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Speaker 1: Welcome back, happy our listeners. It's good to be back

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Speaker 1: again this week and after a week long break of

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Speaker 1: the show, Clayton season is back at it and Serena,

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Speaker 1: do we have a lot to cover from last night's episode?

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Speaker 1: We have so much to cover, as pretty usually, it

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Speaker 1: was absolutely packed with drama and memorable moments, as well

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Speaker 1: as a very exciting appearence from my lovely co host

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Speaker 1: Becca last night. I was so happy to see you

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Speaker 1: on my screen. And I'm also really excited because we

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Speaker 1: have Sarah here today who was the recipient of last

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Speaker 1: night's one on one date, to chat all about the episode. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it'll be fun to chat with her once again. Obviously

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Speaker 1: I spent not enough time with her, so it'll be

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Speaker 1: good to bring her on learn a bit more about her.

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Speaker 1: And before that, like, let's just get into this recap,

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Speaker 1: because you mentioned a lot of drama. It felt like

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Speaker 1: at points there was so much drama, and it felt

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Speaker 1: like at points there really wasn't that much. Like I

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Speaker 1: don't know if you recall, but that first group date

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Speaker 1: really didn't have much drama at all. It seems like

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Speaker 1: all of the women were getting along. It was nice.

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Speaker 1: And when that happens. Yeah, I always know when about

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Speaker 1: ten minutes and two commercial breaks later, she's going to

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Speaker 1: hit the fan. Oh yeah, I mean I think we

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Speaker 1: kind of saw the continuation of two weeks ago. Now,

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Speaker 1: So two weeks ago we had our episode number two.

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Speaker 1: Chaney and Cassidy were really bringing the drama, and I

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Speaker 1: mean it was no different in this episode. I think

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Speaker 1: all the drama was centered around Cassidy in the beginning.

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Speaker 1: Then we had a nice little chill, happy, lovely period

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Speaker 1: drama free and then back to Cheney at the end

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Speaker 1: of the episode. It's like, Chanee is just the I

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Speaker 1: don't even want to say the gift that keeps on giving,

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Speaker 1: but I will say there were very comedic moments that

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Speaker 1: she was giving us between the feud with her and

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Speaker 1: Elizabeth and the shrimps by the pool and all of

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Speaker 1: the things which you know, well, we should go in

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Speaker 1: chronological order here. Tend to get ahead of myself, but

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Speaker 1: I wanted to ask you this because you know, we

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Speaker 1: picked up from where we saw two weeks ago, which

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Speaker 1: is the Rose ceremony. That's when Clayton it was brought

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Speaker 1: to Clayton's attention that he not he that Cassidy had

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Speaker 1: been kind of talking and facetiming. Seeing this other guy

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Speaker 1: back home. I was actually surprised, I will say this

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Speaker 1: that he sent her home prior to the rose ceremony,

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Speaker 1: because just knowing how much goes into one night, and

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Speaker 1: knowing that you already have the opportunity to send however

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Speaker 1: many women home at that proper row ceremony, like that

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Speaker 1: is the time to do it. That it would have

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Speaker 1: been so much easier to just wait and take that

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Speaker 1: rose back then and send her home, right, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I guess so, But it would then make her wait

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Speaker 1: the whole night to then stand at the rosetremon to

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Speaker 1: be like, Cassidy, can I actually have you step up?

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Speaker 1: And can I take your road back from you? I mean,

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Speaker 1: it would have been a really dramatic would have been

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Speaker 1: good TV. But I was impressed that he just said,

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Speaker 1: you know what, the trust has been broken here, let's

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Speaker 1: end it. Cassidy went through I mean I think I

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Speaker 1: saw her experience like twelve different emotions in like a

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Speaker 1: going through it. But it was interesting too because when

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Speaker 1: he pulled Cassidy aside, she seemed like she had no

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Speaker 1: idea what he was talking about. She was like, I

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Speaker 1: didn't expect you to bring this up or to be

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Speaker 1: having this conversation. I was like, well, girlfriend, why did

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Speaker 1: you think he pulled you away? You already knew that

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Speaker 1: this was this was being brought up and it was

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Speaker 1: being circulated, like well, I was so confused about why

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Speaker 1: she was confused. I was too, because she sat down

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Speaker 1: and was like, I know exactly what you're gonna say already,

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Speaker 1: which made sense because Sierra had already pulled her aside

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Speaker 1: and said, hey, you know, this was the comvo that

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Speaker 1: we had. I just won't let you know. So I

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Speaker 1: was like, yeah, of course she actually does know what's

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Speaker 1: say out all. I don't know why I came in

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Speaker 1: here so cocky, And I was like, well, then, what

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Speaker 1: did you think you was gonna say? Truly? Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: think the word delivered comes to mind. I just think

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Speaker 1: I mean, it was good that he had sent Cassidy home.

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Speaker 1: I think it raised the moral of the other women

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Speaker 1: it would have been easier to send her home at

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Speaker 1: the row ceremony or to brush it aside, but this

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Speaker 1: really was assertive and was like, this isn't right, please

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Speaker 1: whatever her name was, Claire Claire. Yeah, I mean I

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Speaker 1: agree because I typically think what would happen is that

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Speaker 1: be like, okay, well they already have a rose. I mean,

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Speaker 1: typically when you have a row, you are guaranteed to

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Speaker 1: move on to the next week and continue exploring that connection.

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Speaker 1: But I liked that he was like, no, this isn't

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Speaker 1: gonna work out this week, next week, any week, moving forward.

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Speaker 1: I know you have a rose, but new information has

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Speaker 1: been brought to my attention. I've changed my mind. You're

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Speaker 1: gonna go home now. And it just goes to show

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Speaker 1: how crazy and quickly things can change, not how crazy,

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Speaker 1: but just how take that part of it, just how

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Speaker 1: was for sure going into the next week, and you

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Speaker 1: just over know, and so you really have to stay

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Speaker 1: true to who you are and not lie before coming

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Speaker 1: down the show about anything. And she's gone, and she say,

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Speaker 1: everything is on camera your all the time, and they

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Speaker 1: there and say something didn't happen or wasn't said. If

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Speaker 1: we learnt anything from Paradise. Serena said, everything is how

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Speaker 1: we filmed. There's cameras everywhere. But there was some shocking SMEs.

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Speaker 1: There's actually a couple of people that went home, like Kate, Kate,

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Speaker 1: I was interesting that. No, there's a couple people that

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Speaker 1: I did not expect to go home. Same. Yeah, it

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Speaker 1: was an interesting start to the week. We then see

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Speaker 1: course she was the lucky recipient of that date, and

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Speaker 1: brown jerney. I met with Clayton a little bit before

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Speaker 1: Sarah actually arrived, just to kind of chat with him

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Speaker 1: about see how he just to check in and really

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Speaker 1: see how he was doing. And I obviously didn't want

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Speaker 1: They just are, they really are. Joe and I went

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Speaker 1: How do you feel about these group circle dates. I

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Speaker 1: feel like we just shouldn't have them, but I hate them.

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Speaker 1: I do too. I have anxiety so bad watching them.

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Speaker 1: For these women, it would be my personal worst nightmare

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Speaker 1: to have to do that, and I mean, you were

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Speaker 1: so killed facilitating it. The women were so vulnerable, and like,

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Speaker 1: I have so much respect for that, but like when

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Speaker 1: It seems like Clayton liked it, seems like it was

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Speaker 1: very therapeutic for the women, and I mean, the saving

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Speaker 1: You know, well, the next day goes on to is

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Speaker 1: what I want to Sarah will get into that, um,

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Speaker 1: to hate her? Um? No, I don't. I mean I don't.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't say I love her. I think my problem

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Speaker 1: watching her is she seems I mean, I wrote this

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Speaker 1: her is manipulative. But she has this tendency to lie

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Speaker 1: to Clayton's face, like she will say something and she'll

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Speaker 1: be like, I had so much fun on the group

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Speaker 1: then she's talking mad shit in her itms in all

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Speaker 1: of her interviews where she's calling thee like all of

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Speaker 1: the other women bitches, which I have such a problem

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Speaker 1: with to begin problem with to begin with. But it's

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Speaker 1: just it's like, your stories don't add up, and I

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Speaker 1: don't understand why she thinks like none of this is

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Speaker 1: It's just nothing adds up with her. And it's just

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Speaker 1: a Happy Hour. Welcome to Bachelor Happy Hour, Sarah. I'd

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Speaker 1: we might as well. Just you know, I knew were

429
00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:04,679
Speaker 1: you were the first one out of the limo, so

430
00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:07,320
Speaker 1: you truly did make a statement, and I have to say,

431
00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:10,280
Speaker 1: I think you stood out in Clayton's mind. Oh thank you. Yeah.

432
00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:12,359
Speaker 1: I mean it's stressful at the time because you know,

433
00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:14,480
Speaker 1: like I knew I was first getting out of my

434
00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:17,440
Speaker 1: specific limo, but you don't know at that point. If

435
00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:19,680
Speaker 1: you're first of the last limo, you have no idea

436
00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:21,760
Speaker 1: where you're at. So all I knew is I was

437
00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:23,240
Speaker 1: the first one out of mine, and I had all

438
00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:25,399
Speaker 1: the three other girls in the back, like you got it,

439
00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:28,879
Speaker 1: So I just like I didn't really know what to do.

440
00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:33,760
Speaker 1: So I wasn't the first out of the I wasn't

441
00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:35,440
Speaker 1: the first one of the limo, but I was first

442
00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:38,000
Speaker 1: out of my limo, right, I actually have to say.

443
00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:40,280
Speaker 1: I was happy about that because I think if I

444
00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:42,280
Speaker 1: had to sit in the limo and watch each girl

445
00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:44,359
Speaker 1: go do their entrance and I did like a little

446
00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:47,000
Speaker 1: prop thing, I would have been way more nervous, Like

447
00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:48,760
Speaker 1: we pulled up and like, get me out of this thing,

448
00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:50,879
Speaker 1: because I just want to do my entrance. I was

449
00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:54,600
Speaker 1: so nervous to do my entrance and keep going right. Honestly,

450
00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:57,480
Speaker 1: I was glad I would have wanted the opposite, because

451
00:21:57,480 --> 00:22:00,480
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have wanted everyone's I mean, obviously a lot

452
00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:02,479
Speaker 1: of people are watching to begin with, but I wouldn't

453
00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:05,320
Speaker 1: want all these women who are basically competing for this

454
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:08,280
Speaker 1: man's attention to be watching me. Also, I'm very awkward

455
00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 1: and I never know what to do with my hands

456
00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:12,080
Speaker 1: or anything, so m yeah, I would. I wouldn't have

457
00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:14,840
Speaker 1: wanted the reverse. But yeah, no, I hear you. I

458
00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:16,399
Speaker 1: was wondering that, and then they told me after the

459
00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:18,399
Speaker 1: fact that we couldn't hear anything that far away, like

460
00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:21,080
Speaker 1: we could just see you walking. I was like, okay, good, good,

461
00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:23,320
Speaker 1: I agree. That would have been got a weird thing.

462
00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:26,160
Speaker 1: You could just like hear me talking to him. But well,

463
00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 1: you guys had such an eventful episode one, And it

464
00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:31,840
Speaker 1: must be really crazy for you guys, because I know

465
00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:34,720
Speaker 1: that experiencing it and then watching back the highlight reel

466
00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:37,600
Speaker 1: of all the drama is so different. Was there anything

467
00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:39,919
Speaker 1: watching it back that you were like, I didn't know

468
00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:42,000
Speaker 1: this happened, or you're like, I remember that, and you

469
00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:49,160
Speaker 1: have like behind the scenes info for us. So so

470
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:52,879
Speaker 1: when I was talking to Clayton, that's actually when the

471
00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:57,480
Speaker 1: Claire stuff was going down. So I missed it completely.

472
00:22:57,480 --> 00:22:59,399
Speaker 1: And you know, we were back by the fireplace, like

473
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:02,320
Speaker 1: having conversation asians, smashing the printer, so like things were allowed.

474
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:05,520
Speaker 1: We were really occupied. And then I come back into

475
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:08,600
Speaker 1: like the main living space of the mansion and everyone's

476
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:12,040
Speaker 1: like crowded out. Claire she's you know, saying her stuff,

477
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:15,040
Speaker 1: and I was like, I think I missed something because

478
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:18,440
Speaker 1: I don't know what anyone's talking about, so people had

479
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:21,200
Speaker 1: to kind of fill me in. But conveniently I did

480
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:26,640
Speaker 1: miss that little thing with Claire. Were you a fan

481
00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:28,879
Speaker 1: of the show, so did you quite of know what

482
00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:31,639
Speaker 1: to expect with night one? And as the week's progressed,

483
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:36,159
Speaker 1: M I think I like thought I knew what to expect.

484
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:38,480
Speaker 1: I don't know, so, like the reason I was introduced

485
00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 1: or was on the Boat Show in the first place

486
00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:42,960
Speaker 1: is one of my friends from home, Holly Julian, was

487
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:45,760
Speaker 1: actually on the show about like ten years ago now,

488
00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:48,520
Speaker 1: and she met her husband on the show, so she's

489
00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:50,240
Speaker 1: you know, told me about it and what to expect.

490
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:52,359
Speaker 1: But again, that was like quite a while ago, so

491
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,240
Speaker 1: I think even season by season things are so different,

492
00:23:55,840 --> 00:24:00,240
Speaker 1: so I didn't know for sure. You know, everyone tells

493
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:03,560
Speaker 1: you that's probably the most like TV night of all,

494
00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:05,159
Speaker 1: so I was expecting it to you know, be a

495
00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:09,439
Speaker 1: little bit more like organized and strategized, but it was

496
00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:12,480
Speaker 1: actually a lot more calm and like intimate than I

497
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 1: was anticipating it to be, because you don't, like, you

498
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:16,960
Speaker 1: watch the show and it's this picture perfect moment there's

499
00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:19,199
Speaker 1: the music playing, but in real life we're like just

500
00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:23,919
Speaker 1: walking out and talking silent. Silent. Yes, I mean, if

501
00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 1: you get that that fart is not like the romanticized

502
00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:30,880
Speaker 1: part is not actually happening in real life. So I

503
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:34,639
Speaker 1: was trying not to be awkward, and I mean, like,

504
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:36,560
Speaker 1: you know, they just kind of grab you and they're like,

505
00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:37,960
Speaker 1: you're gonna go talk to him, and I was like,

506
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:40,200
Speaker 1: you're like right now, and they're like, yeah, walk over

507
00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:41,760
Speaker 1: right now and go talk to him. And I was like,

508
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:45,520
Speaker 1: I'm not writing too simple, like that's too simple, like

509
00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:49,440
Speaker 1: I need a preparation or something that Okay, I want

510
00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:51,680
Speaker 1: to ask you this, and this is something I'm surprised

511
00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 1: I have been asked another guest, because you know, especially

512
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 1: Night one, everyone for the most part, whether it's with

513
00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:00,600
Speaker 1: the limo entrance or their first conversation the lead, they

514
00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:03,920
Speaker 1: have something planned, right, like they have something cute, something

515
00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 1: to get to know each other, whatever it might be.

516
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:09,159
Speaker 1: Did you have many of those? Like were you the

517
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:11,280
Speaker 1: type of person that's like going into the night like Okay,

518
00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:12,639
Speaker 1: I need to have this, I need to do this,

519
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 1: Please help me execute this. Or were you just more

520
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:17,360
Speaker 1: like fly bat of the seat of your pants wherever

521
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,679
Speaker 1: the conversation leads, like let's just go there. You did

522
00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 1: a mini wreck it room, didn't you? Yeah? I did?

523
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:25,119
Speaker 1: Night Yeah? I want Yeah. I would say I was

524
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 1: kind of a mixture of both, Like in the beginning

525
00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:29,840
Speaker 1: I did it more as like an icebreaker kind of thing,

526
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:33,320
Speaker 1: but then as as it progressed, like it just kind

527
00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:37,160
Speaker 1: of naturally happened when you looked out too, because you

528
00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:39,200
Speaker 1: had one of the first one on one dates. It's

529
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:41,240
Speaker 1: not like you had to wait till week four or

530
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:42,879
Speaker 1: five to get that alone time with him, So you

531
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:46,159
Speaker 1: guys could really start off on a solid foundation and

532
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 1: build from there. Which is I mean you really went

533
00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:49,879
Speaker 1: you weren't the first one one day, which is I

534
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 1: was kind of nervous wreck and you were in a

535
00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:55,439
Speaker 1: good spot. Yeah. No, Honestly, I was really happy to

536
00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 1: get the second one, just because, you know, I was

537
00:25:57,560 --> 00:25:59,639
Speaker 1: coming off of the first group date, which let me

538
00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:01,880
Speaker 1: warm up a little bit. Luckily that you know, went

539
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,639
Speaker 1: smoothly for me, So then getting that second one on

540
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:07,160
Speaker 1: one was just the perfect momentum to kind of keep

541
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 1: it going. So yeah, I mean, in the back of

542
00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:11,560
Speaker 1: my mind, I was hoping, like, oh, we had such

543
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:13,879
Speaker 1: a good first group date that this will be the

544
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:15,920
Speaker 1: perfect time for a one on one. And like you said,

545
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:18,280
Speaker 1: it didn't give me too long, like too many weeks

546
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:20,680
Speaker 1: to sit and watch everyone else get one or like

547
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:23,719
Speaker 1: get in my head about it. So you know, I

548
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:25,959
Speaker 1: was still kind of in that like naive phase of

549
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:28,479
Speaker 1: not really knowing what to expect, so I was just

550
00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 1: showing up versus later on, when you you know, are

551
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 1: thinking more about it, so I think it was like

552
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 1: a good timey for me. I had the same experience

553
00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:39,160
Speaker 1: as you, Sarah, where I had the second okay, yeah,

554
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:41,560
Speaker 1: the second week one on one two, and I can

555
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:43,479
Speaker 1: fully relate to that because I remember having like an

556
00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:46,399
Speaker 1: amazing first night and first group date and then being like,

557
00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:48,160
Speaker 1: all right, and it is kind of a nice time

558
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 1: because you've got that like small talk, like do I

559
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:53,919
Speaker 1: even like this person's like initial first and crash right

560
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:55,960
Speaker 1: over with But I want to take it back for

561
00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:58,600
Speaker 1: a second from your one on one date because you

562
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:03,440
Speaker 1: won the red Flags challenge on the first group Dave,

563
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:07,919
Speaker 1: which was very impressive. I really liked that activity. Did

564
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:11,160
Speaker 1: you guys have fun guys, Yes, honestly, that was one

565
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 1: of the most fun days like I've ever had, and

566
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:17,359
Speaker 1: especially on the show. It was so fun it I

567
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:20,040
Speaker 1: don't know how like going in, we were obviously really nervous.

568
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 1: We like just met, We were with eight other girls.

569
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 1: We're answering these really like personal questions. We're stripping down

570
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 1: and wearing all white, like we know we're about to

571
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:30,720
Speaker 1: get messy. We're we know we're about to compete, But

572
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:33,720
Speaker 1: for some reason, we all were just laughing, having a

573
00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:36,920
Speaker 1: good time. Like I truly laughed just the entire time,

574
00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:39,240
Speaker 1: Like I think at the end once I won, he

575
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:40,879
Speaker 1: was like trying to kiss me and I was just

576
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 1: laughing so hard. I was like, I just having fun

577
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:47,920
Speaker 1: out here, Like it was truly so much fun to like,

578
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 1: when else are you going to do that as an adult?

579
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:52,879
Speaker 1: I'm never gonna be in a messy obstacle course. So

580
00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 1: it was fun. It was really fun. And not only

581
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:59,240
Speaker 1: did you win the obstacle course, you also we failed

582
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 1: to mention you beat an Olympian in that race. Yeah,

583
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 1: but yeah, which is incredible, but you also then were

584
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 1: able to spend more time with Clayton and have yeah,

585
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:11,160
Speaker 1: you know, I know you say you were really laughing,

586
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 1: but a little bit of intimate time. And so obviously

587
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:16,959
Speaker 1: you had your first kiss with him. What was that connection, Like,

588
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:20,120
Speaker 1: did sparks fly? What were you feeling after that? Yeah,

589
00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:21,919
Speaker 1: I mean it was. It was such a great moment

590
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:25,399
Speaker 1: because since that date, like since that group date, was

591
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 1: a little bit out of my comfort zone and being

592
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:30,719
Speaker 1: able to shine in that Like I went into it

593
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 1: thinking I'm not going to stand out, like he's not

594
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,360
Speaker 1: really going to notice me. This isn't really like my

595
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 1: time and then when you know, I ended up getting

596
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 1: recognized and you know, winning the date and getting that

597
00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 1: extra time with him, it was the perfect moment to

598
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 1: kind of show him that, you know, sometimes even if

599
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 1: I'm not like the loudest voice in the room, I'm

600
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 1: still like there and engaged in present. And you know,

601
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 1: that was something I was able to tell him in

602
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:57,240
Speaker 1: our extra time, and I think he got to see

603
00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 1: and I think he knew that about me. So the

604
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 1: fact that he got to see me really like open

605
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 1: up during the question and answer part with sea Way

606
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 1: and then when the obstacle course against more Lena, I

607
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 1: think he could really tell that I was putting myself

608
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:12,240
Speaker 1: out there and just putting an effort, which is what

609
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:15,760
Speaker 1: he always, um, you know, said that he is looking for.

610
00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:18,200
Speaker 1: So yeah, it was a great moment. And again, like

611
00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 1: in the very beginning, at that point, I've only really

612
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 1: had one personal, like one one on one conversation with him,

613
00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 1: So it was good to just have that little bit

614
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:30,320
Speaker 1: of time to definitely to him. Well, I mean it

615
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:32,480
Speaker 1: worked out in your favor because you ended up getting

616
00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 1: that group date role Statenite too. Yeah, I know that

617
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 1: was It was a cool, cool day did you expect that?

618
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:43,880
Speaker 1: I mean, no, I I wanted it, of course, Like

619
00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 1: I was like, this would be just like the cherry

620
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 1: on top for you know, putting myself out there and

621
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 1: having you know, building our connection. But I don't think

622
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 1: you ever, at least myself, Like, I never expected to

623
00:29:57,080 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 1: be like recognized out of a group of that many women.

624
00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 1: So to be also amongst the group of like the

625
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:06,280
Speaker 1: eight women that were on that date to get the

626
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:08,239
Speaker 1: rose out of that was really special because we had

627
00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:12,120
Speaker 1: some girls on that date, and it seemed like for

628
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 1: the most part, besides a select few, all of the

629
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 1: women really truly got along and seemed to hit it off.

630
00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 1: Obviously we see on the obstacle course date we saw

631
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:28,720
Speaker 1: Sheney literally push Elizabeth over to get ahead. What were

632
00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:30,760
Speaker 1: your thoughts when all of that. I'm sure in the

633
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:34,239
Speaker 1: moment you didn't see that happen, but I'm sure you

634
00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 1: heard about it afterwards. So what was going through your

635
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:38,800
Speaker 1: head when you heard about all of that? Yeah, I

636
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:42,480
Speaker 1: mean in the moment, we had no idea, and since

637
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:44,479
Speaker 1: after the oschole Perseium, I was like spending my one

638
00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 1: on one time with him, I didn't even know until

639
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 1: the night portion when they when Elizabeth and Shane had

640
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:53,240
Speaker 1: kind of confronted each other in front of the group,

641
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 1: that's when it came out, at least to me, And

642
00:30:57,040 --> 00:31:00,360
Speaker 1: I was just really confused because I don't think any

643
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:02,760
Speaker 1: of us were really aware that there was any sort

644
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 1: of tension between Elizabeth and Cheney. So you know, at

645
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 1: the time, I'm like, maybe Shane's just you know, physical,

646
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:13,560
Speaker 1: like competitor and just you know, it got the best

647
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 1: of her. But yeah, I think I was just mainly

648
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:21,280
Speaker 1: confused because I hadn't seen any conflict before that, so

649
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 1: it was weird. Well, speaking of Cheney and the drama,

650
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 1: what were your thoughts on all of the drama? Then

651
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 1: that took place into the house. It wasn't just left

652
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:35,480
Speaker 1: on that group Dade that cocktail party. Obviously, it transpired

653
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:39,040
Speaker 1: into the Rose ceremony. And then what we saw last

654
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:42,960
Speaker 1: night after your one on one was her Elizabeth still

655
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 1: have some beef. I mean, I wanted to say it's

656
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 1: more so her Elizabeth just kind of us confused, But

657
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 1: what's your what are your thoughts on all of that? Um?

658
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:55,240
Speaker 1: You know, to be honest, I really stayed removed from it.

659
00:31:56,120 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 1: I had individual relationships with Elizabeth and Cheney and you know,

660
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 1: didn't have a problem with them personally, Like I think

661
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 1: it's you know right to like stand up for what

662
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 1: it's right, and you know it's not okay for people

663
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 1: to be calling out, you know, someone's mental health. I

664
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 1: think that like definitely crossed a line. But in terms

665
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 1: of like the drama between them, I think that it

666
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 1: was genuinely based off of misunderstandings and just like two

667
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 1: people that aren't meant to be best friends. And I

668
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:31,160
Speaker 1: think when you get a household of thirty women that

669
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 1: have rather strong personalities, you know, we're not you're going

670
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:36,080
Speaker 1: to click with you click with, and there's going to

671
00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:38,160
Speaker 1: be other people that maybe you don't get along with

672
00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 1: as much. And I think that it was just that

673
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:43,040
Speaker 1: combination that they just weren't compatible as friends, and it

674
00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 1: just unfortunately, like came out in the competition aspect of things. So, Sarah,

675
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:53,000
Speaker 1: what I want to know is because in last night's episode,

676
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 1: then what we see is Cheney takes it from saying,

677
00:32:56,280 --> 00:33:00,120
Speaker 1: you know, Elizabeth to Elizabeth and all the other girls,

678
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 1: and she uses the term bullying. Would you say that

679
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:05,120
Speaker 1: that was something that you witnessed in the house or

680
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 1: would you say that that maybe was a bit of

681
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 1: an exaggeration on Seney's part. Yeah, I mean from what

682
00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:15,480
Speaker 1: I know. So also conveniently, when I was on my

683
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:18,760
Speaker 1: one on one, that was the day that all of

684
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 1: this shrimp stuff happened. Yeah, the freaking shrimp every time,

685
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 1: like we have that, yes, literally trigger warning anytime music shrimp.

686
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:36,760
Speaker 1: But um, yeah, so I'm like, I because so I

687
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:38,080
Speaker 1: come back to the house after my one on one

688
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 1: and all I'm hearing is like shrimp, shrimp shrip, And

689
00:33:39,680 --> 00:33:42,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know what anyone's I genuinely didn't

690
00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:44,720
Speaker 1: know what anyone's talking about. And I'm like, when would

691
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:46,320
Speaker 1: I How am I the only person in this house

692
00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:47,880
Speaker 1: that doesn't know what's going on? And I'm like, oh,

693
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 1: it's because I was the only one gone and twenty

694
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 1: one other girls were in the house together. So I

695
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 1: don't know exactly when I went on that day, but um,

696
00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 1: what I heard was, you know, someone was offered trimp,

697
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 1: someone denied the shrimp. But it was potentially rooted in

698
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 1: underlying tensions. I don't know, um, but yeah, I mean

699
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:16,840
Speaker 1: much so much has happened just over a pan of shrimp, garlic,

700
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 1: Crazy things to a person, Hey, I get it. I

701
00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:24,440
Speaker 1: take food very seriously, so I do understand, right, Like

702
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:27,239
Speaker 1: I ate a salad on my day, I wasn't offered shrimp,

703
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 1: so I would have shrimp. What is it? What is

704
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:34,040
Speaker 1: it with seafood on the show? Remember a few seasons ago,

705
00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:38,359
Speaker 1: there's like the whole thing was scallops. Next season it's

706
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,759
Speaker 1: going to be with some damn mops or who knows,

707
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 1: stay away from the seafood, everybody. Okay, speaking of you

708
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:47,640
Speaker 1: were a very happy camper. I can only imagine when

709
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,480
Speaker 1: you heard your name on that day card. Uh, did

710
00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 1: you think you're gonna get that that second one on

711
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:54,920
Speaker 1: one or what was going through your mind when your

712
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 1: name was called? No, I really did not think it

713
00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:00,640
Speaker 1: was going to be me at all. U. Like I said,

714
00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 1: I was like hopeful. I was like, okay, thinking like serendipitous,

715
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:08,400
Speaker 1: it would be the perfect timing for it, since we

716
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 1: were going off of that momentum. But I'm like that

717
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 1: just seems a little too perfect, So there's no way

718
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:14,799
Speaker 1: that I'm going to get it. And you know, I

719
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:16,759
Speaker 1: was close with a lot of girls, or like a

720
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:18,520
Speaker 1: couple of the girls in the house that had really

721
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:21,480
Speaker 1: strong connections with him, so I was kind of under

722
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:23,399
Speaker 1: the impression that it was going to like someone else.

723
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:25,279
Speaker 1: I was pretty convinced that it was going to someone

724
00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 1: else that I was close with. So when my name

725
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:31,520
Speaker 1: was announced, I was waiting for like that second name

726
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 1: to be called, as if it was going to be

727
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:34,759
Speaker 1: the group date card, because it's like, you don't really

728
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:36,319
Speaker 1: know if it's going to be a one on one

729
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:38,279
Speaker 1: or a group date. So you know, they like said

730
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:41,360
Speaker 1: my name and then paused, and then we're all waiting,

731
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 1: and then you know, we read the line and I

732
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:45,680
Speaker 1: was like, I don't know if it shows my reaction,

733
00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 1: but I remember being like, let me see the card,

734
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:51,600
Speaker 1: but I need to. I was like, hey, yeah, yeah,

735
00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:53,960
Speaker 1: like before I celebrated too hard, I was like, let

736
00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:58,920
Speaker 1: me confirm that that is just actually yeah, yeah, if

737
00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 1: you didn't think that it was you, if you had

738
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 1: to guess that week, who did you think that one

739
00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:05,320
Speaker 1: of one was going to? Um? I thought I was

740
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:07,520
Speaker 1: gonna be Rachel. Rachel and I we were really close,

741
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:11,319
Speaker 1: and so we had a conversation like right before we

742
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 1: got that card, and we were both kind of saying

743
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:15,360
Speaker 1: the same thing, like, oh, I think it's gonna be you.

744
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:18,360
Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be you, so um yeah, we

745
00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:19,879
Speaker 1: both kind of thought it was gonna be each other.

746
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:23,239
Speaker 1: But I have I have to admit when I was

747
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:26,759
Speaker 1: watching the episode back, you know, prepping for the podcast,

748
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:29,200
Speaker 1: I like, I didn't even think it was the week

749
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:31,160
Speaker 1: that I was hosting Your Date, and so I was

750
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:33,400
Speaker 1: just okay, laying on the couch with Thomas, and all

751
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:35,000
Speaker 1: of a sudden they called your no mother and date

752
00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:37,840
Speaker 1: and I was like, this is the date this is hitting.

753
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 1: Thomas is like, wait, gonna watch it, but oh my no,

754
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:42,880
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my god, back is on

755
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:46,440
Speaker 1: the screen right now. Yes, I was so excited. I

756
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:48,440
Speaker 1: was so excited to meet you. I will say, like

757
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 1: just fresh up out the gate seeing you two together,

758
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 1: because we spent some time when the cameras weren't rolling in,

759
00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 1: when they were maneuvering and getting in place, like just

760
00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 1: talking to you guys. I could tell the connection off

761
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 1: the bat, like it just seemed like you were both

762
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:04,320
Speaker 1: very comfortable, and I know it was a very uncomfortable situation.

763
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:07,359
Speaker 1: Trust me, I would not have asked anyone to just

764
00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:09,800
Speaker 1: get naked and run around a city that's not to

765
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 1: between my m O so I do apologize, but you

766
00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:16,160
Speaker 1: two seemed like the best fit and so when I

767
00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:17,879
Speaker 1: set you off, I was like, Okay, I think they're

768
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:19,640
Speaker 1: gonna be good. I think they'll make the most of it,

769
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 1: like she because I could tell just how stress and

770
00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:24,680
Speaker 1: how much pressure he felt, and I was like, Sarah

771
00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 1: sounds good. She seems lighthearted, fun. She really will make

772
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:31,279
Speaker 1: the most of that. So overall, besides the part where

773
00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:33,399
Speaker 1: I was like stripped down to the skibbies, how did

774
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:36,640
Speaker 1: you like the date? I mean, just like you said,

775
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:40,680
Speaker 1: it was good. I liked the idea that he it

776
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:42,799
Speaker 1: was also a surprise for him and he didn't know

777
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:45,800
Speaker 1: what we were getting into. Again, I like now looking

778
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 1: back on it, and what I discovered like throughout that

779
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:50,120
Speaker 1: date was he was feeling a lot of pressure and

780
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 1: he was like kind of in his head. So I

781
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:57,920
Speaker 1: think like presenting him with those challenges to like definitely

782
00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:01,960
Speaker 1: pushed him to like different you know side of him

783
00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:05,520
Speaker 1: that I think he like hadn't really shown yet to

784
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 1: us on the show. So you know, I think we

785
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:12,000
Speaker 1: hit one point where we had to write a song

786
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:15,319
Speaker 1: about each other and then sing it like across the

787
00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 1: amphitheater with mikes and they were working. I was like,

788
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:19,239
Speaker 1: I'm gonna test it, see if it's actually on, and

789
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:24,360
Speaker 1: it was on. M oh it was yeah, it was yeah.

790
00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:27,839
Speaker 1: There were like people watching, like cameras out and I'm

791
00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:30,359
Speaker 1: like just so overwhelmed, and at the like I hit

792
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:32,440
Speaker 1: a point where I like kind of got like a

793
00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 1: little bit upset because I was in my head and

794
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 1: I was just like I was so scared that he

795
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 1: wasn't having a good time and that you know, he's

796
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:42,880
Speaker 1: balancing so many relationships that his memory and like his

797
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:46,719
Speaker 1: first memory with me was going to be like uncomfortable

798
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 1: and just not having fun. And of course, you know,

799
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:51,520
Speaker 1: like I hear him like he just came back from

800
00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:53,520
Speaker 1: this amazing date where like he's on a yacht and

801
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:57,360
Speaker 1: a helicopter and like now he's like really insecure, like

802
00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:59,560
Speaker 1: running around in his underwear with me. So I'm like

803
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:01,839
Speaker 1: I kind of got up set in my head because

804
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 1: I'm like I could like go home, like this could

805
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:07,279
Speaker 1: be you know, like it's a one on when you're

806
00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:08,920
Speaker 1: not guaranteed to come back. So I'm like, if he

807
00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:12,239
Speaker 1: doesn't have a good time today, like I might go home,

808
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:14,319
Speaker 1: Like you might just be like this isn't for me,

809
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:16,799
Speaker 1: and you know, I didn't want to want it to

810
00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:20,960
Speaker 1: be because of the activities that we were doing. That's

811
00:39:21,040 --> 00:39:25,040
Speaker 1: really interesting. That's actually a very interesting point because the

812
00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:30,080
Speaker 1: date really does contribute to your first memories together, especially

813
00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:31,799
Speaker 1: the one on one when you have an early one,

814
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 1: right exactly. So that's a very like valid thing to

815
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:38,000
Speaker 1: feel of like this date is pushing us out of

816
00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:40,640
Speaker 1: our comfort zone and is he now going to associate

817
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:44,080
Speaker 1: being uncomfortable with our first memory together? Exactly? And I

818
00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:46,640
Speaker 1: know Clayton has mentioned that he is kind of like

819
00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:48,600
Speaker 1: a bit of a control freak and a scout in

820
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:50,160
Speaker 1: your hunt, like that is really going to kind of

821
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:52,120
Speaker 1: push you out of your comfort zone. How did you

822
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:54,759
Speaker 1: feel on the date, Like is that kind of like

823
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:56,960
Speaker 1: are you like a go with the flow person, like

824
00:39:57,080 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 1: very adventurous or are you also someone it was a

825
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:02,320
Speaker 1: little bit more like I'm being really pushed out of

826
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:03,759
Speaker 1: my comfort zone, and I kind of like to have

827
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:08,279
Speaker 1: that control. So I'm really spontaneous. I'm very go with

828
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:12,120
Speaker 1: the flow, So I you know, I think I embrace it.

829
00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:13,959
Speaker 1: And I was honestly fine with it, Like I thought

830
00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 1: it was cool to get in the underwear and and

831
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 1: you know, we were like breaking open these pinatas and

832
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:22,719
Speaker 1: answering questions, writing a song whenever. Like I love that

833
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:25,840
Speaker 1: activity of that, so I really tried to embrace it

834
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 1: and like push him to have a good time because,

835
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:29,799
Speaker 1: like you said, like he is, you know all likes

836
00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:33,319
Speaker 1: to be a little bit more in control. So I

837
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:35,120
Speaker 1: was fine with the activities. I think it just like

838
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:38,359
Speaker 1: it hit me that I felt like he wasn't having

839
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 1: a good time, and yeah, the pressure of it. And

840
00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 1: then it was also like the comparison to like, Okay,

841
00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:46,960
Speaker 1: he's had all these like picture perfect memories with everyone

842
00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:49,600
Speaker 1: up until this point, and now like this is gonna

843
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:52,520
Speaker 1: be like his first bad memory or you know, like

844
00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:55,359
Speaker 1: first uncomfortable memory on the show, and it's right with me,

845
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:57,680
Speaker 1: Like you know, I didn't I just didn't want it

846
00:40:57,680 --> 00:41:00,399
Speaker 1: to get in the way. But you know, good news

847
00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 1: was that once we finished the Scavenger Hunt and even

848
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:04,480
Speaker 1: like part of the way through we like I think

849
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:06,000
Speaker 1: that moment where I got upset and he kind of

850
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 1: came up to me, was like we can stop this

851
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:10,600
Speaker 1: right now, Like we don't have to continue doing this.

852
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 1: Like I'm uncomfortable too. I don't want this to be

853
00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:15,239
Speaker 1: like it's not about you. I'm trying my best. We

854
00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:18,319
Speaker 1: can stop right now, and you know, we kind of

855
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:20,479
Speaker 1: had just like a little like come to Jesus moment

856
00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:23,160
Speaker 1: where we're like, Okay, we're both struggling. We're both like

857
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:26,439
Speaker 1: embarrassed and uncomfortable and nervous that the other person isn't

858
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:29,160
Speaker 1: having fun, So like let's get that out in the air.

859
00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:31,239
Speaker 1: And then we you know, finished the rest of the

860
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 1: scavenger hunt. And then once we got to sit and talk,

861
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:37,880
Speaker 1: I think like it definitely provoked a conversation that we

862
00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 1: wouldn't have had otherwise, So it ended up being good.

863
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 1: It was a good you know, it brought out like

864
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:46,200
Speaker 1: a different side of our relationship and I think a

865
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:48,759
Speaker 1: different type of date would have So I'm grateful for it,

866
00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:50,359
Speaker 1: and I was grateful for it in the moment once

867
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:52,879
Speaker 1: we finished. But in the moment, it was definitely very,

868
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:56,799
Speaker 1: very trying. I don't know, So I had a whole

869
00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 1: script that a lot of it was not included, but

870
00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 1: part of it was, you know, because I know I've

871
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 1: been in your position, as you know, one of many women,

872
00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:07,239
Speaker 1: and then I've also been in Clayton's position where I've

873
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 1: had so many, so many crazy random dates, And part

874
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:14,000
Speaker 1: of what I was trying to portray you, guys and

875
00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 1: really wanting you to feel on that date was a

876
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:19,359
Speaker 1: lot of times when there was a date I wasn't

877
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:22,240
Speaker 1: necessarily comfortable with or where I was really pushed outside

878
00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 1: of my comfort zone and what I was used to.

879
00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:27,239
Speaker 1: I felt like, you know, if the guy was great,

880
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 1: it really bonded us in a way that we probably

881
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 1: wouldn't have gotten to that early on. So I hope

882
00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:35,719
Speaker 1: that's what you both felt. Do you feel like then

883
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:39,839
Speaker 1: leaving that scavenger haunt and being able to sit like overall,

884
00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:42,880
Speaker 1: you know, the awkwardness and the uncomfortable aside that it

885
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:47,280
Speaker 1: pushed you guys to form a stronger bond earlier on. Yeah, definitely.

886
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 1: I feel like it was one of those like relationship tests,

887
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 1: like make it or break it kind of moment, like

888
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:55,240
Speaker 1: you say, like it either makes you that much stronger

889
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 1: or you know, the opposite, and so luckily, I think

890
00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:01,640
Speaker 1: that it just made us like that much stronger. And again,

891
00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 1: I think it was also overwhelming because I wasn't prepared

892
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 1: to like face those kind of challenges and like have

893
00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:11,720
Speaker 1: those kind of conversations with him so early on, because

894
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:13,400
Speaker 1: I didn't want to be like overbearing and be like,

895
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:15,279
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, we're just going straight into this. But

896
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 1: you know, it's it's a short process. So I'm thankful

897
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:20,359
Speaker 1: that we were able to get there quicker. I think

898
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:24,719
Speaker 1: it definitely escalated a relationship forward a bit. But yeah,

899
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:26,800
Speaker 1: I think it made us like that much stronger, and

900
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:29,560
Speaker 1: especially going into the night, I was just so much

901
00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:31,400
Speaker 1: more relaxed, and I felt like we were actually we

902
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:35,480
Speaker 1: actually knew each other, so we had, you know, kind

903
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:37,480
Speaker 1: of officially get gotten over that like get to know

904
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 1: you phase. Now we were just comfortable, like could say anything,

905
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:43,279
Speaker 1: could do anything. That's what we always joked. We were like, um,

906
00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:46,879
Speaker 1: you know, there was like you know, obviously more uncomfortable

907
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:50,239
Speaker 1: situations that followed, and every time we're like, oh, this

908
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 1: is nothing, Like we've ran around downtown LA and our

909
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:55,359
Speaker 1: underwear and like saying a song about each other when

910
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:58,320
Speaker 1: we just met like a microphone, so like this is nothing.

911
00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:00,920
Speaker 1: What was the most uncomfortable was getting down to the

912
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:03,960
Speaker 1: underwear or was it having to sing? Like what was

913
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:05,919
Speaker 1: the part where you were like, oh shit, I really

914
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:08,240
Speaker 1: don't want to do this. Yeah, I mean the underwear

915
00:44:08,280 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 1: wasn't a problem. I was like, it's like a bathing suit.

916
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:12,480
Speaker 1: It's fine, but you know, might as well see what

917
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:15,759
Speaker 1: we're working with. But then I think it was more

918
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:18,840
Speaker 1: of the questions were fine. I think it was truly

919
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:21,160
Speaker 1: like the singing and the more like the one on

920
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 1: one stuff of like okay, now I'll profess your feelings

921
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:28,560
Speaker 1: for each other, and I'm like no, I was just like,

922
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:34,759
Speaker 1: I'm so bad at too, like verbally expressing like relationship emotions,

923
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 1: like romantic emotions. I'm really bad at at like verbalizing that.

924
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:41,000
Speaker 1: So that also showed me that something I need to

925
00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:44,239
Speaker 1: work on. So well, there's there's two things that I

926
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 1: really love I just want to highlight from what you've

927
00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:50,360
Speaker 1: said in your day. Portion is one. It sounds like

928
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,279
Speaker 1: you guys have the opportunity to really balance each other

929
00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:54,840
Speaker 1: out if he's kind of more like a control person

930
00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:57,920
Speaker 1: and year ago with the flow, like as that relationship grows,

931
00:44:57,960 --> 00:44:59,879
Speaker 1: like you can really take on that role of being

932
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:02,880
Speaker 1: that's okay, like let's be spontaneous. And I think that

933
00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:04,759
Speaker 1: that's a really nice balance. And I also love that

934
00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 1: he communicated with you and checked in on you and

935
00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:09,320
Speaker 1: said like, hey, if you're uncomfortable, I'm never going to

936
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:12,240
Speaker 1: make you do anything, because I feel like that really

937
00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:15,440
Speaker 1: creates a sense of safety and a relationship. It like, yeah,

938
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:17,719
Speaker 1: he's showing that he's communicating, he's checking on you, and

939
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 1: he's saying like, I will never make you do anything

940
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:22,520
Speaker 1: that makes you so uncomfortable that you don't want to

941
00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:24,440
Speaker 1: do it, Like I will never force you into this.

942
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 1: So did that kind of help because we really saw

943
00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:29,880
Speaker 1: you open up and be vulnerable in the night portion

944
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 1: of your date. Do you think that day portion is

945
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:35,759
Speaker 1: really what allowed you to share your story in the

946
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:39,560
Speaker 1: night portion? Yeah? Absolutely. I mean, just like you said,

947
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 1: I felt very like seen and understood and even just

948
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:44,920
Speaker 1: you know, I hadn't said anything to him, but he

949
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:47,680
Speaker 1: could just tell that I was kind of like starting

950
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:49,560
Speaker 1: to get upset. So the fact that he did, and

951
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:52,720
Speaker 1: that he took a moment to say, okay, scratch the cameras,

952
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:54,880
Speaker 1: the mics, whatever, like if you don't want to do this,

953
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:58,040
Speaker 1: like we're not doing it, you know, And it felt

954
00:45:58,080 --> 00:46:00,200
Speaker 1: like he was actually like paying attention to me, paying

955
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:03,799
Speaker 1: en to our relationship, but not just like this TV date,

956
00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 1: you know. So I felt very like, yeah, very safe

957
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:08,400
Speaker 1: and very taken care of, and I felt like I

958
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:11,399
Speaker 1: could truly like say anything to him and he would

959
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:14,560
Speaker 1: understand and like you said, yeah too. After that, I

960
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:17,359
Speaker 1: think I shared with him in the followings that hit

961
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 1: me that I was like, we actually balanced each other well,

962
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:21,840
Speaker 1: because I feel like you always question like, oh do

963
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:23,400
Speaker 1: I want to be with someone who's like very similar

964
00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:24,839
Speaker 1: to me, are very different than me? And I think

965
00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:27,839
Speaker 1: we figured out that we had that good balance as

966
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:29,560
Speaker 1: far as you know, like winds to be more nutral,

967
00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:32,680
Speaker 1: would be spontaneous. So I think that it definitely benefited

968
00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:37,759
Speaker 1: to figure that out early on, definitely, and to play

969
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:39,879
Speaker 1: off of what Serena was just saying too. I mean

970
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 1: that night portion, it's always when things get a little

971
00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:46,759
Speaker 1: bit deeper, a little bit heavier, it's you know, less

972
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:49,960
Speaker 1: of the fun, more of the real intimate moments. And yeah,

973
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:53,720
Speaker 1: we saw you share your adoption story with Clayton during dinner,

974
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:56,359
Speaker 1: So could you get into a little bit more about that?

975
00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:59,200
Speaker 1: And I guess what I would love to know is

976
00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 1: how has that part about you shaped who you are

977
00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:05,839
Speaker 1: as a woman today. Yeah, I mean the last thing

978
00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:07,359
Speaker 1: I wanted to do is you know, go in and

979
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:10,000
Speaker 1: like trauma dumb on someone or I don't want to

980
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:12,080
Speaker 1: call it trauma or like, you know, just share this

981
00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:15,359
Speaker 1: like story that isn't relevant to what's going on, but

982
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:17,839
Speaker 1: what I The reason I shared it is because it

983
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:20,840
Speaker 1: is relevant to like who I am and how I

984
00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:24,680
Speaker 1: you know, vie, family and children, relationships, all the above.

985
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 1: So you know, it was really really important for me

986
00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:33,400
Speaker 1: to share that. It was relevant because, you know, having

987
00:47:33,520 --> 00:47:36,440
Speaker 1: been adopted and growing up in a family and a

988
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 1: community that didn't look like me, having always felt isolated

989
00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:45,600
Speaker 1: and ostracized and not really seen or appreciated for who

990
00:47:45,600 --> 00:47:49,360
Speaker 1: I was was just a really familiar feeling. And that's

991
00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:52,880
Speaker 1: also a feeling that's kind of been consistent in my

992
00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:57,520
Speaker 1: past relationships of you know, just feeling like unseen and

993
00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:01,800
Speaker 1: not appreciated. And so when I did feel very heard

994
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:05,120
Speaker 1: and understood by him, that it was just that much

995
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:08,320
Speaker 1: more special because it was something that I had always

996
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:11,560
Speaker 1: been lacking and that I've never really had before. And

997
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 1: especially after you know, this being this first date with

998
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:17,239
Speaker 1: this person, being able to kind of open up about

999
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:19,680
Speaker 1: that stuff and share that with him, I felt. I

1000
00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:21,360
Speaker 1: think it says a lot that I felt safe to

1001
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 1: share that because it's often, you know, it's often something

1002
00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:25,880
Speaker 1: that you don't want to just dump on someone and

1003
00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:27,799
Speaker 1: when you first worked them, you know, it's a it's

1004
00:48:27,800 --> 00:48:30,640
Speaker 1: a more personal thing. But um, the fact that I

1005
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:33,400
Speaker 1: was able to share that with him really meant a

1006
00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:37,000
Speaker 1: lot to me, and that he you know, obviously reciprocated well.

1007
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:40,399
Speaker 1: And I think it was a beautiful story. I mean,

1008
00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:44,880
Speaker 1: you will very soon realize, especially after all errors and

1009
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:49,120
Speaker 1: everyone has seen that conversation. Um, a lot of people

1010
00:48:49,160 --> 00:48:52,560
Speaker 1: will come out to you through DMS or however else

1011
00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:55,480
Speaker 1: and think you people who you know grew up in

1012
00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:58,360
Speaker 1: similar situations or you know, went through the adoption process,

1013
00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:01,520
Speaker 1: so it'll be I to struggle. It's always kind of

1014
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:04,120
Speaker 1: weird opening it up to somebody on the first state,

1015
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:06,800
Speaker 1: let alone everyone's standing around to you with the cameras

1016
00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:09,359
Speaker 1: and the lights and then knowing it'll be aired. But UM,

1017
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:11,600
Speaker 1: thank you because I know it'll change a lot of lives.

1018
00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 1: So yeah, of course, And you know that's like if

1019
00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:17,880
Speaker 1: I can you know, have that one moment of making

1020
00:49:17,880 --> 00:49:20,839
Speaker 1: a difference like within all of us, that's that's really

1021
00:49:20,840 --> 00:49:24,880
Speaker 1: cool because you know, I grew up not having someone

1022
00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 1: to look at who had been through that. So you know,

1023
00:49:27,120 --> 00:49:29,719
Speaker 1: people can watch this and look at that and like

1024
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:32,480
Speaker 1: see themselves in me. Um, and you know that's all

1025
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 1: you can ask for. Yeah, exactly, Yeah, and they will,

1026
00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:38,879
Speaker 1: they definitely will. Good good. It helps that we were

1027
00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:43,279
Speaker 1: in the Van Go exhibit too. I was like it

1028
00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 1: was crazy. I mean like it was empty, like all

1029
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 1: for us, and then they had the stream quartet with

1030
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:52,360
Speaker 1: like it was really cool. So, Sarah, I want to know,

1031
00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:54,239
Speaker 1: were you a fan of the show or do you

1032
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:56,720
Speaker 1: have like friends that were fans in the show before

1033
00:49:56,760 --> 00:50:00,680
Speaker 1: you came on. I mean, I I guess consider myself

1034
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:03,279
Speaker 1: a fan. I wasn't like a fanatic. I think I

1035
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 1: started watching when Ben Higgins was the Bachelor and then

1036
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 1: UM kind of pick and shows like what what seasons

1037
00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:15,279
Speaker 1: I watched? Um, But I'm actually like pretty close with

1038
00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:21,919
Speaker 1: Kit and now like Rachel from your season. So yeah, yeah, yeah,

1039
00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:26,319
Speaker 1: that's amazing. Ye are you in New York? Yeah? I

1040
00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:29,359
Speaker 1: live in New York. Okay. Yeah. Then did did Kit

1041
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:32,359
Speaker 1: or Rachel or just any of your friends give you

1042
00:50:32,400 --> 00:50:34,960
Speaker 1: like some really good piece of advice before you went

1043
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:38,960
Speaker 1: on the shelf? Yeah? Yeah, I mean Rachel was just like,

1044
00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:44,800
Speaker 1: you know, trust like what he's saying versus what anyone

1045
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:47,040
Speaker 1: else is saying. Whether that's like a girl producer or

1046
00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:50,520
Speaker 1: anything like trust what he's saying, um, and really like

1047
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:56,280
Speaker 1: try to establish that like honest communication. Um. And then

1048
00:50:56,640 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 1: Kit was she's so funny. She's like, I definitely have

1049
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:02,640
Speaker 1: some moments so like I probably like shouldn't no step,

1050
00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:04,839
Speaker 1: but I'm glad that I said them because it's all me,

1051
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:06,960
Speaker 1: like one percent me. So she's like just like be

1052
00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:10,920
Speaker 1: yourself but also kind of like watch what you say sometimes,

1053
00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:13,319
Speaker 1: which for me, like it wasn't a problem because I'm

1054
00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:17,680
Speaker 1: not like very outspoken at all. Um. But yeah, I'm

1055
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:19,759
Speaker 1: trying to think what it was like minor things like

1056
00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:22,480
Speaker 1: how to do your nails, so like I came in

1057
00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:26,400
Speaker 1: with all the hula nails ready to go. Um that.

1058
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:31,520
Speaker 1: I feel like when people get advice, it's like you

1059
00:51:31,560 --> 00:51:33,239
Speaker 1: were like, oh, yeah, I got advice from Kitt and Rachel.

1060
00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:35,000
Speaker 1: I feel like listeners are probably like, oh, she got

1061
00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:38,040
Speaker 1: all of this like juicy stuff, but like the yeah,

1062
00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:40,960
Speaker 1: she's like going be genuine and like the details that

1063
00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:42,719
Speaker 1: you want to know was like how to pack like

1064
00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:46,279
Speaker 1: that yeah you can get literally no seriously, it was

1065
00:51:46,320 --> 00:51:49,080
Speaker 1: literally packing in like like the day before I got

1066
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:51,640
Speaker 1: to La, I was texting Rachel, like, what do I

1067
00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:53,400
Speaker 1: do about my nails? Like it's like that. That was

1068
00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:55,719
Speaker 1: the conversation because it's like, you know, every season is

1069
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:58,920
Speaker 1: so different. Okay, before we get into our game with you,

1070
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:01,560
Speaker 1: you know that there's so much to come. We also

1071
00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:03,840
Speaker 1: know that you can't give a ton away yet. But

1072
00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:07,080
Speaker 1: if you can describe Platon's season overall in three words,

1073
00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:15,160
Speaker 1: what would you say? Oh? Three words? Okay, Um, emotional.

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00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of it good, like adventurous and unique. Okay,

1075
00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:36,400
Speaker 1: I like those I do too. I want to slowly

1076
00:52:36,400 --> 00:52:39,080
Speaker 1: start combining the three words that everyone says each week

1077
00:52:39,160 --> 00:52:40,759
Speaker 1: to see like how many are the same, or like

1078
00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:47,400
Speaker 1: what we're getting. Yeah, people say, yeah, you can't say dramatic,

1079
00:52:47,480 --> 00:52:50,120
Speaker 1: you can't say, you can't say romantic. We need to

1080
00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:52,319
Speaker 1: like start creating a list of like blackout words, right.

1081
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:58,520
Speaker 1: That's why I say it's emotional, not dramatic. Yeah, emotional. Um.

1082
00:52:58,520 --> 00:53:00,759
Speaker 1: The only one I really am remember was we had

1083
00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:04,560
Speaker 1: Jesse Palmer on the first episode and he said first,

1084
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:06,440
Speaker 1: which makes sense because it was the first time you

1085
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:08,200
Speaker 1: guys were traveling again, the first time you were all

1086
00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 1: back in the mansion, the first time he was hosting

1087
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:12,600
Speaker 1: all these new first, which that's the only one I

1088
00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:14,759
Speaker 1: really remember, but I kind of liigns up with what

1089
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:17,800
Speaker 1: you said about unique. Yeah, yeah, that's very unique, and

1090
00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:21,320
Speaker 1: like every word. We always play our games with everyone

1091
00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:24,320
Speaker 1: that we have on happy hours. So basically this is

1092
00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:27,480
Speaker 1: just a fun, easy bachelor superlatives. So we're just going

1093
00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:29,200
Speaker 1: to give you a sentence and then you just have

1094
00:53:29,360 --> 00:53:31,919
Speaker 1: to give us the first name that comes to mind

1095
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:35,120
Speaker 1: from Clayton's group of women. So I'll start it off. So,

1096
00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:37,480
Speaker 1: who is the most likely to get the party started?

1097
00:53:41,640 --> 00:53:46,520
Speaker 1: Oh god, there's so many. Just one okay, okay, okay,

1098
00:53:47,320 --> 00:53:56,279
Speaker 1: most likely to get the ladies laughing? Jill. We I

1099
00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:58,880
Speaker 1: feel like we haven't seen enough of Jill yet. Who's

1100
00:53:58,920 --> 00:54:06,719
Speaker 1: the best cook? Elizabeth? I was gonna say the shrimps Elizabeth. Yeah,

1101
00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:11,600
Speaker 1: it was Elizabeth. Yeah. Every morning I would come down,

1102
00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:13,600
Speaker 1: she was like cooking of five course meal and I'm

1103
00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:18,560
Speaker 1: like eating the eminem's from the candy jar. She's always cooking. Yeah.

1104
00:54:20,719 --> 00:54:23,200
Speaker 1: Who's the early bird of the house, the first wake

1105
00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:30,759
Speaker 1: up in the mornings? M Unfortunately often it was me

1106
00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:33,880
Speaker 1: because I wanted to have ample time to get ready

1107
00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:40,080
Speaker 1: because I was also I was always nervous about being late. Um,

1108
00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:42,000
Speaker 1: so yeah, I was always up, but I think also

1109
00:54:42,080 --> 00:54:44,200
Speaker 1: Melina was always up because she would work out in

1110
00:54:44,200 --> 00:54:47,719
Speaker 1: the mornings. Oh what does that feel like? Having time

1111
00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:51,319
Speaker 1: to work out on the show? Right? She was post classes.

1112
00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:55,200
Speaker 1: I didn't participate, unfortunately, but I've never worked out on

1113
00:54:55,239 --> 00:54:56,879
Speaker 1: the season, so I was like, uh, if I'm extu

1114
00:54:56,960 --> 00:55:01,759
Speaker 1: trying to sleep, I am sleeping in exactly. Who is

1115
00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:10,759
Speaker 1: most likely to be named Miss congeniality, Miss congeniality Susie,

1116
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:14,520
Speaker 1: I could see it. Who has the best smile in

1117
00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:21,319
Speaker 1: the house, the best smile m Eliza M. We were

1118
00:55:21,360 --> 00:55:24,000
Speaker 1: just talking about her. She's stunning. She always dresses so

1119
00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:32,520
Speaker 1: while I love her style. Who is the best dressed Sierra? Okay, yeah,

1120
00:55:32,560 --> 00:55:36,760
Speaker 1: Sierra with the body glitter right, M love it. Who

1121
00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:50,640
Speaker 1: is the biggest gossip? Um? Oh gosh, I don't want

1122
00:55:50,640 --> 00:55:53,400
Speaker 1: to say. I don't even I'm trying to think. I'm like,

1123
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:56,080
Speaker 1: oh gosh, I mean, right now, after what the viewers

1124
00:55:56,080 --> 00:55:59,400
Speaker 1: I've seen, I'm sure they would say Chenney just for

1125
00:55:59,760 --> 00:56:03,480
Speaker 1: the fact that she was telling Elizabeth stuff to everyone.

1126
00:56:03,560 --> 00:56:06,439
Speaker 1: But if okay, yeah, I'm thinking like yeah, so I'll

1127
00:56:06,480 --> 00:56:09,279
Speaker 1: say who's most likely to steal claim first at a

1128
00:56:09,320 --> 00:56:18,680
Speaker 1: cocktail party, Cassidy. Who is the first to go to bed? Marlena? Okay,

1129
00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:34,200
Speaker 1: who's the messiest? Mm hmmm, Oh gosh, I'm trying to

1130
00:56:34,200 --> 00:56:35,960
Speaker 1: remember it because we would always joke about the kitchen

1131
00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:38,200
Speaker 1: would always be a mess. But I didn't. I don't

1132
00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:40,960
Speaker 1: know who did it. I'm trying to be who's messy though,

1133
00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:45,239
Speaker 1: Like who just like had the most ship thrown all

1134
00:56:45,280 --> 00:56:53,960
Speaker 1: over the rooms? Oh m, kind of see who is

1135
00:56:54,080 --> 00:57:00,440
Speaker 1: most likely to be found loanding by the pool? M hm,

1136
00:57:04,440 --> 00:57:06,839
Speaker 1: I do by the pool. I'm trying to grimber who

1137
00:57:06,880 --> 00:57:15,200
Speaker 1: was out there. I think I want to say Molina again. Okay,

1138
00:57:15,320 --> 00:57:18,080
Speaker 1: yeah for me, I took the last one I will

1139
00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:21,320
Speaker 1: and most likely to be a bridesmaid in your wedding

1140
00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:26,040
Speaker 1: Lindsay w nice. She was like the first friend that

1141
00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:28,200
Speaker 1: I made in the house. Um, because you know how

1142
00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 1: they we were all isolated, we've never seen each other.

1143
00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:32,400
Speaker 1: And then when they were we were in the same limo.

1144
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:34,200
Speaker 1: So when they were walking us down to the limo,

1145
00:57:34,240 --> 00:57:36,880
Speaker 1: we like accidentally crossed paths and they were like, don't

1146
00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:40,600
Speaker 1: look at each other, and we're like right right, And

1147
00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:41,880
Speaker 1: then we had you know, like a little bit of

1148
00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:43,320
Speaker 1: time to talk in the in the limo, and then

1149
00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:46,240
Speaker 1: we just talked throughout the night. But yeah, okay, it's

1150
00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:49,280
Speaker 1: all right. Well, Sarah, before we let you go, it's

1151
00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:51,880
Speaker 1: time to share our roads and thorns of this week.

1152
00:57:52,120 --> 00:57:54,120
Speaker 1: So let us know what you thought was the best

1153
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:58,440
Speaker 1: moment and the messiest. So to help out, I'll start first.

1154
00:57:58,960 --> 00:58:01,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna start with the thorn, and I would say

1155
00:58:01,640 --> 00:58:06,360
Speaker 1: it was Cheney and the fact that she kept referring

1156
00:58:06,600 --> 00:58:10,000
Speaker 1: to all of the other women in such mean, derogatory terms.

1157
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:12,760
Speaker 1: It does not sit well with me, and I hope

1158
00:58:12,880 --> 00:58:16,000
Speaker 1: she finds a better vocabulary in the future. And I'm

1159
00:58:16,040 --> 00:58:17,920
Speaker 1: going to leave it at that. And then my rose

1160
00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:20,720
Speaker 1: was hosting the date with you in Clayton. I know

1161
00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:24,200
Speaker 1: it was a very weird date that you definitely did

1162
00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:27,040
Speaker 1: not expect, but it was so fun to just meet

1163
00:58:27,160 --> 00:58:29,080
Speaker 1: you and to get to know Clayton a little bit

1164
00:58:29,120 --> 00:58:31,439
Speaker 1: more and to now, I guess be at this point

1165
00:58:31,440 --> 00:58:35,160
Speaker 1: where we see really the beginnings of this beautiful relationship unfold.

1166
00:58:35,520 --> 00:58:40,200
Speaker 1: My thorn was I think Clayton missed a fantastic opportunity

1167
00:58:40,200 --> 00:58:43,720
Speaker 1: on your date, Sarah to show off his freestyle wrapping skills.

1168
00:58:43,760 --> 00:58:46,640
Speaker 1: He has been writing about them on his Instagram. On

1169
00:58:46,680 --> 00:58:50,120
Speaker 1: the podcast, I was expecting a freal style rap and

1170
00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:53,600
Speaker 1: I was disappointed we didn't get it. And then from

1171
00:58:53,600 --> 00:58:57,440
Speaker 1: my rose Becca obviously seeing you on my screen. I mean,

1172
00:58:57,920 --> 00:59:02,440
Speaker 1: Sarah Becca a perfect pairing. And I also, honestly, I

1173
00:59:02,480 --> 00:59:05,000
Speaker 1: know there's been a lot of negative drama, but I

1174
00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:07,520
Speaker 1: loved the shrimp tobac all. I just thought it was

1175
00:59:07,560 --> 00:59:11,400
Speaker 1: so random and it's so funny and like not like

1176
00:59:11,560 --> 00:59:14,160
Speaker 1: nothing happened, but like for some reason, it was like

1177
00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:16,480
Speaker 1: such a big deal and I was living for it.

1178
00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:22,640
Speaker 1: Someone take up a red lobster seriously, all right, europe

1179
00:59:23,200 --> 00:59:29,000
Speaker 1: Thorn is definitely like the drama taking away time that

1180
00:59:29,080 --> 00:59:35,200
Speaker 1: could have been spent on good relationships and good relationship building. Um,

1181
00:59:35,360 --> 00:59:37,280
Speaker 1: you know, it's like we can laugh about it. Like

1182
00:59:37,320 --> 00:59:40,120
Speaker 1: the shrimp thing was like really funny and kind of dumb,

1183
00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:42,800
Speaker 1: but um, at the end of the day, it did

1184
00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:47,200
Speaker 1: take a lot of time. And you know, even like

1185
00:59:47,240 --> 00:59:52,760
Speaker 1: the drama in this episode ended up canceling the cocktail

1186
00:59:52,800 --> 00:59:55,680
Speaker 1: party before the rose ceremony. Um, so like I didn't

1187
00:59:55,680 --> 00:59:59,560
Speaker 1: get to talk to him that night. Um, so you know,

1188
01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:04,040
Speaker 1: just like the drama, like it's sometimes easy to laugh at,

1189
01:00:04,120 --> 01:00:06,560
Speaker 1: but it took away a lot of time from everyone.

1190
01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:13,680
Speaker 1: So that's definitely my thorn. Oh okay, my rose is

1191
01:00:13,840 --> 01:00:16,800
Speaker 1: definitely the nighttime portion in the Van Go exhibit. It

1192
01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:20,000
Speaker 1: was just so like stunny, like I's so up my alley.

1193
01:00:20,040 --> 01:00:21,720
Speaker 1: I love it And the fact that we had it

1194
01:00:21,760 --> 01:00:24,080
Speaker 1: all to ourselves was just like surreal. And then we

1195
01:00:24,120 --> 01:00:26,200
Speaker 1: get to walk through it and like, you know, we're

1196
01:00:26,200 --> 01:00:30,240
Speaker 1: sitting at this table and this massive room and no

1197
01:00:30,280 --> 01:00:32,720
Speaker 1: one was like really near us, so it actually kind

1198
01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:35,400
Speaker 1: of felt private, and obviously it was like beautiful and

1199
01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:38,640
Speaker 1: just very serene, so um, you know, it was a good,

1200
01:00:38,840 --> 01:00:41,240
Speaker 1: good place to have a good conversation. And I think

1201
01:00:41,240 --> 01:00:45,240
Speaker 1: we ended like the date feeling mutually good about our

1202
01:00:45,280 --> 01:00:48,440
Speaker 1: relationship and where it was going. So that was a

1203
01:00:48,520 --> 01:00:52,720
Speaker 1: really good good moment for me. Good. Well, I am

1204
01:00:52,840 --> 01:00:54,640
Speaker 1: so glad that we had you on again. It has

1205
01:00:54,640 --> 01:00:57,040
Speaker 1: been a pleasure talking with you, so good to see you.

1206
01:00:57,440 --> 01:01:01,200
Speaker 1: I welcome back anytime. We loved having you, and I'd

1207
01:01:01,240 --> 01:01:04,240
Speaker 1: love to In the meantime, we fun watching all of

1208
01:01:04,240 --> 01:01:07,960
Speaker 1: the crazy uniqueness unfold. Yes, thank you so much, Sarah.

1209
01:01:07,960 --> 01:01:11,360
Speaker 1: This was a good thank you for having me of course,

1210
01:01:11,400 --> 01:01:17,360
Speaker 1: we'll see you soon, all right. Another one done. Such

1211
01:01:17,360 --> 01:01:19,760
Speaker 1: a pleasure. She was such a cutie when I first

1212
01:01:19,760 --> 01:01:20,960
Speaker 1: met her, so I'm glad that we were able to

1213
01:01:20,960 --> 01:01:23,000
Speaker 1: have her on. This was a really great interview. She

1214
01:01:23,080 --> 01:01:25,200
Speaker 1: was so sweet and I feel like we actually, I

1215
01:01:25,280 --> 01:01:27,640
Speaker 1: love when we interview people and they give us little

1216
01:01:27,680 --> 01:01:30,200
Speaker 1: tidbits of things that we didn't get to see as viewers,

1217
01:01:30,240 --> 01:01:32,440
Speaker 1: and it kind of just gives more insight into what

1218
01:01:32,560 --> 01:01:34,680
Speaker 1: was going on as a hole on the date and

1219
01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:37,919
Speaker 1: in the house. Yeah, I mean, and you couldn't relate

1220
01:01:37,960 --> 01:01:41,640
Speaker 1: to this. There's so much that people don't see, and

1221
01:01:41,800 --> 01:01:45,680
Speaker 1: so like, it's interesting to get Sarah and everyone else

1222
01:01:45,760 --> 01:01:48,920
Speaker 1: on here their point of views because they're watching a

1223
01:01:48,960 --> 01:01:51,000
Speaker 1: lot of this back for the first time alongside us,

1224
01:01:51,040 --> 01:01:53,320
Speaker 1: and so it is with fresh eyes and they you know,

1225
01:01:53,360 --> 01:01:55,560
Speaker 1: they probably remember something a different way and then they

1226
01:01:55,600 --> 01:01:58,000
Speaker 1: see it I'll come together. So it's a wild ride.

1227
01:01:58,000 --> 01:02:00,240
Speaker 1: I can't wait to see Sarah a little bit more,

1228
01:02:00,800 --> 01:02:03,640
Speaker 1: see where her and Cling go, because it seems like

1229
01:02:03,680 --> 01:02:06,640
Speaker 1: they really started off on such a fault solid foundation,

1230
01:02:07,760 --> 01:02:09,320
Speaker 1: So time will tell. I mean, she said it's going

1231
01:02:09,360 --> 01:02:12,160
Speaker 1: to be unique, So I can't wait. I know, me two,

1232
01:02:12,520 --> 01:02:16,200
Speaker 1: Episode three, and we still have lots more drama and

1233
01:02:16,240 --> 01:02:18,920
Speaker 1: lots more romance to go this season and lots more fashion,

1234
01:02:19,480 --> 01:02:22,560
Speaker 1: lots more fashion. I love those recaps. I'm so glad

1235
01:02:22,600 --> 01:02:24,400
Speaker 1: that you are joining me to add those in because

1236
01:02:24,440 --> 01:02:26,400
Speaker 1: it's such a fun little part to the day to

1237
01:02:26,400 --> 01:02:30,479
Speaker 1: start the podcast. I absolutely love it, and it's Sera

1238
01:02:30,520 --> 01:02:33,200
Speaker 1: and I will say, you're pushing me outside of my

1239
01:02:33,360 --> 01:02:35,800
Speaker 1: usual way that I operate and how I watched the

1240
01:02:35,800 --> 01:02:39,680
Speaker 1: show because I'm paying attention to you. You're welcome. I

1241
01:02:39,760 --> 01:02:42,160
Speaker 1: love being ker and I love recapping the fashion with you.

1242
01:02:42,720 --> 01:02:44,960
Speaker 1: Such a blast. So thank you to all of our

1243
01:02:44,960 --> 01:02:48,440
Speaker 1: Bachelor Happy Hours for listening, and again, thank you Sarah

1244
01:02:48,440 --> 01:02:50,480
Speaker 1: for being here. It was such a fun morning. As

1245
01:02:50,520 --> 01:02:53,680
Speaker 1: a reminder, we are casting for The Bachelor and the Bachelorette,

1246
01:02:53,720 --> 01:02:56,200
Speaker 1: So if you have anybody in mind, whether it's yourself,

1247
01:02:56,320 --> 01:02:58,240
Speaker 1: a friend, a family member that you think would be

1248
01:02:58,240 --> 01:03:00,959
Speaker 1: great for the show, please head to Bachelor Nation dot

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01:03:00,960 --> 01:03:04,480
Speaker 1: com slash apply. Also make sure to hit us up

1250
01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:07,800
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1251
01:03:07,840 --> 01:03:09,800
Speaker 1: Hour on Instagram and from there you'll be able to

1252
01:03:09,800 --> 01:03:11,920
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1253
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1254
01:03:15,960 --> 01:03:20,280
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1255
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Speaker 1: free by subscribing to Wondering Plus, an Apple podcast, or

1257
01:03:25,840 --> 01:03:29,280
Speaker 1: the Wondering app. Thank you everyone for listening, Thank you

1258
01:03:29,320 --> 01:03:31,760
Speaker 1: to our wonderful guest Sarah, and we will see you

1259
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Speaker 1: guys next week