1 00:00:01,280 --> 00:00:04,200 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. If you 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:08,080 Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, please 3 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve BARBFM dot com and 4 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter 5 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:16,760 Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're going to read 6 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now, and you never know, 7 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 1: it could be yours. 8 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 2: It could be yours, So buckle up and hold on tight. 9 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 2: We got it for you here. It is Prawberry Letter. 10 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:27,479 Speaker 3: Thank you nephew. 11 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 1: Subject he's working off the money he owes me. 12 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 3: Dear Stephen Shirley. 13 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 1: I'm forty eight years old and I've been taking care 14 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 1: of my twenty six year old daughter and her husband 15 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 1: for three years. I'm a registered nurse and I got 16 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:44,080 Speaker 1: my son in law job and laundry at the hospital 17 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 1: I work in. He's got a college degree, but he 18 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 1: refuses to apply himself and get a job because he 19 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:52,839 Speaker 1: doesn't like the starting salary. He thinks he's supposed to 20 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 1: be balling out the gate with his little degree. 21 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 3: My daughter, on the. 22 00:00:57,440 --> 00:00:59,959 Speaker 1: Other hand, is in dental school and she will graduate 23 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 1: next to May. That's the only reason that I chip 24 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 1: in to make sure they have a roof over their heads. 25 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:08,840 Speaker 1: My son in law is a little handsome guy, and 26 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 1: he knows it. He's charmed all of the ladies at 27 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:14,679 Speaker 1: the hospital, so they do most of his work for him. 28 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:17,520 Speaker 1: I collect his check at the end of every week 29 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 1: because I should not have to take care of them. 30 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 1: My daughter has a problem with how I handle things, 31 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 1: but she can either accept my help or divorce this 32 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:28,120 Speaker 1: dead beat. The other day, my son in law had 33 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:30,680 Speaker 1: been drinking and he called me and said he didn't 34 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 1: like his job and he wanted to quit. I told 35 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 1: him that would be fine, but he'd have to come 36 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:37,759 Speaker 1: up with the way to cover their monthly mortgage. He 37 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 1: got very upset and hung up. My daughter called me 38 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:43,760 Speaker 1: later and said that I was being very controlling and 39 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 1: that I was using her husband to pay back the 40 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 1: money they owe. 41 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 3: Me as a couple. She said, I owe. 42 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 1: Her husband a lot of money because I've been taking 43 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:55,920 Speaker 1: most of his paychecks. I don't see how my educated 44 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 1: daughter doesn't understand what's going on here. She's with a 45 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 1: dead beat that owes me money, and she's defending him. 46 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 1: What do I do next? Cut them off and let 47 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 1: them figure it out. Please advise you definitely need to 48 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 1: give them a deadline to make some kind of changes 49 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 1: or get out. I mean, it's called tough love, but 50 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 1: they have a way of making you feel guilty about 51 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:19,960 Speaker 1: making them grow up and being responsible. 52 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 3: I'm sure if he. 53 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: Wasn't married to your daughter, you would have handled this 54 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 1: a different way. 55 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:25,920 Speaker 3: Anyway. 56 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 1: I can't believe how entitled and unappreciative they are. 57 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 3: Your house, your rules. I mean, it's as simple as that. 58 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: You're not obligated to do anything, but like you say, 59 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 1: you're providing them with a roof over their heads because 60 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 1: your daughter is finishing up dental school. You got her 61 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:46,000 Speaker 1: husband the job he has now, and he hasn't bothered 62 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:48,360 Speaker 1: to even look for another job. But it's talking about 63 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: quitting the one he has that makes no sense, and 64 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 1: he's proving that he can't take care of your daughter 65 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 1: or himself. Let them know that you are giving them 66 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:00,640 Speaker 1: until May when your daughter graduates, to move out or 67 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 1: get themselves together, unless they're ungrateful attitudes requires them to 68 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 1: be asked out sooner. I think you need to have 69 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:12,640 Speaker 1: a family meeting and remind them how just how good 70 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 1: they do have it. 71 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 3: Tommy, But. 72 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 2: How much did he owe you? I mean this is 73 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 2: every check going to you. I mean, we we can't 74 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 2: seem to catch up. Well, so how much does he 75 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 2: owe you? 76 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:30,119 Speaker 4: And what? 77 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 2: How did he get in this rut that he owes 78 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 2: you this much money? 79 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 4: And I got it? 80 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 2: Okay, he got a degree, his wife, your your your 81 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 2: daughter has uh is in dental school. So she about 82 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 2: to come up in a minute. But so he can, 83 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 2: he can always get his te figs. 84 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 4: We know that. But what I'm trying to figure out 85 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 4: what do he owe you? Though? What? 86 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 1: What? 87 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 4: How much do he owe you? And he lived they 88 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 4: live at your house. 89 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 2: But he's sexy and he work at the hospital, which 90 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 2: she because you are our inn, you are registered nurse. 91 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 2: He works there and you know what, everybody like him. 92 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 2: He's sexy. And you know what, you think he's sexy 93 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 2: to him? You like him, you like I know, I 94 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 2: know for sure sure that ain't never stopping nothing before 95 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 2: it's been going on. We know what she won't shure, 96 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 2: especially okay, especially the strawberry. She want him, She want him. 97 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 2: You want you want what your daughter got and you 98 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 2: can't have it. But since you can't have it, guess what, 99 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 2: you know what you're doing? He gonna have to pay me. 100 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 2: I want all my money as soon as he get 101 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 2: his check. Now, what what job is it that gives 102 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 2: somebody else's check to somebody? 103 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 4: Who'll do that? Why can't have my own check? Why? 104 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:46,160 Speaker 2: Why my check ain't automatic? All these checks is automatic. 105 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:47,359 Speaker 4: Now, ain't it. I'm just saying. 106 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 2: I'm just saying, So, who is this lady that that 107 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:53,480 Speaker 2: that's in position that she could just go grab somebody 108 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:55,560 Speaker 2: check when it's at the end of the week or 109 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:57,359 Speaker 2: the end of the two weeks, and you can just 110 00:04:57,360 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 2: take that money. 111 00:04:58,240 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 4: But I don't get this. 112 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 3: Part her house? 113 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 4: Wow? Wow, do I make sense? 114 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 2: Don't call er? 115 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 4: How do you just get somebody check like this? How 116 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:09,479 Speaker 4: you get somebody money. 117 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:11,160 Speaker 3: When you're living at their house? House? 118 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 2: I guess. 119 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:15,720 Speaker 4: So I'm gonna say. 120 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 2: I'm gonna say it as plain as I can say. 121 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:23,279 Speaker 2: Them white folks don't know that. They don't know he 122 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:24,480 Speaker 2: live over there with them. 123 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:25,720 Speaker 4: This is his check. 124 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 2: Now, I understand that as a man, you're supposed to 125 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 2: pay for where you stay. You're supposed to pay for 126 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 2: your family. So if that's your wife, you pay, But 127 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:37,800 Speaker 2: you're taking his money immediately. So how much money does 128 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:40,279 Speaker 2: he owe you? And when does he not owe you anymore. 129 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 2: I'm just I'm just looking at it. 130 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 3: Put that in the letter. They've been there three years. 131 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 3: Don't forget that she's been taking care of him for 132 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 3: three years. 133 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:49,160 Speaker 2: Oh you know how many checks that he is never 134 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:53,359 Speaker 2: gonna get out. He's never gonna win, He's never gonna 135 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:53,719 Speaker 2: get out. 136 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 3: He needs to get out. 137 00:05:56,440 --> 00:06:00,240 Speaker 2: He needs to start selling his sex inisted second with 138 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:01,360 Speaker 2: these girls at the job. 139 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:05,440 Speaker 4: And that's how you make some extra money. 140 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 2: I'm just saying, if you saw it selling your sexy 141 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 2: on the side, like all up in the in the 142 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:13,839 Speaker 2: hospital and at the hospital, there's a lot of rooms. 143 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 4: There's a lot of rooms. There's a lot of it's 144 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:16,839 Speaker 4: a lot of rooms. 145 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 2: With the people ain't doing nothing in Go in there, 146 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 2: unload your sexy. Charge five hundred for your sexy, get 147 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 2: you some paper. 148 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 4: What what how much y'all thinks? 149 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:32,200 Speaker 3: Sect you come the male prostitute? 150 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 2: Now what a male prostitute? 151 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:40,159 Speaker 4: Orderly that work? 152 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 3: All right? Listen, we'll have more. 153 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 1: On this Strawberry letter at twenty three minutes after the 154 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:50,559 Speaker 1: our Today's Strawberry Letter subject he's working off the money 155 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 1: he owes me. 156 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 3: We'll get back into it right after this you're listening 157 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 3: hard morning show. 158 00:06:57,160 --> 00:06:57,599 Speaker 4: Here we go. 159 00:06:57,640 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 1: We're going to recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is 160 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:03,240 Speaker 1: he's working off the money he owes me. Forty eight 161 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:05,440 Speaker 1: year old woman wrote in she's been taking care of 162 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 1: her twenty six year old daughter and her husband for 163 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:08,840 Speaker 1: three years. 164 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 3: She's a registered nurse. 165 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 1: She got her son in law job and the laundry 166 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 1: room at the hospital where she works. He's got a 167 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 1: college degree, but she says he doesn't want to apply 168 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 1: himself and get a job because he doesn't like the 169 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 1: starting salary of any of these jobs. He thinks he's 170 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 1: just supposed to be balling out the gate with his degree. 171 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 1: Her daughter, on the other hand, is in dental school. 172 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 1: She'll finish up in May. They're upset because the mom 173 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 1: takes the money. She takes the son in law's check 174 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 1: every week. They paid the mortgage. I'm assuming she takes 175 00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 1: care of them, and he'd been drinking. One time he 176 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 1: called the mom and said he didn't like his job 177 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 1: and he wanted to quit, and she said that would 178 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 1: be fine, that that would be fine. The daughter is 179 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 1: mad because she says the mother is using her husband 180 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 1: to pay back the money they owe as a couple, 181 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 1: and it's kind of a big mess because she said 182 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 1: that her husband owes her a lot of money, that's 183 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 1: why she's been taking most of his paychecks. And she 184 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 1: thinks that her son is a dead beat. Her son 185 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:16,559 Speaker 1: in law is a deadbeat, and she doesn't understand why 186 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 1: her daughter doesn't see this. So she's asking should she 187 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 1: cut them out or let them figure it out themselves? 188 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 3: And that's where we are, Junior. 189 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, cut them off, put them on, because you're 190 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:31,440 Speaker 5: enabling just behave three years. 191 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:33,559 Speaker 4: You take the chase for three years. 192 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 5: And you can't understand why he don't want to do 193 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:38,319 Speaker 5: nothing with his degree because you keep paying it. 194 00:08:38,679 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 4: He doesn't have to come on. Okay, what's going on. 195 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:44,480 Speaker 5: Down in this laundry room? 196 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:46,960 Speaker 4: That's her the sheets in that gut. 197 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:49,840 Speaker 5: What's the excuses if we use it every time he 198 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:51,720 Speaker 5: gets paid and he got an age? 199 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 4: Listen, you know I'm telling you right now. 200 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:55,319 Speaker 3: Listen to the month's. 201 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:56,760 Speaker 5: Colored clothes and he's white clothes, and his hospital and 202 00:08:56,840 --> 00:08:58,959 Speaker 5: the scrubs. You know, we have a whole lot of 203 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:01,200 Speaker 5: problems down here. You know I'm talking about he told 204 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 5: me I messed up because I didn't use the time 205 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 5: I used down. 206 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 4: Here, That's what I did. I messed up. 207 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:10,200 Speaker 5: I'm having some problems that stress. Yeah, job is killing me. 208 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 5: I'm telling you, I gotta have help every single day. 209 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 4: You know. This fabric softening is a. 210 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:20,720 Speaker 5: Lot, this fabric softening down here, Mama, you don't standing 211 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:21,000 Speaker 5: with him. 212 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:22,719 Speaker 4: I'm going through a lot down here, and I just 213 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:23,560 Speaker 4: need help you. 214 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:26,560 Speaker 5: Matter of fact, you know, while I'm on the phone 215 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:28,720 Speaker 5: with you, do you know when they use cold water? 216 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 4: Cause they ain't told me nothing down here. They just 217 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:33,160 Speaker 4: hide me. 218 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 5: And I'm just down here, and I'm gonna tell you 219 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:37,120 Speaker 5: another thing when when that dry on is hot in here. 220 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:40,959 Speaker 5: It's a lot, it's a lot of problems. So I 221 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 5: just I'm just gonna have to just give you a 222 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 5: little bit of my check. Now I'm gonna take it off, 223 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:47,319 Speaker 5: but I'm just telling you just keep aing his mortgage 224 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 5: for us. This sounds crazy, It's absolutely crazy. There's no 225 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 5: way in the world this man don't know what he's doing. 226 00:09:54,160 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 3: So if you keep. 227 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:58,199 Speaker 5: Paying for it, he's gonna keep doing it. And guess 228 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 5: what your daughter is taking enough for him. 229 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a problem. 230 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:05,079 Speaker 4: She didn't tell you. 231 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:07,680 Speaker 5: How you gonna do him like that, and here in 232 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:10,439 Speaker 5: the background, babe, do you use tie the game? 233 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:16,079 Speaker 4: Oh, it's that's all they do. He practices at home, 234 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 4: trying to get it right at. 235 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:21,840 Speaker 3: Work, laundry, doing the laundry at home. 236 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, hey, do we use family on these times? 237 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 4: What about these times? I'm down here? Watch? 238 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:31,199 Speaker 5: He got way too many problems and he won't use 239 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 5: his degree, he lays. 240 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:36,440 Speaker 3: That's what her mom is saying. He's a deadbeat. That's 241 00:10:36,440 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 3: what she's saying. 242 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 5: Absolutely, if he's a deadbeat, why is the question do 243 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 5: we cut him off? 244 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:42,240 Speaker 4: The question? Yes, you cut him off? 245 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:48,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, absolutely need somewhere. I agree, I agree, I agree. 246 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:49,679 Speaker 3: So so so. 247 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 5: We were gonna do we using may tag of Whirlpool, 248 00:10:52,160 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 5: which was man, you know. 249 00:10:59,480 --> 00:11:01,600 Speaker 4: You got you straight with that game though, that game 250 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 4: powder or liquid liquid game boy, I've been using the pad. 251 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:14,199 Speaker 4: They're gonna find me. 252 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:16,880 Speaker 3: Some towels. 253 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:20,200 Speaker 2: They make powder, They do make powder, but that but 254 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:23,880 Speaker 2: that liquid calling my my drawers is incredible with that 255 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:30,079 Speaker 2: game on over sharing. Oow, so I'm the only person 256 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:38,200 Speaker 2: washed drawers. I'm the only one wash draw Yeah, I'm 257 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:39,320 Speaker 2: just saying that she. 258 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 1: Needs to give him a deadline to get out definitely. 259 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 1: She's trying to wait till her daughter graduates from dental 260 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:46,440 Speaker 1: school in May. 261 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 3: In May. 262 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:53,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, hey, you know what I know? This is during 263 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 2: the letter time. Hey, what y'all watch? Watch your drawers 264 00:11:55,840 --> 00:12:00,840 Speaker 2: in what kind of First of all? None of yeah, 265 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:04,960 Speaker 2: I mean y'all can't share that. No, I think I 266 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:07,319 Speaker 2: think people would know how you watch your drawings? How 267 00:12:07,400 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 2: y'all watch y'all draw game time? 268 00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:14,720 Speaker 4: What I don't I don't do no washing, my wife washing. 269 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:16,680 Speaker 2: Oh the. 270 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:21,959 Speaker 4: Conversation. See there, I don't even go in there. I 271 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:24,240 Speaker 4: don't know. Really, you don't go. 272 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:27,000 Speaker 5: It on, so I can't do in it. 273 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 4: Yours could be dirty? 274 00:12:30,679 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 3: What did you do when you were singing? 275 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 4: Could be dirty? 276 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 3: When you were single? 277 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:36,280 Speaker 4: You didn't? 278 00:12:36,400 --> 00:12:36,800 Speaker 2: You didn't. 279 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:40,040 Speaker 5: Oh yeah we have different washing machine, Dan, Yeah, oh okay, 280 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:42,120 Speaker 5: that was gang all right, all right. 281 00:12:43,400 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 1: Leave your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram and 282 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:49,640 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey f M, and check us out on the 283 00:12:49,640 --> 00:12:53,080 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on the Free iHeartRadio app where free 284 00:12:53,160 --> 00:12:54,319 Speaker 1: never sounded so good. 285 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 3: Now coming up next to it's Junior and sports Talk. 286 00:12:57,320 --> 00:13:01,440 Speaker 3: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show 287 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 5: MHM