 00:12:38,320 --> 00:12:40,440 Speaker 1: right person. It's just not that. Like I said, I'm 214 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 1: still young, like y'all said, I was young earlier. Whatever, 215 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 1: It's about growing and finding within myself. So sometimes for 216 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 1: guys it's timing to Sometimes guys could have the perfect woman, 217 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 1: but it's just not the right times, the right eye. 218 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 1: That's true. Like I said, it's a different time. I'm 219 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 1: still growing, glowing and involving, And you know what I'm saying, 220 00:12:59,120 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 1: within myself row the asshole that was when I was twenty. 221 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 1: Is there any way a woman can prevent a man 222 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:13,160 Speaker 1: from cheating or at least less than the chances that 223 00:13:13,240 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 1: it might happen men are before he goes out with 224 00:13:17,559 --> 00:13:20,080 Speaker 1: his boys. I mean, you couldn't have some fun at 225 00:13:20,120 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 1: home before drain him when the baby batter is on 226 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:29,720 Speaker 1: the brain, the baby batter. If you got a fool, uh, 227 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 1: you got a fool too. You can always get in 228 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 1: some trouble. Which do you think is there things that 229 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:37,720 Speaker 1: you can do to prevent your man like to lessen? 230 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 1: I mean I would hope, so I mean a relationship, 231 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:45,280 Speaker 1: you know, I don't know, Like what are some things 232 00:13:45,320 --> 00:13:47,439 Speaker 1: that you're like, Okay, I gotta make sure I handle this, 233 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:50,480 Speaker 1: this and this so that well keep my keep myself together, 234 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:53,559 Speaker 1: you know, um, try to listen and pay attention to 235 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:56,440 Speaker 1: what he needs. I feel like doing this show definitely 236 00:13:56,480 --> 00:13:58,439 Speaker 1: made me look at my relationship different, Like you know, 237 00:13:58,520 --> 00:14:00,920 Speaker 1: what I really need to e or to his needs 238 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 1: a little bit more and like, you know, do the 239 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 1: things that make him happy so he goes out on 240 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:08,480 Speaker 1: top of his brain, you know, because I don't want 241 00:14:08,480 --> 00:14:10,319 Speaker 1: to stop and prevent him from going out, go out 242 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 1: have fun, you know, and vice versa same thing for me, 243 00:14:12,800 --> 00:14:15,160 Speaker 1: but like I don't know, I just want to please 244 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:17,120 Speaker 1: them in any way I can keep it keep it 245 00:14:17,200 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 1: together at home. You think you weren't catering to his 246 00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 1: needs so much before? Like when you said a little 247 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 1: bit more, I definitely felt like the show made me 248 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:26,240 Speaker 1: bought attention to it a little bit more for me, 249 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:28,920 Speaker 1: Like you know, like maybe you need to find out 250 00:14:29,200 --> 00:14:31,120 Speaker 1: some things. Maybe he might not be happy about some 251 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 1: things that I can improve. I think sometimes also, Um, 252 00:14:35,800 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 1: we get so busy in our lives and with work 253 00:14:38,760 --> 00:14:42,480 Speaker 1: and stuff, and sometimes home is like the first too 254 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 1: to fall. You know what I mean? Um, because I 255 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 1: know I've been guilty of that, even being a Capricorn. 256 00:14:48,960 --> 00:15:02,479 Speaker 1: I'm pretty pretty. Yeah. Maybe it's a lot of Capricorns 257 00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:11,000 Speaker 1: in here. We're taking over Capricori sometime home. I've noticed that, 258 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 1: you know with me, But I understand what you're saying. 259 00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:18,440 Speaker 1: What are you in a relationship now? No, I'm single. 260 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 1: I'm single. Okay, Hold, I don't know. I'm not gonna 261 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 1: be a lied to here. She's not sure. She's waiting 262 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 1: for him to tell her, like girl, righty had that talking? Well, 263 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 1: you know that doesn't happen to me. I'm single. I'm single. Yeah, Okay, 264 00:15:37,720 --> 00:15:40,160 Speaker 1: this is the only married one in the room. But 265 00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:44,640 Speaker 1: I'm not married. You're married but married? Yeah, pretty much. 266 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:49,440 Speaker 1: You got babies in the house, y'all living together. That's Vanessa. 267 00:15:49,480 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 1: You want to have a big wedding. Um, I think 268 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:54,560 Speaker 1: I do. I don't know. I think at this point 269 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 1: I just want to do all girls Walter. I go 270 00:15:58,680 --> 00:16:00,600 Speaker 1: back and forth sometimes I'm like, we can do with 271 00:16:00,680 --> 00:16:02,480 Speaker 1: small and just do our families. Sometimes I'm like, no, 272 00:16:02,520 --> 00:16:04,920 Speaker 1: I want the princess Diana wed the whole thing. What 273 00:16:05,080 --> 00:16:08,000 Speaker 1: about Blue? You think about your wedding? I'm saying that's 274 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 1: what I'm asking because I want to do guys think about. 275 00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:13,440 Speaker 1: I don't think that's why the women get stuck with 276 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:15,480 Speaker 1: all the plane you know what I'm saying. Like I said, 277 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:17,840 Speaker 1: all guys and levels of guys are different, but I 278 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:22,800 Speaker 1: think I just represent the basic default, typical duty. No, 279 00:16:23,680 --> 00:16:26,320 Speaker 1: ain't no dude, never thinking about no wedding. Did you 280 00:16:26,400 --> 00:16:29,000 Speaker 1: guys grow up the women? Did you guys grow up 281 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 1: dreaming about what that day would be? Right, That's what 282 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:35,720 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Barbie Dolls, My Barbie Dolls never got married. 283 00:16:35,960 --> 00:16:38,680 Speaker 1: My friends they would, they would get married like Ken 284 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:41,440 Speaker 1: and Barbie. They would have weddings and all kinds of 285 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:43,400 Speaker 1: stuff like that. But I never I never thought about. 286 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:45,680 Speaker 1: But I do be thinking my bridesmaid is gonna be. 287 00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:48,840 Speaker 1: I did fake weddings when I was younger, Like I 288 00:16:48,960 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 1: used to be like, this is gonna be my husband, 289 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:53,120 Speaker 1: You're gonna be Like when when I was in school 290 00:16:53,160 --> 00:16:55,440 Speaker 1: and we would have fake weddings like that Blue has 291 00:16:55,520 --> 00:16:59,640 Speaker 1: some fake weddings and then they play house and the 292 00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 1: wedding thing is on. What about the ring? Ship? What 293 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:08,159 Speaker 1: about it? Like? Is that that major that you wear 294 00:17:08,280 --> 00:17:12,399 Speaker 1: a ring? Both? Like, is it uh your mandatory that 295 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:14,919 Speaker 1: I go buy you a hundred thousand dollar winning ring? 296 00:17:15,119 --> 00:17:20,920 Speaker 1: How much? Kind of girl? I mean? Money is money, 297 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:24,119 Speaker 1: But that's whatever it is that is that it matters 298 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 1: because if you got a decent amount of money and 299 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:28,360 Speaker 1: you don't want to give me a decent ring, it's 300 00:17:28,720 --> 00:17:31,119 Speaker 1: a problem. Why But if you don't have money like 301 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 1: that and we're trying to figure it out and whatever, 302 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:36,920 Speaker 1: you just like, let's let's get this house the ring 303 00:17:37,160 --> 00:17:41,400 Speaker 1: for the show like look at sometimes yes, that's part 304 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:44,159 Speaker 1: of it too, but you don't be looking crazy on 305 00:17:44,240 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 1: the Graham's scared to see the way. I'd rather we 306 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:52,239 Speaker 1: get a nice house. There's no reason best I had 307 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:57,760 Speaker 1: no house together and rings? But the ring is a mandatory. 308 00:17:58,119 --> 00:17:59,919 Speaker 1: I think it's hard for you to have a very 309 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:03,320 Speaker 1: very very expensive car, but your lady, you want to 310 00:18:03,359 --> 00:18:08,520 Speaker 1: skimp on that part. This is what I'm saying to 311 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:13,159 Speaker 1: be like, if you got it, then you provided change, 312 00:18:13,480 --> 00:18:16,680 Speaker 1: Ain't he like the megs that he don't want to 313 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:24,040 Speaker 1: get one eight bracelets. That's why that's where I'm asking. 314 00:18:24,680 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 1: I'm getting schooled, But I do think it's important to 315 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:29,280 Speaker 1: be know what she'll like to like, what does it 316 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:31,520 Speaker 1: look like? What does her ring? Because you don't want 317 00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:33,200 Speaker 1: to just go get her some ring that don't look 318 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:35,639 Speaker 1: like her style at all, you know, so it is 319 00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:40,480 Speaker 1: important to do some research. Ask her friends. To ask 320 00:18:40,560 --> 00:18:44,800 Speaker 1: her friends, not her hater friend, her real friend, because 321 00:18:44,800 --> 00:18:52,960 Speaker 1: you know they hate it from just so the ring 322 00:18:53,119 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 1: is a big deal. You just can't get a chat 323 00:18:55,040 --> 00:18:57,720 Speaker 1: and you got to have your chains on yourself. Now 324 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:07,400 Speaker 1: I'm just quate. You got a whole area and Lamborghini 325 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:10,120 Speaker 1: that you want your arm hard to date somebody that's 326 00:19:10,160 --> 00:19:14,680 Speaker 1: good looking, yeah to the next time? What do you 327 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:17,200 Speaker 1: What do you say? I think because that's more attention 328 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:20,280 Speaker 1: on the person, Like for instance, even like somebody on 329 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:22,840 Speaker 1: Instagram that looks better than an ugly person will have 330 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 1: more followers. You give what I'm saying. I just feel 331 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:31,720 Speaker 1: like your life more pressure on the relations because even 332 00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:34,680 Speaker 1: me myself, like I've been scrolling through the explore people 333 00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 1: like okay, you look, I might just follow him, but 334 00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:43,200 Speaker 1: like if he follows you blue, but if he was ugly, 335 00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:45,760 Speaker 1: I might have just kept on scrawling by. So I 336 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:48,680 Speaker 1: feel like nowadays it's a lot more temptation. It's a 337 00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:53,520 Speaker 1: lot ways to get p and your you know your pussy. 338 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:55,920 Speaker 1: Can you have to say that word out because you 339 00:19:56,000 --> 00:20:02,160 Speaker 1: just no that time out, time out? Since y'all said, 340 00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:06,200 Speaker 1: do y'all do y'all use that word, let's say pussy? Yeah, yeah, yeah, 341 00:20:06,280 --> 00:20:09,520 Speaker 1: like fifteen times a day? Yeah, girl, my pussy hurt, 342 00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:13,680 Speaker 1: like y'all say, I don't know my puffy say? You 343 00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:17,960 Speaker 1: never say I don't use it like that. I'm just saying, well, 344 00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:20,960 Speaker 1: what in what context are y'all usually with your band? 345 00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:26,360 Speaker 1: You know? And it's just pussy's you tell your girl 346 00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:31,080 Speaker 1: like like I said, y'all working with the roll one 347 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 1: that still I am not about her before the long 348 00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:42,920 Speaker 1: night of some bang bang bang from it. You said, 349 00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:47,200 Speaker 1: you live, we keep shi real. I'm not talking about 350 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:52,720 Speaker 1: during sexty time hit this pussy or whatever. I'm talking 351 00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:56,040 Speaker 1: about normal girl talk. Yeah, y'all don't say pussy. What 352 00:20:56,119 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 1: do y'all say? Yeah, my box, my lady fly. Sometimes 353 00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:05,439 Speaker 1: I say vagina my box. Girls don't be just saying pussy. 354 00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:10,119 Speaker 1: Do you call the cock using the word cock? I 355 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:13,080 Speaker 1: don't know one black man that uses the white words. 356 00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:18,920 Speaker 1: White men say cocked, Black men say did we'll see 357 00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:23,400 Speaker 1: it to be fun? Do you say cocks? I'm black cock. 358 00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:28,560 Speaker 1: There are black people that call pussy cock. Yeah, well yeah, 359 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:31,800 Speaker 1: you called pussy's cocks. A lot of a lot of 360 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:34,200 Speaker 1: black people do that. They do, Yeah, they say called 361 00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 1: pussy cock. Yeah, like on port or they're looking at 362 00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:42,879 Speaker 1: fat cock. Yeah yeah, yeah, a lot of me to it. 363 00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:49,680 Speaker 1: I ain't never see that. Like drink Vanessa is like, 364 00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:53,080 Speaker 1: that's the whole heart that day in the middle. This 365 00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:57,400 Speaker 1: is not just a twist sent you for that porn. 366 00:21:57,480 --> 00:22:03,960 Speaker 1: Somebody sent in a back advice question. Okay, this girl said, hey, Ange, 367 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:05,480 Speaker 1: I need you to help. It was my birthday the 368 00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:07,440 Speaker 1: other day. My fiancee took me out to dinner and 369 00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:10,200 Speaker 1: we planned to do that birthday ship after but I 370 00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:11,959 Speaker 1: had to run an errand first, so I dropped him 371 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:13,840 Speaker 1: off at our place, did my errand. When I returned, 372 00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:16,800 Speaker 1: he was watching porn. Huge turn off. We didn't have sex. 373 00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:18,680 Speaker 1: Then I confronted him the next night and he said, 374 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:20,960 Speaker 1: it's not the first time I've watched porn before we 375 00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:23,679 Speaker 1: had sex, and she said, I do spice things up. 376 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 1: I wear sexy outfits all the time. So I told 377 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:28,440 Speaker 1: him no sex and to enjoy his porn. What do 378 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:34,000 Speaker 1: you think in my overreaction? She definitely overreacted. She overreacted. 379 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:39,320 Speaker 1: But you know what, it's it's just weird. I don't 380 00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:41,560 Speaker 1: know why he was doing that. She just went to 381 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:48,520 Speaker 1: the store. She's running Errand. She went to running errand 382 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:50,560 Speaker 1: and so when she went around Errand, he tried to 383 00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 1: keep his mind in the same context that it was 384 00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:56,400 Speaker 1: when they were going to way to the house. I'm 385 00:22:59,800 --> 00:23:01,520 Speaker 1: that she was just going for a quick second. Like 386 00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:03,960 Speaker 1: why did he need to start it? Then? Nah, she 387 00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:06,280 Speaker 1: don't have to run Errand said drop the eggs, Like 388 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:08,920 Speaker 1: what she shouldn't have did that? You went from the 389 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:11,320 Speaker 1: birthday dinner. I shouldn't have gone. You're supposed to go 390 00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:15,000 Speaker 1: right now. That's why he watching it, because she's hated 391 00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:17,240 Speaker 1: to take a little time out. He probably watching his 392 00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:20,000 Speaker 1: girl girlfriend because she's in the point. You know, you 393 00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:22,480 Speaker 1: can't do that, you can't come on. That's probably his 394 00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:24,520 Speaker 1: real girlfriend on the point. You can't go from a 395 00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:27,480 Speaker 1: birthday dinner to run an errand like, that's not the 396 00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 1: second you killed the moon? Right? If he was drunk 397 00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:34,719 Speaker 1: and he was ready for some some some cheeks? Are 398 00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:39,160 Speaker 1: you ready for Aaron? And I guess, but he said 399 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:41,040 Speaker 1: it's not the first time. He said, no, I don't know. 400 00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:42,680 Speaker 1: That's what I was. That's what I was going to 401 00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:47,359 Speaker 1: get to me. I think, why do you need to 402 00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:49,160 Speaker 1: do that? That's what I'm gonna say. This dude watches 403 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:52,800 Speaker 1: pouring all the time. He's saying, before they have sex. Period. 404 00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 1: I'm saying this, dude, because you're watch need to watch 405 00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 1: porn to get you aroused enough. Maybe he wants to 406 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:01,399 Speaker 1: bust went off so here last longer. It could be anything, 407 00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:07,800 Speaker 1: and got made a lot of dumb Let's talk about 408 00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:10,800 Speaker 1: so you've done that before? Yeah, like jerked off and 409 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:13,000 Speaker 1: then I don't have to do that. I don't have 410 00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:14,840 Speaker 1: to do that if we're talking about me personally. But 411 00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:26,280 Speaker 1: I'm saying defensive. You know, my plumbing works. But no 412 00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:30,480 Speaker 1: dudes do that. They don't do anything to get ready 413 00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:35,199 Speaker 1: for moments or whatever. They'll look at porn, they'll pop pills, 414 00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:38,760 Speaker 1: they will do anything. The pills work, But does it 415 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:40,920 Speaker 1: feel weird as a woman he got to do this 416 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:42,920 Speaker 1: before we have sex. No, that's no no, no, no no. 417 00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:45,040 Speaker 1: And that's the point. If they're in the relationship right 418 00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:47,920 Speaker 1: that he should have been already introduced to porn aspect 419 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,880 Speaker 1: to her, this is what I like. Would you be down? 420 00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:54,680 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying this if you're my chick. 421 00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:57,000 Speaker 1: And I mean, it's weird if he's weird or not. 422 00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:58,879 Speaker 1: But if he's like this is what I really like, 423 00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:01,200 Speaker 1: he should have been puting her on so they could 424 00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:04,320 Speaker 1: be on that level together, watch porn together, or get 425 00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:09,000 Speaker 1: her surprised because she's not doing what he's like. He's 426 00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:11,119 Speaker 1: gonna go somewhere else and get it at right, right? 427 00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:14,080 Speaker 1: But how often is he watching this poinn? But that's 428 00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:17,920 Speaker 1: just like something that I can't sit around and watch 429 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 1: Point with you all days the whole job. You're not 430 00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:29,560 Speaker 1: and girls too. It's a lot of girls that watch Point. 431 00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:31,119 Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying something I don't know that 432 00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:36,160 Speaker 1: I was very convinced, just like you know, I feel 433 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:40,280 Speaker 1: like you do this. I deal with real people, and 434 00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:44,639 Speaker 1: I've dealt he's weird, and I got homies who are 435 00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:48,400 Speaker 1: weird those or tell me they're weirdo homie stories. It's 436 00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:50,879 Speaker 1: real he said, I dealt with these weirdo chicks. I 437 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:56,000 Speaker 1: like to hear more about these weirdo chicks. What makes 438 00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:59,520 Speaker 1: it chick? A weirdo chick, A weirdo chick, that's weird. 439 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:01,359 Speaker 1: I were trying to say it was a weird from 440 00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 1: watching point, I'm saying every day day, I said, you 441 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:08,560 Speaker 1: dated some weirdo chicks, said you, So we want to 442 00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:10,800 Speaker 1: know what the weirdo chicks are like a lot of 443 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:16,520 Speaker 1: If you guys want to jump off the porch with me, 444 00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:23,800 Speaker 1: we can go. I'm in the dirt. A lot of 445 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:30,240 Speaker 1: girls are fucking batshit crazy characterized is bad shit crazy. 446 00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 1: Thank you, my dude, that ship crazy. Give me some examples. Um, 447 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:39,920 Speaker 1: like I said, examples can go all day. But this 448 00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:47,040 Speaker 1: is the point's crazy. But we're you know you're probably not. 449 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:49,800 Speaker 1: But I'm saying, girls be crazy and we won't even 450 00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:53,480 Speaker 1: know why. We just want to know why, what the 451 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:56,120 Speaker 1: funk or what's wrong with you? Any times guys pushed 452 00:26:56,160 --> 00:27:00,760 Speaker 1: women to be crazy and sometimes name it. Sometimes you 453 00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:05,440 Speaker 1: want to give hypotheticals or stories or personal Okay, let's 454 00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:08,639 Speaker 1: do it. Here's just a straight broad from a broad 455 00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:18,879 Speaker 1: story or situation. No broad story situation. I meet a 456 00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:22,720 Speaker 1: young lady, We meet, she kicks, we whatever, I energies, bhind, 457 00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:26,560 Speaker 1: she feels me, I feels her, whatever, whatever, whatever. I 458 00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:29,719 Speaker 1: let her know right then, up front, I don't want 459 00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:33,200 Speaker 1: a relationship. I'm not looking for a relationship. No no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 460 00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:37,080 Speaker 1: with it, Glad you said it. I'm not looking for 461 00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:42,040 Speaker 1: nothing serious right now. I'm a city hopping from l A, 462 00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:45,119 Speaker 1: Atlanta to New York. I'm all over the place. You 463 00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:47,280 Speaker 1: know what I mean. Oh cool, I'm not looking for 464 00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:51,960 Speaker 1: nothing either. We can just cool kick no no, no, 465 00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:57,840 Speaker 1: I'm pregnant. No no, no no, because some girls don't. 466 00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:02,080 Speaker 1: Some girls don't, so whatever, So we're kicking it whatever. 467 00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:06,280 Speaker 1: Everything's cool after sex or I pipe her down or whatever. 468 00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:10,960 Speaker 1: A week however you wanted to be So now the 469 00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:15,120 Speaker 1: feelings come, she says Blue, I'm catching feelings or whatever 470 00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:18,920 Speaker 1: whatever you've been dragging dropping it off on me. You 471 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:21,800 Speaker 1: need to God them make a decision right now. We 472 00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:25,240 Speaker 1: either go be together or you I'm leaving you alone. 473 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:31,119 Speaker 1: And I'm like, wait, we agreed that we weren't going 474 00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:34,760 Speaker 1: to be anything serious already, and now I'm an asshole 475 00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:36,840 Speaker 1: for saying that. I don't want to be in a 476 00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:40,080 Speaker 1: relationship with you that we already agreed on. But you 477 00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:42,880 Speaker 1: know what, sometimes she says no, no, no, Yeah. I 478 00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:44,760 Speaker 1: was like, well, what you mean you're changing up? Yeah, 479 00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:47,280 Speaker 1: I'm changing up, but I'm catching feelings. You shouldn't have 480 00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:49,600 Speaker 1: been doing this. We shouldn't have been doing that. You 481 00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:52,080 Speaker 1: should have been having you know, we had good sex 482 00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:54,760 Speaker 1: and this and that, so now everything changes. But I 483 00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:57,880 Speaker 1: think something you don't want to be with me if 484 00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:00,600 Speaker 1: you really just want her just to be like a 485 00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:04,720 Speaker 1: nighttime type of thing, don't like ask her what she's 486 00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:06,760 Speaker 1: doing for brunch on Sunday? But why are we going 487 00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:11,760 Speaker 1: on dates? Are you telling her you love her when 488 00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:17,640 Speaker 1: you come? That could be a problem. What if everything 489 00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:22,600 Speaker 1: was just straight up, transparent, upfront and cool. Sex will 490 00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:25,680 Speaker 1: do that. It will throw things off and not just 491 00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:30,440 Speaker 1: not to be uh you know, you know, anti woman. 492 00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:32,720 Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. You guys have more emotions 493 00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:36,680 Speaker 1: than we have period. You know what, I've had experiences 494 00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:38,560 Speaker 1: with guys where they said they didn't want to be 495 00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:43,560 Speaker 1: in a relationship but they really did know. And then 496 00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:49,120 Speaker 1: I'm looking at you, like and she like, I told 497 00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:52,320 Speaker 1: you were not that you know what the problem is 498 00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:56,280 Speaker 1: when she even asked you about it, like or whenever 499 00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:59,080 Speaker 1: y'all started talking about it, and you kept having sex 500 00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 1: with her and see that she's getting more and more 501 00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:04,800 Speaker 1: attacked you. Yeah, you were supposed to cut that off 502 00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:08,840 Speaker 1: because you see that she's getting emotional. So that's when 503 00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:11,440 Speaker 1: you need to reiterate, like sex with her too, though, 504 00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:15,000 Speaker 1: that's the problem. So he's leading her on. I'mna tell you, 505 00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:17,760 Speaker 1: because she's letting you know that she's starting to catch 506 00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:20,280 Speaker 1: balance and you can't send you to have sex at that. 507 00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:26,240 Speaker 1: You keep dumping it at her. And at the beginning, 508 00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:30,880 Speaker 1: no and no, that's what we said, we're not doing this, 509 00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:33,920 Speaker 1: we're here. That changed. She boted her contract, but ja 510 00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:36,480 Speaker 1: contract ain't the same for when he first got on 511 00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:44,120 Speaker 1: so evolved that I'm the asshole to my contract. I 512 00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:47,720 Speaker 1: feel you, though, because the woman something, she should take it, 513 00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:50,760 Speaker 1: because that's you know everything I mean. I know they're 514 00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:52,600 Speaker 1: telling about guys that this guy's and this guy's are 515 00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:58,640 Speaker 1: boys and say that I'm just what's going on now 516 00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:01,640 Speaker 1: in the perception, and that's and that's a term that 517 00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:07,640 Speaker 1: I hate because from boys that it meant I'm from Atlanta, 518 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:11,560 Speaker 1: must be nice. No term a term back that Atlanta's homosexual. 519 00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:14,720 Speaker 1: Not even it's different means to it. That's an Atlanta term. 520 00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:18,760 Speaker 1: I don't know how that ship went viral for on Instagram, 521 00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:23,000 Speaker 1: like the lowest of lows. Yeah, it's a term of disrespect. Yeah, 522 00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:26,160 Speaker 1: somebody like you get my money? You pus ahead you 523 00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:32,400 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I liked not was word? 524 00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:38,640 Speaker 1: What mean the old one though, because you can say bitch, sloy, 525 00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:41,560 Speaker 1: we have words. You should take the power back and 526 00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:49,600 Speaker 1: boys from Atlanta girls say that word, that term, it 527 00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:53,320 Speaker 1: always throws me. It always works. Not bea and like 528 00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:57,560 Speaker 1: the sugar word. What are you talking about? So it 529 00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:01,320 Speaker 1: just was weird for me. But I don't like that work. 530 00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:10,760 Speaker 1: See because we get it at Everybody's this, everybody's. Since 531 00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:13,440 Speaker 1: you guys are actors, we're gonna do a little bit 532 00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:16,280 Speaker 1: of acting. I'm gonna give you guys a scene and 533 00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:17,880 Speaker 1: I want you to have a discussion like you would 534 00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:20,800 Speaker 1: have it. We're gonna do some improv. Okay, oh lord Jesus, Okay, 535 00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:24,880 Speaker 1: all right, here's Blue. You are trying to convince Jill 536 00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:27,600 Speaker 1: and Vanessa to have a threesome with you. Jill is 537 00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:31,040 Speaker 1: your long term girlfriend. And Vanessa is an acquaintance, do 538 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:34,000 Speaker 1: I know? Yeah, she's just an acquaintance. I got a 539 00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:37,960 Speaker 1: good good friend. But y'all know who's my girlfriend friend, 540 00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:42,320 Speaker 1: your girlfriend? And Vanessa is the acquaintance time out? So 541 00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:48,720 Speaker 1: is she with the ship? You're trying to convince them? Actually, 542 00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:51,960 Speaker 1: Vanessa's kind of with it. No, No, she's my girl, 543 00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:58,720 Speaker 1: Jill to be with it. She hasn't. You haven't convinced 544 00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:01,160 Speaker 1: her yet. Vanessa's on it and she's down to be 545 00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:05,200 Speaker 1: down with you. You got to talk. You're doing. We 546 00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:11,200 Speaker 1: just came from getting drunk and high, you right, like 547 00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:15,320 Speaker 1: the coworkers or something. You can make it everything there where? 548 00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:16,959 Speaker 1: Is this too close? Because they got to see her 549 00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:24,760 Speaker 1: every day. Y'all just know each other, okay, whole work case. Alright, 550 00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:29,600 Speaker 1: so she lived in the building and yeah, that's too 551 00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:34,120 Speaker 1: much jis You guys just know each other from being 552 00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:36,960 Speaker 1: out with at the restaurant. She's the waitress is something 553 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:40,080 Speaker 1: there you go, she's the hostess, the hostess that restaurant 554 00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:43,920 Speaker 1: and we brought home that we that we frequent Yeah, 555 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:47,640 Speaker 1: all right, so now you've got to convince you're a woman, 556 00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:53,160 Speaker 1: jail to have a threesome with Vanessa. Now you've got 557 00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:58,720 Speaker 1: to convince a jail. Vanessa's one action. So I brought 558 00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:01,800 Speaker 1: her home? Yeah man, yeah both did. But it's just 559 00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:03,360 Speaker 1: for fun, Like you all know each other that you 560 00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:05,840 Speaker 1: guys have been having drinks. Now you're back at the 561 00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:07,960 Speaker 1: apartment and it's time to get to the get getting. 562 00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:11,000 Speaker 1: Remember this is your long term girlfriend. You love her, 563 00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:13,520 Speaker 1: so you don't want to ruin the relationship. High school sweetheart, 564 00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:22,080 Speaker 1: you are so red. Y'all trip, I like this show. 565 00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:27,319 Speaker 1: You can bring me back when add me to the roster. 566 00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:31,759 Speaker 1: Y'all need some more meal to start three filf going. 567 00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:39,520 Speaker 1: She's a she's acting, she's an actor, and we want 568 00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:45,120 Speaker 1: those cheeks. Okay, So we started. Okay, So I thought 569 00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:48,520 Speaker 1: at the restaurant that we were just joking. I thought 570 00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:51,600 Speaker 1: this was like you were serious, don't she look? So 571 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:56,600 Speaker 1: then you said you no, I didn't. Well I did 572 00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:59,360 Speaker 1: say that because you know, I was thinking about you know, 573 00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:02,440 Speaker 1: we talked to about maybe you know, pumping me up? 574 00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:11,120 Speaker 1: What what blue? Are you serious? Yeah? They're real? Okay, 575 00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:16,040 Speaker 1: So this is this is you really want this? It's 576 00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:29,239 Speaker 1: happening here, No going away? Okay, So I ain't drinks. Okay, 577 00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:32,000 Speaker 1: so wait, wait, wait, okay, So if this were to 578 00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:36,359 Speaker 1: go down, we need to set some some rules. If 579 00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:38,239 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm saying, if we're going to really do it, 580 00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:42,000 Speaker 1: what are you sure you really want to do it? 581 00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:44,960 Speaker 1: Because I know this has been a fantasy of yours 582 00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:48,720 Speaker 1: for a very long time, and um, you know women 583 00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:52,759 Speaker 1: know a woman's body like you might not have the 584 00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:56,560 Speaker 1: outcome that you think that you're going to have. Well, 585 00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:59,680 Speaker 1: I'm ready for a science experience. I think I'm really 586 00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:03,560 Speaker 1: more about the winner's body. I want you to show 587 00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:09,400 Speaker 1: me so the way to the woman's body. Okay, So 588 00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:12,880 Speaker 1: what are the what are the rules you tell me 589 00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:15,200 Speaker 1: if we do what are the rules? No? I want 590 00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:17,719 Speaker 1: you to I mean, what do you want? This is 591 00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:20,839 Speaker 1: your this is your scenario? So I mean, we want 592 00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:23,080 Speaker 1: to take care of you. You want to take care 593 00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:26,480 Speaker 1: of me, and she's gonna help me take care of you. 594 00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:46,960 Speaker 1: What time is it he's to take care of take 595 00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:50,239 Speaker 1: care you doing he's been the only guy in the 596 00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:56,000 Speaker 1: room with the girls here. Scenario Vanessa, You've been faking 597 00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:58,640 Speaker 1: orgasms with Blue for two years and you are fed up. 598 00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:07,960 Speaker 1: Yet it wasn't faking these orgasms and now you are done. 599 00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:10,000 Speaker 1: You are done with faking it? What are you saying? 600 00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:12,480 Speaker 1: And you're aggravated and now you have to come clean. 601 00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:14,880 Speaker 1: Y'all got in the argument. He's not taking care of you. 602 00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:18,200 Speaker 1: So it's not a good mood that you guys are in. 603 00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:21,680 Speaker 1: So has she ever never had an orgasm with him? 604 00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:25,240 Speaker 1: And he thinks he is the man? But a prize 605 00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:29,360 Speaker 1: how many women have in relationships? Absolutely, I've never had it? 606 00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:31,279 Speaker 1: And have you ever voiced that? By the way, And 607 00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:33,760 Speaker 1: I don't even say nothing about it. It's more levels. 608 00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:35,799 Speaker 1: And if that's the case, that's a problem, all right, 609 00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:37,359 Speaker 1: But let's let's get this scene going and then we're 610 00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:39,160 Speaker 1: gonna talk about it, because it's gonna pass and we're 611 00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:42,200 Speaker 1: not gonna talk about it. If you if you're a 612 00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:47,240 Speaker 1: grown woman and you don't know how to make yourself orgasm, 613 00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:53,080 Speaker 1: that it's not so for the woman. It's not solely 614 00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:57,080 Speaker 1: up to the woman. It's not what I'm saying just 615 00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:59,160 Speaker 1: talking to him. No, that's not what I'm saying. If 616 00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:01,480 Speaker 1: you're grown woman and you do not know how to 617 00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:04,480 Speaker 1: make yourself get off or what it takes to get 618 00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:06,640 Speaker 1: you to that point of orgasm, that's a problem. That 619 00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:15,800 Speaker 1: means you need to explore yourself more. If that's not 620 00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:17,160 Speaker 1: what I'm saying that you should be able to do 621 00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:19,560 Speaker 1: it yourself. But you should know what it takes to 622 00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:22,600 Speaker 1: get you there, so you can tell me what you 623 00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:25,200 Speaker 1: like so I can do it. Some women don't even 624 00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:27,759 Speaker 1: know you. Go do it. Just go figure it out. 625 00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:30,080 Speaker 1: Go explore yourself. I mean I can do that and 626 00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:31,920 Speaker 1: do my thing, and I'm still gonna do it. But 627 00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:37,120 Speaker 1: you should know that's your button all the time. But 628 00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:40,719 Speaker 1: I mean it's still what you should know your own 629 00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:43,239 Speaker 1: to keep it real. There's sometimes there's certain guys that 630 00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:45,359 Speaker 1: can make you come every time and certain guys who can't. 631 00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:50,120 Speaker 1: Very true. Okay, so in this scenario, you're the one 632 00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:53,000 Speaker 1: that cannot make Vanessa come, and she has to confront 633 00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:55,040 Speaker 1: you about it now because she's so fed up. So 634 00:38:55,200 --> 00:39:00,400 Speaker 1: go Vanessa. You're tired of faking it with Blue, you 635 00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:02,600 Speaker 1: can give another name it. It's easiest. Stop faking it. 636 00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:05,960 Speaker 1: You know what? Wait? Wait? Wait? What baby? Was you know? What? 637 00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:08,520 Speaker 1: Did you get it? Because I got it? No, I 638 00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:11,839 Speaker 1: didn't get it. I didn't get it. You just got 639 00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:15,640 Speaker 1: it like twice. No, I've never gotten it. What was it? 640 00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:19,719 Speaker 1: It was fake. You're faking on me. It was fake. 641 00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:23,040 Speaker 1: I don't know if we need to, I don't know. 642 00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:27,200 Speaker 1: I just need something else. Did you need another? Girl? 643 00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:38,400 Speaker 1: What the wrong thing you're talking about? My dad just 644 00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:51,319 Speaker 1: flashed across the screen just for the women in the room. 645 00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:55,319 Speaker 1: How often do you orgasm during sex? Let's time? What wise? 646 00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:58,400 Speaker 1: How often would you say you come during sex just 647 00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:06,000 Speaker 1: into course or just into course? Probably like mhm, like 648 00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:11,600 Speaker 1: just just stay into course? Yeah, um, I should record it. 649 00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:16,160 Speaker 1: This crazy guys, I'm not Yeah, don't look that way. 650 00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:25,400 Speaker 1: Look at me, look at me say I would say, Okay, 651 00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:29,680 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say, you know enough satisfied? What is 652 00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:32,919 Speaker 1: good for you? Girl? How much do you come during 653 00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:38,480 Speaker 1: sex all the time that you have sex? Lourio? How many? 654 00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:41,600 Speaker 1: I was gonna ask that time? Percentage? Wis often? Well? 655 00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:44,919 Speaker 1: I guess you probably every everything right, There's been times 656 00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:48,320 Speaker 1: you haven't though, Yeah you fake it? Well you just 657 00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:51,799 Speaker 1: you just stopped. Yeah, I faked it before you fake 658 00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:55,719 Speaker 1: can fake it? Yeah? Yeah, why did you fake it? 659 00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:59,239 Speaker 1: It just wasn't like I said. He was over it. 660 00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:01,840 Speaker 1: Like I said, sometimes when you're drunk or whatever, is 661 00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:04,520 Speaker 1: stupid not gonna happen. You can you can just sunk 662 00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:07,680 Speaker 1: all night and then sometimes and once you get to 663 00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:12,399 Speaker 1: a point where you hadn't done it, climax yet. Yeah, 664 00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:19,440 Speaker 1: it won't happen, but don't make it. Yes, yes it's 665 00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:26,600 Speaker 1: different like I said, and you're funny, but yeah, no, 666 00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:28,640 Speaker 1: you can't hurt yourself. And like I said, when you 667 00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:32,320 Speaker 1: when your penis is hard and all the blood is 668 00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:34,160 Speaker 1: rushed to it and it's that and it stays that 669 00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:36,600 Speaker 1: way for that long and the skin is stretching, Yeah 670 00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:42,920 Speaker 1: you can, he did the arm like. You can hurt yourself. 671 00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:45,479 Speaker 1: You can be sore. You can have soreness that sounds 672 00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:51,560 Speaker 1: painful or whatever, and all that mine is more. I 673 00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:55,120 Speaker 1: would be like depending on a person that was like 674 00:41:55,239 --> 00:42:00,560 Speaker 1: seventy five for me. Just how I have like a 675 00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:05,040 Speaker 1: button there and it just works. Yeah, it is. It 676 00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:08,640 Speaker 1: is like a little I think also too. I think 677 00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:12,120 Speaker 1: we're talking about like the positions and that that would 678 00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:15,919 Speaker 1: change my number right exactly, Come on tap women on tap. 679 00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:19,680 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, always me too. And I've also come with 680 00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:23,680 Speaker 1: guys that don't have like huge dicks, ship like a 681 00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:27,920 Speaker 1: smaller dick coming all over that because but when it's huge, 682 00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:31,160 Speaker 1: it doesn't go. I gotta really like get to this 683 00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:35,680 Speaker 1: right okay, right there, right there. You know what I'm saying, 684 00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:42,120 Speaker 1: I really got a bombing problems. Problems you make your 685 00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:53,960 Speaker 1: arm to describe your remember sablems. What I'm saying with 686 00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:57,640 Speaker 1: some people for some women, Yeah, to do that. I'm 687 00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:00,640 Speaker 1: sure that there are women that you've been if that 688 00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:05,279 Speaker 1: has faked it. No, it's not, no, it's not no, No, 689 00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:07,360 Speaker 1: it's not about thinking it. Like I said, some women, 690 00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:10,360 Speaker 1: like I said, they just don't and they told me 691 00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:12,640 Speaker 1: it's like I can't. I don't come like that. Yeah, 692 00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:14,919 Speaker 1: a lot of it doesn't happen. She was like, yeah, 693 00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:18,359 Speaker 1: this is great, it feels awesome, but I just don't. Right. 694 00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:24,400 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying that the biggest cheerleader some girls. 695 00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:34,720 Speaker 1: Some girls can orgasm from oral sex. Well yeah, giving, giving, giving, 696 00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:42,439 Speaker 1: alright with the ship. I could come from thinkering the guys. 697 00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:48,360 Speaker 1: But guys like I do like to do that. I do. 698 00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:51,080 Speaker 1: So you want of those weird though I'm not aware 699 00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:55,879 Speaker 1: of She's really not a weird. I'm not aware you're 700 00:43:56,000 --> 00:44:06,600 Speaker 1: the weirdough she's a modern woman, doesn't matter of fact, 701 00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:14,560 Speaker 1: get a good head. Stop before we go there. You 702 00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:18,800 Speaker 1: want you like to put on strap on or whatever. 703 00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:23,200 Speaker 1: That's going too far. That's it's a lot of girls 704 00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:25,920 Speaker 1: that I've never seen a person who like to do that. 705 00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:28,120 Speaker 1: And we'll ask dudes like I want to put a strap. 706 00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:30,239 Speaker 1: There's a lot of guys that request that. That's what 707 00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:32,040 Speaker 1: I'm saying. So I don't know if these guys have 708 00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:35,279 Speaker 1: corrupted the girls and cot the guys, but it is 709 00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:38,000 Speaker 1: I think it's penis MV. That's yeah, that's what I thought. 710 00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:41,560 Speaker 1: That girl wants to establish the dominant the power of 711 00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:46,399 Speaker 1: doing that, which is weird. What's it? I mean, listen, 712 00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:49,279 Speaker 1: like certain things, whatever you like in the bedroom? What's 713 00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:55,880 Speaker 1: really weird nowadays? Question? Yes? Okay, so um that so no, 714 00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:59,160 Speaker 1: we can't do that. Do you think like when you're 715 00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:02,920 Speaker 1: with your significant other or whoever you're with um, when 716 00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:07,280 Speaker 1: you're in an intimate type of scenario, are all rules 717 00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:10,360 Speaker 1: like off the table or are their boundaries? Because I 718 00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:13,600 Speaker 1: don't I don't feel like if you're exploring your body, 719 00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:17,400 Speaker 1: UM and your man's body and y'all are doing whatever 720 00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:19,640 Speaker 1: you guys want to do, there's nothing gay or straight 721 00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:23,480 Speaker 1: to me about that. Because whatever we do, whatever I 722 00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:25,360 Speaker 1: want to do, whatever he wants to do. There's no 723 00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:29,640 Speaker 1: gay and straight to me. I'm a woman, you're a man. 724 00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:33,279 Speaker 1: You're attracted to me. I'm not a man. So to 725 00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:36,960 Speaker 1: be and do something, you would be okay with that. 726 00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:39,520 Speaker 1: If he asked me to do that, I probably wouldn't 727 00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:43,560 Speaker 1: want him to ask me. But if I brought that up, like, um, 728 00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:46,160 Speaker 1: maybe that's just a fun Friday night, I don't know, 729 00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:54,400 Speaker 1: time out, time out if you want to go to 730 00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:57,919 Speaker 1: these levels. Basically, like, I'm not saying that I would 731 00:45:57,920 --> 00:45:59,680 Speaker 1: do it, but what I'm saying is I would be 732 00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:02,400 Speaker 1: open to the conversation. So that's my should feel like 733 00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:04,560 Speaker 1: you could at least talk about whatever. Now somebody's not 734 00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:08,799 Speaker 1: comfortable doing something, and that's how you find out she's 735 00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:14,040 Speaker 1: a good that's a good. So okay, real talk time. 736 00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:15,879 Speaker 1: You just heard what my bo just said, what Jill 737 00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:18,640 Speaker 1: just said. You know we can talk. We can't have 738 00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:21,239 Speaker 1: a conversation. My man should be open to say that. 739 00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:24,160 Speaker 1: So when I'm not, because I'm not, I'm not even 740 00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:28,160 Speaker 1: gonna say this on camera. So when this hypothetical man says, hey, 741 00:46:28,360 --> 00:46:29,960 Speaker 1: I want you to put it on a strap on 742 00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:33,400 Speaker 1: and do me from the butt, do me from the 743 00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:37,120 Speaker 1: but what I said. It's like the song, do you 744 00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:43,680 Speaker 1: what I'm saying? So when you didn when you're like, dude, 745 00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:46,439 Speaker 1: what is wrong with you? Now it's it's you're looking 746 00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:48,200 Speaker 1: at him totally differently. You should be like, I just 747 00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:55,400 Speaker 1: want to see what you was gonna say. But now 748 00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:57,560 Speaker 1: he just wan. Now I was about to say there 749 00:46:57,560 --> 00:47:00,480 Speaker 1: are our boundaries to that, right, Like I feel like, 750 00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:03,239 Speaker 1: if I want to put my tongue in between your 751 00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:06,680 Speaker 1: booty cheeks, then that's not a homosexual act because I'm 752 00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:08,560 Speaker 1: a woman putting my tongue in between your boot cheeks. 753 00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:12,080 Speaker 1: If I want to take my one finger, one finger 754 00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:16,000 Speaker 1: and explore that same area, then the one finger, that's fine. 755 00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:19,520 Speaker 1: There's the boundary that gets crossed when you add multiple fingers, 756 00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:23,120 Speaker 1: or you add a strap on or a handheld record. 757 00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:24,560 Speaker 1: Let me just say that that's not something that I'm 758 00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:37,439 Speaker 1: interested in doing. I just think that there's no there's 759 00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:40,480 Speaker 1: not a gay or straight thing when you're exploring each 760 00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:44,320 Speaker 1: other in a loving, committed relationship. What is something that 761 00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:49,359 Speaker 1: you've said no to in the bedroom? Said to an 762 00:47:51,000 --> 00:48:07,160 Speaker 1: what's something that you faith? Right? That's like, look, I 763 00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:09,319 Speaker 1: don't know you know what I will say. I don't 764 00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:14,920 Speaker 1: think I've ever really been asked to do something that 765 00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:20,279 Speaker 1: was so crazy. Um yeah, I mean, but you know what, 766 00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:23,920 Speaker 1: it's like, everybody's freak level is different. Underskill. That went 767 00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:33,279 Speaker 1: to Tim, what's your freak level? Yeah? The next question 768 00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:35,799 Speaker 1: on a scale it one to what's your freak level? 769 00:48:36,560 --> 00:48:39,160 Speaker 1: I would say about a name, I can give her 770 00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:43,400 Speaker 1: eight point five? Yeah, yeah, I would say she's I 771 00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:46,439 Speaker 1: feel like somebody. She's about to have a boyfriend next week, 772 00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:52,040 Speaker 1: no more single jail. She made a face like somebody's 773 00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:59,279 Speaker 1: awfully quietness and nothing. Yeah, I gotta understand when this 774 00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:04,480 Speaker 1: is like a flower. I just keep my stuff private. 775 00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:06,600 Speaker 1: But sorry, you don't got to be specific. But on 776 00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:08,080 Speaker 1: a scale of one to Tim, what would you rate 777 00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:11,680 Speaker 1: yourself as far as a freak? It's okay, you're married, 778 00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:16,160 Speaker 1: just be you're married. Well, you can just Mary, she's engaged. 779 00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:21,000 Speaker 1: I'm open with your guy, talking about exactly with your guy. 780 00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:31,440 Speaker 1: Of course, freaks win in the room. Yeah, probably just 781 00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:34,879 Speaker 1: there we leave her. There is the going number. We'll 782 00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:48,919 Speaker 1: give Vanessa seven. What about you doing? Okay, she's gonna 783 00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:53,440 Speaker 1: be up the screening later that you keep getting keep 784 00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:56,319 Speaker 1: your angela. Vanessa, would you look Angela up with Blue 785 00:49:56,400 --> 00:50:00,440 Speaker 1: or no, I'll introduce them. She's been trying to get 786 00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:02,680 Speaker 1: me the sport code for us, so all day she 787 00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:06,160 Speaker 1: made me sending her some corny as DM messages. It 788 00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:09,880 Speaker 1: was the other product, I mean show. They made us 789 00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:11,680 Speaker 1: do some truth that she doesn't want to be answer. 790 00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:14,239 Speaker 1: She made me send her corny answer. I'm not mad 791 00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:16,440 Speaker 1: at that. That could be your brother, you know. Wait 792 00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:21,759 Speaker 1: till she listened to this. No, he's never been in 793 00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:23,719 Speaker 1: love and he seemed a little closed off. He don't 794 00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:26,759 Speaker 1: want to bout no ring. He got understanding want tout 795 00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:29,279 Speaker 1: the ring. I was asking questions about the ring with 796 00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:32,920 Speaker 1: my lady counterparts, so y'all can give me some real answers. 797 00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:35,759 Speaker 1: Alright again, checking for NBC day for you guys. I'm 798 00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:37,319 Speaker 1: not about to go buy the damn rings, but make 799 00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:50,200 Speaker 1: sure y'all watching monogamy. His number, your number first, about 800 00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:56,840 Speaker 1: to get some d MS about him. To listen, Jimmy Johnson, 801 00:50:56,920 --> 00:50:59,120 Speaker 1: that's a Simmons Blue Kimber. We appreciate you for coming 802 00:50:59,160 --> 00:51:01,480 Speaker 1: through and having some with that. Thank you, Thank you 803 00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:07,560 Speaker 1: for having the best one of all. I have another 804 00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:17,440 Speaker 1: baby out there. Dot TV service starts taming on May 805 00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:20,560 Speaker 1: fourth four. What's the what's the cold? We got cold? 806 00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:25,319 Speaker 1: We got fair? We got cold? One for three? Oh 807 00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:27,680 Speaker 1: ship you will see one five one. I feel special? 808 00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:31,439 Speaker 1: Do you? Guys will not be disappointed. I can't wait. Yeah. 809 00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:34,680 Speaker 1: Like I said, this is the script. The actors everybody into. 810 00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:39,960 Speaker 1: It's sexiest, provocative, it's whatever, it's all. It's all perfect 811 00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:42,799 Speaker 1: for the service. Jelly, you answer in d MS. Enough 812 00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:48,560 Speaker 1: from the guys. Um have you ever shoot? Shut? Um? 813 00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:53,759 Speaker 1: A couple I have? 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