WEBVTT - BONUS* Is There A Time Limit on Gift Giving? 0:00:01.200 --> 0:00:02.280 Tourists. 0:00:02.279 --> 0:00:04.720 I'm a homegrow that knows a little bit about everything 0:00:04.840 --> 0:00:05.640 and everybody. 0:00:06.519 --> 0:00:07.800 You don't know if you don't lie about that, right, 0:00:07.920 --> 0:00:10.719 Lauren came, Hey, y'all, what's up. 0:00:10.760 --> 0:00:13.760 It's Lauren de Rosa and this is the Latest with 0:00:13.840 --> 0:00:16.360 Lauren de Rosa. This is your daily dig on all 0:00:16.400 --> 0:00:20.480 things pop culture, entertainment, news and all of the conversations 0:00:20.560 --> 0:00:21.479 that shake the room. 0:00:21.520 --> 0:00:21.880 Baby. 0:00:22.440 --> 0:00:25.920 So today we are, you know, getting into another holiday 0:00:25.960 --> 0:00:29.040 conversation that is going to shake the room for show 0:00:29.160 --> 0:00:31.960 for show, and we're going to have someone on the line. 0:00:32.000 --> 0:00:34.720 We have an anonymous caller, uh you know here at 0:00:34.720 --> 0:00:36.600 the Latest with Lona Rosa. We get on the line 0:00:36.600 --> 0:00:38.360 with the low riders and just hear how they're feeling 0:00:38.360 --> 0:00:41.800 and what they have to say. So we were here, 0:00:42.280 --> 0:00:45.319 you were having a conversation about the holidays, and you're 0:00:45.360 --> 0:00:48.760 seeing all the celebrities at this point with the gifting 0:00:49.040 --> 0:00:51.400 and the you know, all of the the the fine 0:00:51.440 --> 0:00:52.239 things that they do for. 0:00:52.280 --> 0:00:53.519 Their significant others. 0:00:54.040 --> 0:00:56.600 Some of the biggest celebrities have been all of it 0:00:56.680 --> 0:00:59.280 down our timeline with the gifts that they've been giving 0:00:59.320 --> 0:01:00.000 that they've been received. 0:01:01.240 --> 0:01:05.080 So we want to know what is too soon. 0:01:04.959 --> 0:01:08.240 How soon it's too soon to buy holiday gifts for 0:01:08.360 --> 0:01:09.559 someone that you were dating. 0:01:10.120 --> 0:01:13.040 So Brandon is here with me, he's on the pod. 0:01:13.319 --> 0:01:14.480 Yes, yes, I'm back. 0:01:15.080 --> 0:01:16.600 So tell the people who you are. I don't think 0:01:16.600 --> 0:01:18.880 we've ever given you like an official title. Brandon produces 0:01:18.920 --> 0:01:19.360 this segment. 0:01:19.600 --> 0:01:21.800 Yes, so I produce this segment. I work with Lauren 0:01:21.920 --> 0:01:25.600 on the Breakfast Club with the Latest and yeah, so 0:01:25.640 --> 0:01:27.360 we decided to do this segment. And we said we're 0:01:27.360 --> 0:01:29.039 gonna do what like once or twice a month? 0:01:29.160 --> 0:01:30.240 Yes, yes we are. 0:01:30.319 --> 0:01:32.520 He was like, you know what, we need to get 0:01:32.760 --> 0:01:35.280 the people more engaged, just like five to eight million 0:01:35.360 --> 0:01:38.039 people on the audio side, you know, just a. 0:01:37.959 --> 0:01:40.480 Little flex before we get into the new year. 0:01:41.040 --> 0:01:42.840 So we decided, you know, we wanted to do more 0:01:42.920 --> 0:01:44.480 to be able to get y'all involved and kind of 0:01:44.480 --> 0:01:47.040 just engage a bit. And coming from radio now, I 0:01:47.040 --> 0:01:49.360 can say that I see how important it is for 0:01:49.400 --> 0:01:51.240 your listeners to feel like they're a part of the show. 0:01:51.360 --> 0:01:52.720 So here we are. 0:01:52.960 --> 0:01:56.440 So we will actually be posting the number via like 0:01:56.480 --> 0:01:59.600 on all my socials, I'm Lauren Lorosa everywhere, but I 0:01:59.720 --> 0:02:03.440 also say it pretty often on the podcast as well. 0:02:03.480 --> 0:02:05.160 Here too, So you guys will know the number. It'll 0:02:05.160 --> 0:02:05.840 be easy calling. 0:02:05.960 --> 0:02:10.880 We'll have it established eventually in later episodes, so you'll 0:02:10.919 --> 0:02:11.280 have that. 0:02:11.600 --> 0:02:12.680 But getting to the. 0:02:12.680 --> 0:02:17.000 Question, how soon it's too soon to buy holiday gifts 0:02:17.480 --> 0:02:20.160 with someone that you are newly dating. 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:23.799 M okay, So I feel like there's a lot of 0:02:24.280 --> 0:02:27.400 unwritten rules to this. So if y'all are not together 0:02:27.600 --> 0:02:29.359 and it's like real new, maybe y'all talking for a 0:02:29.440 --> 0:02:33.040 few weeks, I don't think they necessarily getting like real 0:02:33.160 --> 0:02:34.680 new like a week like weeks. 0:02:35.080 --> 0:02:37.000 I don't care if you've been talking to me for 0:02:37.040 --> 0:02:37.840 a week, if. 0:02:37.680 --> 0:02:40.519 The like like just started dating, like maybe one or 0:02:40.520 --> 0:02:41.480 two dates, you getting. 0:02:41.240 --> 0:02:42.959 That Christmas you don't got to be like you got 0:02:42.960 --> 0:02:45.040 to buy me a new house, but like something that's 0:02:45.080 --> 0:02:47.280 just like, oh, you know what I mean, I'm enjoying 0:02:47.320 --> 0:02:48.280 conversation with you. 0:02:49.880 --> 0:02:53.959 Here's like a nice perfume or a perfume. 0:02:53.880 --> 0:02:58.960 Or like, I think the the I do think, the 0:02:59.040 --> 0:03:01.800 bigger the gifts can. I wouldn't be mad if it 0:03:01.840 --> 0:03:05.360 depends on the amount of time that you've spend with me, 0:03:05.800 --> 0:03:07.600 because I can understand you not wanting to throw a 0:03:07.600 --> 0:03:09.320 lot of money into someone you barely even know. 0:03:09.880 --> 0:03:11.280 But I think it's a nice gesture. 0:03:13.080 --> 0:03:15.200 Yeah, I don't know. 0:03:15.639 --> 0:03:18.280 And then I feel like, so, what's the time period, Like, 0:03:18.360 --> 0:03:21.040 at what point in a new relationship do you buy 0:03:21.080 --> 0:03:21.480 a gift? 0:03:21.520 --> 0:03:22.320 Like what's the mark? 0:03:22.800 --> 0:03:29.120 I believe maybe like over like two months, like two months, 0:03:29.440 --> 0:03:31.640 then we can get a gift. Or if you'll official 0:03:31.639 --> 0:03:33.760 and it's new, you can get a gift. And even 0:03:33.840 --> 0:03:36.080 like if you're not official, I feel like that even 0:03:36.160 --> 0:03:40.000 depends on what the gift is, Like a grandiose gift 0:03:40.120 --> 0:03:47.520 without a commitment's little odd? What why? All right? All right? 0:03:47.560 --> 0:03:50.720 Explain Maybe I'm tripping. Explain I don't know. 0:03:50.800 --> 0:03:52.520 I mean again, it does have to be like a 0:03:52.520 --> 0:03:54.600 brand new car or house, unless that's how you come in. 0:03:54.640 --> 0:03:56.560 I'm not mad at it. Just make sure you know 0:03:57.520 --> 0:03:59.920 everything is in my name and fully paid for it. 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:01.600 Don't give me nothing that I got to figure out. 0:04:02.120 --> 0:04:07.080 But I don't think that there's anything wrong with the 0:04:07.200 --> 0:04:11.960 gesture of Hey, it's Christmas. I'm enjoying your company, I'm 0:04:12.040 --> 0:04:15.360 enjoying your voice, I'm enjoying your conversation. Here's something so 0:04:15.400 --> 0:04:18.120 like maybe in those two weeks of conversation I mentioned 0:04:18.120 --> 0:04:20.159 to you, I like to get my nails done at 0:04:20.160 --> 0:04:23.320 a certain place, or you know, I like to eat 0:04:23.320 --> 0:04:25.240 at a certain place, or I'm head on a trip 0:04:25.279 --> 0:04:26.479 for New Year's even. 0:04:26.279 --> 0:04:28.000 I mean, no, that's cool, but I do feel like 0:04:28.000 --> 0:04:30.000 the price point matters. 0:04:29.800 --> 0:04:32.440 Okay, And I'm not mad at that. I mean, I'm 0:04:32.440 --> 0:04:34.839 not mad at that whatsoever. I don't think that it's required, 0:04:34.880 --> 0:04:38.040 but I think it would be nice, like dang, that's 0:04:38.080 --> 0:04:40.599 like I also, you know, for this conversation, I always 0:04:40.600 --> 0:04:42.640 think too about like Valentine's. 0:04:42.120 --> 0:04:45.800 Day, and when you're newly dealing. 0:04:45.480 --> 0:04:49.080 With somebody, it's like, when do you guys officially celebrate 0:04:49.120 --> 0:04:49.719 Valentine's Dy to. 0:04:49.720 --> 0:04:51.159 A point where you feel like that makes more sense 0:04:51.200 --> 0:04:52.880 than Christmas. I don't know what it is, but I 0:04:52.920 --> 0:04:55.600 feel like Valentine's they even like, no matter how short 0:04:55.640 --> 0:04:57.640 of the time it is, I think you should do 0:04:57.720 --> 0:05:03.000 something like some type of gesture, dinner, gift. I think 0:05:03.120 --> 0:05:05.560 Valentine's Day, But Christmas, I feel like it's more of 0:05:05.640 --> 0:05:08.200 like a family thing. I think maybe that's what I'm 0:05:08.200 --> 0:05:13.159 thinking of. It's more like, you know, it's more familiar. 0:05:13.920 --> 0:05:16.000 I can understand that. I definitely can understand. 0:05:16.000 --> 0:05:18.080 And I also feel like too, there are such a 0:05:18.120 --> 0:05:20.800 family sentimental value of what you're saying, you know what 0:05:20.800 --> 0:05:21.040 I mean? 0:05:21.040 --> 0:05:21.840 That comes to Christmas. 0:05:21.880 --> 0:05:26.680 I know I was reading this People magazine article, not 0:05:26.720 --> 0:05:28.479 in the physical magazine, but I was on People dot 0:05:28.480 --> 0:05:32.800 com and they begin to rank celebrities and like the 0:05:32.839 --> 0:05:37.480 best Christmas tree decorations, and it made me think about 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:41.760 just how family oriented Christmas is as a holiday, and 0:05:41.839 --> 0:05:45.800 like when you are newly dating someone or having a 0:05:45.800 --> 0:05:49.279 conversation with them, I think that there is like a 0:05:51.040 --> 0:05:53.360 there should be at our big age anyway, there is 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:57.520 a pause or like a conversation about like when is 0:05:57.520 --> 0:05:59.560 it too early to even introduce you to the people 0:05:59.640 --> 0:06:01.480 I love, like the people that would be surrounded by 0:06:01.480 --> 0:06:03.120 my Christmas tree and be happy, you know what I mean. 0:06:04.440 --> 0:06:05.480 But on the top of that. 0:06:05.480 --> 0:06:10.760 List was Jada Pinkett Smith and the Smith and what 0:06:10.760 --> 0:06:16.480 what couch him out, But on the top of that 0:06:16.520 --> 0:06:19.200 list was her. They did a like a very artistic 0:06:19.279 --> 0:06:23.400 like velvet velvet top tree with like a huge star 0:06:23.520 --> 0:06:28.280 on the top. Number three was our broker and Deborah 0:06:28.360 --> 0:06:33.159 Roberts his wife. Kevin Hart was number four with his 0:06:33.240 --> 0:06:35.159 tree and all these trees are like over the top 0:06:35.240 --> 0:06:38.080 right this yeah, this is this year. But all of 0:06:38.080 --> 0:06:41.400 these people and just reading this article and thinking about 0:06:42.160 --> 0:06:44.400 when is it too soon to buyke if I'm like, dang, 0:06:46.800 --> 0:06:48.480 I don't know the last time I've even had to 0:06:48.520 --> 0:06:52.599 think about that, because even in my new relationship, we 0:06:52.640 --> 0:06:56.760 are settled in like when we first started, you know, 0:06:56.920 --> 0:06:59.839 having conversations and like whatever it was that was happening, 0:07:01.200 --> 0:07:02.919 we weren't even in the point like it was just 0:07:02.960 --> 0:07:04.360 around this time, you know what I mean. 0:07:04.360 --> 0:07:06.440 So, but y'all like together though. 0:07:06.440 --> 0:07:10.880 Now, but I'm saying last year, but. 0:07:10.960 --> 0:07:13.000 Your business, y'all were dealing with each other for. 0:07:13.520 --> 0:07:16.640 Not at Christmas time, no, like we know since last year. 0:07:16.720 --> 0:07:19.160 We knew each other around that time, but we got 0:07:19.200 --> 0:07:22.080 through Christmas. But but Valentine's Day was. 0:07:21.800 --> 0:07:23.360 Got for Christmas last year. 0:07:24.400 --> 0:07:25.920 That has nothing to do with that because that's not 0:07:25.960 --> 0:07:26.720 where I'm at this year. 0:07:26.760 --> 0:07:30.120 But what did you get? I got things and and 0:07:30.200 --> 0:07:30.640 y'all just. 0:07:30.560 --> 0:07:32.600 Started You're not listening. 0:07:32.880 --> 0:07:35.720 How long were you all dating by last Christmas? 0:07:35.840 --> 0:07:37.360 The person that I'm talking about, Yeah, it. 0:07:37.320 --> 0:07:40.120 Was a few months. Yeah, that's a that's a few months. 0:07:40.200 --> 0:07:42.120 It was still very new and he was still very 0:07:42.200 --> 0:07:44.200 much a lie here and didn't have nothing going on. 0:07:44.320 --> 0:07:47.400 I got something. Yeah, you can't say it. 0:07:47.680 --> 0:07:50.320 It's irrelevant to where I am now because what I 0:07:50.360 --> 0:07:52.120 got had nothing to do with where I ended up, 0:07:52.160 --> 0:07:55.520 because it was just that was all a completely different person, 0:07:55.960 --> 0:07:58.960 and it was also all very material. Like in that situation, 0:07:59.200 --> 0:08:01.400 I knew I was to be receiving things because a 0:08:01.400 --> 0:08:02.160 lot of the basis of. 0:08:02.120 --> 0:08:03.520 Our relationship was very material. 0:08:04.280 --> 0:08:09.200 In this situation I'm in now, I would much rather 0:08:09.360 --> 0:08:12.440 like how things are right now with us. I mean, babe, 0:08:12.480 --> 0:08:15.360 you know, I want my gifts, but I value just 0:08:15.400 --> 0:08:17.760 being able to be with him on the holiday and 0:08:17.800 --> 0:08:19.280 be with his family and get to the meet who's 0:08:19.280 --> 0:08:21.200 important for him. Because that's another thing too. When it's 0:08:21.200 --> 0:08:24.320 a new relationship, you're meeting new people and you know 0:08:24.360 --> 0:08:27.040 you're getting into like what are their holiday traditions. It's 0:08:27.040 --> 0:08:29.280 decorating the tree a big thing. Do y'all get together 0:08:29.320 --> 0:08:32.160 to do that? So like, I am excited about experiencing 0:08:32.200 --> 0:08:34.520 that stuff more than I am about my gifts. But 0:08:35.400 --> 0:08:36.880 I know my man, so I know he got me. 0:08:37.280 --> 0:08:38.720 You know what I'm saying. I can say that confidently. 0:08:40.720 --> 0:08:42.680 But we do have a caller on the line, because again, 0:08:42.720 --> 0:08:44.320 we wanted to hear what the people had to say 0:08:44.320 --> 0:08:48.600 about these things. So our caller, who is anonymous, I 0:08:48.679 --> 0:08:51.760 want to know how soon it's too soon to begin 0:08:52.040 --> 0:08:53.760 gifting Bay for Christmas? 0:08:53.800 --> 0:08:56.960 If it's a new relationship. Hi, how are you? 0:08:57.920 --> 0:08:59.080 I'm good? 0:08:59.280 --> 0:09:01.680 Well, first of all, I want to know you know, 0:09:02.040 --> 0:09:03.360 are you in a relationship? 0:09:04.480 --> 0:09:07.599 I am How new is this relationship? 0:09:09.080 --> 0:09:12.360 It's pretty new? But we were dating for a while. 0:09:12.920 --> 0:09:15.400 Okay, all right, so he's not a new person, but 0:09:15.440 --> 0:09:18.680 the exclusivity and the intensity. 0:09:18.080 --> 0:09:23.040 Of like we're together is new. Yeah, okay. So did 0:09:23.040 --> 0:09:26.360 you guys spend Christmas together? Yeah? And it was your 0:09:26.360 --> 0:09:27.320 first Christmas together? 0:09:28.160 --> 0:09:28.360 Yeah? 0:09:29.200 --> 0:09:31.600 And you guys exchanged gifts? Yeah? 0:09:31.720 --> 0:09:32.120 We did. 0:09:33.679 --> 0:09:36.600 So are you guys under the six month mark? 0:09:38.360 --> 0:09:38.920 We are? 0:09:39.520 --> 0:09:40.400 Okay? All right? 0:09:41.240 --> 0:09:44.640 So at what point were you like, like, for you, 0:09:44.960 --> 0:09:48.720 is there a time limit on? No, we're not getting 0:09:48.760 --> 0:09:50.640 we're not doing the gifts thing. Like if you guys 0:09:50.640 --> 0:09:54.640 had not been one hundred percent together, right, Like, y'all 0:09:54.640 --> 0:09:58.040 are still just dating. It's still very intentional, but there's 0:09:58.080 --> 0:10:00.320 no where you're my boyfriend, I'm your girl friends. 0:10:00.880 --> 0:10:03.319 Would you have exchanged gifts this Christmas? 0:10:04.440 --> 0:10:07.120 I would have because I feel like it depends on 0:10:07.240 --> 0:10:09.440 the rate at which you speak to the person because 0:10:09.480 --> 0:10:12.840 we speak every day. So even if you didn't get 0:10:12.920 --> 0:10:15.679 something grand, it could have been something personal but like 0:10:15.880 --> 0:10:19.720 low pressure for something that you mentioned all the time. 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:25.800 It could be something small like a candle, your favorite snack. Like, 0:10:25.840 --> 0:10:26.439 it doesn't have. 0:10:26.480 --> 0:10:27.000 To be. 0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:31.719 A grand gift, but I feel like it depends. 0:10:32.160 --> 0:10:36.559 I agree, I think as women though for us it's 0:10:36.640 --> 0:10:39.319 the thoughtfulness. Correct, Is that what you're looking for at 0:10:39.320 --> 0:10:39.920 that point? 0:10:40.600 --> 0:10:44.760 Yeah? And I think that we are just naturally more thoughtful. 0:10:46.120 --> 0:10:50.080 I agree, consideration is baby, get me that every year? 0:10:51.320 --> 0:10:54.439 Yeah, I think we'll think of like the little things 0:10:54.440 --> 0:10:55.760 that they may not think of. 0:10:57.600 --> 0:11:01.240 So were you happy with your Christmas gifts? 0:11:02.240 --> 0:11:02.760 I was? 0:11:04.640 --> 0:11:09.319 And moving forward right because all right, you got Christmas. 0:11:09.520 --> 0:11:12.680 Y'all need the Christmas tradition and all the things. But 0:11:14.240 --> 0:11:16.600 God forbid this we're not to work. Would you do 0:11:16.720 --> 0:11:20.120 Christmas differently with a new bay because y'all are it 0:11:20.120 --> 0:11:22.600 seems like y'all are pretty early in this situation. Would 0:11:22.640 --> 0:11:24.640 you do Christmas differently with a new bay based on 0:11:25.480 --> 0:11:28.120 if this doesn't work, just trying things new? Do you 0:11:28.160 --> 0:11:31.560 feel like no gifts at Christmas is okay for new relationships? 0:11:32.640 --> 0:11:35.400 So I think just being the person that I am, 0:11:35.520 --> 0:11:40.280 I would just get exist regardless, because I don't think 0:11:40.320 --> 0:11:42.880 I'm going to change the type of person I am, 0:11:43.200 --> 0:11:45.360 even if the situations didn't work out. 0:11:47.000 --> 0:11:48.960 How much money they got to spend in this new 0:11:49.000 --> 0:11:52.080 relationship though, so week, three months, in six months? In 0:11:52.600 --> 0:11:56.400 how much money? Like, what's the what's the average? 0:11:59.200 --> 0:12:02.199 I don't think there's a I don't think there's a 0:12:02.240 --> 0:12:05.480 price limits or put like a a mouth. 0:12:07.240 --> 0:12:08.240 Oh you a good one? 0:12:08.360 --> 0:12:12.160 I don't. I don't expect something huge until like we're 0:12:12.160 --> 0:12:17.320 in a committed relationship and maybe like after the six 0:12:17.400 --> 0:12:21.560 months mark, if that holiday comes afterwards, then I'm like, okay, 0:12:21.720 --> 0:12:24.199 I would need you to use your brain and think 0:12:24.360 --> 0:12:27.960 a little bit. Would you prior to that? 0:12:28.760 --> 0:12:31.439 Would you would you have ended your relationship if your 0:12:31.720 --> 0:12:33.800 person came to you and said, you know what, you're 0:12:33.840 --> 0:12:35.960 pretty new. We haven't even been in a relationship a 0:12:36.000 --> 0:12:39.200 year yet. I don't think exchange and Christmas gifts. 0:12:39.040 --> 0:12:39.800 Make sense. 0:12:42.000 --> 0:12:46.040 When I ended, No, I'd probably argue a little bit though. 0:12:46.640 --> 0:12:49.280 Oh we are you a writer? Okay? 0:12:49.360 --> 0:12:51.280 Because I would need to hear your reason. I would 0:12:51.320 --> 0:12:54.880 need to hear like, because if you know me, you 0:12:54.920 --> 0:12:56.960 know that it doesn't have to be something grand. So 0:12:57.120 --> 0:12:59.440 for you to still not go ahead and get something 0:13:00.320 --> 0:13:02.760 crazy to me, well. 0:13:02.960 --> 0:13:05.720 There we have it. Thank you for coming on the 0:13:05.720 --> 0:13:07.120 line with us. Happy holidays. 0:13:08.040 --> 0:13:09.120 Thank you you too. 0:13:11.920 --> 0:13:12.160 Well. 0:13:13.440 --> 0:13:15.560 I like I like, I like that calling. 0:13:17.800 --> 0:13:19.800 She said exactly what I said. 0:13:20.120 --> 0:13:21.880 I think it's more important to be thoughtful. 0:13:22.480 --> 0:13:25.240 Yes, but thought begins the day you breathe at me. 0:13:25.559 --> 0:13:27.080 They just said it better. They just said it. 0:13:27.320 --> 0:13:29.760 Thought begins the day you breathe at me. The moral 0:13:29.800 --> 0:13:35.360 of the story is if you're breathing my way, especially. 0:13:34.920 --> 0:13:39.200 If you what what you breathe, that that's crazy. He's 0:13:39.240 --> 0:13:41.040 not crazy, you know everybody's. 0:13:41.080 --> 0:13:43.680 But if I have to hear listen, if I've ever 0:13:43.800 --> 0:13:47.520 heard you breathe or saw you blank your eye on FaceTime, 0:13:47.960 --> 0:13:51.320 that is when thought begins. And it's nothing wrong with 0:13:51.400 --> 0:13:53.480 even if it's just like a cute little Christmas card 0:13:53.520 --> 0:13:54.520 and some candies. 0:13:54.880 --> 0:13:57.800 I'm all about thoughtfulness though. That's that's where I like. 0:13:58.720 --> 0:13:59.560 I'm good at thoughtful. 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:05.400 Men be saying, always be saying again the thoughtfulness, and they 0:14:05.400 --> 0:14:07.680 take the gift back as soon as the thought, oh. 0:14:07.600 --> 0:14:09.439 I don't do that. That's crazy to be taking a 0:14:09.480 --> 0:14:11.000 gift back gives you back. Sis. 0:14:11.840 --> 0:14:13.920 You can't say the other words because it's not you. 0:14:14.240 --> 0:14:18.439 What's the other words that I and the second one, yeah, 0:14:18.760 --> 0:14:20.440 be not gonna get canceled her. You can't say that. 0:14:21.040 --> 0:14:25.040 You know what you saw? Drake was on stream with 0:14:25.640 --> 0:14:29.600 and then and was talking about the car that Quavo 0:14:30.120 --> 0:14:33.240 got for Sweetie that he then said he took back. 0:14:33.280 --> 0:14:35.400 And he said that he bought it back as a gift, 0:14:35.400 --> 0:14:37.360 like he bought it for Quabo as a gift and 0:14:37.800 --> 0:14:38.520 didn't really understand. 0:14:38.560 --> 0:14:39.440 Let's take a listen to that. 0:14:40.480 --> 0:14:43.440 Hey, all right, I'm gonna tell you you remember you 0:14:43.480 --> 0:14:47.800 remember when when when the when the Sweety Badly was 0:14:47.920 --> 0:14:51.280 going viral? Remember that there was an ice blue Beatley 0:14:51.640 --> 0:14:52.960 Uh huh it was Sweety's car. 0:14:53.160 --> 0:14:55.080 Yeah. They said that got it for it. 0:14:55.240 --> 0:14:57.960 Yeah, And I was like, oh, like I saw it 0:14:58.000 --> 0:14:58.960 for sale somewhere something. 0:14:59.040 --> 0:15:00.840 And this is like when we were Perst on Steak 0:15:00.840 --> 0:15:04.440 and I was just paper was just running. So or 0:15:04.480 --> 0:15:08.040 maybe it was before that. It was before that, No, it's. 0:15:08.160 --> 0:15:11.880 Around that time, and so I was like, man, just 0:15:12.240 --> 0:15:14.160 I was like I saw hisself like I'm gonna buy 0:15:14.160 --> 0:15:16.760 that back from my dollar. So then I'm like I 0:15:16.840 --> 0:15:18.600 like kind of try to do the same thing where 0:15:18.600 --> 0:15:20.320 I was like I invited him over and I'm like, yo, 0:15:20.560 --> 0:15:22.720 come over to this party. I parked the whip right 0:15:22.720 --> 0:15:24.360 in the front. But you did buy it. 0:15:24.400 --> 0:15:25.320 I bought it for him. 0:15:25.240 --> 0:15:28.840 Yeah, And I was like he pulled up like he's 0:15:28.960 --> 0:15:31.720 like no, like he thought he thought she was there, 0:15:33.040 --> 0:15:33.960 But what do you say? 0:15:34.000 --> 0:15:40.000 What do you say? Shout? But he really didn't. 0:15:39.840 --> 0:15:42.120 Understand speaking of giving things back, First of all, I 0:15:42.160 --> 0:15:44.000 think it was I really think it was corny Drake 0:15:44.000 --> 0:15:44.800 to share this story. 0:15:45.600 --> 0:15:47.640 Yeah. Way, so he bought it from Sweetie and give 0:15:47.640 --> 0:15:48.360 it back to Quevo. 0:15:48.520 --> 0:15:50.240 No, no, no, no, no, That's why I said when I 0:15:50.320 --> 0:15:53.360 call her was talking to us. Remember I said, make 0:15:53.440 --> 0:15:55.480 sure everything is all the notes and all that is right, 0:15:55.560 --> 0:15:56.480 and I actually own it. 0:15:56.560 --> 0:15:57.800 Yeah, it was. 0:15:58.080 --> 0:15:59.800 It couldn't have ever been fully. 0:15:59.600 --> 0:16:05.560 Like, oh that's that's a little like shady than to 0:16:05.560 --> 0:16:07.440 do that, right, Like I can actually buy it. 0:16:07.800 --> 0:16:12.280 Yes, but don't get me nothing that you can give back, 0:16:12.400 --> 0:16:15.960 like what And it was like I remember when this 0:16:16.000 --> 0:16:19.360 went down, So it was it was ice Blue Bentley. 0:16:19.680 --> 0:16:20.800 He got it. He got this. 0:16:20.720 --> 0:16:24.960 Gift for sweety and Christmas. Christmas of December December Christmas 0:16:25.000 --> 0:16:28.600 of twenty twenty, and it had like it was customized. 0:16:28.840 --> 0:16:31.520 She had like the icy snowflakes and border on it, 0:16:31.680 --> 0:16:34.080 like the headsets, and it was really cute for them. 0:16:34.360 --> 0:16:36.520 It was a fine moment she bought because people were 0:16:36.560 --> 0:16:38.360 always trying to make it seem like Sweety was getting 0:16:38.360 --> 0:16:40.720 more out of relationship than he was. But I remember 0:16:41.280 --> 0:16:43.840 she returned the gift later on and like bought him 0:16:43.840 --> 0:16:45.400 some cars as well too, like he was, I guess, 0:16:45.440 --> 0:16:48.840 really into old schools and stuff like that. But I 0:16:48.880 --> 0:16:51.000 think number one, it was corny for Drake to tell 0:16:51.080 --> 0:16:53.920 us that he did that. I also think that taking 0:16:53.920 --> 0:16:56.840 a gift back like a car that you buy, Yeah, 0:16:56.880 --> 0:16:58.840 I think it's it's very like corny. I also think 0:16:58.880 --> 0:17:01.320 it's it's just a controlling It's like something that you 0:17:01.400 --> 0:17:02.040 can you. 0:17:02.080 --> 0:17:02.600 Know what I'm saying. 0:17:02.600 --> 0:17:06.080 But I've never been in that situation that allegedly Quavo 0:17:06.480 --> 0:17:09.760 was in, where like she cheated on you with somebody 0:17:10.440 --> 0:17:12.240 you may know, and like, I don't know, I've never 0:17:12.240 --> 0:17:15.399 been hurt to that that extent, So I don't know 0:17:15.440 --> 0:17:18.240 what I would do in that situation. I mean, yeah, 0:17:18.320 --> 0:17:19.400 but I would hope I wouldn't. 0:17:19.640 --> 0:17:22.440 I'm pretty sure that no relationship is perfect, you know 0:17:22.440 --> 0:17:23.760 what I mean, Like I don't. 0:17:24.320 --> 0:17:25.880 We don't know everything that went down. 0:17:25.920 --> 0:17:28.760 There have been allegations of like you know, Sweetie doing 0:17:28.800 --> 0:17:32.320 certain things, OFFSET or whatever, and I know things have 0:17:32.400 --> 0:17:34.840 been you know, OFFSET has spoke out and tried to 0:17:34.840 --> 0:17:37.080 clear it up or whatever. But I think you don't 0:17:37.119 --> 0:17:40.000 know all of the details into a relationship ever. 0:17:40.760 --> 0:17:42.320 But I just feel like if you're gonna. 0:17:42.080 --> 0:17:44.760 Buy me something, especially something as big as a car 0:17:44.800 --> 0:17:47.320 is different if it's like a little necklace or whatever, 0:17:47.359 --> 0:17:49.399 but as big as a car, Like if you standing 0:17:49.400 --> 0:17:51.679 on that stand on it, Yeah, let me go up 0:17:51.680 --> 0:17:52.640 by my business in my car. 0:17:53.200 --> 0:17:57.719 Yeah. Cheating, that's the very mature thing. 0:17:57.880 --> 0:18:00.800 Do you gave somebody your gifts and you don't really 0:18:00.800 --> 0:18:02.119 feel that way? No man feels that. 0:18:02.160 --> 0:18:04.639 We know I do, But I just know it's like 0:18:04.720 --> 0:18:07.800 that sounds good in theory, but if somebody really hurts 0:18:07.840 --> 0:18:10.840 you in a real way, like you'd want to not 0:18:10.960 --> 0:18:14.119 hurt them back, but like you wouldn't want them to 0:18:14.240 --> 0:18:16.760 enjoy something like that that you gave them, like just 0:18:16.880 --> 0:18:20.280 riding around Smilod another dude in the past seat, Like 0:18:20.600 --> 0:18:23.240 I don't know, I don't know, or letting another do 0:18:23.320 --> 0:18:26.400 borrow the car, and I feel like that would add 0:18:26.440 --> 0:18:29.480 insult to injury. But the mature thing to do is 0:18:29.520 --> 0:18:31.399 definitely just leave the gift and let them have it. 0:18:31.880 --> 0:18:34.960 Yeah, well, listen, there was speculation back then that the 0:18:35.000 --> 0:18:37.600 car was repossessed. Drake basically just confirmed that the car 0:18:37.760 --> 0:18:40.040