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Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to the Second Date podcast and a big

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Speaker 1: thank you to everyone who popped over to our YouTube

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Speaker 1: page this week. African Jeffrey and commented, watched, liked the

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Speaker 1: first ever video version. Yes, Second Date Update. We're rolling

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Speaker 1: them out slowly because it is a pretty big lift

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Speaker 1: for us. We have a small staff, but we're gonna

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Speaker 1: have another video maybe Awkward Tuesday next week. It's either

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Speaker 1: gonna be Awkward Tuesday or another Second Date. I'm not

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Speaker 1: sure which, So stick around for that. And right now

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Speaker 1: we're gonna go to your comments that are currently happening.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Hendrick Botha said, I love the new live updates.

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Speaker 3: I enjoy you guys a lot.

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Speaker 2: I'm a South African working in the US as a

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Speaker 2: farm worker and all I do when I'm driving around

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Speaker 2: at a tractor is listen to you guys.

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Speaker 1: Fifteen hours of Brook and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 3: Wow, that is a lot of us.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, So I gotta sit back and enjoy that

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Speaker 1: track to ride And here's a classic second Date for you,

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Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second Date Updates.

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Speaker 4: This is a show first for us, and I don't

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Speaker 4: know if it's a good thing. Oh, it's Brook and

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Speaker 4: Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: We like not things, so tell us jeff.

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Speaker 4: Well, just a couple months ago, we did an update

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Speaker 4: update with a guy named Daniel, who told us that

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Speaker 4: he was still together with the girl from his original

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Speaker 4: second date call, even though he did catch her making

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Speaker 4: out with another woman at a bar. Remember, she claimed

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Speaker 4: it wasn't cheating because it's a girl on a girl thing.

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Speaker 4: He wasn't so sure, but they decided to stick it out. Well,

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Speaker 4: that didn't last very long because now he's back out

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Speaker 4: on the open market needing our help once again.

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Speaker 1: Let me guess she's in a relationship with a woman

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Speaker 1: that she made out with.

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Speaker 4: Who knows, but Daniel, I am so sorry to welcome

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Speaker 4: you back to the show.

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Speaker 3: I was hoping we would never hear from you again, honestly.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's a dubious honor.

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Speaker 3: Guys, what happened with the last woman that you were with?

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Speaker 5: So good news, bad news. Good news, she's not with

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Speaker 5: the girls she made out with. Bad news is I

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Speaker 5: saw her at a bar making out with two other guys.

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Speaker 1: Oh, but it's not cheating when there's two of them.

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Speaker 3: You can't fall in love with bulls.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, that was finally the straw that broke it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, if it wasn't, that would say more

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Speaker 5: about me. So yeah, no, it's not how I roll.

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Speaker 5: But we're still friends. She's very cool, she's very fun.

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Speaker 3: Well clearly yah, it's doesn't know how to respond.

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Speaker 1: I mean impressive that you can still be friends with her.

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Speaker 1: Good for you. That's a mature thing to do.

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Speaker 4: Cool. It sounds like you've moved on to somebody else.

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Speaker 4: Who is the new person I have?

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Speaker 5: So this new person I met in kind of a

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Speaker 5: strange way. I was getting off a plane at the

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Speaker 5: airport and I pulled up Uber and wasn't really looking

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Speaker 5: at what I was doing, and instead of ordering a

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Speaker 5: regular Uber, I ordered an uber pool.

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Speaker 4: Oh oh my god, I'm by accidents.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes it suggests the cheapest.

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Speaker 4: Thing to you.

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Speaker 3: Oh I would have canceled that, like immediately.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yes, chef is like, oh my god, the

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Speaker 1: conversations with that person I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Yes, pay the fifty dollars ye walk home instead?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, what are the chances you get a

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Speaker 3: Was she hot?

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Speaker 5: Well? She was? Because I was going to cancel it,

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Speaker 5: but then it said Harper is on the way and

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Speaker 5: you know, there's a tiny little bubble. But I was like, well,

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Speaker 5: So it was great, she was nice. It wasn't too

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Speaker 1: Did she accidentally also do the uberpool and was confused

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, she meant to do it. So, you know, brugality,

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Speaker 5: I respect it.

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Speaker 4: Anywhere else outside of the airport, you're not getting a

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Speaker 3: You really got lucky.

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Speaker 5: Airports are long drive Okay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So I mean I gave you guys to

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And actually, like the second she got in the car,

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Speaker 5: I was like, I know you from somewhere, and she

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Speaker 5: I didn't request the super knowing I would see you.

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Speaker 5: But I also couldn't figure out where I knew her from.

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Speaker 1: Did she recognize you?

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Speaker 5: No, she definitely does not know me.

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Speaker 4: But I was wait, was that a line or did

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Speaker 4: you really think you recognized her?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 5: I really did, And I kept saying, this isn't a pickup,

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Speaker 5: but I feel like I know you from somewhere, and

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Speaker 5: I kept listing off the places where I thought I

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Speaker 3: You know, okay, hold on, this is important.

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Speaker 4: Where did you say you may have known her, because

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Speaker 4: I'm hoping you were like, oh, it's fashion magazine or

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Speaker 4: like something complimentary.

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Speaker 1: Can't make a grocery store.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, you should.

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Speaker 1: Compliment her, be like, oh, I've seen you on a billboard.

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure you work at the Dollar Tree.

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Speaker 5: I just listened off a couple of parties that I

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Speaker 5: had been at, like maybe she was a friend of

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Speaker 5: a friend. Thout a couple of names.

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Speaker 3: Did you happen to make out with a girl at

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Speaker 3: a bar one time?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I didn't even think about that, Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: Ifriend made that way, I would definitely remember that girl.

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Speaker 5: But no, it wasn't.

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Speaker 3: I know what you look for me.

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Speaker 1: How did you know her?

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Speaker 5: I never figured it out, and I was going deep.

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Speaker 5: I was going like, maybe it was summer camp like

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Speaker 5: when I was a kid. Nothing.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, you'll spend twenty five minutes listing off places.

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Speaker 5: Not in twenty five, but yeah, that's sure twenty Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Did you actually go out with her on a real

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Speaker 4: date or was the uber ride the entire experience.

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Speaker 5: No, So he's the thing. I wound up finding a

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Speaker 5: lot about her just because she would tell me what

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Speaker 5: she actually did when I would ask, you know, guess

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Speaker 5: a wrong one. And then when they were about to

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Speaker 5: drop me off, I was like, I've got to figure

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Speaker 5: this out. Is there like a bar we can go to?

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Speaker 5: And she said there was actually a bar around the corner, and.

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Speaker 1: She wasn't tired. I know, I'm with you, Alexis. I

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Speaker 5: We were actually like laughing about it, and it was

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Speaker 2: I wonder if she knew, because you feel like it'd

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Speaker 2: be fun if you know the answer and the other

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Speaker 4: Or maybe she didn't want to admit that she knew somewhere,

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Speaker 4: and maybe that's why she's not calling you back after.

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Speaker 3: All of this.

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Speaker 1: Then they went to a bar together, right.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we did, and we had a great time. And

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Speaker 5: this is the question. I don't understand why she hasn't

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Speaker 5: responded to the text I sent, like, I get it.

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Speaker 5: It's a weird meeting, but it was also kidne it

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Speaker 5: like the encounter into a date.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she thought about it and was like, oh, you're

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Speaker 4: my ex husband and then.

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Speaker 1: Remember, oh yeah, and he doesn't recall that he doesn't.

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Speaker 4: Remember, or maybe it was the two hundred follow up

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Speaker 3: Maybe it's on your future.

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Speaker 1: That sounds like a doctor.

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Speaker 4: Sure going to find out, because we're gonna call Harper

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Speaker 4: for you here in just a minute. We'll try and

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Speaker 4: figure out where you know her from if that's true,

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Speaker 4: and get you a second date update right after this.

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Speaker 5: Thank you, all right, hold on Man.

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Speaker 2: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second date Updates.

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Speaker 4: Today's second date Update is sponsored by uberpool.

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Speaker 3: Yes, you want to ride with a.

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Speaker 4: Hot stranger, you got a one to ten thousand chance

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Speaker 4: that'll actually happen, but just make sure you're near an

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Speaker 4: airport and then roll.

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Speaker 3: The dice with uberpool.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I bring it up because that's exactly what

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Speaker 4: happened with our listener Daniel recently, who's actually been on

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Speaker 4: with us before for a second date. He's back again,

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Speaker 4: and this time he met a very pretty girl named

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Speaker 4: Harper because they had a ride share together back from

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Speaker 4: the airport. The majority of their conversation was dominated by hey,

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Speaker 4: don't I know you from somewhere?

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Speaker 1: God? And then guessing how many places you could.

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Speaker 3: Put her for about twenty straight minutes that happened.

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Speaker 1: By that they were having fun with them. She was laughing.

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Speaker 4: Otherwise she wouldn't have agreed to go to drinks with

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, ask more questions about where she knew what

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Speaker 4: So there was hope, but now there's nothing, and that's

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Speaker 3: What do you think?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Did you guys ever even get to

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Speaker 1: the point of is she single?

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Speaker 3: That's a good question. Did you ask that?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so she's married, and.

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Speaker 4: Now we get no need to go These are important

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Speaker 5: But there were more important questions.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're just trying to find out, you know.

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Speaker 4: And honestly, she probably never would have gone out with

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Speaker 3: That wouldn't be a good her husband.

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Speaker 4: That's how they know my husband's boss. I have to Okay, well,

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Speaker 4: now we have some guesses, let's get some definitive answers

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Speaker 4: when we call her right now.

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Speaker 3: You're ready to do this, Daniel.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and you know, I never really thought of that,

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Speaker 5: so that could be the truth. Anything possible at this point.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that is true. Anything is possible with uber pool.

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Speaker 1: Again, you're actually not getting paid for this.

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Speaker 3: Get your discount code with somebody else's name. Pool advertised?

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Speaker 1: Do they not advertise regularly?

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Speaker 3: We got to call Harper. Here here we go.

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Speaker 4: Hello, Hi, we're looking for Harper. Hey, Harper, this is

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Speaker 4: your lucky day because you're talking to Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 4: in the morning right now.

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Speaker 1: Hey Harper, Hey, Hi, Hi, I feel like Harper.

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Speaker 3: This is start that we're a radio show familiar. We're

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Speaker 3: on in the mornings.

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Speaker 4: We're called Brook and Jeffrey, and we're doing something called

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Speaker 4: a second date Update. We're trying to to hook you

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Speaker 4: back up with one of our listeners that you met

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Speaker 4: recently named Daniel.

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Speaker 6: Oh oh, okay, okay.

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Speaker 4: This is Daniel that you met riding home in an

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Speaker 6: Yeah, oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Were you shocked when an attractive guy got in the car?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I th always a question what he's doing overpool? Right?

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Speaker 5: We are you gonna get stuck with?

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Speaker 4: But yeah, no, I'm sorry to like bombard you with

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Speaker 4: because he felt like there was something going on between

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Speaker 1: Did you feel that at all?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah I did.

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Speaker 3: I don't.

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Speaker 4: I know it may have been hard to get that

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and I really genuinely didn't know what he was

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Speaker 3: The potential like so you didn't know him.

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Speaker 7: I did know him, and I didn't realize it until

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Speaker 1: I figured it out. We've been dying to know because

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Speaker 1: he said he spent like twenty minutes just questioning you

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Speaker 3: Again with guesses.

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Speaker 2: Clearly he wasn't asking your questions.

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Speaker 1: It clicked for you.

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Speaker 7: You didn't tell him, No, I didn't because it was

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Speaker 6: So it's been a.

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Speaker 3: While, no wondering at a hard time.

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Speaker 6: Mermury, Yeah, he was a student. I was a TA.

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Speaker 1: Ta's not a big deal, like ta's are like grad students.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you want to hear what happened though, Sorry.

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Speaker 7: Like it's not what you think. It's not like we

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Speaker 7: hooked up or anything. Like I I caught him cheating

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Speaker 7: on a test. Oh, I brought it to the professor

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Speaker 1: And oh my god, you're still upset about him cheating.

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Speaker 7: No, I just like I just feel so awkward ended

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Speaker 1: I'm out of college for that.

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Speaker 6: No, I mean he did get suspended, like that's a

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Speaker 4: My thought here is if you remembered him after all this,

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Speaker 4: why wouldn't you at least call him back or text

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Speaker 7: That I don't know, I just don't want to like deal, Like,

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Speaker 5: Remember that horrible thing that happened to you, Like I

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Speaker 4: That is sated it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well he initiated it. Let's remember he's the one

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Speaker 4: To be clear, the reason is not because he's a cheater.

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Speaker 4: It's because you feel uncomfortable revealing that you were the

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Speaker 6: I mean I didn't even think about him, beg Peter

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Speaker 6: just like figured it was awkward. But yeah, you're right,

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Speaker 6: maybe he's that type of person. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Well, no, I'm not trying to plant that. I was

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Speaker 4: We need to just tell you that Daniel is not

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Speaker 4: right now.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, thank you guys for planning that in her mind.

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Speaker 3: First of all, I was trying to get clarification.

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Speaker 1: So now he knows he heard it all.

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Speaker 3: Oh funny, right, Daniel?

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Speaker 6: Oh god, okay, Well hi, hey, hi, sorry, Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 6: it's not not every day you get to meet your

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Speaker 6: own stool pigeon.

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Speaker 5: That's a that's a big it's a big deal for me.

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Speaker 5: A stool pigeon is like a term that they used

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Speaker 5: to use in the mob when someone would snitch on somebody,

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Speaker 5: like a rat. I guess you have to be a criminal.

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Speaker 5: You have to have a criminal mind to understand what

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Speaker 5: it is.

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Speaker 1: Now you're evading taxes or what are you doing.

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Speaker 4: Let's let's get off the crime talk and back onto

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Speaker 4: the relationship that you guys were starting to form.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm embarrassed for sure. Okay, so let you know

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Speaker 5: that they let me retake the course and I took

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Speaker 5: like a no pass, which I guess is less bad

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Speaker 5: than a fail.

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Speaker 1: Okay, NP saves everything.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you're kind of putting all of that on her though.

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Speaker 4: Were you cheating on that test or not?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was definitely cheating on this.

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Speaker 1: So she shouldn't feel bad, is what you're trying to say.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, faith, in a way, you saved me. I never

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Speaker 3: Again, She's been improving you as a man for a

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Speaker 3: long time. Yeah, how does that make you feel? Harper?

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Speaker 5: This is so awkward.

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I'm glad that you learned your lesson.

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: He's not upset or mad or anything. He's also embarrassed

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Speaker 1: by it. Harper. You guys are experiencing the same thing

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Speaker 1: right now.

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Speaker 6: I guess I just I feel so weird.

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Speaker 3: Weird.

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Speaker 4: Well, let's let's take all this awkwardness, ball it up

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Speaker 4: and move it to the side.

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Speaker 3: We have all the awkwardness out of the way. Now,

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Speaker 3: let's just how it works. Yeah, you can just snapped

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Speaker 1: Okay, smooth sailing from here on.

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Speaker 5: Out.

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Speaker 3: So Daniel, go ahead, start again. Where do I know.

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Speaker 1: You from the Jeffrey some sort of party.

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Speaker 3: It was a joke, don't answer.

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Speaker 5: I remember you. You knocked it on me and.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, why I didn't text you back?

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Speaker 3: This is better than the text back.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and we could keep this good energy rolling into

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Speaker 4: a second date of like a real meet up where

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Speaker 4: you guys can create all new memories for yourself. We

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Speaker 4: would pay for that date college. But it's up to you, Harper.

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Speaker 4: You get to say yes or no to this.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if you like the guy to go to

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Speaker 7: She just really needed a free drink and with like

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Speaker 5: You're right, you're right.

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Speaker 3: What do you think, Harper?

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Speaker 6: I mean, Daniel, if you're I don't know, cool with

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Speaker 6: like moving past it or whatever. I did have fun

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Speaker 6: with you, like you're cute, you're funny.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, oh yeah, well beyond it. That was not the

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Speaker 5: peak at the bottom of my life. So I would

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Speaker 5: love to go on another day.

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Speaker 3: His girlfriend made out with many many people, no mariends.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I can tell you definitively I'm not a cheater, So.

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Speaker 4: So you guys are going out officially and we're paying

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Speaker 4: for congratulations.

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Speaker 5: Thank you, well, thanks.

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Speaker 1: A lot better than the last time he called it.

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Speaker 4: Cheating in college may not have helped him academically, but

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Speaker 4: romantically years later, it's finally paying off. Cheating works everyone.

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Speaker 4: Jeffrey in the morning, Brook.

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Speaker 1: And Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: Well, another successful second date for Daniel.

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Speaker 1: I've done it again. More successful second date for Daniel.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but wait until the update update when Daniel tells

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Speaker 4: us he caught this girl making up with the college mascot.

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Speaker 1: Oh boy, I mean, if they don't have a human face, does.

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Speaker 4: It counting just making up with the mascot head?

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Speaker 1: Is he just the most cheating?

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Speaker 4: My god.

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Speaker 1: I think they're really cute. I think they could actually

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Speaker 1: work out.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I mean they have a history already, they have a

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Speaker 4: fun how you met story.

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Speaker 3: They're all set up for success here.

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Speaker 1: I mean it would be a great wedding reception story.

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Speaker 1: And then the radio is involved. You don't think so, yeah,

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Speaker 1: reason I didn't, Well, I guess youdn't you gicked out

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Speaker 1: of college? So h yeah that works out?

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Speaker 3: Man, Your mom almost failed me.

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Speaker 4: It could be cute, and you could be our next

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Speaker 4: cute couple that we set up on our show. All

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Speaker 4: you gotta do is email us first. We'll call that

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Speaker 4: person who's not calling you back. Go check out all

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Speaker 4: of our second Date updates, including that last one with Daniel.

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Speaker 3: Where we get your podcasts at Brooke and Jeffrey